executordestroyer Archive

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1	The obsession movie increasing misandry, similar to Adolescence show. Not going to respond to them since I need to know better from experience. Not films, but there are YouTube police bodycams where the video is titled as female teacher in relationship with student. The fact it's not titled as sa shows how the video creators shape the narrative. Even saw another video titled as female teacher has s with student and not sa. They use every word but sa and r.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	25/07/26 04:36 PM
1	If below average men were given experience they would even themselves out. ⁷"Men need to figure out things on their own" I read a askmen discussion that talked about expectations that they struggle with. One person said how hyperagency individualism is a core expectation of men. So you saying this reinforces the bootstrap you are alone, you are a weak failure if you can't handle things by yourself. No know should be forced to be with someone they don't want to be with. What gives boys men a chance to develop grow to healthy functioning adults is a healthy support netwo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/26 12:55 PM
1	If below average men were given experience they would even themselves out. Most or all guys who don't have a healthy internal sense of self more likely than not didn't have a healthy upbringing of emotionally supportive parent family friends peers school community childhood experience. There could be some guys who despite having a healthy childhood, don't reach out, say those are outliers where guys relatively healthy would be outgoing. It's both nature and nuture. But this sub lacks nuance and resorts to pill based ideologies us vs them instead of nuanced thinking. If…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/26 12:42 PM
–	men are now more disillusioned with women than vice versa. That's why I stick with male spaces that humanize both sexes not trying to antagonize invalidate either. Women talk from a place of suffering which makes them understandably hateful of men. While men come from a place of being born raised socialized male whether they know it or not, all the conditions associated with it. If men were born women and vice versa women born men, they would be no different in how they were born think act, experience the gender dynamics of how men and women treat each …	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/26 12:05 PM
–	men are now more disillusioned with women than vice versa. This is why I feel movies about childhood friends into lovers type stories resemble the only natural organically occurring sense of a relationship where both people humanize each other during childhood where they don't antagonize almost dehumanize judge each other based on self worth since they both are going through life together as a team. Adulthood is basically interrogation fundamentally no different than a job interview that feels dehumanizing the person into a almost commodity to "fit into…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/26 11:48 AM
3	AI robotic girlfriends, absolute and best path, with almost no draw backs. This is what I gather. Girls are socialized more pro social while boys are socialized more anti social by parents family community school society all aspects of life every day interactions etc as proven by statistics such as crime statistics people like to shove into our faces showing how men harm everyone both men and women. So boys are disadvantaged raised anti social at the start since birth their entire childhoods which reduces their chances of forming healthy human connection intimacy. Girl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/26 02:29 AM
2	“You’ll have plenty of time for girls later” NO YOU DO NOT Idk if this will help but maybe check out healthygamergg for some general life to not feel like completely sht. Do you have any unknown mental conditions, trauma that affects how you think your potential? Finding out about cptsd helps me. I know friends don't fill the void but I'm guessing it's helps numb distract away from the deep pain having people to hang out with routinely.	/r/seduction	27/04/26 10:16 AM
2	“You’ll have plenty of time for girls later” NO YOU DO NOT If what ai says is true about +66% of men balding by 35 that's something I never thought about. I just assumed balding was not the norm. I wonder if the way modern society operates contributes to that. Also big factor teeth. Medical workers, dentists don't shame you but I feel their disappointment when I don't take care of myself in general due to being a mental mess. That's why everything fundamentally starts with being emotionally healthy since everything is built on top of a stable foundation…	/r/seduction	27/04/26 10:12 AM
1	Why women don't chase men? Your parents are supposed to be the ones who care most about you who brought you into this world and your dad messing with you emotionally compromises fks with your mind perception of life sense of safety. It's one thing when other people don't care about you and neglect your emotions but when it's any type of unwanted treatment from the people who are suppose to help you most your parents it sets you up mentally scarred compromise for life. Years later after highschool college, being alone and …	/r/seduction	27/04/26 09:11 AM
1	The Most Common Issue I See With Unnatural Men True. Adding nuance to what op said about guys taking things too literally. Why stunted growth robotic black white thinking is mistaken for autism when it might not be. Legitimate diagnosis yes, but don't pathologize disguise a systematic socializing cultural problem as a nature problem when it is nuture problem or maybe it's both. "Another boy in the same situation will be like fuck you, even if he gets beaten or whatever he'll still rebel and assert his sovereignty. He'll obviously be able to …	/r/seduction	25/04/26 05:10 PM
1	Why women don't chase men? Do you know what causes your low self esteem? Upbringing, family, parents, school, peers, repressed memories of something horrible? I feel it has to be a socialization influence.	/r/seduction	25/04/26 04:43 PM
1	Why women don't chase men? Unfortunately didn't save the comment. Forgot what the person said in a psychology of sax thread but they said how men are socialized to transfer their emotional independence and be dependent to women for their emotional needs which is why men stress more from break ups than women. Your comment, this whole thread is affirming how men been disadvantaged socialized wrong needing women's validation since chasing doesn't work. If a woman likes you they let you know and reciprocate make it a healthy …	/r/seduction	25/04/26 04:41 PM
1	This Needs To Be Said!!!! This is why I don't believe in free will or at least life is cruel determinism. Just here to suffer. True you should try for the best chance but a lot is pre determined by nature nuture upbringing influences since birth childhood.	/r/seduction	25/04/26 04:30 PM
1	The Most Common Issue I See With Unnatural Men Basically us humans for the most part operate on black white good bad thinking no matter how much we deny that. Telling boys to press up I think can be replaced with more nuance such as "read their body language". This isn't black white thinking but tells boys to essentially rely on subconscious behavior they learned from their entire childhood growing up from parents school community etc. I got beat a lot by my dad since I was a unruly kid. But my mom fortunately treated me unconditionally so I…	/r/seduction	25/04/26 04:25 PM
1	The Most Common Issue I See With Unnatural Men To op mostly You know dmn well how horribly socialized boys men are since birth their entire childhood lives. Physically beaten, absed, emotionally neglected and we're all here just regurgitating "oh it's just autism adhd add brain issues nothing to do with how we raised boys just be boys amrite". Then everyone acts all confused why males are more aggressive angry defensive sociopathic violent proven by statistics. I don't think it's autism truthfully for most people. It's a case of almost every…	/r/seduction	25/04/26 03:59 PM
1	Cold approaches are one of the healthiest things men can do. I think what they mean by respectful is stopping the moment the person's body language shows them being uncomfortable. Anyone relatively mentally healthy and socialized properly enough understands this. I'm a social recluse but even I know this from just having regular typical interactions during childhood.	/r/seduction	25/04/26 03:41 PM
1	The ultimate list of unattractive traits that turn off women even if they were initially interested in you. Glancing at this post, this seems rp. Idk if this list is true due to how women are socialized but if so then men were socialized completely the opposite of this entire list. This op I feel they completely dissected the human experience into commodification and human nature is really that superficial or I'm out of touch or in between. This list seems a paradox, don't follow external social norms but follow this list. Or I'm misinterpreting their message, I guess they say be your genuine solid ch…	/r/seduction	25/04/26 03:31 PM
1	The ultimate list of unattractive traits that turn off women even if they were initially interested in you. Glancing at this post, this seems rp. Idk if this list is true due to how women are socialized but if so then men were socialized completely the opposite of this entire list.	/r/seduction	25/04/26 03:28 PM
1	Women often give horrible dating advice Yes behavior is also from nature how someone is born mentally either within, beyond the spectrum of either pro social and anti social traits beyond our current humanity's understanding of psychology philosophy evolution history anthropology all fields of study thought. Someone mentioned biosocial theory which helps put more nuance express nature nurture in more detail. Does high social mean prosocial mentality behavior while low is anti social mentality behavior traits? Are you saying genes also…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/26 02:00 PM
1	Women often give horrible dating advice Unfit genes as in looks? What about how people are socialized? A unconventionally looking person raised in a healthy environment is probably going to have a better chance naturally attracting others when they been raised healthy have a healthy outlook compared to a similarly unconventionally looking person born in a unhealthy environment.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/26 03:35 AM
1	Women often give horrible dating advice Unfit genes? So nature's way of natural eugenics? Natural selection basically?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/26 03:12 AM
1	Women often give horrible dating advice Looks are a perquisite, without them no chance while personality keeps the relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/26 01:23 PM
1	Women often give horrible dating advice For me I don't know if it's autism, since I mostly can automatically tell how a person feels about if I vibe with them or not. Or I'm too tired care and just assume everyone hates me and only keep talking with them if they feel receptive open. Everybody knows males are treated as threats dangerous way way worse since humanity collectively have a unanimous hivemind that men are inherently evil and don't think if it comes from nature or nurture socialization social conditionally. If it's not autis…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/26 01:21 PM
1	If I risk looking like a simp, my gut instinct says just don’t do it Dude this sub isn't that great. At the very least it isn't incelexit which is horrible just don't. Askmen, AskMenAdvice, askmenover30-70+ etc are better than this. If they have a good head on their shoulders they will sense know understanding you truly want to be better. Youtube Healthygamergg is the way. Also psychology in Seattle honda kirk. Patrick teahan if you have cptsd.	/r/ExRedPill	07/03/26 02:33 PM
1	"Girl Next Door" by Saving Jane What songs by avril and taylor?	/r/ExRedPill	07/03/26 02:18 PM
1	do you think reading literature for women might help boys stuck in red pill? "Hm I dunno. I grew up watching slice of life anime since I was 9 years old and became obsessed with it from the ages of 9 to around 13. Then I realized real life is not like the stories and romance I had become obsessed with" Wholesome healthy anime stories that make you break down ugly crying cartharsis questioning life are actually healthy and true caring for each other good stories. While reality is cruel bad faith. Finding Dr.k healthygamergg is like the mental health equivalent of a jesus …	/r/ExRedPill	07/03/26 02:14 PM
1	do you think reading literature for women might help boys stuck in red pill? "humanize" Haven't watched but a24 zone of interest seems to be about that.	/r/ExRedPill	07/03/26 01:44 PM
1	do you think reading literature for women might help boys stuck in red pill? Haven't watched Adolescence but what I read people say basically father emotionally neglect son, son bullied by everyone, son find community acceptance validation belonging for their struggles and kid is receptive to their ideologies because no one else gave a fuk about the kid. Peers actively bullied outcasted ostracized rejected him. Kid finds refugee online, gets radicalized indoctrinated by the community. Classic textbook nature nurture. Society lacks critical thinking to understand they eve…	/r/ExRedPill	07/03/26 01:42 PM
1	Hoe math and how you guys left this kind of thinking Just read how a parent said single people are selfish for wanting to live and not be deprioritized for lifeboats after children and parents so that was disheartening they invalidate single people’s emotions. I would be even willing to be deprioritized if they treated single people well in society but even in hypothetical Reddit discussions they just aren’t emotionally caring about you so they don’t even seem worth saving. I guess the YouTube algorithm brought use the same same because I also saw…	/r/ExRedPill	02/03/26 05:29 AM
1	Is there less dating with younger generations because they don't want to take as many risks? People organically naturally meet on a regular occurence in places such as childhood school k-12 university, neighborhood and stay within friend groups networks after those formative youth experiences. After the youth years is harder, next to impossible, takes effort finding compatible people through activities, hobbies, interests, local community, etc. Those who didn't have a healthy upbringing, environment never stood a chance if they didn't have any qualities mental and physical that would at…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/26 02:35 PM
–	women on reddit are very much part of the problem Forgot to add how this is systematic generational trauma caused by shaming. While therapy is one solution, it is fundamentally ultimately a reactive bandaid mindset after the symptom occurs from the root cause of a broken culture. Proactive mindset is addressing how fathers mothers family community society at large socialize condition children boys girls based on harmful gender roles growing up so they don't become jaded hateful shamed in the first place preventing less problems in the future.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/26 02:02 AM
–	women on reddit are very much part of the problem Thank you for not invalidating derailing the struggles, it a rare occurence online.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/26 01:01 AM
7	Women of Reddit are not interested in helping men, they are more interested in abusing and bullying them Asked mod for mental health resources, places I could vent, they said "not my concern". The whole thread community was just invalidating. Been treated better by airport security and police than inclexit. MensLib and guycry are spineless communities that demonize instead of understand the struggles of male sexuality and socialization. General askmen subs seem better at least superficially since they sound more layperson not out to get you and humanize you more than the so called support subs.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/26 10:44 AM
2	women on reddit are very much part of the problem You know the saying hate is like drinking poison expecting the other person to dye. When people aren't given health mental emotional support in processing their problems such as these people voting for the demise of everyone. People with little to nothing to lose will be thinking "since they invalidated my struggles, if no one cares about me I might as bring them down with me"	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/26 10:22 AM
1	women on reddit are very much part of the problem Helicopter parenting not allowed to leave the house, emotional physical abuse along with aggression based shaming with "crying makes you a pusy gey loser" leaves a lot of boys that grow into broken men being perpetuators of dv, crime as show by the countless statistics people shove into multiple threads. This is why boys without healthy role models are at a huge disadvantage when it comes to how they internalize that unhealthy from parents and self project it out onto others. Why is male behavio…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/26 10:07 AM
1	women on reddit are very much part of the problem I'm guessing due to how men are socialized aggressive with men shaming each other, men internalize this anti social behavior they treated among themselves. Men end up projecting onto and hurt women who do get into first relationships with them. These women then become abused, hurt, jaded. They become the vocal minority that invades other spaces outside of ppd meant for struggling men who become invalidated by jaded women that internalized the abuse from past men who were raised aggressive due to…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/26 09:36 AM
1	women on reddit are very much part of the problem Based on the wording, many threads give off the tone of antagonizing vilification demonization dehumanization invalidation rather than constructive neutral good faith respective discussions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/26 09:26 AM
2	Feminist online spaces are increasingly unable to take critique. Went to inclexit, didn't read rule cause I thought treating people like human beings was a given. Mod said "not my problem" when I asked for resources for men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/26 09:21 PM
–	What's a good way to find people for relationships these days? The animal shelter volunteer application needed about 2 or more references same as police, lol. It's a rough world out there for lonely people. For me I feel gradually being exposed to, finding niche online communities and gradually branch to eventual in person communities that advertise online can be a practical way low risk way to find compatible people communities. Idk how shelters work but I feel with the way human nature works, neurotypical people naturally judge and shame neurodivergent pe…	/r/ExRedPill	30/01/26 08:00 AM
1	The Tate brothers masculinity hypocrisy Makes me think, wonder if most world suffering, crime, addiction, homelessness, abse, mental health, dysfunctional, a majority of it comes from generational trauma. Trauma combined with many other influences factors. I wonder if tat had a stable functional healthy enough family parents community friends school staff counselors coworkers boss mentors everyone he met life, I wonder if he could have turned out different. Maybe instead of aggressive unhealthy behavior it could be aggressive energy c…	/r/ExRedPill	30/01/26 07:52 AM
–	Self-centered men just can't handle the change that comes with having kids I think there can safely be two ways of thinking this. You either feel it is a life calling, your purpose meaning in life to have a healthy family. Or focus on yourself since your mind either from born nature or nurture instinctually do not truly desire kids. People feeling conflicted idk but I feel would ultimately regret it because they aren't 100% committed. 100% committed parents of course will be tired but they wouldn't regret it. There are many parents who love their unplanned children but…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/26 06:18 PM
1	Hoe math and how you guys left this kind of thinking Never been red pill. I'm mostly in a mental health crisis and not hate towards women. It all started from failing university, no help from them. Then got called loser, btch cry baby, failure, disappointment, all types of shaming from multiple people throughout life. Almost got cops called on me for accidentally using the wrong restroom since I didn't "know my place" didn't see the sign, I was just trying to take a sht. Was treated as a predator before I even knew what it was about. During all of…	/r/ExRedPill	12/01/26 07:51 AM
1	LWMA Lounge December 2025 Was always in denial prolonging the inevitably hostility with coping mechanisms until recently when the emotions can't be suppressed anymore. Don't have anyone in person so online is my only hope, outlet. Went to inclexit talking about how men need emotional support, a place to vent, validation and the mod said not my concern. So I didn't know how that sub was until now, I thought it was going to be a supportive male space but it's just "tough love suk it up deal with it" instead of helping you …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	01/01/26 05:31 PM
1	Hoe math and how you guys left this kind of thinking All his videos? What about the levels of thinking? I haven't watched it yet because I need to watch it when I'm mentally ready. That one seems to be the only video(s) that seems to be about thinking in general and less about sex from a glance. I think the rest of the gender content is unhealthy. I'm only looking for mental health videos in general which the levels of thinking seems to be one. As the other comment say, h math is not a healthy mentality username to have.	/r/ExRedPill	01/01/26 02:55 PM
1	Why do men need women? Makes sense people talk about how humanity's survival requires a small percentage of men to reproduce making men inherently disposable. Someone described in detail about performative virtue signaling moral grandstanding. This is what makes the situation worse invalidating men's experience by downplaying the reality truth of subconscious instinctual primal uncontrollable attraction, not understanding the systematic cultural dehumanization, breaking of the male spirit. People are going to take wha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/25 12:44 PM
1	Why do men need women? I guess it depends on the individuals you meet but generally speaking I agree that genders are socialized different as shown by everyone showing statistics of men disproportionately being perpetrators of crime due to being socialized anti social since birth. I had bad encounters and support from both men and women in person and online. During elementary, you know how kids are, we followed a trouble kid (who clearly had a bad upbringing looking back) chase a girl into the girls bathroom. I rememb…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/25 06:42 AM
2	Why do men need women? Edit: from woman people	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/25 01:06 AM
1	Too many guys let normal experiences become their whole personality and stunt their growth. "let trauma" as if it's a choice we can mentally be aware of the damage trauma does. Some people die not understanding they been traumatized, so it seems unreasonable to expect a child to know because wisdom is taught hand to hand with experience not just self learnt otherwise we sill be stuck in the stone age not sharing wisdom with each other. That's why we have so much ignorance because humans operate by socializing teaching learning each other, not confined to a digital detached from humanit…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/25 12:04 PM
1	Apparently women expect men to read their minds If you think about how men were socialized to repress their emotions with boys don't crybaby, boys easier to raise which really means easier to emotionally neglect, it's no wonder why men are completely lost at socializing. If you assign lack of social skills as an individual moral shortcoming failing of character then how do you explain the majority of statistics of men disproportionally being the perpetrators of violence? Are men predominantly just born anti social by biology or raised that wa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/25 11:48 AM
1	Men make no sense in any regard. Are men born anti social or socialized anti social?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/25 11:39 AM
1	Biggest reason men are mad at women? Miserable paths. I agree ineffective social programs that waste taxpayer money don't help anyone that it was proposed to help such as homelessness, addiction crime etc and only continues the cycle. That's why my mindset shifted from seeing it not as a purely economical problem but rather a cultural social mindset problem that needs changing. The problem is we either been socialized to indulge in unhealthy selfishness, lack empathy or don't have the mental state or energy to change for the better since human natu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/11/25 11:31 PM
1	A shit tonne of men who spend too much time online have very little confidence in themselves, not just romantically or sexually, but also in other aspects of life Before I dropped out of college due to no mental health support, the times I wasn't online I was in school and human interaction was neutral at best. When in person society support fails, that is when socially struggling people logically resort to online spaces that provide the emotionally support they lack in real life when they been emotionally shamed all throughout their lives. Insecurity no confidence doesn't come from just a few times of social struggling but an entire lifetime of emotional…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/25 01:38 AM
1	The only criteria to loving a man. Reading this now it sounds you been wrongfully mistreated by those those you put vulnerable trust into. I hope you get find the healing help you need because this comment feels, speaks a lot of pain that is unprocessed	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/25 12:32 PM
2	The only criteria to loving a man. If you were born a man, would you hate yourself as you currently do towards men?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/25 12:27 PM
1	The only criteria to loving a man. Did you see that "my son is a hateful incl" post? A person commented how years of online experience let them know it was ragebait. Even if it was real, it's sad how we live in a sick society where everyone both men women deny they perpetuate the cycle of suffering subconsciously enforcing harmful gender roles which creates this harmful conditioning socalization in the first place that plagues humanity.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/25 12:22 PM
2	Women say rejection is apart of life but I feel as if they don’t experience it enough to really understand how demoralizing it is. I don't exactly know what Chad means. In the context you use Chad saying "p&d", it doesn't sound very gentlemanly, rather plyboy like. Discarding woman as objects rather than treating women holistically as people. If purely sexual is what Chad mean, then that is one meaning. If people mean Chad as in emotionally healthy, then p&d is antithesis to that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/25 11:39 AM
1	Female double standards regarding insecurity In advance sorry for the antagonistic tone. This a personal subject because I been let down by the people in my life so much so bad that 4chn communities forums are more helpful than people irl which shows how disappointing we are overall as a humanity when I found better understanding from 4chn understanding trauma better than people irl. Reactionary responses without working on proactive preventative solution perpetuates the cycle of suffering. Same how we need first responders firefighters pa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/25 10:49 AM
1	Female double standards regarding insecurity Life changing perspectives from people talk about how most societal ills come from a sick society that lacks critical thinking about understanding mental health. Narcissism incldom many anti social conditions stem from trauma which protects their psyche from fully absorbing the full reality of their abusive situation. Because if they didn't develop a defensive ego to shield their fragile child mind they would have been mentally broken during childhood. We need to proactively prevent this from ha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/25 02:17 AM
1	Female double standards regarding insecurity How were you treated your upbringing childhood family, parents siblings relatives friends school teachers classmates coworkers bosses every person you physically meet in person? Being told by everyone that you're a worthless pos since you were born birth your entire childhood does that to you. Why you put those ellipses? To me on text it seems to indicate a tone of condescension, unhealthy pride arrogance I see far too much online and in person.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/25 02:10 AM
1	Female double standards regarding insecurity This explains a lot of why people refuse to, can't heal. The internal desire to heal requires being in touch with your emotions which many people men and women were socially taught by parents family parents siblings relatives friends school community work everyone in society to ignore their emotions which is why therapy doesn't work since people been conditioned to ignore be out of touch with their emotions. Everyone both men women probably grew with trauma which their mind in response to the tr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/25 02:04 AM
3	It IS society's fault that many neurodivergent men are unable to find a partner For people who are making excuses not officially diagnosed obsessing about lack of a social life they know they can change yeah I agree they need to find help to not obsess about sex. For the person, case I saw, they are officially diagnosed and under a government program for assisted living since they physically mentally cannot take care of themselves. So at least now I know we're talking about different demographics here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/25 09:21 AM
3	It IS society's fault that many neurodivergent men are unable to find a partner Sincere curiosity. When you say good, natural selection do you mean malice wishing them to suffer by that or thinking it's unfortunate they were born that way wanting them to not suffer?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/25 07:01 AM
6	It IS society's fault that many neurodivergent men are unable to find a partner Idk how to use 4chan but these type of hard to find niche forums, when I find some of them they at least are unfiltered human nature tell it how it is which I find refreshing over the sterilized fakeness of the mainstream. Maybe I just don't know how bad it was back then but there's a sense of authenticity no matter how bad in early internet that is lost in today's world. Here in reddit it's hypocritical virtue signaling moral grandstanding superiority complex masking which seems feels like patr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/25 01:56 AM
3	It IS society's fault that many neurodivergent men are unable to find a partner I was shadowing to see if I could be a caretaker of a autistic case. Seeing the stark difference in the level of care required in contrast with the cruel reality of human nature such as the trades, hel even white collar work shows how life and human nature shows no mercy for the disadvantaged.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/25 01:44 AM
5	A man’s ability to attract women has nothing to do with whether or not he’s a good person I read someone point out, they made the sentiment how this valuing looks hookup is short term superficial based. The women, men, people who do this aren't long term oriented minded. I'm guessing women who value long term relationships would mainly only organically meet in natural non forced settings environments such as high school sweethearts, childhood friends who humanize understand each other instead of discarding each other. After school stage of life would be college and common interest ac…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/25 04:48 PM
1	Is the Cure to Male Loneliness Going to College? A big insight many people seen to be missing that I found people talk about is socialization. There are good insights saying that due to gender roles, men are socialized conditioned to disregard their emotions while women are socialized conditioned shamed into getting their emotions their check. So girls are generally socialized to emotionally support each other because that was all they could do when they are abused by those in power. Men also get abused by those in power but dont have the same…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	16/09/25 07:00 AM
1	Is the Cure to Male Loneliness Going to College? Human nature isn't logical, it is pure emotions at the end of the day life when you go to bed. Same thing about the feelings of revenge justice punishment retribution forgiveness all emotions are what drive humans ultimately and people who say otherwise are conditioned to deny this. In ethics class we talked about police discrimination. I admit I misunderstood someone or some police forum talking about discrimination and instead of regurgitating the information correctly I regurgitated my misund…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	16/09/25 06:27 AM
1	Is the Cure to Male Loneliness Going to College? I felt numb going through life, failed all classes, because I felt numb I didn't change grading to no grading system before deadline during covid. Asked college to change it saying I was mentally overwhelmed during covid. They said no. Which I take it as "f you you lazy manchild"	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	16/09/25 06:14 AM
1	Escorts are the best option for undesirable men Idk if you're kidding with this one, but if not that sounds existentially depressing defeating, so it's logical for unwanted people to feel the way they do. Invalidating people about their struggles makes it worse. So it's self fulfilling prophecy, halo effect pretty privilege type of existentialism. How at the base of human nature, looks matters. Same reason why it is instinctual for many people to be afraid scared of bugs because many bugs are detriment to health. Not saying it's good but hoa …	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/25 04:01 AM
1	The bluepill is by far the nastiest dating ideology What does double jaw surgery do comestic wise. Medically dental wise for me my teeth are misaligned have a gap so I take twice at long to eat than other people. 15 for others is 30 for me. Biggest reason is poor chewing breaking down food so poor digestion leads to life long term health problems. Seeing pictures on Google gives me shivers though. Work on the physical side as you can. For the mental health side, google search despite being a shell of its former self is able to show me healthygame…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/25 03:45 AM
2	Women don't move on faster after a relationship ends. Men are just easier to replace. Men rag on men more than women and men ragging on women. Human nature as a species as alarm said is self programmed. Due to our human nature programming we dehumanize men. Just look at how young boys going up from 0 to 18 get dehumanized insults of sisy pssy loser failure vrgn incl man up not a real man monster entitled privileged spoiled sheltered immature mommies boy, little timmy needs to be coddled, get your sht together no one is going to help you, keep it to yourself, trauma dumping, just …	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/25 01:48 AM
1	Thoughts on “Pyschhacks”? A comment I didnt save said it best. So far what we know of true love is the relationship being 10 90, 20 80, 30 70, 40 60 in terms of effort. Never 50 50. If you truly care about each other you both would want to be the one doing the 60 70 80 90 percent ride and die type of relationships that people find in the tight knit would die for each other military brotherhood which is what marriages are supposed to be about. It seems people just forgot the in sickness and health part which is mind boggl…	/r/ExRedPill	01/08/25 11:01 PM
2	Modern relationships don’t fail because of one gender, both have lost their sense of duty I think innately people do acts of kindness because deep down inside they know that when they need help, that if they of everyone fulfills the social contract the human connection of helping each other, then no one is left behind. You me we help because we know we appreciate someone helping pulling us out when we are stuck. So human nature I guess has a innately give and take aspects to it or maybe something else. Maybe we're social and need o each other for overall completeness. I remember bein…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/25 02:59 PM
1	Modern relationships don’t fail because of one gender, both have lost their sense of duty I guess survival is like putting your own oxygen mask first. But then that's all we do. We don't help others who struggle putting on the mask and sometimes even actively sabotage, laugh at them for not being able to put on a mask. We just continue watching the in flight entertainment while the pilot (harmful counterproductive ideas, cultural hiveminds) nose dives the plane into the ocean. Maslow's pyramid (taking out the sex part) does require survival for stable environment suitable for love la…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/25 02:50 PM
1	Modern relationships don’t fail because of one gender, both have lost their sense of duty Since you're young do listen to the advice from your fellow women about not getting burdened by having children. Idk how sex education is but from one too many stories of people who didnt plan on being parents, sex ed doesn't work well enough. Don't have children til over 35 because your brain development, mind will be a rollercoaster up to late twenties even after 30. I probably might not need to say this to you because you know how the people who need the information the most are usually the o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/25 02:41 PM
1	Women don’t care about cars. And past a certain age you should know that. Until they're out. At the end of the day cars are a tool for most and an expensive hobby for others. It's sad how all these people were socialized to waste away their lives years indebted to a material thing that doesn't bring true meaningful fulfillment when they could have been saving up their money for life experiences on more grounded human experiences and with others friends family. Innovation comes from variety in human nature, I can understand that but this predatory system of people gett…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/25 03:50 PM
1	Women don’t care about cars. And past a certain age you should know that. So either tens of thousands of dollars towards mostly interest and if they don't find a better job, eventual repo? I'm guessing they aren't getting much resale value unless it's a limited edition car enthusiasts want.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/25 03:32 PM
1	Women don’t care about cars. And past a certain age you should know that. Seeing the idk of this is the right term but cognitive dissonance, mental blindness of people in supercars while that resources money used for those luxury cars could be used to fund technological innovations to advance humanity and eventually prevent further human suffering through true learning and not just blind knowledge. I guess as people said in better terms I can't recall but somewhere along the lies of "it's human nature arrogance that is driven by the same force drives that innovation."	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/25 03:25 PM
2	Women don’t care about cars. And past a certain age you should know that. 3k monthly salary, 1k rent, 1k car, 1k food insurance utilities internet phone other essential miscellaneous. This doesn't seem possible how long can this debt hold this bad financial decision? Don't know if paying minimum payment debt on time gradually lowers score but I feel you wouldn't be getting a new lease anymore when lenders see the debt. So this doesn't feel like a long term thing, just a short 3 year lease and never again until the debt is paid? I guess they aren't off to a great finan…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/25 03:10 PM
3	Women preach “confidence” but get annoyed when average men think they have a chance with them I read some people who sound like they know what they're talking about. A bartender said it's true if someone is attractive then they have more leeway because the unattractive people who do the same exact behavior get kicked out of bars. Another couple of older experienced men say basically be respectful of people when approaching and understand the social atmosphere vibe and you can get along. If you don't find anyone interested then respect that which confirms how attraction does matter and to…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/25 02:54 AM
2	The majority of people aren't as bitter and awful as people here like to make them out to be Oh I guess I used the word echo chamber wrong if it's meant to be a negative annotation to describe something. I wasn't trying to draw any lines, definitely used the word wrong. I definitely meant support group. Also gauging the subs communities I visit on an objective scale, there is always going to be some degree of in group bias due to innately shared human experiences. I do still find support in these subs but also balance it with perspectives from communities such as this sub. When I see ex…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/25 06:47 PM
2	The majority of people aren't as bitter and awful as people here like to make them out to be My family is financially physically supporting me but not really mentally. If I have a hard time imagine other people. No doubt having money matters, but after a certain point money doesn't solve the crippling hole void the in your soul, denying it is denying your humanity. The innate truth you know something is fundamentally wrong with you and it would take true understanding to get better which would be a miracle considering how hard it is to find the life answers that give you true peace on w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/25 06:24 PM
2	The majority of people aren't as bitter and awful as people here like to make them out to be I like healthy echo chambers because that's just a healthy environment, a substitute, mentor when family failed and if you have no support at all. At the end of the day human nature needs validation a sense of belonging support. There is one sub that is controversial but I find it helps me. A digital place where you can seek help when in person support is lacking, fails. I try to stick with the takes that address the root cause of the problems are productive. Then there are posts you can tell ar…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/25 06:12 PM
1	The majority of people aren't as bitter and awful as people here like to make them out to be Most of the time reddit doesn't hit the mark but when people do they explain a lot of things that hit my soul, accurately when it comes to what people truly think inside their minds since in person in the real world you don't hear see all the raw unfiltered stuff they have in their heads. You get the rate G disney version of what they're thinking. Only with family friends close ones do you maybe get real talks.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/25 06:01 PM
3	The majority of people aren't as bitter and awful as people here like to make them out to be When I wake up my mind finds peace in healthy influences and I go about my day healthy as planned. Whenever I deviate from the healthy plan, one step off the path into the rabbithole mindlessly scroll I go from philosophical, deep thoughts, critical thinking communities to this mindless blinded suffering hate lack of critical thinking that I see on countless subs posts. What sucks are the objective truths, many authentic, earnest, honest, well intentioned, genuine, down to earth, raw unfiltered …	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/25 05:53 PM
2	The majority of people aren't as bitter and awful as people here like to make them out to be I saw a comment have a laugh saying how a troll post was rage bait "My son is a hateful incl, and I just cannot save him or defend him anymore. : r/self" This commentor and many others said they were able to tell it was a troll from their years of experience of internet culture so they know bullshit when they see it. When I read the post before seeing the people calling out the bullshit, I thought wow this sucks. It feels like half the people fell for the trick and the other half knew it was a t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/25 05:42 PM
1	What complaint COULD a man state about being a man, that you would FULLY agree, and sympathize with? And you your first thought IS NOT: "But it's because of other men and the patriarchy..." I read tradespeople say to prioritize yourself because if you break your back get injured they'll just replace you with someone else next in line. Breaking your back leads to an income loss of hundreds of dollars, bedridden in pain for the rest of your life. What's better than danger is having a functional back to be able to make money and have money to be able to pay for that 30% apr dodge Camaro mustang /s. The functional back part isn't a lie though, most people don't understand for fragility…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/25 11:34 AM
1	What complaint COULD a man state about being a man, that you would FULLY agree, and sympathize with? And you your first thought IS NOT: "But it's because of other men and the patriarchy..." I made the mistake of looking suspicious reading the customers only sign on the restroom when I didn't buy anything. This was back then when they didn't lock restrooms. I was using the toilet, then suddenly someone told me they would call the cops if I didn't get out. I thought they caught me because I didn't buy anything but no it wasn't because I wasn't a customer. It was because I went in the wrong restroom where I didn't read the gender sign but rather the customers only sign facepalm. Got o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/25 11:21 AM
1	Young chronically single men thanks to their mothers The Google search results algorithm used to be supportive for college dropouts. Then either I put in the term loser or the algorithm and toxic people started equating the term drop out with loser then eventually equate loser with incil and I ended up here seeing this thread and ended up replying to your comment. So yeah boys mem need to support each in tight knit close communities around activities hobbies interests passions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/25 11:50 PM
1	Young chronically single men thanks to their mothers Not everyone is born as fortunate as you to have your exact brain body mind environment teachers schools male role model. Imagine if you had absolute no healthy male role models you wouldn't be who you are today. Stop sissy shaming "be real man you fckig pssy crybaby misogynist women hating incil loser" shaming struggling boys and men you only step on their necks and further outcast ostracize reject push them towards harmful role models communities that further hurt both men and women. Since all…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/25 06:12 PM
1	Young chronically single men thanks to their mothers Oh man this is so wholesome. But unfortunately assertiveness comes first and then followed by kindness. My dad put so much focus on me to make money I check out of life dropped out of college and neet. I am not assertive not kind because of how much trauma cptsd I have. I find the so called toxic extreme radical indoctrinating male spaces to be more supportive loving accepting accepting validating embracing a sense of belonging more arm over your shoulder bro help each other out culture. Healthy…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/25 06:03 PM
1	Men shouldn’t be blamed for not having good social skills and outlets when a society like ours isn’t built to value them. I'm fortunate my family isn't that bad relatively comparatively speaking but I do fear they will abandon me at any moment because of me being unemployed. The family part is completely understandable it unimaginably sucks makes you your soul hope in humanity feel dead. But the potential finding true friends part is what gives me hope. Whatever you do I hope you find peace.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/25 11:24 PM
1	Men shouldn’t be blamed for not having good social skills and outlets when a society like ours isn’t built to value them. If you want the post, someone who struggled and understands the pain said to look for those niche hard to find specific specialized communities that interest you and try to find people you are compatible with there. That's one suggestion. If that doesnt help then I hope you can continue finding whatever can give you peace.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/25 03:56 PM
3	Are things getting better or worse for boys? Young boy harmed, society sleeps. Prison soap is a joke in kids shows. Young girl harmed, witch hunt pitch fork. Netflix Adolescence. Haven't seen it but based off social media reactions, the comments dehumanize the boy instead of seeing how he is a human boy who struggles with human emotions feelings, troubled struggling. Obviously no one should be murdered. People only see the superficial boy bad, girl oppressed. No one sees how both men women perpetuate the cycle of abusive dehumanizing of bo…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	11/06/25 06:05 AM
0	When men face any problems disproportionally, It's framed as being their own fault. Whereas with women, it's always "systemic" There needs to be healthy balance in everything. Theoretically on pure paper, Scandinavian, some european standard of living quality of life everyone needs access to for higher cognitive functioning so they don't need to spend their mental brainpower on survival mode. The problem is logistically, culturally, emotionally, mentally, geographically, environmentally, economically, historically, humanely, etc. human nature makes it realistically, practically, infinitely complex to solve when we only …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/25 03:37 PM
1	When men face any problems disproportionally, It's framed as being their own fault. Whereas with women, it's always "systemic" Speaking from a theoretical perspective. If I had to guess, a human soul would enter a human body and had to choose between being brutally sa, tortured, etc or being brutally tortured with a lesser chance of brutally sa, etc. It was bad for everyone but one biological difference did have it worse in both aspects of suffering. However this doesn't excuse downplaying invalidating anyone's struggles in modern times.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/25 03:39 AM
2	When men face any problems disproportionally, It's framed as being their own fault. Whereas with women, it's always "systemic" Physical privileges or struggles such as the physical evidence of suffering is easy, visible to the eye to compare while mental and social are less visible. Trauma Olympics doesn't help, it just perpetuates invalidating 9 to 1 pain which ironically continues 10 pain through systemic harmful gender roles. Everyone needs help. Disclaimer of course we have to tackle issues one by one because of how limited the human condition, mind is we can only focus on one cognitive thing at a time. Just don't i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/25 03:32 AM
1	When men face any problems disproportionally, It's framed as being their own fault. Whereas with women, it's always "systemic" To break it down some more. Even if there wasn't capitalism human nature will find a way to blame suffering on any system if that system was a better system than capitalism. Let's say post scarcity star trek human nature will still find a way to complain about things. It's the human nature that stays constant. The best we can do is recognize flaws and work on it. For parents who need to feed their children they quite likely have no choice but to participate in the system to keep their children f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/25 03:24 AM
3	When men face any problems disproportionally, It's framed as being their own fault. Whereas with women, it's always "systemic" Yesterday in a mental health subreddit turned off my filter, vented honestly and got downvoted ghosted. No wonder.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/25 03:13 AM
1	It's very dangerous seeing all these female dating experts using male loneliness as a way to bash men when there's literally no co-relation that lonely man=bad men. Men are absolutely dehumanized they have no emotional support outlets because that is "trauma dumping just go see a therapy you fking loser." Mental health subreddits downvote censor you if you get too extreme emotional. Only place for trauma dumping emotional validation acceptance a sense of belonging is found in extremism radical communities so they get radicalized even further. Families will kick troubled boys out for acting out, they get into trouble, jail record, classic school to prison pi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/25 08:57 AM
2	It's very dangerous seeing all these female dating experts using male loneliness as a way to bash men when there's literally no co-relation that lonely man=bad men. I read people say grief has no timeline so what you experienced is dehumanizing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/25 08:43 AM
2	Got muted from Healthygamer for saying women need men Short version: I stay in healthy communities of life, real and online because they are loving, supportive, nurturing, authentic, understanding, vulnerable, acting in good faith, embracing, productive unlike bad faith shaming, hurting, punishing, ostracizing, counterproductive. I guess I'm at the stage in life needing to build the fundamentals before getting into movement based parts of life. I think a root cause of many ills in human nature come from lack of healthy nurturing. Encountering any s…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	09/02/25 01:16 PM
2	Got muted from Healthygamer for saying women need men Thank you I am too lazy ha. Thanks for the perspective since I don't follow these subs as much. I only look at subs like these when reality hits me and I read for support. I actual got the perspective that bropill and daddit would be healthy communities to find support in as recommended by the very popular 15mil member "two_c" yes that subreddit. Whenever I type about male issues that sub always pops up. Not what I was looking for so I instead try to find the light at end of the tunnel and they …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	09/02/25 12:36 AM
1	Online versus Real Life Yes tone. Human communication is multifaceted where body language, all visual cues, vibes are picked up naturally and subconsciously in person whereas being online is a new human experience. I guess subreddits, online communities are semi similar to family friend group dynamics where there are common ground, implied understood, good faith communication. Good faith communication where they can tell each others bs and fill in the gaps exactly what they're thinking without much talk. However online…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	09/02/25 12:07 AM
3	Online versus Real Life Most people I met in real life are chill everyday people trying to get by in life. Elementary, middle, high uni, work, outside everyone is chill. People who aren't are obviously suffering through their internal struggles which is understandable. I don't doubt people who experienced the truly bad side of human nature can't say the same since I didnt experience what they went through. There's the human element to real life interactions, physically seeing, being with the person that instantly make …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	08/02/25 10:03 PM
0	Got muted from Healthygamer for saying women need men Bropill, MensLib, daddit?	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	08/02/25 12:11 AM
1	Got muted from Healthygamer for saying women need men I don't remember if it was the American Psychological Association Ethics Committee or something else. Dr.K almost got officially cancelled by the ethics something. A youtuber called Seattle Psychology talked about it. I think it was because Dr.K mishandled something and the interviewee later on was a tragedy unknown cause. So there's a lot of history and so Dr.k can't just go around being unprofessional saying anything unfounded. Based on a lot of rumination we as humanity aren't developed enoug…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	08/02/25 12:07 AM
2	Got muted from Healthygamer for saying women need men Healthygamergg Dr.K is the reason I am not worse off. My first 30 minutes of watching him validated my entire existence, entire life. Every single thing that digs away at me completely explained. I just found how about this sub today and found many of my frustrations discussed here. It would be helpful if op showed screenshots of the full story. It's true healthygamergg has to tread on thin ice since the target audience, everyone are in vulnerable stages of their life so they are strict. Based o…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	07/02/25 11:41 PM
3	What's the appeal of the bad boy? Sounds like it's a human nature thing to want to do naughty things for both genders.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/22 10:18 PM