I’ll make this quick. Gf of 9 months dumped me, didn’t even want to be friends. Got colder and meaner each time I reached out.

Thing is, I stopped caring about the relationship while I was in it, and was 50/50 on ending it. However, when she pulled the plug, it started to hurt like hell.

She even said “ I don’t know, a switch went off in my head, and now I see you a different way”

It’s as if everything I did, all the fun dates I planned, the connection, meant nothing in the end. I broke my back for that, for what in the end? Nothing.

We work in the same building, different departments, so I barely see her, but we may bump into each other every so often.

It’s probably for the better to break up, as I started to lose interest myself in the relationship, but to be completely ice cold to the point of not even wanting to be friends? Why? We were so close.

When I was in the relationship, I didn’t care so much for it, but since she ended it, it’s as if a switch went off in MY head...