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| 1 | I stopped chasing this girl by text. Was this the right thing to do?My guess is you are trying to make a connection with her through text when you should be aiming for a date. That is a better way to make her decide about you right away so you stop wasting time texting bitches that lead you nowhere. | /r/askTRP | 23/09/16 11:22 PM |
| 1 | Is it better to reconfirm a date and increase flaking or risk her thinking you have forgoten?I have to pick her up at her place and its far away... | /r/askTRP | 29/04/16 07:07 PM |
| 1 | What do you do?What do you do what? | /r/askTRP | 29/04/16 05:54 PM |
| 0 | Asking for her number via FacebookAsk for it. Be sincere and direct. | /r/askTRP | 29/04/16 05:53 PM |
| 3 | 20% Of Men Sleep With 80% Women LIE - Statistics Suggest A 'Slut' FactorThe 80/20 rule is infallible. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/01/16 05:51 PM |
| 6 | How to stop living in my head?Use mindfull meditation. | /r/seduction | 26/11/15 05:22 PM |
| 3 | Concrete steps to fix severe conversational problems?There is an old school book called "Psycho Cybernetics" that helped me with the same problem you have. Its basic principle says that your mind cant differenciate what is real from what you imagine. For exampe: salivating when thinking of food, recalling a tragic scenario will make you anxious and same with a sad one, etc. So you have an image of yourself in your head, and your body/mind acts according to that image. In order to change your behaviour you have to change that self image. To change … | /r/askTRP | 25/11/15 02:10 PM |
| 1 | How to reel back in a lost plate/FWB?Just move on. | /r/askTRP | 25/11/15 01:51 PM |
| 0 | Why do many women seem to get bored and branch swing when the man is too loving, respectful, devoted, etcRead the sidebar. | /r/askTRP | 24/11/15 07:51 PM |
| 2 | How do I overcome shyness?Do comfortzone challenges daily. | /r/askTRP | 30/10/15 09:59 PM |
| 1 | how to set out boundaries with girls in a trp way while keeping calm?You did the right thing. Whats important is that you are aware of what might be happening. I had a similar problem so I started recording myself and analizing what happened with evidence. That was the point where I grew greatly. | /r/askTRP | 29/10/15 11:41 PM |
| 4 | #NoNothingNovember 2015 ChallengeNo more: fapping, social media and gaming. Adding: 1 conversation with a stranger a day and 15 min meditation. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/10/15 09:49 PM |
| 3 | Stop Crying About Your FriendsI disagree. To change is better to exagerate and then calibrate than to make baby steps and never make it. Everyone here is trying to make a positive change, become a leader, become a man. Its trial and error. In the friends matter, i stand by: "if you hang around losers, you become a loser". | /r/TheRedPill | 29/10/15 09:41 PM |
| 3 | One-On-One Skype Coaching, Red Pill StyleIm on the same boat. No RP friends. Skype talk sounds so fucking great. | /r/askTRP | 27/10/15 01:19 AM |
| 1 | Working with my mother. Need guidance.Yes. Its the frustration of not being able to make my decisions as effective as I would want to because of her mistakes, thats the problem. | /r/askTRP | 27/10/15 01:16 AM |
| 0 | Opinions on ltrIMHO if you are worrying so much about her being with another guy then the LTR is already over. | /r/askTRP | 26/10/15 09:37 PM |
| 1 | How do you meditate?The best method ive found is called mindfull meditation. Its simple. Practice this everyday for 15 min: Sit on the floor with your back straight. With eyes halfway open stare at one point infront of you. Focus on the feeling of breathing. Only focus, do not question or analyze. If your mind wanders, come back to the breathing. Do this and eventualy you can focus on sensations, sounds, feelings and even watch your thoughts without getting lost on them. The whole game is to get lost in thought and… | /r/askTRP | 26/10/15 09:28 PM |
| 2 | How would you deal with a bad episode of Premature Ejaculation?It is true that when you dont fap there is greater chance of PE because you are more sensitive. What worked for me is: you have one fap a week. | /r/askTRP | 26/10/15 05:42 PM |
| 1 | Girl flakes several times but texts next day...what to do?Next her already, go talk to other girls. | /r/askTRP | 10/07/15 08:41 PM |
| 1 | I am fucking pathetic. Been stuck in love with oneitis for over TWO FUCKING YEARS! FUCK!You have no abundance mentality, that’s why you have that nasty oneitis. Stop watching RSD (knowledge is addicting and without application it is useless), grow some balls and go get rejected as much as you can. Talk to girls, fail and fail better. The beginning is never perfect. Eventually you will meet many great women and you’ll have that abundance mentality you desperately need. About this girl: Erase her from everything and avoid her like the plague. You will never get out of the whole if yo… | /r/askTRP | 10/07/15 08:34 PM |
| 1 | What is a comfort test?An example of cocky vs arrogant will be great. | /r/askTRP | 10/07/15 08:20 PM |
| 1 | Should I ask out this girl again?You miss the 100% chances you dont take. Sounds like you need to step up and risk it. | /r/askTRP | 10/07/15 07:55 PM |
| 2 | Recently unplugged: not sure which course of action to take with attempting to plate my ex.NO GO. DUDE. GET AWAY FROM EX. NO GO. | /r/askTRP | 09/07/15 10:17 PM |
| 1 | most confusing girl in he worldI woudnt be so strict. Ive had lots of girls who are obviously into me that will give me the cheek and then smile and stay. I see this as a way of them being "hard to get". If she doesnt say "NO" or leaves then I woudnt NEXT so fast. | /r/askTRP | 07/07/15 11:00 PM |
| 1 | Argentinean Veddete that was invited into the pilot’s cabin during a commercial flight is now suing both pilots for sexual harassmentDude, Argentinean girls have a well known reputation of feeling "entitled" and superior to any guy. Its an europanized country. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/07/15 09:56 PM |
| 1 | You might never get your revengeSocial comfort zone challenges. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/06/15 06:10 PM |
| 1 | Problems I am facing after finally deciding to change my lifeSame thing happened to me. It is part of the unplugging. Dont think too much in the feeling of loneliness but in the process of self improvement. Eventually things will fall where they have to and you will realize nobody in your life is permanent. | /r/askTRP | 24/06/15 02:13 PM |
| 3 | Cologne?Some guys think its try hard to use cologne, but in my experience when I use a great sweet toned cologne girls cant stop complemeting how great I smell and it definetly helps my game. I prefer spice and woody colognes. Ive noticed girls respond much better to sweet tones like those. My personal favorites are: Lolita Lempicka Tom Ford Tuscan Spice Bomb Antonio Banderas Secret CH Carolina Herrera | /r/askTRP | 24/06/15 02:05 PM |
| 3 | What book would you recommend to a bluepill friend with no knowledge of redpill or game terminology?Dude, sure im not. Im a human being watching another go through exactly what I faced before TRP. So I want to help, indirectly. Thanks for clarifying im not a missionary though. | /r/askTRP | 23/06/15 03:53 PM |
| 2 | What book would you recommend to a bluepill friend with no knowledge of redpill or game terminology?This guy just got dumped by his gf, he is a reck, and I cant lead by example because he is just my friend in class. Thats why a book sounds like a better/safe way of him to open eyes without me getting bad rep. | /r/askTRP | 23/06/15 03:42 PM |
| 1 | Am I a slut? Will I ever find a long term partner?Sounds like a troll. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/15 09:45 PM |
| 1 | I want to get with my ex - What's the best course of action?Dont. | /r/askTRP | 29/04/15 03:38 PM |
| 4 | Help, AWALT?She doesnt respects you. End it. | /r/askTRP | 29/04/15 03:37 PM |
| 1 | Girl invited me over to hookup but didn't want sex. Am I being used for validation?Something like this happened to me with three girls recently. In all I finally ended it by being non-verbaly angry. When they asked if I was mad I denied it, but stayed mute while driving them back home. One girl was the same as this guys girl. Difference is she even grabbed my dick many times, and when I fingered her she went crazy but stopped me after some seconds. She obviously wanted it. There was no problem, nobody home, no parents calling, nothing. Im guessing my approach will be to try se… | /r/askTRP | 28/04/15 10:32 PM |
| 1 | overcoming onitisIt tooked me 7 months to get over a 6 month relationship. The emotion went down when I started to: force myself to meet other women keep myself bussy avoided everything that could remind me of her: it includes phone number, fb posts, mutual friends, other people telling me shit about her, wondering, etc. Oneitis is all about abudance mentality. The moment you actually experience that there is a world of hot fun women outthere that you can attract and become intimate the oneitis looses most of it… | /r/askTRP | 28/04/15 10:20 PM |
| 1 | What was the best piece of advice you were ever given?As this guy said: Dont be a pussy Dont be a dick | /r/askTRP | 21/04/15 02:44 PM |
| 1 | How to Meditate: The Easy StepsHaving your eyes open and focused while meditating is a much more powerful technique of meditation. It makes meditation a lot easier by reducing the amount of thought distraction. You are not emptying your mind, you are just watching it with less disturbance. The only goal is to be aware of any thought, sensations and emotions that arise without getting lost in them. This creates a lasting powerful focus, even after meditating, making it easier to enter what is called "the zone". You are aware o… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/04/15 05:11 PM |
| 1 | How to Meditate: The Easy StepsBy focusing on the present you are relaxing. It is an exercise on peace of mind. Being consistent in the mastering of this skill is key to achieving a more focused and happy mind. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/04/15 07:14 PM |
| 2 | How to Meditate: The Easy StepsJust watch them as they come and go. You are sitting in a theatre watching a movie. You are not part of that movie. Just watch and relax. When you bring your attention to the breath the irritating thoughts will dissapear because you will no longer be giving energy to them. Keep it up. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/04/15 07:10 PM |
| 1 | How to Meditate: The Easy StepsWhen I started to stare and focus with my eyes open while meditating things got a lot easier. Remember, you are not trying to control your thoughts. You are a simple observer. You are the awareness. See how thoughts come and go, but do not go where they lead you. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/04/15 03:26 PM |
| 2 | How to Meditate: The Easy StepsI dont see a use for it. Mindfull meditation is a simple task: be aware of what is happening here and now. To be only an observer. This one is a simple guided meditation I used to do: https://soundcloud.com/samharrisorg/mindfulness-meditation-9 | /r/TheRedPill | 14/04/15 02:36 PM |
| 2 | How to Meditate: The Easy StepsWith spiritual approach: The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle. Stillness Speaks by Eckhart Tolle. Non-spiritual: Waking Up by Sam Harris. 10% Happier by Dan Harris. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/04/15 02:28 PM |
| 1 | How to Meditate: The Easy StepsMeditation has different meanings. If your goal is to be mindfull you have to be an observer of your thoughts, nothing more. To be aware of what is happening here and now. Thats how you achieve mental peace. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/04/15 02:27 PM |
| 1 | How to Meditate: The Easy StepsNow you know how to proceed, just follow the instructions on the post. "Truly learning to meditate is not like going to the gym and putting on some muscle because it’s good for you and makes you feel better. There’s more to it than that. Meditation—again, done correctly—puts into question more or less everything you tend to do in your search for happiness. But if you lose sight of this, it can become just another strategy for seeking happiness—a more refined version of the problem you already ha… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/04/15 02:21 PM |
| 3 | How to Meditate: The Easy StepsBeing aware of your thoughts has nothing to do with spiritualism because it doesn’t require "thinking" to understand anything further than what is happening right now. I recommend you take a look at Sam Harris "Waking Up". He makes a scientific and non-spiritual approach on mediation which can help you with your doubt. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/04/15 02:12 PM |
| 43 | How to Meditate: The Easy StepsI still dont know why meditation isnt in the sidebar. It is probably one of the most important skills to master. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/04/15 03:23 AM |
| 3 | How to Meditate: The Easy StepsDo not be mad. Everyone goes through that at first. Just keep going, try harder and relax. It also depends on how much multitasking whe do everyday. Develop the habit of just doing one thing at a time and forget about youre cellphone. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/04/15 03:20 AM |
| 3 | How to Meditate: The Easy StepsI tried doing just that a few years ago. Saying to myself whenever I got lost in thought: "thinking". But by saying that I got involved in the thinking and that can be tricky. Remember you are just sitting in the theatre watching a movie, just watching, nothing else. If you say something you are not longer "watching only". | /r/TheRedPill | 14/04/15 03:16 AM |
| 1 | Daily meditations/remindersI dont remember, but I was a kid so I was atracted to listen to the ones with the most popular names such as: marihuana, extasy, etc. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/04/15 01:40 PM |
| 2 | Daily meditations/remindersI tried binaural beats with a friend 7 years ago and we both stopped using it because we started to forget things frecuently. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/04/15 07:43 PM |
| 7 | Daily meditations/remindersGradually become aware of the process of breathing. Pay attention to wherever you feel the breath most clearly—either at the nostrils, or in the rising and falling your abdomen. Allow your attention to rest in the mere sensation of breathing. (There is no need to control your breath. Just let it come and go naturally.) Every time your mind wanders in thought, gently return it to the sensation of breathing. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/04/15 05:26 PM |
| 2 | (30 Days of Comfort Challenges) - Day 4 – HuggingI totally agree with you. In fact doing a sport or a martial art class is one of the comfort challenges later in the 30 days. Have in consideration it’s still day 4 of 30. The goal in the first days is to make fast comfort challenges to keep people engaged. If you think you can’t do this challenge or it’s too uncomfortable for you then don’t do it. It’s fine. I encourage you to do your own still. Everybody takes different paths to the same goal. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/04/15 03:29 PM |
| 1 | (30 Days of Comfort Challenges) - Day 3 – Insecurityprobably by looking at my posts. because bot doesnt allow links... | /r/TheRedPill | 07/04/15 02:00 PM |
| 1 | (30 Days of Comfort Challenges) - Day 3 – Insecuritybot doesnt allow links but you can look for day 1 where you can find a complete explanation of the challenge. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/04/15 01:59 PM |
| 1 | (30 Days of Comfort Challenges) - Day 1 - ExperimentBrilliant. Lets put it together after this 30 day challenge is over. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/04/15 01:56 PM |
| 1 | (30 Days of Comfort Challenges) - Day 1 - ExperimentThat TEDx talk is great. The guy is actually making comfort challenges more popular and has some challenge ideas ill slide in here. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/04/15 01:23 AM |
| 2 | (30 Days of Comfort Challenges) - Day 1 - ExperimentYou can do that or follow the comfort challenge for that day. Today is experimental, only you choose what to do. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/04/15 01:19 AM |
| 8 | (30 Days of Comfort Challenges) - Day 1 - ExperimentWorks too, but today is the day you can experiment doing whatever you choose to. Tomorrow there will be a comfort challenge for that day. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/04/15 05:07 PM |
| 10 | The power of example, the only way to give the Red Pill to others.If red pillers arent supposed to talk about it then why does this sub reached 100.000 people? Because they are. As in the movie fight club. Tyler: "I look around. I look around. I see alot of new faces. Wich means a lot of you have been breaking the first two rules of Fight Club..." | /r/TheRedPill | 31/03/15 04:17 AM |
| 16 | I'm an omega loser and I want to become a better manDude youre problems arent a big deal really. Its all in youre head, if you think you are a loser you will become one. I had the same problems as you and it needs constant work to change. Be strong. You are already doing great things. Lifting and approaching is already alot to give yourself some credit. Ill recommend three things: Research MINDFULL MEDITATION. Meditate 20 min daily. Research Comfort Zone Challenges. This will make youre life fun. Smile as much as you can throughout the day. Sound… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/03/15 01:08 PM |
| 1 | Comfort ChallengeAwesome. How do you get this "go mentality"? Exercising it daily. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/03/15 12:54 PM |
| 1 | Comfort ChallengeIm talking about challenges in specific. Going out solo is great but its too generic. An example will be doing 10 push ups in a crowded place. That will really get you out of youre comfort zone. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/03/15 12:53 PM |
| 1 | Comfort ChallengeIm refering to social embarrasment fear. Cold showers give you mental strenght to cold showers. Laying on the ground in a crowded place, for example, gives you an adrenaline rush and gives you a taste of what social embarrasment is: just an idea in youre head. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/03/15 12:52 PM |
| 3 | Texting for logistics only I can do, but one question..See it this way. High risk, high reward. Texting a lot is "safe" as you see it because you think she is constantly reminded of you, but that will make you seem needy and probably lead to be an orbiter (because that’s what they do). Also you will drain future subjects of conversation and that’s trouble for you. Women crave attention; use it as you’re currency. Don’t bet a little every day, bet allot less times. Face to face talking is what you want to light that fire up. Light it, and then make h… | /r/askTRP | 26/03/15 07:21 PM |
| 1 | The Red Pill Hamster, part Two.This reminds me of Harvey on the series Suits. Do everything you can to win. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/03/15 05:48 PM |
| 2 | How Men Love / Male CommitmentFuck, this sounds like the back of my head. I feel for you brother. Sometimes when you are doing all youre best to not show weakness it still pops from the cracks and she transforms into a monster that wants to kill you. How do we even handle this? Life will always throw shit at you and now you have to watch out that youre bitch doesnt feel that it is affecting you so she wont try to throw shit at you too. Now I realize why my father didnt cried when his brother died from cancer. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/03/15 04:15 PM |
| 2 | How Men Love / Male CommitmentNice input. But how do you handle events that are recently or currently happening? On my last LTR (6months) got my car robbed 2 times (wich costed allot of money to repair), my cellphone broke, got an almost surgery-ingury and on top of that had to take a momentary boring job. She lived pretty far away and I drove her spending my remanining bucks of my shitty salary on gas and was badly stressed for not being able to invite her out to a nice place. Shit, now i reflect how much I did for her, how… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/03/15 04:00 PM |
| 1 | Approaching girlsFail, fail, fail and fail some more untill you dont give a fuck. | /r/askTRP | 18/03/15 01:43 PM |
| 1 | Reminder: DO NOT TALK ABOUT THE RED PILLI agree with you. Though, sometimes when you see a close friend make this "avoidable" mistakes you want to at least say something to help him. This close friend broke up with his girlfriend and is doing all shit wrong. Playing extremely Mr Nice Guy, getting played by girls, attending evangelical groups because girls tell him to, going in a religious retreat because of this women and not saying "bad words" because they dont like it. Its fucked up. He looks depressed and I cant help to feel the ne… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/15 02:21 PM |
| 1 | Reminder: DO NOT TALK ABOUT THE RED PILLLast night a close friend of mine remembered me about this. Hes going down a bad path after his breakup and is going full beta nice guy. Even joining some evangelical group for some girl that left him there because she went back to her "douchebag" ex. I cant help to think how I can help him. To at least say some words and make him see the shit he is doing. At the same time im remembered he isnt going take any word I say well, he will probably react just like youre friend. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/15 02:11 PM |
| 2 | What is the most successful frame?Links? Videos? | /r/askTRP | 13/03/15 02:04 PM |
| 1 | Dont regress back to your old ways. EVER.Its laziness. The beta that lived inside for years is waiting to dragg you back again. It happened to me lately. You start to see these excuses popping up and you dont do shit, even though you feel something is off. Just realized this is because I stopped swallowing the pill daily. Similar to stop an antibiotic treatment halfway. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/03/15 04:30 PM |
| 3 | Dont regress back to your old ways. EVER.I was just about to write something similar. Around 3 months swallowing the pill and at first thought I turned inmune, that my eyes coudnt close again. Got confident and stopped reading TRP. Now I catch myself failling like I used to, making excuses for oneitis beginings, letting bitches play hot and cold and dont NEXT theire asses, and slowly let myself focus on a scarcity mentality. Realized that if you dont contstatly reinforce yourself, if you dont medicate yourself daily YOU WILL get back o… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/03/15 04:23 PM |
| 4 | I'll keep this short and sweet- Woman's definition of love...I cant help to remember when a girl heard me say this or something similiar and tried to refute it with things such as: Then why do you love someone who has died? That serves no purpose. Why do you love your parents and grandparents? | /r/TheRedPill | 12/03/15 03:49 PM |
| 1 | The Needy Line.Its funny how after a some months reading TRP I can still delude myself into the same shit. Youre right. I was on the oneitis road by giving myself excuses. | /r/askTRP | 12/03/15 01:42 PM |
| -2 | The Needy Line.I want to give her more to miss. She seems like LTR material. | /r/askTRP | 09/03/15 08:46 PM |
| 1 | What to do after getting her number?Next time call her. | /r/askTRP | 09/03/15 08:10 PM |
| 2 | Tell me how to stop wasting time and energy rehashing my recent breakup over and overDude, I had the same problem as you. Relationship lasted 6 months and its been 8 months and my mind is still trying to fuck me up. But realize its only thoughts, you can reframe them or not give them any value at all. The mind´s work is to shoot thoughts randomly, they doesnt mean anything. Rage will help, by reframing youre idealization of her. But be carefull, I found myself in deep anger for months and it killed my mood when interacting with others. I tried the "banging 10 girls" medication. … | /r/askTRP | 09/03/15 05:53 PM |
| 1 | Quick question: Do i accept her invitation?Update: So I went. It was a good night overall, her friends were betas. Didnt gave her much attention, befriended most of her friends, got her drunk and stayed till the party was over, then jumped into her till her parents came home. Thanks for the advice. | /r/askTRP | 08/03/15 09:27 AM |
| 8 | Lately I've found: Girls want to get laid but not make the decision consciously.Right on point with the movie example. Tell her what youre going to do. They dont like to think, and being led by takes away that. It ends up saying: "It just happened". | /r/TheRedPill | 04/03/15 01:36 PM |
| 4 | Quick-and-dirty tips and tricks for aspiring alphasHow to set bundaries Handling shit tests Scalating pecking order Communication Winging Girls, ex, plates. Who has the call of a girl, the one who sees it first or the one that makes a move first? Favors When to look for other friends. When to let some red pill or alpha concepts to them. How to support a bro in life, girl problems, etc ETC | /r/TheRedPill | 04/03/15 01:32 PM |
| 2 | Quick-and-dirty tips and tricks for aspiring alphasMan this guidelines is just what I needed this days. Even though I know most of them its easy to make a mistake when youre not constatly reminded. This should be read daily. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/03/15 01:08 AM |
| 3 | Be or Act Confident.I have a sincere question: are you brad pitt? | /r/TheRedPill | 04/03/15 12:54 AM |
| 5 | Be or Act Confident.High risk, high reward. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/03/15 12:53 AM |
| 1 | Suddenly, most of my friends are betasMy friends doesnt even open. They rely on someone introducing them to the girl, or not even go outside their social circles. They really don't know how fun is to open and play with all that exciting complexity. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/03/15 07:09 PM |
| 1 | Suddenly, most of my friends are betasMy friends doesnt even open. They rely on someone introducing them to the girl, or not even go outside their social circles. They really don't know how fun is to open and play with all that exciting complexity. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/03/15 07:09 PM |
| 1 | Suddenly, most of my friends are betasMatter of fact is when you are not viewed as alpha and want to escalate in the pecking order the other dudes will try to get you down. Most people want to be the leader in the group so they wont let you easy if you dont have a consistent alpha setting. With this said, people will probably try to backstab you when you are developing yourself. Thats what I ment. This so called Alphas will try to capture the hottest one at your cost. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/03/15 12:17 PM |
| 10 | Suddenly, most of my friends are betasCertainly, my friends should not be losers. Blue pill dudes with above average SMV work, but alphas tend to backstab because of their ego. In my experience they usually don’t work well in a group because they want the hottest one. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/03/15 04:25 PM |
| 47 | Suddenly, most of my friends are betasI thought about telling him what he is doing wrong but I don’t because of two things: 1) He wouldn’t accept it. Coming from me, an all-time beta which had no success with girls in high school. Giving him advice? Nah. He has to see it. 2) He’s my friend, but also my competition. Maybe this is selfish. But do I really want guys to start playing the alpha game in my surroundings? Hell no. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/03/15 03:36 PM |
| 2 | Life isn’t a fucking movie. So state your intentions from the beginning.Thats called a rejection. Rejection is part of the game. Move on. Practice your game. Never become and orbiter, NEVER. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/15 01:00 PM |
| 1 | Life isn’t a fucking movie. So state your intentions from the beginning.This is not about love, its about attraction. When you meet her and you are attracted to her (AKA: want to tap that ass) but you dont make your intentions clear you are lying to her and yourself. You dont get inlove with a girl you are not attracted. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/15 12:58 PM |
| 1 | Life isn’t a fucking movie. So state your intentions from the beginning.Hate it then. Women will mostly drain your resources, even more so now that she knows you got the feels for her. Maybe you will end up fixing her car, plugging her tv, being an emotional tampon, picking her up... for what? you aint gonna get pussy, never. Decide upon that. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/15 12:50 PM |
| 1 | Life isn’t a fucking movie. So state your intentions from the beginning.I agree with most of you, probably most girls know consciously or subconsciously that you want to get your dick wet. But this is not about freeing them from responsibility, it’s about taking responsibility when you don’t get your intentions clear, and if you have made them clear then it’s your choice to stay (and be a pussy) or grab your balls and leave. Ranting about how these bitches know in some devilish way what your plan is and still manipulate you is what keeps the anger alive. Break free … | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/15 12:41 PM |
| 3 | Life isn’t a fucking movie. So state your intentions from the beginning.If you are awkward then you need to work on your game skills and confidence (body language, tonality, humor, etc). Thats it. Its still better to be awkward, as you say, than to be a pussy ass orbiter wasting time, money and emotions in a girl that wont give you what you want. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/02/15 07:19 PM |
| 6 | Recovering From OneitisYES. Be carefull with anger, it will help speed the process at first, but if its not handled well it will have you in the copilot seat for a long ass time. Thanks for both quotes. Nice analysis. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/02/15 06:01 PM |
| 1 | Advice and suggestions for a new guy?Whenever I remember Ill tell myself before approaching the girl: "im so charming you cannot reject me". | /r/askTRP | 23/02/15 01:46 PM |
| 1 | Becoming more confidenthttp://youtu.be/Ks-_Mh1QhMc | /r/askTRP | 23/02/15 01:41 PM |
| 1 | Becoming more confidentFake it till you make it. | /r/askTRP | 21/02/15 03:13 PM |
| 1 | Tests to see if a girl is LTR material?Shit, This is genious. This is why my ex bitch did some pretty fucked up things and she didnt had any remorse at all. Her father is a boat driver and wasnt around most of the time when she was little. This makes complete sense now. | /r/askTRP | 20/02/15 05:29 PM |
| 2 | how to be more of a positive person?“Every man carries the weight of the world on his shoulders. From the frustration for not being able to find a job. To the weight of lethargy, from not being able to sleep at night with that new born baby. To the weight of rage, for that bitch that betrayed you, even though you gave her your heart. And worst of all, is the weight of carrying the fact, that you know you’re not living up to the strength that is in you. Not being the strongest version of yourself. All of these resistances accumulat… | /r/askTRP | 17/01/15 04:34 PM |
| 1 | I want to lift. I'm skinny as fuck.Practice free weights (squats, deadlifts, press, etc). Keep the workouts quick, no more than one our. Buy a protein shake and creatine. Drink lots of water. Rest as much as you can. AND eat till you cant eat anymore, buy oats, quinoa, almonds or any other dense carbohydrate. Try to drink one gallon of whole milk a day. Be patient, this will take time. | /r/askTRP | 17/01/15 04:29 PM |
| 1 | I have improved my life immensely, But I still can't approach and can't seem to shake my beta ways. Looking for advice. (sorta rant)Do comfort zone challenges. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/01/15 01:15 AM |
| 1 | Getting over an ex while you currently have no women and are in self improvement mode?Listen to this guy OP. Do not drown yourself in alcohol. Go out sober, force yourself to meet new people. Hit on as many girls as you can. It’s going to be though, at first, but this will help you to destroy the oneitis you may have. And most importantly UNFOLLOW and DELETE. Throw away anything that reminds you of her even though you won’t feel like it, realize this is for you. Pictures, presents or music that reminds you of her should be avoided or deleted. If you do not do any of this the pain… | /r/askTRP | 09/01/15 01:42 PM |
| 1 | Friction with friends since taking RPI dont have the speed of mind to make a joke without coming off ofended. Ive tried ignoring but it makes it worse, cause its a green flag to keep fucking around. | /r/askTRP | 08/01/15 08:33 PM |
| 1 | Friction with friends since taking RP24 my friend. | /r/askTRP | 08/01/15 08:31 PM |
| 1 | Living with an LTRIm in need of a "be emotionaly unavaliable" example. | /r/askTRP | 08/01/15 04:45 PM |
| -1 | I cum too earlyImagine a fat old lady puking. Every detail. It will reduce excitement. | /r/askTRP | 08/01/15 02:37 PM |
| 1 | It's hard to lift when you're content.I probably woudnt be dating her. Unless i hated the guy. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/15 07:26 PM |
| 0 | I'm on my period.I usually keep scalating till i can get my hand in her pussy, if it has that diper thing i know its truth. If not, i rush it in. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/15 02:57 PM |
| 1 | It's hard to lift when you're content.You should deploy that anger into the bar. Tell her shes a cunt, her mother sucks dick and you are gonna rape her with your strenght. This will hype you up. Adrenaline rush. Lift that shit or die trying. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/15 02:45 PM |
| 1 | A Woman's Thoughts on What a Whore IsBasically its about SMV as you say it. If being abobe average or alpha is good for her standards she will most likely spread her legs if the guy runs his game right. Meaning, she is an "abobe average whore" or an "alpha whore". In the end it seems they all are whores. Then why there must be a "respectable woman"? Thus there is not such a thing girl who is a LTR material. Here lays my doubt. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/15 01:45 PM |
| 2 | I feel even less connected to reality after TRP. Vent post.You are going through the pain period. Think of it this way: when you excersice, the fibre of your muscles brake and they hurt for a while. People that exercise know this pain and they love it because it is a sign they are making progress. When the pain goes away they have gotten stronger. Feel this pain, love it, because it is a journey that wont last forever and will teach you that at your core you are becoming stronger. Always maintain a positive horizon, force yourself. If you dont get out o… | /r/askTRP | 07/01/15 01:08 PM |
| 1 | Fucking early is red flag for LTR?It sounds as a matter of logistics only. In the city i live people tend to live with theire parents, so being alone in a room is not that easy. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/15 01:46 AM |
| 1 | Fucking early is red flag for LTR?Women are afraid of being called sluts. Many women i know when presented with a possible LTR material will pretend not to be a slut because they are afraid of becoming just a "plate". So they will not lay down sex "early" and according to RP you should next her ass. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/15 01:24 AM |
| 1 | Fucking early is red flag for LTR?So how much time dating is not "early fucking" to make you think she is not a slut? There might be a problem between being sexual upfront or not doing it and entering the friendzone. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/15 01:16 AM |
| 1 | Fucking early is red flag for LTR?Alright no first date fucking. How about 3rd? or 10th? Slut? "Early" seems to be more complex than that. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/15 01:13 AM |
| 1 | Fucking early is red flag for LTR?Why does not getting along with other women a red flag? | /r/askTRP | 07/01/15 01:11 AM |
| 1 | Fucking early is red flag for LTR?What kind of flags should i look for if one is 19 and other 25? Do they differ same as age? | /r/askTRP | 07/01/15 01:09 AM |
| 1 | Fucking early is red flag for LTR?Your explanation makes sense and I agreed with it at first. Then I thought… OK. What if you are not average? What if you’re an alpha? Then she fucks this one’s, meaning if they run their according game on her she will probably fuck them. Same thing, she might be a “more than average slut” or an “alpha slut”. So, there might be two options: they are all sluts or not into you. Thus there is not such a thing girl who is a LTR material. Here lays my doubt. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/15 01:04 AM |
| 1 | I thought I was over an LTR of 3 yearsEven years later? I woudnt stand seeing her in a party with another dude years later and having the feels. Now its unconfortable and usualy i leave. I hoped years after it wouldnt matter. | /r/askTRP | 06/01/15 12:42 PM |
| 2 | How to MAN THE FUCK UP?Dude, everybody told you not to rely on alcohol. When you text about important things you are hiding (preferably call or do it in person). Even worse, your message beggs for her to accept you. An alpha woudnt do that, he would say what he wants. Show her what YOU want or what WILL happen so she will decide. Girls like to be lead. You may have a long road to "man the fuck up". Its gonna be hard, if its not, your not doing it right. Search for the confortzone challenges, i can bet money they will … | /r/askTRP | 06/01/15 12:28 PM |
| 1 | Alpha... Woman? Help.Read and re-read the "Shittest encyclopedia". | /r/askTRP | 06/01/15 03:59 AM |
| 1 | How to handle ex GF and communicationDude what the fuck. You think you were a beta but you are still acting like one. You should have nexted her ass long time ago. If it still affects you that she is with another dude then you where being a beta while talking to her. HARD NEXT. | /r/askTRP | 06/01/15 03:17 AM |
| 2 | How to MAN THE FUCK UP?Do some confort zone challenges. You can look them up online. I did Simple30 and it helped the "man the fuck up" thing. | /r/askTRP | 05/01/15 08:10 PM |
| 1 | Why do women lose sexual value as their partner count increases?Acoording to RP advice we should not waste time, be honest and show the girl that we want to fuck. If she doesnt want to fuck then you next her cause she is wasting your time, money and energy. In the end you only keep around the ones you can fuck. That means you keep the sluts (plates)? How do you get a gf then? | /r/askTRP | 05/01/15 08:03 PM |
| 1 | Is it worth going back to a former cheating ex to rub in your success?It may seem like a great idea, but whenever you do something for revenge or with this kind of emotion its not good for you. Let her go. Move on. Dedicate this energy to show someone better the success you have, dont waste it by showing it to someone that wont bring you happiness. | /r/askTRP | 05/01/15 07:28 PM |
| 2 | How to MAN THE FUCK UP?You man the fuck up by trial and error. Take risks sober, you will learn much more. | /r/askTRP | 05/01/15 07:22 PM |
| 1 | I thought I was over an LTR of 3 yearsI now what you mean. Broke up around 6 months ago. Red pill and no contact has helped alot but when i get reminded of her it still triggers some unconfortable emotions. Its all about really letting go. The feeling will pop up from time to time but you dont have to identify with it or give it more thought, just let it go. As time goes by it gets easier so i know it will eventualy pass, as all things do. This might help: http://youtu.be/USC5MJVZLy8?list=LLb-FThjzCtYq24DdXWVPdHg | /r/askTRP | 05/01/15 07:00 PM |
| 2 | I thought I was over an LTR of 3 yearsYou sound like you may have oneitis. You can get over her by hard nexting. Cut off all contact. Find support in male friends or family. Practice mindfull meditation. You will be allright. | /r/askTRP | 05/01/15 03:45 PM |
| 2 | When picking up, where do you bring a girl back to when you don't have your own place?Buy a big car and give her the D there. | /r/askTRP | 05/01/15 12:53 PM |
| -1 | Some confusion...RP isn't "pick up" (PUA) right?I think reading "Models" by Mark Manson is gonna answer your doubt. Its about being honest and vulnerable. No PUA game. Go straight to her and be honest. "I like your eyes" "I like your ass" But dont be too attached to the outcome, you should be so confident (RP) that she can feel that whether she rejects you or not you are so confident it will not matter. | /r/askTRP | 05/01/15 12:26 PM |
| 1 | No gym near me, how to lift"Kettlebels" are your best option. They dont need much space. Also they are cheap in relation to a barbel and some considerable weight plates. Buy them in pairs and different weights. (55 pounds is what your goal must be) There are a ton of tutorials on Youtube on hundred different ways to use them. Look for CrossFit workouts that have them. They will improve youre mass, balance, coordination and stamina if you use them right. | /r/askTRP | 05/01/15 12:19 PM |
| 1 | Moving on from old gf. Pretty alpha but struggling like a beta.I feel you. Mindfull meditation has helped me alot with the repetitive thoughts. Try it out. I highly recomend 15 min a day everyday. | /r/askTRP | 30/12/14 06:32 PM |
| 1 | Moving on from old gf. Pretty alpha but struggling like a beta.Dude, im going through the same case here. She broke it up and now im killing the oneitis. You have to keep doing what youre doing and stop comparing other girls to your ex. Maybe you have things on your phone or social networks or in your room or people ask that remind you of her, erase or throw away everything and stop talking about her. The less you get reminded of her the easier will be to kill the oneitis. Keep fucking until you find another one that clicks. But dont go around expecting wom… | /r/askTRP | 30/12/14 05:19 PM |
| 1 | Moving on from old gf. Pretty alpha but struggling like a beta.Its simple. You have oneitis. To cure it by fucking ten other girls. Never go back to oneitis, never. | /r/askTRP | 30/12/14 03:01 PM |
| 1 | Girl went crazy, do i next?Maintaining frame is still difficult for me as i recall how things have been. Any tips? I made this post to figure out if i can spin this plate longer, but things went emotional from her side and as other users have said its because of the frame loss. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/14 01:10 PM |
| 1 | Girl went crazy, do i next?From the start i knew she was only for sex. Its good distraction while approaching other girls. But i realize i lost frame long time ago. Thing is i still find it difficult to maintain mine. How can i improve this? | /r/askTRP | 29/12/14 01:07 PM |
| 1 | Girl went crazy, do i next?Yeah me failing the shittests sounds like the cause things whent out of control. I still have trouble maintaining frame cause i dont really understand the concept fully so while interacting i cant decide where not to go. Ive read "shittest encyclopedia" and its helpfull. Any other reathing that would help maintain frame or understand it better? | /r/askTRP | 29/12/14 01:01 PM |
| 1 | How to meet up with an old ex for sexIts obvious you still care for her. I recomend not doing this. If she notices you and shows intentions for you then go with the flow. If not, you will fall back to old patterns cause she knows you. Invest that energy in new girls. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/14 04:22 PM |
| 1 | What did your first relationship feel likeMy first relationship got me here. It made me question why she broke up with me if i was doing all things "the right way", trying to be the best boyfriend i could be. After many months of frustration and no answer to be found i stumbled on TRP and someone gave me an enlightening advice. I finally understood the Beta i was and the female mind. Since then ive been taking TRP daily. Im thanfull to her for that, even though that wasnt her intention. | /r/askTRP | 23/12/14 02:48 PM |
| 1 | Possible LTR still talking to her ex of 5 years.What you say is if she has sex with you without commitment she is a plate and no longer LTR material? | /r/askTRP | 22/12/14 05:23 PM |
| 1 | I feel like I always need to know where my girlfriend is all the time.Sounds like you got oneitis. You have fear of loosing her. Focus on developing an abundance mindset and never be afraid to walk away. | /r/askTRP | 22/12/14 04:42 PM |
| 2 | I come off too platonic when I go on dates... Advice needed.The easiest way ive found to start kino early in the interaction is to get into a sport/gym/diet conversation. Girls are always worried about being fat. So, you start to be playfull and make fun of her biceps or legs or bellyfat or cheeks and proceed to touch or tickle those areas. Be aware of what her reaction is, you have to transmit a playfull vibe. You are making fun of her but you can also make fun of you too to leverage things if she is not that receptive. This helps you to escalate furthe… | /r/askTRP | 22/12/14 01:56 PM |
| 1 | Girl being flaky, how do I react?In my experience this girls dont come back around. Recently i got an escenario like this. Girl had many options too. After 2nd date she got distant to confirm the 3rd. Usualy i text them a month later to see "whats up". Maybe thats the time the "other option" failed for her. I guess thats what you mean by "soft next" too. | /r/askTRP | 20/12/14 07:06 PM |
| 2 | 'Why Breaking Mr. Nice Guy’s Heart May Be The Best Decision Of Your Life — And His'This kinds of things, the things that force you to change, build the layers of a better and stronger version of yourself. Im thankfull to my ex for opening my eyes, even though that may not have been her intention. Every rejection, every situation that makes you unconfortable, should be taken as a learning experience. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/12/14 05:07 PM |
| 1 | I'm a fit guy that can only attract overweight women. and I contribute to hypergamy by sleeping with them because I have no other options. I do it because the lack of sex gets to me.Rejection is part of the game. | /r/askTRP | 20/12/14 02:41 AM |
| 1 | Just dumped gf of two months. Feel pretty good.I guess before entering the LTR it may be acceptable that she has guy friends, like most hot girls i suppose. But once she starts a LTR with you, you should tell her to stop that? She might drop the: "why are you telling me this now?" and you might end up like a jeallous bitch. My last gf had two close high school friends (i dont consider them orbiters) and said to like to hang around her guyfriends more than girlfriends cause "women are too bitchy" (im not saying i agree women and men can be fr… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/12/14 05:39 PM |
| 6 | Just dumped gf of two months. Feel pretty good.I dont. Im asking because thats why i had jeallousy issuies with last gf. Too many guy friends. How can i handle this? or, as a red flag, just never turn a girl with lots of guy friends into a gf? | /r/TheRedPill | 18/12/14 02:01 PM |
| 11 | Just dumped gf of two months. Feel pretty good.Girls having guy friends is always a red flag? | /r/TheRedPill | 18/12/14 01:19 PM |
| 1 | Thanks for the strength against onenitisHad the same type of girlfriend, but didnt had the balls to ditch her because i had made her my oneitis. Sucked. Later she dumped me, it was obvious. Shes challenging you, too see how much you value yourself to accept this kind of treatment. Its a like big shit test, but you handled it well. If i would change something it will be to end it like that. Maintaining power. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/14 03:38 PM |
| 2 | First date. I seek advice.Avoid "analysis paralysis". | /r/askTRP | 16/12/14 05:04 PM |
| 1 | Forced to see my ex-girlfriend (oneitis)Update: Reframing things made it easier yesterday. Literally reminding myself the attention she gave me is because she is feeling bad about herself and not because she wants me back made me stop the overthinking. (If i think about it, she has never approached me in class) Im still mad though, gotta work on that. But overall i became more myself. Thanks. Got one doubt still. I didnt erased her from anything, neither did i blocked her phone number. I never check her out in any social network. The … | /r/askTRP | 16/12/14 04:35 PM |
| 1 | How long is too long after getting a girl's number to ask her out?Dude, stop the texting. Next time you get a phone number call her to set up a meeting. Tell her directly what youre plan is without asking for permission, if she doesnt like it she will tell you and you can say another option. In this case it works too, call her, but dont talk for more than 5 minutes. Be fun from the beginning and then invite her out. Good luck. | /r/askTRP | 16/12/14 04:16 PM |
| 2 | Forced to see my ex-girlfriend (oneitis)Nailed it. Its evident im pissed because i feel i did all things as good as i possibly could and it still didnt turned up. Im pissed really with myself, wich i know is wrong but hard to digest. It was sort of a fairy tale relationship at first, but only for me. Beta all the way. Dealing with that has got to be my greatest challenges about this. I figured out the way of killing my "obsession" or "love" towards her was with anger, but now i realize its been fucking me up. The right way is as you a… | /r/askTRP | 15/12/14 09:02 PM |
| 2 | (FR) Rapid escalation success. LMR Fail. Thougths appreciated.That is the mentality. No urgency. If you get her down to have sex and on the last minute you are the one who says no that will guarantee you possibly the best sex of youre life. She will be so down because you where the one that postponed it that she wont stop thinking about you. True fucking story. Hard shit but it works. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/12/14 07:20 PM |
| 1 | (FR) Rapid escalation success. LMR Fail. Thougths appreciated.I agree. Had the same scenario this friday. This girl gives every sign of attraction. Kiss on second date. She stops my physical escalation and starts shit testing like crazy. Third date. Got her to my room (all cirucumstances led to have sex), got her drinking and she even laid down in my bed with me. Then a simple kiss was a challenge, she woudnt even keep it for more than 1 second. I said: what the fuck. Shes 27. Im 24. Tried a couple times more then got tired and drove her home and thought o… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/12/14 07:15 PM |
| 1 | "Tell Me."Use statements instead of questions. Commands might find some confrontation. Statements are fun and work everytime. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/12/14 03:34 PM |
| 3 | Nickname game to help pull a plate into my frameNickname game does create a bonding with a girl. I use it mainly to tease them. Whenever i talk to them on the phone or by text its extremely good to start the conversation using the nickname. It puts them in a fun vibe and makes them remember the good times we had together. Its easier for me to go back to a fun frame when a nickname is used regularly. Keeps conversations out of boredom. Also improves the idea of using a "us mentality" in wich she gets sucked to the reality you are creating for … | /r/TheRedPill | 13/12/14 09:02 PM |
| 6 | If you're not where you need to be in your head, you can't make girls your friendsCant be more real than what you just said. Pussy dries instantly you can even hear it. Its tough shit to know you cant relly you`re problems on a girlfriend, they seem to care but deep down they get turned off as fuck. During my last relationship i got robbed about 3 times and i felt eventually she felt pity about it, i acted unperturbable but they smell the facade. Its about acting as if you cant be broken down at all costs. Never showing weakness. Never surrendering to emotional troubles. It g… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/12/14 08:52 PM |
| 1 | I've always wanted to hate the idea of this sub... but today I finally realised just how The Red Pill way is, and always has been, the correct waythe realization of where you fucked up is eye opening, but why not go back to red pill acting once you realized you where going the wrong way? i did the same thing when she dumped me, went no contact explaining that i had feelings to deal with. i was an emotional turmoil. no red pill to swallow then. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/12/14 01:51 PM |
| 1 | I've always wanted to hate the idea of this sub... but today I finally realised just how The Red Pill way is, and always has been, the correct wayThose two examples illustrate the bad road perfectly. It rings so many bells about my past relationship, from being grounded to flying like a butterfly. As it is supposed to in the end she ripped the wings off and i realized i had been going the wrong way. This types of things are truly learning experiences, this mistakes is what makes us find and swallow the red pill with a fucking smile. I made the mistake to beat me down for being such a pussy but sometimes getting mad snaps you into reality.… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/14 03:36 PM |
| 1 | Nexting oneitis has got to be one of the hardest thing to do for a recovering beta.Im in an almost identical case here. But slaying oneitis while seeing her at school everyday is some though shit. Im improving since taking the red pill. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/12/14 05:07 PM |
| 2 | No Contact GameWhat if she dumped you and you still have to see her in class every day? This was 4 months ago. At first she tried to contact me, but i stated that ill be going no contact. Now she is showing signs of missing me so im getting mindfucked again. Just seeing her in class evokes a mix of being angry and nostalgic. This has proven to be one of my biggest challenges and it gives me the opportunity to learn alot about myself. But still, im need for some guidance. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/12/14 02:46 PM |
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