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The more I see feminism for what it is the more narcicism becomes the acurate diagnosis. The correct term is solipsism. Pretty solid insight otherwise.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/13 01:35 AM
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That's what confuses the heck out of me. Say if this woman had a gambling or shop-a-holic problem. People would say it's a bad idea to marry her because of her financial situation and lack of impulse control. If she's a chronic liar you probably wouldn't trust her either. However, because it's relationship problems or sex we're just supposed to ignore the past? Obviously, this swings both ways to men and women. The past means a lot because it is prognostication of the future, especially because …
/r/TheRedPill25/04/13 04:20 PM
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I agree this. This is like someone coming to /r/fitness and saying "what workouts do I need lose weight?" Well, the correct answer is that losing weight is 85-90% nutrition and food choices. So focusing their energy there is more important than getting a good workout routine. Addressing the actual problem to get to the solution is more important than the OP's actual question(s) if you can read between the lines. However, I do think this is a bit more ambiguous situation... but then again I'm no …
/r/TheRedPill25/04/13 04:03 PM
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As you highlighted, the study is based off of self report measures. Thus, we come to the logical conclusion: The red pill comprises a small minority of men, and even a smaller minority of women. Therefore, most of the women and men in this study are blue pill. Today's society teaches men to be "nice" and "be yourself" and tells women to act like men. And finally the logical conclusion. There's shouldn't be much of a difference on a self reported study where most men are acting like neutered vers…
/r/TheRedPill24/04/13 01:28 PM
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Yep, came here to say this. You can't be "free and independent" and also claim to be able to be "brain washed"
/r/TheRedPill24/04/13 02:22 AM
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Cue repost of Briffault's law from the sidebar: http://www.stickmanweekly.com/ReadersSubmissions2009/reader5546.htm The female, not the male, determines all the conditions of the animal family. Where the female can derive no benefit from association with the male, no such association takes place. There are a few corollaries I would add: Past benefit provided by the male does not provide for continued or future association. Any agreement where the male provides a current benefit in return for a p…
/r/TheRedPill20/04/13 03:51 AM
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Youre right, though it's most likely a combo of both.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/13 05:56 PM
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Well, if he really wants to keep her he has to show her that he's not afraid to lose her. You can't make someone else care, especially with words. But you can change your behavior and actions to rekindle the attraction. Reading through the comments it doesn't seem like he's willing to take that step.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/13 04:59 PM
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In addition to this, not sure who in the manosphere wrote this (maybe rollo?) but there are different relationship strategies for males. "Alphas" tend to be able to facilitate the ability to mate with multiple high value females. This increases the chances that their seed will be spread. "Betas and less", however, tend to be have very little sexual access and thus "monogamy" serves to increase the chance of their seed being spread via the exclusive relationship. This means that the beta males wi…
/r/TheRedPill17/04/13 01:32 PM
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Absolutely correct. I'm not sure why people need to think that everyone needs to be equal in everything. That actually sounds a lot to me like Marxism/Communism..... oh wait, that's where Western society is headed.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/13 02:05 PM
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You should read more from Danny from 504... he's 5'4" http://dannyfrom504.wordpress.com/ I realize you said that lifting weights, acting confident, etc are not helping... and that's because you're faking it. This is a lifestyle and mindset. You can't fake it. Analyze your behavior and make changes. Break things down into smaller steps. Start with only working on good posture for a week. Once you have that down, work on your smile or eye contact. It doesn't necessarily have to be... posture, smil…
/r/TheRedPill16/04/13 12:58 AM
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As far as relationship game goes, Athol Kay's Married man sex life is good for LTR/marriage. http://marriedmansexlife.com/ I would be extremely careful though especially because long distance relationships are a poor choice...
/r/TheRedPill13/04/13 12:38 PM
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or /r/bodyweightfitness :)
/r/TheRedPill10/04/13 01:36 AM
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Yeah, I was going to post exactly this. Women don't seem to realize men want feminine women. Ah, the solipsism. Confidence can be a HUGE turn off for the majority of men.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/13 12:06 PM
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One aspect that you haven't learned yet is that there is a difference between dominant and domineering. Essentially, being dominant is standing up for yourself, self respecting yourself, not letting people walk all over you, etc. You don't have to "treat someone like shit" to have a dominant frame. Domineering, on the other hand, is exerting your dominance over someone in an arrogant, overbearing, dictatorial way. Obviously, women are still attracted to the confidence that comes with this type o…
/r/TheRedPill05/04/13 04:33 PM
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http://socialpathology.blogspot.com/2010/09/sexual-partner-divorce-risk.html The statistics say no for marriage.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/13 12:09 AM
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http://theprivateman.wordpress.com/2011/12/12/the-rationalization-hamster-is-now-immortal/
/r/TheRedPill02/04/13 11:49 AM
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Remember kids, the closer you get to the truth the louder they squawk.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/13 05:03 AM
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Dalrock's article is really good. Was my first intro to primer on marriage 2.0. Here's two other ones that cover similar material on marriage 2.0. http://boldanddetermined.com/2012/01/21/pick-the-right-wife/ http://www.thumotic.com/2013/01/08/how-to-find-a-wife/ I was thinking about trying to compile some sort of massive resource that covers everything for it. Maybe when I have more time.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/13 05:40 AM
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Haha, I meant commenting on it specifically! :)
/r/TheRedPill26/02/13 04:13 AM
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You didn't even comment on the best part. :P “I am way hotter than I was when I was 25 because I am so much more confident,” said Jenn Beckerman, 36. Classic solipsistic thinking that because she is attracted to confident men that men like women who are confident.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/13 03:50 AM
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I seek truth everywhere. :)
/r/TheRedPill25/02/13 01:06 PM
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There's various different groups within the manosphere / awareness of "game" including MRAs (kinda), MGTOW, PUAs, Christian, etc. So this is in particular one of the latter sites. Obviously, ignore if you don't share that perspective... summary of traits is good though which was what I was going for.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/13 12:37 AM
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Yeah, it's the best summary I've seen thus far in the manosphere. I wonder if it would be possible to make this into an infographic, and have the infographic related to SMP/SMV/MMV values longitudinally as women / men age. That would take it to the next level.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/13 10:28 PM
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I hope this happens, but I think it is unlikely especially if there are children. It's hard for judges to get around the "it's for the kids" feeling(s). And now with feminism there's a lot of liberal feminist judges.... and you know how that goes. The men will be shafted 99.99% of the time. The big thing that is just mind blowing to me is that judges force men who aren't the biological father to pay child support as well... that just makes no sense at all.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/13 10:26 PM
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Good point(s). I would suspect it's some of both -- chicken and the egg phenomena. Most asian males (speaking as one) tend to be more feminine in general as opposed to most western society males (although western males are surely making up ground). It seems most men in Japanese society have skipped the marriage/divorce that is ravaging the western world and went straight to incel/MGTOW.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/13 05:35 AM
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Thanks. I'm a big fan of the "teach a man to fish" over "give a man a fish", so in essence I suppose that's what the core concepts are. The manosphere provides the knowledge and teaching, and then you have to get the practical experience just like with exercise. Once you know thyself in how you respond to exercise you can make confident adaptations to your exercise program. PM if you need any advice getting your book out on something like CreateSpace which someone referenced above. I've already …
/r/TheRedPill21/01/13 06:41 PM
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Hi Rollo! What do you think are the best methods of internalizing the red pill into a mindset as opposed to just "knowing" the information then applying it? There's obviously a huge difference that plays out in communication, body language, etc. Practice makes perfect? Meditation? Something else?
/r/TheRedPill21/01/13 06:11 PM
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