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LDR: Another meaning is Living in a Dream Relationship. It's not real physical relationship, in LDR both parties are living in a disney dream that they are made for each other. She is only gonna view on screen that means when she crave for sex then your picture is not going to satisfy her craving, she will find someone there who will fulfill her desire. Tell me what would you do when you feel hungry, is looking at the picture of pizza gonna make you feel full or eating Real Pizza will satisfy yo…
/r/askTRP22/07/20 07:19 AM
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"you're lucky I'm not dumping you over this, I can do better" It's finished mate, if you get back in relationship with her then during your next argument she will say exact same words. She have zero respect for you and your frame has been brutally broken. The reason she is blowing up your phone because she have no one lined up at the moment. As soon as she find someone you will be thrown out like a piece of chewing gum.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 06:44 AM
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In life you realize that some friends are rats and as soon as you find those rats stop spending time with them.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 06:24 AM
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They see you as a 'free therapist' who is only there to hear about their life problems.
/r/askTRP24/06/20 08:49 AM
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You only go back to exes if you haven't burnt yourself properly the first time. You have oneitis for this girl, that's why after spinning other plates you let her back in your life with open arms.
/r/askTRP24/06/20 08:41 AM
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She is bringing another guy into the picture to make you feel jealous, so you can start begging for her attention. Tell her she is free to leave if she wants to date this coworker and you are not going to change as there are other girls who are also interested in you.
/r/askTRP24/06/20 08:36 AM
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The reason she is acting aloof and not texting you often because someone else is getting all her attention. She will drop that on you with in few days or weeks, so either you initiate the break or she will do that soon. She is showing you lack of attention because she is not interested in you anymore and the more you bring that up, more she will get annoyed.
/r/askTRP22/06/20 11:40 AM
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It didn't ruin your chances, it might have raised your smv. But if she sees you talking and exchanging numbers with different girls everyweek then she might not be interested in dating you. It also depends on the girl, as some girls like that you are in demand by other girls and some thinks that you are desperate to get girls.
/r/askTRP22/06/20 11:34 AM
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If you want more drama then go for it. His LTR will eventually find out about his adulterous lifestyle someday by you or someone else. It's like someone stole your bike, are you gonna knock on that person's door and damage his bike or will you purchase new one but with better locks this time so it's not easy to steal.
/r/askTRP22/06/20 11:28 AM
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It's nice to spend some time alone but don't let that to reach the stage where loneliness creeps in on your life. Research shows that being socially active is good for mental and physical health in long term. Loneliness and isolation has the same deadly affect as smoking 15 cigarettes per day. You don't have to be friends with everybody, find few people whom you can connect and spend some time interacting with them.
/r/askTRP17/06/20 07:59 AM
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Seems like you are in her frame most of the time. She wants to move in so she can tie you down in a relationship. That will kill almost all the chances for you to date/bang someone else. If you are really uncomfortable and not enjoying this relationship then end this relationship before she does.
/r/askTRP17/06/20 07:53 AM
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Answer: "How much money do you want from me ? "
/r/askTRP17/06/20 07:46 AM
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She was not interested in you that's why she came up with a boyfriend excuse. You could have said that " I am not looking for a relationship, I found you interesting that's why I stopped you to have a conversation." So if you bump into her again in future you could have approached her to talk. I have dated a few girls in the past who came up with this boyfriend excuse, but wthin a few months, they broke up and was back in the dating market. It's a field sales technique, not everybody will be int…
/r/askTRP16/06/20 10:27 AM
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You are into redpill stuff that's why you are noticing it everywhere. It's big but not many people are aware of it. They are busy dealing with other stuff in their life, it's like when you start reading about the vegan lifestyle and you notice that everyone is talking about it.
/r/askTRP16/06/20 10:12 AM
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You are already in her frame by agreeing to meet up with her and her friend. She is already creating a barrier for you to jump. Bringing her friend means she is just coming to check you out in person and not looking forward to doing something fun. You can cancel the plan and say something important came up and you can meet her some other time. She will get an idea of why you canceled the date.
/r/askTRP16/06/20 10:07 AM
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It seems like you are doing field sales in terms of dating, approaching everybody to sign up for your service. Some will stop to chat with you and some will walk away. You need to read their body language if they are not interested in having conversation with you and showing signs of disinterest then there is no point in asking their number. You need to build connection and trust before you ask for number. Keep improving your conversation and gaming skills then soon you will be expert in day gam…
/r/askTRP13/06/20 06:21 AM
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You don't become tough by fighting with rabbits. Do you think the gladiators were practicing fights with the cattle herders, no they were fighting against other gladiators or wild animals. If you want to learn MMA then ofcourse there will be violence, you will get taken down and get your ass kicked. Watch some MMA fight videos on youtube to get an idea.
/r/askTRP13/06/20 06:11 AM
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You showed excessive desperation to cling with her. The reason her friend was cockblocking because she must have told her to do that in the bathroom. She was interested in you in the beginning but your clinginess killed the attraction. When you got her number , you should have left there and text her later to set up date. But you kept going back to take her out for a walk that shows your scarcity mentality.
/r/askTRP13/06/20 06:01 AM
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If she drove 45 minutes for a date that means she was interested in you during texting phase on tinder and she wanted to meet you in person to see if it's worth moving to next level or not. Don't get disappointed if she has ghosted you. Tinder dating is like standing in front of Juice aisle in the supermarket, there are so many options to choose from and the person want to buy the best and healthy juice available there. So they are reading all the labels and ended up buying the one which they th…
/r/askTRP12/06/20 02:27 PM
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She is not that interested in you. It's better that she blocked you instead of putting you in friendzone. You wouldn't wanna date someone who blocked you straight away without giving any explanation that means she think of you as bit creepy.
/r/askTRP12/06/20 07:37 AM
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Seems like she friendzoned you and also not much attraction from her side. Wait few days if she initiate the texting, if not then you shouldn't waste time on her and start looking for someone else.
/r/askTRP12/06/20 07:31 AM
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Being socially active and extrovert is better. If you are a celebrity or someone powerful in your circle then you can get away by being stoic. If you are someone famous then people already know about you and wanna interact with you.
/r/askTRP12/06/20 07:24 AM
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You have severe Oneitis. The more you think about her, longer it's gonna take you to move on. Go out with more girls , keep yourself busy with work and hobbies then may be in few years time you will forget about her. Remember she have already moved on and it's only your thoughts which are still keeping her in your life. Learn how to control your thoughts and you will find your freedom.
/r/askTRP11/06/20 05:34 AM
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She found another option, which is good for you because she could have sucked the happiness out of your life.
/r/askTRP11/06/20 05:29 AM
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If you keep looking at the clock when this 9hours gonna pass so you can reply to this girl, then you already lost the game. She didn't reply to your message straight away because you are not her top priority and also not in a relationship with her.
/r/askTRP11/06/20 05:24 AM
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Let it go mate. There is no point ruminating about the situation, you have dealt with that in a correct way. Sometime walking away from stupid fights is a best option. If you are good in martial art, mma or boxing then it would have been a different story. But as you don't have these skills then one stupid move could have got you injured and you would have ended up in hospital.
/r/askTRP11/06/20 05:18 AM
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The best thing you can do is now to not keep looking back at the time you spent with her. She have discarded those moments to move on so the sooner you do that the better it will be for your mental health. Take it as a lesson learned and keep moving, will be hard but you can do it.
/r/askTRP10/06/20 08:41 AM
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No it doesn't, if you are really good painter then the girls who are into art world may be attracted towards you or may be not. Salsa girl would be attracted to the guy who is good in salsa and she doesn't give a damn if another guy is a good painter or not. People are attracted towards someone who are best in their field of interest.
/r/askTRP10/06/20 07:11 AM
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Ask him to read about 'Bro code' then he may stop hitting on your exes. And also that will help him in his future making better friendships. If he is hitting on your exes then chances are he will also hit on his friends's exes and girlfriends. There was one friend in my social circle who is always hitting on girlfriends and exes of people in the same circle. Now he has been cut off from the group. So you should have a talk with your brother and make him aware of the consequences.
/r/askTRP10/06/20 07:05 AM
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Some people prefer spending hours in fishing then they feel pleasure eating that fish. And some if they are hungry they go out to grocery store and buy frozen fish which doesn't taste as good as fresh fish. I think you prefer the ' chase and hunt' game instead of getting the girl who is an easy lay.
/r/askTRP10/06/20 06:54 AM
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She split you black as some bpd do that to get you offguard. As you work in the same building so it will take some time to get over it. Try to spend time with more women to forget her.
/r/askTRP10/06/20 06:43 AM
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You have been replaced. She is thinking about someone else now instead of you and soon she will dump you over some manipulated argument.
/r/askTRP10/06/20 06:36 AM
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These are the book which I would recommend: - How to talk to anyone by Leil Lowndes - How to win friends and influence people by Dale Carnegie And when you are having conversation with women, try to know more about them instead of telling about your accomplishments. If they are interested then they will ask questions about your life. Girls like mysterious person.
/r/askTRP08/06/20 07:42 AM
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If she was super drunk then it was a sensible decision that you did not go to her place.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 08:48 AM
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She definitely found another interesting target from Bumble after you completely ignored her excellent sales live demo of what she was offering you. You walked away from her , showed her disinterest so she dialed next number on her list and another guy grabbed the opportunity.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 06:06 AM
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If she is texting back after 3 months then chances are she is keeping herself occupied with other orbiters. Don't get your hopes high with this girl, but if you are enjoying her company and don't mind seeing her for smoke once in 3-4 months then you can continue interacting with her.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 05:58 AM
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May be they are getting bored on dates with you, you need to learn the art of conversation. May be you are too much bragging about your accomplishments, looks, financial status when in girl's company then chances are they wouldn't go on second date with you. You can catch the fish but you also need to know how to keep them happy in your home aquarium.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 05:50 AM
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She is insecure and it's not gonna get any better in future. You can talk to her about all this stuff that is getting on your nerves. Things may change or not, then it will be your choice to being in relationship or call it off.
/r/askTRP05/06/20 06:55 AM
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You can give him red pill books to read and it will be upto him to get unplugged or not. There is a famous saying that: " You can lead a horse to water but you can't make him drink. "
/r/askTRP05/06/20 06:45 AM
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Your problem is Scarcity mentality, read some articles about oneitis, abundance and outcome independence. Suppose you had a really nice Burrito yesterday, you enjoyed the taste so much and you got obsessed with that particular burrito. Now are you gonna vomit and keep eating the same burrito or will you go out and eat whatever satisfy your hunger. It was your turn with the girl, and now she is with someone else. You have a choice either you can waste your time thinking and getting depressed abou…
/r/askTRP05/06/20 06:41 AM
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She have moved on long ago and now just playing with you like a toy, seeing you hurt or begging her to stay is giving her more power and pleasure. All this is a part of revenge which she is taking on you because you kept asking her to break up every week in the past. During that time she didn't had much power or other options so she stayed with you until she found someone else and then broke up with you on her terms. That gave her confidence and made you Beta Billy bitch. The truth is your frame…
/r/askTRP04/06/20 07:47 AM
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Don't force yourself to spin plates if you don't feel like doing it. No one is gonna give you award for how many plates you have spinned. The whole idea of spinning plates is to introduce you to the world of abundance so you don't catch oneitis for a girl. And the man who have more options is always better than the person who have only one option.
/r/askTRP04/06/20 07:38 AM
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Tell her you are seeing someone else and don't feel like cheating on that person. Ofcourse she will get upset after hearing this but atleast she will start looking for someone else instead of keeping her hopes attached on you.
/r/askTRP04/06/20 07:32 AM
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Happy dog is the one that enjoys freedom roaming around, rather than staying at home and staring his owner 24x7. If you don't feel like getting exclusive then don't do it . She wanna tie you in relationship so you don't find someone else better than her before she do. She monkeybranched from her ex and she will do it again when better option than you arrives in her life.
/r/askTRP03/06/20 05:55 AM
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Don't let your ego ruin your life. There is always gonna be someone better than you and by feeling insecure about it is not gonna make you bigger. They are stronger because they started lifting earlier than you.
/r/askTRP03/06/20 05:47 AM
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This has happened to lot of people. Block and ghost her if you never want to be in touch with her again. You can act indifferent, don't bother responding to her texts or calls and that will push her buttons. If she has already monkey branched then she wouldn't care if you block her or not. She will definitely contact you in few months if things doesn't work out with new guy or to check if she can make you an orbiter. Walk away and don't look back.
/r/askTRP03/06/20 05:42 AM
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It introduces you to the reality and gives you the power to handle difficult situations in your life.
/r/askTRP02/06/20 05:46 AM
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Ignore them if you want to and they will come back to bite you. Don't dive too deep into the sea if you know there is not much oxygen left in the cylinder.
/r/askTRP02/06/20 05:42 AM
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She ain't gonna come back mate. Reality in your situation: She despise you and she have moved on from you months ago. The more you try to contact her the more damage you are going to do to your reputation. Walk away if you have ounce of self respect and look for someone else.
/r/askTRP02/06/20 05:34 AM
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You are showing traits of Hypergamy, by leaving your friends as you find other people better than them. You feel uncomfortable in your friend's company as you think they are not helping you in getting laid or improving your game. There is no need to cut them off just spend less time with them if you wish. They were with you for last 7 years during your bad and good times, so you don't know if you gonna need them in future.
/r/askTRP01/06/20 06:56 AM
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Not if you know how to game properly. Self esteem is important, you need to feel good about yourself otherwise your body language emits lack of confidence.
/r/askTRP01/06/20 06:49 AM
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"You are the most boring person I have ever met." Said that to push her buttons as she has lot of orbiters, people hitting on her in clubs, social circle so she was getting lot of attention. Next day she sent a text that she wanted to have wine at my place.
/r/askTRP01/06/20 06:45 AM
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May be she met someone else and if you keep texting her without any response then your value in her eyes will go down. If after few days she contact you again then you can start where you left off and if not then just forget her.
/r/askTRP31/05/20 01:36 PM
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You know where you went wrong. You broke up with her and then texted to check if everything is good with her and her family and later wanted to hangout for coffee. That was a stupid move. Once you made up your mind about break up then stick with it as no one like the person who can't keep up on his/her words.
/r/askTRP31/05/20 01:30 PM
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It happens to lot of us, once you got what you were chasing then the excitement is gone and you start looking for next chase. And it's better than getting Oneitis.
/r/askTRP31/05/20 01:18 PM
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" Yes I do because I find texting really boring, let's meet at my place and bring a bottle of wine. " Invite her to yours or go out for drinks or coffee, stop wasting your time on texting.
/r/askTRP31/05/20 07:02 AM
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You showed desperation and scarcity of sex in your life. Do some reading about seduction, abundance, outcome independence and in future try not to act needy.
/r/askTRP31/05/20 06:56 AM
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If on first few dates the girl talk about her ex, her failed marriage, work problems, family problems then she is just using you as a friend and wasting your time. Change the topic or end the date. If she was attracted to you at first place then she wouldn't want to bore you with her life problems.
/r/askTRP31/05/20 06:46 AM
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You can start writing notes or make an excel sheet if you want to and if you think that's gonna make any difference. Simple example: someone can't be good at cooking by keeping the notes of amount of salt and herbs they need to put in each recipe. They get confident by keep trying or cooking often, some dishes wouldn't be that good but eventually they will learn how to cook better food. To get better at something you need to do that thing often until you feel confident.
/r/askTRP30/05/20 07:40 AM
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Are you getting Oneitis after first date ? If you can't hold interesting conversation on dates, then go for adventure dates. Your story shows that you consider yourself as boring, start thinking highly of yourself. In marketing they say that, if you don't believe in the product then how can you sell that with confidence.
/r/askTRP30/05/20 07:33 AM
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Tell her : It's Me, not You. And wait for the drama to unfold.
/r/askTRP30/05/20 07:22 AM
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The truth is : She monkey branched and found another guy. Now she want to keep you as a friend or orbiter. If she have broken up with you once that means she doesn't see you as a high value man and will do it again. The reason she still wants you in her life because she need some time until she get comfortable with her new guy and then you will be spewed out.
/r/askTRP29/05/20 07:41 AM
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Ask her : tell me some fun stories about your past. If you are looking for a plate, by knowing her notch count is not gonna do you any favour.
/r/askTRP29/05/20 07:33 AM
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By asking "why do you hate me", she means why are you not chasing me like an orbiter. Simple reply to her question: Because you get on my nerves by asking stupid questions like this. Don't try to justify yourself by saying I don't hate you.
/r/askTRP29/05/20 07:28 AM
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She is away for long time, getting lot of attention there from her colleagues and you are not physically present there. I will give you simple example why Long Distance hardly works: There is a meal in the fridge that you cooked and kept before going away on holiday. You are going to be away for few months , when you get hungry you are gonna eat what's available there instead of thinking about the food in the fridge which is obviously not accessible and also not going to satisfy your hunger.
/r/askTRP29/05/20 07:21 AM
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She is just teasing you. You need to stop seeing every sentence that come out of her mouth as a test. Relax and enjoy the ride.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 07:06 AM
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Not a decent move, it can come back to bite you and cause more trouble.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 07:01 AM
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Walk in the park.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 06:54 AM
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Just chill mate, listen some music, drink wine, beer or whatever you like...then go again.
/r/askTRP27/05/20 07:37 AM
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You got severe case of oneitis. May be you were dating BPD or someone with narcissistic traits, she kept coming back to your life until you got totally obsessed with her. She became the purpose of your life, you handed your freedom to her on a plate and eventually you became her slave. Steps you can take to come out of this hole that you have digged for yourself are : -Don't get involved with this girl again. - Go out and get some plates, develop abundance mentallity. -Listen some badass 90's ra…
/r/askTRP27/05/20 07:31 AM
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You showed too much clinginess and neediness. I will give you simple example: Suppose a girl wanted to try a new restaurant. She enjoyed her lunch at this new restaurant and the manager keep sending her messages as soon as she left the place: Please come back for dinner, for tomorrow's breakfast and also for lunch. Do you really think she is gonna be bothered to come back again after you showed scarcity mentality ?
/r/askTRP26/05/20 06:32 AM
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Your situation is like : Your resume looks good but something is missing that is stopping you to get hired. May be you are chasing hard, showing some signs of desperation, or projecting yourself as a nice guy. Learn more about some gaming and seduction techniques.
/r/askTRP25/05/20 06:10 AM
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Give some more information so people can give you relevant advise. It's like you are asking the doctor to give you some medicine without telling him what's causing the actual problem.
/r/askTRP25/05/20 06:04 AM
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Rational Male and The Manipulated Men. Stuff regarding breakup is available on sidebar.
/r/askTRP25/05/20 06:01 AM
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If things go south between you and her then one of you have to leave the job or get sacked for something stupid.
/r/askTRP24/05/20 12:02 PM
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Hypergamy exists mate at all levels, even girls leave celebs as soon as their hypergamy kicks in. Accept the reality and you will be less disappointed.
/r/askTRP23/05/20 06:50 AM
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Accept the reality of AWALT and you will be less disappointed. Stop looking for unicorn as they don't exist, stop looking for girls to fulfill your life as they can leave you as soon as hypergamy kicks in.
/r/askTRP23/05/20 06:48 AM
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You are addicted to her presence in your life. Keep yourself busy with other plates and as time passes the thoughts of her will fade out.
/r/askTRP23/05/20 06:43 AM
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Don't get involved with her. She is obsessed with her ex and using you again as an orbiter.
/r/askTRP22/05/20 02:31 PM
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Most girls usually don't jump out of relationship if they don't have anything lined up. They actually plan the break up weeks before they finally tell you about it, that's how they catch you off-guard. They discuss with their friends/family if they are making the right decisions or not, they weigh the options available and when you do any small mistake then ....that's it they can't be with you anymore. Then the thought cycle starts in your head, you start missing all the time you were together, …
/r/askTRP22/05/20 08:41 AM
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It's like a chess game. She checkmated you and caught you offguard by monkey branching or cheating and you had nowhere to move (any plate). If you had plates you wouldn't be missing her that much, she was the only source of sex you had so you are finding bit difficult to move on. Are you gonna waste your time by thinking about all the wrong moves you made that resulted in losing the game. Learn from your mistakes, stop over analyzing and play better next time with new player.
/r/askTRP22/05/20 06:21 AM
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Seems like you are building up the house next to Volcano.
/r/askTRP22/05/20 06:13 AM
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Sometime you don't feel anything after breakup for a day or two and it's normal. If you were spending lot of time with her or she was the only source of sex you got then you might start missing her after few days. If she broke up with you once that means she doesn't care about losing you, she may have another guy lined up and every time she is not happy with you she will pull out break-up card. Don't get back with her at any cost, if you do get back then you may end up regretting your decision. …
/r/askTRP22/05/20 06:07 AM
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Stop wasting your time by doing research on Tinder dating. Go out when things get better and start day game.
/r/askTRP21/05/20 06:26 AM
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You are focusing all the time on your ex about what she is doing, how can you get her back, why you should hate her and it goes on and on and on. Change your thought pattern and you will find the solution. Keep yourself busy with hobbies or work and find someone better.
/r/askTRP21/05/20 06:21 AM
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Don't depend too much on other people for anything. Things can change anytime within your life, job, relationship, family and friends. You need to know how to get up when you get knocked down and ready to push yourself against the stream.
/r/askTRP21/05/20 06:13 AM
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Approach with confidence.
/r/askTRP16/05/20 10:53 AM
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Some people need to burn their hands in the fire couple of times before they learn that playing with fire can be extremely dangerous.
/r/askTRP16/05/20 10:51 AM
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May be your are giving off some sort of nice guy vibes in your social circle and people are taking advantage of that. As it says in 48 laws that " You need to act like a king to be treated like one", so try not to act like a pussy when you are around your friends. If people are making fun of you all the time then you need to stand up for yourself.
/r/askTRP16/05/20 10:47 AM
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They need to get attention one way or another. Gyms, yoga centres, club, cafes and workplaces are shut down so they are spending more time on social media. When one source is shut off, another opens up so don't get surprised by this behavior.
/r/askTRP16/05/20 10:33 AM
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Having money matters as it attracts lot of women, you can take them out to nice restaurants, clubs, holidays. You will be their 'Sugar daddy' and they like showing their lifestyle on social media. And there are also many girls who don't mind staying in the house and get fed home cooked meal and watch netflix. So it's your choice on what type of girl you would like to spend time with.
/r/askTRP16/05/20 06:26 AM
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She wants commitment and want people to know in your social setting that you two are couple. In simple words... She wants to tie you down.
/r/askTRP16/05/20 06:19 AM
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Tell her she is getting on your nerves. Is she keep feeding you with unhealthy food whilst your stomach is full, will you let her do that ? So look after your brain and don't let her feed stupid shit to it.
/r/askTRP16/05/20 06:13 AM
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Don't follow every PUA stuff what is written in the book, it will mess your head up and may ruin your natural game. And same technique doesn't work on all targets. Some girls serious type of guy and some prefer funny dude.
/r/askTRP16/05/20 06:05 AM
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Your frame has been brutally crushed by her. Hard next or feel free to waste your time to build this relationship again.
/r/askTRP15/05/20 04:04 PM
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You need to balance comfort and dread. Too much of any one of these is bad for your relationship.
/r/askTRP15/05/20 03:58 PM
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Focus your mind on other things, get yourself busy in some hobbies and stop getting emotionally invested after one date.
/r/askTRP15/05/20 07:01 AM
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See it as lesson learned and don't do those mistakes in your future relationships. You can't change the past but you can ruin your present and future by regretting about those mistakes all the time.
/r/askTRP15/05/20 06:57 AM
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You can't change your past and regretting about it is going to ruin you present. If you don't like redpill philosophies, then feel free to do what makes you happy. If you feel depressed living with redpill way then it's not the solution for you.
/r/askTRP14/05/20 03:37 PM
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Are you planning to get married or LTR with her? if not then enjoy your turn.
/r/askTRP14/05/20 03:31 PM
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She is missing all the attention you used to give to her. If you already being friendzoned once then it's not going to change and you will waste your time. Ghost her.
/r/askTRP14/05/20 03:26 PM
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Girls don't like if you LJBF'd them. Some girls ghost and some send pics with some guy to make you feel guilty for rejecting them.
/r/askTRP14/05/20 03:23 PM
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First time she was not in a mood in your 1.5 year relationship but if she does that all the time from now on then you should start looking for other options. If you get angry or annoyed every time she reject your sexual advances then she will feel like she holds the power in your relationship and can make you easily angry by refusing sex. It's a famous saying that "Whoever makes you angry, rules over you". Girls feel more powerful if they know they are the only source of sex you got. That's why …
/r/askTRP14/05/20 08:48 AM
1

She was not in a mood that time and wanted to just chill mate. Stop making it a big deal. You are acting like a kid who wants the icecream but can't have it and shows bit of tantrum.
/r/askTRP14/05/20 07:25 AM
1

Some kind of bad gossip about you is circling around the office. Focus on your work and don't be too friendly/flirty with your colleagues.
/r/askTRP14/05/20 07:14 AM
6

It means that when you will become her ex then title of an "asshole" will be yours.
/r/askTRP14/05/20 07:10 AM
3

Plan your exit. If she is talking about this guy for last 3 months and didn't negate his sexual behavior then do you really believe that no flirting is going on between them ? She is enjoying the attention, the situation is not going to get better and will mess your head up more. It's your choice at the end of the day to put up with this drama or call off a relationship.
/r/askTRP14/05/20 07:04 AM
1

As OP mentioned he is 17 and we don't know the whole story such as how old is the girl may be she is way younger than him. Was that a tinder date or they know each other for a while ? Girls go for the kiss but sometime they don't enjoy the experience and find some way to get out from the situation. It happens lot in night game or first tinder date.
/r/askTRP14/05/20 06:49 AM
1

Sometime they are not into it and afraid to reject the move. That's why she invited her friend to rescue her.
/r/askTRP14/05/20 06:42 AM
1

Start spending more time with other plates.
/r/askTRP13/05/20 01:28 PM
1

Focus on things that you can improve such as your dressing style, financial status, conversation skills. And don't focus on stuff which you can't change such as your height.
/r/askTRP13/05/20 11:06 AM
530

She is not into you and her friend came to rescue her.
/r/askTRP13/05/20 09:43 AM
1

Next her. You know that she gonna keep talking behind your back and it's not going to stop.
/r/askTRP13/05/20 09:40 AM
2

She is crying because you initiated the breakup instead of her dumping you. In breakup whoever is the dumpee get their ego bruised, then they start looking for options to get back by crying and making promises.
/r/askTRP13/05/20 06:28 AM
4

Wtf, Don't know what to say to this type of question. If she is your plate, you feel like kissing her during sex and she is not letting you do that then you are spending time with wrong plate. Is she your only plate or you have few others in rotation ?
/r/askTRP13/05/20 06:17 AM
2

That's bullshit, it's not like you are holding her hands in public or posting stuff on social and she don't want you to do that as you are not a couple.
/r/askTRP13/05/20 06:13 AM
1

Red pill is not a medicine that gonna cure your virus symptoms. Go to the hospital and get yourself checked, doctors and nurses are there to help you better than your mom.
/r/askTRP13/05/20 06:09 AM
7

Tell her your intentions beforehand so you two wouldn't be wasting each other's time. ONS is another option. If you want to have nice home cooked meal then you need to spend some time preparing it. Or if you can't be bothered about cooking then do take away or home delivery (escorts) is another option.
/r/askTRP12/05/20 01:41 PM
3

She sees you as a friend with whom she is not planning to have sex.
/r/askTRP12/05/20 06:48 AM
13

Are you watching too much romantic disney stuff. Telling her that you miss her shows you are finding it difficult to live without her. Also implies that she is part of your life and you need her to be around you to make you feel better.
/r/askTRP12/05/20 06:36 AM
1

It's not you it's me. So dumpee don't feel like it was their fault. Hypergamy..She already found someone else who she thinks is better than you. Don't think about getting back with her, have some self respect.
/r/askTRP12/05/20 06:23 AM
5

Don't let your ego hurt by this incident otherwise it will affect your another 3 dates with different birds. If you try extra hard to show her what you can do more then it will show your desperation. You can try to catch up with her again in few days.
/r/askTRP11/05/20 02:29 PM
1

Girl 1 seems like your gf and not your FWB if she is warning about sleeping with other girls. If you make a move on girl 2, she wouldn't keep that quiet as they like gossiping. So if you don't care about losing girl1 then make a move on girl2 or find someone who is not a mutual friend with the girl you are sleeping with.
/r/askTRP11/05/20 12:34 PM
3

Go out and get one for yourself or buy some earplugs.
/r/askTRP11/05/20 10:25 AM
0

Try to improve your gaming skills. Being a national minority can be issue or excuse for some but that doesn't stop you from having relationships. There are lot of girls who like to date exotic man, keep improving until you get success.
/r/askTRP11/05/20 06:18 AM
1

Enjoy your life mate and don't think too much about being narcissist or not. If you are one and it's bothering you then try to make small changes in your behavior. A shrink can give you better advise on this matter as they have degree and deals with the behavior of human mind.
/r/askTRP11/05/20 06:13 AM
4

Ghosting is the way to escape, otherwise you will become one of the orbiter who gonna listen to her relationship problems.
/r/askTRP11/05/20 05:58 AM
1

Going through these type of situations at early stage of life will help you in your future relationship game.
/r/askTRP11/05/20 05:55 AM
1

Wednesday evening or Thursday as she will have the next day off. If evening is going good then she don't have to rush home to wake up early next day for work.
/r/askTRP11/05/20 05:53 AM
5

It's clear that you are her orbiter mate.
/r/askTRP11/05/20 05:50 AM
3

She broke up with you to sleep with someone else so she don't feel guilty for cheating. If it's long distance then there is no point talking to her and she don't see you as high value anymore that's why she broke up with you in first place. Don't respond to her messages as she is acting desperate for your attention.
/r/askTRP11/05/20 05:44 AM
3

Don't do that. Telling your ex about your feeling is not gonna put you in front seat, it will lower down your value in her eyes. It's like telling your previous employer who sacked you from your job that you really miss working for them and start begging to take you back. Do you really think they will rehire you ?
/r/askTRP11/05/20 05:37 AM
3

What you are going through is called Oneitis. There is no magic pill to get over this. You need to get rid of all the stuff, photos that reminds you of her. Stop checking her activities on social media if you are doing that it will take longer to forget your ex. Time will heal your wound, for some it take few months and for other it can take years.
/r/askTRP11/05/20 05:33 AM
1

It's clear that you both want different things from each other. In simple words... If you are craving for Watermelon then go out and get one, as the orange in your fridge is not gonna satisy your watermelon craving mate.
/r/askTRP10/05/20 09:12 AM
6

There is not single thing but combination of things that you need to do to get success wuth girls. Get physically fit, lift Knowledge of game that you can get by reading the sidebar. Good dressing sense. Financially successful as that will help you to keep getting laid in longer term. Confidence Don't show too much desperation whilst talking to girls as this can be the turnoff.
/r/askTRP10/05/20 09:05 AM
2

It shows you are the prize. Psychologically if there is a chocolate that no one wants then you wouldn't be so keen on eating that. But if there is that one particular chocolate that people are fighting over it, you would also like to have a small piece of it. Because in your head there must be something special about this chocolate..
/r/askTRP10/05/20 08:56 AM
1

She is trying to make you feel guilty for not responding and now setting up some rules in your relationship. Looks like her frame is stronger than yours. Be ready for rollercoaster ride.
/r/askTRP10/05/20 06:49 AM
1

Delete them. You are old enough to know that if you put your hand in fire, it will burn. So stop putting it again and again. Read about oneitis that might help you.
/r/askTRP10/05/20 06:39 AM
1

Let him learn the game by making mistakes. There is an old saying that " you can take horse to the water but you can't make it drink".
/r/askTRP10/05/20 06:33 AM
2

Rejection is better than regret. ​ I'm inexperienced and I didn't want to make a wrong move. Next time if you feel any IOI then make a move, either girl will recpricoate or turn you down. Atleast you will not regret about missing opportunity. Good luck mate.
/r/askTRP10/05/20 06:27 AM
3

If you are naturally funny then it will work , otherwise you will look like someone who is trying extra hard to get attraction.
/r/askTRP10/05/20 06:12 AM
3

Listen to your instincts, may be your relationship is coming to an end. Plan your exit to save yourself from the drama. If you are having thoughts about your LTR cheating on you, then your relationship is only gonna get worse from here and not better.
/r/askTRP10/05/20 06:10 AM
1

Imrpove your game and do some reading: 'Art of seduction', The manipulated man, Rational Male. Like someone else here have said that if you are making out with girls then you are ok in looks department. It can be few reasons if they are turning off after few weeks. May be you are showing some clinginess, desperation, they are hanging out with you only for fun and not looking for something serious.
/r/askTRP10/05/20 06:06 AM
1

There is no harm in listening to older people but if it's all the time then it can be bit annoying. You can tell him that you will think about it what he have said about career but sometime he do too much preaching and you don't enjoy that. I assume if he is bit wiser he will let you decide your own future as he have done his part by giving you career advice. It's your choice to work on it or not as you are old enough.
/r/askTRP09/05/20 04:03 PM
1

May be she don't feel that much excitement in giving blowjobs as it was in the begining. It's different for each person, some girls still like giving blowjobs even years after marriage and some don't as they got what they wanted so there is less excitement. In simlple words, some people like eating chicken for dinner everyday and some get bored by doing that.
/r/askTRP09/05/20 03:56 PM
2

Don't say anything as that will make you look insecure and jealous. If you are not comfortable with her actions, just have a good time whilst it's your turn. Lot of girls these days post bikni or workout pictures on social media and I think if you are uncomfortable with this then your relationship is not gonna last long. As people gonna like or comment to her pictures and that gonna mess your head up.
/r/askTRP09/05/20 03:41 PM
15

'That's cool with me' should be the reply. Don't interect too much with her from now on and go full silence. As she said "I don't want to really cut things off completely between the two of us Don't even think about getting back with her, she might offer you friendship now so she don't feel guilty for dumping you. So deny all her sweet offers to make you her lifetime orbiter.
/r/askTRP09/05/20 03:28 PM
8

If girls do the dumping they don't feel bad about you as they are under someone same day or next. I dumped a nice girl who has moved away for 6 months Having LDR hardly works so one of you has to do the dumping part.
/r/askTRP09/05/20 03:20 PM
147

You are playing with fire here. One wrong move and you know the consequences. Ghost if you want to save yourself with all this drama.
/r/askTRP09/05/20 07:44 AM
7

Why would an ex hit you up when she’s engaged to be married? There can be few reasons: To check if shen can give you membership of "Orbiters for life" group. To show what did you missed out on and to make you feel guilty for breaking up with her . To get some ego boost or to fuck your current relationship. To add some drama in your life so it's better you keep interaction with her minimum. If she hit you up often, it's your choice to decide either you can ghost her or waste your time interacting…
/r/askTRP09/05/20 07:36 AM
4

Some people are toxic and it's not good for your growth to hang out with them so cutting ties without notifying is normal. But with some may be you are not happy in their company for small period of time and after few months you realise they are not as bad as you thought. So keeping them in your life is ok but with some space.
/r/askTRP09/05/20 07:16 AM
9

Try to have a good time with women whilst it's your turn. You should expect from the begining that they might leave you someday and when they actually do then you wouldn't be that much disappointed. It's like you go to cinema to watch an exciting movie and you know it's gonna last for around 2 hours so you enjoy the movie if it's good. But if the movie didn't turn out as good as you expected then I think you wouldn't stop going to cinema altogether or hate all the movie directors. You go to cine…
/r/askTRP09/05/20 06:48 AM
4

The time for getting over ex is different for each person. Some get over in few weeks and for some it can take years. Romantic love is an emotion. You loved the girl and when she cheated on you then your ego and trust got hurt and it would take time to heal. You tried your best but it didn't work so basically she did you a favour by leaving as she is someone else's problem now. In simple words, you are cooking something that you like and putting lot of effort in it but the dish got burnt or didn…
/r/askTRP08/05/20 02:33 PM
1

Not chasing women means you don't go out extra mile to get girls who are not attracted or connected to you in first place. They don't reciprocate to your actions but you keep trying in order to get them interested in you that shows chasing, desperation/neediness from your side. Women gonna appear in you life at cafes, bars, clubs, shops and in your social circle so when you feel any IOI from her side just start conversation.
/r/askTRP08/05/20 02:14 PM
1

That means you are still emotionally attached to her. Time for getting over your oneitis is different for each person, some people take few weeks or months and for some it can take years. But eventually the time will come when you will be indifferent to her.
/r/askTRP07/05/20 01:23 PM
1

Ignore her as she sounds like too much drama. Set up some rules that you can't talk to her all the time and you got other things to do as well. If she is ok with this then fine otherwise she can leave. Doing this will save you from unncessary arguments/drama with her in future and will give you time to look for better plates.
/r/askTRP07/05/20 10:49 AM
3

It's normal to cut toxic friends out of your life. I have done it before, my simple rule is if a toxic friend keep runining my mood by making stupid banter to make themself look superior in front of other people then they are ghosted for life.
/r/askTRP07/05/20 10:41 AM
1

Block her and don't look back. You have wasted so much time dealing with her and it will keep continue if you don't stop interacting with her. She sound narcisstic so she may find some way to keep coming back into your life.
/r/askTRP07/05/20 10:35 AM
1

Oneitis is still there if you are checking her facebook and reading comments. The day you don't feel like snooping on her is the day you will get over oneitis. Such as a person can't say he/she is 100% Vegan if they still eat meat every few months.
/r/askTRP07/05/20 10:29 AM
1

Fair enough mate, you can send her a text and see what she responds.
/r/askTRP06/05/20 09:50 AM
8

I have seen only few people pulling girls by being funny. If she is attracted to you then just saying simple 'Hi' can work. Of course don't be a boring person just try to have fun in your approach, if she reciprocate then it's good otherwise there is always someone better than her whom you gonna meet.
/r/askTRP06/05/20 08:55 AM
1

Personally I feel like the connection from her side has faded already. As you have mentioned that you were going to meet up 2 months ago but she did flaked. If she wanted to meet you then she would have suggested another date but that didn't happen. By the time this lockdown ends that would be 4-5 months without seeing each other in real world so there is no physical attraction/connection. I would suggest you to not initate texting, if she is really missing talking to you then she will send you …
/r/askTRP06/05/20 08:47 AM
1

This is your mental strength test period mate. You don't have any pussy supply in lockdown so there are millions other people like you who are going through the same situation. Try to focus your attention in improving yourself, you can read books or learn cooking. Just don't let your brain having thoughts about your ex beacuse she ain't give a fuck about you. What's the point in wasting your time on online dating during lockdown, you not gonna see her as much you would like. Chances are girls on…
/r/askTRP06/05/20 08:23 AM
3

Girls are already getting horny during this lockdown, my friend have mentioned that some girls he met on tinder are visting his house just for quick bang even in this lockdown period.
/r/askTRP06/05/20 08:10 AM
2

Let her ask you this time if things are all good at your side instead of you initiating text all the time. You initiating conversation all the time shows desperation and scarcity. If she would have felt any connection between you two then you would have received text by now.
/r/askTRP06/05/20 08:07 AM
24

You don't need to be funny with girls all the time. You should have fun dates where both of you are having great time. Some girls like serious man and some like funny person, you can't us same tactic with every girl you meet. It's like some prefer eating meat , some are vegetarian and some people are vegan so you can't satisfy eveyrybody with same meal.
/r/askTRP06/05/20 07:59 AM
5

No mate, there are better ways for enjoying ONS instead eating pussy of that stanger. If you really don't care about getting STDs and who else have eaten her pussy that night before meeting you then feel free proceed at your own risk.
/r/askTRP06/05/20 07:48 AM
2

Rejection is part of the game, in order to get success you need to go through rejection. Eventually you deal with it better with time as after a while you woudn't give a fuck about getting rejected but don't forget you need to keep improving your game.
/r/askTRP06/05/20 06:51 AM
7

I think tinder algorithm works like that, they show you matches in the begining when you create an account so you easily get hooked. And when you stopped getting as many matches as you were getting when you started then they want you get paid membership so they can make some money out of you. Sadly that's how it works as they are not doing charity by matching people for free so they need to make money by offering paid membership benefits. Go out when this lockdown ends and start day game.
/r/askTRP05/05/20 07:04 AM
3

Looks like honeymoon period ended mate, you had a good time with her whilst you two were together. Now you should focus on something else instead of crying over spilt milk.
/r/askTRP05/05/20 06:53 AM
1

Don't even think about getting back with her. Let me be honest here she don't like you anymore, just taaging you along until she find someone new and then you will become the 'creepy ex' in her eyes. When the food get burnt, you are not supposed to eat that and should cook something fresh. So learn about spinning plates and start fresh with someone else.
/r/askTRP05/05/20 06:48 AM
1

Let me be honest it's gonna take time. Your negative thoughts are making you feel depressed and you need to change these thought patterns which is not an easy task. Make a routine and follow that, try to do some physical activities, go out for a walk and be social. Change of scenery and friend circle sometimes helps.
/r/askTRP05/05/20 06:24 AM
4

Ofcourse you need to do kino, behave sexual or flirt in order to seduce them but there shoudn't be any sign of desperation or neediness. I have noticed that some guys go extra mile in order to please women, show neediness and provide extra attention to get pussy which usually backfires.
/r/askTRP04/05/20 01:13 PM
1

It's called love bombing. She will go the extra mile to make sure you are happy, it's like a drug with in few months you will be addicted to her presence or annoyed with her clinginess. And eventually your turn will be over and she will move to the next target. You will end up with a void in your life or will catch oneitis. That's why you should spin plates and I will also advise you to read what uncle Vasya ( u/VasiliyZaitzev ) have written here on this sub to help people with these type of iss…
/r/askTRP04/05/20 07:51 AM
9

You pedastalize the girl because you fantasize about having sex with her. They can see your greediness and desperation which eventually dries their pussy. As King Marcus have said that sexual intercourse is no more than the friction of a membrane and a spurt of mucus ejected . Treat girls like you treat your male friends and don't show too much desperation.
/r/askTRP04/05/20 07:39 AM
2

Confidence , social circle, sucessfull in his field, good physique and dressing sense.
/r/askTRP04/05/20 07:31 AM
2

Stress can give him insomnia, loss of sexual desire and appetite, moddiness. Try talking to him and advise on being positive minded. Keep in mind that it's easier said then done. He need to drop things what stressing him out, change his thought patterns and don't worry too much about the grades. Change of scenery or friend circle also sometime helps.
/r/askTRP04/05/20 07:25 AM
8

It's so much fun living alone. Cook with your favorite music on. keep your flat clean. Throw small house parties on weekend. Bring plates on different days. Enjoy your freedom.
/r/askTRP04/05/20 07:19 AM
1

Seems like the case of love-bombing from her side. Keep spinning 2 other plates to avoid catching feelings for her otherwise you will easily catch oneitis.
/r/askTRP03/05/20 10:24 AM
3

I used to do that but it never ends well, you waste so much energy and time for breakup to happen. The reason you might hate dumping is because of self guilt and you don't want to see yourself as pump & dump guy. It's like you are working for a company where you are not happy, you don't feel like resigning because in your head you are the loyal employee but if you do anything wrong the company doesn't give you second chance and might fire you straight away. It's aways better to leave with your h…
/r/askTRP03/05/20 09:59 AM
4

Meet at the venue mate. Don't go out your way by picking her up it looks like you are being super nice.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 12:49 AM
1

Trp world is not like a disney movie, it's a real world and people here are not suppose to please the op. People here give advice based on their experience and knowledge, so if someone thinks that is being mean or harsh then this is not the right place for them.
/r/askTRP17/03/19 09:36 PM
1

It depends on the woman. Some are really good in manipulating the situation.
/r/askTRP17/03/19 11:38 AM
-2

Don't think she is jealous. It's a female psychology she is going to treat you like king until she jumps on another one and leaves. It's like a drug which some women use, so when they leave men misses their king like treatment.
/r/askTRP17/03/19 12:25 AM
1

She wants to tie you down and probably checking if you fall for it. Maybe its' time to replace the plate, sounds like she gonna give you more trouble instead of pleasure. The choice is yours to make.
/r/askTRP17/03/19 12:14 AM
2

People post on Instagram to get likes and feed their ego. It's mostly fake stuff. Do you really believe happy couples are going to put their argument pics on social media to get likes. People post travelling pics to convince people that their life is full of fun, but in reality the grass is not always greener at other side. Everyone is going through some rough moments which you are not aware of. Don't let social media posts of your friends ruin your happiness, work on yourself ,improve your soci…
/r/askTRP16/03/19 09:33 PM
1

You need to join meet up groups, salsa or some classes of stuff that you are interested in. That way at least you will expand your social circle and if you have good networking skills you will make some friends.
/r/askTRP16/03/19 09:19 PM
1

You feel awkward going alone because it's outside your comfort zone, keep doing it and you will feel better in few months. If your aim is to chat with girls then you have to raise your SMV. I have seen few guys going solo in the bar and due to their higher smv girls come and chat to them. And if you are only going to bars/club to enjoy music or atmosphere then you don't need to worry about what people think. Honestly I don't think anyone really cares there. My advice is to keep going to the same…
/r/askTRP16/03/19 09:12 PM
1

If she has dropped the breakup shit test on you once and if you two get back together she will probably do that again. Don't let her pull the strings of your life.
/r/askTRP16/03/19 11:35 AM
29

People don't like the truth, they wanna live in dream land. As an example Disney and superhero movies earn more money than the movie based on real story. Once you unplugged then you realise that it's lonely in redpill world.
/r/askTRP16/03/19 11:20 AM
4

She swears she didnt sleep with him but admitted she was tempted and he tried twice Clearly shows that she slept with him, read it somewhere that if you catch a girl with someone in the bed she still gonna say I swear nothing happened, honey it's not what it looks like.. ​
/r/askTRP13/03/19 09:18 AM
3

Had the same feeling twice and caught oneitis which didn't turned out well at the end. It's like a drug effect, makes you feel good spending time with them but when it ends you are left with emotional pain. Now when I feel like catching oneitis again I soft next the girl and spend time with my buddies.
/r/askTRP12/03/19 10:12 AM
1

In the same boat mate. Game and seduction was fun but after doing that for years and swallowing the redpill it all seems like waste of time now. Clubbing is not fun anymore and tinder has given women so much ego boost that even Hb 3 women feels like Hb 8. How is life going in Thailand I was thinking about trying that for few months ?
/r/askTRP12/03/19 10:05 AM
1

Obviously gym buddies gonna take her side because she have vagina to attract beta orbiters. Ignore her and keep going to the gym, she is doing all this to mess up your head.
/r/askTRP12/03/19 09:04 AM
3

She doesn't sound like a normal person, may be she is used to hitting people for fun and get away with it. You should be glad that you found this stupid behaviour within couple of dates. Hard next if you prefer not to be her punching bag.
/r/askTRP12/03/19 08:57 AM
1

Nice explanation of their sexual adventure trips.
/r/askTRP10/03/19 10:29 AM
1

Yes women do travel for dick. There is no feeling of guilt as no one is judging them. In their mind they feel entitled to the pleasure and excitement of sexual encounters with strangers.
/r/askTRP10/03/19 10:24 AM
8

Very true.. Face-book is a fake book where people are lying to the world that they are happy.
/r/askTRP09/03/19 12:07 PM
8

" Truth is not always what you see. " They look happy but that's not the reality. I too fell for this 'happy couple' trap and when finally the relationship ended believe me I was so angry at myself by ignoring all the knowledge that I have learnt over the years.
/r/askTRP09/03/19 12:01 PM
28

Good comment..You hit the bullseye.
/r/askTRP08/03/19 09:24 AM
7

You handled it wrong, it's only contacts and not pics of her kissing other dudes. So stop being an insecure man and enjoy the time with her while it lasts.
/r/askTRP08/03/19 09:21 AM
1

No contact is the right move. It may take few months and will be rough journey until you move on to someone new. There is no rush, healing is a process and day by day you will feel stronger. ​
/r/askTRP07/03/19 09:56 PM
6

You are correct. They use the orbiter for ego boost and gives them something to talk about with their female friends. They feel to be in power by neglecting sexual intentions of an orbiter.
/r/askTRP07/03/19 09:45 PM
1

Soft next.. She sees you as her plate.
/r/askTRP07/03/19 09:44 AM
1

I guess you are not her long rebound. Sending card shows she still has some feelings for him. Do soft next for couple of days to raise your value.
/r/askTRP07/03/19 09:38 AM
1

This situation has messed up your head. Take it as a learning experience, you are going to meet more girls in the future and believe me most of them will lie. You have to get used to it or keep moving on.
/r/askTRP06/03/19 06:08 PM
2

Leave the relationship mate. You can see there is no trust between you two. If you tell her that you were snooping that shows your jealousy and insecurity issues, after this matter you will always be thinking that she is lying to you. It's a lose-lose situation. Even you confront her things will still be the same. You can't change people's behaviour. ​
/r/askTRP06/03/19 06:03 PM
1

It's a trap... If you don't run now you will be the one crying in few months time. ​
/r/askTRP06/03/19 03:15 PM
1

Sex is important for relationship, otherwise you two are just like housemates who are afraid to live alone. In most cases the woman who says 'sex is not important' is most likely to sleep outside the relationship when chad comes in the picture.
/r/askTRP06/03/19 11:02 AM
6

You are focusing too much on women and booze. Join the gym or martial art , try to make friends who have similar interest as you. Excess of anything is bad, the way your life is heading I think you will be bored of sleeping with women in your 30s. You can try Monk mode for few months to figure out your life priorities.
/r/askTRP06/03/19 10:56 AM
1

I also don't want to lose a good girl whom I love. You are at the losing end here by falling in love. Decision about marriage should be mutual not when one party is given others ultimatums. Walk away because if you were serious about getting married with her you would have been happy when she asked you rather than feared. ​
/r/askTRP01/03/19 09:13 AM
2

Try to open up once and you can see your value and frame going down in her eyes within few months. Then you will promise yourself not to do this mistake ever again. Most women want a man who can be the rock in relationship but not vice versa.
/r/askTRP28/02/19 10:57 PM
2

Start hanging out with your schoolmates, find people who have similar interest as you.
/r/askTRP28/02/19 09:34 AM
4

It's not going to last long now. Detach yourself and start looking for replacement.
/r/askTRP28/02/19 09:31 AM
2

They don't want to sound as sluts in their social circle but if alpha chad appears then there is no rule.
/r/askTRP17/02/19 07:08 PM
1

Reply 'life is great', don't ask any question from her and ghost. No response will show that you are still butt-hurt, she knows you had feelings for her and rejected you so you will always be beta for her. Any more communication with her will boost her ego.
/r/askTRP23/11/18 10:44 AM
1

You are right, people don't believe even if they see with their own eyes and the lie seems like the honest truth. It takes long time and experience to get unplugged and see the reality.
/r/askTRP08/11/18 11:39 AM
1

Agree with you. Ship has already sailed, if OP gets back with her she gonna dump him sooner or later so she can feel powerful.
/r/askTRP08/11/18 11:03 AM
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