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As a 20 year old woman who rarely gets male attention, I am scared that I’ll hit the wall before finding my future husband. And I would marry young if I had the choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 05:14 AM
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That’s true! Him not texting me isn’t a good sign, but I don’t want to give up just yet. I’m in a group chat with him as well and he barely ever checks it, and I also get the vibe that he’s not on his phone much. He also doesn’t use social media. I will drop some hints next time I see him. Thanks for the advice!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 07:25 PM
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He’s 22. It’s come up in conversation that he was awkward/shy as a kid. He’s had one girlfriend in the past, so I’m not sure if he’s still in the awkward/shy phase.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 06:59 PM
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Thank you! I haven’t seen the guy in three weeks now (home for college winter break). I’ve initiated texts with him but he hasn’t initiated any with me, so it’s a bit disappointing. However, he seems to show interest in person which is really confusing to me. I like him a lot so I don’t want to give up until I’m certain he’s not interested. I know a couple who met on a Christian dating app. I’m open to giving those a try!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 01:53 PM
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Thank you so much, this is very helpful! I’ll definitely look to join eharmony sometime in 2023 if I continue to have no luck with guys I like in real life. Hinge is another solid choice too, I’d choose that over bumble or tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 01:50 PM
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I’ve tried making him aware by initiating text conversations with him (three of them), but he’s never initiated them with me, so I’ve given up for the time being. In person, he does approach me and show interest to some extent, so I’m really confused. I never see him approach other girls from my church like he approaches me, but I’m not sure if he’s just being nice since I’m one of the newer members of the church.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 01:45 PM
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I’ve initiated multiple text conversations with him (three times now), and he’s never initiated these with me, so I’ve given up. However he does seem to show some interest when I’m with him in person. There have been multiple instances where he approached me and sat next to me when he could’ve sat anywhere, and he often asks me questions to get to know me better. I don’t know if he’s just being nice, but he’s approached me for conversations IRL in the past. I’m so confused about him, I feel like…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 01:23 PM
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As a traditional conservative girl (20f), I’m considering getting on dating apps if I continue to have zero luck with the guys I’m interested in. My goal is to meet a guy in person, and there’s a guy from my church that I really like. However, he hasn’t made any moves meaning he probably doesn’t like me back. If my luck doesn’t change in the next 3-6 months, I’ll join match.com or eharmony. I’m skeptical of the typical dating apps that people my age tend to use.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 01:22 AM
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Thank you so much girl❤️ We broke up 6 months ago, but he told me the other day (when we met up for closure) that I’m ever so slightly under a 5 with the potential to be up to a 6. Also, there is a girl he knows that I’ve seen a photo of, and he said that I’m about the same as her looks wise. However, I objectively KNOW that I’m better looking than her (she was borderline ugly, and I’m about average). I feel like he’s just trying to bring me down. Being with him destroyed any sense of self confi…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 11:12 PM
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Before I dated my ex, I thought I was slightly above average. That whole relationship humbled me and now I realize I’m average/ever so slightly below average. I have potential looks wise, but my acne is just holding me back.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 04:25 PM
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I asked my ex to be brutally honest with me, and he said I’m ever so slightly under a 5 (like a 4.9). He said that if my acne cleared up (it’s a major annoyance, but not severe), I’d be a 6.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 04:23 PM
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I honestly wish an average guy would date me. I’m an average looking woman and my ex left me over my looks. I haven’t received male attention since. I COULD get attention online if I tried but I’m still waiting for the day when a guy likes me IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 04:22 AM
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Yes definitely, if you’re like me you can’t even GET a partner. I’m an average looking college student (20f) but guys just don’t give me the time of day. My last (and only) relationship ended because he wasn’t attracted to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 02:55 PM
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Thank you so much, it’s so nice to know that someone relates to me. Your sympathy means a lot! I’m so glad things turned out great for you, and I won’t be giving up! I’m planning on trying online dating if my luck with guys in person doesn’t change soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 05:32 AM
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Exactly! I just really miss the companionship of having a man. I have a really strong desire for the love and companionship that comes with being in a relationship. There’s a feeling of emptiness that comes from being single, that even the closest of friends can’t fill unfortunately (at least that’s how it is for me).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 05:30 AM
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Guys simply don’t like me unfortunately. I’ve had many crushes but they just never like me back. If my luck doesn’t change within the next few months, I’ll try online dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 05:28 AM
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No guy has ever asked me on a date or asked for my number, at least IRL. I’ve only dated one guy and we met online. All of the guys I’m referring to in my comment are just crushes I’ve had within my social circles (school, work, church, sports). None of those crushes have ever gone anywhere (none have ever liked me back, unfortunately). Edit: It’s also easier for me to develop an attraction once I know the guy better! It’s always in a group setting/with mutual friends. I’m never one on one with …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 05:24 AM
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Never right away, I usually start to develop attraction toward a guy a couple weeks to a couple months after meeting him. Every guy I’ve ever liked I didn’t find that attractive at first sight. It’s interesting!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 04:58 AM
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Thank you so much for this! I have been single for a while now and my happiness has certainly declined. I just don’t feel fulfilled the way I used to when I was in a relationship. I tell everyone I wish I had a man, but everyone tells me “you don’t need a man, you don’t need to rely on a man for happiness, be an independent woman!” If they could only understand how much being with someone can actually make you so much happier. Every day I dream of marriage because it is my biggest desire in life…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 03:08 PM
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I relate to you so much, I’m also 20F and a virgin (have kissed one guy). I was recently made fun of by one of my classmates for being a virgin. People treat me differently for being a virgin. One of my roommates hooked up with a guy, and told my other roommate all of the details of the hookup (she doesn’t know I overheard the convo). When she later told me about it, she said they only kissed. She knows I’m a virgin, and I’m convinced that’s why she didn’t tell me the full story. I’m a college s…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 11:55 PM
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Women also face lots of difficulties with dating, no doubt about it. I have friends who have been rejected by many guys, and others who have never once received male attention. If you’re not above average looks wise, it’s not easy (coming from someone who was told she’s a 5😭)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 02:40 AM
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No, just because I only want a serious relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 08:16 PM
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Why am I a girl who feels like she has to try and “win over” every guy she’s ever liked? Is this just a sign of being unattractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 09:22 PM
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Hey, know you’re not alone here!❤️ I’m so sorry you’re going through this. I’m also a college student and I don’t drink, party, or have casual sex. I also don’t have a boyfriend. So I’m in the same boat. I know that those like us are less common and harder to find, but know that there are others out there who are like you. I’m a new Christian, and joining a church and a campus ministry helped me find likeminded people with the same values. I’d also recommend trying to make friends with women who…
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/22 05:57 PM
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No, lol!😂 Hits hard, meaning I related SO much with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 04:18 AM
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The baseball game analogy REALLY hits hard. Both of my roommates in college and all of my close friends from home have boyfriends… then there’s me. I’m just waiting and waiting and waiting… it feels like I’ll always be waiting. I’ve never been asked out. No guy has ever asked for my number or Snapchat. I’m ignored and invisible to men. I feel like I literally have to start asking guys out, even though I know I’ll be rejected. I dated one guy, so I have one ex. We met on a discord server, so I ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 06:19 AM
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I am very interested in finding a partner, but ideally I want to meet someone in person rather than online. There’s someone I’m interested in from my church so I want to pursue him before trying out dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 04:23 PM
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I’m about average looking. I’ve been in college for 3 months now and no guy has asked me out or asked for my snap/phone number. Guys in my social circles act nice to me but only because they are nice people (they treat all girls of all attractiveness levels the same). I also struggle with my social skills, so it is a possibility that guys are showing interest and I can’t tell. But I’ve had pretty much zero luck with guys all my life. I also have no idea how to flirt or show interest when I like …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 08:44 PM
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I do NOT want casual sex (I am waiting for marriage). But even if I wanted casual sex, I wouldn’t be able to get it as I’ve received basically no male attention all my life. I could have luck with online dating, but in person, I’m basically invisible to men (19f in college btw).
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 05:19 PM
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You are by FAR exaggerating how much attention these women are getting. I know many very attractive women, and they each have maybe 3-5 guys throwing themselves at her. Idk where you’re getting “hundreds” from… Average women I know have MAYBE one option. Women having endless options is a complete and total myth. I talk to and know many women in real life, of all attractiveness levels, and a good amount of them struggle to date and find the right guy. Dating is MUCH harder for women than you real…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 07:03 PM
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Thank you so much, I appreciate it!
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/22 04:20 AM
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Thank you so much for the helpful advice! I've spent time with him in a group setting. He let me borrow his extra shirt when it was cold out and asked me if I was cold a couple times throughout the night. That interaction gave me hope, but after seeing how he interacts with others, I realized he would've done the same thing if it was any other girl. He's just a kind person. The social circle I share with him includes only one other girl, and she's not single (dating another guy in our same circl…
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/22 03:32 AM
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I'm definitely thinking about approaching men, since I can't keep waiting like this! I told myself that I'll try OLD if the semester ends and I still haven't had any luck. I'm still scarred from my ex (that I met online), so ideally I want to meet a guy in person. But I won't be ruling out OLD.
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/22 03:10 AM
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My friend actually downloaded Bumble on my phone and made me a profile a couple weeks after my ex and I broke up. I got a good amount of matches, but only because she chose the best looking pictures I had of myself. My side profile is bad and she didn't include any pics of my side profile!
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/22 03:07 AM
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That's okay, I should've mentioned it earlier! I go to a 4 year university and I'm trying to get my bachelor's degree to become a registered dietician. It's a medium sized public school (~14,000 students), but the social environment isn't that great here (hard to make friends).
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/22 03:05 AM
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I'm about average weight, I'm 5'5" and weigh 135-140ish. People say I look a lot lighter than that, as a lot of it is muscle weight (I'm a d1 college athlete). I should've mentioned this in my post though!
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/22 02:52 AM
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I’m 5’5” and between 135-140 (people say I look lighter than that lol, bc a lot of it is muscle weight). My female friends are telling me that I’ll have good success with dating apps, but I want to meet a guy IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 11:17 PM
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I’m athletic/muscular (college athlete) and about average weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 06:33 PM
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I have one in my hometown and I’ll check it out :)
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/22 07:12 PM
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That’s true, things can change and I’m definitely still young. I feel like I come out to be around average, but it’s hard to know for sure!
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/22 07:12 PM
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Thank you so much for your comment, kindness, and helpful advice! Sorry for my late reply! I feel like I’m very similar to you based on how you described yourself! I’m on the quieter side and I’ve always struggled with shyness. I’m low maintenance appearance wise too. I have never dyed my hair, don’t any wear makeup (except for concealer on acne sometimes), and can literally be ready to go out within 5 minutes of waking up. I also have some female friends who I’m described as more attractive tha…
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/22 07:06 PM
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Thank you so much for your helpful comment and advice <3 I’m sorry for my late reply! Your points really get me thinking, and I’m honestly not too kind to myself. I’m definitely hard on myself and criticize myself a lot, which is not good. I definitely need to be more kind to myself like you said. I’m damaging my own self worth with all of my negative self talk. If I’m more kind to myself, I’m sure that others will see a positive difference in me too! I will definitely work on this and make a po…
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/22 06:54 PM
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Hello, and I’m sorry for the late reply! I’m so sorry you went through these struggles with your nose, it is so cruel that people made hurtful comments like that. Thank you so much for sharing your story, and I’m so glad you’re doing much better now! :) I’m so happy that you found love and were able to improve yourself! I definitely need to develop confidence, work on myself, and take my chances with guys. I’ve never pursued a guy as I’m fearful of rejection and lack some of the necessary social…
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/22 06:44 PM
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Guys just aren’t interested in me, plain and simple. Maybe it’s my looks, maybe it’s my awkwardness, I don’t know. I’m a college student and you’d think this is the easiest time to find a guy, but for me it’s seemingly impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 03:46 AM
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Hello! Thank you so much for your kind comment, it really made my day! You're so sweet and it really means a lot to me <3 Your advice really resonated with me and I will take it all to heart. I definitely need to stop being so unkind to myself and treat myself how I'd like others to treat me, and like my own best friend :) I'll work on learning to love myself (nose included) for sure! I need to think of my strong qualities that a guy will one day see in me. While some guys (like my ex) seem to o…
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/22 02:42 AM
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Hello! Thank you so much for your comment, advice, and kindness! :) It really means a lot and I'll take it to heart. I need to remember that I'm young and still have lots of time to improve myself (which I often forget). It really helps hearing that you've gone through something similar, and I'm so glad that you're doing much better now! Good luck to you too, and thanks again :)
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/22 12:46 AM
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I'm happy to hear that you feel more confident now as a result! :)
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/22 12:39 PM
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Thank you for your perspective, it definitely gets me thinking! I need to work on my confidence and outlook for sure.
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/22 12:38 PM
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Thank you so much, I really appreciate it! :) He was very insecure and immature, although he'd never admit it. He was rating himself a 6 while telling me that my face was a 5. He'd often compliment himself about his own abs/looks/muscles, but wouldn't tell me I'm beautiful. I'm holding out hope that I'll find someone much, much better one day.
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/22 12:35 PM
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Thank you so much for your comment and insight! It's definitely helpful hearing the perspective of someone who did go through with the nose job, and who also shared many of the same struggles as me. I'm so happy to hear that you feel much more confident and attractive now as a result! :) Some days my nose bothers me more than others. Some days I feel like I'm just overthinking it, and some days I genuinely fear that my nose will prevent me from finding a man. I'm holding out hope that one day I'…
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/22 12:32 PM
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Thank you so much for your helpful comment, insight, and advice! The negativity bias is super accurate. I barely ever think about the two guys who had a crush on me, but I constantly think about how my ex left me over my looks (and the guys who called me ugly in high school, which I forgot to mention in this post). The takeaways and observations you provide are super accurate and helpful. I'll definitely work on my outlook and perspective as the negativity bias is affecting me a lot. Thanks agai…
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/22 12:24 PM
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Yes for sure! Thank you :) I'll definitely be working on this for sure.
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/22 11:58 AM
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Thank you so much :) The 5/10 was okay, he just did a lot to destroy my self esteem throughout the relationship. Him leaving me solely over my looks was really tough. He refused to call me pretty/beautiful, looked at models/porn, etc. I'm not the same person anymore because of it unfortunately. At least he rated me average instead of ugly lol
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/22 09:59 PM
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Thank you so much :) Unfortunately, my ex reduced my self worth to the point where I sometimes rate myself. I definitely need a mindset/outlook change
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/22 09:44 PM
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Thank you so much for your comment, I really appreciate the honesty and advice. I was never the type to rate myself on a number scale, but my ex lowered my self worth to the point where I now sometimes do unfortunately. I had zero intention of meeting my ex online, I've always been super against online dating and meeting guys online. It kind of just happened... but I told myself that I'll only meet guys in person from now on. I'll definitely work hard to adjust my thinking and change my outlook …
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/22 09:32 PM
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Lol don’t forget about the women who DON’T get attention IRL or on social media. Not every woman is getting male attention left and right. Most in my social circle aren’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 02:09 AM
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Solid!! My list would look super similar
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 03:25 AM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 11:54 AM
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Yes, I would care a lot. I'm a virgin and want to date a virgin. I'm a Christian waiting for marriage and prefer for my boyfriend to be the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 11:43 PM
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Thank you so much for your helpful reply! I really appreciate it, and best of luck to you as well!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 08:04 PM
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Then how will I ever meet someone :(
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 05:44 PM
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I don’t really have the social skills to approach a guy, but I will work on it! I really want a guy to approach me but it’s never happened in my 19 years of life lol. I definitely need to put myself out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 05:44 PM
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Yes, guys and girls both deal with this. Unfortunately, society makes it seem like it’s only guys who deal with this. Everyone thinks that girls have it so easy, which is very false.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 05:35 PM
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Exactly, I completely agree with you!! It bothers me so much how society makes it seem like dating and relationships come so easily for women, with a big part of it being matches on online dating apps. In reality, dating doesn’t come easy to a large percentage of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 05:33 PM
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Agreed. The chances of finding a good, committed man online are so slim, that I'm only going to date a man that I meet in person. I want a guy to like me enough to actually approach me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 04:09 PM
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Thank you so much, I really appreciate it <3 I roll my eyes at that too! Everyone says that women have it "so much easier", yet a large majority of women in my life struggle to find relationships or gain the attention of a guy. I'd guess that only 10-20% of women that I know have it easy. Exactly! My ex never should've pursued me if he wasn't attracted to me, and the relationship went on for over a year before I found out he wasn't attracted to me. To be safe and to prevent a situation like this…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 04:06 PM
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My looks have stayed the same throughout. We met on a discord server and he thought I was cute, but not beautiful. He liked me a lot and wanted to be with me, but just didn’t feel enough physical attraction to stay. He tried to ignore his lack of attraction towards me because he wanted to be with me, but eventually realized it wouldn’t be fair to either of us if he stayed. Being in that relationship really hurt my self worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 02:59 PM
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I can’t speak for everyone, but I’m hoping to meet someone in person. I want someone to like me enough to approach me in real life. It hasn’t happened yet and I’m hopelessly single, but I hope that changes one day. I’m also scarred from my past relationship, because I met the guy online and he eventually left me over my looks. As a result of this, I won’t be using any online dating sites. I want someone in real life to actually find me attractive, and like me enough to pursue me. It has yet to h…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 02:31 PM
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For the most part I don't think on the spectrum, but every so often I think I am. I always wonder about this. I'm definitely socially awkward and have zero clue how to flirt with/show interest in a guy. I've always been shy and have struggled with social skills, but I'm working on it. I don't think I'm physically unusual, but one feature I'm insecure about is my nose. It's on the bigger side and I have a dorsal hump, which hinders my side profile. I'm half white and half asian. I used to live in…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 02:20 PM
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I'm scared to post pics of me online lol, but it would help me a lot to post there! The main feature of mine that I'm insecure about is my nose. It is on the bigger side and I do have a dorsal hump. My nose makes me insecure about my side profile. I do have social media but I rarely post and I'm not too active on it. I don't use online dating apps. I am definitely socially awkward and I've struggled with shyness/awkwardness all my life. For the most part I don't think I'm on the spectrum, but th…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 02:15 PM
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I'm a college student and I'd be over the moon if I got attention from even the most unattractive man. It would show me that I'm at least desirable to someone. Since being in college I haven't received attention from a single man, attractive or unattractive. I wish I received attention from unattractive men, I really wish I did. It would boost my self esteem. My ex rated my face a 5 and my body a 7. He said I'm about average and knows I'll have no problem finding somebody in the future. He just …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 11:10 AM
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Thank you so much, I really appreciate it! I’m so happy that you could relate to my answer and the other answers you’ve received to this post :) I hope you find love too, wishing you all the best!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 10:19 AM
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I’m actually a division 1 college athlete who’s average weight believe it or not! My ex actually did compliment me on my body and thinks I’m quite thin. I’m really curious to what makes me so undesirable to men. I’m still trying to figure out what’s “wrong” with me. My female friends are all surprised that I receive virtually zero male attention since they all think I’m beautiful/above average. Women randomly tell me I’m pretty all the time, so I’m dying to figure out what makes me virtually inv…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 10:18 AM
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If I could change a few things: - Porn wouldn’t exist - Online dating wouldn’t exist - Hookups/causal sex would not be normalized or acceptable - Waiting for marriage would be the norm - People are more committed and aren’t constantly trying to seek out a “better” option - Men would care about more than just looks
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 03:08 AM
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Yes for sure, I’m in college and I’m worried that I’m never going to meet anyone. I hear everyone saying that women have it “so easy”, but as a woman myself, that is so false. I’ve never been hit on or asked out, I’ve received virtually zero male attention throughout my life. I’m about average looking but guys simply aren’t interested in me. I’m worried that I’ll never find a husband who loves me and is attracted to me. I have one ex boyfriend who left me because of my looks, and guys called me …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 02:58 AM
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I’m about average, probably a solid 5. My female friends tell me that I’m beautiful and above average, but I’ve received virtually zero male attention in my 19 years of life (asides from a couple of instances I’ll list below). I had a boyfriend for over a year, I met him online and the relationship ended because he simply didn’t find me attractive. If we initially met in person, he never would’ve pursued me. He left because of my looks. The other instance was that two guys had a crush on me at t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 02:26 PM
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Same here. I’ve been in college for over a month, always surrounded by guys, not a single one has hit on me. The sad truth is that only attractive people get hit on :(
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/22 09:27 PM
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You’re attractive if you get hit on, don’t worry :) No one has ever hit on me, although my female friends promise me that I’m beautiful. I feel like they’re just being nice when they tell me I’m beautiful, as I simply never receive male attention. I promise you that guys do find you beautiful and attractive if they hit on you!
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/22 07:52 PM
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Definitely don’t date someone who you don’t feel attracted to. My ex dated me for over a year despite not feeling attraction towards me, and it really destroyed me in the end when he left me solely over my looks.
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/22 01:53 PM
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Hi! Thank you so much for your helpful advice and thoughtful reply! Sorry for the late reply, it's been a super busy last few days! It's so helpful to hear about your similar situation and how you've worked to improve yourself. I've been placing my value on what men think of me too, and I definitely need to stop doing that. I've been trying to improve my social skills as well since I just moved away for college. I realized I definitely need to have higher standards when I start dating again, sin…
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/22 11:16 PM
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Thank you so much for your helpful advice and thoughtful reply! Him being the one to introduce me to Christianity was hard, since he will always be a big part of my life in that sense. I can't think about God without thinking about him, but I hope this will get better with time. I did very recently join a Christian group at my college and I have do people here to go to church with now! Yes, he was a porn addict. His lack of attraction for me was probably at least partially caused by porn. It wil…
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/22 01:33 AM
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Thank you so much for your thoughtful reply and advice! I definitely carry myself more seriously so that's definitely a possibility of why guys don't approach me. It was tough having it end over my looks and it really hurts, but I will take this as an opportunity to improve and work on becoming the best possible version of myself.
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/22 01:19 AM
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Thank you so much for your helpful advice! I definitely don't ever plan on doing long distance again, and like you said it's definitely easier to spot red flags if they're physically nearby.
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