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STRATEGYayhtdws1989/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 10:12 AM
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STRATEGYayhtdws1989/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 05:19 AM
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DISCUSSIONayhtdws1989/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 03:19 PM
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RANTayhtdws1989/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 01:58 PM
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MINDSET SHIFTayhtdws1989/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 02:17 PM
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NAH, SISayhtdws1989/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 06:48 PM
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Story time ☕ayhtdws1989/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 07:05 PM
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STRATEGYayhtdws1989/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 03:54 PM
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DISCUSSIONayhtdws1989/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 05:12 PM
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BOOK REPORTayhtdws1989/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 07:23 PM
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STRATEGYayhtdws1989/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 04:41 AM
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RANTayhtdws1989/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 10:35 AM
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DISCUSSIONayhtdws1989/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 05:24 AM
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STRATEGYayhtdws1989/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 04:44 PM
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SEEKING ADVICEayhtdws1989/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 04:14 PM
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STRATEGYayhtdws1989/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 07:08 PM
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SEEKING ADVICEayhtdws1989/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 02:08 PM
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GREEN FLAG 🟢ayhtdws1989/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 09:54 PM
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STRATEGYayhtdws1989/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 02:23 PM
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DISCUSSIONayhtdws1989/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 06:23 PM
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STRATEGYayhtdws1989/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 02:30 PM
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SEEKING ADVICEayhtdws1989/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 05:09 PM
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SEEKING ADVICEayhtdws1989/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 04:41 PM
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STRATEGYayhtdws1989/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 02:45 AM
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Story time ☕ayhtdws1989/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 07:54 AM
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STRATEGYayhtdws1989/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 10:30 AM
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SEEKING ADVICEayhtdws1989/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 02:47 AM
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DISCUSSIONayhtdws1989/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 05:40 PM
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SEEKING ADVICEayhtdws1989/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 07:06 AM
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DISCUSSIONayhtdws1989/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 01:18 PM
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Story time ☕ayhtdws1989/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 11:14 PM
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SEEKING ADVICEayhtdws1989/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 07:42 PM
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SEEKING ADVICEayhtdws1989/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 07:46 PM
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SEEKING ADVICEayhtdws1989/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 05:56 AM
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DISCUSSIONayhtdws1989/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 05:57 PM
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DISCUSSIONayhtdws1989/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 08:17 PM
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RANTayhtdws1989/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 04:37 AM
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LIES MEN TELLayhtdws1989/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 09:06 PM
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SEEKING ADVICEayhtdws1989/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 09:40 PM
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QUEEN SH*Tayhtdws1989/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 06:46 PM
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what were the nightmares about
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 04:59 PM
1

Oh damn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 12:22 PM
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Hey, as a person interested in getting extension s . Do they irreparabley harm ur lashes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 10:25 AM
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how do u keep em chasing even after marriage
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 12:16 AM
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fuckin pathetic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 08:10 PM
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he'll probably try his luck out again ,if they still talk
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 07:11 PM
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who notices? and also how is falling in love such a bad thing. and why is ur personal life mixed with ur work
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 03:14 PM
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hey,im still in college can u elaborate more on why its a bad idea
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 02:27 PM
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oh im still in college, can u elaborate why its bad?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 02:27 PM
3

yes please
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 12:35 PM
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go dal!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 11:14 AM
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ugh so pathetic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 06:23 PM
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hahahahahah, made me laugh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 06:22 PM
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wtaf im so sorry he did that. a complte fucktard
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 06:16 PM
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how old is he
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 05:45 PM
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Fucked up tbh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 06:22 PM
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Please dm me too❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 09:46 PM
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how is it obvious, its just i couldnt make out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 05:59 PM
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don't you think she might not have enough experiennce dating and not enough knowledge to chose a life partner if she wants to get married by 30 if she only starts dating at 26
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 12:50 PM
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why do you think one shd date at 26 only and also why not younger?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 12:49 PM
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tf? how does he have the audacity
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 12:46 PM
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what age do u recommend a girl start dating
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 11:06 AM
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its 8 babies with 8 women sis....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 10:39 AM
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pUsSy iS aBuNdAnT they have been deluding themselves. and it honestly took me some work to get the abundance mindset. but there is no turning back now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 10:34 AM
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why tf is he even crying
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 10:06 AM
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yes not anymore. i read a quote of hers once where she was like , id rather be single. after being heartbroken so many times.(all to well was a product of this) and she did have a pickme phase but im glad she changed. im very proud of her . she went being from a pop princess to a music legend
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 06:27 PM
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i liked this post so much i reread it 1099849903 times. op ur a bossbitch. i want to grow up and be like you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 04:59 PM
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She’s an inspiration. she is . the way she stood up for herself against apple,by writing that letter, against her abuser who molested her and against many "powerful strong men" in the industry is commendable. she was her own knight in shining armour is mindblowing. she was vastly hated by many for sexist reasons and she came up on top
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 04:15 PM
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sis i felt personally attacked too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 04:02 PM
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Omg sameeee haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 01:16 PM
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are u a swiftie?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 08:31 AM
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calvin was trash, and no wonder swifties refer to him as calcuim hydroxide
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 08:23 AM
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I think these women all dreamed big too they didn't settle for "he's nice", "he doesn't cheat", or "he pays for our dates" but they had big dreams for themselves and their partners too. spot on
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 08:16 AM
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ohhh, that makes sense. and yah once a cheater always a cheater
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 08:02 AM
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hey sister please tell us more. i would to hear more about what interests you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 08:00 AM
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he creates a job vacancy job vacancy of what?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 07:28 AM
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i totally get why u felt drained. And i had a pickme friend too. the thing was draining i just didnt know it then. she would make plans with me then cancel if she got any male attention. she never put any kind of effort into our friendship but would make plans with any guy friend in a days span and would see him the next day or the day after. she never gave me the same energy. and this was my childhood bestfriend. it showed me the reality that being a pickme is dangerous and also being friends w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 07:02 AM
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but men don’t talk about it and hide it even more than women do yah for sure. this is true. also men dont become targets after they are adults the same is not true for women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 06:54 AM
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i just cant with men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 06:43 PM
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Men in Islam do that, they fuck around and than demand a virgin girl who never left her parent's house. omg the fucking hipocrisy. like fr smdh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 06:40 PM
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oh so this man was using fake photos? of some other person on his profile?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 06:39 PM
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. Some of them are the worst pickmeishas I've ever encountered, and I can't believe I used to spend emotional energy helping them manage the messes in their lives due to the LVM and NVM they entertained. what did they do?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 12:09 PM
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i dont gravitate towards vain people, you know who arent ambitious or hardworking. and many lvw are vainn. so they got filtered out . and also i like people who put in the effort to talk to you and make plans with you. i cant deal with people who dont. so again pickmes got filtered out because they would throw away a good plan for a scrote if he hit them up last minute. and also i tend to make friends who are similar to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 11:58 AM
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ikr ,my dad does so many things that are looked down upoun in this subreddit and i would have thought its normal unless i had found fds
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 11:18 AM
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what the hell is stock photos
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 11:10 AM
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I'm afraid it's more frequent than men are able to talk about it fair enough but once they both are adults i feel the girl child is more in danger
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 11:08 AM
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thank u sister, for this wonderful insight
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 11:15 PM
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is sexual abuse for men common? . from what ive heard all women have been harrased in some form atleast once in their life. what abt men?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 11:06 PM
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that yes killed me hahahahahaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 06:01 PM
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In general I have very little patience for complainers, people with low pain tolerances, etc because I've been through so much pain and suffering. girl,uh same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 05:57 PM
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here's a reason why many dramas and songs in famously "sexually suppressed" countries often feature adultery. sis do u have any examples. i would love to know more about this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 04:40 PM
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exactly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 04:15 PM
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omg hhahahahahahahaaa. the humour here is next level
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 03:41 PM
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Basically, men find it attractive when they think we are not easy to obtain. This is why PickMe behaviour does not work. Men are inherently hunters and pursuers - they get turned off when women do their job for them. this is one of the things mainstream media has been changing and its sad .the biggest tragedies of all time are when women put men above them.and men do love women who are hard to get ,and those who say different are lieing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 11:17 PM
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ikr you hardly know anyone, a year in. its sad but true. also very scary
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 08:13 PM
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I’ve had numerous men who I would deem low value describe their ideal woman as being what FDS would deem a HVW what did they exactly say sis?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 08:09 PM
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time collecting evidence and then took them to court upon leaving the job for the way they treated me what did you do
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 08:07 PM
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The fuckin catch here for men us that they invented patriarchy ,the made marriage and commitment a thing and then generalized being a pickme then they aren't even attracted to pickmes . They want HVW not pickmes that they told what to do . Like are you ok sir ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 11:25 AM
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Hey I would love to pick your brain about the law field. Do you mind if I PM you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 07:27 PM
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Hey I think ur dilemma is valid. Keep ur career ,make that money, buy urself whatever and also do charity , whatever u want . The man shd have a PROVIDER MINDSET . He should be paying for everything ,maid,cook,food,trips,new stuff for the home,when u both go shopping stuff for you all of that . And leave if at anytime the man throws a fuss abt it during the dating stage. NEVER become a stay at home wife ,men don't have any respect for them . That's the sad part. Also having a career will give yo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 07:25 PM
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U queen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 07:17 PM
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how to use public databases like county and state databases to check for marriage certificates and criminal behavior. I could go on and on and on. how do u do this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 05:14 PM
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i didnt get this can someone explain?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 03:25 PM
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im so happy for you sis, this is the attitude we all women need to have
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 02:47 PM
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hi, please pm me too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 12:02 PM
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First off charming means nothing. Men will offcourse be nice to you and charm you because otherwise they would not get what they want .so op please don't buy anything a man tells u because he is charming.charming means nothing to me. Also in a way does he remind you of your father was your father this way . It could be some way of you trying to find someone like him to redo your childhood relationship all over again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 07:40 PM
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I love your comments
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 07:17 PM
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Exactly for younger ages it makes zero sense. Because we all know how age gap relationships are and the nen who do them .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 07:07 PM
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just curious
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 04:59 PM
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the dating age rule (age divided by 2 plus 7). is this fds approved?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 04:59 PM
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good for you sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 03:33 PM
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honestly ,just focusing on work and friends is so rewarding emotionally. no man can bring the peace and freedom that comes from focusing on your family and your money
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 03:17 PM
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his wife is 57 while he is 91,isthis weird?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 02:46 PM
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could you please recommend me some . thanks:)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 08:11 PM
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How did u find all this out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 07:22 PM
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thats so cool
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 10:50 AM
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what is it really true we are the centre of this universe?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 10:50 AM
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As someone who grew up with friends constantly shutting on my standards trust me they ended up regretting their words and basically have to now deal with shitty men in their lives whom they’ve enabled and encouraged. Stay strong and fierce :) oh what happened to them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 05:42 PM
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I have zero respect for guy who parade around their body count like a badge of honour. literally shows that they gain their validation from how many women they have slept with. like dude go love yourself . Its the weirdest thing a guy can say and a guy who is super into hookup culture only thinks abt his dick he doesn't put much thought into his future. like he only cares about what happens in the moment and is not the kind of guy i would rlly encourage anyone to be with
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 07:50 AM
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You are too young to be having a child. Being a teenage mom will take a huge toll on u and ur child . I know this is ur first baby and u love it . But the father is a piece of shit who emotionally neglects you . Also imagine him doing the same thing to the child. He will be a Scott Disick 2.0 .might cheat ,will evade responsibility and will completely ignore you then dump u for a girl 10 years younger then him. I'm sorry this had to be like this. I wish he had reacted more appropriately but him …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 07:06 AM
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Hey please could u do one for me too?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 12:26 AM
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The dynamic is all back to front, men aren’t working to prove they’re worthy of a woman carrying their child. Women are getting knocked up happily by losers who live with their mum im from India and its the same here, its all in reverse and since i have high standards abt all this stuff , i get made fun of or like told ill be alone for the rest of my life. ugh scrotes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 02:36 PM
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lol i wish this wasnt true but most men are lvm
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 01:45 PM
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ugh same sister
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 06:21 AM
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im from india too, which city are u from
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 06:21 AM
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omg I wish you didn't have to see me like this with no makeup!" honestly that gurl shd love herself more. oof. also u did everything right and like that guy can go to hell
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 05:37 AM
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we still ran into another woman he knew who threw herself at him in front of me. what? in the world why would someone disrespect themselves like this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 02:11 PM
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What is it like for Desi women who want to be independent and buy their own home, or set up themselves without a man or immediate family? seen as a failure, basically. because u couldn't snag a man.ugh. also ur personal life will be talked abt by mmiddle aged female relatives , they will give their opinions because they feel they have the right to do so. also alot of women can buy their own home have their own business make their own money. there is no one stopping them but they get tunnel visio…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 06:35 AM
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Omg sis ,same like goras are way less mysogynistic and so accepting ofc they have lvms too. But like they don't expect you to cook and clean like some maid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 10:52 PM
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lololol poor burger
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 06:15 PM
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I 100% believe if she hadn’t come home from college pregnant to live with us for almost four years, her father and I might still be together. Im not blaming her though- her father made some really horrible parenting choices, and I didn’t handle it very well either, it wasn’t what I signed up for. what were his decesions
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 06:11 PM
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Funny story, the girl he met and moved in with him less than two months after I left was AN ACTUAL MAID! Better her than me. 🤣 thats actually sad for her, also glad u got out since he dint want a partner but a mommy 2.0 for his kids
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 06:10 PM
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Once you realize that EVERYTHING in your life is the result of YOUR choices (how you respond and work through all the shit in life), you may start making some different choices. preach sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 05:11 PM
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how old was he?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 04:11 PM
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its truly sad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 04:42 AM
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so true .......... even the very rich,handsome and succesful ones. i heards future the rapper has 8 kids with 8 diff women and has left all of them ........ so depressing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 11:06 PM
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Now one of them has been married twice at the age of 22,and has two kids by now thats hella messy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 11:02 PM
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honestly ur intuition and gut instinct is commendable , truly it is sis. this guy sounds trash.and usualyy wat lvm berate us for is what they actually are doin or have done
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 10:32 PM
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yes and once u do its easier not to fall into that trap again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 07:19 PM
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this is me until i realised wht was happening
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 07:00 PM
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yah all they care about is themselves
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 06:40 PM
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Sorry if I don't blame or hate those women, I can't. He was the problem. More often than not they were duped and they always did the right thing by walking away. i dont blame you becausee my dad is the exact same . he also cheated on my mom and like i dont blame them because my ad was the problem . he was the married man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 03:03 PM
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aughed in his face and told him off so sweetly it must have made his stomach hurt. what did u tell him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 02:54 PM
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The mental gymnastics this person performed within 60 seconds was really something to see. what did he say?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 02:22 PM
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who is she
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 02:00 PM
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i dont understand the effects of this . i agree its bad but want to know why exactly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 01:44 PM
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some of them never end and they get married to them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 01:42 PM
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but he was raised with this idea of marrying a submissive young virgin from his own culture how did ur home life turn out and does ur mom know?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 01:35 PM
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vidya whats vidya?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 01:20 PM
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oh thks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 11:44 AM
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he sounds like a complete idiot, who leeached off of u for years and had no consience to even register it. also what kind of man has no shame while living life unemployed like wtf?. you men have one job .that also tey cant do
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 08:41 PM
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The stories I could tell you about the excuses he constantly came up with over and over again would make your head spin what did he come up with?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 01:26 PM
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whats a harvard momm
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 12:48 PM
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now that i know in what context they are saying just the tip. it seems like these bois cant think beyond their dicks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 08:46 PM
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oh i completly got what you mean. also its kinda like lowkey rape. what do they mean by just the tip. sounds so shady
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 08:10 PM
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whats the just the tip trick? and why shd we shut down those requests
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 07:48 PM
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like call u a liar and say he never harrased you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 03:05 AM
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do work places take this kind of things as complaints, idk he could go up to them and lie
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 02:16 AM
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after stumbling upoun fds, i really also wonder how so many women want this marriage thing like , sis how?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 10:47 PM
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sis where did u read about this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 10:46 PM
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even when they knew you were married?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 10:43 PM
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wait what. if u dont mind can u share your story, also ur moms life and how it affected u and ur family
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 03:26 PM
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wow.. men..... also i am in this tution where most students are guys and they gossip like anything lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 12:50 PM
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I'm 26 and I dont need this shit bhabhi. the bhabi part killed me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 11:50 AM
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good luck!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 10:54 AM
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love this kind of content
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 09:56 PM
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oh yeah completly agree. i live in a place where rape culture and like male violence against women is rampant. im 17 and if any man tries any shit on me im ready to claw his eyes out with my bare hands. my dad has a horrible temper(lvm) thank god i got it from him but use it only in appropriate situations
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 09:54 PM
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i want to be a lawyer too ,because i have a strong sense for justice and my mother always said it was full of dangerous people. now i truly get what she meant. this sounds scary to have ppl threaten you when you arent even the bad guy (surprise suprise they are)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 09:51 PM
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does this mean all women in the law career have been threatened?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 09:42 PM
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love the last thing on your list
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 09:42 PM
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hey, im so happy for you. stay the same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 09:32 PM
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facts sis,its like as if men werent enough
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 06:06 PM
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lmaooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 01:48 PM
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what does she mean by that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 01:25 PM
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much like Jekyll and Hyde what does this phrase mean?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 12:30 PM
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dumb as a box of rocks hahhaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 06:20 AM
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My dad is emotionally unavailable, sarcastic-mean, smart, and manipulative. Oh, also a serial cheater my dad is the exact same . including extremely charming and nice to other people except his goddamn family
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 06:01 AM
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good one
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 03:10 PM
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oh thank you sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 09:12 AM
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Whats a final boss pickme
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 08:48 PM
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how do u know that sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 04:35 PM
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1)tell someone you trust. telling my parents and best friend about it helped. it will make you feel less sad,isolated and alone 2)talk to a therapist- talking to my school counsellor helped 3)read about how to heal- google anything knowing more about what ur dealing with will make it easier for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 04:24 PM
0

what?.............
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 04:16 PM
4

couldnt have said it better
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 12:10 PM
1

Girl what. Women who go after taken men are the worst
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 04:03 AM
6

how do u not internalize this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 02:19 PM
3

I think it's because now they get the sense I would literally rip their eyes out of their skulls if they dared sis pls give me some tips to be like this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 01:37 PM
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i dont think women shd accept that men are unfaithful or anything, thats just helping the patriarchy and the propaganda that men "need" more women. we as women shd strive to need a man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 09:45 AM
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f majority of women stopped tolerating bs like this and started dumping men for this kind of behavior, men would eventually start to discipline themselves 100 %. if women stopped being blind to the lies that society feeds women like" women need to get married" "male interst= value as a woman" . all the men would get their act right
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 06:17 AM
4

same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 04:41 AM
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The best part? When we broke up his ex-gf wanted nothing to do with him so he tried to run back to me and apologize men and their audacity
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 02:56 AM
4

how did he get that sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 02:54 PM
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well said sis, after fds i rarely find couples in healthy rlns. there is always something wrong,like the girl goes 50/50.or the guy plays vid games over choosing to spend time with his gf. etc. i think the perfect love exists only in my head because when i look around me i see such horrible rlns i just lose interest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 02:34 AM
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its sad how uncommon it is these days to find couples that sharea healthy,secure bond while in love whilst also being completly smitten by each other.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 08:27 PM
10

yah i do agree with you, i completly misread the tome of your prevous comment
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 07:32 PM
4

the namaste!. im indian and this makes me proud
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 07:06 PM
18

oh ,they got married to those same boys and now are super unhappy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 06:55 PM
8

is achieved with intermittent rewards, negging, giving less than you receive, triggering mate guarding and competitive instincts, how does one acheive this sis?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 06:53 PM
1

yes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 05:57 PM
19

i knew a few girls who were dating some guys, they couldnt go to a college trip cuz their bfs wouldnt let them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 05:56 PM
1

when i see pickmes i just feel bad for them and honestly after i watch famouse and succesful women be pickmes i realise how deeply all these nonsense is rooted in our society
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 05:32 PM
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i really didnt understand the depth of that problem untili saw my dad do it to my mom
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 02:32 PM
11

couldnt have said it bettter sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 02:04 PM
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my dad doesnt let my mom do certain things and it is so annoying
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 12:47 PM
1

smarter in the sense?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 04:14 PM
2

your dad did what?............................ the audacity
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 05:56 AM
2

kudos to you for rediscoverung yourself and what you stand for. many people dont do it. also lvm guys literally show themselves within 3 monts its so hard for them to keep up the "act " even if they wanted to
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 04:30 AM
1

what behaviuors do u think attracted these fbois?. im curiuos
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 03:52 AM
2

1989 cemented her position in the industry . i like 1989,rep,folklore
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 05:09 PM
3

i love her too, what ur fav album?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 11:30 AM
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"females mate with the top 20% of males and relentlessly cuckold them. They deceive the males they mate with about paternity, thus gathering resources from several. Beta males do not get to mate and perpetuate their genes at all." Sis how do they manage to do all this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 08:50 AM
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She has found a HVM in her life. Named joe Alwyn and has been dating him for 4 years . They are very happy . And also he loves her and protects her every chance he gets.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 08:45 AM
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Wait what,I thought it was the other way around . Sis could u take the tike to educate me more on this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 05:36 PM
17

Sis could you explain this in in more detail
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 05:34 PM
3

sis i choked on my water hahahahahahaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 09:34 AM
3

girl how do you stop wanting relationships and wondering about falling lin love.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 08:15 AM
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what the actual fuck sis.who kicks someone out? glad to hear he is an ex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 06:05 AM
2

oh ok ,honestly i wish there was a way we could give all the pick mes fds
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 07:45 PM
2

oo. how do u know all this sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 07:34 PM
1

oh shit,sounds horrible sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 07:33 PM
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paedophiles suck. i hate them with everything in me. i wish it had more stricter laws and easier ways forprosecution. thank you for the hugs im sending some luck your way.how did you deal with the rapes and did u know who they were
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 12:18 PM
1

whats the news sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 12:10 PM
1

your parents?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 07:49 AM
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sister im so sorry that happened to you, that is so painful to hear. i told my dad about being molested by a male servant at age 5 and he asked me why i hadnt told them right away .it damaged me that my own dad didnt want to believe me. fuckin still hurts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 07:29 AM
2

sister could you drop some truth bombs i have the same issuses as you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 03:31 PM
1

oh my god, my dad is the exact same, i want to cut ties with him too. but the thing is im 17 and i need him to finance me for college and other things but all i want to do is cut him off and never date again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 03:24 PM
2

same shit happened to my mom. the only difference is that my mom isstill married to my dad and i have the trust issues and dont plan on ever dating again. it sucks so bad. and when i say im traumatized to my parents they are in denial and say oh no it didnt happen to you. your fine. like wtf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 02:49 PM
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“Love should give you peace and invigorate your spirit, not drain you amen sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 05:47 AM
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even i felt apps were not my thing. also ive had this strong intuition that im going to meet my soulmate (if he even exists) irl . through some event or a friend not through a dating app so i never found it even interesting enough to consider
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 05:46 AM
2

thankuu gorgeous,also i hope intelligent,communicative and quality cross my paath too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 09:06 PM
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wtaf, ppl like this shdnt even be allowed to be parents
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 06:55 PM
4

John's image and her image seem to be at such odds so true . she also started a fight with john at kimye's wedding . something around her insecurities of not being as famous
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 06:48 PM
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"mother/daughter" what exactly does this mean?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 06:45 PM
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if you make yourself available for a guy, it lowers your overall value TO HIM. in the beggining or always?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 05:29 PM
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Marketing executives can tell you more about human psychology than any of these self help gurus on the Oprah Winfrey show so true oh my god. i love marketing and the amount of manipulation techniques they teach u is mind blowing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 05:28 PM
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" they do not play hard to get but are very discriminating about who they have long term relationships with and that makes them all the more atractive. "the guys?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 05:26 PM
2

yass queen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 03:49 PM
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may you find HVM who you are attracted to and will treat you like the queen that you are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 01:57 PM
2

what does chip on their shoulder mean
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 01:49 PM
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bless me too ,queen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 01:49 PM
5

How did he react when u stopped being available and also wdym by implode?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 05:59 AM
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what a scrote ,he sounds insecure to me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 04:41 AM
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can anyone of you queens clarify point #5 how can a LVM bait you into saying i love you first?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 04:08 AM
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also what does the"i dont deserve you mean"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 05:40 PM
4

queeen can u pls link the website again?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 05:40 PM
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im so proud of you queen . i used to put alot of filters on my pics but stopped. im glad ur on the path to self love and would love to talk to u more
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 05:36 PM
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oh wow, how did u learn all abt this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 05:16 PM
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hey first of all its amazing that you had that mindset from the get go . i'm 17 and its good that i found this sub early on. Even I want a family and kids . i think its pretty normal for everyone guy or girl to want a family and kids (even though most guys don't admit it where i live) where i live is a trash place of only lvm men insight. and if you are pretty young the best thing to do is wait and focus on yourself ,find a purpose which is bigger then you and the rest of us. i volunteer at chil…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 10:47 AM
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how did u even notice,queen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 09:40 AM
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who is she
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 03:59 AM
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i completely agree with you sister. a HVM will spend because he cares and actually wants too. I know a man who takes pleasure in paying for everything for his family and also making their problems his own and solving them . A LV will make your life miserable ngl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 03:47 AM
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woah so they want to splurge on women ? idk the world has called women golddiggers all our life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 02:22 AM
2

periodt
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 03:18 PM
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omg HAHAHHahahahhaHHAHAhshsha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 02:51 PM
7

ohh factsss
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 03:19 AM
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have u caught them? lolol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 03:19 AM
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yah my friends bf who is super into feminism and respecting women also posted a very dirty joke directed at women on his insta handle. it was so digusting. i thought he was different until that happened
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 07:52 PM
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hey sis ,which post have u read of min. thank u for the hugs. i feel much much better. sending some well wishes and loads of health and happiness ur way too dowry is fucked up. i d rather stay single then marry a guy who asks me for that. thank you for taking time out and reading my other replies means alot to me dm me , i would love to talk to you more
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 07:42 PM
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yes sister . i completly agree with you, my dad is HV outdoors and bats my mo when indoors.i told my uncle and mom ill marry some american who is a feminist. they took it as a joke but i wasnt joking
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 07:34 PM
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oh i didnt know at all about this. yah we dont know much about hat happened and should not assume it washer that got dumped
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 07:16 AM
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you dont leave your dreams and individuality for a man. and also move in with him before marriage? oof. recipe for disaster. super pick me moves. she needs to read why men marrybitches
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 04:41 AM
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this is so good to hear. tit for tat bitches
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 02:53 AM
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Sister I'm grateful for you that u shared this story. I'm sorry this shit had to happen and all this men are straight up trash . Also u are very brave to have made it out of all that mess. I don't think you are any ordinary, u are reading fds and are super special. I hate those men who don't see women for their personality , achievements and experiences but just as objects to fuck. I have a nvm dad that hit me with a chappal for trying to stand up against him in a fight. He is trash and has chea…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 08:11 PM
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Female celebrities can be such pickme s it's honestly sickening. Katrina,kareena,Nicki Minaj,Kylie jenner and many lvms too in bollywood. Also I thought maybe the older women got the less pickme they become also I expected much more from women in IT such talent and intelligence but never translates into like their personal life. "but they'll still thirst over and create drama all over some LVM who thinks saying the n word is cool. It's a mess" wait really? Fr. Oh my god. They really created dram…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 08:02 PM
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indian fds follower here,my dad is a straight up nvm i have zero hopes, i have aguy friend who is super amazing and fds aligned. so i thibk maybe there are guys like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 04:49 PM
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im indian and i hate to hear this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 04:47 PM
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are really 90% women pickmes ,how did you find this out, also do u hav any stories
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 04:47 PM
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wait really? wtf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 04:46 PM
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im 17 so never understood this mid life crisis thing. i know its exists because my dad did the exact same thing to my mom. can u elaborate more on it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 05:51 PM
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hey sis ,please dont feel guilty about not knowing any of this. our society has been based on gaslighting women from the beginning of time.in my culture. there are some pickme women who literally make their daughters who are teenagers fast a day a year to get them a good husband. fucked up how much women are conditioned to believe their worth,purpose and meaning comes from having a man . when its actually the other way around. having a women in a mans life improves his social status,day to day a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 04:59 PM
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factssssssss. can you elaborate more on what is wrong with them that leads to this. like i know its bad but i need vocabulary to explain it properly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 12:46 PM
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exactlyy!!!!!!!!!!! the way society has gaslit women for ages abt everything from their love lives,bodies,aging bs to their abilities has made my blood boil
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 06:35 AM
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🤡🤡🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 06:37 PM
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the notebook yeh jawani hai deewani devdas ddlj
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 07:20 AM
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men never date down. every relationship i have seen irl and alos celebrity relationships the girl is always the prize,better in looks,career(making her look more stable ),mature and nice.i have yet to see a male date down .that shizz doesn't happen. so why should women lower theirs this is just a way to gaslight woen to get them to lower their standards and marry lvms and scrotes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 07:12 AM
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so true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 07:45 PM
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already did queen . thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 07:45 PM
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i tend to agree with your statements. our society is so pick me and pro porn it sucks. i see relationships now. where ppl complain abt their wives/husbads and think its cool to pick them apart or hate them and it makes it so obvious that these ppl settled. and tbh i would never date a guy who is into it. makes me sick
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 07:43 PM
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im looking for one too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 07:38 PM
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no honestly no. im 17 and pretty young . never had sex so like ur basic knowledge comes from it. after coming to this sub i realised why the gut feeling abt it sucking was true and not me going crazy. but it was never obvious to me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 07:25 PM
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yes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 05:12 PM
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got him chocolate and wrote him poems on his bday .smh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 04:49 PM
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girl honestly sameee!!!!!!. like i juudge couples all the time from their stories and now can smell a LVM from a mile away. its entertaining and i dont plan on giving this trait up . Also i keep telling my best friends about these traits and men and why they suck and its like eye opening for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 05:23 AM
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Yes gurl!!! . Thank you for the replyyy. It means alottt to mee😭😭😭😭😭. That guy seemed cool but whatever now ugh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 03:43 AM
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Oh my god girl,same shit happened to me . But like I thought of not giving up . He was attracted to me at first. Now he replies with one word texts and I'm like wtf. It's like ugh. I put in effort I even told him let's video call he said maybe later. I was super embarrassed but got the signal anyway let's hope for the best
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 04:59 PM
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U need to rewire ur brain and tell yourself that the reln isn't boring it's healthy and that's how relationships should go. Tell yourself you deserve this peace in love and the unconditional attention and affection at all times. Tell yourself you deserve a good guy who is honest with you and treats you well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 01:57 PM
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My dad is exactly like that. He makes a fuss at every restaurant we go to. Toxic af
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 01:55 PM
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look love, a HVM will not care abt your past. i know this for fact because my sister got cheated on twice and got dumped by a scrote ,following year she meets a guy and he knows abt her past and gave her the atmost respect and time to think abt dating again. she was unsure to ever date again because of her last reln. he knew and was patient and he liked her for her. he is a very secure guy and has also had a convo with the oher guy because of work and he never felt intimidated he was nice and co…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 06:33 AM
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true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 05:13 AM
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hey boo, im sorry to hear this. my dad is a lvm too. cheated on my mother. has nudes of that coworker on his phone. like 40 pics i guess. He beats my mom when fights break out. hates my moms guts. gaslights her and isolates her from her family that means well. and im 17. last month me and my dad got into a fight and instead of apologizing to me (he was in the wrong) he picked up his slipper and started to beat me. i ran away from him and like didnt talk to him for a month. im planning to cut off…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 04:27 AM
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exactly , it was so weird that he didnt go down on one knee
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 03:20 AM
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I'm from india . But seriously this thing would for any guy across the world in my book. He has to say stuff like "I like you and I want to ask you out". Simple and direct. He needs to be sure of his feelings and wear his heart on his sleeve . Otherwise it's tata-byebye my dudes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 11:51 AM
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Ohh, this makes sense. Thank you sm ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 07:55 PM
2

Hey can anyone of you kind ladies explain to me what the the point -"is busy and fidgety " means? Isn't it a good thing he has his own life?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 11:35 AM
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why could u not kiss him if u both were comfortable with sex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 04:17 AM
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This is my dad 🤦
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 03:56 AM
2

Great advice sis. Thank u sm for the comment
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 09:01 PM
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Girl I want you lmaoo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 07:13 AM
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Girl u sound amazing. First off all ur achievements are mind blowing. Your doing great for a college kid. And let me tell you . All the boys in that age are just like this. I'm glad u have standards but finding a HVM in college is very rare. I don't want to sound pessimistic but all the ppl ur age are immature or just growing up and don't know what good for them in the long run . Hence the weird behaviour in dating that is just off putting. I want to tell you I want a relationship too with a HVM…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 07:12 AM
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This book was a life changer. It taught me alot of things. Mainly guys don't want to be coddled. They don't want" did u get home texts" . Or how was ur journey texts. They don't want a mother. Also haveing ur own life was a big big eye opener. I would revolve my life,schedule and social life around a guy. Now not anymore. After realising it did the exact opposite of what I wanted didn't do that. Also what was in the 6 th chap ,I don't remember
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 07:06 AM
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Oh my god terrible. I thought Katy had a good guy . And why did he leave miranda
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 06:49 AM
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Wait Orlando cheated on Katy?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 05:26 AM
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This is the most pick me thing i have seen. Bet she s the man in the relationship
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 05:20 AM
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So many women need to know this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 03:34 PM
1

Factssssss
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 03:34 PM
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yah true. she is very smart.she knows what she wants which is even more admirable
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 07:48 AM
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he sounds alot like my dad.ngl. and my dad was exactly like this. sweet charming and then after he got married to my mom he flipped . all his breakdowns were directed at her. all his insecurities are projected at her. he cant make one decision without her . cant go to even see the tenants without her because idk what . but anything small she does like. forget to put salt in the food. its a boxing match . He wont let her live. also any concerns she raises like ,a diiference in opinions over somet…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 05:59 PM
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Ikr ,while these desi aunties are themselves married to LVM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 04:56 AM
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oh mu god . 5 kids!. thats alot
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 04:51 AM
9

exactly . its rape . rape.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 02:06 AM
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yup exactly . its sad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 02:05 AM
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exactly. i dont get it . what does she see in him . that gives her potential husband and father vibes like , take of ur rose colored glasses
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 02:04 AM
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wtf . i cant believe this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 02:01 AM
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yup , u read that right
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 02:01 AM
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oh my god. i had no idea abt that. i feel bad for the child
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 02:01 AM
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yup. he gave me the absolute shittiest advice which i thgt was absolute gold since it came from a guys mouth but was just trash
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 03:59 PM
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hey sis can u link her interview. would love to watch it :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 03:51 PM
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Girlll !!!!!!! I'm so happy for you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 10:19 AM
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girl i used to talk to this guy and he love bombed me and told me alot abt how this girl was mean to him and blocked him and she was the love of his life and all. i felt bad for him. then a frnd of mine named anika told me she is the sweetest soul in the world and that he must have done some shit to make her block him like something HORRIBLE.and now much wiser and i dont believe the crazy ex girlfriemds trope too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 06:57 PM
2

did u ever ask why they were mean to him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 06:00 PM
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What does that point after the one "shows alot of non sexual affection "mean. I didn't get it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 04:51 AM
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Hey love, it's realising that all your relationships bare gonna fail except for one. So don't think much abt maybe one guy not working out. Also I look at celebrities who are happy in relationships and see their dating graph. Many of them eg Katy,Taylor, Ariana were treated badly in the past . Have been heartbroken so it happens to everyone . But now these ladies have the love of their lives with them . A happy ending. Also when u lose a friend ,u never take that personally right . It's just lik…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 01:19 PM
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The study part 😂😂😂👏😂😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 03:28 PM
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I'm happy for u sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 07:18 PM
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im from india. my mom hasnt sold any of it. and is waiting for stocks to rise.yes im definitly better now .and will likely see a therapist. thank you for your advice
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 09:30 PM
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yassssssssssssssss, i like how she has a hvm now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 05:55 AM
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Wow. Truly happy for her. She has upgraded in life and that's all that matters
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 07:15 PM
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girl samee
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 02:56 AM
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amen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 04:14 PM
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we’ve all been brainwashed into thinking we should change who we are for men and guys never think to change so true . i have been struggling with rewiring my brain so as to not try to "change myself to keep a man". it is quite hard but im working on it. also i keep reminding myself that if a guy likes me , he likes me for who i am and not for the person he thinks i will become after agreeing to date him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 06:33 AM
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hey gurl. im from india too. thank u for the great advice. if u dont mind me asking what is ur current family situation that u have a hard time dealing with
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 08:58 PM
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ur welcome! glad u liked it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 03:07 AM
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ugh ,what crap.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 06:32 PM
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i am ignoring one guy almost accidently . i dont text that much and hence forget replying to ppl for almost 2 days.lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 05:34 PM
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hey,im so glad you liked this article. i had been thinking abt this fact for a while and finally decided to write it out. Everyone feels triggered in some way but im glad ur trying to rewire your brain and not feel that way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 05:33 PM
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girl get em'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 05:30 PM
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in a way , it still is older as when people are in their youth even a year of difference can have alot of difference in maturity ,manners and how one conducts themselves. Also their are loads of couples out there who have a huge age gap. like nick and priyanka and many more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 05:30 PM
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yes gurl!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 05:15 PM
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iv surprisingly no interest in guys. i focus on myself alot more. my hobbies,my passions and my life.some friends still talk abou cute guys they see and i swear to god i have 0 enthusiasm to talk abt trash. i have been reading alot more. focusing on my family and money
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 05:28 AM
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guys lie all the time. I have seen it with my own two big eyes. Its cringey and pathetic on their behalf. my bff's ex lied to her about the reason for their break up. A guy i was talking to said he liked me and when i didn't respond with a i like you too. he said maybe yes maybe no. i was done. i blocked him. A good friend of mine asked me to be his gf . i was not interested and then he played it of as a joke but i know he wasn't kidding. these men lack confidence . they don't like themselves. A…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 08:14 AM
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Girl this is amazing. My ex too was shitty and horrible. And now girl im leveled up and so so indifferent . lemme tell you my friends are shocked im not angry at him or whatever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 08:04 AM
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im afraid not. its very very hard to do that. the only way to go is find a new man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 07:51 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/gs3k8f/how_to_lose_a_guy_in_10_ways/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 01:06 PM
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i gave my ex, chocolates, wrote him poems and guess what he is my ex.~oh well~
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 01:04 PM
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:)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 01:03 PM
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:)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 01:02 PM
1

girl been there done that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 01:02 PM
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hey anon, u seem to get nervous becuz you want them to like you or even have a great time ?. well honestly if they asked you out they probably like you and are impressed. plus i would reccomend listening to some pumping up songs (like super badass tracks based on your taste,oc) or watching funny videos on youtube or even looking at memes this will make you less nervous and might make you more confident. ask simple questions like about fav tv shows, childhood etc. you'll be fine
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 06:04 PM
6

whats the show killing eve about?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 10:11 AM
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omg sister. i never saw it that way. thank you sm. intergenerational trauma is a thing . glad i realised.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 08:36 AM
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girl , my ex treated me like shit. i did everything for him. wanted to even marry him . he dumped me. and now i know what i want from life. either 100% commitment ,love ,affection,attention or 100% singlehood. no in between .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 07:49 AM
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great advice sister. its never easy to get over our past traumas. im happy to hear you are working towards betering yourself and not blaming the universe for giving you a hard time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 08:29 AM
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i so glad you could recognise the signs sister, and didn't turn a blind eye towards them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 08:28 AM
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it is trash .. my head is still hurting from reading this book
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 08:24 AM
2

so true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 08:24 AM
6

hahaha ... this comment is golden
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 08:23 AM
1

this is golden
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 08:23 AM
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really good points sister
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 10:54 AM
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men who go around telling their "body count" and boasting about it make me cringe. such losers. idk what makes them think its COOL.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 10:06 AM
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i agree sister. i will have to say that the show is entertaining but i can see the problematic behavior. all the lack of confidence leading to plastic surgery and also they think they NEED a man. is disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 09:30 AM
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i dont blame kylie for her lack of good taste in men . but we can blame her for not taking the time to reflect on her choices and relationships. after my breakup i have done some insightful thinking and have taken the pledge to improve my life in all areas. i hope she does it too. she has alot of her life ahead of her. it would be a waste to spend it crying over men who broke her heart
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 04:04 PM
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i hope she does use her power and influence to do good in the world. we all know she is no mother theresa . but she is young and i hope she changes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 04:01 PM
2

travis has a side chick named youngsweetro. he cheated on kylie . idk how many times ........also stormi wasn't planned. i bet 100 dollars she happened by accident and they both went along with it. kylie found out about the cheating asked for commitment. like you guessed travis ran for the hills.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 01:05 PM
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it just reeks .desperation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 07:49 AM
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so true sister
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 07:48 AM
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they are going to be so messed up. i love kylie . but stormi is going to be so traumatised when she finds out what happened with her parents. im worried she might get some plastic surgery too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 07:48 AM
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if i was part of the family. i would have disowned tristan. also put some sense into khloe and tell her to just love herself at this point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 07:46 AM
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way to go sister. im glad you liked this post. i wish you the best.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 03:49 PM
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yes sis. we are the prize . lets not forget that and lets not let them forget that either
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 10:16 AM
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thats amazing sister!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 10:16 AM
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for men sex does not equal love. they can fuck you and not love you at the same time. guys will only commit to what they have worked hard to get. in the sense waited for them to get intimate,wooed them,paid for their meals etc etc. FWB is easy for men. hey get what they want without having to work for it . hence they dont value it. and also unlike women men dont really care about career ,how much you earn or accomplishments. this can be something imp to you. but for guys they care about looks. t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 10:07 AM
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sister do update us on your reading and reading lists. i have been doing the same thing . no dating and just reading and upgrading.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 09:52 AM
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sister. i feel you. my dad cheated on my mom . he abuses her. disrespects her and calls her names. its fuckin sick. i dont want to settle ver. i dont evenn trust men or love anymore
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 07:24 PM
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true sister, i completely agree. some people will love you for their selfish reasons. im way over it andmuch happier in my life then i ever was with him. Im glad o found this community too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 07:05 PM
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hey sister, yes i think one of the main reasons she had depression was because of ranbirs infidelity. he not only cheated on her twice but she caught him cheating on her the second time. Im glad that she found her true love after that heartbreak . ranbir irks me out. he is truly a lvm. he not only is selfish but also very entitled . he just knows how to be charming in public
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 06:58 PM
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i did. she tried not to bother me with her feelings. after all im her child. she stil talks to my dad like nothing happened. i think she has depression. she seems to have some symptoms. its just bothering me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 06:53 PM
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thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 06:24 PM
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i will be moving away for college and that is when i can possibly distance myself from him. My mom wants to move with me too. I agreed since this will be great for us.The think is my ad has been a helicopter parent since i was a child. he seems to really love me even tho my parents are having drama. i am worried he will not be able to take me cutting ties with him and moving away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 06:23 PM
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im so sorry to hear that. how do you deal with all of the chaos. do u have any tips for me?.and also what is your stance on dating
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 06:05 PM
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my mom has been financialy dependent on my dad since they got married about 20 years ago. my mom had some stock that was worth something. we were planning to sell it and start a business . But because of coronavirus the stock market crashed . my mom can't sell the stocks at a loss. also this lockdown is making it worse. I sure will focus on getting a degree. thank you for your advice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 06:04 PM
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yah true. when i found fds it completely changed my life. i have been learning about the principles and applying it to my life as much as possible.thank you for your advice
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 05:04 PM
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im not living on my own , but i want to get out of the house as fast as possible.thank you for your advice. I do feel like i will need therapy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 05:03 PM
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hahahhhahhahhhaha, i love her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 02:14 PM
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i love hugs and cuddles and holding hands. i usually throw in some skinship with my bffs , i hug my momma,my little cousins. If you dont have someone around. you can cuddle a pillow, cushion or stuffed toy.Also so many guys suck at skinship . my ex was super awkward with it. it was dissapointing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 01:49 PM
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i have seen so many women save up space in their life for some guy who they think will marry them when they are 30 and when nothing happens they get upset
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 11:18 AM
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so true! its sad so many women think they do
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 11:14 AM
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great point sister!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 11:13 AM
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offcourse thats what we think. But i would like to disagree. I had a LVM ex . i told him to change some of his problematic behaviors he never did. He said he would but he never bothered changing. He didn't respect my opinion enough to even consider it. He also made alot of promises to me that never came to fruition. Sometimes people can love you but not respect you. I remember this story of a couple i knew. They had a fight and the bf slapped the gf. The gf broke up with him and went into no con…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 04:06 AM
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its very normal to want to form bonds with the people you are dating. My advice is to treat the first few dates as a sales pitch. where he is trying to sell himself to you. And you decide if you want to spend your time,energy and love on him. You need to keep in mind that all your trauma stories are for when u r in a committed relationship and know you can trust them for sure. On the dates talk about normal things like politics,movies,music,hobbies,jobs,work,sports etc, keep it light. Dont forge…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 10:09 PM
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yes,offcourse!. i loved watching charisma on command . it is a youtube channel run by this person who breaks down celebrity habits and personas. it then becomes easier for us to emulate into our life. Also while i was working on my self esteem . I would focus on trying to change the things that bothered me. For eg if i didn't like the way i looked . i would Watch videos about how to accept yourself . For me being able to change something was having to understand it and so i would keep reading or…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 09:19 PM
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my glow up I used to be a chubby teenager wid zero self esteem. I lost all that weight through a sickness where i was bedridden for a month .the meds had killed my appetite.I achieved my glow up when i started to work on my confidence. I also loved makeup and dressing up. so i would put on makeup and practice for fun. I started dressing better threw that. I read more self improvement books. I tried imitating confident people behavior . i listened to more podcasts. i worked on my posture. i start…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 03:59 AM
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:)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 06:31 PM
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i love the book. and at first i ddnt agree with some stuff she said. like" be dumb like a fox" or "dont ask for a relationship".but now i understand what she meant. Allow me to elaborate. being dumb like a fox actually means that , u dont have to be outwardly controlling abt what u want. he might call u crazy, becuz men are dumb. lets accept it folks. (she could have worded it better tho) be smart enough to get what u want. she means for u to be able to seduce him, make him do things u want whil…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 06:51 AM
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i dont talk to him much. i stay away from himand try not to think abt it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 06:10 AM
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first off, u did the right thing. you have been using fds and that is something to be proud of. how to be okay with being alone - learn to love yourself-know that no one else can love you as much as u do . and when u start to give urself the validation,attention and love u expected from others. u will see that boys weren't that imp anyway. socialise- this will help u make more long lasting connections. u will have friends u can count on and who will be way more emotionally available then some gu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 05:28 AM
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preach
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 04:40 AM
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first off,it is very normal for humans to be insecure of their looks. with the rise of social media and impossible beauty standards. This is only increasing. It is imp to recognize the toxic messages sent to us through society. here are my tips to be more confident about your looks:- Dont compare yourself- stop comparing yourself to celebrities or anyone pretty on social media. this is very toxic. realize that the beauty that someone else posses does not mean u are any less. Dont go into mental …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 06:32 AM
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