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And there's extremist points of view everywhere. There are absolutely some angry people there, who have been cheated on, or otherwise had their relationships fail, and they don't know why. Better them to vent their frustrations online than in the real world, for sure. There aren't many places for men to express themselves emotionally in real life, and so turn to places like TRP where they feel they have a support group. I'd wager that few of them actually "hate" women, but instead are angry at t…
/r/seduction16/12/13 02:22 AM
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This is pretty much all that needs to be said. ALWAYS go for the number if you're interested. Worst she can say is no.
/r/seduction16/12/13 12:14 AM
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When I see a girl looking grumpy or stressed, I smile at her. Most of the time, she'll smile back. For her, a confident, handsome guy just gave her his approval. She'll probably be thinking about that for the rest of the day. Or, y'know, go talk to her after that.
/r/seduction16/12/13 12:13 AM
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They probably don't realise. Most women are actually pretty nice people!
/r/seduction16/12/13 12:02 AM
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She flakes on me a lot, I don't think she likes me anymore, and because of this I don't know her well enough to be able to ask her out. There's only one way to know for sure.
/r/seduction15/12/13 12:20 PM
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I wrote a bit more about the subject here, but there's plenty more information in the sidebar too!
/r/seduction15/12/13 02:56 AM
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I'm pretty alpha Don't say this. There's this girl that likes me How do you know? By text I've talked to her several times but they're boring conversations that die fast. Stop texting her and go TALK to her. Texting is for setting up dates, not idle chit chat. I'm ready to talk to her in person but I always see her busy with her friends and I want to actually set up a small date with her Ask her. What have you got to lose? Yes, I'm ashamed. Don't be. It happens. You'll get better with practice. …
/r/seduction15/12/13 02:47 AM
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My criticism with feminism's view of seduction (at least on Reddit) is not that they don't understand what we're about, but the complete and utter dismissal of even TRYING to understand it. As an example, this is a response I got when talking about how /r/seduction is essentially a kind of support group for boys/men who haven't had experience around women, or otherwise lack the social skills to talk to women effectively: When that network constantly echos how you should manipulate people to get …
/r/seduction15/12/13 02:17 AM
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The difference is that most people who have "oneitis" do so from a position of neediness - the lack of reciprocity in the relationship causes the girl to be elevated to the "pedestal". The problem with this is that the girl no longer is seen as an equal - she becomes perfect, unattainable, monumental, and impossible. Someone with oneitis is terrified of losing her because of how much she's been built up in his head, and this causes him stress, anxiety and depression. In your case, it seems the f…
/r/seduction15/12/13 02:08 AM
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Why not ask your housemates? Watch what they do with women, if 5/6 guys in a house are consistently pulling, they're obviously doing something right.
/r/seduction03/11/13 10:34 PM
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Made out with one chick, then got too drunk to function. So okay, not amazing.
/r/seduction02/11/13 03:44 AM
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Brilliant advice. Everyone needs to perfect this.
/r/seduction01/11/13 03:45 AM
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Take it as an honest criticism and try to identify what it is that made that person say that. There's confidence, then there's just being an asshole. It's a fine line to tread, and you'll know you've found a happy medium when someone tells you "I used to think you were so full of yourself, but I'm starting to think you just know what you're doing". I struggled with the asshole thing myself, and I gotta admit, it turned on more girls than off - but at the end of the day, I felt like shit and didn…
/r/seduction01/11/13 03:42 AM
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Nice writeup dude, and huge props for actually buying a goddamn domain name. I'm in NSW and really have to get back into daygame after a hiatus.
/r/seduction31/10/13 11:03 PM
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Don't be afraid to sit next to them in classes/lectures and strike up a conversation. If it's the start of the year/semester, they probably won't know many new people in their classes and they'll be thankful they aren't that person who has no one to talk to.
/r/seduction31/10/13 10:38 PM
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If she gives you a boner, go for it. If not, stay away. Why hit on girls you aren't attracted to? It's nothing personal.
/r/seduction31/10/13 10:35 PM
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Yeah, the only time I've ever had success by talking to girls is if I've known them beforehand and had already made my impression. grab the girl, make her dance with you, say stuff like 'Wassup girl, I really dig your smile', then makeout? This is 99% of club game, yeah.
/r/seduction31/10/13 10:32 PM
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You couldn't have handled this better mate, it really hit home for me too - I ended a 7 month relationship last week because we wanted different things (she wanted marriage and kids by the time she was in her mid 20's). Even though I cared about her, it would've been selfish to both of us to stay in the relationship. But hey, now that you've done it once, you can do it again! If your breakups are this mature, you're going to do fine in the dating game.
/r/seduction31/10/13 09:54 PM
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I don't have any readings for it, but some general advice as follows. The only thing that works in clubs is straight up, hardcore caveman game. Game in clubs is almost 100% confidence and looks. If you're a good looking dude being the centre of attention, you will CLEAN UP. Outside of that, you're going to have a much tougher time, no question about it. Club interaction is almost purely physical. Touching is everything. Being an awesome/crazy dancer is a MASSIVE plus, I can guarantee there will …
/r/seduction31/10/13 09:49 PM
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MOTHER OF ALL BOMBS
/r/seduction31/10/13 08:38 PM
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Oh yeah, if you get a number in a club there's a 99% chance that you'll never hear from her again. I go through my phone and delete numbers I got the night before without even texting them, it's not worth the time. For me anything that happens in clubs is purely to stroke my ego. For the love of god do not send that message as a text. In person, if you deliver it properly, it's like a MOAB to the face as a demonstration of confidence (although swap out beautiful for "cute" or something a little …
/r/seduction31/10/13 02:44 AM
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"I'd normally try to talk to you and figure out if we were a match, but there's no time for that. Maybe we are, maybe we arent. I want your number so we can figure that out". I get her number. Holy shit, I am stealing the fuck out of this!
/r/seduction30/10/13 07:40 AM
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Awesome writeup dude, this shit is what it's all about. I made a last minute decision to go out for Halloween and I'm so disappointed my housemate and I don't have matching Buzz/Woody costumes.
/r/seduction30/10/13 07:21 AM
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From my experience, it isn't worth it. It's a no-win situation. Options: She'll cheat on her boyfriend with you, in which case, what's to say she won't do the same to you? She'll leave her boyfriend for you, leaving you as the emotional tampon and have to deal with the fallout, drama and bullshit. 0/10 would not do again. She'll turn you down, making you look like a sleazy asshole and damaging your rep with other women. Let her break up with her boyfriend on her own terms, then pursue.
/r/seduction28/10/13 11:32 PM
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Well, straight answer is no. If you want to get with a vast majority of girls, you may have to change this. It's a social lubricant, it'll make talking to girls a hell of a lot easier, plus otherwise you'll be seen as "that guy who doesn't drink" (which is dumb, but it's a stigma nonetheless). derp Never ever ever say this again, written or verbally. *puts devil horns on This is 100% unnecessary and detracts from your credibility. You want to be treated like a man? Construct your thoughts like a…
/r/seduction28/10/13 07:59 PM
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Never felt like one + principles. I only sip-taste drinks. Absence of alcohol is the concept I think. Have you ever been drunk? Just playing devil's advocate here, but it's fucking brilliant fun. I meant sleeved shirt with a V-neck. I don't know the exact word in English, but here's a picture: link Yeah, this is pretty much what I wear, except during summer. Be careful when buying though, sizing can vary greatly based on the "cut" of the clothes. When you've got the hang of your sizing and body …
/r/seduction28/10/13 02:26 PM
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The one with the upper hand is always the one that cares less about the relationship. This applies to both FWB and relationships, and even friendship to an extent. The only way to get more "power" is to dole out less attention - push/pull mechanics. As it is, she knows she has you in the bag. Make her less sure, and she'll either start to chase, or drop you. Just depends on what you're willing to have happen.
/r/seduction28/10/13 09:27 AM
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It's all part of a shopping centre. The restaurants (not fancy ass restaurants, mostly fancy burger places/Nando's etc) close mid-week around 8pm, grocery store closes at 10. Lucky me, I guess -
/r/seduction28/10/13 09:23 AM
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First, some housekeeping. <Thou shalt put a link to [SR] here> Stop using language like this, it's not doing you any favours. Goals like: [~] Get a more meaningful life [ ] Move towards at least 1 long-term goal are impossible to track, drop them or make them more specific, like the rest of your list. I don’t drink/smoke/use drugs and never have and never will; Why? (Genuinely asking here, doing none of these will handicap you in a social situation) Next, good on you for wanting to make yourself…
/r/seduction28/10/13 09:20 AM
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If one has the discipline and attitude to improve their life than that alone should be enough to be considered a above average, valuable man. What constitutes a valuable man is not the discipline or the attitude itself, it's actually doing something with those traits to create something better. I can go around saying "I'm gonna be great and work out 5x a week and approach 10 girls a day and blah blah blah" but unless I follow through, it means nothing and I'm no better than someone who hasn't sa…
/r/seduction28/10/13 08:15 AM
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You really need to cut that shit out. 100% no contact, cut from your life forever. You're getting frustrated because you think you're not doing enough to seduce her, therefore you're not getting anywhere. Then you get upset and post to the internet about how you aren't getting anywhere. News flash: she has no intention of sleeping with you, ever. You give her all your emotional validation, she gets her ego fix from you, and she doesn't even have to put out! She knows you want to fuck her, which …
/r/seduction28/10/13 07:58 AM
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Something casual, yet engaging enough to fill any awkward lulls in conversation. EG: bowling, mini-golf, ice skating (bonus points for assumed kino if she sucks at ice skating) I really love taking a girl bowling - there's an alley across the road from my house that doubles as a bar. So we get there, have a couple drinks and talk beforehand, then have a game where I can push-pull, kino and tease her about gutterballs, shoot some pool and then either: a) grab a bite at a restaurant nearby, or b) …
/r/seduction28/10/13 07:34 AM
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You come off as pretty desperate, to be honest (I would be too if I hadn't been laid in almost 2 years). Step 1. Get laid. Just put your dick in something and get it out of your system. Fuck standards, they aren't doing you much good right now. Step 2. FOR THE LOVE OF GOD STOP GIVING THIS "HB 5.5" YOUR ATTENTION. Instead she keeps on playing hard to get for more than 3 years now. Holy shit, 3 years? Why the fuck are you wasting your time? You keep saying she should be lucky to have a chance with…
/r/seduction28/10/13 07:29 AM
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I've gone so far as to say "okay", get up off the bed and start doing something else. She'll want you to come back, almost guaranteed.
/r/seduction28/10/13 05:58 AM
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I have no advice other than that was fucking hilarious. Well done bro, I'm using that one when I'm way too drunk. Always better to hold that frame than turn into a grovelling pussy! If you've made your bed, lie in it, make the best of the situation. Any self respecting person would want nothing to do with you after that, but hey, some girls are weird like that.
/r/seduction28/10/13 05:47 AM
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Go sit your ass down beside them and talk to her. Who gives a shit? Like newspaperpaper said, there's only you and your target, don't give a moment's notice to anyone else.
/r/seduction28/10/13 05:46 AM
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Anything I can read or what do I do to make her feel like I'm a carefree confident man that she that I was? Have you tried being a carefree, confident man? Girls will have guys hitting on them 24/7, taken or not, you kinda just have to deal with it. The good part though is that 99% of them are hopeless losers who have no idea how to talk to girls anyway, so the two of you can laugh it off together.
/r/seduction28/10/13 05:44 AM
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Oh absolutely agree. I was more commenting on the 'insecurity' side of things - if OP looks better, he'll feel better, and that'll most likely reduce the anxiety felt from approaching. Worked for me!
/r/seduction28/10/13 05:41 AM
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The general idea behind it is called Ladder Theory. A man has one 'ladder' that he places women he meets on, ranking them how much he wants to have sex with them. A woman has two 'ladders', one the same as men's, but a completely separate one just for friendships. If a woman places a man on the 'friendship' ladder, that's pretty much game over - she doesn't see you as a potential sexual partner. She'll never tell you what ladder you're on, you've gotta figure it out by yourself by making a move.…
/r/seduction28/10/13 05:39 AM
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Don't aim to be funny, alpha, or impressive in anyway. You don't need to prove anything. That type of over compensation will blow yourself out, and it's all related to your own self-perception. I can't agree with this. I try damn hard to make myself a better person every single day, to prove to myself that I am in fact, a better person. I see myself getting stronger, learning more, getting more skills, becoming funnier, or more 'alpha', or whatever it is, and that shoots my confidence through th…
/r/seduction28/10/13 05:33 AM
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Yeah, I know exactly where you're coming from. Let me ask you: WHO CARES? If she rejects you, she would have rejected you regardless of if you went for it immediately, or at the end of the movie or when she was about to leave. Girls know pretty damn fast (i.e. within 20 seconds) of if they want to hook up with you. Girls at your house know why they're at your house. The movie is plausible deniability.
/r/seduction28/10/13 05:21 AM
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Doesn't matter - it happened, and it will always happen. What you need to do is focus on how to STOP that happening again. Either through leaving such an amazing impression that she won't want anyone else, or not leaving her alone to be swooped up by some other guy, or whatever. We both kind of liked this girl though from the last time so we were both apparently competing for the same girl. All's fair in love and war, right? If I liked a girl, and so did some other guy, you better believe I will…
/r/seduction28/10/13 05:18 AM
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No, your arm should be around her right up until the point where you go for #2. Whenever you damn well feel like it. Take a chance! It seriously doesn't matter about waiting for the 'perfect moment'. The perfect moment is when you want to kiss her. If she wants to kiss you back, she'll be 100% okay with it. Obviously, don't IMMEDIATELY lunge for her mouth when she knocks on the door, take things nice and slow. When you're both a little more relaxed and casual, just lean in and go.
/r/seduction28/10/13 05:08 AM
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That's a tricky one - by cold approaching, you're automatically giving her almost all of the 'first impression' social value. The hard part, as I'm sure you know, is getting that value back. As far as she knows, you're some loser who isn't worth the time of day. I don't like the whole 'walk up to the random girl and hit on her' thing, like you said it feels forced and unnatural, and unless you can immediately engage with her emotions, it'll come off that way too. I'm exactly the same as you, sma…
/r/seduction28/10/13 05:05 AM
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If anything, that's beneficial for you! She has prior knowledge of you existing and not being a potential axe murderer, AND you have high value because of your friend's comments to her. She knows what's up. Seriously, kissing a girl is NOT a big deal at all. Just chill and do what YOU want to do. Want to put your arm around her? Sweet, go for it. Follow up with what you think is natural from there. Sooner the better I always say, that means more time for fooling around. Ask yourself - what's the…
/r/seduction28/10/13 04:50 AM
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The last date I was on we ended talking about how folks live closer to tragedy than they think. It's a morbid topic, I know, but it worked in context. This is great (well, not necessarily this exact subject matter, but you get the point). Bringing up an in-joke that you made together recalls the (hopefully happy) feelings she had when you were discussing it previously. It's a lot better than "I had a nice night". Alternatively, "I had fun, hope you got home safe" has always been pretty solid for…
/r/seduction28/10/13 04:45 AM
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Girl. Coming over to your house. To watch a movie. You're so in it's ridiculous. Girls you've just met don't go to your house at night unless they're interested in you. Follow all the other kino advice, escalate. I will be personally disappointed in you if you don't at least kiss this girl.
/r/seduction28/10/13 04:40 AM
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First, if you know that you're going to a party to try and pick up, don't drink so much (I know it's hard). The amount of times I've fucked up a 'sure thing' because I was wasted is unbelievable, don't be too hard on yourself. Second, he didn't "steal" your girl. She was (hopefully) more than capable of making her own decisions in regards to who and what she was doing at the party. Don't blame someone else for your inability to close. The guy who I thought was her boyfriend starts talking to her…
/r/seduction28/10/13 04:38 AM
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Go to /r/fitness and the gym (if you don't already). Stronger you = more attractive you = more confident you. I was exactly the same before I started working out, decent enough looking etc, but no confidence to back it up. I was always thinking "man I bet really good looking muscly guys get girls like that" and that put me off talking to them. Then you start working out for a while and feel like one of those good looking muscly guys, and it's much less of a big deal for you. It's not a quick fix…
/r/seduction28/10/13 04:31 AM
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If you aren't going to see her in person again/for a while, just add her - you've got nothing to lose.
/r/seduction02/07/13 03:55 AM
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I mean 'drop' as in 'don't do'. You'll still want to do all of the approaching and building rapport, you just don't want to build actual 'attraction' (unless that's your thing). You can still invite guys to do stuff in the same way you'd invite a girl: "Hey, I'm going to X/doing Y on Z day, you should come!" The same 'be confident' rule applies - don't pussyfoot around asking to hang out, just do it. If you're blanking on what to do, just invite people over for drinks. "I usually have a couple r…
/r/seduction18/06/13 04:15 AM
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You're right - post updated.
/r/seduction17/06/13 09:25 PM
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Exactly - Nice Guys are boys, you should strive to be a Man.
/r/seduction17/06/13 09:11 PM
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It's absolutely down to context - I'm usually open to giving people the benefit of the doubt, but this is a girl that my girlfriend described to me as a 'slut' and commented on 'how much of a bitch' she was being. If the questions had come up normally in conversation, yeah, sure, but these were straight out of nowhere, like they were her go-to questions when talking to guys. Whether they know it or not, women are always screening.
/r/seduction17/06/13 09:04 PM
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It's REALLY worth picking up, he goes in depth into what he calls "nice guy syndrome", but the general gist of it is: Be Selfish How to say no How to embrace masculine traits Making yourself happy over the happiness of others
/r/seduction17/06/13 11:07 AM
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For me, if I have to be the one initiating contact most of the time, I just simply take it as an indication that they aren't interested, and drop it. There are plenty of girls out there who are eager to talk to me, I don't have time to waste chasing after hot/cold girls. If I KNOW they're interested, I'll shoot a "you should come and do X" text out to them to see them in person, but rarely do I just text a girl I'm interested in for the hell of it.
/r/seduction17/06/13 06:45 AM
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It's all in the attitude. Fake it til you make it. You think that girls perceive you as worthless? That's because you think you have nothing to offer them. What DO you have to offer them? Actually list specific things - money, fitness etc. are vague. Can you bench 225? Do you make $100k+ a year? Write down things you kick ass at. but they're just not interested in me like that. You sound like a Nice Guy. Be more selfish, you don't owe these girls shit until you're sleeping with them. It's comple…
/r/seduction17/06/13 05:30 AM
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I think it's important to maintain a distinction between 'nice' and 'good', especially in a relationship. 'Nice' men do what they do from a position of weakness and desperation; 'Good' men do so from a position of power and generosity. By all means, help other people, but do so because you want to, not because you need their acceptance.
/r/seduction17/06/13 05:10 AM
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Good article, the comments are even better. "I never felt entitled, but I sure as hell felt swindled." sums up a lot of the frustration men have in modern dating. It absolutely feels like women are the 'entitled' gender - I sat down to dinner with my girlfriend and one of her close friends a few nights ago, and I was immediately lambasted with screening questions. I got "what do you do for work?", "where did you go to school?", "what did you study at uni?" and "how much do you work?" back to bac…
/r/seduction17/06/13 05:07 AM
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What do you like to do? Find places that have groups of people with the same interests and start putting yourself in as many of them as you can, and then invite those people to do other things outside of that environment. Making friends is surprisingly like pickup - if you want friends, just drop the escalation (this applies to both guys and girls).
/r/seduction17/06/13 03:55 AM
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There's a huge chasm between 'trying' and 'being'. The people who have a better grasp of 'being Alpha' will always stand out. In other words - a lot of people play guitar. That doesn't mean they're all going to be on a stage in front of thousands of people. A lot of them won't be dedicated enough to follow through. Those willing to put in the most effort will reap the biggest rewards.
/r/seduction17/06/13 03:51 AM
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How often do you see her in person? Make your face to face interactions with her more intriguing, and if she's into you, she'll be texting you. If she NEVER texts you first, chances are she's not all that invested or interested - if a girl wants you, she'll be the one initiating.
/r/seduction17/06/13 03:47 AM
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This reminds me so much of a girl I used to work with - HUGE party girl, music festivals/clubbing every weekend, alcohol and drugs, all of it. She was clearly used to the attention she got from guys. I just didn't fall for it, talked to her as I would any other person and didn't take her seriously, and she told my housemate she really wanted to bang me. There were no canned lines or routines, I just acted like a man in control of his life and that was it.
/r/seduction17/06/13 03:45 AM
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There's a difference between giving a fuck about yourself, and giving a fuck about what other people think of you. The former is critically important, the latter is not.
/r/seduction17/06/13 03:36 AM
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It doesn't have the same dismissiveness that Vazzo's reply has, yours sounds more like it would hurt conversation whereas his amplifies sexual undertones.
/r/seduction12/04/13 08:09 AM
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and once you remove sex from the equation, girls are completely worthless. What if nothing really interests you besides video games, anime, computers, and sex? I can already talk to people for no reason but I don't because it is boring, just like women All I want is sex, and nothing more Also, what could they possibly have to offer me besides sex? Dude, this is not a healthy world view. Would you want to talk to a girl that thinks everything you're interested in and passionate about is stupid an…
/r/seduction02/03/13 10:25 PM
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I'm a high school senior This pretty much says it all, but in case it needs further explanation: You're in high school, dude. You're what, 16-18 now? YOU HAVE ALL THE TIME IN THE WORLD TO LEARN TO BE A BADASS MOTHERFUCKER. Start today - it's a step by step process that will take a long time to get there, but when you turn around and see how far you've come, it's just ridiculously rewarding. I'm 20 now, and was pretty much the same as you in high school - overweight, not social, self conscious et…
/r/seduction23/02/13 11:05 AM
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Should I look to hit the gym and pack on the muscle giving the impression that I'm not a skinny wimp? Yes, but because it's a healthier, more enjoyable way to live, not because girls like it.
/r/seduction02/02/13 10:28 PM
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I feel this exact way when I've met a girl I like, and try to go after others. It just doesn't feel as fulfilling, and your heart's not in it. I dunno whether it's the "I want what I can't have" side of me, or like you, feel 'guilty' for getting involved with another girl.
/r/seduction25/12/12 10:33 PM
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Yeah man, it was on the to-do list for the next time I actually see her - it's something I'd much rather do in person, over the phone/texting doesn't get anything across properly. The hard part is actually finding some spare time for the both of us - since she's not working near me any more, she actually lives about an hour away from me so spontaneity is a bit out. I'm thinking waiting till after the weekend, asking her to hang out, then dealing with it when we've got some time, what are your th…
/r/seduction15/12/12 09:07 AM
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Yeah mate, gonna let things die down for a while, and re-initiate with less emotional investment. Might as well see where things go with it, but as long as she has a boyfriend, no point in going full steam ahead.
/r/seduction14/12/12 08:03 PM
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That's the thing, my life IS awesome. I usually have crazy good inner game, which is why this whole situation is so weird to me. I have more hobbies than time, and am finally comfortable about who I am. Then this happened, and the self doubt crept in. Lesson learned I suppose, I thought it wouldn't happen to me like it had before, and I guess I was wrong - time to work on patching up the few remaining holes in the armour.
/r/seduction14/12/12 07:33 PM
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Thanks bro, and yeah, you're right, I'm treating her like she's already my girlfriend. It's actually a recurring theme, I've noticed, and I really need to cut that shit out because it's stupid as hell. No longer co-workers, she left the job at the start of last week. Still, I'm definitely reducing contact, only replying to messages when I get them, and being a lot more blunt. I usually do make plans with girls when I can, have one lined up for this week and working on a second, but I work nights…
/r/seduction14/12/12 07:29 PM
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I seriously needed this. Thanks for taking what I had in my head and explaining it to me :)
/r/seduction14/12/12 11:17 AM
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Just Do It. Always better to ask for forgiveness than live with regret. Don't do it just with girls, do it with EVERYONE. Hugs when you meet girls, handshakes with guys. Hand on their shoulder when you laugh. You don't need to wrap your arm around their waist and put your hand between their thighs (that comes later), just make contact, you'd be surprised how much of an impact it can have on people's perception of you. Start small, work your way up. But keep in mind, fortune favours the bold :D
/r/seduction11/12/12 11:08 AM
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What exactly are you lying about? If it's stuff that's morally wrong, like "no I didn't steal $50 from your wallet", then yeah, that's not really cool. You say you're lying to yourself about your "ideal self". Are you? The adage 'fake it til you make it' is around for a reason. Everyone wants to be a more successful version of themselves, you're just choosing to project it. I don't see anything wrong with that AT ALL. One day you stop lying, and you start becoming that awesome person you're wish…
/r/seduction11/12/12 10:58 AM
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If girls say they find you attractive but not that type, then you're just not portraying yourself as "that guy". Start thinking of yourself as the ultimate badass womanizer, and eventually you become it. The first time someone said to me "hey, why do you strut around everywhere like you own the place?", I had to stop for a second (then probably said something awesome like "I do", and donned sunglasses). But you get the point - act like the guy that pursues women, and eventually people will see y…
/r/seduction11/12/12 10:44 AM
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Dude, I'm in a very similar situation to you (20 year old guy, uni/college "dropout", same background etc etc etc) and I can tell you 100% right now that until you're actually DOING the things you say you're going to do, it doesn't mean shit. am planning on going to welding school, looking at starting my own business, and working at a grocery store You aren't doing any of these things, you're working at a grocery store. What have you ACTUALLY accomplished with your life? That's what you should b…
/r/seduction10/12/12 10:50 AM
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Adding to this, /r/Fitness is a really great resource if you're looking to get in shape but don't know where to start. Read through the FAQ to narrow down what your goals are (it should be lifting weight) and take a look and see what other beginners are doing (Starting Strength/Strong Lifts/Greyskull LP are all variations on the same beginner program, and all very effective at building strength from a novice perspective).
/r/seduction23/10/12 12:27 PM
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I apparently seem to have a thing for going after "churchy" Christian girls, and if there's one thing I've learned through repetition it's simply that "they're only human". If they're attracted to you enough, usually something will happen. IT IS IMPORTANT THOUGH, that you don't force anything on them or compromise their beliefs if they don't know how to deal with their feelings. Don't pretend you're going to be something you don't want to be in order to get in their pants, lay your cards on the …
/r/seduction23/10/12 01:55 AM
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"Oh sweet, look! A girl that hasn't had the opportunity to meet me yet! I'm pretty fantastic, I'd be letting everyone down if she didn't know about me."
/r/seduction23/10/12 01:52 AM
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Being 20 (and in Australia), there are a LOT of annoying 18-21 year olds around, but this is also true having spent a reasonable amount of time around 25-35 year old women, it depends entirely on the girl. A LOT of younger girls really, really, REALLY want attention and positive reinforcement for what they do, and when they don't get their desired response their mind goes into overdrive and they try harder to get your approval. I've had one girl (19), all in the same night say: "I don't see you …
/r/seduction23/10/12 01:51 AM
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What do you do with yourself when you AREN'T with her? That's probably the biggest thing I can think of. Go get some hobbies, man! Get good at stuff, feel good about yourself, and the rest will just start coming naturally. Get serious about health! Fitness is super important to your mood, and after I've forced myself to hit the gym after a shitty day, I never ever regret it. Eating the right amounts of the right foods, feeling yourself getting stronger and generally looking after yourself makes …
/r/seduction30/08/12 08:16 AM
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I just turned 20, and wish I knew what I knew now when I was in high school. Your opportunities are just starting! If you're in the US, you can't even legally drink/go to bars or clubs yet! Your mind will be fucking blown when you start hitting the town. Luckily in Australia we start at 18, but you've basically got 2 full years to turn into the best person you possibly can, and the ladies will fall over themselves to get at you. Seriously bro, hit the gym, get some hobbies, and BUY SOME FASHIONA…
/r/seduction28/08/12 08:58 AM
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I'm in a similar situation, and am undergoing IPL/laser hair removal for stomach/chest and shoulders/back. It's expensive as hell and pretty painful, but it works and it's permanent. I've gone from never taking my shirt off, to complaining when I'm forced to wear one. Check it out if it's a big concern, it's so far the only option that's worked for me.
/r/seduction18/08/12 09:35 AM
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Completely depends on the person - the first guy I moved out with was a dick with a power trip because I wasn't technically on the lease (only subletting) and ended up hating each other. Now living with another guy and coincidentally are both huge nerds, love going out and going to the gym. If you can find someone that has a common interest, roommates are the best thing ever, otherwise steer clear if you think you wouldn't enjoy it.
/r/seduction20/07/12 06:01 AM
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