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| 4 | When you find out and they gaslight you anywaysOof this one hits home. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/21 06:23 PM |
| 40 | 'You know a man can die from blue balls, right. It's a fact!' *side eye* Being given the opportunity of earning the gift of your grace is a privilege a man must work. Don't let scrotes lie, cheat or bully you into believing they need physical attention. Obviously they can live just fine pussy free.Very true but the programming of the patriarchy is strong in the young and vulnerable. They need to be taught men lie to get into womans pants, among other things. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/21 12:49 AM |
| 67 | 'You know a man can die from blue balls, right. It's a fact!' *side eye* Being given the opportunity of earning the gift of your grace is a privilege a man must work. Don't let scrotes lie, cheat or bully you into believing they need physical attention. Obviously they can live just fine pussy free.Damn right. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/21 12:01 AM |
| 390 | Car mechanics need to respect professional boundariesI'm bowing to your Queen sh*t take no prisoners vibe. So admirable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/21 09:05 PM |
| 4 | Depravity knows no limits… even when you’re dead you’re not safeI can't imagine why... It's a dream of mine to start my own women working for women company. Wish me luck! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/21 12:00 PM |
| 28 | Depravity knows no limits… even when you’re dead you’re not safeI get looks from people, woman even, when I say I want to start my own company as a woman electrician just so women feel more comfortable calling a trades person into their home. It is a necessary service and I don't think I will have a hard time finding clients. I'm more anxious of the men looking to stop me and hurt me. It's heartbreaking. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 09:01 PM |
| 32 | Is bad sex a deal-breaker?My girl he's had 3 months to rev himself up to be with you and then triped at the finish line. Not good. Any stable, healthy man would be raring to go! 3 months is the MINIMUM for vetting a guys interest sexually. Preceed with caution and stay vigilant. Drop him at the first sign of scrotery. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/21 10:35 AM |
| 123 | Let’s create a megathread: What is one of the best pieces of advice you’ve learned from this sub that has blown your mind or had the greatest impact on your life?Live your life for YOU bc you're good all on your own. Sure keep your eyes open for a good one but don't let men rule your life, mind and heart. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 06:24 PM |
| 53 | Why do men want to play devil's advocate? An investigationCrist this is both terrifying and depressing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/21 10:23 PM |
| 12 | The real reason your ex left and came back months laterCan I get a hallelujah! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/21 01:27 AM |
| 3 | Came for the egg salad recipe, stayed for pickme intervention, left disappointedThis was weird but I kinda love it. Good luck finding a good egg salad recipe. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/21 11:17 PM |
| 49 | No wonder I saw few/if any women and children rushing to the outgoing planes to leave Afghanistan. Apparently, the military was letting men/allies through but refusing to let their families come through the airport gates.Can someone please explain to me why the government was stopping woman and children from passing through the airport gates? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/21 10:56 PM |
| 19 | Skip the date rape and just move in. These scrotes actually believe porn can be reality while they capitalize on sky high rent prices and openly take advantage of naive young women. He's even gleefully admitting to not having thought the situation through. Wow.Woot woot just got my first suicide watch alert from Reddit. Stay mad Scrotes. 🥂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 11:33 AM |
| 10 | Skip the date rape and just move in. These scrotes actually believe porn can be reality while they capitalize on sky high rent prices and openly take advantage of naive young women. He's even gleefully admitting to not having thought the situation through. Wow.I would have if I hadn't found it off site. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 11:32 AM |
| 33 | Skip the date rape and just move in. These scrotes actually believe porn can be reality while they capitalize on sky high rent prices and openly take advantage of naive young women. He's even gleefully admitting to not having thought the situation through. Wow."I'm an alpha" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 11:09 AM |
| 12 | Skip the date rape and just move in. These scrotes actually believe porn can be reality while they capitalize on sky high rent prices and openly take advantage of naive young women. He's even gleefully admitting to not having thought the situation through. Wow.The double D's - Dependency and Desperation. If she's willing to take him up on his offer she's in a tight spot and that makes her easier to manipulate and lock down. Sick f***. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 10:53 AM |
| 49 | Skip the date rape and just move in. These scrotes actually believe porn can be reality while they capitalize on sky high rent prices and openly take advantage of naive young women. He's even gleefully admitting to not having thought the situation through. Wow.Omg brilliant. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 10:50 AM |
| 109 | Skip the date rape and just move in. These scrotes actually believe porn can be reality while they capitalize on sky high rent prices and openly take advantage of naive young women. He's even gleefully admitting to not having thought the situation through. Wow.At least he's clear from the go what a sad little man he is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 02:12 AM |
| 117 | Skip the date rape and just move in. These scrotes actually believe porn can be reality while they capitalize on sky high rent prices and openly take advantage of naive young women. He's even gleefully admitting to not having thought the situation through. Wow.Oof Hadn't quite gotten there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 02:10 AM |
| 6 | The “Menstrual Cycle of Abuse” 😂😂😂Holy shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 02:13 AM |
| 7 | Mini rant about needing to let strange men into my placeThank you for your vote of confidence. I feel a good marketing strategy is also the key. I'm still only an apprentice, by the end it will have taken my 7 years to become a jouneyperaon, but I'm thinking long term. This is in no small part bc of FDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/21 10:32 AM |
| 21 | Mini rant about needing to let strange men into my placeI'm an electrician in Canada and I've been considering opening a residential electrical business that provides 100% woman only workers upon request. It's a tough sell (men hate to give over space to competant woman) but the more I think about it the more I believe it would be a win both personally and professionally. Woman need to feel comfortable and safe in their own homes and let's be honest men suck. Even when they know what they are doing they suck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/21 02:07 AM |
| 20 | Is the transitioning stage always this hard?Wow, you're an inspiration. Queen energy all day long. 🙌 Thank you for sharing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/21 05:10 PM |
| 10 | FDS's stance on dating outside of your social classI feel like it would be more difficult for a trades person to get away with not showering vs someone that works in an office or at home. That being said lots of men go waaaay too long between showering and I won't even start on their lack focus for particular areas. Gross. Industrial electrician here; roofers and dry-wallers are the bottom of the barrel and this is wholy agreed upon by all other trades. If I'm high enough to hurt myself if I fall off I'm strapped up and harnessed to the tits (pu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/21 10:21 PM |
| 93 | You weren’t cheated on, HE IS A CHEATERLove this and so proud. Keep facing that spotlight on the scrotes Queens! I'm sorry to hear about your friend and hope she moves on with dignity and poise. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/21 01:06 AM |
| 8 | A Case for "Vanilla" SexI'm getting hot just reading that list. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/21 01:18 PM |
| 1 | Scrote hollered at me and random women today "I can be your sugar daddy I found a quarter""Keep your life savings scrote. I wouldn't touch your STI infected coinage to buy the rope to hang myself with if I ever even considered your offer." Joke my patootie. How lame. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 01:49 PM |
| 4 | Passive communication; She was raped vs He raped her. Which do you hear more often? Why?That sounds like a cop out. Can you imagine the men in charge of media coverage leaving out the name of the woman who raped Prince Charles? Nah. Whenever a woman commits a news worthy crime there is clarification in order to exonerate men and vilify woman. It needs to be noted when its NOT a man whereas crimes committed by men simply happen. It's so common it doesn't even need to be pointed out but media companies still try to keep it on the down low by simply stating that it happened. Try to pi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 01:40 PM |
| 11 | Passive communication; She was raped vs He raped her. Which do you hear more often? Why?I'm so sorry you have had to endure two abuses, that being your co-workers physical assault and your husband's repeated shameful disrespect. You don't deserve to be treated so poorly. No woman does. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 03:12 AM |
| 10 | Passive communication; She was raped vs He raped her. Which do you hear more often? Why?Thank you for clarifying. Unfortunately everything you say is at best something I've heard done to woman and at worst something I have personally endured. I'm willing to bet most every woman has had to deal with men intimidating them and hurting them to force their silence or to punish them for speaking out. It's enough to drive one mad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 11:37 PM |
| 22 | Passive communication; She was raped vs He raped her. Which do you hear more often? Why?I completely agree and love the example of the possible tree having committed the rape. Really people? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 10:02 PM |
| 6 | Passive communication; She was raped vs He raped her. Which do you hear more often? Why?Could you please explain what you mean by managing the shitfits? I'm having trouble understanding. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 09:59 PM |
| 47 | Passive communication; She was raped vs He raped her. Which do you hear more often? Why?Very good point. It's a mens issue and woman are the victims. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 09:49 PM |
| 14 | Always, ALWAYS check his phoneI'm so sorry. Words are not enough but you will get through this. You are diamond pure and beautiful and you will weather this shock. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 01:54 AM |
| 4 | 10 Top Reasons why FDS is toxicI see what you did there... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 02:07 AM |
| 9 | Great book to spot ScrotesFREE ON KINDLE UNLIMITED | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 04:08 PM |
| 71 | To counteract liberal feminists and beta males trying to manipulate us into thinking "dad bod" is the hottest male form, we will be instituting one day a week to post photos of actual hotties! Let us know what we should call it!I'm so excited about this. Trying to keep a straight face | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 09:28 PM |
| 4 | Weird Red Flags?Uhg I second your point 3 from personal experience. My ex situationship ONLY messaged on Whatsapp bc he liked the extra security (?). It weirded me out honestly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 08:59 PM |
| 14 | Brother’s school has a bizarre prom ruleThat's some sick shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 12:50 PM |
| 9 | Is the Hitachi Magic Wand worth it?I vehemently second this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 02:16 AM |
| 45 | Reminder: FDS is about a specific way to date. It's not for everybody. Totally cool if this is not your cup of tea, just move on. We are not going to change our beliefs to accommodate misogyny.I LOVE that it got harsher as the list went on. Keep up the incredible work mods. This haven would sink without you and your truth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 07:30 PM |
| 10 | What should a women do in their 20s to avoid regrets in their 30s and 40s?FOCUS ON YOU. Forget others opinions and expectations. Forget men and marriage and children. Forget rushing and cutting corners to be who you think people expect you to be sooner than you're ready. Take the time to figure out what makes you happy, what you want to do with your life and line those ducks up sis. Work for it, pamper yourself and cultivate good meaningful relationships with the woman in your life. And always breath, consider your choices and trust your gut. All the best darling. ❤ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 12:52 AM |
| 9 | Ditch the LVM and get the Doctorate: A Cautionary Tale.Go Queen!! Congrats on both fronts. That is incredible news. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 08:47 PM |
| 3 | Which part don't they get?I would upvote this to the moon and back if I could. You knew the risks and chose to take that chance anyway. F*ckhead. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 11:48 PM |
| 8 | Week 2 of dating myself. I'm the best partner I've ever had because I always buy my favoriteYou deserve to be treated exceptionally. Good for you! Also, put ice in the water for tulips. It keeps them up so stiff every porn sick scrote with ED trolling through here will get green enough to conceivably lie about having a green thumb. 😋 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 09:23 PM |
| 19 | Pleasantly surprised by this guy in my DMs sharing a useful tip: men in homeless shelters are using online dating to find women to mooch off of, often after getting kicked out for abusing/cheating on another womanI screen shotted this just to keep a physical reminder that there are some men (a tiny percentage but a quantitative number all the same) that are real HVM. Given the staggering number of low lives out there it is easy to believe they are all out to use and abuse us. Thank you for posting this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/21 11:41 AM |
| 74 | The uncomfortable look insideSounds like you really have your head on straight. You must be so proud of how far you've come. Keep up the good work. You got this girl! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/21 04:20 AM |
| 7 | MENTAL CLARITY ACHIEVED. THE BIG FOG HAS BEEN LIFTED! Also I have an idea for you to try — If you haven’t already!I totally second this method. I've been cutting men out for a while now and it's only gotten better for me. I work in the trades so 100% no male contact is impossible for me but outside professional acquaintances I've been weeding out loser guys that don't give a rats ass about me. In other words not truly friends. Good for you OP turning your life around like that. You must be so proud of yourself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 11:17 PM |
| 17 | Be weary of men who intimidate you into not voicing your concerns in the relationship.I have had a quote saved on my phone for years, "Anytime there's questions you can't ask, someone is trying to control you." I don't know where its from or by whom but I keep it to remind me to always be on my guard. Noone will look out for you but yourself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 11:13 AM |
| 63 | Do women have bad taste in men, or are men just terrible people?Rape and abuse. You're missing out on being raped and/or abused. Don't you feel silly for not giving these guys a chance!? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 12:38 AM |
| 28 | While viewing porn, man sees his wife’s photo - decide he’s been cheated on 🙄The irony. HA! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 03:12 AM |
| 26 | Field ReportLoving the energy! Thank you for a peek at your strategy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 12:32 AM |
| 27 | I bought my 7 yo daughter chocolates and flowers, so no dusty ass will impress her with cheap stuff on vd.This is freaking brilliant. You are doing your daughter such a favor. Great job mama queen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 09:57 PM |
| 35 | What’s the most important thing you’ve learned since discovering FDS?Put me first. Always. No excuses, no wasted breath. If you are impacting my existence in a negative way bye bye. No speeches just gone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 08:32 PM |
| 2 | In honor of Valentine's Day, I have deleted every trace of my exI did the same thing a while ago and it was good. Cathartic. You find it, you see it, you delete it. Breathe and move on. You got this sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 08:23 PM |
| 75 | A Valentine's Day Tale.Stay up at night growing more and more frustrated and bitter OR dump his unappreciative, extra low effort saggy ass? Hmmm I got up this valentines morning made myself a coffee, gonna buy a really cute painting for myself and paint my living room the color I LOVE bc I'm redecorating. No arguing, no working around a smelly pile of man child, no needing to work around anyone but myself. It's glorious and with or without a man I hope you find your happiness. I wish you a happy valentines day OP (pou… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 02:37 PM |
| 3 | Divorce papers came in the mail yesterday!Congrats lovely lady! Keep doing you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 11:06 PM |
| 2 | Thank you FDS! You helped me make my first great decision on not moving ahead with a LVMGood on you! Keep up the vetting and stay safe and leveled up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 07:09 PM |
| 26 | 2 Fantastic articles dispelling the myths of family Court being biased against fathersOmg this is crazy. I mean it isn't crazy bc it's fact. Its statistics. Its true. Its my poisoned perception and lack of knowledge that led me to feed into the whole, courts bend for mothers. My gut always told me it wasn't true but having the numbers clears it up and makes it easier to point out. Thank you so much for this informative post. I really appreciate the reality check and will save this for the next man that waxes poetic about fathers getting the shitty end of the stick in court. Calli… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 07:04 PM |
| 10 | COSMO wants y’all to know that Armie Hammer’s Cannibalism Fetish isn’t the problem here and people are “distorting” it. Because nothing screams “safe and sane” like Cannibalism Play.Its not something people inside the BDSM world are very good at either. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 06:28 PM |
| 3 | RED FLAGS DONT LIE. Also: Research your suitors!Thanks for the info and vetting reminder. Keep up the wonderfully helpful work. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 09:25 PM |
| 9 | The words we use: Is he a male or a man? Is she a female or a woman?I completely agree! I'm seeing it everywhere and it rubs me the wrong way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 02:22 AM |
| 29 | Y’all ever see something so true it lowkey makes you wanna cry because everything seems so hopeless?Oof. I am both infuriated and heartbroken. I find I am often both of these emotions at the same time all too often. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 08:48 PM |
| 8 | Online Dating Field Report: TLDR; no, don’t botherThank you for reaffirming my decision to spend my time and energy on myself. Every once in a while I think maybe I'll get back on the horse... yaaa no. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 12:52 AM |
| 22 | Laughing so hard right now at all the ridiculous conspiracy theories being spread about FDS 😂GO FDS!! We have the power ladies and we have them quaking in their swamp water boots. Keep leveling up and forcing them to either meet us at the top or shout crybaby slurs. Boo hoo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 11:42 PM |
| 6 | The logic of dating: double standards of "satisfying needs". Watching porn.I can't love this more. You are brilliant! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 09:27 PM |
| 8 | I can't believe you women expect, nay, DEMAND to be treated with respectMany welcomes!! Its always so good to find another wonderful woman with a good head on her shoulders. Its too bad your friend hasn't seen the light yet but thats not your problem. She will get there when she's ready. Thanks for your kind words. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 10:28 PM |
| 2 | Don't forget to head over to r/askFDS and help a fellow FDS lady today!I'd like to comment on AskFDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/21 04:10 AM |
| 22 | I broke up with my boyfriend todayGirl you got this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 07:10 PM |
| 18 | Relationship Ambiguity Is The New Backlash, and It's Dangerous and Effective Because of Its SubtletyWow, this was quite eye opening. Thank you for putting words to the trepidation I feel towards dating and men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 07:52 PM |
| 3 | I want to share something with you guys.....I've needed to hear this for a while. Thank you for the reminder and the hope. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 11:41 PM |
| 21 | What’s the worst gift you’ve been given by a LVM? Here’s mine. Story in comments.My LV ex told me he used to write in a journal and was considering getting back into the habit as it helped keep his mind sorted and clearer. That Christmas I spent over an hour and a fair bit of money picking out a beautiful leather bound journal, fountain pen and then writting on the last page a thoughtful inscription. I didnt mean too let slip I'd gotten him a gift and that I was planning to give it to him when next we got together. Lucky for him I did?? bc he had looked panicked and said gre… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 02:03 AM |
| 53 | Daily Reminder: A man’s sexual attraction to you means nothing.Dont forget about pies, dolls and fruit. Uhg, gross. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 01:48 AM |
| 3 | How to raise a hvm....OMG yes! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 03:34 AM |
| 7 | "You're going to die alone if you continue with this feminist crap/dont lower your standards/dont find a man to take care of you/etc." Would anyone ever ask a slave if they would rather die in the company of their masters or alone and free? I'll take my own wonderful company for $500 Alex.A baseless one no less. Geez... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 09:48 PM |
| 4 | "You're going to die alone if you continue with this feminist crap/dont lower your standards/dont find a man to take care of you/etc." Would anyone ever ask a slave if they would rather die in the company of their masters or alone and free? I'll take my own wonderful company for $500 Alex.What a wonderful response to a terrible mentality. Peace and contentment is a wonderful goal to have in ones final years. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 09:47 PM |
| 23 | "You're going to die alone if you continue with this feminist crap/dont lower your standards/dont find a man to take care of you/etc." Would anyone ever ask a slave if they would rather die in the company of their masters or alone and free? I'll take my own wonderful company for $500 Alex.Bwahahahaha "Meet me in the ditch for a coffee and we'll go Dutch." Nah I'm good. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 05:19 PM |
| 23 | "You're going to die alone if you continue with this feminist crap/dont lower your standards/dont find a man to take care of you/etc." Would anyone ever ask a slave if they would rather die in the company of their masters or alone and free? I'll take my own wonderful company for $500 Alex.And what happens when he gets bored? Transforms into a violent abusive dumpster fire of a human? Decides you arent good enough? Too many very real, very plausible scenarios to risk just to have a man control our lives. I wont make that mistake again either. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 05:12 PM |
| 23 | "You're going to die alone if you continue with this feminist crap/dont lower your standards/dont find a man to take care of you/etc." Would anyone ever ask a slave if they would rather die in the company of their masters or alone and free? I'll take my own wonderful company for $500 Alex.The trusth is too easy for most men. They have to complicate and fudge up every thought so they can come out ahead. What a waste of precious oxygen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 05:09 PM |
| 2 | UPDATE: Leaving LV husband of 3 yearsSo proud of you! You are taking the steps to become to best you. All my love. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 02:21 PM |
| 4 | I accept.Amen sister! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/20 08:38 PM |
| 3 | “If he wanted to, he would”... what matters is he didn’t! Who cares! Keep doing you!!Thanks I needed to see this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/20 10:28 PM |
| 28 | I kinda missed my ex, so I decided to redirect the energy into something that will appreciate my effortsI'll be honest, my first thought was devil's dick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 12:20 AM |
| 9 | Which one of you ladies did this? 😂I do not know you but I am so proud of you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 10:39 PM |
| 2 | I deserve, at the very least, to feel at peace in my relationship.Yes you do deserve more. Keep your head high, get your nails done and your hair cut. You got this sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 04:09 AM |
| 12 | Life will test you the minute you decide to be a HVW.I'm am lovin' this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 02:55 AM |
| 6 | How I teach men not to talk over me: from one queen to another, when basic respect is lagging and conversations are impossibleWomans life lessons for the win!? I cant tell if I should be happy about this or not... Despite the sad realization thank you so much for this useful little tidbit. I will put this to the test and think of FDS when I do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 02:59 PM |
| 30 | Just letting y’all know that they finally added the emoji to respond with to unsolicited pictures of body parts 🤏🤏🤏It doesnt show on my phone... :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 12:44 AM |
| 31 | If liberal feminism was a comment. They are so close to realising it but they just don't want toThis is disturbingly accurate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 04:34 PM |
| 17 | LIARS CLUB: Isn’t it incredible how easy they lie? It’s literally like breathing- thank you to the sis at the car dealership who worked with me to catch a CHEATERWow. You're incredible and slick catching that asshat. Good for you and stay strong! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 03:11 PM |
| 5 | Assume Every Man You Meet is a NarcissistI am living for this post. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 01:39 AM |
| 6 | Thinking about a person you know isn't worth your time? Here are some great distractions:Thank you for helping me kick my own ass in gear. Jebus... will it ever end? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 02:23 PM |
| 5 | LVM bamboozled me into a shit date where i starved and froze to deathIt takes practice. You'll get there sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 02:14 AM |
| 4 | Boy bye.Done. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 01:41 AM |
| 7 | Some texts from my husband. After receiving this morning's texts, I just wanted to show that there ARE men who love to build their partner up! 8 years together, and he still goes out of his way to make me feel adored. It may seem hopeless, but HVM do exist!So cute! Where did you guys meet? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 06:11 PM |
| 3 | Deleted a text tonightWay to go girl! Keep putting your well being first. So proud of you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 02:35 PM |
| 30 | The notion that attractive women only go for 'chads' in their 20's and settle for ambitious 'beta's' when they hit the wall is a lie. It puts the blame of bad male behavior on women and also doubles as a narrative where single women are punished for not choosing LVM (the narrators) in the 1st place.I would not be in as good a place without my daily dose of FDS. I come here for a reality check, support, encouragement and of course some giggles. I'll be the first to admit that I still need that reminder to not slip back in my pickme ways. Thank you to all the ladies killin it every day with every decision to be better than the day before. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 02:31 PM |
| 12 | 😂I love this so much. I read it out to my mom and she laughed. I think I nailed the voice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 10:42 PM |
| 5 | "Where can you lead me? Not up."I got such a kick out of this. Thanks for the giggle. What a doofus. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 03:21 PM |
| 12 | The look on his face was worth every pennySweet sweet justice. Living your best life, being happy is the best revenge. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 03:13 PM |
| 7 | When men think your options will dwindle without their golden penisI lol'd hard at this one. Thanks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 08:20 PM |
| 2 | Is he playing with me?Follow your gut. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 12:05 PM |
| 28 | I have no words.I've seen these agreements before. I skirted the edges of kinkmeisha and had a couple give me one of these to look over. I didnt feel agood about the whole thing and never saw them again but it's pretty straight forward bs. Doesnt do a thing but give the woman a false sense of security. Very skeevy shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 01:26 PM |
| 59 | How do you think your life would have changed if knew & believed FDS in middle school?I try not to think about that. It hurts too much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 02:10 AM |
| 18 | We need a movement on respecting women. God is a woman, we bring literal life through us. We can read emotions and cater specific needs to soothe someone. We're magical.Can I get a hallelujah! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 02:06 AM |
| 6 | The woman that was kicked out of Paradise and snuck back inWHAT?! Do you have any idea how many times men have told me that women should thank the male gender for their existence since Adam gave up his ribs to create woman?? Uhg. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 01:58 AM |
| 6 | Feel like a hypocrite sometimes ...Yes 100%. I sacrificed 11 years of my life, my youth! to a toxic piece of garbage. NegVM as in he took everything from me rather than just leaving it at the baseline. I see, read and listen to woman going through similar abuses and all I ever say to them is it will never get better, dont waste any more of your life. I want to explain to them, encourage them, warn them but as I lived through it I know it wont do anything but scare them away from me. They need to come to it in their own time. It's… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 01:38 AM |
| 4 | How to react to abusive behaviourGreat tips thank you for posting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 01:21 AM |
| 12 | Revisiting "How to let a man know a date he suggested is inappropriate": A DiscussionLove that job interview angle. Gonna use it next time it comes up. Thanks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 08:48 PM |
| 5 | How do you deal with shame of being a pick me in the pastSelf compassion. If you can be understanding about your past, honest and patient you will make it. You will find things in your life that you realise make you happy, show your strengths and wisdom and allow you to shine. You will keep leveling up little by little, therapy perhaps or private self improvement along with hobbies. One day you will realise you've been offered a chance to disrespect yourself like you would have before and without thinking you chose you. You will smile and walk away wi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 08:28 PM |
| 6 | It's time to decenter men in your life, period.Boom goes the truth bomb. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 04:29 PM |
| 11 | Sometimes I feel like I don’t fit the standards we hold men to here.Your are incredibly strong and a GOOD mother full of love and support. You get up everyday and level up, even if its just a little. Keep going keep going keep going. You got this sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 07:31 PM |
| 10 | Vetting strategy: How to read between the lines, use power of deduction to read motivations/possibilities and how to make educated guesses.Love this! Thanks for the advice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 03:26 PM |
| 7 | Ladies, please talk some sense into meYou made the right decision and are improving, growing everyday. Stay strong sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 03:22 PM |
| 51 | “I wAS GoInG tHrOuGh SoMe StUfF PeRsOnAlLy”Classy and firm. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 02:46 AM |
| 3 | Need some advice on the next step with a male friend.Im glad you dodged that bullet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 02:22 PM |
| 3 | Need some advice on the next step with a male friend.True. I only took his word for it but it doesnt change anything in the long run as I'm not interested. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 02:20 PM |
| 8 | Need some advice on the next step with a male friend.That's a damn good idea. I dont know where I'll find the finesse but it will be done. Thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 01:21 AM |
| 9 | Need some advice on the next step with a male friend.Thanks to lots of self reflection and therapy I can honestly say that I stay in contact with him bc I feel being social is important to me. I tend to fall into my personal bubble and lose focus. Thank you for reminding me I need to keep my head on straight and the men in my life where they belong. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 10:38 PM |
| 10 | Guy trying to ‘change’ date plansKonichiwa from Canada. Damn fine sifting through his BS. Keep those standards high sis! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 05:34 PM |
| 14 | Widespread, traumatic gender-based violence is so much more common than we thinkScreen shotted. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 02:16 AM |
| 3 | Remember!Ex-husband... is that you?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 02:09 AM |
| 94 | "Friends with Benefits" will NEVER turn into "something more"This may be my past but it still stings. Time heals all wounds, even the self inflicted ones, but it hasnt been long enough yet. I'm getting there and thank you for the reminder. Stay strong ladies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 04:11 PM |
| 2 | Know your worth. Don’t waste your time.Ouch that hit me in my truth spot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 02:19 AM |
| 7 | It isn't feminist to pay on dates, it is patriarchalHoly crap this really wraps it up and ties a bow on it. Thank you. Thank you so freaking much I'm screen shotting this and keeping it forever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 02:16 AM |
| 14 | Is it just me or are there barely attractive men out there?For about 11 seconds I thought I was reading a reply on a reg sub and got so damn excited! Your words are on the nose and would be downvoted into oblivion. Such a damn shame. Great response though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 04:58 AM |
| 47 | What, too many standards?I got hit with man child ban too. It doesn't make you any less right. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 04:30 PM |
| 7 | Has anyone ever met a pickmeisha that's disguised as an HVW?You sure talked yourself into recognizing the truth of your words. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 12:12 AM |
| 13 | You don't have to waste your time in meaningless or unhealthy short-term relationshipsAbsolutely agree! I'm on a dating hiatus until something jumps out at me. I'm not actively seeking it out bc I have a million other things I could be putting all that time, effort and energy towards. Namely getting myself to a better place psychologically. Men are not entitled to our time and bodies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 05:01 PM |
| 23 | This sub is going to get banned soon. It’s time to leave Reddit ladies.If they bad FDS I'm going to dump Reddit and download twitter just for FDS bomb as tweets. Keep it alive ladies! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 11:40 PM |
| 10 | Update: confronting cheating fianceYou go girl! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 02:23 AM |
| 7 | I gained weight, he checked out, I blocked his ass. Listen up, ladies!Oof girl it sounds like you did it all by the book and broke even if not got out ahead. I wish you a speedy recover and good fortune. What a tool... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/20 02:24 PM |
| 4 | I've COMPILED the whole HANDBOOK within one single file for a easier read for all you Queens ❤Holy crap this is incredible. Thank you for taking the enormous time and effort to compile this into a lovely and easy to read format. You're the best! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/20 02:05 PM |
| 3 | Guys would use my tip to make their dinner cheaperEwww | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 09:59 PM |
| 2 | What's the most egregious behavior you've tolerated before finding FDS?Omg yes. I didnt realise how bad his porn addiction was until I read about its effects on here and got some perspective. In hindsight it was already giving him ED on occasion but I didnt realise it was the porn bc he would push through it and I didnt question it. Uhg. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 02:34 PM |
| 24 | What's the most egregious behavior you've tolerated before finding FDS?Nah he was just expecting a different outcome. He became angry that he wasnt getting his much anticipated threesome. I wish I could have been as angry and justified then as I was the next free months but I was heartbroken and embarrassed I'd fallen so far. When I see him again, bc he always comes crawling back, he wont get a word from me bc he doesnt deserve even the sound of me dismissing him. The door will close on him and that chapter of my life. Good riddance. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 09:06 PM |
| 35 | What's the most egregious behavior you've tolerated before finding FDS?I had been seeing my lvm on and off for a year and a half and we had been on again for almost two months when one day he messaged me and asked if I wanted to have a threesome with this girl that came to check out one of his rooms for rent. The first blow was asking if I wanted to have a threeaome with a strange woman, I already told him repeatedly that I would not, the second was that he called her kitten which was his nickname for me. I thought he was kidding but it was still a stupid thing to … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 07:22 PM |
| 5 | The AUDACITY men have, it's relentlessOld AND wrinkly ass. Eww | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 02:56 AM |
| 13 | FactsssOuch. Why you gotta hit that hard? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 02:39 AM |
| 12 | Don't Forget - It's Okay. You Learned.I needed this. Thanks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/20 09:29 PM |
| 3 | The nonsense men read to convince themselves they are high valueThis is heartbreaking to me bc a lasting, committed, fulfilling relationship is my hope and dream (anything less isnt worth my time and energy). If a man manages to find it and then walks away thinking it'll make him more of a man, more attractive, more powerful then I consider him a failure and a disgrace. What a waste of molecules. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/20 12:02 AM |
| 7 | Leaving LVM tipsThis exactly. I went to a womans shelter when I left my abusive ex and they helped me get a lawyer, social services, kept me and my child safe with shelter and food, gave me constant support, contacted my child's school, arranged safe travel for me and my child, got me therapy. All this happened within 2 weeks of me contacting them. When my ex got wind of my leaving the day before I told them I would be leaving him in secret he took my one child and used him as a bargaining chip. They convinced … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/20 02:22 AM |
| 26 | Proof that FDS works , husband cheats wife with younger woman abandons her during her pregnancy , wife goes full FDS instead of cOmuNIcaTE and cOUnseLIng ,demands all and half of his paycheck , scrote regrets comes back begging .I admire her strength and persistence. It can be hard to turn away from the life you built and start new but she seems to have done that and more. Good on her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/20 11:55 PM |
| 17 | Looks like I hurt an AITA mods feefees making a very honest yet sassy comment about a woman whose husband, rather than using his incredible powers of perception, would constantly pester her with stupid obvious questions about housework and their child rather than help her around the house.Sure its harsh but let's be honest it's well deserved. Act like a child get called a child. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/20 11:19 PM |
| 9 | Looks like I hurt an AITA mods feefees making a very honest yet sassy comment about a woman whose husband, rather than using his incredible powers of perception, would constantly pester her with stupid obvious questions about housework and their child rather than help her around the house.You go girl. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/20 11:17 PM |
| 14 | Looks like I hurt an AITA mods feefees making a very honest yet sassy comment about a woman whose husband, rather than using his incredible powers of perception, would constantly pester her with stupid obvious questions about housework and their child rather than help her around the house.Omg I can't even. It's going to be so tough to ever live with another man. The expectations to actually pull their weight will be more then they can handle. Weeding out the MAN CHILD. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/20 11:17 PM |
| 16 | Looks like I hurt an AITA mods feefees making a very honest yet sassy comment about a woman whose husband, rather than using his incredible powers of perception, would constantly pester her with stupid obvious questions about housework and their child rather than help her around the house.Wtf? That is so broad how dense and narrow minded do you have to be to read into that and think 'manhater'? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/20 11:15 PM |
| 8 | Looks like I hurt an AITA mods feefees making a very honest yet sassy comment about a woman whose husband, rather than using his incredible powers of perception, would constantly pester her with stupid obvious questions about housework and their child rather than help her around the house.Hehe Dumpster fire sub. Love it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/20 11:14 PM |
| 54 | Looks like I hurt an AITA mods feefees making a very honest yet sassy comment about a woman whose husband, rather than using his incredible powers of perception, would constantly pester her with stupid obvious questions about housework and their child rather than help her around the house.I didnt think of that but maybe? Either way it felt off bc the comment was so offhand and there were and are so many more I would consider far more rude and aggresive than this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/20 07:24 PM |
| 2 | Tradeswoman DreamI'm in the trades and it always make me proud to see another woman take that leap. Good for you and best of luck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/20 07:22 PM |
| 3 | After he revealed he isn't actually a welder, he's saving for school.Holy crap this is exceptionally eloquent and I'm taking a screen shot of it as a reminder. Thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 01:27 AM |
| 2 | Dude tells me we shouldn’t waste each other’s time after I asked if his family is accepting of him dating outside of his race/religion??I applaud your strength and perseverance. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/20 04:36 PM |
| 3 | Just desserts 🧁🍨🍮Preach girl! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/20 09:16 PM |
| 5 | 6years with incredibly cheap but well-off bf who will never commit and resents paying for both of usRe-read what you wrote from a starngers perspective. You know the answer to your question. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 11:06 PM |
| 2 | Tip for those who use OLDOoooo Thanks for the hint. I'm going to add this to my profile. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 10:07 PM |
| 1 | Still working on asserting my worth and avoiding LVM but I have a feeling you ladies might relate to thisOof. Hit me in the feels why don't you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 08:17 PM |
| 4 | Don't settle for a guy who gives you worse back massages than the ones you give him.Wow. Truth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 02:04 AM |
| 7 | My friend is seeing a guy who keeps sanitary pads at his house for his female friends and she thinks this is a HVM traitThis was my first thought as well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 08:34 PM |
| 6 | My friend is seeing a guy who keeps sanitary pads at his house for his female friends and she thinks this is a HVM traitI dated a guy who asked the same thing of me. It was weird... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 08:34 PM |
| 20 | That should go really well.The bearded dude looks like disney tried to bring one of its character to life then gave up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/20 12:20 AM |
| 14 | I’ll just leave this here...👀🤫Give me sec I just threw up in my mouth a little. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/20 04:51 AM |
| 6 | The proof is in the pudding, ladies. Don't focus so much on HVM qualities that you miss what's actually important for a LTR/marriage. Here are some examples I've found in my last two relationships, please post yours as well!Thank you for this reminder. I wish it was easier to keep ones head in the game but if it was easy then we wouldnt need to keep an eye out for eachother. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/20 10:01 PM |
| 7 | Don’t let this be you, sis.Where was this two years ago?!? Fml | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/20 11:09 PM |
| 5 | Winner of the r/amitheasshole LVMsThank you. I guess I got so worked up I didnt notice it wasnt original. Oops. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/20 06:48 PM |
| 12 | Winner of the r/amitheasshole LVMsNTA OP I have lived this life and it didnt end well for me along with countless other woman I have spoken to and read about in the years since leaving my ex husband. You will never be equal in his eyes and it boils down to you being a woman and the caregiver. Job and money earner DOES NOT EQUAL more respect and more work. I bet you dont get smoke breaks, lunch breaks, sleep in days, meals with the friends to talk shop, suitable attire that is varied and changes yearly, upgrades to your environme… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/20 04:33 PM |
| 55 | Men remain in possession of the absolute audacityI am currently trying to shove my eyeballs back into their sockets. Girl I feel for you. Best of luck dealing with that trash fire of human being. Keep your standards high and your chin even higher. You got this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/20 01:38 PM |
| 9 | I used to think my boyfriend was HV but now I’m not so sure. I need to know if I’m being too harsh.What is he doing with all his money if he is not paying for groceries, car or rent? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/20 11:55 PM |
| 4 | How do yall feel about all the incels on r/amiugly?Start by reading through previous posts on FDS. My personal opinion on why incels are constantly trying to hurt and break the spirit of every woman in existence is bc they dont believe in any other way of interacting with woman. Key work being BELIEVE. They crawl out of the dung hole they squat in to try to bring woman down in order to make them more malleable to their whims and fantasies. After forcing a womans self esteem and reality into the pits of despair they move onto breaking the womans … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/20 02:21 PM |
| 17 | That's why we should test men first, beta men always seem nice at first...I couldnt even finish this. I'm sickened that this is commonplace and I cant stand reading this story over and over again. I've been working on myself bc I've been in her position, been the brunt of a terrible, insecure monster but not again. I will become the woman I know I can be and find the man that deserves me. We need to make these nightmares go away forever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/20 01:09 AM |
| 55 | Preach, babygirl!Good advice. Imma take that if you dont mind. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/20 08:08 PM |
| 11 | The four stages of falling in love with a LVM 🤣Honeymoon Why you no love? Resignation Crazy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 10:27 PM |
| 4 | Do Not Coddle MenOof. I'm going to have to sit on for a while and ruminate. Thank you for pointing this out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/20 03:36 PM |
| 17 | Another reason not to date older menOh man this is gold and I wish I could upvote the crap out of it. Thanks for sharing your mothers Pearl's of Wisdom. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/20 09:26 PM |
| 1 | Queens, you are never a man's incubator. NEVER!Single woman, mom of two. My Dr referred me for a tubal ligation no problem and it took some stink eyes to get the surgeon to stop asking if I was sure but there really wasnt any issues as far as being allowed to have the bodily modification I wanted. Happy as a pig in shit and haven't regretted it for a minute. ON, Canada Your Dr a man or woman? Will they budge at all? What is their policy on vasectomies? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 10:05 PM |
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