TRAITS OF LVM 1. Is misogynistic 2. Doesn't respect women 3. Says things like "your not like other girls" 4.doesnt wear their heart on their sleeves. Is manipulative ,gaslights and sends mixed signals. 5.is texting 5 other girls like you 6. Doesn't pay ,or goes Dutch on dates. 7. Is emotionally unavailable 8. Want to be around you but on their conditions.if you want to spend time with them when they didn't ask for it your being branded "clingy". 9.fights wih you.doesnt take your pov into consideration. Doesn't discuss anything with you. 10. Doesn't act like you are together when in public. 11. His friends don't know about you.

TRAITS OF A HVM 1. Is respectful and well mannered with everyone. 2. Isn't pushy . doesn't do things you are uncomfortable with . 3.emotionally available. 4.isnt a commitment phobe 5. Talks about the relationship and has nothing against working through any disagreements. 6.brags about you to his friends , family and even strangers . 7.wears his heart in his sleeve. Is confident abt his feelings and bold enough to tell you like it is. For eg will say "I like you . And I want to ask you out on a date" and not something like "I may or may not like you"(trust me ladies some ass did say that to me and I blocked him) 8.treats you like a human being. Doesn't think your a sex machine which they can be kind to until they get sex . 9.is generous with their time ,money and affections with their loved ones . It's imp to find someone that is like that to everyone they love so that when u come along they don't hesitate or think twice about spending money on you . 10. Likes being around you always 11. Is proud to be called yours 12. Pays for everything.