Thanks, my dads going to teach me and I have a feeling he will want me to start on the road immediately so hopefully I can get him to let me practice in a parking lot
She was skinny and if I’ve learned anything on this subreddit that makes her at least a 6/10 and I mentioned the trailer park thing because it indicates that he is in-fact not rich
Maybe for a hookup but not a ltr, most women will probably want children in the future so there no point in starting a relationship with someone who has a vasectomy
One of my coworkers is absolutely ugly af, has 3 kids with at least 2 baby daddies and her ex husband abused her and killed himself, she is very unattractive,clearly has a lot of baggage and is 40, yet she has a boyfriend who loves her, the wall is an absolute joke lmao
Idk man, even before half of those abusive relationships start the women gets warned in some way(mostly by other women) and still continues to pursue the relationship
She is also his care taker, so she has to clean him, wipe him, put diapers on him, cook for him, feed him, ect. I could never be in a relationship with someone who was that much of a burden
Good for you. I don’t understand men who do not want kids at all but won’t consider getting a vasectomy and expect their partner to deal with the burden of birth control
I’ve fucked some very ugly men but I’ve always been under the influence when it happened lol and I would probably not have fucked half of them if I was sober.
Because some women are r*tarded and can’t tell the difference between attention from a man who actually likes you and attention from a man who just wants to get laid
Being clean is the biggest factor. The amount of men I see on OLD that are semi attractive but look like they lack basic hygiene is astonishing. Please brush your hair and have a shower
Most of the bodies men complain about can be obtained with a strict workout routine alone. Everyone deals with unrealistic body standards and it sucks.
No i wouldn’t physically cheat I would break up with my boyfriend before that but it wouldn’t stop me from talking to other men if my relationship was going sour anyway
Wanting to change your gender is considered mentally ill, wanting to be cute isn’t. Honestly I really don’t understand what you are trying to convey with this post
I don’t understand the men in this subreddit not wanting to be with a women who has children? Most of the men in here don’t shut up about “spreading their seed” and wanting a fertile wife but they don’t want to be with a women who has proof of her fertility???
Women having equal rights won’t change the fact that we are and will always be the gatekeepers of sex and what does feminism have to do with having standards while dating?
Like the other comments said it’s just a cheating loophole for men, that’s why it’s always another girl coming into the relationship and not another man
A lot of women leave men for cheating on them and a lot of women would leave a man for having a secret child. Also stop comparing celebrities to regular people.
I would never be with a man who has children he doesn’t see, he’s basically showing me he is a LVM and will be a terrible father plus Whats stopping him from doing that to me to in the future?
Teens are just mean sometimes. For me in highschool all the pretty popular girls were very nice so I think this is more something that is pushed by media, if anything it was the teenage boys who acted like this
I guess I don’t really have a type but I do like -men taller than me (I’m 5’5), -hairy -facial hair -weighs more than me -good hygiene -dresses alternatively (not really a standard tho)
“And the only way to feel powerful is manipulating them into agreeing to sex when you know you are just gonna leave them after. Of course.” I think u might have some issues
Women know they need to look pretty in order to get male attention, men just assume that they are the whole package already and do nothing to better themselves personality or looks wise
Well abortions/ pregnancy only affects a woman’s body so yeah it’s more of a concern to them, but like I said 4 other times this sort of thing isn’t as black and white as you think. It should always be a woman’s choice in the end but men still have an influence on their decisions wether woman take them into consideration or not
I’m really sorry to hear that, did you have any lasting effects because of it? If so I can get why you would feel that way and care more about how people view and remember you. And a stroke at 19? that must have been really fucking hard to deal with and come to terms with.
Well I guess u can start a mass genocide to be remembered but I’m more referring to the few people I knew in my life who have lost their lives that I will remember forever bc of the impacts that had on me
You haven’t showed any proof? Just cus some women online have been vocal about their abortions doesn’t mean it’s like that for all women? I know many women who have had a tough time dealing with the idea of keeping the baby they want but their partner doesn’t and women who have been adamant about getting an abortion their partner doesn’t want them to get. Like I said before it’s not as black and white as you think.
Have you gotten someone pregnant? Have you known any females who have gotten pregnant that toyed with the idea of an abortion? Have you known any men who have gotten a women pregnant that was adamant about not having children? It’s not as black and white as you think it is. Just because it seems like that on the internet does not make it true irl.
Like I said on the thread posted after this one (didn’t realize there was a post for the women) No idc if men can’t get sex that’s something they bring onto themselves be it, looks, status or personality. Figure it out and stop blaming women lmao
Lol I’m a girl so I think I know what kind of guys me and my friends are dating but okay. Some women do date up but most go for their league and not every girl out there is using tinder
This so unlikely to happen like very super unlikely to happen but yeah I would obviously defend myself only crazy people would act that way and I would not take a chance to see how far they would go with it
Female, 20, no pill Yeah I would probably be bothered by that if we were acting like we are in a relationship or like going on dates and such, especially if I was being monogamous for them
If I’m in a relationship where I am expected to look pretty, be able to cook, clean and do what ever “female roles” they expect of me then the least I expect from him is he able to provide. (Noted that I would never want to be financially dependent on a man tho)
I think bdsm is a learned thing, most women like to be submissive in bed with an obvious power Imbalance, but things like degrading and rough sex i.e throat fucking, spiting, slapping are things that are learned through porn and I feel a lot of women subject themselves to it or say they want it because they feel like the men they are with would like that type of thing ( I know some women do enjoy it so don’t try and fight me about that)
Where in my statement did I say men who don’t like makeup still don’t pursue those women? Most men don’t like extravagant makeup looks but they can’t even tell when a women is wearing makeup or not half the time lmao.
Have you seen all the wild makeup looks women do? They aren’t doing it bc men like it they are usually doing it for themselves and the attention of other women, men are already quite vocal about how they don’t like makeup and women still don’t give a shit
There are much more antisocial men than there are women and online dating is the best way for them to attract a mate that doesn’t involve going out and taking initiative
I used to watch a bunch of porn and I got into some weird stuff because of it and i feel like it made me less aroused to actual sex vs watching it so I stopped I got a vibrator recently and I prefer using my hands instead tbh, I do enjoy a dildo when masturbating tho
Lol stop projecting. Also thrusting is a lot easier for men then for women who are basically doing squats on your dick which gets very painful very fast AND women all like sex if different ways, I know some girls who can only orgasm being on top and for me I can only orgasm when I’m on the bottom.
Just trying to dress nice is a start, I’m very into alternative fashion and any guy who dresses that kind of way even if he isn’t the most attractive always catches my eye
No, if I like you a lot I will do things I normally wouldn’t want to do except for a few exceptions like anal or other degrading acts. I wouldn’t let chad or brad do anal lmao
Men are even worse for this, they put the most ugly photo they have of themselves and then complain that no girls like them and why can’t they get a date because they are “nice guys”
Most men who’ve told me they were a “feminist” were either over compensating for something shitty they done to a woman in the past or were doing it to try and get woke points from me.
There can be good relationships with big age gaps but most of the time it’s the guy wanting an inexperienced women they can groom and manipulate, why would u want to date a women 20 years younger than you? What do you even have in common?
Into not big into oral and sex with your partner is great but like I said it’s not always going to end in the women having an orgasm like masturbation would
You’re kinda forgetting that men also benefit from being in a relationship with women, the mental and physical connection with another person will never be able to be recreated with a sex robot
In all the online girl groups im in they all talk about how porn is one of the main reasons (in their opinion) that has caused their dead bedrooms they talk about how their bfs won’t reciprocate their advances and then will go and watch porn in the next room. Porn may not be the leading cause of ED or deadbedrooms but it’s up there
Women go to the gym just as much as men do I personally know more women who are gym rats than men, the equivalent is literally the same they just get different results and satisfactions from it than men do LOL
Well I’ve had a bit of a promiscuous past so it would be a bit contradicting of me to judge a guy like that but I would be okay with it if as long as his n count was around the same as mine or slightly higher anything more than that would be kind of a turn off
Beauty is subjective, I can appreciate the looks of the first guy you posted and the typical alternative skinny guy look and I personally go for the skinny guy look cus I feel like we would have more in common like music and fashion vs the muscular guy, and most gym rat girls I know would find the first guy objectively more attractive
thats not the porn style sex im talking about tho, im talking about men wanting women to act like the women in porn do when almost no girl acts like that, there are obviously some traits women share with the women in porn like being loud or dirty talking but im more tlking about how they want women to be all crazy and enthusiastic and wanting them to do all these crazy positions like anal and deep throating ect
Ngl I like to call guys daddy and light choking is nice but when women talk about how men want porn style sex they arent talking about that they are talking about how men want a performance, like women being overly enthusiastic in bed, women don’t act like that when they are genuinely enjoying the sex
I’ve only had one well off guy try to get with me and it almost felt like he thought he could buy my love and that him being rich was enough for me to like him but your situation seems different honestly idk why they would fuck you before but not after seeing your place?
I’ve been hurt and rejected by “alphas” and it made me a lot more attracted to “betas” Lowering my standards has made everything better for me in the dating scene
A lot of women in prostitution get sex trafficked how would you know they are getting paid for their labor? I care way more about the women being forced into these positions then you getting ur nut
Pornography hurts women and men in different ways. Women against porn and prostitution are against it because of the harm it causes women not to control men??
I was rejected by above average guys and it just made my self esteem worse and now I usually go for average or below average men because of it ( I think of my self as an average/ above average)
I feel like men actively seek out these kind of women without realizing it. most of those women are charming, beautiful and fun, men don’t see the red flags when they have their rose coloured glasses on
You should 100% always be yourself, I’ve met a few men who try to change their personality based on mine and it’s very annoying. You can tell very quickly when people are putting on some facade to appear more relatable
This is about marriage tho not children ( even tho they go hand in hand) but that still doesn’t make marriage a better option for women, it makes it a better option for the kids
I wouldn’t say I have a chip on my shoulder but rejection when I was younger and uglier has kind of ruined my self esteem around men, because of that I don’t date guys who are my looksmatch or higher
I don’t know any women who go to men’s house to clean it for free? Maybe after sex/ or hanging out they help tidy everything up or do a bit of extra cleaning to get some good points in their book but no women just goes over and cleans it for no reason
I’m 20 years old I’m attracted to people in close age range to me (20-23) No I’ve always been attracted to people my age All my friends are within that range as well The oldest I’ve been with was a 27 year old when I got drunk one night (just a hook up) other then that I’ve only been with guys with the 20-23 age range
