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If she's attractive, or at least on some level has reason to think I'm realistically within her league, even if she thinks she's just going to get lucky if she catches me drunk and horny. But if it's some old gross single mom drunk in a bar, I have the same reaction as you. Especially because this demographic tends to get vicious when you reject them.
/r/seduction14/05/18 11:24 PM
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/shrug Your comments still don't make any sense, creep.
/r/seduction15/02/18 09:49 PM
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Resounding? Wtf? Do you speak english, bud? Go back and read the comment string. It's your replies that make no sense right now.
/r/seduction15/02/18 09:35 PM
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But what purpose does this tip have if not to be a creep who calls an already pressured feeling girl out on a fake number? If you're getting so many fake numbers that accidentally texting a wrong number is becoming a serious problem you want to avoid, then the problem is something else about how you're acting with women.
/r/seduction14/02/18 09:36 PM
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Seriously.. I think once in my life I got a fake number. On a side note, years ago when I took this sub a little more seriously, the general advice was more like just hit it off well with a girl and allow her to be the one to give you her number. Girls do it. If you have to hound them for their number they're not interested, or they're just awkwardly shy to such an extreme I don't know why you'd want to be with them at all.
/r/seduction11/02/18 06:45 PM
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Seriously.. If a girl's giving out a wrong number, either she's kind of childish and just gets off on that sort of thing, or you're making her feel uncomfortable enough she's afraid to decline it. Either way, you need to back off.
/r/seduction11/02/18 06:42 PM
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But this post is actually making people more creepy..
/r/seduction11/02/18 06:39 PM
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This, but also some girls just get a kick out of giving a guy a fake number, but either way, it means you really ought to back off. This is a pointless tip. A better tip would be any time you read a tip on seddit, or a lpt on reddit in general, ask yourself 'Is this weird?'.
/r/seduction11/02/18 06:36 PM
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Lots of people do this.. I'd ignore this post, it's reddit lpt quality.. Trying to solve something that isn't a problem. If a girl's giving you a fake number, she's not into you. Also, if a girl's giving out fake numbers instead of just declining, she's kind of immature / narcissistic.
/r/seduction11/02/18 06:26 PM
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There're similar opportunities later in life, depending on your situation. But for the majority of people, undergrad college will involve being around the largest number of people your own age, with the most intertwined social circles, on a regular schedule, in addition to likely living in close proximity to one another, as well as with multiple roommates.
/r/seduction01/08/17 02:38 AM
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If you're a virgin at 35 - 40, you've missed out on a normal dating or sex life, and now you're just on a mission to experience sex before dying at that point.
/r/seduction31/07/17 11:09 PM
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I'd agree. I was 19 myself, and I was of the later ones out of the crowd I'd hang around who lost their virginity. A few of my nerdier friends lost theirs at various points later in college. If you're out of college and a virgin, that's cause for concern, especially since there'll never be an easier time to get laid. Once you lose it, you're way less stressed about the idea of sex and getting physical with a girl. Not to mention, you're more relatable on a social level. If you're 25, you really …
/r/seduction31/07/17 11:08 PM
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Hookups over the apps are way easier in rural areas. Girls have already seen most if not all the guys on the apps within a reasonable distance, and now you're the new guy. Better yet, you're not from there so there's no worry about mutual acquaintances for them (stuff you need to worry about in small areas), plus, even if they deny it, rural women still find it attractive when a guy's 'sophisticated' or from a big place, or whatever. They're just not used to meeting many of them, or having much …
/r/seduction26/06/17 06:57 PM
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Not gonna lie, I genuinely think with a half decent personality, it's way easier if you're about average. Don't have the intimidation factor on girls, plus you're not constantly eyed up and judged.
/r/seduction01/05/17 12:12 AM
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I agree completely. You're more noticeable when you walk in the room. You'll be the one who gets sized up, talked about, just generally paid more attention. Whatever you do or say is just gets noticed. This is a double edged sword. Some girl can be eying you up for a half hour hoping you'll talk to her, so when you do, she doesn't just blow you off; but you can also be noticed striking out, or if you're doing something foolish, you'll be judged harshly and remembered.
/r/seduction29/04/17 09:59 PM
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This is pretty old, I've definitely seen it on reddit years ago, and vaguely remember being disappointed to learn it was faked because it seemed done so well.
/r/PussyPassDenied19/04/17 12:44 PM
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I feel violated.
/r/seduction03/03/17 08:54 AM
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He shows his face at the end. If you're not white or black in the US, it could be taken for an accent, so the way he talks has probably never hurt him.
/r/seduction03/03/17 08:53 AM
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It's whichever you want it to be. Most people probably just use it to talk before grabbing drinks together. It's not adult friend finder or some junk if that's what you're asking. It's basically okc without a profile or anything.
/r/seduction23/08/16 04:18 AM
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I was just going to say it's been around for a while and got too flooded with people that aren't as serious about meeting people off of it. Bumble seemed to take tinder's place as the swiping app. There still seems to be activity on there, while tinder seems to be a ghosttown.
/r/seduction22/08/16 12:36 AM
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This could have be one of those idiotic growing up moments of how relationships work for the dude where the girl realizes they aren't on the same maturity level, except that he tried to publicly shame her for it, which makes is really messed up.
/r/PussyPassDenied09/03/16 04:20 AM
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Same year, I've met plenty. It's definitely not a majority, and it seems like they're usually a little younger than us. The ones our age seem like people who'd just individually love to be offended, not necessarily part of some big generational thing.
/r/PussyPassDenied09/03/16 04:01 AM
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This should be in /r/socialskills not seddit. This is a common conversation starter with strangers and is completely plutonic. You don't want to come across as completely plutonic with a girl you're interested in. If you're scared, keep a slight distance, but don't open up to them and allow them to get to know you as someone who's not interested.
/r/seduction24/01/16 08:24 PM
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Nah it comes and goes. I was what murfdigidy described himself as in college, then around 23 I put some genuine effort into it, as well as being productive with my own life. That combined with realizing I was no longer on the young immature side of the environment I was in, meant being fairly successful with it. Once you hit a certain curve, you know what you have to do, and your personality is developed enough you can do it, it's just a question of timing and putting the effort in.
/r/seduction19/01/16 12:02 AM
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You can tell she was hot when she was young.
/r/PussyPassDenied03/01/16 12:37 AM
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He's not a cop, he's loss prevention, probably at one of the larger department stores. They're not actually supposed to chase someone out into the parking lot and get that physical though. They actually have a pretty damn cool job. If you're a half intelligent person, and ever have to do some time in retail in college or something, it's the job you should go for.
/r/PussyPassDenied03/01/16 12:32 AM
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It's about manners, not rights. She has a right to. Just seems like a stupid and inappropriate idea to.
/r/PussyPassDenied03/01/16 12:26 AM
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There's a time and a place. If you're in a board room meeting, yelling fuck isis to interrupt your boss from speaking isn't appropriate. Making socio political statements at a UFC event where everyone's drunk, hyped, and having fun is also inappropriate.
/r/PussyPassDenied03/01/16 12:23 AM
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Yes. She should sit there quietly and make subtle facial expressions and worry about her body language. That's clearly working for her so far. /s Girl just needs to be more social and open to conversation with strangers.
/r/seduction23/08/15 08:33 PM
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Reread these posts.
/r/PussyPassDenied24/05/15 11:33 PM
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You really can't accept that you're a dickhead, can you?
/r/PussyPassDenied24/05/15 11:21 PM
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My personal opinion isn't what you should worry about. You should probably just reevaluate whether or not you might be a dickhead, and an idiot. It's for your own good.
/r/PussyPassDenied24/05/15 10:56 PM
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Making the comparison between sexuality and whether or not someone did porn is a big stretch, and seems kind of asinine to me. In fact, yeah, you're kind of a douchebag for that one.
/r/PussyPassDenied24/05/15 08:57 PM
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He's yelling at the top of his lungs, trying to get other people to step in, then the second the cop actually addresses him directly, telling him to back up, he's suddenly 100% compliant.
/r/PussyPassDenied23/05/15 08:15 PM
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I lost it when I actually heard This is 'Merica!
/r/PussyPassDenied23/05/15 08:11 PM
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This isn't PPD, this is /r/trashy
/r/PussyPassDenied23/05/15 08:04 PM
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I'm not a bouncer, and I've had to deal with stuff like this from hoodrats asking me to buy them drinks or food.
/r/PussyPassDenied23/05/15 07:35 PM
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Dick grab to punch in the face within twenty seconds... Now this is a ppd.
/r/PussyPassDenied23/05/15 07:34 PM
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Idk about that, because I haven't been here too much, but I am noticing a lot of the content here is more like girls getting punished for something, as opposed to actual 'pussypass'. Like this vid, it's more like ghetto pride/ego than anything gender related. A dude would pull the same thing.
/r/PussyPassDenied23/05/15 07:32 PM
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I still think it'd be a bad idea to have people with a history in porn teaching. If it's a private school, let the school decide. Yeah, they probably wont be discussing porn with the kids, but it's still creating an inappropriate and entirely unnecessary level of drama, rumors, and distractions, especially amongst teenage boys. It's just going to lead to a lot of unnecessary trouble. It's not like teachers are some special breed of super person that's difficult to find. They're basically a dime …
/r/PussyPassDenied23/05/15 07:25 PM
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I don't mind some extra weight, but that girl's face looks like an inbred teenage boy's.
/r/PussyPassDenied23/05/15 07:17 PM
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Seriously though, I've pulled some really ugly girls before, but I wouldn't be able to hook up with that mug.
/r/PussyPassDenied23/05/15 07:15 PM
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This is the epitome of the concept. She's butt ugly, and can still go this far with her bs before there are repercussions. This is also why I'm skeptical whenever a girl cries rape, but wont go to the police..
/r/PussyPassDenied23/05/15 07:14 PM
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Agreed.... Through history women generally raise children.... That junk about working on farms at a certain age might not be as drastic as before, but we're still raised by our mothers, and other women, as usual throughout history, then start doing more extracurricular stuff like sports, focussing on specific trades in school, etc, where boys are mostly being taught by men. If I had to answer OP's question, it would just be to do with the competition surrounding women. It's like war out there, a…
/r/seduction08/02/15 10:48 PM
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Ok?
/r/seduction17/01/15 09:27 PM
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The silly so lame it's funny stuff really only works if it's done by the right personality type.
/r/seduction17/01/15 07:19 PM
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What that other guy said. A quick 'do you smoke?' is taken as an invite to chill outside for a cigarette. If she doesn't smoke and she's really interested, she might just join you. If she doesn't smoke, but she's interested, she'll know you are enough that she might wait around for you, or approach you when she sees you after. If she's repulsed by smoking, it probably wasn't worth it as a smoker in the first place.
/r/seduction03/01/15 04:02 AM
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Eh... Not totally. Creep definitely gets thrown around unjustly because it's about the nastiest and most concise way to shoot a guy down. But I'd wager when a guy gets shot down because he's unattractive, and a girl calls him a creep, it's either because he wouldn't pick up on hint after hint, or he disregarded the hints, or the girl just wants to hop on the opportunity to shoot a guy down viciously. Which one is which is sort of a thing where you'd have to be there to tell which one it was, but…
/r/seduction03/01/15 03:57 AM
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Gayborhood's just the common term for a gay neighborhood, so yeah, that's what he's saying. Unless he's a fourteen year old from the 90's who dislikes his neighborhood.
/r/seduction03/01/15 03:52 AM
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What I grew to perceive as the general perception of creepy (in a social aspect) is sensing that a person is putting up a front or has an ulterior motive. Basically someone can sense that they're trying to project false intentions. Eg. a guy seeming like he's trying to appear friendly with no motive, while hitting on a girl comes across as much creepier than a guy who's not really hiding that he's hitting on her. If you really think about how we use the word creep, even though this may not match…
/r/seduction03/01/15 03:46 AM
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I think girls less often make a conscious effort to seduce guys unless they're thinking boyfriend material. That said, I've definitely met some that seemed like they knew what they were doing, and here's what I think: Amp up femininity. This doesn't mean act like a pretentious valley girl, but try to be as cute acting as possible. Appear as nonthreatening as possible. Act as positively as possible / agree with guys on whatever they're talking about / avoid disagreeing on stuff. Act like they nee…
/r/seduction06/12/14 05:29 PM
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Agreed. It varies person to person, how they use messaging though; and it sucks, but there's not much you can do about it. In my experience with dating sites, if messaging is going on to the point of telling each other our life stories and we haven't gone out and met yet, then things aren't going in the right direction. (I'm not just out for sex either, I want to meet people, then figure out what I might look for in this person.) Or, with some people I've met in bars and such, if they're texting…
/r/seduction29/11/14 03:04 AM
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Texting is a necessary thing, but everyone texts differently. Some people are kind of clingy with texts, or they get turned off by flat text with correct grammar. Others will get turned off by smily faces and bad grammar in texts. There's no getting around this, you just have to guess what kind of girl you're dealing with and pick out where on the scale between decent english and concise texts with big words, or vague shitty grammar with emoticons and stuff. That said, given that we're kind of i…
/r/seduction29/11/14 02:48 AM
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These seem a little too trivial, like standard ice breaker questions to me. Like they scream 'I'm trying to break the silence and start conversation' a little too loud, too early. Something you'd use during pillow talk with a girl or on a date down the road if you find yourself running out of things to talk about. Top comment in this thread, Family, Occupation, Recreation, and Dreams seems to have nailed it. First dates can be intimidated, but in terms of natural conversation topics, they seem t…
/r/seduction16/11/14 11:39 PM
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Typically you'd think this subreddit would be much more focussed on the first few dates, not relationship activities. Which, at least for me, don't seem like the sort of thing you need to get creative with unless you're under 21.. Want to have a classy first date? Grab a couple drinks at a nice bar, or a decent looking restaurant's bar. Want to have a normal first date? Grab a couple drinks at an ordinary bar. Opposed to alcohol? Grab coffee.. I think I did this once or twice. IMO coffee dates a…
/r/seduction13/11/14 12:11 AM
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I'm all for the exploring one. But still, definitely more of a fun date with a girl you're 'dating', at least hooking up with and stuff seems like it's moving towards the direction of a relationship (or you want it to). It certainly depends where you live though. If you're in a flat landed suburb without interesting stuff to walk to then it's not a good idea though. But yeah, a lot of these don't really seem like stuff you do too early on.
/r/seduction12/11/14 11:55 PM
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Can anyone relate to sorority girls? Fresh out of the nest and they cling together in a semi forced and unnatural social hierarchy (no offense to frats an sororities, but these are definitely side effects). They haven't found their selves as adults yet, and they're not even taking the natural approach to interpersonal maturity the way non-greek life college kids do. I wouldn't expect them to be overly mature or independent, and any sense of maturity you get is probably some behavior that's been …
/r/seduction27/01/14 06:13 AM
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Guy who's worked as a cashier: I take jobs like these as an opportunity to practice people skills and eye contact. Why wouldn't anyone? It's literally what you're supposed to be doing there.
/r/seduction14/01/14 01:48 AM
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Depends who you are and who the girls you're dating are. I'm not a huge nut over any specific bands, not that I don't have my preferences, so showing off a music collection isn't really any sort of strategy for me. I just try not to have anything that's completely not me (like rap or country) or something that I know might weird people out, like my most obscure music. If I had any suggestions to make, I'd say: Try to have something on that sets the tone you're looking for. Don't be weird. If you…
/r/seduction12/01/14 12:35 AM
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Not necessarily, but seeing as he didn't find this out by asking her out, rather listening to her rant about being asked out and having to say no, I'd say he's already established himself as being platonic with her.
/r/seduction11/01/14 08:39 PM
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Conducive to conversation is one of, if not the first thing everyone will tell you to look for in a location or activity for a date. Coffee shops aren't the only place you can hold a conversation. Bar dates for drinks can be expensive if your not into her and want to GTFO and she keeps ordering drinks/food. Don't up and start buying a girl drinks and food on the first date. Money does nothing except maybe make things awkward. I mean covering one drink if you handle it right isn't a big deal, but…
/r/seduction03/01/14 05:18 PM
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I meant yes.
/r/seduction03/01/14 03:58 PM
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It depends. Honestly, I would guess that depending on the neighborhood, every decent size city except detroit can be pretty cool. Most major cities have several nice areas to live in your 20's. I personally hope to move to philly soon. Working there now, I'll be saving up quick but it's a short contract so I'll have to figure some things out for when it ends. Basically there are two areas I know of that are supposed to be decent in your 20's if you're not rich, and if you are, then of course the…
/r/seduction03/01/14 03:51 PM
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Sushi used to be the universal "Look how sexy and cultured I am!" Pretty much every time someone raves about sushi, I think there's a good chance they mostly want to appear cultured, and have an outdated view on it. It's gotten so bad that sushi still sounds like it's supposed to say "Look how sexy and cultured I am!", but often just says "Look how superficial and safe I am!". Not saying sushi's terrible, it's something I'll get a craving for, but only once in a great while. If you want to turn …
/r/seduction03/01/14 03:27 PM
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If she's never had sushi, do it. F-close from that recently. That's a pretty juvenile anecdote. If you had sex it wasn't because the first time she ever had sushi it was so amazing she physically became aroused from it. Or if she did, then that's one sheltered girl. Besides, never had sushi? This applies to like 15% of the population over the age of 20 at most, and if she hasn't, there's a good chance it says something about her personality when it comes to trying new things.
/r/seduction03/01/14 03:23 PM
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Really? I feel like the right kind of girl this would work well, but a lot of people really just don't like shopping, even a lot of girls, or they prefer shopping alone.
/r/seduction03/01/14 03:21 PM
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Anyone else loathe coffee dates? Yes! I hate them seriously. I think coffee only works for people who are the type that like to sit around in coffee shops in general. Coffee for me is something I crave when I wake up, and I sure as hell get very quickly, then have more when I feel the need, unless I'm feeling disciplined. If I'm on a date, hell, if I'm out anywhere, I've already had coffee. All that aside, they tend to feel very public. Even if a coffee shop is completely empty, you've now got s…
/r/seduction03/01/14 02:50 PM
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Sounds more like a spur of the moment fun with your girlfriend than an actual date.
/r/seduction03/01/14 02:35 PM
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It's a little hypocritical because I'm in the suburbs right now, with reason, but I sort of feel bad for the people who've never left the suburbs. You don't even need to live in great big city, there are tons of smaller cities that have huge ratios of 20 somethings to other ages, all sorts of entertainment, etc. Where you live is such an under appreciated factor in the quality of life it's not even funny. Suburbs are for raising a family, not living as an adult.
/r/seduction03/01/14 02:29 PM
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These are all good ideas. Everything after walk through the park I wouldn't do on a first or second date though.
/r/seduction03/01/14 02:19 PM
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I dated a girl that was down for just about anything when it came to drinking and sex in public and trespassing and such. It was a huge turn on.
/r/seduction03/01/14 02:14 PM
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This was pretty much my go to date for a long time. Bars that are peaceful and not overly plain are great. Meaning if the place is either fairly nice inside, or really divy (in a hip way, I don't mean redneck bars). Basically yeah, we all agree drinks in a place you can hold a conversation without having to raise your voice work well. Especially if it's near your house.
/r/seduction03/01/14 02:11 PM
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Ice skating sounds like a pretty appropriate date for a teenager. Great opportunities to hold hands (in a non pda way) and be close, not to mention showing something you're good at, and having an opportunity to teach/help her. Plus girls dig doing things they don't normally do. If the girl has dated or had a lot of friends who were hockey players she might be bored with the idea of public skating or think it's a little too on the cutesy romantic side.
/r/seduction03/01/14 02:00 PM
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No one said keep replying, the point is you stop trying to hang out with a girl who's ditching you and treating you like a pet. You just do it in a way that doesn't make you look childish.
/r/seduction20/12/13 02:14 AM
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Meh, if you definitely want to cut ties. No response at all kind of looks similarly upset/passive aggressive. You can briefly respond and still walk away, there's no reason to look childish. For all you know you'll meet some girl in three months and they happen to be good friends, now you've got this chick talking a new girl you're going after about how you liked her and were so but hurt she flaked you started ignoring her texts.
/r/seduction20/12/13 01:47 AM
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This. Responding with "k" will make you look whiny, and make her feel like she did the right thing by flaking on you.
/r/seduction19/12/13 05:05 PM
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Yeah, if you're 18, they're probably seriously asking how old you are.
/r/seduction10/11/13 07:39 AM
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If you're 25 calling is probably weird, and borderline impolite, because it's expecting the person to drop whatever they're doing right this second to talk to you.
/r/seduction10/11/13 06:29 AM
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Have you dated many girls that dumped their boyfriend for you? If so, were you hooking up before they broke up? How long did stuff last? How'd things end? Was there any stress in having to play stuff as cool as possible, knowing you got started on kind of a shady circumstance? Being dead serious here.
/r/seduction08/11/13 11:49 PM
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a few of these girls are creepy but that doesn't stop them from having a bf. Hah. Interesting change from the bar or club scene, which could easily have been "a few of these girls are crazy but that doesn't stop them from having a bf"
/r/seduction24/10/13 04:53 AM
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You're not alone.
/r/seduction20/10/13 10:37 PM
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Wouldn't say the first is complimenting yourself, but it's definitely talking about yourself and second handedly complimenting her taste. The second is complimenting whoever's responsible for making that dress and second handedly complimenting her taste, and the third is complimenting her and second handedly complimenting the dress and her taste. I see what you're saying and it's a good point to remember.
/r/seduction09/10/13 01:26 AM
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I'm busting your balls, I was just curious where this is. It sounds like an interesting situation.
/r/seduction02/09/13 05:36 PM
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Not even the island? The girls can't be that hot if it's that secluded and tiny.
/r/seduction02/09/13 03:57 PM
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..what island?
/r/seduction01/09/13 09:44 PM
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Don't let them bother you. A lot of white girls will say the same about black guys. A lot of black girls or white guys will say the same about each other, etc. At a certain point, it's genetics. Some people are less attracted to people of certain ancestry, sometimes there's a little prejudice involved, and sometimes they're be asinine about it. Laying out that race is why is asinine, but there's not much you can do about it.
/r/seduction16/08/13 12:22 AM
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she has some problems and I don't want to get involved in to that. Sounds more like she doesn't want you involved in that.
/r/seduction05/08/13 01:32 AM
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That's awesome. Was to have dignity.
/r/seduction21/07/13 07:36 PM
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More useful field report. It's better when there's an actual lesson or realization than the typical "yada yada yada, I gave her the D"
/r/seduction21/07/13 07:34 PM
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Agreed. Usually it's easy to tell apart the age groups / demographics here and I hold my tongue, but every once in a while I just need to say something.
/r/seduction16/04/13 10:22 PM
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I wasn't at all getting at whether anything happened of it, or what your intent is. If the phrase hitting it off made you think I was, google it, it's a common term, and could've saved you a lot of writing. As far as your didactic, man that word feels forced, but anyhow, it basically seems to imply that you shouldn't be running through some ordered list in your head checking off the things a forum said to do one by one when you can have a more genuine interaction. That's all well and good, but i…
/r/seduction16/04/13 03:04 AM
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Okay, so maybe I'm just getting old, and I don't really come to this subreddit too often, but I have to say it and I'm surprised it's not already said. This entire post sounds like the innocent and overexcited rambling of a young adult who's infatuated with a girl after hitting it off one night.
/r/seduction16/04/13 02:07 AM
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It sounds like you don't really like the girl. So why pursue her? I understand a lot of people in seddit are here to improve their skills with women, and a lot of them end up looking at picking up girls as some sort of sport, but the whole concept of dating still comes down to whether or not the two of you like each other. Just because some girl's physically attractive doesn't mean you have to try. If her personality sucks, her personality sucks. End of story.
/r/seduction06/01/13 10:32 PM
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This is the best thing I've ever read. The last sentence seems a bit overkill though. I want to say that this is a deeper statement about this PUA stuff than just making fun of /r/seddit. I stopped using this stuff once I read some of the basics a while back and socially broke out of my shell, but IMO a lot of the time when I read anything from here it's like people are nerding out to an awkward extreme with the PU terms and strategy. As a guy, even I can pick up on who at the bar is awkwardly f…
/r/seduction15/12/12 06:49 PM
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Seriously. I don't keep up with subreddit much anymore, but this garbage will just further the misconception that /r/seddit's essentially cosmo for men.
/r/seduction07/01/12 06:21 PM
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I see what you mean. There's probably a word for what you're describing as far as the changing opinions thing, but when I hear opinionated, I usually think obnoxious. Eg. people who can't have small talk without it turning into rants about controversial crap that makes everyone else in the room uncomfortable and switch subjects. Something that generally goes along with immaturity, or social obliviousness.
/r/seduction02/01/12 12:33 AM
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learn how to talk and be opinionated Is that one I haven't heard? I think you may have meant to type and not be opinionated.
/r/seduction30/12/11 02:12 AM
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is something I am missing, if there is some advice here for forming more long term connections apart from the starting approach, then please inform me. Wtf? No, dumbass. This subreddit is for discussion around seduction, not relationship advice. Go to http://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/ for that. Also, knowing how to gain someone's attention, flirt, and when to make a move doesn't make someone a sociopath. I barely ever even post here, but this was a dumbass post.
/r/seduction15/12/11 07:28 PM
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This article wasn't about love, it was more about having a conception of dating standards only appropriate for taking a girl you've never talked to out to prom in 1955, and applying them to a girl in her early 20's in 2011. It also seems a bit too exaggerated to be true for anyone other than an extremely sheltered home schooled teenager. It seemed more like an episode of The Venture Bros featuring Dean than a true story. edit: Maybe you could use the term infatuation. Love on the other hand is a…
/r/seduction27/10/11 11:02 PM
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Read first three paragraphs and realized this article was about stuff that's common sense to most people above the age of thirteen.
/r/seduction27/10/11 10:59 PM
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Ignore what she says about politics and current events. Gotta emphasize this one. Everyone who isn't a self proclaimed air-head thinks they like to talk about politics and current events. Really, even the most serious politically oriented people need your run of the mill bonding stuff. Not to mention, your bigger point; what girls say they're into/not into with people in general hardly ever seems to be true. (not to be confused with what they say about you specifically)
/r/seduction23/10/11 08:37 PM
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Most of it doesn't bother me, but I had to say something the other day when there was a massive thread about some guy getting his first kiss... Cute story for some, but it just didn't seem like seddit material. There didn't seem to be anything at all for an average person to gain from it, if anything it was inspiring for 18+ forever alones. That's not such a bad thing, but it's something that can be done in /r/reddit.com, /r/AMA, or /r/gaming. For the most part, I like this community, but I don'…
/r/seduction13/10/11 10:14 PM
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Meh. It's not a good idea to read the game, then go out practicing lines as if it's a tangible skill that anyone can learn. The fundamentals are good to know, and there are a lot of random epiphanies when you read this stuff where you realize a pattern amongst women, or that they find or don't find something specific attractive. Reciting lines, and practicing specific methods seems counter productive to me. Take in the stuff that makes sense with your own logic and reason, stick to your own ethi…
/r/seduction11/10/11 02:12 AM
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That's why I felt like kind of a dick postings this, but seriously, this subreddit exists for decent advice and discussion. The quality will drop substantially if it's overrun by 20 year olds striving for a first kiss pitching in advice. (not to say they aren't absolutely welcome here to lurk, ask questions, and pitch in when they know what they're doing - I just don't want to see a trend in posts like this, or kids cheering because they lost their virginity to a drunk girl at a party because th…
/r/seduction10/10/11 11:00 PM
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/facepalm. Congratulations OP, but is this really material for /r/seddit? I'm not saying /r/seddit is full of pimps and guys with massive success rates with women, but part of why this communities is what it is, is because it's not a bunch of college foreveralones posting about how they've never kissed a girl. No offense, that situation sucks, I have empathy, and I don't mean to spoil your moment, but ffs..... This should be an /r/reddit or /r/foreveralone(or existing related subreddit) post.
/r/seduction10/10/11 05:26 AM
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Now at this point shes got her back to a wall and my hand is on the wall just over her shoulder. I said i've got her pinned to the wall so she better be telling the truth. she says she is. Is this a seddit thing? It sounds like she was messing around at first, but you (physically) intimidated the fuck out of her and forced her to give you her number.
/r/seduction06/10/11 05:12 PM
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"your to cute for me" Come on bro, learn your grammar, then work on your virginity. But seriously, how old are you that it's such an issue? I lost my v-card at 19, and I'm doing fine.
/r/seduction14/09/11 07:23 AM
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Don't try to practice your game in the hood? But seriously though, that is kind of funny. Still, better material for /r/funny or something than /r/seduction.
/r/seduction12/09/11 02:29 AM
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I like a lot of the little points made in this article, but it didn't really seem to have a strong theme (/thesis). Seeking, or depending on validation too much is a bad thing, but it's not the end of the world to want it sometimes; was that the point of the article? If so, it seems a little common sense to me. I don't disagree with anything in this, I just feel like it didn't have much of a purpose.
/r/seduction05/09/11 01:42 AM
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Maybe, but a lot of people here have (purposefully) the mindset that everything should be in their control. It's not about who's fault it was things didn't work out, it's about looking back and seeing what happened, and why, so you can avoid the problem the next time.
/r/seduction30/08/11 04:49 AM
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I know a lot of people post stuff from these guys here, but I think this subreddit's still more objective, and less hive-minded, than most subreddits. Probably something to do with seduction stuff requiring a lot of self evaluation, beyond what most people are comfortable with.
/r/seduction19/08/11 05:02 AM
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Is there a dogma though? I think most people that are here, come here to read tips and advice, and apply it based on their own logic and reason. (and ethics) One thing I've found surprisingly awesome about this community is that it's not really a bro-ish fraternity of sorts. Its people with all different attitudes leveling with each other to have serious, objective discussions over what works, what doesn't, and why.
/r/seduction19/08/11 02:13 AM
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I agree completely, but people in this subreddit are looking for different things. I get the impression OP (and no offense, op) is or aspires to be the male counterpart to a girl like this.
/r/seduction16/08/11 02:43 AM
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Is there decent material anyone can recommend on the whole "audition" thing, regarding her friends? I lost a girl's attraction when things were going great after hanging out with her friends a couple of weeks ago. I was probably easing up on game, and definitely focussed more on the girl than her friends, but I remember consciously thinking her friends were kind of shitty, unwelcoming people. Like I said, at that point I was easing up on game, or at least not applying it towards her friends. Bas…
/r/seduction16/08/11 01:50 AM
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A crush is infatuation, not lust. Lust is strictly sexual. That's when you're with a girl in public and you both know it's not 100% appropriate, but you still can't keep your hands off each other. Infatuation is when you have a crush on a girl. Specifically the impairing feeling that you're talking about.
/r/seduction11/08/11 02:23 PM
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It's not about blame in the sense that you should feel bad or be punished, it's about blame in the sense that you want to figure out how to completely control a situation, and now you're trying to figure out the cause of what went wrong last night, in order to not make the same mistake again. In this case, the cause is clearly that the girl you wanted to hook up with got stoned out of her mind, at a party, in front of a lot of people, and freaked out a bit. Next time, be more careful about how m…
/r/seduction08/08/11 02:18 AM
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Some people get really paranoid when they smoke. If that's the case, two gravity bong rips will more than put her into an awkward state of paranoia. Especially if she's out at a party, around lots of people. From there it's a question of whether or not she knows herself enough to know this happens when she smokes, and if she'll be able to hide her state. Basically, this isn't really a seduction issue, you just got a paranoia prone girl more stoned than she can handle while at a party. If it is a…
/r/seduction08/08/11 02:00 AM
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Agreed. Whether they all get attached or not probably has to do with how you treat them, or maybe just how sensitive you are to whether or not they're becoming attached. However, to a high schooler, a guy/girl with their shit somewhat together (as in some disposable income, a car, their own place, and the ability to buy alcohol and/or drugs) is appealing enough that she's not going to want to let go until she has other hookups in the same boat, which might not be for a few years.
/r/seduction05/08/11 08:06 AM
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That's part of the fun! it makes it much more exciting! I have to be honest, I like sex best when it's just sex. When there needs to be drinking and extra excitement around it, I see it as a sign that somebody's still in high school. (which is apparently true) I'm not for or against it, I really don't care, I just wanted to step in here and point this out. I'm a post college living with mom case (1 year out), and one thing I've noticed is whether someone got laid a lot in high school or not (I d…
/r/seduction05/08/11 08:01 AM
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I find a lot of the methods a some guys develop naturally tend to be more unethical on average than the stuff I find in the seduction community. Not everyone of course, but a lot of guys I notice will manipulate drama to absurd degrees, cause trouble, and making a huge mess simply to get the girl they're after. I've never seen any seduction communities suggest anything malicious like that. It's all about attracting the girl, not manipulating, abusing, or deceiving her.
/r/seduction16/07/11 03:08 AM
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The whole issue in general here is basically cock blockers. The friend who prevents the girl from hooking up with anyone at all costs, even when the girl clearly wants to. Why they do it nobody knows. It's probably a combination of jealousy and a craving for drama of any kind, whatever the case, it's some sort of disgusting immaturity. As much as it sucks when things are going well with a cute girl, it's kind of a huge turn off anyways when I realize a girl has so little independence that her fr…
/r/seduction08/07/11 06:29 AM
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Right. There's usually a fine line between drama crazed cock blockers and interjecting to get a girl out of a situation she doesn't want to be in, but it's pretty difficult to tell which it is without being there yourself (and in that case, it's pretty damn clear), and both situations are pretty common. If it was an orbiter as the OP says, then yeah, I'm with him, they're frigging annoying.
/r/seduction08/07/11 06:19 AM
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It may not always feel pleasant, but I like that I see posts that hit home and tear down some part of my self perception.
/r/seduction04/07/11 07:12 AM
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GJ. Not being dependent on the outcome makes things a hell of a lot easier. It also gives you more balls to take action and be a lot more natural about it.
/r/seduction23/06/11 06:12 PM
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I'm guilty of this pretty often. I generally do better with women on the nights when I'm more reserved. This is probably counter intuitive to most AFCs, the thing is when I'm reserved it's not because I'm too shy to speak up, it's because I'm probably around people I'm just meeting and genuinely interested in hearing what they have to say.
/r/seduction20/06/11 08:17 AM
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Makes sense I guess.
/r/seduction16/06/11 04:48 AM
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Wouldn't it be easier for them to post their questions / comments here and get real feedback?
/r/seduction16/06/11 04:35 AM
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Ok, but my point still stands. When you walk into a room and the 20 people inside are dressed exactly the same, they're not all picking their clothes out of personal taste.
/r/seduction31/05/11 06:01 PM
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Yeah, the plaid thing looked natural on people a few years ago, but it's to a point where a lot of people just seem like they're struggling to blend in.
/r/seduction31/05/11 04:13 AM
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You are not your fucking kahkis. But seriously, I dress how I feel comfortable. That doesn't strictly mean physically comfortable, it means pretty much what I normally wear. Which is usually plain or graphic t-shirts, plaid or cargo shorts, or dark cargo pants and a hoody depending on the weather. I make sure I'm wearing clean clothes and nothing too worn out. You don't want to look like a neck beard who just wandered out of his basement for the first time in months, but flashy clothes doesn't a…
/r/seduction31/05/11 03:59 AM
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3.5 grams of pot, it's 1/8th of an ounce. Often referred to as a slice, because pizza is usually divided into eight slices.
/r/seduction31/05/11 03:52 AM
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It really doesn't matter at all to me. Looks and personality are basically the only things I care about in a girl. I can understand the status attraction if it's a case of you like a challenge, or you feel like she's that much more of a prize, but I usually I see interest in the social status factor as this person only wanting to increase their own social status by dating someone of a higher social status, which is something I'm just not interested in.
/r/seduction20/05/11 07:32 AM
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Thanks for clearing this up, I haven't been dishing out the terms much but by context I was under the impression it was basically the "Dude that chick is totally an 8, i'd hit it" scale. Interesting seeing it in perspective. I've definitely met girls who were hb5 one night, hb9 a week later around a different and larger crowd.
/r/seduction18/05/11 02:12 AM
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Meh.. This is because basically every guy that doesn't do as well with women as he wants to labels himself a nice guy.
/r/seduction17/05/11 10:16 PM
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I was just thinking this. I don't get it either. It's almost always: one girl clearly wants to have fun, and another decides that she has the final say over what her friend can and can't do. If a girl is so clearly dominated by what she thinks her friends want her to do that she has a blatant CB friend around her, I wouldn't waste time on it. Of course, there are degrees of this, which is why I say blatant CB. Sighing it off is not the same as demanding that two people enjoying each others compa…
/r/seduction05/05/11 04:48 PM
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What is a teleclass, how do we know this is free?
/r/seduction03/05/11 06:51 PM
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This is kind of what I figured.. Not my kind of thrill I guess.
/r/seduction30/04/11 06:09 PM
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I avoid bitchy girls. Not to be confused with girls that like to tease people, they're awesome.
/r/seduction30/04/11 06:13 AM
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Wrong subreddit. Go spam /r/nsfw or /r/ass or something.
/r/seduction30/04/11 06:03 AM
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I assume it's more of a random conversation thing that comes up when a girl's trying to get to know you. Of course, I'm talking about with in the early/mid 20's crowd so, maybe it's different for older people..
/r/seduction30/04/11 06:02 AM
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Can someone explain the purpose of a fake name?
/r/seduction30/04/11 05:56 AM
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I honestly couldn't agree more. The issue is people don't realize dating isn't the same as a relationship.. You can have dates a lot early on in a relationship, as a way of showing you appreciate the girl for more than good times and sex, and that you like being in public with her, but dating itself is really just a weird overly formal process for getting to know someone with the intention of having a real relationship. I say you can have dates once in a while or early on in a relationship becau…
/r/seduction27/04/11 04:31 AM
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I think being an introvert / extrovert is really more about lifestyle and habit. I've definitely been both at different points in time, depending on who I would be surrounded by, and what I would do with my day.
/r/seduction23/04/11 03:16 AM
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How often do what people consider to be "pick up lines" really work? My idea of a good line would be more of an ice-breaker, something to say to a girl to start talking to her after making eye contact that's generic or applicable enough to use in more than one scenario. I don't think I've ever even heard of a guy getting a number or doing anything with a girl after using one of those elaborately coded compliment that people consider "pick up lines". I know you (op) think it was a good line, but …
/r/seduction14/04/11 06:00 AM
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Yeh, the concept of being able to look up a profile on a person after just seeing their face or who they're with in person is what's really fundamentally new about facebook/social networking, and a reasonable topic for privacy discussions. All the other privacy scares are basically bs.
/r/seduction14/04/11 04:37 AM
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Couldn't agree more about your first paragraph, but you should have a facebook, not having one is like not having a phone or a computer. Doesn't mean you have to scream for attention on it, but keep mildly engaged in it, because it's established enough that it's kind of weird when someone doesn't have one. As far as privacy goes, all you're giving up is who you're friends with on facebook, the rest you can decide for yourself what you tell people about.
/r/seduction14/04/11 04:31 AM
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