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| 4 | Where to find wife material?Yes, for sure. Very rare and then very hard to get. Usually when girls are very attractive they become pompous, bitchy, and/or have chaotic standards and chaotic behavior. The girl I talked about is none of that; she’s more introverted yet does her own things, has hobbies, as I said works out seriously but doesn’t show off, and reads books...and self-improvement books too; not crazy horoscope type shit or fiction. Girls like her are extremely rare. | /r/askTRP | 09/02/21 06:11 AM |
| 5 | Where to find wife material?The kind of girl you’re envisioning won’t be god fearing, in the kitchen type of woman. The loyal and loving wife you imagine, these days, is more likely to come in the form of a strong, intelligent woman driven by her own genuine interests and goals. I went to high school with a girl like this. She was quiet in high school, but was always one of the most genuine and nicest girls. She’s very attractive, a 9, she’s intelligent, she works out every day, she reads books, and is about to graduate wi… | /r/askTRP | 09/02/21 05:29 AM |
| 18 | Anybody else got a female overweight problem where they live?America bruh. The obesity problem IS growing, though, yes. I read somewhere that it’s expected 40% of the population will be obese within 10 or 15 years (forget the exact year). 40% OBESE. That doesn’t even include overweight, that’s obese alone. Good god. I want to go visit Argentina or somewhere in South America where they eat more clean foods and are lean and in shape. | /r/askTRP | 07/02/21 05:55 AM |
| 2 | Can you use small youtube fame to pick up chicks?No. But nice job. | /r/askTRP | 06/02/21 12:44 AM |
| 1 | It seems, to me, that she’s hiding me from social media. Mainly snapchat.I didn’t read all of this. But if you’ve been with a girl for many months, exclusively, and she avoids sharing you on all social media, it’s a massive sign of disrespect. If she was happy being exclusive with you, she’d show you off normally. I know a girl who has been dating a guy for like 3 years, yet she never shows him off on any social media, ever. I just feel bad for the guy. Big red flag. | /r/askTRP | 05/02/21 08:57 PM |
| 9 | How do you actually go for the kiss?You ask her for consent first. “I think it’s time to begin kissing. Do you give consent for me to kiss you?” Just kidding. Her body language will show when she’s open to it, and then just lean in and go. Don’t be aggressive. Be gentle and put your arm around her or something in the beginning. | /r/askTRP | 05/02/21 05:45 PM |
| 1 | How to respond if a girl makes fun on your balding or hair, etc.Stare deep into her soul through her eyes, silently for a few seconds, and then say, “I don’t give a fuck.” | /r/askTRP | 04/02/21 06:14 PM |
| 3 | What’s your view on women who purposely (or more subtly than others) flaunt their slutty behavior?Yes. It seems many young females have been indoctrinated with this idea that men are terrible, evil, stupid, and disappointing, and that that gives females the justification to trash men, try to get the upper hand, and treat men like lesser beings. I know a girl like this. She lives in the basement of her daddy's house, pays no rent, can't hold even a minimum wage job, smokes weed all day, and makes content for OnlyFans. Literally the lowest quality you can make yourself. It's disgusting. Now, m… | /r/askTRP | 04/02/21 07:41 AM |
| 2 | The amount of betas nowadays pisses me offNot that simple. Many betas get away with being beta because they're naturally attractive and smooth. They will get and keep girls, until eventually things go wrong because of their blindness. But in the meantime, they succeed...often better than even many red pilled men. | /r/askTRP | 04/02/21 07:34 AM |
| 8 | What’s your view on women who purposely (or more subtly than others) flaunt their slutty behavior?What's my view on them? I see them as low quality heaps of matter and do not enjoy being in their presence. (note: I'm talking about the ones who attempt to tear down men) There's nothing wrong with being highly sexual and having lots of sex and talking about it. There IS something wrong with shaming men, talking in ideological terms like "toxic masculinity," acting like women have authority over men, bragging about blocking men or cutting them off ruthlessly, etc. This behavior is chaotic, trul… | /r/askTRP | 04/02/21 07:30 AM |
| 1 | If some girls’ only goal is to be treated like a sex object, then why do they object to being treated that way? Are they indoctrinated?"Slut shaming" is a hoax | /r/askTRP | 04/02/21 07:27 AM |
| 19 | Status is genuinely everything and I’m speaking from experienceNope, sorry, not universally true. Maybe it is for you but not always. Status is often a majority of the success, but not all. I know so many poor, sloppy guys who are hot and slay. Girls will fuck poor chad and pray he gets it together over an average looking guy with higher status. | /r/askTRP | 04/02/21 07:25 AM |
| 8 | The amount of betas nowadays pisses me offI don’t know. But I see at least two types of betas, maybe there are more. 1: Guys who are unattractive and have very few options with girls so they put women on pedestals in hope of being validated. These are unhappy men, often the ones online sending money to porn girls. 2: Naturally attractive guys who simply don’t know about red pill and think treating their girlfriend like a queen is the right way to hold a relationship. These are the guys who buy everything for their girlfriend, spend time… | /r/askTRP | 04/02/21 05:31 AM |
| 2 | Do you think red pill advice is overrated?Not overrated, but you can go full retard mode with it if you take it all 100% to the core and forget how to be a human with empathy. | /r/askTRP | 04/02/21 02:54 AM |
| 2 | Can we just ban people who ask retarded questions?I mean what is “retarded” is subjective. But I think there should be a clearer explanation of what is within the rules. I’m cool with questions expanding outside the standard “girls” topic, because red pill is useful in a number of other life situations. But I agree low effort and troll posts need to be cut down. | /r/askTRP | 04/02/21 02:33 AM |
| 3 | How do I cope with feelings of loneliness and human contact?No magic answer, but you just have to keep putting yourself out there. I can relate somewhat as I used to be very reserved and afraid to do anything with anyone else, and still am to some degree, but I've improved a lot. Maybe look at it this way: Are you doing fantastic on your own? Have you built a high-value, rewarding life being alone? I'm guessing the answer is "no." So you have nothing to lose by putting yourself out there and making connections with others. Some will go well, some won't, … | /r/askTRP | 03/02/21 06:32 AM |
| 1 | Those who stopped jerking off and started banging girls what did you do? Kind of getting tired of myselfYeah that’s understandable 100% | /r/askTRP | 03/02/21 06:19 AM |
| 1 | Is there anything inherently wrong with not wanting to pursue women as a virgin?This is how I started feeling after I had a bit of sex. So look, it's whatever...knowing red pill before you go and lose your virginity, I can see how you have no interest now. But you should do it, find a girl who vibes with you and do it. Then after you cross that fence, if you don't give a fuck anymore, that's fine, or if you do, that's fine too. | /r/askTRP | 03/02/21 02:59 AM |
| 3 | Taking selfie with girlDepends on the situation but I usually just keep a mostly straight face, maybe a slight smirk with mouth closed. Chin lifted up. Peace sign or Shaka sign optional. | /r/askTRP | 02/02/21 09:56 PM |
| 2 | How do you show DHV on social media?*high quality pics; great phone camera is a must *clean cut, attractive appearance *doing things you enjoy, or in places you like | /r/askTRP | 02/02/21 08:22 PM |
| 0 | Those who stopped jerking off and started banging girls what did you do? Kind of getting tired of myselfI agree with most of this except for the part about quitting porn to go fuck ugly girls. Nah man. Sorry I personally can’t do that. The couple girls I’ve been with all had good bodies and were decently attractive; I’d rather beat to hot girls than put my dick in fat or ugly; no point, I will never have any interest in them. But you do you lol | /r/askTRP | 02/02/21 08:20 PM |
| 1 | Investing in CryptocurrencyBitcoin, that's all I recommend. All the other stuff is still nonsense. Bitcoin will be around for the long run now most likely. I put a bunch in when it was around $10,000 so needless to say I've made out, but I'm leaving my money in there because I think it will continue to go up over time. Bitcoin has never been less risky than it is now. But I don't know anything about others. | /r/askTRP | 01/02/21 11:04 PM |
| 1 | Investing in CryptocurrencyI disagree now with Bitcoin and big heads seem to think bitcoin will last now too. 2 years ago my moneyhead uncle said bitcoin was never gonna be anything; now he changed his mind and said it's likely to keep growing over time. Biden's not gonna do anything against bitcoin. | /r/askTRP | 01/02/21 11:02 PM |
| 1 | Are you guys cold approaching with masks on?Yes | /r/askTRP | 29/01/21 11:07 PM |
| 2 | Girls posting sexy photos onlineIt does yeah. Def take past behavior into account. It’s just not full dealbreaker for me automatically, but it’s a factor to different degrees in different cases. | /r/askTRP | 29/01/21 12:43 AM |
| 1 | Girls posting sexy photos onlineNo not a dealbreaker by default. What matters is the behavior now and going forward. | /r/askTRP | 29/01/21 12:30 AM |
| 2 | Please slap some fucking sense into me! ( visited a whore )Just forget it and don’t do it again. | /r/askTRP | 27/01/21 08:39 PM |
| 4 | I’ve read the sidebar and I still don’t get itHave you read the TRP sidebar and the asktrp sidebar or both? I think the answer is just sexual programming; woman needs dominant male most likely to produce healthy offspring. Woman is attracted to indicators of this like dominant personality, hunter eyes deep in the skull, sharp jawline, and a healthy body. That’s really it. Woman doesn’t care about man or his Being. The mind of a woman takes interest in nothing that the mind of a man does. | /r/askTRP | 26/01/21 11:45 AM |
| 2 | Personality or sexual connection more important?Sex lasts a few minutes. The rest of life lasts...the rest of life. For a LTR, like as in intending to marry, you've gotta have strong personal connection and share some level of agreement about what you want out of life. Even if you have 10/10 sexual connection, each of you can pretty easily and quickly find that same amazing sexual connection elsewhere if you want to. It's not that hard. LTRs require strong personal connection, for sure. | /r/askTRP | 25/01/21 08:27 AM |
| 1 | Challenging the idea that females select for statusWhy would being able to make me any more attractive to women? Why don’t you answer my question? | /r/askTRP | 23/01/21 04:52 AM |
| 1 | How can anyone be truly content without a purpose or meaning to their life?None of your business. I have read most of sidebar now, and I read books of diverse topics. No need to focus only on RP content; that’s dogma. I’ve read 12 Rules for Life, The Selfish Gene, and numerous nonfiction books. | /r/askTRP | 23/01/21 04:09 AM |
| 0 | Challenging the idea that females select for statusWhy would defining and uttering a “mission” make me any less arrogant? The guys with a focused mission are often the most arrogant people in life because it’s always about that mission above all else. | /r/askTRP | 23/01/21 04:07 AM |
| 0 | Challenging the idea that females select for statusAlso to answer your question, the area where I lack the most is obviously Game. | /r/askTRP | 23/01/21 04:06 AM |
| 0 | How can anyone be truly content without a purpose or meaning to their life?95% of men in relationships can’t identify their mission with clarity and concision. It is a personal goal of mine to be able to, but that’s for me...I know now that it’s not for women. Having a clear purpose does not attract women. This is a common misconception that trp teaches. All you have to do is look around in the real world to see that it’s not the case. | /r/askTRP | 23/01/21 03:55 AM |
| 0 | Challenging the idea that females select for statusYou think it’s arrogance because that’s all I talk about here, but that’s not my daily vibe. I’m a respected guy, especially by those above me, because of my ethic. The problem, like you said, is that I have forgotten how to have fun. I’m super flat in emotion and I’m consumed by my routine and grind. I fully understand that girls don’t feel the tingles from that lifestyle. But my struggle is trying to figure out how to be more fun without sacrificing what I want to do and what I know to be good… | /r/askTRP | 23/01/21 03:53 AM |
| 1 | Challenging the idea that females select for statusYeah. I’ll just say for me personally it’s been struggle to learn how to have fun and laugh again ever since the thing that brought me here happened. My former blue pill self was at least somewhat fun; I laughed a lot, I enjoyed things, I was pretty loose. Then the thing (or things, really) happened that kicked me down and made me deeply question everything in life happened. I’ve built myself back up with discipline, hard work, and action, but I don’t feel as fun and lighthearted as I used to. N… | /r/askTRP | 23/01/21 03:45 AM |
| 1 | How Can You Feel Empathy for Women While Still Being Red-PilledWomen have been conquered, raped and enslaved since forever. This is a very inaccurate perspective of history. You sound like an extreme feminist, repeating the lie that women have been oppressed by men since the beginning of time. Most people have been conquered and enslaved since the beginning of time. People. Women and men. Only recently, in the last handful of decades, has either gender really begun to experience "freedom" across the world. | /r/askTRP | 22/01/21 09:49 PM |
| 0 | Best hobby to make money?I have a large investment in cryptocurrency for the long run now. It’s extra money that I can afford to accept a risk with. Losing $3000 in the past few days is just a tiny blip when my investment grew by $18000 in the past few months. With any investing you can’t get alarmed by short term swings in price. | /r/askTRP | 22/01/21 06:27 PM |
| 5 | She takes off her clothes and lays on the bed like a bodybag. The f am I supposed to do?Dude you need to learn how to take and keep control. Some girls are like that, they don’t know what to do and will just lay there. You’ve got to go into it expecting to take charge and maintain the lead, and if she does that just get on her and start making out with her, feeling her up... you shouldn’t lose interest if you throw yourself on top of her and keep things going. Best of luck | /r/askTRP | 21/01/21 06:02 PM |
| 1 | I feel like I'm resented because I carry myself well...is this a problem?I will try to relax and lighten up more yeah. But I do have push back on you saying I’m not better... of course I’m not better in terms of human value, but in the environments I am in, what I contribute IS better. There shouldn’t be anything wrong with acknowledging this. Some people are higher in the hierarchy than others. I never view myself that way by default, but inside I know it’s true because I’m recognized for it when others aren’t. There is a hierarchy of intelligence, attractiveness, c… | /r/askTRP | 21/01/21 05:27 PM |
| 0 | I feel like I'm resented because I carry myself well...is this a problem?I get that. That’s just not me. I did that just a bit a few years ago but that’s just not my lifestyle. On occasion I will but at this point I can’t deliberately become more “reckless” just for the sake of appealing to certain people lol. My idea of playing hard is doing some kind of physical sport, getting high, fucking and watching a movie and falling asleep lol. Thanks for the reply, will try to loosen up just a bit. | /r/askTRP | 21/01/21 03:49 PM |
| 17 | Help, i've become a mysoginistDoesn’t sound like misogyny. Just sounds like truth. Once your eyes are opened and you see reality for what it is, you see that all girls are whores in the mind with lives that are a mess. They have almost no sense of logic or righteousness and much of their behavior is disgusting. But that is nature, now mixed with bad societal influences. | /r/askTRP | 20/01/21 07:13 AM |
| 1 | Any of u guys use zinc?Do they really? Only commenting because I still have an acne problem at 24, and I think it could be because my testosterone is too high. I breakout on my chest, shoulders, neck, and arms, and at this point there really is no other explanation, as I've been on accutane before but it always comes back eventually. So I don't want to increase my testosterone. I'm going to actually get tested for my levels and see if I can decrease it somehow. Best of luck to you in what you're doing though. | /r/askTRP | 19/01/21 04:57 AM |
| 3 | Where to meet succesful, smart people, and those who want to live an above average life?There's no specific place, no. I share your exact same view here, I know exactly how you feel. Ever since I've become an adult I decided I wanted to live as good of a life as I can. Of course I still fail sometimes, as we all do; nobody is perfect. But I definitely decided that I want to do as well as I can at everything I do. It doesn't make sense to me to be OK with mediocrity or shitty lifestyles, the way so many people seem to treat life. I haven't found my answer yet. But, like others have … | /r/askTRP | 19/01/21 04:23 AM |
| 2 | How do I exactly be "toxic"/a douchebag?These are all qualities that trp claims are attractive and will have a girl always coming to you, at least to fuck. Except the reality is some girls just can’t handle it and won’t keep coming back. My past is complicated, but I broke my last ex’s heart by being this way. I was her first real love. I took her virginity and got her obsessed with me. Then I started being emotionally and physically unavailable. I didn’t put her on a pedestal. In fact, I wasn’t afraid to put her down. I put myself an… | /r/askTRP | 19/01/21 02:25 AM |
| 1 | A few questions about situations I've noticedWell, here’s an honest thought about myself: I used to be beta, but I’ve never been Billy Beta in a relationship and can’t be. Because I don’t provide excessive comfort and assets to girls. Part of the reason why my last ex left me was because I didn’t treat her well enough and didn’t give her enough...she comes from a broken family and is desperate to escape that and get with a guy who provides her comfort and richness. I didn’t do that. Now she’s with a guy who does. But, at the same time, I’v… | /r/askTRP | 18/01/21 11:18 PM |
| 3 | Why do some girls have like 8 boyfriends a year?Some absolutely don’t know what to do if they’re alone. And they don’t think about the ramifications of a bunch of chaotic relationships. Many of them would rather be with a stupid guy temporarily than alone. | /r/askTRP | 17/01/21 08:21 PM |
| 8 | If you are below 6 ft, do you list your height in Tinder/OLD bio?I tested putting my height in my bio once, I’m 5’6”, once just by itself, once I made a joke about God putting my inches somewhere else. It didn’t really seem to matter too much either way in terms of matches, maybe a little fewer at most vs when I left it out entirely. I think girls are pretty good at judging your height just by pictures anyway, if they really care that much. Don’t lie. Do you know how beta that is? If you’re an alpha male you have no reason to lie because you DON’T GIVE A FUCK… | /r/askTRP | 17/01/21 05:10 PM |
| 1 | A gym pickup threadUnless it's like a social workout CLUB, people don't speak to each other in public gyms...they are all strangers. No girl is going to go around telling strangers shit about you. Ridiculous. | /r/askTRP | 17/01/21 04:04 AM |
| 1 | A gym pickup thread^This Guys telling guys to be pussies and not talk to any girls at the gym? Ridiculous. If a girl keeps checking YOU out in the gym, there is certainly nothing wrong with hitting her up at all. | /r/askTRP | 17/01/21 04:03 AM |
| 2 | Thoughts on handling this shit testNoooo don't say that. Either just ignore it and don't reply, or make some kind of alpha joke. Maybe "I'm flying to Bali (or insert place) to start a new life next week." But simply not replying would be best I think. | /r/askTRP | 17/01/21 04:02 AM |
| 2 | What percentage of men prefer fat women to slim women?Idk but it should be zero. Fucking fat girls validates their fatness, and in my humble opinion, that is wrong because I place a lot of importance on physical fitness and health for both genders. We are organic creatures of life...letting yourself live a disgusting, unhealthy life is a failure. You owe it to nature to be in peak physical health for as long as humanely possible. Girls who are a little thick are OK. But fat? No. Absolutely not. I have overweight girls hitting on me and trying to ge… | /r/askTRP | 17/01/21 03:52 AM |
| 1 | Why do all women hate their ex'es?Partly because some of them expect us to be their knight in shining armour, a deity, an extremely strong and amazing man they'd never have to leave. But most of us aren't perfect and we show vulnerabilities and weaknesses and we make mistakes. So then they get pissed and hate us for being flawed. | /r/askTRP | 17/01/21 03:49 AM |
| 1 | Does lifting really help your chances with women?It does, but there are so many other factors in play. It will definitely improve your prospects, but to what degree varies depending on many other factors. Some guys are just really ugly/have weird bodies and personalities that even if they are jacked, they won't do that well with women. Other guys are skinny asf, never work out, but are blessed with pretty boy faces and hair and will get all the girls. So it just depends. But working out is for you. As a human you are supposed to take the best … | /r/askTRP | 17/01/21 03:45 AM |
| 1 | Should LTR be "your best friend"?Ideally, yes, she should...but most girls won't treat the relationship that way. Most will be much closer to their girlfriends, even if they make you feel like you're their best friend too. They'll complain about you to their girlfriend and talk about stuff with their girlfriends they'll never talk about with you. So ideally, of course, I do truly believe that your partner for LIFE should be your best friend. But in reality, it doesn't work out that way too often anymore. And with the way girls … | /r/askTRP | 17/01/21 03:41 AM |
| 1 | What are the three most important traits in an attractive male?Facial looks Stoicism (doesn't get butthurt/emotional, doesn't complain about bullshit) Building status (career, hobbies, whatever...you must be doing something to "rise" in the hierarchy) | /r/askTRP | 17/01/21 03:37 AM |
| 2 | How do you actually not give a fuck about what people do or think about what you do?In my opinion, the way you get to the point where you stop giving a fuck about everything and everyone's opinion of you is to improve yourself to the point where you love yourself. The difficulty of this varies for every guy. If you are very physically attractive with great genes, and you have always had good things going for you naturally, it's very easy to know you're great, and therefore you don't give a fuck what people think because you KNOW you're great. But if you know you need to work on… | /r/askTRP | 17/01/21 03:32 AM |
| 1 | Anyone else feel like being redpill is lonelyOp should join Space Force like me. We can be friends lol | /r/askTRP | 17/01/21 02:29 AM |
| 1 | Why does it seem like many people have gone quiet/more isolated since COVID?HAHAHA | /r/askTRP | 16/01/21 09:46 PM |
| 1 | A few questions about situations I've noticedYeah I get you. I also though think that there’s a dynamic of socioeconomic level and intelligence though that I don’t think gets talked about enough. Everyone talks about hypergamy and how women choose across and up the socioeconomic hierarchy. Plenty of evidence for that apparently. But all through high school and college, I’ve noticed that there are different social cliques at different intelligence levels, and girls tend to stay within their cliques of their own intelligence level. Most of w… | /r/askTRP | 16/01/21 03:39 AM |
| 1 | A few questions about situations I've noticedWell maybe as a bi guy you like more beta or feminine guys. I don’t think all alpha guys have those negative qualities. Some but not all. Women do want to be fucked by masculine, dominant men... not some feminine equal. I do mostly agree with you on the boyfriend thing but that’s if you don’t know them yet. In closer social relationships where people know each other, they can’t really deny they have a boyfriend if it’s obvious they do. Because they have to make the boyfriend believe he’s the boy… | /r/askTRP | 16/01/21 03:18 AM |
| 1 | Is it an insecurity to not want a girl who is extra friendly with other guys?Definitely not a good thing. A girlfriend can be friendly with other guys, but it should be very standard and normal. Any type of closeness or flirting... that’s bad behavior and disrespectful to you. If a girl wants to continue to be flirtatious and too flirty with other guys when you’re dating her exclusively, you need to lay down expectations and/or not date her exclusively. | /r/askTRP | 16/01/21 01:29 AM |
| 0 | What percent of guys are aware of female nature?Why are we making it such a big positive to "be aware" of true nature though? Some guys select successfully and have good relationships or naturally hook up without thinking about any of this stuff...and honestly many of them have more "success" than guys here who are "fully aware"...just food for thought. | /r/askTRP | 15/01/21 07:21 AM |
| 1 | How do you have unattractive female friendsUse them to help you get what you want. Nothing wrong with having them as a “friend” as long as you aren’t hanging out with them all the time. | /r/askTRP | 15/01/21 03:15 AM |
| -1 | How do you have unattractive female friendsMostly agree but I think it’s OK to use them as “friends” if it benefits you in some way, and with certain social dynamics it can. Just have to be careful not to hang out/be seen with fat girls in social public too much. That’s really the thing. | /r/askTRP | 15/01/21 03:04 AM |
| 1 | What does it mean to truly be redpilled?Yeah I guess so. I don’t think she’s a terrible person, but she’s definitely very immature and doesn’t understand how many of her actions and attitudes can be bad. Yeah, it was always about her. She needed constant attention despite doing nothing of real value (she neglected her school work entirely). Thanks for the comments | /r/askTRP | 14/01/21 08:45 PM |
| 1 | What does it mean to truly be redpilled?I hate that she’s dating someone new who provides her with things. She doesn’t deserve it. I know I can’t be thinking about what’s not any of my life anymore but she really doesn’t deserve it. She deserves to be dumped and feel some pain of her own for once. | /r/askTRP | 14/01/21 08:17 PM |
| 1 | What does it mean to truly be redpilled?Yeah. My (innocent) mistake was assuming she’d always be there, even as I went through difficult times and let my attitude and personality suffer temporarily. I didn’t believe she could desert me in such a cold hearted way, and then tell other people bad things about me. I guess she kinda is not a very good person because even the people who she told bad things about me to have literally come to me and told me they sympathize with me and that I can do way better and that she’s a child and incred… | /r/askTRP | 14/01/21 08:10 PM |
| 1 | You must first be content with yourself before all else.I hear this so many times. I'll explain why I'm still confused. What the intentions are in the back of my mind are pretty hidden, pretty invisible. I don't believe that girls or people can tell how much you desire a certain outcome if you don't talk about it. Girls look at guys for who they are, what they're doing, and what they have. I am a strong man. I am intelligent. I work hard to make things happen. I am dominant. I save up money. I have financial success. I celebrate good things. I spend … | /r/TheRedPill | 14/01/21 07:35 AM |
| 1 | You must first be content with yourself before all else.The thing is, I've done these things. I've withdrawn from people for a while. I've read books. I've been working hard in the gym. I've been becoming more intelligent, more confident, more optimistic about the future, more dominant, more alpha, more comfortable all around in my own skin. But none of it has resulted in me having more success with females. In fact, I had more success a few years ago when I was a mess and had no direction in life. So, something still isn't adding up, and I haven't f… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/01/21 07:23 AM |
| 0 | A few questions about situations I've noticedThey're literally numbered questions. I'd rather only take up space for one post than make 4 separate posts. This is not very long stuff my man. | /r/askTRP | 14/01/21 07:20 AM |
| 2 | Giving her your number vs taking her numberI mean, that's a point, maybe. But even offering your number can be rejected if the girl isn't interested, so it's not like you're protecting yourself against rejection. Like I said, sooo many guys fuck up initiation. And, on top of that, women are the deciding gender when it comes to sex and mating (they choose the men), so why not give her your info and let her decide? If you can come up with a really strong argument against it, I'm all ears. | /r/askTRP | 14/01/21 06:48 AM |
| 1 | Giving her your number vs taking her numberGetting her contact info definitely gives you the power of initiating things. BUT, many guys are bad at initiating things and handling that beginning, me in the past included, so part of me actually likes just giving my number and that way I can’t fuck much up. If she is interested she’ll contact me; if not then I don’t waste my time. Recently I gave my number to a girl in the weirdest of circumstances... she hit a deer and I was driving behind her so I stopped. My friend actually said I should … | /r/askTRP | 14/01/21 06:21 AM |
| 8 | The hidden agenda of the governmentThis is ridiculous. Many aspects of society are to blame for failing men. It’s not “the government” with some secret evil agenda. It’s all of society across all spectrums. People think they’re making the world “better” through “change” and “progress,” but we know it’s not all good and positive. | /r/askTRP | 14/01/21 04:38 AM |
| 1 | What does it mean to truly be redpilled?If my ex would’ve simply treated me like a human being in the aftermath of our breakup I would feel completely fine and content with life. That’s all it would take. The fact that she didn’t eats me up still, no matter how much I bury it and self improve... the pain is never still completely gone and I know it never will be 100% gone. It’s made even worse that I know for a fact from mutual friends and coworkers that she still talks about me, despite having me blocked while she’s fucking someone e… | /r/askTRP | 14/01/21 03:40 AM |
| -1 | What does it mean to truly be redpilled?Yeah. Lul forgive me for a second while I squeeze the last bit of remaining anger and bewilderment out of my ass: I still just can’t believe a woman who acted obsessed with me for the year we dated could dump me and treat me so terrible in a breakup all just because I had some genuine issues as a guy at the time. And not give one fuck about me or what I was going through. What are they, mindless, cold hearted creations? Guys don’t deserve what some girls have put us through. Ok, now. Thanks. I g… | /r/askTRP | 14/01/21 01:53 AM |
| 0 | What does it mean to truly be redpilled?I feel the same way about the intro and the perspective of it. I’m not a psychopath, damn. Do you know if there is a to the point part of the sidebar pdf that explains game, how to interact with women, and how to spin plates? | /r/askTRP | 13/01/21 11:44 PM |
| 1 | Is it better to be level-headed and always keep your cool, or to be bold at the risk of being cocky or arrogant?I think it’s gotta be a combination. Ideally the most attractive guy is level headed AND disagreeable. Meaning you are calm, not neurotic (overly emotional), but you don’t go along with things just to please people. You protect yourself and you aren’t afraid to disagree or stand up to people. | /r/askTRP | 13/01/21 10:56 PM |
| 4 | What does it mean to truly be redpilled?Someone should condense the sidebar into a straight to the point, 50 page document at most. Not hundreds of pages. The one additional thing I think should be included though is a guide to women and how to initiate and handle sex and relationships. | /r/askTRP | 13/01/21 10:47 PM |
| 0 | Why can't I stand slutty women?Where did I say that? Nowhere. Come on man, have a real conversation around specifics if you object to things I said. | /r/askTRP | 13/01/21 10:29 PM |
| 1 | Why can't I stand slutty women?Respectfully I disagree with pretty much everything you said. I used to think exactly like you not that long ago but then as I dug in a little more I feel like my perspective shifted as for the reasons for these things. 1) You say women can be the biggest sluts in their youth and still end up happily and strongly married. In theory, sure. But that’s not how human minds work in reality. A woman who has no sexual reservations in her youth is less likely to be loyal and take on the correct roles of… | /r/askTRP | 13/01/21 10:06 PM |
| 0 | Why can't I stand slutty women?It is the data. You said things that aren’t mutually exclusive with what I said. Marriages are weaker than ever. Children born to single parent households has doubled in the last few decades. The effects on young men and women is pretty clear. It’s absolutely not an Internet intervention. You sound like a feminist yourself. Feminism was needed decades ago. But not now. The radical wing of the feminists have some done damage to culture and minds by perpetuating a lie that western civilization has… | /r/askTRP | 13/01/21 08:57 PM |
| 2 | Why can't I stand slutty women?I don’t know how you can say things are going fine. Things are getting worse. Do you not see that? The data is clear. Families are falling apart or never happening at all at a higher rate, children born to unmarried parents, absence of father figure, etc. Feminism and the court systems. Things have gone too far. Culture is falling apart and it’s having an especially bad effect on young men. | /r/askTRP | 13/01/21 08:42 PM |
| 3 | Why can't I stand slutty women?Maybe this is true for him. But there is a legitimate argument for not liking casual sex and sluts. Jordan Peterson talks about this. Casual sex, especially for women, is ultimately not a very good thing and in fact it’s likely a negative effect on them. It doesn’t exactly help your life. With contraception, it’s easy to convince yourself that there is no danger to casual sex at all, but that’s just not true. I respect women who actually date one man at a time much more, because at least they’re… | /r/askTRP | 13/01/21 08:32 PM |
| 1 | How are non redpill guys who do no self improvement able to get girlsBecause they are naturally attractive and don’t have to work hard to “discover” anything. Their bodies, faces, or personalities already make girls wet without them even knowing about any of this stuff. That’s it. | /r/askTRP | 13/01/21 05:36 AM |
| 1 | How are non redpill guys who do no self improvement able to get girlsExcept nobody is born those ways. They emerge that way in childhood because of many factors, mostly environmental but some genetic, sure. | /r/askTRP | 13/01/21 05:35 AM |
| 1 | My best girl - friend randomly told me she wanted to give me headDude how did it go 😂 | /r/askTRP | 12/01/21 03:29 AM |
| 1 | Question for the rich men of asktrp: has money helped you with attracting women?That’s exactly what I’m saying dude. No, it doesn’t impress girls. They don’t care. They fuck a more broke guy and hope he gets his shit together. Or the lucky guy who comes from a rich family and doesn’t have to work for anything. I’m not rich. I’m just smart. I have student loan debt. But I know how to have money now, I invest, I budget with goals in mind, I buy my own things, and I just bought myself a nice 2016 Mazda6 and paid it off in 5 months. But none of this stuff really matters to girl… | /r/askTRP | 12/01/21 01:06 AM |
| 1 | Question for the rich men of asktrp: has money helped you with attracting women?^ exactly | /r/askTRP | 11/01/21 08:20 PM |
| 8 | Question for the rich men of asktrp: has money helped you with attracting women?No. Not at all. At 24 I am doing much better financially than 75% of guys around me, and through my own hard and smart work; not family help. Doesn’t matter to girls. Some girls know I have a good amount in the bank and in investments. I bought myself a nice (and wise) $13,000 used car this year. They know these things. It doesn’t change anything. Girls around me still fuck guys with far less than me and who will never achieve financial freedom because they are terrible with money. The people wh… | /r/askTRP | 11/01/21 08:01 PM |
| 2 | When a woman hides the fact that she has a boyfriendMy go to when a girl talks about her bf is to just say “cool” and continue on because it doesn’t matter. Just brush right over it by saying cool | /r/askTRP | 09/01/21 11:17 PM |
| 9 | When a woman hides the fact that she has a boyfriendShe’s contacting you constantly? That right there means she’s bored of her bf and is open to getting with you. Go for it. Move on it. | /r/askTRP | 09/01/21 09:18 PM |
| 1 | What are some unanswered redpill questions?This is the best analogy I’ve ever heard about this. Makes sense now. The thing that sucks is, just like a rebellious teenager, if you try to control a girl in a relationship, she’ll end up leaving you, even if you’re right about everything and she’s wrong about everything. | /r/askTRP | 09/01/21 04:06 PM |
| 1 | What are some unanswered redpill questions?Sounds comparable to narcissism and ultimate failure to recognize the existence of the universe. Is it really that severe? | /r/askTRP | 08/01/21 09:53 PM |
| 1 | What are some unanswered redpill questions?So what’s the ultimate reason? I think what I’ve heard so far is inadequate at least in my experience. | /r/askTRP | 08/01/21 09:51 PM |
| 5 | What are some unanswered redpill questions?Why are so many women seemingly unable to have ANY consideration for a guy’s feelings when they’re entirely feeling based themselves | /r/askTRP | 08/01/21 09:30 PM |
| 1 | Best hobby to make money?You’re right. I was being half sarcastic. | /r/askTRP | 08/01/21 03:04 AM |
| 1 | I’m confused about women.Yeah I mean you should do what you want and what makes you feel good. You don’t have to sleep around. But at the very least you do owe it to yourself to 1) be the best guy you can be and chase your fullest potential in all aspects of your life and 2) be awake to how people really are. You’ll create the right situations and relationships over time. | /r/askTRP | 08/01/21 02:43 AM |
| 1 | I’m confused about women.Yeah. I totally agree. I’m still more traditional as a guy, despite being fully awake to red pill now. But, if a girl is gonna willingly hoe around, and treat sex so casually, then you should treat her the way she wants to be treated. As a hoe. There’s nothing wrong with that. That’s what some of them want to be. There are good girls out there who take things more seriously, they’re just very hard to find and you shouldn’t make too much of your existence focused on trying to find them. If you co… | /r/askTRP | 08/01/21 02:24 AM |
| 1 | Best hobby to make money?Bitcoin. I made many thousands in just the past 8 months doing nothing. But in all seriousness, any savings you have you should have in the market and/or Bitcoin anyway. Keep a few thousand in emergency savings and invest whatever more you have. Coding and web design used to be an interest of mine but I think you really have to put in a lot of time and work if you want to “make money” there. | /r/askTRP | 08/01/21 02:12 AM |
| 1 | Is it OK to withdraw from social drama? Is it attractive maturity?Yeah I’ll start doing that more. I’d rather be the mysterious independent guy than the guy who wastes time with social drama that you don’t get anything good out of anyway. | /r/askTRP | 08/01/21 02:03 AM |
| 12 | My best girl - friend randomly told me she wanted to give me headShe’s gonna continue to be the mess that she already is. Your friend who is a girl is a hoe, man. But again, just relax, let her do what she wants, but don’t expect anything more. She’s really just using you. You can continue to be friends with her but she quite obviously is no relationship material. | /r/askTRP | 08/01/21 01:27 AM |
| 36 | My best girl - friend randomly told me she wanted to give me headBro. At 14 I’ll say it’s impressive you even know what this subreddit is. But CC means cock carousel. This girl clearly has experience giving guys blowjobs already. She’s ready to start riding the cock carousel if she hasn’t already. I suggest you turn off Reddit notifications for now before your mind is overwhelmed with all this stuff. Enjoy the day tomorrow. | /r/askTRP | 08/01/21 01:22 AM |
| 5 | Why plates block you off social media and everwhere else, after yall fucked and fell out. Do most/all girls do it?Girls are emotional messes. Blocking is a very emotional tool and they use it when they feel that it gives them some sort of empowerment. I may be in the minority, but I never advise that males block people on social media unless it's a case of you being harassed and it's literally to stop that person from continuing to contact you when you don't want it. Because outside of that like I said blocking is an emotional declaration, and guys aren't supposed to be so emotional like that. Back in my la… | /r/askTRP | 08/01/21 12:32 AM |
| 3 | My best girl - friend randomly told me she wanted to give me headIght well yep that's just a girl. Yeah let her do it man and just chill, enjoy the fun | /r/askTRP | 08/01/21 12:00 AM |
| 2 | My best girl - friend randomly told me she wanted to give me headInteresting. Well, the fact that she said she doesn't want anything from you is sus though. She might just get off on this fantasy of giving you, her friend, head. Has she ever shown any other indications of sexual attraction to you? | /r/askTRP | 07/01/21 11:48 PM |
| 1 | I’m confused about women.She probably already did although it probably wasn't as crazy as some. Maybe she casually slept with 1-3 guys when she was single. Which is a very minor hoe phase. Girls who have weaker values and come from more broken families and are just generally less intelligent will have much more extreme hoe phases, like 10+ guys a year. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/21 11:34 PM |
| 1 | My best girl - friend randomly told me she wanted to give me headUm how old is she? She wants to make sure she's not rusty huh? You let her do it, don't make it a big deal, hopefully it goes well. Let her do what she wants. Feel her up, try to go as far as you can; kiss her if she lets you. Just be aware she's basically using you for practice. Unless you turn it into more. Just chill and see what happens. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/21 11:32 PM |
| 12 | Driving an hour to fuck an 8.5 - Yes or no?Don't listen to him man, everyone's situation is different. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/21 11:22 PM |
| 1 | I’m confused about women.Not as much a religious thing as just being raised with more traditional, maybe conservative parents. I know a girl who is pretty politically conservative and so is her Mom. I don't know her exact sexual history but I will say with confidence she takes relationships seriously and doesn't hoe around even though she absolutely could. She doesn't think that's good, whereas the leftist SJW type girls would say without a heartbeat that hoeing around is good, and they'll promote it. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/21 10:20 PM |
| 1 | Why are women whores?I guess, yes. Women are super feel-based. Whatever guy gives them the tingles at any moment, they want to fuck. In the ages of 16-28 or so their bodies are literally telling them every day to reproduce and find the highest quality mate. With birth control, it's taken away the danger of casual sex. So girls can now fuck as many guys as they want with little risk of anything going terribly wrong. Allowing attractive guys to insert into their bodies is what makes girls feel empowered. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/21 09:16 PM |
| 1 | Why are women whores?Sidebar. Yes, their nature is to be hoes. So if there is nothing structurally there to stop them from being hoes, they will be hoes. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/21 09:09 PM |
| 1 | How to properly shoot your shot over Snapchat?Alright thanks. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/21 08:55 PM |
| 1 | I’m confused about women.I would believe a few months. Maybe 6 months. It's very easy for girls to get sex and they do get it, unless they're ugly. High value traditional girls might go a handful of months without it but will usually start dating another guy within a year. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/21 08:55 PM |
| 1 | I’m confused about women.But if they’re high value women and are single then they’re having sex still? In most cases absolutely. Correct; girls who go from being high value and in committed relationship, breakup, and then hoe around...lose their high value at least somewhat. This is very common. Extremely high value girls with more traditional values might take a break from sex until they enter another relationship, yes. These girls are very few and far in between though. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/21 08:46 PM |
| 1 | How to properly shoot your shot over Snapchat?I agree with this. My snapchat score is pretty low, however, because I went a long time without really using it, and still don't use it to snap people very much. Like my one friend has a 750,000 snap score. Obvious signal to girls that he's a high value slut. But mine is 16,000. I'm good looking and use it to post good pics/working out/life events on my story, but I rarely snap people directly, that's why it's so low. Do you think my low score hurts me a lot? | /r/askTRP | 07/01/21 08:31 PM |
| 1 | I’m confused about women.is it true that they all ride the CC? They all want to, but only some actually can. Some are not attractive enough to do it. And if not, do they all have a FWB or something? The ones who aren't, which are a minority, are either 1) extremely high value women who were raised with more traditional values and are actually in a committed relationship or 2) very ugly women who can't get sex. If one’s Facebook relationship status is “Single” for two years, there’s no possibility that she went those two… | /r/askTRP | 07/01/21 08:23 PM |
| 2 | Brothers, rate my Tinder account.Ok then it’s fine | /r/askTRP | 07/01/21 06:35 PM |
| 1 | Brothers, rate my Tinder account.2nd is stupid and too dark anyway, get rid of it. Rest are pretty good. 7.5/10 | /r/askTRP | 07/01/21 06:12 PM |
| 1 | I feel so lonely and I don’t know what to do.Just here to say that the last one is maybe the most fulfilling but also by far the hardest. All the others you can do entirely yourself. But finding a group of aligned friends can be dependent on some things you have less control over and I think once you’re past a certain age or time in life, it becomes extremely difficult to find. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/21 05:15 PM |
| 41 | Driving an hour to fuck an 8.5 - Yes or no?An hour isn’t that long dude. I’d go for it. I’m used to driving 2.5 hours to college and back often so I guess an hour to me seems not bad. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/21 05:10 PM |
| 0 | Anyone else finding that every girl they talk to already has a boyfriend?Yeah you’re right and thanks but just one distinction, I didn’t say she views me as a threat; the BF does | /r/askTRP | 07/01/21 03:10 PM |
| 0 | How can anyone be truly content without a purpose or meaning to their life?I’m doing plenty of shit. The entire point here just flew right over your irate head. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/21 06:24 AM |
| 2 | Anyone else have zero interest in random girls?Just embrace all of your feelings and trust eventually you will experience better days again. You will. It’s ok for it to take a while. All the best to you. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/21 06:03 AM |
| 2 | Anyone else have zero interest in random girls?What led me to trp did fuck me up a lot but I allowed it to. I dealt with very poor mental health for 2 years. I isolated myself. I lost the energy to take care of myself properly. I neglected relationships with friends and family. But thankfully I’ve mostly recovered from it all, got back on a new and better track, and didn’t really lose anyone or anything at the end of the day, so I’m lucky and thankful. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/21 05:51 AM |
| 2 | Anyone else have zero interest in random girls?Yeah I agree with you. I’m glad to be in a decent position. Have had experience (not all was great but it is experience) and at this point I am very confident only focusing on girls I truly feel a good thing with. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/21 05:46 AM |
| -2 | Anyone else finding that every girl they talk to already has a boyfriend?Well it was at work so it’s hard to just walk away and shut down the conversation. It wasn’t that complex anyway. These were just quick little things she mentioned to me and I just laugh or say that’s crazy or something. We actually went on a ride in the car together last week, when she was leaving her job. She even made sure that we got in the car together away from the front of the building so her bf wouldn’t see. Because clearly he views me as a threat and she knows that (she also told me he … | /r/askTRP | 07/01/21 05:43 AM |
| 0 | Anyone else have zero interest in random girls?Well, if hooking up with randos required no effort and they all just landed in your lap, of course I wouldn’t turn it down. But only a small minority of guys can pull like that. For most it requires deliberate and time consuming effort, and those of us who have many other important things going on in our lives I think are justified in saying I’m not interested in getting with randos if it is a waste of my time. It’s better and more logical to stick to girls I know through mutual things. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/21 05:38 AM |
| 1 | Anyone else have zero interest in random girls?...unless you stay together and grow together and live as if there are more important things in life than having sex with many people. (This is the way things used to be many decades ago, but I get it’s not that way anymore for most people) | /r/askTRP | 07/01/21 05:35 AM |
| -1 | Anyone else finding that every girl they talk to already has a boyfriend?This. I can relate it to a personal situation that I haven’t broken through yet, though. Really cute girl I know who I’d love to sleep with. She’s a really fun and exciting girl but so far we’ve just been acquaintances. I know I have the look, the personality, etc for her. But here’s the thing: she’s with her current bf literally all the time because they both work at the same job, she stays at his house (the projects basically) most nights, he even gave her a car to drive that is still in his n… | /r/askTRP | 07/01/21 05:23 AM |
| 3 | How to insult girls in a joking manner properly?Well I’m actually with you man. I don’t insult people either which is why I said I feel awkward about trying it like this on girls. So maybe it’s best to just continue not doing that. Yeah | /r/askTRP | 06/01/21 03:53 PM |
| 3 | Realised today my ex-girlfriend was an extremely low quality women.. does this mean i'm low value?No. It does not. Also you need far more mental help than anyone here can give you. You need to find something to do with your life. | /r/askTRP | 06/01/21 05:07 AM |
| 1 | Anybody else believe stress is a good thing?Absolutely, stress is a good thing. The human body needs physical, biological, mental pressures on it to strengthen it; otherwise you spend your life as a weak, vulnerable person. I’ve always loved stress. If you don’t have any stress, something is wrong. The best results come from experiencing stress and learning how to deal with it properly. Experiencing chaos and creating order. | /r/askTRP | 06/01/21 05:05 AM |
| 15 | Need advice on moving forwardIt’s ok that you don’t have that strength right now. You do need time as you’ve been through some extremely difficult stuff. Focus on the smallest things you can manage. Love for your family and friends. A proper diet. Waking up at a similar time every day. Reading material that helps you. Having a plan for going forward Etc. Best of luck and all the love in the world to you man. | /r/askTRP | 06/01/21 04:52 AM |
| 1 | What’s the first contact info you ask for when making male friends?No need to ask when they come up in suggested users or when you first start typing their name if they’re in the same geographic area or share mutual friends. You people are weirdos. Do you not understand how social media algorithms work? You’re acting like it’s 1950 and people gotta get home telephone numbers and arrange plans over the landline 😂 | /r/askTRP | 04/01/21 04:18 AM |
| 0 | What’s the first contact info you ask for when making male friends?No, I never said I choose friends based on social media. I said I check out people’s social media to help see what they’re like. This is normal. If you think that’s weird then you’re probably a weird anti-social media person. | /r/askTRP | 04/01/21 02:34 AM |
| 1 | What’s the first contact info you ask for when making male friends?Why is it so weird? That’s literally what social media is. It’s a snapshot of your life. Of course I check people’s social media out. If you have social media that’s the norm. | /r/askTRP | 04/01/21 02:33 AM |
| -6 | What’s the first contact info you ask for when making male friends?I might be weird because whenever I meet new people I look them up on Facebook or Instagram to help see if they’re someone I want to be friends with. But yeah I guess phone number is the best first thing to exchange. | /r/askTRP | 04/01/21 12:09 AM |
| 3 | Can a woman be truly happy with a non alpha/semi-good looking guy?First two sentences are very true. But if that first guy was really alpha, the girl will never truly be happy with a nicer, non-threatening guy after being alpha widowed like that. | /r/askTRP | 03/01/21 07:55 PM |
| 1 | What is the real reason ex hates me?I drove myself crazy for over a year trying to understand a real reason why she made the decisions she did and what could’ve been different to save our relationship. It didn’t help that the guys she’s gotten with since me are genuinely not better than me in any logical measurable category. But like we said girls aren’t logical so thinking like this is pointless. Finally I’m starting to come to peace with not having to know exact reasons why stuff happened. Thanks. | /r/askTRP | 03/01/21 06:52 PM |
| 8 | My [26M] girlfriend [26F] flashed her boobs on New Years to her friends in front of me and proceeded to lie right away that it didn't happen.Dump her. At least temporarily. There has to be repercussions for that. | /r/askTRP | 03/01/21 06:08 PM |
| 0 | What is the real reason ex hates me?In most cases I guess you’re right but she has other “ex’s” (very short term) who she doesn’t hate the way she hates me. I explained in the post, that you didn’t read, that I am finally as over her as I will ever be. I have no bad feelings about her or the past anymore and my life is looking up again and I’m doing really well and feeling really good. Ironically I think it may be partly exactly this that makes her so angry and hateful, to see me succeeding and doing well when she used to doubt me… | /r/askTRP | 03/01/21 06:27 AM |
| 7 | How to make new friends?I'm going to keep it super simple for you: through work, a career, and joining activities/events. That's it, once you're well beyond the school years. It's not easy, but those are the places it happens. I honestly wish there was an app where you could match with potential friends in your area that have interests/qualities in common. I guess Bumble has this, but I find that "cool" and "successful" people don't resort to those types of things, so it kind of makes it hard to find people who you'd r… | /r/askTRP | 02/01/21 05:32 AM |
| 1 | What do you do to stave off the emptiness?I doubt it, lack of energy has a good chance of being low test but good energy with just feeling of emptiness in everything you do is probably something else. Some people’s minds are just more prone to depression and feeling like nothing matters I think. | /r/askTRP | 02/01/21 04:27 AM |
| 3 | Hey brothers i need your adviceIt really is. They want to hold onto your number as a way to keep you on their resume and or to be able to hit you up if they don’t find what they want from another guy. I told my ex to delete my number many times since she was the one who broke up with me and she refused every time. Even coworkers told her to delete it if she never wanted to talk to me again (which was her claim). She would make up some excuse to tell them as to why she wanted to keep it too. | /r/askTRP | 02/01/21 01:20 AM |
| 13 | Hey brothers i need your adviceWhy should she delete your number? Girls don’t usually delete your number even when they break up with you. My ex still has my number and we broke up 2 years ago even though I told her to delete it multiple times. They want to keep you there as an option in case other guys don’t work out. | /r/askTRP | 01/01/21 09:22 PM |
| 1 | "Self-improvement" is unattractive to girls. Prove me wrong.I think what women like varies. Some girls like the “baddest” guys in the environment... the dick, the cocky one who exudes an aura. Some other girls prefer the quieter, safe guy who blends in and doesn’t stand out socially. | /r/askTRP | 01/01/21 06:17 AM |
| 1 | If this overweight girl forcibly gives me head am I obligated to fuck her? I don’t want toRight. | /r/askTRP | 01/01/21 02:24 AM |
| 1 | If this overweight girl forcibly gives me head am I obligated to fuck her? I don’t want toI don’t want or need head from her. Just more of a question whether I should let it happen if she starts messing with me physically. I won’t. Thanks | /r/askTRP | 01/01/21 12:45 AM |
| 2 | If this overweight girl forcibly gives me head am I obligated to fuck her? I don’t want toHaha nope. Even though she’s one of the main employees and is liked socially. Easy way to end this conversation though, won’t even let her give me head, not worth all the trouble | /r/askTRP | 01/01/21 12:24 AM |
| 2 | If this overweight girl forcibly gives me head am I obligated to fuck her? I don’t want toI’m not worried about the coworkers part; people hook up here, it’s manageable. But I’m worried that it would all go foul if I would let her give head and then refuse to kiss or fuck her. So it’s best just to shut it all down. Thanks. | /r/askTRP | 01/01/21 12:10 AM |
| 6 | Have any of you actually faked it till you made it to success?I mean I’m still very early on in my life. But I can absolutely attest to the fact that faking it even if it isn’t totally “genuine” yet works. I fully admit I’m still weak inside, due to a number of things that have happened the past few years and the way I’ve allowed myself to be hurt by those things. But, I know how to act as alpha and cool as possible for my age. When other guys are moping around in public, out of shape, letting their vulnerable, depressive vibes be seen on full display, I’m… | /r/askTRP | 31/12/20 09:43 PM |
| 2 | What red pills were the toughest for you to swallow?The thought that my ex won’t feel karma (pain) in return for abandoning and screwing me over has been difficult to consider. I want so bad for her to feel the pain that I felt, the feeling of being left all alone after working hard for the plans you had, so that we could be “even”. But I don’t think she never did. She started fucking low value guys a month after she told me a bunch of lies and cut me off after we spent over a year together, and now she’s with another nice guy beta provider who s… | /r/askTRP | 31/12/20 07:04 PM |
| 13 | Am I the only person who is in severe scarcity/drought in these lockdown days?No you’re not the only one. I feel you man. I even do have friends, and have some girls who are always into me, but they’re never the ones I’m attracted to, and my daily life is still dominated by a feeling of emptiness and loneliness and a lack of belonging and purpose. Unfortunately I think that red pill perspective, while being important for future growth, has made me feel even more isolated lately, because most people are still blue pill. 95% of all the people around me don’t think like I do… | /r/askTRP | 31/12/20 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Silly gameAlright thanks. Likely both of those things you listed and more lol | /r/askTRP | 31/12/20 05:12 PM |
| 1 | Silly game“Being a coward, being a “nice guy” in order to get pussy is beta” This has me thinking, my ex literally called me a coward several months ago over text. At the time I thought she meant the typical definition of coward, aka afraid to do difficult things (which I took offense to because I’m not a coward that way... I’ve gone through no shortage of difficult and painful challenges the last few years and she knows that). What you said had me realizing that perhaps she meant it exactly like how you … | /r/askTRP | 31/12/20 04:52 PM |
| 8 | Does blue collar work lower your smv?Absolutely not. I know tons of blue collar guys and they are heavily desired. It's often those types of guys who are the most rugged, strong, and alpha. | /r/askTRP | 31/12/20 05:53 AM |
| 1 | Want to go monk mode butYou shouldn't be going monk mode, man. Just look to ways to improve, but don't isolate yourself. You should do what everyone else is doing unless you have a super exceptional reason not to (this is a teaching of Jordan Peterson in terms of ways to live the best life). Just work on yourself while remaining as normal and connected to people as possible. I doubt your next sexual encounter will come from a cold approach. It is much more likely to come from work, school, or something else you're invo… | /r/askTRP | 31/12/20 05:52 AM |
| 4 | What pictures to take for Tinder when all cool shit is illegal due to lockdown?If you’re hot then it doesn’t matter if it’s a mirror pic, exactly. If you’re not, then maybe it hurts you, idk. But yes I have done shirtless mirror pics. I’ve done ones in just boxer briefs. You’re pushing the rules there but I’ve mostly been fine as long as bulge isn’t crazy prominent. And if you have ever made a test account to see your male competition, you’ll see some of this stuff from the obviously good looking and not-afraid-to-be-very-sexual guys. | /r/askTRP | 30/12/20 03:51 AM |
| 2 | What pictures to take for Tinder when all cool shit is illegal due to lockdown?Bro. Mug shot Pic of your body. Could even go as far as underwear, I’ve done it, as long as it doesn’t get reported it can work wonders if you have a hot body. That’s it | /r/askTRP | 30/12/20 03:14 AM |
| 3 | PerfumePerfume?? | /r/askTRP | 30/12/20 03:12 AM |
| 1 | I have a lack of respect for females who like guys who don’t take care of themselves properlyYour thinking allows the feminization of society to continue. | /r/askTRP | 30/12/20 03:02 AM |
| 2 | Girl wants me to send her nudes but I’m self consciousI have to be honest, I would not do it since you admit you’re not in shape. If you were in awesome shape, then I would, because it’s something that would help you. But right now I’m not sure it would. Let her keep getting it in person. Say something like “You get all of me in real life” and then if she keeps arguing just don’t respond. | /r/askTRP | 30/12/20 01:50 AM |
| 6 | Make it and follow people you know and used to know, pussy | /r/askTRP | 30/12/20 12:32 AM |
| 1 | What am I supposed to do if no girl is as good as my ex that I can get?It’s hard to accept but you have to accept that you’re lying to yourself. It is actually very likely there are plenty of girls “better” than your ex out there, but you have to fix your depression first for yourself if you’re ever going to see them. Why did you love your ex so much? If it’s because of how she made you feel, that’s fair. But how does it feel that she abandoned you? Not good right? So she doesn’t deserve to take up any free space in your mind. If you loved her for who she was and h… | /r/askTRP | 30/12/20 12:02 AM |
| 7 | Plate thats obsessed w/ me stalks me on IG and sent me this shit lol. Unreal. Thoughts?Don’t block her, but just don’t give any response. Also, be more selective about what pages you follow. I follow some red pill stuff that isn’t too cringy and is a bit more humorous. This is a little cringy and excessive. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/20 11:02 PM |
| 1 | Heard that my ex’s new boyfriend’s parents are buying a HOUSE near the beach for them to stay inYeah I just hate how many don’t feel an obligation to discuss or come till a mutual understanding with the guy they might no longer have feelings for. They can just cheat and don’t see anything wrong with ending things that way instead of peacefully and with mutual understanding. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/20 04:06 PM |
| 2 | Friend tells me her (very popular) friend thinks I’m hot. How to proceed?Oh yeah I know it. I know not to get caught up with or catch any feelings or emotions here. This girl is def just one for the team and I will try to arrange something quickly but won’t care much either way. Thanks | /r/askTRP | 29/12/20 07:28 AM |
| 2 | Heard that my ex’s new boyfriend’s parents are buying a HOUSE near the beach for them to stay inGood stuff. And good humor too, thank you haha | /r/askTRP | 29/12/20 06:58 AM |
| 1 | Friend tells me her (very popular) friend thinks I’m hot. How to proceed?Thank you | /r/askTRP | 29/12/20 06:26 AM |
| 2 | Friend tells me her (very popular) friend thinks I’m hot. How to proceed?Alright. Girls are just girls. Thanks | /r/askTRP | 29/12/20 06:26 AM |
| 1 | Heard that my ex’s new boyfriend’s parents are buying a HOUSE near the beach for them to stay inI know she did, man. I’m just so fucked up mentally because she repeatedly told me I used HER because of how I neglected our relationship on occasion and wasn’t able to commit when she wanted me to. But I never lied to her when I told her I loved her and I bent over backwards many times to demonstrate that I cared about her and her entire life. I did mess up in the end, but she made me out to be a bad person when I know I was anything but that. I was open, honest, and genuine with her. If anyone… | /r/askTRP | 29/12/20 06:22 AM |
| 1 | Heard that my ex’s new boyfriend’s parents are buying a HOUSE near the beach for them to stay inIt’s just fucked that someone can show that they care about you like she did and tell you they’ll “always love you” like she did and then completely change and disregard the decency and genuine qualities she had. Me and her were together as two people, two souls. It wasn’t a purely sexual thing. We were each other’s rocks for a year too. I felt like even if we weren’t going to be together forever that we deserved proper closure and understanding and parting ways on a good note, but she failed to… | /r/askTRP | 29/12/20 04:54 AM |
| 1 | Heard that my ex’s new boyfriend’s parents are buying a HOUSE near the beach for them to stay in“Sad boi” hours are late-night hours when guys feel sad about losing something in life/being unfulfilled even when life is OK and good things are happening. Usually between midnight and 3 am, when you start thinking deeply about the entirety of life and how things you believed in aren’t reality, life is painful, etc. Even hard working and highly driven men are subject to sad boi hours every once in a while. Otherwise you aren’t human. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/20 04:34 AM |
| 1 | Heard that my ex’s new boyfriend’s parents are buying a HOUSE near the beach for them to stay inOh yeah I don’t deny the fact that my emotional and mental state is poor. Wrote all about that in another post of mine. I know someday I will be much stronger when my situation improves but for now sad boi hours are still a real thing lol. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/20 04:06 AM |
| 1 | Heard that my ex’s new boyfriend’s parents are buying a HOUSE near the beach for them to stay inI hope that people answer questions directly or respond to what I say directly. And for the most part it’s good. So I guess both is the best answer to your question. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/20 04:04 AM |
| 1 | Heard that my ex’s new boyfriend’s parents are buying a HOUSE near the beach for them to stay inI really think “getting over it” is a fantasy actually. There is no truly getting over something you can’t forget. Our brains don’t forget. They can only hide the thought as much as possible but it’s never 100%. Someone screws you over in life, it’s natural to want them to feel the pain in return. I know I’m arguing with you but that’s just what I believe. “Then what?” You ask? Well, if the “revenge” happens sooner rather than later, then the mind is put into a better spot and can feel better ab… | /r/askTRP | 29/12/20 03:54 AM |
| 0 | Heard that my ex’s new boyfriend’s parents are buying a HOUSE near the beach for them to stay inWhy aren’t they capable of truly connecting with a guy on a deeply emotional and existential level? Her and I had that type of connection at one point, or so I thought. If I had a problem, she was there and cared about me. She told me she was there for me and supported my dreams and goals. She was also my best friend in addition to the sexual relationship. She was actually a thoughtful and caring girl. And then she changed a lot, snobbed up. All her friends were bad influences, I’m sure that pla… | /r/askTRP | 29/12/20 03:50 AM |
| 0 | Heard that my ex’s new boyfriend’s parents are buying a HOUSE near the beach for them to stay inSomeone is projecting big time | /r/askTRP | 29/12/20 03:42 AM |
| 0 | Heard that my ex’s new boyfriend’s parents are buying a HOUSE near the beach for them to stay inHe can’t; the guy has never been in a gym, is 5’4”, doesn’t know struggle, has the personality of a snail, gives away his assets to a girl who likes him mostly for his family’s riches. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/20 03:41 AM |
| 1 | Heard that my ex’s new boyfriend’s parents are buying a HOUSE near the beach for them to stay inThe way you put it it’s like we’re supposed to feel good about being dumped and mistreated for hard work. I think I know what you mean to say but yes, of course I want her to do badly because she’s a shit person. Even a girl who knows her better now than I do told me she’s an absolute shitty girl. She is undeserving of receiving betabux. And I don’t think there’s anything wrong with wanting to succeed so greatly that she notices and feels just a tiny bit bad about missing out on both a good look… | /r/askTRP | 29/12/20 03:39 AM |
| -2 | Heard that my ex’s new boyfriend’s parents are buying a HOUSE near the beach for them to stay inYou’re right but I wouldn’t call it jealousy as much as anger. I’m not jealous of the guy. I would never want to be him. It’s better to work for everything you acquire. I’m angry that my ex gets everything without having to do anything for herself. She is completely undeserving. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/20 03:04 AM |
| -4 | Heard that my ex’s new boyfriend’s parents are buying a HOUSE near the beach for them to stay inLook I appreciate your response but I’ll tell you exactly why I care: because it’s fucked up and she doesn’t deserve it. People tell me that karma will get her back for how she treated and deserted me, but I unfortunately don’t really believe in karma and the only way to forget about her completely would be to have a lobotomy. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/20 02:52 AM |
| 7 | HOW to stop being so mentally weak and feeling disconnected from reality?I used to smoke but quit for good earlier this year which was a positive step. Very true. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/20 02:01 AM |
| 1 | Are girls attracted to self improvementThey are not attracted to you talking about it or showing it off in an obnoxious way. They are attracted to the end result. They don't to go through the process with you; they want you when you reach the "finish line" or at least have enough to offer to them to make them happy. | /r/askTRP | 28/12/20 08:59 PM |
| 18 | The red pill is brainwashing you guysYou are so right. I will say that it’s very helpful to be AWAKE to what red pill teaches. Understand how women operate and think. Because for many of us, before we discovered this perspective, we were oblivious to how females really operate. But ideally, everyone should read the sidebar and then LEAVE and go back to living their lives and not thinking about every scenario in an obsessive red pill way every day of our lives. Read sidebar, understand reality, and then live your life at peace again… | /r/askTRP | 28/12/20 05:20 AM |
| 1 | 20 year old LOSER needs some HELPIs that related to or to help with school? Yeah, I would get something else part time absolutely. Pizza delivery or anything like that. You can just tell them you can only work certain days or a certain amount of hours. Don’t waste your time completely, but I think it’d be a good way to make extra money and of course try to meet some girls. I worked at a local bakery from high school and into my first 2 years of college. The owner/manager hired a bunch of teenagers and young guys and girls. We w… | /r/askTRP | 28/12/20 05:10 AM |
| 3 | 20 year old LOSER needs some HELPDoesn’t sound like you’re working a job right now. You’re taking a gap year, so what else are you doing with yourself besides working out and self improving? You should absolutely get a job. Any time I haven’t been in school in my life I’ve worked a job otherwise I would go insane. Doesn’t matter what it is. Local food place, store, whatever. A place where there will be girls. Then you game them. Don’t listen to the cucks here who say “don’t get with girls you work with”...lol that’s maybe for s… | /r/askTRP | 28/12/20 04:55 AM |
| 9 | Is it bad if you hook up with a friend/coworker of a girl you’re after?Best thing is to not worry about it. Stoicism. You can’t control what the girl you hooked up with says. You are a man, you are stoic, and what happened is all good no matter what happens now. Good luck with the other girl, keep escalating. | /r/askTRP | 27/12/20 09:08 PM |
| 38 | How to post on social media without it being cringe?Yeah that’s fine man. But I personally would just do one permanent story for all your travels and maybe just one pic there per city. You don’t wanna overdo it because honestly no one cares. | /r/askTRP | 26/12/20 05:53 PM |
| 15 | What’s with this obsession with MILFs?Well when some milfs are more serious about hooking up with you than childish young girls who play games and can’t decide what they want it’s often justified lol | /r/askTRP | 26/12/20 05:51 PM |
| 1 | My brother plays video games all day and he's 26 with no job, job experience, or degree. What should I do?This situation reminds me of a guy I know who was actually my manager at my first job I had in high school. The guy was the manager of the business while his brother worked there and did very little. That brother, Chris, is exactly like your brother. Chris was in his late 20s and out of shape. Drank every day. Played video games every day. Had the comfort of going to work knowing it was mommy and daddy’s business and they took care of him. They bought him his own house so he would move out. But … | /r/askTRP | 26/12/20 06:07 AM |
| 0 | What % of men make a girl orgasm in their life?Just stop dude | /r/askTRP | 25/12/20 10:05 PM |
| 0 | What % of men make a girl orgasm in their life?Wrong, I wanted to talk numbers so if you don’t have any numbers then just be quiet. | /r/askTRP | 25/12/20 09:45 PM |
| 0 | What % of men make a girl orgasm in their life?Go away man. I asked a statistical question here and clearly some people think it was a curious question | /r/askTRP | 25/12/20 09:44 PM |
| 1 | She's dating a beta. It doesn't make sense. Help me understand or stop thisHer friends and coworkers literally told me detailed info about who she’s been with. I didn’t ask for it lol. But I agree I should’ve walked away and said I don’t wanna hear | /r/askTRP | 25/12/20 09:43 PM |
| 1 | It's crazy how many guys are sexually inactive ugly slobsI’ll be happy when I’m slaying as I should be | /r/askTRP | 25/12/20 09:18 PM |
| 2 | What % of men make a girl orgasm in their life?Wait what? I thought not giving a fuck was supposed to be a good thing. If you don’t give a fuck and that doesn’t get your girl to orgasm that sounds like a problem. In this context though I agree, you have to have a bit of intention and dedicated effort | /r/askTRP | 25/12/20 09:17 PM |
| 0 | What % of men make a girl orgasm in their life?No shit, that’s not the question. The question was what % of men do vs don’t lol, most guys aren’t I don’t think | /r/askTRP | 25/12/20 09:15 PM |
| 1 | What % of men make a girl orgasm in their life?Yeah I didn’t ask how to do it haha, I asked what % of men do we think make girls cum. Because so many women say they don’t ever reach orgasm which makes it sound like most men aren’t doing it. | /r/askTRP | 25/12/20 09:14 PM |
| -1 | What % of men make a girl orgasm in their life?I don’t know man, that’s kinda why I’m asking this but most young guys with very little experience probably aren’t, at least that’s what I think | /r/askTRP | 25/12/20 09:13 PM |
| 0 | What % of men make a girl orgasm in their life?There are plenty girls dating betas who certainly aren’t giving them orgasms. | /r/askTRP | 25/12/20 07:35 PM |
| 1 | She's dating a beta. It doesn't make sense. Help me understand or stop this😂😂😂 | /r/askTRP | 25/12/20 06:09 PM |
| 2 | What activities would you say have a lot of male betas and what activities scream beta?This 👍 “Activities” don’t matter nearly as much as SMV does. A young guy who is highly physically attractive but plays a bunch of video games and just does dumb stuff with friends will still be desired by a bunch of girls. You could spend your time doing “high value” things like traveling, ascending in your career, etc but if you aren’t sexually attractive you’re getting no girls. It’s a tough world but that’s the reality. That said, beta hobbies often include: doing video game channels/streams … | /r/askTRP | 25/12/20 06:01 PM |
| 1 | She's dating a beta. It doesn't make sense. Help me understand or stop thisDuh but the past is long in the past. A mistake doesn’t define your entire life one way or another | /r/askTRP | 25/12/20 03:10 PM |
| 1 | She's dating a beta. It doesn't make sense. Help me understand or stop thisI have as much stoicism with her as I’ll ever have but it’s not total because we actually loved each other back in the day, we both know it, and we’ll never forget it. Girls don’t think in terms of alpha or beta. I hurt her feelings and disappointed her, that’s why she left me. That’s all that matters. It just hurts that she tried to get back with me two more times and I wanted to as well but because I reacted in a childish and emotional way, she left entirely. | /r/askTRP | 25/12/20 07:20 AM |
| 1 | She's dating a beta. It doesn't make sense. Help me understand or stop thisThen herein lies my confusion again. I never truly “dated” this girl. We fucked for nearly a year exclusively, so call it what you want. But we only ever spent time at each other’s houses when our parents were gone. I didn’t let her come out to see me at college. I pushed her away multiple times when she was obsessed with me. I also acted beta in the end by making the “breakup” much worse than it needed to be because I dumped all my feelings out to her and begged for another shot to get things r… | /r/askTRP | 25/12/20 06:44 AM |
| 1 | It's crazy how many guys are sexually inactive ugly slobsI accept that I’m on my own now but I feel like I’ll never ever experience again the feeling of laying with a girl after having sex and us telling each other “I love you” and then falling asleep together. Say it was fake all along, I don’t know, I don’t care, it was real to me at the time and I don’t think there’s anything that feels better in all of life than that which means it’s all downhill from here. My emotional fitness is poor and I’ve been avoiding meditation and other monk-like approach… | /r/askTRP | 25/12/20 06:27 AM |
| 1 | It's crazy how many guys are sexually inactive ugly slobsIt already killed me because I didn’t know red pill when we broke up and we both dragged it out a long time while I was going through rough times and she was just playing different guys me included. I’ve been in terrible places mentally. I’ll still never truly get over it because so much of it was my fault and I messed up. | /r/askTRP | 25/12/20 05:53 AM |
| 1 | It's crazy how many guys are sexually inactive ugly slobsWell I get that but with COVID right now nobody is going out here. And that’s not my style of thing to do and other guys who I like and admire don’t do that either; they get with girls they meet through work and school. So right now there’s nothing I can do to not be isolated. I’ve tried but nothing changes because I have nothing here. Only child too. The few high value guys I talk to are hours away. I guess I’m just stuck with nothing until I apply to the military and move away to a new arena t… | /r/askTRP | 25/12/20 05:14 AM |
| 1 | It's crazy how many guys are sexually inactive ugly slobsThank you but I am not into “going out” culture and nobody I know really is either. I’ve always preferred getting with people I know from work or school but the only girls I have connection to anymore are from work and it’s very few. I get matches on Tinder with cute girls but they never go anywhere. I’m just so upset that I bloomed late and have no social circle. Next year I plan to join the military with my college degree but until then I’m absolutely miserable while my ex dates a beta provide… | /r/askTRP | 25/12/20 04:50 AM |
| 1 | It's crazy how many guys are sexually inactive ugly slobsI could’ve been a low value man. I was on that trajectory but thankfully I broke out of my shell late in college and started taking real care of myself, looking good, and accomplishing things. But it was kinda too late. As I said I have no social circle anymore. I isolated myself. And then depression, porn addiction too, bad breakup, all kinds of stuff that has damaged my mind. But from the outside I know I still look pretty good; I put on a confident and controlled demeanor and personality. But… | /r/askTRP | 25/12/20 04:25 AM |
| 1 | It's crazy how many guys are sexually inactive ugly slobsI am not getting ass right now. That’s why. Because as a 7ish with a good body, great teeth, and a good face I honestly do feel that I deserve to be, and I of course have in the past. But I bloomed late. I’m only borderline “alpha” because I refused to become a loser who wastes time doing low value things like video games or drinking. I’ve been with a few women in my life, all in shape and cute. But right now I have nothing because after graduating college (and wasting college too, btw) I have n… | /r/askTRP | 25/12/20 04:03 AM |
| 1 | It's crazy how many guys are sexually inactive ugly slobsWell I mean it’s just true. The last part. I work and interact with a lot of very low value men right now and it just kind of annoys me. Some of them complain that they have nobody; others never speak about it. | /r/askTRP | 25/12/20 03:51 AM |
| 0 | She's dating a beta. It doesn't make sense. Help me understand or stop thisYeah this entire community is beta then because we use the terms alpha and beta all the time. Nice try but illogical here because this is where we CAN speak in these terms honestly. I make comparisons in my head and in words in a screen because as I said after a while it’s natural to question things. It’s natural to question things when you feel like you’ve been doing the right things for a while yet you feel isolated, you have no one to message at night, no attractive girl hitting you up, etc. … | /r/askTRP | 25/12/20 03:34 AM |
| 1 | She's dating a beta. It doesn't make sense. Help me understand or stop thisNo, he truly is. Some guys really are. Most guys really are, we know this | /r/askTRP | 25/12/20 03:07 AM |
| 1 | She's dating a beta. It doesn't make sense. Help me understand or stop thisBecause I want to be a master of understanding how they all operate. There aren't other girls around me this moment who I haven't already been with or who are worth fucking. I'm just curious about this situation because it's sad to watch her date a beta provider like this lol | /r/askTRP | 25/12/20 02:49 AM |
| -6 | She's dating a beta. It doesn't make sense. Help me understand or stop thisBecause at the end of the day some analysis is necessary. If you go a while acting alpha and things still don't make sense to you, then it should be discussed. | /r/askTRP | 25/12/20 02:34 AM |
| -3 | She's dating a beta. It doesn't make sense. Help me understand or stop thisYeah but I assure you only on here. Come on man, sometimes we have to be bluntly honest about the situation on here. These are thoughts I keep within. Outwardly around others I've been doing a good job being alpha the last many months, and because of that, I notice situations like these that are atrocious to me and that I can't understand. Anytime I see a girl dating a weak beta guy and not getting fucked by alphas I just shake my head, it's honestly just disappointing now that I understand wome… | /r/askTRP | 25/12/20 02:10 AM |
| -7 | She's dating a beta. It doesn't make sense. Help me understand or stop thisI want to bang her to show her how a real alpha behaves again and to any objective observer I should be fucking her. I don't let this show around them, though. I only speak about it here. Her "bf" is the typical nice guy beta who happens to be cute in the face. Twinkly eyed. Younger than she is - I am older. I have him beat with body, teeth, attitude and personality, intelligence, on and on. I have cougars hitting on me while this 21 year old girl dates this beta guy. It's sickening. | /r/askTRP | 25/12/20 01:38 AM |
| 2 | What happens to guys who peak in their 20s and never do anything?They end up as the entertaining 40/50 year old guys with great stories who still drink and talk about younger women. But they don't have much; just a humorous personality and they might be cool to hang out with. Probably get fat and out of shape too. | /r/askTRP | 25/12/20 12:39 AM |
| 4 | Girls who are unhappy with their lifeMost girls are unhappy with their lives. Don't listen to what they say; watch what they do. They may say they're happy. When a girl says she's happy it usually means she's deluding herself. Her behavior will suggest otherwise. I work with a 52 year old woman. Strong, honest, knows her roles. She has told me so much truth about female behavior, one of the things being that women are hardly ever happy and they don't know what they want from hour to hour. There are very few girls who are completely… | /r/askTRP | 25/12/20 12:36 AM |
| 1 | Why do some women date weak men?I don’t understand why some young girls date beta guys basically only for their very cute face. Blue eyes, great hair, yes. But dumb, beta personality, weak, oblivious to reality, etc. The girl controls him totally, it’s so lopsided. Gets to meet the guy’s family and everything, get perceived “value” from him, but he is the feminine in the relationship and doesn’t know how to fuck or make her scream. I don’t know how long girls can go dating a guy like this. I’ve seen it go on for a year sometim… | /r/askTRP | 24/12/20 10:32 PM |
| 36 | When they text "miss you" or "wish you were here"Love it. Tell ‘em you’re coming over or tell ‘em to meet you somewhere for a date. That’ll demonstrate very quickly whether they want to see you or if they’re just playing you for attention. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/20 09:29 PM |
| 3 | Have any of you experience a big increase in your SMV?Yeah I’ll never be a loudmouth extrovert and I like that I’m a little on the quieter side too. Can definitely work in our favor of escalating without being obnoxious about it. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/20 09:26 PM |
| 3 | Have any of you experience a big increase in your SMV?Yeah I’m lucky to be above average and not even single digit body fat yet. Prob about 15% but in good shape, abs visible. But sadly I’m not a slut when I feel like I should be. But it’s almost certainly bc I’ve lived a blue pilled life and was always reserved and shy. I’m teaching myself red pill and learning how females operate. I know I’ve had plenty of girls come onto me in the past, attractive and not, I was just too stupid to know how to connect with them sexually. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/20 09:02 PM |
| 8 | Have any of you experience a big increase in your SMV?Yet girls make fun of guys who workout to get chiseled muscles and claim they want someone soft and comfy to cuddle with. lol | /r/askTRP | 24/12/20 07:41 PM |
| 1 | How difficult does it become for a girl to leave a guy once she’s become close to his family & friends?Yeah but if she ain’t “done” yet then it seems very difficult to infiltrate and take her attention away from a guy who she’s gotten very comfortable with. I guess something has to “happen.” | /r/askTRP | 24/12/20 05:36 PM |
| -3 | Circumcision?Stopped reading at “there are no pros”. There are. You can think they don’t outweigh the cons and that’s fair. But just because nature is one way doesn’t mean that’s the best way. Nature is not perfect and sometimes it’s not even good. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/20 04:52 AM |
| -1 | Circumcision?Nope I am right | /r/askTRP | 24/12/20 04:49 AM |
| 3 | Alright I've been lurking long enough and need adviceYes. It is natural to be angry and want revenge. I know it. I’ve been there. People will tell you to forget about it and move on. But you won’t forget about it for a good while. And that’s ok. You’re gonna be hurt and angry for a while and you’re gonna think about it all the time. But your REVENGE will not come in the form of telling her parents or anyone about her true nature, or doing her a wrong. As bad as you want to do that, it will only make you look like a butthurt loser. Your revenge wil… | /r/askTRP | 24/12/20 04:46 AM |
| 4 | Is it a sign that people in your workplace don’t respect you and look at you as beta if they never move out your way?No, I actually think if anything people who don’t move at all when they see someone coming are the fucking beta males either pretending they’re alpha or just with a total lack of common awareness. I work with two fat guys who do this. Total betas. One’s borderline autistic and the other thinks he’s hot shit except he’s fat and creepy and the girls are weirded out by him. You are overanalyzing this. It has nothing to do with you and everything to do with the fact they’re just dumb or stuck up. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/20 04:38 AM |
| -5 | Circumcision?Stopped reading at the first sentence which is total absurdity | /r/askTRP | 24/12/20 04:32 AM |
| 1 | Circumcision?... that I gladly welcome. I would be very upset if my parents had me circumcised. It’s cleaner and preferable in my opinion. I get there are reasons against it but to me the pros outweigh the cons. There are very good reasons to do it. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/20 04:31 AM |
| 0 | Circumcision?Bunch of bullshit. Implies that ejaculation is difficult if you’re circumcised. Let me and millions of men say, this is not the case. There are pros and cons to circumcision but circumcised guys should have no issues orgasming. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/20 04:30 AM |
| 2 | Circumcision?He doesn’t. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/20 04:28 AM |
| 21 | Is it normal for women to look 10x better on social media nowadays?Yes. Girl I know posts Snapchat selfies with filters on occasion. They make her look kinda cute, good skin. See her in person. Absolutely ugly. Could pass for a 5 with filters; 2 in person. If a girl is using a lot of filters or makeup I already know she’s not very attractive naturally or there’d be no reason to do that. The thing that’s always obvious to me now is that if she posts only face pics (Tinder, Instagram, whatever) it means she’s fat and knows it. Otherwise no reason NOT to show off … | /r/askTRP | 24/12/20 03:37 AM |
| 2 | EX LTR reached out after a few months of no contact after breakup to tell me shes sorry but also tells me she's seeing someone else. Why is she reaching out?I do believe it fucks them up a little and makes them revisit it later. There’s no doubt it’s very hard for us guys to act indifferent though if we were still blue pilled and fell for the girl and thought we could fix things if we just talked it through, promised things, etc. And girls love to make you think if you just do something to fix the problem they’ll stay with you. My ex literally told me I needed to do certain things and I listened to her and tried, and then was shattered when she ghos… | /r/askTRP | 24/12/20 02:50 AM |
| 1 | EX LTR reached out after a few months of no contact after breakup to tell me shes sorry but also tells me she's seeing someone else. Why is she reaching out?Right, that’s what I meant. I had an ex come back to me EVEN after I acted like a beta pussy in our relationship because I guess she liked certain things about me and wasn’t getting it from anyone else. She reached out actually and made me think she wanted me back. Even said “I want you back.” I made the mistake of giving it a shot, still weak beta, and ended up getting played and then abandoned. She wants validation. They don’t love us, they only love how we can make them feel at a given time. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/20 12:39 AM |
| 3 | How did you get out of the anger phase?Lift hard, eat right, do fun stuff, make some friends, Tinder, and have a plan for what you’re going to do next. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/20 12:34 AM |
| 2 | How difficult does it become for a girl to leave a guy once she’s become close to his family & friends?Yeah the situation I was asking about though, the guy seems pretty high smv to the point where he might be the highest value guy she’ll ever have a shot with. He’s naturally attractive without having to do much work and he’s lucky to have a high value family and siblings too. I feel like she won’t leave him because she might realize he’s her best shot to get out of the underworld that she’s from and marry up significantly. I think it’s more likely that he dumps her than vice versa. Or she gets c… | /r/askTRP | 24/12/20 12:11 AM |
| 2 | How difficult does it become for a girl to leave a guy once she’s become close to his family & friends?Thanks for the explanation. Sorry you gave that advice to beta provider though because I am not him. I am closer to chad thundercock but still reading the sidebar, wanting to understand what would make a girl leave a beta provider after getting close with the family and friends. This helped even though I’m not him. And needless to say I will not be passing this advice on to him haha. If the opportunity arises to bed who he thinks is his girl while he’s away at college I won’t hesitate. | /r/askTRP | 23/12/20 11:23 PM |
| 1 | How difficult does it become for a girl to leave a guy once she’s become close to his family & friends?This isn’t my girl. It’s a friend of friend and I want to know how females treat this type of situation so that I’m better prepared for future relationships I have. I’m single af and in a serious red pill learning phase lol | /r/askTRP | 23/12/20 09:31 PM |
| 3 | EX LTR reached out after a few months of no contact after breakup to tell me shes sorry but also tells me she's seeing someone else. Why is she reaching out?This is one of the best ways I’ve seen this explained. If I only understood this in my past and not let a girl bring me down...damn would things have been better. Great explanation. All guys should be taught this. | /r/askTRP | 23/12/20 09:28 PM |
| 8 | EX LTR reached out after a few months of no contact after breakup to tell me shes sorry but also tells me she's seeing someone else. Why is she reaching out?You are so lucky that you handled everything as well as you did and didn’t beg and plead, didn’t drag it out, etc. Not many of us can say that about our past breakups. She sent you this because her mind is a mess, she might still want you but doesn’t know what she wants, and maybe just wants you to validate her. Do not respond. NOTHING. Not a word. If she changes her mind in the future and tries to get you back, then you can entertain that. But this text, just ignore it completely. You will be i… | /r/askTRP | 23/12/20 09:07 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on joining the militaryDepends what type of job position you end up in. US Army can be either OK or absolutely terrible depending on where you’d be sent and what you’d be doing. If nothing is going well for you though right now, the military is often a good option. As long as you’re not a complete dumb fuck, you will have low living expenses and a good way to build up some routine and assets and then you could go to college after you get out. If you don’t have any way to pay for college right now then you shouldn’t re… | /r/askTRP | 23/12/20 08:03 PM |
| 9 | Can a 22 years old virgin become player?Yes. Read entire sidebar | /r/askTRP | 23/12/20 06:36 PM |
| 1 | Bald guys, is being rich and jacked required to even exist in the dating market?The issue with the hair systems is living a lie, it’s not your real hair and therefore you’re lying about your genetic makeup to people and women. I’m 24 and basically completely bald on top. My dad has worn hair systems his whole life and it’s funny... my mom didn’t even know at first when he and her made me. But it makes me wonder if she still would’ve stayed with my dad if she knew he was bald at that age. I’ve decided not to go the hair system route even though it’d be my only option of “tre… | /r/askTRP | 23/12/20 05:46 PM |
| 3 | I'm 17 and about to get braces. Realistically, is this gonna lower my SMV with girls for the next year I have them for, or is it all just game?Barely. From a distance, not at all. They’re clear plastic trays. Differences from braces: they push your teeth instead of pull them; you can take them out to eat so you can still eat whatever you want but you must have discipline to wear them 22 hrs a day, might work slightly slower than traditional braces. I was offered braces or Invisalign for the same price so I went with Invisalign, knowing I could be disciplined and wear them. It’s not too difficult, and you can drink pretty much anything … | /r/askTRP | 23/12/20 12:04 AM |
| 2 | I'm 17 and about to get braces. Realistically, is this gonna lower my SMV with girls for the next year I have them for, or is it all just game?Braces for sure. See if you could do Invisalign though which would be much less visible and removable. You have to be more disciplined with it though. I did Invisalign for two years in college and have a buddy who did it too and he absolutely slayed... the plastic in his mouth didn’t lower his smv. I’m very glad I did it because my teeth also weren’t terrible before but now girls crush on my teeth all the time. And, you are making an investment in improving your smile and smv. Do it, braces or I… | /r/askTRP | 22/12/20 11:04 PM |
| -1 | Suggestions for what to do on a solo vacationForgot to mention I don’t drink and have no interest in bar girls lol. But thanks for the suggestion | /r/askTRP | 22/12/20 10:47 PM |
| 8 | I haven't got any invitations to a New Year's partyYour inability to be OK with being alone in your home shows you have something you need to work on. Use Tinder maybe, see if someone wants to spend the night with you in a hotel or at their place. If not, not a big deal man. Lots of us will be alone on New Years. It doesn't mean anything in the grand scheme of things. | /r/askTRP | 22/12/20 08:56 PM |
| 2 | Question about Snapchat and bitchesYeah, exactly. Everyone you've fucked came onto you first. If they aren't hitting you up first on snapchat, then they are just either too distant, busy, or otherwise uninterested. If you really want to fuck any of em you maybe could with a bit of initiative, but that's your choice. | /r/askTRP | 22/12/20 08:05 PM |
| 5 | help!!!I wouldn’t worry yet. Periods can be a little irregular. Smarten up immediately though man. You can literally walk into a gas station and buy condoms, there’s no reason to say you were caught off guard without them. | /r/askTRP | 22/12/20 07:42 AM |
| 3 | Is an RP lifestyle even possible and sustainable for any kind of public figure in today's culture?Not a Mike Pence fan but gotta admit I’m more a fan after learning this. Smart guy. | /r/askTRP | 22/12/20 06:06 AM |
| 1 | If hypergamy calls for woman to date across and up, what makes them downgrade to someone who is lesser which is what you often find after a relationship. Does it come down to perceived worth?Because females don’t make decisions based on logic or objective evaluation. They make them on emotions, and sexual perception. If she moves from a one guy to another guy, she perceives that new guy to be higher in SMV. On paper he might not be better than the previous guy. In fact, he could be worse in pretty much every category. But if she perceives him to be a more alpha guy, or sometimes even just that he has the potential to be a more alpha guy, her decision is justified in her mind. From a… | /r/askTRP | 22/12/20 05:56 AM |
| 1 | Dead inside and don’t know where to start to improve my mental stateThanks for your reply. | /r/askTRP | 22/12/20 03:35 AM |
| 0 | What does it mean to be an attractive asshole?Sometimes true. But not always. I can attest to the fact that I was called a harasser and manipulator by one of my ex’s, and I’m far from ugly. I’m lucky to be a decent looking guy, great teeth, predator eyes, good body. But my past beta and obsessive behavior is what was my issue. | /r/askTRP | 22/12/20 02:48 AM |
| 6 | Question about Snapchat and bitchesSome of these answers are whack. The truth is if a girl really wants to fuck you, she isn’t gonna wait in silence until you approach her. She’s gonna see your Snapchat post and she’s gonna reach out to you to get your dick in her asap. So the tough truth is yeah man, if they all just watch your story but do no reaching out, that means none of them are dying to fuck you. That doesn’t mean none of them will, but it just means you’d have to do a lot of work for that to happen. | /r/askTRP | 22/12/20 02:34 AM |
| 1 | Dead inside and don’t know where to start to improve my mental stateYeah, I know this is a very long post. I’m sorry. But in simple terms I guess what I need help on is if i need to fix my mental health first in order to fix my situation in life to what I want it to be, or if I should just make a big and bold change with my life situation in hopes of that fixing my mental place. I just feel sort of handcuffed and afraid of what to do right now. | /r/askTRP | 22/12/20 12:05 AM |
| 2 | Dead inside and don’t know where to start to improve my mental stateAh my bad. I didn’t really think it would be a big deal but I guess it’s better to be safe. | /r/askTRP | 21/12/20 10:08 PM |
| 1 | Dead inside and don’t know where to start to improve my mental stateJust to give you a sense of who I am, if it helps to see what I look like, this is me: https://imgur.com/a/EQE08uW | /r/askTRP | 21/12/20 09:55 PM |
| 1 | Dead inside and don’t know where to start to improve my mental stateJust to give you a sense of who I am, if it helps to see what I look like, this is me: https://imgur.com/a/EQE08uW | /r/askTRP | 21/12/20 09:54 PM |
| 1 | Dead inside and don’t know where to start to improve my mental stateJust to give you a sense of who I am, if it helps to see what I look like, this is me: https://imgur.com/a/EQE08uW | /r/askTRP | 21/12/20 09:54 PM |
| 1 | Should I Do NoFap if I don’t get Laid?Yeah, I mean I think the truth lies somewhere in between. No fap (ever) is overboard; ejaculating twice every day (not sex) is overboard. Both will cause issues. I think there's a healthy range somewhere like once or twice a week maybe. | /r/askTRP | 21/12/20 08:36 PM |
| 8 | How do guys manage to catch up on missed social developmental milestones?Yeah, exactly. Can’t lie outrageously, but you can exaggerate things in your head to help get your confidence up. I still do it. Because if you go around, looking to do new things, if all you’re thinking is “Omg I’ve never done this, I have no idea what I’m doing, I’m a lost cause, I’m scared” then nothing will go very well. To a reasonable degree you should tell your mind that it’s cool, it’s just life, you’ve seen other people do it and you’re a person so you can do it. | /r/askTRP | 21/12/20 12:06 AM |
| 169 | How do guys manage to catch up on missed social developmental milestones?My approach might be controversial. Pretend. Pretend you have had these experiences, even though you know you haven’t. But, the past only exists in your mind, so technically you can manufacture whatever ideas in your mind you want. Just pretend you have held a girl’s hand, talked to a girl, had a friend, have accomplished something, have been recognized for something. It might help with your confidence. In a way I’ve kind of done this with certain things. When I first got with the second girl I … | /r/askTRP | 20/12/20 08:56 PM |
| 1 | Instagram commentsA lot of alpha guys do this though with their LTRs, even if it’s not good. Sometimes they get away with it. | /r/askTRP | 20/12/20 03:43 AM |
| 3 | Instagram commentsAbsolutely not. Never. Unless you’re in a LTR and wanna be all cute and stuff; maybe then it’s acceptable. The guys who do that will never get close to fucking her. They’re doing that in hopes that she’ll notice their kindness and let them fuck; she notices them as weirdos and will have no sexual attraction for them. Don’t do it. I don’t even like girl’s pictures on Instagram most of the time. Occasionally I’ll throw in a like, but not in every picture. | /r/askTRP | 20/12/20 02:56 AM |
| 3 | Need Advice for an Upcoming Hookup ASAPWeak shit | /r/askTRP | 20/12/20 02:51 AM |
| 1 | Girl said she doesn’t give head.... what do I do?One of my exes didn’t really like to give head and refused to let me teach her. Sex was otherwise still great and so I didn’t make that the final straw. So you do what you want man. | /r/askTRP | 20/12/20 02:42 AM |
| -1 | Dumping LTR she threaten self-harmDude some of these comments are not great. Sure she probably won’t do it because girls actually go through with it at a way lower rate than men but don’t be stupid. Have conversations with her to the point necessary to perhaps get her to a better place where she isn’t going to do anything. Or like someone said reach out to a friend or family member. | /r/askTRP | 20/12/20 12:17 AM |
| 1 | Do most typical young guys care about a girl’s past enough to ask about it early on?I mean, it could give you a better taste of what her nature is. If she’s only been in 1 or 2 relationships vs. been with dozens. But you’re right hardly any girls will be honest anyway so I guess it doesn’t really do much good. But you’re red pill. I wonder what more blue pill/oblivious guys do. | /r/askTRP | 20/12/20 12:00 AM |
| 33 | What is it about the stoic vibe that women like so much?I mean not exactly. Everybody knows a not so good looking guy who is funny and exciting because he has to be because he wasn’t blessed genetically. And if you’re jacked but act all emotional and like a woman that’s unattractive. So the stoic personality itself does mean a lot. | /r/askTRP | 18/12/20 01:36 AM |
| 3 | Why is the average girl so boring yet entitled. They literally do no self improvementYeah. Some guys don’t have to lift to get with girls. Some are blessed with great looks, grow up in the cool cliques, and as long as they have good game and do fun stuff they don’t have to workout. If you got all kinds of girls just like that you probably wouldn’t lift either even though it can only be a good thing. | /r/askTRP | 18/12/20 12:07 AM |
| 3 | Why is the average girl so boring yet entitled. They literally do no self improvementThis is really the epitome of neglect of human responsibility too. It’s sickening when I see this. When you have a child that child is supposed to become the pillar of your life. You are supposed to do everything possible to raise that child as strongly as you can. And girls who do the bare minimum for their children and still allow mindless scrolling and time-wasting to dominate their daily lives are just sick. Bad mothers. | /r/askTRP | 17/12/20 11:59 PM |
| -2 | Bet I am not the only one with this dilemmaSorry your experience was a bad one. Sadly, I too well know the pain of lack of marriage. Marriage is a good thing for society. For some people it doesn’t work out the first time. But every effort should be made to try to make it work. | /r/askTRP | 17/12/20 09:28 PM |
| 5 | Bet I am not the only one with this dilemmaBecause marriage is the pillars on which children are best raised. Some of you people here are just nuts. Yes, we need to be really careful about who we marry the way women are now...but that doesn’t mean marriage is bad or unnecessary. It’s good and necessary. Please stop sharing such awful advice. If a guy meets one who proves she’s worth it after a lot of planning and thought, don’t sit here and tell him not to. OP, please don’t listen to this. | /r/askTRP | 17/12/20 06:11 PM |
| 2 | Few rapid fire questions based on recent thoughts I hadLol thanks | /r/askTRP | 17/12/20 04:38 PM |
| 1 | Few rapid fire questions based on recent thoughts I hadOk. 2. Yeah some of the girls I’ve asked that seem to be the extremely entitled bitchy despite not doing anything interesting types. I guess it makes sense why they get so pissy because they just scroll and eat all day. 3. Yeah I do have to work with her, so I can’t be straight up honest that she needs to lose weight unfortunately. She’ll just have to figure it out on her own lol | /r/askTRP | 17/12/20 04:37 PM |
| -1 | Bet I am not the only one with this dilemmaOnce you find what you want you choose it. Don’t be retarded. Be a man and settle if that time and opportunity has presented itself. Reminds me of Jordan Peterson saying something like the man becomes a hero when he has access to many women but in the end chooses one. | /r/askTRP | 17/12/20 03:27 PM |
| 0 | What Red pill Has Surprised You the Most on Your JourneyIdk why you’re still replying this many hours later... nobody is this butthurt about anything man | /r/askTRP | 17/12/20 01:16 AM |
| 3 | What are the biggest female lies you have figured out so far?“Sorry I was busy” yep such bullshit | /r/askTRP | 16/12/20 06:44 PM |
| 3 | What Red pill Has Surprised You the Most on Your JourneyThat’s what I was saying bro. You agree with me. I never denied that girls default to taller height; I just meant I disagree with the very gloomy attitude that some perpetuate that if you’re on the shorter side you’re screwed. You’re not. You can and will still find girls for you. And it does no good to let yourself feel down about not being tall. Just as you said... have to learn to be comfortable in your own skin and develop other high value traits. If someone points out that you’re shorter yo… | /r/askTRP | 16/12/20 09:05 AM |
| 2 | What Red pill Has Surprised You the Most on Your JourneyYou’re right. But as red pill teaches we aren’t to be overly concerned with the fact that a girl could leave us because she finds someone genetically better. It can happen and we need to know that’s a possibility but not let that damage our stoicism and confidence. Personality is huge among other social styles that determine who fucks who. I knew a girl recently who wanted to get with a 6’0”+ athletic guy with a good face and big social clout, but she as a quiet 5 would never even be on his rada… | /r/askTRP | 16/12/20 07:27 AM |
| 1 | What Red pill Has Surprised You the Most on Your JourneyYeah. One of my work managers is a good looking fit woman in her 50s who hits on me, but she brought her husband in and he’s 5’5” and jacked. Us short guys can do just fine if we’re fit and have good faces and act alpha | /r/askTRP | 16/12/20 06:08 AM |
| 3 | What Red pill Has Surprised You the Most on Your JourneyYeah, sure, Tinder. But this is a terrible way to approach this. I know tall guys who get nothing and short guys who get a lot. There’s so much more that goes into it. I ain’t worried about the minority of girls that demand 6 feet and nobody should be. Can’t change your height anyway. | /r/askTRP | 16/12/20 04:10 AM |
| 2 | What Red pill Has Surprised You the Most on Your JourneyYeah. I wish I had a dedicated and intense gym partner too but literally every guy I’ve vetted to possibly go workout with me turns out to be a lazy distracted bitch. I’m the most intense and dedicated to physical fitness of all my close acquaintances which is unfortunate because I haven’t even gotten the greatest results so far. | /r/askTRP | 16/12/20 03:59 AM |
| 13 | What Red pill Has Surprised You the Most on Your JourneyThat’s true. I know an overweight girl who always tells my about this guy she’s dated for a while, she showed me pics of him then and he’s tall and decent looking and I’m honestly thinking to myself “why is he doing this lol”. Idk, in my red pill opinion, fucking fatties sexually validates their fatness and that is not OK unless you’re in love with them as a person and want to spend life together. Too many guys fuck fat girls they shouldn’t. It lowers the quality of females because then they hav… | /r/askTRP | 16/12/20 03:56 AM |
| 1 | What Red pill Has Surprised You the Most on Your JourneyI’m not skinny. I’ve been working out for years and have around 15% body fat but yeah my goal is really simply to build more muscle and lose more body fat. I don’t want to look stupid big; gotta keep the body fat on the lower side because too bulky looks bad on a short guy. But definitely gonna up calories to over 3000 yeah thanks | /r/askTRP | 16/12/20 03:48 AM |
| 9 | What Red pill Has Surprised You the Most on Your JourneyI disagree with the very gloomy look on height. Yes it’s true very hot girls who feel very entitled will demand tall guys. But that’s a small minority of girls. There are plenty of average in shape short girls who get with shorter guys. As long as you’re taller than them and cute you’re good, especially if you have friends and good connections. My ex went from me (her first) to several tall guys who weren’t worth shit and couldn’t fuck and therefore were very short term to another 5’6” guy like … | /r/askTRP | 16/12/20 03:45 AM |
| 5 | What Red pill Has Surprised You the Most on Your JourneyNeed some advice with the fitness approach here. Short guy, 5’6”, 142 lbs, in athletic shape but not popping muscles or veins despite working out 5 days a week for 3 years. Kinda hit a plateau; also diet sucks. I’ve got a somewhat attractive face (7ish) so I’m lucky to have at least that. But the only in shape girls I’ve been with are two ex’s I dated. I have fat girls all over me allll the time but I can’t do it. And I also have middle aged moms hitting on me all the time. But as for fit and at… | /r/askTRP | 16/12/20 02:20 AM |
| 25 | What Red pill Has Surprised You the Most on Your JourneyI’ve gotta say the thing that shocked me the most that I was oblivious to before was how easily and how much dick even average to below-average girls can get. As long as they’re normal weight and not fat. When my ex of 1 year, who was in shape but only a 4-5, ghosted me, I figured she’d get with another guy at some point. That’s all I was thinking. But no... she fucked at least 6-10 other guys in the next handful of months, some of whom were her “friends” who she decided to have sex with. When I… | /r/askTRP | 16/12/20 01:37 AM |
| 3 | Can you tolerate women lying?Some people barely ever lie and some people lie all the time so that can be a huge difference. | /r/askTRP | 15/12/20 08:01 PM |
| 1 | Can you tolerate women lying?If you want her around you better not put her down for being dishonest lol. I called my ex girlfriend a bullshitter repeatedly because she was a huge bullshitter, and that quickly turned her against me. I’d say retain your stoicism, go off of what she does and not what she says, and be ok with ignoring her/leaving until she makes up for bad behavior like lying. | /r/askTRP | 15/12/20 08:00 PM |
| 3 | "Self-improvement" is unattractive to girls. Prove me wrong.Except "status" is arguable there lol. Some of those pretty boys can be most retarded, incompetent guys out there and still get all the girls due to nothing more than a pretty face lol | /r/askTRP | 14/12/20 02:25 AM |
| 0 | Age disconnect issues?She was actually the first one who talked about settling. As an 18 year old girl. With me, who was 21. She wanted babies. But these girls are dumb and hormone ravaged. They don't know what they want lol. Then after I explained to her that no, we have to be older and established and married and living on our own first, she got upset and offended and the resentment built up. Then we broke up and I wanted to get her back and she cut me out of her life. lol | /r/askTRP | 13/12/20 08:15 PM |
| 2 | I wanna bang a fattie but I don'tFunny story. Met a girl in the most random way last month. She was driving in front of me and hit a deer. It was pretty bad, killed the deer. I stopped to make sure her car was OK. My friend who was driving behind me also stopped. We talked with her, car had minor damage. My wingman who is a bit of a doofus said she should get my number in case she needs a witness for insurance. I gave her my number, thought she was a little cute but she was wearing big clothing so couldn't tell. She texts me la… | /r/askTRP | 13/12/20 07:50 PM |
| 0 | "Self-improvement" is unattractive to girls. Prove me wrong.It's not bullshit. Just accept that you can be wrong on something, jesus. And stick to the general topic at hand rather than thinking you can dig for personal stuff when you know nothing about me or what I do. | /r/askTRP | 13/12/20 07:34 PM |
| 1 | "Self-improvement" is unattractive to girls. Prove me wrong.She's a hater bc I fucked her when I was a blue pilled beta and disappointed her, and now I've taken things way up a notch and I'm going places while she's still dating children. lol yes thanks bro | /r/askTRP | 13/12/20 06:48 PM |
| 1 | "Self-improvement" is unattractive to girls. Prove me wrong.You put together a super accurate explanation here. Thanks. Yeah, that makes so much sense...learn two different personalities...one for brutal truth and perspectives that you keep quiet for the most part, and then one that you use in everyday life and interaction. In fact, now that you explained this, it reminds me of one guy I know like this. He is very chill and normal and fits in well socially, but quietly, he holds these rough views like anti-multiculturalism and other very strict right win… | /r/askTRP | 13/12/20 06:44 PM |
| 2 | "Self-improvement" is unattractive to girls. Prove me wrong.Blue eyes, perm haircuts, and chain necklaces get girls wet immediately. That's what women find attractive. LOL, I'm exaggerating, but there is some truth here. Just go look at some popular TikTok or Instagram boys who model...with blue eyes, perm haircuts, chain necklaces...look at the comments. All girls swooning over them. My ex used to follow these guys on social media too. Girls don't get wet over them because of their muscles (they have none), their social skills (they lack them), or their… | /r/askTRP | 13/12/20 06:33 PM |
| 1 | "Self-improvement" is unattractive to girls. Prove me wrong.Great stuff. It's been hard at times learning to be quiet about it, because I've felt like I've been wronged a few times in the past few years and felt the desire to "show" my improvement to people in attempt to correct the past wronging/ghosting. But now I know that doesn't work. What can work is improving quietly, not showing it off, and letting people pick up on it on their own because the improvement is for me; not for others. | /r/askTRP | 13/12/20 06:29 PM |
| 1 | "Self-improvement" is unattractive to girls. Prove me wrong.I dream of meeting a girl into fitness who will workout and train with me. I see a few girls like this here and there. But yep they're very rare | /r/askTRP | 13/12/20 06:25 PM |
| 1 | "Self-improvement" is unattractive to girls. Prove me wrong.The self improvement guy seems so un-fun conceptually. But if you can hide the un-fun part and wear the results in a fun way, you’ll just be a better “cool guy”. This is great. | /r/askTRP | 13/12/20 06:23 PM |
| 2 | "Self-improvement" is unattractive to girls. Prove me wrong.(sad face)...a guy who has gone through the mud and come out of it with strength is a much better man than a natural chad who never deals with "struggles." lol you are right tho | /r/askTRP | 13/12/20 06:21 PM |
| 1 | "Self-improvement" is unattractive to girls. Prove me wrong.The best guys do have social media and use it very wisely and appropriately. Don't be the weird anti-technology and anti-social media guy. It's how you use it. If you don't use any of it, you better be the greatest extrovert in whatever environment you're in because otherwise you don't exist. | /r/askTRP | 13/12/20 06:19 PM |
| 1 | "Self-improvement" is unattractive to girls. Prove me wrong.Thanks :) | /r/askTRP | 13/12/20 06:17 PM |
| -5 | "Self-improvement" is unattractive to girls. Prove me wrong.And you care why? Don't get your panties all in a bunch because I shared something about how I am. You aren't doing anything productive for this sub. Chill and go away, dude | /r/askTRP | 13/12/20 06:16 PM |
| 0 | Age disconnect issues?Yeah I get what you mean, I can converse well inside work and school but I mean more when it comes to hanging out/talking outside of those places, my personality and interests are just much different than most 18-22 year olds. I'll want to go do something or visit some place, and most of the people I'm around want to go home and play PC games and smoke weed. And the girls just want to scroll on phone, buy clothes, and spread legs. lol | /r/askTRP | 13/12/20 06:14 PM |
| -2 | I Need redpill friends.This is real life bitch | /r/askTRP | 13/12/20 06:11 PM |
| -10 | "Self-improvement" is unattractive to girls. Prove me wrong.Jordan Peterson's self authoring program. Do some learning. And then fuck off | /r/askTRP | 13/12/20 04:59 PM |
| -3 | "Self-improvement" is unattractive to girls. Prove me wrong.You have no idea what you're talking about bro. Lol up Jordan Peterson's self authoring program. It's not self diagnosis. Some people here are just pathetic. You're a good example | /r/askTRP | 13/12/20 04:58 PM |
| 0 | "Self-improvement" is unattractive to girls. Prove me wrong.Oh yeah I would never do that. Lol | /r/askTRP | 13/12/20 04:56 PM |
| -1 | "Self-improvement" is unattractive to girls. Prove me wrong.I like to just mention it from time to time with other guys who I start to become friends with. Not brag about my own progress but I mean bring up a topic that I read about. I can usually judge who I can talk to about these things and who I can't. Some guys are the types who are interested in these things like we are; some aren't. | /r/askTRP | 13/12/20 04:56 PM |
| 3 | "Self-improvement" is unattractive to girls. Prove me wrong.Myself and tons of other guys don't want to be bothered with any bitch who isn't going to appreciate or respect hard work that we do for what we want in life. | /r/askTRP | 13/12/20 04:52 PM |
| 4 | I wanna bang a fattie but I don'tThick and slightly overweight is acceptable. Fat is not because it validates her fatness and that's not OK. At the end of the day you shouldn't be reaching. I'd stick to girls who you actually are attracted to and who are within normal weight range. | /r/askTRP | 13/12/20 10:07 AM |
| 0 | Age disconnect issues?Nobody cares what you think bro. I am, luckily...I don't deserve it honestly but I accept that I'm close to being top 20%. Now go away | /r/askTRP | 13/12/20 09:59 AM |
| 1 | "Self-improvement" is unattractive to girls. Prove me wrong.Some fuck guys who are near the bottom of the pack though and will remain there forever. But that usually doesn't last very long. They might be mistaken and find something about them attractive but then as soon as they discover that the guy is in the back of the field and likely to stay there, they say goodbye. | /r/askTRP | 13/12/20 09:57 AM |
| 1 | "Self-improvement" is unattractive to girls. Prove me wrong.I don't. I'm asking about this topic so I can avoid doing exactly that if it produces a negative effect. Which i now understand it does. | /r/askTRP | 13/12/20 09:30 AM |
| 1 | "Self-improvement" is unattractive to girls. Prove me wrong.Answers my questions in a really simple way. Thanks | /r/askTRP | 13/12/20 09:27 AM |
| 2 | "Self-improvement" is unattractive to girls. Prove me wrong.That makes sense now. And yeah when I got that text I chalked it up to her still having no respect for me but it definitely meant she noticed changes and maybe it pissed her off to see that I've improved when she admittedly hasn't. Anyway I'm feeling stronger and better about everything and enjoying the climb | /r/askTRP | 13/12/20 09:24 AM |
| 1 | "Self-improvement" is unattractive to girls. Prove me wrong.Yeah I've been deliberately teaching myself to chill more lately, forcing myself to have a more relaxed and calm approach and it's made me feel much better and I feel like people like that more chill demeanor too. Quiet confidence and improvement does it | /r/askTRP | 13/12/20 09:21 AM |
| 2 | "Self-improvement" is unattractive to girls. Prove me wrong.Great stuff. Thanks for this | /r/askTRP | 13/12/20 09:19 AM |
| -11 | "Self-improvement" is unattractive to girls. Prove me wrong.I'd never advocate for that alternative, but some fat retards slay. Lol. But I'm good. I'll stay on my grind and always encourage other guys to do the same. In the end game health and status win :) | /r/askTRP | 13/12/20 09:18 AM |
| 0 | Age disconnect issues?You don't get it. This is simply red pill learning. Maybe I am attractive and just want to learn everything I possibly can. Maybe I've underestimated my looks my whole life. Maybe you should stop degrading and just fuck off since every comment you make you have to stoop down to personal insults. Go away | /r/askTRP | 13/12/20 09:15 AM |
| -1 | "Self-improvement" is unattractive to girls. Prove me wrong.That's part of the process bro. You have no business coming to insult. Be like everyone else and give serious responses only to the topic at hand. Fuck off | /r/askTRP | 13/12/20 09:13 AM |
| -41 | "Self-improvement" is unattractive to girls. Prove me wrong.Chill man, I'm just trying to learn the fine line of this stuff. I don't tell girls about my traits, but sometimes I feel like I just give off that vibe and yeah, girls don't care and sometimes I feels it pushes them farther away when they see that you have your life together well. But oh well, it's reality I guess. Higher quality ones will hopefully not be driven away by it. | /r/askTRP | 13/12/20 06:50 AM |
| 3 | "Self-improvement" is unattractive to girls. Prove me wrong.Logically I want to agree with you but in my experience I haven't witnessed girls flocking to guys on strict self-improvement grinds. Just haven't seen it. Either guys have always gotten girls as alcoholic slobs too, or they never have. Idk, just my observation. Maybe I haven't seen enough yet. | /r/askTRP | 13/12/20 06:30 AM |
| -4 | "Self-improvement" is unattractive to girls. Prove me wrong.Yeah, I don't mean progress pics with detailed info. I just mean routine gym pics. Lots of guys do this, and they definitely look like they get girls, so let's not act like it's all bad. I think it's the way it's done. The occasional gym pic showing off your physique is OK as long as it's not in a desperate, validation-seeking way. Not everyone is going to the beach with babes to take those kinds of pictures. lol | /r/askTRP | 13/12/20 06:27 AM |
| 12 | "Self-improvement" is unattractive to girls. Prove me wrong.Great analogy. | /r/askTRP | 13/12/20 06:25 AM |
| -9 | "Self-improvement" is unattractive to girls. Prove me wrong.So where exactly is the line drawn though? Like obviously talking about it verbally, outside of male friends, is a bad idea. But what about social media activity? Guys get into fitness and start posting their fitness progress on Instagram, or even make a whole separate fitness page. I can't imagine it hurting them necessarily, but idk because I've seen a lot of girls leave guys who get on a serious self-improvement grind. Also sharing more red-pill perspective posts on your story and stuff like … | /r/askTRP | 13/12/20 05:58 AM |
| -55 | "Self-improvement" is unattractive to girls. Prove me wrong.Welp, looks like I'm disadvantaged then because I'm hyper-rational and disciplined and hard-working. And I don't see myself abandoning my ways just to get more girls. My own success is more important. I guess I'll try to keep being myself without letting those specific qualities show too much, and will try to be more fun around people and let those traits show more. | /r/askTRP | 13/12/20 05:44 AM |
| 0 | This plate sends me tik toks daily via text. Like 10+ every single day. How do I stop this from happeningDude I honestly think you should chill out. TikTok can be bad but it can also be fine for watching funny/entertaining videos. It is arrogant of you to be so anti-TikTok to the point you risk this girl leaving you when the sex is good. Let her send you the videos. Just ignore if you want. Eventually she'll get the point. | /r/askTRP | 13/12/20 04:19 AM |
| 6 | Remember, never show weaknessYeah. And the worst part was I wasn't pathetic in the end. I made stupid mistakes and mishandled things, yes. But in the end I tackled my problems and challenges with strength and determination and I did it. I fixed myself up and now I'm much closer to the guy I've always wanted to be. She found it was easier to chalk me up as "toxic" than to go through a low with me. Her loss. She doesn't deserve me now. | /r/askTRP | 12/12/20 11:14 PM |
| 1 | Remember, never show weaknessAnd remember to stay grounded too. Find a way to smile and laugh every day. Don't be too hard on yourself. Enjoy the ride. At the end of it all life is just something we still can barely comprehend. | /r/askTRP | 12/12/20 10:44 PM |
| 1 | How do I deal with loneliness?Sex isn't divorceable from deep emotional connection, commitment, and creating a family, as much as some people like to think it is. For people like you, who have had plenty of it and still struggle with loneliness, it is not going to do you any more good. I don't have magic answers but it sounds like you haven't found your belonging yet, your deep purpose in life. Sometimes you have to just get so involved in whatever you want to do that you don't even have time to think about how "lonely" you … | /r/askTRP | 12/12/20 10:36 PM |
| 2 | Remember, never show weaknessIf the relationship is very good then I hope you have a plan to fix your other issues in life that seem to be causing you concern. Get to work. | /r/askTRP | 12/12/20 10:18 PM |
| 45 | Remember, never show weakness100%. 13 month relationship. After 8 months the high started to fade. I had personal issues. Natural instinct was to not open that up to her, but she picked up on little things and insisted that I open up and talk more about things. After I did all that and told her I wanted to go through that tough time together because she meant so much to me, she left and told everyone she knew I was pathetic. Absolutely ruthless. It took me 2 years to feel really alive and content with my life again, but I'm… | /r/askTRP | 12/12/20 09:32 PM |
| 3 | Should I leave my girl over her slutty past?She is intelligent. Debatable. She is completely honest. No she isn't. She travels on her own dime. Always doing cool shit with her great friend group. Sounds like she's very privileged and entitled. You do what you want man. No, I wouldn't leave her. But don't be crushed when she leaves you. Because she's not yours; it's just your turn. | /r/askTRP | 12/12/20 07:26 PM |
| 1 | i’m a Christian and my boyfriend is an atheistI understand you have your perspective. But since this is red pill, and we accept life for what it is and not what we wish it was, I'm gonna be very simple and blunt: The reason you believe what you believe is almost entirely just because you were raised into it at a young age. If you were born and raised in Iran you'd almost certainly be a Muslim. Etc. Your boyfriend is right. There is no evidence for any of the supernatural things that the main religions believe. You can use religion as a infl… | /r/askTRP | 12/12/20 06:18 PM |
| 1 | Not getting laid is fucking tortureYes. I do get this. I don't disagree. But I'm saying when a 7ish guy struggles to have any success in an environment where he is the most physically attractive guy there, it seems he must be doing something very wrong or not doing anything right. | /r/askTRP | 12/12/20 09:54 AM |
| 1 | Not getting laid is fucking tortureI ignored the question because I don't disagree with your example. Obviously more attractive automatically wins with identical personality. I'm just having a conversation on a few things. But in an environment of a bunch of guys who are 4s and 5s, a 7-8 stands out as the attractive guy and should have girls who are 4-7s all over him. I don't know about your experiences but with mine, girls who are 3-6 don't have access to guys who are 8-10s. Those guys don't stoop that low. So those girls are al… | /r/askTRP | 12/12/20 09:21 AM |
| 1 | Not getting laid is fucking tortureThen what would be a reason for a solidly attractive guy (say around 7) not having much success? Perhaps simply not meeting enough girls/sitting and waiting for a girl to start things instead of going out and creating abundance? | /r/askTRP | 12/12/20 08:31 AM |
| 2 | Not getting laid is fucking tortureIt's your physical attractiveness. All else comes after the fact. Then explain all the average guys fucking girls while very attractive guys sit and watch. Happens all the time. Work with a guy. Overweight. Chubby face. 5 at best. Parties. Chill personality. Fucks girls. Of course physical attractiveness matters to some degree, but we're gonna have to try to reach a red pill consensus on how much because I see some people saying face matters more and others saying game matters more. | /r/askTRP | 12/12/20 07:59 AM |
| 1 | Some girls seem to want the most convenient guy in their circle...until he needs to exit...does it make sense?Ah that's a much better explanation. They just know their roles and embrace them strongly and don't make a mess of things very easily. Unfortunately these are rare. Most are either psychotic scrollers or loudmouths who think being an sjw makes them strong women. | /r/askTRP | 12/12/20 07:38 AM |
| 1 | Some girls seem to want the most convenient guy in their circle...until he needs to exit...does it make sense?We call them feminists, BP’ers, FDS members, etc., and it’s usually because they have some degree of awareness that men won’t take care of them. Perhaps some, but not all man. I come across strong, more conservative-minded girls sometimes who workout, take initiative, and were raised with stronger families. Maybe they are indeed rare but damn, when I see a fit, highly attractive girl in the gym doing all kinds of workouts by herself, I know she ain't no SJW or feminist. These are true 9s, but th… | /r/askTRP | 12/12/20 07:14 AM |
| 1 | How can I be happier?Going to be hyper-rational here, but that's just me so here it goes: If you have a good amount of things that are good but seek more attention or validation or deep connection, there are two options to solve your problem: Stop seeking attention/validation and truly accept feeling lonely and chalk it up as no big deal as long as you keep yourself super busy Get the attention/validation you desire by doing new things and hopefully pulling more people in Depending on your age, you may need to start… | /r/askTRP | 12/12/20 07:04 AM |
| 1 | We understand hypergamy, but do some young girls simply not follow this exactly?Ok. And then I assume if she agrees, then get number before leaving to have way of confirming closer to meet up. All this much more difficult because of covid lockdowns though. My state just closed all indoor food and gatherings again. But thanks will use in future. | /r/askTRP | 11/12/20 10:32 PM |
| 11 | Why do women try to change you, if they just end up hating you once you’ve changed?This is me. I got burned. Hard. But, 2 years after the breakup, and after going through a super low period, I'm coming out a much stronger and better man overall. So in the end it's learning experience. | /r/askTRP | 11/12/20 08:33 PM |
| 1 | We understand hypergamy, but do some young girls simply not follow this exactly?Just having some fun now here... literally 30 minutes ago at the gym a HB9 stared me down and held eye contact for a few seconds while I was near the leg press machine. Absolutely my type. With my hat and mask on, I can pass to be in her league. But I'm afraid once girls get to see me a little closer, I'm only a 6 or 7 at most. Wish I had enough IDGAF confidence to just start a quick conversation and ask for the number. I used to be able to do this 2 years ago but going through a period of bad m… | /r/askTRP | 11/12/20 08:25 PM |
| 1 | We understand hypergamy, but do some young girls simply not follow this exactly?Dude it's harder than it seems. A large majority of girls fall into one of the following: fat, ugly, psychotic/crazy, or otherwise a waste of time. Lol | /r/askTRP | 11/12/20 07:13 PM |
| 1 | We understand hypergamy, but do some young girls simply not follow this exactly?I don't lol she was in college and I didn't keep things going with her because I wanted to get back with my ex. Hahahaha sad face | /r/askTRP | 11/12/20 04:54 PM |
| 1 | We understand hypergamy, but do some young girls simply not follow this exactly?3 girls before this girl, 1 after. Respectfully though i just wanna guess how likely or unlikely a girl's relationship is likely to fail once she has already met the guy's family and spent considerable amounts of time with him including FaceTime every night when they're away. I didn't have that to "provide" and still don't which makes me feel like a lower value choice to a 21 year old girl. | /r/askTRP | 11/12/20 03:56 PM |
| 1 | We understand hypergamy, but do some young girls simply not follow this exactly?Lol so in more concrete words, you think that relationship, IF he is committing and is letting her win all the time, is destined to fail? I'd rather have his hair. I'd rather have his eyes. I'd rather have his jawline. I'd rather have his family. I like myself, and am easily the 2nd highest SMV my ex has ever been with, but this newest guy has me beat. I can't see a scenario where she ever cuts him out of her life like she did to me. | /r/askTRP | 11/12/20 07:01 AM |
| 2 | We understand hypergamy, but do some young girls simply not follow this exactly?Yeah I'm gonna support you on this. Looking back, I made mistakes where I was in highly emotional states and would get all mad tight and pissy over such little inconsequential things and it made me a less attractive guy because I was always in a lashing out type of mood. When I began to chill out and relax more, girls who previously didn't like to spend that much time around me began spending more time around me and crushing on me. Because I became more stoic and calm and chill and not so seriou… | /r/askTRP | 11/12/20 01:56 AM |
| 1 | We understand hypergamy, but do some young girls simply not follow this exactly?Hey. Thanks for having a good conversation with me with this. Means a lot. I have one follow up question for you. You have to excuse the oneitis for a second so I can learn, OK? Lol. Because I swear I'm finally feeling better about my life again and thinking about my ex way less, so I'm moving in the right direction. But we were talking about demanding apologies for misbehavior and leaving (until she apologizes). I didn't think this way 3 years ago when we started dating. Perhaps unfortunately (… | /r/askTRP | 11/12/20 01:15 AM |
| 29 | Should i leave my GF? She is bellow average and fatI mean you're asking in red pill so you're gonna get some pretty harsh and blunt answers. The truth is... if you fuck girls who are fat, it's literally telling them that it's ok sexually that they're fat. And it's not. So unless you really love the person, I don't support it. You do what you want man. If you like her for who she is, then that's good. If she's not that great in any way, I'd look to end things... as pleasantly as possible. Tell her you want to take a break and do other things. | /r/askTRP | 10/12/20 07:25 PM |
| 1 | Guys that underwent a lot of self-improvement and also started lifting a lot , did your ex ever try to come back into your life ?Yeah. But just a few things. I didn't break up with her; we broke up with each other but then months later I wanted to fix things and she did too at one point but then the conflict blew up even more and it didn't happen because she felt i was playing and using her from her perspective. I do know she'll always have feelings for me yes; she just blocked them out as much as possible and forced me away because she didn't feel good about it anymore and wanted to date other guys. I also insulted those… | /r/askTRP | 10/12/20 04:22 PM |
| 1 | We understand hypergamy, but do some young girls simply not follow this exactly?Yeah. I hope to experience this in future relationships lol | /r/askTRP | 10/12/20 06:06 AM |
| 1 | How to Be Not BORING?Hmm weird, not where I live and I'm 24. Everyone mentions they're gonna get one at some point or another but then very few people actually get them. | /r/askTRP | 10/12/20 06:04 AM |
| 2 | How to Be Not BORING?Agree and disagree. A guy should do what he wants yes. Getting a tattoo to be "less boring" is stupid though and still has nothing to do with being interested yes. Also under 25 not a tattoo generation. Current ages 25-45 is the tattoo generation I'd say. | /r/askTRP | 10/12/20 04:57 AM |
| 1 | What does proper flirting + escalating look like?Awesome deletes of all your comments man!! | /r/askTRP | 10/12/20 04:01 AM |
| 1 | What does proper flirting + escalating look like?You weren't trying to honestly anything, dude. You started off being completely wrong. I know you had good intentions the rest of the way, but when you so badly misread the situation, you can't be taken seriously. I get your point. I didn't need that help anyway because it's general advice, not specific to my situation. | /r/askTRP | 10/12/20 03:56 AM |
| 1 | What does proper flirting + escalating look like?Nope I'm never wrong. I started the topic. Remember that. Already accomplished nearly everything you state in your response too. This is because you gave out general, nonspecific advice and didn't read the situation at hand. I know all these games already dude. You aren't getting anywhere spewing nonsense. We need a better dose of truth here. | /r/askTRP | 10/12/20 03:48 AM |
| 1 | What does proper flirting + escalating look like?No, I take the rest of the point. You can be right about some things and wrong about others, you know, you dumbass. People are on here to learn. Mods should start banning people like you who don't get the spirit we are supposed to have here. | /r/askTRP | 10/12/20 03:42 AM |
| 1 | What does proper flirting + escalating look like?You are full of shit dude. The guy grabbing girl's heads at work is not getting his cock sucked. He's getting nothing. Ever. He's an ugly guy who smells bad who the boss is about to tell not to show up anymore. Sorry, but sometimes people here are just so fucking dumb and misread the situation. This a perfect example of that. | /r/askTRP | 10/12/20 03:32 AM |
| 1 | Why are men called entitled for wanting their looksmatch?Yeah sometimes females do equate apathy with alpha swagger. | /r/askTRP | 10/12/20 01:52 AM |
| 0 | Why are men called entitled for wanting their looksmatch?True. I don't know anyone who doesn't have a job either, but I do know guys who have jobs for a few months and then quit to stay home for a month playing video games and jacking off. Go back to job, quit, repeat, over and over. Lol | /r/askTRP | 10/12/20 12:44 AM |
| 4 | Why are men called entitled for wanting their looksmatch?Dude are you serious? You must be lucky to only be around high value men who live fantastic lives of responsibility and fun. Tons of guys are like this. The thing is though, if they are attractive, it doesn't matter... they'll slay. It's not about this necessarily. There are alpha guys who do nothing of real value and get girls and there are beta guys who have more purposeful things to do who get no girls. We just teach guys here to give up the video game and porn life because they're already at… | /r/askTRP | 10/12/20 12:13 AM |
| 8 | Why are men called entitled for wanting their looksmatch?Hate to point out something wrong here but.... girls fuck and date men without a purpose all the time. They fuck and date guys who spend their days playing video games and jacking off... all the time. So it's not about that. We have to start getting this more right. It's more about making girls feel some type of sexual way with you more than it is about having a "purpose." | /r/askTRP | 10/12/20 12:04 AM |
| 2 | Opinions on girls who show off their bodies onlineBut I don't understand why true friendship LTRs can't exist too...I mean they do because I do see them. Through thick and thin, a guy and a girl who do everything possible to stay together because their character is the most important thing. But this seems rare. Thought I had it with my girl, I really did. Until she put her "feels" in the moment above all else. | /r/askTRP | 09/12/20 10:56 PM |
| 1 | We understand hypergamy, but do some young girls simply not follow this exactly?Makes sense now. Lol | /r/askTRP | 09/12/20 10:33 PM |
| 1 | We understand hypergamy, but do some young girls simply not follow this exactly?I would be like "This is wrong. You fucked up. (Explained why). You need to apologize or I'm done with this (relationship)." I stuck it out because she eventually would apologize, but it would take hours of these back and forths and she would do it in the most insincere way. This created perpetual tension. Eventually she left in a big blow up and called it "harassment." I suspect the guys she's been with since never did this type of thing. They probably let her get the upper hand and allowed the… | /r/askTRP | 09/12/20 07:49 PM |
| 1 | We understand hypergamy, but do some young girls simply not follow this exactly?The one RP thing I DID do when we were together was demand apologies from her. Yes, I actually did do that...and she chalked it up as "harassment" and that's part of why she left me. So let's not act like RP is a perfect box of techniques. Clearly some can backfire. | /r/askTRP | 09/12/20 06:09 PM |
| 1 | Guys that underwent a lot of self-improvement and also started lifting a lot , did your ex ever try to come back into your life ?I know. When you put it like that, it's easy: How awesome was our relationship? Not that awesome. Just truly loved HER as a person until she decided to become someone I didn't recognize anymore. Can I see myself marrying this girl? Not anymore. Do I even like her anymore? No, not really. It's more of wanting her to realize she was wrong because she deserves it. I hope her newest guy dumps her so she goes through emotional pain like she unleashed on me. She has never had to feel hurt like that an… | /r/askTRP | 09/12/20 06:08 PM |
| 1 | We understand hypergamy, but do some young girls simply not follow this exactly?Thank you so much for sharing that. Yeah, I know what it's like to be in the very dark, depressed phase. Wanting to go back in time and fix things. Not having the energy to go workout or even hang out with family. Most of this summer I went through that. I avoided people because I didn't want them to see how empty and depressed I was. Haven't been talking to any girls sexually. I lost interest in things that I used to enjoy. But I kept pushing and letting the process play out and now I can final… | /r/askTRP | 09/12/20 05:05 AM |
| 1 | We understand hypergamy, but do some young girls simply not follow this exactly?It's sad. Part of me will always hurt as a result of a girl who i thought cared about me and loved me got up and left so heartlessly and then framed it all to make me look like the bad guy so she could feel good about it. It's not that I'm bad looking, or stupid, or low value; it's that I let my guard down and opened up too much and committed too much not anticipating how much it could hurt me. I just hope I can keep the strength going that I have compiled to improve myself and my life. It's goi… | /r/askTRP | 09/12/20 04:20 AM |
| 1 | We understand hypergamy, but do some young girls simply not follow this exactly?Yeah so many girls seem like that in today's world. I find it interesting though how things seemed to be a lot different just a few decades ago. I work with a woman in her early 50s... she's a very intense, fit, strong woman. She's been married to one man since they were in their late teens. She's always joking around about how hot he is for being in his 50s and then she shows us pictures of him and yes he is a jacked and good looking dude at only 5'5". I was telling her about how it seems so ma… | /r/askTRP | 09/12/20 02:01 AM |
| 1 | We understand hypergamy, but do some young girls simply not follow this exactly?Yeah. You're right. Thank you | /r/askTRP | 09/12/20 01:53 AM |
| 1 | I’m an alcoholic and it’s really fucking with my life.Advice? It's pretty simple. If you want to stop and if you want to change your life, you will do what it takes. If you don't want to, you won't. It's hard. Life is hard. | /r/askTRP | 09/12/20 12:24 AM |
| 13 | Opinions on girls who show off their bodies onlineGirls who do that are essentially all hoes. They are projecting that they ARE their bodies and what they want is sex above all else. Treat them the way they ask to be treated. It is unacceptable for any LTR girl to be showing off her body in a very sexual way online, unless it's for a fitness account. | /r/askTRP | 08/12/20 11:55 PM |
| 1 | We understand hypergamy, but do some young girls simply not follow this exactly?No, not all of my responses have been rejecting stuff. You clearly didn't read everything. Some have been complete agreement; others are called dialogue. This post is about learning and understanding. Doesn't matter that she's a 5. She's still a girl and therefore red pill learning material. You like lying, don't you? Fuck off. | /r/askTRP | 08/12/20 08:47 PM |
| 1 | We understand hypergamy, but do some young girls simply not follow this exactly?The post is about learning. You are literally putting down and degrading. Get the fuck off, you're a sick guy clearly if you come here to do that and not to help lift up. This sub isn't for what you're doing. You are out of line and you have anger you need to release elsewhere. Nice delete of your comment because you know you'd be banned if you kept it up. | /r/askTRP | 08/12/20 08:09 PM |
| 1 | We understand hypergamy, but do some young girls simply not follow this exactly?Lol you're funny and obviously wrong but I'm not hurt by your pathetic degrading. You're the sad one doing that bullshit here. Who hurt you so bad? | /r/askTRP | 08/12/20 08:05 PM |
| 1 | We understand hypergamy, but do some young girls simply not follow this exactly?Dude I just want to win the war. I want it to hit her one day that she made a long term mistake by dumping me and discarding me like I was nothing just so she could hook up with guys who are nothing good for her in the long run. How do I make her think that one day and reach out desperately? Live my best fucking life and show off what she can't have anymore, right? | /r/askTRP | 08/12/20 07:54 PM |
| 1 | We understand hypergamy, but do some young girls simply not follow this exactly?So any advice on not just offing yourself when you get discarded for a guy with a better face? And I'm not even that bad. I have an average to just above average face and I'm blessed to have nice teeth. Some guys have truly hideous faces; I honestly don't know how they continue on happily. | /r/askTRP | 08/12/20 07:11 PM |
| 1 | We understand hypergamy, but do some young girls simply not follow this exactly?Thanks but no thanks. I know how much I improved in the past 2-3 years. She was the one who could never be wrong. She never apologized for anything, ever, and she would argue to the death with me about incredibly stupid stuff. She is stuck up, in over her head, and needs to think she has the power in a relationship. That's really it at the end of the day. We can talk all about these different things here but in the end she was simply a cunt. Her "friends" literally tell me this because they resp… | /r/askTRP | 08/12/20 05:49 PM |
| 1 | We understand hypergamy, but do some young girls simply not follow this exactly?Wrong... only on here, no longer in daily life ;) the ex is an example of a situation related to the topic at hand, not the other way around. | /r/askTRP | 08/12/20 05:32 PM |
| 1 | We understand hypergamy, but do some young girls simply not follow this exactly?In this case it's purely face. I'm talking about the latest one. A bunch of guys she got with after me were definitely not better in the face than me. But this one is. I am the exact same height as him. Very similar actually in appearance and style and personality; he just has the better face. But I don't accept that all girls are willing to dump and discard good men so brutally and uncaringly for simply some guy who has a better face. I don't believe that. Only the ones who are in over their he… | /r/askTRP | 08/12/20 05:16 PM |
| 1 | We understand hypergamy, but do some young girls simply not follow this exactly?He is in the face yes | /r/askTRP | 08/12/20 04:37 PM |
| 1 | We understand hypergamy, but do some young girls simply not follow this exactly?Not in this case. I guarantee i have the bigger one because I'm 95th percentile. 7.75 inches. I wouldn't have brought this up until you did but yeah lol | /r/askTRP | 08/12/20 03:38 PM |
| -2 | We understand hypergamy, but do some young girls simply not follow this exactly?This is exactly what I said in one of my follow up comments. It is status and competence, not money. That is also true; I clearly have much higher status and competence than any other guy she's gotten with and it's not even close. I talk about these things here; not in real life. You can think I'm beta now all you want but you'll be wrong. I was beta when I dated her 3 years ago, but I've changed many things since then and I'm not that way anymore. Part of the reason we come here is to continue … | /r/askTRP | 08/12/20 10:38 AM |
| -1 | We understand hypergamy, but do some young girls simply not follow this exactly?Thanks. But I feel quite confident in saying she likely hasn't succeeded in getting what she wants after me. I actually became friends with the one dude she hooked up with for a week right after she dumped me, and he was telling me about how awful it was and he could barely even perform. We made a joke of the whole thing but he was serious. And he's the alpha type on the outside, but admitted he couldn't even perform well in bed and he blamed it on her being like a child and a bad kisser (lol). … | /r/askTRP | 08/12/20 10:22 AM |
| -1 | We understand hypergamy, but do some young girls simply not follow this exactly?Ah makes sense. But she mostly broke up with me; I didn't dump her. She knows she could've gotten back with me and I would've been for it. But she willingly chose lower value guys after me, mainly because they were more pleasant and not as controlling/intense as me. | /r/askTRP | 08/12/20 10:15 AM |
| 0 | We understand hypergamy, but do some young girls simply not follow this exactly?You're right. It reminds me that when we were close to "getting back together," she was turned off when I told her that I had talked to another girl but held out in hopes that we would resolve our conflict and get back together. Me telling her this literally pushed her farther away. I was just being honest but I guess it made me look weak in her judgment. | /r/askTRP | 08/12/20 10:12 AM |
| 1 | We understand hypergamy, but do some young girls simply not follow this exactly?Thanks bro :) | /r/askTRP | 08/12/20 05:57 AM |
| -4 | We understand hypergamy, but do some young girls simply not follow this exactly?No, finally getting to the point where I feel good about my own life again. But just trying to understand everything that happened in the past, for my own good, to learn and become better. Let people talk and discuss. There are always reasons for things and I want to understand those reasons. | /r/askTRP | 08/12/20 05:56 AM |
| -1 | We understand hypergamy, but do some young girls simply not follow this exactly?Oh I do get it now, I just hate it and disagree with it. Trust me, I'm not your beta teacher's pet who isn't physically attractive. I am physically attractive and do have a bad boy side that I don't show much, I just am far more responsible and mature than the average guy my age. Stop shitting on this. I know you're just sharing what is general truth, but it sucks. I am not regretful of how I am, and I'm not going to literally be more reckless and stupid just for the sake of attracting one girl … | /r/askTRP | 08/12/20 05:36 AM |
| -6 | We understand hypergamy, but do some young girls simply not follow this exactly?Fine, let's call it competence then. Because you're right... it's not really about money, it's about competence, productivity, and the potential to be wealthy (as Jordan Peterson explains at 2:00 here: https://youtu.be/N7LN14IpVy0). But that still doesn't line up. Because I am high in conscientiousness and take on high responsibility while the other guys she's gotten with are the types to play on their phone all day, shirk their duties at work and then go home and play call of duty. Yes I give o… | /r/askTRP | 08/12/20 05:05 AM |
| -5 | We understand hypergamy, but do some young girls simply not follow this exactly?I disagree that most of the things I listed are beta bux shit. Better body, more dominant personality, better career trajectory... these are literally and objectively all things that make a man higher value. As i mentioned, I don't think i got dumped and ghosted because my value sucks. Clearly not. It happened because I was too controlling and wanted to lock her down, and as an 18-19 year old she didn't want that. My parents did it this way but i get that 21st century females who lack strong fat… | /r/askTRP | 08/12/20 04:48 AM |
| 0 | We understand hypergamy, but do some young girls simply not follow this exactly?Yeah, thanks for reminding me of that. Women aren't logical, so it's not about what guy objectively is higher value but it's about what guy she perceives as higher value or could potentially become higher value based on some indication. And if it doesn't work out, just keep branch swinging. | /r/askTRP | 08/12/20 04:44 AM |
| 1 | We understand hypergamy, but do some young girls simply not follow this exactly?So then it seems odd that a girl would dump a guy who is 3.5 years older than her (right in the ideal age range preference for females) and decently high in the hierarchy for a guy who is 6 months younger than her (20) who is lower in the hierarchy in every category except possibly facial attractiveness. I don't see how we can call this proper hypergamy. Maybe it's true that some young girls just don't follow hypergamy exactly to the nail in the short-term. It also doesn't help that I basically … | /r/askTRP | 08/12/20 04:27 AM |
| 0 | We understand hypergamy, but do some young girls simply not follow this exactly?I agree completely. Somehow he might push her buttons better than I did. I just know that longterm, I'm clearly higher value. It's just his turn just like the handful of guys she got with right after me. She uses them for what they provide her with until she realizes they're pretty pathetic and not likely to provide her with anything in the long run; then moves onto the next. | /r/askTRP | 08/12/20 04:08 AM |
| 1 | Do all women use hypergamy?Not always to the nail. Some girls will dump a high value guy to go fuck other low value guys simply because she loses feelings for the high value guy. Too controlling, too demanding, too emotional vulnerable, whatever. Could be a number of different reasons. But it happens all the time. Girls sometimes chose the guy who will ensure that they end up working minimum wage jobs and live crappy lives forever. Or at least she'll fuck him for a while and then move to another guy on a similar rung of t… | /r/askTRP | 08/12/20 03:55 AM |
| -1 | We understand hypergamy, but do some young girls simply not follow this exactly?Well yeah that situation makes some sense outside of strict hypergamy. But you're also talking about a 9, and it sounds like she knows exactly your financial situation. My ex is about a 5 and is in over her head. She knows I have student debt, but doesn't know how much. And as I explained, I am higher value than all of the guys she has gotten with since she dumped me, despite a couple of them maybe having better faces as their only advantage. Hypergamy is real, but I truly think there are just s… | /r/askTRP | 08/12/20 03:36 AM |
| 1 | Has anyone become kinda traumatized of sex after sooo much meaningless sex?Yes. If you decide to commit to a partner and start a family, it's a tradeoff. You will have to deal with things you don't want to deal with; another person who could drive you insane. The love and the care for that person must be enough to overcome that. And when it is, you can create real meaning through the start of a family. My aunt and uncle have also been together since they were teenagers, decades ago. So I guess things are different now. My aunt has been loyal to my uncle since they were… | /r/askTRP | 08/12/20 02:25 AM |
| 3 | Do women care if you have no friends?Yes, they do generally care if you have friends, at least for a relationship. You can get away with sex and occasional getting together without friends, but they aren't going to stick with you if they see you have no social life. I learned this the hard way. I've always had a few friends, but even that I could tell wasn't good enough. My ex has gotten with other guys who have many more friends than me, despite me being better in a number of other measurable categories. It does matter. She is goi… | /r/askTRP | 07/12/20 05:30 AM |
| 1 | Are you supposed to keep an Ex as a plateDo whatever the FUCK you wanna do. | /r/askTRP | 07/12/20 05:26 AM |
| 1 | Has anyone become kinda traumatized of sex after sooo much meaningless sex?Eventuality you should pick someone you're somewhat compatible with and can live life with. Nearly every girl has issues. My aunt has high anxiety and BPD tendencies. It can get bad at times. She is happily married to my uncle and they now have two children and live an upper middle class life. He knows she's crazy and has issues, but it's ok. They committed to each other and their lives are good. Eventually you should probably do the same. | /r/askTRP | 07/12/20 05:22 AM |
| 2 | Aside from modeling, what careers do you find a lot of 9’s and 10’s in?Athletics and sports. Nothing hotter in the world than a fit girl who can squat. | /r/askTRP | 06/12/20 06:44 PM |
| 1 | Legit ways to sharpen face/get rid of puffiness to increase masculine appearance?Respectfully bro I'm not sure you know what you're talking about. I workout. I get passed on for guys who don't workout all the time. Wanna see my Instagram? | /r/askTRP | 06/12/20 06:19 PM |
| 9 | Why do girls constantly seek the power in the relationship?To test how strong we are. If they succeed in winning the power overall they will leave you because you will have proven yourself to be too weak a man for them. | /r/askTRP | 06/12/20 07:30 AM |
| 1 | Some guys are just more relationship material by default, right?Yeah, but I'll never have the family comfort to offer. It's ok though, some of us have varying advantages and disadvantages. Yes of course I'm lifting and have been for years. My physique is good and I'm lucky to have pretty good looks. The main issue that held me back for years was attitude/personality. Victim mindset, weak, excuse making, all while acting arrogant and snobby. Once I woke up to realize how I was, I started changing that, started being stronger while also more pleasant and it's … | /r/askTRP | 06/12/20 06:21 AM |
| 1 | Legit ways to sharpen face/get rid of puffiness to increase masculine appearance?Will have to come up with a dedicated diet plan to go low carb. Gonna be a big change since I've always been pretty high carb. Don't want to lose overall weight though so will have to make sure I keep making gains with muscle. | /r/askTRP | 06/12/20 06:09 AM |
| 1 | Should I hit up my ex gfDo it. Just remember you aren't blue pilled anymore. You are wise and strong, and her presence or lack thereof will not affect you. | /r/askTRP | 06/12/20 05:22 AM |
| 6 | Younger guys, do you find it better to get the snap or the number?This. Man I'm about to get my first iPhone ever soon coming from years of android and I know it sounds funny and ridiculous but this is one of the biggest things I'm looking forward to. Being able to get into the iMessage/FaceTime stuff because hot girls are all in the iPhone ecosystem. | /r/askTRP | 06/12/20 04:27 AM |
| 1 | EdgingIt is. You're not alone. I still struggle with it. But I'm a lot better than I used to be. 2 years ago I would spend multiple hours every day on it. There were days I had nothing going on where I had 10 hour sessions. That was at rock bottom of my addiction. Looking back, it was just like a hard drug. It fucked my mind up really bad. Just imagine that every time you got really horny, instead of looking at these images and content on a screen, you had a female to suck your dick and to go have sex… | /r/askTRP | 06/12/20 12:33 AM |
| 1 | EdgingYes any nude or sexual content i consider porn. Hard to avoid completely yes, I know the struggle personally. I see nothing wrong with edging though. | /r/askTRP | 05/12/20 08:27 PM |
| 1 | EdgingIt's better than finishing completely. I'm trying to stop porn completely but I haven't been able to cut out masturbation completely yet, so I've been edging in a way and leaving it at that. Idk just my two cents | /r/askTRP | 05/12/20 08:18 PM |
| 2 | What do I even say to thisIt's not necessarily a fake apology. Girls really do forget stuff very easily, and I think she's honestly saying what she's thinking and feeling. That's just them. Let girls be the way they are. Whether you want to let her back in your life or not is purely your decision. Don't even care what anyone here thinks. Do what you want. | /r/askTRP | 05/12/20 04:51 AM |
| 12 | Why do girls go back to guys who are obviously bad for them.Girls are not attracted to guys who want to treat them like queens all the time. This is reality regardless of what we're taught or what we assume. They are attracted and attached to guys who give them a roller coaster of emotions. If a guy is a total dick all the time and the girl gets nothing that she wants out of the relationship, she will leave him. But if she's not leaving him, or keeps getting back with him, it's because despite his mistreatment from time to time, he gives her something th… | /r/askTRP | 05/12/20 03:26 AM |
| 1 | Guys that underwent a lot of self-improvement and also started lifting a lot , did your ex ever try to come back into your life ?Just curious... this is almost certainly true if you dealt with the breakup well and didn't lash out or beg for her back or keep contacting her when she wanted to ghost you. But what if you did all those things and made a massive beta fool of yourself? Ever hear of a girl coming back long after that; years after going from pathetic beta to strong successful alpha? Not betting on it; just wondering if it's possible to ever happen. My ex was and always be into me physically and socially. She alrea… | /r/askTRP | 05/12/20 12:56 AM |
| 1 | Any guys using Keeps?I don't know. I have intense Norwood 7 genes at a young age so I even doubt dutasteride would regrow everything. Maybe just a little. Yeah I'd expect it to have side effects but many guys take it including Ashton Kutcher if I remember correctly. The decrease in sex drive though can't be worse than how low some guys' sex drive is though with the way they abuse porn. But there is just something about taking a drug to alter my natural hormone balance though. Personally it does scare me. | /r/askTRP | 04/12/20 11:21 PM |
| 1 | Any guys using Keeps?It depends. Some guys have minor balding and can hold onto their hair with medication or having a minor transplant. Other guys like me have such aggressive balding that there literally is no fix on the market. | /r/askTRP | 04/12/20 09:53 PM |
| 1 | Disengaged/ low energy helpWhat do you spend your time doing right now? And what do you spend your time thinking about? I found that when my mind was a mess filled with worrying and unhappiness about everything, I felt like shit and was unable to operate at high energy and focus. Also if you masturbate at all, you must cut it down to like once a week. It's difficult but if you're doing it every day, it steals your energy and makes you less likely to pursue relationships. | /r/askTRP | 04/12/20 04:18 PM |
| 16 | What is truly the reason you are not getting laid? My fat 18 year old brother just secured a threesome with 2 chicks.This is a really good point about how much attitude/personality matters. Yes looks matter to some degree, often to at least open the door, but attitude/personality is what will always deliver the success. I've been mostly satisfied with my sex life so far but have been in a bit of a slow period lately, so to answer your question of why: lack of social circle and lack of personality. I mean, it's simple logic. The more people you know the more you can get laid. If you don't know many people and d… | /r/askTRP | 04/12/20 05:49 AM |
| 1 | Question about a man’s ultimate biological goalI'm always stunned at the sexual success of DJT, if indeed he's been with many many women. I get the status and money part, but his physical SMV is pretty god awful; it's hard to believe women would be seriously physically attracted to him. The one woman seemed to indicate that he has a microdick too. Separately though, I agree with you that sex isn't the ultimate goal, but I personally think it's more competence/influence than necessarily "power." If you've seen Jordan Peterson interviews or re… | /r/askTRP | 04/12/20 04:48 AM |
| 1 | Question about a man’s ultimate biological goalFor what I can tell the most meaningful purpose for men is simple: belonging and competence. You can see very clearly what happens to men who feel strongly that they do not belong, or that society does not welcome them into the community properly: they are mass shooters, chronically resentful, or they end their own lives. And men who never achieve high competence in anything meaningful often live extremely crappy lives filled with drugs, poverty, and chronic sadness. Not always, but often. No, t… | /r/askTRP | 04/12/20 04:43 AM |
| 2 | Why is the average girl so boring yet entitled. They literally do no self improvementBecause they know they can get attention, validation, and dick just by existing. Doesn't matter if they're sitting and chronically scrolling...there will always be a number of guys willing to give them exactly what they want so easily. | /r/askTRP | 03/12/20 07:46 AM |
| 2 | Why do most young females insist "I'm happy" when their behavior suggests otherwise?Yes, but I think the male and female brains tend to differ just a bit on this too. I feel like men are more likely to act like we're happy on a daily basis but if we're not, we'll tell you that honestly. Whereas girls seem more likely to verbally say they're happy but all day long they act bitchy and miserable. I dated my ex when she was 18-19 and I was her first LTR, real sexual and emotional relationship. She was genuinely happy on the daily back then. Since she left me and started hoeing arou… | /r/askTRP | 03/12/20 12:16 AM |
| 1 | Why do most young females insist "I'm happy" when their behavior suggests otherwise?Trying but not getting far. Don't understand why because physically I'm a 6-7 and have an athletic body so the physical SMV is there. I could fuck fatties on me right now but I refuse to fuck fat girls; it validates their weight and I will not do that. I always get friendzoned by in-shape girls who are 4-6s. I think we need weekly threads to evaluate each other's SMV and offer advice. Mods should really consider this. | /r/askTRP | 02/12/20 05:24 PM |
| 2 | Why do most young females insist "I'm happy" when their behavior suggests otherwise?Well I say it was a mistake because I did it when I was in a highly emotional state and was legitimately angry with her. I had just found out details of what she'd been up to after we broke up and how bad she let herself go, and I lashed out and insulted the way she had become because I was still sad she didn't stick with me. If I hadn't done that there would be a chance she'd come back for sex because I have decently good SMV and she isn't that high honestly (prob a 5 at the most objectively) a… | /r/askTRP | 02/12/20 04:33 PM |
| 1 | Why do most young females insist "I'm happy" when their behavior suggests otherwise?I have never told her she's miserable lol. I've told reddit. | /r/askTRP | 02/12/20 04:27 PM |
| 5 | Why do most young females insist "I'm happy" when their behavior suggests otherwise?YES. Funny our boss (who is in his 40s and has been with many women over the years) specifically told me that yes, this girl, my ex, will lie to herself and make up hatred of me in her head to justify why I was the wrong choice and to help her feel better about what she's been doing since she left me. Boss told me I need to stop giving a fuck what she says or thinks because the female brain is fucked like that especially at age 21. | /r/askTRP | 02/12/20 04:26 PM |
| 1 | Why do most young females insist "I'm happy" when their behavior suggests otherwise?What specifically? | /r/askTRP | 02/12/20 04:23 PM |
| 5 | Do female dumpers ever come back around?Yes, this. Hoe phase is common first. Then eventually another LTR that she will hope is better than you. That could last a while and she could be convinced she did find better than you. But that can fail; you could end up becoming way better than that guy; etc there are a whole realm of possibilities. Sometimes it can be a few years before she reaches out and says she made a mistake. Lol | /r/askTRP | 02/12/20 04:21 PM |
| 1 | What supplements you guys take?Daily multivitamin, whey protein, creatine capsules, BCAAs, pre-workout. That's all for now. | /r/askTRP | 02/12/20 04:47 AM |
| 7 | girl just texted me this..You should have just not responded. That was a stupid ass reply. But now that you did just move on and forget about this. | /r/askTRP | 02/12/20 04:37 AM |
| 22 | Why do most young females insist "I'm happy" when their behavior suggests otherwise?Yeah she really did for a year + after. This sub has helped me wake up to reality and start to live life again. | /r/askTRP | 02/12/20 03:38 AM |
| 7 | Why do most young females insist "I'm happy" when their behavior suggests otherwise?Notice I very specifically said "most" females because of course it's not all. I actually have a very good female friend who comes from a stronger family and understands the importance of strong relationships and not just sleeping around to feel validated. She's been in one LTR so far and that's it. She's a very strong woman with more traditional values. And she's not miserable, she knows what makes her truly happy, and good for her. She's one of the rare quality girls out there. | /r/askTRP | 02/12/20 01:37 AM |
| 1 | I didn't want to live this way and very close to becoming ragingly suicidalI get that yeah and trying to embrace it. It's just that I really did get very attached. It wasn't just sex; we were together long enough that I actually loved and cared for her as another human life on a deep level. She was a true friend, too. And to see how she's disrespected herself since we broke up and really become a cunt (mutual friend's words, not mine), it's just disappointing because I DID love her. But, her life is her life. So many people keep telling me to move on and stop acting li… | /r/askTRP | 01/12/20 07:39 PM |
| 1 | I didn't want to live this way and very close to becoming ragingly suicidalI will be soon. | /r/askTRP | 01/12/20 05:56 AM |
| 1 | I didn't want to live this way and very close to becoming ragingly suicidalYeah. Still just have some rough days occasionally. Today I'm feeling pretty good actually even though I did work with her. I'm learning that my closure has to come from within. | /r/askTRP | 01/12/20 12:29 AM |
| 9 | Why is heavy fapping bad for your mental wellbeing?Yes, take it from me personally. For several years I battled a pretty crippling porn addiction even though I didn't think it was that big of a deal at the time. I knew it was not good, but downplayed the severity of it in my mind. Every day felt normal but not great and I thought that was just life. There were months a few years ago where I didn't have much going on where I would literally spend 5-10 hours a day on it, almost every day. Yeah...I had a serious problem and didn't realize how bad i… | /r/askTRP | 30/11/20 07:53 PM |
| 1 | I didn't want to live this way and very close to becoming ragingly suicidalSeems to make sense but idk. I just don't understand how her mind works. She's so crazy and childish with her emotions even compared to some other girls her age and I just don't know... will she always react to me in a such a hateful, vitriolic way? Boss has asked her to be more cordial with me but she won't. Like you said, I guess that's because she has to make up these reasons in her head about why I was the wrong choice in order for her to continue on. But I wonder one day if i become much hi… | /r/askTRP | 30/11/20 07:37 PM |
| 1 | I didn't want to live this way and very close to becoming ragingly suicidalYeah I know you're right but very very few guys seem to actually be like that fully. Tons of girls are with betas. My ex is now dating someone 4 years younger than me who I have met a couple times and he's no killer. He's blue pilled just as I was 3 years ago. So I want to believe it but then I'm confused that a girl will swing from one beta to another. I guess part of it is that I proved her wrong so much that she hates knowing I am now right, and keeps lying to herself. She seems happy and ins… | /r/askTRP | 30/11/20 01:02 PM |
| 1 | I didn't want to live this way and very close to becoming ragingly suicidalSo it's been almost 2 years since the first breakup. At times thought I was good but then pain returned. Keeps returning. Not in a very good mental state which has also made it harder to attract other girls. Ugh :( | /r/askTRP | 30/11/20 04:49 AM |
| 1 | I didn't want to live this way and very close to becoming ragingly suicidalBut the thing with this is approach is to make that work it seems I truly have to hate her, look down on her, etc for screwing me over so badly. But I don't want to do that because at the end of the day she's just a young person and clearly is shallow and hasn't been in the best environments or had a good family. She's acted pretty horrible but I don't believe she's a horrible person. That's why I wish so badly she could meet me halfway and just smile at each other and move forward like that, wi… | /r/askTRP | 30/11/20 04:47 AM |
| 1 | I didn't want to live this way and very close to becoming ragingly suicidalThank you for all your words. I really do appreciate the support. I wish I had a bunch of close male friends to lean on but I don't. So I am always in a battle with my own mind. I didn't think I wanted to live this way, red pill, treat it like it doesn't matter. She did matter to me and still does, on a far deeper level than she is even capable of thinking about. I'll never be the same person I was. I hope I make it and can have someone who appreciates who I am someday. | /r/askTRP | 30/11/20 04:24 AM |
| 0 | I didn't want to live this way and very close to becoming ragingly suicidalVery few people can be truly devoid of feelings for another human life that they developed, and those few who can...sounds like a sad and meaningless life to live. Just as I said, it's a collection of ways to mask the pain, not cure it. | /r/askTRP | 30/11/20 04:17 AM |
| 0 | I didn't want to live this way and very close to becoming ragingly suicidalI've had self worth most of my life. Was always fine with myself before, always will be. The problem is solely with this girl. It's sickening how she framed everything and I do not accept that someone can be so shitty and treat someone else they claimed to love so terribly. I've read all this red pill stuff bro. It's not a cure. It's a collection of lights in a dark room to keep you going through the motions, but it does not provide you with ultimate peace. The darkness will still always be ther… | /r/askTRP | 30/11/20 04:11 AM |
| 1 | I didn't want to live this way and very close to becoming ragingly suicidalI want to guarantee at some point in the future she feels like shit about this, regrets framing everything this way, realizes she was wrong and shortsighted, and reaches out to apologize to me. How do I make sure she does that? | /r/askTRP | 30/11/20 04:02 AM |
| 0 | I didn't want to live this way and very close to becoming ragingly suicidalShe did feel the same at the time, but we were also young and I was her first serious relationship. I just cannot believe how horribly she treated the entire situation through breakup and beyond. She was such an actually good person when we were together. Now everyone tells me she's trash and to move on, and trust me I keep trying but the pain never goes away for good. I met my other half for a brief 13 months and sadly she transformed into something else, something awful and wrong and disgustin… | /r/askTRP | 30/11/20 03:50 AM |
| 0 | I didn't want to live this way and very close to becoming ragingly suicidalShe manipulated my mind so much and then called me the manipulator. To her I was too selfish and didn't care enough about her; you're telling me I need to be more selfish. This is why I hate life. It's so fucked. | /r/askTRP | 30/11/20 03:47 AM |
| 1 | I didn't want to live this way and very close to becoming ragingly suicidalThe part about that that's so confusing is she told me so many times that the reason she hates me is because I didn't care, I didn't love her, etc. If I would've disregarded her sooner and continued on with my life like she meant nothing to me, it would have VALIDATED her claims, which were not true. I absolutely loved her and cared and always have, us as guys know this. I did not want her claims to be validated by me ghosting her. Then she'd be able to say "See...he just disregarded me and walk… | /r/askTRP | 30/11/20 03:45 AM |
| 1 | I didn't want to live this way and very close to becoming ragingly suicidalI've always been an individual. I've always been introverted and lonely. I met her and things changed. I could share my peace with life with her, until she turned on me in a pathetic way. I'm drowning now. The inviduality no longer holds up. | /r/askTRP | 30/11/20 03:32 AM |
| 1 | I Can’t Stop Thinking About My ExI'm sorry OP, but the truth is you will never, ever truly get over it. I'm discovering this myself now as I get deeper into red pill approach and as I get older. Someone who truly meant the world to you...and didn't want that from you, or hurt you in a major way...you will never get over her. You can only attempt to cover the pain with as much business as possible in life. You will never be the same again. | /r/askTRP | 30/11/20 03:30 AM |
| 1 | I didn't want to live this way and very close to becoming ragingly suicidalBut why does she want to make me miserable? I did nothing to deserve that kind of treatment. Literally she is the only person in my entire life who thinks so negatively of me. I can tell by the way that I live the rest of my life that other people like, respect, and appreciate me, who I am, and what I do. But not her. Why? Because she manufactured nonsense in her mind because she expected me to be her knight in shining armor when she was 18 and I was 21 and she was hit with a reality check that … | /r/askTRP | 30/11/20 03:27 AM |
| 0 | I didn't want to live this way and very close to becoming ragingly suicidalI don't give a fuck about other girls that way. I gave a fuck about her and can't live with the nonsense she manufactured in her mind to ruin me. | /r/askTRP | 30/11/20 03:24 AM |
| 0 | I didn't want to live this way and very close to becoming ragingly suicidalLike I said the reason is my behavior and mind, not the life I live. Because I know my value and I know I do good things in life. BUT I admit it, my mind is this way because it's supposed to be GOOD to care about things. This girl and I spent a lot of time together...feelings, emotions, truly caring about life on a deep level. A smooth breakup and mutual understanding and respect from her is all I would need. I can't live with someone hating me who I loved so much for bullshit reasons. She doesn… | /r/askTRP | 30/11/20 03:23 AM |
| 1 | I didn't want to live this way and very close to becoming ragingly suicidalI'm not convinced that is the answer. The best solution to me continues to seem to be if she would simply stop viewing me as a horrible guy (ridiculous and false...she literally lied about so much of me and is so wrong in her perspective of things) and give me a fist bump and agree that we're going to be fine with each other and get along and have mutual respect for each others' lives. HOW HARD DOES THAT HAVE TO BE? It's so easy for me to do that; that's all I would ask for. She refuses. That's … | /r/askTRP | 30/11/20 03:12 AM |
| 1 | I didn't want to live this way and very close to becoming ragingly suicidalThe thing is, in terms of tangible things there isn't much more changing I can do. I already live a pretty strong life and am quite clearly the highest quality guy she's gotten with (I learned she has gotten with at least a couple other guys since me). And the sex was good. The reason she hates me is because of my behavior. But to me I believe my behavior has always been authentic and genuine. My biggest issue is I cannot forget, and I don't feel like I should have to in life to be OK. I think i… | /r/askTRP | 30/11/20 02:54 AM |
| 1 | I didn't want to live this way and very close to becoming ragingly suicidalThanks. I just do not get why she has to view me so horribly. There are literally horrible guys out there that do not care about anything in life and never amount to anything; I am not one of them, and deep down she knows that. But she makes up these falsehoods about me, and even spread it around the workplace (didn't work because coworkers ended up being my friends more than they did hers), to justify why she hates me. I haven't figured out how to live with that. I just don't understand why she… | /r/askTRP | 30/11/20 02:31 AM |
| 1 | Best approach when girl is at a low with her bf and sad?Dude gtfo with bullshit like this. Believe it or not, not all girls are heartless hoes, and this girl actually seems to be a pretty decent and respectable girl. I'm not trying to play any games...I'm going to either have mutually-desired sex or not; either way it's all good. | /r/askTRP | 29/11/20 05:44 AM |
| 1 | Best approach when girl is at a low with her bf and sad?Right so any specific advice to create that plate since this is a bit of a sad and hurt girl? Basically everything I want to say feels way too caring and friendly and like it would get me too friendzoned. | /r/askTRP | 29/11/20 03:07 AM |
| 1 | Things to do after finishing school?Ah, didn't realize you were in Australia. Sounds great man! | /r/askTRP | 28/11/20 09:57 PM |
| 1 | Why are girls so illogical/dishonest about almost everything?Part of the reason I will always subconsciously be angry about her is because of how she lied to me and intentionally made me feel like shit though. She's a shitty person who i was somehow still in love with for a year and a half after we broke up. If she would've simply said: "Hey, I'm just not attracted to you anymore; I want to do my own thing." I would've been so much better off. But no, she had to make all these false reasons for what I did wrong and imply that if I just fixed the issues we… | /r/askTRP | 28/11/20 07:38 PM |
| 1 | Why are girls so illogical/dishonest about almost everything?Yeah this is true. It even overpowers basic human decency. Like, my ex knows I'm a good person and do good things, but it doesn't matter. Her loss of respect for me because I was a weak beta with her overpowers her respect for me as a human being. It's pretty crazy. I'm sure if I died in a car crash she'd maybe shed a tear but she'd go right back to thinking about getting alpha dick lol | /r/askTRP | 28/11/20 07:06 PM |
| 1 | Things to do after finishing school?Just curious on the officer thing because you need a college degree to commission as an officer in the military. So are you enlisting? But to answer your question: lift, create a daily routine and follow it, maybe travel or take a vacation somewhere, talk to people, whatever you enjoy doing to fill your time really. Maybe read some books. | /r/askTRP | 28/11/20 04:35 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone here had an experience with narcissistic women? what are the signs?Walks and talks like she's entitled to being better than everyone else/a bad bitch Trashes past partners verbally Doesn't offer to help with anything ever | /r/askTRP | 28/11/20 07:37 AM |
| 2 | Saw my ex at the gym with someone else felt sad about it, is this normal?Maybe we will meet really good girls again someday who want to be loyal and spend life with us. Maybe not. No way to know right now. Just be the best person you can be. I know it's cliche and there's so much real emotional pain involved, but that really is it. I still struggle too man. My ex moved on waaay quicker than I did. In time I've slowly learned to not put her on a pedestal the way I did for so long. Remember: she was a great girl when she was with me for 13 months, but she willingly cho… | /r/askTRP | 28/11/20 02:31 AM |
| 2 | Saw my ex at the gym with someone else felt sad about it, is this normal?Absolutely normal. One of my exes is the only girl I might have ever truly cared about as well, and any time I see her, I can't completely block out the memories. I will always love the person she was when she was with me, back when she was an innocent kind girl before she "awoke" to her nature and wanted to start riding the CC. Right when I first see her I am sad thinking of what I hoped we'd be in life together, but then I remember she dumped me to fuck other guys who will never be as good as … | /r/askTRP | 28/11/20 01:45 AM |
| 50 | Girls are getting fatter and fatterFat girls are not pulling high SMV guys who just want to fuck. At least I don't think so. It would be dreadful if that started to happen a lot. I have fat girls wanna fuck me a lot but I resist and all of us should. Fucking a fat girl is literally rewarding her sexually for being fat and that's NOT OK. I firmly believe this. Do not reward obesity. I have a girl on me right now who is only a little fat and I won't even do that. She keeps talking about working out and and I keep subtly implying th… | /r/askTRP | 28/11/20 12:26 AM |
| 0 | What makes girls fall in love?I get why you'd think that but nope that is not the case here. I am the older guy. I am the more established, more mature guy. She has proven herself to be an extremely immature and unintelligent person and I was too serious and too established for her. She literally prefers guys more on her own level and who are OK babying her about everything. | /r/askTRP | 27/11/20 05:37 AM |
| 2 | What’s more important fellas? Looks, money or status?Looks is the most important. People want to say game but looks (maybe unfortunately) is the starting point. Looks open the door; game gets you in. | /r/askTRP | 27/11/20 02:19 AM |
| -1 | What makes girls fall in love?These two things do not guarantee she'll fall in love with you, though. Big dick and big wallet for my age here...got dumped and made out to be a horrible guy by my ex who proceeded to proudly become a hoe after leaving me. She knows I am 95th percentile dick size and she knows how much money I have in the bank. Doesn't matter; she hates me because I know she became a hoe and called her out for it. She'd rather be with lower value guys who treat her better in the moment and do everything for her… | /r/askTRP | 26/11/20 06:23 PM |
| 1 | Best way to quit smoking weed?Do you use equipment for it? Throw it all in a dumpster somewhere, or have someone else do it for you if it's too difficult. That's what I did when I finally decided I wanted to stop. I threw my vaporizer and grinder and all my equipment and accessories into a dumpster. | /r/askTRP | 25/11/20 02:25 AM |
| 13 | I accept it, but it's kinda fucked how dishonesty/suppression of feelings often winsLol sorry for your loss but sounds like it's for the best. You were just being honest and she didn't respect that. I once told my ex months after our breakup when we met up to maybe get back together that I had met another girl in college that I could've dated but that I didn't and was holding out for her hoping we could make it work. She found this unattractive and she got even more distant. I also suspect that despite being a strong, intelligent, hard working guy, the reason that not many girl… | /r/askTRP | 24/11/20 04:55 AM |
| 1 | How true would you say this statement is?So I'm becoming more knowledgeable about all this but some things still do confuse me. I have gave my last girl a roller coaster of emotions, a big dick and good sex, and a vision of a future. She fell in love with me for a year but then fell out of love with me when she realized she could hookup with other guys she wanted to fuck. And subsequently stopped giving a shit about me. When I used logic and reason to explain to her why she was wrong and why her and I deserved to work on our future tog… | /r/askTRP | 23/11/20 09:16 PM |
| 1 | How true would you say this statement is?Yeah, but now we know with red pill that there aren't any. Many guys think if they're a good person at heart that your girl will always love you. She won't. One of the toughest but most helpful things that one of my ex's "friends" told me was that part of the reason why she dumped me was because there were simply hotter guys she wanted to fuck. | /r/askTRP | 23/11/20 08:09 PM |
| 1 | How true would you say this statement is?What, the ex? Nah. I loved her as a person until she chose the hoe, bad bitch life. Kept wanting to see her as a unicorn long after she made the decision to start running through guys. But that's why now we treat them as who they want to be: hoes. | /r/askTRP | 23/11/20 07:55 PM |
| 2 | Girls with different politicsDidn't read. Don't care. You don't talk about it. | /r/askTRP | 17/11/20 11:05 PM |
| 1 | Two big personal issues that are holding me back from fully embracing self-confidenceSo I actually started wearing contact lenses. Essentially free with my family insurance and I'm very happy about it. Sadly on the other problem, I just can't shave my head and certainly not every day. I get irritation and bumps and the look is bad because of the 5 o clock shadow. I will buzz down to 0 length but keep a little longer on top to lessen the contrast. But obviously this isn't a long term solution and I'm still going to have to figure something out. Shaving my whole head every day is … | /r/askTRP | 15/11/20 09:04 PM |
| 2 | Ex texted me that she's fucking other guysNot sure why this works well but it's hilarious and I'm gonna use it with girls now too haha. Including my ex | /r/askTRP | 12/11/20 01:53 AM |
| 1 | I'm struggling with what to do with my life and as a dreamer who has high expectationsYeah, as I said I'm not expecting the military to be my purpose. But I am literally so isolated and alone and bored with my life right now that I think joining may be a great thing for me. I loved high school, where you're forced to be in a close knit environment with your peers and you're forced into a schedule and routines. The military provides that sort of structure too. I think it's better than continuing to waste away my days doing what I am right now. At least for maybe a few years, until… | /r/askTRP | 11/11/20 08:39 PM |
| 1 | I'm struggling with what to do with my life and as a dreamer who has high expectationsYeah. But the baffling thing to me is that I'm probably better off financially and physically than 75% of people my same age around me, yet I feel dreadful on a daily basis whereas most others seem to be happy and having fun. Perhaps I'm not following one of rules in Jordan Peterson's book: don't compare yourself to others today. I've been sort of rejected by others from time to time too and it makes me feel like a failure even though like I said I'm probably better off than a majority of people… | /r/askTRP | 11/11/20 08:31 PM |
| 1 | I'm struggling with what to do with my life and as a dreamer who has high expectationsHmm. Unclear. Maybe a tie between two things. 1. Graduating college with a high GPA and taking on leadership positions. 2. (You'll laugh at this) fucking a 7 for a year straight. Because just a few years ago I never saw myself as a guy who could get an attractive girl let alone hold a relationship for that long. Hahaha It's hard to say because I really do feel like I've underachieved so far in life. I've been stuck in the "average" to "below-average" environments and I know I don't belong here. … | /r/askTRP | 11/11/20 10:15 AM |
| 0 | Advice for going on vacation aloneFuck you. red pill perspective. You read the fucking rules, as you just violated them. | /r/askTRP | 20/10/20 09:06 PM |
| 1 | Why should you not have sex with an ex-ltr?Just because a girl is an ex doesn't mean she is necessarily trash though. And if she's not, it's totally fair game. | /r/askTRP | 20/10/20 04:20 AM |
| 2 | I have fucked up my life and do not see how it is fixableI may be. But I'm not intending to be and don't want to be that's for sure. Hopefully I can change going forward and not go too deep down that road. | /r/askTRP | 07/10/20 02:36 AM |
| 1 | Having difficulty making friends with other alpha/popular guys and girlsI do have hobbies and interests. Golf (I used to play competitively). Sports. Working out. Science. Technology. Travel. Investing. The thing is I have to do all these things alone because nobody around me seems to share these things. They go play minecraft and watch their series on Netflix. Apparently I'm different than a lot of people my age. I will keep doing things on my own but so far people do not follow and I do not meet other real friends. It's really almost like I need a forced environme… | /r/askTRP | 06/10/20 06:22 PM |
| 1 | Having difficulty making friends with other alpha/popular guys and girlsSo I researched inferiority complex, and yes, that generally describes me... but I'd argue that it's justified. I'm short, balding, and have never been popular. So I maximize every other aspect possible and act like I'm high in the hierarchy because that's what you have to do to get by if you aren't blessed with everything attractive by default. There is no other way. | /r/askTRP | 06/10/20 06:16 PM |
| -1 | Having difficulty making friends with other alpha/popular guys and girlsThis is a bunch of nonsense. You contradict yourself so many times that it pretty much invalidates your red pill perspective entirely. I don't want a real social circle ONLY to feel better about myself; the point is I will feel better about myself once I have genuine friends to care about. Those things go hand in hand. Nobody flocks to red pill guys who are all alone, dude. I don't know what world you live in but that's not life. My thoughts in this post I keep hidden in my daily life, so they'r… | /r/askTRP | 06/10/20 02:44 PM |
| 1 | Having difficulty making friends with other alpha/popular guys and girlsInteresting perspective. Thanks for that. I guess I do have things to offer other people, sure. I have knowledge and skill in certain subject areas. I've just been so hard on myself because I've been so lonely and was never "cool" or popular growing up, and most of the other alpha guys I see now are cool and popular. Good looking, get girls, have tons of friends, etc. and I've never had that in my life. | /r/askTRP | 06/10/20 05:02 AM |
| 2 | Having difficulty making friends with other alpha/popular guys and girlsAdded one for ya | /r/askTRP | 06/10/20 04:37 AM |
| 3 | How to improve hairstyle of baldness?I don't have a real solution but the hair systems you can get today look amazing. You can literally go from a sickly looking guy to a guy every girl will swoon over. If your goal is to only fuck around and not commit to a LTR, maybe they'd work for you. But you'll have to live every day knowing it's fake hair glued to your scalp and you're basically lying about your genetic quality to the world. Sad, but true. My dad this. Married my mom and she never even found out until years into marriage. No… | /r/askTRP | 06/10/20 01:51 AM |
| 19 | Bro's my life is going bad, not like petty bad, actually bad. What does a guy do in this situation?I agree with all of this but I'm actually gonna suggest starting with small problems and fixing those first. Literally can be the most basic thing, simply to stop the slide of depression. Your room is getting messy? Clean it up and organize it. Eating garbage food? Go to the store and buy only healthier food and start eating that this week. Those little things will slow the worsening depression and give you more energy and motivation to do progressively bigger things. Keep at it OP. | /r/askTRP | 04/10/20 07:42 AM |
| 1 | Do promiscuous women have sex with only high value males?Sir, you have no knowledge of our relationship. I only mentioned MY mistakes; I didn't mention any of hers. You know nothing. I took full responsibility for my mental state during our relationship, which was in the dumps. We actually mutually split and then tried to get back together 2 times after, many months later. Do not comment on relationships you know absolutely nothing about beyond a very brief comment I made to SOMEONE ELSE. And no, if I dumped a girl for treating me badly, I would absol… | /r/askTRP | 24/09/20 04:52 PM |
| 1 | Do promiscuous women have sex with only high value males?Because I can honestly live fine if she just went onto someone else. We didn't work out, but maybe if we changed and became better we'd be right for each other in the future. But to learn that she just embraced hooking up with a bunch of guys, including for spiteful and immature social drama reasons that i won't get into here... that changed my perception of her. If she ever wanted to fix where we broke apart I don't know if it'd be right to accept her back knowing how many other guys she's slep… | /r/askTRP | 24/09/20 12:04 AM |
| 1 | Do promiscuous women have sex with only high value males?It is sad man. I'm still not fully over it and might not ever be until I fill my life with so much fun and business that I don't have time to think about it. I loved the girl man. Truly did. It's my fault I pushed her away, but I didn't push her into hoeing around with low class guys. But her life her choices i guess. It's just devastating to see the dream in your head of being together go up in flames. | /r/askTRP | 23/09/20 11:57 PM |
| 1 | Do promiscuous women have sex with only high value males?My ex dumped me because I pushed her away and treated her poorly (I take full responsibility for that). But then in the year since, she's slept with 9+ guys, several of whom are very low value (uneducated, barely had jobs, not men at all). She probably didn't want me to know but I found out anyway which started with her calling herself a hoe to mutual friends. Then she admitted to me who she slept with. Not that I should care now. But it did hurt. She chose low value hoeing around over fixing ou… | /r/askTRP | 23/09/20 04:38 PM |
| 1 | Do promiscuous women have sex with only high value males?No, they do it with low value males too. They make very poor decisions and even admit it if prompted. | /r/askTRP | 23/09/20 12:13 PM |
| 1 | I am very resentful about missing out on the reckless "fun" of college/early adulthoodYeah. What are you implying about that. I'm fine when I'm there. In fact I prefer to work as much as possible to keep my social interaction and mental health up. | /r/askTRP | 22/09/20 07:56 PM |
| 1 | I am very resentful about missing out on the reckless "fun" of college/early adulthoodI have a job. Sorry if I didn't say that. I've always had jobs. That's not really the issue. I am not fulfilled because I have no system to play in. It's like a game and I'm a spectator. My ex joined the military, only reserve even, and it has been great for her. She probably wouldn't have gotten out of the ghetto otherwise. | /r/askTRP | 22/09/20 07:35 PM |
| 1 | I am very resentful about missing out on the reckless "fun" of college/early adulthoodI have a couple friends but none are close. I feel 100% alone and disconnected from the world. I decided it was better to be alone than friends with losers who waste all their time and money on unhealthy things. But maybe I took it too rigidly. Now I'm a coomer too with lots of social and sexual energy and nowhere to use it. | /r/askTRP | 22/09/20 07:15 PM |
| 1 | I am very resentful about missing out on the reckless "fun" of college/early adulthoodPart of the thing is I also hate the way I am. I wish i could have a lobotomy. I'm too perfectionist, too idealist, care too much about everything. Like, I actually have a friend or two from the job I've been working this summer. But they didn't go to college and just like to do things like play video games and vape. The one guy is kinda OK though and I could ask him to start working out with me. I just worry about my own image befriending someone who's much (let's be honest) less intelligent an… | /r/askTRP | 22/09/20 07:05 PM |
| 1 | I am very resentful about missing out on the reckless "fun" of college/early adulthoodYeah, I know. I know it's stupid of me to be resentful about this. But I just can't help it lately. I think it's mostly because I have nothing going for me since I graduated in May. Zero social life, lost my girlfriend, nothing to look forward to on a daily basis. All college gave me was a bunch of debt and a piece of paper. Now I'm trying to figure out how to make something good out of life. | /r/askTRP | 22/09/20 06:45 PM |
| 1 | I am very resentful about missing out on the reckless "fun" of college/early adulthoodYeah but I literally have nothing right now living back at home graduating into the pandemic shutdown. No friends, no social system even, nothing. I wouldn't join the military for the girls, even though I'm sure it would still better than the absolute nothing I have right now; I'd join for the life structure, the social system, and career path. | /r/askTRP | 22/09/20 06:32 PM |
| 1 | I am very resentful about missing out on the reckless "fun" of college/early adulthoodThat's the problem though, I can't right now. I literally have nothing. Graduated into the shutdown, have been living back at home working a food delivery job and a part time construction job with family. I have nothing; I have no friends here, literally no arena to play in. I feel totally trapped and don't know what to do now. | /r/askTRP | 22/09/20 06:29 PM |
| 2 | If a girl loses attraction to you is it always your fault?NO Not always your fault, but sometimes is. But a lot of us are weak and foolish and beta early in life and don't want to accept female behavior including hypergamy. The key though is evaluating what happened through a honest lens. What did you do wrong that you could've done better? What can you improve about yourself going forward? If the answers to these questions are "nothing," then you're probably a god. But most of the time of course there are things we could've done better. But even if yo… | /r/askTRP | 21/09/20 06:49 AM |
| 9 | Is bleaching your hair beta?No it's not beta. It's only beta if you walk around thinking it's beta. Again, being alpha is a mindset, an attitude. Bleach it if you want dude. Sounds cool to me. Wish I had hair to do that! | /r/askTRP | 18/09/20 02:08 AM |
| -4 | If a girl doesn't publicly show much that she's in a relationship, does that mean she's DTF anyone?Um yes, girl is a hoe and proud of it. I know way more than you probably think. | /r/askTRP | 17/09/20 03:10 AM |
| 0 | If a girl doesn't publicly show much that she's in a relationship, does that mean she's DTF anyone?He does use social media. I do know a bit actually. They have been seeing each other for 4 months but it's all on the down low in terms of social media. So as far as I care that's the girl purposely making it less significant. Because people i know who are actually in a relationship and content with it make it clear on social media. | /r/askTRP | 17/09/20 02:19 AM |
| 1 | If a girl doesn't publicly show much that she's in a relationship, does that mean she's DTF anyone?Yeah, I don't mean what does she think of me specifically. I can judge that. Just mean in general if a girl doesn't show on social media that she is "dating" a guy, does that mean she really wants to keep her options open and doesn't want other guys to think she's in a relationship. I think it kinda does. | /r/askTRP | 17/09/20 01:57 AM |
| 1 | Advice about strong bonds with male friendsUnfortunately the older we get the harder it gets to have strong male friend bonds. I am 24 and have posted here about this before. I made the mistake of being far too introverted/afraid to make friends throughout my teens and college years. I have a handful of acquaintances, similarly to you, but no close "bros" at all. Every night I go to bed feeling completely alone. And it's usually on me to reach out to them; they rarely reach out to me. I don't know what it's like to have a close friend *g… | /r/askTRP | 16/09/20 06:28 PM |
| 2 | After some reflection, I don't even really like girls and all their bullshitI mean sure because most females and gay guys are overly dramatic and consumed by stupid drama and games. I'm just out here trying to work hard and chill lol. | /r/askTRP | 16/09/20 02:46 AM |
| 2 | After some reflection, I don't even really like girls and all their bullshitYeah. I just still get confused between not giving a fuck about anything and not giving a fuck just about stuff that holds you back. Because the "heroes" of society DO care about a lot of things. Just certain things, for really good reasons. I have to retrain my mind to only care about certain things and not care about other things and people who are no good for me. | /r/askTRP | 16/09/20 01:50 AM |
| 11 | After some reflection, I don't even really like girls and all their bullshitYeah, seems like stuff I agree with here. That's what I'm trying to build myself into. A strong man who girls respect and admire. I always used to think I was a great guy but looking back, I was a weak beta bitch. Was in a blue pill relationship with a girl whose virginity I took despite making so many weak mistakes during the whole thing. I've been making some real improvements so that's good. It hasn't been easy to change my entire attitude and outlook towards life but I'm doing it little by l… | /r/askTRP | 16/09/20 12:42 AM |
| 5 | After some reflection, I don't even really like girls and all their bullshitAnd some guys get lucky and meet a genuinely good woman who isn't attractive enough to pull a lot of guys so she'll just commit to a real long term relationship with the guy and they'll get married and live happily. But those cases are rare. Usually both the guy and the girl have to be below average in attractivenes and/or both obese, have very similar interests, or something like that. | /r/askTRP | 16/09/20 12:11 AM |
| 2 | After some reflection, I don't even really like girls and all their bullshitI am actually a bit bisexual but gay guys are often just as annoying as women... not interested. I'm only bi for straight, masculine guys 😂 | /r/askTRP | 15/09/20 11:48 PM |
| 12 | What are some manipulation tactics you've seen women pull off?Insisting that you played and used them when they actually played and used you (applies to men still in the blue pill phase and truly fell for a girl). And they do not give a shit about you anymore because you're a beta bitch. | /r/askTRP | 12/09/20 06:10 PM |
| 11 | How much more success were you guys able to have on dating apps (Tinder, Hinge, etc.) when you got jacked versus when you were lean but skinny?I mean I guess technically it's not necessarily being jacked in every case; some guys are gifted and have great looks being lean and just barely toned and can get women wet just by luck of having great facial genes. But that's a minority. For most of us, we need to win in other ways, so that's why being jacked helps a ton. Keep it simple with the pictures. | /r/askTRP | 11/09/20 09:22 PM |
| 57 | How much more success were you guys able to have on dating apps (Tinder, Hinge, etc.) when you got jacked versus when you were lean but skinny?In terms of matches alone, started getting more and with hotter girls. Simple as that. I've always been in good shape, but in the past I would put up an array of 6 or 7 pictures of different things in my life like the "experts" recommend. One of my face, one studious/more serious one, one of me with a younger cousin (kid), one of me in the gym, one of me doing a hobby, etc. But I always had a smug attitude and look. I only matched with fatties, if for whatever reason I ever swiped right on them.… | /r/askTRP | 11/09/20 07:30 PM |
| 1 | I guess I care too much about people and things, but I don't know if I should changeI've just never really been selfish my whole life; as I said, I've always been way too caring about helping other people clearly to my own detriment. I just know that there are good and bad ways to live and letting people that I care about live badly has always hurt me. Yes, unresolved closure and oneitis. I know we're never going to be together again, but there were serious unresolved things. The conversation started out decently actually but then turned sour when I started trying to "fix" her … | /r/askTRP | 10/09/20 05:58 AM |
| 1 | I guess I care too much about people and things, but I don't know if I should changeThank you | /r/askTRP | 09/09/20 10:34 PM |
| 2 | Is having a tan objectively more attractive than being pale?If it doesn't bother you personally then don't worry about it. I am also pale and went through a phase of thinking I needed to darken my skin to be more attractive but it just wasn't worth it. Plenty of pale guys have high SMV. Work on other things. And just spend more time outside with sunscreen if necessary to get a slight tan. Don't bother with lotions and tanners unless you really have nothing better to spend your time with. And if a girl sees that you use a tanning lotion she will be turned… | /r/askTRP | 29/08/20 03:00 AM |
| 1 | Where are all the higher-status, intelligently-driven people out there?Yeah I'm not talking about 4-wheeling and shooting guns lol. I'm talking about spending all your weeks paychecks on video games and mountain dews, being overweight, failing to take care of yourself, drinking too much, and stuff like that. I'm 24 years old, so at some point you have to say goodbye to that lazy, stupid, unhealthy stuff and work to improve your life. And I don't like to be around people who still act like this. If that makes me a snob, so be it. Thanks lol Like, I'd want a friend w… | /r/askTRP | 26/08/20 12:09 AM |
| 2 | Does avoiding social drama/gossip always make you more attractive?Yeah, I think if you get too involved in social gossip as a guy you are much more likely to be friendzoned and not get much good out of it. I think it's best to keep your involvement in social gossip very limited and short and only speak about it or about other people if there's a good reason to. Otherwise it makes you appear that you have nothing going on for yourself and just want to butt into other people's lives. | /r/askTRP | 23/08/20 03:38 AM |
| 1 | FriendshipIt is time to figure out what YOU want to do with your life and what you value and care about. And only keep around people and friends who aren't detrimental to that vision. | /r/askTRP | 22/08/20 11:33 PM |
| 3 | Am I the only one who doesn't like fucking sluts?Nope, you're not the only one and this is normal. I don't have much of a problem with a girl who maybe is with several different guys throughout a year, but i find girls who fuck a handful of guys all at the same time just gross and trashy and unattractive. | /r/askTRP | 21/08/20 04:15 PM |
| 3 | Should you avoid making friends with blue-pilled men?No. Blue pilled simply means they haven't awoken to the truth of so much of reality yet. It doesn't mean they're necessarily pretending to do certain things to get what they want; often they truly believe they have the correct approach because they've never been shown otherwise. They're fine to be friends with, as long as not all of your friends are like that. | /r/askTRP | 21/08/20 03:16 AM |
| 1 | I have fucked up my life and do not see how it is fixableI don't get the part about quiet Asian roommates. Lol | /r/askTRP | 20/08/20 02:24 PM |
| 1 | How to cope with ex's current guy being more attractiveBut life is mostly about other people whether we like it or not. We have to feel right about ourselves in the minds of others to some degree to feel like we belong. But i do understand that I'm choosing the wrong girl to feel this way about. | /r/askTRP | 19/08/20 04:11 PM |
| 1 | How to cope with ex's current guy being more attractiveI do know. :( But then the next thing is, if I become true alpha and kill the inner bitch in me for good and make something of myself and my life, I wonder if she would ever reach out or respect me or find attraction in me again. If not, I'll forever view the whole thing as a loss and I don't like losing. | /r/askTRP | 19/08/20 03:48 PM |
| 1 | How to cope with ex's current guy being more attractiveThe thing that fucked me up is that she insisted the reason she dumped me was because i was too selfish and self centered and didn't care enough about the relationship. So now everybody tells me to be selfish and focus on myself, yet she says the reason she hates me and dumped me is because I was selfish. Perhaps I was selfish towards her. But I never have been in life generally. I've always been super caring and I worry too much about others to my own detriment. And I extracted feeling of value… | /r/askTRP | 19/08/20 03:34 PM |
| 1 | How to cope with ex's current guy being more attractiveI think i have mental health struggles because it's just been so hard for so long. And I'm not making excuses; I've been trying hard but I lack a lot of things in my life right now and I'm gonna need to make some drastic changes in direction soon. Everything is a work in progress still... | /r/askTRP | 19/08/20 02:02 AM |
| 0 | How to cope with ex's current guy being more attractiveThe irony is that we're all here for help but the guys who are playing the best (and winning) probably rarely go on reddit. Lol | /r/askTRP | 18/08/20 11:18 PM |
| 2 | How to cope with ex's current guy being more attractiveWe unfollowed each other everywhere and no longer have contact but I personally try not to block because it makes a guy look more emotional and neurotic. Just ignoring is the best I think. | /r/askTRP | 18/08/20 11:11 PM |
| 1 | How to cope with ex's current guy being more attractiveYeah. I am better than the guy at a lot, but my ex doesn't care. She's not exactly too bright of an individual let's say. I actually know the new guy from a part time side gig. And his middle name is my first name so people who know us both joke around about how my ex is still fucking a ("my name" and his middle name). Lol it's stupid but whatever. Anyway, he's cool and I actually don't have any ill feelings with him; the ill feelings are with my ex, who doesn't care about actual hard work and d… | /r/askTRP | 18/08/20 11:07 PM |
| 3 | How to cope with ex's current guy being more attractiveI mean I can already smile at that. I took her virginity; hit those walls like crazy for a year. The 7 or so guys that came after me never had it that good or that long. | /r/askTRP | 18/08/20 09:40 PM |
| -6 | How to cope with ex's current guy being more attractiveYou have to play to win in my opinion. | /r/askTRP | 18/08/20 09:28 PM |
| 1 | How to cope with ex's current guy being more attractivePart of my problem is balding too man. And you felt bad for a few weeks... I've felt bad for about a year lol. I probably have walking depression at this point. I'm just going through motions without actually ever feeling great about anything anymore. I have to do something about my hair problem. Unfortunately there is no treatment that can regrow the amount of hair I'd need, and I look bad shaved bald. So I feel stuck without any good options. | /r/askTRP | 18/08/20 08:37 PM |
| 0 | How to cope with ex's current guy being more attractiveOccasional side gig job; slightly overlapping friends | /r/askTRP | 18/08/20 08:31 PM |
| 1 | Guys who lack purpose are still succeeding with womenMy ex tried to make me jealous by noting that she's been with at least 7 other guys since she dumped me last year when I've only been with 3. It's like she wants to brag that she's winning over me. | /r/askTRP | 18/08/20 02:26 PM |
| 0 | Help me feel good about deleting porn stashYou're right. It's just the fact that so many people do use porn and also have vibrant sex lives, and so sometimes it gets confusing and seems unnecessary to delete it all. But i think it really is poison on the mind | /r/askTRP | 18/08/20 01:50 AM |
| 3 | Help me feel good about deleting porn stashBut right now I have no bitches in my life so I'll have absolutely nothing if I delete it all lmao | /r/askTRP | 18/08/20 01:20 AM |
| 1 | Should you ever call out a girl's hoe behavior/speak in those terms?Well I don't wanna be around hoes and let them control me lol | /r/askTRP | 18/08/20 12:10 AM |
| 1 | Guys who lack purpose are still succeeding with womenBut the thing is, I did treat her like crap and didn't commit. I understand that's pretty much what's taught here, but we were still young and innocent and she did want commitment and to feel good. She eventually dumped me bc i treated her badly as a byproduct of mental health issues, and she dumped me. It wasn't one other guy, i know that. Maybe months after, yeah she's been with others. But I do believe her perspective when she says I hurt her by being too selfish. I did. It wasn't intentional… | /r/askTRP | 17/08/20 11:03 PM |
| 1 | Should you ever call out a girl's hoe behavior/speak in those terms?Is there a strong way to disapprove of and not reward hoe behavior then? Just ignore, but never use the honest language? | /r/askTRP | 17/08/20 10:59 PM |
| 1 | Should you ever call out a girl's hoe behavior/speak in those terms?Uh to tell the truth? We all know hoe behavior is bad, but i want to see what others think about whether it should be suppressed simply on the fact that it may do damage to use language like that with girls. Idk. For example. Girl tries to get something from you; wants you to do something only so she doesn't have to. And she's a hoe. So you could say "Nah, you're a hoe and I don't think that's good for you" or any variation of that kind of language. Or if your ex tries to talk to you... call her… | /r/askTRP | 17/08/20 10:58 PM |
| 1 | Should you ever call out a girl's hoe behavior/speak in those terms?What do you mean when there's not other people around? So you mean one on one with a girl is fine but just don't let others hear it? | /r/askTRP | 17/08/20 09:07 PM |
| 0 | Should you ever call out a girl's hoe behavior/speak in those terms?Society requires judgment. Without judgment there can be no hierarchy; without a hierarchy there can be no purpose. All smart people know hoe behavior is a bad thing. The question here is whether it's OK to say that in front of women or not. | /r/askTRP | 17/08/20 09:06 PM |
| 1 | Should you ever call out a girl's hoe behavior/speak in those terms?This is a general question about all hoes. Not about my ex. All smart people know that hoe behavior is bad. The question is, is it OK to say that around women, or should it be avoided. | /r/askTRP | 17/08/20 09:05 PM |
| 1 | Guys who lack purpose are still succeeding with womenBeing selfish and not giving enough of a fuck is why my ex girlfriend dumped me. She wanted commitment and a relationship and eventually got hurt by the hooking up along with emotional conflict. I was an insecure selfish beta who was afraid to open up more and that's what hurt her. So not all girls are the same i guess. | /r/askTRP | 17/08/20 07:39 PM |
| 1 | The good-ole blue pill days. What iconic blue pilled moment in your life makes you thankful for how you’ve turned out today?One of the most catastrophic fuck ups you've ever seen? Lol that's ridiculous. I don't know if my life actually IS worse under red pill; actually in many ways I'm doing better now than I was 2 years ago. But I'm referring to my mindset. I'm not happy. Not satisfied. Yeah I may have been blind 2 years ago but I was happier and felt better about things and seemed to be more attractive in my behavior even. Now I'm disappointed and angry and dejected. I'm sure by many people's measurement I'm doing … | /r/askTRP | 16/08/20 10:39 PM |
| 8 | The good-ole blue pill days. What iconic blue pilled moment in your life makes you thankful for how you’ve turned out today?Sorry but I'm gonna be one of those who is still in the anger and unhappy red pill phase. My blue pill days were much better at least thus far. I felt far happier just on a daily basis. Talked vibrantly with more people. Had more genuine feeling connections. Dated two girls (separate times) whereas now I date none. Believing my ex girlfriend truly loved me and feeling that burning passion, even if it wasn't really real, was far better than the way I feel about life now. Hopefully others won't be… | /r/askTRP | 16/08/20 09:07 PM |
| 2 | Why do women exhibit promiscuous nature after experiencing trauma?This is one of the best responses I've seen to this sort of topic. It really is that society and culture structures and pressures kept women from being what they are in their purest form (hoes). Unfortunately many of those structures and pressures have been removed and I'm not sure that's a good thing overall. | /r/askTRP | 16/08/20 08:10 PM |
| 1 | Why do women exhibit promiscuous nature after experiencing trauma?So then, admittedly as a guy who hurt my ex girlfriend emotionally and realized that long after we broke up, do I carry some blame in her becoming a proud hoe since then? If you're saying girls only have that as their form of expression, then how can they be blamed for risky and impulsive hoe behavior? Makes me feel even worse about the past and like it's all my fault for ruining her. Aka she's a hoe now and proud of it because of the emotional trauma I inflicted on her. | /r/askTRP | 16/08/20 08:03 PM |
| 1 | Guys who lack purpose are still succeeding with womenYes true. But don't think I haven't tried. I've done a lot of things right but it hasn't been nearly enough. I am screwed until I can figure out how to improve my actual genetic makeup or at least the illusion of it. I am your intelligent, conscientious guy who gets taken advantage of and isn't appreciated or loved. I am a pretend alpha. For too long I've been OK with that but not anymore. Now I'm getting angry. | /r/askTRP | 16/08/20 07:25 PM |
| 2 | Guys who lack purpose are still succeeding with womenHair is genetic. I was screwed genetically and have almost no hair left at 24. Guys who have shit bodies but great hair are fucking girls around me while I have a great athletic body from hard work in the gym and currently get no one and part of it is because my head makes me look like I have a horrible disease. | /r/askTRP | 16/08/20 06:19 PM |
| 1 | Guys who lack purpose are still succeeding with womenIf you lack the looks you never truly have good access to the door; you're just deluded that you do. | /r/askTRP | 16/08/20 06:09 PM |
| 2 | Guys who lack purpose are still succeeding with womenI don't even know what this black pill nonsense you're talking about is nor do I care. I'm just speaking what I believe are facts. Sorry if you don't want to acknowledge reality mostly for what it is. | /r/askTRP | 16/08/20 06:08 PM |
| 7 | Guys who lack purpose are still succeeding with womenI'm honestly starting to think that investing in physical looks is the best advice to give. More attractive people get more opportunities in everything. So yeah, even though we can't choose our genes, there may be things we can do to up our facial anesthetics. Braces if needed to fix teeth/bite. Jaw implants. Lose body fat. Have surgery if you're really bad. Hair transplants. Heck maybe even hairpieces for those of us who are basically bald because pretty boys with thick hair are fucking the gir… | /r/askTRP | 16/08/20 06:06 PM |
| 6 | Guys who lack purpose are still succeeding with womenMoney talk is overblown too. Most women don't care. They fuck the broke hot guy over the guy who makes great money and has a "passion" in his work. And they'll always go back to the hot broke guy over and over. | /r/askTRP | 16/08/20 05:17 PM |
| 3 | Guys who lack purpose are still succeeding with womenYou must have an unusually high observation of this because this is absolutely rare in my experience. The norm is that physical looks matter the most; extremely more than anything else. If a girl finds you high in genetic sexual appearance, you have absolute control from the start. If you have below average genes and looks you do not. | /r/askTRP | 16/08/20 05:12 PM |
| 0 | Guys who lack purpose are still succeeding with womenOk but you'll fuck almost every single 5-9 regularly and that's the point. | /r/askTRP | 16/08/20 04:58 PM |
| 5 | Guys who lack purpose are still succeeding with womenSo what? Tons of guys do this, have a great time, and are happy until it's their time to kick the bucket. | /r/askTRP | 16/08/20 04:57 PM |
| 3 | Guys who lack purpose are still succeeding with womenExactly. You can always improve your overall attractiveness in little ways but an average looking guy will never, ever have more sexual success than a genetically gifted guy. It could be argued that most of life outcomes are determined by genes and things about ourselves that we don't get to choose. | /r/askTRP | 16/08/20 04:55 PM |
| 12 | I don't think I enjoy women anymore. Is this a normal stage of the red pill?I think it's normal. After my last relationship ended badly and I've been trying to re-learn how to spit game and get with females, I've found that it is ridiculously exhausting and that most females are just playing games and wasting my time. I feel that i have less serious interest in girls now than ever. I just don't like to be constantly disappointed and that's what most girls do... constantly disappoint. And this is all a net positive for me because i can now focus my time and energy on mor… | /r/askTRP | 15/08/20 11:37 AM |
| 1 | Girl praises "boyfriend" unnecessarily in conversation with me...is this a shit test?This probably makes the most sense of all responses thus far yeah. And I haven't acknowledged her bf, who isn't cute anyway...I just ignore when she mentions him and I change the subject just as I should. He isn't even her bf; she advertises herself as single lol. | /r/askTRP | 15/08/20 04:17 AM |
| 5 | I block girls out of nowhere and i don't know why i do itLike someone else said, you are high in neuroticism. Not a very good thing especially as a male. Stop this overly emotional nonsense. Don't block anyone, ever. The only valid reason to block someone is if they are legitimately harassing you to a degree it's no longer tolerable. Otherwise you just look weak and closed minded. Change your blocking to simply ignoring. Leave the social media connection there and just ignore. Or unfollow. But don't block. Stop that and you'll automatically be better … | /r/askTRP | 15/08/20 02:31 AM |
| -3 | Girl praises "boyfriend" unnecessarily in conversation with me...is this a shit test?Take a chill pill. It's not oneitis. She's just one girl, never said I'm only talking to her. | /r/askTRP | 15/08/20 12:30 AM |
| 4 | Girl praises "boyfriend" unnecessarily in conversation with me...is this a shit test?Alright thanks for the advice | /r/askTRP | 14/08/20 10:50 PM |
| 2 | Why do women exhibit promiscuous nature after experiencing trauma?Yes, so correct. What do you think could cause them to hit the brakes and start to say, hmm, maybe it's not all that good for me to keep doing this over and over again with guys who aren't actually committing to me? What could cause a potential shift in mindset back to a more rational, calm mating perspective? | /r/askTRP | 14/08/20 10:49 PM |
| -3 | Girl praises "boyfriend" unnecessarily in conversation with me...is this a shit test?Does the red pill really teach to not even speak to girls like this? Because this is most girls then. lol | /r/askTRP | 14/08/20 10:43 PM |
| 0 | Girl praises "boyfriend" unnecessarily in conversation with me...is this a shit test?lol I'm not wasting much effort or time on her man, don't worry. Just wondered what people thought about the unnecessary praising of her "boyfriend" to me. Lol thanks | /r/askTRP | 14/08/20 10:40 PM |
| 0 | How to actually hang out with new people/friends?I have met one or two extroverts recently and one even said we'd hang out or something but nothing has come of it yet; no invites. I think people are just very busy too and shy away from changing their routine or even bringing someone new around. | /r/askTRP | 12/08/20 08:12 PM |
| 3 | How to actually hang out with new people/friends?The last line is really the bottom line I guess lol. Yep, gotta just ask or it'll never happen. | /r/askTRP | 12/08/20 01:35 AM |
| 2 | For the guys with bad vision, did contact lenses help you in life?But isn't it risky to wear contacts anytime pool swimming or ocean swimming since you're probably going to get some water around and in your eyes? How about taking naps with them in? I'll consider them if I think I can train myself to get them in and out with ease, which was not the case 3 years ago when I tried. I'd like to get LASIK and just be done with it, but like I said, it is a big chunk of money you pay for that. Place near me wants about $4500. | /r/askTRP | 11/08/20 11:10 PM |
| 2 | For the guys with bad vision, did contact lenses help you in life?I've worn glasses for nearsightedness because I couldn't fuck with contacts. But I'm looking into having LASIK because glasses suck too. Contacts lenses are very limiting. Can't swim with em in, can't sleep with em in, have to constantly take them in and out and care for them...too ridiculous. I don't know how people do it. I also don't like glasses on me so I only wear them when I absolutely need them (driving, watching TV from far away). Otherwise, I go without them, but that also sucks becaus… | /r/askTRP | 11/08/20 10:23 PM |
| 1 | How to win the situation over ex-girlfriend who is now in a hoe phase?Thank you for this really good comment. Unfortunately, it's still just so hard... because I truly cared about this girl so much. Not for myself, but I actually realized I loved her unconditionally, and to see her literally brag about now being a hoe (people have told me this) is just devastating because it makes me feel like all time we spent was a lie. I thought we crossed paths and the feeling really was that we were meant to be together, and we both felt that at one time, she told me that. He… | /r/askTRP | 11/08/20 08:03 PM |
| 1 | Does anybody here have experience taking Finasteride for hair loss?Apparently genetic MPB is a sign of unhealthy genes though, according to certain studies. It may be correlated with other diseases. So one could argue that lowering testosterone in individuals with high levels that attack and kill hair follicles may be a good thing. But then there's all the cases of horrible side effects and complete loss of sexual function. So I don't know. Just throwing thoughts out there. | /r/askTRP | 05/08/20 01:23 AM |
| 1 | Two big personal issues that are holding me back from fully embracing self-confidenceUgh, sorry, I meant to say people don't seem to cringe at it. Lol. Typo. But again, I hide it with hats, so maybe that's part of it. | /r/askTRP | 05/08/20 01:17 AM |
| 1 | Two big personal issues that are holding me back from fully embracing self-confidenceI've been looking like this for years and most people don't cringe at it. I do wear hats most of the time, though. But I have acquaintances of all types...popular, attractive, shut-ins, not attractive, etc. and no one has ever made a comment to me about it or implied it was horrible to look at. I think it's horrible, but clearly I'm way harder on myself than others are. | /r/askTRP | 05/08/20 12:49 AM |
| 1 | Two big personal issues that are holding me back from fully embracing self-confidenceNo time to sit out in the sun all day to tan and don't like to use tanning things at the gym either. Any other suggestions for darkening skin? And yeah I don't grow out my beard. I just rock a bit of short facial hair and that looks best. | /r/askTRP | 04/08/20 07:50 PM |
| 1 | I have fucked up my life and do not see how it is fixableThank you. I am leaning towards option 1 because I think I'd enjoy the community and bonding experience of military training and serving the country. The Space Force would be ideal, especially with my degree which taught me satellite operations and remote sensing. But it's not yet fully open to all civilians, so I'm hoping it does so soon because I'd gladly wait a little bit to be able to join over another branch. | /r/askTRP | 03/08/20 11:16 PM |
| 1 | I have fucked up my life and do not see how it is fixableYou may be being sarcastic, but it might be a good decision for me. I've had an interest and skills in things that relate to military positions I've looked at anyway, outside of these general life situations. I know a few people whose lives have definitely been better since they joined. It could allow me to live in a structured environment again with people my age, and may be the only way I can afford to move out from home and feel invigorated. It has more student debt repayment options and abil… | /r/askTRP | 03/08/20 10:21 AM |
| 1 | I have fucked up my life and do not see how it is fixableI beg to differ but I'm not sure my error is in not trying hard enough; maybe it's in not trying correctly enough and having the wrong approach. I'm working two jobs to get by right now and keep my social interaction up. Otherwise, it'd be drowning in bad thoughts all day in my room. I already felt that coming on a few months ago when I got sent home from college early because of covid. So I put myself to work 70 hours a week, but I also know this isn't healthy either. I have no time to spend on… | /r/askTRP | 03/08/20 10:10 AM |
| 1 | I have fucked up my life and do not see how it is fixableIt's a combination. Not everyone is as smart as you seemed to be at 18. It's not that I'm blaming everything on everyone else...I literally said that I hate myself and my decisions for how my life has panned out thus far. But, there's no denying that environment and social influence plays a role, too, as do genetics. Our personal consciousness isn't responsible for 100% of our life outcomes. Science shows this. A lot of it is genes and environment. There's no good in focusing on how bad of a dec… | /r/askTRP | 03/08/20 03:54 AM |
| 2 | I have fucked up my life and do not see how it is fixableThanks. I know I need to stop looking back, but I just hate that I've made so many costly errors in my own arrogance that have put me in the depressing place I am today. I feel like I have been trying to improve things for a while now, but I'm still feeling pretty shitty. I feel like I need a massive change in my life and who I am. I want to reinvent myself totally. And still living at home (post-college and COVID circumstances) doesn't help. But unfortunately I can't really afford to spend mone… | /r/askTRP | 03/08/20 03:48 AM |
| 2 | I have fucked up my life and do not see how it is fixableBut the thing is, going into student debt does not mean the person is retarded. With all due respect, one could call religion retarded too lol. I always did well in school and was a pretty smart kid. I just had zero knowledge of finance and debt for higher education, and no one taught me shit about it. It just seemed like everyone took out loans for college. And sure, if they're only small loans, it's fine. But my mistake was that I was actually very disadvantaged as an 18 year old and didn't kn… | /r/askTRP | 03/08/20 03:39 AM |
| 2 | I have fucked up my life and do not see how it is fixableI want to join the Space Force, as I have always been in love with space, and my degree actually taught me some stuff that would be beneficial in working with satellites, which is primarily what the Space Force now does. I would join this second if I could. But, they are still going through a period of inter-service transfers (enlistees from other branches are transferring to the Space Force), and it is unknown when the public will be able to join the Space Force directly as we can other branche… | /r/askTRP | 03/08/20 03:32 AM |
| 1 | I have fucked up my life and do not see how it is fixableI have tried identifying the problems a bit, but they're still not really clear. As for my social isolation in childhood, I really don't know. I remember being invited to things on occasion and I would be afraid to go. Or if I went, I would be afraid to do certain things. Maybe the combination of being an only child + having a weak, more distant father? Not having anyone to teach me how to be a strong, confident boy? I really don't know. Maybe some truly is genetic and uncontrollable. As for the… | /r/askTRP | 03/08/20 02:54 AM |
| -5 | Why do girl say they don’t like muscular guysWell, because they actually don't care when it comes to a LTR. Yeah, they will want to fuck the most physically attractive guys, but they'll actually date and marry someone with a regular, average body. One of the biggest things taught here that I disagree with is that working out and getting jacked is guaranteed to bring you satisfaction. It is not. And many girls do not care and are actually turned off by a guy who spends a lot of time in the gym. It's weird, but it's the truth. | /r/askTRP | 03/08/20 01:55 AM |
| 1 | I feel like people don't like me/fake liking meI can't do much of what I like right now because of my financial situation; otherwise, I'd take better care of my mental health and do more of what I enjoy. But that's too much to get into now, so keep an eye out for a future post about financial predicament if you're interested in giving me advice on that. | /r/askTRP | 02/08/20 03:16 AM |
| 1 | Is it even possible to link with hot girls from Tinder? They make it so tough.Most of those 9s are arrogant stuck up bitches worth nothing beyond high quality reproductive material. They are convinced that their value is massively higher than it actually is, and they seek attention for that more than anything else. I wouldn't even bother. Don't waste effort there. One will chase you if it's to be something good. Otherwise they're not worth shit. | /r/askTRP | 02/08/20 03:13 AM |
| 5 | Signs of low testosterone?Do you know how many guys watch porn? And don't do no fap? And have zero problems with women? Porn and masturbation can be unhealthy if overdone but no fap and semen retention is some huge bullshit. | /r/askTRP | 02/08/20 03:09 AM |
| 1 | I feel like people don't like me/fake liking meBut i actually want to be likable. For most of life I've been more socially distant than the "popular" groups and even those with just lots of friends. So now I feel that I really want to change that and I want to be attractive and likable if I aren't already. Yes, I do lift hard and have been for years. I'm very active and fit. But actually, most girls don't care. They're fucking lanky guys or guys who have dad bods. I've even had girls get clearly turned off by even me mentioning anything abou… | /r/askTRP | 01/08/20 11:56 PM |
| 1 | I feel like people don't like me/fake liking meI guess but I also feel like I rub people the wrong way. Trying to work on it and I think I'm doing better but I feel like a remaining hurdle for me is to get past being afraid of messing something up or looking foolish. Like I said, all through childhood and college I was pretty socially isolated, so people maybe can pick up on that a bit if my personality reflects that. I don't have social anxiety or anything, I simply feel out of touch with young guys and girls and unfamiliar with other peopl… | /r/askTRP | 01/08/20 11:49 PM |
| 1 | I feel like people don't like me/fake liking meI get that not giving a fuck what others think is the standard red pill approach but to me that sometimes just seems like ignoring the issue when it should be corrected. But then it also seems that so many people my age are needy and are "closer" simply to keep drama and shit like that going because they don't have much else better to do. Trying to truly figure out social bonding now at 24 is very confusing to me. | /r/askTRP | 01/08/20 11:24 PM |
| 1 | Two snapchat concernsOk but are you fucking and sexting these girls or are you just wasting your time lmao. But anyway yeah it's fine | /r/askTRP | 30/07/20 12:07 PM |
| 1 | Two snapchat concernsTinder is pure cringe lol. | /r/askTRP | 30/07/20 12:06 PM |
| -6 | Two snapchat concernsBoys group chat on snapchat? Lmao that's cringe as fuck. Sorry I disagree with you. The real use for snapchat is for girls and nudes. It actually is good for that. No streaks needed, I agree. | /r/askTRP | 30/07/20 03:03 AM |
| 1 | Two snapchat concernsNo snapchat is still the best method of social clout and regular social connection, if unfortunate | /r/askTRP | 30/07/20 02:19 AM |
| 1 | Two snapchat concernsAh, thank you | /r/askTRP | 30/07/20 01:52 AM |
| 1 | Anyone here ever fuck a fat/ugly bitch just to change her life?No, and I personally advise not to. I currently have a fatty who I met through work all over me, sexting me and trying to get with me. She even dumped her LTR boyfriend to experience new stuff...aka to try to get me to do it. But I won't do it, for 2 important reasons: Having sex with a fatty when you aren't actually attracted to her sexually is only rewarding her for unhealthy decisions and behavior. Fucking a fatty tells her that being obese is OK, and it's not. She's only going to become obse… | /r/askTRP | 28/07/20 11:58 PM |
| 1 | Trying to build more social connections is exhausting and I keep surrounding myself with shitty peopleI appreciate that comment very much. Definitely a very accurate depiction of what's going on with me and what I should change. Thanks, will help for sure | /r/askTRP | 28/07/20 09:12 AM |
| 1 | Quarantine rutHaven't been laid since March? Lmao dude for some of us it's been over a year because we have way bigger problems we are working on. Take your head out of your ass. You're gonna be fine. | /r/askTRP | 28/07/20 04:00 AM |
| 1 | Trying to build more social connections is exhausting and I keep surrounding myself with shitty peopleNo offense taken at all... but can you explain in more concrete terms what you mean by take my head out of my ass? Lol, that's my point... I'm too deep and complex a thinker for this kind of talk. I don't understand street language or slang most of the time. And can't connect well with people who use that type of communication all the time. So when you say that, I'm guessing a bit at what precisely you mean. Like, I need to stop expecting such idealism from my life? Need to stop dismissing most … | /r/askTRP | 28/07/20 03:56 AM |
| 1 | Trying to build more social connections is exhausting and I keep surrounding myself with shitty peopleYeah i have a few hobbies but they're more alone hobbies, and I'm just unsure about meeting up with random people to do them. Large picture, I really feel like I need a new arena to "play" in to make bonds with people. I failed to do that sufficiently in high school and college, and I don't yet have a full time "career" that can give me access to social circles (just working temporary jobs while I refocus and improve myself). I've really been looking at the military for a while, and if I can get… | /r/askTRP | 28/07/20 03:54 AM |
| 1 | Acne and accutane?Do it. I didn't have severe acne, but I had moderate acne that didn't respond to any other treatments. So eventually I said yes to Accutane at age 18 or 19. I ended up having to do three separate 6 month cycles over 3 years because mine returned, but I'm glad I did it. I had the common side effects: dry skin, sunburn, dry lips and nosebleeds, but that's it. Got annoying at times but very manageable. No serious side effects at all. I'm glad I did it. The serious side effects are very very rare. I… | /r/askTRP | 26/07/20 12:47 PM |
| 1 | Two big personal issues that are holding me back from fully embracing self-confidenceI'm not playing victim at all with these things... I'm actually saying if I can do something to my vision permanently and feel good about it (LASIK), why not do that? The hair is slightly different in that there is no simple fix but yes I agree that alone won't hold me back unless I let the mentality of it do so. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/20 02:34 AM |
| 1 | Two big personal issues that are holding me back from fully embracing self-confidenceI have a nice pair of glasses but it's not just about the look even though i think bald with glasses looks terrible; I'm just tired of wearing them on the face. They hurt my head after a while and I can't even buy regular sunglasses; I have one pair of prescription sunglasses and can't wear any others. Wearing glasses is just too big of an annoyance for someone very active like me, and who needs the sporty look not the nerdy look. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/20 02:02 AM |
| 1 | Two big personal issues that are holding me back from fully embracing self-confidenceAlready saw a doc about that 2 years ago and he said it wouldn't bring back much, certainly not a full head of hair, so that's not worth it to me, and the risk of sexual side effects also not worth it. I wish there was a full guaranteed cure but for cases as far gone as mine I don't think there is. | /r/askTRP | 25/07/20 04:40 PM |
| 1 | What are the sidebar’s origins?Nope, I have never had Netflix and do not watch movies right now. But, I do spend an hour a day on Snapchat, Instagram, Facebook, and Twitter, so point taken. | /r/askTRP | 25/07/20 04:36 PM |
| 1 | What are the sidebar’s origins?ok | /r/askTRP | 25/07/20 04:34 PM |
| 1 | What are the sidebar’s origins?No, I lift 6 days a week, have hobbies (science, sports, golf)...and right now that takes up pretty much all my awake hours. If I wanted to read entire books right now I would have to quit doing those other things that are good. It's just a personal schedule thing right now...not making excuses; just being honest. I'm not dumb...I know I have to read...I have read plenty of books in the past already. My point was that if a condensed version of the red pill approach to life exists, I think it wou… | /r/askTRP | 25/07/20 04:27 PM |
| 1 | Constructive advice... do I need to overhaul personality and just take more risks?Yes yes it's all good. I was just trying to understand why girls are fucking guys around me who don't even work out, when I put in a lot of hard work and they don't seem to want to get with me. Maybe I'm also just limiting myself to shitty girls too, who knows. I've been working on the frame of mind thing and am feeling improvements so going to keep at it. I just don't know if I can expect girls to just start coming up to me and initiating things though...but we'll see. I need to find a new aren… | /r/askTRP | 25/07/20 04:00 PM |
| 1 | What are the sidebar’s origins?Um, I work weekends too sir...that makes up those 70 hours. And it's two jobs, and it's what I have to do temporarily to get ahead of the game. One day I will be able to relax more and spend more time on other aspects of life but not right now. | /r/askTRP | 25/07/20 03:41 PM |
| 1 | What are the sidebar’s origins?Thanks | /r/askTRP | 25/07/20 03:33 PM |
| 0 | What are the sidebar’s origins?People who work 65 hours a week can't read 400 pages very quickly dear | /r/askTRP | 25/07/20 03:33 PM |
| 1 | What are the sidebar’s origins?Are you serious? Not those of who work 65-70 hours a week just to get by and stay afloat. Open up your mind a bit | /r/askTRP | 25/07/20 03:32 PM |
| 1 | Constructive advice... do I need to overhaul personality and just take more risks?I've been working out a lot but hitting sort of a plateau. You think I should reduce gym to 4-5 days a week instead of 6 and focus more on compound lifts? | /r/askTRP | 25/07/20 03:31 PM |
| 1 | Constructive advice... do I need to overhaul personality and just take more risks?Wow you missed the sarcasm big time | /r/askTRP | 25/07/20 03:29 PM |
| -4 | What are the sidebar’s origins?I'm also curious if there is somehow a condensed or shorter version for those of us who are so busy it would take us months to read all couple hundred pages of the pdf. | /r/askTRP | 25/07/20 12:23 PM |
| 1 | Constructive advice... do I need to overhaul personality and just take more risks?It's called for online privacy, you dumbfuck. I'm an awesome 6 in the face! | /r/askTRP | 25/07/20 06:40 AM |
| 1 | Constructive advice... do I need to overhaul personality and just take more risks?Thank you for all the words and advice. Just want to say about the military though... the Air Force and now Space Force are much higher quality of life than the other branches, and you have a lot of say in where you go and what you do, and you'll almost certainly never see combat first hand. Those are the two branches I'm looking at, and since I have so much student debt, that may be the only aggressive option to straighten my situation out and not be broke paying back debt until I'm 60. I would… | /r/askTRP | 25/07/20 06:37 AM |
| 3 | Constructive advice... do I need to overhaul personality and just take more risks?Thanks for the advice. At the same time though, i know guys who take way less physical care of themselves fucking way more women than me, so part of that top 20% has to be personality and stuff like that, unless you are referring to physical looks alone. Definitely working to get more jacked but I'm so run down right now working two jobs; it's very hard to gain weight and eat right. Eventually I suspect I'm gonna need to learn how to have fun and redirect some of my time to personal self improve… | /r/askTRP | 25/07/20 01:30 AM |
| 2 | Constructive advice... do I need to overhaul personality and just take more risks?mods need to stop this shit lol | /r/askTRP | 25/07/20 12:14 AM |
| 1 | Constructive advice... do I need to overhaul personality and just take more risks?Thanks. I'm trying to learn more game and flirting technique since I have put pretty much zero effort into that for years, and if we're being honest, I never learned that even as a teenager (and no one taught it to me, either). Can't have victories if you don't play any games...and I haven't been playing any games. So yeah, I'm just going to try to take more chances and try to not fear rejection. | /r/askTRP | 24/07/20 07:31 PM |
| 1 | Constructive advice... do I need to overhaul personality and just take more risks?Thank you. | /r/askTRP | 24/07/20 07:29 PM |
| 1 | Constructive advice... do I need to overhaul personality and just take more risks?Well I guess it's only up from here, because I put almost zero effort into girls in high school and college. I've never been girl crazy and was pretty much a loner/introverted guy all my teens. I remember girls trying to flirt with me, but I was stupid and/or wasn't interested lol. And I invested so much "dreamer" thought into my last relationship (in which the emotions and sex were pretty good for a whole year) that I kind of forgot how to have game with girls in general. And college academic w… | /r/askTRP | 24/07/20 07:28 PM |
| 7 | Shedding a tear at work—okay?Dude, you're overthinking it. I get why, but it's all good. You shed one little tear. That makes you human! It shows genuine character and that's respectable. In fact, shedding one tear but holding it together in my view is more impressive than either having zero reaction at all or totally balling on the floor. I'd say be proud that you are human and quickly move on. Also sorry to hear about your job but it's just another cycle of life; more good will come; work to make it happen as much as you … | /r/askTRP | 24/07/20 07:22 PM |
| 5 | Do you guys agree that male and females cannot be "true" friends?No, I disagree; definitely can be. Why does the definition of "friend" have to be doing the exact same thing with the female that you do with your male friends? Men and women are different, and individual people are different; therefore friendships differ. Characterize it as an "acquaintance" if you wish, but men and women can be friends, yes, and anyone who thinks not is just thinking overly simplistically and extreme. | /r/askTRP | 23/07/20 04:09 AM |
| 0 | It doesn't seem like all girls choose "up" in the socioeconomic hierarchy... in fact, many do notDude, you are doing no one any benefit by continuing to mischaracterize what I'm doing. Stating facts about a person's education or intelligence or place in life does not mean I resent that person. I like the guy and he seems cool, although he's certainly not my type to build a deep friendship with because we probably think so differently. I did touch on his appearance. Go back and read all my words. Maybe that's literally all it is; natural good looks. You're the one being lazy here and not pay… | /r/askTRP | 23/07/20 04:00 AM |
| 0 | It doesn't seem like all girls choose "up" in the socioeconomic hierarchy... in fact, many do notNo, you went pretty off track now. Do I want to sleep with the women I know he's slept with? I might think I do because it's been a little bit since I've been with someone, but do I really? In the larger picture, they aren't very high quality girls at all, so I probably actually don't. You didn't really offer any answer to my question but that's OK. And I absolutely do not resent the guy. I am friendly with him actually and he seems cool, but the facts are still the facts... he's still low educa… | /r/askTRP | 23/07/20 03:19 AM |
| 2 | How can I improve my voice?Some of us just don't have super deep voices like some men do. Two tips: 1) speak slower in general, and say less. Flustered, fast speech is feminine and not alpha. Slow it down and be more deliberate. 2) Listen to how you sound in the morning immediately after waking up. That sort of groggy, masculine voice that women say they love... and then practice talking more like that all the time. | /r/askTRP | 23/07/20 12:08 AM |
| 1 | It doesn't seem like all girls choose "up" in the socioeconomic hierarchy... in fact, many do notDidn't mean to come across as shitting on him; I'm just stating facts about his situation because you need to state the facts before you can analyze them. That's my point exactly... what is right with him that is working for him? That's what I'm looking to learn. I workout, have much more advanced education, am serious and disciplined, and would be higher on the ladder by just about every metric you could choose, yet this guy seems to always have success with (ghetto, low socioeconomic) girls. A… | /r/askTRP | 22/07/20 11:48 PM |
| 1 | It doesn't seem like all girls choose "up" in the socioeconomic hierarchy... in fact, many do notYou did mention that girl will never forget what it's like to be fucked by a real man... can you define "real man" in that context? Because the description of the guy in my comments really doesn't have much going for him other than he's sort of an asshole and is aggressive and dominant in social situations, even though his social circle is near the bottom of the socioeconomic hierarchy (near poverty, no education, etc) | /r/askTRP | 22/07/20 11:31 PM |
| 1 | It doesn't seem like all girls choose "up" in the socioeconomic hierarchy... in fact, many do notVery well said. | /r/askTRP | 22/07/20 04:14 AM |
| 2 | It doesn't seem like all girls choose "up" in the socioeconomic hierarchy... in fact, many do notI have a family friend (50s) whose wife cheated on him with his SON from his first marriage (her step son... who she helped raise as an adolescent and teenager!) But, then again she's been on drugs and alcohol a lot so she's a huge mess. But yeah, pretty fucked up, but the son made her moist somehow and she fucked him. Crazy. | /r/askTRP | 22/07/20 03:40 AM |
| 1 | From Chad to Brad (Going Bald in 2020)That's only worth it if the hair loss is mild. For those who have aggressive male pattern baldness and are losing a lot at a young age, it's totally not fucking worth it. Either have a hair transplant, wear a hair system, or own it and just clip it all off... personal choice. At age 24 and Norwood 6 in a diffuse pattern, I just own it and buzz it all off. Would I look more attractive with a hair system... probably, but that's beta as fuck. I'm not going to glue fake hair to my head to pretend th… | /r/askTRP | 22/07/20 02:49 AM |
| 2 | It doesn't seem like all girls choose "up" in the socioeconomic hierarchy... in fact, many do notWe're not telling them; we're trying to learn what we can do to make them moist for those of us who don't have 10/10 physical looks genetically. | /r/askTRP | 22/07/20 02:36 AM |
| 2 | It doesn't seem like all girls choose "up" in the socioeconomic hierarchy... in fact, many do notYeah, this is what I'm basically saying I see. She will fuck that guy but not commit to a LTR, and in the end will settle for a better off beta when that's the only option left. I'm just saying, the biggest annoyance is just that the traits a lot of girls find fuckable don't seem to be learned or built up by the guys; they just seem to be there naturally. Crooked teeth, lanky body, sloppy dress, and all the other low socioeconomic things I described earlier, but if he's tall, has a hot face and … | /r/askTRP | 22/07/20 02:20 AM |
| 2 | Is the reason to come over, just a way not to say "come over let's fuck"?It definitely is, in most cases I think. However, there is such a thing as coming across too strong, and since it's natural for humans to care about their reputation and how they're seen in the eyes of others, this could be too risky and stupid in some situations; aka if mutual interest isn't clearly there. | /r/askTRP | 21/07/20 08:42 PM |
| 1 | Girl didn't reply with her number?Nope I'm plenty busy and good bro | /r/askTRP | 21/07/20 07:36 PM |
| 1 | Girl didn't reply with her number?No, i ain't gonna triple text/message. But stop acting like it's always about sex. I'm gonna run into her again and consistently and growing my social circle is a good thing in whatever way that is, so I at least hope we get back to friendly chat; but if not, I don't give a fuck. A girl can give you 50 hints she's interested in you and she does 1 thing that suggests she's not and you all seem to chalk it up to her actually just being a fake wacko. Maybe she was with her boyfriend at the time or … | /r/askTRP | 21/07/20 07:18 PM |
| 0 | Girl didn't reply with her number?Abolish this community then. Lol. We're all still learning | /r/askTRP | 21/07/20 04:23 PM |
| -1 | Girl didn't reply with her number?No, I don't give a fuck. Learning is part of this community. Stop insulting | /r/askTRP | 21/07/20 04:21 PM |
| -2 | Girl didn't reply with her number?Could just be in a friend way. Lol | /r/askTRP | 21/07/20 01:09 PM |
| -5 | Girl didn't reply with her number?She has given it to other people at work in just a friendly acquaintance way so why would she not give it to me | /r/askTRP | 21/07/20 11:12 AM |
| 1 | Best places to hang out/how to stop being afraid of initiating hanging out?No, not looking to LTR her. We hardly even know much about each other. Just looking to get closer, hang out, and you know, fuck. The in person flirting game has gone decent so need to take things up the escalator i guess without fucking up. | /r/askTRP | 21/07/20 02:11 AM |
| 1 | Best places to hang out/how to stop being afraid of initiating hanging out?Yeah, I just meant that I think I worked it up well in this case because in the past I either waited way too long (months) or fucked it up by saying something laughable too early. This girl is going well and it's only been a couple weeks so I feel good about it. Thank you for the great words and advice. | /r/askTRP | 20/07/20 10:31 PM |
| 1 | What’s the best way to get revenge?Don't listen to insults. It's natural to want revenge and it's okay to do it as long as it doesn't dominate your life. If people hit you, I believe in hitting back before moving on... in some cases. | /r/askTRP | 20/07/20 05:34 PM |
| 1 | What’s the best way to get revenge?It doesn't have to be because he's butthurt; if her friends wanna fuck and he wants to fuck em then it's totally fair game. One of my favorite sayings is "She might not wanna play with you anymore, but her friends might." And if the rp generally teaches that an ex's friends are disqualified simply for being friends of an ex, then it's something I don't agree with. | /r/askTRP | 20/07/20 05:32 PM |
| 1 | What’s the best way to get revenge?I just sometimes feel that this advice which is standard red pill might not apply that well to everyone. What if the guy was successful before? Had developed himself and his passions before? Was doing a lot of great things and already had high SMV? And just innocently loved a girl as a person and got screwed over. Then this common advice kinda doesn't hit the mark as much. But it's just dependent on the circumstance I guess. | /r/askTRP | 20/07/20 05:29 PM |
| 2 | NEVER block anyone on your phone.Blocking should never be done on anything simply because it projects immaturity and weakness, period. From sexual relationships to friendships to politics, blocking people on social media is weak and foolish and declares that you give a fuck. To not give a fuck means you ignore. The only legitimate reason to ever block someone is if they are harassing you or doing something extreme that you need to stop for your own health. Otherwise, you pay no attention, and you ignore. I have no one blocked o… | /r/askTRP | 20/07/20 02:15 AM |
| 5 | What’s the best way to get revenge?Fuck one of her friends, or multiple of her friends If she has a new boyfriend/fuck buddy, be friendly and cool with him If the above options are unattainable due to distance/whatever, which they may be, then the best revenge is simply living your life to the highest SMV possible and not giving a fuck about her. One of these days she will see something in you and totally regret doing what she did to you. | /r/askTRP | 20/07/20 01:50 AM |
| 183 | Pothead Girls - Turnoff? Red flag?Yes, big red flag and turn off. A little on the occasion is totally fine but huge pothead... absolutely do not want to get intertwined with that. | /r/askTRP | 03/07/20 10:22 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone get tired of chasing girls?I do not chase girls and this is a big part of it. Yeah I enjoyed having girlfriends in the past but I only gamed after they already ended up right in front of me, whether it be work or school. Sometimes I do get jealous of guys my age who seem to have girls all the time, but then I remember that most of them live a culture that I could never do... drinking and partying all the time, making irresponsible and stupid decisions over and over and never changing, etc. Most girls love that culture too… | /r/askTRP | 03/07/20 05:54 PM |
| 1 | TinderI just hate how fat girls, at least in my experience, seem to obsess over you if you even start flirting or make any moves with them. They're desperate for anything alive that will fuck them that if you go there, they won't fucking leave you alone. Just did this recently and now i have to deal with snapchat messages every 5 minutes, even if i ghost and ignore for hours and hours. I can't deal with it lol | /r/askTRP | 02/07/20 02:54 PM |
| 1 | Shit test or do girls actually prefer to text on apps like Snapchat or InstagramYes, it is. Snapchat is the closest thing you can have to knowing what all your closest friends (and even distant friends/acquaintances) are doing all throughout the day, if they choose to post and share their location, of course. | /r/askTRP | 30/06/20 01:52 PM |
| 2 | Women who say they hate men?Girls who say they hate men are good for fucking their brains out but never entering a LTR with. Girls who say this are almost always a chaotic mess, make terrible decisions, and will absolutely not stay loyal to you. Leave them where they voluntarily choose to put themselves... viewing all men as evil but knowing they need a revolving door of them to be satisfied. | /r/askTRP | 28/06/20 01:42 AM |
| 4 | Shit test or do girls actually prefer to text on apps like Snapchat or InstagramSnapchat is unique in that it is basically the main form of communication for these situations. All girls use it and prefer it, for good reason... quick pics, location sharing, etc. The quickest way to get with girls is by using snapchat. The number/text can be a thing too but snapchat is the most direct. The other social media like messenger and Instagram, is more distancing and i wouldn't get tricked into investing in those forms of communication. | /r/askTRP | 28/06/20 01:39 AM |
| 0 | Hanging out at work on off days good or bad idea?Ok lol just trying to grow relationships | /r/askTRP | 27/06/20 09:58 PM |
| 0 | Hanging out at work on off days good or bad idea?I do, but I'm at a weird part in life having just graduated college and for the time being back in my hometown and most of my friends are not here... so I have to make new contacts. Outside of my 60 hr work weeks I workout 6 days a week and that's about it right now but on the occasional off day I'm bored and lonely lol | /r/askTRP | 27/06/20 09:53 PM |
| 1 | How to get with an ex's friend when she likely told them bad things about me?Just to follow up here if you don't mind, you're saying creating some controversy and drama is better than nothing at all? If so that's right up my alley, I embrace that and have a bunch of people and coworkers who very much are interested in that game hahaha. Any specific tips? | /r/askTRP | 27/06/20 09:00 PM |
| 41 | Kicked out of my friend groupThey sound like huge betas and you sound beta by being hurt and sad by this. Fuck em. All you need is a couple good friends who are genuine. Make new friends and contacts moving forward. Most of us are lonely most of the time. Lift, work hard, and keep busy. Don't give a fuck about this nonsense in the past. | /r/askTRP | 27/06/20 03:17 AM |
| 1 | How to get with an ex's friend when she likely told them bad things about me?So you're saying to create/embrace controversy and drama. Lol I agree... not too much, but just a bit. And there's definitely a bit with my situation. It's fun for the time being | /r/askTRP | 26/06/20 12:44 AM |
| 0 | How to get with an ex's friend when she likely told them bad things about me?Creeping around dudes at work? We all work together in a small space and it's a big family lol, there's no creeping around. You don't understand any of this and so I won't bother posting about it anymore because strangers on the internet know nothing about this dynamic anyway haha | /r/askTRP | 25/06/20 11:17 PM |
| 1 | Should I talk to my ex's newest fling at work?I respectfully disagree about the revenge part. I believe that when someone hits you hard and does you really wrong, you should return the favor, just once, and then keep on with your life. Karma isn't real; it doesn't just fall onto people naturally; you have to make it happen. You have to manufacture it. That's my philosophy of life and I will stick by it lol. I believe in being the most genuine and positive and focused person possible, and only when someone does you wrong do you hit back. But… | /r/askTRP | 25/06/20 11:15 PM |
| 1 | How do i gain back my reputation from being a huge beta?There's only one correct answer to this: Start being the alpha person now that you should've been in the past. You can't change the past, but you can control everything going forward starting today. And if you truly kill that old beta you and embrace a dominant alpha mentality that wins at life, then she actually will see you in a different, fresh light over time, if there's still means of connection (social media, work, friends, whatever). Human beings can and do change their perceptions of oth… | /r/askTRP | 25/06/20 11:04 PM |
| 1 | How to get with an ex's friend when she likely told them bad things about me?Thanks | /r/askTRP | 25/06/20 10:20 PM |
| 1 | Should I talk to my ex's newest fling at work?Lol, no, I did not say I want to tell him that and I absolutely will not. That's some beta shit. I will not tell him anything about her. That's his business and he will find out what he finds out in his own time. But yes, you are of course right that I do want to get back at her for what she did to me with no remorse and whatever makes her the most regretful I'm all for doing. I think my own opinion is just to treat this guy normally and friendly and maybe even laugh it up with him :) | /r/askTRP | 25/06/20 10:19 PM |
| 2 | What’s the most beta shit you’ve ever done/said to a girl?Told my ex that it's the right thing to do to take me back because the cause of our breakup was my temporary mental health issues (srs was actually) and I have improved a ton since then. I don't remember the exact text because I deleted it now, but it was the most sincere, genuine, from the heart apology and beg for forgiveness and another try you can possibly type out. At the time, I thought I was just doing the right thing. And perhaps it was the right moral thing to say. But now I know that w… | /r/askTRP | 25/06/20 10:12 PM |
| 0 | How to get with an ex's friend when she likely told them bad things about me?She may have...after voluntarily arguing with me, she would accuse me of stalking...she doesn't know what stalking is. But guarantee she told at least one of her friends that. So how do you initiate interest with someone who has already been told something bad about you...just pay it no mind? lol | /r/askTRP | 25/06/20 10:03 PM |
| 1 | Should I talk to my ex's newest fling at work?No, they told me all about her because they wanted me to move on. And it did just that. After then told me who she became, I lost all respect. This isn't about her...it's about the guy and whether the proper thing is to avoid him, ignore him, treat him the same as anyone else, or laugh at him. | /r/askTRP | 25/06/20 10:01 PM |
| -2 | How to get with an ex's friend when she likely told them bad things about me?I've been lifting for 5 years lol. I can do what I want. I want to get with one of her friends. The post is talking about the ex for YOUR information :) | /r/askTRP | 25/06/20 09:56 PM |
| 1 | Trying to date ex's friendCan you elaborate? Also trying to get with one of my ex's friends but my ex hates me and has told people that I am a crazy stalker and other nonsense. She probably told her friends I have a tiny dick too even though in reality I have a big one and she absolutely loved it for over a year of a LTR. Very nervous about trying to initiate talk with her friends knowing she likely told them bad stuff about me. How exactly may that notv necessarily be a bad thing? | /r/askTRP | 25/06/20 03:16 AM |
| 1 | Is going to a shopping centre with a sole purpose to daygame women a waste of time?High school girls be dressing like they're in college... most of the time it's very hard to guess exact age lol | /r/askTRP | 24/06/20 05:48 PM |
| 1 | Tips for strong eye contact?Do you work a job where you regularly have to interact with people, coming and going all the time? If not, it's harder to develop, for sure. Go out in public and just sit somewhere and look at every single person who walks by. Maybe wear sunglasses so they don't think you're a creep staring at them. Also, learn to look people up and down so you don't have to actually lock eyes for excessively long. Look at the face, then look down and back up, then away and back to the face again, etc. | /r/askTRP | 24/06/20 04:18 PM |
| 1 | Is anyone here actually extremely ugly/ unattractive, I believe an ugly guy can only understand ugly guy problemsI am almost completely bald at 24 (this I legitimately was depressed about for years, and I still wear hats a lot). I'm 5'6. I'm very pale and have some acne scars on my shoulders. I have a big forehead. My smile is asymmetrical. And with just a little bit of effort and talking to girls, I get called cute/hot/complimented all the time. And I've had two long relationships with decent girls who found me very attractive. And I get looks all the time in public. And I know now that it's not because I… | /r/askTRP | 24/06/20 03:23 AM |
| 1 | How many times do y’all fap if sex isn’t available ?Yeah, it was really bad at times. There were times I went days without leaving the house and did it for hours and hours and hours on end. I neglected school and social connection. It was a dark place for sure and I am lucky it didn't ruin me even worse. | /r/askTRP | 23/06/20 04:44 PM |
| 12 | How many times do y’all fap if sex isn’t available ?Absolutely. I actually did myself during college up until last year. I finally managed to get better but it took a dedicated effort and forcing myself to keep busy with other things. I still look at it, but it's limited to 5 minutes a day whereas I used to spend hours every day. I've never told anyone because I've always been embarrassed that I actually had that kind of addiction. But yes, I can attest to the fact that it's real and it can be very, very terrible. I had some very dark days and I'… | /r/askTRP | 23/06/20 03:37 AM |
| 1 | How to hook up with an old childhood friend?I think you both have good points yeah. I'm going to steer clear of immediately messaging her a physical compliment but I'll just try to catch up first (since we haven't spoken in years) and then jump to something more. | /r/askTRP | 23/06/20 02:29 AM |
| 3 | How many times do y’all fap if sex isn’t available ?Once a day. Never really agreed with no fap unless you want to do it for serious problems or very specific reasons. I'm busting once a day as a guy in my prime; that feels healthy to me. | /r/askTRP | 23/06/20 02:23 AM |
| 1 | getting nudes from a girl with a bfSend her a dark/cropped bulge or dick pick; if she still sends bra only just say "Are you gonna make me come take that off? ;)" or something like that | /r/askTRP | 23/06/20 02:13 AM |
| 4 | Why is so much of the focus on women?Because in general fucking women and being as attractive a mate as possible is the primary goal of life in its most natural form. It's cool to focus on many other things too, and for the occasional odd person it's fine to ignore women and just live for your own pleasure out of life if you want, but for the majority of people, we are animals and the #1 purpose of life is to fuck and reproduce the highest quality children. | /r/askTRP | 22/06/20 11:04 PM |
| 1 | How to stay confident despite balding at a young age?Agree with most but not sure about saying you choose to be bald if it's clear that your hair is actually going. People can tell. I'd probably just say "It's nature... my high testosterone kills my hair" or something like that lol | /r/askTRP | 22/06/20 10:07 PM |
| 1 | How to hook up with an old childhood friend?Yeah I do still need to get into full trp mode first, got some work to do. The league thing meant I'm more of the loner/independent type so usually girls with lots of friends are not into guys like me because we aren't social butterflies. But I guess this view is not part of trp perspective. Will keep working at it. Thanks man | /r/askTRP | 22/06/20 09:27 PM |
| 1 | Will never, ever get over this past breakup. Part of me is dead foreverI know you're right. My problem is I still have too warm of an outlook on life and society and I expect things to be fixed, corrected, and for people to not leave ends untied permanently. I've always been that way. And to think my ex used to call my cold hearted when really I never was. Why don't I understand what's needed to move on? Well I do now. It just takes so much effort, I think, to chase girls and stuff, and I have a very small and fractured social circle so not many opportunities to fu… | /r/askTRP | 22/06/20 07:50 PM |
| 0 | Will never, ever get over this past breakup. Part of me is dead foreverBecause trp doesn't simply solve all issues by default. Life is still quite complex and there are many things that there are no good solutions for. | /r/askTRP | 22/06/20 02:25 PM |
| 1 | Will never, ever get over this past breakup. Part of me is dead foreverYes you are right but yes, there are those memories with her but they mean something. There may be a bunch of women on the planet but very few that i actually have interest in, and that love I had with her means something and it matters. It can't just be tossed away forever in my mind. That's the hardest part. All I really want is to have one final conversation, me apologize for what I did really wrong, have her accept it and genuinely forgive me, give a hug and then go on. Even just that would … | /r/askTRP | 22/06/20 01:56 PM |
| 1 | Will never, ever get over this past breakup. Part of me is dead foreverI have. Sorry that didn't come through; I tried to make clear I did fix my personal issues. I'm in a way better place as an individual now. But the hurt of not having closure with her will never, ever go away. It is something that we needed to sit down and discuss as mature adults, but she isn't that type, and she won't do that. | /r/askTRP | 22/06/20 01:51 PM |
| 2 | Will never, ever get over this past breakup. Part of me is dead foreverYeah but actually the part about never having any closure over this is the worst part. I can live on without her, I did before and I can now. But her never agreeing to sit down and talk maturely about everything is what kills me every day. She totally did make me feel terrible about everything when I genuinely was committed to making up for it. I hope it time i at least become numb to the pain of this ending. | /r/askTRP | 22/06/20 11:09 AM |
| 1 | Will never, ever get over this past breakup. Part of me is dead foreverTrying but I don't even feel like I have game anymore because I've been so torn apart by this breakup. Losing direction in life too. It's not even the fact of no longer being together as much as it is having zero closure. It is my hope that with no contact and intense self improvement (lifting, socially, money, etc) that she'll speak to me again someday in specifics about what I wanted to discuss. | /r/askTRP | 22/06/20 10:46 AM |
| 0 | Will never, ever get over this past breakup. Part of me is dead foreverBecause it's my fault that everything is the way it is today. And I strive to correct all mistakes and fix everything and knowing this entire situation is my fault means I can't ever move on until it's corrected | /r/askTRP | 22/06/20 04:24 AM |
| 1 | TinderI've had tons of matches on Tinder over the years but most are with cows or single moms (when I swipe right on everyone without caring), and I haven't ever tried to get with any obese girl. Just seems disgusting to me. I also have picture problems (no group of friends, etc.) but based on my pics I can portray a 6ish/10 but at least in my area most of the quality girls do not use Tinder. | /r/askTRP | 21/06/20 03:48 PM |
| 1 | Hard as fuck until condom is on, what to do?Yeah, I'd say start with putting one on at home by yourself and then go to having her put it on... could work great. The times my ex used to put it on was always super hot | /r/askTRP | 21/06/20 03:21 PM |
| 1 | How to win the situation over ex-girlfriend who is now in a hoe phase?The problem is I have such trouble finding quality girls who I'd even consider spending time on. The vast majority of girls these days, at least in my area, are either hoes, too uneducated and unintelligent, too obese, or way out of my league. The obesity thing is especially a problem. Sometimes, on Tinder, I've just swiped right on everyone to see what girls are actually swiping right on me, and it's usually a bunch of obese cows. Literally. It's disgusting. Occasionally I match with a somewhat… | /r/askTRP | 21/06/20 03:09 PM |
| 1 | Hard as fuck until condom is on, what to do?Practice at home alone putting one on to jack off to help you get more comfortable staying hard with it on. | /r/askTRP | 21/06/20 12:49 PM |
| 2 | Ex reaching out, how to "flex"?He hasn't truly moved on or he wouldn't be asking this on reddit. Dude needs to either move on and never think about her in this manner again, or get things going with her again... and that would mean taking a break from his current relationship. | /r/askTRP | 20/06/20 07:03 PM |
| 1 | Is it possible to "rescue" a girl from a hoe phase, and if so, how is it done?Yeah I'm well on my way. About to turn cold as hell to pretty much everyone except those who are truly good people. | /r/askTRP | 20/06/20 01:42 PM |
| 1 | Is it possible to "rescue" a girl from a hoe phase, and if so, how is it done?Dude I want to save her from this so bad. This is exactly what I don't want to happen to her. I care way too much for my own good about other people and I always get fucked over in life by others. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/20 09:01 PM |
| 1 | Would you continue dating a girl who...Exactly lol. I'm not the guy dating her; but I'm just laughing at the newest guy who thinks he is. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/20 05:21 PM |
| 2 | Is it possible to "rescue" a girl from a hoe phase, and if so, how is it done?Thanks for the comment. Lots of good stuff. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/20 01:56 AM |
| 1 | Is it possible to "rescue" a girl from a hoe phase, and if so, how is it done?Well, I used to and still want to believe in true love...that you can meet someone who you truly love from the bottom of your heart and want to invest in a lifetime of adventure together. It's gotta be possible in some cases. I thought I could make that happen with this girl and was prepared to make that happen...but she chose differently. She was my best friend, too...so I not only lost the romantic and sexual bond but also my best friend and another mind. It would be a different story if she d… | /r/askTRP | 18/06/20 01:27 AM |
| 3 | Why do I feel like crap after running into my ex?Yes, and it only extends to what their emotions tell them they want in the moment. If all they think they want is short term pleasure, then it doesn't even matter if a guy's life is a complete chaotic disaster...if he can bring that to the table for her, it's on. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/20 01:22 AM |
| 1 | Is it possible to "rescue" a girl from a hoe phase, and if so, how is it done?Yep and unfortunately the people closest to her are even bigger hoes and bad influences, so she's likely to go even more off the deep end if anything. When we were together her best friend hooked up with a friend of mine who was about to get married. I explained how horrible it was and how I had no respect for her friend, but she did not get that logic. I should have seen the writing on the wall back then and it's my own fault I didn't. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/20 12:37 AM |
| 1 | Is it possible to "rescue" a girl from a hoe phase, and if so, how is it done?This is certainly going to be my goal going forward. Our initial breakup of our year long relationship, where I taught her literally everything, may have been my fault due to some personal issues, but she still chose this disgusting life after she dumped me and that is now her problem she will have to deal with over time. Up to now, I still hadn't cut complete contact...I still reached out occasionally...until I learned about everything she's been up to, which she probably didn't want me to know… | /r/askTRP | 18/06/20 12:26 AM |
| 1 | Is it possible to "rescue" a girl from a hoe phase, and if so, how is it done?Yeah probably some of this, but the thing is she isn't like stunningly attractive or high class or anything. She's got a low class group of friends (low income, low education), but seems to be prideful about average guys who don't have any of their shit together in life taking advantage of her now. It's probably just easy for her. She didn't want to stick around with me to work through our challenges, and she even used to tell me I was "too intellectual" for her to handle at times hahaha, so now… | /r/askTRP | 17/06/20 11:45 PM |
| -4 | Is it possible to "rescue" a girl from a hoe phase, and if so, how is it done?I know. It seems some girls never enter the hoe phase and remain high quality women who make fantastic wives and lifelong partners. But those who do enter the hoe phase... it seems to be a life altering trajectory permanently. Unfortunately I couldn't stop her before it was too late. I told her when we were together that she had bad influences as friends and that I did not respect some of what they did, but all she did was get offended and ultimately she chose their losing strategy for life over… | /r/askTRP | 17/06/20 11:42 PM |
| 1 | Is it possible to "rescue" a girl from a hoe phase, and if so, how is it done?Nope, no longer trying to get her back. Once I was told what she's been up to since she left me, I lost all reason to try to get her back. Just asking a hypothetical of if a girl who goes through a hoe phase can ever be saved from it by something or someone that comes along. As a guy who truly is compassionate, it's just sad and pathetic to know this girl who was once a good girl is now trashing her life, because no quality guy will want her anymore if he is aware of how she's being passed aroun… | /r/askTRP | 17/06/20 11:12 PM |
| 2 | Are lots of friends required to have the alpha male projection?I agree, I think it's more just about what you keep yourself busy with. If you sit at home for too many hours doing nothing, and a girl picks up on that, she'll likely be turned off. If she knows you work long and hard hours, and then go to the gym and do other important things, she'll probably not be turned off at all, even if you aren't hanging out with a friend group all the time. At least I hope so because this is me. | /r/askTRP | 17/06/20 11:08 PM |
| -5 | Is it possible to "rescue" a girl from a hoe phase, and if so, how is it done?So fucking funny | /r/askTRP | 17/06/20 10:46 PM |
| -1 | Is it possible to "rescue" a girl from a hoe phase, and if so, how is it done?Long story. Only because it's my ex I'm talking about and I once loved her as a totally different person. I would never ask about rescuing a random hoe that I met. :) | /r/askTRP | 17/06/20 10:39 PM |
| 2 | Is it possible to "rescue" a girl from a hoe phase, and if so, how is it done?I'm just still learning. My ex who I truly used to love at one point and seriously wanted to marry one day left me and became a hoe. But no need to get into specifics. It just sucks to see someone you used to actually value turn into trash. I'm trying so hard not to let it turn me into a weak boy. | /r/askTRP | 17/06/20 10:28 PM |
| 0 | Is it possible to "rescue" a girl from a hoe phase, and if so, how is it done?I mean, I think many hoes end up settling down and marrying someday, so I'm trying to learn how that happens and what makes them totally change their ways. | /r/askTRP | 17/06/20 10:22 PM |
| 1 | How to interact with coworker who is a hoe (who I don't really respect)Sounds good. That's how I've done so far so nothing has to change. | /r/askTRP | 17/06/20 09:27 PM |
| 1 | How to interact with coworker who is a hoe (who I don't really respect)So my question is does the red pill strategy teach to interact with her as any normal other coworker, or to specifically steer clear of her? Ignoring her or simply not interacting with her as a way of sending a sign that I do not respect her isn't going to cause any trouble. | /r/askTRP | 17/06/20 09:02 PM |
| 1 | How to interact with coworker who is a hoe (who I don't really respect)I don't gossip in the workplace and do not respect those who take it to far lengths. | /r/askTRP | 17/06/20 08:05 PM |
| 1 | How to win the situation over ex-girlfriend who is now in a hoe phase?Are you sure she regrets? Maybe she's too unintelligent even to regret missing out on that lol. | /r/askTRP | 17/06/20 06:02 PM |
| 3 | How to win the situation over ex-girlfriend who is now in a hoe phase?Yeah, the thing is I actually cared so much for her and actually cared about her future so to see her doing the same as some of her closest friends who have some nothing but slept around with handfuls of guys since high school is sad, I have to be completely honest. I'm not just sad she's not with me; I'm sad because I know what she's doing now isn't going to be good for her going forward. And for some reason she doesn't see that. I'm naturally a guardian and protector in life about things I rea… | /r/askTRP | 17/06/20 05:20 PM |
| 1 | How to win the situation over ex-girlfriend who is now in a hoe phase?Yeah, but I have never normally cared about girls much in general. I'm very independent and self driven and at 24 I have not met hardly any girls who were worth my romantic interest. This one really was, and it was amazing for that year it lasted. I know she is probably just lost and confused, because she should know better about this behavior. Some of her closest friends have been major hoes since high school and now they post desperate and dramatic Facebook memes all day long because no qualit… | /r/askTRP | 17/06/20 05:12 PM |
| 1 | Why would a girl choose casual hookups over real love that's available, and what makes her change her mind?I totally agree... this seems to be exactly the case. Well, I just feel bad for her now because I know this won't bring her real happiness or meaning long term. I used to believe she was better than this, but apparently not so! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/20 03:02 PM |
| 1 | Why would a girl choose casual hookups over real love that's available, and what makes her change her mind?I don't view life that way usually and not everyone does. My first ex and I talked a lot after our breakup and continue to be friends to this day. We have mutual respect even though it didn't work out and we voluntarily choose to remain in touch. But I do understand that some people, like this ex and you, are cold and do not approach life that way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/20 03:00 PM |
| 1 | How to win the situation over ex-girlfriend who is now in a hoe phase?Her coworkers actually like me and are trying to help me move on faster, I think, because they knew i still had feelings for her. She apparently told them bad things about me hoping they'd take it out on me and make me suffer in the workplace, but they're actually telling me I dodged a bullet and to choose better. Sure it might make me jealous at first but knowing my ex isn't the same girl I used to actually care for might be good for me. Thanks for the tips! | /r/askTRP | 17/06/20 10:26 AM |
| 1 | Why would a girl choose casual hookups over real love that's available, and what makes her change her mind?I'm not the same way every day in life as I am in this discussion, lol. This is a specific discussion about a particular situation, a bunch of thoughts I keep in my head and wanted to talk about. It's all good. I know and I will be fine. I'm not a weak guy. I have plenty of good going my way otherwise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/20 03:23 AM |
| 1 | Why would a girl choose casual hookups over real love that's available, and what makes her change her mind?Lol the goalposts have been moved again since your comments keep getting rebuked :) nah, I appreciate you here though. The biggest thing that is helping me move on was being told that she knowingly fucked a guy in a relationship. That hurt, but it also clarifies that she's not the person I used to love anymore. Think what you want, but I don't respect that, and that is absolutely on a whole different level of bad, and from a rational standpoint, I can probably never look at her the same again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/20 03:08 AM |
| 1 | Why would a girl choose casual hookups over real love that's available, and what makes her change her mind?Having this discussion online is "behaving badly"? Lol you're very funny I'll give you that :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/20 03:04 AM |
| 1 | Why would a girl choose casual hookups over real love that's available, and what makes her change her mind?Lol I said how many times earlier that I took full responsibility for the breakup because that was my fault. I don't owe anyone here anything for that, though, actually. I did it to my ex and that's what matters. I've never ran from taking that blame. Yes, I did fix my personal issues from back then and am much better now. But still filled with regret and desire to reclaim past feelings. It is what it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/20 02:43 AM |
| 1 | Why would a girl choose casual hookups over real love that's available, and what makes her change her mind?Yes, true. However, she has never really gotten attention from what I'd consider high quality guys who truly treat her right. I do bet that our relationship, for the majority of it, was the happiest she's ever truly been. I kind of picked her out the lower "ranks" if you will... when i met her I quickly learned she was from a disadvantaged background, troubled family, childhood struggles, etc. And I felt awesome loving her, and man did she love me too. And still to this day I'd bet she still rem… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/20 02:40 AM |
| 1 | Why would a girl choose casual hookups over real love that's available, and what makes her change her mind?So you want to compare my depression with her sexual conduct? I know that what she does after we broke up isn't my life anymore, but I'll take that comparison every day. This sub might as well be the red pill. Haha :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/20 02:30 AM |
| 1 | Why would a girl choose casual hookups over real love that's available, and what makes her change her mind?You are full of shit and you've been brainwashed. Most are not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/20 02:25 AM |
| 1 | Why would a girl choose casual hookups over real love that's available, and what makes her change her mind?So then we can also say that if she ever decided to pursue a serious relationship again, that doesn't undo the fact that she slept with someone taken. In fact, one of these things is way worse than the other. Just keeping it real. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/20 02:24 AM |
| 1 | Why would a girl choose casual hookups over real love that's available, and what makes her change her mind?Then it sounds by this logic like she'd never be able to have a serious relationship or marriage one day, if there is no going back and her pair bonding ability is damaged. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/20 01:14 AM |
| 1 | Why would a girl choose casual hookups over real love that's available, and what makes her change her mind?Lol... Everyone needs to take personal responsibility for their own lives. No one is forever "broken" by someone else...i took blame for where I messed up, but her decisions long after that have nothing to do with me. This is the classic victim mindset. We've all got to be stronger than that. Can't let one person break you forever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/20 01:13 AM |
| 1 | Why would a girl choose casual hookups over real love that's available, and what makes her change her mind?Lol people like you are just pathetic. Cheating is not respectable. Getting with someone already in a relationship is not respectable. Stating the truth about her having bad influences is acceptable. You want to advocate for the hard truth but only when it helps your case? Come on man. Too many people's lives are a MESS because of thinking like yours. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/20 01:10 AM |
| 1 | Why would a girl choose casual hookups over real love that's available, and what makes her change her mind?I did not edit anything in the OP after it was first posted. What the Hell are you talking about | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/20 01:07 AM |
| 1 | Why would a girl choose casual hookups over real love that's available, and what makes her change her mind?Red pill is mostly garbage for most people | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/20 01:05 AM |
| 1 | Why would a girl choose casual hookups over real love that's available, and what makes her change her mind?How did she do what? She changed. She went from wanting a deep, serious love (me) to sleeping with a bunch of guys including one who was in a relationship. That's a change. She decided that's who she wants to be for now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/20 01:04 AM |
| 1 | Why would a girl choose casual hookups over real love that's available, and what makes her change her mind?Yeah, thanks. I agree. I take most of the blame for the breakup because I know I made those mistakes, but I don't blame myself for anything post-breakup. Her decisions are her decisions, and I just tried to do the right thing once I got clear-headed. It hasn't worked; oh well. I will indeed keep focusing on bettering myself. Thanks my dude | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/20 12:26 AM |
| 2 | Why would a girl choose casual hookups over real love that's available, and what makes her change her mind?Of course I do now, yes. I owned that. It was bad. At the time I wasn't right in head. Now I am. Yes, I fully understand how scary that was to her. But I also know how much men get shunned for actually having real struggles at time in life. If you're a man you're never supposed to feel depressed, or you're a loser. And this is why men kill themselves at much higher rates than women. Because they have far less support in life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/20 12:23 AM |
| 2 | Why would a girl choose casual hookups over real love that's available, and what makes her change her mind?Who said she should have waited around on the chance I got better? No one. Please don't just pull crap from thin air. The point here is the breakup was justified, but long after the breakup, after I DID get better, she still chose casual hookups over a serious relationship. That's the psychology we discussed here. Just have to correct you on that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/20 12:21 AM |
| 2 | Why would a girl choose casual hookups over real love that's available, and what makes her change her mind?This is absolutely false for the majority of people in the world. You are the one living in a fantasy world focused on a specific or subset of personal behavior and character. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/20 12:20 AM |
| 1 | Why would a girl choose casual hookups over real love that's available, and what makes her change her mind?You only want her back because you’ve since realised you can’t get girls who are as attractive. This is too vague to mean anything. Attractiveness is made up of many things. But yes, I absolutely have no desire to waste my time with other women who I do not find attractive enough (the whole package). It's not because I'm desperate...it's because I truly was in love with her and wanted that life with her. Unless I meet someone else I view better, I will focus on myself and my own life and goals. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/20 12:15 AM |
| 1 | Why would a girl choose casual hookups over real love that's available, and what makes her change her mind?Absolutely not. I do not hate her. I just wish I could fix what got broken. I feel I did the right thing to do that, but I understand that not everyone thinks like I do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/20 12:11 AM |
| 1 | Why would a girl choose casual hookups over real love that's available, and what makes her change her mind?Yes, she truly did not understand. She comes from a low-income/troubled background and culture and did not grow up with good or intelligent influences. It's just true. But I loved her anyway because I saw something I loved in her. I did not get into a relationship while unwell. It was great when it started. My temporary issues ended it. I did own my shit, and I have left her alone now...the point of this post was just to discuss a bunch of this psychology. I appreciate you contributing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/20 12:10 AM |
| 1 | Why would a girl choose casual hookups over real love that's available, and what makes her change her mind?I said I missed her, wanted to seriously try again with her, and asked to meet up. She said maybe so I waited a week and then asked again, and then she ignored and refused. So yes, she gave me an opening and then decided she didn't like what I said enough, I guess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/20 12:06 AM |
| 1 | Why would a girl choose casual hookups over real love that's available, and what makes her change her mind?You can't oversimplify life like that. Life does not work that way. This period of depression was short term, like 2 months. The first 12 months of us dating were amazing. If I dumped someone because I was hurt by their temporary depression, but then over the next year they fixed their issues and became a far stronger person, I'd respect and commend them, even if I didn't want to be with them anymore. But she won't even do that. She became cold. That may be how it works but not everyone is that … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/20 12:03 AM |
| 1 | Why would a girl choose casual hookups over real love that's available, and what makes her change her mind?I don't believe in "taking the blue/red pill." I believe in truth, and learning how to get what you want out of life, that's all. I have worked on myself and got on a good track and I'm proud of that. I'm way better now than I was when we dated. That's why it sucks that she is uninterested now. She doesn't know me anymore. What little she did see a few months ago she didn't like (me genuinely apologizing). I believe we can get what we want out of life if we work hard and do things right. I alway… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/20 12:00 AM |
| 0 | Why would a girl choose casual hookups over real love that's available, and what makes her change her mind?Yeah I get what you're saying but I think you forget that we actually have both changed in our situation...things are not the same at all, therefore the reason for this relationship not being able to happen is not due to the same reasons, but for different ones. I went from depressed and misguided to focused, tough, and successful, and she went from innocent and caught up in love to independent, sex-crazed, and resentful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/20 11:55 PM |
| 0 | Why would a girl choose casual hookups over real love that's available, and what makes her change her mind?People are also immature and stupid at 18 and 21 years old. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/20 11:53 PM |
| 1 | Why would a girl choose casual hookups over real love that's available, and what makes her change her mind?Wrong. It's real but fixable and I'm proud I actually did fix it through my own corrections. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/20 11:52 PM |
| 1 | Why would a girl choose casual hookups over real love that's available, and what makes her change her mind?Nah, you are completely wrong on that. They are real struggles in life, and they can be fixed, and I did fix them and I can be proud that I actually did. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/20 11:52 PM |
| 1 | Why would a girl choose casual hookups over real love that's available, and what makes her change her mind?Nah, you are completely wrong on that. They are real struggles in life, and they can be fixed, and I did fix them and I can be proud that I actually did. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/20 11:51 PM |
| 1 | Why would a girl choose casual hookups over real love that's available, and what makes her change her mind?I explained a bit in other comments...I experienced a few months of bad depression. Nothing terrible happened, no, beyond me having some bad emotional weeks and saying some hurtful things to her (she also said hurtful things to me, but I am tough and was not hurt by her the way she was by me). I did cry in front of her, more than once, and said some things that scared her like I'd rather the whole world just be blown up because life sucks so much. lol. It was a bad mental period I went through i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/20 11:49 PM |
| 1 | Why would a girl choose casual hookups over real love that's available, and what makes her change her mind?Yup, I think this is so correct. I really wish I could fix things and show her again that a real relationship is worth it, but I understand I can only do so much now (be the best I can be) and the rest is up to her decisions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/20 11:46 PM |
| 1 | Why would a girl choose casual hookups over real love that's available, and what makes her change her mind?When she gave me the opening I apologized fully for my past emotional mistakes, explained how I had fixed my issues and was doing better as I was about to graduate college, etc. I thought that was the right thing to do. Take responsibility, vow to be better if we give it another chance. The relationship ended (mostly her choice), she was hurt, I changed (improved), she also changed (became a hoe, to put it bluntly), she chose to give me another opening, I didn't use the right strategy apparently… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/20 11:44 PM |
| 1 | Why would a girl choose casual hookups over real love that's available, and what makes her change her mind?Lol, I never truly fucked her over...she was too shallow to understand that depression and mental health are real things and that my temporary issues were real and fixable, not that I was a horrible person. Unfortunately for me she did not and probably still does not understand that. Also, her decisions after me are not my fault...I will never take blame for that lol. She has made the conscious choice to go and sleep around with a different guy every month. Her life, but not by problem anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/20 11:41 PM |
| 1 | Why would a girl choose casual hookups over real love that's available, and what makes her change her mind?Jeeze...thanks for all the comments on this post so far, everyone. It's been fun talking through this interesting situation. lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/20 11:39 PM |
| 0 | Why would a girl choose casual hookups over real love that's available, and what makes her change her mind?Not just the hottest...it's about her crazy good personality and stuff, too. She definitely does like the sex. I was her first, I taught her everything, and I could tell she was sex crazed with me, and that clearly only continued after we broke up lol. I will just never view our relationship as failed because the reason for the end was my depression/life struggles and change in personality, which was all temporary. The reason we didn't even reconnect sooner was because she joined the military re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/20 11:35 PM |
| 1 | Why would a girl choose casual hookups over real love that's available, and what makes her change her mind?Yeah, sorry for not making super clear but you are correct...I was the one who had the problems, she was hurt, and she mostly left me, although at the time we did both agree to break up. She began that process, though. She wanted to see me fix my problems. I did, post-breakup. But now she no longer cares. She will barely even speak to me on friendly terms. It just sucks how you work hard to do the right thing and then she doesn't care. She's not the same person anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/20 11:30 PM |
| 1 | Why would a girl choose casual hookups over real love that's available, and what makes her change her mind?Yeah, but I just hate this fact so much lol. So true though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/20 11:27 PM |
| 0 | Why would a girl choose casual hookups over real love that's available, and what makes her change her mind?She did give me that opening just a few months ago though...a year after we broke up. So by that, there had to be some interest. She just didn't like what she saw in me enough, so nothing happened. I'm framing my perspective as logical because if someone hurt me in the past and worked really hard to make up for it, I'd probably forgive them, and if I loved them enough, I'd probably give life another chance with them. That makes sense to me. I would want someone who takes responsibility, works ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/20 11:26 PM |
| 1 | Why would a girl choose casual hookups over real love that's available, and what makes her change her mind?But the hard thing is I am a perfectionist at heart and I always set my sights on success and winning, and I'd go tremendous lengths to win this girl back. Not out of desperation, but out of wanting to prove that I am a winner and can get what I want (the same way I approach every other situation...never settle for 2nd place...) I still believe if I play the game right it's possible, but whatever happens, yes, at least I understand more now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/20 11:23 PM |
| 0 | Why would a girl choose casual hookups over real love that's available, and what makes her change her mind?Past doesn't matter as much as current being does. I lost some respect for her, but not all...of course I have my own life, but if she ever did come back into it, I'd choose this girl. The connection and passion was simply something unreplicatable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/20 11:20 PM |
| 0 | Why would a girl choose casual hookups over real love that's available, and what makes her change her mind?None that I want. Read my other comment. I don't want to ever waste my time dating a girl I am not attracted to and don't want to be with. There are several girls who have come onto me since I broke up with my ex, but they aren't overall attractive enough to me. I have better things to do than mess with girls who I don't care about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/20 11:18 PM |
| 1 | Why would a girl choose casual hookups over real love that's available, and what makes her change her mind?The funny thing is when she dated me she wanted kids and a family within a couple years, and that was a source of arguing between us because I believed kids should wait until late 20s or early 30s and after marriage. She wanted everything sooner. But, she was 18 years old and was probably not thinking rationally. My uncle told me his wife was the same way when they were that age. Baby fever. Her behavior since leaving me can be partially attributed to bad influences she has as friends. Some of h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/20 11:15 PM |
| 2 | Why would a girl choose casual hookups over real love that's available, and what makes her change her mind?What she finds unattractive about you is that you love her too much and show it I honestly thing you are prob spot on with this. I definitely did show her that I loved her too much post-breakup, and since genuinely working hard to recreate our love has not worked at all as a strategy, I know there's no point in me continuing it. I even reached out to her about her family, her sister, and other personal things in life to show I actually care a ton about her (this is what she wanted MORE of when w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/20 11:10 PM |
| 1 | Why would a girl choose casual hookups over real love that's available, and what makes her change her mind?She hasn't moved onto anyone lol. She is enjoying a period of casual sex. I doubt she wants a real relationship right now or she wouldn't be doing what people told me she's doing. Why am I so focused on her? Because she truly was amazing. I am already extremely picky with girls, I do not need a girl to live my life (but I want this one), this girl completed me so well in terms of personality, love, passionate sex, future visions, etc. And since the original breakup was my fault, I want to fix my… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/20 11:06 PM |
| 1 | Why would a girl choose casual hookups over real love that's available, and what makes her change her mind?Can an alpha also be a low-educated, sloppy, messy, dirty, childishly aggressive guy? It seems hard to see that, but perhaps it is true? Is alpha/beta based solely on sexual behavior and projection of social interaction? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/20 11:01 PM |
| 0 | Why would a girl choose casual hookups over real love that's available, and what makes her change her mind?I was good to her for the most part. That's why we were together for over a year and it was very deep and passionate for the most part. We were compatible. The breakup was mostly my fault, but she of course has some blame too. But the love was deep and real...we would talk about the future, life, things we loved, etc. And the physical attraction was fantastic. It seems that since I sort of broke her heart emotionally (long story, but mostly due to personal depression that I handled badly...not b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/20 10:59 PM |
| 1 | Why would a girl choose casual hookups over real love that's available, and what makes her change her mind?Yeah, I think you're spot on about the feelings thing. I made her feel really good for most of our relationship, but due to a few rough times I was going through personally, I ended up hurting her emotionally and making her feel down. That's why she broke up with me, even though we continued to argue for months after. It makes sense now. These other guys, while not providing anything of real value in life, probably just make her feel good in the moment. She clearly isn't thinking about the futur… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/20 10:54 PM |
| 1 | Why would a girl choose casual hookups over real love that's available, and what makes her change her mind?You may be right about the instinct part, but some more things: I am not attracted to women who make bad partners. I am not attracted to "beta" women (low looks, empty personalities) either, but and girl who I know gets around a lot is not attractive to me. I am attracted to cute, fun girls who only want to be 'bad' for me. I am indeed a provider and a protector, but I don't think I lack appearance. I am very masculine, I am an athlete and have a great body, and I am strong around others and tak… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/20 10:50 PM |
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