I am firmly convinced, thanks to my (and other people's) experience, that many of the problems of single men arise because they are not brought up properly in the family, and especially by the women in their lives.

Such single men most often do not have "bad personalities" but rather are soft, pliable and weak. Often their personality archetype intersects with the "nice guy" archetype.

The reason for the weakness of such men is simple... They are brought up in families with a strong female figure (mother, sister, etc.) and weak male figures who may even be absent.

Most women have absolutely no knowledge of how a young man should behave in order to protect himself from bullies, manipulators or selfish people with generally bad intentions towards him.

And this is still a "good option" for such a man, because the women in his life do not have evil intent. After all, there is something worse.

After all, sometimes these mothers may try to raise their sons as examples of “positive masculinity” for selfish reasons, driven by past trauma associated with these women’s interactions with men.

P.S. This is in no way an excuse for bad fathers. But does such a mother make the future life of these weak sons better? I think not very much