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good dude that will listen to you and give you solid advice
/r/askTRP10/11/20 01:46 PM
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That’s a lot to assume, don’t you think? I have this friend who low key doesn’t have a lot going for him in the whole “corporate ladder” world, isn’t overtly charismatic, etc. We’ve discussed complex interpersonal dynamics and he is one of the only people that understands them fully. He’s honestly a good friend too, while working a menial job. I see why his partners liked him so much. Maybe this guy while not having much with that stuff, provides understanding etc in a way most can’t.
/r/askTRP07/11/20 05:05 AM
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How
/r/askTRP17/10/20 08:01 AM
1

I used to be growth mindset oriented and think that I am deep down, after coming out of a relationship I just started to believe some people have it and some do not. I can’t help but wonder if maybe it was not hard work but genetics or luck or something.
/r/askTRP17/10/20 07:26 AM
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A lot of times girls will talk about their bfs etc to gauge your reaction. It’s best to just act like it was never said, and adjust accordingly. She prob has none, take her out Cub Scout
/r/askTRP11/10/20 06:28 AM
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I know checking him outside seems like a good idea and it might work out but you might want to talk to your manager and just be straight up. Tell them no matter what you do he comes and finds you no matter if you’re with a customer and it’s making the customers uncomfortable. Tell them you told him to stop. He already tattled on you so any confrontation outside may reflect poorly on you, this is under the assumption he is actually normal and doing this on purpose
/r/askTRP11/10/20 05:53 AM
0

For real wtf
/r/askTRP11/10/20 12:46 AM
1

Prob better than “I don’t feel like a priority”, then the guy goes missing
/r/askTRP04/10/20 01:51 PM
1

Ignore all this here; Here’s some questions: “I’m not sure what you mean when you say this” “Can you explain what you mean, I’m not sure I understand” A relationship is a two way street where people show up to get their needs met. See where that gets you first. Your problem is because you are going straight for affection. Talk to her first try to open her up and see what she has to say. When she’s done go “is that it?”.
/r/askTRP04/10/20 01:32 PM
1

Not gonna lie this the most interesting story I’ve read here. The truth is tho, if she was into you y’all probably would have sex when you tried the first 20 times. I’m so into you I need you you always go out with girls etc, but she never wants to have sex? You should have had sex with her when you had the chance if you wanted something more with her, don’t play stupid petty games I don’t think she’s being transparent and you know that. Be happy you have other girls you can call up so quickly. …
/r/askTRP04/10/20 01:05 PM
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Yeah for real don’t ever say or do that again, that’s dumb. The real best thing to do is just chill and stop escalating. You have to really not care about getting laid, just stop and wait to see how receptive she is. It’s ok to call it there and then chill with her again another time.
/r/askTRP04/10/20 12:52 PM
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I'm pretty close. Can I take you up on this offer? PM me
/r/askTRP04/10/20 09:27 AM
1

I got a legal question, mind if I pm you?
/r/askTRP03/10/20 08:43 AM
2

He’s kind of right tho besides his obvious rudeness. Sulking in the situation gets this guy nowhere and if he doesn’t decide to end it, then it’s all lost time. He’s gonna go this route anyway, might as well skip the bullshit and teetering and just go for it hard
/r/askTRP01/10/20 01:19 PM
14

Only if you explain what the fuck this means. This means zero insecurities zero self doubt, always self assured. Why don’t we all just hit our heads on rocks until we become retarded enough to become sociopaths
/r/askTRP01/10/20 01:13 PM
2

The part that through me for a loop is you feeling insecure and her calling you out on it 5 minutes later, hard to say it’s a coincidence but totally could be.
/r/askTRP29/09/20 02:21 PM
1

This just sounds weird as f. Prob shouldn’t be messing with this chick
/r/askTRP29/09/20 02:09 PM
6

You should prob not be super impulsive like that and still communicate but seek other options if you feel like things aren’t working out or you’re not viewed the way you want to be viewed or whatever you’re upset about
/r/askTRP24/09/20 08:04 AM
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I agree this was retarded
/r/askTRP22/09/20 01:09 PM
1

That’s not true. The person could just lack abundance.
/r/askTRP20/09/20 08:27 PM
3

This is just general dating advice. She's being cold etc, not having fun - just remain centered. You can't force someone to have fun, if shes having that bad of a time, i'm sure she'll leave. Its been 6 months and shes not pushing for commitment? not good. Also! dont ask her if she wants to get food, next time just tell her you're going out to grab food and she's welcome to come. Otherwise, she'll just go home. She could be bratty because she wants commitment, but it doesnt sound like she's push…
/r/askTRP19/09/20 06:15 AM
1

...isn’t that the response? Or the “right” thing to do is just disengage?
/r/askTRP18/09/20 10:59 PM
3

He’s right don’t ever really compromise what you want in life, you slowly start to die inside
/r/askTRP15/09/20 05:48 AM
1

I’m no expert on anything but I can’t believe you thought sending that text was a good idea
/r/askTRP12/09/20 04:46 AM
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If a girl keeps canceling our dates, does that mean she’s playing hard to get? Also, a girl made me dinner but it wasn’t my fav dish. We went on one date last week, should I just hard next?
/r/askTRP26/08/20 08:51 PM
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I lost it at probably doesn’t remember me and probably has fucked 100 guys. 😂. Reminds me of a girl I was seeing and I played an emo song at her house and she got wigged out. She prob was afraid I was gonna end up like you, except taking it a step further and like showing up at her house etc.. She also was just like the above^ ah. Memories
/r/askTRP23/08/20 08:47 AM
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You’re also kind of contradicting yourself. Her holding hands with this guy is a symptom of them fucking. You want your plates all to yourself, then they wouldn’t be ducking others.
/r/askTRP23/08/20 08:10 AM
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It’s not the right thing to do because he’s already in this dynamic, he should just scrap the situation altogether. You think he’s really gonna change the girls mind by trying to fuck her and pretend like he doesn’t give a shit about her? Your plates are doing right by you but they’re still talking to other guys.
/r/askTRP23/08/20 08:00 AM
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I see things differently. If you’re emotionally unattached enough just to plate and not let it bother you, then this is ideal. I’m sure he was under no illusions that this was his gf. She brought it up at one point or he did and it was official. Gfs exist, not every girl will step out. Women are varied and some like guys, will stay loyal. If he was spinning plates ya she prob would be more attached like glue but in no uncertain terms is this dude blocking anyone. This chick is his gf. It’s cool …
/r/askTRP23/08/20 07:46 AM
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My dude 🙌
/r/askTRP23/08/20 04:10 AM
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Don’t, she’s holding hands with someone disregard this comment
/r/askTRP23/08/20 01:10 AM
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Yo, check ur messages
/r/askTRP22/08/20 02:19 AM
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She’s prob great in bed, I know the type. There’s literally nothing you can do and even if she came back she’s gonna jerk you around. Your best bet is to move on, putting up with this shit isn’t good for you. These types of girls are awesome but don’t play if you can’t stay emotionally detached completely. Her bf is still prob fucking her even tho he knows you smashed her out.
/r/askTRP22/08/20 02:13 AM
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You’re not going to do that, you’re gonna check out his style see if you can understand the patterns
/r/askTRP20/08/20 01:48 AM
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Screenshot some of his texts to see what he’s doing and go from there
/r/askTRP20/08/20 01:27 AM
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Check your messages homie
/r/askTRP20/08/20 01:07 AM
21

Be my mentor
/r/askTRP19/08/20 03:18 AM
1

Real talk; the whole point is really just to try to develop boundaries. You gotta give up control reallyb
/r/askTRP10/08/20 11:58 PM
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You’re really not that blue if you’re fucking someone else’s chick
/r/askTRP08/08/20 05:35 AM
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Message me
/r/askTRP08/08/20 05:27 AM
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I mean you are getting it tho so you’re pretty far from blue
/r/askTRP08/08/20 04:49 AM
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theres a difference between being bald and nic'ing your hair
/r/askTRP08/08/20 02:44 AM
2

how the fuck do you guys know so much about frame with literally one article on the sidebar about frame.
/r/askTRP08/08/20 02:08 AM
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just ghost until she seems more keen, then set something up. Theres too much back and forth and everytime you do it, you get a non committal answer.
/r/askTRP07/08/20 07:13 PM
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It really is tho it’s gone full retarded someone has to do something
/r/askTRP27/07/20 05:59 AM
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For real, tread lightly
/r/askTRP26/07/20 12:41 AM
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Is that what you really believe tho, or is that what is being pushed from realizing the experience. An experience can make you feel a certain way, but doesn’t have to result in long term identity changing
/r/askTRP24/07/20 02:55 AM
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I’m not offended, I’m a person here is who offering advice, suggesting a person keeps an open mind and is able to entertain different possibilities concerning a professional that is human, and may not be 100% correct in their understanding or explanation. Are they probably a better source of info and treatment than me? Absolutely. Not everyone takes away a defining belief about themselves from an experience. You can have an experience without internalizing a negative message. The whole premise o…
/r/askTRP24/07/20 02:33 AM
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I’m not telling you to stop kid. And no it doesn’t, the whole premise of Emdr is for your brain to reprocess trauma. You still have an emotional reaction when thinking about a trauma, hence the need for processing and “storing” of this trauma. This is what I’m talking about, trauma from age 2? Lookup the phenomena on false memories.
/r/askTRP24/07/20 02:23 AM
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Like you can’t work on your issues and also aa in social settings Days after therapy? Sometimes it just seems like backwards rationalization is a bottomless pit of analyzing. Does it really work? Like where’s the literature to suggest this? Try neurofeedback for symptom reduction. The gut core of trp is self respect and maximizing your lifestyle through fitness career goals etc. if you’re pretending to be a millionaire to fuck some chick, we’ll, it’s just kind of stupid.
/r/askTRP24/07/20 01:19 AM
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Sometimes I wonder if these issues are manufactured by practitioners. Like, not out of malice but it’s their job to pry and examine everything. It seems like there’s no point in it at times. I would just suggest compartmentalizing therapy. You can delve but still you can’t aa?
/r/askTRP24/07/20 01:02 AM
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1-2x a day
/r/askTRP20/07/20 01:14 AM
1

I did it for 3-4 weeks and didn’t see any big results
/r/askTRP20/07/20 12:49 AM
1

Just keep asking them more questions about their opinions until they forget and keep doing that
/r/askTRP08/07/20 04:12 AM
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You’ll notice people here try to explain everything and a lot have different theories as to why or what caused a situation. Real talk is that’s insecurity to try to find a logical reason for everything. No one can know for sure about everything but a lot of these principles are self fulfilling because these people here think they have the answers and therefore act more confident
/r/askTRP07/07/20 08:14 PM
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It also depends, what’s disrespect, acting bitchy? Would you throw away 7 months of good behavior over one incident of her being a bitch?
/r/askTRP07/07/20 08:10 PM
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Damn I don’t blame you
/r/askTRP07/07/20 08:07 PM
1

...you live your life by quotes from fictional characters in movies?
/r/askTRP04/07/20 08:25 PM
1

You gotta be careful with this though, depending on your mindset and how you’re interpreting situations. I normally give the benefit of the doubt and then confirm- it’s like trust and verify, will also help you hone in your inclinations
/r/askTRP04/07/20 07:07 PM
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Let’s just not pretend like there’s no in between. I’d argue it’s more decent to talk to one person at each time and you still get a ton of partners if you want as a woman, you can always switch things up and drop someone to hook up with another, etc. Let me ask this question, at what point does fucking multiple people every other day you barely know become debauchery, and is not just “the culture”? Idk about you dude I look for certain qualities in an LTR and if she’s hoeing out hard and consta…
/r/askTRP04/07/20 04:28 PM
1

If you can’t go a week fucking one person only you have a problem
/r/askTRP04/07/20 05:08 AM
1

This sounds exactly like a girl I was tipping
/r/askTRP04/07/20 02:35 AM
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There’s a difference between being a virgin and having sex every other day with random people you barely know. Jesus Christ, I’m probably going to stop coming to this sub some of these answers and peoples mentalities surrounding them are seriously retarded.
/r/askTRP04/07/20 02:04 AM
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There is real shit people can do that is disrespectful so I don’t buy this
/r/askTRP03/07/20 09:00 PM
1

Can you further explain this
/r/askTRP03/07/20 05:34 PM
1

How do you develop this level of frame. Taming a crazy bitch sounds funn
/r/askTRP03/07/20 06:11 AM
1

This had me busting out laughing
/r/askTRP01/07/20 05:57 AM
2

Smoosh the Doritos on the wife beater
/r/askTRP28/06/20 12:35 AM
3

You cant, you’ll have to move on but have a clear and direct convo with your friend. This is a good life lesson, some times shit happens and you can’t fix it, you have to deal with the consequences. Good luck
/r/askTRP28/06/20 12:33 AM
2

I don’t know how this is gonna work out for you player but if you’re seeing her for six months and she hasn’t pushed for commitment and/or doesn’t want to, It doesn’t look good. Even if you told her that you weren’t looking for anything and you guys have been going on dates in fucking and she doesn’t push at all or doesn’t ask you where this is going, it’s not looking good. It’s an indicator you’re probably not gonna get what you want
/r/askTRP27/06/20 11:42 PM
5

What happens if you get “broken” from a person like this. What’s the path back?
/r/askTRP23/06/20 09:05 PM
1

10
/r/askTRP22/06/20 11:28 PM
4

It’s not; how many people are in open relationships, like 1-2% of the population? My suggestion leaves room for plausible deniability which basically leads to the same outcome.
/r/askTRP22/06/20 02:09 PM
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This dudes delusional. Everyone has 10 minutes to devote. Get her number then create a fake and message her. Then, move on with your life. You can still be on your goals and do this
/r/askTRP22/06/20 07:50 AM
3

I’d do it, then just deny it. Tell her to leave you alone or you’ll get a restraining order or some shit. Say you didn’t do it, who the fuck would trust him to not be bangin other hoes?
/r/askTRP22/06/20 07:46 AM
1

I’d likely do almost anything for your mentorship. Any imparting wisdom that results in lasting positive change would be greatly appreciated.
/r/askTRP17/06/20 03:58 PM
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Get checked for hsv1/2 and couple other outliers and reply back. You prob didn’t get away Scott free
/r/askTRP17/06/20 03:43 PM
6

I actually did this and it worked
/r/askTRP17/06/20 04:46 AM
1

damn
/r/askTRP14/06/20 09:31 AM
2

its like you can literally never take what they say at face value
/r/askTRP14/06/20 08:47 AM
1

Well yeah, I do know. Back then my mind was blown that she would be so vindictive after telling me she wasn't going to put in any effort. I also wouldnt think shed be so vindictive, you'd think she'd just let it go
/r/askTRP14/06/20 01:24 AM
1

I think the kid that had a girl quit because he wouldnt stop visting a store to see a girl was the worst.
/r/askTRP14/06/20 01:20 AM
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- In a store walking with a decently attractive girl I knew from high school after being driven there from a friend that was my ride, "I can take you home"- Me: Oh, I got a ride with xxx" - Cuddling with a friend from my first semester at college and didnt do anything because she had a bf and thought it meant she didnt want to have sex. I knew I fucked up when I came out of her dorm and all her flatmates gave me a weird look. - The time a girl instructed me on how to make a move on her. - One ti…
/r/askTRP14/06/20 01:13 AM
3

I saw this hoe, and I mean hoe, 4/5 times and she dipped for like a month of no contact. She hit me up saying she missed me and I tried to meet up and she gave me some big excuse. I got drunk and emoted super hard at like 3 in the morning like a little bitch about how I hope she finds what shes looking for and that I wasn't gonna ask her out again, shes disrespectful etc.. I sent her like 30 1-5 second voice imessage clips.
/r/askTRP14/06/20 12:56 AM
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Kept visiting the store a chick worked at to the point she ended up quitting cuz of me. deep cringe
/r/askTRP14/06/20 12:51 AM
0

This is true
/r/askTRP12/06/20 04:05 AM
1

How would he control it, how would he force her to listen?
/r/askTRP11/06/20 06:58 AM
2

Do this: ghost, then wait till she hits you up. Then, try to set something up definite. I’d wait a week, you might want to continuing ghosting if she texts you 2-3 days later.
/r/askTRP11/06/20 03:40 AM
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Who cares what he thinks dude, I keep numbers, I like it when they hit me up and if I’m not interested just to ghost.
/r/askTRP10/06/20 03:33 PM
1

Yep
/r/askTRP10/06/20 06:17 AM
1

Get used to it bucko, that’s what it’s like when you’re over invested. She ain’t reaching out and if anything it’ll be for validation. You need to make sure you don’t just ruminate, go and do shit
/r/askTRP10/06/20 05:53 AM
1

Lol mental abuse
/r/askTRP10/06/20 05:50 AM
2

I have the same problem
/r/askTRP09/06/20 09:40 PM
2

Respect, do you. I would have just slowly ghosted and not taken the bait. This way they really can’t talk shit and have an idea in their ego they can def get you back but I respect it all the same. 5 years is a long time
/r/askTRP09/06/20 09:11 PM
2

Lmfao ya
/r/askTRP09/06/20 04:33 AM
4

"but who else is gonna eat zebra cakes with you at 2 in the morning"
/r/askTRP09/06/20 02:50 AM
2

"already this is moving too fast for me"
/r/askTRP09/06/20 12:31 AM
1

Does this shit really work? Interesting.
/r/askTRP08/06/20 05:24 AM
1

If he's not overt, she'll just assume that it's for just meeting as friends which can be changed when they watch a movie at his house. Its no skin off his back just to go for coffee, then back to his place. What does he waste, an hour? You guys are saying hes a fucking orbiter loll. This girl def is at least in the middle, he'll ttry to hook up if it doesnt work, he just forgets about it.
/r/askTRP07/06/20 05:20 AM
-2

this sounds like schizophrenia to me, im never taking that shit. You feel like you're in the angelic realm?
/r/askTRP04/06/20 05:33 AM
1

lol pretty good
/r/askTRP03/06/20 07:17 PM
2

drop the fact that there's three life solutions for you. Also look into neurofeedback, its supposed to be revolutionary for ptsd
/r/askTRP02/06/20 02:45 AM
1

What are some of the ways y’all handle teasing from women? If it ever comes up I’ll just pretend like I didn’t hear it and still be doing whatever I was doing.
/r/askTRP02/06/20 12:12 AM
1

Hey man, got a question about my own situation. Would you mind reaching out to me when you got a minute, could use advice
/r/askTRP29/05/20 05:08 PM
1

Hey man, got a question about my own situation. Would you mind reaching out to me when you got a minute, could use advice
/r/askTRP29/05/20 05:04 PM
2

Why don’t you enlighten us then
/r/askTRP28/05/20 03:34 PM
10

Bk is lower class than McDonald’s, all vets know this. If you’re really trying to stand out, at the drive-through say reservation for two and your last name
/r/askTRP28/05/20 03:28 PM
-1

So boring
/r/askTRP28/05/20 03:27 PM
2

I understand, the truth is, the shit sucks you’ll just have to live with it. Try to get over it however you want
/r/askTRP28/05/20 03:27 AM
1

Hit me back with a DM', lets do this
/r/MarriedRedPill26/05/20 08:59 AM
2

The comment above mine is right and what I tried to illustrate with mine
/r/askTRP24/05/20 07:47 PM
4

just fuck her and if you dont like her, start telling her you love her and shell go away
/r/askTRP24/05/20 06:03 PM
2

Itll be obvious, like once I had two shots of coffee and was talking to a friend about some theory with confidence and saw the girl next to me clutching her power ac adapter cord hard and stroking it with her hand. When I stopped talking, she stopped.
/r/askTRP24/05/20 06:01 PM
-1

Fighting is for confidence. Women are still people. You almost sound like an incel, "I can beat everyone up, why am I not scoring", when I read that I was like this guy isnt serious. Have you tried talking to them, teasing them a lil? Youre like the dude who gets a motorcycle to look cool, not because he likes driving it.
/r/askTRP24/05/20 05:59 PM
2

"I like the attention"
/r/askTRP24/05/20 05:48 PM
2

dont ever say then someone else will, moves like that only make you look like you manipulative & retarded, thats what girls do when they try to qualify themselves to you. Also, dont pull back for a kiss, let her kiss you, dont try to low key punish her.
/r/askTRP24/05/20 03:24 PM
3

next time say you dont have instagram
/r/askTRP24/05/20 03:20 PM
1

paternity test, then pressure her to get an abortion if it's yours. Not in a way that's malicious or creepy,
/r/askTRP24/05/20 03:15 PM
3

“You should go out with him”
/r/askTRP24/05/20 04:08 AM
1

There’s really no hard fast rule here. I’ve made girls really wanna meet me because of texting, I also have texted close to just only logistics.
/r/askTRP24/05/20 04:01 AM
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I’m sorry, that’s just vullshit. I never cried or begged any woman at all. Some of us have common sense to know it’s counter intuitive in 99% of cases. Showing up unannounced is also problematic, it’s like if a person and you don’t willingly get together, showing up at their house is going to be positive? I’m not saying I haven’t said and done cringe bullshit but there’s a lot of us that have a certain level of self control and common sense to not make these mistakes.
/r/askTRP24/05/20 03:49 AM
1

and tea.. I like tea
/r/askTRP22/05/20 10:53 AM
6

how does reading the sidebar translate into respecting yourself and building confidence?
/r/askTRP17/05/20 12:46 AM
2

Bars are such a hodgepodge of people, how could you not fit in?
/r/askTRP15/05/20 12:30 PM
4

you put glue on your head?
/r/askTRP14/05/20 11:10 PM
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|She also told me he’s kinda fat and that I’m much better looking All I know is that this is not a good sign. She's feelin him my man, if shit hasn't gone down already. Not so much for the techniques here but why didnt you ask her why are you entertaining this. Just ask her, has it not crossed your mind to just say thats inappropriate, I have a bf?
/r/askTRP14/05/20 05:42 AM
2

xactly'
/r/askTRP14/05/20 02:47 AM
1

Women can feel superior for the stupidest reasons many of which you can’t control. This is true, it's in your best interest to not care if she feels superior. What do you think the behavior of someone who spends time with another would be if they didnt want the individual appear/feel to be superior in relation to you - i.e. If your cousin is autistic and feels like he's more talented than kayne, would you consistently feel like it's appropriate to let him know you're better than him? No, prob no…
/r/askTRP14/05/20 02:45 AM
1

Weird that it bothers you so much. Probably doesn't bother him, he's prob just looking ffor the response that's going to elicit the kind of outcome he's looking for. It seems like it bothers her, as you've stated above ^^^. Also, broseph, it doesn't matter. Whatever you do don't respond "ill fuck you like my slave".
/r/askTRP14/05/20 02:40 AM
7

true love
/r/askTRP12/05/20 10:43 PM
1

These are all lame, "What else do you like about me" will do just fine
/r/askTRP12/05/20 04:07 AM
8

I told her - "Look, I'm alpha they are all beta. I'm on gear given a user on reddits recommendation to stick myself with 800 mg a week. Now I can never go off it, but seriously, not using gear is for betas anyway. I finally got around to reading meditations, NMMNG & models, but models was my least favorite because we know women crave dark triad personalities & pretend to like honesty. I lift 5 days a week, and I look around at every girl in the gym knowing they want me. I don't want you because …
/r/askTRP11/05/20 03:04 AM
5

These suck, truth is, it could really be anything. It could be from sex to you talking about the future on the date, etc... I wouldn't speculate because it doesn't matter. You'll have to move on given the scenario now. Just be careful because maybe a month and half goes by and she wants to see you again, dont fall into the same trap where you're thinking you got another shot, etc.. View her in the way she's showing up, someone to chill with casually every once and awhile. If you can't, then just…
/r/askTRP11/05/20 02:49 AM
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exactly; what was that one law, think what you want but behave like others. Don't share dissenting opinions overtly unless you're in the company of people you can trust.
/r/askTRP10/05/20 08:12 PM
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bro its stupid tho, if she hasnt lied to you and is in to you keep it on the same path and keep vetting. just be careful not to color the interaction when you press her, you already think shes lying and theres good chance she is but confirm first.
/r/askTRP09/05/20 12:36 AM
1

gotcha, id personally text - itll also ease ur mind and noone can gaslight you over it
/r/askTRP09/05/20 12:23 AM
1

well, its not a huge difference but, doing it now makes it seem more casual, like just conversation. Like if she ate, and sent you a pic of a club sandwich youd be like, "nice, whered you go". The next day asking in person 2-3 days later may raise suspicion. Doing it in person makes it seem like you may have been anticipating asking her. Text, she cant backtrack and be like, oh- "I said labcorp not quest" in the future, when you ask her in person.
/r/askTRP09/05/20 12:17 AM
1

I know, but dont do it in person, do it via text and soon. The sooner the better, phrase it like- oh you went by that place right by ur house, quest?
/r/askTRP09/05/20 12:13 AM
2

dont, be like "you go to quest right by ur house?" she'll tell you where she went, then you can check. Then you can make your decision.
/r/askTRP09/05/20 12:10 AM
1

do yourself a favor and check first. Ask her where she went, call and see if theyd do appointments that early.
/r/askTRP09/05/20 12:04 AM
1

what time is it saying? Bro, I'd confront her or emotionally disengage completely, one of the two.
/r/askTRP08/05/20 11:08 PM
1

How did you notice the pic was taken this morning?
/r/askTRP08/05/20 10:42 PM
4

you plan on staying single for life?
/r/askTRP08/05/20 09:30 PM
1

why are you downvoting this guy? ^^ He's right
/r/askTRP08/05/20 09:25 PM
4

Don't; I've read the sidebar and there's nothing that determines for certain whether a girl is trying to get you to orbit, versus trying to smash. It's pretty obvious this girl is interested, you'll test the waters by telling her to come over & "study". He's a rookie mistake for sure, but kid you gotta get out and meet/try to fuck/fuck more women.
/r/askTRP08/05/20 09:24 PM
3

so he's a slutty girl with a 1000 cock stare?
/r/askTRP07/05/20 05:38 PM
1

And because it is so important to protect the core belief, they will rationalize, ignore and even deny anything that doesn't fit in with the core belief. So, "Hamster" is the traditional response to cognitive dissonance, but before they even entertain the conflicting idea/new evidence?
/r/askTRP07/05/20 06:04 AM
2

lol damn
/r/askTRP06/05/20 08:20 AM
1

2 of my plates have ltr of their own ...jesus christ but what industry are you in that you plan on making 7 figures by 30?
/r/askTRP06/05/20 04:05 AM
1

no way jose'
/r/askTRP06/05/20 04:01 AM
1

relax with this one and be awesome. DO NOT BEG FOR HER RETURN. Do you think he'd be making a good decision to entertain her when/if she comes back? I imagine it's not as straightforward as saying yes/no but I'm of the notion if she dumped ya once it's prob not the best idea to "try again".
/r/askTRP05/05/20 03:46 AM
2

Idk, we are human. External validation affects everyone but psychopaths, so I really think we cant expect ourselves to be inhumane. I agree with the pills, I think they are good stepping stone but eventually, you'll have to deal with your mental state organically. This is for most people, I know there are people that prob need them for life.
/r/askTRP04/05/20 09:47 PM
1

Why do you think that is? I think you need to sit in a darkened room and really try to explore why you feel this way about yourself. Only when you truly undercover how you feel, you can take steps towards remediating it. I suggest getting a lifecoach and/or counselor to help you manage expectations. A lot of time, we put a lot of unnecessary pressure on ourselves & expect unrealistic things. If you think it's because of chemical imbalance or a physical state, then you need to take months and rea…
/r/askTRP04/05/20 09:43 PM
2

I gotta disagree, I think it’s blatant and he needs to get rid of this fucking chick. Repeated shit like this has a way of getting into someone’s head, esp by people they are close to.
/r/askTRP03/05/20 07:52 PM
1

Is it ever OK to tap a mentally unstable chick? Yes, id recommend it just dont call her again. Better rub one out than have some crazy bitch accuse me of something thanks, I guess haha. Most women and people are not stupid enough to make a fake rape allegation, also, you're assuming you'd be so great that she wouldnt leave you alone. You know how many thirsty dudes there are? Go experience it, then block her. Its fun
/r/askTRP30/04/20 06:32 AM
3

lol pre paid phone cmon man, this is too extreme
/r/askTRP30/04/20 06:30 AM
1

yo thank you can please start banning people by their comments
/r/askTRP30/04/20 06:18 AM
1

You're taking this shit too far and you sound like a retard. He is getting manipulated but its hard to deal with women with literally no manipulation. Anyone thats gonna be with this girl is going to get "cucked". The only extremely advantageous thing this guy can do is date other women at the same time and sex this girl not on priority, dont spend too much time around her.
/r/askTRP29/04/20 04:47 PM
1

No he doesnt; he acknowledges what this girl is and wants to keep fucking her because shes hot. Lets be real tho, they are so much fun and blow the average girl out of the water. Do you think extremely toxic psych emotional abuse could permanently damage someone.
/r/askTRP29/04/20 05:01 AM
1

Curious, what makes him more fragile because of his age, and also, what can she do to him in anyway shape or form that would be irreversible?
/r/askTRP29/04/20 03:39 AM
2

i went through something similar, except there was like an insane level of gaslighting and then she put a bunch of ideas about me in my head over and over. It has caused a lot of self doubt, i dont feel the same about myself now. Idk what to do to move forward, but, I will say I truly understand. You're lucky, I was probably was dealing with a psychopath, as it wasn't a standard trauma react thing from the girl, this girl was basically trying to make me kill myself.
/r/askTRP23/04/20 02:30 AM
2

how the f do you "fix your frame"
/r/askTRP23/04/20 02:24 AM
1

You’re saying you won’t care when people give you shit, or you’ll always be prepared to threaten them, and follow through with it?
/r/askTRP21/04/20 10:07 PM
1

ignore her
/r/askTRP21/04/20 06:59 AM
1

thats a terrific idea
/r/askTRP21/04/20 06:37 AM
12

maybe even beat his ass preemptively
/r/askTRP10/04/20 03:50 AM
1

jesus christ, id never be able to look at her the same
/r/askTRP08/04/20 11:52 PM
2

I think the best thing to do in these cases, is to gray rock these people. What I mean by that is... There’s no need to play games of power, if you could just be direct and straightforward. If he comes over cussing and stuff at you, “I’m trying to get my work done here, I’m not the one who made the call, so if you’re upset with it you have to take it up with them” In response to are you going to do it, “We all have to work for we have jobs, if you were upset with your Work, you’ll have to take i…
/r/askTRP08/04/20 04:29 PM
1

respect.
/r/askTRP08/04/20 04:00 AM
1

A & a
/r/askTRP08/04/20 03:10 AM
-2

185 bench is weak for a dude ur size. I'm 5'5 and can deadlift over 225.
/r/askTRP07/04/20 04:08 AM
1

physical/mental health & finances; exercise couples into this.
/r/askTRP07/04/20 02:28 AM
1

I see your trying to make a difference in this community, let's do some personalized sessions.
/r/askTRP07/04/20 02:02 AM
1

Same, it wears on you until you start getting established and make real money. Hope you dont run into any bad situations that require a lot of $$$. These people are right
/r/askTRP07/04/20 01:40 AM
2

we all go through hard times. Who's to say someone thinks you're a "loser", especially a friend? I've had friends give me compliments in passing that I would have never thought about myself - "youre fun to hang out with" "you're smart and witty" A real friend would see you through the situation for who you are, not the fact that you got fired. We're often our worst critics. If you had friends, a good job and women interested in you, you can have it again but its advised to be a net positive in p…
/r/askTRP06/04/20 04:42 PM
7

bro, you need her. go get her back!!!
/r/askTRP06/04/20 04:14 AM
16

look up cesar milan
/r/askTRP06/04/20 04:13 AM
2

ya, just start showing up at her work unannounced. that should work
/r/askTRP06/04/20 04:08 AM
2

youre not
/r/askTRP05/04/20 05:02 PM
2

a lot of the red pill articles are seriously retarded. Read them and if you had any social skills, you would know to immediately discard them. Dont get me wrong, theres some good stuff in there, a lot of it reads from the tone of a 17 year old that is psychoanalyzing his behaviors from 3 hours at a party, on one specific night. You realize the need to do all this and that is rooted in insecurity, right? To try to control every aspect of everything, having a concrete over explanation of the most …
/r/askTRP05/04/20 04:59 PM
1

exactly
/r/askTRP05/04/20 04:57 PM
1

The answer is, give yourself some space from this girl and lax on the communication. Figure out something you need to do, ie need to study, need to help parents. Ignore the person who says get shit done, you dont have to do anything, just stop spending all week with this broad. She'll come back and want to fuck you. Alpha this beta that, stop sitting and morosing in a pool of your own uncertainty. I'd wait to chill until she talks about wanting to get intimate. Then, go/have her come over and go…
/r/askTRP05/04/20 04:55 PM
1

Before you do anything, you should take some base level certs and get your hands dirty in projects in every discipline that you're interested in. Security pays well, dev/ops pays well, general development pays well. If you're slated for a career in IT, find what you enjoy doing. You're capable of making 6 figures in all of these arenas.
/r/askTRP05/04/20 04:48 PM
3

someone who would regard the satanic bible and the prince as being their top choices, is someone id prob stay away from. I could see it ending in a situation that you caused or share a lot of responsibility of, then needing to "hurt" the other person or awkwardly inject themselves into shared life or social situations to try manipulate...probably mostly failing while then, escalating the situation further & doing something truly stupid.
/r/askTRP05/04/20 04:33 PM
1

y'all are autists. Tell her she should come over to take her mind off it. Start rubbing her back or something, then leave it alone for a while, and then do it again. You can probably hook up with this girl, i've given girls comfort like this and then we hookup There's a reason why she's reaching out to you, if she comes over then you can prob make it happen. If she gets upset, then say you gotta get up early and maybe try one more time in the future if she is reaching out to you, initiating firs…
/r/askTRP05/04/20 04:27 PM
1

this is so funny but its true.
/r/askTRP03/04/20 05:16 PM
0

3
/r/askTRP03/04/20 04:23 AM
1

How did you notice the chip on your shoulder manifested, and how exactly did it influence your life?
/r/askTRP02/04/20 08:50 PM
1

how'd you end up losing the height insecurity completely, and im curious which of the recommended books you've read.
/r/askTRP02/04/20 08:47 PM
2

So? It'll be a minorly expensive lesson for him. He'll learn to try to set it up where the woman has the spot, and you dip out on rent if shit goes sideways. Leave it alone and focus on yourself.
/r/askTRP02/04/20 08:36 PM
1

sex off the table means = were fucking. How do you not know this? Is it because ur so man hot or some shit? You've never had a woman say this? I always get laid here, its like "no hook ups." You also fucked the girl buddy. I dont see the problem here. Oh, i see. You fucked another girl, got it. Just keep enjoying ur time, keep advancing. She'll put out, but if she doesnt by the third date, cut her loose. Some things in life arent worth it, and I wouldnt' recommend wasting your time, whether shes…
/r/askTRP02/04/20 08:30 PM
2

how are you getting played if you're getting laid. I’ll be honest I’m a catch and you’re going to have to work for it” response - "me too" You did a great job handling when she said she wanted to take it slow but realize if you pander to what she is saying, she will set the terms here.
/r/askTRP02/04/20 08:24 PM
4

If you love him, let him be happy. Not every relationship is doomed, or will not be fruitful. Most people are shacked together. Do you think they would all be together if everything always ended in disaster? Like others said, if/when shit hits the fan, just help him out if you "love" him. You sound like you're jealous or you're upset you'll see less of your friend. Not harping on you, just telling you what it seems like.
/r/askTRP02/04/20 08:16 PM
6

It's really not that bad of a decision. Worst scenario, the dude moves out and continues to pay part of the rent or something. You sound like you're jealous a bit. People move in together.
/r/askTRP02/04/20 08:06 PM
1

Here's the realest shit.They really dont. BUT. Go on an extended water fast. It's very effective at healing scar tissue. It also amps up collagen production due to metabolic/hormonal changes, if you've been on a healthy diet previous to the water fast. Look it up, some people have seen almost complete resolution of their stretch marks. I'm gonna translate their commentary of "Shouldnt have been a lazy fuck". As others have said, its important to take care of yourself even when feeling down. Don'…
/r/askTRP02/04/20 07:47 PM
4

does it rhyme with tonfitis
/r/askTRP01/04/20 11:01 PM
1

Everyone here is right. If you want to get even that badly, take the license plate off her car. and throw it away. Its better off left alone.
/r/askTRP01/04/20 09:28 PM
6

Dont ever respond to this type of behavior, it will have no positive outcome. You cannot console her. Hard block her on everything and tell her mother that if she contacts you again, you'll go to the police.
/r/askTRP01/04/20 08:41 PM
1

you really think so? I feel as if it really limits us. I think the best thing to do is accept you made mistakes which have affected your life, then from there you make the choice to change and not do them again. No shame required. What's the point of being super hard on yourself? It's just going to generate negative emotions, and we all really do make mistakes, some bigger/more than others.
/r/askTRP01/04/20 08:38 PM
3

you only apologize when you really do something wrong, ie. having sex with her mom, stealing money from her etc.. I mean something serious
/r/askTRP01/04/20 08:24 PM
1

and then what? How do you become "relatively free" of them.
/r/askTRP01/04/20 12:06 AM
2

That's really interesting. I dont know if I agree that dtf on first date = BPD. I've banged many upon first date. My game is not super tight, and I'm no model. I am however pretty unique tho.
/r/askTRP31/03/20 06:34 PM
1

damn. I'm like a 2or 3 out of 10 on the scale dominance if spitting in a womans mouth and her not saying shit is 10.
/r/askTRP31/03/20 02:56 AM
1

are you that disassociated that the thought out of a plate fucking a guy, then fucking you, doesnt off-put you? I understand the notion its the game
/r/askTRP31/03/20 02:28 AM
5

f'real
/r/askTRP31/03/20 12:28 AM
2

First thing is first. If a girl cancels, but offers a reschedule...NEVER take the next day. Tell her your busy. Wait a week from the day she breaks the date if you dont hear from her. Example, if she breaks the date, say "sounds good". Her : Ok we'll do it tomorrow then? You: Sorry, I'm busy, some other time. THEN... If she reaches out anytime between the next following day, and week later, reschedule. IF YOU DONT hear from her, reschedule a week later. IF she declines, you know whats up. As oth…
/r/askTRP30/03/20 10:35 PM
1

Nice fucking job dude. This is RARE.
/r/askTRP30/03/20 10:35 PM
0

but stands on his tippy toes for pictures? Give me a break
/r/askTRP30/03/20 05:24 PM
1

such a good response. It looks like you have some common sense in regard to chronic weed use. I used to abuse the shit out of it for like a decade, I really think it fueled my creativity with music, and I'm convinced I perform better when high and playing (listening back to tracks recorded). Do you have any suggestions for improving mental health after kicking it besides the obvious exercise, diet and abstinence?
/r/askTRP30/03/20 05:19 PM
10

ignore it, or go "you're smart, you'll figure it out". This is just going to be a pointless exchange in the future. You really want to keep texting back and forth with her about random things for the opportunity to maybe one day fuck her again?
/r/askTRP30/03/20 05:07 PM
1

If you have a strong frame what exactly does this mean to you? Explain it completely and leave nothing out. It would be appreciated heavily.
/r/askTRP30/03/20 05:06 AM
1

I gotta say, this is my biggest gripe with TRP. You probably came off try hard. You need to chill and be normal, throw some of this stuff in there SPARINGLY. Otherwise, you come off weird. There's a dynamic to it, you gotta adjust socially.
/r/askTRP30/03/20 04:59 AM
2

I made this mistake once and it was hell to pay. So true.
/r/askTRP30/03/20 01:51 AM
1

pm'd you
/r/askTRP29/03/20 04:23 AM
1

Idk, like others that post in this thread, at times I have a hard time knowing when to take shit, give it back- stand up or ignore it. It's my biggest gripe, biggest trouble area atm. I think people's threshold for what "disrespect" is, is different.
/r/askTRP29/03/20 04:12 AM
1

has to be totally context driven. Sometimes its appropriate to get mad, an indication of healthy boundaries. As well, sometimes you need to check people.
/r/askTRP29/03/20 03:46 AM
1

list all the "weak" behaviors that are not completely obvious, and may also be completely context driven.
/r/askTRP29/03/20 01:43 AM
1

I love it. It’s my fucking favorite. There’s nothing better than a girl acting like a little girl. It must be the dynamic naturally
/r/askTRP29/03/20 12:57 AM
2

Exactly.
/r/askTRP29/03/20 12:37 AM
2

what does it truly mean to have a masculine frame?
/r/askTRP28/03/20 09:34 PM
2

Best fuckingg comment I’ve read on TRp. You’re right, your journey is just beginning. Make the best of it
/r/askTRP28/03/20 04:01 AM
1

She didn’t have the decency to lie like most women. Why the fuck would she say that unless she didn’t give a fuck
/r/askTRP28/03/20 03:49 AM
1

This doesn’t even make any sense really to me. You think all these guys in relationships just flip a switch alone at home, or they have women stepping out on them? It just seems like a safe bet then to always tell a woman no and to always do whatever you want whenever you want, and that’s it. I’ve heard of women breaking up with men because of this, so I feel like there’s something missing in all the sidebar info and stuff. Like. You have to listen to them, etc in a ltr.
/r/askTRP24/03/20 07:54 PM
1

Yeah, kind of funny, this girl I was seeing told me she had been with a good amount of guys and that’s how I knew it was basically done, and I had to start looking for other and demote her to Sunday’s or any day I was free and got around to it. The only thing I wonder is why are there so many guys who just honest and normal and don’t do any of this and have fine girls? Doesn’t make any sense
/r/askTRP24/03/20 07:31 PM
1

OK, can you address the point I made in my comment? It’s just as effective to ignore her, to me.
/r/askTRP24/03/20 05:08 PM
1

Or she could tell you, and you literally not care she’s trying to impress you. “I once had sex in the back of this car” Guy: “ok” then changes subject
/r/askTRP24/03/20 04:53 PM
1

How about instead of insulting me you explain why. She’s qualifying herself to you. If you don’t care about this girl, then you don’t care what she’s done, therefore wouldn’t give a shit.
/r/askTRP24/03/20 04:42 PM
-2

I like everything you responded with but I dont see the harm in her telling you about her sexual conquests?
/r/askTRP24/03/20 07:56 AM
1

Ok, yeah. I've seen it really swing on the other side heavily, like constantly asking her to do something in efforts of her ever asking. Like if she asked for a napkin, always making her say please. THere comes a point where this shit just becomes autistic like.
/r/askTRP24/03/20 07:44 AM
1

Its a lose lose either way then.
/r/askTRP24/03/20 06:57 AM
1

0
/r/askTRP24/03/20 06:55 AM
1

I get this, but at what point do you just be normal. Do you always just deny her, it seems autistic. Everything is no? Always being disagreeable?
/r/askTRP24/03/20 06:48 AM
1

listen bro, how is this not obvious. She is basically controllnig you if she can get you to act a certain way, and then you wonder why she isnt interested? I know its counter intuitive but it's how it is.
/r/askTRP24/03/20 06:35 AM
1

cmon youre not that dense
/r/askTRP24/03/20 05:59 AM
1

What a waste of time
/r/askTRP07/03/20 03:42 AM
1

A lot of us jersey kids do I’ve noticed
/r/askTRP07/03/20 03:33 AM
1

I’ve double texted girls and have gotten a date. I wouldn’t pay attention to all the hate. If she’s someone you’ve fucked and you’re planning on fucking again, I’d keep texting to a minimum.
/r/askTRP05/03/20 04:10 AM
2

That’s so funny, I instinctively know some of this stuff. This girl I was ducking asked me to send her good morning every once and a while and I just ignored her request thinking, ya...no.
/r/askTRP05/03/20 03:44 AM
1

how did you change?
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