eyeamamess Archive

Upvotes	Title	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
16	Own your Own look	eyeamamess	/r/askMRP	09/11/17 04:08 PM
6	Dealing with Illness and difficulty keeping focus.	eyeamamess	/r/askMRP	01/03/17 06:17 PM
4	Not talking about sex....	eyeamamess	/r/askMRP	16/03/17 01:27 PM
2	Caregiver burnout	eyeamamess	/r/askMRP	22/02/18 06:25 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	A Simple Trick For Damaging Self-Talk Thank you for this post. These past couple months I’ve been locked inside my own head which lately has been a dark and angry place. Seems to be a lot of recent posts about anger which couldn’t have come at a better time. It’s been a very stressful and overwhelming couple months and I have not been embracing the suck. I’ve become so easily flooded that I flip at the smallest shit test or shitty tone from her. Sure, life throws shit at you and you have to deal and I’ve been dealt quite the hand. S…	/r/MarriedRedPill	17/08/18 04:28 PM
1	Caregiver burnout I know... no matter what it all boils down to me in the end. I went back and read my OP a year ago... looks like I'm stuck in a loop. I feel like I'm making progress but it appears the same patterns exist.	/r/askMRP	22/02/18 07:29 PM
1	Not talking about sex.... Why did this happen? From an MRP prespective... I know what I did and didn't do over the years to get where I am now. If you want to know I'll be glad to lay it out. I just didn't want to write a book online. you don't have the basic frame of mind to establish what you need in your life from your woman This is a weak area for me. Over the years I'd been treated to all kinds of well meaning articles about what to say and how to talk to a depressed person... which all boil down to let them just be…	/r/askMRP	17/03/17 11:23 AM
1	Not talking about sex.... She responds to dread. I'm not dreading her, but I do have some fans who are female and she'll occasionally get bent outta shape.	/r/askMRP	16/03/17 07:53 PM
1	Not talking about sex.... get whatever you want out of me.. I'll try not to ego protect. I'm here for some occasional guidance, not a pat on the back, or a reach-around... that would be nice, though. How are your hands? I'm trying to write here and there while working..	/r/askMRP	16/03/17 07:44 PM
1	Not talking about sex.... Its a very recent diagnosis. They finally checked for it after her legs gave out one day. She can still walk, though after a week in the hospital. She had some older scaring on her brain. Looking back things started to make sense. She's got pretty constant pain in her feet and legs at the moment. Some peripheral vision loss, occasional incontinence. She puts a lot of her energy into her horses, which is supposed to be really beneficial to MS from what I've read. She goes every morning to take ca…	/r/askMRP	16/03/17 07:39 PM
2	Dealing with Illness and difficulty keeping focus. She works at home. "What you should expect from someone with a serious chronic illness is, more often than not, anger, frustration, petulance, self-absorption, constant bitching demanding complaining blaming and criticizing" ^ It's not just me, either. There's a problem with just about everyone else in her life, one way or another. Someone will say the wrong thing and that's it.... I told her not long ago, "you must be the unluckiest person in the entire world to be surrounded by so many asshole…	/r/askMRP	02/03/17 04:34 AM
0	Dealing with Illness and difficulty keeping focus. I used to dismiss the phrase "your wife is a reflection of you" since.. you know.. she's a bit off. This place made me realize that I was wrong in a couple different ways: 1 - that I was weak and naive enough to put up with crap to begin with 2 - my inability to take action and lead got me here I am at fault after all.. I can look back at times where I could have helped her better and times where I could have stood up and said 'knock it off or I'm gone' I've got a lot of external improvements go…	/r/askMRP	02/03/17 04:24 AM
1	Dealing with Illness and difficulty keeping focus. True. Lately I've been giving myself a break.. telling myself that you can't do it all. I've been so used to this that I've for the most part adopted the 'only worry about what I can directly control' mindset. Sometimes I feel like I get too stoic to the point of looking like I don't care. Failing comfort tests..	/r/askMRP	02/03/17 04:16 AM
1	Dealing with Illness and difficulty keeping focus. ^ this... there I am. reflecting back... I remember early in the relationship seeing a red flag or two. I just figured I'd be able to love my way thru it! Seen that a million times, I bet. Since being on here, I see it in myself and in people around me. Quite an eye opener. I'm a fixer. As you pointed out.. co-dependent. Or I was.. I don't know what I am anymore. I've changed significantly the past few years. Often I still see myself as I was and beat myself up for it. I've been both caregiver a…	/r/askMRP	01/03/17 07:55 PM