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| 2 | FDS made me realize I deserve more and I shouldn't "settle" on men I am not attracted tooLol girl I feel your pain! That’s like the story of my life rn. If only attractive guys weren’t douches | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 09:09 PM |
| 3 | A reminder for all the ladies having a hard time blocking and deleting. You don’t owe those men an explanation. They showed you who they are.My friend situation isn’t as bad as OP’s but I recently cut off the last friend I had because of her abusive treatment of me. This comment honestly means the world. It’s like a message from the future saying I did the right thing. Hopefully it’s the same for OP as well because damn that situation is hellish | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 08:56 PM |
| 2 | FDS made me realize I deserve more and I shouldn't "settle" on men I am not attracted tooSo incredibly happy for you!!! Now that you know your worth things will only get better from here ♥ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 08:41 PM |
| 2 | Your boundaries should be nonnegotiableReally needed this right now | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 01:09 AM |
| 13 | The truest words my ex has spoken to me after several years of him jerking me aroundPLEASE tell me that you dumped him. Listen I’ve dealt with guys like this before. It’s almost surreal when they admit they know what they’re doing, how they’re hurting you, yet choose to do it anyway. But get this: you do not deserve it. If you can’t grasp that, think bout yourself as a child being treated this way or a friend... would they deserve to be constantly put down like this? I know it’s hard with low self esteem, I was literally there for years. I’m sure a lot of other people have had … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 03:18 AM |
| 8 | Being creeped out is perfectly validEXACTLY. I was talking about it with a friend who’s a psychologist and she said a lot of it was that these guys don’t know or worse purposefully forget social norms when they act this way towards women. And every time we refuse to reward that behavior by rejecting them, it makes them less likely to do it to other girls. Smh these guys are gross | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 03:07 AM |
| 7 | I will never allow myself to be gaslighted againDamn congrats girl! I’m bi and I feel you, I wish there was a female equivalent of scrotes for women who use tactics like this. I’m so proud of you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 06:11 PM |
| 1 | Remember!Oh look, a perfect description of my ex | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 05:58 PM |
| 2 | Had a self-care day after a break-up with a toxic guy, and I'm feeling much better! Even though it was just a manicure and lunch, making myself a priority again is so refreshing!You go queen | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 04:48 PM |
| 2 | Keep re-reading this until it sinks in.Odd thing is that this also applies to life in general. There are even some female friends who can’t and won’t get shit no matter how hard you try to make them understand (that’s been my lesson recently). Obviously no one will completely understand you or be 100% on the same wavelength as you, that’s a dumb myth society accidentally teaches us. But the people who are your people — romantic or otherwise — they’re at least willing to attempt to understand. You find them, you’ve found gold. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 04:44 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 15 2020I’ve been working on leveling up from my old pick meisha ways and have a major friendship issue I’m dealing with rn. Like, my only friend treats me like shit, backstabbed me by sharing my secrets with everyone, and puts me down to make herself feel better because she has major issues with herself that make her feel inferior. I don’t talk to her very often anymore thank god, but whenever I do I quickly revert back to pick meisha tendencies friend-wise. Our friendship dynamic used to be me never s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 05:32 PM |
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