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Older women offer everything to OLDER MEN for marriage prospect. Only depraved men attempt to go after women much younger than themselves, and most fail, see: marriage statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 10:03 PM
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Absolutely not. I value my parents, other older family members, my boss (and past bosses) etc. They value themselves and their spouses, who are similarly aged. Does your value as a romantic partner to people in their 20s and 30s decrease? Well no shit. But that's not someone's value as a human being. Only freaks are obsessed with youth and continue trying to date young as they themselves get older and older. Shallow people who actually have nothing else to offer.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 10:41 PM
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How did you come to that dumbass conclusion. It does not take most people until 60 to have the traits I mentioned lmao. If someone doesn't have them by 30 and isn't BUSTING ASS to get there they're a dud
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 10:39 PM
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Well that's even more pathetic lmao. Imagine thinking that as you go through aging, an inescapable process, you lose value as a human being... sad life
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 05:28 PM
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Says the broke ass Some people like money lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 03:24 PM
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All that dude wants a is a fuck doll, that’s why he phrased it like that. Ignore. You’re correct that older people who have completed their education, matured, have a career, disposable income, etc have more to offer objectively unless you’re just obsessed with putting your dick in someone as close to childhood as possible
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 03:23 PM
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Ahah did you just start talking to other men? Queen shit honestly, I’d do the same while I sorted out a new living situation
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 11:02 PM
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Girl. Reread what you just wrote. He is a cretin. He callously wasted several years of your life. Intentionally, because he didn’t have access to someone he actually wanted. That’s how little respect he has for you. There should be nothing in the fucking world that could make you contact that mf again or respond to his messages. He’s a liar and a user. Everytime he tries to crawl back to use you as some consolation prize sex doll remind yourself of the conversation where he talked about how hard…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 11:00 PM
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Yeah the whole "seeing the other gender as human and not a sentient fuck toy" is a major difference between men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/20 07:49 PM
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Well isn’t that a question whose answer is different every time depending on the woman and the situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/20 02:36 AM
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Yeah, living with mommy doesn’t get me wet. Sorry not sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/20 02:35 AM
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I don’t date bums because I’m not attracted to losers. The pill is 99% effective and ain’t nobody risking that 1% on a dumpsterman
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/20 01:50 AM
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Nothing is 100%. Which is why women screen men, our bodies aren’t soup kitchens or charities. You choose men who can provide.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/20 01:29 AM
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Oh yes, women should risk pregnancy with men who have 0 ability to provide for a child, that’s totally in our best interest. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/20 12:58 AM
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This is why women need to carry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 01:47 AM
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Sex is like 30-45 minutes a day. Usually during down/relaxing time. Nobody is too productive for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/20 08:43 PM
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They’re mad cause they are sexless losers lol. Just remember, you have want they want most in life and will never have. You win.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/20 12:36 AM
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It’s cause y’all have kids. I’m 30 and childfree and my so and I go at it like rabbits
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/20 12:29 AM
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Doubt it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 03:37 PM
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Lol have you ever known a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/20 04:32 AM
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The fact that you can’t comprehend the concept of women liking sex is why women don’t want to have sex with you
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 09:14 AM
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When I left my relationship sabotaging ex he was shook. Every few weeks I’d get weak ass texts bc he realized looking for a new fuck during COVID as a nearly 40 year old average ass dude isn’t so awesome. Too bad, should have done better when you had me lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 09:46 PM
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because they choose to have relationships with men who aren’t them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 01:53 AM
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“Women bad, won’t fuck me 😭😭😤”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 02:38 AM
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Wow. Apparently peak masculinity to him is dying of a preventable illness? Dumb as shit. Good on you, you 100% made the right choice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 02:11 AM
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Yikes. To an extent that's her bad though... why in the world would anybody marry that loser. He's balding and fat so it's not like it could be looks/attraction compensating for being a creepy pile of shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 10:02 PM
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I've dealt with some LVM shit but this is one depth I haven't plumbed. I'm not going to be over here busting my ass, becoming a literal doctor, and even slightly tolerate a grown man trying to get me to make his appointments. Nope, you can lose that foot or get sepsis and die cause of that ingrown toenail if your'e too stupid to get medical attention. Idgaf. I have enough going on, I don't have kids for a reason... I refuse to parent a fully grown man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 09:59 PM
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My mother and sisters would show up at that mf's house with pitchforks. Her parents suck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 09:53 PM
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Oh hey, you met my ex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 09:36 PM
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This is why you never play build-a-scrote. ESPECIALLY not by neglecting your own interests.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 09:31 PM
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K
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 08:02 PM
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Ain’t nobody trying to golddig your 40k a year, Jason. Hope demanding Dutch on dates works out for you one day lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 07:56 PM
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That’s cool, they don’t want you anyway. Just keep it moving 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 07:53 PM
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Lmao yeah if real men are simps then yes. The turds unwilling to pay for a couple dates to express interest are literally not worth shit
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 07:44 PM
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It’s okay if a man doesn’t want to pay for dates and express interest in the more “traditional” sense. I just won’t date him. I won’t have hard feelings about it. Until men and women are seen through an equivalent lens in issues pertaining to sexuality, child rearing, home management, traditional gender roles will exist to some extent. I have 0 interest in paying for the privilege of being called a whore for dating like a normal person. Going Dutch etc makes it easier for men to shamelessly foll…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 03:59 PM
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Where’s the lie? Then they’re all shocked 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 04:53 PM
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Lmao religiousity is a mental illness
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 11:39 PM
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Yup, this is the way. You’ll know when the time is right! You’ll be comfortable and it will be a natural evolution of the relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 11:33 PM
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No, but you shouldn’t put that much stock in it. Be in a serious relationship. Committed. Wait some months. Make sure he’s right there with you. Then lose it. Even if that relationship doesn’t last forever... you’ll be fine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 11:30 PM
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Exactly. It’s something you share with someone. My best advice would be to make sure you really like him as a person first. Then you won’t have regrets even if it doesn’t work out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 11:28 PM
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Boxed?? Pish posh
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 06:49 AM
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or for a job, or back to family, or or or. Men just love to pretend women are all caught up on their dicks. Sometimes y'all are just something to pass some time
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 01:19 AM
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It is only the fats who whine about human beings having basic requirements for physical attraction. Male and females. They don't want someone fat themselves though, oh NO. That would be gross! To be attractive to most people you have to not stuff yourself with shit food and move around for a couple hours a week. Aka not be fat. It's not difficult nor is it particularly time or energy consuming for a lot of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 12:54 AM
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"Ashamed" or she dgaf. Sometimes he just isn't that important to make a big stink about it, you're getting laid and chilling with some dude, it probably won't work out but whatever, you're kinda scheming on moving to the coast in a year anyway. FIFY
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 12:52 AM
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Aka you're fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 12:45 AM
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Haha u so miserable. Your life is a result of your choices, I hope your wife is as terrible as you say she is
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 12:37 AM
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You're the one so triggered by sexlessness that you automatically think consensual sex is a woman "whoring herself out"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 12:27 AM
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*he’s a plate
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 02:25 AM
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This lol. I don’t date that many men either. I know one girl who changes her SM for every boyfriend and there are like 4 a year lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 02:25 AM
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I did it right before I moved. It wasn’t “secret” it was just a relationship that started 2 months before I was to move 1,000 miles and therefore wasn’t anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 02:21 AM
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“Wahhh women who choose to have sex with not me are whoring themselves out”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 02:19 AM
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This lol I just did this. He fucked up literally the night I introduced him to a good amount of my closest friends in the area 😂 it’s okay, we all laughed about it. But I had been seeing him 2 months and just kind of... knew... not to make anything of it bc it probably wasn’t going anywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 02:13 AM
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You can always wash your hands real quick after. I’ll always give an animal scratchies or a rub, and if they turn out to be kinda dirty I just wash my hands immediately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 11:06 PM
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It's funny, because any mention of another woman and you are literally never gonna touch me, ever. I don't compete: I am the prize, Scroticus Maximus.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 08:09 PM
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beautiful lol *claps*
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 08:08 PM
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Lmao, what a goddamn loser. I've learned to only fuck/date men from my social circle. Ones that are close to people I know, who I see often (if not daily) because we are all hanging out. So I know who they're chilling with, what they're about, etc before we get together. Fuck OLD, fuck official "dates" with scrotes you don't even know. I know that sounds anti-FDS but hear me out. This story is exactly what you get when you try to date randos from the internet/apps who have 0 context. Socialize, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 08:07 PM
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The only dude I’ve fucked casually in the past... ever... got it because he was sweet and nice. And hot (to me, most of my friends were like wtf, but used to play college football and was built well, plus I found his particular weird little face to be cute for some reason). You have success with hoes. Which is fine, I’m sure your approach works to get hoes. Being a dbag doesn’t do it for a lot of women tho
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/20 07:44 PM
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The salt can be strong with some of them lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 08:29 PM
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Sure, like actual sluts, not women who date around while single but don't fuck some incel so he labels them a slut. It's funny how women are always sluts if they DON'T fuck those types. Wouldn't a slut fuck you? Ahhhh maybe its something else lmao... like the loser is resentful that women choose other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 08:28 PM
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Ya only an idiot thinks a fuckboy is actually good, consistent, "NSA" sex. I've watched friends and acquaintances go through this. Men don't respect women that agree to be "FWB." So they play games w texting, triangulate with other women, stand them up constantly, and are just generally an emotional drain. It's not some super awesome actual friendship plus sex. It's dealing with some dickbag that you kind of hate that couldn't give less of a shit whether you live or die once he's done with your …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 08:25 PM
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Yah, because by "gatekeep" you mean "select." Women are the selectors, it's evolutionary biology. Without a woman's interest there is no contact whatsoever, whether purely sexual or a relationship. And despite what men on here would have people think, most women are not spreading it around very much for a variety of reasons (lack of interest, lack of benefit/return bc sex isn't as pleasurable for us until we and a partner have practiced at it, social constraints, all of the above).
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 08:22 PM
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They’re only sluts bc they won’t fuck you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 07:03 PM
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The smart ones don’t. Only stupid women engage fuckboys, even “just for sex.” They’re dirty and full of drama.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 07:02 PM
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I have pickmeisha as my flair bc one of the mods is a salty petty biotch. This is not always the case lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 07:00 PM
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My ex couldn’t even manage to ACT like this wasn’t the case. Like dude couldn’t figure out anything to say that might be the slightest bit enticing lmao. Like “I’m sorry, I still care deeply about you” or anything. It was so transparently just “Muh dick, am lonely.” He got left on read.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 06:56 PM
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Lol, that’s called dating. You’re just salty cause nobody wants to date you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 11:57 PM
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What a fuckin loser lmao. I hope she dumped him after that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 12:33 AM
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Right? Except the meme says mediocre... he's a bridge troll and a predator to boot. Much lower than mediocre, hideous and morally defunct
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 10:18 PM
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Well, perhaps they're boring and hang out in boring social circles. I didn't say I am interested in knives, football/sports, etc. I'm totally not lmao and would never talk about or engage in anything to do with them if they weren't the interest of a male partner. I guarantee he wouldn't talk about or do anything relating to crochet or makeup either. But we appreciate our differences. I think it's cute when the guy I'm seeing gets excited about football stats. He likes it. I like him. It doesn't …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 08:06 PM
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That is a super rough situation in today's dating scene and I'm really sorry you experienced what you did. All I can say is that honesty and communication are the only way to go. If you need to wait a couple months and get to know someone before engaging sexually, a good man will be fine with that. If you need more like 6 months to a year, the search may be more difficult.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 02:30 AM
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Men are incapable of love or integrity, more at 7. Imagine if women were as shitty as men lol, we alllll have multitudes of options and still cheat less.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/20 08:43 PM
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Nah, men who have success with women think their hobbies and eccentricities are endearing. Men love that I crochet, and take dance lessons, and do my makeup all nice. I mean, I don’t sit and rant about eyeshadow palettes to them just like I don’t need to know the specifics of my current dude’s knife collection, but we share basic info about these things with each other and appreciate our differences. Angry sexless asshole men resent women for existing, which includes resenting any interests they…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/20 08:42 PM
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Yeah, fuck attractive women for wanting attractive men right? If your man has any options, there’s an unbelievably high chance he’ll fuck around on you, so date some ugly, poor, uneducated, unaccomplished ass who nobody else is interested in. Nope I’d get cats and live out my life single before that
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/20 08:39 PM
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Men do this too, and I also do not find them to be LTR material. I later found out one ex had been doing this (going on “dates”) during the beginning of our relationship, spoiler alert, he was and is a shithead. When I like someone I focus on them and I expect them to focus on me. If they don’t like me enough to disengage from casual sex partners or stop going on dates with new people, why the fuck would I want to date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/20 08:35 PM
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Men in general cheat. And they fetishize youth, which is hilarious bc if you try to lock down someone basically right out of high school that’s the best way to get dumped eventually (or cheated on) once they grow up and realize they can do better. Plus plus, I’ve known younger women who were way more promiscuous than I can dream of, men still delude themselves into thinking they’re “innocent” because of aforementioned fetish for young, impressionable girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/20 12:32 AM
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They just hate on women who won’t have sex with them. End
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/20 12:29 AM
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Men don’t want experienced women because they want someone to manipulate. Men cheat more than women. Male celebrities, musicians, and professionals are CONSTANTLY getting caught fucking around, often with literal children. Men fetishize youth and “low n count” because they want a female to control and force to do whatever it is that they want. It’s harder to do that with someone older and experienced. That’s it, there’s no mystery here.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 09:44 PM
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Platonic cuddling between members of the opposite sex, totally a thing that happens 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 09:15 PM
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You were abused as a child and your handle says you’re a fan of a man who slaughtered 20 little kids. None of what you described sounds “fine.” It sounds fucking terrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 09:12 PM
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Fetuses aren't babies, your "arguments" are invalid, men commit the vast majority of violence in the world
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 12:32 AM
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Nah, it's reality. It's literally retarded to pretend every single crime statistic in the history of ever is FaKe NeWs and that men aren't (by far) the more violent and depraved sex lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 12:18 AM
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It's because they are. Not a super difficult concept to understand lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 11:56 PM
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Too bad for them. I love to see them wail and gnash their teeth about their sexlessness tbh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 11:52 PM
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U so mad. Men commit the vast majority of rapes, assaults, robberies, and murders.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 11:48 PM
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There's massive obesity in the latinx world as well, and pretty much all developed countries are getting fatter.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/20 09:19 PM
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Yes, this is due to lack of education (nutrition etc) and food addiction. They think it's "starve yourself thin" or "smash cakes." Mentally, attempting to starve oneself with stupid diets results in binging for people who already suffer from binge eating disorder.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/20 08:18 PM
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Lol, k. Teenage girls develop anorexia at insane rates. Food addiction is a major problem for a lot of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/20 08:02 PM
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Look up "fat activists" or even just "fat positivity" people. They are absolutely consumed with their weight and post endless pictures and videos attempting to pretend they're fine and happy being obese and that people should find it attractive. People have food addictions and they use food to cope with other issues in their lives. That doesn't mean they aren't consumed with self consciousness due to their weight; every fat woman I know is on a 24/7 "diet" they just do an extremely shitty job of…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/20 08:02 PM
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Yep, I work out. A lot. Have done since gradeschool sports and can't really comprehend people who are sedentary tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/20 06:45 PM
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I only have at music festivals, where "unusual" men go and toxic masculinity isn't a thing really. Compliments from a male stranger in my day to day life are nooooot the move lol. They're trying to hit on you, 99% chance. But yes from a girl it's lovely.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/20 06:30 PM
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The obsession with thinness is really what's consuming women. Notice I say thinness, not fitness. It took a lot of deprogramming for me to love my body for it's athletic appearance instead of trying to shrink to some underweight waif. Girls start to exhibit eating disordered patterns in middle school (that's when I did) or even earlier. Those who are susceptible to full mental illness become anorexic before they're out of grade school. Compared to the obsession with thinness, makeup is barely a …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/20 06:27 PM
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Yep. Makeup is because I love the artistry of it and for other women, who comprise 99.9% of the compliments I get it. The men I've been with have ALL said I'm more beautiful without or that I look the exact same to them. The only time that isn't the case is if a woman has some horrible skin problem she's covering up with foundation/concealer. Men aren't that observant. The shape of my eyes, smile, etc does not change with makeup (I don't even contour my cheeks or anything) and if he finds my fea…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/20 06:23 PM
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No, no it really doesn’t. Except to rapists. People who don’t rape are intrinsically capable of understanding concepts like “consent.”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 09:27 PM
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Rape is rape is rape, except to rapists
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 09:26 PM
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Piggies can be rapists too yeah. Guess all the piggies better get to gettin those millions
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 09:23 PM
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Piggies can buy escorts yes
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 08:52 PM
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Male delusion. There has never been a sexually attractive obese male in the history of ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 08:23 PM
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>attractive or interesting looking >looking
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 11:44 PM
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Lmao wtf else is it based on when an absolute stranger cold approaches? Are men able to read minds from afar?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 10:52 PM
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Maybe you know a million hoes but the women I know do not have onlyfans; it's an exception, not a rule. But keep hating women based on falsehoods, it's so attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 01:30 AM
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This is really going to shock you but women like their own bodies, like the way they look in certain clothes, like to flatter their shape, like to bask in the glory of the results of their hard work in the gym (& kitchen), and it's not about your dick. Like yes if someone is dressed like a straight up stripper: bikini top, thong, fishnets, huge heels that's one thing. Chances are she's straight up a sex worker, so approaching probably won't get poor results (if you can pay). But that's not what …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/20 03:19 AM
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They're only "sluts" because it's not your dick tho lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/20 03:12 AM
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"On display" for dudes like OP is literally just women existing. Maybe a bit of cleavage. yes hot women exist, yes they prob aren't fucking you. And the world turns
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/20 03:12 AM
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The issue here is that you see a certain type of dress or behavior from women as an invitation and it's not. It's really not. I would never feel entitled enough to march up on some rich "baller" and demand he take me shopping, dafuq? That's nearly as fucked as feeling entitled to a woman's body because she looks good.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/20 02:57 AM
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I'm sorry. You can try communicating with him, but my experience was that he was basically frozen/stagnant and short of assuming control of his life (which I wouldn't do to another adult human being) there was nothing for it. And in the process, the long process, I'd lost my (romantic) love for him anyway. It really sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 11:44 PM
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Yours was really hopeless then. Mine actually started doing a lot better after I ripped the rug out from under him. I knew he actually had potential, and by the end I knew he'd sure as hell never reach it while he could just leech off of me. I am happy to see him doing better and we're on good terms
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 07:21 PM
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Lmaooo, the projection. I want an equal. You're the one who wants a momfriend/bangmaid hybrid. Too bad, so sad. There's a reason why women avoid remarrying after the death of a spouse or a multi-decade relationship compared to men who immediately need a new caretaker-- most men are a fuckin drain. If I can't have one who isn't, I vastly prefer focusing on myself and my own desires. I've done all sorts of things I couldn't have if I was still with my ex, and I've never regretted leaving for a sin…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 07:18 PM
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A grown man who cannot: sign a lease, be approved for a car loan, be approved for a mortgage, even rent a fucking car if he needs, etc etc etc... is not a partner, he is a dependent. It's up to you whether you want a lifelong zero effort dependent leeching off of you, I got sick of it and left after 7 years together. It was tough, especially because we were very young when we got together and NOBODY had any idea what they were doing or had their shit together, me included. But by the end of it w…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 07:14 PM
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I had one, we got together at 20, I grew up over the next ~7 years, he... did not. I left him and never regretted it for a second. There was never going to be a marriage, a home, or even the possibility of a family with him. Once I realized I'd much rather look for someone better and that even being single was preferable to our relationship I was done. If I don't end up with the whole marriage/home/family life but I followed my own dreams and desires... that's awesome, I'll have a great life fil…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 07:05 PM
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When I left mine, his credit was 380. I had had no clue he was failing that hard lmao, he was literally just riding my coattails through life. I think he's doing a lot better for himself now, so it wasn't just a good(100% absolutely the best) choice for me, but also for him. He needed to get slapped right out of his mindset, and pulling the rug out from under his life did just that. You might help your ex nearly as much as you help yourself by moving the fuck on and looking for an equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 07:00 PM
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Wow, you really feel entitled to relationships huh. If you suck and therefore your relationship is a net negative for your partner, they'll dump you. It's not rocket science.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 06:58 PM
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I feel terrible for girls who fell into this trap. Nobody is entitled to shit from you, let alone sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 07:24 AM
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People who lack integrity are worthless-- rather they have negative worth. You're right to hone your ability to detect them and discard them from your life. People who try to act like it's "wrong" or "mean" are doing so because they also lack integrity. You'll figure it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 07:23 AM
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Sure, maybe sometimes BMI 25-27 or so looked extra nice when everyone was starving in the olden days. I don't really get how that applies to now but sure. Overall, I have 0 idea how someone could exist in the world, look at every single person exhibiting attraction to fitness, and just... deny it. Deny it all you want. It doesn't change anything. It's like the incels who want to REEEEE about how hot women should date them even though they are ugly and have nothing to offer. They can literally bl…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 03:35 AM
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This isn't even a female problem lol. It's a human problem. Men are fat too, at very similar rates, and deal with the same issues. It has nothing to do with feminism. Our ancestors couldn't even acquire enough calories to be anywhere near today's "obese," it was an abnormality and always recognized as unhealthy. People thousands of years ago knew it was unhealthy by using their damn eyes. "The recognition that obesity was an impediment to good health and longevity is documented in the writings o…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 02:34 AM
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I've actually looked into the entire bizz quite extensively, read about Regan and all those other crazies, and my conclusions are my own. I feel the exact same way about the rare (usually gay) male FA. They are all delusional, miserable people in the throes of an illness that they refuse to face, because denial is easier. They want things that will never ever happen, and that are insanely shallow. I swear the main issue most of them have is "sExY mEn DoN'T WaNt Me" and it's like welcome to the f…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 01:53 AM
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The people who self identify as "fat activists" are off their rocker. They're childish, narcissistic people who are mostly obsessed with attempting to force attractive (fit, of course) men to find obesity attractive. I cannot imagine a more futile endeavor, considering men are approx 100x more shallow than I could dream of being. The "fat activists" I've seen online straight out deny scientific reality as it pertains to obesity. Obesity leads to worse outcomes in nearly every disease state. Curr…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 01:43 AM
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no, fat activists run around literally saying obesity isn't unhealthy. Which is delusional as fuck. They openly talk about refusing to get weighed at the doctor's office and how fatphobic doctors are for... doing their jobs. Fat people are fine, although I will not fuck them. Feminist =/= unhealthy. Thanks for coming to my ted talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 12:16 AM
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Wait human rights wtf are you even talking about lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 06:20 PM
1

Yikes... personally I have 0 issue with men expressing their emotions when in a relationship with me, it does not affect my attraction or attachment to them. I mean, nobody likes someone who is mopey, miserable, and complaining 24/7 without taking any actions to change what is bugging them. But normal sharing of struggles and “dark emotions” is... expected... in a romantic relationship...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/20 07:30 PM
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Men are incapable of love, more at 7 Seriously though.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/20 02:38 AM
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That, is hot. But I'm really not picky as long as they're not overweight and not like a skeleton scrawny man. At least SOME muscle is necessary, a bit more is definitely nicer, but I don't need much to be attracted. I'm not into like huge arms rippling abs guys, in fact I am less attracted to them than I would be the "swimmers build" individual you describe. I find that I like it when someone's body looks like they're very active. Climbers, swimmers, dancers, etc all look so good because they US…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 07:33 PM
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overweight. Above 25 BMI. Man boobs/gut. To me, extra fat feminizes men. They don't trigger the primal "want" part of my brain if they're soft and doughy. If a dude was like a mega lifter ripped guy with a bit extra fat I might still be into them, but I probably wouldn't date them because that easily turns into just straight up fat if they ever stop working out like crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 07:04 PM
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I am a woman, and I would never date a fat man because there is 0 sexual attraction there.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 06:51 PM
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Those aren't "feminists." They are fat activists, and they are delusional. I and all of my female friends are feminists and we all stay in shape, most are vegetarian, eat very well, etc. Feminism doesn't equal being an unhealthy blob.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 06:50 PM
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"kink-shaming" is mild as a descriptor of what I would do to a man who called me a slut or a whore. Whether it's in bed or elsewhere. U wot mate? *fucking destroys*
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 06:53 PM
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Ahhh, justice. May all women reject such freaks. What a "best friend."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 08:11 PM
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So, this is me being fucking charitable. While every single one would not turn down "something more," I at least believe that some men have female friends that they legitimately care for even if "something more" never happens (which it won't). But yeah they all become friends with you in the beginning because they would. That's just the reality of the situation. If they stick around, some are truly creep orbiters who always have an ulterior motive and need to fuck off and die, others are like "d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 08:10 PM
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not just satisfying, necessary. I have never understood HOW someone can jump from relationship straight into relationship. There has to be some level of deep emotional dysfunction and denial going on there. You need to actually feel the emotions and work through the end of a relationship, not just bury that shit and jump on someone else's dick to distract yourself with fake ass "new relationship energy."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 08:04 PM
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That brings me joy, you’re 100% on the right track and an unbelievably strong person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 06:41 PM
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Yup mine would shut entirely down. I still feel guilt for abandoning him like he expected me to. But he is not currently in treatment and I do not have the ability or the will to deal with his episodes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 06:38 PM
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It’s less about a single argument and more about the entire way they treat you. There is no use wasting your breath, time, and energy on trying to convince a man to treat you with respect for example. Either he doesn’t have the capability (like if he has mental health issues) or he does not want to, because... he doesn’t respect you. The former is terrifically sad and the latter is enraging, but in both situations the only way forward is to terminate the relationship and yes, replace him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 06:34 PM
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To be completely honest... I have no interest in a grown man that spends any significant amount of time "gaming." It is not attractive to me. If he also does some hobbies like these: hikes, runs, climbs, plans/goes on mini weekend getaways to interesting locations, makes art or music, and plays video games a couple hours a week on top of that-- fine. But to be a "gamer" is some childish unattractive mess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 09:28 PM
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Haha I'm lucky because I'm a selfish bitch. I'll give and give... but that's because I'm taking and taking. If I can't take you can't have shit, fuck off. The only times I've been duped by men it's because they were giving in a lot of ways (sexually, financially, whatever) that makes you think they love you and see a future for you... but eventually their other low value traits eclipse the good ones and then... BOY BYE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 09:18 PM
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Different disorder, but I dated one of those. I also dated a mentally healthy man who made sure to give me pleasure too. THEY EXIST!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 08:42 PM
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I'm glad it's hard for them, worthless scrotes. Haha, you don't get to have a harem, especially not of high quality, successful women. Die mad about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 08:38 PM
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I always knew something was wrong with him. I just had never experienced anything like it nor was I educated about the disorder. I'm thankful bc I know what the flags are now, lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 08:22 PM
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The push-pull... I hate you don't leave me... I have an ex that I am SURE has borderline personality disorder and that was the name of his game. He couldn't deal with birthdays or holidays and had to have a bitchfit. Would get moody over NOTHING. He basically ghosted me once, I broke up with him via text, he convinced me to try again, and then a couple months later: same freak out and then silence. I gave him back all his shit and he is blocked, baby. Fool me once and all that, I never should ha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 07:31 PM
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Damn, she is pathetic. He's of course a user and a pig but how can she let herself be treated this way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 07:16 PM
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The women who date sportsballscrotes are the most delusional of all. The STDs, the STDs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 07:16 PM
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one of my exes hated when I talked myself up. I didn't care lmao. I'm brilliant and I know it. SUCK IT
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 07:10 PM
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BLOCK
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 07:08 PM
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I would literally destroy a man who touched my makeup stash lol. Whatever he loved would immediately be destroyed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 07:08 PM
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What a horrid human he is. I've heard it's common in men with borderline. Can't deal with their partners full attention not being on them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 07:07 PM
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Sweet little hero. May he RIP
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 07:03 PM
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Lol I'd dump em in a NY minute. I stayed with one who I suspected had an issue for too long bc he still wanted daily sex, could get it up, etc. But as soon as a man isn't sexually interested in me, for whatever reason... BYE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 06:56 PM
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I am sorry you were sexually abused as a little one by someone entrusted with your care. I hope you're doing well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 06:50 PM
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I'm really sorry that happened to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 05:00 AM
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Nothing about the situation is ever her fault. She should report: not out of some altruistic desire to save theoretical future women, but to get justice for how she has been wronged and criminally violated. Women don't regret reporting. They regret not doing so though, all the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 10:03 PM
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That's why you wait and weed them out. You have the right idea. He's an entitled pig. I'm just glad women aren't falling for his shit (and falling on his dick) because he bought them drinks. What a loser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 09:57 PM
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"MuH dIcK iS tHe MaGiCaL sPeShUL DiCk" no, you are not special or unique. you are replaceable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 09:13 PM
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It's the wrong thing to say but encouraging victims to report is important. Yes, the criminal justice system is completely fucked up and yes, it's stacked against the victim. But sometimes you manage to get something to stick. And these creatures need to see consequences for their actions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 09:00 PM
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All I'm saying is, if you're looking for a relationship, that is self defeating behavior. It's anti-male sexual strategy. They only value women they see as a "prize" they fought for and "won."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 06:38 PM
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hahaha he played himself. This is why you don't do it. So they can "out" themselves. It's not that big of a deal to wait a few days or a week for a second or third date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 06:36 PM
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Also, sex causes some level of bonding for most women (and some, more decent/evolved men). Not saying you'll be IN LuRVe but you'll put more significance on that person than you would if you just didn't fuck them. They'll disappear in the background of your conscious in like 10 seconds if you never engaged with them sexually, whereas you might feel tempted to "see where it goes" "maybe it can work" "he has X, Y decent traits" when really you should be like "NOT GOOD ENOUGH GOODBYE"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 06:35 PM
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trashy rat fuck, im dead
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 06:32 PM
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It's hilarious how TRIGGERED pickmes get when I state my opinions on prostitution, onlyfans, etc on fb or whatever. I'm never rude about it, either, just factual about how fucked up it is for women and girls and how it further entrenches cultural misogyny. When they start losing their shit I always say "If you're so comfortable with your choices, you shouldn't give a single fuck about my opinion of them." They get big mad lol, truth hurts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 06:31 PM
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Several men I've left, it was because I realized that I would strangle them to death if we ever had kids. And even if we didn't end up having them, the same low effort, lazy, inefficient, "learned helplessness" trash that would have made them shitty fathers made them shitty partners too. Good riddance to bad rubbish.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 06:25 PM
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>My gf just told me she loves impressing guys by making their bed 🙄 henny nOoooooooOooo....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 06:24 PM
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It took exactly 2 weeks of "sitting around giving each other the cold shoulder" before I straight up bailed on one of my exes lmao. Fuckkkkk that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 06:23 PM
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Don't feel bad for being loving, caring, and kind. Those are good traits :) That will make you a perfect partner for a worthy man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 06:22 PM
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Ugh, my ex used that against me though. He was so good in bed. And so shitty outside of it. Lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 06:20 PM
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Yup. This is like bare minimum. A man who won't eat me out like he's starving and be thrilled for the privilege is a man I will not date. I return the favor and also enjoy pleasing him, so. I expect to be taken care of, every single time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 06:19 PM
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Aahah it cracks me up that the pickmes think they're empowered by opening up their purses for some bum ass dude who will fuck them 2-10x and then bail. So EmPoWeRiNg
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 06:16 PM
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You are shooting yourself in the foot with that approach. Men don't respect women they perceive as "easy." You're not gonna get a "sex on the first date" guy to be in a relationship with you. If you are hoping for that, even a slight bit, you're just shooting yourself in the foot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 06:15 PM
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This is why I don't date unfit men. They are lazy and lack discipline. It's so much easier for them than it is me and yet I still make sure to stay fit. 0 excuses, fuck your flabby "dad bod" lazy ass self (well, someone else can fuck you, but not me).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 06:05 PM
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Someone who can treat a kind person who loves them like they’re inconsequential doesn’t have “personal transformations.” Like maybe that happened once ever lmao. They are still the same burning dumpster fire of a man who will devalue and hurt that next girl... eventually. Once the “new shiny toy” and the “LOOK HOW GOOD I AM EVERYBODY, HOW CAPABLE OF BEING IN A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP AND TREATING A WOMAN RIGHT” gives way to their natural inclinations.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 10:21 PM
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They’re still capable of what they did, capable of treating someone like that, and they always will be. They will revert. And they will be a massive disappointment to that next woman, and all the ones who come after... maybe even more so because they dupe her with that false consideration and “love,” for their own benefit of course. Because they desperately want to be the “good guy” in their own life story, but they... aren’t a good guy. I’ve treated every person I’ve dated with respect and love…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 09:41 PM
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You can call relationships that didn’t work out whatever you want. It doesn’t change the fact that they didn’t date you because they didn’t want to, and they dated him because they did.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 10:55 PM
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100%. At least you know they are capable of commitment. The never married late 30s/early 40s men are emotionally dysfunctional intimacy-issues types most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 10:53 PM
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They don’t. They dodged it. These kids are in their mid to late 20s, and not the oldest in the family either.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 10:46 PM
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Plenty of women who don’t date men. That will date you. Uh huh
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 10:17 PM
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I know several children of a man’s second (or third!) family personally. Men can be sociopathic that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 10:17 PM
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Virgins? Doubt it. They age out pretty young nowadays, males and females. Once again, good luck 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 10:09 PM
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Confirmation bias probably. The whole “left his wife for his young secretary” has been a thing for decades. Men literally have entire new families after bailing on their commitments lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 10:08 PM
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The men didn’t want forever in their 20s though. They just wanted to “pump and dump her like Chad did” or whatever garbage they tell themselves to explain why women chose to date men that were more attractive and socially functional than themselves lmao. Relationships don’t work out, that’s life. Only angry bleating man children attempt to shame people for having relationships that didn’t end up being marriage material. Normal men are like “yeah, I had some girlfriends that didn’t work out too, …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 10:03 PM
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Yep lmao. I tried dating older. Men who are creeping on 40 and not married have ISSSSUEEEESSSSS
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 09:58 PM
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Lmao men do it all the time, dafuq you on about? Men have “mid life crises” or whatever bullshit they try to label their sociopathy as, bail on their loyal wives, and chase after young pussy all the time. They usually end up alone and miserable, but that is deserved. The woman ends up miserable too due to have devoted herself to a piece of shit. Not worth it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 09:57 PM
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“Fun” aka easy to manipulate and give low fucking effort to because she’s too young to know any better lmao. Damn you’re transparent as fuck. And you better be sexy as shit or rich if you think you’re getting some young hot wife. Good luck to ya
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 09:55 PM
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Aka dating. But you want them to date you (they won’t, for obvious reasons)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 09:53 PM
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I wanted to. Then my relationship of 7 years ended before the degree did lmao. I'm still kinda bummed, bc my stepdad is my father figure and I have my biological father's name. And always will now!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 07:24 PM
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People don’t call predators creepy and predatory in hopes of them dating women their own age. They call them that because that is what they are. They seek to manipulate and control.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 06:15 AM
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Lmao, that's demonstrably false. Mass revolts, no, because that was literally impossible in the patriarchal system. Elizabeth Cady Stanton et al. left a ton of writings against the oppression of women by men. Go back far enough and the accounts dwindle: because men enslaved women to such an extent that they were not taught to read and write.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 04:33 AM
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Nah, it's because nobody needs data to understand that women don't enjoy being rape slaves. You can just... ask women. Or observe their behavior. It's self evident.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 01:25 AM
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"All men are rapists" got it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 01:13 AM
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It's mostly because nobody cares enough to try and accumulate "data" about why it's better when we're ugly dudes' rape slaves.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 01:10 AM
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"If they don't 'allow' me to rape them I'll do it by force" You're deranged
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 01:02 AM
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"just accept reality" NEVER. Haha. That's not gonna go well for ya
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 01:01 AM
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Right. The systematic predation on female children ~14 and up: totes OK!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 12:49 AM
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No, you not getting to fuck the women you want to fuck is not preventing society from advancing, lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 12:48 AM
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Take note men: being enslaved, sexless, loveless and alone is preferable to a woman having to sleep with a man she finds unattractive. Yes? Men being mad about not getting sex is infinitely preferable to them being able to rape women, dafuq?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 12:46 AM
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I'm just unapologetically shallow. I ain't fucking no ugly scrote. I'm barely willing to engage with the attractive ones, not like they're worth shit besides good dick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 10:18 PM
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LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 08:35 PM
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I think these two have the potential to be the exception, because of the strength of character he's shown by supporting her through her nightmare and recovery. But for the rest of us: marriage or yeet that fool into the fucking trash, especially if you're even CONSIDERING pregnancy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 06:41 PM
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Lmao, okay. You also don't care about any of the elderly or immunosuppressed in your country. You sound like a sociopath.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 06:38 PM
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No. Literally no. Although that doesn't really relate to what I said at all. Statements about what you WANT, not what you're "unsure of" should be well received by a prospective partner. It's better if they fuck off if they have 0 interest of fulfilling that need. So once again, if someone states "I want to have a child." "I want to get married" OR "I don't believe in marriage and will never do it." "I am childfree." and the other person completely disagrees with that, they should stop seeing th…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 06:34 PM
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And? Many of deaths were healthy people in their 40s, 50s, and 60s who would have had decades left to live. Try having some empathy. Besides, the healthcare field can't/doesn't want to deal with all you idiots gumming up the works by running around and getting the virus. So we had to shut everything down to try and prevent it, that's the way it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 06:29 PM
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And 9/11 was "only" 3k people. Only an utter fool would try to minimize 50k deaths, many of people who were in good health. Lack of empathy because it hasn't happened to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 06:28 PM
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It makes me happy that they all have shit luck with women though. IRL they just get straight up ignored because not only are they assholes, they're ugly assholes. GOOD LUCK SCROTES, we'll pass you up every time <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 06:27 PM
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50,000 dead in the US is “chicken little nonsense” to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 05:02 PM
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Wow. This would do it, though. I immediately moved in with my partner of 1 year when this started... we were concerned for each other’s welfare: wanted to grocery shop and cook together to reduce chance of exposure, unsure if there could be riots or something... If someone didn’t want to be with you during this uncertain and scary time it’s because they could give less of a fuck. This is why casual sex is trash for women... demand commitment or gtfo, every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 04:39 PM
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And who has been brainwashed to believe her sexuality is demonic. Good times
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 12:32 AM
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facts are angry?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 12:31 AM
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>Because it basically describes regular modern day dating but it frames it negatively. It's literally serial monogamy with a couple FBWs and drunk unremarkable hookups in between until you find someone you want to settle down with. Most men are cool with this type of dating because they are doing the same thing. Boom, reality. Only the utter losers, the ones who are not only physically unattractive but also rude/creepy/generally maladjusted and therefore CANNOT find success with women obsess ove…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 12:29 AM
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Yep. 5-10 for someone around 30 is fine. Some dude who has run around being the town bike... nobody wants that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 03:32 PM
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No, honestly. They're diseased. With shit that can give me cancer. Slutty men are pigs, they try to dip their dick (raw of course) in everything with a pulse. They are to be avoided
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 03:31 PM
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Sounds like you married a psycho. Step 1 is to not do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 03:29 PM
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Every normal person has "multiple past sexual partners" unless they're like 18-22 years old and embarking on their first LTR. Also, men are so confused about this. It's like chicken-or-the-egg. An attractive man fully in adulthood has had multiple past sexual partners... because he's attractive. And normal, socially. He's not attractive BECAUSE of the past sexual partners. He had past sexual partners because he's attractive. And there is nothing he has to say or do, no "dread game" or whatever r…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 03:28 PM
2

seriously. All these dumbasses belong in r/ihavesex
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 03:26 PM
1

Seems like correlation =/= causation
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 03:23 AM
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Uhhh where in my post did I talk about children or fatness lmao I have/am neither I don’t know about the shitty lives of basic ass people sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 03:20 AM
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BS. Men do this to women who have “looking for a serious relationship” on their profiles and/or openly state they’re looking for a partner. Sure he never said “BTW IM JUST TRYING TO PUMP AND DUMP/IM NOT GOING TO DATE YOU” (of course, because she wouldn’t consent to sex if he were honest) they just know what she’s looking for and act like they plan on giving it with 0 intentions to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 12:26 AM
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Agreed, it's just ridiculous for men to make that assertion about women when if it could be applied to either gender it's to men. But yes, it's unfair because many many men exist who control themselves (at least to some extent lol)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 05:41 PM
2

They're absolutely being manipulative. Their entire demeanor/behavior is a lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 05:38 PM
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Nice people don't question being nice. There's no question like "huh why have I been so nice if I don't get what I want?" The person who thinks that is not nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 05:37 PM
1

Yep, that's it. Good on you for recognizing reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 05:36 PM
1

Especially considering "typically have no ability to exercise even the smallest amount of self control and are purely instinctual animals" applies much better to the male gender, members of whom literally turn into chimps and rape/beat/destroy women on the daily. Not all men, yadda yadda, but it's clear who is more animalistic and governed by their base urges. If women were we'd all have n=500 by 25, lord knows the opportunity is there.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 05:34 PM
1

"But I do. I know what's good for you, wimmenz. My dick." LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 05:32 PM
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Men who are "nice" or "pleasant" are like that with everybody not just women they want to fuck, that is the difference. It is more of a personality trait, men who get drained by wearing the nice mask are not that way by nature. This. If you're pissed about being "nice" because you inserted sooo many niceness coins into soooo many women and no pussy fell out: YOU AREN'T FUCKING NICE, DUMBASS. And you're also not hot, or else dumb girls would have fucked you anyway, so try cultivating legitimate n…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 05:31 PM
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You'd be shocked how many males can't even handle this. I'm dead serious. I've watched men be much "nicer" to me than to a frumpy/extremely plain/fat/older/whathaveyou woman at work, socializing, etc. Many times.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 05:30 PM
1

Because they have no interest in women beyond being prospective cock holsters. Women do not like being looked at as prospective cock holsters. Of course you don't think it's bad. It's not you opinion that matters though.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 05:29 PM
3

That's because you're in the shitty 50%. Women don't want to be relentlessly pursued and manipulated for sex by every male they know, including ones they attempt to be friends with. So to us, no it's not kind if you're pretending to be "nice" when all you care about it pussy. Women don't want casual sex in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 05:27 PM
7

Well OBVIOUSLY there are cheaters out there. What do you want me to say? Your situation is not the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 05:02 PM
19

It shouldn't mean that, because when women say that (or leave their male partner and enter the dating scene again) they're referring to being unwilling to stay in a shitty/halfassed/lackluster relationship. If a relationship is beautiful and awesome, I guarantee you the female partner isn't thinking "HA! I COULD REPLACE THIS FOOL ANYDAY." Instead she's hoping for a proposal, planning for the future family, etc. It basically means don't assume that a woman is going to put up with low effort or ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 04:14 PM
3

It's better to just leave. I didn't nag my ex to figure out what the fuck he was going to do with his life beyond retail for $10/hr. I didn't nag him into letting me take over his finances/credit/adulting (except if it involved me, like our rent/car insurance payments, you bet your ass I took that over). I brought it up maybe biyearly, in a kind and supportive way, and offered support & suggestions about what he could do. Trade school programs in the area, stuff like that. When he did... nothing…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 06:30 PM
7

>It isn't all about how attractive you actually are but how attractive you act like you are and how you command people to see you. If you act like a bad bitch that deserves the world and takes no shit, people will treat you like a bad bitch that deserves the world and takes no shit. The motherfucking truth. If you walk the walk enough this will select out true LVM (the ones who try to destroy women's self esteem) because they recognize that you're a lost cause. When a man says something even sli…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 06:13 PM
12

Sooo she's also immature af. Texting other dudes about how hot they are is not on the level. But he's a dumpster fire and I don't blame her one bit for getting hers once he BROKE UP with her. That's a green light, lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 06:09 PM
1

I'd say expenses while on the trip. i wouldn't expect for a new bf to pay for a flight etc. I'd actually insist on paying for that myself. But eating out & activities while on the trip absolutely, especially if it was 100% his idea to go in the first place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 06:08 PM
23

psychotically obsessed dog people have issues IMO. I like dogs, many I even love, but if you refuse to go anywhere the dog can't come gtfo. If you make excuses for the dog doing disgusting shit like defecating/urinating inside, jumping all over people and the furniture, ripping furniture/clothes/shoes apart etc without taking clear and concise measures to train it, gtfo. I would never date a dude who was dog obsessed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 06:06 PM
18

Fucking crazy yo. To me, it shows how abnormal the women-beating scrotes are too. My partner and I moved in together when this all started, which wasn't even a conversation we'd ever HAD (neither was interested, we like our space). I'm living in the house he owns now, with himand his one roommate, lol. He's a bit of an introvert and definitely OCD about his space. Not even a hint of anger or the slightest change in behavior from us suddenly being all up in each others grill the past 3 weeks or s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 06:03 PM
3

oh no, you must be so sad to be ruled out for subjugation by the angry, small dicked, shit stache wonder here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 05:59 PM
8

He's the type of military dude to beat on women too. Hopefully nobody is self hating/punishing enough to respond to that trash he puked out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 05:57 PM
7

Bet his dick is 3.5' max hard
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 05:49 PM
3

Holy fuck his own sister. His own sister. I hope those pieces of shit get what's coming to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 05:47 PM
7

You're the friend we all need. I've done the same. Gotten major shit from dudes for "cockblocking" them. Don't give a FUCK, you rapey piece of SHIT. I've also been fortunate to always have friends like us to watch my back. Women have to stick together and protect each other.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 05:45 PM
1

K :)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 03:15 PM
1

Oh. That's fine then. I thought you were looking for straight up virgins. n of 5-10 is normal "not a slut, not a prude" territory for an unmarried person in their early 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 07:19 PM
2

Yes you can. A woman with a normal libido who is saving it for marriage in today's climate is religious. If she is attractive, she will pair off with and marry a religious man from her cult of choice, normally in her late teens/early 20s. I went to a xtian fundie summer camp as a teen and literally saw it firsthand. Knew several couples who married at 18 or 19 so they could fuck without feeling guilty. If she is attractive and can't find someone at her church, the church members will suggest eli…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 07:15 PM
4

Oh also I'm specifically talking about the deadbedrooms posters who are in marriages where either they both waited until marriage or she did and he was mostly inexperienced before. Turns out people don't go from being perfectly fine living without sex to being sexual. It doesn't work like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 06:53 PM
1

Yup. And that's why there aren't a bunch of 30+ yo female virgins lol edit: If someone doesn't act on the drive to fuck, our deepest evolutionary drive, it's cause they're low libido or ace. 0 exceptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 06:49 PM
3

It's not at all true. Literally, the opposite. Many religious women (and men, actually) who have low sex drives don't feel too put upon by the whole "stay celibate until marriage" thing... because they don't care about having sex, and in fact have been brainwashed to feel that any and all sexual feelings and activities are SINFUL and BAD. That does not change with a ring, it doesn't not change upon seeing your magic wiener. If I were male and I met a woman in her 30s who A. was a virgin or near …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 06:49 PM
2

Bruh if she's the type to have "tingles" she'll have fucked, A LOT (not necessarily a lot of different men, often only a few a lot of times) before 30-34, dafuq? Nobody who feels strong sexual attraction to the opposite sex is a 30 year old virgin lmao. Unless they ugly as shit and unbearable to be around.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 06:45 PM
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Uh, yes? Because she's most likely in a religious cult if she's not hideous, and will be looking for a similarly devout man.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 06:40 PM
4

well, for one thing, people who like sex have sex. Doesn't have to mean they're "oN tHe CoCk CaRoUsEl" or whatever but if a woman is a virgin or near one in her mid 20s-30s (despite having endless offers bc of male thirst) she is unlikely to have a very strong sex drive at all. Many men fall into this stupid trap (read r/deadbedrooms) and have a great time living completely untouched except for short periods of begrudging sexual activity when she's trying to make a baby. Sounds awesome!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 06:39 PM
4

Unfortunately, unless you are a virginal man from that green apple's church, you don't have that choice. Get to prayin' I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 06:39 PM
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What a fuckin' creature. ​ edit: PLEASSEEE say "You've gone out of your way to made my life a living hell, cheated on me, continues to disrespect me, and you assumes I think so little of myself I'd jump at the chance to fake orgasms for you again???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 02:10 PM
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Yup I have never made any mean comments about a person IRL due to their appearance. Ever. I've only made them against incels on the interwebs, usually because they're calling for the rape and subjugation of women and it's totally warranted. I wouldn't even hang out with someone who was regularly nasty about random innocent peoples' appearance. That's negative and horrible, who has time for that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 09:44 PM
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I DON'T touch men who are anything like that. The fuck. I won't even swallow, I've never even slept with a man who tried to insist on it or ask for it. Or even tried/wanted to finish in my mouth. Decent men are like "I don't want a mouth full of cum. So neither does she." The ones who think it's hot are the ones who want to degrade women. All women need to reject the fuck out of the freaks that engage in any of that shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 05:27 PM
2

Dafuq. I’m not conservative. Not sure why the word “good” has you harkening back to the 50s. Fortunately, I have a partner, and also I am too hot for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 01:43 PM
1

He probably has HPV. Next question.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 10:08 PM
1

Jesus Christ. The two options aren’t “ugly weird virgin who can’t socialize to save his life” and “town bicycle.” A man who dates normally and has a normal sexual history is attractive. A man who would stick his dick in a pig wearing a wig is grotesque.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 08:19 PM
2

Lmao yeah. Educated women with their own money and agency ARE dangerous. Fortunately, we don’t want you either... enjoy your submissive slav-I mean wives.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 08:18 PM
2

Well, that’s fucking disgusting. I’m not talking about sex tourism, lol. And most of these men aren’t trying to go live in their country. Americans like their first world comforts.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 08:17 PM
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It’s not my fault that you think that’s what actually respect women is lmao. Sounds like you need a sugar baby, not a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 08:16 PM
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Dunno what you're on about. Demanding respect and refusing to engage in relationships with shitty men isn't "damage." it's called being smart and looking out for your own interests. That's why the low value shitty men hate it so much lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 08:00 PM
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Lmao she would never in 1,000 years agree to that. The entire agreement is that low value American man gets attractive foreign woman because he pays her. By marrying her and paying for her lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 07:59 PM
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Ah yes, having to give half of the marital assets to your marital partner is far more damaging than never seeing your child again because the Japanese gov't doesn't give a fuck about some American. Don't get married then, it's not that hard. Yeah, a lot of women will swerve you, but whatever right?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 07:59 PM
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If I have a daughter she will have the skills to break a flabby old scrote like this and the instinct to do it. I will seriously train any daughters to be violent first and ask questions later when it comes to predatory older men approaching them while they’re alone for ANY REASON.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 07:46 PM
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Yep, he’s a rapist. He knows he’s old and ugly and they wouldn’t want him. He’d force them if he could.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 07:43 PM
12

May this ancient scrote die of COVID 19 ASAP. Seriously, I hope he dies, preferably very very soon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 07:42 PM
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Knowledge is power. I feel empowered knowing what so many of them are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 07:41 PM
1

Nope. We’re not as extreme about it as men “I must be the only dick, ever! THE FIRST AND ONLY AND SPECIALEST DICK TO ENTER YOUR MAGIC CAVERN” but women absolutely want to feel special. And sleeping with the town manwhore makes you the opposite of special. Men will go to social groups, hit on every chick in order of who they think is hottest, and be all pissy when all the girls after the first reject the fuck out of him. Nobody likes sloppy seconds, or to be second choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 07:18 PM
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Honestly, women aren’t men. I don’t hang out with male friends because they’re hot. It’s irrelevant. We’re friends, not prospective fucks. That right there is why so many men can’t relate to women. They literally only see us as prospective fucks. Which leads us to just... hate them lol. Talk shit. Assume they’re like that because so many are “men only want one thing” etc. literally shooting yourself in the foot. What you’re saying is that men refuse their looksmatch and seek some kind of cheat c…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 07:12 PM
0

Yeah they should just be like you. What you’re doing has worked right? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 07:06 PM
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I know of one personally as does another commenter on here. I’ve read about it several times too. Women taking the kid(s) and heading back to China or Japan, where the govt will give 0 fucks about the father wanting his kids back. It’s a risk you take with a mail order bride.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 06:50 PM
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Only men argue that sleeping around with women is impressive. Literally only lmao. Being capable of getting laid with flings from time to time & having relationships? Of course, that’s normal for a desirable person. I know whores who are objectively good looking. Most dudes in “the scene” in my city are prob eskimo brothers cause of these chicks lol. When I see a dude with them on social media, I’m like 🚫❌🚷 Immediately they’re a no go.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 06:48 PM
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It’s not a fair exchange, or why would she despise him so much that she could easily and guiltlessly take his child? Another thing: these women are raised in a completely different culture, completely different socioeconomic environment. They don’t have American values. Probably another contributing factor to why they are capable of just dipping with the kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 06:45 PM
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It’s not “overtly feminist” that makes them successful. I don’t wanna sit around chatting feminist theory with a dude. It’s that men who respect women have female friends and acquaintances. I’ve known pretty unattractive dudes who were just awesome people... had lots of male and female friends... and that wide social net helped them find a partner. I bet a lot of those “feminists” youre talking about are just nice guy orbiters who pretend to respect women while just angling to get pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 06:44 PM
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I like FDS. I contribute there. You are only seeing the hyperbolic, angry side. The side that is reactionary because of the reality of how men treat women. Most of it is just wanting actual equality and respect. Wanting a man who is legitimately interested and willing to express that when the relationship is starting by planning nice (nice =/= $$$) dates, not “Netflix and chill and texting other women.” Not getting into “situationships” with men who are trying to slut around while pinning you do…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 06:40 PM
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Yeah she’ll only take any kids with her and her country of origin won’t give a fuck or help the man in the slightest. Sounds like a great deal!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 06:35 PM
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That’s what I mean. Their country of origin will not help you. So you better be pretty fucking sure she’s not just with you for money/green card status, because when she doesn’t actually love him and basically sees him as a John, it’s really easy to completely fuck them over. Lady probably gives 0 shits that he’s upset over losing his son. In her eyes, he got access to her body and she got money, it didn’t work out, bye! And of course women are gonna hold on to their kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 06:34 PM
1

I’ve never been in a relationship like that. I seriously doubt they even occur unless he’s ballin af. Like my partner paid for dates the first couple months. Now we split grocery bills. There’s usually a natural progression to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 06:31 PM
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The OP doesn’t say anything about NEVER paying for dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 06:27 PM
1

Okay. Do know that if you do encounter a decent female, she won’t stay for long. I’ve met men with your kind of baggage, and no self respecting woman is gonna do the time for some other random bitch’s crime.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 06:27 PM
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Turns out relationships based 100% on finances and not legitimate equality and love... aren’t based on love. If she never really loved you, just what you have, it’ll be beyond easy for her to take the children back to her home country and never feel a single iota of guilt. Basically it’s a trap
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 06:26 PM
0

Assuming all women are like your ex and not worth the effort you gave to her is assholeish. I’ve never cheated and never would either. There are lots of women and men who are the same. Don’t let the shitty ones turn you to shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 06:22 PM
0

When did you get pics of FDS contributors? Can I see?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 06:20 PM
1

I know some female hoes. So really no, it’s not. There are plenty of female skanks who will easily fuck male skanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 06:20 PM
1

Okay so what about the OP is being a doormat
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 06:19 PM
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Women get cheated on too. Cheaters are out there. Letting it turn you into a total asshole means you were never a good person in the first place. You see who someone is when the chips are down, not when everything is awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 06:18 PM
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Holy shit, that’s awesome. Good for you. I swear to god, that is the type of self improvement that actually CAN lead to better success with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 06:15 PM
2

Strange story. But I must say... you can’t think all the things women do and buy to be attractive are “free” or “natural” do you? Women work out like fiends. Diet incessantly. Spend thousands on hair, fashion, makeup, grooming services. It’s the same for all humans. If you want to be a prize, you need to put in the work.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 06:14 PM
9

I actually agree. That shit is weird. Might be a troll post
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 06:11 PM
1

Not being selfish in bed, taking care of your body, taking some pride in your appearance. “BeTa”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 06:09 PM
0

Lmao taking care of yourself and being decent in bed is being a doormat to you? Wow.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 06:08 PM
-2

Bwahahah. Spoken like a true “zeta.” All women need a strategy, because men are users (and often abusers). But men would love if women didn’t organize, see through their bullshit, and demand what they deserve. Too bad, so sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 06:07 PM
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As a woman who has 0 interest in settling for someone unattractive: good. At least both parties are getting what they want lmao. They should look out tho, lots of stories of those women bailing once they have citizenship, or even worse snatching the kids and going home.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 05:49 PM
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A man who sucks in bed and doesn’t plan dates isn’t high value. The richest guys in the worlds buy prostitutes, they don’t have relationships. It depends on what you want. If you want a never ending cycle of hoes that take as much as they can while they can and then dip, well... you better be rich as fuck. If you want a good wife to be proud of having on your arm and a family, you better put in effort to make such a woman happy. We all have considerably more options than men you see, except the …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 05:47 PM
1

Well no shit. Look at the dumbass men on here crying if a woman dared have sex before him (all of them do, hahah cry about it) Getting people to fuck you isn't hard unless you're literally an ogre. It's not impressive to be a slut.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 05:18 PM
1

eeeeexactly. That's why men who aren't insecure shitbags don't ask about n. My partner has had his fun, and he can tell from the way I live, speak, my relationship history, etc that there is nothing too extreme in my past. No threesomes or moresomes, no ONS every weekend, no fucking to get drugs or money or popularity. So he doesn't bother asking, bc he can tell I'm not promiscuous and have had a normal sexual evolution. It would make him a massive hypocrite and a douche to try and find out and …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 04:28 PM
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That's cool, keep being a horrible person and squealing about how women won't fuck you... it's because you're a horrible person who dehumanizes them. It ain't some deep mystery.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 04:22 PM
1

Lmao how many diseases you got from paying whores to fuck you? Get herpes yet? Seeing as that is the only way you can get any woman to even be in your presence, let alone touch your disgusting ass. Must be hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 04:21 PM
1

Sorry you're too ugly and annoying for anyone to want to fuck you. Must be hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 02:28 AM
3

I don't know? In my experience, the ones who are are the ones who are good at being social. And not just because they're trolling for pussy ala Jersey Shore/frat bro club rats, but because they legitimately have interests in common with other human beings combined with being a pretty cool/chill person. Men who are in a "scene," whether that be music/shows, some kind of athletic endeavor, whathaveyou always have women around. I've watched men in the various social scenes I've been in date strings…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 09:30 PM
2

Because many men are manipulative, nearly sociopathic liars who relentlessly try to use women for sex. And those women would not like to be used for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 09:24 PM
1

*bows down*
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 09:23 PM
1

Men who have been successful dating don't worry about it. They can tell if a woman is crazy promiscuous (like dealbreakingly so) or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 09:20 PM
4

"Men are predatory and only see women as sentient fuck dolls" We know, that's why we constantly talk about how nasty you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 09:19 PM
4

I did this and it's hands down the smartest. My ex partner and I didn't end up being a "life time" thing and were able to easily & amicably separate with 0 financial entanglements. And if you guys do go the distance, you lose nothing by waiting to do the whole marriage-kids song and dance. It's a win/win.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 09:19 PM
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My current partner was the first to bring it up, but it was more of a curious thing "Have you ever? Would you?" than a "Can we?" I said 'no and no, and especially not with what you're packin'', and he never pushed for it again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 09:01 PM
10

Donald Trump's missing son lmao He looks like he has child bearing hips
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 07:52 PM
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Same. A girl that fucking pathetic deserves what she gets. Enjoy getting cucked, you weak ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 07:39 PM
1

Thank you & you're welcome <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 04:22 PM
-1

Because he sucks at cooking? You must be amazing at everything then, lmao. Y'all can only date chefs if you want, good luck with that. I have female friends who can barely make boxed pasta also, it's not solely a male phenomenon. I don't wanna eat poorly spiced, poorly cooked food (he tries! but it's just not his natural skill) and I LIKE COOKING. So I cook when we're going to eat together, and have him chop the veggies/prep. It ain't that deep
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 04:21 PM
1

He actually does take me out a lot when it’s not coronavirus time lmao, it’s his way of compensating for being a shit cook I guess. It’s a whole new world for him, not being able to eat out. Because we are living together right now, it’s just expedient (and saves money)to plan and make meals together. But he really sucks at cooking. Example: I don’t eat meat. He generally hasn’t been either, because he got used to it from being with me. But of course he’d order meat at restaurants. These two wee…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 01:21 AM
2

My actual initial point is that YOUNG women (18-25 is a good range) don't find OLD men (35-45+) attractive. And they don't. I'm about to be 30, I'm a grown ass woman with a graduate degree, career etc. A 8 year gap is not preferable but I'm finally old enough to entertain it and actually feel attraction to men in their 30s. 5 years ago, at 24-almost-25, I NEVER would have considered someone over 30. I was still cooking, so to speak. It's not JUST appearance, it's also that fucking an old dude is…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 09:14 PM
2

Sure. I'm not 18-24 now am I? Also, I had my OLD set to 35 max for a second pre-my partner, and I had to bring it down b/c the men that old on there were actually like 45 lying and/or took heinous care of themselves and looked like thumbs. I didn't even believe my dude's age when I met him.. he's a unicorn that took damn good care of himself (used to be a personal trainer). But honestly? Nobody is exempt. He was hotter 5 years ago. That's just life yo.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 09:06 PM
2

Wow, those are terrible. I've experienced something approaching #1 but the rest... damn, what pigs. It is funny when they do some shit like ask you to do a "sexy dance" and I'm like YOU FIRST, CLAP THEM CHEEKS and they're like O.o Nothing triggers my "destruction mode" more than the mere IDEA of a man trying to bring another woman in. It would be an instant, absolute, automatic dump and block. I just basically blast this to men early on in dating so if they're the type to have THE AUDACITY they …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 09:04 PM
5

his cooking sucks. I mean, he makes breakfast well so I put him on that. But I have high standards for food. And I'm veg. Because I have all these standards and requirements I take on that task. He's obsessed with everything being minimalist and clean af. I don't mind a "lived in" look. So if he wants it to be like that he has to take on that task. Believe me, I don't let him take advantage of me lmao. I also like cooking and hate dishes so it's a good deal in my eyes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 08:57 PM
3

Sure, older than TWENTY FOUR. Yes, a 21-24 year old girl may be dating a 25-28 year old man. That is not unusual. They aren't fucking 40+ year old men though. I now date a 37 year old and have been for a year. But I am 29, almost 30 now. I was weirded out at first and definitely did not go for an older man, nor would I seek an older man again if we don't work out. It just happened that way. If I had been even 3 years younger, 25 instead of 28, when we met I wouldn't have engaged. It took me unti…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 08:54 PM
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So, point taken. He's actually been pretty legit: I have 3 roommates and they are dumbasses, they literally had a "gathering"of 10-12 people less than a week ago that I found out about during a phone conversation. I basically bailed to live with him a few weeks ago when the quarantine started to avoid getting sick b/c I don't trust them. But I still ain't gonna be his maid, I'll do MY PART to keep the place nice while I'm staying here but that's about it. He's shit at cooking (thanks, his parent…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 08:45 PM
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Those ARE a bit next level actually. From my experiences knowing women who’ve been sucked in to these POS’s orbit they may wait a while before laying it on that thick. At the beginning it’ll be more like he’s IMPLYING that his opinions on your appearance and lifestyle are something he has the right to comment on. Also openly checking out other women at any point early on in the relationship. “Teasing” in a way meant to make you feel insecure and like you don’t know how he feels about you. Making…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 08:05 PM
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A good example would be “you would look better if you straightened/curled your hair” “yeah, I like women who dress/do XYZ better (than what you’re wearing/doing)” Anything that is him trying to criticize/neg/control shit about you that is none of his damn business and he has no right to speak on. Red flag, ghost.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 07:56 PM
5

We literally agree. You just have a semantics argument.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 07:52 PM
1

Lmaooo that’s hilarious 😂 good luck bruh
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 07:51 PM
1

Lmao because I won’t settle for unattractive men I have “no clue as to the power of femininity and love?” Nah, you have no clue as to personal responsibility. I have no interest in being a man’s therapist and personal trainer lmao. I just found one who was already hot and had his shit together. And you can spew the delusion that you can somehow make someone lose weight all you want. Reality is if they wanna be fat they’ll go get that fast food when you’re not with them. They’ll start skipping th…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 07:51 PM
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EXACTLY. I’m just fortunate that I naturally feel the rage. This entire post is to explain to women who DON’T what they should be trying to cultivate within themselves, so they don’t get used and abused by these shitbags out here. You don’t have to say anything except “uhhh... whatever” or “wow.” in the moment. The key is to feel that “dafuq this fool just say?” inside and after you’re out of his presence he never gets to see you again. Because you’re right... he should get no hint from your beh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 07:46 PM
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I don’t have to SAY it to anyone. Because I don’t date pieces of shit. I date men who are thrilled to be with me and worship my body. Because I fuckin deserve it. But yes, if I ended up duped by some abusive piece of shit and he tried to turn on the bullshit once he thought I was “hooked...” first I would wreck his existence. Then I would dump his stupid fuckin ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 07:43 PM
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Yeah, that part was referring to the very beginning. When you’re just getting to know each other. Some women can’t even cultivate that rage when they are disrespected. They need to drill into their minds that disrespect = anger, and then yes, you ghost tf out of the douche.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 07:21 PM
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Eeeexactly. And they say women shit test. They just project on every single subject. Accuse you of what they do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 07:19 PM
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B/c no consequence fools have no right to even attempt to put me down. Once again I never said you outwardly get aggressive. You just leave ASAP and ghost their bitch asses. It’s not that complicated. Go ahead and give your second chances to losers, see how that works for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 07:19 PM
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Nope. I never said you scream in his face. You object, make your excuses, go home, and ghost his ass. “Please don’t treat me like subhuman trash again” fucking please. If he needs to be told, NEXT. And yes, if any man I was dating EVER made a negative comment about my body or appearance I’d fucking wreck their very existence so hard their ancestors would feel it in the grave. And I ain’t sorry about it either. I’ve never had to, because I reject those losers before they even get to see said body…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 06:59 PM
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Yeah because it's a bad idea lol. Anyone who would give you the advice to start dating someone you're not that attracted to in hopes you can make them more attractive is an idiot. Weight loss/getting fit is entirely a self-intrinsic process. If someone doesn't have genuine desire and motivation to do it FOR THEMSELVES it will never happen in 1,000 years. So he did, lucky her that she chose the one fat dude out of thousands that was already trying to change his habits.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 05:55 PM
1

No, it's not. I completely understand if a man doesn't want to date a woman who has had a long history of ONS, because otherwise I'd be a hypocrite. I would never trust nor desire the type of man to troll around for NSA sex on the regular either. Because yeah, if they've been doing that for years and it's something that appeals to them and that they enjoy apparently, why would you think that would change because of you? You'll hit a rough patch in the relationship and they'll go out and fuck a r…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 05:48 PM
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bc casual sex is for male benefit. Bc its dangerous for women, women don't get orgasms/pleasure bc men on average (especially those having NSA sex) don't give a fuck about female pleasure. Bc by giving a man casual sex, you're rewarding his shit ass low value behavior, which he will continue to inflict on women in perpetuity. It's counterproductive in pretty much all ways.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 05:39 PM
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Yep if you're having sex without orgasms you're fucking up. Point blank periodt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 05:34 PM
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1 dumbest shit ever: dating someone with the intent of "changing" them. For every story where that is successful there are thousands where it's not. You date someone when you're happy with exactly who they are at that point in time. Edit: also, if I were fat I'd deal with dadbods. But I'm not, so I don't have to. Just like how hardbody dudes don't date fat women unless they have a fetish. EQUALITY BITCH
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 05:32 PM
2

exactly. I don't even understand how ppl get involved with that mess unless they're like high school sweethearts. If I met a grown ass man whose mommy and daddy were pulling the strings my vagina would shrivel into a singularity and I'd be OUT
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 05:30 PM
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I think it's good to want their parents to like you if they are cool people... but if they're not, fuck that. The way I look at it... if you are a nice, normal woman who treats her son well, if she has any issue with you she's a psycho. If she tries to influence her son's healthy relationships (absent of some kind of cheating/abuse that would cause a parent to be concerned about a child's relationship) she's a psycho. But some people have psycho parents. That's not a dealbreaker in itself. If he…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 05:29 PM
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I just think that that is ridiculous, lmao. Within reason of course. Once you start getting into the double digits, a man who is freakish about sex (or can't get any) is gonna be threatened af. Unfortunately for them lol... that's completely normal for a woman who has been dating a decade and only had shorter relationships, 25-30+ But NSA sex doesn't do anything to "pair bonding" whatever the fuck that is. What it does mean in my opinion, whether it's men or women doing it frequently, is that th…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 05:22 PM
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See, unlike men, who look 45 at 29 nowadays, women actually take care of themselves. And unlike women, who actually have standards, men will fuck anything. If you seriously think fit women 40+ can't fuck dudes in their 20s... I got a bridge to sell ya lmao. But yes of course I'm not talking about the woman who had 3 kids and let that blow herself out to 220 lbs, so I suppose YOU would say I'm talking about "MILFs." I see them all the time in my field. Trim, still banging women who are successful…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 04:49 PM
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Bruh... dad bods are disgusting lmao I'm not fucking someone with titties just bc they're too ugly for other women to want
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 04:33 PM
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B/c nobody has 0 partners after say 20 and nobody has 0-3 after say 25 unless they get in an LTR. You're right, those ridiculous standards mean you will stay alone or have to settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 04:32 PM
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LOL REALLY Except male thirst doesn't go away and getting dick of any age is extremely easy if you're an in shape woman... we actually COULD be fucking 50 lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 04:31 PM
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You're dating trashy "chicks" then. When a man has fucked 20+ women, you know he'll stick his dick in anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 04:30 PM
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"facts"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 04:29 PM
5

Uh huh. It’s okay, once you’re older and even uglier all the little 20 yos will be falling all over themselves for your dick. Totally.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 08:27 AM
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Yeah I don’t care much about a man’s parents. If they’re awesome, cool, we can chill. If not I’ll see Em once a year max.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 08:15 AM
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Nope. 25+. 20 year olds don’t want 30+ year old men 😂 unless they’re trying to sugar I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 08:12 AM
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They’re just informing the old men that they are also low value 😂 which is the truth. Men love to cling to their delusions about how they’re so sexy at 50 and 95% get gross by 35.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 07:43 AM
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Nah
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 07:41 AM
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Lmao with their bald ass huge gut nasty asses. Male delusion. Men over ~45 are only attractive to women over 35. Deal with it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 07:39 AM
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Nah, I worked just as hard (harder, as a female in my field) and have never benefited in any tangible way from my looks except being able to get into relationships. I’m just not a sex obsessed monster like men are. It’s not that deep. Male desire is gross anyway 99.99% of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 06:58 AM
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Okay here is something I'd like men to explain. I get why someone being like... a literal skank hoe is gross and unattractive. Despite what is spewed by men on here, women don't like mansluts. They're thirsty, filthy, disease ridden(some that will make women infertile or give us cancer) GROSS creatures that would stick their dick in a pig wearing a wig or a goddamn PB&J. Straight up. Women want commitment. They like marriage (on average) families etc. You don't do that in the dude who would prob…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 03:40 AM
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akak people who actually get laid lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 05:18 PM
3

26... x 2... + 5
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 05:17 PM
3

Wait, including in a relationship? Does it make you want to kill yourself, the reality that you have to pay some miserable woman to touch your worthless peepee?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 12:26 AM
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I am literally watching one right now. Gonna go through all this in like one week lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 11:49 PM
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It is insecurity. *Some* men need to feel superior to their female partner. They need to feel like they're smarter and more capable. Those types are worthless to me, so I like that they are intimidated by intelligence, drive, and success. I will say if the only thing that "intimidates" a man about a woman is that she earns more than him (not that she's like... orders of magnitude smarter than himself) it is shooting yourself in the foot because if she earns a really solid income she may not give…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 05:23 PM
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I don't get it really. I don't like men enough to want to suck a bunch of them off. Most of them are absolute shit and I'd get nothing out of engaging with them sexually. Why am I gonna give them what they want when it's not what I want? Not interested. I'm in the "make a particular one work for it, hard, and then have a lot of good sex in the bounds of the LTR." But she must have an insaneeeee sex drive or something. Also I'm sureee she was joking but fucking dude's dads... beyond the extremely…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 04:14 PM
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Thank you for showing me this human. I fucking died laughing. I cannot say I co-sign... any of this... but damn is she funny
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 02:07 PM
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Lmao, no. I don’t have issues, I just have taken college level sociology and history classes (was far from being my major, but still required for some reason) and have done my own research. Women have been subjugated by men for the entirety of human history, and the only reason you deny it is because you’re intellectually dishonest. My life has been fine. Great even, lol. I’ve always been very social and had a million friends. I had a 7 year LTR that ended almost weirdly amicably. Had some fling…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 01:37 PM
1

Big tiddy goth gfs 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 01:24 PM
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This is a classic example of a man having 0 empathy for women. You assume our sexuality is like yours and our experiences are like yours, when they are polar opposite. You want to fuck nearly every female you see. Jeez, can’t one of those women make me their slave, rip my clothes off, and fuck me? And the worst thing about men like you is that women scream endlessly about what a horror this experience is for them, how it’s different, how having a vagina and being the receiving partner can easily…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 04:26 AM
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Dumb. "Loving" a 40 year old as a 19 year old doesn't mean shit, besides that she was naive and needed more direction from her parents growing up. And it turned out exactly how one would expect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 07:04 PM
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If you really think women only chase mansluts you’re delusional. Any person, male or female, who is promiscuous is profoundly unattractive to the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 04:30 AM
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Do not engage. He and his dick are just as trash as they used to be 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 04:29 AM
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HAHAH NOT A CHANCE SUCKA
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 04:28 AM
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Chad is the city sentient dildo and the wholesome woman doesn’t want a skeezeball, hpv ridden whore.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 04:27 AM
2

Lol when men get emotional they kill people. Lol when men get horny they rape the nearest organism with a hole in their vicinity. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 08:03 PM
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Bruh, I'm not "painting" anything like anything. That is literally how it was. Women were holes for their husbands to use, whenever and however they saw fit. They were punching bags should he tend to be the violent type. And nobody cared because women were considered subhuman by men, literal breeding chattel. They could own no property, acquire no education, work no job, have no money of their own. The vast majority of "marriages" WERE sexual slavery contracts, where the woman was the slave. Per…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 05:08 PM
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It's especially apparent in all the REEEEEEE about how they want casual sex... have you ever been in a casual "relationship" with a dude? They get soooo fuckin triggered if you are legitimately not interested in anything more. They will start pretending you are, despite literally everything you say and do clearly communicating that that is not the case lol. Their ego can't take casual sex, but they are too stupid to realize it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 04:55 PM
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Lmaooooooo is that ur fantasy? Keep it to yourself, that's nasty
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 04:53 PM
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True on all counts. People who engage in "relationships" that are really glorified prositution/using contracts are shitty people, and they will reap the unhappiness they deserve... eventually. Those men do keep paying new young women... at the end they're basically paying some young woman to half heartedly pretend his old wrinkly body doesn't make her want to vomit and basically be his carer while she waits for him to die. She then makes sure to get a favorable will and does the bare minimum to …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 04:52 PM
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When I was single I ghosted one of these such fuckboys after a couple months of his inconsistent BS... he still texts me occasionally lmao I haven’t responded in like 10x as long as we were talking, dafuq?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 03:10 PM
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Yep, because decent people need more than “pretty vag/dick to fuck” And men become ready to settle down older, once they are ready they marry the fuck out of the next compatible personality woman they feel they can maintain attraction to. There are a lot of facets to what makes a successful LTR, and while sexual attraction is required it’s not even the most important part. It’s more like baseline and then if other parts are missing (priorities/personality/communication style/values) youre equall…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 03:07 PM
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Yup. My bf will say “You’re demanding” jokingly and I’m always like HELL YEAH I AM!!! And then we smooch. He is literally making fun of the male tendency to want doormat women who don’t assert themselves. He dated a woman kinda like that in his youth for a loooong time and it ended up being a total dead fish relationship that dragged on longer than it should have... turns out men don’t even know what they want and can’t really sustain attraction for women with 0 self respect who just go along wi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 03:00 PM
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I’ve met guys like this, but it’s definitely wayyyy more prevalent in women. We need to know our worth. Men don’t really know their worth, but they are self interested above all and I think that makes it easier for the majority of them to avoid this trap. But I’ve definitely known dudes who were just being abused by their partners, verbally/emotionally, and just take it. It’s a self esteem problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 02:52 PM
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Plus it’s like... the beginning part of dating is supposed to be fun. Doing all sorts of adventurous, interesting activities together. Having a fuckton of good sex. Not weeping together about our childhood traumas, tf. Beyond being inappropriate it’s just being a downer, and people don’t tend to like negative people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 02:43 PM
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This is the way. /mandalorian But seriously I can’t maintain attraction to someone who doesn’t treat me well. Even if it’s just playing games while texting early on. I start looking at his flaws and then I’m like “ew.” Then it’s on to the next one. One time being demisexual is helpful af
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 02:41 PM
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Yep. Our emotional tendencies are mostly investing and loving too quickly and too hard. Men’s are assaulting and murdering people lol. But we’re the emotional gender 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 02:40 PM
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Nope. Women and girls never chose their husbands. They were raped nightly by whoever they were sold to. There was 0 concept of female pleasure while the men had a great time of course, orgasms etc. No birth control so the women’s’ lives were just an endless cycle of being raped, impregnated, medication-less childbirth, repeat. As many babies as your body could produce before you died or developed a uterine prolapse. Some bore 8-10 kids during their fertile years and those were the lucky ones... …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 02:38 PM
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They don’t. They think they do, but they have 0 idea how hard women laugh behind their ugly, fat, man titty having, hairline disintegrating, loser asses. Seriously, do unto others is not just a moral imperative... if you look like someone’s big toe shut your mouth about other people’s physical appearance, you’re really just embarrassing yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 02:26 PM
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Hahaha don’t have the strength... more like aren’t violent, entitled pieces of shit 👌🏼 cry harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 02:24 PM
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You can do it. You can. You’re beautiful, and beyond that—more importantly than that—you are lovable. Who the fuck has the right to treat you like you’re not? NOBODY, THAT’S WHO. It is infinitely preferable to be single and invest in stronger relationships with friends and family than to give one iota of attention to some literal piece of trash, insecure, negging, hateful pig. Tell them to go back to the dumpster they crawled out of, where they belong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 02:23 PM
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Hahahaha could they scream “I am inadequate with a small dick and weak game using it” any louder? Do they think we don’t pick up on what it means when they’re dragging a woman they’d actually cut their own finger off to get in bed with? Pathetic little piggies. Also I don’t know why women date men like that. If he’s talking shit about the physical appearance of the hottest women on earth WHAT do you think he thinks about you with your normal, minor physical flaws??? Hmmmmm???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 02:22 PM
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HAHHAHAHAHHAHAHA THAT FUCKING RECTANGULAR, SPONGEBOB SHAPED FUCKER TALKING SHIT YOU GOT AN OPINION JABBA? YOU WERENT FRESH WHEN YOU CAME OUT THE WOMB LMAO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 02:10 PM
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Honestly she did that to herself. I read that story and I have 0 sympathy for her. Stupid games, stupid prizes, etc. You spent your prime sucking some ugly piece of shits dick cause he was rich and could sing or what the fuck ever (can’t remember what his name/talent was) well that was your mistake. He’s 40 going for a 19 year old... ugly even when he WAS in his prime... lie with pigs and you get dirty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 02:08 PM
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Yup. They’re ENRAGED that that sexy fucking woman would never in 1,000 years give them a first glance let alone touch their tiny PP. So they have to try to tear them down... which is hilarious bc she’s fucking someone attractive and literally is laughing at how pathetic they are. Cry harder pigs. Your tears are delicious
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 02:05 PM
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That’s why you absolutely crush the self esteem of weasels who dare do that to you IRL. I’m not gonna lie, I don’t give the slightest attention to a male unless he’s basically worshipful of my physical appearance lol. I’m hot and I know it, sure I’m not a model, but I’m attractive and work hard to stay fit. So literally anything but “goddamn, you’re stunning and I’d be thrilled to take you out” gets 0 attention. As a result I’ve never been negged in a relationship or even a casual hook up situat…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 02:00 PM
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Oh yeah unlike men who rape them and beat them to death. Give it a fucking rest. Wah wah wah poor little men, were only responsible for 90% of murders and violent crime, 98% of forcible rape, waaaahhhhhhhhhhhhhh
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 01:28 PM
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Women were sold to the highest bidder for a lifetime of rape and childbirth, over and over until she died. Probably in childbirth. They weren’t allowed any education, no reading and writing until maybe the 1800s. For all of human history. We’re talking 14 year old girls being married off to men in their 30s and 40s. And you think men had it worse? LoL.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 01:27 PM
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Two out of.... all of them lmao? It's not, in any way, just as common.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 05:42 PM
2

Depends on your face at that point. If you have an unnattractive face and want a pretty girl, she probably will have be a bit pudgy. Not saying obese/fat but looking at the athletic/fit and gorgeous faced ones is a waste of time. you could get a plain athletic girl. Or a pretty slightly overweight/chubby one. The ones with both attributes are, on average, dating the hotties. I'm pretty and in very good shape, GREAT for my age (29), but I'm no hardbody gym bunny type and I'm very aware when a man…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 05:10 PM
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Absolutely. Above average attractive too. I was in a 7 year LTR. Without genuine physical attraction COMBINED with sexual compatibility (it is 100% possible to have better sexual compatibility and therefore a hotter and better relationship with someone who is objectively less attractive than someone else, you still must find them attractive though) that shit is doomed. I mean, unless it's a Mr.&Mrs.Inc business proposition to you. The years go on. The spark fades. The irritating shit about them …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 05:03 PM
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Heehee child rape, so fun
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 04:42 PM
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Were you shooting for women way more attractive than yourself? Do you honestly think this is only a male phenomenon? Women try to punch above their weight and get smacked down too, and with less “niceness.” If someone is beautiful/handsome, fit, etc they are gonna want the same in a mate. They will reject most people who are objectively much less attractive than themselves. Ways to hedge this: fix diet and exercise, get good body. Dress nice, style yourself well. That’s enough to at least be a c…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 04:41 PM
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This. Make that $$ then, and find you a dumb young gold digger. She WILL fuck other guys lol, so you better get over being cucked, but with sufficient income you can definitely enter into an informal contract with one of these “only fans/premium snap” hoes where they fuck you and you pay for their lifestyle. But please leave the legitimate, adult, career women looking for partners alone lol. No woman worth anything wants some not only unattractive but “seething with long-standing misogynistic ra…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 04:34 PM
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Why would she if you’re not in your prime lol? Sorry bud, the 18-24 set generally dates other 19-24 year olds, and hotties generally date hotties.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 04:30 PM
1

use google
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/20 11:41 AM
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no obstructing air flow. Hard to comprehend?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/20 12:59 AM
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This. dominant doesn't mean "terrifying" or "violent." The men who do best with women are low key dominant, it's attractive, but they do not use it against her unless it's playful and/or during consensual sexual encounters. I like a dominant man... but I don't even want today's "mild" bdsm shit people keep trying to cram down our throats as "normal." NO choking, NO hitting, period. But holding my neck? Pinning me down? Using his mass to change our position? Yes please.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 09:26 PM
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it's also a sign of weakness. Mental weakness is most certainly a thing. Men who can't control their anger and become violent regularly end up incarcerated.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 09:24 PM
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K
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 06:20 AM
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Lmao ain’t got no kids, tard. How many rapes have you stopped? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 12:39 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 12:38 AM
1

K
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 10:25 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 10:25 PM
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That's not what she's saying. Of course bottom of the barrel men will be willing to stick their dick in literally anyone who has a vagina. But for what women want... emotional intimacy, loyalty, commitment... men will not offer that to a woman they perceive as less attractive than they can theoretically get. Ever. Those are things men don't want to give, they just want pussy, but they will give them IF they perceive her to be enough of a prize that it's "worth it" to give up their fuckboy inclin…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 04:32 PM
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Lies. If a woman is genetically blessed and fit, men can't tell and couldn't give a shit when they find out.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 04:22 PM
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It's funny, I personally know several short dudes who do great with women. They're both pretty handsome (nothing crazy, but good looking dudes) and fit af though. The one, he ALWAYS has a new chick. I haven't experienced this IRL is what I'm saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 04:22 PM
1

The reality is that most people are almost the same and things that work or don’t work do so almost universally. Welp, that's extremely dumb. Congrats. Not true in the fucking slightest, lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 03:34 PM
1

Suck A Dick
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 03:33 PM
2

Give me mines all day over endless rape. The reason why women were treated worse is because they were literally destroyed by men, their humanity torn apart. That's what happens to sex slaves, you can watch documentaries of women who've been saved from trafficking and returned to their families (in Russia etc) and see the emptiness in their eyes. There are things worse than death. Like being raped all day every day, and having your children torn from your arms the second they're born.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 03:33 PM
3

Some people have strong people-pleasing tendencies and no innate level of selfishness to balance them out. Assholes recognize this and target them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 03:31 PM
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That is unfortunate. People probably assume that you'd understand, because many of us are innately capable of maintaining boundaries (some base level of 'selfishness' is advantageous for sure), but that's not a fair assumption. I do think it's important to teach children that being nice means being kind, not critical, not rude, supportive... it has nothing to do with letting other people take advantage of you in any way. If someone is asking consistently for you to inconvenience yourself, pay fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 03:30 PM
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I think it's because women DO have more flexibility with looks than men. I mean 99.9% of men are narrow as fuck with what they consider attractive. Some women can become attracted to individual men who are not physically attractive because of other personality traits. That Danny Devito example is perfect. I could not find him less attractive lol, never in a million years. I think he's hilarious and seems like a great dude, but do I want him to touch me? FUCK THE FUCK NO. But some women will be a…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 03:24 PM
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Shit son, most women don't even know how to masturbate until their mid/late teens. Female sexual pleasure is 100% ignored or demonized. Nobody gets a "life instruction manual," especially not in the US. You have to figure shit out yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 08:10 PM
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Ain't nobody trying to say "You're below my baseline threshold for sexual attraction and that's why you do not and never will have a shot. Work out and diet until you're fit and fix your hair/clothes and you'll be able to get someone though, probably" That's just mean. It's self evident anyway. People who are attractive have regular success with the opposite sex. Everyone gets rejected/doesn't get interest from someone they think is attractive, but people who are overall at least moderately attr…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 08:07 PM
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Right, like some ugly ass loser ALSO being a dick will help his chances and not just guarantee that no woman will even converse with/be in the same vicinity of them willingly lol. They said "be nice" because if they've got nothing to offer otherwise... the ugly unaccomplished nice dude does indeed still have better shots at obtaining female companionship than the ugly unaccomplished dickbag one lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 07:58 PM
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I mean, despite the media showing the ugly dude getting the girl, most of society is pretty honest. Calvin Klein models aren't paunchy dad bod dudes. Images of "peak physical attractive" men are common, just not as common as those of women. There is a clear message about what looks physically attractive for a male.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 07:57 PM
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Being nice doesn't mean being a doormat. It doesn't mean no boundaries, it doesn't mean letting people take advantage of you. If you conflated those poor traits with being nice that was a mistake.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 07:55 PM
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I have never in my LIFE heard another girl/woman literally say looks don't matter in dating. Ever. If you ever thought that you're fucking delusional. We are less shallow than men, which is why women date below their "rating" more often than men do. That doesn't mean we're fucking blind lolll
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 07:53 PM
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You don't think individual people are unique? Well that's just dumbassery. Guess marrying a specific person is dumb, you should just marry any person of that gender because they're all the same lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 07:52 PM
1

Yeah, woody allen really fucked up society apparently lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 07:50 PM
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Then what the fuck are you arguing. That guys who are chill and nice and also attractive/have their lives together don't get women to sleep with and date them? Because that's dumb as fuck. They absolutely do.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 07:45 PM
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It's just reality. If you don't have a lot to offer then you don't have a lot of options. That's the way the world works lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 07:36 PM
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Men aren't nice, so your entire premise is already fucked. Women go with nice men all the time. They just don't go well with A. "nice" men who attempt nonstop to manipulate sex out of women because they ain't nice or B. nice enough men who are unattractive, unaccomplished, lack good hygiene, or all of the above. Why? For the same reason only bottom of the barrel and/or fetishist men go with morbidly obese women. Standards. We also have eyes and need a baseline attraction to want to engage sexual…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 07:26 PM
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First of all, rape is absolutely going on in the civilized world, men are raping women and children in the US at this very moment. Second of all, sure, I get to live a safer existence... because the US is still benefiting from all of the GENOCIDE AND COLONIALISM it was founded on. The past is still real, you know. Real and required for a comprehensive understanding of the present day.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 07:21 PM
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I think we are discussing different populations of men. What men, in your opinion, do I "fuck over these nice docile men" lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 07:18 PM
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"I have deeply held bigotry and biases towards you and everyone like you, but need you to touch PP" This is not a quality offer. I actually don't hate ALL men, just the ones who are violent and entitled, which includes all the sexually coercive/rapist ones and the domestic abusers, as well as all the men who tirelessly defend them by deflecting, getting all triggered at straight up statistics about male violence, pretending ANYTHING women do to men is at all comparable to the systematic physical…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 07:16 PM
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Nobody is entitled to spew random BS in a transparent effort to derail a conversation and expect a response lmao. Too bad, so sad, go try it somewhere else, also compared to women men are violent animals who are responsible for 90%+ of violence in the world, lolz
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 07:09 PM
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Nobody fucks those basement dwelling creepers. That's part of the reason why they're so angry.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 06:01 PM
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Yeah, I'm not going to waste my time engaging with idiocy. If you can't stick to the topic of conversation, don't bother attempting to engage.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 05:58 PM
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Yeah, all the genocides, rape, colonialism, destruction... men are so positive. No, you’re animals who have only held control because you’ve systematically subjugated women into chattel through all of human history until very recently... and weasels like you bemoan the fact that you can’t still. TOO BAD SO SAD HAHAHAAA
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 04:11 PM
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Lmao I love when you degenerates bring up single mothers. You mean the ones who raise the kids after the father fucks off because men are so terminally selfish they don’t even give a single fuck about their own kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 04:10 PM
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🥱
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 11:52 PM
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Deflect elsewhere 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 11:36 PM
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Maybe you have poor reading comprehension. What is this sub about? What is this thread about?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 11:22 PM
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I don’t have a habit of going into women’s basements to suck off their ugly loser sons, so I’m pretty sure I won’t be sucking off any mass shooters at any point 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 11:16 PM
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Just explain to the Scrote that you like being treated like a human being. It’s too stupid to realize it otherwise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 11:04 PM
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Sooo brave, such big PP. creeps up and squeezes a trigger. SUCH A BADASS!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 11:00 PM
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Triggered, must deflect into more comfortable waters: racism.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 11:00 PM
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So strong, to pull a trigger 🤣🤣🤣 Yeah, that’s why men commit all the rapes and fuel sex trafficking, pedophilia... because women are the abusive sex. Face it, your gender is degenerate.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 10:56 PM
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I don’t care. Op thinks being a basement dwelling autist coward is akin to being a “wolf” lol. Too far gone to save
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 09:45 PM
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Yes it is. Or else they’d use their bare hands and see how many people they could get. Also, it’s cowardly as fucking shit to fail so hard at life, entirely due to your own lack of positive qualities, and decide to murder people because of it. Pathetic. As. Shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 09:43 PM
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What fear and what basement 😂 Sneaking up like a lil bitch and shooting random unarmed people: SO STUNNING AND BRAVE. Jk it’s the action of a total bitch that knows if they played fair even the weakest among us could probably fuck them up.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 09:40 PM
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Maybe you’re confused. The original post is about quarantining male hate subs. Which happens because men egg each other on and commit violence. 10% of murders are committed by women, lmao. That’s why we’re allowed to have our subs.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 09:38 PM
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Cool well they don’t do it. But manosphere cretins DO act on their malevolent thoughts. That’s why reddit shuts that crap down.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 09:35 PM
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Absolutely they are. The most cowardly and pathetic act imaginable.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 09:34 PM
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When did I say that there has never existed a female serial killer? Males absolutely dwarf women in that arena (like every type of violence) and women don’t create webpages to write masturbatory posts about raping and killing like men do. Thus, male hate sites get KO’d. And the ones that don’t are monitored, for good reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 09:30 PM
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It’s not scary, it’s pathetic. And law enforcement/FBI don’t like it. Reddit would rather stay running, so.. banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 09:29 PM
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No, there are women who hate men. We just don’t go out, capture, rape, and murder them. Or shoot up random public places.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 09:28 PM
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Lmao, the words of basement dwelling redditors don’t mean shit. Those male subs get removed because men will literally egg each other on until some of them straight up rape/murder women or commit a mass shooting. It’s not because you’re superior, it’s because you’re aggressive and violent. That’s why male hate speech subs get taken down. There is no female Eliot Rodgers.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 08:09 PM
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Yes, I think so. I've even said "woman up" jokingly in reference to myself "So I need to woman up and..." It basically means get your shit together and take care of whatever needs to be taken care of, be an adult, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 07:46 PM
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Hahahahhaha
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 05:25 PM
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🥱
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 04:39 PM
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😂😂😂😂 🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 03:52 PM
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The pill was making me sick and it was his suggestion actually, and he had no issues with premature ejaculation. He wasn’t a compulsive porn user/masturbator though, so probably more sensitivity than a lot of men? Dunno
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 01:02 PM
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Post a pic LOL wow, you tried it. Go get pics of your “gf”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 12:50 PM
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My ex and I used condoms regularly and he was fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 12:49 PM
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Hahaha good luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 12:49 PM
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Highly unlikely, "ThatGamer707" Cool story tho
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 07:01 PM
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Kick his ass out. He won't spread it on his way home to his own damn place unless he's an utter moron.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 06:54 PM
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You're welcome. If you ever manage to get someone to fuck you, I suggest condoms. Combined with the pullout method they're near fool-proof!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 06:51 PM
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"Waaaahhhhhhhh abortion" Scroticus mad. PP no hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 06:48 PM
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Thank you. I feel like a lot of men think the woman is like... rubbing her hands together celebrating "stealing" some dude who makes 30-40k's seed... when in reality her entire life is fucked up, she will be the primary caregiver in the vast majority of cases and very possibly the sole caregiver, she will have serious medical procedures from destroyed genitals up to full on abdominal surgery ($XX,XXX), every single person in her life will know about this due to... pregnancy being very visible, l…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 06:48 PM
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Fact: Abortion is legal. For women. If you impregnate someone you'll probably end up with a kid, which you will then be held responsible for. Cry about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 06:41 PM
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Nobody is going to punish women for miscarrying because "Wah PP no hard, no bareback sex" Grow the fuck up lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 06:28 PM
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0 rebuttal, name calls instead, fucking Yawn. Good luck banning abortion or whatever your end goal is lmao, you got a lot of law school ahead of ya
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 06:28 PM
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This. Men I've dated have always trusted me about my contraceptive use... it is overwhelmingly obvious that I have no interest in bearing their seed, lmao. I got other shit to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 06:26 PM
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Imagine if I forced you to be a mum and gave you no say over it. You would go nuts. You can't, because I use birth control. Men who do not prevent their baby batter from entering the uteri of women (especially FWB, lol) are absolutely saying "eh, I don't care if I have a kid or not." Because at that point it's out of your hands. If I was a dude I would 100% use condoms with someone I didn't trust with my LIFE, as in a long term, deeply committed relationship to a woman who is not only openly and…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 06:22 PM
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Didn't explain shit, just lamented that reality is real and women can't be forced into abortions, plus children can't be "financially aborted" whatever the fuck that means lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 06:19 PM
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It's not about the fetus, it's about the woman who carries it. If she can't or won't have an abortion: it's gonna be a kid. Possibly your kid, if you fuck randoms without wrapping up your dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 06:18 PM
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If you define life as beginning at conception, that will open women who spontaneously miscarry blastocysts to legal prosecution. So no, I don't think we have legislated harder things. It would be impossible to define life as beginning at conception from a legal standpoint.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 06:17 PM
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The stats do not agree with you. People who marry young and to their first partners actually have worse outcomes. I think the "young" part is more important than the "first partner" part. But still.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 06:14 PM
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As I said, that will be impossible to legislate. "God" (nature) is the greatest abortionist.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 06:13 PM
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Sooooo what's your fuckin question then lol? If you get someone pregnant and she decides not to abort/doesn't know somehow until she's too far along, you're daddy now.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 06:12 PM
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It won't, for many practical reasons. It may get pushed so that only first trimester is legal or something similar, but to rule that life begins at conception would create a bunch of very troublesome legal issues. IVF clinics would basically be death camps, the gov't could theoretically dig through women's period trash, find evidence of the ~50% of fertilized eggs that result in spontaneous miscarriage before the woman knows she's pregnant, and then what? Prosecute her for murder? Show a video o…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 06:11 PM
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Doesn't exist, too bad, so sad. Might I suggest a vasectomy?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 06:06 PM
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Except you don't if she gets an abortion in time, which is legal. In my country anyway. Wow, you're really arguing about something you have no clue about. That's somewhat embarrassing. yes, it is directly related to the fetus being in the woman's body. The woman has bodily autonomy and the right to privacy, both stated in Roe v. Wade. Late stage isn't legal except when the health of the mother or baby is in eminent risk, because a late stage fetus can be viable: it's more like a birth than an ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 06:05 PM
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Yes, yes you did. It sucks, but it sucks for her too. I guarantee you many women WANT to abort some dipshit's baby, only to find that they cannot emotionally/mentally go through with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 06:01 PM
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Yes, but only one partner has a say on whether an invasive medical procedure will be performed to remove an unwanted fetus: the one undergoing the procedure. That will never change, not ever, so I suggest you watch where your sperm goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 06:00 PM
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We already do that, lol. Women either become a mother or abort. You don't get to abort because you're not pregnant. Durr.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 05:59 PM
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Nope, because the fetus isn't in the male's body. But besides that, what do you call a moron who lets his semen enter a woman's uterus and then bitches about raising a kid afterward? A father.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 05:58 PM
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Good luck w your future divorce, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 08:53 PM
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B/c here you are, still upset by someone else's thoughts... Stop worrying about what other people think. I certainly don't. I'll judge however tf I want, that's how the world works, you can't be the thought police.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 04:18 PM
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Right. And we know women... women will put up with some serious shit for their children. If she's seriously deciding to break up the family it's cause he's really an unredeemable piece of shit that she cannot stomach coexisting with anymore, let alone fucking & engaging in all the normal "relationship" shit. Sorry you made your (ex)wife hate you and she bailed on your ass... actually I'm not, improve yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 04:02 PM
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*bows down to u* accurate af
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 04:01 PM
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If you're not looking for anything at all, get the fuck outta women's inboxes. Seriously, way too many damaged, utterly self-centered "men" who are fully aware they lack the capability to be a partner but still try to dupe women into dating them. If you're too fucked up to be a decent partner, you can use your hand or hire an escort. Fuck off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 04:00 PM
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I still feel sorry for them. I can't even fathom the lack of self worth that would lead someone to where she is. Not only doing anal (no) but allowing a man to put his shit particle covered dick in your mouth afterwards... for basic affection that should be inherent in ANY sexual relationship? That is some of the saddest shit I've read. I won't even call her a pick-me, she is just damaged and needs help.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 03:58 PM
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I don't even have any kids and as soon as a man acts like he needs a Mommy my vagina shrivels into an infinitely dense singularity. Emotions, fine. Good even, healthy. But manbaby activity = I will never touch your dick again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 03:13 PM
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"You should have asked me to change the baby's diaper, do the dirty dishes, pick up all the playthings all over the floor. I don't have working eyes or a working brain or anything" -dipshit men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 03:10 PM
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Right? Like... I'll launder money or something. Fuck all that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 03:08 PM
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So glad you aren't with that turd anymore. Bet reality hit him like a semi truck when he tried to catch another hottie with his fucked up face and paunchy body lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 03:08 PM
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LMAO FOR REAL. IF I'm looking for some fuckboi bullshit, and that's a big if, he's gonna still have his hair and a tight body lmaooooo. Male delusion
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 03:06 PM
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They do, but as you said they won't comprehend it. And even if they do, they'll just get triggered and mad about it, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 02:53 PM
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Some of them are cute. Most are dating someone, many are married. The health food store guy is not separate from his education/career. It is a direct reflection of his upbringing, worldview, and priorities in life. Someone who is working retail in their late 20s with 0 intent to move past that (actually, without clear plans to do so) has a very different life outlook than I do, and it is a fundamental incompatibility. Obviously a good career is not enough to attract women. A man needs to be phys…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/20 08:09 PM
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I wouldn’t call it settling, id call it maturity. When you’re young you’re so sure that the Perfect Partner that meets 100% of your needs (and you 100% of theirs), has nearly identical interests and social strategy to yourself, and basically shits rainbows is out there. Then you get older and realize that A. That’s ludicrous, nobody is perfect, in general or for you and B. The healthiest relationships are between individuals that are different from each other to some extent. It’s best that you h…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/20 08:01 PM
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The ones who don't care are like you: wouldn't touch with a 10 foot pole, even if the entire country wasn't basically in lockdown lmao The opinions of random unsuccessful, unattractive, lazy, loser men (who are psychotically misogynistic, no less) are of no consequence to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/20 07:55 PM
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So deep into your elaborate delusional fantasies about why your lack of success with women isn't your fault. There's an easy solution to your issue: accept reality, if you're a fucking bum don't bother trying to hit up someone with a JD, MD, PhD lmao, you're below their league for dating and that's how it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/20 07:45 PM
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Didn't you know? According to this sub women are manipulative, evil, hYpErGaMoUs WhOrEs if they won't give the homeless dude down at the park a "chance." That's hyperbolic but honestly, a lot of the comments from men on here strike me like that. They're not actually happy at 30k, even if they're willing to rent a room the size of a walk in closet from someone or live with mommy and daddy or whatever... because women will not accept it. But to these men, women should engage romantically and sexua…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/20 07:42 PM
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Around half of my colleagues are male, my partner is a male, etc... I am constantly around men who put in the work, got the degree(s), and have tons of job offers. Are able to shop around and be wanted for their skills. So I don't see the reality you're describing here.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/20 07:32 PM
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You don't think we're angry? Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/20 07:29 PM
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Yeah, but they don't actually do it. There is no female Elliot Rodgers.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/20 07:28 PM
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It's almost like the entirety of male behavior shapes the way women think about men, and a non-insignificant percentage of men are foul creatures lower than animals... especially towards women and girls. Reality, real, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/20 07:27 PM
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Preach.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/20 07:23 PM
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Financial stress is one of THE most common reasons for divorce. More money doesn't equal a better life after you clear... maybe 200k or so (less if you don't live in a psychotically high cost of living area like Boston or San Fran). After that, unless you're bougie and have poor priorities, more money =/= better. But while you're living paycheck to paycheck, driving a beater, one catastrophic car failure, lay off, or illness away from being completely fucked, more money absolutely means a better…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/20 04:39 PM
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Putting value in consensual hot mutually pleasurable sex... guess you can't relate
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/20 04:33 PM
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I mean, you can try. They'll reject ya though
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/20 04:42 AM
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"Waaaaahhhhh women have standards waaahhhhhhhh"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/20 04:41 AM
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"I have to have a college education, a job, a car, AND my own place??? WHORE!!!!" I'm looking for a husband not a dependent.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/20 01:11 AM
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K
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/20 09:13 PM
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*shrug* It is what it is. If you're in the states and don't have health insurance, you do have debt. It just hasn't come yet. If you don't, you have a better chance of staying debt free for longer... but cars break down to the tune of thousands, illnesses where you can't work come along, jobs can be lost unexpectedly. When you're making pennies and have no savings, an event like that can trigger catastrophe in a second. That is why I prioritize doing well in my life so I am not at risk of being …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/20 09:12 PM
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I mean, if you make 30k you have debt. Maybe it hasn't hit yet, but if you're in the US it's coming. 30k jobs don't offer health insurance, and ACA coverage is far too expensive for someone making that little. You are one silly little gall bladder removal or whatever from serious debt if you don't have health insurance. Secondly, if you really felt comfortable with your choices you wouldn't be so triggered by other people thinking they were subpar. Plus, the desire to fuck married people shows t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/20 09:09 PM
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Lol, because wanting a comfortable life without debt and constant financial stress = not caring about the world Good luck with that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/20 08:14 PM
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B/c in my opinion if you’re that broke just don’t bother trying to bug women. Plus, showing up to an easy job with 0 upward mobility for years on end, while having debt and being unable to improve their quality of life at all whatsoever is a lazy bum, and they should stay single and live their bare minimum spartan life or at least only approach their equals: check out lady at the Walmart type women. Nobody else wants anything to do with that. None of that “what about looooooove” shit. Have fun w…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/20 08:14 PM
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Someone willing to put in the work to have a healthy LTR? “SiMp” But hey, that simp gets ridden til he looks and sounds like he’s stroking out on the reg, so he still wins, even by the crap ass standards of incels. Enjoy your hand, prostitutes, whathaveyou lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/20 08:09 PM
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Imagine thinking your desire to get PP wet should supersede women’s desires to have families and live the life they want. Who is the *psycho?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/20 07:55 PM
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I mean, my ex showed up most every day to his retail job at 6 in the damn morning or from 3-11 at night. He worked long hours, he never called in sick. His work ethic wasn’t exactly the problem, per se. it was more his ability to be complacent with a lackluster, extremely suboptimal lifestyle indefinitely. I wasn’t cruel to him, we are still on good terms. I just left him because I knew I couldn’t be happy with him. I couldn’t respect that he was watching me BUST MY ASS to make a better life for…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/20 07:54 PM
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Married to someone who is worth my time or happily single, investing in my relationships with my friends and family. Where it doesn’t lead: stuck in a dead end miserable relationship with a man who is minimum to no effort at best and emotionally/verbally/financially or even physically abusive at worst. Settling for someone who treats you like shit, openly “soft cheats,” or even just doesn’t give a fuck about your needs, just what they can get out of you (bangmaid duties, free childcare mostly). …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/20 07:49 PM
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It was an autocorrect error, I meant “unambitious” You can be upset that other people have other priorities in life or you can accept it. The second option is generally what people who are truly happy with their choices do. I don’t want to live with my SO and two other housemates and the resulting mess and complications. I don’t want shitty unreliable cars. I don’t want to live paycheck to paycheck with 0 retirement savings. I don’t want to live frugally: I like to travel, I have hobbies that co…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/20 07:28 PM
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Nah, but I don’t look at them as prospective life partners either. I don’t spend a lot of time judging people like that b/c I’m almost never on the market for a SO and am happily taken currently. But yeah once you’re Dr. Lastname a dude has to at least have a BS/BA and not run a damn register for minimum wage. Not sorry bout this one in the least. Especially cause I know the lifestyle of the server/bartender/retail set (I did it throughout undergrad) and if someone isn’t in school while they’re …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/20 07:20 PM
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Yep, you’re on the internet, and if you’re a low achieving bum you can expect to be a single one because women don’t like that. Sorry not sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/20 07:07 PM
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Yes, I actually had to make that choice and broke up with him. I’m no “McMansion, designer duds, fancy car” type of woman. But I want a decently sized, decent quality home with my partner in an area that is at least relatively nice. I want the choice to have a child or children, and the ability to live in a place with a good school system. The ability to afford their medical needs should they have any: orthodontic work, glasses, god forbid surgeries... ability to clothe and feed them and not jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/20 07:01 PM
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Oops, I’m 29 not 19. Edited previous comment. I will not make the assertion that no healthy, organic relationships arise between couples with large age gaps. I will say that they are exceedingly, exceedingly rare and usually at least one half is being manipulative. Because everyone is maximally attracted to people around 22-32 years old. Not to say a hot 32 yo won’t still be pretty fine at 42. But he won’t look as good as he did then. Same with women. And that’s okay. Aging is natural. And addit…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/20 06:47 PM
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This is one of the main issues we have with each other. I don’t love the infancy/toddler stage of having children. Not really excited about it. My partner is the same. We both will absolutely love being parents once the kid hits, oh, 6-7ish though. Plus, I’m thinking of myself in 30 years and what I want my life to look like at 59. 69. I want a family around me. When I explain these things to my partner he’s like shook. I swear men can’t think ahead lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/20 06:38 PM
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So, I know for me it’s less about $$ and more about similar values and priorities. I am a very driven and ambitious person who has a high powered career. I don’t even need a man to be as educated etc as I am, shit if he makes 50k that’s perfectly fine, but I do need him to be the type of motivated person always trying to learn and advance that I am. Ergo I can’t date the cute health food retail guy, at least not seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/20 06:34 PM
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Because older people are slower and sleepier. Less capable of running after the kid with you. More set in their ways, less malleable for a new life situation (if they have no previous children). I am literally in the best shape of my life right now... but in 10 years when I’m 39 I don’t expect to be nearly as energetic and vigorous. The reason why you get that age range (27-33) is because those women are attracted to your demographic. By and large, you aren’t seeing the vast majority of early 20…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/20 05:57 PM
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Girl, you ain’t half of a pizza. There is no putting you in the fridge for later.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 05:31 PM
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Lol, men like you hate FDS because they accurately peg you for what you are and avoid. Johns need not apply. If the standards of: similar education, similar values (like not buying human beings, very possibly sex trafficked ones, to use as sentient fuck dolls), decent career/ambition/desire to always improve, and above baseline physically attractive are too high... being single ain’t the end of the world. as for the rest of it: I never doubt my own value for a second. Can’t relate.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/20 05:29 PM
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Can’t have kids with a 40+ year old man if you’re 24 and would like to wait until your late 20s/early 30s to start. Reality just does not align with your assertion. Not to say exceptions don’t exist, not to say all men above 35 are unattractive (although when I was 20 I did not care— they were too old), I’m saying that in general, women want a husband who is close to their age and life experience to build a life with. Not someone with an ex-wife/baby momma or 25 years of dating baggage. Source: …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/20 05:27 PM
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Yeah, it’s because of male delusion. The vast, VAST majority of marriages are between spouses 5 years apart or less. And yes, the man tends to be older. But there is no population of 20 year olds hankering for 40 yo dick. Maybe .0001% celebrity hot 40 yo but they’d still take a celebrity their own age or within ~5-7 years older in a heartbeat.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/20 04:59 PM
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Novel of drivel aside, we want nothing, and I mean nothing, to do with Johns. So please, by all means, continue with your hatred of self actualized women. We do not want you anyway. You think money is the only determinant of a man’s worth because you cannot fathom being a good person, or even the idea of valuing that your partner is one. That is sad, but once again not my business. Does your current relationship know you’ve historically bought women for sex? Your assumption that everyone in FDS …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/20 03:29 PM
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Wow, you really are in the past. Not aware that IUDs and other forms of contraception exist lol? Once again, it shows how utterly low value you are that you consider consensual sex between a man and a woman to be the woman being “used as a fleshlight.” Sucks to suck, enjoy your hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/20 02:16 PM
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Haha. Except now all the young women are having casual sex with young hot men their own age, with 0 interest in dried up, balding, dadbod angry creeps OR ugly young incels with $ because they’re getting degrees & careers and can support themselves 😂 Ahhhhh. Justice.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/20 01:56 PM
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Yes you are. Men who fetishize youth are worthless. The type of scum that, should any woman be stupid enough to invest in him, blows up his marriage because some manipulative skank half his age flashes him some cleavage and wants his $$. Then of course the young woman who had 0 interest in him besides using his resources leaves for someone young and hot, lol. Your education, career, physical belongings, whatever other garbage you think makes you high value does not to women. Elon Musk is utmost …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/20 01:49 PM
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We know that at least half of you are low value turds doomed to shitty, unsatisfying relationships because you only think “PP hard. Good.” So yes, it’s FDS shit... you are what we call a low value male 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/20 01:34 PM
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Where’s your book? Oh, you have nothing but your baaaaawing. Well, publish it and then maybe SOMEONE might care. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/20 01:32 PM
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>I think they want to believe that if they amass enough wealth, all women will want them all of a sudden. I see trash men spew this delusion all over reddit. Rest assured, scumbags: You could have a trillion dollars and I'd still tell you to fuck off
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 11:17 PM
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Ah yes, so likely. Most men have an easy time getting “ass” from various women, I forgot. Nah, I’m in a relationship of a year and can’t keep him off me, not that I want to 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/20 04:41 PM
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Projection much lmao? Naw I’m doing great, thanks for asking!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/20 04:34 PM
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Another John? Stay mad 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/20 04:26 PM
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You know, not the whores you frequent?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/20 04:26 PM
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Nahhhh, no amount of money can buy a quality woman lmao. At least you have your hand! And prostitutes. What a life
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 08:39 PM
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Just adding on. There seems to be a lot of delusion on this sub where men think women don’t have physical standards. Or that we shouldn’t so they can fuck hot women, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 04:12 PM
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It’s funny that this has to be stated. The men on here who bleat about how I WaS LiEd tO wOmEn sAiD tHeY liKe NiCe gUyS are dumb as shit. We do like nice guys. Genuinely kind ones. We like loyalty, personal drive, good humor too. But if you’re not fuckable to that particular woman you already need not apply. That is the baseline. Who is gonna let a dude they have 0 attraction to hump on them daily for months on end as men are wont to do at the beginning of a relationship? Fucking nobody. Has to …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 04:10 PM
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That’s okay. If you can’t meet the requirements you can kindly gtfo
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 04:06 PM
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Nobody wants an obese male as their spouse either.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 04:06 PM
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Men slut shame cause they’re jelly. Even if a woman has a low n for her age, some men will be shit about it because if they could they’d fuck half the neighborhood, and also because their ego cannot abide the idea of comparison/competition between them and other males. We see it on here all the time: men absolutely raging, seething with jealousy over the fact that... it’s easy for women to get laid should they choose. Which is because of male thirst. So basically they’re angry at their own gende…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 03:57 PM
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Lmao where’d you get your biomed PhD? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/20 02:43 PM
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Because casual sex with men is a retardedly dangerous and risky proposition. You know how many girls end up raped because they go on tinder “dates?” If you’re risking that shit he better be a 10/10. Also, guys that are mega hot usually don’t need to rape, they get sex easily and they just don’t develop that pattern of behavior unless they have straight up personality disorders. There, now you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 05:53 PM
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Men don’t even know what rape is. They think that if they’ve had sex with her before it’s not rape. I have a close friend who is part of the good 25% and he talks about how horrified he is by what men say about women when they’re having “guy time.” Men systematically dehumanize women, and a quarter or so become physical about it. These are the facts of life. This is why we watch our drinks obsessively and yet still I and many other women I know personally have been drugged (fortunately was with …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 05:45 PM
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No, I don’t expect men to care, so it doesn’t “suck” anymore than it normally does to hear that gasp men don’t give a fuck about male violence against women. This is known. Any woman who thinks otherwise is a moron. Men watch their friends drag off incapacitated drunk girls to rape. They say nothing when their friends are beating on their gfs/wives. We know this. I’d estimate maybe 25% at most are actually concerned with the issue. 50% don’t give a fuck and the last 25% are perpetrators.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 05:34 PM
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I know, lol. You think we don’t know that men don’t give a fucking shit whether we’re raped and killed? That’s why we hate you, distrust you, and are extremely, extremely careful to keep ourselves safe from you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 05:27 PM
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Well, we won’t. Men are the ones marauding around victimizing other people. Point blank period. Women organize to try to defend ourselves. I suggest men who are not predatory and violent seek to do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 05:21 PM
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It’s not that we “don’t care.” It’s that it’s a completely separate issue. What the fuck do you want women to do about male violence lol? Also many areas are safe: as in few to 0 people are ever mugged. Rapes still occur in these areas. Several stranger rapes occurred in my very safe college town where I’ve never even heard of a mugging. It seems like men are more driven to rape than to rob... or that for a noninsignificant percentage when they perceive an opportunity they can’t seem to control …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 05:08 PM
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By other men. Men kill men, men kill women. They just torture and rape us first. I am not joking when I say the men who called out to me and attempted to approach, literally last Friday night, had unspeakable intentions. And had I not portrayed myself as someone aware, with a strong voice, who demanded to be left alone... if I had my head buried in my phone, or stupidly stood still long enough for them to get their hands on me... There is an abject horror to knowing that should one of them reall…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 04:48 PM
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Let me put it this way. I wish they just wanted my purse/phone. That would be a much better world for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 04:34 PM
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Oh no you might get punched in the face for being a dick. So comparable to being tortured, raped, and possibly murdered. Or abducted and being tortured and raped for months on end and then murdered. Wahhhh.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 04:33 PM
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I walked alone at night a couple days ago and was hollered at by 3 men and almost approached by one. Am a small 5’3 woman. The danger there is much worse than if I were male.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 03:05 AM
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Nah, it’s more like “I require pussy and will placehold with whatever vagina is available. The human attached to it does not matter.”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 02:55 AM
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Men: looks are all I care about, I don’t want to fuck your career lol Women: date attractive men Men: 🤯🤬
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 02:24 AM
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Obesity didn’t exist until very recently in our history. Sedentary lifestyles either. Men were expected to be athletic and strong. Women too, really, or at least to be healthy and fit, able bodied. As recently as the 70s and 80s, even the 90s obese people were an irregularity.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 04:49 PM
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You’re a good one then. Logic, reality, etc. people of both genders who relentlessly pursue people more attractive than them and REEEE when they’re not interested are pathetic morons. It seems there are many more men than women like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 04:37 PM
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Lol keep telling yourself that. Pornography is a male driven, male owned industry. Men are the vast majority of the consumers and they make what men want... usually torture/basically rape, incest themed, child-fetishizing monstrosities.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 02:15 AM
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By reading the hateful shit they say, that’s how.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 12:52 AM
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The fact that women are required for the species to continue and therefore the idea of men deciding to let them “starve on the streets” en masse is moronic.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 12:36 AM
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I think they’re depraved but yes. If they’re honestly just being horrible and obsessing about women between themselves while not inflicting their existence on women IRL, have at it. Free speech and all.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 12:34 AM
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Uhh you don’t have to. The vast majority of humans reproduce and therefore do however.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 12:33 AM
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No, because your average dude wasn’t trying to choke a woman out or slap her during the first hook up. Because their dicks still worked lmao. Because it’s pathetic. I will say if a dude wants to be single and beat his meat to porn have at it... just leave us alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 12:25 AM
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Lmao yeah, don’t have to worry about that pesky “propagating the species” thing or anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 12:23 AM
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As long as they don’t make them to look like kids and teens have at it. Leave me alone lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 12:22 AM
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I think this is why porn has made the younger generation(s) of men so worthless. “Pussy,” aka the ability to engage romantically and sexually with women, be an attractive option for a woman to tie herself to and reproduce with, thereby propagating his genes, is pretty much the only thing that drives MOST males to accomplish anything. Remove that pressure by compulsively watching pornography (which many, MANY do) thereby fooling the male brain into thinking they’re achieving their ideal reproduct…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/20 06:02 PM
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You haven’t fucked anyone, ya pathetic virgin 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 09:29 PM
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Idgaf about your pathetic deflections. Men commit the vast majority of violent crimes. Bleat all you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 09:03 PM
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Appreciating people in your life and being loyal to them, what sheep lmao Should just think for yourself and be a cheating scumbag!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 07:49 PM
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“Lmfao,” a fabulous rebuttal. I think we’re done here.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 07:41 PM
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Pretty much sums up the incel/redpill faction on reddit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 07:10 PM
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5'8 330 he won't be even approaching good looking without $30k+ USD skin removal surgeries. No worries about this one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 07:10 PM
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haaaaahahah. "Oh and she must fuck my blob ass while I get in shape, which I won't actually do," The ultimate beggars can't be choosers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 07:07 PM
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murder and negligent manslaughter: 88.7% forcible rape: 99.1% Robbery: 87% you're right, men are veritable angels. Can't imagine why women distrust them! JK you're animals and that's why nobody trusts strange men until proven otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 06:55 PM
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Reference. Because you’re wrong lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 02:46 PM
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The rest of you just aid and abet it. You think I don’t know how men talk about women when they’re alone together? That I don’t know that men turn the other way when one of their own is taking home a wasted girl? The comments on this sub clearly show how men feel about male violence towards women, whether they themselves are perpetrating it or some other man is. Which is that it pales in comparison to the horrible, life ending issue of “hawt girls won’t touch PP”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 02:43 PM
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it’s not that I hate fat men, actually! As friends/colleagues/etc they’re perfectly great people. It’s that I’m sick of delusional unattractive men thinking they deserve attractive women. I just KNOW that a bunch of the creeps on here are blobs who think they deserve pretty fit girls and I would like to correct that delusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 01:55 PM
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I mean, your gender nonstop violates and assaults mine. So yeah, fuck all of you in a general sense. All trash until proven otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 01:00 AM
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Because men's experience is "they won't touch PP! am so sad" And women's is "I've been harassed, stalked, and assaulted. I've been raped." Huh I wonder why nobody gives a shit about the "issues" of misogynists...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 08:30 PM
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The bad guy is always a man. I mean, maybe 98% of the time but we can round up and say "always." When you look at crime statistics it's clear: men unrelentingly assault, rape, and kill other men, women, and children in insane numbers. The stigma is a response to that reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 08:29 PM
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Try "reality."
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 08:28 PM
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Good, I hope those men end up penniless, miserable, and die alone. It’s well deserved.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 05:45 PM
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Okay then yes I agree. A man who is “meh” or “cannot tell if want” can become attractive if he’s awesome. Women tend to be more demisexual. He just can’t be repulsive and do so. Fat to the point of moobs, thick thighs/ass, and a gut = 100% no, forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 03:36 PM
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That’s not based in any sort of reality whatsoever. Women don’t have some sort of hivemind that tells them what men to find attractive relative to other men lmao. If he’s hot he’s hot. Most guys just aren’t, sometimes it’s genetic (face etc) but often it’s the complete lack of effort (fat, unkempt) I mean in some ways guys today are hotter. Better teeth, cleaner, sure. But they’re also fat and weak, which is a major turn off for women from an evolutionary sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 03:31 PM
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As someone who’s seen ugly dudes with money get used for it while getting exactly no pussy, nope. Women will just play them and dangle sex like a carrot on a string, not actually fuck them. I don’t agree with this behavior btw and I’m female. Have not engaged in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 03:28 PM
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It’s cause we have lower libidos. And more “responsive” desire. Women trend more towards demisexual. Pics/nudes of a hot dude do jack shit for me. But a video of him in well tailored clothes, a good hairstyle, speaking where he comes across as eloquent, masculine, intelligent, etc? Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 03:27 PM
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Lmao that’s the dumbest shit I’ve ever heard. If all men were hot we’d fuck more men. Durr?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 03:21 PM
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Honestly that’s male delusion in 99% of cases, and holding out for that 1% woman who is willing to fuck a man she’s not sexually attracted to you will be perpetually single. Women also have eyes and also need visual stimuli to want sex. This is for being unfit though, not style. If what’s keeping someone unattractive is bad clothing choices, they’re not unattractive. If a man is fat tho, he does not inspire lust. Period. Relationships where women “give a chance” to a man they don’t have any sexu…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 03:19 PM
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Awww. Sorry women like themselves. Too bad, so sad. And if you are average and below average, that’s what you get. Thems the breaks.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 09:43 PM
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Men: “we don’t give a shit about women except for sex, being unable to use hot women for casual sex is literally rape” Men: “We are romantic. Those mean wimminz just beat it out of us” Lolno
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 09:32 PM
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Nah, they just use women they don’t find as desirable for sex and then cheat/leave the second someone hotter they think they can bag comes along. They just ALWAYS go after women who are way better looking than themselves. I would love to see data on how no men under 6’0 have relationships or marriages 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 09:28 PM
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Yup. They literally think they are taking something from you, damaging you, AND THEY LOVE IT.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 09:23 PM
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We’re still less shallow than men so I don’t get your point 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 09:22 PM
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Cosmo/Glamour/etc aren't useful at all IMO. They're filled with absolute bullshit and $300 tops, $500 stupid ass heels, $100 face creams that your average early 20s-30s woman can't afford even if she was interested. I think instagram is much more useful from a style/grooming perspective, for men and women. Lots of examples of people who look very attractive while having vastly different personal styles, so there is something for everyone to try and emulate should they need guidance. But yes in t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 08:50 PM
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Naw, they're fat. https://alt1037dfw.radio.com/blogs/alt-producer/former-nfl-offensive-lineman-shows-off-massive-weight-loss Left, fuck no. Right, YES! Left after losing weight (down below), YES! MF had a freaking hourglass shape and flabby ass arms. HUMANS DID NOT EVOLVE TO BE ATTRACTED TO LARDASSES. Women have long accepted this. Why can't men?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 08:42 PM
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Yes, sex with someone you don't find attractive is 1000x worse than no sex for a woman. I guess for men it's not the same, but I can't really comprehend that on a practical level. If females had the equivalent of an erection, it would just be completely flaccid and never become hard when faced with an unattractive or coercive male. There is nothing positive that comes from it on our end. We don't get an orgasm because P enters V. The sexual attention of gross men is nothing but a curse, it adds …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 08:38 PM
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>When men start acting like they really care about relationships instead of blaming laws for the reason they are so low effort, porn sick, and entitled to quick casual sex with women better looking than themselves, we can talk. *drops mic* Preach, sis.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 08:31 PM
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There are vast numbers of males who would go from "wouldn't" to "would" if they got in shape. A fat face, double chins, man boobs, etc triggers something evolutionary that literally makes a male not a sexual option. How is an unfit male going to protect you? I've seen men on instagram who got weight loss surgery or just lost weight, sometimes massive amounts and even needed skin removal afterward... they are immediately immediately +5 points scars and all. If a dude who is just chunky/dadbod get…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 08:31 PM
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Boom. Because it's easier to make zero efforts for self improvement and just be violent and rapey. And what men are above all is low effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 08:28 PM
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Do you feel a need for romance in general though? I feel like a lot of women do, I definitely feel a strong desire for a male life partner. It's just less sexual... although I do love sex too... within the bounds of a relationship. The real difference between men and women is that men just want to fuck as many women as possible. If they could have a never ending line of healthy, fertile aged women to fuck every night that would be the ideal life for many of them... look through history and what …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 08:24 PM
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Whoa, this is actually on point from my perspective as a woman. And further, the type of dude to even represent that issue as "I want to casually fuck hot chicks, and not being able to do so is tearing me apart" is profoundly unattractive to women, lol. We hear 'I want to use you as a human flesh light, and my inability to do so makes me angry." Meanwhile "I really want a relationship with a woman where there is basic mutual attraction, and not fear getting cheated on. The fact that I've been un…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 08:21 PM
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Actually, women don't do as much for each other as you think EXCEPT if both of them have already come to the obvious conclusion: don't be fat and groom yourself well. Then women will build each other up: gym buddies, find and try recipes together, meal prepping, diet tips, makeup tips, etc. But if a woman was all clueless like "I don't know why all these hot dudes don't want me :(" while being 30 lbs overweight and plain in the face no other woman is gonna be like "sis, you are too ugly and big …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 07:44 PM
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6'9!?!!? SIX FOOT NINE INCHES!?!?!!? You must be a troll lmao. You can't even dance with that mf, his crotch would be at shoulder level. His dick would probably rip a normal sized woman asunder. He'd look like a fucking mutant (I've seen dudes this tall... it's not attractive it's WEIRD). My ex was 6'3-6'4 and I always wished he was shorter. We couldn't dance properly, couldn't kiss without him leaning down or me tippy toeing. It was weird. Maybe if I was a 5'8 woman but I ain't. Health Ledger w…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 07:34 PM
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No, no I did not. ... but not necessarily with sex and unconditional love from women far better looking than them. Be reasonable. >Get out of here with this. >If you pay me for a good job I did on something with Monopoly money, don’t smirk and tell me to value and appreciate it. I’m not valued for what I want. >Now you’re not obliged to give it to me, but don’t turn around and pretend that I am rewarded, just not in terms of anything that I value, want, desire, need or ultimately care about. You…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 07:30 PM
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This is very very true. However, if you aren't looksmatched, if you are below their match by several points, you can not be any of things (aka have a good personality, good sense of style, good social skills, hygiene, etc) and it DOESN'T MATTER. People want the entire package if they can get it... and an attractive woman can get it. She wants someone sexually attractive enough to her to engage that also has all of those positive personality/lifestyle traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 07:17 PM
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Nope. It's more equal and all are required. Nice face + fat = might as well be hideous. Nope. Ugly face + normal BMI = might as well be fat, nope. Tall 300 lb dude = fucking nope, I will never move someone's gut out the way to suck their dick, not ever. I'm 5'3ish and am down for men 5'7 and over, as long as the ones at the lower end of the spectrum have some muscle. Being small and scrawny, barely more than my weight, is unattractive. Being smaller and kinda ripped is 1000x preferable to 6'0 wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 07:15 PM
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He looks like a chunky/skinnyfat, sausage lipped little bitch who could never do a pull up in his life. Mr. Bone Spurs, lol. He seriously looked like a mega nerd with 0 fitness. He was successful with women (read: prostitutes) because $$$$ but he was never attractive. Joe Biden on the other hand... he could get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 07:06 PM
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Men vastly underestimate the impact of physical appearance on female attraction. I seriously have no fucking idea why considering men are the absolute height of shallowness, but y'all do. Some kind of wishful thinking, or "if we repeat this trope enough hawt girls will fuck us!!!" Meanwhile if you use your eyes you see the beautiful, young, fit women going after men who are all those things as well. Very few exceptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 07:03 PM
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MY point is that if a man is pursuing women he's actually looksmatched to he will find success. If all of the women a man goes after reject him, it is apparent that he is attempting to hit above his weight. Otherwise, these single women would take him up on his offer. That's how dating WORKS.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 07:00 PM
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I mean, sexually? Why would that be the case? They're both old men, Trump was never even slightly physically attractive, Joe used to be but the mf is like 80 years old so that's long gone now.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 06:58 PM
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Yup they like your body because it's sexually attractive due to the choices you make re: diet and exercise... but if you want a man who also takes care of himself so YOUcan be sexually attracted you're a ChAd FuCkInG WhOrE. Women aren't allowed to have preferences, they aren't allowed to enjoy sex, we are just supposed to be receptacles for whatever scuzzbucket is interested. They can choke on it lol, no amount of whinging and bitching will ever make me fuck a fat dude in 1,000 years
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 06:57 PM
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I see that you are too strongly attached to your belief system to see reality. Examples like that are like 1 in 100,000. Literally. And those are kids... catch them in a few years when she realizes that having 0 (or maybe like... 10%) sexual attraction to your partner turns sex into a nightmare chore after the happy sweet "we are so emotionally compatible omg" honeymoon phase ends. Then it's deadbedroom --> Breakup. Fat people who wait around for the magical unicorn fit hottie that will be into …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 06:48 PM
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OLD AS FUCKING SHIT. "Grandfather issues" aren't a thing. He was fine af when he was young though. Nobody in the world is attracted to 70-80 year olds lmao unless they have a weird fetish.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 06:39 PM
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Lemme see what those women look like.... probably chunky middle aged ladies in their late 30s, 40s, 50s, and beyond (which is totally fine, and make sense tbh) The idea that a girl in her 20s would ever, EVER experience sexual attraction to an old blob like that, regardless of how powerful, how influential, how rich (unless she's a prostitute, but that's still not sexual attraction), how much presence is a male delusion. 100%. I hang out with those girls sometimes and I see the little dudes they…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 06:38 PM
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There is no mf way in hell. He's built like Donald fuckin Trump lol. The idea of an old potbelly pig like that grunting over me makes my vagina condense into a singularity of infinite density. I have now created a black hole from which nothing can escape, the earth is doomed, and it's your fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 06:33 PM
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I notice you don't answer the question. If a man is fat and he is sniffing after anyone besides fat women he's delusional. He's searching for a unicorn chubby chasing female that is maybe .0001% of the population. Extra weight on a man is gross. It looks feminine. It looks.. anti-masculine. It literally obliterates even the possibility of sexual attraction in the vast majority of females. The ones who get with chunky dudes are chunky themselves and see the forest for the trees.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 06:28 PM
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Jesus Fucking Christ. Nothing about big toe lookin mf is attractive lmao. That's a fucking TV character and you are delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 06:25 PM
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Poly people are pathetic in 99% of cases. They just don’t want to have an actual relationship. Their “relationships” are constantly imploding because they refuse to stop attempting to manipulate monogamous people into their garbage, which is of course doomed to fail. I don’t think I’ve EVER seen it be anything but some skanky people who want the option to fuck around as much as possible... which is why I don’t respect it. However I’m sure there are rare exceptions. I just haven’t met any.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 03:03 PM
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Nope, no fat dudes, ever. Disgusting melted butter, man tits, gut having mfs need not apply. Men don’t look like men when they’re out of shape. They look like deformed women 🤢 I don’t know what delusional shit y’all been drinking but women don’t want fat partners just like men don’t lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 02:59 PM
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Try less manifesting of food into your face hole first bruh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 02:50 PM
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We can A.L.W.A.Y.S. Get someone else. Always. Now think about how men cheat more than women, despite men having 1000x fewer options.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 03:00 AM
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Okay so they were fat too? Because if not then yes, they are by default.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 09:47 PM
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Well that’s a dumb assumption. Literally the dumbest conclusion to come to in that situation. What is more likely, he isn’t attractive enough for her to engage (or at least not to her!) and the other guy was or the other guy did some sort of hypnotizing voodoo mind games with his approach?? We may not be AS binary as men tend to be re: “would vs wouldn’t” but we absolutely do it too. Womens’ is a bit more malleable than mens’ ... with some men who might not be our cup of tea physically but not c…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 09:46 PM
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If it was a looksmatch they would not be successfully getting with the hotter male friends. That’s my entire point. He needs to be approaching the equivalent of dad bod girls: overweight and plainer faced. If he is not going after women that many men find “eh” THEN THEY ARE NOT HIS LOOKSMATCH. Women find fat men to be unattractive compared to fitter ones too. We’re alllllll human.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 06:40 PM
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That is still delusional idiocy. If he thinks he looks like a handsome dude without “dad bod” (fat. It’s fat. Chubby is fat. You know what’s not fat? Healthy BMI. Fit. If you’re gonna be fat do not ever, ever think you have the same dating options as someone who works on their diet and exercise. YOU DO NOT). And women fuckin know this lmao. Women don’t delude themselves that the hot dudes want a girl who is overweight. They lose the fuckin weight if they wanna fuck hot dudes. Because you use you…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 06:22 PM
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Well then he should use his fucking eyes. Hmmm what is the difference between me and these dudes? Then he can either A. Go for the 20 lb overweight equivalent “mom bod” chick with a plainer face who can’t compete with the mega hotties for his hot friends or B. Stfu. Anyone who is fat and thinks they deserve a hot SO is so fucking delusional it hurts.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 05:41 PM
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Lollll here we go. “Am I good enough for the bomb pussy yet?” No; hot people co-segregate. And the world turns. There is no amount of nice or “good” that will make a woman 10x hotter than you want your dick. There is an amount of money, if you’re into the prostitition/sugaring thing, but not “nice” or “good,” whatever the fuck that’s supposed to mean lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 05:37 PM
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I feel like we do say “we want attractive men” with our fuckin actions. Just like when Chad is blowing smoke up his latest catch’s ass about wanting a future with her and then ignores her calls and texts for days while he’s off being a fuckboy elsewhere, JUDGE SOMEONE BY THEIR ACTIONS. Any group of friends, men have experienced watching the women date. Meet men, socialize with men, date men. Just because she doesn’t turn to you and say “I would not date you because you are short, ugly, unfit, an…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 05:28 PM
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Lol I mean... we could say the exact same, especially if the dick game weak 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 01:17 PM
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-“I am a slut and you should be too!” The poly party line. Noooo thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 01:14 PM
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Lol, if you can’t keep a woman sexually interested in you maybe you suck at sex. Many women have sex daily in relationships, for years, throughout the entire life of the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 12:59 PM
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Nobody fucking ever thinks that lmao, you’re insane. Nobody is going to fuck or “give a chance” to someone they have 0 sexual attraction to. And that is just too bad. And the world turns...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 01:49 AM
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I am not denying it. I have never denied it. I never fucked an ugly or fat dude in some misguided attempt to not be seen as "shallow" by myself or anybody else. IDGAF what anybody thinks, and it's not like I go around being like "I WOULD NEVER FUCK THIS GUY, HE'S UGLY" publicizing these thoughts. I just only engage with men who are above my physical attraction threshold, which is actually not insanely high and I've always heard that I'm better looking than my SOs lol. They're just also good look…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 08:19 PM
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OMFG People fuck who they want to fuck. Bitch about it until you're blue in the face. It's facetious af to pretend an "ill fitting jacket" or "ugly shoes" are dealbreakers for women lol. "A scrub in stained, worn, ill-fitting clothes he's had since high school" is a much better example of how style could make a woman uninterested. Or just poor hygiene in general. Women are different people and have different tastes and things they find attractive/unattractive. For example, I give 0 fucks if a du…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 08:04 PM
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Yup. Some women don't like scrawny men. Some love them. For one of my friends teeth are really important. Me too actually, yellow/jacked teeth are a nonstarter. Various ethnicities? I don't see much of that. A hot indian for example is hot. He can get whoever he wants. If you seriously thought women were dreaming of getting fucked by ugly fat dudes that's your issue lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 07:24 PM
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Must be decent looking to even apply. That’s not shallow, that’s called having standards. Why the hell would anyone engage in a sexual relationship with someone they don’t find sexually attractive. That is beyond me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 07:07 PM
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I’m really sorry that society and other people made you think that. I inherently was like “if I don’t want to fuck you, do not touch me.” Not judging a book by its cover etc is for friends, colleagues. Not lovers, partners. The cover better be pretty damn nice in those situations, lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 07:06 PM
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See, I never even did that. I don’t have insane looks standards or anything, but I’ve never fucked or dated an objectively UNATTRACTIVE man. My thought was always no thank you why would I do that
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 07:03 PM
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No they don’t. I have never heard a woman even imply that ugly/fat dudes need apply. Ever. That’s just what men wanted to think, that somehow women are blind or something lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 07:02 PM
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I mean, sure. You have a human fucking right to only give a shit about women if you can fuck them. But don't act all surprised when you realize women distrust if not outright hate men. It's a very logical reaction to the way they act. It's fine to ask someone out, they say no, and you don't pursue friendship. It is not fine to pretend to be a friend while orbiting around hoping you'll have an "in" eventually. It's manipulative and gross. That female privilege you speak of is worthless. We don't …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 09:06 PM
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.... yes I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 09:03 PM
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Where's the lie tho
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 09:03 PM
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No, but you can assume that if in all of human history no civilization has ever defined a word in a certain way, that's not what it means. Make up a new word to describe your sociopathic lifeview, "moral" ain't it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 07:58 PM
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And it's our problem that men are dogs incapable of developing friendships with women beyond "prospective dick holster? LofuckingL. I mean generally we know this. I'm not stupid enough to think a straight male is my true, deep "friend." Acquaintainceship at best, orbiting at worst. I don't know what kinda shitty friends you have, but the straight male friends I have don't fucking pay for anything for me, dafuq? Like everyone goes out for a meal the morning after a party and he picks up your chec…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 07:57 PM
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I mean, if you disagree with the premise that words have meanings, I'm not sure why you bother writing or speaking. Thousands of years of people developing and writing philosophical texts on the meaning of right and wrong (unfortunately some are really stupid, like the bible, but hey, "Do not steal, Do not murder, etc" is on point) means nothing to you, you have decided to change the definition of moral to "what I want to do and can get away with" despite that not being the consensus of literall…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 07:47 PM
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Try the dictionary, lmao. Google "moral definition" as start. And once again, sorry about whatever brain abnormality makes you not like anyone or anyone like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 07:41 PM
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Men would need to have something to "dig" for all women to be golddigging whores lmao, yet less than 1% of men are rich. Multitudes of average income to poor men get married to women, including women who make more than them!! (!!!) shock, awe. Of course some women are shitty. But it takes like 30 seconds of looking around this sub to see that not only are a lot of men shitty, they are sociopathic and outright despise women. Yet they still relentlessly try to manipulate and use them for sex, and …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 07:39 PM
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No, it's not. Nobody likes them, not even other sociopaths. You seem like one, which is why you hold this opinion: everyone wants to be the hero of their own story. Nobody likes to hear that some aspect of their being is fundamentally fucked up. Your idea of morals is so skewed it is laughable. Nobody thinks hurting someone that can't fight back is moral. That is not the definition of that word. I guess child abusers are totally fine then huh? The fact that you can't fathom people doing nice thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 07:32 PM
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It's hilarious and a clear sign of your malignant misogyny that you'd think Jessica Simpson, at the height of her career and beauty, millionaire performer Jessica Simpson, was stupid to think that that bridge troll John Mayer might be legitimately interested in her lmao. Not like she has anything to offer of value right? Men good, women bad. Expect that any man with any dating history/options is a piece of shit (mostly true, unfortunately, and the only thing stopping the ugly and/or loser ones i…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 07:19 PM
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You're just blaming women for being nice, honest, and believing what men say. I'm sure you're the one to turn around and say "WHY AREN'T WOMEN NICER TO MEN" well there is your answer. A man who has a decent life going on and is passably attractive enough to have dating options is probably a massive piece of shit. There is a high statistical chance that he is talking to several women, uses them for sex, will not hesitate to use you as a placeholder while lying through his teeth. I didn't say wait…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 07:09 PM
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I mean, if a woman really fleeces a man in a divorce for no reason, and the divorce wasn't based on any abuse or cheating on his end, I certainly don't blame the man. If she is going to be primary caregiver of children or has been a SAHM with no income then he is not being "divorce raped," he is paying for the choice he made to have a family keep his wife at home to raise the babies. Choices --> consequences. That is nothing like the manipulative actions of men early on in dating. This is not so…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 06:58 PM
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Really lmao? Welp, that's why you have issues with your life. You think being a sociopath is totes fine as long as you're rich. Money ain't everything, and if being married to an escort who would be beyond pumped if you'd just die already sounds like the life to you, you have issues. In the real world, when you fuck people over it does come to bite you in the ass unless you keep rapidly changing locations. Their friends find out about you, and suddenly a social scene wants nothing to do with you…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 06:51 PM
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I mean, make all the assumptions you want. If you think all men that behave this way aren’t perfectly willing to be patient and blow smoke up a woman’s ass for a month or two, use her sex for a couple more, then be horrific to her you are delusional. It’s not just “Chad,” or just tinder hookups where men pull this shit. Of men who have any dating options, a large proportion are fucking shit to women. If women were as horrible as men you’d really have something to bitch about— we all have many op…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 06:22 PM
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Hasn’t he? He spends his days impotently raging on Twitter, obsessing over what people say about him. His wife is a glorified escort. He is one of the most hated men alive. Seems shit to me. And he’ll be fucked once he no longer has the protection of the presidency.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 06:20 PM
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No, we will not stop hating manipulative pieces of shit that use people for any reason, lmao. Get over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 01:35 PM
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🥱
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 01:34 PM
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What a dumb question. “What is wrong with being a lying piece of shit?” Nothing if you have no morals I guess. Just use people for whatever you can get... the universe has a way of balancing the scales anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 01:33 PM
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Status that you and 99.999% of other people will never have. So it's literally irrelevant to general dating advice or dynamics between men and women lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 01:55 AM
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Yawn
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 01:54 AM
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Okay so she's hot, accomplished, and beloved by everyone who knows her...what's your excuse for blatant male sociopathy now?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 01:53 AM
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No. Men good, women bad. They should have read his mind and known “I love you, you’re the one for me” actually meant “I am going to use you for sex while it’s convenient for me to do so.” /s Many “Chads” aren’t doing ONS. They’re having serial flings, manipulating women into thinking they care for her and see something deeper developing while fully knowing that they’re full of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 09:21 PM
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😴
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 06:11 PM
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There seem to be a LOT of teachers of teenagers raping them. It’s insane. The difference, IMO... the women are sleeping with 16-18 year old boys. Abhorrent behavior, to jail with you. However...the men go as young as possible. 12. 13. They want them to be virgins, they want to hurt them. They want to be the one to “deflower,” conquer, destroy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 06:03 PM
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Entertained... is that your new word for triggered?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 05:53 PM
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Men do. Men don’t care about women’s issues at all whatsoever. It’s not that you can’t start the conversation... it’s that you don’t. Unless it’s facetiously in a discussion about women’s issues in an attempt to derail it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 03:50 PM
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Truth hurts.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 03:49 PM
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To me it’s still a numbers game. They are trying to aim for women above their value: not just in looks but in every parameter. So they are not finding “success” (aka sex, within or out of the bounds of a relationship) often if at all and they are paying for dinners for lots of women who talk to them and are like “ew, no” and disengage after. Don’t see how that’s my problem though. They could A. Aim lower, take women who they have a shot with for dates B. Improve their personalities, on OLD unles…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 08:57 PM
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OLD selects for low value, low effort men. They think they can put up a couple trash pictures of their trash selves and get laid. Swiping for pussy like they’re ordering a burger or something. If you go into public in your area you will see a lot more normal looking dudes, including many who are at least somewhat physically attractive. Most of them are either taken or don’t date using OLD. But yeah as a female the men on those apps, especially Tinder, are bleak lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 08:50 PM
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I agree with you. I am speaking in a more general, statistical sense. It is a massive problem, the way many, MANY men see female children and adolescents. The way they fetishize them, attempt to get them alone, see no issue with manipulating their lack of experience to use them as sex toys with 0 respect for their humanity. This is a wide spread issue, and society is just starting to do as much shaming as we need to. When men like Leo DiCaprio are going after 18/19 year girls that they’ve known …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 08:05 PM
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Need to have all of the above. Unless you are just looking for casual... and that starts to fade quickly b/c as early as 25 women are thinking about settling down, even the grad school ones. Only the young, young ones might be just “looking for some fun,” and they want men under 30. It’s the issue men on this sub have with women: they are like “if I make decent money, why does she need to be intelligent/accomplished? She can just be my wifey. Why are women so picky?” Because we require ALL OF TH…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 07:38 PM
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No lmao. I’ve never had an abusive relationship, I historically don’t take shit from men. And I’m more than happy to put shitty ass men in their place IRL, believe me. I actually enjoy it most of the time. As I said, statistics are not in your favor. The vast majority of marriages are between partners within 5 years of each other, and the predatory male obsession with youth is why so many of you die penniless and alone, drained by predatory women who are more than happy to pretend to “love” an u…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 07:33 PM
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I will say your degree and income absolutely matter. Women with those things want men with those things. I’m graduate educated and I require men to have a bachelors to even get a date, I’m not dumpster diving. When I’m single I’m looking for an equal to combine forces with, to grow with. Someone who is bright and intelligent, ambitious and hardworking, so we can have an awesome life together... one we both “equally” contribute to. I say “equally” because I am a maternal woman and will certainly …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 07:15 PM
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They don’t. You don’t. You don’t give a shit about rape, about sex trafficking, about the horrors of the pornography industry, about the prevalence of domestic violence. All you and at least 50% of men who are like you care about is your PP. That’s why the pathetic issues of sexless males mean nothing to me. Nothing. Let me play the worlds tiniest violin as you continue to beat your meat to rape tapes themed after pedophilic incest 🎻
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 07:02 PM
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Hey, it’s not personal... 50 year old women can’t hold a candle to 25 year old ones in a physical sense either. Women just accept that fact and invest in other parameters of human existence as we age instead of inventing insane delusional fantasies based on the prostitution purchasing habits of the top 1% wealthy and powerful people. Fortunately I already don’t want early 20s men at 29... so I don’t need to engage in a fantasy where I will be like JLO and Madonna and purchase me one when I’m 55.…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 06:58 PM
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Lol nahhh. I’m doing great, thanks for asking! Good luck making those millions so you can buy you a 18 year old when your man titties are sagging and you look like a weathered big toe!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 06:43 PM
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Yup. Why would women be kind to men when all they do is prey on girls? 0 sympathy. Stew in your failures, we do not care.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 06:41 PM
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Men aren’t just picky. They’re disgusting and predatory. Thus the obsession with teenagers even once they’re old enough to have fathered some. Nobody feels bad for poor little men who can’t have 19 year old sex slaves :(
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 06:40 PM
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we call those “prostitutes.” You too can purchase some if you have enough $$$$ 🤣 Dumb enough to marry 5x? Might not have money any more tho lmao You think any young woman WANTS to fuck that diseased looking thumb? He’s paying them, indirectly through “marriage,” although can you call it thay after 5 lolz. More like a live in escort situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 06:14 PM
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Great cook, no kids, exercise doesn’t count? Said like a fatty
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 06:11 PM
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Their parents let them become weak fat screen obsessed slobs screaming for mom to bring more tendies. I kid (kind of) but seriously: for whatever reason men are able to get dopamine hits from vidja and porn that remove the pressure that would normally lead them to better themselves. So that they could be worthy of an attractive, equal socioeconomic range, similar aged woman. These men still want those quality women but they cannot do a single pull up, have 0 productive hobbies, live at home at 3…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 12:21 AM
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This is... logical and correct, not RP. This is what women want.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 12:11 AM
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aka reality. Statistically, the vast majority of marriages are between people within 5 years of each other. There is no secret widespread phenomena of 20s and 30s women jonesing for 50 year old dick. It doesn't exist. It's a zeta male cope. "Well when I'm old and gross all the young wimminz will want me!" No, they'll want men 25-35 max, like always. 40 if they're mega fucking hot, like celebrity levels of hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 08:13 PM
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It’s not just my opinion, it’s that of literally every non prostitute fertile woman in existence. Nobody wants a 15 years past his prime, wrinkly ass, balding or completely bald, pooch belly IF he’s worked to stay in shape, 50 year old man. Except 45+ year old women I suppose. Make enough money to buy a prostitute, date your age, or die alone. Those are the options.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 05:18 PM
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Truth hurts.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 05:09 PM
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Sperm quality declines beginning at 35. No 20-something wants wrinkly 50 yo old man balls. Male delusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 05:04 PM
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But it’s funny 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 11:38 PM
19

For me, they can have female friends if they only hang out with them in the context of the friend group. Consistent one-on-one hangouts or any activity/attention they wouldn’t and don’t also engage in with male friends = be gone, manslut. Some men think women are straight up stupid. I know the difference between “friends” and “Friends 😉🥰🤤” from a mile away and I will not have it, period.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 11:35 PM
5

Fortunately, not even the most desperate woman will sign on for that trash lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 11:30 PM
2

A dude without a bachelor’s can’t even get a date with me. I dgaf how that makes said losers and their pick mes feel. I made that mistake when I was young and hadn’t finished my own degree... never again. Degree plus decent job with upward mobility or gtfo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 11:29 PM
4

To me only an insane person would get involved with someone with kid(s) if they themselves didn’t have any. It’d be like an eternal babysitting job from hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 11:25 PM
3

Have a lot of fun and look good while doing it. It’s apparent that the reason you’re single is because you’re picky, not because there aren’t offers. I was single for a year and had dick thrown at me from all angles... I went full karate kid wash on wash off deflecting that shit until I found a decent man lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 11:24 PM
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I mean. They’re the ones getting pregnant from his dumb ass. Dating his lame ass knowing he has a whole clown car of kids already. Don’t feel bad for them tbh. If you’re getting degrees in applied sciences figuring out birth control shouldn’t be too hard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 11:22 PM
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I like sex so this whole ordeal would be a major fucking No from me. You cannot trust a male pretending he wants to wait for sex lmao. That means something is wrong with him. Red flag factory. I am always the one slowing things down, because men are gonna men. If a man openly tried this “not til we are in love” shit I’d assume he had a micropenis or something.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 11:14 PM
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Holy shiiiiit. I’m sorry, but if I’m starting something with a new man and he can’t get hard, he’s done. How exactly does he expect a woman to be in love with a man who is sexually nonfunctional?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 11:13 PM
6

The fact that you can’t fathom anyone wanting to see the world and experience other cultures for any other reason than “get PP wet” says phenomenally more about you than anyone who travels, lmao. It’s not like anyone couldn’t just... drive 2+ hours away and use tinder if they were trying to skank it up outside their normal social scene. No, it wasn’t to see the Notre dame and the louvre, your 17 year old niece was getting some French dick! Seriously some of the dumbest shit I’ve read on here and…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 07:20 PM
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They either want to cuff you because they want to be the one to downgrade you to casual, or they have no capacity to respect women they are casually dating. This, this is the motherfucking truth. Makes it even more pathetic to see all the manosphere bitchboys wailing and gnashing their teeth because hot women won’t give them NSA sex (read: let some ugly, shitty, unaccomplished loser use you as a stand in pornstar/prostitute/flesh light and then enjoy himself toying with you emotionally after) So…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 07:44 PM
6

Please share your secrets. I’m a noob at this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 04:59 AM
100

He’s predatory.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 08:06 PM
28

Female “crazy” including mental illness is only positive if they’re fuckable. Men want nothing to do with the reality of a mentally ill female... unkempt, not always best hygiene, erratic, not capable/interested in catering to their bitchass needs... No you need to be a fake movie trope manic pixie dream girl who has depression and wants to fuck a lot and be taken care of to manage it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 08:01 PM
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I have a lot of hobbies/interests that are cross-gender, like certain music festivals, guitar, etc... and I have SOME male friends but most are gay. Even if you have a lot in common and get along well personality wise straight men are inherently not interested in being emotionally close to women unless they’re trying to fuck them. Very few exceptions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 07:58 PM
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I don’t get it either. I’m a giving and loving person, have been successful in relationships because of it... but I have a baseline level of self interest that can’t be compromised, and a portion of that is definitely related to who I allow to stick their dick in me lol. Must be this hot to ride, otherwise I’ll just use a vibrator 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 06:14 PM
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And god forbid women not have the physical appearance THEY want on offer... they won’t even treat her like a human... LVM are choosing beggars. Even the ugliest, fattest, high school graduate only ones making minimum wage think they deserve a genetically blessed, symmetrical, thin/fit woman to be their bangmaid and cater to their stupid ass desires. It honestly warms my cold heart to see them whining about how they can’t have a woman like that on reddit lol. AND YOU NEVER WILL EITHER, WE CAN DO …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 03:52 PM
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I’m glad but I’m also so sorry that that fucking creature got its hooks into you when you were still young and naive. Young women need to be TRAINED to avoid sociopathic/monstrous men by their mothers. What the red flags are. What “requests” or actions are not just dealbreakers but indicators that you’re involved with a woman hating monster. When I hear about young women being raped, vaginally/anally/orally and then wondering if it’s because they need to be more available to these scumbags it ma…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 10:02 PM
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Holy shit, I'm sorry you went through that. I am a B*tch, with a capital B, so dudes don't even try me with that shit. To me it's like... other women have monogamous, loyal relationships with men. Are you implying that I don't deserve that arrangement? Because I will correct you, you stupid fucker. That's literally how I perceive a man trying to bring other women in. They are implying that you lack value, that you are not worth even the bare minimum respect of fidelity. They don't respect you en…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 09:38 PM
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Imagine getting into an "open relationship" with a male and not seeing this coming. This is why even BRINGING UP threesomes/outside sexual partners is a hard NEXT. Dump him. I mean seriously, if you're gonna start getting other dick why even pretend to be in a relationship with this one? Just be single lmao, that's what its called when you sleep with whoever whenever the fancy strikes. And if he doesn't want it to be open on both sides how the FUCK are you agreeing to basically be in this piece …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 09:24 PM
15

Holy shit. How does one even end up so mindfucked by a 40+ y/o loser at 20? Whoever raised her did a number on her...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 09:20 PM
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When I was their age, being out of shape as a man or not playing at least one sport pretty much made you an outcast or weirdo. The culture here is so diff but has also changed for the worse imo Dude, I cannot comprehend it. MANY people who teach kids PE etc are reporting this as well, boys that cannot do a single pull up or even 10 pushups, cannot run a mile, etc are insanely commonplace. I am 29 and this was RARE when I was in elementary/middle/high school. Additionally, they suffer under some …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 09:12 PM
10

Yeah I am lucky to be a bit older (29) and less men my age or older are obsessed/addicted to vidja than these younger dudes. I also have 0 respect for it so it's an instant "nope" if a dude feels strongly enough about FUCKING GAMES to talk about it as a legitimate part of his life, pretend its an actual hobby, etc. That's a hard next, grow the fuck up. Someone who owns a system and plays to destress a couple hours a week? Totally fine. I like to watch makeup tutorials and crochet as similar type…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 09:04 PM
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I honestly don't believe this. The "good ones" are just smart and have enough self control to not act on their base urges. Pretty much man would love if his wife suddenly allowed him to do some one-sided "open up" of their marriage, have MFF threesomes etc. Every man would love if he were allowed to sleep around while also keeping his main woman on lock. The "good" or decent ones are just not stupid enough to think that's a possibility, and they value their relationship with their GF/wife enough…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 08:51 PM
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for yourself? Then make it a goal to honestly and truly work on feeling okay being alone. I don't say that lightly, I definitely still struggle with it. I think all women could use professional therapy to deprogram from the societal brainwashing that a woman needs a man to be whole. We had that disney princess shit crammed down our throats and its caused us to take so much abuse and maltreatment from men. I am just coming out of this delusion after attempting to basically be married (I considere…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 08:49 PM
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All of this, and also, NEVER feel bad for one fucking second for putting one of these turds in their place. Ghost them, reject them, dump the fuck out of them, the second they display these behaviors. I am still learning this, but I've gotten much better at it. It's especially difficult when they are objectively much higher value than most men, but there are still those niggling issues... the infrequent but still present moments of disrespect, the pornsickness... I honestly think if you don't fe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 08:28 PM
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>In these threads, RedPill, m GTOW, these men are turning away from their natural need, making themselves "unneeded". They say women think men are disposable, while acting like negative value trash. If you act like trash you're gonna get disposed of. If you're obsessed with beating your meat to rape on tape, images and videos of hundreds and thousands of other women, you're gonna get disposed of. If your life goal and your idea of nirvana is having shitty pumpndump sex with as many women as poss…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 08:23 PM
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I feel the exact same. I'm basically straight up radfem nowadays. Men are inherently degenerate. Basically none of them actually respect women in a meaningful way. They all want to abuse, to dominate, to take advantage of women. They're all pornsick, obsessed with the idea of fucking as many different women as possible in the most degrading ways possible. If you find one that's not, it's usually because he's older and has already been there done that, and now he's chiller due to age. This is the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 08:17 PM
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"I refuse to do the work to be worthy of the women I want, so I will lie and hope they date me anyway because they feel bad/like they're shallow to want a man they find physically attractive." Who the hell is fatter as a single person anyway? I always look my best when there's no dude around to fuck up my diet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 08:14 PM
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Nope. Every single one of us will experience thinning and sagging skin (due to loss of collagen). Imagine if that wasn't the case... would someone just suddenly pop from youth into looking like a 80 yo? It has to be gradual. But yes definitely wear sunscreen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 08:09 PM
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She looks like she's also doing some dance or gymnastics type stuff nowadays. THOSE LEGS. Goddess
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 08:07 PM
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Some of the men on deadbedrooms have legitimate gripes with their wives (seem to bait and switched by someone utterly unattracted or possibly asexual), but you're absolutely correct that some seem to not comprehend that their wives aren't fucking them because they don't like them very much. And they don't like them because they don't do anything to make them like them, instead they act like lazy entitled sex-demanding children. Literally throwing tantrums when the wife isn't interested. One dude…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 07:58 PM
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Absolutely about the sex thing. The narcissism is astounding. Just b/c you have nothing to offer in terms of physical attractiveness, life accomplishments, emotional stability, humor, and yes-- resources such as your own place/car/decent income-- and therefore women aren't interested in your offer of NOTHING, actually NEGATIVE value "cater to my unrelenting desire to dominate you sexually while not listening to a word you say or respecting you as a human being, also be my maid" bullshit, doesn't…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 07:53 PM
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Perhaps that is the reason why he is often so much nicer to the next woman and treats her so much better. He realizes he has to be, if he's going to get laid ever again. Literally, THE TRUTH RIGHT HERE.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 07:43 PM
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I would send this SS to every person who ever knew us as a couple, plus his parents, friends, employer... I would put this shit on blast
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 03:02 PM
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“Most” women I think not. The vast majority are forced and/or victims of child sexual abuse. The only sex workers I’ve met who “enjoyed it” were both raped as young girls. And then multiple times throughout their adolescence.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 08:41 PM
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A lot of times it IS the only way an unskilled woman can make money. Especially in impoverished areas/countries. Considering the man getting “gold dug” wants the sex no, she’s not a rapist. She’s morally defunct in other ways but she is not committing rape. There is nothing you can do or say to change the fact that one of the worst and biggest problems we have as a species is the ability of men to think of and treat women like you express in your original comment. Men are buying and selling girl…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 07:50 PM
1

Sex that would not occur if you were not paying is inherently nonconsensual. You can agree to let someone punch you in the face for $1,000. Does that mean you want to be punched in the face?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 07:32 PM
1

Well, an easy example of this is prostitution.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 07:18 PM
4

This situation is called "prostitution"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 07:18 PM
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I’m not talking about amateur. The vast majority of mainstream porn has hideous men and utterly degraded looking women, engaging in some clearly painful pseudorape. Two random dudes (I don’t know who they are) don’t change the fact that if you select a random video, the man is ugly/old/fat/gross in like 99.9% of those videos
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 05:34 PM
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Lmao I say this all the time. Imagine thinking muscles aren’t natural, lol. People are attracted to human shaped people. If you’re a couch potato blob someone might tolerate you but nobody is going to drooling over you or breaking down the door to date you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 05:30 PM
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They aren’t getting off to the men in porn though lol. They’re envisioning being the female. Nobody is drooling over the disembodied dick in some porno. Also, I hate the vast majority of mainstream porn and find it to be a major turnoff. Looks painful and disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 05:26 PM
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Why don’t you just fuck an obese 65 year old woman? Is she disqualified b/c she’s ugly? Imagine being shocked that physical attractiveness is integral to... romantic attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 05:22 PM
1

🤢🤢🤢🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 10:15 PM
1

K
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 09:39 PM
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It’s great for civilization that women do not reproduce with men with no resources, what are you talking about? Children don’t eat because some basement dwelling loser who makes 20k a year is “nice.” And you can’t get blood from a stone so child support is basically nonexistent if one makes the mistake of reproducing with someone like that. The rest of your point is just a lie. I know a lot of couples, none of the men are sociopaths lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 09:38 PM
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No. If an individual has nothing to offer: they are not physically attractive or emotionally stable, usually, nobody will want them, not even other ugly assholes. This is the truth. The red pill wants to REEEEEEE about how women don’t like “nice,” yadda yadda. No, the sexually attractive women do not see “nice” as an acceptable substitute for attractive. They are attractive and they want attractive men. Really we all want attractive partners, but if we are fat or ugly or have no life accomplishm…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 07:15 PM
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HEY THANKS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 02:03 AM
15

Happened to my friend and she was injured. Makes me sick and enraged to think of it. Some mf tries that shit on me and I’ll call the cops. Immediately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 01:00 AM
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Yeah I’ve never done it. I don’t date men that ask for it. I also like a bit of stimulation down there but you aren’t putting a dick in there, fuck you. It makes no sense. Wtf would I be getting out of that? Outta here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 12:37 AM
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Yes. My longest relationship, he was far from that. My current dude is more of a serial monogamist. He has experience (no shit he’s 37) but isn’t a man slut. Mansluts are gross. You have to worry that they’ll give you STDs, which can result in cancer, infertility, etc. they’re also obvious. If you are smart enough to make a man work for it a liiiiittle bit you’ll realize his fuckboy ways within like a month. The way they look at & talk to other women, which they can’t turn off for very long, giv…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 12:34 AM
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You live in an alternative universe and/or never leave your house. I don’t hang out with straight men unless we’re dating so. Not worried about “orbiters” who are annoying as fuck and somewhat dangerous anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 11:51 PM
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Lmao what you delusional freak? I’m female, I don’t rape children 🤣 that’s your kind’s area of expertise. And the mentally handicapped... and other men... the physically disabled... Then you make foul message boards where you spew hatred about all the people you wish you could rape. Men are so great lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 11:50 PM
1

Ive looked at the stupid sub before you know. Try to misrepresent it all you want, it was basically IncelLight
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 09:23 PM
1

Only men think being a slut is some impressive or admirable trait, lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 09:22 PM
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"Vibes" No, they're physically attractive. That works for a long while. Until they start getting that skeezy vibe. Then they're gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 07:31 PM
1

Full o shit
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 07:31 PM
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Whatever you have to tell yourself. Mental gymnastics to explain why you don't get laid
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 07:30 PM
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whatever you have to tell yourself to explain why you don't get laid lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 07:30 PM
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Lmao, I do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 07:29 PM
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Because they're disgusting and they abuse other women and girls. Unlike you, I have empathy for other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 07:29 PM
2

Hahahaha. consequences. :D Yes I do think reddit mods are biased towards... not hate speech.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 07:27 PM
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Yerp. Someone who was actually nice wouldn’t get all pissy because they feel entitled to more sex than they get and start spewing hate speech online. The actual nice dudes are not leaning into hatred of women (or anyone, for that matter) and are like... engaging in hobbies, socializing, etc. And yes. When you distill the argument of the men on this sub it’s basically that women should be forced to have sex with them. They want women who do not want to have sex with them to do so, because... it’s…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 04:43 AM
1

Are people like you deliberately obtuse? Do you just gloss over the blatant woman-hate on that “livesaving” cesspool of a sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 04:34 AM
2

Man sluts give off gross vibes.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 04:31 AM
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My ex is excellently trained for his current partner, lol. I was maybe number 3 for him, but we had sex thousands of times over 7 years. Don’t have to be a std ridden skank to learn to be good at sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 04:31 AM
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Nobody “blue pill” who isn’t delusional is saying attraction doesn’t need to be there. Aka Fit and yes, genetically blessed to an extent... symmetrical etc. after that saying being a gross misogynist man slut liar is a good way for entire social groups in your area to ostracize you. Women talk. We do not like your kind. End
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 04:29 AM
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You think women like man sluts? Y’all are gross. And obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 04:26 AM
2

Get outta there girl. It's never too late...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 12:05 AM
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It's okay. I'm "high value" by most metrics-- and still got my time wasted by an idiot who wanted a forevergirlfriend, am miserable in the last stretch of my graduate degree, etc. You're fine. Just identify goals and work towards them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 12:03 AM
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LMFAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO I'd be like "Why your shit so trashed, you a trash man?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 12:00 AM
2

Said like a mega square lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 10:36 PM
3

If you have a 6 pack, you can do better than some obese guy. "Not fat" puts you above like half of the population (if you're in the US, anyway)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 07:42 PM
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Bwahaha I used this to absolutely destroy an uncle who was like "probably a woman driver hyuck hyuck" about someone driving shittily.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 06:13 PM
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if you have a freaking six pack WHY were you even on a date with a fat dude??? It's a common delusion that men who are "lacking:" fat, ugly, broke, whatever are somehow nicer, more loyal, or just generally a better bet than a dude who is average on all fronts. it's a fuckin lie. Keep those standards sky high. The uggo will cheat just as quickly as Chad if he gets the chance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 06:08 PM
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LOL. I'm stupid, even though you literally STATE that you want to force women into sex. Oh, wait, nevermind, you want them to magically desire sex with men they don't desire because otherwise it's so mean and unfair :( If your "problem" is that the women you want turn you down, what is the solution? Mind control drugs to make them want you? Well those don't exist... some sort of state sanctioned force of relationship (aka rape)? In what universe is there an option that does not involve removing …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 04:26 PM
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It’s the (extremely, horrifically) false equivalence of “can’t get sex 😢” with literal rape, a human rights violation that is known to result in severe psychological disturbances in victims, that shows that you are a sociopath. Your “problems” ain’t shit. That’s why nobody cares, not even other normal men who have normal relationships with women, which sometimes involve sex but often do not. There will never be a time that all men are incels lol. The vast majority of men date and marry, as do wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 08:10 PM
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Surprisingly, I have a lot more respect for men as an entire group, despite the insanely elevated level of violence perpetrated by them, than to think that more than a minuscule minority is secretly seething with violent misogynistic rage because they are angry they can't force the women they want to fuck to fuck them. My personal experiences with most men is that they do okay with women, at least occasional relationships, and while many could use some.. reeducation and empathy training when it …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 06:29 PM
1

Dude, yes. We are in agreement. Breed away lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 05:18 PM
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You live in a delusional dream world, lol. Over half of college graduates are women now... nobody else wants to step back under the oppressive control of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 05:10 PM
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"We never asked for rights" Many, many, many of us did. And we continue to do so. If you polled first world women the vast majority would disagree with your views. Even the religious ones, religious families are sending their daughters to college and expecting her to work outside the home at higher rates than ever before.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 05:02 PM
1

Found the rapist!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 05:00 PM
1

LOL. historically and factually inaccurate
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 04:59 PM
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WAHHHHHHHH I'LL ASSAULT YOU BECAUSE YOU NO TOUCH PP JUST KNEW U COULDN'T HANDLE BEING ALLOWED TO CHOOSE YOUR SEXUAL PARTNERS, YOU DON'T CHOOSE ME SO YOU DESERVE VIOLENCE WAHHHHH
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 04:58 PM
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WAHHHHHHHH I'LL ASSAULT YOU BECAUSE YOU NO TOUCH PP
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 04:58 PM
1

WAHHHHHHHH I'LL ASSAULT YOU BECAUSE YOU NO TOUCH PP
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 04:58 PM
1

WAHHHHHHHH I'LL ASSAULT YOU BECAUSE YOU NO TOUCH PP
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 04:57 PM
1

WAHHHHHHHH I'LL ASSAULT YOU BECAUSE YOU NO TOUCH PP
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 04:57 PM
1

Nobody will ever, ever emphasize or care about men who think their inability to force women into sex is oppression lol Everyone hates people like you
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 04:55 PM
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Nobody will ever, ever emphasize or care about men who think their inability to force women into sex is oppression lol Everyone hates people like you
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 04:55 PM
1

Nobody will ever, ever emphasize or care about men who think their inability to force women into sex is oppression lol Everyone hates people like you
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 04:55 PM
1

"Waaaaaahhhhh can't force wimmenz touch PP" Try to get violent bitch. This is why I carry a knife and know how to use it, quickly and efficiently.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 04:54 PM
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"Waaaaaahhhhh can't force wimmenz touch PP" Try to get violent bitch. This is why I carry a knife and know how to use it, quickly and efficiently.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 04:54 PM
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"Waaaaaahhhhh can't force wimmenz touch PP" Try to get violent bitch. This is why I carry a knife and know how to use it, quickly and efficiently.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 04:53 PM
1

Found the rapist!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 04:48 PM
1

You're a liar, and you have no data.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 04:47 PM
1

Fucking bullshit. Everyone gets older and less attractive. Try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 07:34 AM
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Nah, I 100% disagree. Often it's not even physical appearance that ruins attraction, its other fundamental incompatibilities. Does he clean up after himself? Does he help with his own damn kids or has he never made a doctor's appointment for them in their entire lives? Is he "checked in" to family life or no? Does he attempt to pressure/coerce/harass her into sex despite doing absolutely nothing to make her... you know, like him? Is his idea of a date watching some bullshit TV, farting, and then…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 07:10 PM
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What a fuckin loser. He is no prize, pity the new woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 06:04 PM
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Fax. Branch swinging is indicative of a broken person. If someone is willing to drag a relationship out while actively or even passively looking for someone new... they are fundamentally dishonest and weak. Intellectually, spiritually, emotionally weak. Stay away from the man who wants to leave his chick for you, ladies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 06:01 PM
2

A man who is confident in himself and his abilities does not feel that way. I academically crush my SO... but he has a ton of talent, skill, and ambition in other areas so he doesn’t give a fuck. He likes it actually
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 09:16 PM
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Personally I think the real key is to live and act as if you will ALWAYS be willing to leave his ass and start anew if he doesn’t bring his A game. And actually be that woman. I’m not afraid to be alone. I’m not worried about my ability to find another man in the future should I choose. So my partner needs to make me feel like he is adding to my life and appreciating me like I deserve or I WILL leave. Period. I also make it clear that anything involving other women sexually, messages, pics, what…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 08:45 PM
1

Well, that’s fucking stupid. Better to remain silent and be thought a fool than speak and remove all doubt.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 10:52 PM
1

So by this moronic statement you’re implying that women, including married women, need to stay abstinent for life to avoid pregnancy and childbirth?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 06:24 PM
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This. I’ve sent a few, but they were tasteful and I look beautiful lol. If they ever came back once I’m older I’d be like “yeah? Damn I was gorgeous. Some renaissance painting type shit” and move on. I learned quickly not to even do that though. Too risky
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 04:36 PM
1

Very recent invention and you can’t avoid them without painful and/or dangerous medical intervention.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 03:14 PM
1

Than they usually do. As in they eat mostly like shit, decide they’re getting pudgy, eat like one less fast food meal a week, suddenly slimmer. Women FIGHT for every pound lost. Incels won’t actually DO anything to change their situation. Their main issue is being lazy and negative.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 03:14 PM
1

Have you ever had one? Or is it you indeed who is the retard.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 03:12 PM
2

A. I guarantee you you look like you work out if you do. People that don’t look like a bag of fat even if they’re not overweight B. Yes, yes it is harder for women to get fit than men. This is accepted. We have less muscle and burn less calories. We don’t put on muscle nearly as easily. We conserve fat to pad our reproductive organs so we can have children. It is infinitely easier for a man to get in shape which is why there is no excuse, and most women in any sort of decent shape will not get w…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 01:26 AM
1

Women have it much harder. Fat women might as well be dead to the majority of men and estrogen is a hell of a drug: it’s a 24/7 job to stay thin as a short woman and its only getting worse as I age. Any man I’m with eats one less pizza a week and loses 10 lbs. Women don’t want men to be beefcakes despite what incels think, that’s a delusion. We want a trim man who looks like he works out regularly. Don’t be a skeleton and don’t have man tits. Done. Considering how much taller and more muscular m…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 12:48 AM
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No. You actually fuckin don’t lol. Don’t try to play oppression olympics with the gender that deals with menstruation, pregnancy, childbirth, breastfeeding: the answer is no, cease whining.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 12:43 AM
1

Ahahah queen shit. It’s not like you didn’t warn him 😇
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 10:24 PM
2

I've told my SO that if he ever cheated on me, I would go ahead and fuck someone else as retaliation. Quite possibly one of his friends. You... I like you. That's savage as fuck and absolutely warranted. How you like me NOW?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 07:43 PM
2

Girl. Please buy yourself a drink, get your nails done if you're into that, get you a new eye palette, something to reward yourself for doing the hard thing and putting yourself FIRST. This fool wanted to waste your time, wanted sex with no commitment so he could creep around, and thought he had you... thought you were gonna lay down and take it, literally. And you ditched his ass. Stay strong and block him. If he liked you at all and had any potential for something long term he would have agree…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 07:36 PM
3

Good to know lol! I really wrecked em, he just threw in the towel on those lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 11:10 PM
8

Oh no, fortunately not FOR 9 months, I had had it for 9 months and THEN it started being crazy for maybe 6-8 weeks. Which coincided with my new relationship LOL. When I got it, I bled and/or spotted for 3 months. Then 6 months of peace. Then this nightmare I'm describing lol. Then it calmed down again. I've now had it for about a year and 9 months and it rarely bothers me. I don't have a period any more. When it does bother me, it's cramping and MAYBE a bit of spotting. Yeah I can't fathom how a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 09:38 PM
25

I was having INSANE complications from Mirena when I first started dating my BF. I'm talking "horror show r u gonna die?" type shit. I had had it for maybe 9 months and it seriously started acting up right before we got together. We had a lot of period sex lmao. I ruined several pairs of his sheets, including a very expensive set. His reaction to this, which was calm acceptance paired with mild to moderate concern for my health "is this normal? are u ok?," was one of the huge green flags that ma…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 09:16 PM
1

That’s called dating. Big whoop.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 11:31 PM
1

What. That is the opposite of reality lmao we all talk about it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 11:25 PM
1

This, women know going home with men from the club is a great way to be a prospective rape victim. It’s just stupid, nobody does this
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 11:24 PM
26

Imagine being so goddamn dumb and blind (do you not see the world happening around you?) that you're unaware that men fling their dicks at women regardless of her situation (you could be a homeless crack hoe with multiple felonies and if you're "hawt" they'll line up) while women place no value on dick for dick's sake??? Your dick is worth nothing. Less than nothing, as generally you'd have to PAY to get someone to take it outside a relationship. There are so many of you, and you're all sluts, s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 10:55 PM
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Yup, because men have NO PROBLEM using women as a placeholder, even for years. If he's sexually attracted to you he'll keep you around, breadcrumbing the bare minimum love/interest/commitment that you in particular are willing to accept. With another girl who was a doormat he'd give less, with one with higher standards he'd do more. This is the truth about them. They want regular sex and female companionship and they'll say/do whatever they need to get it without actually committing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 10:48 PM
2

Maybe in your social circle lmao. There are attractive girls everywhere in mine. Also you’re insane, no woman with self respect engages in threesomes and swinging 🤣 and normal sex is for teenagers lol? Seriously this is like the wank fantasy of a 15 year old boy. There is no way you are female.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 06:46 PM
3

This is why I feel 0 guilt turning down unattractive men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 10:21 PM
1

Wait the goal of OLD profiles is to make yourself sound like a massive fucking drag? I was doing it all wrong lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 10:05 PM
35

Enjoy your hand
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 09:53 PM
1

That’s horrific. We fail girls.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 05:42 PM
0

To some extent you have to be. Go around treating men like human beings and they’ll manipulate you for sex and treat you like shit. You have to assume they’re liars and you cannot become emotionally attached quickly or easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 01:12 AM
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No, it’s not. Someone who is purposefully dishonest and manipulative because they’re butthurt is the definition of a loser. Also, when you act like a soulless dick to one woman, talk about that shit spreads. A man in “the scene” in my town cheated on his gf of 1-2 years in a particularly egregious way and it ended up on social media etc. He is now persona non grata for any decent self respecting woman in his social scene, which comprises hundreds of people if not thousands. We all know what he i…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 12:58 AM
1

Why tf would a woman go on a date if it weren’t for the possibility of a committed relationship resulting from it? But no, I don’t go on a first date knowing I want commitment from a man I haven’t freaking met yet! The first date is literally just to make sure he’s not an asshole or a freak.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 12:52 AM
1

Nobody enters a committed relationship after the first date. So it is irrelevant. Generally you hang out with someone quite a few times before deciding to commit to them. And during those dates or whatever you want to call them you ascertain their value based on your mutual compatibility. If you feel they are extremely high value (high probability of satisfaction and longevity in a formal relationship) and worth giving up other romantic opportunities that may arise, you commit to an exclusivity …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 11:36 PM
7

Wait, so wanting a man who isn't so bottom of the barrel that he literally CAN'T cheat because nobody wants him is apparently asking too much lmao?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 11:13 PM
5

Depends on what you mean by educated. Just a bachelor's? Sure. Professional school? Nobody goes through all that to stay at home wiping poopy asses and watching The Wiggles.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 11:08 PM
10

Absolutely. The feminist corners of the internet are radicalizing to say the least. Men victimizing female children en masse, fantasizing about raping their minor family members (incest porn), openly stating that they don't see women as people.... It's a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 11:03 PM
1

So you're asking why do people start dating someone? Why does someone choose one SO when other attractive people... exist? Well I suppose they think they're some combination of funny, kind, pleasant, intelligent, loyal, honorable, etc. Enough so that, in addition to being physically attracted to them, they see a future there in terms of emotional/intellectual compatibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 11:01 PM
5

You're actually asking why someone would want a loyal spouse? What kind of dumb shit is that? If a man wants another woman BY ALL MEANS he should go and be with her... after breaking up with his current GF. To do otherwise is to be a shitbag, and this applies to men and women. Or, these mansluts need to pair up with their female equivalents, there's a lot of sluttery in my area masquerading as "poly," which I'm sure is legitimate in some cases, but the people I've met are just tryin to fuck as m…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 10:50 PM
9

"The kind of man who would cheat on them" you mean one with the option to do so? So instead she should settle for someone ugly with 0 accomplishments and be his bangmaid?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 10:33 PM
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What is really mindblowing is why women stay with men who don't care about their sexual pleasure. I'll always remember during undergrad when a close friend of mine divulged that the guy she'd been hooking up with for ~6months+ had never given her an orgasm. I think I shocked her a bit with my "WHAT? THEN WHY THE FUCK ARE YOU STILL FUCKING HIM???" There are women on deadbedrooms that are in decades long relationships with such "men." For me, if a dude I've started seeing isn't 100% interested in …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 10:29 PM
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Aka they never loved their wife or saw her as an autonomous human being with emotional needs. You cannot utterly betray and destroy the trust of someone you actually love. Those men are too selfish to be capable of love. Sad existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 10:10 PM
1

small dick energy as a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 10:04 PM
11

I was walking down my street today on the phone bitching to my friend about issues I'm having with my partner and some utmost low value skanky-lookin dude on a freaking bicycle started hollering at me... I shit you not I screamed "FUUUUCCCCKKKK YOUUUUUU" and flipped him right off. He looked shook. I was not in a good mood lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 12:36 AM
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They love bright obvious colors too if they're well applied on a pretty girl. They're just dumbasses
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 08:18 PM
1

Even if you’re not lying, men who maintain themselves are literally .01%. The men I went to HS with who were the “hot guys”are... bleak... now at 29. If you asked them I’m sure they’d say they looked 10 years younger than they are and were total studs though, lol. Men who waste their attractive years chasing strange pussy and being assholes to women are doomed. Despite male delusion, women in their 20s and early 30s do not want 40+ year old men to father their children (old sperm degrades and ol…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 09:34 PM
1

Lol, the truth hurts. The wall exists for men just as it does for women... in fact unlike what the menosphere idiots say the vast majority of men look worse earlier because they neglect to take care of themselves and go bald. At that point, no amount of “game” will help these men obtain sex with attractive women and they’ll remember all the sweet, interested ones they treated like shit and regret it. Then they’ll just be creepy middle aged men that make girls in their 20s uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 09:18 PM
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Yep. Not only do they not have it lol... a woman who makes good money on her own (enough to live more than comfortably and afford whatever travel/luxuries she desires) is not going to stay shackled to a man who doesn’t have a LOT to offer. Eventually she’ll be like “nah” and go do her own thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 02:45 PM
4

Yep. Otherwise there is no benefit to women so.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 02:35 PM
1

They’ll end up old, used up, and alone. This is a problem that resolved itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 02:34 PM
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males in support of male degeneracy, especially relating to the abuse of women. it's sad how predictable it is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 02:01 AM
2

Ugly women don't exist amirite? Old ones too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 01:59 AM
1

This. This is the reality of the situation, preach.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 01:58 AM
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On various subreddits men will straight admit to it. If they “wouldn’t,” they won’t invest anything in knowing a woman. The only reason they attempt to “be friends” with a woman is in hopes that one day she’ll touch their penis. Because to them, we are dick holsters and not people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 07:30 PM
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Of course. Of course she was. Male degeneracy knows no bounds.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 07:29 PM
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They will never be honest, because that would impede them from their ultimate goal: to fuck you. The only way for it to not mess with your perception of yourself: know exactly what men are. Once you know what they are the inevitable creepin is expected, and you can just calmly cut them off. Look to your sisters for friendships, you won’t find them in men. A rule of thumb: the people who truly like you for who you are will seek you out despite 0 possible sexual attraction. Aka other women and gay…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 05:50 PM
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Has to be done. Women are for friendships, men are for succumbing to evolutionarily programmed desire for dick and regretting it. They might hold up the facade for a long time (6 years in this case!) but it will always crumble eventually and they’ll be sniffing after you like the dogs that they are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 05:31 PM
2

Okay so you have 0 standards. Not much more can be said, we obviously have fundamental disagreements in this area. It isn’t “but dick is dick” when it’s attached to some bridge troll, blech. Feel free to feel that way but don’t be shocked when normal females are grossed out by skeevy old men creeping on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 05:23 PM
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A straight male trying to be your “friend” is trying to fuck you. ZERO EXCEPTIONS. He will orbit you for years with that goal in mind. Straight men do not have strong, deep, 100% platonic relationships with women. They don’t seek or maintain these sorts of relationships. The only time a man might have something approaching that is if he literally met her when they were 4. You are deluding yourself when you pretend you have a straight male bff. If you texted right now saying youre horny and would…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 05:15 PM
4

Older men are as a rule not “hot.” 99% of them are overweight, balding and refuse to accept it and therefore have some fucked up looking mess on their head, and look like they haven’t taken care of themselves... ever... I don’t know what 50+ year old dudes you’re looking at lmao, it’s literally 1/100 of them who don’t get fat and look like they’ve been left out in the sun for 30 years. Some aren’t like obese but still look melty and gross because as you get older it takes significantly more effo…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 04:47 PM
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You sound like a severely unattractive woman with resulting low self esteem who thinks any attention from men, even a grope from some tubby 50+ year old bridge troll, is a positive thing. Rest assured you are alone in that opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 04:23 PM
5

Pickmeisha in the wild lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 04:20 PM
1

It also has to do with the fact that homeless women are walking victims. They are continuously raped and often murdered. That’s why you don’t see women sleeping everywhere on the street like men... it would work out very poorly for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 08:48 PM
3

How long did it take that shit to come to light? Like how long into the relationship did they start to pull back?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 07:51 PM
5

Sometimes they (male and female) stay because they want to be full time parents of the shared children, raise them with a combined income, etc. it’s really sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 07:50 PM
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Wow. They banned you for that? Personally I’d dump the fucking shit out of a man like that. Dick is abundant and low value, go get you some ladies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 07:49 PM
7

That one was horrific. What an entitled douche.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 07:48 PM
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I’d talk about it. A man who sulks or expresses any negative emotions about my sexual boundaries is a piece of shit and I don’t want him. Good way to weed them out. I haven’t done most of these things coercive men seem to bawww about (anal, threesomes/moresomes) and I don’t even pretend to consider them if they come up. In fact, a man asking for theeesomes is a dealbreaker for me and results in instant dumping. With anal, I’m enjoy some play with fingers etc but hell no you’re not putting that h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 07:15 PM
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This is glorious. Doing the lords work putting this creature in his place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 06:41 PM
2

In some cases, sure. We call that being a Pickmeisha in a ladysphere lmao. In others, a man can be acting like she's The One (tm) and it's 100% a manipulative deception.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 10:35 PM
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Being dishonest in pursuit of sex. That's all it is. And those men are shitty, shitty people. Most women who have casual sex aren't looking for a "transaction." They're looking for a relationship and disgusting men blow smoke up their asses pretending to want one as well to get in their pants. That's taking advantage. For men the opposite would be like... when a man gets a GF and she immediately moves in rent free and has him pay her bills. And then usually branch swings away once she's done wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 10:33 PM
1

I wouldn’t say I view sex as a job because I like (dare I say love) sex. But do I love sex (or at least desire it) as much as your average man with a healthy libido? No. So maths dictates that I will not always be feeling sexy when my man is. I’m also more of a “responsive desire” like many women. So what is one to do? I rarely turn down sex with my partner, I must truly be exhausted or flat not turned on whatsoever (stressed, anxious, just plain distracted) to actually say “no.” I usually want …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 06:27 PM
2

Doubt it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 06:13 PM
1

He’d know because many girls would be openly expressing interest from the time he hit puberty. By the age of 18-20 or so he’d have had multiple sexual partners if he were truly “hot.” This age range is important because despite what guys want to say girls tend to be sexually reserved when they are teens and just into adulthood, and become more comfortable with sexuality later than men (on average). Your average 18-20 year old girl isn’t going to be having casual sex with ANYONE, but she’ll try t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 06:05 PM
3

Wow, you’re fucked up. Even if you were hot you’d have shit luck with women once you opened your mouth. Gotta be hot, rich, AND famous to be able to get away with being that much of a turd.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 05:57 PM
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The 18-25 year olds will win, because young girls are still predominantly attracted to men their own age (30 was inconceivable until I was 25+ for example) and they’re naive enough to date for “potential.” Source: wasted 7 years on “potential” with a man 6 months younger than I. He never did shit with his life lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 05:47 PM
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Yep. Men are useless for LTRs until their 30s in most cases. I wasn’t attracted to men in their 30s until I was approaching 30 myself (almost there now!) Made things difficult. Dated a manchild for quite some time, dumped him, found a sexy, driven, functional 37 year old who already had his useless days.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 11:20 AM
1

In my experience men who are overly “nice” with no reason do just want sex. Men don’t go around looking for female bosom buddies. They just don’t. He might want sex in the context of some sort of relationship, but his goal is always sex. No exceptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 09:05 PM
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Aka “I don’t want to believe it so it isn’t true,” with a side of “wimmenz lie.” Maybe look up data on sexual assault? There’s a lot out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 10:18 PM
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Often enough. My friend was anally raped by a man she met off a dating site and had been seeing for a while. Had to go to the hospital. Another friend was beaten, choked to bruising, and bitten by a man during sex without consent. Women don’t tell men, they tell other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 09:37 PM
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Because they’re hypocritical and not too bright. Consumed with jealousy and rage, that A. women have the choice to have sex with whoever they please and B. It isn’t them. Classic sour grapes whiny baby BS
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 05:13 AM
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It would be difficult to strip our rights to that extent because we too can obtain AR-15s and start blowing people away. We just don’t because we don’t react to difficult life situations with senseless rage and violence. If the gov’t started taking steps to prevent this (ie block women from getting weapons), there are plenty of women who already have them— or their husbands, brothers, and sons do— and shit would still go down. So yeah I don’t see us sliding backwards on that anytime soon. Men th…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 12:21 AM
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Cause the men on Reddit saying this shit sure as hell ain’t doctors 🤣🤣🤣 Yeah, when you walk to your retail job from mommy’s basement it’s easy to talk about how you dgaf about women’s accomplishments... because no accomplished woman would give you the time of day anyway. I guarantee the idiots saying that make 20-30k a year MAX. Just like you, I’ve witnessed professional students (MD, PhD, JD, PA, etc) pair off with others of at least relatively comparable educational and income level.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/19 08:30 AM
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I completely disagree. I was in a relationship for 7 years and never had a wandering eye, even towards the end when we weren’t having much sex because we weren’t happy with each other. I have priorities beyond my genitals, plus I’m not delusional enough to make up fantasies about how it would work with some random other dude who I don’t even fucking know. I appreciate what I have. In my current relationship I only have eyes for him (it definitely helps that we are very very sexually compatible).…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 07:17 PM
1

I mostly meant that she doesn’t follow the “kardashian” standards of “THIS IS WHAT MALES WANT.” She’s done micro bangs, short short hair, androgynous get ups like suits, all sorts of things that are supposed to be “unattractive,” and yet she is highly sought after. But yes I agree with you 100% otherwise, and if I were talking about someone who is beautiful while not fitting the Eurocentric ideal I’d think of Lisa Bonet or Lupita Nyongo. Natural hair, their own style, no shame about it, fiercely…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 06:12 PM
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I’m a lady. I think man sluts are pathetic yes. Especially because they always want to find some sad sack of a woman to take care of them as their “primary” while they slut around. Wah wah wah I’m a dog who constantly thinks about fucking everything I see. Poor me. I love nothing more than to see men like that get kicked to the curb. Personally, that’s an open relationship and I’d have a buffet of chads come through right before I dumped his ass lol, just to make it hurt a bit more. It’s funny h…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 06:07 PM
3

beggars, choosers, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 07:01 AM
3

"wahhh I'm a slut" ​ such men are pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 06:59 AM
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I'm done with this conversation because it's apparent you're dense lol. If you really don't think a certain "type" of woman is relentlessly pushed as "ideal" (and therefore all others, inferior) and it's one very narrow subpopulation of white women then you're not paying attention, and I'm not here to educate you. Buh-bye
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 09:37 PM
3

That's what conventional beauty standards ARE. To be white, ablebodied, tall, scary thin. That's held up as the ideal. And it's some BS you've bought into, which is too bad for you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 09:33 PM
1

Lol naw. The Eilish girl has kind of a lazy stoned look about her and is average... a lovely kid like many many lovely high school girls. What's exceptional about her is the crazy colored hair and unusual clothing/affect in a world of Kardashian wannabes in bandage dresses paired "uniquely" with long wavy weaves in blond or dark brown and stillettos. "Insecurities" my ass lmao, I'm 5'4, 130, pretty, and ripped: ain't got none. I just don't bow down to the basic ass shit fed to us by "the powers …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 09:28 PM
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The entire argument is that Amal IS absolutely as attractive as his usual type. Billie Eilish is a relatively plain looking young girl to me, plus she certainly doesn't attempt to follow conventional beauty standards, but she's interesting as fuck and so men are sniffing around her. That was my point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 08:27 PM
4

Hollywood, and therefore "society" presses the male lies that young women just love old wrinkly dick, that there is only one way to be beautiful, that only barely legal white blonde aryan-nation lookin' supermodels are attractive... and in the real world you see men falling over themselves for women who are nothing like that. I'm not talking about "unattractive," in what universe is Amal Clooney unattractive? She is flippin gorgeous, if a bit thin (IMO). Men are weird beasts, apparently when Bil…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 08:11 PM
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Society pushes that shit. It has no actual bearing on what is "attractive." If you're forgettable because 10 other girls in the immediate vicinity look like your clone, the one who is unique will pull in the male eye.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 08:00 PM
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I just think it's demonstrably false, and that attempting to follow whatever"conventional beauty standards" are will often end up making the GF/placeholder while being unique and powerful makes the wife shrug
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 07:45 PM
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Men would cut off their right arm to get with Emma Watson, and she takes all sorts of risks with her hair and style, is not built like a supermodel (much more petite), and just is unique looking. Men are not only attracted to the same cookie cutter boring crap.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 07:40 PM
4

he needs to ice his ass after that burn lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 07:34 PM
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"Conventional beauty" is a male lie. I don't see those blonde boring chicks as anything but a dime a dozen, while Amal looks striking af. There is no one "beauty" as it is in the eye of the beholder, and in my eye she wins. It's also a racist concept, because WOC are never considered the "conventional beauties." The conventional beauty is white, almost 6' tall, rail thin, with blonde or brown hair in boring ass waves, and basic clothing choices. Woohoo. It does nothing to excite me, I like peopl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 07:33 PM
3

They are the ones who can fuck the fuck off. I make sure to do the polar opposite of anything a man tells me to do. Oh you don't like my discussion of a topic in my life that isn't sunshine and rainbows? Now you can listen to me tell you exactly why your opinions on my THOUGHTS are irrelevant. Sit the fuck down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 07:30 PM
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I love other women. I told my partner this very early on. I was like women who don't like other women have issues (turns out this is his ex lmao). I was like "All my closest friends have been women, I make female friends easily af, and they enrich my life immeasurably." He found it attractive. Nobody likes a "dIfFeReNt tHaN OThEr GuRLz" pickmeisha, it's pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 07:28 PM
15

point out the scuzziest dude her age you see while out and about and say "give him a kiss,"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 07:25 PM
17

What a bitch. A true pickmeisha attempting to brainwash youth into her weak ass ways. Should not have access to children's impressionable minds
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 07:24 PM
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In my personal opinion I think Amal crushes those basic lookin ass chicks. The striking dark hair, the huge beautiful eyes, strong brows... I think she blows them out of the water tbh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 07:22 PM
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I was you, love. Kicked his ass out right after 7 years. Decided "tetchy roommates and bffs" wasn't going to be the love story of my life, fuck that. We're v. close in age too. Get out, recuperate (it'll be hard and take close to a year) and then look for your love story girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 07:15 PM
14

In. I get my PhD this spring and will be moving for work. This is good timing, about 1.5 years in to my relationship. I will be forcing his hand and if he doesn't eagerly engage in making arrangements to join me 6 months-1 year later, that's it. I'll be single in my new town, which is known for partying and large amounts of people my age... I'll be fine. Let's get this ladies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 07:12 PM
4

What!? IT WASN'T THAT BAD??? Boy get you a history textbook, stat. It wasn't just that bad it was worse. Women were breeding chattel for the vast majority of human history and STILL ARE in many countries (India and pretty much all middle eastern countries). Women have been subjugated, refused education, raped, and forced to have as many children as their bodies can support before they die or experience uterine prolapse since time immemorial. Why do you think feminists are so pissed? We actually …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 08:32 PM
2

They don’t run after the beans and rice tho (the plain/chunky girl they could actually theoretically get), they run after the 4 course gourmet meal from a restaurant with 5 Michelin stars (ridiculously attractive “thots” who make money off of it)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 05:49 PM
4

Hmmm. Off to work to contribute something to society or a life of rape slavery and forced breeding until your end at the ripe old age of “died in childbirth,” screaming, bleeding, torn apart with no anesthesia? Men have always had the better position.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 05:46 PM
19

Found out I was the side piece to my “boyfriend”. I feel undervalued and ugly compared to the girlfriend. 📷Infidelity I F(22) was “dating” my boyfriend M(27) for two and a half years. I over looked a ton of red flags during that time. I found out he was in a relationship with another girl F(26) for a year and a half. He knew me first, but kept me hidden. He met her a year after he knew me, but introduced her to friends and took her on dates. When I found this all out it made me feel so ugly in c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 07:30 PM
23

Family meeting... with you and who? The kids? Did he whine to your kids about you recuperating from a surgery? Dear god.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 07:14 PM
16

Ugh I just feel bad for his second wife. Blech.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 07:13 PM
1

No. You’re applying male values to female behavior. Most of the time when a woman has casual sex with a man it’s because she doesn’t think very highly of him but he’s attractive enough (and she’s in the headspace) to get dick from. He’s basically a human dildo, you know, like how men treat women they have casual sex with like human blow up dolls. A man you LTR is attractive AND you like him as a person... enough to want him to stay around.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 06:32 PM
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it's absolutely a red flag. I was n =2 and told a dude to fuck off who asked me lol. First name: Nunya Second Name: Business
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 01:17 AM
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For me, how tf are you letting an unattractive dude hump on you every 30 secs at the beginning of a relationship like men are wont to do. I literally have to be attracted b/c otherwise my drive for sex would die. Quickly, too. This is how ppl get in deadbedrooms. If you read that sub, both women AND men marry people they're not attracted to and then just... refuse to have sex, refuse to discuss it, and coast. No thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 01:13 AM
19

I wish they’d pick a struggle. You can’t be ugly and delusional at the same time! dead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 01:08 AM
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It's always been more important than fellatio to dudes I've been with. Yeah they like blow jobs (duh) but they like PiV better, even if I'm really getting it lol. They know that they need to get me relaxed and turned on for PiV, so they end up offering oral a lot without asking for reciprocation. Also like you said I've only dated men that not only give head but enjoy the act, actually like vaginas, etc. Whenever I hear about a dude who thinks vaginas are "gross" I think he's either an immature …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 09:28 PM
8

Only utter losers are acting this way. I haven't even experienced this tbh. Even when I did online dating men took me to dinner. With no expectations of anything happening afterwards. ​ edit: I think it's insane to want to go to a fancy steakhouse or something though. I'm talking about dinner and drinks where its like $50 total for both of us. And yeah, if a man is too broke to do that he can gtfo anyway, this ain't a charity... and if he's not but he's just a low effort asshole he can also gtfo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 09:10 PM
5

Yeah I think the whole "I love dad bods!" thing from women is a mix of "well this is how it is and I can't control whether it ever changes, so I'll make the best of it," and "well I'm not completely sexually repulsed so it's good~!!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 08:33 PM
1

Homosexuality is an orientation. Not a specific act.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 12:18 AM
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Sure, but they aren't gay if they only do it for male attention despite a lack of attraction to women. They're just sad straight women, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 10:15 PM
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The only one of those things that's legitimate is smelling bad due to bad hygiene. In that case, yea no. A straight man who doesn't like vaginas is questionable af. I've never encountered one. Also sucks for him cause I sure as hell wouldn't be giving any oral to someone who doesn't reciprocate.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 06:38 PM
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That's bisexual, mate. If they can get off watching lesbian porn (let alone prefer it) they're attracted to women as well as men. For whatever reason you've randomly ended up dating three bisexual women in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 06:36 PM
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I was talking about both. The vast majority of PEOPLE are straight, including women. Ergo most of the women I've known throughout my life are not open to or searching for women to fuck. And a lot of girls who do that shit are doing it performatively to get attention from/please shitty men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 06:03 PM
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Huh? I was responding to the "straight" dude who thinks vaginas are "disgusting and not attractive." Cause that ain't straight. Straight men love vaginas. I've never been with one who didn't want to be all up in there with fingers, mouth, and of course dick. He probably can only get off in doggy style too... pretending she's a dude. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 05:57 PM
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What!? That’s insanely high. Are you specifically dating bi women? I’d say at most 5% of the women I’ve known as friends were actively interested in same sex shit. Which makes more sense, not that many people are bi. Only like 1% of the population. I’ve met more because I’ve hung out in social groups with an artificially high queer population, as in 30%-50% are LGBT (higher than that in the group I hung out with in early undergrad).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 04:19 PM
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Imo it’s either cause A. They’re pressured by men around and don’t have strong boundaries yet because young or B. theyre the type of woman who really NEEEEDS attention. ALL THE TIME. Which is why you see it (two dumb straight girls making out) at HS and undergrad parties. I made out with a couple girls during that period because everyone else was and we were kinda pressured into it. I wasn’t impressed. No “tinglies” as the manosphere puts it. Once I was kinda molested (it was only kissing with c…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 04:16 PM
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“Straight”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 04:10 PM
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There are more “male” behaved women that fuck anything with a pulse (like men do). They’re cool, we can be homies lol, but would I recommend one of my few decent guy friends to try and be in a LTR with them? No. RP wants all of us to behave like that, while also having an n of 2. It’s a moronic contradiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 03:45 PM
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And they definitely don't treat other women better. They will go from woman to woman, secretly wanting a strong, independent woman, but always settle for a pick-me who will put up with their low effort ass. You definitely got that part right on the money! But they won't respect the pick me and will be looking to upgrade to a woman with standards. And then realize they don't want to put in the effort for the girl with standards and start stringing the pick me along again. Vicious cycle. Fucking t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 08:27 PM
1

Liar. Here, some woman did your work for you, as per usual. https://www.reddit.com/r/GenderCritical/comments/e8a9zx/the_statistics_of_male_crime_re_women_are_just_as/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 07:35 PM
1

Men rape untold multitudes of women and children and they know it. The worst monsters in the world are men. And you know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 07:20 PM
1

The only thing rape is a consequence of is male degeneracy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 07:10 PM
1

The right choices lmao. 🤷🏼‍♀️ we do what we do because men are what they are and we aren’t stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 06:13 PM
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Fuckkkk. I’ve never had an abortion but I’d be in line. Fuck carrying that pigs spawn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 06:05 PM
2

I have friends that have been involved with men who are, in my opinion, far from being prizes. I personally don’t find them physically attractive and they don’t have any accomplishments. Still the same story. Women know that even if you take a chance dumpster diving for dick that ugly asshole will probably just get a big head because he “got you” and start thinking he’s the shit and looking around to see what else he can get. So fuck that, I’ll take the hot ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 05:55 PM
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Phahahahah. That story gave me a lady boner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 05:52 PM
1

We don’t bother because all men are like this. The ugly chunky nerd to the gigachad. So why would we bother with any of the unattractive ones? They have nothing good to offer and have all the same negative traits. Men say women are only good for their looks but the opposite is true. Women offer all kinds of shit. 90% of child rearing, cleaning, keeping the home running, making and managing appointments for everyone, emotional support. Why would any woman go for an ugly man baby to clean up after…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 05:39 PM
1

And this is why men are a waste of time, and why women don’t bother with 80% of them. It’s not JUST looks. It’s also the shitty personality and tendency to be a user, manipulator, and a slut.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 05:14 PM
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Maybe they should be, lol. We wouldn’t have so many fat dumpy unkempt man babies screeching about how dare women have standards!?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 05:12 PM
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Yep. Even the most beautiful women in the world get cheated on by men. They are the ultimate sluts, which makes it even more hilarious when they bleat about women choosing to have sex. They wouldn’t be squealing about it if she were choosing him. Hypocritical sluts.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 05:10 PM
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Our. Brains. Aren’t. Like. Men’s. You can’t comprehend anyone not wanting casual sex. Because you are a man and would probably love having a new 5/10+ sex partner every night. You look around at women and think “all of them! I’d fuck all of them! Why can’t I!?” To put it MILDLY women do not feel the same about men. Which is why we tend to be serially monogamous.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 11:28 PM
1

I mean it makes sense. If you’ve had previous relationships, pretty healthy ones, cohabitation etc... you will be choosier with future relationships and probably report “less satisfaction.” You’re more aware of what’s out there than some young thing in their first TRUE LEERRRRRV relationship that hasn’t hit reality yet because they’re both in undergrad lol. It’s called maturity. Being happier with a shittier relationship isn’t “better outcome” it’s how people end up coparenting with some asshole…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 08:24 PM
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He’s not high value. He’s flavor of the week. Maybe few months. For women with careers, yes it’s nice for a man to treat you to nice dinners, flowers, little gifts here and there. But you could get all those things for yourself if you wanted. A “player” aka man slut is not high value. You can’t depend on them. They don’t give a shit about you except sex, which creates the same feeling in yourself: that they’re basically a human dildo. Women value deeper connection in relationships. Mutual emotio…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 08:20 PM
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Women too. Who cares? They’re not in a relationship with me. Irrelevant
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 08:11 PM
1

My mom doesn’t dumpster dive for impotent dick!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 08:03 PM
1

Cmon now. These dudes aren’t losing interest because the sex was bad. They never had it in the first place, beyond trying to add another notch. Men want to fuck as many women as possible and many of them are totally fine with only doing it once or a few times. This is not some rare scenario that happens to chicks that are bad in bed. Men consistently attempt to use women for sex. That’s why women learn to make them wait, and only a fool fucks a man right away.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 06:00 PM
1

Luckily kid’s a girl so probably not.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/12/19 05:20 PM
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And then in the same breath call the women who are more “male” in their sexual strategy, fuck quickly, have higher n counts, “used up whores.” Because they just hate women. There is nothing a woman can do or not do and gain their approval. The only fake archetypal woman they pretend to like is a 19 year old virgin sold into marriage by her father, lol. Which is disgusting, and thank god basically absent in today’s society (in the US anyway). Degenerates.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 05:17 PM
1

I think if the dates are 3-6 hours long, the chances of sex after the second or third are pretty high. That’s enough time to feel each other out and decide if you’re going to try and make it a thing. Men abuse this though, which is why women will often choose to wait longer. Men will pretend to be interested for those 14 hours or whatever, fuck her, and then change their tune and dip. Women aren’t trying to “hold back what other men got” they’re trying to protect themselves from manipulative men…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 05:08 PM
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Uh. I don’t get it in this context. I honestly am the type of woman who doesn’t feel much sexual attraction until I feel like I know someone a bit. I just feel slightly awkward and uncomfortable until then. I will say some men are easier to get to know than others. If a guy is very easy going, open, smiley, funny, quick to share his thoughts and talk about his life/past, we’re going to get to the point where I feel like I genuinely know and like him enough to be able to entertain the idea of get…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 04:25 PM
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Agreed. And it usually happens around date 3-5, 3 being kind of early IMO. First date dinner, only a fool goes home with him after that. At least one date doing something fun and lighthearted during the day, no alcohol. Then a date where you have a more informal dinner and drinks, maybe a cool dive bar nearby.... then to one of yalls places and subsequently pound town. That’s an acceptable trajectory. This also depends on how long the dates are, how much you communicate outside of them (which is…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 04:22 PM
1

Hehehe. Someone got triggered. I hope you know what you are. You don’t deserve anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 04:15 PM
1

Says the dude nobody fucks on any date 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 04:14 PM
1

It might not be a game. Seriously. What if the first date is dinner and the second a hike. So they part ways after, a kiss and no sex. If he’s the kind of guy to aggressively be like “LETS GO BACK TO MY HOUSE HUEHUEHUE” after a hike we know to fucking run. There is no exact equation but it’s when you’ve gotten comfortable with each other and the situation arises. Can be 2 dates can be 4. Can be more. Depends on how far apart they are spaced too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 03:39 AM
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That sub is a cesspool of women-haters cherry picking tinder bios to justify their absolute contempt for women. Here, I’ll make a sub, make a fake tinder, and put the scummy dudes I find through it on there. I’d have 200 in a day. In an hour. The fact that you bring up single mothers, who take responsibility for the children piece of shit men abandon, like they’re the worse half of that scenario: men are literally the lowest creatures in existence, happily willing to abandon and neglect their ow…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 02:21 AM
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They do to have to figure out if they’re going to date them. And if someone only wants to fuck men she’s in relationships with that’s what she’ll do: make sure they’re going to be in a relationship. Men whining about women not giving them pussy within 30 secs of meeting are stale. Too bad, so sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 02:14 AM
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Uh, we don’t. And when we find the men who are good at sex, we keep that fucker for as long as possible lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 12:02 AM
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4x hanging out is totally acceptable before getting naked with someone tf? Not everyone just whips their genitals out immediately goddamn
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 11:46 PM
1

Tf you talking about hamsters for?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 10:45 PM
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Or she doesn’t like fucking dudes she doesn’t know. If you want some hoe who fucks on the first date every time prepare to get cheated on! Enjoy lmao!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 10:04 PM
3

Cause nah. Not feeling it this time, oh well.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 10:03 PM
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This is the truth behind toxic people. Recently experienced it with a gay male friend. He basically had to get burned a few times to recognize that he needed to watch the way he speaks to me. It’s important to be That Bitch because assholes LOVE doormat people who silently accept their abuse. I am clear about my expectations in the beginning of every relationship and friendship: talk shit and I’ll talk it right back to you, louder, harder, and meaner. So try me, bitch. This works, the men lookin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/19 09:58 PM
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This is why I just straight up state mine lmao. “I want a relationship” and if he says anything but “yes, me too” and obviously means it with his behavior (none of this not more than once a week, no talking of the future BS) I bounce. If I were looking for a fuck buddy I’d choose from men I already knew socially and knew I got along with well as friends but wouldn’t want to make permanent. I’m also not one to be casually fucking other guys while I start dating a new guy, so keeping around a dude…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 09:39 PM
1

Damn the west must be a slut fest lmao. I’ve lived all across the east coast and generally people pair up and date, at least for a while. Yeah there is a rise of polyamory etc but generally people have BFs/GFs.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 09:16 PM
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It’s easy: state your intentions immediately. If she has any sense she’ll disengage immediately. Unfortunately some women (and men) will get caught up in the “when s/he gets to know me better s/he’ll fall in LURRRRVE” but by the time one is in their mid to late 20s they’ve usually shaken themselves of that delusion. I met a guy through friends, he seemed promising. We started talking on the phone (he lived about 1.5 hours away). He told me he was in several poly “relationships” and asked what I …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 09:06 PM
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And? What the hell is your point? Women do have casual sex sometimes, cause men are thirsty and we can. At least we aren’t like men, who would all have an n of 300 by 30 if sex was as available to y’all as it is to us. Literally trying to shame women for infrequently doing what you’re obsessed with wanting to do all the time is pathetic. Which is why we don’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 08:54 PM
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That’s not who I was describing, and the man who is capable of being respectful and kind enough to a woman he’s having NSA sex with to create anything approximating a “good time” on her end is vanishingly rare. If you’re really cooking dinners and having quality time with your hookups instead of treating them like on on-call human flesh light you’re probably in the .01% of men for real.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 08:52 PM
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Lmao no they don’t. Fortunately you’re too much of a cretin for any woman to make the mistake of letting you get her alone. If you act on your impulses you may get to experience rape yourself in prison! Since you love it so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 08:50 PM
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Welp, that’s weird because in my experience women are serially monogamous because men ain’t shit and aren’t worth the time or even the slightest effort unless you’re dating them or your pretty sure it’s headed that way. Even a HINT of “I tend to do open relationships” “let’s see where it goes” “I don’t want anything serious right now” and NEXT. Try that bullshit with some other bitch, maybe it work next time.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 08:46 PM
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Not all of us. I personally ghost within a few weeks max of a man going from “sweet and at least treats me like a human being” to “fuckboy supreme.” I’d rather look for new dick, it’s abundant and low value.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 08:43 PM
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I have no idea what you’re talking about. Women require commitment from men because if we don’t, men treat us like shit. No exceptions. A woman gets NOTHING out of casual/NSA sex except literally sex, which is not especially thrilling with someone you could give two shits about anyway. It gets old really fast, because men who want casual sex tend to be douche bags, and that eroded the initial physical attraction. The only way to get a relationship with a man that benefits us is to insist on a fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 08:14 PM
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If one is looking for casual then definitely! I was looking to date though, so I made sure they took me on a date. If I was just looking for a decent guy to hook up with for a while then drinks would be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 08:11 PM
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It wasn’t so much that the technique is off... it’s that a man devalues a woman he’s having sex with but not committed to. Men really create the situation where women demand commitment because if you give it up to a dude without making him WORK for it that’s the best way for him to barely treat you like a human let alone a “friend.” FWB is a joke. Every girl who does it bitches about how he doesn’t answer her calls/texts promptly, isn’t interested in her besides to fuck (so they’re really booty …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 08:10 PM
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Nah, they hate you. Your personality is abhorrent even over text. I can’t imagine how awful it is in person.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 08:06 PM
1

Yeah? I always made a new dude take me out for dinner if we met on those apps. If he can’t put that up you know to run far far away. Nonstarter
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 06:16 PM
1

Welp, this usually occurs rarely, when the woman in question is going through some shit: like in the 6 months after the demise of a promising LTR. She doesn’t want to get in another relationship yet because she’s still reeling, but a girls got needs. So really you can’t predict or cause that sort of “relationship.” A happy healthy woman isn’t going to waste time with a “fun guy to fuck while looking for a husband,” if she’s monogamous. I know I don’t. As my friends nana said once “you can’t find…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 06:15 PM
1

Really. I know very few. But the people I know male and female tend to be college educated and don’t have unprotected sex with losers (or if they do , they discreetly abort that shit, which I have heard of a few times)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 06:10 PM
2

Huh? I love sex. Either you’re with the wrong women or you need to work on your technique.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 06:09 PM
1

Well, too bad. Just like a dude will leap at some pussy after a dry spell OCCASIONALLY a woman will do the same. Often women have NSA sex with men they deem too inferior for a LTR, which is the goal. He’s nice enough, attractive enough, doesn’t totally kill it when he opens his mouth, but he has X, Y, Z that mean she has 0 legitimate interest in him long term... that’s how “FWB” arises.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 06:07 PM
1

This is why women hate you. Men probably do too. You should just leave the rest of humanity alone lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 06:05 PM
1

Well that’s your only option so... enjoy your toy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 06:04 PM
5

I think this is male delusion to an extent. Some women will fuck a guy without commitment because she doesn’t give a fuck about him, even thinks he’s kind of a loser, but wants to get laid and he’s there, willing, at least pretty physically attractive (to her, this is different for all women), not a douchebag/asshole, and she’s horny. Why try to get some loser to commit his ain’t shit life to her when she’s just trying to get some D for a min? Women and men aren’t ENTIRELY different after all. B…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 12:23 AM
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Lollll I feel you, but with dating apps it’s definitely dates long before sex. When it’s someone already known to you in your social group it’s the opposite 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 11:30 PM
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I feel like it goes once a week for 2-3 weeks, then twice a week. By the middle of the second month, if things are looking really good it’s time to get freaky AND see each other more often, like 2-4x a week, and that continues on until after 4-5ish months where seeing each other pretty much every day, spending most nights together is pretty normal. I don’t know any adults that would for real not fuck someone they were legitimately interested in for 3 months. One month of seeing each other regula…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 11:29 PM
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For nowwwwwww.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 11:09 PM
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Women will never allow a societal shift away from monogamy. Men already abandon and fail to support their offspring en masse, and that would just make it easier. Also relationships with men are work. Especially when kids are involved. It’s work we are only willing to do if he provides what we want: stability, marriage, financial support for children. Otherwise there is no benefit to cleaning up after a emotionally retarded (sorry dudes, a lot of you are) being who just wants to play vidja until …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 10:46 PM
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Hell yeah I’m too good for it lol. And thank god. This shit ain’t for sale.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 10:36 PM
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Yes it is. There are plenty of gay/bi older men who will pay for sex with younger males.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 10:34 PM
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Because it’s degrading and dirty af. Because we have the option to make money in a legitimate, non-disgusting way (you know, like going to college and shit). Because women aren’t men and don’t desire sex with random men, especially the type of men who think it’s for sale (they’re skeezy gross fucks). The idea of letting some perv use my body to get off for money, in person or picture/video, makes me queasy. Plus I imagine it’s a good way to get stalked. And have nudes of you circulated to everyo…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 10:31 PM
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Spoiler: she doesn’t just have low self esteem, she has zero self esteem for staying with an utter worm like that. Beyond the disgusting way he speaks about her and admits to treating her he’s posting naked pictures of her on the internet like she’s a prize pig. He’s scum, the lowest value of low value males no matter how “alpha” he pretends to be. Literally can you imagine if her family and friends found out her SO said and posted shit like this about her? They’d stage an intervention. Her dad …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 10:11 PM
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Good luck to you lady. Keep your eyes peeled for controlling/misogynistic tendencies. Devoutly religious men give me the heebie jeebies. Anyone who seeks to convert others or constantly acts “holier than thou” probably has some wicked skeletons in their proverbial closet, even if they haven’t actually acted on them yet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/19 09:11 PM
1

I work and socialize with a lot of men and they seem to do fine. In fact, I’ve been lucky that in my field men and women are on a pretty even playing field, so neither group is particularly “oppressed.” The men I know IRL are mostly happy, many married or in LTRs, and have been able to make something of themselves with relative ease (given they put in the required effort, of course). They have relationships, and if those end usually have another within a year or so, which is normal (and how long…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 09:07 PM
1

I don’t believe in reincarnation but me too if it means my biggest life problems will be “cant fuck sluts at will” lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 09:01 PM
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YES. I am the queen of being an icy fucking bitch once some loser has made the mistake of being rude to me ONCE. I’ve literally made dudes so uncomfortable they abandoned entire friend groups 🤣 Also it don’t matter if we’re colleagues either. I’ll be cold. And they can’t do shit but avoid because if anybody else notices and asks what are they gonna say? “She won’t talk to me because I tried negging her the second time we spoke” lmao. They just run with their tails between their legs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/19 08:57 PM
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One of the things I like best about my SO is that he doesn’t do this. He doesn’t try to pick up my life problems either. We empathize and communicate with each other, provide some comfort, and MOVE ON. Neither of us wants to hang out with someone who marinates in negativity and tries to make it the other persons problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/19 08:50 PM
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One of the best parts of being atheist. Religious sociopaths need not apply, and there seem to be a LOT OF THEM. The ones who make religion a focal point of their identity seem to be mostly horrible people. The ones who just go to church when they can make it and observe religious holidays can be normal people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/19 08:49 PM
8

I see you know my ex. I wish I had had a clue at 20 y/o but hey, who does and at least I never married him or had kids. He was talented, and had aspirations... and did jack shit to realize them over 7 years. So I left him. I was projecting because at that time I was just an undergrad with dreams of becoming a research scientist... which I made reality. So I assumed he’d make his reality too. NOPE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/19 08:45 PM
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This is so outside of reality it's borderline hilarious. If anyone thinks the other group is subhuman it's men towards women. Men even think the "hot" women that they want so badly are subhuman, deep down. The plain/ugly/old ones? They wouldn't piss on them if they were on fire. Do you lot think we're blind and deaf? Women respect men in general. Not just attractive ones. Male teachers/professors, male businesspeople, males working in any of the various institutions throughout society. All men h…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 07:20 PM
2

And may that Stacy never come along, or if she does look him up and down and laugh. Amen.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 07:10 PM
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They can’t be an interesting and kind person lol. They are not capable. If they were broke they’d get no pussy, they should be thankful for the gold diggers willing to take a job no one else wants
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/19 04:34 PM
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It doesn’t happen except with sluts was my point. Your dream: all the std ridden bathroom whores lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 04:31 PM
2

Maybe if you read the comment(s) you respond to before you respond you’ll have better luck. Many men have women in their lives that crave them. It’s not some unobtainable goal, except for the cretins on here I suppose. You can feel entitled to immediate sex with women and women can say no and find someone who isn’t an intrusive asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 08:45 PM
2

Maybe you can’t read: it doesn’t happen. And the men who are capable of ever getting what you’re after are top .001% physically. And still, only absolute hoes are running into the shitter with them lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 08:13 PM
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What!!! How does the 50+ year old with 4 kids under 5 even happen!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 05:21 PM
4

So basically you wish WOMEN were stuck, unwilling, with whoever was around instead of having choices. Because I’m sure you wouldn’t want to be stuck with some ugly fat chick because she was the only single woman of a marrying age interested in your area.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 05:18 PM
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Yes, this. And if a woman DOES have the former experience (I sure as hell didn’t) it’s probably just once when she’s young, fucked up over a breakup, and doesn’t know what to do with herself or how to act. Healthy, happy, stable adult women aren’t fucking randos in the club bathroom. Extreme outliers are. Yes, at a club you already have selected for club people (alcohol, partying), and maybe 1 or 2 of the women there are these extreme outliers (but very probably not on a given night) and/or dama…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 05:16 PM
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We really don’t lol. It’s hilarious that men on here think ALL WOMEN are really having NSA pump and dump sex with buff douche bags on tinder. Maybe you just know a lot of sluts
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 05:07 PM
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You're 100% right. You were literally stuck with whoever lived in your home town back then. How the hell is that easier? Ppl can literally set their dating app settings to like 200 miles away and date people on the other side of their state or across state lines if they're willing to drive. It's much easier now... to get dates. Now, is it easier to deal with people now? No, people probably mostly sucked back then too.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 02:02 AM
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YUP. Not only does being healthy and active make for better mental health, more motivation, less anxiety/depression, all attractive qualities... it also just straight up makes you more visually appealing to the opposite sex. Shit, if you're fit enough all you really need to do so far as "dressing well" is wear clothes that fit. Someone will bite. Several someones.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 02:00 AM
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Yes. Fearlessness and true self confidence, as in the type that lets them know that you actually WILL dump their ass, have a little sad about it for a min, and then back to YOUR life as usual--without them in it. I am clear af with this early in dating so we don't end up with any crossed wires... if you are not to my benefit (not talking $$ or anything, but emotional and happiness "benefit") then you are fuckin gone, replaced, boy BYE. Consistent evoking negative emotions at any point? BYE. I'm …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 12:18 AM
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I'm there with you, minus the kid. I get mf irate when someone shit talks me. I will call it out, in detail, in that moment, Every. Single. Time. I've never dated a dude like this (I am INTOLERANT of negging and they don't get that far) but I've experienced it with asshole friends/acquaintances of both genders over the years. Literally with a person like this: "Well you blah blah belittling comment" ​ Me: "What the fuck is wrong with you? Who taught you that you could say that kind of shit to pe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 11:59 PM
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This is true for all people but YES especially men. If a man is suddenly overly nice and interested in you, be suspicious. It’s probably exactly what you think it is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 11:22 PM
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I agree to an extent. If the relationship is so untenable that the partners are continuously combative, the scales tip towards “separation and civil coparenting is more responsible than staying together.” Lots of people state that they wish their parents hadn’t stayed together “for the kids.” Kids suffer when mom and dad are at each other’s throats all day every day and can’t get along whatsoever. But yes I definitely agree that if you don’t feel with 100% certainty that you’re with your life pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 10:41 PM
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I’ll just be like “hey thanks” “hey thanks” “hey thanks” in a polite but not gushing fashion. You’re not the first person to tell me bro. And stop repeating it, I got it the first time. You’re not gonna win me over by nonstop complimenting my looks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 09:26 PM
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Like anyone would live their life based on your garbage unsubstantiated opinions, lol. Let us all just marry the first person we date to impress u/axehead88, yup. What could go wrong! It’s funny that you’re so sure nothing will ever change in your situation either. Never say never, Justin Bieber. Life is long and full of difficulties.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 09:07 PM
2

... having multiple several year long relationships is now riding the carousel? I’ve always called it “not being a dumbass and making sure you find the right person before legally binding them to yourself,” but you do you... There’s a reason why people who get married young and/or quickly have higher rates of divorce. If more people rode said “carousel” the divorce rates would be lower. It’s supposed to be a lifetime decision, it should take a while to determine whether you should make it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 08:59 PM
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Unless it’s their second stable relationship I guess. Or unless they have eyes and ears and have witnessed people getting together and breaking up over a decade + of adulthood lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 08:53 PM
2

Or try to communicate comprehensibly 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 08:45 PM
2

Word salad?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 08:41 PM
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