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| 103 | If I [23] don't want to get married until I'm 30, how long should I wait for a proposal? | DISCUSSION | eviltickles | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 03:19 PM |
| 1 | The excitement! And Refinery29 supposedly wants to empower women... | eviltickles | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/20 10:03 AM |
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| 16 | How to NOT date women in 2021!!Also what's with all the expletives?? Can't even get through two sentences without using one. Dude clearly has issues. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 08:47 AM |
| 12 | Serial Killers and ‘BDSM’Yep! I actually did my B.A. paper on serial killers in American culture, and while my paper did not focus on the sexual aspect of it, during my research I did find quite a few links between BDSM-related fatasies, porn use, and serial killers. This was a few years ago but I went back and looked over some notes that I took after reading Peter Vronsky's "Sons of Cain: A History of Serial Killers from the Stone Age to the Present" and I would like to point out two things: While it cannot be said tha… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 01:51 PM |
| 11 | Social Media Red Flags?Too many shirtless pictures, especially ones in which he seems very smug and pleased with himself. I have nothing against posing without a shirt in an appropriate context, like you were on vacation, on a beach with friends etc. But if he has quite a few pictures in which he poses like some kind of Adonis, that's a red flag for me. Now if he's an actual model and makes money out of posing shirtless that's another story, but I guess it's quite rare to date a Calvin Klein model or so 😂 Same goes fo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 12:40 PM |
| 10 | Your techniques for NOT catching feeling too soon?Always invest LESS than he does. At least until you're in a committed relationship that is also going very well, because commitment isn't everything. Now investment may be different for everyone so that's for you to figure out how you tend to invest: time, energy, emotions etc. Don't put all your eggs in one basket. Until you are in a committed relationship you shouldn't stop meeting/talking/dating other men. If you're only focused on him than you're bound to catch feelings! Dividing your attent… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 11:34 AM |
| 2 | How to get him to spoil you?!Honestly I think they were just not generous men and actually quite selfish in this respect, when you care about someone you go out of your way to make them feel special (provided that they're a good partner)! I think it's very clear that you're not meant to be with someone who "doesn't do birthdays" (whatever that means). Pay attention if he does nice little things for you from the very beginning, such as bringing you flowers on a first date. I advise you to eer on the side of caution with actu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 11:31 PM |
| 7 | Woman Leaves BDSM community because, surprise surprise, they protected the powerful man who did things to her without her consent. Who would have guessed a community based on sexualized misogyny would do such a thing?!I would also like to point out that A LOT of serial killers had BDSM-related "fantasies" (this is a delicate way to put it). It may be an extreme example and correlation may not mean causation, but a connection is a connection. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/20 12:01 AM |
| 20 | Female friends of guysIf he studies/works in a female-dominated field I think it's pretty normal to have female friends. If he sort of goes out of his way to meet women and befriend them then that's quite dubious. It's important to know how they met and observe their interactions and also how these women treat you. If they act possessive of him and are catty towards you then that's clearly a red flag. Obviously, don't give these women the cold shoulder either. As someone else mentioned, I also find it a little questi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/20 11:56 AM |
| 18 | Watch how he ‘play fights’ with you, I just saw this tweet where the guy is extremely violent while ‘playing’This is terrifying, and the worst part is that she is playing along and even defended him! I would also like to point out another type of abusive "play fighting" between couples that is minimised, which is pinching. It even sounds silly but I've seen girls with serious bruises from their boyfriends forcefully pinching them. Him pulling and twisting your skin is abuse!! Of course the girls defend their boyfriends and say that they "bruise easily" and "it's not that serious." Girl, it's masked sad… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/20 12:32 AM |
| 14 | My Boyfriend Masturbates for 3+ hrs a day, 5 days a week during working hours. He has disciplinary problems at work. Our sex life sucks and only happens every few months. Rich Juzwiak: "There's no evidence this is compulsive! Have compassion for him! People are struggling! His Dick his Rules!"As someone pointed out this is like a part-time job and I kind of get the funny feeling that it might be true, that he's monetizing it somehow. 3 hours a day on week days like clockwork? Girl you're dating a camboy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/20 11:53 PM |
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