Hey guys, I just want to say I stumbled on TRP just over a week ago and have been enamored. I've spent hours reading through things like RM and HC. I'll admit, it's a bitter pill to swallow, but I feel like my eyes have been opened. Everything I've seen happen makes sense. I'm a little discouraged, but I'm young (21) and fairly inexperienced with girls (only slept with 2).

I know the answer to this is probably 'talk to more girls' or 'why do you want an LTR?' but I'll ask anyway. There's a girl I had a ONS with on New Years. She lives 2.5 hours away. We're both university students. I ended up contacting her in February out of the blue, and we met up - no sex, just coffee. I ended up visiting her in March for a weekend. Tons of sex. I plan on visiting her again in May. I'm currently not showing my hand to her in terms of commitment/exclusivity and am waiting for her to bring it up. My problem is, I enjoy her company and enjoy the sex. I enjoy being able to get her off (I'm the first guy to make her squirt) at will. I did a few beta things, I called her the morning of an interview and wished her good luck (she didn't answer so I texted her), I told her that I liked her too when she said she liked me. Other than that I've been on point (her friends told her I was hot, one drunk friend almost kissed me in front of her, every social scenario we went to I mingled on my own, etc). Since we are far apart our medium for communication is texting/calling over the phone. I don't want to remain TOO aloof, for the sake of losing her interest. At the same time I want to keep her interested enough to plan another visit, where in person I can give her a booster shot to re-ignite her attraction/interest. I want to use the distance to my advantage. But how?