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| – | As a man who struggled to orgasm with partners, I really think the discourse around orgasm gap is unfair.Thank you kindly for expanding my understanding of agency and its degrees. Greatly appreciated. Here's an upvote from me. Secondly, I guess my issue with the 'degrees' of agency is from how you explained it. It''s basically like 'choices' or 'options' if you will--not so much like a 'spectrum' when we colloquially use the word 'degrees'. So framed in this sense, is having more choices objectively and necessarily 'better'? I think conventional wisdom says yes but when you have 30 options of peanu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 09:42 PM |
| – | Theory of mindOof~~ Kind of brain dead at the moment but your post's subject line reminded me of the upper division philosophy courses that I took at Cal Poly Pomona many eons ago. In particular, philosophy of mind and philosophy of science. In both courses, I was exposed to the works of David Chalmers and Daniel Dennett, two notable philosophers that talked about human consciousness, perception and how language alters both. I'm not going to dive into either of the two too deeply here, since frankly, it's bee… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 06:19 AM |
| 2 | Feminism was Supposed to Benefit MothersTHIS Notice how any time someone points this out, they unanimously get down voted to oblivion? Red pillers and blue pillers alike have their heads buried in the sand hoping the world isn't really falling. For those that see the long-term trajectory, it's plainly obvious. It's brainwashing 101. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 05:22 AM |
| 1 | Manosphere supporting Age Gap relationships to a fault is strange.Do you really want me to bring up all the American celebrities that pushes age gap relationships? People emulate what they see on TV, Tiktok, YouTube, film, read in books, newspapers, or hear on the radio, podcast, or other sources. There are too many sources to point out any single specific source. For instance, women's magazines push unrealistic beauty standards for women to look young. On the flip side, men's magazine push unrealistic standards to be older, more mature, accumulate wealth at a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 05:09 AM |
| 1 | Manosphere supporting Age Gap relationships to a fault is strange.Mmm... pretty sure age gap relationships is a phenomenon that is promoted and encouraged in the blue pill world, not uniquely a manosphere phenomenon. If anything, blue pillers can't help but to push that agenda down people's throats yet turn around and play dumb when called out for it. Blue pillers are the sneakiest, most two-faced, chronic liars of all the pills. They will throw you under the bus without hesitation or so much as a second thought, if it meant that they can even get a smidgen of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 04:36 AM |
| 2 | Men should be glad that they’re less desirable than women.I have no idea why you got down voted for stating your personal experience. This is pretty much the experience of all handsome men that hit the genetic lottery with just the right amount of masculine features and personality--yet don't go out of their way to flaunt or abuse this privilege. Or the ugly duckling adolescent that had a glow up in their later adult years. Same phenomenon happens. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 04:21 AM |
| 1 | As a man who struggled to orgasm with partners, I really think the discourse around orgasm gap is unfair.Funny that you're accusing me of trolling or intentionally misunderstanding the topic at hand when you did precisely that from the first response but unlike you, I just addressed your points, rather than calling foul because...what? I found the weakness of your explanation and pointed it out plainly? And now you're backpedaling and rephrasing your argument--moving the goal posts, in other words. Ok, bud. Anyway, we can agree that agency plays a role--albeit to what degree? Neither you nor I know… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 10:20 PM |
| 1 | As a man who struggled to orgasm with partners, I really think the discourse around orgasm gap is unfair.OMG, are you saying that putting a penis in a vagina (or orifice of your choosing) requires decades of training to master? I guess men have been doing it wrong all these past couple of millenia in human existence. Whatever shall we do? Please show us the path to enlightenment, oh wise one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 09:05 PM |
| 0 | As a man who struggled to orgasm with partners, I really think the discourse around orgasm gap is unfair.[I don't see that this is implied.] Then perhaps English isn't your first language. It certainly isn't mine but from my reading of this and forwarding this statement to my more affluent English speakers to check against my interpretation, they all unanimously agreed that you're basically saying exactly that. That women lack agency in their ability or lack thereof to achieve an orgasm. Agency in women's willingness to engage in and be an active participant in said sexual activities with their par… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 08:51 PM |
| -2 | As a man who struggled to orgasm with partners, I really think the discourse around orgasm gap is unfair.But the above explanation would imply that women lack agency in their ability (or lack thereof) to achieve an orgasm, which is clearly false, no matter how you try to spin this. This explanation puts women as the passive 'receiver' of an orgasm--and that it's up to the man to give a woman an orgasm. Any other method or means to achieve this orgasm would be impossible, which again, with the same explanation that you just gave above about lesbian women in partnerships with the same sex or in the c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 03:51 PM |
| 6 | Most of the Red Pill Men would be happier and more successful dating other Red Pill Men and hiring sex workers than trying to find a new mommy they can use as a flashlight.The interesting thing about the development of sex robots and AI chatbots is that leftist lobbyists in the West are fighting really hard through the legal jurisdictions not to allow either one to come into fruition--at least not enough to become practically replacing a whole person, which is a bit odd, considering that having either one would effectively solve the "alleged" 'male loneliness epidemic' BS that the same crowd keep peddling in mainstream media. It's almost like they don't want men t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 03:41 PM |
| 1 | The bluepill is by far the nastiest dating ideologyNormies are well....normies. They get exasperated over the tiniest things. I'm actually surprised that normies can function at all--seeing that they have such a hard time reconciling their cognitive dissonance between what other normies say to them of how things ought to work and what actually plays out. In your normie mind, anything that doesn't follow the mainstream view is a conspiracy. I can live with that and so can any other man that has come to this realization. But if men turn into douch… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/25 07:18 PM |
| 1 | The bluepill is by far the nastiest dating ideologyWhy don't you just call it what it is, rather than saying 'people'? Because NORMIES realized that frustrated young dateless guys can be easily separated from their money if you play on their frustrations and insecurities. Like you said, personal trainers, therapists and mentors have been doing this a lot longer--meaning they have gotten a lot better at selling lies to frustrated men and keeps them dateless by banging on their heads that they are still 'doing it wrong' even though the same men ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/25 04:40 PM |
| 3 | The bluepill is by far the nastiest dating ideologyAnd you do realize that normies' mainstream view also isn't anything new, original or secret at all, right? Yet, normies keep using this as a 'gotcha' moment to maintain the status quo. Bruh, if the status quo was so great, online spaces like PPD or any of the dating subforums anywhere else on the Internet would not exist. Why would such online forums be needed if dating was easy peasy for everyone participating in it? Why would dating coaches need to exist? Why would seduction or 'improving gam… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/25 07:12 AM |
| 0 | The lie regarding nice guysYou seem to be only one confused with the 'nice guy'. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/25 06:39 AM |
| 1 | The lie regarding nice guysHey dawg, whatever helps you sleep at night. I'm actually okay with you believing whatever it is that believe in. I can't control that. I can only control me and how I respond to external factors happening outside of me. Normies engage in all sorts of illogical behaviors in dating that I'm convinced that they only see black and white--even though there's a lot of nuances and gray areas that the Red Pill points out. I'm not the one choosing these people with those qualities as partners. Ask the n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/25 06:36 AM |
| -1 | The lie regarding nice guysWhat rules? Go read this subreddit's definition. Perhaps this redditor does prefer openly abusive manipulators. Why do YOU think that the only options are two types of abusive manipulators? Do YOU have trouble thinking outside the black and white? From my standpoint, it seems pretty clear what qualities and traits this redditor prefers in a partner. Who are YOU to tell this redditor what they can or cannot prefer? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/25 05:17 AM |
| 5 | The bluepill is by far the nastiest dating ideologyI was reading all of the self-proclaimed blue pillers and 'no pillers' have a total, complete meltdown to the OP's post. Like wow. All the while, this subreddit openly proclaims that there's no single unifying definition, philosophy, or goal of The Blue Pill and there was one redditor 'total-travesty'--something or other throwaway account user complaining that the Red Pill supposedly keeps changing the goal posts and I'm like---bruh, do you even realize what you're openly admitting here? If the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/25 05:11 AM |
| -1 | The lie regarding nice guysBy definition, a nice guy is a covertly abusive manipulator, according to this redditor. So if that's true, then the OP in their counter response to the OP of this debate thread would have to prefer openly abusive manipulators as partners because at least they are openly honest about it. And if that's true, then the underlying message for these partners (or partners-to-be) is to be openly abusive manipulators for maximum success in dating, whether short-term or long-term. Look, I don't make up t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/25 04:49 AM |
| -1 | The bluepill is by far the nastiest dating ideologyEhhh.... I don't think TRP ever denied the common knowledge attributes as being unimportant bits required to have the most success at dating, whether Short-term or long-term. So that's a bit weird that you're saying this like it's 'gotcha' moment. Even in your response, you're still operating from the stand point that you know and understand what the majority standpoint is but fail spectacularly at defining what that is. And even if you did define it, that's just unique to you and only you. Othe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/25 02:56 AM |
| -2 | The bluepill is by far the nastiest dating ideologySeeing as this subreddit admits that there's no single unifying definition, philosophy, or goal of TBP, it's a bit ironic that people so firmly on that side, including those that do not subscribe to any of the pill ideologies, are so firmly convicted in their beliefs that 'their' way is the 'correct way' even though they don't even have a firm idea of what 'their' way is. Yet for some miraculous reason, they can easily identify what is TRP with full conviction even though they can't even define … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/25 02:35 AM |
| -1 | The lie regarding nice guysThanks for admitting that you prefer your partner to be an openly abusive manipulator over one that isn't. At least you're honest about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/25 01:39 AM |
| 0 | The lie regarding nice guysHow many child births have you had? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/25 08:12 PM |
| 1 | The lie regarding nice guysBruh....'game' is so 1999. I think we're all well passed that point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/25 08:11 PM |
| -2 | The lie regarding nice guysAren't you thankful that your partner isn't a 'nice guy' then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/25 08:07 PM |
| 1 | The lie regarding nice guysIt's a game called life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/25 08:06 PM |
| 0 | The lie regarding nice guysDo you smell what the rock is cooking? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/25 08:03 PM |
| 1 | The lie regarding nice guysBut do normal people actually move on? The posts on PPD and elsewhere on the internet would beg to differ. The hallmark theme of everyone actively dating and are in active relationships would seem to suggest that moving on is not the common, default behavior. If anything, there's a lot of comprising and putting up with bad behavior because the rest of the person's traits and characteristics are deemed desirable so much so that it offsets any bad behaviors. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/25 08:01 PM |
| 2 | The lie regarding nice guysIf it wasn't that hard to understand, why would numerous website articles, podcasts and books be written about this--extensively--in an attempt to clarify what should seem like plain black and white for most folks, as you say? Don't you find this rather curious? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/25 07:55 PM |
| 0 | The lie regarding nice guysbahahahahahaha....ok you can go now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/25 07:52 PM |
| -2 | The lie regarding nice guysClearly, plain English isn't your forte. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/25 07:48 PM |
| 1 | The lie regarding nice guysSo what would you consider 'customer service' to be then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/25 07:45 PM |
| 2 | The lie regarding nice guysWomen will never understand the pain of the scrotes kick, just as men will never understand the pain of childbirth. Two pains that neither side will ever realistically be able to reconcile yet both pains can absolutely exist in the same space without contradiction. Yet your default answer is 'these idiots' . Maybe, just maybe, the idiot is you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/25 07:44 PM |
| 1 | The lie regarding nice guysBut isn't covert contracts the modus operandi for all other aspects of life? It seems weird to me that covert contracts only exist in this isolated scenario. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/25 07:39 PM |
| 0 | People who moralize around "sexual objectification" are its worst offendersYou act like women have never gawked and predatorily stared at some men like they are a piece of meat, as if they have never seen a well-dressed man before or they can't control their 'baby rabies'. AKA desire to rape. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/25 07:29 PM |
| 1 | People who moralize around "sexual objectification" are its worst offendersBy that logic, then any form of objectification necessarily violates all forms of consent. And if that's true, then any time a woman objectifies a man in being a potentially good partner, then that violates his consent--thereby whatever that follows after is already a form of dehumanization and disrespect to that man. That's weird and gross. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/25 07:07 PM |
| 1 | Being afraid of being betabuxxed or that whatever guy you’re dating is just settling is dumb.Your first paragraph--that's like, your opinion, man. lol. I'm fine with you denying it. You're the guy with fully grown kids, right? You'd have no fully justifiable reason to accept it. For all you know, you're talking to a random kook on the Internet. I can live with that. I'm just not so sure if you are so convinced of it as you make yourself sound. Your second paragraph, do you understand how child support works? It sounds like you don't. There's no hard limit, even if it's explicit. Just be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/25 08:23 PM |
| 0 | Being afraid of being betabuxxed or that whatever guy you’re dating is just settling is dumb.Your first paragraph--that's like, your opinion, man. Glad you find comfort in that opinion. At least it seems to me that you can swallow that and not feel repulsed. It takes a certain kind of person to do that. Kudos to you, bud. Your second paragraph, I'm curious to know what part of the world you're from. Genuinely curious where the rules as you describe actually play out like how you imagine it does when it comes to child support, welfare and the such. In Los Angeles, that's not how they usu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/25 07:09 PM |
| 4 | Being afraid of being betabuxxed or that whatever guy you’re dating is just settling is dumb.You sound like you've lived a pretty sheltered life in a bubble with a small community of homogeneous-thinking, neurotypical group of people for most, if not all, of your life. Good for you--wherever you're at and stay there because the people who live in the major cities or the suburbia's around them don't work or behave like the way you describe them to be. It's a blessing in disguise and these small bubbles, they absolutely do exist all over--the issue is, these communities don't advertise to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/25 04:34 PM |
| 1 | How Men Could Become Lustless and Emotionally Free from Women, Without Losing Their DriveThere's already a drug that exists in the USA and is currently used in the penitentiary for the most violent, repeat offenders. It's the equivalent of chemical castration. Men that take this drug keep all of the energy levels but the lust is removed. They effectively become docile, useful drones. The only issue is that the same drug also numbs the mind and slows down brain activity. What this means is that any activity they do, must be down-syndrome simple, otherwise, they have trouble focusing … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/25 03:26 AM |
| 1 | I believe women are more sensitive to negative feedback than men. This study supports that.I see. That's even more sad then. All the fat one's, guy or girl, usually can take a joke, since they had to develop a personality to fit in. Maybe they were skinny once upon a time but got fat over the years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/25 03:05 PM |
| -1 | I believe women are more sensitive to negative feedback than men. This study supports that.That's a really sad fat girl friend. You should cut her loose. If she can't hang with boys, why even bother bringing her out? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/25 05:29 AM |
| 2 | How many cold approached have you made in the last week?At a Round 1 in the arcade section, women cold approach me. I don't need to cold approach. Last weekend alone, I had 5 random women cold approach me. They always ask me, 'Hey, how do I select the difficulty in the new DDR World machine?" Meanwhile, they keep saying that stomping on the down arrow like it's the classic DDR A machine or older won't make it adjust the difficulty because the creators of the new DDR World machine decided it was a great idea to scrap a perfectly working user interface… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/25 05:20 AM |
| 2 | Common Men are unfairly equated to CEOs, Sportsmen, and Actors when it comes to pay gaps and abuse allegations.Thank you kindly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/25 11:17 PM |
| 3 | In current dating market, women soon will soon prefer fictional men over real men and men would have no choice but to be better than they are to even be considered for relationship.AI boyfriends are already a thing for the younger gens so I see no reason why not? Pretty soon, it'll be like Demolition Man where sex doesn't even happen between one meat bag to the next. It'll all be digital. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/25 09:10 PM |
| 3 | Common Men are unfairly equated to CEOs, Sportsmen, and Actors when it comes to pay gaps and abuse allegations.Bingo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/25 09:06 PM |
| 3 | Common Men are unfairly equated to CEOs, Sportsmen, and Actors when it comes to pay gaps and abuse allegations.Are you from a first world country? If do? Don't be surprised if women expect you to pay for everything since they have every privilege available to them to earn their own way, pay their own way yet still want the man to pay for dates. If not, you probably never had any date at all... When I was in a relationship, we did 50/50 and did not keep score of what tasks seemed more arduous physically, mentally or emotionally. I didn't have any chores that were unpleasant because my partner and I worked… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/25 09:05 PM |
| 3 | Common Men are unfairly equated to CEOs, Sportsmen, and Actors when it comes to pay gaps and abuse allegations.Ask any partnered or married man not on PPD. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/25 08:57 PM |
| 2 | Common Men are unfairly equated to CEOs, Sportsmen, and Actors when it comes to pay gaps and abuse allegations.The majority of leadership positions are held by men (who are henpecked and controlled by a woman, behind the scenes). The majority of wealth is held by men (who are henpecked and controlled by a woman, behind the scenes). Women are more likely to live poverty (because they choose professions that have maximum flexibility with little to no room for overtime) than men. Men at all income levels do not get away with criminal conduct against women. Period. Fixed that for you. You're welcome. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/25 08:54 PM |
| 3 | Instead of resenting the Sisterhood Uber Alles, men should blame their fellow men who refuse to be supportiveMaybe we, as men, need to reverse that trend that the boomers started and gen xer's carried on so that when we see a woman beating a man in public, we as men, reflexively jump in to stop the violence and hold the woman accountable for brutality against another man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/25 09:07 PM |
| 2 | The “Nice guy” is a loser to most men.I think you have this backwards. Men are naturally competitive, yes, but it's women that are going around instigating these competitions to take place and it's women who are the primary drivers of the "nice guy" initiative. Ironically, the same women that instigate are also the same women who would absolutely chase and sleep with the bad boy while having her backup beta bob as a convenient wallet, shield and emotional tampon when said bad boy gets bored and moves on OR turns violent and beats sa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/25 09:12 PM |
| 1 | Female sexual preferences are probably NOT fine-tuned to select best (overall) menThat's wonderful. But you're not the OP. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/25 02:47 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Anti sex work is actually hurting sex workersSo most women with an OF account aren't in it because they want to be? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/25 04:47 AM |
| 1 | The Hidden New Dating Norm: EqualityChina's one child policy and India's overcrowding problem would beg to differ. Please don't spread these lies and make this out to be an Asian problem. Asians do not experience this that much more differently than their anglo counterparts. There might be cultural differences at play but nothing quite like how you make it seem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/25 04:40 AM |
| 1 | Female sexual preferences are probably NOT fine-tuned to select best (overall) menYou start out with the premise that humans are domesticated and then go on to explain that because of this domestication, humans do weird things. But how did humans become domesticated? You are now saying that humans can just naturally self-domesticate themselves, which is...a rather interesting line of thought. My issue with your word choice is that domestication is not a natural phenomenon. To domesticate someone or something is to manipulate it to some form that is useful or beneficial to the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/25 04:08 AM |
| 2 | Female sexual preferences are probably NOT fine-tuned to select best (overall) menIt's interesting that you say that humans are domesticated animals but who is doing the domestication to make humans domesticated? It can't possibly be other humans, since domestication implies that humans have no self-control over their instincts and impulses like the other animals in the animal kingdom. So to domesticate a group would necessarily imply that they, whoever these mystery beings are, God, if you really want to go down that rabbit hole (which itself as a proposition is rife with co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/25 03:03 AM |
| 1 | Some guys really need to sexualize interactions with women moreMaybe the key take away here is that being labeled a creep is better than being labeled a simp. A creep has negative connotations associated with the word, yes, but not as much so as a simp. But here's the kicker. What if the creep is the chad that took his privileges a bit too far? What if every creep was a simp at one point? Effectively then, simping is the starting point to hit chad status. Without this, the average man is totally invisible to women. Simps have always sexualized women to star… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/25 02:07 AM |
| 1 | Would you live in a male only city/society?I vaguely recall that there was a movie made about just this very topic that's fairly recent (maybe mid-2000's?) and encapsulates all the key points in this post minus the male only society. And no, it's not the Mad Max re-make. The early bits of your post seemed feasible until you injected the mad max themes of rule and governance that, in practice, never actually works. It will never realistically be able to grow beyond an agriculture-like state with a population of 10,000 or less, at any give… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/25 07:11 AM |
| 2 | Women are dependent upon strange men for their safety, security, and comfortMy guess is that this is considered labor-intensive work and as such, not suitable for women--just like construction, the military, firefighting, law enforcement, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/25 04:55 AM |
| 2 | Women are dependent upon strange men for their safety, security, and comfortYou will one day in your old age. Then you will see the male-to-female breakdown by profession and what they actually do. There was absolutely a point in time in the early 19th century in the USA when that job of cleaning the disabled was almost exclusively women that performed that task. Not so much, present day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/25 10:57 PM |
| 17 | The Power of Being InterestingYou must be Quasimodo, if drunk people looking to be entertained gravitates towards you as compared to what you perceive as your more good-looking brethren. I lost count how many times a quiet, introverted but really good looking dude sitting in the farthest corner of the bar minding his own business quietly sipping on his cranberry vodka while watching TV gets hit up by some rando or women touching this man every time they go to the restroom. The loud dude? He gets ignored like 90% of the time.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/25 09:02 PM |
| -1 | Women are dependent upon strange men for their safety, security, and comfortClassic deflection. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/25 08:50 PM |
| 2 | Women are dependent upon strange men for their safety, security, and comfortYes, men care. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/25 08:50 PM |
| 1 | Women are dependent upon strange men for their safety, security, and comfortI have not seen a single lady cop on the beat, whether in LAPD or the LA County Sheriff in all the 30+ years that I have lived in California. I have, however, seen significantly more lady cops just working in an air-conditioned office at a desk doing... paperwork, mostly. I'm sure that there are fully capable lady cops working on the beat but Lord knows how rare they are out in the field chasing down a perp. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/25 02:30 PM |
| -2 | Women are dependent upon strange men for their safety, security, and comfortMoving the goal posts, I see. Typical. So we went from people with a uterus should get paid because it's a job to people with a uterus are undervalued because...no reason provided. You just pulled that out of your ass and threw that into your argument. Let's humor your idea that people with a uterus are undervalued. In what ways are they undervalued? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/25 02:17 PM |
| 1 | Women are dependent upon strange men for their safety, security, and comfortStop confusing (or conflating) the orderlies for the social workers. The orderlies do that job and they are almost exclusively men. The social workers are the one's that work with the disabled to get them into social welfare programs for additional assistance and support and.... that's about it. Social workers never get their hands dirty--like ever. Get your facts straight, lady. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/25 01:53 PM |
| 0 | Women are dependent upon strange men for their safety, security, and comfortHistorically, women have never cared for the safety of men so I don't know what kind of angle you're going for here. The only instances where women cared is when women's safety are affected. Otherwise women, by and large, don't really care about men at all. They could all die from a mystery virus tomorrow and women wouldn't bat an eye. Business as usual unless their plumbing, electricity, and creature comforts like the Internet goes down. Then and only then do any of this become a problem and su… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/25 01:42 PM |
| -2 | Women are dependent upon strange men for their safety, security, and comfortThe one job that people with a uterus can do isn't even a job. Framing it like it's a job implies this is labor that needs be paid monetarily, emotionally, mentally, physically and psychologically. And if that's the case, can we all just settle the age-old debate that all women are basically glorified prostitutes? Because that's essentially what you're saying without actually saying it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/25 01:34 PM |
| 0 | Women are dependent upon strange men for their safety, security, and comfortIt looks like you just read the first three paragraphs and then went off on a tirade afterwards when the OP actually addressed your points on the fourth paragraph and onwards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/25 01:19 PM |
| 1 | Women are dependent upon strange men for their safety, security, and comfortDon't confuse (or conflate) a business needs over an individual's needs. They are two different things and the dynamics that play out are also different. Take the wage gap myth. If businesses are, in fact, paying women less than a man, it would absolutely make more financial sense for businesses to hire exclusively women but this is not what we see. If we look at the biggest tech companies, it's almost an even 50/50 split between male-to-female employees. The smaller companies are where you star… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/25 01:09 PM |
| 1 | Women who complain about men all the time in a very negative way, are prone to be abusive and dismissive in relationshipsSo in other words, this unhappiness is self-inflicted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/25 03:13 AM |
| 2 | Men being thirsty is the reason women have so much leverage in the dating gameGood, good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/25 08:53 PM |
| 3 | Men being thirsty is the reason women have so much leverage in the dating gameGood but please spare those dogs and cats that you have. They deserve better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/25 08:51 PM |
| 2 | Men being thirsty is the reason women have so much leverage in the dating gameAnd I'd address your idiotic ramblings but as Dave Chappelle once said, "chivalry is dead and women killed it." Hence what you see is so prevalent is because women did it to themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/25 08:48 PM |
| 2 | Men being thirsty is the reason women have so much leverage in the dating gameNah, Round 1 is where gamers hang out, whether the fighting game community, racing game community or music rhythm game community. Unlike how you like to frame gamers as basement dwellers and staying home 24/7 (a classic trope from a bygone era), most of us are actually friendly, open people with careers that span the full spectrum and have no issues talking to total rando's that come into our spaces. It's the normies that make it a toxic environment with your drama and homogeneous way of thinkin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/25 08:45 PM |
| 1 | Men being thirsty is the reason women have so much leverage in the dating gameConveniently, there's also a name for women who cannot control their emotions: crazy. But we can also call them animals. They mean the same thing, at this point. Also, newsflash, gen x lady. Animals have brains too. It's sentience that separates us from the rest in the animal kingdom. Clearly you failed biology class because you don't know this fundamental distinction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/25 08:29 PM |
| 1 | There are examples everywhere I look of women having low self-respect and not high enough standards in men--and paying the price for it later in life. Ladies, don't let that self-hating inner voice lead you to lower your standards.OK...So these are all theories, conjectures and wild guesses in your head of what you perceive to be issues by being an outsider looking in. Got it. It's not your life. What makes you think that your cousin's life is as bad as you paint them to be? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/25 08:14 PM |
| 1 | Men are not attracted to young women because they are "naive and easy to manipulate" but mainly because they are thinner and have nicer skin. If you are a woman and you take care of yourself, you can post-pone "hitting the wall" and remain attractive even into your early 40s.Is that what you interpreted from that TV show, Adolescence on Netflix? Get help, bruh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/25 03:47 PM |
| 0 | There are examples everywhere I look of women having low self-respect and not high enough standards in men--and paying the price for it later in life. Ladies, don't let that self-hating inner voice lead you to lower your standards.But is the act of settling the number #1 cause for paying the price later though? I have my doubts. If you're THAT certain, then you have a very naive outlook on this subject matter and any else that comes out of your mouth is subject to reasonable doubt at this point. This is a game of 'he said/she said' and there's nothing useful that can be gained from your rant other than--well, that happened to your cousin and that's unfortunate--but....we should all take this anecdote with a grain of salt … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/25 03:34 PM |
| 1 | There are examples everywhere I look of women having low self-respect and not high enough standards in men--and paying the price for it later in life. Ladies, don't let that self-hating inner voice lead you to lower your standards.You sound bitter. From an outsider looking in, of course it looks like your cousin is providing all of this seemingly 'unpaid' labor but....it provides meaning and purpose for both parties involved and there are clear boundaries. You're painting this picture like she landed this relationship due to poor self-esteem, poor choice and settling on her part but ... you're not saying a lot of things out loud like, I don't know, the events that transpired leading up to what you perceive as the present … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/25 12:15 PM |
| 1 | Women who complain about men all the time in a very negative way, are prone to be abusive and dismissive in relationshipsoverindulgence in what though? Because i love food and sleep. I 'overindulge' in these activities and these activities, i can confidently say makes me more happy than striking up a conversation with a total rando in hopes of getting her socials or tel#. 'Overindulgence in society' is an incredibly vague way of saying something without actually saying anything at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/25 04:51 AM |
| 5 | Women tell that men don't approach women because they're scared.It's not complicated, according to you, from your original counter response. But all of a sudden, you're making this sound all complicated. So are the rules of engagement, gender dynamics and dating dynamics complicated? Or not complicated? Pick one. You can't have both. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/25 08:48 PM |
| 6 | Women tell that men don't approach women because they're scared.Puberty is an excuse. Nothing stopping anybody from continuing to engage with each other just like in our youths. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/25 08:43 PM |
| 2 | Women tell that men don't approach women because they're scared.That's wild, my brother. That's wild because it implies that everyone under the COVID shutdowns never left their homes to do grocery shopping, to fix their car, or get healthcare--where you had to be physically there to talk to real live people (albeit, behind face masks) to accomplish any of those basic daily but necessary activities. These 'select' industries were not subject to the COVID shutdowns since they were considered 'essential services' that need to stay open, albeit at limited hours,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/25 08:41 PM |
| 3 | Women tell that men don't approach women because they're scared.Online communities of this kind shouldn't exist. Period. Whether to vent or to boast because....why would anyone have a need to do any of that--especially to complete strangers on the Internet? It would make MORE sense to do the venting or boasting to those within your social circle IRL--you know, the one's that really know who you are and can provide the real comfort (or praise), if it's, in fact, even real in the first place? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/25 08:32 PM |
| 4 | Women tell that men don't approach women because they're scared.Your first sentence, that can't be true, per the OP responding to the original OP of this reddit debate thread. All the rest that follows serves to justify your first sentence. I don't know how old (or young) you are but there was a time in everyone's youth where making friends was simply going up to the nearest child, saying 'hi, let's be friends and go play together.' And things will naturally progress from there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/25 03:52 PM |
| 2 | Women tell that men don't approach women because they're scared.COVID is hardly an explanation. It only lasted 3 years. So in 3 years time, you're saying previously socially adjusted individuals somehow lost the ability to talk in real life? That's gotta be one of more idiotic answers I've heard on PPD to date. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/25 03:46 PM |
| 4 | Women tell that men don't approach women because they're scared.If what you say is true, then normal people should have nothing to worry about. Meaning, business as usual, men can approach the usual way--just as it has always been preached and heralded as sound advice by the boomers--with little to no negative repercussions. And that they are tried and true--therefore, they should work most, if not all, of the time--across the board, across all cultures, social and economic classes, etc. There would be no need for PPD to exist on Reddit, much less any dating… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/25 02:31 PM |
| 0 | If you don’t see the point in having female friends, you’d absolutely despise dating themOh, I read your post and I firmly disagree with your stance. And I'm explaining to you why I disagree. Didn't you read my counter response? For the record, just so we're crystal clear, I still don't see the point in making platonic female friends--especially in how you framed your argument to imply that failing to see the point of that act = I hate (or that I would likely hate) dating women. I thought women had higher emotional intelligence? Figured such a basic social skill would be a piece of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/25 10:37 PM |
| 0 | If you don’t see the point in having female friends, you’d absolutely despise dating themI somehow doubt that especially if you're an American, of Anglo-Saxon, or European descent but it's the Internet. You can be whatever you claim yourself to be and no one can disqualify or falsify your claims. From my standpoint, you can tell yourself whatever it is that you need in order to legitimatize that claim. After all, it's not me that you need to convince. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/25 09:38 PM |
| 0 | If you don’t see the point in having female friends, you’d absolutely despise dating themFemale friendships are largely useless for most men seeking a romantic relationship that includes a consistent supply of sex being on the table. This is because most (if not, all) of the social and material utility from female friendships can be easily gained from male friendships without the need to jump through hoops, playing that peacock game of push and pull and the emotional and mental management of their energy levels just to get to a 'somewhat' evenly balanced friendship. And that's best … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/25 08:45 PM |
| 1 | Millennial males (and older) had it easier.I would disagree that the prototypical social media of the early days of the Internet was just as toxic as nowadays. You probably experienced the Internet when it was more fully developed and folks have more or less settled into their niche communities. Back then, the word 'social media' haven't even existed yet. It was just a loose network of websites with people signing up to be a part of these loose network of websites. If one wasn't your cup of tea, you could have easily left that and join a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/25 12:58 PM |
| 1 | Alot of our issues wouldn't exsist if female biology was tuned a bit betterDon't you mean mainstream media, not the manosphere? Don't get that stuff twisted. The manosphere makes up less than 1/10,000th's of a percentage point of the global human population. Even if we isolated it to just the USA and picking out the top 100 podcasters/content creators (there's actually less than half that--presently--but for sake of argument, let's just say there were at least 100 of them) with at minimum 1 million subscribers each, it still amounts to less than 9% of the total USA pop… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/25 09:02 PM |
| – | Why do some men use terminology towards women like they are going to war?That's a generational thing. Before gaming and niche hobbies became mainstream, the old gens used a different set of terminologies to mean essentially the same thing. Back then, we used the subtly of implication and innuendo--nothing quite like the explicit language used these days. It used to be full of metaphors, similes and analogies. It was poetic yet romantic and eloquent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/25 03:49 PM |
| – | Questions for redpillers!Red Pill to me just means understanding how the world and the people in it really works. I actually stumbled upon it by accident. Had a coworker that listened to the Tom Leykis radio talkshow in 2009 and mentioned in passing whether I listened to him on the radio. He shared with me a few clips that he had recorded and thought I'd be interested in hearing. I resisted what was talked about in those audio clips. I resisted it even after my first encounter that shook the very foundation of the socia… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/25 01:45 AM |
| 1 | Men who believe AI “girlfriends” can replace real women should be judgedAh, so the typical blue piller then. Got it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/25 08:26 PM |
| 1 | Men who believe AI “girlfriends” can replace real women should be judgedMoving the goal post, I see. Right on, right on. You do you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/25 08:00 PM |
| 1 | Men who believe AI “girlfriends” can replace real women should be judgedOk, so it's established that 100% of men with real GF's and wives WON'T use porn (and AI) because they are content with their partners, and 100% of men won't use porn (and AI) because....no reason. You framed your argument this way. So where are you pulling this illusory 'minority' of men that WILL use AI to gratify themselves? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/25 07:57 PM |
| 1 | Men who believe AI “girlfriends” can replace real women should be judgedWhy should that be the standard or end goal for bettering oneself? Why can't men just better oneself for their own fulfillment and desires, rather than to BE the object of fulfillment and desire by women? Think of it as re-focusing one's resources elsewhere rather than for the sole purpose of giving it away to a woman to spend on themselves. Brother, if you like being an ATM machine dispensing cash and a hard dildo to women, more power to you. And I genuinely hope all of your hopes and dreams ar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/25 07:38 PM |
| – | In the next 10 years we'll see women dominate every single prestigious career field (even IT) and this will end marriage for goodSomething tells me that we'll have a shortage of cats and dogs in the next 10 years. Animal care, animal husbandry and animal medicine will see an unusually high economic boom as women race to adopt pets to serve as substitute partners. This is great news for the strays and ferals at animal shelters and animal rescue non-profit organizations. It's not all doom and glooms, guys and gals! At least, animal rights will surpass human rights, for once in human history. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/25 05:20 PM |
| – | CMV: Western men have been too empathetic towards women and female issues and we are seeing a course correctionWhich pill do you suppose make up the overwhelming majority of men? Blue pill or TRP? Genuinely curious. Because if you say TRP, you're just flat out wrong. Most of the purple pillers or self-proclaimed 'no pills' redditors on PPD are really blue-pill, but like to pick and choose the bits that fits their narrative, so when they frame their arguments, moving the goal post is oftentimes a common theme and tactic that keeps manifesting in their rhetoric, thus holding them accountable for any claim … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/25 08:11 AM |
| – | CMV: Western men have been too empathetic towards women and female issues and we are seeing a course correctionFortunately, those men make up a statistically insignificant percentage of the global human population so.... not too sure why you're flexing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/25 07:21 AM |
| – | CMV: Western men have been too empathetic towards women and female issues and we are seeing a course correctionYou're hardly a humanist, if you're actively advocating, encouraging and inciting violence against another person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/25 07:18 AM |
| – | CMV: Western men have been too empathetic towards women and female issues and we are seeing a course correctionHey, pipe down over there. Go make babies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/25 07:14 AM |
| – | CMV: Western men have been too empathetic towards women and female issues and we are seeing a course correctionMaybe, just maybe, you and your ilk should pull the weight of the rest of men falling out of society. In the grand scheme of things--it's ultimately to your benefit. More women at your disposable, less competition amongst your ilk for said women, you get the praise, fame and respect from women since you and your ilk will be playing the role of carrying the human civilization to the next level. What higher honor and privilege could you possibly ask for? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/25 07:10 AM |
| 1 | Women and girls need to be taught to be nice to their male partners, just like men and boys are taught to be with their female ones. The failure to do this is really tearing the social fabric and killing romance.PPD has many, many discussions threads on the very topics that you're asking for proof and evidence on. I would advise that you check there. On top of that, IRL, you can plainly see these new dynamics play out between the genders in the USA. It's not rocket science. And if the phenomenon hasn't happened in your neck of the woods yet, count your blessings. Men observe the environment and quickly adapt, when things change. And they have changed, as confirmed by you. Once again, men are natural pro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/25 07:44 PM |
| 1 | Women and girls need to be taught to be nice to their male partners, just like men and boys are taught to be with their female ones. The failure to do this is really tearing the social fabric and killing romance.MRA's tried to fix the broken family court system through the legal justice system but failed spectacularly when feminist lobby groups are actively working against them on top of the broken legal justice system that unilaterally favors and gives custody of children to the mothers, by de facto. MRA's have been trying to build shelters for men but they have been unilaterally blocked by feminist lobbyist groups as well as the existing broken system for many, many years now, insofar as the USA is co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/25 04:51 PM |
| 1 | Women and girls need to be taught to be nice to their male partners, just like men and boys are taught to be with their female ones. The failure to do this is really tearing the social fabric and killing romance.It is within my right to complain just as it is within women's rights to complain. The only difference between the two is men are natural problem solvers. If something is an issue, we fix it and the problem stops. No collateral damage. Women, on the other hand, when they 'fix' a problem, the act of fixing the initial problem have the tendency to create more problems upstream and downstream. Feminism tried to fix these perceived problems. What we ended up with is even more problems upstream and d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/25 03:31 PM |
| 1 | Women and girls need to be taught to be nice to their male partners, just like men and boys are taught to be with their female ones. The failure to do this is really tearing the social fabric and killing romance.Bahahaha...ok, you can go now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/25 03:48 PM |
| 1 | Women and girls need to be taught to be nice to their male partners, just like men and boys are taught to be with their female ones. The failure to do this is really tearing the social fabric and killing romance.But women are strong and independent. They got this handled. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/25 03:47 PM |
| 3 | Women and girls need to be taught to be nice to their male partners, just like men and boys are taught to be with their female ones. The failure to do this is really tearing the social fabric and killing romance.Crime rates are at an all-time low--worldwide--so not sure what you're talking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/25 03:45 PM |
| 1 | Competent women = Masculine bruh whatIndeed but tell that to the blue pillers in denial, not the red pilled folks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/25 03:16 AM |
| – | Is the reason reason for the explosion of female teacher on male student sexual harassment is because of feminism ?Really now? Last I checked, being blue-pilled meant that you cannot hold such views or stances. Again, by definition, you'd have to believe that women can do no wrong, that these women predators are just outliers, and that any such reports from the mainstream are just unethical tabloids trying to spin conspiracies about there being some sort of gender war going on, present day, that is non-existent IRL. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/25 03:03 AM |
| 1 | Hot take: men and women can be friends and men-women friendships can be a good thingThis is such a foreign concept. Must be nice to be socially programmed this way that besties can have sex and still only be considered besties after-the-fact, not be considered dating, or not be considered in a sexual relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/25 02:56 AM |
| -4 | Women and girls need to be taught to be nice to their male partners, just like men and boys are taught to be with their female ones. The failure to do this is really tearing the social fabric and killing romance.I never see women's magazines at 99 ranch. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/25 02:51 AM |
| -3 | Women and girls need to be taught to be nice to their male partners, just like men and boys are taught to be with their female ones. The failure to do this is really tearing the social fabric and killing romance.When was the last time you even saw a women's magazine at a grocery store, bookstore, or convenience store? All women magazines are online these days. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/25 02:45 AM |
| -5 | Women and girls need to be taught to be nice to their male partners, just like men and boys are taught to be with their female ones. The failure to do this is really tearing the social fabric and killing romance.Which is why we still need feminism in this day and age. Come on, feminists, where you at? Step YO game up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/25 02:41 AM |
| – | Is the reason reason for the explosion of female teacher on male student sexual harassment is because of feminism ?Are you sure you're blue pill? By definition, you can't really hold such a stance that women can be predators. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/25 02:27 AM |
| 2 | Competent women = Masculine bruh whatGood questions. How is nurturing a feminine trait? How is emotional intelligence a feminine trait? How are these not basic human ideals to strive for? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/25 02:17 AM |
| 1 | “ She should have been the property of her father until he picked her husband for her”- an alarming rise of reactionary rhetoric in redpill spacesThe above explanation just seems like an odd answer that a typical blue piller would give. Not saying that you're necessarily blue pill but I'm almost positive a blue pilled person would say "Put on your big boy pants (or big girl pants) and step it up. That is all." Anything else is just an excuse not to. Blue Pillers, can you confirm? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/25 01:40 AM |
| 2 | “ She should have been the property of her father until he picked her husband for her”- an alarming rise of reactionary rhetoric in redpill spaces500,000 followers is a drop in a bucket, especially in the context of over 8 billion people on planet Earth. Even if we isolate that number to just the total population in the USA alone, 347,871,707, it's still a drop in a bucket. Blue pillers still make up the overwhelming majority, so y'all can rest easy tonight that TRP doesn't even register in the overwhelming majority. Now that your fears have been debunked, let's talk about babies. We need more of them. Why are blue pillers forgoing childb… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/25 09:04 PM |
| 1 | Men are judged for pretty much any perceived lack of independence, but women are allowed (and sometimes encouraged) to be independent at their convenienceFolks on the lowest socio-economic classes don't have the same problems as the folks in the median of the bell curve. On the flip side of the other extreme, it would seem to me that folks at the top-most percentile also seem to have similar experiences as those at the very bottom. The dichotomy is that those at the bottom aren't fretting over, I suppose, '1st world' problems, (as opposed to 3rd world problems). First world problems being acquiring more resources, living and enjoying a richer, ma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/25 02:44 AM |
| 1 | Men are judged for pretty much any perceived lack of independence, but women are allowed (and sometimes encouraged) to be independent at their convenienceDunno about DC but Boston had a superior mass Transit system. Well, not sure what to tell you about the story. It boggles my mind how this acquaintance of mine was able to make his situation work. It's interesting. He's the one in a billion or trillion of odds. So here's how I see it. At the lowest socio-economic classes, the phenomenon as the red pill sees it is 'a little' less of a problem but the same is also true on the other extreme, the richest 1%. It's the folks in the median of the bell … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/25 01:50 AM |
| 2 | Men are judged for pretty much any perceived lack of independence, but women are allowed (and sometimes encouraged) to be independent at their convenienceI know of a dude who technically never got his driver's license, doesn't know how to drive on the freeway, yet illegally drives a car on surface streets and is not even a US citizen--in California. And he's a momma's boy, lives at home with his mom, and his siblings. He has a wife that earns more than him, they have a kid together, but their kid is autistic. There are women out there with standards that include a dude needing a car to get around and then there are women that don't have this requ… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/25 01:04 AM |
| 1 | People need to stop throwing the word "predator" aroundPredator is a wonderful word. It conjures up scenes from the movie with Arnold Schwarzenegger yelling 'Get to the CHOPPA~'. In the context of relations with people though, there's really no other word in the English vocabulary that perfectly describes the assertiveness, confidence and the drive to seize what you set your sights on. It would be weird to describe a person with this level of perseverance, a 'pussy cat', right? We can substitute in politically or socio-culturally correct words to me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/25 12:14 AM |
| 3 | This place does not match up with realityYou have to keep in mind most of the female userbase here on PPD are either married or paired up with someone. On the flip side of the equation, very few male users here are married and paired up. Of those not paired up, they likely experienced something horrific like a divorce or betrayal of trust. And then you have the single Pringles: forever bachelors and the cat/dog ladies in uber abundance. You can 'kind of' tell who is lying about their marital status just by how they respond to posts her… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/25 04:00 PM |
| – | Why Most Men Who "Give Up on Dating" Are Just Reacting, and not Thinking.....Bahahahaha. Ok, you can go now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/25 04:36 AM |
| – | Why Most Men Who "Give Up on Dating" Are Just Reacting, and not Thinking.Nay, nay. People like you are giving men false hope. That's the 'real' danger. Don't get this stuff twisted, brother. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/25 04:29 AM |
| – | Why Most Men Who "Give Up on Dating" Are Just Reacting, and not Thinking.Hey buddy, the world is experiencing a rapidly declining birth rate. How about you do your part and make some babies with your partner along with the other already successful men still actively partaking in the dating pool, landing dates, and relationships? We, the people, need you and your children (and children's children, etc) to pay into the welfare coffers so the aging population can live happy, single lives doing other productive, fulfilling activities that make up a good life. Besides, li… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/25 10:29 PM |
| – | Why Most Men Who "Give Up on Dating" Are Just Reacting, and not Thinking.Wouldn't helping your fellow man be counterproductive since this would add more competition to the dating pool? If I were in your shoes, I wouldn't be trying to encourage men that have given up to come back and compete. I would, instead, leave them alone to walk the path that they've chosen for themselves and focus my attention on men who are still in the dating pool, still actively competing but just aren't quite getting the desired results. That would be far more productive. But then again, he… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/25 10:13 PM |
| 1 | Why do women specifically seek platonic friendships with men, but men do not seek platonic friendships with women?That is strictly a new gen thing. It is not as common amongst the older gens. The newer gens have a much more fluid framework to work with insofar as gender identity, sexual identity, sexual orientation and other unspecified identities and/or orientations. As compared with the older gens that still largely follow a traditional binary, male/female framework with very few exceptions for outliers--the ability to cross the line to the other side is a lot more restricted. That same restriction though… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/25 08:50 PM |
| 1 | The New Marriage of UnequalsFor pragmatic reasons, sure, that's understandable but I know of way, way more women that definitely want that dream as a baseline for their romantic relationship. They may not outwardly express it very often in public spaces IRL but realistically, many won't get that though because men aren't made to be that these days anymore. Those qualities are considered toxic--which flies in the face of common sense under the traditional gender role paradigm. Nevertheless, in their own way, both men and wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/25 05:10 PM |
| 6 | The New Marriage of UnequalsIt won't affect society insofar as the GDP is concerned. More women will just replace the traditionally dominant men's professions. This is a good thing. Who wouldn't want a woman mechanic? Who wouldn't want a woman house builder? Who wouldn't want a woman firefighter, police, waste disposal, and sewer worker? I keep seeing ads on the Internet promoting the idea that women will join such professions but I have not yet seen a single one in all of these professions except maybe a police woman but … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/25 04:01 PM |
| 1 | Red Pill Claims to Empower Men But Resents It When Men Truly Empower ThemselvesNot sure if anyone else has picked up on this yet but if you replace TRP and sub in your favorite ideology on the OP's post, the whole argument will absolutely still work in favor of whatever flavor of TBP, Tradcon or feminism that's to your liking. The argument is framed in such a manner where it is specific enough, by giving some unusually specific outliers from the TRP yet also vague enough to be applicable over various topics that is typically considered generally true across all of the diff… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/25 02:29 AM |
| 2 | Feminism, as an ideological framework, is not enoughYeah, I agree with you. In any case, that's a woman's problem to resolve. They're strong and independent. They got this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/25 02:41 AM |
| 1 | Feminism, as an ideological framework, is not enoughHow outsiders experience the foreign culture while still having lived and worked for many years in said foreign country can seem as if it's one way, as perceived thru your western-centric lens. The inner city and major metropolitan areas of China, Korea and Japan are very westernized but the further away you are from these hot spots, you'll notice that what seems to persist there doesn't really happen as often or very much out in the boonies. You can kinda take an educated stab at why that is. G… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/25 06:12 PM |
| 0 | Feminism, as an ideological framework, is not enoughWell, it's not my ideology but I support feminism and I want a gender fair society as well. BUT, where feminism is at, present day--they aren't being specific enough to really get very far. 1st and 2nd wave were very specific but 3rd and 4th wave just became a blanket spread of everything that strains the movement because they cannot cover everything all at once. I think there's a way to reconcile the gender roles and expectations by looking at Eastern cultures. And by Eastern, I really just mea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/25 03:56 PM |
| 1 | Feminism, as an ideological framework, is not enoughIt's kind of funny that for all of the current strains of feminism--present day in the West--to take a step forward in its next phase of evolution in the ideology, it still requires the men, the male gender, to come up with the original framework from which to spring off of. In other words, feminism is primarily reactionary--as opposed to coming up with an original idea from complete scratch and building on top of that framework. This is the 'Achilles heel' of feminism and while the oldest gen o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/25 03:43 PM |
| – | Men have little incentive or reason to be a Feminist in 2025Like it or not, Feminism is the backbone of a capitalist society in the West--present day. Bullet point #1, yes, the most extreme factions are very much advocating that while those less extreme factions, AKA, the mainstream feminists are indirectly condoning it by their lack of action to intervene and/or interject. Bullet point #2, a male feminist doesn't actually have to do anything additional since all the fighting are done by women themselves. If men start White Knighting on the behalf of fem… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/25 08:22 AM |
| 1 | CMV: These "Her" like AI experiences won't alleviate loneliness for menIt's like an episode of Black Mirror coming true! Oh.. the horror~ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/25 03:17 AM |
| 1 | 4B and MGTOW are the exact same.People like to conveniently forget that before 4B, there was WGTOW and before WGTOW, there were Women Against Feminism that all spawned on the Internet with equally short-lived episodes. They spontaneously appeared for a brief 1 or 2 years then fell by the wayside in the subsequent years--to be totally forgotten. 4B is like the fifth iteration of the above aforementioned internet phenomenon. There was a 3rd and 4th iteration that I cannot be bothered to remember right this moment and they were a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/25 03:06 AM |
| 1 | To have is to oweIf OP's net return is up 9% present day, it would have to mean that when the stock market was experiencing a downturn or a slow down in economic activity, he would have doubled down on his investments (meaning, continued to buy stocks and ETF even when the herd of investors were selling their stocks and ETF's instead) and reap the benefits when the markets boomeranged back in the opposite direction in the following quarters thereafter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/25 01:36 AM |
| 2 | "Choose better" doesn't mean you deserve Abuse for not picking better men ,it means that anything you tolerate in a relationship is your own Fault.Not sure if you know but...in the world of philosophy, any and all arguments are at the crux of it, a type of circular argument. Western philosophers from a little over two millenia ago just decided that we have to pick a starting point at some point to build on top of--otherwise nihilism is the result. Law and order are built on top of this--eventually, the birth of civilization became a reality. Whereas prior to this point in time, population growth was restricted to a few 'nation-states' in s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/25 11:10 PM |
| 1 | "Choose better" doesn't mean you deserve Abuse for not picking better men ,it means that anything you tolerate in a relationship is your own Fault.TRP is anti-feminist. Really now? Well, by golly, you really showed me who's boss about that. Good on you. Here's a cookie. I told you how women can raise children alone. I'm a product of a DV case. If you don't know how to put one and one together, not sure what to tell you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/25 12:51 PM |
| 1 | "Choose better" doesn't mean you deserve Abuse for not picking better men ,it means that anything you tolerate in a relationship is your own Fault.Is there a rule that says TRP cannot support feminism? Genuinely curious. Boomers and Gen Xers still earn more on average but that's only because they've started working and moving up the corporate ladder earlier than the younger generations. Generally speaking, the more experience you have, the more you should be earning. If you're not earning more as you accumulate more work experience, you're doing something wrong and you need to re-assess your career path. But to bring up the already debunke… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/25 12:29 PM |
| 1 | "Choose better" doesn't mean you deserve Abuse for not picking better men ,it means that anything you tolerate in a relationship is your own Fault.Feminism happened. So... not sure where the disconnect is coming from. Women are outpacing men in college admissions and graduation rates and are out earning their male counterparts present day. If you're not riding that boat, not sure what to tell you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/25 12:13 PM |
| 1 | "Choose better" doesn't mean you deserve Abuse for not picking better men ,it means that anything you tolerate in a relationship is your own Fault.In domestic violence cases, there's usually a prevailing tendency for women to exhibit Stockholm syndrome. Why they chose to stay is usually a myriad of reasons--but in most cases, it keeps boiling down to the same thing--as counterintuitive as that sounds. What that thing is I've already pointed out in the above. No one is defending how much harder it is to raise a child under a single income household over a dual income household. Not too sure why you brought this up as a 'gotcha' clap back. A… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/25 11:27 AM |
| 2 | "Choose better" doesn't mean you deserve Abuse for not picking better men ,it means that anything you tolerate in a relationship is your own Fault.Circular arguments--is a form of a abuse. This is rich. And an author on Healthline wrote this? Talk about calling out all women on the planet. Thanks for this. Next time I read another inflammatory response or counter response from a random redditor on PPD, I'll just forward this link that you posted here. Instantly shuts down all communication and debate--dead stop in their tracks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/25 10:04 AM |
| 0 | "Choose better" doesn't mean you deserve Abuse for not picking better men ,it means that anything you tolerate in a relationship is your own Fault.The 'think about the children' retort is often times a retroactively counter response as to why women choose to stay with abusive partners--not the primary reason as to why they choose to stay. There was a time when finances was the prime reason as to why women chose to stay but that hasn't been the case since... the last half century? Maybe during the time of just a little bit passed WWII, the prevailing cultural and social sentiments of the immediate prior generation may have lingered or carri… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/25 09:37 AM |
| 1 | "Choose better" doesn't mean you deserve Abuse for not picking better men ,it means that anything you tolerate in a relationship is your own Fault.But if most men IRL are, in practice, TRP or purple pilled leaning but don't actually outright or explicitly self-proclaim themselves to be in either camp because who can realistically deny the existence of social media, the Internet and how far the sphere of influence has the tendency to reach--wouldn't that effectively boil down to 'most men' in general, at the end of the day? Just a thought. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/25 08:56 AM |
| 2 | Men should decenter women tooThat's what he said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/25 04:43 PM |
| 3 | Men should decenter women tooDid you know that feminist and liberal-leaning lobbyists are fighting tooth and nail not to allow VR, AI and/or some hybrid of the sort to exist in the West? OF models are already throwing a shit fit over a friggin' 2D drawing of an ideal woman and screaming at the top of their lungs to have any and all of such kinds of material banned from online spaces--because these drawings and AI-generated models are taking away from their bottomline. Yikes, is all I have to say about that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/25 09:56 PM |
| 2 | Men should decenter women tooSaid no woman. Ever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/25 09:43 PM |
| 2 | Men should decenter women tooThis is a net overall--for the long-term--good thing though, isn't it? If the goal is to depopulate and/or slow the growth of the world population, this is one of the ways to do it. The higher and/or highest earning women out themselves by out earning their male counterparts, solidifying their fate to a life without a partner and their genetic lineage dies with them, each and every single one of them. What's so bad about this scenario? It's not like they can feign ignorance and claim they didn't… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/25 09:40 PM |
| 1 | The biggest threat to modern feminism is positive misogyny from women toward themselves and othersHaters gon hate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/25 01:07 AM |
| 1 | The biggest threat to modern feminism is positive misogyny from women toward themselves and othersGurl~~~ Stop the cap. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/25 12:40 AM |
| 2 | The biggest threat to modern feminism is positive misogyny from women toward themselves and othersThe implications are plainly obvious. You just don't want biologically-birthed males to share the same space as biologically-birthed females. But you got this, bruh. Girl boss power. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/25 11:56 PM |
| 0 | The biggest threat to modern feminism is positive misogyny from women toward themselves and othersNot according to feminists. Don't shoot the messenger, buddy. I'm just borrowing the responses that I've received from debating with them in the past and they made me realize that I'm already a feminist in practice. Look at it this way. When was the last time you woke up, walked out the front door of your home and punched the first woman that you saw--just because? Never, right? Let's put this another way. At a busy train station or bus station, when was the last time you saw a man exit a train … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/25 09:56 PM |
| 1 | The biggest threat to modern feminism is positive misogyny from women toward themselves and othersWomen are strong and independent. Y'all can handle it. The future is female. We're confident you can do it on your own. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/25 09:52 PM |
| 2 | Are these flirting or “approaching” or just being nice?Kindred spirits. That's it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/25 09:47 PM |
| 0 | The biggest threat to modern feminism is positive misogyny from women toward themselves and othersYou're right yet within their feminist rank-and-file system, they keep recruiting men for some bizarre reason. It is as if feminists are saying that they still need men, despite the looming threat to their ideology. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/25 09:44 PM |
| 2 | Are these flirting or “approaching” or just being nice?Like attracts like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/25 09:30 PM |
| 6 | Are these flirting or “approaching” or just being nice?That you're autistic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/25 09:26 PM |
| 1 | The biggest threat to modern feminism is positive misogyny from women toward themselves and othersI think it's just an over consumption of TikTok and podcasts--these perceived gender biases and conflicts. I wouldn't pay too much attention to what's being said here on PPD or for that matter, any place else on the Internet. It's plainly obvious the progress that feminism has had on society at large, at least in the West. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/25 08:48 PM |
| 1 | The biggest threat to modern feminism is positive misogyny from women toward themselves and others🤔... Nah, we should let the current feminist train continue running its normal, chartered course. Stop trying to mainsplain to women, you bigot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/25 12:34 AM |
| 0 | The biggest threat to modern feminism is positive misogyny from women toward themselves and othersSame. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/25 11:50 PM |
| 1 | The biggest threat to modern feminism is positive misogyny from women toward themselves and othersIndeed. Last I recall, their fate didn't go so well--at insofar as the world history is concerned. But with Trump back in power and Elon Musk's 'Heile Hitler', salute that happened not too long ago on social media, it won't be long till the Fascists and Neo-Nazi's make a comeback. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/25 10:44 PM |
| 0 | The biggest threat to modern feminism is positive misogyny from women toward themselves and othersI disagree. There is no threat here. Feminism in all of their various flavors are working perfectly fine as designed. The collateral damage make it seem as though this hurts all women but it actually doesn't hurt them, whether from an ideological standpoint or from a functional 'how do I benefit from this' standpoint. What you're witnessing is actually the next phase in the evolution of the ideology. 1st and 2nd wave feminists are shitting their pants over a misperception that the ideology is 'g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/25 10:01 PM |
| 1 | The biggest threat to modern feminism is positive misogyny from women toward themselves and othersAgreed. It works in favor of feminists to have both stances to exist in the same space--even if the overall publicity is a net negative result and actually actively works against the feminist agenda in the long run. Right now, they are facing an issue of their inner ranks eating each other because both stances are allowed to exist in the same space within their hierarchy. Despite this, I think feminists still see this as an overall net positive position to hold onto for dear life--it's better to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/25 09:26 PM |
| – | You need to practice being friends with people of different genders, including your own.Nah. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/25 09:22 PM |
| – | You need to practice being friends with people of different genders, including your own.They don't have to. Just roll with whatever that interests you. They will fall in line, if they want to be a part of your social circle. They will make the effort to enjoy the same activities that you enjoy. If not, those friendships weren't meant to be so you can cut them loose at your discretion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/25 09:18 PM |
| – | You need to practice being friends with people of different genders, including your own.They don't have to be. Amongst the boys, there's a lot more tomfoolery. With women, it's s like a marginally toned version of that. What that margin is will vary from woman to woman so testing her boundaries is how you can gauge where she stands on that. Some can take trash talking like a champ and some can't. Act on instinct then go back and fine tune the actions afterwards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/25 07:10 PM |
| 2 | You need to practice being friends with people of different genders, including your own.You're explaining a phenomenon that may have been common social practices in the prior generations. I'm talking about specifically Gen X and Boomers, mainly, though there's some overlapping of this phenomenon in the oldest half of the Millennial generation. This phenomenon does not apply to the middle to younger Millennials, Gen Z and Gen Alpha. The way they interact is 'different'. Definitely a lot more fluid mindset than all prior generations. At the same time due to this fluid 'neutral' minds… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/25 04:48 PM |
| 1 | You need to practice being friends with people of different genders, including your own.By treating them like men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/25 04:29 PM |
| 1 | Why does autism seem to be the only hyper-masculine trait which isn't attractive?Because women naturally produce estrogen in greater quantities than men. That's it. It's not really a secret. Estrogen has been associated with empathy, emotional intelligence and nurturing but...PPD posts here make it plainly obvious that the same hormone also make women, whether neurodivergent or neurotypical, less likely to associate masculinity with those displaying autistic traits. When truly debilitating autistic women still have significantly more success locking down a partner and produc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/25 04:24 PM |
| 1 | Most of The Commenters on This Sub Have Basically Zero Experience In What They Are Arguing AboutYour argument is that we should preface every post on PPD with a flair explicitly declaring or 'saying out loud' one's age, number of relationships, etc before they are allowed to make their argument for or against something. I'm saying it doesn't matter what flair people use or whatever information or experience that they 'supposedly' know or have experiencd--that the act of prefacing all of this information up front, at the very get-go, don't mean diddly squat. Because they could be lying for … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/25 08:53 PM |
| 1 | Most of The Commenters on This Sub Have Basically Zero Experience In What They Are Arguing AboutUnfortunately, prefacing every post and counter response with those details prior to saying your piece doesn't say too much and presumes the person is answering honestly. You can have people put on their resume that they have 30+ years of project management experience but when it came time for the individual to exercise their experience, they fail spectacularly at it. It's almost as if they had zero experience and literally just lied on the resume. I have met way too many boomers and gen Xer's w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/25 06:15 PM |
| 2 | Most of The Commenters on This Sub Have Basically Zero Experience In What They Are Arguing AboutI didn't say that the topic is arbitrary. I said that the criteria that you set for what can be discussed and by whom is arbitrary. So if the criteria is based on some arbitrary number of dates, relationships and/or sex that one has accumulated, where do you draw the line on who can and cannot make the argument for or against something? Let's just arbitrarily say that the magic number is 5. So are all of the folks who have had less than 5 of each: dates, relationships and/or sex in the totality … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/25 04:12 AM |
| 9 | Most of The Commenters on This Sub Have Basically Zero Experience In What They Are Arguing AboutI would tend to agree, if the target audience are the younger millennials and all of Gen Z and the younger age groups. I would tend to disagree for those who are the older millennials, plus gen X and boomers. The caveat here is that about half of the women Redditors on PPD who are married with children making these outlandish comments about men does make one wonder about how they treat their husbands, or at least how they think about them and their children who are sons. Certainly questionable. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/25 01:22 AM |
| 1 | Are you woried about feminism?I just want to play Dance Dance Revolution and Pump It Up without women eye-raping and ear-raping me with their sinful words and eyes from the sidelines. #DDR Player Lives Matter. #PIU Player Lives Matter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/25 09:56 PM |
| 1 | Most problems in the current dating climate would be solved if everyone was at a healthy weightThis should be the slogan that Konami and Andamiro should post on billboards. Then have a picture of the dedi-cab gold DDR machine and Pump it Up Phoenix dedi-cab, side by side, with a giant QR code to scan that takes people straight to their web order page to place an order with an exclusive billboard discount to encourage sales and repeat customers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/25 09:40 PM |
| 0 | What are your thoughts on vasectomies?Indifferent. The USA is already introducing trace levels of soy into our everyday diet from GMO's, processed foods and even those minimally processed foods. It's practically inescapable just like the use of corn syrup, high fructose corn syrup and all their variants of sugar. We're getting fat and lowering our sperm count just by eating, which means estrogen in men are also on the rise as well as ADD, ADHD, gluten allergies, etc. Getting a vasectomy would be overkill but I guess it can't hurt as… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/25 09:44 PM |
| – | Women often make exaggerated inferences based on arguments made by “incels” to confirm to themselves men are crazier than they really are.Bored, geriatric ladies can talk about whatever they want as long as they know when they can talk about it and it doesn't affect their productivity. They can talk about eugenics and mass genocide for all I care--my job isn't to restrict what racist, prejudiced, and bigoted opinions they hold. My job is to make sure those same racist, prejudiced, and bigoted opinions don't escalate and manifest into real workplace violence. Clearly, you've never been a leadership position where you had manage a m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/25 04:24 PM |
| 2 | AI and Robots Will Fix HypergamyEver watched Black Mirror? Highly recommend it. It touches upon all the morally grey areas of technology, artificial intelligence, social media and how people will adapt and/or behave in such a reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/25 03:30 AM |
| – | The manosphere does not care about men's issues: Trump screws over menIf you read the fine print, kid, you'll notice that those social programs have pretty specific requirements to qualify for them. Blue states are anal-retentive and are largely pro-women when advertising those social programs. They can say it 'benefits men' because there's no criteria of what constitutes as a benefit for men. It being available and advertised that way doesn't mean men qualify for them. But it wouldn't be false to say that to the public. See how marketing works, kid? Children are … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/25 01:12 AM |
| – | The manosphere does not care about men's issues: Trump screws over menBecause the federal funds being frozen one day and overturned the next day were funds going to social programs that largely do not benefit men directly. Sure, you can say veteran affairs and homeless shelters and such, but anyone who has served in the military since the beginning of World War 1 know what trashy benefits--if you can even call it that--were given to soldiers returning home after the two world wars. And that trend continued for the Vietnam War, the Persian Gulf War, and every war t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 11:23 PM |
| – | The manosphere does not care about men's issues: Trump screws over menYea, so business as usual in the world of politics. So what else is new? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 10:16 PM |
| – | The manosphere does not care about men's issues: Trump screws over menIt's time we bring back Andrew Yang for the next presidential elections. If the USA shot down Hillary and Kamala because they are women, maybe an Asian man would fair better with his Universal Basic Income. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 09:49 PM |
| – | The manosphere does not care about men's issues: Trump screws over menI don't think Trump's campaign ever made that specific claim about caring about men's issues. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 09:33 PM |
| 0 | Women often make exaggerated inferences based on arguments made by “incels” to confirm to themselves men are crazier than they really are.Same level of unhinged but how they manifest is different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 09:29 PM |
| 0 | Women often make exaggerated inferences based on arguments made by “incels” to confirm to themselves men are crazier than they really are.Then you and I can agree to disagree on this point and leave it at that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 09:25 PM |
| 0 | Women often make exaggerated inferences based on arguments made by “incels” to confirm to themselves men are crazier than they really are.Just sharing a story, just like you're sharing a story. It might not sound unhinged to you but it is the leadership's responsibility to nip these problems in the bud before they escalate into real workplace violence--which have happened before because the prior leadership team swept the problems under the rug. That's when the 'real' fun starts when people start lawyering up and suing each other. It is my job not to allow it to escalate to this. But on the off chance where lawsuits are filed, I a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 06:29 PM |
| 0 | Women often make exaggerated inferences based on arguments made by “incels” to confirm to themselves men are crazier than they really are.Oh goodness, no. Rape, assault and murder are beneath them. Those topics doesn't interest the women that I have had the pleasure of managing. They talk about perceived backstabbings, perceived betrayals, revenge and sleeping with married men interdepartmentally. You know, the sort of things that are usually frowned upon in white collar and blue collar workplace environments in an effort to keep and maintain a certain level of professionalism, both inside and outside the company for the benefit o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 05:04 PM |
| -2 | Women often make exaggerated inferences based on arguments made by “incels” to confirm to themselves men are crazier than they really are.Mmhmm, I've been managing women in fortune 500 companies for years. And women are in fact way more unhinged than I could ever imagine--when compared to men. Oof, the level of drama and catty-ness that transpires behind close doors is a whole different ballgame compared to men--while simultaneously--in the public eye--they play up a really good front where they make it seem like they get along with the rest of the women in the other departments within the same company and that there's no internal… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 08:20 AM |
| 2 | The true RP position is that male friendships, not romantic relationships, are the answer to the male loneliness epidemicAre you gay? Genuinely curious. This comment, I mostly hear it from gay men having friendships with straight women. It is not very often that I encounter straight men having strictly platonic friendships with other straight women unless certain conditions apply like work, church, hobby groups, etc. And even under those conditions, usually one or the other are actually low-key trying to turn friendships into a relationship. OR through the natural process of spending boatloads of time with each ot… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/25 03:25 AM |
| 2 | Women Have Become Much More Commitment Phobic Now that Social Media and Dating Apps ExistThat's because women, if given a choice between a soul-crushing finance / corporate job that takes 100+ hours per week of your life and an easy, mostly stress-free, cushy office job that has a fixed 9-5 schedule with guaranteed weekends off plus 30+days paid time off and holidays off year around, they'll choose the latter far more often than the former. It's not that women can't make that level of money. They absolutely can but instead are actively choosing low stress jobs like servers at a cafe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/25 02:18 AM |
| 0 | There are lots of women who will counterintuitively RAISE their standards in the face of nonsuccess in datingHave you ever heard of Tom Leykis? Genuinely curious. Because he was the Rollo and Fresh n Fit before the Internet came along. This was even before Jerry Springer, Montel Williams or the Maury Show ever became a 'thing'. And he did everything over the radio. Imagine that! If you're quoting Rollo and FnF, you were probably still in diapers or still in your mom's belly. I know what I'm talking about. I just don't know if you know what you're talking about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/25 01:04 AM |
| -1 | There are lots of women who will counterintuitively RAISE their standards in the face of nonsuccess in datingThinking hard Am I doing it correctly? You mistake TRP for PUA. PUA is all about getting laid and using any means necessary to obtain that. TRP just clarifies the real nature of the two genders. How you use that information will take you down the rabbit hole that leads into PUA or the other pill ideologies. Maybe you should think a little bit before you type a response. I hear it does wonders before reacting emotionally. Try it some time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/25 12:01 AM |
| 1 | There are lots of women who will counterintuitively RAISE their standards in the face of nonsuccess in datingTRP has been around a lot longer than you think, youngster. Like you mentioned, it went by many different names back then and at least for the USA, it went as far back as the 18th century. So far as any formal pooling together of this information, it probably didn't happen until a little after world war II. Prior to this point, there was no such thing as 'dating' or 'picking up chicks' because women were still treated like property back then so there was no need to formalize TRP in any concrete … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/25 09:59 PM |
| 1 | Nearly every woman has been in an abusive relationship, yet they still claim they aren’t drawn to toxic behaviorWell... life is unfair. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/25 04:49 PM |
| 1 | There should be a requirement to flair your sexual orientation when debating on this subYeah, I feel ya, bud. In this sub, I've already identified a handful of them who are consistent trolls. I won't call out any reddit usernames but it's really not that hard to rule out which one's. Like if you find yourself questioning 'WTF?!? Who says stuff like that???' Especially when you put it in the context of real life interactions--I don't know of any gender that talks like that or behaves that way in real life. You can probably safely rule that specific user as trolling or just playing d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/25 04:54 AM |
| 2 | There should be a requirement to flair your sexual orientation when debating on this subI see where you're coming from and I personally don't have issues with this sub adding that add'l flair but ...it assumes that people will be using the flair system honestly and fairly. Not sure if you've noticed this yet but there are folks who flaired themselves as blue pill or purple pill but their history of comments would seem to indicate otherwise. Then there are folks who don't even follow the flair system correctly as called out and they, too, have some pretty 'wild' opinions. To me, bul… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/25 04:26 AM |
| 6 | There should be a requirement to flair your sexual orientation when debating on this subI think you make a valid point but then again, at what point do we draw the line in the sand and go 'alright, now we can have a debate or discussion about X, Y, Z'? It's a rabbit hole that can potentially be endless, if you think about it. The dynamics of dating and relationships are 'a bit' different between hetero and homo. It's also 'a bit' different between transgender and hetero and transgender and homo. The combinations go on and on, ad infinitum. The differences are minor in some instance… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/25 03:39 AM |
| 3 | Nearly every woman has been in an abusive relationship, yet they still claim they aren’t drawn to toxic behaviorIf we apply Occam's razor, we will see that abusive behavior is common in both genders. Occam's razor is great when there's a lot of competing, similarly defined word salads thrown around in a debate or discussion. Reducing it to their simplest constituent parts would help clarify things but for something as complex as human behavior, you can't really use Occam's razor too often since if we did, we can boil everything down to biology--a conclusion that most of the other sciences pertaining to th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/25 04:48 PM |
| 1 | Red Pill Topics Exist Because With Social Media and Apps, The Internet Exposed How Women Are and Have Always BeenCool. Thanks for the link! I'll file this under the bucket list of must-reads. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/25 04:40 PM |
| -1 | Why It’s Easy To Be A Misogynist Nowadays.That's just laziness then. Guess you didn't get the feminist memo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/25 04:01 AM |
| 1 | Why It’s Easy To Be A Misogynist Nowadays.I 100% agree with you that it's embarrassing. That's why women, you need the step the fuck up and start joining the military frontlines and fighting the wars over there in the Middle East and UK/Russia. That's why you need to step the fuck up and start joining construction to build homes in below freezing temps, risk sawing any of your limbs off, or falling from a roof and breaking your back. That's why you need to step the fuck up and start joining the automotive repairs and fixing cars and tru… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/25 03:47 AM |
| 1 | Why It’s Easy To Be A Misogynist Nowadays.Hey old man, clubbing as a pastime has been dead since the 90's. Parties have been dead since the mid-2010's. Mixed gendered beaches? LOL! Get with reality, old timer. You're living in a bygone era but thanks for sharing your memories. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/25 03:22 AM |
| 3 | Being unable to hold a conversation on a date is not a gendered issue. It’s an effort issue.Bruh....I know what you mean. All too well, my friend. So much that I dumb down my intelligence IRL around women that piques my interest, which is rare in and of itself, because God forbid, if I show them my real level of intelligence. Learning to talk about surface level news and celebrity gossip are the topics women are most drawn to and will talk your ears off, if you let them. Especially talks about revenge, sex scandals and betrayals. You can only talk about these celebrity topics so many t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/25 03:11 AM |
| 5 | Who are your favorite women in your lives, and why?Bruh, I think you already know the answer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/25 02:58 AM |
| 9 | Who are your favorite women in your lives, and why?My former general manager when I used to work for the now defunct Borders Bookstores. She is a good example of what differentiates good managers with ok leadership skills from great managers with excellent leadership skills. She's the latter. My former psychology professor and dept chair of Philosophy. Cal Poly Pomona. Both are retired. Both were excellent teachers, mentors and general life guidance counselors during my uni days. My former HS English teacher. She's the main reason why I can writ… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/25 02:21 AM |
| 1 | Red Pill Topics Exist Because With Social Media and Apps, The Internet Exposed How Women Are and Have Always BeenYes, so normal ppl that don't openly subscribe to any of the pill ideologies, whatever comes of their mouths on PPD or elsewhere, like IRL, are also equal BS. Stuff they say about how men/women are, their nature and/or tendencies are all BS and are all propaganda as well. In other words, we are to treat all 'truths' as 'individual truths' or perhaps more accurately, 'localized truths' unique to their little bubble and anything outside of that bubble, however big or small, is total bunk to the re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/25 11:45 PM |
| -1 | Red Pill Topics Exist Because With Social Media and Apps, The Internet Exposed How Women Are and Have Always BeenAnd I am agreeing with you that if all of what TRP espouses is BS, then anything else spouted by other pills are equally BS. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/25 11:12 PM |
| 2 | Red Pill Topics Exist Because With Social Media and Apps, The Internet Exposed How Women Are and Have Always BeenLast I checked, aziz ansari is a professional comedian by trade. Unless he left the industry, and became a professional sociologist and rose thru the rank-and-file system that make up the world of social sciences--I don't see how his book would carry any credibility on the topic. But let's just say that what you typed above is what aziz was actually advocating in his book. We can go back into any time period in human history and say precisely that to any counterargument and the rebuttal will alw… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/25 11:10 PM |
| 1 | Red Pill Topics Exist Because With Social Media and Apps, The Internet Exposed How Women Are and Have Always BeenAbout as much nonsense as the 'Fuck Zone' or 'situationships'. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/25 10:49 PM |
| 1 | The "Friend-zone" is often deliberate manipulation.If you say so... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/25 09:03 PM |
| 1 | The "Friend-zone" is often deliberate manipulation.I'm not interested in what Google has to say as Google is just a search engine. Even with artificial intelligence backing its algorithms, which gender do you suppose has relatively more free time on their hands than not? I'll give you a hint. It's not men or boys. So if search results skew in favor of what keywords are actively searched, it shouldn't be surprising that it would overwhelmingly skew in that direction. Give me those studies. I would love to read them. Meanie Lady Mod gave me lots o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/25 06:14 PM |
| 3 | The "Friend-zone" is often deliberate manipulation.You mentioned why date manipulators? I provided a reason why. Simple as that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/25 06:00 PM |
| 4 | The "Friend-zone" is often deliberate manipulation.Women win by a huge landslide when it comes to manipulation. They are the ultimate manipulators in practically everything and all aspects of life. That said, there are uses in dating the manipulators in one's life. You get to learn some really interesting (but ultimately fucked up things) that women will go out of their way to do to other people, man or woman--but most especially men. The orbiters eventually see the light of day after getting burned enough times. Some have an incredibly high tol… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/25 04:52 PM |
| 1 | Perhaps women no longer being attractive to men as they get older is a good thing.Interesting. Thank you for your honesty and for sharing. 🙂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/25 03:47 PM |
| 2 | We need to bring back witches and sirens and other evil female archetypes to teach young menBecause...sirens and witches from ages of yore do not reflect the women of 2025? I'm game for bringing back the use of archetypes to teach young men against the dangers of toxic women but at least make them relevant to modern times. Tramp stamps are still a thing so we can have an archetype of a girl that has dark hair wearing dark colored clothing with a pentagram on her arm and a cute butterfly down her lower back but just above her ass crack. We can call this girl whatever you like--whatever … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/25 02:22 AM |
| 2 | Women don’t like being friends with guys who don’t want themThat's a cool red herring, lady. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/25 10:44 PM |
| 1 | Women don’t like being friends with guys who don’t want themOh men have agency alright but when presented with lies and/or misrepresentation of the truth, they can erroneously make decisions that are not based on truth or factual information. That's cool that you hold men to that standard but... that's like saying children don't have agency--to which they do--but that you hold adults to a higher standard precisely because they are adults. It doesn't make a whole lot of sense. The only difference between adults and children are the experiences, awareness,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/25 10:31 PM |
| 1 | Why do you like "bro" spaces?Yeah, guys are shitty in that regard. That's just what they do. That's partly why I never mix genders in a group social outing unless I've vetted the dude before bringing any chick friends, single or married, into the mix. Guys like doing guy things. Men are inherently rambunctious and talk without filter with the boys. It's only when women are in the circle that they start being more reserved, and filter, think and check themselves (with the pecking order) on what they say before actually sayin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/25 06:27 PM |
| 2 | Why do you like "bro" spaces?Discord is the answer. You can be doing whatever solitary hobby in the comfort of your home while still being in the company of others without the draining effect by being physically around people as an introvert tends to experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/25 06:20 PM |
| 1 | Why do you like "bro" spaces?The brother is just saying that you'll enjoy football while sucking a man's dick so it wouldn't be entirely incorrect to say that you don't enjoy watching football. You do but only under certain conditions and if those conditions were met, then watching football can be an enjoyable experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/25 06:17 PM |
| 1 | Why do you like "bro" spaces?I played with dolls growing up. Does GI Joe's, He-man and Thundercats count? I mean, they weren't softly and snuggly since they were, more often than not, made of hard plastic but that's like the boy's equivalent of a doll. That would imply that every American boy that grew up with playing those dolls are inherently closet gay's but don't really know it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/25 06:07 PM |
| 2 | Guys Don’t Like Dating Apps and Instagram For Only One ReasonAnd Chad Lite. Chad Lite's are basically average guys with a glow-up in terms of money, career, physique, and life goals. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/25 05:40 PM |
| 1 | Women don’t like being friends with guys who don’t want them🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/25 05:23 PM |
| 1 | Women don’t like being friends with guys who don’t want themWomen instigating other men to commit the shooting and stabbing of other men when the object man of desire turns them down happens semi-regularly. FTFY | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/25 05:22 PM |
| 0 | Women don’t like being friends with guys who don’t want themYour grandma knows more about the true nature of women and men than a lot of the modern day folks of 2025. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/25 05:14 PM |
| 1 | Women don’t like being friends with guys who don’t want themYou're not all that. I hope you understand this truth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/25 05:10 PM |
| 6 | Women don’t like being friends with guys who don’t want themYeah, women like this are a dime a dozen. Friendships with women are generally less satisfactory overall because of a woman's natural tendency to treat their friendship with men like they are a surrogate boyfriend / husband 'placeholder' until they find their forever guy and lock him down. And even after they lock down their forever guy, these friendships with men don't stop because the forever guy, as many boxes and checklists he checks off from her laundry list of 'must-have's,' she intuitivel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/25 05:07 PM |
| 5 | Nearly every woman has been in an abusive relationship, yet they still claim they aren’t drawn to toxic behaviorThe lesson here isn't that this type of behavior is very common in men. The lesson is that women allow it--as their default modus operandi--but only start backpedaling when too many women start doing it all at once and openly parade it to their chick friends. The value of the toxicity--as paradoxical as it sounds--drops if every chick is doing it. To raise the level of toxicity then, one is forced to degrade themselves even further to artificially raise that value --which we plainly see as the m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 06:33 AM |
| 1 | I understand the value of protecting no-fault divorce and believe it should always be available. I don’t understand why some states only allow no-fault separation, ie fault divorce isn’t possible. Both should always be available.The origins of no-fault divorce, contrary to popular belief, isn't to grant women who were in abusive relationships, dead bedrooms, or what have you--a way out without repercussions. The origins of it stems from how for centuries, the Judeo-Christian (monotheistic) religion and Catholicism forbade divorces unless there was a legitimate reason, as defined under the Bible, to end a marriage. As you might imagine, that very strictly defined and very small list of things to allow for a dissolution o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 06:07 AM |
| 2 | The “male loneliness epidemic” is self inflictedNot even cougars, homie. Young twenty something's just casually strolling through trader Joe's, whole foods and aldi--shopping for stuff but when they see a dude they like, I swear dog, they just follow yo ass into the aisles hoping to accidentally bump into you and you're forced to talk to them. Or they do that weird thing like ask you what you'd recommend between one brand of steel cut oats or another. And I'm like... you're shopping at Trader Joe's... there isn't anything here that's bad qual… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 02:19 AM |
| 2 | The “male loneliness epidemic” is self inflictedYea, young things chasing old men at supermarkets. It's a thing--apparently, unbeknownst to me because of my boomer ways. I like touching grass often because the Internet rots the brain with your eyes glued to the smartphone constantly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/25 09:59 PM |
| 2 | Perhaps women no longer being attractive to men as they get older is a good thing.Wait, your post doesn't make sense on the bit about single mom's. They would have to have been childfree to begin with before knocking them up. So, by definition, they were single ladies before they became single mom's Older men knocking up young, single ladies is a common phenomenon. Most societies around the world, generally do encourage childbirths at the younger age ranges than they do in the older age ranges. It just so happens that modern science backs up this cultural phenomenon inherent … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/25 09:56 PM |
| 1 | Perhaps women no longer being attractive to men as they get older is a good thing.Are you Asian? Genuinely curious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/25 09:37 PM |
| 2 | The “male loneliness epidemic” is self inflictedFor a while there, I thought your username said Autistic_Bumblebee17. Young millennials and Gen Zoomers are just a different breed of people. Can't relate to most of them. I am now understanding more and more where the boomers and Gen Xer's are coming from when they complained about the Millennials. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/25 09:36 PM |
| 2 | When You’re On a Date with a Woman, She Usually Has 3 Other Guys AlreadyThe tunnel vision syndrome is strong in that one, me thinks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/25 09:28 PM |
| 1 | The “male loneliness epidemic” is self inflictedBruh--DARE is so 1990's. I'd rather rock out with care bears and he-man telling me not to do drugs on TV with my favorite cereal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/25 08:56 PM |
| 1 | The “male loneliness epidemic” is self inflictedThere are these creepy ladies in their prime age lurking in Trader Joe's, Whole Foods and Aldi's that do these weird things like stalk your ass--hoping the guys will take the hint and break the ice. These women look like they are in their mid-20's. Who in God's green Earth are teaching these women to do this in the wild? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/25 08:53 PM |
| 4 | The “male loneliness epidemic” is self inflictedYea, trip out on shrooms and acid while they are at it. Heck, if you're feeling especially adventurous, you can also rock out with ketamine and fentanyl. By the end of it, loneliness would be the least of your worries. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/25 08:49 PM |
| 2 | Women do actually hate the idea of sex robots despite saying otherwise.Good thing that men who want sex bots won't be competing for your attention (and every other woman just like you) in the dating market then. It's a win-win. Yet without fail, like the TikTok trail of evidence shows, it's exclusively women who put up a stink and issues threats to those companies just trying to fill a need in the market. It wasn't too long ago, maybe a year ago, somewhere in the UK, where there was an up-and-coming pharmaceutical firm that was developing the male form of a birth c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/25 10:00 PM |
| 0 | Young chronically single men thanks to their mothersIt sounds like you grew up in a household where the 'feel good about yourself' was promoted even if you were placed dead last in a competition. You're the 'last winner' as George Carlin (the comedian, RIP) has succinctly put it. You are a product of your environment so partly it's not your fault but once you're older and can see and make distinctions for yourself on the minute nuances in everyday life--at that point, there's no excuse. Strong and weak are relative. Why can't we all be strong? We… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/25 06:55 PM |
| 0 | Not all women are "like that", but many are.Wait...but that's a good thing, for women, that is, isn't it? Men not wanting long-term relationships only serve to buttress the goals of those who reject the oppressive, toxic, patriarchal, traditional style of dating and relationships dynamics. Most women already support this and are in favor of this alternative paradigm. And if the same women can't lock down a man because of this alternative paradigm--well, sucks to be her but it's inherent and by design under this alternative paradigm. She c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/25 10:36 PM |
| 7 | Complaining about dating’s unfairness as a man will lead to nothing and is a pointless endeavourDid you hear that Chad and Tyrone? Humanity needs YOU to step up yo game and start impregnating these women. Let's shoot for a modest 51% single parent households by the start of 2025. It's only at 30% as of 2019/2020 according to a Pew Research study/survey that some random redditor pointed out and provided links to me in a different post where she was making a case against the rise of single parent households, of which 27% of that chunk were single mother households VS a negligible 3% for sing… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/24 12:15 AM |
| – | No one owes you attraction, attention, or affection. If you want better outcomes, you must earn them. Period.The premises above do not support the conclusion. The conclusion being you must work towards something--to get better outcomes--at least insofar as the sexual marketplace is concerned. Bear in mind, sexual marketplace does NOT equal dating marketplace nor relationship marketplace. There's overlap between each phase but they are NOT the same. The crux of OP's argument rests on biology. No one owes you attraction, attention or affection because of human biology. In this case, the relatively speaki… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/24 05:12 PM |
| 0 | Online dating for men is really now not much worse than in person - you can be a desirable guy and still only match with hèffersWe don't need chads and tyrones revolting over this. We need them for breeding and sustaining the civilization. The nice thing about TRP is that they are necessarily encouraging men to go back to the plantation by way of increasing your net worth thru work and investments in real estate and stock, looks through exercise and dieting, and practicing the art of being a clown around women. Effectively, producing a chad or tyrone through effort. These chads and tyrones are not the natural chads and t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/24 04:53 PM |
| 8 | Too many men destroy their own confidence. They’re too convinced that everything is against them, and it hurts their dating chances.Well, that's the chads/women's problems. This is what they collectively wanted--whether or not they saw how the end result will actually pan out in the long-term. Because to chad--he gets instant access to all of the women's bodies, hearts, minds and souls to his full indulgence without committing to any of them. The only problem--which isn't really a huge problem and there are ways around it--is getting baby-trapped. And for women, they get instant access to all the chads for the same reasons a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/24 11:33 PM |
| -1 | Mainstream feminism is a hate movement - if you identify as a feminist and don't hate men, you are the fringe. I challenge you: Find me a single notable feminist who condemns feminist man-hatingYou got me. I can't think of one. That being said, why is it a bad thing? If the Neo-Nazi movement can exist in the same space and have the same rights as the LGBTQIA2S+, why not one for feminism? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/24 10:02 PM |
| 11 | Too many men destroy their own confidence. They’re too convinced that everything is against them, and it hurts their dating chances.Your overall argument above can be easily summed up as 'Just keep trying, bro'. To which I say, 'Why?' In the grand scheme of things--wouldn't men who give up effectively pave the way for the already successful men to pair up with the women they attract? Now, I say, 'pair up' but it doesn't necessarily mean 'get into a committed, long-term relationship' (although it can). And if all that TRP teaches were true, then wouldn't that also mean women will naturally gravitate to these already successfu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/24 09:47 PM |
| 1 | in the US the women are wonderful effect is on steroids and this is part of the problemI can live with that. We don't have to talk about anything else from here on out insofar as this post is concerned. Peace be with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/24 06:07 PM |
| 2 | in the US the women are wonderful effect is on steroids and this is part of the problemMeanie Lady Mod. I don't appreciate the disrespect, rudeness and condescending tone littered throughout your response. It's not necessary. Please stay on topic. I'm only bringing up that example about the incarceration rate of men, as a point of reference, because this is a point of contention for you so to stay on topic, I'm using this example to do two things. 1) To illustrate that you shouldn't believe everything at face value coming from your favorite TV station, and 2) to illustrate how pro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/24 05:27 PM |
| 7 | in the US the women are wonderful effect is on steroids and this is part of the problemMeanie Lady Mod. Riddle me this. Why is it that most crimes that pop up on mainstream media like your local cable TV station almost always showcases a black man committing said crime? Is it because blacks are inherently more violent or more prone to committing crimes? Or that perhaps the TV broadcasting stations are mostly controlled and run by white folks so the news that they want to push (that is, the 'propaganda', they want to push) are heavily skewed in favor of making it seem like almost n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/24 09:54 PM |
| 1 | There's limited safe & non-judgmental avenues/ spaces for men to genuinely express their frustrations with rejection & dating. I believe resolving this will help improve misogyny, incel hate towards women ect.For your second linked article---umm, that's an unusual way of saying that 30% of children ages 0-17 lived in single parent households in 2022. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/24 07:02 AM |
| – | in the US the women are wonderful effect is on steroids and this is part of the problemYou're an adult. You can figure it out. I'm fully confident in your abilities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/24 06:52 AM |
| 1 | There's limited safe & non-judgmental avenues/ spaces for men to genuinely express their frustrations with rejection & dating. I believe resolving this will help improve misogyny, incel hate towards women ect.According to the first link, it looks like the sample size is 2,020 respondents, of which 830 are Millennials--pulled from a telephone phone survey conducted in late Oct 2009. The survey presumes, like any stats analysis, that the folks answering the phone survey were being honest and to account for marginal error and biases, to give at minimum plus or minus 4 percentage points (or higher). So let's just say it was double that marginal error, which still puts nearly 50% of millennials that lived… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/24 06:42 AM |
| -2 | in the US the women are wonderful effect is on steroids and this is part of the problemI like your logic. I just wish this works for men the same way it works flawlessly for women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/24 06:17 AM |
| 1 | There's limited safe & non-judgmental avenues/ spaces for men to genuinely express their frustrations with rejection & dating. I believe resolving this will help improve misogyny, incel hate towards women ect.Didn't you get the memo? There's an epidemic of single mothers around the world. These single mothers likely used the legal court system to restrict the fathers of these children from being an active part of their lives. So no, for a lot of the young men around the world, they don't have any father figures/male figures to look up to. And the one's that are around are not masculine so mimicking them would be like banging one's head against the wall and hoping for different results every single ti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/24 05:18 AM |
| 1 | Are the men here mostly on the younger side and single?dayum~~ you old, homie! Most of these kids on PPD have no idea what it was like to use analog phones tied to a physical phone line, use the thomas guide to get around town, or god forbid, go to a record store or video store to rent a vinyl or cassette tape to watch and/or listen to music and the recently released movies of yesteryear. Like I'm not even joking here. If all electronics and the Internet went down tomorrow, the young gen would have no idea how to get to places the old fashioned way | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/24 04:55 AM |
| -2 | Many Men Struggle in Dating because they are Not Very Interesting.Is she fat? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/24 04:16 AM |
| -6 | in the US the women are wonderful effect is on steroids and this is part of the problemBy that logic, then any relationship formed is technically also sex work even if no sex is performed by either party. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/24 04:01 AM |
| 0 | Would you want to go back to life before the Sexual Revolution?Nope. I like to be sexually repressed, depressed, and reminded how much a dirtbag we are and how absolutely disposable we are on a daily basis. I mean, let's face it--What man doesn't want to get metoo'd and doxxed into oblivion? It's amazing. If you've ever been given the 'privilege' to be metoo'd, it's considered the highest honor that a man can ever achieve in all of his existence. Without experiencing the above, I would never have a valid, justifiable reason to never give up Dance Dance Revo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/24 11:47 PM |
| 2 | People who look for umconditional love in relationships aren't confident in their ability to fulfill these conditionsI am but a lowly being, oh wise one. For the Lord is thine God. I beseech you! Please impart your wisdom so we can all learn the Lord's message. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/24 11:10 PM |
| 2 | People who look for umconditional love in relationships aren't confident in their ability to fulfill these conditionsTeach me, oh wise one. What is this in-between unconditional love and conditional love you speak of? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/24 10:50 PM |
| 2 | People who look for umconditional love in relationships aren't confident in their ability to fulfill these conditionsReally? You mean to tell me Disney made cartoons based on conditional love and relationships that develop easily with no hiccups throughout the timelines of the courting phase, dating phase and relationship phase ? Or that Backstreet Boys were singing about only loving when it's convenient and easy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/24 10:37 PM |
| 1 | People who look for umconditional love in relationships aren't confident in their ability to fulfill these conditionsYou mean to tell me a lifetime of Disney and 90's American bands like (NKOTB, Backstreet Boys, Savage Garden, etc) had it all wrong all along? No way. You blew my mind. I would have to disagree on your point about unconditional love for kids and pets. Only pets should receive unconditional love. Everyone else should receive love on a case-by-case basis. For point of reference, refer to your original argument above. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/24 10:00 PM |
| 6 | “The bar is on the floor” for the men women consider their dating pool, which is always men above themLady, that's because the mountains upon mountains of loneliness 'pieces' by women of all ages are done on live video feed on Tiktok, not on blogs, Internet articles and the such. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/24 09:43 PM |
| 1 | What is the dating experience like for an average man?I think attraction is a convoluted word. You can acquire all the traditional, 'material' things that make up a part of the attraction 'package' to hit the 'average' line and be successful without changing anything else like personality, moral character, etc. Anecdotal evidence show this is true--to a point. You make it seem like attraction is a 'one-off' event. It's not. It's usually a slow, progression that builds up to a crescendo. Acquiring 'relationship status' is the end of that but--at tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/24 04:59 PM |
| 1 | What is the dating experience like for an average man?Or maybe you were always above average but because you had low self-esteem about yourself, that negative energy drove people away. Then when you hit rock bottom and actually started caring a bit, that sliver of positive energy drew people in and as the saying goes, 'like begets like'--eventually, you 'worked' yourself to what you actually were from the very beginning. And then you got married and the rest is history. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/24 07:19 AM |
| – | Influencers like Andrew Tate isn't radicalizing young men, the dating and economic conditions and general misandry areThe younger generations have learned from the older gens that whenever vague words like the 'system', 'society', 'civilization', 'community' and/or some equally vague word to represent a group of people--in this case, large swaths of people congregating in close proximity to each other--that whatever words that are about to come out of that individual's mouths will be something along the lines of 'men need to man up and solve these problems'. And for a lot of the young gens (and even the older g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/24 04:53 AM |
| – | Influencers like Andrew Tate isn't radicalizing young men, the dating and economic conditions and general misandry areI'm gonna call women to step it up and fight those wars. It's about damn time. There's only a handful of countries in the world that doesn't have mandatory military service, and the USA is one of them. Most of the world require at minimum 2 years of military service for both genders. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/24 04:12 AM |
| 1 | Men should generally never take dating advice from women.You sound autistic but you type like a normie. What are you, chameleon? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/24 01:12 AM |
| 0 | What are some things you envy about the other sex that are NOT commonly talked about?Uhhh... sure, bro. Whatever you say. 👍 How about you do a field test? Grab your best guy friend and your best woman friend. Then grab a random stranger off the public. Say you're doing a science experiment. Ask said random stranger to kick your guy friend's groin area and document his reaction. Then do the same for your woman friend. See who recovers faster from the kick and there's your results. Then ask all of your friends and family to try this experiment for themselves. Once you have at leas… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/24 04:06 PM |
| 1 | What are some things you envy about the other sex that are NOT commonly talked about?Women can be kicked in the groin area and walk it off without an issue. Women will never understand the excruciating pain men feel from a groin kick. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/24 03:45 AM |
| 0 | What are some things you envy about the other sex that are NOT commonly talked about?Ok boomer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/24 02:53 AM |
| 2 | It doesn't make sense that men complain about promiscuous women but also complain that women's standards are too highYou mean those same men that put women on a pedestal? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/24 08:59 PM |
| 0 | How do you think the world would look if there were more absent mothers?Your 1st paragraph, that's an odd statement. It's almost like you're arguing on bad faith and don't actually understand or are purposely misunderstanding the current realities. Your 2nd paragraph, ok. Your 3rd paragraph, not in California. Maybe in Georgia or Maryland or really any state that is a red state as opposed to a blue state LA County has plenty of them. The website is freely available for you to look up yourself. Here's a homework assignment for you. See if you can find a stipulation o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/24 02:34 AM |
| 0 | How do you think the world would look if there were more absent mothers?The pay gap myth has been dispelled for quite some time now. Realistically, encouraging women to give up their rights of custody to their children is never going to happen. It is pretty rare for a woman to give up their children even if there's no alimony or child support behind it. A single mother with children draws significantly more sympathy and empathy from people than a single father with children. Why that is, is mostly biology. It's unfortunate but it is what it is. Governments around th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/24 02:02 AM |
| 0 | How do you think the world would look if there were more absent mothers?Children who grew up in single father households are more well adjusted, more well-rounded, more practical and more realistic than children who grew up in single mother households. For boys, they would have a father figure to look up to so they will generally grow up to be masculine just like their father. With a lack of a mother figure, he may struggle with being warm and nurturing at first BUT they will learn those traits through friendships and relationships throughout their developmental yea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/24 01:22 AM |
| 10 | Escorts are NOT a substitute for a healthy sex life for the vast majority of young men.You mean to tell me that sex workers want chads and tyrones to pay for their sexual services, in the same way that ordinary women would give away their bodies to chads and tyrones--free of charge, no strings attached? Color me shocked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/24 09:35 PM |
| 1 | Who you associate with reflects on you.It's funny that you say that but when another redditor speaks condescendingly to a whole group of people, this is somehow okay and acceptable behavior on PPD. It's bigotry, plain and simple. Incels are people too with real thoughts and feelings. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/24 07:33 PM |
| 8 | CMV: Most women were abused and unhappy before the feminist revolutionMen couldn't deny Selective Service in the military for having the right to vote. Is that oppression? Genuinely curious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/24 07:23 PM |
| 1 | Bars are one of the only real social spaces left where one can meet women. But they’re problematic for so many reasons.Indeed, I would be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/24 04:08 PM |
| 1 | What if Everyone swapped Gender? How would the Dating Market change?This isn't some Japanese anime like Cheeky Angel, Ranma 1/2 or Your Name. Come on, mang! Assuming all else being equal, the most masculine men would turn into leftover women. The average men would become hot commodity women And I would blow my brains out because life would not be worth living, even if I could bat an eyelash and show some skin to get free stuff, emotional and physical labor, and all that jazz--in that state, it'd be like living life on GOD mode forever and that doesn't sound very… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/24 02:52 AM |
| 2 | Bars are one of the only real social spaces left where one can meet women. But they’re problematic for so many reasons.Chaining her to the basement isn't voluntary. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/24 02:27 AM |
| 0 | When women say "I have a boyfriend," it is usually still a personal rejectionI think it's a combination of all of my points plus others, like your points--for the reasons why people are unable to interact, etc. Look, this is all new territory for everyone except the newer generations because they grew up with the internet fully developed and all the different online cultures firmly in place already. They went in and created deeper subcultures from those same branches of online culture. And those rabbit holes go pretty deep. I'm a dinosaur at this point. My knowledge of t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/24 01:35 AM |
| 0 | When women say "I have a boyfriend," it is usually still a personal rejectionI meet people at arcades almost exclusively besides bars and lounges. Most of my current friendships are folks from the arcade and/or gaming community that I talked to randomly on internet forums, which eventually leads to in-person meetups. The latter scenario is a slow, painstaking process. You can never be too sure whether the person on the other side is a character with malicious intentions. The other side also feels the same way about you. Sure, the newer gen zoomers and gen alpha's, the co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/24 10:50 PM |
| 4 | Bars are one of the only real social spaces left where one can meet women. But they’re problematic for so many reasons.Yea, well, I know of plenty of men who would beg to differ but c'est la vie. It bears noting that it's never immediately obvious. Women play coy about the whole financial status part until they have you emotionally invested and then this curve ball comes out of nowhere--which a lot of men already know is coming, just a matter of when. One would be pretty naive that women with means would date and be together with someone of a lower socio-economic class. Not saying it doesn't happen at all but wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/24 10:06 PM |
| 0 | Bars are one of the only real social spaces left where one can meet women. But they’re problematic for so many reasons.Then you're a homewrecker and deserve every bad thing coming your way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/24 09:47 PM |
| 1 | Bars are one of the only real social spaces left where one can meet women. But they’re problematic for so many reasons.Said no woman. Ever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/24 09:46 PM |
| 1 | When women say "I have a boyfriend," it is usually still a personal rejectionBoomers and gen xer's experience less of the dynamic that the OP describes because the social rules were different for them growing up. The rules of engagement and 'coupling up' has shifted quite a bit since both of those generations. Millenials and gen zoomers experience this 'upgrading to a newer model' a lot more and seems to be a phenomenon that is here to stay. None of us likes it but c'est la vie. Either adapt and go with it or reject and remain single for significantly longer stretches of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/24 09:00 PM |
| -1 | When women say "I have a boyfriend," it is usually still a personal rejectionYou'd be the odd man out/weirdo, if you did precisely that out in a bar or public space by outright refusing to partake in small talk. It's generally more polite (and socially acceptable) to engage, even if you're faking it at first and then find a reason to exit the conversation politely. I've been in enough social situations where I very much don't want to talk to rando's out in public but in this world where extroverts wrote the rules and are the significant majority, it backfires so badly an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/24 08:50 PM |
| 2 | Male sexuality wouldnt be demonized if men werent using it to excuse bad behavior.You can't tell normies what to do, you bigot. Only normies can tell autists what to do. Didn't you get the memo? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/24 10:13 PM |
| 1 | Prostitution should be legalizedI rest my case, your honor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/24 07:56 PM |
| 2 | Prostitution should be legalizedNah, I'm actually interested in reading it. NGL, it was written in circa 2008 so it's a nearly two decades old study. A lot has happened since this study. Just wanted to point out that you're framing your argument as if it's present day reality when that study was written such a long time ago. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/24 07:55 PM |
| 1 | Prostitution should be legalizedIf you're not threatened by that, why are you contesting the claim on the behalf of all women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/24 07:49 PM |
| 2 | Prostitution should be legalizedThis is just an abstract with that phrase. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/24 07:45 PM |
| 2 | Prostitution should be legalizedSource, please. 60-100 times is an insanely high percentage for the odds of any event to occur. I don't know of any human crime that is 60-100 times more likely to happen than, say, the probability of getting hit with lightning. If anything, the odds of getting hit with lightning is higher than the odds of getting murdered. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/24 07:38 PM |
| 2 | Prostitution should be legalizedHinge, Bumble and Coffee Meets Bagel are the modern day era of 'legalized' prostitution in the USA--the only issue with this model is that women choose chads and tyrones and the majority of men don't get a choice at all in the matter. I think it's a beautiful thing that women of all walks in life are getting ran through in this way, don't you agree? Their needs are being met while the small minority of men's needs are being met. It's a win-win. As for the majority of men, they get their pick of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/24 07:27 PM |
| 1 | Prostitution should be legalizedOMG. You're right. Prostitution never happens under the Nordic model or the rest of the world. Ever. I guess that's why folks from the USA love flying overseas--for the beauty and 'bounty' of the land itself. You got me. Uncle UNCLE. Do you see me tapping out? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/24 07:01 PM |
| 1 | Prostitution should be legalizedTell that to the UK, all of Eastern Europe, most of Western Europe and ... you know what? Actually most of the world outside of North America has some form of legalized prostitution that's heavily regulated but somehow, it works in all of those respective societies with minimal negative effects. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/24 06:44 PM |
| 3 | Lie that won't die: No, women do not serve longer prison sentences after killing abusers. Men are discriminated against in sentencing.I'm sad and grossed out by this turn of events. Ugh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/24 10:05 PM |
| 5 | Lie that won't die: No, women do not serve longer prison sentences after killing abusers. Men are discriminated against in sentencing.Quit being paranoid and touch grass, dawg. It's a link, not your home address. If you're smart about it and use a VPN--ain't nobody can trace your ass. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/24 09:55 PM |
| 0 | A root cause of the issues in dating today is that dating advice is not balanced for pro-social menWhich is why women who are feminists--genuine feminists--cannot fundamentally be Christians at all. All that to say--feminists are all going to hell. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/24 09:40 PM |
| 1 | Feminists dehumanize men and it's time we admit itHey, let's not be a black piller. Feminists--for as loud as they are--some of them actually make good arguments. It's just that most of them suck at presenting it in a way that's easy to understand for most ordinary people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/24 11:11 PM |
| 6 | Feminists dehumanize men and it's time we admit itLast I checked, the feminists were the one's who started the whole 'give us the stats to show us this is a thing' to begin with. Everyone else has been responding in kind, as requested. But now that the independent stats that can be looked up and verified by anybody are starting to work against feminists, now they're back tracking and gaslighting men saying THEY are the one's that started the whole stats argument. Nay, nay, they didn't. Stats are only as good as their sample size--as any veteran… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/24 10:53 PM |
| 1 | Feminists dehumanize men and it's time we admit itWas it the 1970's? Are you sure? Last I checked, those rights: to work, own property, have their own bank account, etc became law in the mid-18th century, at least within American history. The right to vote came in the early 19th century, a little bit after World War I but before World War II. The whole goal of feminism throughout all of the waves was to level the playing field with no handicaps from either side. Granted, they didn't frame the movement like that throughout each wave but the end … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/24 08:59 PM |
| 3 | Feminists dehumanize men and it's time we admit itGenuinely curious. What does that fact tell you about OP's views? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/24 08:12 PM |
| 1 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADOh, is that right? What part? NorCal? SoCal? Central? If I were in your shoes, I'd be wary of confirmation bias. College towns tend to make it seem like Asians are picking white folks as partners or are abiding by Western beauty standards but the moment you leave it and go outside that area, you don't see it. At least, I don't see it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/24 03:50 PM |
| 1 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADI don't know what part of the world you're from but Asians don't give a rats ass about eurocentric or Anglo-Saxon, 'western' beauty standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/24 04:40 AM |
| 1 | Most men are what Esther Vilar called 'The Manipulated Man'.I wouldn't say never. Never is a long time. People have to go through all the stages of grief before arriving at acceptance. What you call the misogynistic losers, the hopeless males, etc--they are all at various stages of grief. You can't force these stages to move fast. They all move at precisely the speed that's appropriate for that individual. I, for one, am confident that they will make it through all the stages and come out a different person. If they were as hopeless as you make them seem… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/24 09:00 PM |
| 0 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADThe Asian American community would beg to differ. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/24 08:26 PM |
| 6 | "Game" is just dilluted PUA. One is derived from the other. And its all gambling addiction motivated by lack of sexual successI find it hilarious how the new gen keeps trying to re-define PUA. The older folks know what came first long before the Internet came along and re-defined and re-named age-old concepts that's been around for a while now. Heck, the whole concept of dating for love, at least in the western world, only just started like two and a half centuries ago. Back in the day, it wasn't called PUA. Some of the older cats here might even remember the Tom Leykis show--but even that wasn't the first interation o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/24 07:37 PM |
| 7 | CMV: In the wake of finding out he’s not the father, anything a paternity fraud victim does (short of physical violence towards others) is the fault of the mother.Do share this very important information. The world of men will be forever grateful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/24 09:52 PM |
| 3 | Attractive men don't have better skills when talking to women, they often never had to develop themHumans are the apex predator in the animal kingdom--only because we evolved to use tools and our brains to overcome obstacles and dangers in the wild thru cooperation and communication. If any one of these genetic traits were missing from the gene pool, Mother Nature would have ended that genetic lineage--Cro-Magnons and Neanderthals come to mind. That said, next time you're out and about, bring a shank. You said it--most men are dangerous, which includes trans-men so...better safe than sorry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/24 08:52 PM |
| – | Women don't want 'better than them', they want 'better than other men' (especially with regards to height).Me caveman bash woman with club. Take back to cave for snoo-snoo. Ooga-booga. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/24 08:30 PM |
| – | Women don't want 'better than them', they want 'better than other men' (especially with regards to height).No, you're right. Women should absolutely select partners thru fleeting, in-the-moment feelings that passes in mere seconds. YOLO! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/24 08:27 PM |
| – | Women don't want 'better than them', they want 'better than other men' (especially with regards to height).Why would a man want used up pussy that's been ran through by dozens of men before him? I've always found this 'comeback response' a rather odd one from women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/24 08:17 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Sex Robots should be bannedUgh. You have an utter lack of imagination. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/24 05:18 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Sex Robots should be bannedIf chemical castration is too extreme, then let's ban porn, violence, and videogames. That'll show those men who's boss. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/24 04:44 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Sex Robots should be bannedWhy not take this a step further and argue for chemical castration in all men? That'll solve the sex robot issue. It'll solve the predator behavior built into men's biologies because testosterone is tied into our sex drive, level of aggression, etc. It'll solve a whole host of issues that women keep bringing up as pain points that harms society and by extension, women. You'll get a whole army of men who are easy to work with, easy to conform, and easy to manipulate. That sounds like every victim… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/24 04:24 AM |
| – | Women shouldn't defend women who are obviously wrong just because they are women.1) I agree 2) The answer to your first question is that those women are predators. 3) The issue as described in the context of gyms also apply to smaller communities where fitness is the main goal. I'm strictly speaking about Dance Dance Revolution and Pump It Up here. The problem that gym owners face isn't that much of a problem in these smaller gaming communities. This is because the game itself is kind of technical with a fairly steep learning curve that requires more than average focused att… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/24 06:07 PM |
| – | Women shouldn't defend women who are obviously wrong just because they are women.You don't have to be feminist or [insert your favorite label] to be a bigot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/24 05:36 PM |
| – | Women shouldn't defend women who are obviously wrong just because they are women.Stop it with the bigotry against other nations and cultures that do not align with western nations and cultures. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/24 05:26 PM |
| 1 | A man expecting women to accept them when they are young and broke is like expecting men to accept a women when she fatAnd what makes you think that the broke, used up woman deserves the finish line man that spent all that time working on himself, charm, communication, charisma and wealth rather than play the field like the other men have had with her? That's like hitting the lottery but flushing the winning ticket down the toilet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/24 02:22 PM |
| – | More boys are now out of school globally than girls, and the inequality is bound to get worse [There is no patriarchy series]All the pills exist on a spectrum. Traditional values changes with the times. There was a time when traditional values encompasses that women aren't allowed to wear shorts because shorts were basically like walking around nude. Not so much these days. In fact, that 'tradition' fell out of favor. There's many other examples just like this. Childbirth was considered dangerous before modern medicine. Not so much these days. It isn't so much encouraging as it is letting the times catch up to the pop… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/24 04:06 AM |
| 4 | Trauma-Bonding is the most effective means of keeping a women's emotional investment in youThis is partly why every time I have an inkling of wanting a partner, I think back to this paragraph and go 'Nah, why invite that level of drama and chaos into my life?' I'll deal with the temporal feeling of loneliness which will pass shortly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/24 03:50 AM |
| – | More boys are now out of school globally than girls, and the inequality is bound to get worse [There is no patriarchy series]This is where I have to disagree. Men don't need to help. They are grown ass adults. They are able-bodied and capable to do it on their own. Men just need to step aside and let them through. And subsequently let them run things on their own. Men have done enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/24 10:29 PM |
| – | More boys are now out of school globally than girls, and the inequality is bound to get worse [There is no patriarchy series]I don't see how they would be able to turn men into the underclass. Look at Sweden, Finland and Norway. They are top 10 in the most equal societies in the world and has also embraced the feminist ideology as a form of government. Their government policies are feminist-centered. What do we see there? It's mostly business as usual--except more women have taken up more roles in government with actual authority and power to make changes. Over there, very few women have taken up military service, con… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/24 10:19 PM |
| – | More boys are now out of school globally than girls, and the inequality is bound to get worse [There is no patriarchy series]Contrary to what many folks believe, this is actually a step in the right direction. The future is female. I believe it. The clarion call has been pushed by mainstream media for a while now and it's about time that women start taking on equal loads of dangerous, dirty jobs and leaning in on those other traditional burdens where men used to carry for as long as civilization has been established. When equilibrium hits where women have no choice but to take on those jobs traditionally held by men A… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/24 09:13 PM |
| 2 | There is more to personality than being niceFolks in the Bible Belt generally practice what they preach more than folks on the West Coast or East Coast. (It's purely anecdotal for me but I swear, every time I come across someone from one of those states, they are just raised differently--but in a good way. It's nothing quite like the cold, callous, 'materialistic' culture that is Los Angeles.) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/24 04:39 PM |
| 1 | Women's "pickiness" really isn't that deep as it pretends to beWhat's normalcy? And what misogyny? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/24 04:12 PM |
| 2 | Women's "pickiness" really isn't that deep as it pretends to beI think you're missing something here. Putting the word 'positive' before the object forces a false dichotomy, an 'us vs them' through sheer language use without consideration for various external and internal factors that creates a life leaning towards positivity. How can you have a positive life without first understanding what a negative life would look like? There are degrees and layers of nuances in that spectrum. It's like all of the normie advice that keeps being thrown out here 'Just be … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/24 04:10 PM |
| -1 | Women's "pickiness" really isn't that deep as it pretends to beYou're right. So why are on you PPD again? I fail to see why you needing to engage adds anything to these PPD posts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/24 03:45 PM |
| 3 | Women's "pickiness" really isn't that deep as it pretends to be90% of the PPD debate posts is some variation of 'wah, I'm not getting picked" re-worded in a billion different variations--something that flies over most redditors heads when they engage in a post. Or maybe Redditors on PPD are actually 'aware' (I highly doubt this), but are playing dumb and want to engage anyway just because they can. (In other words, engaging to relieve boredom). I engage anyway just to see if the OP has anything else that hasn't already been said by a billion others before t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/24 03:39 PM |
| -1 | Women's "pickiness" really isn't that deep as it pretends to beThe exception proves the rule. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/24 03:18 PM |
| – | Approaching women in a limited pool of your social circle poisons this pool for youLet the chads and tyrones run thru them. It's what they all wanted anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/24 08:22 PM |
| 1 | Women ask men to improve emotionally, yet their dating preferences often incentivize men to focus on material success and physical appearanceSo...be like The Joker, not Batman? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/24 04:32 AM |
| 1 | Women ask men to improve emotionally, yet their dating preferences often incentivize men to focus on material success and physical appearanceSo like... Saotome Ranma? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/24 04:30 AM |
| 2 | Women ask men to improve emotionally, yet their dating preferences often incentivize men to focus on material success and physical appearanceA 400 lbs lady at an Aldi was undressing me with her eyes and raping me in her imagination while I was grabbing a T-bone steak at the meat aisle. I feel so violated that I never want to wear compression shirts and pants to show off my perfect one pack belly and BBL that I don't have. How can these monsters exist when I'm just there to shop for groceries and minding my own business? I didn't go to the grocery store to be eye-raped. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/24 04:25 AM |
| 4 | Women ask men to improve emotionally, yet their dating preferences often incentivize men to focus on material success and physical appearanceGo marry a woman. Women are strong and have backbones in 2024. They make me tap into my feminine side I'm still waiting for that strong, masculine woman to sweep me off my feet, fly me out to Paris and shower me with gifts so that one day, I might commit to her. A man can dream, can't he? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/24 04:18 AM |
| 1 | The idea of men needing to be "nice" really needs to die alreadyI have Dance Dance Revolution and Pump It Up. They'll never try to stir up drama or cry foul when I'm always playing on them--like a woman would. I see them once a week at a Round 1 or other locals arcade--we do the deed and I feel so refreshed after a good workout where as sex with a woman will leave you feeling drained and tired all the time. Then you gotta deal with their endless yapping over petty dramas that they make up with their girlfriends afterwards. Dance Dance Revolution will never t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/24 03:56 AM |
| 2 | The idea of men needing to be "nice" really needs to die alreadyGod is a lot like a woman. When you don't give him any attention, he's always in your face but the moment you let your guard down and gasp!--give some attention, all of a sudden, he doesn't hear or see you at all. And will actually punish you for bearing your 'weakness' for once. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/24 03:20 AM |
| 2 | The idea of men needing to be "nice" really needs to die alreadyAlright dawg. You live by the sword and die by the sword. Got it. So I better not see you come into PPD later under a different throwaway account bitching about how your baby mamma's are taking you to the cleaners and how we should all do what's best for civilization because of some arbitrary morality you happened to have realized after finding God. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/24 03:04 AM |
| 1 | The idea of men needing to be "nice" really needs to die alreadyThat's like women dressing up and putting on make up just to get into a man's wallet...which is weird... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/24 02:57 AM |
| 3 | The idea of men needing to be "nice" really needs to die alreadyBalls have several purposes besides giving men courage to perform human atrocities. You're basically condoning all the evils in the world by saying that, brother. In that regard, there's nothing else to say. You're totally game for 'an eye for an eye'. Ok then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/24 01:06 AM |
| 1 | The idea of men needing to be "nice" really needs to die alreadyFair enough. However, working out is a form of physical manipulation. You're physically manipulating your muscles in unusual ways that though it is perfectly capable of handling, is not meant to be expanded (or contracted) beyond a certain capacity under normal, everyday conditions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/24 01:01 AM |
| 3 | The idea of men needing to be "nice" really needs to die alreadyThat last paragraph, by that logic, that would mean any one conceiving the idea but never actually going through with it like genocide, murder, manslaughter--these people are lower than scum despite the real scum that actually commits genocide, murder, manslaughter, etc. These are not good people. They are mediocre. Mediocre people settle for anything. That's what you are, my friend. Having no standards and fucking anything that has a pulse--yup--nothing quite like having those fresh pair of bal… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/24 12:06 AM |
| 7 | The idea of men needing to be "nice" really needs to die alreadyYea, in the world of biology, it's unfortunate that this is how it actually works. I'd rather just go do other things than to fulfill my biological imperative. Let the chads and tyrones run thru them. Let the women baby trap them. Just let them. It's what they (both sides of the gender divide) wanted it anyway. For all other men, we'll go do other things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/24 08:56 PM |
| 1 | The idea of men needing to be "nice" really needs to die alreadyLet's agree to disagree then. I'm not second-guessing my married friends or those who are engaged to be married in my social circles. It's their life, their choice. They're grown ass adults and should know what they are getting themselves into by putting a ring on it and getting the gov't involved--especially with the wealth of information on the Internet freely available for anyone who cares enough to look. The vast majority of the married friends I have, they all eventually reveal the truth. I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/24 08:43 PM |
| 1 | The idea of men needing to be "nice" really needs to die alreadyIf by cultivating masculine qualities, you mean build character through experiences of hardship, then any adult growing up would have learned it thru trial and tribulations in life. But if you mean cultivating a specific set of qualities unique to men that the other opposite gender would not be able to do, then I'm curious to know what those may be. And I don't want you to start listing off qualities, traits, and/or characteristics that one would have acquired thru the usual part of growing up a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/24 07:28 PM |
| 0 | The idea of men needing to be "nice" really needs to die alreadyI wouldn't consider it jaded but to each their own, I suppose. To me, it's a realistic way of looking at it. Contrary to what my response would suggest or what the Internet would have you believe, there's no hate here for the opposite gender. Just the pointing out of 'what is'. I personally wouldn't call my married friends who are still together--at the moment--being in a state of happiness or are living happy relationships for that matter but again, to each their own, I guess. But I do hear the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/24 07:01 PM |
| 4 | The idea of men needing to be "nice" really needs to die alreadyYea... I suppose but friends won't go out of their way to stir jealousy within the friendship group for its own sake, start drama over you looking at other women, or fake crocodile tears to get their way. These might manifest in other forms but there's little room for this kind of drama in a Friendship group unless that's the makeup of the friendship dynamics in the group from the get-go. I have way more fun, experience more enjoyment and happiness from rolling with the boys and shooting the shi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/24 04:51 PM |
| 11 | The idea of men needing to be "nice" really needs to die alreadyAren't these all just subtle forms of emotional manipulation then? Being attractive, having certain qualities (or at least, faking it enough that gives people that impression that you have X, Y, Z qualities), etc? That seems like a whole lot of work upfront with little to no guarantee that all said hard work will manifest as an overall 'attraction' effect for the opposite gender. At the end of the day, it just seems like dating for sex or dating for LTR's is just one long charade of very subtle … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/24 04:02 PM |
| 1 | Feminists talk about a glass ceiling preventing women from being President. I think that's BSSchools in the USA generally don't teach in depth history about other countries unless it's related to the founding of the USA. But I have heard something of the sort when we had some Pakistani exchange students visit our school for a summer quarter when I was in uni many eons ago. I'll look into it. Thanks for the summary and for sharing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/24 03:46 PM |
| 1 | Feminists talk about a glass ceiling preventing women from being President. I think that's BSIn your experience, has life been generally better, worse or about the same as when a male president was in power? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/24 03:25 PM |
| 1 | Feminists talk about a glass ceiling preventing women from being President. I think that's BSGenuinely curious. What country are you from? Only a handful of the world has had a few women Presidents and/or similar positions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/24 01:19 AM |
| – | CMV: Males should stop walking away from marriageYea, I hear what you're saying and I would tend to agree with you on the ethics part but that's not usually how these scenarios tend to play out. I would lump lesbian couples or couples who are having trouble conceiving on their own as falling under the same boat of ethical concerns as those who have more than enough means to conceive without another person present to conceive. Just because they are a couple now and desire a child through IVF don't mean they will remain couples down-the-line. Ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/24 05:32 PM |
| 3 | Struggling guys SHOULD go to bars/clubs/partiesI go to bars to drink alone and unwind from the stressful work week, not to socialize and meet strangers but the option is there and more often than not, rando's will come over and strike up a conversation over nothing important. It's rare when those rando's are women so it's been mostly men, which is fine by me, anyway, since men have far more interesting things to say about a variety of topics over a woman. Not that women can't have interesting things to say--but I haven't run into very many r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/24 05:42 AM |
| 1 | There is a difference between showing weakness and wallowing in self-pity all the time.People afflicted with these conditions are actually one of the sources of free entertainment because you already know what he or she is going to say on any topic long before he or she even says anything. Depending on what your goals are, having this friend or group of friends isn't actually such a bad thing, as your post would make it seem. I know of more than my fair share of people afflicted with these conditions. Ironically, the chronic complainers happens to be married men and recently divor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/24 04:50 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Males should stop walking away from marriageThis is a uniquely woman benefit but sperm banks allow women to choose IV as a way to have a baby without an actual man present. The laws surrounding this doesn't protect the anonymous sperm donor from getting hit with alimony and child support down-the-line as there are no laws present that offers such protections--since this is still unexplored territory in the legal realm. It's a rich woman's game and very few reports have been made by men that are out there but they do exist even though thes… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/24 04:06 AM |
| 5 | What hope is there for guys that aren't confortable with hookups?People at church are the last group of people you'd want to seek out for a relationship. Vast majority of them are reformed promiscuous women--done with playing the field and ready to settle for their ATM machine, I mean husband. Plenty of virgin men though and they ain't falling for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/24 04:41 AM |
| 1 | As a man with mental illness, you are worse off in the current datingmarket then a woman with the same issues.indeed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/24 09:01 PM |
| 5 | As a man with mental illness, you are worse off in the current datingmarket then a woman with the same issues.Most women also choose cushy, air-conditioned office jobs that are less stressful with a more consistent work schedule over dangerous, dirty jobs or jobs with a lot of erratic work schedules because the profession demands it so women getting lower pay isn't because those jobs are not available to them. They are choosing not to apply and compete for them. Sure--I suppose there may be 'some' element of truth for those types of women trying hard not to take care of a man but any woman that loves th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/24 08:59 PM |
| 2 | As a man with mental illness, you are worse off in the current datingmarket then a woman with the same issues.But that would make the autists the perfect gray man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/24 08:39 PM |
| – | The fight for Equality has become a weapon to sideline most menChances are high that most of the female redditors in PPD, including yourself, never lived through that experience of not having all these rights and liberties that they (and you) keep regurgitating in debate, insofar as the USA is concerned. Can't speak for other Western nations but they'd probably have similar liberties and laws in place like the USA. Especially in places where feminism has evolved to a much further state of being like Sweden, Norway, Finland, etc, where their government is as… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/24 10:50 PM |
| – | The fight for Equality has become a weapon to sideline most menYour imaginary man is laughable. Is he even real? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/24 10:23 PM |
| – | The fight for Equality has become a weapon to sideline most menHow do you suck a buttercup? Genuinely curious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/24 10:21 PM |
| 1 | Is being a member of this sub actually improving your life?Knowledge. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/24 10:00 PM |
| 1 | Is being a member of this sub actually improving your life?I come here to debate. It's in the subreddit's name. Purple Pill DEBATE. Every time I come across a worthy opponent to have a debate with on PPD, my life just got better in that moment in time. I got to learn something new that I hadn't considered prior to the debate. If you're coming here to get advice in dating and relationships, for self-improvement and the such, you are in the wrong subreddit for that. The 'advice' that you get here is trash like 99% of the time or it's so generic that it ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/24 12:40 AM |
| 2 | Is being a member of this sub actually improving your life?I am. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/24 11:59 PM |
| 2 | Is being a member of this sub actually improving your life?Empathy is something I would only reserve for men--not women. Women expect empathy but don't return the favor. Men don't expect empathy as society trained us not to expect it so when we do get it from another fellow stranger, usually a man, we're extremely grateful to them--and will continue to openly practice empathy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/24 11:52 PM |
| – | Most of the advice here just tells men to NOT be proactive in finding a girlfriendA single split second side glance and preening in his immediate vicinity are no longer socially acceptable forms (or 'signs') of showing interest to a man in 2024 anymore. Women will have to take it a step further, initiate, break the ice and hold conversations to show interest. Step it up ladies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/24 07:57 PM |
| 2 | If you are fine driving a used car you should be fine with having a relationship who is settling with youI've fixed many women. You just haven't found the right set of tools to fix them. You don't keep using an impact wrench on a stuck lug nut. Spray a little parts cleaner, let it marinate and get into the nooks and crannies, then slowly work it with a socket wrench. Don't brute force it. That's the quickest way to strip the threads inside. Turn it back and forth a little, spray some more parts cleaner and let it sit for a while. Then repeat steps 1-3 until that lug nut comes out clean. Repeat this… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/24 09:22 PM |
| 3 | Alternative to dating appsNo main advantages. Just alternatives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/24 04:04 PM |
| 1 | The normalization of "Homie head" is wrong and should be stoppedCome now. Let's not play coy. You're perfectly aware of what you're doing by copying and pasting this 'new' tiktok trend which is actually old news that's been happening for a while now. Stop it. Gen Z's are anything but original. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/24 03:58 PM |
| 1 | The normalization of "Homie head" is wrong and should be stoppedHaven't heard of this 'new' phenomenon until I saw this post on PPD. Then I realized, this isn't anything new. Tiktok content creators need to stop reinventing the wheel and using new catchphrases to represent activities that has been part of the social fabric of society for a while now (albeit, it used to be hush-hush back in the day but now in the digital age, there ain't nothing hush-hush or shameful about it anymore). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/24 05:01 AM |
| 5 | Alternative to dating appsYes, it's called Dance Dance Revolution. If that's not your cup of tea, there's also Pump It Up. If the above two are too hardcore for your tastes, there's also Dance Rush. All of the above are great forms of cardio--and meeting complete strangers to strike up a conversation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/24 04:23 AM |
| 1 | No one, not even women, can actually read the room properlyI do. Go touch grass, bud. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/24 04:09 AM |
| 1 | Q4M how often do you approach other men for conversationWhen engaged in a hobby--quite often. Out in the wild? Shoot, that depends on where and what I'm doing. I personally don't need a whole lot of social engagement or interactions to be happy. I'm essentially a social recluse but random ass strangers would always come up to me and ask me questions out-of-the-friggin' blue when I'm minding my own business AND have earphones on. I guess I just have that face that people associate as 'Oh, he looks friendly. Let's talk to him'. I work a job that involv… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/24 04:07 AM |
| 1 | No one, not even women, can actually read the room properlyRight back at you, bud. ;) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/24 03:45 AM |
| 1 | Those who want one: Do you believe a life long relationship is a realistic aspiration?Probably less realistic in 2024 than in prior generations. Like you, many of my close friends who got married in their teens and twenties are barely getting out of their marriages in their late 30's and early 40's. I would say about half of my entire friendship group have gone through a divorce or are currently undergoing one. Now keep in mind, I'm Chinese but American born living in California that went thru an unusual upbringing where I happened to have gravitated towards Mexicans as my primar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/24 01:14 AM |
| 4 | Men on here complaining that "women will call the police for talking to them" are not neurotic, they're fairly accurate, the problem is they project this (true about themselves and their experience) fact out into wider society when it isn't true for 99.99999% of men.You did the right thing, bud. How else are men supposed to find the love of our lives if we don't put ourselves out there and cold approach? It's what all of these normies keep advocating on PPD, after all. Don't cold approach? You're an incel loser that lives in mommy's basement. Cold approach a lot? You're a creeper for doing it so often. There's no middle ground and even if there was one, it's an arbitrary goal post that keeps changing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/24 12:17 AM |
| 1 | No one, not even women, can actually read the room properlyI would have to disagree that it requires experience to be able to read the room. What, pray tell, are the prerequisites to be able to read the room? Knowing facial expressions of what defines happiness? Sadness? Anger? All of these things can be faked. Having the ability to feel? Well, everyone has the ability to feel--yes, even autistic individuals. Heck, dogs, cats, and most other warm-blooded mammals has this ability. Having the ability to speak? Everyone has the ability to speak (except the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/24 11:32 PM |
| 2 | No one, not even women, can actually read the room properlyYou sound as though you hate folks who fall on the autistic spectrum. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/24 10:26 PM |
| 1 | Porn consumption is one of the biggest threats to empathy, connection, and love between men and womenAgreed. All women (not just modest women) should avoid all men--since all men consume porn in various degrees, whether through physical media, digital media or pure imagination. Women should just date women exclusively going forward. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/24 07:18 PM |
| 1 | The most recent season of “The Bachelorette” is a perfect example of why “women should just pick better men” is terrible advice... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 10:48 PM |
| 1 | To be successful at a SOCIAL interaction with another human (a.k.a. dating / relationship), SOCIAL skills are the most important thing. This is as obvious as the sky is blue, yet some people on this sub keep doubling / tripling down on the desperate lie that social skills are irrelevant.Would you consider short, brief breaths better than more regular, consistent breaths? What about deep, long breaths? What about panicked, erratic breaths? Breathing is a skill like anything else. When you're being taught how to properly lift weights, you are taught to breathe through your nose, not your mouth. When you're being taught how to swim, you are taught when to breathe and how much air to take in during a swimming stroke. When you're being taught to shoot a gun, you are taught to breath… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 10:45 PM |
| 1 | To be successful at a SOCIAL interaction with another human (a.k.a. dating / relationship), SOCIAL skills are the most important thing. This is as obvious as the sky is blue, yet some people on this sub keep doubling / tripling down on the desperate lie that social skills are irrelevant.You said it's one of the easiest social skills to learn. What is easier than breathing? It comes naturally, does it not? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 10:00 PM |
| 1 | The most recent season of “The Bachelorette” is a perfect example of why “women should just pick better men” is terrible advicePerhaps Devin could be a jerk but you didn't disclose the above information in your original post. You intentionally framed the post so that the only possible conclusion that any reasonable person reading that entire post could draw from it is that he's a jerk. So either he is one or... you're intentionally misleading everyone by omitting key pieces of information that would change the whole narrative, which you just did. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 09:58 PM |
| 1 | To be successful at a SOCIAL interaction with another human (a.k.a. dating / relationship), SOCIAL skills are the most important thing. This is as obvious as the sky is blue, yet some people on this sub keep doubling / tripling down on the desperate lie that social skills are irrelevant.Yea, I've been down that rabbit hole more times than I care to remember. And every single time--always ended up worse off than if I had chosen not to pursue such a silly endeavor. I can live with never forming any intimate relationships with anyone--but I know that most people cannot and are actually afraid of being alone. Sucks for those people but that's the cruel, heartless world we live in. Good for you that spotting manipulative tactics comes as naturally as breathing. For as long as I have… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 09:32 PM |
| 2 | What exactly does a ‘Chad’ look like?Definitely none of the men, including myself, on PPD. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 09:03 PM |
| 0 | The most recent season of “The Bachelorette” is a perfect example of why “women should just pick better men” is terrible adviceI see. Interesting. I guess whatever happened while everything was kept on the DL, in between shows, that Devin realizes that the gal is not who she portrays herself to be on the show. Met with this sudden realization, he calls the engagement off. It doesn't make the advice any less credible though. Like people oftentimes keep saying, it takes two to tango. Two individuals have to agree to continue for a relationship to go on. If you consider that bad advice, then I guess you should pick Chad an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 08:54 PM |
| 1 | To be successful at a SOCIAL interaction with another human (a.k.a. dating / relationship), SOCIAL skills are the most important thing. This is as obvious as the sky is blue, yet some people on this sub keep doubling / tripling down on the desperate lie that social skills are irrelevant.That's a hard pass from me. I have more interesting conversations with a Turing machine or an AI chat bot than I do with people. People are a full package of explosive emotions, unhinged feelings, and unpredictability. Who has time for that? Figuring out why someone's speech patterns don't match with their outward choices and actions are a total mindfuck the first time you encounter it. Then when you realize everyone across the board is doing it--one starts to wonder if any meaningful conversati… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 08:42 PM |
| 0 | The most recent season of “The Bachelorette” is a perfect example of why “women should just pick better men” is terrible adviceI don't watch the Bachelorette. So what happens between the time she proposes to him and the few weeks after when he wanted to call things off? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 08:23 PM |
| 7 | The most recent season of “The Bachelorette” is a perfect example of why “women should just pick better men” is terrible advice"Men should not be blamed for the things that women choose to do to them" would be the best advice | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 08:14 PM |
| 3 | Being the safe and secure option isn't worth it most of the timeYou can thank the boomers and gen xer's for creating that dynamic that millennials and gen zoomers now have to deal with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/24 08:47 PM |
| 4 | Men are not obligated to step in and save a woman from being mugged or assaulted, but it does seem that women are more likely to stop and ask the hurt person if they're okay, offer comfort, and provide help/call for help.I live in SoCal. What I consider recent is anything that happened in the past year. In March 2024, I witnessed a robbery take place in broad daylight, middle of 12PM, at a Costco in Lakewood CA. (Lakewood is next door to Compton--yes--THAT Compton that American media loves bringing up so much)The guy had robbed a whole grocery cart of food that a Hispanic family was hauling out to their SUV. Not a single woman stepped in and offered help. They just stood their with their iPhones recording the en… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/24 10:14 PM |
| – | CMV: A man isn't obligated to step in and save a woman from being mugged or assaulted.In China (and a lot of East Asian and Southeast Asian countries), NOT stepping in and offering help is the default code of conduct in those respective societies. Stepping in, as a stranger, to help another stranger, is a bizarre concept. If you do end up doing it--you would likely end being accused of the very thing that you were trying to help said individual from. The reason why that is--counter to what a lot of westerners believe--is that what happens to you or others is none of your business… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/24 09:04 PM |
| 2 | Single People, Keep Other Single People Single.You're right. Here's a cookie. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/24 06:03 PM |
| 1 | Single People, Keep Other Single People Single.Bro, you have those statements backwards. Replace women with men and now your post would make sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/24 03:50 PM |
| 4 | Why do men who clearly dislike women still want to date them?No. Are you pretending not to know why men desire dating women then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/24 03:38 PM |
| 10 | Why do men who clearly dislike women still want to date them?Have you ever considered, I don't know, that pointing out the hypocrisies does not equal hate? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/24 03:34 PM |
| 1 | Men need to normalize disappointing womenNah, there doesn't need to be a whole movement to get this normalized. Men, in general, are already disappointing women by sheer existence. The most vocal of which are the one's with partners, ironically enough and mostly females, interestingly enough. You'd think the opposite because they, on the one hand, paint an image on PPD like their married life (or partnered life) is like the land of milk and honey, all day everyday--but you look at their responses and go "Gee, that's an awfully vicious … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/24 03:56 AM |
| – | Millenial/GenX advice on dating can be completely disregarded by the new generationBullet point #1 and #2, these are universal truths that apply to any person, male or female, boomers down to gen alphas. Bullet point, #3, eh. I wouldn't frame it like that, but sure, why not? Bullet point #4, eh. I wouldn't frame it like that either but sure, why not? For.context, I'm an older millenial, on the cusp of the younger end of Gen X and the beginning of Gen Y. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/24 09:03 PM |
| – | Few people on this sub understand what "just world fallacy" actually is. It's just used as an excuse / deflection whenever someone rightfully says your own behavior & attitude can impact your own situation positively or negatively, & not everything is unfair / predetermined / other people's fault.All of the above just sounds like you're speaking on the behalf of all introverts or all average folks, as if you're the moral authority for both groups. The difference is that I'm presenting just 'a' perspective from one introvert. My own. My experiences happened to be shared amongst many others just like me--and many arrive to the same conclusions based on real world experiences--all independently of each other around the world but somehow--miraculously--we all arrive at the same conclusion. S… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/24 05:30 PM |
| – | Few people on this sub understand what "just world fallacy" actually is. It's just used as an excuse / deflection whenever someone rightfully says your own behavior & attitude can impact your own situation positively or negatively, & not everything is unfair / predetermined / other people's fault.I do agree with you on your comments about small talk and smiling. However, I, and many other men in real life, have experienced far more negative reactions from women when engaging in small talk with a smile than not. That small percentage of women where there wasn't a negative reaction seems hardly worth the overall effort--when those conversations go nowhere and/or are largely low effort from the other party. Small talk is rather draining, even if introverts do enjoy and have mastered the art… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/24 04:07 PM |
| – | Few people on this sub understand what "just world fallacy" actually is. It's just used as an excuse / deflection whenever someone rightfully says your own behavior & attitude can impact your own situation positively or negatively, & not everything is unfair / predetermined / other people's fault.You got my upvote in both your initial long post and the follow up one. However, I just want to point out that the most vocal, most controversial, most blackpilled/most doomed pilled individuals here in this subreddit, oftentimes, if not, the vast majority of the time are folks who genuinely want to believe, want to follow, and to make it a reality that so many others who, I suppose, are 'less deserving' reap the benefits of the precise system that should, in theory, 'work'. I would imagine that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/24 05:33 AM |
| – | Few people on this sub understand what "just world fallacy" actually is. It's just used as an excuse / deflection whenever someone rightfully says your own behavior & attitude can impact your own situation positively or negatively, & not everything is unfair / predetermined / other people's fault.You do realize that your first paragraph also applies to you, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/24 04:43 AM |
| – | Women don't know the difference between a low,good, or high standard when it comes to dating.Please do. I'm interested in seeing the entire trail of evidence spanning back to the first days of the internet. Specifically, starting from the DOS days up to the present. That would settle this argument once and for all so posts of this nature will stop appearing on PPD. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/24 09:32 PM |
| 3 | Dating apps are hard for womenYes. 100%! So ladies, grab your passports and fly out to another country. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/24 08:59 PM |
| 1 | Do you think men leaving the west for better dating prospect will create a significant brain drain and negative economic consequences in the west? Or will it remain insignificant?Yea, perhaps less than 10% of fossil fuel are for transportation today but that fact alone doesn't make my argument any less credible. I'm not arguing that fossil fuels--crude oil, gas, natural gas, methane, coal--that these raw materials will disappear from the ecosystem completely. I'm saying the corporations that are in those industries, spending money that they borrow from banks, will go under, if hydrogen became the new norm. Bottomlone, ahat that energy source is--it doesn't really matter.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/24 04:52 AM |
| 1 | Do you think men leaving the west for better dating prospect will create a significant brain drain and negative economic consequences in the west? Or will it remain insignificant?What the studies don't account for is how long they plan stay here with their doctorates degrees. Foreigners have been coming to the USA to obtain degrees at American Universities for a long while now. This isn't new news. Foreign-born STEM graduates eventually do leave to go back to their home countries--once they are finished with their doctorate's. So while the stats aren't necessarily false, I'm more interested in the overall trends. It's like saying during the Trump administration, the unem… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/24 01:39 AM |
| 1 | Do you think men leaving the west for better dating prospect will create a significant brain drain and negative economic consequences in the west? Or will it remain insignificant?Yea, it's already taking place as we speak but no one really talks about it or acknowledge it because people are too caught up in their world to see it--as the myriad of 'no' responses that you've gotten thus far. If it wasn't an issue that deserved government intervention, which they are very much actively trying to damage control right now--they wouldn't be trying to ban tiktok and such technologies. They would let technological advances be dictated by the present market conditions. It's like … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/24 09:00 PM |
| 0 | There are two ways of talking to women: 1) treating them as people and 2) treating them as people you want to have sex withSo what's the argument? I see two statements and then a claim with no premises to back it up at the end of this post. #1 and #2 are not premises. As a side thought, I just treat all women like dudes. She's one of the boys--until she decides otherwise. This is not that much different than another comment that I saw further down that made a comment about treating women like a bratty sister. Same concept, different approach--but achieves the same results. The whole explanation about treating women … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/24 03:46 PM |
| 1 | There's a huge difference between what younger women want and what older women want which I believe causes a lot of confusion between what works best for datingThere's an epidemic of single, divorced mothers out there. For every ten I come across in real Life, at least six of them are exactly this--and they hide that fact until you're almost invested. By the time you catch them red-handed, they try to sweep it under the rug like, oh that's her cousin's kid or nephew or niece. Right.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/24 10:44 PM |
| – | Give her the chaos she cravesThis is a roundabout way of encouraging toxic masculinity in men while simultaneously taking away agency from women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/24 09:12 PM |
| 4 | 45% of men aged 18-25 have never asked out a woman in person before. Men, why do you think this is?That's a funny way of saying that 55% of men aged 18-25 HAVE asked women out in person before. That's also a funny way of saying 71% of all men of all age groups HAVE asked women out in person before. Now put these numbers side by side with the boomers, gen X'ers and millennials, then one might start to wonder, "Ah gee, that seems like a drastic change in social behaviors amongst men in the same age group in their respective time periods". Times are changing--so ladies, step up your game. That i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/24 07:43 PM |
| 5 | quick poll: would you date and/or have sex with a virgin man that is middle aged?So virgin men = emotionally immature, by de facto? Even before you know anything about the man? Just want to understand the thought process behind this reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/24 03:56 PM |
| 2 | Are We Trading Monogamy for Misery? How Feminism’s Sexual Freedom Is Failing UsBut the government won't do that because capitalism is counting on the erosion of these types of traditional relationships to bolster their bottom line. Think about it. Why pay a man a good living wage when you can pay a man and a woman below subpar wages and still save money by paying two individuals to do the work of one qualified individual? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/24 08:37 PM |
| 2 | There is too much RP content based primarily around righteous indignation that doesn't truly accomplish anything.No one is suggesting that wallowing in negative emotions constitutes a 'less' warped life. No one here except you have used that adjective 'warped' to describe the state of one's life perspective. But since we're on the topic, folks have responded to you using valid and sound reasons. You're just not accepting the answers given. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/24 09:45 PM |
| 2 | There is too much RP content based primarily around righteous indignation that doesn't truly accomplish anything.I think things only appear warped when you are standing on the side that makes up the majority 'opinion'. Anything that deviates from the majority would absolutely be labeled 'warped'. You know what else is warped? Everything that happened just four centuries ago in the USA with respect to human relations, race, social class, etc. Heck, we don't even have to go that far back. We can easily jump back to the COVID shutdowns of just a couple of years ago. Back then, Americans considered the rest of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/24 08:51 PM |
| 2 | There is too much RP content based primarily around righteous indignation that doesn't truly accomplish anything.I would tend to disagree with this statement. Venting has its time and place. Men have been doing this amongst male-only circles for as long as civilization has existed. Men of those by-gone eras probably would have never labeled it as 'venting', because it wasn't socially acceptable yet but it's essentially an outlet to express negative feelings about something unjust and/or unfair about what's going on in their immediate environment and putting two, three, or more heads together to figure out … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/24 08:38 PM |
| – | Many RP men it seems, have a dilemma. They don’t want a marriage/LTR with ‘the whore’, but at the same time resent women who are making them wait. Also, many passport bros who are going to Asian/African countries to meet ‘trad wife/gf’ are simply not equipped to handle a genuinely traditional 0-5n cWhat's your culture, if not American? I think you've established that you're definitely living in the USA pretty clearly based on all of your other posts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/24 09:01 PM |
| – | The manosphere does not care about fixing men's issuesC'est la vie, indeed. 😁 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/24 03:28 AM |
| 5 | The manosphere does not care about fixing men's issuesYup. Your essay is low effort, btw. Not sure if anyone else has made that comment to you yet but just thought you should know. Don't get me wrong--I enjoyed reading it nonetheless but... it's really just one long tautology. It's not even an argument but more like a statement. You could have summed it up with just a single sentence but you droned on and on with all of these side tangents that sounds like premises that support your 'conclusion' but aren't at the end of the day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/24 02:12 AM |
| 3 | The manosphere does not care about fixing men's issuesActually, the whole idea of shaming men for doing anything that the hive mind 'majority' doesn't like originated in the blue pill world. The same shaming tactics used by blue pillers eventually made its way into the red pill--because it worked--up to a point. All of the mass shooters that exploded in more recent times were conveniently lumped with the red pill by mainstream media but in actuality, these are all blue-pilled individuals that couldn't fit or be consistently successful within the bl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/24 12:56 AM |
| 2 | Women simultaneously dislike men approaching because they feel treated as "romantic prospects" instead of "regular people" yet dread the moment a male friend would suggests something moreThere's no single answer that fits all women, most women, or even a lot of women the vast majority of the times. Nevertheless, more often than not, women themselves don't know what they want even though from a purely objective standpoint they ALL universally agree on 'the common standard' of what makes a partner desirable, sexually and for LTR. Get used to that paradox because for men, this is incredibly confusing (and infuriating). Body language is king. Everything else is just smokes and mirro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/24 01:32 AM |
| 2 | Pick a woman (I actually think this game is fun)Melissa, hands down. No contest. Not a fan of short-haired women or that particular ethnicity for that matter but I can overlook those with her other qualities and traits. Pretty rare to come across one that isn't already married to (usually) someone of lesser intelligence and conventionally handsome OR is still hung up on her first love. Alice. I've never found this type attractive, both the physical and artsy, fartsy, 'creative' social butterflies. Living in LA, I know far too many of this par… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/24 03:50 PM |
| 0 | Would you pay $2500 to join a dating service/app if all the women on there were thin, had a partner count under 10 and wanted marriage and kids?In the year 2024? That's a hard pass from me. Industrialization has commodified human relationships. It's cheaper and more cost effective to pay-as-you-go than pay a lump sum fee or monthly subscription fee just for the 'opportunity' to meet and interact with women of this breed. I'd rather invest that money into stocks and use the earnings and dividends to regularly partake in commodities than pay some middle man for a chance to meet and talk to these women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/24 09:02 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Women should not have to make outfit choices based on the creepiness of malesEvery woman on Earth knows this is the answer but don't say it out because fear of retaliation but MALE CASTRATION is the answer to all of the creepiness in males. It's already a system that is used for the most dangerous of male individuals in prisons. Chemical castration, that is. Plenty of sci-fi movies and TV shows have been made to illustrate just this sort of scenario. It is a world where everyone will be safe --until ET shows up and wipes out humanity because all the males are soft, effem… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 07:58 PM |
| -1 | Many men complain that they dont receive empathy, words of affirmation, and validation from women, and almost no woman wants to do anything with them unless they can exploit him in some way- resources. But they also block and avoid well-meaning female friends who dont see them in a romantic lightHaving female friends, as a man, is generally considered a sub-optimal decision made by a man--under the traditional gender role paradigm. Genuinely feminine women friends are generally more of a leech, than an actual friend. Drama typically ensues more often than not when having these 'friends' in one's social circles. Tomboyish-leaning women friends are just as bad--but for different reasons. For this subtype, they are not feminine enough to make and keep female friends--which ultimately boils… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 05:45 PM |
| 1 | Why do other men support societal delusion?Because we can. It's that simple. Don't overthink it. Rationalizations are just people trying to make sense of a counterintuitive action that seems to benefit no one but the few. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 03:51 PM |
| – | Why do some alphas choose the beta lifestyleMore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 12:53 AM |
| – | Why do some alphas choose the beta lifestyleMaybe back in the 50's and 60's in the USA and westernized nations, this may have been the rule of thumb but not so much in 2024. Being good for each other is considered the bare minimum these days. And even then--there's an even longer roster of requirements for both genders to meet before anything worthwhile happens. Modernization of industrialized nations are great in many respects but geez, it just made the dating and relationship market so much more complicated--as if wading thru the initia… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 12:08 AM |
| 2 | Having a partner with the same/similar hobbies is much tougher for men.Pretty much. At the end of the day, it doesn't really matter what activity a woman participates in. Whatever they do (or don't do), men will find them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 12:01 AM |
| 2 | Q4M: What would you change about this woman's personality in order to date her?Bee-boo-bop. This does not compute. Please use the correct syntax and try again. In other words, I wouldn't date her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 08:57 PM |
| – | Why do some alphas choose the beta lifestyleWhy do you think? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 08:49 PM |
| – | Why do some alphas choose the beta lifestyleCMV. Ball is in your court. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 08:48 PM |
| 1 | Having a partner with the same/similar hobbies is much tougher for men.'Normal' women have the tendency to target their neurobiological equivalent. Normies generally want to date other normies. Hardcore gamers also tend to want to date their neurobiological equivalent as well--although, I've seen just as many hardcore gamer girls target normies as well. It isn't so much true for hardcore gamer guys to target normies though. Most female players are casual when it comes to the gaming hobbies. Be it videogames, board games, trading card games--the latter two are highl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 08:43 PM |
| 1 | Having a partner with the same/similar hobbies is much tougher for men.In the fighting game community, from what I have seen so far, the female-to-male ratio is something like 1:8 and sometimes, 1:6, depending on region and population density. I can only speak for SoCal FGCers but yea....the women players that do end up going to these tournaments and/or outings where huge amount of gamers show up generally get bombarded with male attention. On a scale of 1-10, these women that frequent the community hubs are a solid 4, at best. More often than not, they tend to lea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 04:12 PM |
| -3 | For the tradcons/red pillers who think that the current Western ideologies is responsible for high divorce rates- why is that socially conservative Middle Eastern countries have high divorce rates too?It's simple. Western imperialism. Any well-read, well-informed individual that keeps up-to-date with global news and/or are not from the West generally know who is always the instigator of 'drama' on the global stage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 03:35 PM |
| 0 | What would you describe as a man repellent outfit, hair or makeup look?I like how every response so far has been some variation of the stereotype of LGBTQ. It's simple. People in the West and/or raised under Western Standards of beauty should look to the Middle Eastern cultures for tips on this. Dress in very plain clothing that neither reveals the shape of one's body, curves, and/or facial features. In other words, wear a burqa. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 03:22 PM |
| -1 | Why do some alphas choose the beta lifestyleIt's human nature. So what else is new? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 03:10 PM |
| -1 | Why do some alphas choose the beta lifestyleIt doesn't mean he's going to choose marriage. It just means between the two evils, one is relatively better than the other. But make no mistake, both deals are crap no matter how you try to slice it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 02:09 AM |
| -1 | Why do some alphas choose the beta lifestyleI think you're confusing the Greater Beta from the natural Alpha's. The Greater Beta have most of the Alpha qualities that women find attractive and all of the qualities of a provider and protector that women wish that the natural Alpha's possess but don't precisely because they are Alpha's. Natural Alpha's rarely choose the beta lifestyle. If they happen to have made that choice, it was either knowingly or unknowingly coerced into making that choice. For the former, they spread their seed with … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 11:21 PM |
| 0 | What is flirting to you ?Flirting can be anything and everything under the sun. It can even be a dude minding his own business at a bus stop and a gal who could have chosen to be anywhere else, standing or sitting anywhere else but nevertheless chose to sit next to him--no eye contact, no words being uttered, and no preening. I find it utterly non-sensical if and when it happens. Often times, I'm working out at the far end of the gym with no people in my immediate vicinity and literally minutes later, a lady comes over … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/24 09:00 PM |
| 2 | Why most marriages failThat just seems like a very myopic, rigid way of viewing things. I guess in an ideal world, each 'type of thing' should only fulfill just one function. But...even under that paradigm, you'll quickly find yourself in a conundrum where you can only have one of each type of thing to fulfill that singular, isolated function--assuming that you can even easily obtain it in the first place. At which point, if you cannot obtain it for whatever reason--then you're literally SOL. If the function of marria… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/24 08:40 PM |
| 1 | Why don't more men read womens' romance novels?Because Korean Drama TV shows accurately depict all the themes that romance novels entail, is visually more engaging, and are condensed into a neat 30-60 minute session per episode making it easily and readily accessible for consumption whereas reading actually takes real effort like an imagination, attention to detail and critical thinking. Ain't nobody got time for that! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/24 08:43 PM |
| 1 | Why don't more men read womens' romance novels?What's wrong with anime pillow gf's? Genuinely curious because women can have giant teddy bear bf's or cartoon-shaped fantasy pillow bf's but when men have the same, it's somehow socially deviant? Don't get it. Please elaborate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/24 08:31 PM |
| 1 | Most Beta/BP traits that RP looks down on are beneficial for society or harmlessSo say you. Wikipedia is not generally regarded as a reliable source for accurate information. Maybe as a starting point, no different than pointing to another website with general information--but... I wouldn't trust wikipedia's definition as the 'end all, be all'. I'm curious to hearing what you have to say where a country is considered 'post-communist'--not what wikipedia commenters have to say. If, however, you're that dogmatic as to treat Wikipedia like some type of Bible for world history-… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/24 07:57 PM |
| 1 | Most Beta/BP traits that RP looks down on are beneficial for society or harmlessWhat country is 'post communist'? This will be interesting to hear. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/24 07:47 PM |
| 0 | Most Beta/BP traits that RP looks down on are beneficial for society or harmlessGovernments wanting control. Conspiracists love to use that word 'government'. Like this illusive bogeyman. Who is the government? What is the government made up of? People. Which people? Rich people. People with means and access. Wouldn't you want to gatekeep wealth once you've amassed enough of it such that your words actually have influence, weight, and credibility? That's essentially what capitalism is all about. If you don't like that, go live elsewhere. (Oh wait, you can't because capitali… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/24 02:40 AM |
| 1 | Most Beta/BP traits that RP looks down on are beneficial for society or harmlessWell....the concept of marriage isn't strictly exclusive to those that subscribe to a monotheistic religion like Christianity, Judaism, Islam, etc. Marriage and partnerships that's basically like a contract in common law have existed even under cultures and countries that practice polytheistic religions and even secularism. But I hear what you're saying. Nevertheless, in all cultures, there comes a point when the civilization has advanced far enough that feminism naturally arise from those cultu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/24 01:20 AM |
| 7 | Most Beta/BP traits that RP looks down on are beneficial for society or harmlessUnder the blue pill paradigm, yes, a society full of men with DT traits would likely crash and burn. However, under a mixed paradigm where both ideologies (and many others) can and do coexist--like the current culture globally, it's just a drop in a huge body of ocean. Doomsday, end-of-the-world type folks keep wanting to point this out for some incredibly odd reason--like 'See! Society will collapse if we all stop being nice to each other....hardy harrr harrr!' No, society won't end. It'll evol… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/24 08:52 PM |
| 0 | The red pill has gained momentum because a bunch of mid guys who are mad they won't be first choice are trying to logic women into being attracted to them.While I agree that the blue pill is nonsense, the problem you'll face arguing with these guys is partially because they have a bunch of followers. They practically have a degree in arguing with people online and will shift what "the blue pill" is to whatever is less cringeworthy. Look at some of the responses here, paragraphs upon paragraphs defending their ideology--it's like a religion at this point. The fact is, a lot of people don't need to go through self-improvement to find someone nor do … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/24 08:22 PM |
| 0 | The phrase "every man pays" makes as much sense as "every woman pays".Sorry, you lost me there in the above paragraphs along with the post's 'subject title'. Here's what I'm interpreting--The phrase 'X' makes as much sense as 'Y'. Then you go into this weird tangent explaining about transactions, exchange rates, and the differences between one type of transaction relative to its arbitrary value. Then you somehow conclude that due to the above, 'and that's why people should do Z'. What the fuck did I just read? That made no sense whatsoever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/24 06:53 AM |
| 0 | Medical Technology will replace Men, and we should plan for it.Relax, my dude. The West isn't like Sparta. There isn't going to be a stronger culture than the current global collective that make up 'The West'--unless you're talking about little green men from outer space. Unlike prior iterations of feminism, this current version, as 'out there' as it might seem--present day--it's a fairly tame one, all things considered, as it survived multiple regime changes in the recent century alone. Usually, radical ideas have a pretty short lifespan--at least one's th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/24 10:43 PM |
| 4 | Medical Technology will replace Men, and we should plan for it.I found the BSG fanboy! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/24 09:59 PM |
| 2 | If women were forced to marry beta males in the past, then why do they grieve for them today?I think human language is generally kind of vague--even when using words that, on paper, is pretty cut and dry. In verbal conversations, the same words that are cut and dry tend to take on these alternate meanings even if the person using those words don't intend to portray it that way. When we say that we grieve for someone, the conventional understanding is that we're actually grieving about the object (the person who died), not the idea of the object. In reality, we're grieving about the idea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/24 09:54 PM |
| – | Autistic men should accept that autism is a serious condition and people have the right to not want to date an autistic manYour explanation above is a fair assessment. I agree with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 11:06 PM |
| – | Autistic men should accept that autism is a serious condition and people have the right to not want to date an autistic manI would tend to disagree with you on your comment about how some autists try to discredit other autists in their experience of this 'mental state.' Maybe in your part of town in whatever country you're from but that hasn't been my experience when dealing with other autistic folks on the spectrum. For autistic folks, we generally know, intrinsically, who are autistic and who aren't--even without talking to the person. Because of our heightened sensory experience, it's almost too easy to different… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 09:02 PM |
| 6 | Seriously what are autistic men supposed to do?Use autism to your advantage. Admit to yourself and accept that you'll always be weird to somebody somewhere at all times. You can't control how people think, feel, and/or react. All you can do is control how you think, feel and/or react to people's responses to what they perceive as odd behavior coming from you. People with autism typically have a heightened 5 senses, meaning, they have a higher ability or experience of sight, smell, hearing, taste and touch. Not only are those things on a whol… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 03:45 AM |
| 2 | Bears, false accusations, and random peopleTo your first question, as a millenial man, no, not really. Third question, I've been in a few scenarios where, to me, I thought I was practicing common social etiquette to lend a helping hand only to be accused after-the-fact on allegations that ultimately were disproven because I knew the folks around me and the businesses that I frequented. It does make me more cautious about lending a helping hand or keeping doors open or whatever other common social etiquettes that were typically practiced … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/24 03:54 PM |
| – | When does millennial advice/experience become irrelevant to younger generations?This entire explanation sums it up pretty well. Props to you! You basically captured all the surface level stuff plus some of the not-so-surface level stuff that I've always suspected to be the case but no one really talks about it 'out loud' and when it does get mentioned anywhere on the Internet or even IRL, it's automatically 'dismissed' as BS. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/24 03:28 PM |
| 7 | When does millennial advice/experience become irrelevant to younger generations?Mlillenial advice became irrelevant pretty much around the time when Facebook became mainstream. Like 2007 onwards. It wasn't apparent to those of us that were still living out our early to mid-20's back then but the immediate generation before us was going to overshadow us in every respect in a very short time compared with prior generations with the advent and spread of the Internet being highly accessible and user-friendly but more importantly--affordable--for a large swath of the general pop… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/24 03:40 AM |
| 4 | When does millennial advice/experience become irrelevant to younger generations?Nay nay, these 'people' were married before the iPod was born. You know, back when Motorola and Nokia were 'the thing' in the mobile/cell phone world? Yea, sucks you didn't have to live through the world when things were on the cusp of analog and just the beginning of the digital era. Those were definitely different times. Gen Z are too glued to their phones and Tiktok to understand and realize there's a whole reality outside that 7" digital screen that y'all yungin's lug around and keep staring… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/24 03:21 AM |
| 1 | The answer to misandry is a passportWomen will always try to discourage men from considering their other options. It's what they do. And this would be true, even with women in foreign countries. Otherwise, I agree with your above statements. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/24 11:59 PM |
| 2 | The answer to misandry is a passportThat's a fair assessment. Hard to argue that, on the one hand but it's almost like a scare tactic when you frame it like that, on the other hand. There's a certain learning curve either way one goes about it. How hard that learning curve will depend on how much more painful it is to endure the existing conditions--until enough is enough. I think that for a lot of men, they would rather take the path of least resistance, even if that path ends up being just marginally more expensive and/or a slig… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/24 11:24 PM |
| 1 | Just getting yourself out there is not enoughYea, I would tend to agree with your above statements. The grass isn't necessarily greener on the other side but at the same time, one definitely knows that the grass on one's own side is most definitely wilting at a fast rate so it's not entirely illogical or unreasonable to think about alternatives that doesn't involve staying where one originally came from (or was born in). Regardless, I would also tend to agree that it's confirmation bias either way you look at it but I hear you. I would rat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/24 09:33 PM |
| 1 | The answer to misandry is a passportSo most men who are the average blue-piller then? They remain the single largest group of men by an overwhelming landslide, regardless of country of origin or generational differences. Effectively, blue pill men, as a whole, should either just give up or double down on acquiring resources so as to obtain women. I don't know.... that just seems like a pretty bleak way of looking at life, just in general. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/24 09:03 PM |
| 1 | Just getting yourself out there is not enoughMaybe the issue isn't so much that a man must put himself out there. Maybe, just maybe, the issue is our perception that half of the population are necessarily women--split evenly down the middle. Maybe, just maybe, we have a surplus of men and a lack of supply of women--contrary to what economists were pointing out just a decade earlier that there is a general lack of eligible bachelors for the dating and marriage market in the West. And maybe, like China and many East and Southeastern countrie… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/24 08:45 PM |
| 1 | I disagree that women’s dating preferences show entitlement, however I think it is unfair that men can’t as easily demand the same.For once, I actually agree with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/24 02:21 AM |
| 1 | Can women feel true empathy for men?Yes, 100%. But can their true empathy help a man? That's a totally different question altogether and many folks conflate the two like they are synonymous, which is totally false. 'Feeling' true empathy is not the same as 'giving' true empathy. You can both 'feel' true empathy but not 'give' true empathy. It sounds contradictory but it's not. Case and point. A mother can 'feel' truly empathetic towards their children but also 'give' true empathy that ultimately is detrimental to that child's well… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/24 06:14 AM |
| – | Courage is the neglected virtue of modern dating (especially for men)Haha. Nah. I like forwarding complaints to the original poster just fine, thank you. Besides, just 'fake it till you make it', am I right? See? Isn't practicing what you preach a beautiful thing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/24 05:52 AM |
| – | Courage is the neglected virtue of modern dating (especially for men)This is one of the most convoluted circular arguments that I have ever had the displeasure of reading all the way through. And I've read some pretty bad arguments over the years. Wow. Just wow. Only Reddit can I find individuals like you in great numbers. Thank you for killing some of my brain cells. It's been 'enlightening'. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/24 05:44 AM |
| 1 | We are getting closer to ‘Her’ and JOI from BladeRunner. How will social dynamics and loneliness be affected?I'm not sure if you're aware but lobbyists around the world are fighting really hard not to allow AI to come into the world--much less a humanoid AI that has the potential to replace the natural, meatbag counterparts in the realm of dating and relationships. If any form of AI is allowed, it is only the most rudimentary, primitive form. And for good reason too. Before Stephen Hawking's passing--RIP--he had warned the world's leaders never to allow AI to establish any footing in the human world. T… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/24 05:29 AM |
| 1 | Relationships are pointless if you EXCLUDE sex or starting a family as the primary reason/motivator (this is my perspective)Ok, you and I define the concept of 'free will' differently. Let's just agree to disagree on this point. I'm not talking about biological urges. Urges are one thing--biological nature is a whole other ball game. Let's just agree to disagree on this point as well. Ok, buddy. I think there's really not much else to add to this. It's clear to me that you aren't that well -read in these topics--much less thought deeply enough about them--and that's ok. Everyone starts somewhere. This isn't a critici… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/24 03:52 AM |
| 1 | Relationships are pointless if you EXCLUDE sex or starting a family as the primary reason/motivator (this is my perspective)I think looking at this as attempting to prove the other person or groups of people that don't necessarily share one's line of thinking is... missing the point, in a way. It isn't really about proving anything. Proving something 'can' be a way to provide meaning or create meaning but it seems a bit short sighted--as what happens when you do prove the other person or group's thinking is wrong or at least, 'misguided'? You get the satisfaction of being right and then... what? What then? Was the wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/24 02:51 AM |
| 1 | Relationships are pointless if you EXCLUDE sex or starting a family as the primary reason/motivator (this is my perspective)Relationships are a social construct--as are many other things within human civilization like love, honor, morality, and/or maintaining a nuclear family. Ever notice such ideas fly out the window as soon as harm is inflicted upon another, whether real or not? Your first instinct or gut reaction is to inflict harm back onto the individual that caused you harm, whether real or not. This is because humans, while we are sentient and possess the ability to self-reflect, are still animals at the end o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/24 09:17 PM |
| 2 | Men should stop prioritizing decency when it comes to dating as it's something irrelevant to modern women's' attractionI think it's important to stop conflating attraction with dating or attraction with maintaining a relationship--as attraction is a state of being which is quite different from dating or maintaining a relationship, both of which are actions. Attraction exists with or without external stimuli. It just 'is'. Dating involves some type of action--go ask the person out, go acquire resources, go and work out at a gym, go and act funny, go and talk about mutually enjoyable hobbies, interests, values, et… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/24 04:25 AM |
| 4 | What's stopping you from taking the Blue Pill?I don't think purplish_possum is necessarily saying that normative statement (although it's possible). Rather, I think it is merely pointing out a phenomenon that's common--the same way we point out how the sun rises or sets at a certain time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/24 03:58 PM |
| – | Q4M: What's your feelings towards women?3 for me. Women in the West are largely just men with different reproductive organs. Some are visually appealing to look at but most are largely invisible to me. I treat them as they would unto me. If one treats me badly, then that one gets the same bad behavior reflected back. But if one treats me nicely, then that individual gets the same nice behavior reflected back. It's strictly a case-by-case basis. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/24 09:05 PM |
| 3 | RPers who refuse to simply Go Their Own Way, why?I'm using that phrase loosely. Normal Internet forums can be any Internet forum about any topic whose main purpose isn't to talk about anything directly related to dating, relations between men and women, same-sex, non-binary, etc. Most hobby forums fall under this category of what I call 'normal Internet forums'. I think the act of 'debating'--due to the Internet having had such a long history now--despite it being only officially birthed less than half of a century ago and becoming readily ava… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 05:35 PM |
| 6 | RPers who refuse to simply Go Their Own Way, why?I think you mistake the average RPer with an incel. Just as many folks mistake different flavors of feminism (or even conflate all varieties) into a single, monolithic ideology with the most toxic variant of the bunch--folks unfamiliar with RP tend to conflate the most toxic variant to be 'the primary ideology' of the red pill, which is understandable but ultimately partially incorrect in their understanding about what the red pill is. Even amongst the RP rank-and-file system, there is no single… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 12:02 AM |
| 1 | There is a active push to limit the scope of socially acceptable venues to approach a womanIt's been that way for as long as civilization has been around--so this is nothing 'new'. It only seems new to you because...tiktok...or wherever you got this notion from. The scope has and will always be a moving target. Any type of activity where both genders can and oftentimes do participate in great numbers will always meet the same fate. It's all one giant shit test. If you pay attention to it and actually take it in as real truth and act on it, you failed the shit test. All the assholes do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/23 09:11 PM |
| 2 | If men are so desperate for sex and a relationship, it makes no sense that half of them never ask women outIt's not that far-fetched when you pair that percentage with the sudden, unexpected rise of pills used to treat ADD or it's more severe sibling, ADHD. Or pills used to treat a variety of things. I don't know when 'popping a pill' to treat mental, social, or psychological, or all of the above became a thing but it was definitely not that common in the 80's and 90's. Maybe...just maybe, all those pills taken during a child's developmental phases has more deeper, dire effects by the time one reache… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/23 02:44 AM |
| 1 | Just googled The Red Pill and it’s fucking bullshitTor browser. | /r/MGTOW | 31/05/21 03:17 PM |
| 4 | Benefits of following mgtowI think that framing it in terms of accomplishments and achievements is a rather myopic way of viewing the benefits of MGTOW. And really, that question will vary from man to man, depending on what their own personal goals are. Sometimes, just having the freedom is enough. For others, following the traditional path of acquiring resources to invest and re-invest so they can retire early is the goal. What that actual amount at which one feels confident in retiring early will also vary from man to m… | /r/MGTOW2 | 22/02/21 07:08 AM |
| 1 | I'm all in.Garden variety redpillers are much like blue-pilled cucks--to an extent--especially if they use PUA principles and techniques exclusively to chase women and get into an LTR. Chasing women for short term gain, that's fine. Chasing women for long term gain? Eh... to me, that's treading on blue pill territory there, if not, outright following in the footsteps of a typical blue piller's path, which we all know will lead to their own destruction at some point. MGTOW and PUA fall under the same umbrel… | /r/MGTOW2 | 26/01/21 10:57 PM |
| 2 | I'm all in.Brother, DavidHill76 is a garden variety redpiller leaning on the side of PUA, in case that you haven't figured it out by now. PUA's, provided that they mastered the art of 'holding frame' indefinitely can potentially work out for him. I can tell you from my own personal observations though that I haven't met a single PUA that can hold frame indefinitely, especially when applied to the modern woman. The priniciples and techniques of PUA are largely meant to be used for the short term, not long t… | /r/MGTOW2 | 26/01/21 10:30 PM |
| 1 | ThinkingHang in there, brother. It is not all doom and gloom. I've been where you are right now like many of the older gents that went through this before us. There is a light at the end of the tunnel and you will feel defeated and down a lot throughout this journey, and that's normal. That's just the society's 'programming' slowly lifting off its layers piece by piece. Let yourself feel sad, angry, numb, whatever it is, just let it run its course. You may lose some (or all) of your friends and family a… | /r/MGTOW | 26/01/21 04:44 PM |
| 8 | Do not trust reddit. A quick analysisKeep in mind, this is with the assumption that the reported user demographics answered honestly when a Reddit profile is created. If not, then those numbers will be largely inaccurate. For all we know, it can cover the spectrum or not at all. Whatever this percentage is, it is still a good sampling size to extrapolate general data projections, which is a good starting point. Your post should be renamed to "do not trust any single source of information". Google, as a search engine, is heavily pro… | /r/MGTOW | 25/01/21 09:35 PM |
| 1 | Why Women and Feminists Feel Threatened By MGTOWHi Redditors! Thank you for finding my blog and thank you for sharing it on Reddit as well as the folks who have commented on my blog post. I didn't notice that it was shared on Reddit until recently. @3rd_viewpoint, I appreciate your thoughts and opinions. I intended the blog for those who are already well aware of the topic but from time to time, I do make the effort to define those terms. Nevertheless, at the same time, the whole point is for the random reader who stumbles upon it, and is cur… | /r/MGTOW | 28/10/18 05:21 PM |
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