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4

Absolutely. Basically everything is anti male, no surprise tech and AI is too
/r/MensRights26/07/26 05:37 AM
2

Good post. The hypocrisy is real
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 12:59 AM
4

You don't. You be who you naturally are, and if that isn't enough to get the spark going then move along and find one that does. You aren't going to "make" a woman feel a spark over you, and you would want it to be natural in the first place than manufactured
/r/seduction23/07/26 11:18 AM
58

Good to see Hong Kong correctly applying rule of law for false accusations I couldn't admit having the same amount of faith in the legal system of Australia
/r/MensRights23/07/26 09:01 AM
34

Very good point. Men are not compensated at all for the emotional impact of divorce.
/r/MensRights15/07/26 11:50 PM
1

What about men who don't want to enforce that? What do they deserve?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 12:00 PM
18

Meeting women overseas. Helped me to realise I can be accepted for who I am. Not need to be an entertainer
/r/seduction06/07/26 04:46 PM
1

I don't think men should be twisting what you said. It was pretty rational. There are many others though that pretty much say the unselected ugly men deserve it. Even if they did everything traditional society says they should and they still get nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:23 PM
32

Going out alone as a guy in any city (even the city you grew up in) is brutal.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 02:58 AM
1

Sounds like a bit of mode one. Kudos
/r/seduction02/07/26 11:08 AM
1

I care much more about a woman's spending habits rather than her income alone
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 10:52 PM
31

I would just let it go. She just isn't into you. For all you know it could just be an excuse and is not the real reason. But its not worth dwelling over. She is not worth it move on
/r/seduction19/06/26 12:34 PM
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You're going to waste a LOT of time and emotional distress trying to figure out who 'might' be interested. Most men are not smart enough and will end up spending money and time and get frustrated with women in the grey zone or who cannot make up their mind. Best to just live your life and only go with women who have clear interest
/r/seduction23/05/26 12:11 PM
2

Excellent post
/r/seduction28/04/26 08:43 PM
5

Even worse when they get rewarded for doing so
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/26 01:16 PM
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Are you saying go for the women that you really want as opposed to just settling? I agree with that But also be prepared to be rejected and take with grace if you aren't meant to be
/r/seduction24/04/26 11:49 AM
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Is the opposite generally also true? Trashy women tend to attract trashy men
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 09:44 AM
7

This is very very sad. I wonder if this happens more often than we think in India. Or if it is just an outlier crazy girl
/r/MensRights09/02/26 01:06 AM
5

Not only that. Odds are he will also be required to pay child support later
/r/MensRights06/02/26 02:00 AM
2

I can't say that I'm all that surprised to be honest. Almost like I expected it to be like this
/r/MensRights27/01/26 02:31 PM
1

Is OF considered this same type of work?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 01:45 AM
2

It is still better to be making more money regardless. Your personal quality of life improves and that alone is significant If the sole reason is to attract young women it won't always work. But it still does help to give you more time and opportunities.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 02:27 AM
5

If you are in the friendzone it is very bad. That is unrequited love. If you don't have strong feelings for a woman it is easy as pie to be friends with her
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 08:59 AM
3

Yes a major sign. Princess lifestyle like Spa, massage, nails, cosmetics, multiple clothes and shoes, luxury accomodation and more. If she doesn't have a sufficiently good job to be able to support this lifestyle and pay for it. Then you are going to be ultimately responsible for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 12:23 AM
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You go girl
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 08:18 AM
7

If you read what women say that is the most important thing is personality. Then watch what women do which is select based on attractiveness. It can be misleading
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 12:56 AM
2

How can men reasonably improve themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 09:23 PM
6

But many men do not play that game. They still get nowhere and are alone. So what is the practical solution and way forward?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 08:26 PM
7

Many men do not want to neg or apply reverse psychology to gain attraction. Neither do they want to be vulgar or explicit. Still does not stop many of them to be labeled as desperate or weird
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 08:07 PM
3

So he has no right to ask? In order to establish the shared values you are looking for
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 10:19 AM
2

How exactly would you say that? As per your last paragraph
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 10:16 AM
2

I may already be following your first point by default. If I meet a girl I am very attracted to and i know 110% that I want her, then i feel more comfortable to try and let her know I like her directly and to not pursue a friendship role. I would rather just shoot my shot, fail and be free of mental stress thinking about her if we were friends. I guess my original point was, I thought practicing chatting with girls I was NOT attracted to or neutral could help me get into a flow and ability to co…
/r/seduction07/10/25 08:21 AM
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What I am saying is I make friends with girls normally and it is easier when I don't feel very attracted to them or neutral. But if I see a particular girl and I know I am definitely very attracted to her, I feel like I cannot be friends because the level of anxiety drastically increases.
/r/seduction07/10/25 01:56 AM
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Women think they are more attractive than they really are
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 10:41 PM
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While what you are saying is true for someone with a balanced mindset. For an awkward nerd with little to no coordination and the main reason for going is to meet girls and NOT because they enjoy dancing. This is going to fail so hard Given the entire purpose of this thread was to promote dance class as a way to meet girls. Its not likely to work
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 02:36 AM
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Well your example is of someone who is interested and competent in the hobby. That's a plus enjoying your life and having women participate in the hobby. The OP is telling men to go to dance class or pilates to have a better chance to meet girls. This is bound to fail if you don't like the actual activity and you are only there to pickup girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 02:26 AM
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I totally get it and agree with you I just don't think it's a good idea to go to female events like yoga, dance or pilates if you don't actually care at all for the activity. Your lack of interest in the actual activity is likely going to be so obvious to the girls there. Especially for socially awkward men it's going to be hard to pull off. Something more neutral like joining a running club, Bible study or volunteering sounds like a less pressure way for awkward men to meet girls
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 02:04 PM
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Because people think only women can be victims
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 02:59 AM
2

This is just not true. Especially if you don't actually enjoy dancing and it's clear as day you are there only because you want to meet girls It's a physical activity and your body language is fully on display. If you are an awkward nerd and it shows, trust me you are NOT going to get "women drooling on you" You're probably better off going to something more low key like trying to meet girls at church. At least if you are awkward it won't be as obvious
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 02:14 PM
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Don't hold your breath. If you are a single man going to yoga class or dance class and you have zero real interest in these hobbies and are primarily there to meet girls. You are so going to be sorely disappointed. A complete waste of time, money and you will be outright rejected feeling worse than on dating apps
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 09:02 AM
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Average men have the opportunity to reject women? I wasn't aware of it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 01:15 AM
2

Some women absolutely can and do make it obvious. Even up to asking the man himself. Very rare of course but it has happened to me (unfortunately I wasn't attracted in return and politely declined) Most women will just want to put themselves around you, make it easy and want you to make the advanced
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 03:50 AM
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Appreciate the explanation
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 07:41 PM
0

Are you creating a lifestyle for yourself or to attract women?
/r/seduction06/08/25 10:57 AM
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It's actually incredible she actually got jailed for 7 months. I can't believe it
/r/MensRights04/08/25 09:58 AM
1

My friend was kicked out of his local church for attempting to hit on girls. They reported him to the pastor who said he was no longer welcome It would not surprise me that you still need to be attractive or you will go home from church with an empty hand
/r/seduction03/08/25 07:58 AM
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Single moms consistently struggle to retain the serious attention of men. You can find them complaining everywhere. Even if they can "pull" at that age or beyond, it isn't even what many of them want if they can't keep them.
/r/MensRights17/07/25 01:45 PM
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What do women think if you have no car?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 12:32 PM
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If you want to do it, then do it. Why are you asking on this sub when the advice and opinions have been given to you
/r/MensRights07/07/25 10:31 AM
1

On a surface level you are right. People judge based on actions. I don't think most people (including myself) are adept at trying to fake it though. It can easily come off as incongruous and make it even worse than as if you were natural and clumsy I do agree though, if you are able to somehow fake it and succeed with the confident first impressions it can help
/r/seduction03/07/25 09:27 PM
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Probably not. You will likely have more competition and she will be harder to satisfy Not to mention today celebrity also extends to twitch, YouTube and tiktok
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 09:07 AM
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I don't think all men are saying that, not me anyway. Different men think different things The issue is perhaps confusing because women complain about misogynistic men. Yet still chase and accept misogynistic men who happen to be attractive Which comes back to what I said. It was all about attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 03:44 AM
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Because it has nothing to do with misogyny. It's all about whether you are attractive or not
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 03:27 AM
1

After you have covered your basic necessities i would say yes. If I am already comfortable alone with my setup any attempt to do more is to impress a woman or at least get more chances with them. I believe women wearing makeup and enhancing their appearance for other than work reasons is also to attract a higher quality man according to their standards
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 03:34 AM
1

The only reason it can be easier as a man is because of travelling to certain other countries and leverage the easier women
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 01:04 PM
1

So your recommendation for being easier as a man is because passport bro
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 12:57 PM
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What do you want to do ? It's not a recommended idea in general
/r/seduction14/05/25 04:58 PM
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I don't know. Even if it was you would probably need to go through an authorised party
/r/MensRights11/05/25 11:45 PM
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You need to ask. And accept being prepared to alter or lose the friendship If you don't ask. You will always be thinking about this. It happened to me. Asking was the best thing I ever did, even though she said she had a bf at the time
/r/seduction10/05/25 02:54 AM
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I live in Australia and was downvoted for commenting on this story about how much jail time this should deserve. Many people in the Australian subreddit seem to think the guy deserves it and that he verbally consented
/r/MensRights09/05/25 02:50 AM
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Is she actually confirmed going to jail?
/r/MensRights08/05/25 01:23 AM
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Is this how messed up Sweden can be? I heard it was "supposed" to be one of the most equal places on earth
/r/MensRights07/05/25 06:23 AM
1

I agree. But how do you even get a roster?
/r/seduction07/05/25 02:47 AM
1

It is not the 100% everything magic pill. That would be overrated But it is still required. Even if it is a 25-50% contributor
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 11:02 PM
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This is a seduction sub. If you can't run, drink or do any other activity that puts your health or livelihood at risk. Why would you want to mask or pretend
/r/seduction04/05/25 02:48 AM
3

My god is this what the quality of this sub has come to? If you can't drink then tell her you can't drink. If she does not take it well means you two are not suitable. Which would be ridiculous if that were to ever happen
/r/seduction04/05/25 02:22 AM
2

Status. This is not even a question. What her friends and relatives think about you. having free preselection
/r/seduction01/05/25 12:33 PM
1

I don't know about women being aggressive. I think successful women just want men who are equally as successful or better. (Essentially looking down on other men who are not at least at her level)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 08:13 AM
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It's not. A woman has the freedom to do anything in dating especially to approach and introduce
/r/seduction19/04/25 09:43 AM
2

I think it depends. If I'm into a woman then any positive action is always good including direct. But if I'm not sure about a woman or don't like her that's a totally different story So to me it depends on my interest level
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/25 05:35 AM
3

This garbage does not belong on a seduction subreddit. There is no seduction and the OP is entirely asking for trouble
/r/seduction11/04/25 01:08 AM
9

A woman actually got charged and sent to prison for her crimes? I can't believe it
/r/MensRights10/04/25 04:40 PM
9

This list looks very intimidating
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 10:24 AM
1

So what? Society doesn't give a damn about men Be who you are and care for your loved ones and those that love you
/r/MensRights03/04/25 08:42 AM
2

I gotta thank god my mother has not heard of and doesn't know what "the patriarchy" means
/r/MensRights02/04/25 12:06 AM
8

.....
/r/MensRights29/03/25 06:56 AM
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I never even thought about that idea before. The words universal should mean it's accessible to everyone. Yet you could be totally right. In practice it could just be a handout policy towards women
/r/MensRights28/03/25 04:19 AM
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Online? So what. Women ghost and block all the time In real life? That's more difficult if the guy knows where you work or personal info. But honestly you ever seen how some women react if they cannot take no for an answer? The quote exists "hell hath no fury like a woman scorned" and that can be triggered even if you try to reject her very politely Both genders can react badly to rejection. But a fair number of men will never be able to reject a woman their entire life
/r/MensRights28/03/25 04:07 AM
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I've been lucky in that I have had opportunities to meet and formally reject women after they have proposed to me I've also had periods (even for up to a year) where no woman would even accept to meet me for a cup of coffee I know which side I prefer. Having the agency to choose and reject feels way better (even though rejecting women also doesn't feel good as they never take it well)
/r/MensRights28/03/25 02:43 AM
6

Feminists and online
/r/MensRights28/03/25 01:00 AM
6

I guess the realistic comparable question is. Would you prefer the choice of having many suitors and having to work through culling each resume Or have zero choices and no chance at all?
/r/MensRights28/03/25 12:57 AM
2

Probably but they are immediately forgettable to me and I wouldn't even want to be platonic friends. I have fallen in love with female friends I wasn't initially attracted to but we already had a lot of comfort talking and connecting together
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 01:38 PM
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It does not help. Most especially if you are using that social circle or hobby with the explicit intent of meeting women
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 01:17 PM
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It is possible but you have to at least pass a threshold of attraction or comfort with I cannot imagine falling in love with someone I am utterly repulsed by their presence
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 01:15 PM
1

I can't really comment sorry But just from my personal experience I am Asian and in Asian culture it is even more weird to be overweight as compared to western culture. I know that when I was in china I was turned away from stores even before entering because they knew I would not fit anything in their shop But my gf was pretty good looking and she used to pat and play on my belly for fun calling it cute. In summary I think if a girl is into you then it's all good. Your weight won't be a factor.…
/r/seduction27/03/25 01:23 AM
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I don't know how fat you are talking about. But I am 90kg 30bmi and wear oversized clothing. I have still been able to meet women
/r/seduction27/03/25 01:08 AM
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Most are because it benefits them and they are lazy Thankfully there are women out there that actually choose to work hard, but I'm not sure of the percentage. I also notice they tend to be immigrant women
/r/MensRights26/03/25 10:47 PM
1

I suppose it's better than nothing. But if you aren't attractive or actually enjoy the dancing and are only going to pick up girls. You are not going to have a good time
/r/seduction22/03/25 06:08 AM
129

I'm also concerned that future cases of law regarding wealthier wives will just copy the results from this case and leave men with nothing
/r/MensRights21/03/25 03:48 PM
145

I was expecting it to be a female judge but surprisingly it wasn't. He was also quite unprofessional to the husband telling him to learn to cook now due to not deserving the lifestyle he experienced during marriage I haven't been to the UK but it looks like I have not missed much.
/r/MensRights21/03/25 03:45 PM
0

Do these men have a practical choice of choosing someone else? Or are they left with nothing if they decline
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 02:42 AM
3

Not a chance this is true, especially with phones these days
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 11:23 PM
12

Every time I hear this. I think about how many women would participate in difficult or dangerous jobs and responsibilities. There's just not many of them out there in order to balance real equality You cannot just talk about the desirable jobs and concepts while ignoring the difficult and undesirable jobs that women don't want to do
/r/MensRights09/03/25 05:32 AM
5

Is this really true? You can fully evade child support by fleeing to another country ?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 03:39 AM
4

You might do that entire list of what you wrote and still come out with nothing. Better to just get your passport and organise a good trip meeting several women overseas
/r/seduction07/03/25 07:00 AM
18

I can't believe this crap actually got passed through parliament and lawmakers I'm so glad not living in the UK Even china would have better laws than this for youth crime
/r/MensRights05/03/25 10:57 PM
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Given what women are capable of and possible lack of accountability. It raises my standards and requirements for what I find acceptable to date. Based on finding a good woman of character and behaviour. If I can't find the right woman of character and I have outright rejected several women who have proposed to me. I prefer to be alone than divorced without being able to see my children and financially ruined
/r/MensRights26/02/25 07:46 AM
3

At the end of the day. You probably want to weed out a woman if this is her biggest reason to criticise you A girl who adores you is going to want to be with you. Even if you are not 'skilled'
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 08:20 AM
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I wouldn't do this. and live with the lie I'm pretty open about the fact that I'm a virgin. If they want to reject me primarily for this reason that's great. I don't need a liability
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 08:17 AM
4

Being unattractive. 100% that's all. If you are 'attractive' to any woman. You can do virtually anything and it will be deemed sweet. If you are 'unattractive' virtually anything you try WILL fail and you will be considered creepy. Attractiveness is also individually subjective
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 03:38 AM
24

Wow who would have guessed
/r/MensRights09/02/25 12:05 AM
1

If you have to attempt memorising this 20 point list when you are out on a date with a girl. You're just going to make it hard for yourself because it's not authentic
/r/seduction05/02/25 10:26 PM
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Dumb advice. If a woman is single and decides she doesn't want you because you're not her type or because she thinks she can do better. You're just deluding yourself and fostering negative energy. Why would you want to be her second, third, fourth choice anyway? If a woman legitimately was not available and you didn't know when you asked. It's fine to keep in contact. The energy is different to the example above.
/r/seduction26/01/25 01:40 AM
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Reading the article it sounds like there's not going to be much charges or consequences if any...? Even though they are over 18 adults
/r/MensRights17/01/25 02:46 AM
1

I am glad to hear it and I like your style. It's just in my personal experiences of meeting girls. They can talk a lot about their masters degrees or $45,000 investments. So these are well educated girls with money. But when the bill comes, they are not going to pay. Simple as that. No matter how many times you have met. They simply just expect you to pay. Surely you can't be super surprised by me saying this right? I do have some female friends that do offer to pay sometimes. So it's not ALL gi…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 04:11 PM
1

Most women expect men to pay. Everything. I would love to meet a girl more balanced like yourself. But in Asian culture (including Asian girls in the west) the women expect you to pay 100% all of it. Everytime. You might get a treat here and there maybe 1 out of 5 or 10 outings. If you're lucky
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 03:58 PM
1

Absolutely. Women ALWAYS do the choosing. You can of course accept or reject her. You do also have a choice in the matter This philosophy has served me well
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 02:08 AM
0

You seem to paint a whole lot of people with the same brush. Even when said individuals are telling you that everyone is different. How do you view the women of twoX subreddit?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 12:59 AM
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Do you think it would have made any difference if he kicked her out before two years ? Say at the 1.5 year mark
/r/MensRights22/11/24 09:40 AM
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The difference though is that men are penalised in both circumstances. Whether if he is good guy or bad guy. He still ends up paying.
/r/MensRights22/11/24 06:40 AM
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You're dead wrong if you think de facto and cohabitation laws are easily avoided just by not saying a few words like wife. Pretty much if you pass the two year cohabitation period. You don't have to say a thing and you are already at risk of being vulnerable to de facto laws and losing half.
/r/MensRights22/11/24 06:38 AM
5

What if you never get picked ?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 01:23 AM
2

I've never intended to portray a leading role or representing traditional values by paying for a first date. What I do know is that by letting a girl pay or splitting I am taking a large risk of never hearing from that person again no matter how well the initial meeting went. That is why I pay for the initial date/s. There is no choice in the matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 10:51 PM
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I agree with you 100% that men need to screen women more and be selective. That inner game frame of mindset is healthy. But you need to acknowledge the external dating landscape where the average or under average guy is completely invisible to women. He is not even getting any first date at all to be able to screen against any woman. You can only screen women if you have the numbers to back it up. You mentioned to know what you want and to be confident that you can get it. But you also have to b…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 09:23 PM
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You cannot forget though that women do the choosing. In terms of relationships it requires two participants and that is ALWAYS first selected by the woman. I do agree with you trying to sort out the inner game of self esteem and healthy confidence. But that in no way determines if any woman will choose you. The degrees, money, accolades are just proxies to try to show the women you are worthwhile on the outside for her to choose you. Yeah it's not real inner confidence but that is the marketing …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 04:27 PM
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Not funny. Did you even read it
/r/MensRights04/11/24 03:49 PM
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If the man was at all attacked by weapons such as "sticks and knives" as in the article. Then the women should deserve the full punishment of the law even up to murder. It's hard to tell the cause of death from the article.
/r/MensRights04/11/24 03:47 PM
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Then the women should not be picking these men to have children with.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 02:21 PM
5

Childfree woman. More freedom and you can still change your mind if you want a family in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 02:20 PM
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Because women do the choosing
/r/seduction22/10/24 08:55 AM
1

It is a desirable criterion for sure. But if someone is thirsty then what ?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 07:15 AM
10

Don't think it's just the internet. Outside there is a fair amount of hatred for men.
/r/MensRights05/10/24 11:47 PM
13

Does this mean you get the alimony rewards from a divorce ?
/r/Divorce_Men02/10/24 11:51 AM
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I think it's more like we are content with a very modest roof over our head and food to eat. It's the potential for courting women where men have further expectations to provide a place of comfort and luxury for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 09:40 AM
4

You won't get anything not even a friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 03:56 AM
17

I have tried yoga, book class, movie marathon, dance beginner lessons, Meetup groups. They are all useless I did get more chances attending church service
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 06:27 AM
10

There are many men who have tried yoga, knitting or dance classes. They have failed to meet women and have even earned the recognition of the women themselves being frustrated approached by men
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 06:25 AM
0

Maybe there is no future for men. It would be very sad. But it won't matter. I don't expect women will really care.
/r/MensRights08/08/24 12:16 AM
24

This just left a sour taste in my mouth but it's probably the truth
/r/MensRights06/08/24 11:04 PM
5

What privileges are women losing in the real world today? It seems many women still expect and want men to support them in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 02:33 AM
0

It's people like this who are so angry you can feel her anger through the screen. There is no debate with this person. Men are all home wreckers
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 02:16 AM
1

Be attractive, don't be unattractive. Beats anything out there even if you are a convicted killer bad guy
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 06:51 AM
1

That assumes an average or below average man is able to even meet 5 women. I think it is more like women have a selection issue. Which I agree is not easy. But your average chump has an issue even securing a date and then also needs to worry about selection issues. Double the difficulty
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 03:10 AM
1

Don't get me wrong. The advice is sound. But for people who are not natural there has to be an easier transition
/r/seduction22/07/24 01:39 PM
10

Good luck trying to remember and execute all those things you listed above and at the same time. I certainly couldn't remember all that. Probably the most practical takeaway is to remain outcome independent and talk like you are already good friends.
/r/seduction22/07/24 09:38 AM
8

My body, my choice
/r/MensRights16/07/24 08:38 AM
9

Nothing useful here, a waste of time. If you are genuinely fine with being her friend. That is, if she started dating someone else and you were genuinely happy for her then you can be her friend and let things fall where they may. But if the thought of her going with another guy makes you squirm don't even think of being her friend and try to "overcome the friend zone"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 09:50 AM
1

God what kind of advice is this ? If you are considered attractive to a woman. Rescuing cats wouldn't make any difference. If she is not attracted, cats won't change her mind. Might even make you mentally depressed if you put all that effort knowing your intention was to try and get a date along and still did not work.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 03:56 PM
4

I would love to see this happen in my lifetime. But I just don't see this ever happening. Nothing will change. Maybe it's even encouraged.
/r/MensRights27/06/24 08:25 AM
4

No problem. Let's make your example. What if a woman makes 80k and the man makes 40k (but still a stable job)? Half her salary but he loves his stable job
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 01:53 AM
36

Exactly. Simple reason they lie is because they can. If there were severe repercussions in place they would not think of doing it to avoid responsibility
/r/MensRights26/06/24 11:36 PM
14

If they were ordered to pay alimony proceedings due to making more than the husband.
/r/Divorce_Men26/06/24 01:54 AM
5

Not just women. Some men will defend women no matter what.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 04:07 AM
6

Yeah agree. It's weird saying they want the nation to be defined by neutrality and all that garbage, but cannot apply it to the definition of grape
/r/MensRights11/06/24 01:42 PM
3

A woman actually got jailed ? Incredible
/r/MensRights11/06/24 01:39 PM
37

Impossible unfortunately. Women by definition cannot be creepy. Only men. (As defined by the government)
/r/MensRights09/06/24 04:33 AM
6

This is very sad. Hopefully he can get back together
/r/MensRights03/06/24 01:58 AM
3

Advising a man to try and meet women at work is a great path of career suicide for him. Another example of female privilege
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 07:23 AM
1

Good question. But unfortunately is going to fall on deaf ears.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 06:51 AM
2

Agree if the other party is poor and it's clearly delineated. But this is very very different to women in developed cities whom STILL expect the man to pay. I went on several dates with a girl double masters degrees, talking about investing $45k etc, yet after several meals and dates she never paid a thing. I was thinking she would at least chip in 1 out of 7 dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 06:48 AM
2

I trust the laws in china for this case, better than this shit hole we have here
/r/MensRights26/05/24 05:13 AM
6

Whatever happens men will ultimately need to pay the bill
/r/MensRights23/05/24 02:54 AM
20

Yep. Just crickets regarding this topic
/r/MensRights20/05/24 10:00 AM
5

Very good question.
/r/MensRights18/05/24 04:39 AM
15

You don't need to be sorry. Just take a look around. If there were a man or woman at risk of violence. Who would most of society care to help? If you don't have close friends or family to assist, no one will care about you
/r/MensRights14/05/24 03:29 PM
5

Attention
/r/MensRights12/05/24 08:24 AM
1

Are you saying as a woman you have never been asked out or offered any dates ever? I understand that "nothing" may be interpreted as some people may not be satisfied with what they are offered and disregard such offers as nothing. This is pretty common to hear from women. That they can't find anything worthwhile. But there are men out there who experience the actual literal definition of nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 05:02 PM
1

As a woman you don't have to do anything at all. Just sit there and it will come to you (eventually). That's the female reality Mens reality (for the majority) is if they don't ask they will remain single forever
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 08:44 AM
37

They even bothered to acknowledge this at all? I didn't think they would even notice
/r/MensRights01/05/24 04:09 AM
2

Wasn't Emmanuel Macrons wife already married with children when she decided to groom a schoolboy ? With zero rape repercussions and instead being lauded leaving the ex husband and children behind
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 08:34 AM
5

What about the accuser now?
/r/MensRights27/04/24 08:19 AM
32

That's if they allow the cctv as admissible evidence and not throw it out
/r/MensRights25/04/24 05:06 AM
-11

Unfortunate but also unsurprising. I'm a bit more surprised that someone of royalty would be needing to hire call girls, escorts or sex workers. I would have thought because of their default riches, royalty and fame that would allow them to have a free selection of women whatever they want. Just officially request for a line of 10 suitable and eligible women and then make your choice for a suitable woman or wife.
/r/MensRights25/04/24 04:52 AM
3

Well it seems this guy did. I would expect many other men would too. Unsure of what percentage of men would though
/r/MensRights24/04/24 09:58 PM
46

True. Very chilling indeed
/r/MensRights24/04/24 12:26 PM
20

To be honest I'm surprised she even got charged at all. This is the world we live in. Women have no accountability I expect even China to have a more balanced judgement than the west regarding this.
/r/MensRights24/04/24 12:25 PM
3

Not by just walking by a school. But if a schoolgirl (or any female) were to interact with me in that area. Then yes my awareness levels would increase to be far more cautious
/r/MensRights24/04/24 08:43 AM
9

Judge Elizabeth Nichols.
/r/MensRights22/04/24 03:18 PM
4

At the very least reading through the comments on that thread, I was glad to see the guy was being supported. I was half expecting a lot of comments to end up criticising him or saying he deserved it simply for being a male and to stop victim blaming
/r/MensRights13/04/24 06:40 AM
1

There are no rules. If you know in your heart it's what you really want then ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 02:44 PM
1

I don't believe you need to think that way. There are still some decent girls worth investing in especially if you start dating other cultures. But for sure as hell don't lead with money. There is nothing wrong with the regular path of studying and working hard, getting ahead and then keeping your standards high and vet her well for a good long term wife. I wouldn't get too caught up in af/bb mentality. It seems to lead to a dark place and you wanna find a woman better than that anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 02:42 PM
2

Hypergamy is normal and apparent, don't know what you are on about. Sure it isn't always as extreme as the examples you say about wanting millionaires and so forth. But women prefer as a starting point to date someone at an equal "level" to themselves or better. Whatever their personal definition of being attractive is, whether it is looks, finances, charisma, charm, being nice, whatever it is. They are generally less willing to date significantly under their perceived level. Doesn't mean it doe…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 01:02 PM
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