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| 5 | Any advice for how to make a move?do a bunch of shit you like so you have things to talk about and then when you think someone's attractive imagine what it's like fucking them and you'll feel like you oughta make that happen | /r/seduction | 13/07/17 06:17 AM |
| 3 | Thinking about taking a bootcampNo, I think you should exhaust all other options first and then still not do a bootcamp anyway. | /r/seduction | 16/09/16 10:23 AM |
| 0 | The Man Who Slept with 1,000 women - How he did it...That's gross, man. | /r/seduction | 08/11/14 07:16 AM |
| 1 | Alright r/seduction, here's a challenge for you: I've lost my voice, but there's a short time frame to ask this girl out, what do?Don't advertise on reddit. | /r/seduction | 26/09/14 08:36 PM |
| 1 | FeelingsAsk yourself why you feel the way you do. Make a habit of forming an opinion on things, especially things you like. The more you understand your opinions the better you know yourself and the more confidently you can stand behind what you say. | /r/seduction | 23/09/14 09:01 AM |
| 9 | When has seduction advice not worked for you?The only way you're gonna stand out is by wearing loud, obnoxious clothing. A true PUA wears a dildo on his head when going out to sarge. | /r/seduction | 03/09/14 03:22 PM |
| 1 | "shut up and be grateful."I AM SO GRAPEFUL | /r/seduction | 03/09/14 03:17 PM |
| 17 | Has anyone watched 500 days of Summer?It's a story of two failing parties: a woman who can't commit even her eyes to blinking, and a man who can't even imagine being mentioned in a sentence all by himself. For everyone that watches it, it panders to your relationship biases. If you take issue with one party more than another, you're more than likely projecting your own fears and past pains on the film. It's really more genius than people give it credit for. | /r/seduction | 23/08/14 12:59 PM |
| 2 | A girl wouldn't kiss me on the first date - I debated asking her on a second date, until I read this link.You don't get a kiss because you didn't escalate. Unless there's no chemistry at all, you still have something to work with and can probably turn into a kiss. | /r/seduction | 16/08/14 11:18 AM |
| 1 | How would you go from cuddling into sex?As others have said, tell her you're kissing her neck. | /r/seduction | 13/08/14 08:46 AM |
| 2 | How would you go from cuddling into sex?Just kiss her neck. That's really it. | /r/seduction | 13/08/14 12:59 AM |
| 14 | I look really young for my age and it's humiliating.Let's not do this | /r/seduction | 13/08/14 12:58 AM |
| 5 | Dates for Potential GirlfriendsYou keep using that word, but... | /r/seduction | 04/08/14 02:39 PM |
| 0 | A Hardcore Lesson in Sexual AvailabilityWith some misogyny sprinkled in! | /r/seduction | 04/08/14 02:25 PM |
| 7 | Tinder and OkCupid have helped me meet many great women. Outside of these apps, my real world confidence, feelings of self worth, and motivation for self improvement have all plummeted. Seeking help from the wise minds in this sub.This right here. After changing my picture to myself making a goofy face, my matches went through the roof. When I only had selfies, I got nothing. I'm a good looking Indian male. | /r/seduction | 31/07/14 08:05 AM |
| 2 | Teaching kinky sex?Just say "slap me". | /r/seduction | 23/06/14 08:22 PM |
| 2 | Entering a career now that I've graduated college, what are good ways to maintain relationships with college girls?THAT SHIT'S DIFFICULT. | /r/seduction | 22/06/14 07:26 AM |
| 1 | Things I Do To Keep From Killing Myselfwhat the fuck happened in this thread? | /r/seduction | 08/06/14 04:14 AM |
| 1 | My 3 Pillars of AlphanessNo no no. I know plenty of women that LOVE a guy with a good laugh. Never stifle your expression. Never color within the lines unless it's what you really want. | /r/seduction | 26/05/14 07:25 AM |
| 2 | At 23, I've just been handed my first breakup. I fucked up alot and I'm still in the shock stage. Can you guys recommend some things to me?rest his sick cunt soul (´Д`) | /r/seduction | 14/04/14 09:51 PM |
| 5 | At 23, I've just been handed my first breakup. I fucked up alot and I'm still in the shock stage. Can you guys recommend some things to me?Become ZYZZTHETIC | /r/seduction | 14/04/14 09:43 PM |
| 2 | [LR]: quick and easy...too quick and easyI feel that most guys come here thinking of sex as an endpoint, and use it as a measure of success in certain ways, and I feel like that's missing the mark. While I love sex and crave it from time to time, I think the measure for success in seduction is your own happiness with what you're doing and who you're meeting. I have embraced a lifestyle of going for what I want and engaging people often to see what they can contribute to my experience, and I find that seduction is merely a side-effect o… | /r/seduction | 29/03/14 10:55 AM |
| 3 | Approaching a legitimate 10.Jesus Christ, Felicia. | /r/seduction | 12/03/14 07:31 PM |
| 1 | At what age does being socially slow go from "late bloomer" to "real problem"?This is just a harsh way of saying put your money where your mouth is. @OP: Don't just go on seddit, go out and get further and further out of your comfort zone. Allow the world to reject what's wrong with and find the middle ground between that and what you truly enjoy being. There's a sweet spot between being accountable to the world and being accountable to yourself, for sure. Social success is an evolutionary process, like many others things in life, and many failures have to happen before y… | /r/seduction | 08/03/14 11:53 AM |
| 12 | The Relationship Ladder.6. Mom's Spaghetti | /r/seduction | 05/03/14 06:12 PM |
| 1 | Can't seem to f-close... but k-close and I've come along way. "I like you because you're confident" [FR]Just be yourself, pal. :) | /r/seduction | 03/03/14 06:17 AM |
| 2 | Can't seem to f-close... but k-close and I've come along way. "I like you because you're confident" [FR]the more you worry about how well you're doing something, the less focused you are on actually doing it. | /r/seduction | 03/03/14 05:23 AM |
| 2 | Can't seem to f-close... but k-close and I've come along way. "I like you because you're confident" [FR]sounds like she knows what's going on. i don't know if you feel like you have nothing to lose, but you might as well keep up some communication. could be boinking or something better down the line. | /r/seduction | 03/03/14 05:05 AM |
| 4 | How to get girls in college?continue fapping, don't watch porn ever again, and don't deathgrip your donger. | /r/seduction | 01/03/14 12:54 AM |
| 12 | [FR] OKC date - Left high value girl waiting at the barI just don't understand people like you. | /r/seduction | 26/02/14 12:41 PM |
| 3 | Help! I'm losing my abundance mentality, my self esteem is slowly going down and I seem to lose my game.set some goals. | /r/seduction | 25/02/14 08:59 PM |
| 1 | Conversation's good for the first five minutes, then it always lulls. Any advice?Yes, dude. Passion is pretty sexy. I mean, you have to have a bit of weight and dynamic, because if you stick to your interests the conversation will run dry, but you should by all means present an honest dialogue of yourself. | /r/seduction | 24/02/14 08:20 AM |
| 1 | Conversation's good for the first five minutes, then it always lulls. Any advice?That's the thing, you can't predict whether or not someone is going to find what you find interesting, interesting. You have to go out on a limb and talk about what you want to talk about so that you can talk confidently. I suggest reading a lot of fiction if you can, it'll give you a lot of perspective. | /r/seduction | 24/02/14 04:22 AM |
| 1 | Conversation's good for the first five minutes, then it always lulls. Any advice?conversation threading works best if you have a lot of life experiences. so, live a little more fully and fulfill yourself so you have shit to talk about. | /r/seduction | 23/02/14 01:50 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Alone in San Fernando ValleyThanks. I'll be going out to see Phantogram on Saturday night but Friday night might be a thing. I'll keep you posted. | /r/seduction | 17/02/14 05:41 PM |
| 1 | Love you guys, but how to deal with PUA vs. PUA?I... I think he's a parody but I can't tell. | /r/seduction | 15/02/14 06:23 PM |
| 8 | How to have endless, interesting conversationthat guy isn't wearing a shirt | /r/seduction | 13/02/14 05:22 AM |
| 1 | I need something less trivial than "What time is it?"Yeah, I ended up asking around for the time. I'm gonna probably do that tomorrow too, and after that I'll step it up. | /r/seduction | 13/02/14 12:01 AM |
| 2 | I need something less trivial than "What time is it?"Uh, why are you being so apprehensive? I'm an A/B student and generally interested in almost all academia. Class was wrapping up at the time anyway. | /r/seduction | 12/02/14 09:18 PM |
| 1 | I need something less trivial than "What time is it?"Eh, a couple. I asked a girl that sits next to me for some paper the other day, that's really it though. I should probably hit her up. | /r/seduction | 12/02/14 09:13 PM |
| 4 | I need something less trivial than "What time is it?"Because I was sitting in class at the time and it crossed my mind? | /r/seduction | 12/02/14 09:10 PM |
| 1 | I need something less trivial than "What time is it?"Thanks. I just need to get into a habit of creative conversation. I'm a creative person but I guess I muted myself somewhere along the way. I'll be asking around for mundane stuff all day today I think. | /r/seduction | 12/02/14 07:16 PM |
| 1 | "We're not having sex" Past 2 weekends this has happened to me while I've had girls in my bed.No way, I meant keeping it intimate. You should NOT just force her into sex. I should have clarified; I meant that if you guys are in the middle of intimacy (the precursors stuff), you shouldn't stop being intimate just because she said "I'm not having sex with you". Don't even try to progress to sex; just keep it light and if she actually does want to have sex with you, she will. Otherwise, the moment will pass and you guys will be pretty cuddly. Also, not too concerned about the downvotes. I r… | /r/seduction | 10/02/14 06:42 PM |
| 1 | "We're not having sex" Past 2 weekends this has happened to me while I've had girls in my bed.Girls say "I'm not having sex with you" typically because they're hesitant, and not because they don't actually want to have sex with you. I know it sounds really rapey, but as long as you acknowledge what she says and keep the intimacy going, it'll either progress to sex or she'll say "stop" or refuse again - then, back off and don't make a big deal of it. Just don't be a dick about it and don't push yourself on her. | /r/seduction | 10/02/14 04:24 AM |
| -6 | "We're not having sex" Past 2 weekends this has happened to me while I've had girls in my bed.Just say "okay", but keep going until she say something like "stop." or physically pushes you away. You have to differ between hesitation and flatout not wanting it. edit: i'll even downvote myself for explaining this poorly | /r/seduction | 10/02/14 12:10 AM |
| 1 | So, just got out of a 5 year relationship.Get out of the guy box, for god's sake. | /r/seduction | 03/02/14 10:19 PM |
| 16 | [Field Report] Rejected - badly, and awkwardly.Just keep swimming. | /r/seduction | 30/01/14 01:06 AM |
| 1 | I need some advice on unlocking the potential I know I have.Slowly condition yourself to talk with girls. Try starting out by asking something really pointless that most women will respond to, like "where's _?" even or "What time is it?", then work your way up to adding "how are you?" to that, and eventually, showing interest with "You're cute, so I thought I'd come over and meet you. How are you? I'm _," etc. You have to break your anxiety. | /r/seduction | 30/01/14 12:35 AM |
| 1 | How do you deal with language barriers?I seem to attract deaf girls regularly. It's a bit difficult. | /r/seduction | 29/01/14 05:14 AM |
| 3 | First time here. 24m just got out of a bad relationship with my girlfriend of a year. Not feeling confident at all about getting back out there. Seeking advice.See a therapist. When a relationship ends badly it may take a long time for you to get over it by yourself. A therapist will help you parse what you feel and it helps to have someone to confide in. I think you may especially have need for one since you've had issues with confidence and social behavior for a long time. You can worry about dating later. Your mental health is paramount. | /r/seduction | 23/01/14 07:26 PM |
| 2 | Mark Manson - How to Attract WomenLife isn't a locker room, dude. | /r/seduction | 23/01/14 06:09 AM |
| 2 | Mark Manson - How to Attract WomenIt doesn't seem fruitful to want to attract someone that isn't interested in you, though, especially if you're kind of putting up a front. Perhaps for a lay, sure. Maybe. It depends on how important getting laid is to you. I agree that leagues exist, but I don't think of them in the same way as you. Typically, people that weren't interested in you would be losing interest in you after a while, no? I could be wrong in assuming that you're using lines and behaviors that come as suggestions from ot… | /r/seduction | 22/01/14 09:24 PM |
| 2 | Mark Manson - How to Attract WomenI'll reiterate: many guys come here for more than just trophies. The way you're putting it, you think you're below "that cutie over there" in terms of attractiveness. I'd call that preemptive. My philosophy, which the more vocal members of seddit will probably disagree with, is that "10s" shouldn't be something you're so intimidated by that you need to create a whole methodology in order to get their attention. I feel that if you've put yourself in a position of feeling like you're a "ten" (give… | /r/seduction | 22/01/14 09:06 PM |
| 9 | Mark Manson - How to Attract WomenDon't project what you personally want. Many guys come here for drastically different reasons than trophies. | /r/seduction | 22/01/14 08:08 PM |
| 9 | A date asked me if I was gay. I've also been told I act too metrosexual. Insight/Advice?I'm gonna be real with you, honesty is far more attractive to women because of the very fact that you are uncompromising with their views. You have set your boundaries and they can either accept them or you can move on. There's 3 billion other women you can impress otherwise, even if just one doesn't receive you. Also, it's good to be polarizing, because the girls that you find that ARE into what you are (fully, and unabashedly) will give you very fruitful relationships. Edit: also, you can't ch… | /r/seduction | 20/01/14 11:24 PM |
| 36 | A date asked me if I was gay. I've also been told I act too metrosexual. Insight/Advice?Don't compromise your personality to impress women. That's needy. You don't need to search for approval in every woman you meet. Look a little more often, you'll find that there are plenty of girls that are receptive to the type of person you are. | /r/seduction | 20/01/14 10:19 PM |
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