Remember!

painmakesyoustronger · 2020-07-30T00:33:40+00:00

If anyone wants to date this man, I have his number 😂

powerline2500 · 2020-07-30T01:39:53+00:00

The seemingly inability to control sexual urges is a big one. I cant stand when I see fully grown men turning everyday situations into sexual ones. Like when men grab on a wife or girlfriend randomly. Or make sexual jokes all day every day.

Its disgusting. Its not "men will be men". It means you yourself lack the emotional/psychological ability or desire to manage your sexual behavior appropriately.

People also need food. We need sleep. We need emotional comfort as well. Imagine a person shoving food in their face every time it was present just because it was there. Just going to the grocery store and ripping packages off the shelf and eating it because "I gotta eat".

That would be unacceptable even though eating is also a natural human behavior.

But alot of men spend so much of their mental energy focused on sex. Watching porn. Harassing women online. Sending creepy texts. Gawking at and catcalling women on the street.

Disgusting. This behavior is the equivelent of a male child diddling his penis all day after discovering its there.

But youre an adult.

I like men that can be involved deeply into sex when its happening and then be able to focus on other productive things when theyre not having sex.

A massive preoccupation with sex isnt masculine, it isnt attractive, it makes you look like a person who allows themselves to be dictated by basic instincts.

thepastamancer · 2020-07-30T00:30:57+00:00

Oh my god how did this picture of my ex get here??

feckincovid · 2020-07-30T02:44:59+00:00

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Rebirthed_Queen · 2020-07-30T01:01:15+00:00

I had the distinct displeasure of experiencing a relationship with someone exhibiting all of these last year, especially 1, 2, and 9. Those three traits I had previously believed were innocuous and forgivable to pride and immaturity (us being university students, but are true red flags that should be noted in dating and friendships.

MakeURegret · 2020-07-30T00:44:36+00:00

I’ve met someone who was 3-8. Was hard for me to spot, because I’m so used to 1,2,9 being the giveaways for that personality type.

peachpy54 · 2020-07-30T03:37:56+00:00

The man who most recently shredded my heart and self esteem is pictured above

pascalines · 2020-07-30T11:32:39+00:00

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daisy_0720 · 2020-07-30T07:03:49+00:00

My last ex only hit 2 of these while the previous one hit 8. So I guess I'm improving?

Thanks to FDS, the next guy will have none.

2020-07-30T01:43:41+00:00

Psh, just dumped him.

BackgroundPlankton8 · 2020-07-30T03:30:26+00:00

Woooaaahhh this is SO spot on for my ex

ayhtdws1989 · 2020-07-30T03:56:03+00:00

This is my dad 🤦

kamace11 · 2020-07-30T07:39:08+00:00

Ok I legit went to high school with Jake Woodard. He says some other stuff that's pretty sexist, so take his content with a grain of salt. I will give him credit though, he has changed drastically from being a truly awful little asshole.

pascalines · 2020-07-30T18:29:41+00:00

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wedonthavetobeishtar · 2020-07-30T01:19:09+00:00

Sounds like my favorite coworker...

PollyAnnaSunshine · 2020-07-30T01:24:33+00:00

My ex

sarahbae03 · 2020-07-30T02:09:06+00:00

Ex-husband... is that you??

peachpy54 · 2020-07-30T03:39:05+00:00

Does anyone know why this happens to men?

buttercup_010 · 2020-07-30T04:51:02+00:00

Whoa. I know this man 😬

chateauduchat · 2020-07-30T06:31:31+00:00

What are yall doin talking about my ex here?!

swatir24 · 2020-07-30T09:10:22+00:00

That's a narcissist for you!

ayhtdws1989 · 2020-07-30T11:35:13+00:00

Hey can anyone of you kind ladies explain to me what the the point -"is busy and fidgety " means? Isn't it a good thing he has his own life?

Suitcase33 · 2020-07-30T13:53:21+00:00

number 9 is such an ill thats not talked about enough. its a direct consequence of materialism, consumerism and a disconnect from the mind and soul. they always fidget thru social media in moments of silence, they have to have some sort of a high, all topics r only surface level/superficial even if its perceivably ‘deeper’ topics because they never developed any sort of self awareness or connection with things that are not material. this is displayed in women too if we are being honest its just in different ways.

Harper_721 · 2020-07-30T12:20:47+00:00

Jordan Belfort, is that you?

euphemiarose · 2020-07-30T17:58:05+00:00

Oh look, a perfect description of my ex

ResponsibleCharacter · 2020-08-26T21:36:50+00:00

Oh hey, you met my ex

Title	Remember!
Author	pascalines
Upvotes	325
Comments	53
Date	July 30, 2020 12:29 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/i0c6t8/remember/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/remember.719790 https://theredarchive.com/post/719790

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