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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 7 | Abundance mentality | ero_mode | /r/seduction | 23/04/18 09:58 PM | |
| 2 | Word association | ero_mode | /r/seduction | 17/08/15 06:18 PM | |
| 2 | Sarging in a mall or museum? | ero_mode | /r/seduction | 24/10/16 01:55 PM | |
| 2 | emotionally flat resting face | ero_mode | /r/seduction | 27/09/16 04:25 PM | |
| 2 | Any recommendations for speech improvement resources | ero_mode | /r/seduction | 12/07/16 10:55 AM | |
| 2 | the missing connection between eye contact and mirroring | ero_mode | /r/seduction | 18/08/16 12:23 AM | |
| 1 | Can pick up help with passion in other areas of life? | ero_mode | /r/seduction | 02/04/17 07:58 PM |
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| 1 | Left college dateless and probably headed to South Korea for a year. What to expect?I did nowhere close to 20, I simply didn't have the time for that many. I think the max I did in any given day was like 6. The defense rests So you put in time and energy into literally everything social other than actual pick up? 6 approaches a day is nothing if you're serious about pickup. You could easily get 10 approaches just from hired guns at your local mall. You had the time to join so many clubs you cannot remember them all, and attended a lot of events. But you couldn't figure out aimi… | /r/seduction | 12/12/24 07:45 PM |
| 1 | İ cant make eye contact, any advice?What worked for me. Go to an area you will not see anyone ever again, so like the downtown part of your city, and just make eye contact. No matter how big or small, whether you eyefuck them or glance for a second, you go there and you cannot return home until you've truly exhausted yourself. After that you should have something to build on in your day to day. So increase the number of eye contact reps and time you hold. Rinse and repeat. It may not be the best method but it is certainly foolproo… | /r/seduction | 12/12/24 04:58 PM |
| 3 | Left college dateless and probably headed to South Korea for a year. What to expect?Assuming you did at least 20 approaches a week in addition to all the above, the only way you have had zero success is that you have a terminal case of failed social calibration. | /r/seduction | 12/12/24 10:15 AM |
| 16 | How do i approach girls at the gym ?You don't. You don't risk becoming that guy. But obviously, if you get legitimate IOIs then you would probably use an indirect opener, like asking for a cable attachment and going on a tangent about gym equipment or something to see if the woman is actually receptive to a conversation. And while I say you don't want to become that guy, there are always exceptions to the rule. Like a couple months ago I shot my shot at a woman who had a body type and personalities I likely would not find easily. … | /r/seduction | 10/12/24 10:19 AM |
| 31 | I asked girls for directions today.Try to approach all types of people, not just attractive girls. It increases your "interrupting people's day" reps and normalizing that behavior by indiscriminately asking for directions from everyone. | /r/seduction | 28/03/21 09:28 PM |
| 5 | How To Practice Game At HomeYeah they're not going to get good results without in field experience but little steps matters too. It might not improve a practitioner's skill, but with consistency, it'll give confidence to approach and try things they ordinarily wouldn't. Part of the reason martial arts practitioners don't fight as a first response is because if a move is perfect in practice it might work in a real situation. So if these exercises lends confidence, composure and curiosity to someone that wouldn't approach an… | /r/seduction | 14/12/18 04:09 PM |
| 1 | Should I have a structured game before I start approaching?I don't have approach anxiety because, to me, talking to another human shouldn't be hard. It's the actual content of the conversation is another matter. For commonalities should I use statements rather than questions(unless the question is interesting and specific)? I heard statements can make the conversation's natural flow similar to a conversation between friends. | /r/seduction | 24/06/18 09:08 PM |
| 3 | Abundance mentalitySo in theory you could open any set or escalate (but not calibrate) effortlessly because you know you can walk away and start a new set with a similar girl. | /r/seduction | 23/04/18 10:36 PM |
| 3 | General sociability to improve gameConsidering the demographics of guys starting pickup, acting normal is actually a big difference when interacting with women. Even then I suggest heading into pickup immediately. By dispersing your attention among general social skills you will miss the initial high-speed growth period when you head into pickup. | /r/seduction | 23/04/18 09:08 PM |
| 3 | How can I reduce approach AnxietyIf you really believe everything will change once you make a successful approach then actually devote an afternoon or ideally a night to sarge. No different than anyone else really. Most men, throughout humanity, only met woman through warm leads so it's not unexpected that it feels like there's a divide but just act. Even in a small way and don't give up. Make it a goal to get ready and go to your local nightclub(assuming 21+), then another goal to ask someone for the directions to the place, t… | /r/seduction | 14/07/17 08:32 PM |
| 2 | Stop caring about her. Start caring about yourself.If there's someone you love so much you'll do anything for, make that person yourself - Harvey Specter | /r/TheRedPill | 23/09/15 05:31 PM |
| 1 | Word associationBasically using one word to get to another. The more you practice, the more appropriate topics you can talk about. Theres more information here: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Word_Association | /r/seduction | 17/08/15 08:15 PM |
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