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Free For All Discussionezbyte/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 10:25 PM
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I’m so fucking baffled that men don’t stop to think that maybe the woman isn’t hooking up anymore because she realized it was a bad decision. Maybe she caught an STD or had her heart broken and now she’s more cautious. I thought we were supposed to learn and do better, the older we get. But it’s like men are screaming “you made bad decisions before, now you need to continue to make bad decisions with me!” They do not care about the growth of that woman at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 01:27 AM
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Yall get on here and complain about how women let bum ass men live with them without contributing anything. Or taking care of a man child that doesn’t know how to cook or clean. That sounds pretty nice for the men that get that treatment.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 01:37 AM
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Did you expect women to say “I love ugly men!” instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 02:04 PM
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Girl speak for yourself. Yall women on here are probably lowkey weird in real life. There is nothing wrong with a man complimenting a woman in a non work setting and asking if she would like to go on a date. As long as a man is respectful and backs down if you say no, there shouldn’t be any issue with that interaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 09:27 PM
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False equivalence. You can be raped by a man you just went on a first date with. You can be assaulted by an unknown man that just so happened to be on the same street as you. If your wife screws you over with a bad marriage/divorce, you did spend some years vetting her before deciding she was the one.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 03:08 AM
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It’s less of a risk not be rude to a stranger vs having to have intimate sex with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 05:31 PM
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This was a really good comment, valuable insight, and I hope more people here read it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 08:58 PM
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lol this is wildly untrue. My last two relationships I really just wanted a fuck buddy situation but they were relentless in trying to lock me down and get into a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 08:36 PM
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This is so incredibly not true. Average women can throw themselves at attractive men, and some of them will take the easy offer of sex. But attractive men are not going out of their way to get an average’s woman attention. Average women get that type of attention from average and below average men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 08:26 PM
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wtf. Who said most men that approach are weirdos?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 01:26 PM
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If you are begging for romantic attention, you are not dating down enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 06:12 PM
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Fuck no! I did this once and I never will again. Women are not desperate like men. I much rather be single than with someone that doesn’t measure up. It just makes me end up resentful of my partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 07:49 PM
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Such a shit take. Men should protect women the same way women should protect babies and elders from harm. We should always look after those weaker and more vulnerable than us. But yall so bitter towards your dating situation that’s it’s literally made yall anti social.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 07:16 PM
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With how expensive everything is, polygamy is probably a better situation for most. Pulling together resources from multiple adults to help raise kids communally.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 02:02 PM
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I thought sluts were easy but you described a selective woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 04:10 PM
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Idk but most of the men I see vloging about their van nomad lifestyle seem to have a hippy looking chick and a dog by their side.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 01:10 PM
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I doubt he responds back to this. There is a select group in America that desperately needs to keep the white majority asleep about the systematic injustice this country is built upon. Because if enough of them truly realize what most black people in America have always known, the numbers of empathizers will grow to the point where the system can be dismantled. And this puts the entire structure of white global domination at risk, especially since they are a rapidly shrinking minority in this wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 05:30 PM
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The amount of vitriol you have towards anonymous women on Reddit, I know you’re getting your ass handed to you on dating apps and approaching in real life. Because it’s no other reason to be so ornery.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 07:42 PM
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Where is the data for this claim?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 04:07 PM
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Sooo, she’s not your friend, she’s not your girl, and she’s not your fuck buddy. Why are yall hanging out again?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 04:04 PM
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No it’s not wtf.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 03:41 PM
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Be honest in your conversation. Women friends do reciprocate, just not with sex, because they’re your FRIEND!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 03:35 PM
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Then you need to do what actual black people do when faced with job discrimination. We can rally to bring attention to the issue, but we still have to find ways to be marketable despite unjust stereotypes held against us, because we still need a job to live. It might not be easy to date short but it is not impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 04:52 PM
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Honest question. Do you seriously not believe that men of the past weren’t being settled for? I would argue that the majority of marriages in the past, the woman settled on a man that made “enough” money and was decent “enough” to tolerate living with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 06:18 PM
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If she makes more money or has a more successful career, would you consider being the one that stays home instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 05:30 PM
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I’ve literally received two marriage proposals since becoming a mom, and I had never been proposed to before having kids. Idk it’s like men think I’m more obtainable now or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 07:09 PM
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I agree. I also find it interesting that combination of irresponsible nice guy is never discussed here. All nice guys are not mature and finically secure. You can very well end up with a nice guy that doesn’t make for the best dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 06:59 PM
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I’m curious to know what your definition of being led is then
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 03:08 AM
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Let’s say I met a man who ultimately wanted to move out the country and start a farm on a Caribbean island. I never had any type of desire to do this before I met him but it’s not a life I would oppose. We get together and after time I see that he’s put in real effort to make this a reality, so I’m comfortable aligning my goals to fit his gameplan. So then he starts teaching me how to farm, and other skills we will need for this new life. I would consider this to be a woman submitting to a man’s…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 08:54 PM
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I don’t need to be. But I would not mind helping a good man with a well thought out life gameplan that I’m aligned with.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 08:35 PM
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Speak for yourself. I wouldn’t mind be led by somebody I could trust to lead.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 06:48 PM
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This is my exact experience. Majority of men that I just wanted to have fun with always try and lock me down after spending some time with me. Idk if they expected to be annoyed by my presence and only able to tolerate me enough to fuck. But after we link a couple of times, it’s always “ I really like hanging out with you. I didn’t expect us to click like this. I think I wanna take us to the next level.”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 05:47 PM
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I will scream it to the rooftops. What you’re describing is by design and right at the intersection of white supremacy and institutional racism. I wish this place allowed us to actually discuss that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 05:39 PM
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Life ain’t fair. I’m picking the man that’s best for my wants and needs in a relationship, not the one who’s the most equal to me. Which I would advise men to do as well. It’s not a gender thing for me. I wouldn’t advise men from broken homes to get into a relationship with women from broken homes. Your partner should complement you, not match you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 01:32 PM
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Why do I like older men? I’ve always been attracted to men that look grown. I hated the baby faced boy band craze. Older men often have a vibe that screams confidence and comfortable in the skin they’re in. I like how they aren’t scared to flirt and be romantic. And they’re often very nasty, which I love.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 01:12 AM
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Please don’t stereotype all of us. I have a great relationship with my dad and I still prefer my men 10+ years older than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 09:41 PM
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I always had a thing for older men. We do exist. But I would never want to date an older man that only dates young girls. That’s a red flag for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 09:39 PM
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Why are you assuming these women are classy? Because they’re white?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 06:54 PM
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When were you born? What she’s talking about it pretty on track for older millennials. Mainstream media regularly dumped on fat chicks, old hags, bull daggers, welfare queens. The humor and dialogue was crude and insensitive compared to today.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 06:48 PM
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Ok so the couple that decides not to have kids also wish to buy property together. Is that a good enough reason for you for them to get married?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 01:52 AM
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White patriarchy did this to white women. But this subreddit doesn’t allow us to discuss how institutional racism and white supremacy plays a large part into dating dynamics in America.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 08:37 PM
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Not to be blunt or rude but you can’t learn how to have a bigger dick if that’s what your partner needs to be sexually satisfied.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 08:29 PM
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I don’t need an emotional attachment to them but I need them to have an emotional attachment to me, if that makes sense. And to be fair, the sex is a lot better once I have an emotional connection to the other party.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 12:40 PM
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Of all the posts I’ve read from men and women, this is the only one that rings true to me. Women might be rude to a man trying to pick them up if the man comes across to aggressive or pressuring, or maybe she’s just having a hard day. But if we put those instances aside, women get mad at low value men approaching them because it’s signaling to larger society that you both are in the same league. One benefit that men have is that you all have more opportunities to be judge solely based off your m…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 08:42 PM
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Yall really got undiagnosed mental issues and are masking it as dating woes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 11:07 PM
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I have 3 avenues an ugly man can take to make me overlook his face. #1 Be funny, #2 Be tall with a sexy body and a hung dick, or #3 Be charismatic, chivalrous, and generous.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 06:03 PM
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I know this is how you want to perceive it, in attempts of evening the score on this gender war. But you are leaving out a very important fact that the 30+ women that are warning the 20 something women were once in their 20’s too. We were hit on by the older guy back then too. And we thought it made us mature until we realized that the guy had some major issues. We’re trying to warn young women about experiences we already lived through.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 05:58 PM
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I can agree on an individual basis, if a woman believes you are the best she’s ever had or will get, then she try pretty hard to hold on to you, even if you start pulling back. But that is rare man for most women. I don’t think most men should follow the pull back advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 05:42 PM
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Women just don’t fight for men the way men fight for women. And it’s not because of low self esteem. We just don’t have to. Men are like busses. If one leaves, another one is coming in 15min.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 04:09 PM
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I think the use of the term “child” might be throwing you off. But I stand by the notion that a large segment of men want someone they can help mold into the perfect partner for them. They value compliance and want to lead without their partner being combative of their decision making skills. This behavior is just not as common in women. More women are looking for leadership in a partner than a partner that’s willing to let them lead. So the women in your life that chastised you were basically t…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 07:30 PM
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Being a mama’s boy or a daddy’s girl both carry the connotation that the person is babied by their parent. Being babied means the person might lack life skills and independence. The difference here is that more men than women like their partner to be a bit dependent on them. Many women are looking for a “parent” archetype in a partner and many men are looking for a “child” archetype. So being a mamas boy goes against what women find attractive in a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 05:39 PM
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Men will literally do the same thing. If a hot woman goes to jail for murder, they will still get hard for her, ofter to bond her out, and willing to form a relationship with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 01:34 PM
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That doesn’t sound “good” to me. Sounds like being a passive little bitch that lacks the self confidence to be who they really want to be. How can I expect a man like to lead me when he’s already a follower?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 03:46 PM
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Ding ding ding! If bad boys are treating women like sex dolls, nice guys are treating women like little porcelain figurines that shouldn’t be played with or else they will get dirty.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 03:41 PM
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You realize women do the same for men right? Do you know how many women set up and cooked amazing dishes for a Super Bowl party of a sport they don’t even watch? And have to listen to men tell their shitty high school stories. I’ve spent hours sitting with my partner while he fishes. Bought us tickets to the auto show and I don’t even like cars. If you believe women don’t do any acts of service for their men then you might be interacting with women that don’t like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:35 PM
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For what it’s worth, my ex was bigger than my current but I like sex with my current much better. He’s way nastier and turns me on more. A big dick feels horrible when the person attached to it can’t get you wet.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 08:26 PM
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You realize the preferential treatment is men’s fault right? Go talk to your fellow man about changing that. Women have collectively agreed that dick isn’t worth jumping through hoops for.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 02:21 PM
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Then post a link to a video where she did.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 05:21 PM
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The same goes for majority of men. They have options, they’re just not attracted to them. Yall love to say on here “I’m an average guy. I just want an average girl that’s not obese.” Welp all of those men are passing up their overweight options so they are lonely because they want to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 06:19 PM
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Nobody is stopping them from dating women at the nursing home.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 06:15 PM
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You know that’s not true. But you’ve been so indoctrinated by what you consume on the internet and you’ve had a hard time dating, so it’s easier to protect your ego by saying women don’t care for their husbands at all. But men like you also simultaneously hold the notion that women bend over backwards for Chad. That they don’t mind fully supporting their bum ass bad boy bf. So clearly women do support and comfort. It’s just you don’t believe they would do it for someone like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 04:39 PM
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There are plenty of scenarios that can be an evolutionary fit. As we continue as a species we will continue to adopt and adapt.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 10:41 PM
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There are a lot of Italian men that love thick black women. I would assume that desire for a fuller curvaceous body extends to women of other races as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 08:51 PM
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Baby you still have time to delete this. It’s not coming across how you probably want it to. 🥴
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 08:01 PM
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We take it to heart because you all said it! Now you don’t want us to believe what you say???
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 03:40 PM
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All women do not do this. I’ve never even had a man I would consider more attractive than me give me any romantic attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 01:01 AM
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Good men and women date “toxic” assholes all the time. A child abuser is more than just toxic. That’s an evil person. And you have to be somewhat evil yourself to want to knowingly pursue a relationship with someone that hurts children.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 11:42 PM
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So I want to reframe the thought process in your last sentence. It’s not that the guy is so hot that a normal woman would bypass him touching kids just to be with him. It’s that the women that are bypassing that fact are bad people too. They very well could also be abusers and that’s why the man’s behavior doesn’t dissuade them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 04:01 PM
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I don’t do goalpost moving. I’m talking specifically about what the post above me mentioned, and that’s women entertaining the dating profile of a man that admits he abuses children. Those are the type of women that would facilitate the abuse for that man. They might even assault the kid as well. Those are bad women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 03:57 PM
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She’s not confident she’s abrasive and a bit aggressive. And those traits usually pop up in people trying to hide their crippling low self esteem. Men date fat women all the time. Men also date bitches. But you’re gonna have a hard time as a fat bitch. You gotta pick a struggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 02:53 PM
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You act like this is shocking. There are deplorable men and women in society. Stop putting women on pedestals and you’ll probably have a better time understanding them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 02:34 PM
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Basically if both parties just couldn’t contain themselves, I’m not going to shame them. But I really think you should know a little about a person’s hygiene habits and sexual history before getting into bed with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 11:31 PM
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If he values immediate sex over finding a good partner then he’s not the man for me. I don’t care what percent he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 11:29 PM
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I think you severely underestimate the amount of self control people can have towards sex. Especially women, since men have been offering us sex since puberty. I have had the opportunity to fuck many very handsome men. I declined for varying reasons, including lack of emotional connection or possibly of a relationship. Your viewpoint sounds like someone that’s sex starved.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 07:22 PM
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lol fuck no. That’s a quick way to become a female doormat. If that HVM doesn’t like me enough to wait, then he probably doesn’t like me enough to hold on to a long term relationship with me either. But that’s why you vet. And vetting is suppose to take time. It helps weed out men who are not very serious about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 07:15 PM
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I’m not against sex on the first date, but for a man to make it a preference would turn me off from him. It signals he doesn’t take his health seriously because he hasn’t taken the time to ensure his date is clean.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 06:43 PM
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You say that like women are suppose to feel bad. Many women outside of the western world are seen as slaves, property, and under the rule of men in her family and community. That’s not a life most women willingly want to live.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 11:12 AM
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Some people literally feel stifled by a long term partner and kids. In this world there are no absolutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 09:55 PM
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As a woman, that’s mad pathetic and you should stop. Women in general are not the center of the universe and should not be your #1 motivation in life. Please go find God instead. We’re only humans, just like men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 09:38 PM
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I guess I just don’t fundamentally believe anyone should ask for exclusivity from someone they’re just dating. Dating is suppose to be the time you get to know a person and decide if want anything more. If you two go on a couple of dates, both enjoy each other’s company, I would think it’s appropriate to then ask that person if they would like to be in an exclusive relationship with you. If they say no, you can move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 04:40 PM
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Who are you cheating on if you’re just dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 02:16 PM
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If women have more options to “spin plates” and are more likely to do it, then it sounds like that behavior is natural to women. Maybe it’s men that should stop trying to be a player when it’s something they’re not naturally inclined to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 02:13 PM
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Where the hell did you get that last sentence from? Do you actually believe this?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 02:53 PM
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Literally the more I had sex the better I understood what my body needed to orgasm. As I explored different partners, I learned how to orgasm under multiple conditions and not just the particular moves a certain guy did. The more you do something, the better you tend to get at it. If overstimulation was the issue then virgin women would have the best orgasms of their lives. In reality most women don’t cum the first couple of times they have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 06:22 PM
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You need to have a conversation with your rank and file members then. Because it’s a lot of average and below average men that are selfish lovers
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 04:07 PM
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In school shooter situations, before the cops are even notified, you have women teachers risking their lives to try and save students. What a horrible fucking take
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 04:51 AM
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Are you saying that you were hooking up with her while he was trying to exclusively date her? Because if your time with her didn’t overlap with his time, why did your friend need to breakup with her? I’m assuming she didn’t know you two were friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 05:26 PM
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If they were easy to read men wouldn’t get duped like the OP is claiming in his hypothetical
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 05:22 PM
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Sir nobody is forcing you to date women that don’t meet your standards. You most definitely have the option to leave and be single.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 05:17 PM
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These men are using a woman’s willingness to engage in depraved sex acts as a measuring stick of their rank among other men. It’s really not about the woman at all. They are insecure how they measure up to other men and require external validation through sex acts to compensate.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 05:14 PM
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Rape is a crime someone does to someone else against their will. No person in particular is making the man lonely enough to kill himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 02:50 PM
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I think one of the biggest issues with men here is that you all severely overestimate the quantity of DECENT men that women are actually interacting with. Many of those “average” men you believe women are turning down for no reason often have issues not visible to someone not trying to date them. Lot of men out here battling mental issues like depression and anxiety. Many functioning alcoholics. And some of these average men are just down right mean when they get into a relationship and have to …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 04:50 PM
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So maybe we suppress male nature for a couple thousand years?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 04:58 PM
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Young women have more suitors but literally lack the life experience to know which one is the best one for her. Women don’t come out of the womb knowing how to pick a good partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 02:05 AM
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Even through text you come across as a person that’s hard to please. Those women lied to try and force a stronger connection with you. And that’s either because they place value on being friends with you, or they might be romantically interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 12:30 PM
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Not pissed off at all. I watch porn and I have no issue with it. But if women consumed porn at the same rate as men we would have more porn catered towards women (which is pretty slim currently)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 12:22 AM
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You know damn well women across the board aren’t watching more porn than men. Living up to that username of yours huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 09:59 PM
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Re read the initial post and then get back to us. Your post confirmed the hypocrisy men have surrounding sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 04:37 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 03:59 AM
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You are not a high value man. If you were you would not be here.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 08:54 PM
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I disagree. I believe for a lot of women, definitely for me, a man’s self development is part of their attraction. I wouldn’t want to sleep with an incompetent man and definitely wouldn’t want a long term relationship with them. A handsome incompetent man is like a pretty girl with an std. They might be objectively attractive but their condition is a major turn off.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 02:35 PM
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Most of this PUA stuff is gentrified “macking” that has existed in black communities since the turn of the 20th century.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 06:51 AM
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All experience isn’t bad experience. Time has allowed be to become a better communicator, more organized, a better cook, less clingy, more capable in decision making, more in control of my emotions, a better mother, better lover, better friend. Quite frankly my 30s are my “best years”. But because you prize youthful attraction above any traits that would make a successful companion, you are willing to throw a woman’s self development away. Sounds very shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 06:26 AM
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The point is coherent, you just don’t agree with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 03:34 PM
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Why do men never consider that women with low body counts might be more susceptible to feeling like they missed out during their youth and might want to explore sex with other people as they approach middle age?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 03:32 AM
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Not true at all. I thought I was ugly for the longest. But the real issue was that I had low self esteem and didn’t really put myself out there. When you act like a wallflower you tend to blend into the background even if you’re attractive. Once I started being more social, I found that a much larger chunk of men found me attractive then what I originally thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 09:05 PM
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They still want a green card or at the very least access to western countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 12:54 AM
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The way you keep moving the goalposts is a bit embarrassing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 04:18 PM
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I see you said that you try and hide your wealth overseas, but do you think the difference in attention is because you’re not hiding or can’t hide your nationality as an America or Western European man? Basically, your skin color/ accent is doing the heavy lifting of flexing your wealth.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 10:59 AM
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He made the story up on the fly, you called him out on a major kink in the story that makes it illogical. So now all he can do to save face is say “yOu’Re MiSsInG tHe PoInT”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 11:22 PM
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That would make sense as the Filipino speaker is mimicking how they were taught English, most likely in a school setting. POCs in America that have generational ties to the nation have been here long enough to develop English dialects that have their own accent, cadence and linguistic rules. And it’s not just a POC thing. White people in certain pockets of America have dialects that can be hard to understand if you are not familiar with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 04:33 PM
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Yes even Chad. There’s always a better looking Chad, richer Chad, higher clout Chad. No human is maxed out in all areas, which means there’s always someone who is better than you in some area. Even Stacy has to settle for someone who’s Chad enough for her if she wants a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 01:17 PM
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No man is forced to have children. Men have options, they just begin before conception. You can get a vasectomy, pull out, use condoms, practice abstinence, or pick a sex partner that you wouldn’t mind having children with. Unfortunately men don’t carry babies so they do not get control over gestation. Be mad at biology not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:45 PM
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If you’ve been dumped 5 times in adult LTR, yes there is definitely something you are doing wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 04:58 PM
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Everyone is settled for. Get over yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 04:50 PM
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This has always been my stance here. Idk why men are acting like this is some new phenomenon. Never has there been a time in history where every man got the opportunity to couple with a woman and mate. There has always been a subset of men that have been excluded. This is not the fault of women, it’s just how human societies work.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 02:07 PM
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Girl don’t you get on this pasty ass site and tell these people that you are less attractive because of your race. Low self esteem looks good on no one.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 04:19 AM
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I’m gonna gracefully bow out of this conversation because I believe us to have different cultural viewpoints. I was very slim the majority of my life and was constantly passed up for thicker girls. But I also primarily date black and Latino men. And those groups have been loving thick women before obesity was even an issue in America.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:32 PM
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Maybe you’re a little gay and it’s easier for you to find men attractive vs women. Obesity rates are fairly similar between men and women in the US. And a large chunk of men actually like women that are thick and find them more visually arousing than a woman with narrow hips and b cups.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 04:44 PM
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Quite honestly the way you view labor within a capitalist society is the same way many women view dating in the western world. If you can’t obtain the type of woman you want, it’s because your value is too low. But the men here don’t take kindly to that talk. Many are pushing for a more communist approach but within the dating world instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 11:18 PM
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And an overwhelming percentage of these children grow up to be the dregs on society that you complain about. Raising a child ≠ raising a child to be a productive member of society.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 11:54 PM
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Just making up shit huh? Where are these arbitrary numbers coming from. And men don’t need to be emotionally invested to want to have sex like women do? Please tell that to the man from a completely diff state that I live in, that I tried to one night stand, only for him to message all my family and friends on fb trying to contact me because he was convinced we were meant to be together.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 04:57 PM
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This contradicts the claim tossed around here that only a small percentage of men passed along their genes throughout history.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 04:31 PM
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You would honestly have an easier time finding these women at a place that has a higher propensity for these characteristics (like healthy smoothie bar, fitness class, hiking group) than filtering through the millions of women on dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 04:05 PM
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There’s such odd racial takes in this subreddit. I can only assume yall are whitewashed minorities that desperately want to date white people and have a hard time attracting them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 02:08 PM
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But you’re shallow when it comes to most overweight women. And if you live in the US, that’s like a majority of the legal female population. But there’s so many overweight women that have great personalities and want nothing more than to love and support their partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 01:22 AM
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Majority of blue pilled men and women do not want to see BP/RP/Incels partner-less forever, because it’s literally a danger to society. So I would not consider the above post to be a revenge fantasy but moreso an unfortunate reality for many of the men that fall into that box.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 06:32 PM
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I’m not embarrassed because my value is not hinged on a man’s perception of me. I’ve never had a problem dating in real life. I could literally be a housewife right now and choose not to. I have my own money, my own property, my own career th
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 05:37 AM
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Ok. So what are you suppose to say when the guy is literally a low value male that lacks the drive to make any real improvements to increase his dating prospects?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 01:48 AM
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You poor soul. This would be laughable if it wasn’t so sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 11:47 AM
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I mean you just said the other option doesn’t even really love you. So one says they love you but doesn’t show it. The other doesn’t love you at all. It’s virtually the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 07:47 PM
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Saying you love someone without action to back it up is absolutely meaningless.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 12:57 PM
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Women like what you describe get married young and usually get cheated on by their husbands with the whores you describe. The whores get married later to those same men once they’re divorced from their nice first wife. And the whores usually have much more leverage in the relationship than the first wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 12:25 AM
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This has a lot to do with upbringing of women from different racial backgrounds. Women of other races have less of an issue being straightforward with men. But if I get too deep into it, then I get hushed by the mods for bringing up racial issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 03:37 PM
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Women aren’t able to easily able to obtain sex toys until they are basically grown, like 18+. I knew men masturbated ever since I was a kid. I didn’t find a way to successfully masturbate until I was 16. So I would blame the lack of female masturbation due to a lack of exposure and knowledge about the subject.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 05:01 AM
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When you say “ Same women who won't even ask a penny from men they are truly attracted to” please understand you are talking about a certain subset of women who often uses a man’s look and ability to showcase them as her boyfriend/lover as her own form of validation. There is not a man fine enough on this earth for me to consider being the breadwinner for him and never asking for a dime for him. I don’t want a man I find hideous, but a man’s ability to provide will always trump his appearance to…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 01:20 PM
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All of those inventions will literally be the downfall of humanity on earth. They are pushed to compensate for their natural inferiority through artificial creations and social structures because the if they lived in natural harmony with the earth like every other creature they would be at the bottom of the totem pole of mankind.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 03:39 PM
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Women push men to be great. Men don’t and then wonder why the women around them are stagnant and shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 03:19 PM
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White men have had an inferiority complex that’s been apparent since antiquity. These same disparaging remarks towards women they also had towards men of other races. When a person complains about everyone around them, the complainer usually is the one with the real problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 03:14 PM
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I promise you there is a middle ground between “all men are bad” and being completely dismissive of a victim’s feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 09:14 PM
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So you can be the one to give her that emotional baggage instead 😒
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 02:42 AM
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No tf it’s not. Thats an escalation that will end up with you in jail, hospital or morgue. If you don’t like the way a person talks to you, or emotionally manipulates you, break up and walk away. But using your physicality to threaten and intimidate will get you put down like a dirty dog because now you’re threatening my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 12:25 AM
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Such a white man take. Wtf is up with y’all and issues with diversity? I promise you are not always the default best choice to do shit the best. You’re just use to seeing it in a country that purposely prioritized white success for hundreds of years.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 12:20 AM
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This is low self esteem babble reinforced by the commodification of women’s wombs and virginity. The first man to have a baby with her is not the “best” man just by factor of getting to do it first. Stop treating women like new or used cars you pull off the lot. We are complex people who often have to go thru trials and tribulations in order to mature and make better decisions. If the single mom is compatible with you, not struggling financially to raise her children, willing to extend her famil…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 08:23 AM
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If you have friends, family, and hobbies that you spend time with/doing then you won’t be considered too available, which is the root of this post. It has nothing to do with dating multiple women. Sounds like an attempt to convince yourself and others that women only want men that are actively entertaining other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 09:40 PM
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If your whole life revolves around women, you’re pussy whipped, even if it’s multiple pussies. At its core, this is one of the issues men have that’s creating this dating inequality. Even with the red pill trying to give you back control of the dating game, you’re still unable to not place the concept of obtaining women on a pedestal. I can even say as a woman, that women are not important enough to have your whole world revolve around them. That shit is lame.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 09:29 PM
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Bro you don’t need other bitches. Just some friends or family you hang out with. Some hobbies you’re invested in. Why instantly jump to this silly conclusion that women need men that juggle other women? We just want you to have a life like a normal fucking person.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 08:40 PM
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But all people will not reproduce. This is true of every living species. Reproduction is not some type of God given right. So are these people suppose to start hating those that can reproduce? Are they not suppose to improve their chances at reproduction? Can they not find contentment in life outside of reproduction?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 06:14 PM
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Your stance only works if you’re getting the results you want. If you’re not, you’re going to have to change it continue to go without. That might include being more receptive to feedback.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 06:02 PM
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Choice #1 is out of the question because I want more kids. I need to know the attractiveness of choice 2 and 3, how well choice 2 can fuck and if he’s serious about not seeing anymore escorts. I’m not trying to catch an std from my partner. If choice #3 is attractive to me, I will take the time to teach him how to have sex. He also needs to know how to fight and shoot. I don’t mind him being awkward in social situations, but he needs to know how to protect his family if needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 04:05 PM
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Y’all make shit harder than it needs to be. Women have options. Everyone here understands that. She’s gonna go with her best option. What defines “best” for her might not mean best for you. She might want the most attractive man, and doesn’t care if he’s not a breadwinner or chivalrous. Some will want the richest man, and doesn’t care how he looks. And some will want the biggest romantic, looks and money be dammed. If you want a woman, find a niche and try to be the best in her sphere. If the ba…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 03:51 PM
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I don’t split bills. We’re both grown and should have money in the bank. Either you pay or I’ll pay. I’ve bought drinks for men to let them know I’m interested. I’ve bought food for men I’m talking to, especially if I’ve been dragging them all over the city while I run errands. But if you invite me on a date for the first time and then want to split the bill, you’re setting the tone that you’re not the kind of guy I want to be with.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 03:28 PM
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Why do you fail to take into account the women that settled early on that are still miserable because they failed to take the time to figure out what exactly they want and look around enough to find it? Setting down young and inexperienced is not some type of fail proof way of ensuring happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 12:39 AM
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What do men offer that women can’t do for themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 12:09 AM
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Some men would literally nut in every woman they could, in efforts to have as many kids as possible, and then relinquish their rights for every single one.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 10:53 PM
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Vetting even back in the day involved finding a good man that you were still attracted to. The ones marrying well mannered ugmo’s were still settling to be financially secure.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 01:31 AM
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This is the lie men tell themselves to subconsciously uphold a semblance of sexual morality for women. The insidious truth is much closer to male sexuality. We actually don’t need to fall in love with a man to have good sex. We don’t want a relationship with the fuckboi we know they’re not good for a relationship. But their sex is amazing. It’s unfortunately rare to find a man that turns you on to the core, is amazing in bed, and actually a good person to be in a relationship with. Women have a …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 04:46 PM
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I won’t argue against your philosophy. But I will say that is not a way to find a romantic relationship. She doesn’t have romantic feelings for you. She’s just scared to lose her presumed quality of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 12:52 PM
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To women it is. You don’t know how jarring it is to see a man cut off all his facial hair to reveal a weak chin/jawline, and now he looks like some type of creepy child predator. We are deceived into thinking we are attracted to this man’s masculinity when in reality his actual face looks like he’s been playing with hormone blockers.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 12:48 PM
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Why is a relationship built off fear perfect? Sounds like a hostage and not a gf/wife. How do you know she even really loves you, and not just sticking around for her own self preservation?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 12:07 PM
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Breads cut by trimmers are artificially styled it a way to make them more appealing
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 12:01 PM
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I agree with both list for men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 10:08 PM
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You have very poor self esteem and a crippling inferiority complex. I legit feel sorry for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 10:55 PM
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If child support is making you destitute you really should make better choices and not have kids. Go get a vasectomy to be sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 10:49 PM
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Honest answer? You need to shoot for something casual for your first time. A fwb situation would suit you best. That way you don’t need to meet all of her needs and she doesn’t have to meet all of yours. Because you’re just not ready for the responsibility and requirements of a full blown relationship just yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 05:45 PM
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I’ve lived that example. There is a very real reason why some who actually wants a relationship can’t lock someone down past a certain age.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 05:30 PM
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Nothing personal. Just being honest. The experienced partner is going to pay the brunt of your lack of experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 05:26 PM
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Often times the man with no experience simply doesn’t know how to properly behave in a relationship. They have difficulty blending their already established life with someone else. Or they have weird quirks that are off putting. Their partner then has to spend a lot of time helping to teach them how to be in a relationship and unlearning behavior that’s not conductive to being in a relationship. It’s a lot of work on the more experienced partner’s side and most of the time the juice simply isn’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 03:53 PM
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I’ve been in this situation before. Pick the guy with 3 failed relationships, as long as he’s 30+. There’s a reason the other guy has no relationship experience, and you don’t want to be on the tail end of figuring that out.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 02:23 PM
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No it’s not. It can be, but not for all woman. Thats the problem with men on this subreddit. You think in such a black and white way. But honestly, if you had everything figured out, you wouldn’t be on this subreddit in the first place. I’m in a situationship with two men. They both love me. They both want me to be exclusive to them. My problem is I care for them both, but they both have deficiencies in areas that the other excels at. I’m having problems figuring out who I want to exclusively mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 05:10 PM
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Do you ever consider that some situationships are because it’s the woman that doesn’t want a committed relationship with that man?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 05:03 PM
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Like the men here don’t want the same thing. Please humble yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 07:48 PM
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The posters aren’t even black!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 07:34 PM
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The men on this subreddit definitely do. We just had a post about how it’s women fault that they pick shitty men. I tell these women they need to choose to leave, even if they are scared, because it’s not going to get any better on its own.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 05:16 PM
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Choose fucking better then. Don’t have children with women you are scared to ask for a paternity test from. I told my partner any child we have I am willing to get tested for his peace of mind, so we definitely exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 04:58 PM
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I always find this to be such an odd statement coming from men because it implies that men are inherently damaging to women. I’m not here to change your beliefs but after being in a relationship for over a decade, I believe I’m a much better partner than I was in my early 20’s. I was more childish, selfish, and less compromising.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 10:25 PM
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Height has never been a big turn on for me. I literally left my 6ft bf for a 5’6 man. But my dad is also 5’6 and he was the best man in my eyes. So I guess I never grew up with height being such a marker for masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 09:39 PM
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Find a fetish you’re into or can at least tolerate and then join the community. Pursue women 10+ yrs older than you. Date outside your race with women really into your race.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 11:16 PM
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This is not true across the board. I have left men that were model status for men that were decently attractive because model guy had horrible morals, wasn’t a pleasure to be around outside of a sexual context, and didn’t treat me as well as the decently attractive guy. I promise you women attraction just doesn’t work like men’s no matter how hard you want it to. I rather have a soft life with a decent man than one filled with ups and downs with some hot guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 04:26 PM
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I honestly feel like women have always been like this. It’s just in the past women placed a higher priority on provider status than being physically attracted to their husbands. You often hear older women talk about how they didn’t really like their husband they first met but he grew on her, he was kind and made her laugh, and then she learned to love him.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 02:58 AM
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Omg your pill tag. Fucking love it 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 03:45 AM
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Men start developing health issues and then rely on their women to find specialists, create a health gameplan, arrange the house in a way that’s easier for a sick person to get around in, scheduling doctors appointments, staying with them during hospital stays. Basically becoming a caregiver.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 03:00 PM
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The only ONS I had was because I was drunk and upset that my new bf didn’t want to announce or relationship publicly on FB before leaving for college, and said he would never get comfortable with eating pussy (we were kids and the argument was childish on both sides). I didn’t even like the guy I had a ONS with and ghosted him. He was no Chad in my eyes, just in the right place at the right time to satisfy my own selfish desires.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 02:49 PM
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Are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 02:16 PM
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I honestly don’t feel like any of the actions you described are examples of men liking women more. Sounds like they just have a higher sex drive and will take more extreme steps to satisfy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 07:05 AM
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His social awkwardness has to be REALLY bad if he’s all you claim and still can’t find someone to date consistently. I would definitely suggest getting off of dating apps. He should also spend some time around some women he’s not necessarily trying to pursue to get some practice interacting and holding conversations with women. If you all have a mixed gender friend group he should just try hanging out and participating. He’s gotta stop treating women like some type of stakeholder at work.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 03:49 PM
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This is the main reason. My uncle had heart failure in 2012 and lived till the end of 2023. I truly don’t believe he would have made it that long without my aunt taking care of him and making sure he was getting the best medical treatment possible. Towards the end she was dressing him and driving him to dialysis every day and rotating his body every hour to just to prevent bed sores.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 09:32 PM
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I support you, internet stranger. The OP made this post to condemn women, but I don’t think they realize how bad it feels to lose grip on your emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 08:41 PM
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I’m usually a very level headed and happy go lucky person. I’m usually the one to deescalate arguments. But during my period my hormones have me feeling really sad, depressed and irritable. It becomes harder to self regulate. Everything pisses me off. Since my bf and I live together sometimes he bears the brunt of that bad mood just based off of his proximity to me during that time. I try my best to self isolate when I’m feeling like that. I don’t mean to be mean on purpose. That rush of hormone…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 06:28 PM
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So are a lot of MIT male graduates that make no effort to romantically date or court women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 05:54 PM
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Big asses have always been celebrated in black culture. Hip hop is tied to black culture. Hip hop going mainstream gives non black people a small window into pieces of black culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 05:16 PM
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If women like being fingered then they also like men on the smaller side. It’s just not going to be enough for most women. But that’s a penis thing in general, not just an issue for small men. Most women are going to want clitoral stimulation regardless of how big the guy is.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 09:11 PM
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Then you should understand that all men need sexual skills outside of their penis to be considered good lovers. This is not just a little dick thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 06:30 PM
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You should only care if you want to continue to have sex with that person and you don’t want your sexual reputation possibly tarnished as a bad lover, which might dissuade other potential lovers. If you don’t care about either of the the above points, it really doesn’t matter who you make orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 06:29 PM
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The men who make this argument are the same ones that won’t wash your hands after taking a dump. Your lower level of cleanliness is disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 05:20 AM
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I don’t like promiscuous men because I don’t want to have to worry about catching something every time we have sex. I also like choosy men and men that practice self control. If you’re out here fucking everything you’re probably fucking women way below my level, which is a turn off for me. And if you just lack the ability to turn sex down, you can probability be easily manipulated, which is a liability and a turn off.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 05:10 AM
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It’s like you have some type of misconception (maybe from porn) that big dick men don’t need to eat and finger to make a woman orgasm. Sometimes I think men think making a woman make noise is the same as making her orgasm. Of course a big dick guy ramming my cervix is going to make me yelp. That doesn’t mean I’m cumming from it. And a lot of times it’s straight up painful
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 05:02 AM
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First off, you sound like someone who’s either never had sex or only had sex with unenthusiastic partners. Both are sad possibilities. Most people that enjoy sex want to make their partner cum. Nobody likes a lazy or selfish lover, that goes for both genders. Men are just more likely to put up with bad partners because they’re more desperate than women, don’t believe they find a better partner, and/or rather rather have bad sex than no sex. You’re over here ranting at women when you should be te…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 04:53 AM
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What do you want OP? Someone to lie and say your small penis is actually long and girthy? People are just trying to help those with smaller units work with what they got and make the best of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 01:40 AM
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She’s 16. She wants to club and drink because it’s a new experience that makes her feel adult. She’s not worried about being wifely because she’s a fucking kid. And she will most likely have sex with some other guy just for the experience. She’s not ready for the type of relationship you want. I suggest you go explore as well instead of trying to lock some HS student down at 19.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 06:30 AM
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I think it has to do with girl interests and hobbies being more closely related to how they outwardly display themselves. I had two main friend groups in elementary and high school. I use to be part of the dance team, so I hung out with dancers. We worked out and practiced 3-4 times a week. For performances we were expected to have our hair looking presentable and wear light make up. That lifestyle kinda made us the pretty girls in class by default. And then it becomes a feedback cycle. Boys wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 01:23 AM
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After I turned 21, I’m not going in more than 2 dates with you if I don’t want to fuck you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 01:05 AM
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But you keep saying “for less” when the above poster mentioned that two men could be dating a woman at the same time. Both of the men paying for dates and spending time. It’s not a situation of some guy has it easier than you, it’s that you have competition with someone willing to put in as much effort as you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 04:06 PM
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Why are women always compared to perishable commodities? It’s like a woman is either a beautiful blank slate for you to shape how you see fit, or old and tainted by life. Women have no liberty to learn from life experiences and self improve. And any mention of self improvement is written off as desperation due to old age. But young men and young women make both bad choices in life mainly due to naivety. If you knew better you’d do better.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 07:49 AM
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It’s not fair. But this is simply a biological double standard that does not work in the men’s favor. Women are the gatekeepers of the creation life, not men. But men, you seed is precious and comes with great responsibility. Do not spill it into a woman you wouldn’t want a child with or deal with the consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 02:58 PM
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I think this is such a horrible take. Women routinely get std tests when they go to their gynecologist for their yearly check up. If you believe your partner isn’t cheating, why get tested? You know why, because somethings are too important to just have faith in. I would never be mad at a man asking for a paternity test because I’m going to continue my yearly std screening, married or not, until I’m no longer sexually active.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 05:52 PM
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These people won’t give you a real answer. If everything with your dating history is true, you are not dating down enough. The women in your life believe they can do better than you, so they are keeping themselves open to level up with a better man. When a woman is enamored with a man that she believes is better than her, then she completely removes all other potential suitors from her orbit. Long story short, you’re a middle of the road guy. Either level up or start dating down.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 07:05 PM
0

So it’s better to trick inexperienced women into a relationship of unsatisfying sex? At least the experienced women has enough experience to know if this is a relationship she can be satisfied in.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 10:37 PM
-1

But that inexperienced girl is relying on a man to help her grow sexually. I believe it’s worse to have a rob an experienced woman the opportunity to ever grow sexually than a couple of unsatisfying sessions with an experienced woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 10:35 PM
-3

I think it’s a bit cowardly. You have the opportunity to fix your problem by gaining experience with someone who knows what they’re doing. Instead you want to find someone that doesn’t realize a problem exists due to their own lack of experience. Now you have no roadmap or incentive to improve sexually, and that young girl will have to endure possibly a lifetime of subpar sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 05:09 PM
8

I’m genuinely curious how women egg men sex drives on. In my honest opinion women actually downplay their sex drives because it has a negative societal implication.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 11:05 PM
9

I see most women acting around that with men they like and acting like a total bitch towards men they don’t like, to ward them off.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 02:44 PM
0

Now Russian. You have shared a number of other physical issues about yourself that would knock you down a couple points, despite being fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 02:27 PM
2

What is feminine to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 02:16 PM
1

That last point is a flat out fucking lie. The pedestal y’all put Chad on is becoming ridiculous. A handsome man doesn’t instantly make vaginal orgasms easy. On the flip side I’ve fucked a man I wasn’t super attracted to facially and he rocked my damn world with only his dick. Chad might turn a girl on easier but just like pretty women that are bad in bed, trust me there are Chads with terrible sex game.
/r/AllPillDebate13/11/23 12:10 AM
-3

Y’all really think Chad is God and it’s embarrassing.
/r/AllPillDebate10/11/23 06:06 PM
-1

And yet you spend all of your time on Reddit in pill related subreddits talking about the same topics ad nauseam. Sounds pretty hallow and mind numbing to me.
/r/AllPillDebate04/11/23 01:30 AM
4

They could date BW and give their child a chance of becoming a Chad but Asian men are too white worshipping to do that. For that reason I have no sympathy for them.
/r/AllPillDebate30/10/23 09:14 PM
1

Black women are funny. But black people in general tend to be funnier that other races.
/r/AllPillDebate30/10/23 09:06 PM
-1

No I see myself as someone with value. In turn people can’t just get access to me for nothing in return. I never mentioned a thing about money but your mind is so jaded that it took you there with no facts. Time, attention, affection, compassion are all non monetary requirements.
/r/AllPillDebate26/10/23 02:42 PM
-6

How’s that worked for you?
/r/AllPillDebate25/10/23 10:55 PM
-8

Oh yes men do have to prove themselves to me if they want to potentially have sex with me. Why would I give away something valuable for no effort? And if you can’t be assertive romantically with me, I don’t care about the other areas you claim to be assertive in. We are not compatible. Let me not waste anymore of your time so you can find someone that’s a better fit.
/r/AllPillDebate25/10/23 10:54 PM
-20

I have never approached a man in my life and I never will. If I like you I will make myself approachable. But I’m not throwing myself at a man. Honestly a man that’s not assertive enough to approach me is a turn off anyway.
/r/AllPillDebate25/10/23 06:47 PM
-1

Agreed. I set my price and if you find me of value and the price acceptable then we have a chance.
/r/AllPillDebate23/10/23 05:53 PM
-2

Who said anything about just fucking? I haven’t come across a dick worth fucking for nothing in return.
/r/AllPillDebate23/10/23 05:51 PM
-7

You can be valuable too if you assign value to yourself. It just depends on if people are ready to buy for your price.
/r/AllPillDebate23/10/23 03:57 PM
2

Bruh you have no money and live with your parents. You’re complaining about Chad’s leftovers when you can’t afford the steak Stacy is serving. Be grateful if you don’t fucking starve out here. Smh.
/r/AllPillDebate23/10/23 03:38 PM
4

They should tat a red flag on your forehead because this is concerning.
/r/AllPillDebate23/10/23 03:35 PM
-11

Every time I’m here I realize more and more that y’all perception of women come from low status women than throw themselves at men outside of their league. I’ve dated Chad, and Ive dated ugly men. Neither one is getting a damn thing free from me because I’m valuable.
/r/AllPillDebate23/10/23 03:23 PM
2

You will probably never get this, unless you pay for it.
/r/AllPillDebate23/10/23 01:45 AM
-5

Get this hoe shit outta here. Join a bowling league, country club, D&D group, car club. There’s so many spaces for men to congregate. Failure to do so is not women fault.
/r/AllPillDebate22/10/23 02:46 AM
2

Hate is a strong word, but I would say BW have more race loyalty than any other race of women. Only white men I’ve genuinely been attracted to are Italian men.
/r/AllPillDebate18/10/23 03:34 PM
1

Honey wtf are you talking about BW almost exclusively go for WM. In what world?
/r/AllPillDebate18/10/23 11:47 AM
-1

Stop dating white washed women.
/r/AllPillDebate17/10/23 05:32 PM
0

Once Asian families stop putting white people on a pedestal, this behavior will cease. This is your own culture’s fault for placing such a premium on white skin.
/r/AllPillDebate17/10/23 04:57 PM
0

I don’t chase or pursue men. I don’t care how fine they are. If they don’t make the first move to approach then he’s not the guy for me.
/r/AllPillDebate16/10/23 03:35 PM
1

Look for call center jobs. Preferably in house for a company instead of a decentralized 3rd party company. Customer service, B2B, or logistics. Low entry with room for growth. You can easily move up to people or project/program manager if you keep your metrics high and stick with them for a couple years.
/r/AllPillDebate10/10/23 11:47 PM
0

You can’t tie a grocery bag but you’re worried about a girlfriend. You have no job, no friends and no self esteem. Why should any woman get with someone like that, autistic or not?
/r/AllPillDebate09/10/23 04:24 PM
3

Because they cared more about assimilation and making money than upholding the self esteem of their people in a foreign land. Now they have money but not an ounce of respect and their women can see that.
/r/AllPillDebate08/10/23 03:11 PM
-2

Asian men created this problem for themselves. You mocked black people in the 60-70’s when we created the Black Pride movement. You were ready and willing to be a model minority and the lap dog of white supremacy. You held the white man in such high regard you forgot to instill racial pride into your daughters. This is literally the result of your brown nosing.
/r/AllPillDebate08/10/23 03:08 PM
-2

So the real question here is why don’t men have any standards?
/r/AllPillDebate05/10/23 04:17 PM
2

The dual male dating strategy would be to fuck experienced women (just don’t tell them you’re inexperienced. That’s a turn off) and learn from them. Then go date an inexperienced woman once you’ve learned something
/r/AllPillDebate04/10/23 08:21 PM
1

And in turn that virgin girl has to deal with bad sex, and all you can do is hope that her lack of experience will prevent her from seeking better.
/r/AllPillDebate04/10/23 07:41 PM
2

Honestly? I know inexperienced men will most likely be a bad fuck for her. Teenage sex is awkward and not pleasurable for most young women because her and the boy don’t know what they’re doing. And truthfully, men usually need to experience sex with more than one woman to become skilled at it. If you’re gonna add someone to your body count as a woman, you might as well do it with someone that can make you cum. She’s not going to know how to do it herself because she’s a virgin. So really you’re …
/r/AllPillDebate04/10/23 07:39 PM
1

The men here have made it clear that women actually provide a benchmark of success for men. Chad has no specific accomplishments outside of having women attracted to him, and y’all worship Chad for it.
/r/AllPillDebate03/10/23 07:31 PM
1

Personally at least 5inches hard. When it’s smaller than that, I can’t really ride it without it popping out. And that’s my favorite position :(
/r/AllPillDebate02/10/23 04:21 PM
1

His voice sounds ugly as hell.
/r/AllPillDebate02/10/23 12:57 PM
4

Lmao. No. I have left an amazing man because his dick was too small to touch my g spot. Small dick Chad is getting cheated on or eventually broken up with.
/r/AllPillDebate02/10/23 12:52 PM
0

A black woman must have turned you down bad. Because you are all over this subreddit bagging on women you consider to be the bottom of the totem pole. Why the fuck are you worried about us if we’re all supposedly fat and ugly?
/r/AllPillDebate28/09/23 04:23 AM
0

You know he won’t smh.
/r/AllPillDebate28/09/23 03:05 AM
1

Y’all mfs give women WAAAY to much power over your lives. Every man on this planet could disappear tomorrow and I will happily live another 50-60yrs on this planet contently.
/r/AllPillDebate26/09/23 08:56 PM
0

You have ADHD, BPD, anxiety, and suffer from job insecurity. You mention that your job rejection is in the 100’s. I really don’t think it’s just superficial things that are preventing you from dating, when even jobs are regularly rejecting you. It sounds like your life has been in shambles and you should really focus on that and take a step back from trying to find a partner.
/r/AllPillDebate26/09/23 03:31 AM
1

And unlike the neurotic men here, most women don’t care. There’s always going to be someone better looking than you. That doesn’t rock my self esteem nor does it prevent me from participating in the world. We all have to play the cards we are dealt.
/r/AllPillDebate25/09/23 02:14 AM
1

Real Stacy’s don’t do that shit. Why would I fuck a handsome broke guy when I can fuck a handsome rich guy? Hell even a decent looking guy that’s making decent money is more fun than a handsome broke guy. I don’t care how fine a man is, I’m not fucking paying for everything every time we go out. That would tarnish my brand.
/r/AllPillDebate25/09/23 02:11 AM
2

This is such a weird take I’ve only seen inexperienced men hold. I’ve never pressured a man to be in a Ltr with me. It’s always been the man that wanted to make it official, after we’ve had sex or at least got very close to it. And that’s because they wanted me all to themselves and off the market.
/r/AllPillDebate25/09/23 02:07 AM
1

Blackpill ideology is a cope for overly analytical nerds to find comfort in their dating woes. As a black woman, if I rested on the “statistics” about my demographic, I would be a single mother with an associate degree at best, making under 45k a year. And none of that is true for me because I did not see these stats as glass ceilings, and these stats never encompass the complexity of how individuals interact with their environment.
/r/AllPillDebate24/09/23 03:23 PM
-1

I swear I don’t understand yall expectations. If you don’t think you are “cute” yourself, why do you think you were the match for the cute girl next door?
/r/AllPillDebate23/09/23 05:12 PM
-9

I like it here. I don’t plan on leaving any time soon.
/r/AllPillDebate23/09/23 12:06 AM
1

I’ll answer your question first. Yes there are men that are so physically unattractive that I would not fuck them. But in my time here, and the pictures I’ve seen of the male posters here, most are not that ugly at all. And I’ve most definitely fucked men that I did not find crazy attractive physically but the way they handled themselves, the respect they commanded from others was magnetic on an intoxicating level.
/r/AllPillDebate22/09/23 08:43 PM
5

I love smart men. It honestly gets me hot when men teach me about things I don’t know in a NON CONDESCENDING manner. But many times high IQ men have low emotional intelligence and lack social awareness, and that’s a turn off for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 06:54 PM
-1

You need 7 points for me to want to fuck you. Chad’s face and body alone gives him 10 points, he doesn’t need anything extra to illicit desire. Your face/body might be more like a 4. Having a nice personality and being a pleasure to be around will give you another 3 points. Boom now you’re in the door. Looks matter. If you’re not that good looking you’re going to have to make up those points in other areas.
/r/AllPillDebate22/09/23 06:49 PM
-7

But for average to mildly ugly men, your personality is literally what pushes you from one side of the fence to the other. Let me put it like this, if I ran across a man that had all the physical traits I desire, I would want to fuck him even if he had a personality of a brick wall. But a middle of the road looking guy, eh he’s not ugly but it’s nothing pushing my desire by their looks alone. But men that make me laugh, men that are confident in front of strangers, men that teach me about new th…
/r/AllPillDebate22/09/23 06:45 PM
-6

Because women don’t get hung up on their partner being their personal property like men do. Instead of property y’all are more like resources. If I snagged a billionaire, I wouldn’t have an issue sharing him with my bestie. Let him spend some money on both of us so we can have a soft life.
/r/AllPillDebate22/09/23 06:35 PM
-1

What fucking women are telling you that we don’t have any physically attractive markers we like to see in men!?! I’ve seen women tell y’all that men don’t need to check every attractive trait box to get a girl. But you for damn sure better check at least one.
/r/AllPillDebate22/09/23 06:31 PM
-1

Personality matters in relation to wanting to hang around you, but I’ve never wanted to fuck a man’s personality.
/r/AllPillDebate22/09/23 06:28 PM
-5

She don’t have to be scary. I just bet $100 you wouldn’t say the same things to her face in a public setting.
/r/AllPillDebate22/09/23 06:11 PM
-5

I’m a woman but he’s acting like a bigger bitch than me. It’s ok to disagree. It’s ok to not like the ppl that post here. But don’t get hoemotional about it. Especially when he would never have this same energy in public.
/r/AllPillDebate22/09/23 02:53 PM
-11

Calm the fuck down. You doing too much now. Because you would never be talking like this to her in public. Punk ass keyboard warrior.
/r/AllPillDebate22/09/23 01:12 PM
0

The above statement doesn’t prove your beliefs. If women were forced to couple up, many women will end up with men they’re not attracted to. If women are no longer societally pressured to couple up and marry young, they have more time and the option to date men they’re actually attracted to. So modern average looking couples probably do genuinely like each other because they are not pressured into the relationship.
/r/AllPillDebate22/09/23 01:04 PM
3

It’s a red flag to grow up? Is a person a bad employee if they don’t stay at the same job from high school till retirement? I think your feeling comes from the school of thought that all experience for a woman equals negative baggage. Sometimes relationship experience teaches you about yourself and you walk always as a better person.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 05:06 PM
9

I find it weird that you think only virgin and hoes exists. Women have sex with their first love all the time. Most often those relationships don’t work out because of immaturity or just growing apart. That doesn’t make her a hoe nor did it make her decision to have sex with her first love bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 12:51 PM
2

Every man I’ve been on more than one date with has wanted to lock me down and have a monogamous relationship. So what should women in my position do?
/r/AllPillDebate19/09/23 01:59 AM
-2

Stop relying on that damn ok Cupid study would be your first start. I know 3 fine ass Indian men on my team at work alone. Idk why this balding Indian janitor meme has become a thing. Most Indian men I know are well groomed, head full of hair, make good money, workout and dress very nicely. If I could no longer date black men, I would definitely give them a shot.
/r/AllPillDebate11/09/23 11:31 PM
0

I love how white people commit all type of atrocities and then say “we don’t do that anymore, so you can’t either”. Fuck you. You have no place to be the moral police. Now you gotta sit back and take that shit just like we did.
/r/AllPillDebate11/09/23 11:24 PM
1

When in doubt, blame black people. It’s America’s motto and I’m pretty sure they teach it to immigrants before their naturalization test.
/r/AllPillDebate11/09/23 11:21 PM
4

Well adjusted men don’t gripe about women they aren’t attracted to not wanting to fuck them. This has more to do about your self esteem. Because if those ugly women don’t want to fuck you they must either be “delusional” or your SMV isn’t really where you want it to be.
/r/AllPillDebate11/09/23 11:19 PM
0

Baby I promise you I don’t give a fuck about you enough to be excited that you’re killing yourself. This is a false and self defeatist statement that brings you comfort in knowing the world is against you. This makes it easier to stop trying and give up. But the world isn’t against you, and all women don’t hate you. You’re autistic but high functioning enough to have your own job and place right? Then go volunteer at a group home for the mentally delayed. Find a nice slightly more autistic girl …
/r/AllPillDebate11/09/23 08:56 PM
24

If you cannot attract someone you deem on your level of attractiveness, then you are simply not as attractive as you thought. The root word of attractiveness is attract. That’s not based solely on face/body like Blackpill would like you to believe. If you have a decent face and body and you still can’t attract what you deem is your body/face equal, it’s because you have deficiency in other areas that the opposite sex holds as important. Men and women are not the same and will weigh characteristi…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 04:39 PM
3

But I like it here.
/r/AllPillDebate08/09/23 04:04 AM
3

For women the size difference height creates can be very attractive.
/r/AllPillDebate06/09/23 08:31 PM
-5

Respectfully sir, you’re a nerd. You haven’t started your career so you don’t have the money or the clout that comes along with a high paying job, but I’m sure you’ll get there. So you can do two things, you can aim your focus on nerdy girls that will appreciate your smartness. Or you just focus on getting out of school and into a good job. That will open the doors up to more “average” girls. If it were me, I would find some nerd girl to go build robots with. She might not look the best but y’al…
/r/AllPillDebate06/09/23 08:28 PM
1

You all really lack world experiences which helps to give you such a jaded view on dating. Plenty of people couple up in their mid to late 20’s and then they break up. All of those marriages you see on FB won’t last. And it’s not always because either party was such a horrible person. Sometimes people are no longer compatible. And men and women go through a lot of change in their 20’s. So no, everyone past 28 that’s not in a relationship is not some terminally single person. Many of those people…
/r/AllPillDebate06/09/23 08:21 PM
2

I help incels all the time. I listen to their problems and try to provide realistic advice when I can. I am kind to anyone that’s kind to me back. But just because you are a “good” person doesn’t mean I will be sexually attracted to you. That’s just a harsh truth. 50 years ago that ugly kind incel would be married, because he’s kind hearted and a good provider, not because he sparked any kind of lust in his wife.
/r/AllPillDebate05/09/23 08:51 PM
1

Please don’t that. You matter.
/r/AllPillDebate01/09/23 12:16 AM
2

I’m gonna give you a full response to this when I get off work. Please hold.
/r/AllPillDebate31/08/23 01:44 PM
2

Real black people don’t like KFC. It’s fried too soft. I prefer Popeyes. Watermelon is delicious. Basketball is nice but football tailgating is more fun. Grape juice is great but I hate artificial grape flavor in pop. Love hip hop, but I’m more of an r&b and house girl. Obama could have done more for black people, but he’s still cool in my book. I definitely stole some candles, detergent, and batteries when they broke into the Walgreens in my neighborhood. I like to call what I did essential loo…
/r/AllPillDebate31/08/23 01:38 PM
1

Pure white guy? Never. I dated this white looking rich kid from Argentina in high school. That’s probably the closest.
/r/AllPillDebate31/08/23 01:31 PM
1

Sorry I missed this earlier. I’m gonna make this my last question of the night. Yes thugmaxxing works. Women are attracted to men that can dominate other men. That can manifest in many different ways depending on culture and opportunity. So it’s not so much that BW only like thugs. It’s just that’s one of the few ways BW from urban lower income communities have seen their men show assertiveness and dominance. Many BW are suffering from the ignorance of never seeing their men be business owners, …
/r/AllPillDebate31/08/23 03:06 AM
1

To you, and you have a right to your opinion. I just know I command attention in any room I’m in. Put me against 100 random women and I’m smoking 85 to 90 of them easy.
/r/AllPillDebate31/08/23 02:14 AM
1

Damn. That’s bogus that you hating on me when I been rocking with your posts for a min. But no I don’t look like Isa Rae. And I am a black Israelite women
/r/AllPillDebate31/08/23 02:09 AM
7

Ok. Honest talk time. This is the only area where I would say men have a point on not dating women with a lot of experience, especially if they aren’t well endowed. Because I do believe a lot of women can be satisfied with not much if that’s all they know. Unfortunately one of my firsts was big so now it’s kinda hard to downsize and still have the same kind of fun. And NO it’s not cuz the pussy is stretched because my small guy tell me all the time how I’m so tight for him. But he just doesn’t t…
/r/AllPillDebate31/08/23 02:07 AM
2

My perception is that they struggle because they are already ugly to their own kind. Then they want to turn around and only date white men. I can wholeheartedly say even when I had lower self esteem I’ve never had a problem attracting men of all races. Black women have had a negative PR campaign waged against us because we act as the villains towards white women heroines in the story of white supremacy. We are the antithesis to white supremacy’s standard of beauty. But all of that crumbles when …
/r/AllPillDebate31/08/23 01:59 AM
0

It’s in the description but my main two are Angela Basset and Brandy.
/r/AllPillDebate31/08/23 01:43 AM
0

Current money, yes. But he older and he’s on the tail end of his financial capabilities. On top of having a previous family to provide for. Tall boy is is younger with an upward financial trajectory but it’s a gamble because he’s not all the way solidified yet. Decisions decisions.
/r/AllPillDebate31/08/23 01:41 AM
2

White supremacy babble. Making white people feel inferior just by my presence is my hobby. My skin literally glows when I walk in a room. I thought men were suppose to be the logical gender. You really think I’m going to believe my dominant traits are not better than recessive traits? Lol.
/r/AllPillDebate31/08/23 01:31 AM
1

To think there is no strategy to life is the biggest cope of then all. Even being a woman and cute, I’m still fucking black first. There is so much bullshit I’ve had to circumnavigate and overcome to get to where I am in life. And I had to do so playing the hand that God dealt me. So im really not with the woe is me shit. It’s a very small percentage of men that are actually hopeless. Most just don’t have odds of Chad so they wanna throw a bitch fit about it.
/r/AllPillDebate31/08/23 01:23 AM
3

Ehhh I’m just a nerd that blossomed into a Stacy. We are very rare but we do exist
/r/AllPillDebate31/08/23 01:15 AM
2

Whoever I decide on keeping, I have no intention on ever divorcing. My parents have been married for 40yrs. We don’t really play that in my family.
/r/AllPillDebate31/08/23 01:07 AM
1

You gotta let the hate go baby. Even if you don’t like me take the time to learn what you can to better strategize.
/r/AllPillDebate31/08/23 12:58 AM
3

I understand. Not sure if you’re black or not. But I would strongly urge you to detox yourself from white media which is one of the many arms of white supremacy. It will have you thinking that any trait that’s not adjacent to whiteness is ugly. And I say this as a black woman that coveted straight hair as an adolescent as well. But as much as much as white supremacy has tried to tell black people our traits are like animals, it’s their hair that grows down like fur. My hair grows up and out like…
/r/AllPillDebate31/08/23 12:55 AM
2

On my dead granny I promise you I am not lying. For context my dad worked with computers since I was a baby. So I was an early adopter to the internet. We had dial up in 98. In turn I’ve always been in these internet trenches getting deep into weird subcultures. I’m just a nerdy black girl that grew up to be pretty as fuck.
/r/AllPillDebate31/08/23 12:41 AM
2

Is this the fragile white male ego I hear so much about?
/r/AllPillDebate31/08/23 12:37 AM
1

That’s more of a Becky and dumb poor Stacy thing. I’m well versed in SM algorithms and SEO. I could make a mil off OF easy. But it’s a trade off in letting go of my “purity” and exclusivity. Right now I have two men both wanting to marry me because I hold a rare position of having some amazing traits without being ran thru. And those men will easily spend over a mil taking care of me and my children over the course of their lives. To me, that’s the better move.
/r/AllPillDebate31/08/23 12:35 AM
1

I’ll say 3 main things helped. First was ensuring I looked my best. Developing a routine to keep my hair done, face clear, body tight. Then I started going out more to really gauge my smv. Whole time I’m thinking I’m the same funny looking nerdy girl I use to see in the mirror but I had actually glowed up levels since then, and that was obvious in the caliber of men that not only wanted to have sex with me, but were adamant in trying to lock me down. Shit even the Stacies I thought were better t…
/r/AllPillDebate31/08/23 12:21 AM
1

Yes I would. And I didn’t even realize until I became more self aware. Women compliment me everywhere I go. They wanna know who did my hair, what perfume am I wearing. What’s my workout routine. I thought it was just polite conversation for the longest until I realized they wanted to use the info to level up.
/r/AllPillDebate31/08/23 12:00 AM
0

No question, just a statement. Tyrone trumps Chad on raw attraction every fucking time. White men just have higher status due to the umbrella of white supremacy.
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 11:57 PM
3

I would say that’s true for people that buy into the ideal of white supremacy. And if you are not actively militant against it then it’s an easy trap to fall into. But I’m always taken aback when men say they don’t like black women because we are the most diverse women on earth. We come in every shade, height, and shape. Facial features that look like all different type of races because they really got all their features from us. So from there I assume that the man just has a racist negative per…
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 11:50 PM
1

Hell naw. And on God I would tell you if I did. I really have no reason to hide here.
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 11:43 PM
5

Nah. Honestly I was a true child of the internet and I’ve always chilled in fringe forums. The conversation is more raw and real. I rarely wear weave. And when I do you could never fucking tell. I get my shit done in a realistic fashion. But my real hair is past my shoulders and I wear that majority of the time. I’m not the finest woman on earth but can’t a mf on this earth say I’m ugly. My self esteem use to be pretty low. But I’ve worked on that as an adult. Oh and I don’t give a fuck about wh…
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 11:39 PM
2

Men literally created the rules for women that y’all hate. Men were the ones that said “women are the weaker sex, and we should treat them as such” which allows women to gamify our status as “weak women”
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 11:32 PM
1

Answered this elsewhere. But I never considered myself a Stacy until I started getting deep into incel and pill spaces. Slowly realized that the Stacy they were describing was me. I wouldn’t mind sharing a pic at all but Reddit is fucking crazy and I don’t need a stalker in my life.
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 11:29 PM
2

Attractiveness is a sliding scale for me. So if you hella ugly you need to max out of other traits. Are you strong or intimidating to other men? Make good money? Funny as hell? Super smart? If you max out other areas I may give it the ol college try.
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 11:27 PM
2

I just let a 6’1 man go to entertain one that’s 5’7. There is a lot of BW that are forgiving of height if you demonstrate dominance in other ways. I got a good job and elevated myself but I grew up in the hood. And most killers and thugs that are respected and feared are not tall at all. And I’m not saying you need to thugmaxx. I’m sharing that story to say that if you come off dominant and can dominate other men either at your job, in the gym, in your neighborhood, or thru your hobbies, that sh…
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 11:24 PM
4

I honestly didn’t until I started spending more time in pill based and incel spaces. After time I realized the women they were describing as Stacy was literally me. It definitely fucked my head up for a min.
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 11:19 PM
6

I didn’t say only white women gaslight. Asian women do that shit too lol. No real talk, women of all races do it but white women do it more because they often live lives where they don’t have to face consequences. But I’m like Mother Teresa in the trenches. I prefer this space rather that the bullshit they try and pass off in PPD
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 11:17 PM
3

Black men all day every day. I have a strong black father in my life and that’s how I was raised. After black men, I would at least prefer some melanin. I feel so bad for the Indian men that post here. Because I see some fine ass Indian men at work. I love their skin, and the ones that groom themselves and workout be fine as hell to me. I’m not against white men. But you really gotta be a special white man for me to seriously date you.
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 11:14 PM
1

Ehhh yes and no. Men most definitely rule this world. But his Achilles heel is women. When you understand that as a woman, you can craft a gameplan in your favor. To all the girl bosses out there, you don’t need to compete with a man to win.
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 11:09 PM
1

It means I can’t be your girl. But I’m always happy to help. How tall are you and what issues are you facing with black women?
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 11:04 PM
12

White supremacy baby! White women are the trophy pieces of white supremacy. In turn they have an enormous pressure to always be in the right. However, they often rely on victimization when they are in the wrong to absolve them from fault. But that’s literally what their husbands and fathers taught them to do. So white women’s inability to be straightforward and truthful is really the fault of their men.
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 11:03 PM
2

Honest answer. I do not like overly attractive men. That’s why I’m not black pilled. I like my guys a lil ugly. I’m not trying to fight a man for mirror time in my own home. I’m cute enough for the both of us. What turns me on is ambition and confidence. A man that can move in a room full of vultures turns me on. And I’m black so I need a man that can move around the hood without being a target. He doesn’t have to be a super thug or anything. Just can’t be a little bitch. I would say my male fri…
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 10:54 PM
5

I like yo lil cocky ass, but sorry no. I’m out here doing mission work trying to make sure men get laid and shit.
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 10:49 PM
1

Real shit. I didn’t realize I was a Stacy until I started spending more time on pill and incel forms. I deadass did not know how much power I had on the dating market. So I’m just using the terms I learned from y’all. Gramsci says that an organic intellectual provides answers and frameworks to people in a language they understand
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 10:47 PM
1

Yes and no. The real truth is a bit of blue red and black pill.
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 10:44 PM
5

I honestly would but mfs on Reddit are real life crazy and I don’t want any stalkers.
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 10:43 PM
7

I love the patriarchy! I know the rules well and how to make moves in my favor under them. I get a pedicure every 3 weeks. Every 2 weeks in the summer. I use a pumic stone at home every 2-3 day. And soak them during bath time at least once a month. They are very soft. But I did dance and run track in school so I have a bent toe on my left foot. My sugar daddy is willing to get that fixed for me. I just need to find the time to take off work.
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 10:42 PM
3

Wtf. Be honest with yourself. Don’t you want a woman that’s beautiful?
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 10:13 PM
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As a woman, I will tell you wholeheartedly being attracted to a man just because of his looks does not feel like real love for a woman. A woman does want a man that’s handsome but also makes her feel like a queen. Provides and protects her. When Chads actions don’t match his appearance, women eventually feel that shit. They eventually understand that he doesn’t really love her. That physical attraction only has a hold over women for so long. I have a friend going through that shit and ready to l…
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 10:02 PM
2

Ohhhh you’re still a baby! Get off of this subreddit right now! You are not like these beaten down old men. I didn’t even lose my virginity until I was almost 17. You’re fine. No you can’t use fetlife. This is all you gotta do. I assume you’re going to college next year. Idk you might be average to kinda ugly but this advice should work either way as long as you never appear thirsty. Find a girl that’s fairly sociable but maybe not the prettiest. Maybe a little fat but hangs with stacy lites. Wo…
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 09:51 PM
-5

Why do you equate physical attraction with real love? If a woman only likes a man because he’s hot, if he loses his looks, he will lose her love. Idk why you all are so hard on gold diggers but not body/face diggers. They’re both attracted to men for superficial reasons. The gold digger is just smarter.
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 09:33 PM
1

That’s ok. You’re a big dick virgin. How old are you? Have you ever thought about creating an account on fetlife? There’s women out there that get off on taking a young man’s virginity. Most vanilla women aren’t into that, but you should focus on more niche spaces where you feel wanted.
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 09:30 PM
1

My roster is closed at the moment but if you actually know how to stroke good and like more than just vanilla sex, I can point you in the right direction to improve your sex life.
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 08:48 PM
8

I question the fuck outta that statement and I actually like short men. But anything under 5’4 for a man is gonna be a bit jarring.
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 08:39 PM
1

Lmao wtf no. Women don’t think like that at all. I’ve ghosted a Chad for having a small weird looking penis. Looks and height alone can’t bring me to orgasm.
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 08:36 PM
-2

Life would be a lot easier if you considered attractiveness to be a sliding scale. Social skills do matter FOR YOU, because you’re not facially attractive. So you’re gonna have to make up for it in other ways. Just like how fat girls spend more money on men than other women and suck a mean dick to make up for their body. Accept what you have and work with it.
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 08:26 PM
1

Yes the fuck you can. Chad could start balding, becomes obese, lose all muscle tone, grow a double chin, teeth fall out, suffer from late onset cystic acne. Get cancer and have chemo wreck his body. Suffer a stroke causing one side of his face to droop. Stop acting like Chad is God. That mf can suffer from unfortunate circumstances just like any other human.
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 08:18 PM
1

What does that have to do with unconditional love? Even if you were Chad, women wouldn’t love you unconditionally. They would love you for being Chad, which is a condition.
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 05:30 PM
0

Yeah. I would turn down mega ultra Chad if he had a weird funny looking dick.
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 03:41 PM
2

I’m mean my dad has been short to me ever since I was 8. Maybe that’s why I don’t have this tall man complex. Short men remind me of my father, and he’s an amazing man 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 03:38 PM
4

Ehhh. Not brutal. That’s just life. Looking at it from a personal perspective you really shouldn’t have unconditional love for anyone except your children. You shouldn’t love an abusive partner no matter what. You shouldn’t love a partner that becomes addicted to drugs no matter what. You shouldn’t love a partner that becomes purposely cruel and vindictive no matter what. Having self esteem means setting standards for yourself and how people treat you. There is nothing wrong with that.
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 03:29 PM
3

This is very valid. All children don’t get to experience unconditional love from their mothers.
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 03:25 PM
5

Unconditional love only exists between mothers and children. All other relationships are based on the other party upholding certain expectations
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 01:50 PM
1

All men get possessive, even Chad. She probably pretty and rich, pretty and well connected, pretty and traditional, or pretty and reminds him of his mother. Basically she’s bringing something else to the table that Chad doesn’t want to let go of.
/r/AllPillDebate29/08/23 12:34 PM
1

I still think based is hyping up and supporting an opinion that might not necessarily be true. That big bitch not slaying and and that weird ass take is not based.
/r/AllPillDebate28/08/23 11:29 PM
1

Depends on how rare he considers that Stacy and how much value he puts into her. Chad will still fuck around, because he can. But that doesn’t mean he won’t also jump thru hoops to hold claim to a Stacy he thinks is worth it.
/r/AllPillDebate28/08/23 09:40 PM
1

Would you prefer they settle for a man instead?
/r/AllPillDebate28/08/23 07:57 PM
2

I agree but Chad hangs around a higher percentage of Stacie’s than the average man. Much like celebrities have a higher rate of hanging with other celebrities than an average person . Chad and Stacy are usually in the same social circle.
/r/AllPillDebate28/08/23 07:16 PM
0

Make the post and I’m happy to participate. I would say a general rule of thumb is women like traits related to protection and provision and men value nurturing (ala taking of home without nagging) and fertility. For example, women will accept single dads because fatherhood shows he already has the ability to provide and protect for someone that’s helpless. He should be able to take care of a grown woman that’s mostly self sufficient. A man is more willing to accept a beautiful young autistic gi…
/r/AllPillDebate28/08/23 06:45 PM
0

You all have this weird concept where Chad has no obligations placed on him. That’s only when he’s dealing with Becky. Stacy most definitely places obligations on Chad, many of the same obligations normal men face. And she can do that because she’s only dealing with men around the same caliber as Chad.
/r/AllPillDebate28/08/23 05:10 PM
1

Life isn’t fair. And thing’s definitely are not the same between the sexes. Many women don’t have a huge issue dating a single father. Even if the woman doesn’t have kids yet, as long as she doesn’t want to remain in childless relationship. In fact, a man that’s an active single father might add SMV to a man. The inverse can’t be said for women. That’s why the childless trait can’t be compared 1:1.
/r/AllPillDebate28/08/23 03:13 PM
1

I answered this else where but you can’t 1:1 traits between men and women. You have to take into consideration what the opposite sex finds more valuable. Women are a lot more lenient towards a man with kids. And men are a lot more lenient towards neurodivergent women. So a single mother and an autistic man could very well be on the same standing to the opposite sex.
/r/AllPillDebate28/08/23 12:55 PM
0

Your issue with that assessment is that you believe women and men are valued equally for the same attributes. You can’t try and 1:1 traits against men and women. You have to take into account what the opposite sex finds valuable.
/r/AllPillDebate28/08/23 12:49 PM
-2

I’m trying to understand why you don’t think the overweight or single mother isn’t on par with said man. They’re both bringing undesirable traits to the relationship.
/r/AllPillDebate28/08/23 11:02 AM
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If a man is ugly, mentally ill, and has crippling self esteem, I’m trying to understand why you think he deserves a child-free or skinny woman.
/r/AllPillDebate28/08/23 10:15 AM
-3

Why do you believe that? Many women genuinely like older men. Even the men here like to remind us that men age like wine while women age like milk.
/r/AllPillDebate28/08/23 09:49 AM
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The more logical explanation is that they’re in relationships with older men. Whereas the opposite, younger men with older women, isn’t as common.
/r/AllPillDebate28/08/23 09:39 AM
1

They really fuck themselves up with that one. I like older men but don’t get to ragging on older women in front of me because dude you’re still fucking old. That just happens to not be an issue for me. The same goes for white guys that date black women and then rag on white women in front of their black gfs. Like you not getting any brownie points for hating your own kind.
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/23 04:08 PM
0

When y’all say ethnic on this subreddit, are y’all talking about Indian?
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/23 01:46 PM
-4

White people problems. But Mr. White man, while you’re going in on your counterparts, maybe you should switch over to satin pillow cases because y’all hairline age like your women faces.
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/23 01:09 PM
-9

This is where my biggest disconnect with y’all are. Never in my life have I allowed a man to do the bare minimum for me. That’s a major turn off. And there’s no threshold of attractiveness that would allow a man to use me for sex and I received nothing in return.
/r/AllPillDebate23/08/23 07:16 PM
1

I literally wouldn’t know he had a big dick if I never gave him a chance. He’s not a big man anywhere else. But he was level headed and self assured. He made his intentions known but he didn’t pressure me. And most importantly he had his own friends and life going on. It wasn’t like he was looking for his only personal connection.
/r/AllPillDebate22/08/23 03:22 PM
2

This better not be the tale old as time of the square nigga going for the hood bitch, getting rejected and then taking it out on all black women. If you don’t put yourself into some stereotypical thug box don’t box all black women in either. And you don’t even know every black woman to say they all don’t respect you.
/r/AllPillDebate22/08/23 06:09 AM
1

In what world do you find most black men chill but not black women? That’s when you just get to talking out your ass. Where do you live where all the black men are upstanding gentlemen but all the black women are ratchet? Any issue you have with black women is very much so mirrored in black men within the same community. And newsflash buddy, black men aren’t that high on the totem poll of desirability for an actual LTR with non black women either. Another coon talking point because why as black …
/r/AllPillDebate22/08/23 05:59 AM
1

Have you seen how black men act?! And yet you still want someone to give your ass a chance. Y’all love cooning it up on Reddit.
/r/AllPillDebate22/08/23 05:43 AM
5

Then tech guy should tell her to quit and tell her to handle all the household stuff since her money is so insignificant
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 01:14 AM
1

He’s confident loving and has a big dick. I wouldn’t have found out the rest if he didn’t have the balls to pursue me.
/r/AllPillDebate22/08/23 01:03 AM
1

I’m sitting across from one right now. I’ll most likely fuck him tonight.
/r/AllPillDebate22/08/23 12:26 AM
2

Yet you made generalized attacks toward the intelligence of women. You can dish it but you can’t take it.
/r/AllPillDebate21/08/23 10:14 PM
-1

I love cooking and I don’t trust men to clean to the point of things actually being disinfected.
/r/AllPillDebate21/08/23 07:49 PM
-4

I’m actually trying to help you without handling you with fucking kids gloves. Women like masculine men. That’s the truth. You all even pose your arguments like women. Being called disgusting doesn’t impact me in the slightest. That’s some female shaming tactics bullshit. You can not be a lonely man acting like a neurotic woman and expect to still attract women. That’s the truth no sugar added for your ass.
/r/AllPillDebate21/08/23 06:00 PM
2

The fact that you find my advice condescending but not your opinion on women really shows the low emotional IQ at play.
/r/AllPillDebate21/08/23 05:54 PM
2

I’m not a little person. I’m an average size woman with a cousin that’s a dwarf. She would prefer to date a man that’s a little person because she feels like average and tall men fetishize her and she just wants to feel normal. So they’re out there.
/r/AllPillDebate21/08/23 05:51 PM
-4

I’ve given more than one ugly man with high self esteem a shot. I’m not gonna lie, their confidence despite their physical limitations kinda turns me on. I love a hard fighting underdog.
/r/AllPillDebate21/08/23 05:48 PM
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Watch me get downvoted to hell, but I will continue to try and give you all nuggets of truth that aren’t soaked in your self pity. I know men that are objectively attractive that I would be friends with but never date. And that’s because their self esteem is low as fuck and makes them come across as needy, anxious, and feminine. I know you Blackpill nerds think looks are all that matters. But sometimes acting like a pussy will turn women off, even if you look good.
/r/AllPillDebate21/08/23 02:28 PM
3

And yet your emotionally intelligence is glaringly low, just from reading your posts.
/r/AllPillDebate21/08/23 02:18 PM
0

Bruh just go to a little people meet up and talk to other little people. And NO the girls there won’t all want tall men, or else they wouldn’t show up to a little people meet up to begin with.
/r/AllPillDebate21/08/23 02:15 PM
2

I’m learning the longer I’ve been here that a lot of the projection about women here are really talking about slightly below average, low self esteem, and usually white women. Chad most definitely has standards he has to live by if he wants to keep a Stacy. He just knows he can find someone else if he doesn’t want to meet those standards. On the flip side that Stacy can find another Chad so he can either get with it or get lost.
/r/AllPillDebate18/08/23 03:08 PM
3

Around the same age you were first rejected.
/r/AllPillDebate17/08/23 11:26 PM
8

Let me tell you some truth. I might be post wall for men in their 20’s (even though I’ve had two men in their mid 20’s try and pursue a relationship with me this summer. I’m black. I still look like a college freshman. That age shit doesn’t affect us like my Nordic friends). But as I enter my 30’s I’m prime time for men in their early 40’s to early 50’s (which I kind of have a preference for). As long as I’m ok with dating older, I’ll never really hit the wall.
/r/AllPillDebate15/08/23 04:34 PM
7

Some of us women came of age on message boards. I honestly prefer forums because they are better designed for back and forth communication. Also my words can be interpreted without my appearance swaying judgement. Men either hate you or love/simp for you when you’re pretty. Sometimes I rather just be judged based on my words and thoughts.
/r/AllPillDebate15/08/23 03:42 PM
-3

Completely normal women don’t really use dating apps in the first place. You are already dealing with a segment of the female population that either have a hard time dating in real life, or like to treat dating like a casino buffet.
/r/AllPillDebate14/08/23 05:36 PM
-5

Newsflash. There are degenerate women in this world just like men. A woman that’s ok with a sexy pedo would probably help facilitate his sick fetishes. All this experiment did was expose that there is a lot of fucked up women on dating apps.
/r/AllPillDebate14/08/23 12:25 PM
-15

In what world is women like attractive men not common sense? I’m so confused about how y’all were raised.
/r/AllPillDebate14/08/23 12:15 PM
0

The ugly ones are still committing a crime and should be apprehended tho. This is a weird take
/r/AllPillDebate12/08/23 12:05 AM
-5

You literally see this type of language coming from men on incel forums.
/r/AllPillDebate11/08/23 05:22 PM
4

Lmaooo I was still drunk when I wrote this. I meant smart/ugly. I have no clue how gay even got in there.
/r/AllPillDebate10/08/23 04:01 PM
-1

If y’all really felt like this you all wouldn’t mind dating smart ugly/gay girls.
/r/AllPillDebate10/08/23 01:21 PM
1

I believe in full honesty you have enough good traits to overcome your shortness. Pick up a guitar, paint brush, motorcycle or start writing poetry. Get into the arts scene. You’ll do well there.
/r/AllPillDebate09/08/23 04:29 PM
1

Wayne was handsome in 2004-2009. The drugs ruined his looks though. And Kendrick looks good in the face too. By no means an ugly man.
/r/AllPillDebate08/08/23 03:48 PM
0

Are you really short or something? Because you’re not ugly. The sweaters and cigarettes give off this artsy vibe, your eyes look kind, and you seem to have pleasant conversation. Idk why you’re having a hard time with women.
/r/AllPillDebate08/08/23 02:59 PM
14

More women are in relationships than men. Women in relationships are less likely to be out in public alone. They have homes, usually with children in them. When they go out they usually have their children or man with them. When they are alone, they’re going out for a specific reason (nail appointment, grocery run, lunch with friends) and then going back home. They’re less likely to just be roaming the streets
/r/AllPillDebate08/08/23 02:48 PM
4

Your dumb ass is gonna end up in jail going down this route. Women don’t give enough of a fuck about you to hate you.
/r/AllPillDebate08/08/23 01:08 PM
-3

Not at all. But if you do find men more attractive than women, this might be a contributor in your struggles of finding a woman. I’m not saying that’s you, because I don’t know you. But I lurk a lot of pill and incel related forums. And I’ve seen comments like “dick just looks more attractive than pussy”. I wonder would those men find peace in exploring a sexual relationship with other men.
/r/AllPillDebate04/08/23 04:04 PM
-11

Comments like this make me think you all are more attracted to men than women. Because the amateur men I see in porn usually look a bit dusty. The only thing I will give them is that they don’t normally have small dicks. But I assume men with small dicks wouldn’t feel comfortable uploading videos of themselves fucking online.
/r/AllPillDebate04/08/23 03:52 PM
0

I don’t like how no one really tried to help you, so here is my best attempt. Masturbating is not a problem. It’s normal, healthy, and allows us to release sexual tension so we can be productive. Your issue is the porn you use to masturbate. It will give you unrealistic expectations about sex, women, men, and relationships. Also it’s like a drug. The more you consume, the more you will need to look at increasingly kinky porn to help get you off. This is not helping towards your goal of finding a…
/r/AllPillDebate04/08/23 03:48 PM
2

Because men love degenerate women. They think they are kinky and easy, therefore they might have an easy time having kinky sex with them.
/r/AllPillDebate04/08/23 03:39 PM
4

People literally say fake shit on the internet, for clout or to troll, all the time. That includes social media.
/r/AllPillDebate04/08/23 03:40 AM
8

It’s not because you’re ugly. Your mom is just an unhinged bitch.
/r/AllPillDebate04/08/23 03:31 AM
12

Why is your black ass on this white man’s site singing the praises of white women? Might as well making an appreciate post for the white man’s balls. Ew.
/r/AllPillDebate02/08/23 07:19 PM
-1

They will not be able to accept this very real truth. But this is the final answer. They will continue to hate women instead of looking within for the source of disappointment. This is a pill too hard for even them to swallow.
/r/AllPillDebate02/08/23 06:14 PM
1

Other sources, like friend groups and hobby clubs. Single women are also considered an asset in families, as they often fall into the caregiver role for young and old family members. I feel like families tend to shun single men more.
/r/AllPillDebate02/08/23 05:56 PM
1

Men are desperate for companionship and access to sex. They will accept a multitude of undesirable traits just to secure a relationship. Women, despite their whining to their friends and online, are just not that desperate.
/r/AllPillDebate02/08/23 04:03 PM
7

Bro just get on disability and enjoy gaming at this point. You can’t really afford to buy a foreign girl. And you mention that you are pre disposed to cancer, so it probably wouldn’t be wise to reproduce either. Your only other hope is to get into a niche scene and ride to the top. Become the top juggalo in your area or something. Women will always be attracted to status no matter how ugly you are.
/r/AllPillDebate02/08/23 04:01 PM
-4

If you’re making at least 50k, you can go to any rural run down place and get a girl. And she will think you’re smart and sophisticated. Y’all make this harder than you have to.
/r/AllPillDebate01/08/23 09:19 PM
-1

Score: 129 (Stacy) Most points coming from pretty much maxing out the social and physical categories. The test did show me that I might want to pay more attention on improving my mental health, but even that’s gotten a lot better in the past few years.
/r/AllPillDebate31/07/23 02:38 PM
1

Women who refuse to date men they find unattractive while failing to attract a man they find attractive do get called out by their friends. Especially when they cry about it all the time. They get told to eat outside the box.
/r/AllPillDebate30/07/23 03:27 AM
1

I mean if women don’t find them attractive is it really that bad that they are also with someone unattractive? Wouldn’t that be their “looksmatch”?
/r/AllPillDebate30/07/23 03:25 AM
-13

I’m dating a short guy right now. Stop making these stupid absolute statements. It’s the worst cope.
/r/AllPillDebate30/07/23 03:17 AM
-3

Ok. But men and women like different things. If she was over 6 feet she would struggle with a lot of men. You listed her height like that’s a disadvantage for women when most men prefer smaller women.
/r/AllPillDebate30/07/23 03:16 AM
-10

Yeah but what’s the quality of those 1500 matches though?
/r/AllPillDebate30/07/23 02:03 AM
-8

Idk why you pointed out her height. Men don’t like tall women like that. Her being under 5 feet is actually a turn on for some men. She’s “fun size”.
/r/AllPillDebate30/07/23 02:01 AM
1

I’m frustrated because I wish he could find happiness but he never will with that mindset
/r/AllPillDebate25/07/23 08:56 PM
0

I mean do you get depressed and suicidal over not being rich? If you can be complacent at the tax bracket you’re at, why can’t you find complacency in your dating bracket? There’s literally always people doing better than you in every aspect of life. So what? I just don’t find that to be a good reason to be down on yourself.
/r/AllPillDebate25/07/23 05:56 PM
-2

I just think it’s wild selfish to contemplate ending your life because you can’t live like a rockstar. You have so much to value in life. You even said you can get relationships. It’s men here that can’t even get a woman to hold their hand. I’m a black woman. I’m supposed to be at the bottom of the female dating totem pole. But I never felt it was worth killing myself over. I’ve never even wished I was white. It’s like you don’t know real pain and hardship if not being Chad rattles you that hard…
/r/AllPillDebate25/07/23 04:51 PM
-1

This is such a childish way of thinking. That’s like a woman feeling suicidal because she can fuck Chad but she can’t get a relationship out of him. Or feeling suicidal because you’re not a multimillionaire. That’s fucking life. Be happy you don’t have cancer and play the hand you were dealt.
/r/AllPillDebate25/07/23 04:01 PM
1

But their womb is what makes them valuable despite their poor genes. As long as they don’t procreate with sub par men, those bad genes will eventually be muted. It’s not women’s fault. Nature literally made women more valuable than men. Wombs can only be used once every nine months. The egg only drops once a month. But a man can spill enough nut to implant a thousand eggs, multiple times a day. This makes men the disposable sex.
/r/AllPillDebate23/07/23 04:31 PM
1

Baby you talking with a woman right now. Women are humans. I promise you can have genuine conversations with them too. I’m here to save all black men from inceldom. This is not a black man issue. I know you might be just visiting the train wreck. But do not fall into their rabbit hole of depression while you’re here.
/r/AllPillDebate22/07/23 08:05 PM
0

My honest opinion? I believe women in different generations cycle through desired traits, many that you mentioned above, to gradually increase all stats for mankind across the board.
/r/AllPillDebate22/07/23 07:58 PM
9

The sooner you understand this is by design, the sooner you can release your hurt. Women are the gatekeepers of sex. The Red pill and black pill acknowledges this. All men are not meant to get through the gate. This is how our species gets rid of inferior genes, improving the species overall. The ticket to admission will continue to evolve. You better adapt or get left behind the gate.
/r/AllPillDebate22/07/23 06:25 PM
0

All I know about is calling Tyrone. Stop using white incel lingo. That shit hella embarrassing as a black man.
/r/AllPillDebate22/07/23 06:01 PM
1

Mf I ain’t been fat a day in my life, try again. I’ve dated short, tall, lil dick, big dick, hair, no hair. But they all were melanated.
/r/AllPillDebate22/07/23 05:58 PM
-5

I literally can’t get with this fan fiction bullshit. The black man is the closest thing to God on earth. I’ve never been interested in seriously dating a non black man.
/r/AllPillDebate20/07/23 08:33 PM
2

The Barbie movie is coming out and the girls and the gurls are fangirling right now. Get your damn panties out of a bunch.
/r/AllPillDebate19/07/23 06:27 PM
-1

The sooner you realize life isn’t fair, the sooner you can let the pain go.
/r/AllPillDebate19/07/23 04:00 PM
2

It’s a shame. You’re black and actually a little funny. You’re better than these people and shouldn’t be here. Escape while you still can!
/r/AllPillDebate18/07/23 01:16 PM
1

She ghosted you, but she already had a boyfriend. Were y’all even really talking? Maybe her bf didn’t approve of her friendship with you and told her to cut you off. Shit, that might even be why she’s depressed. Who fucking knows.
/r/AllPillDebate17/07/23 05:30 PM
3

This is getting a little creepy. And then the men here will post “women don’t like average men like me”. Ain’t shit about this that’s “average”. I wish the men that regularly post here had the self awareness to recognize that many of them are damaged and would not make good partners.
/r/AllPillDebate17/07/23 05:27 PM
5

OP having sex with a teen will still not give you the “teen love” experience, because you are not a teen. She will not see you as her peer. You can’t vibe with her on a teen level, talking about upcoming exams and school dances. You’re 23 and she going to look at you like all young women that date older men. She’s going to expect you to established and experienced. You might want the opportunity to both learn things together. But for all of that, she could just date another teen boy. I think a l…
/r/AllPillDebate17/07/23 05:23 PM
2

You wouldn’t even been here if any of this was true. Please don’t cope with delusion. You might mess around and have a full mental break from reality.
/r/AllPillDebate17/07/23 04:53 PM
1

Majority of attractive women are not on tinder. We get way too much attention in real life and through our own social media profiles.
/r/AllPillDebate13/07/23 01:36 PM
6

This has more to do with the complexity of the black community and is really outside of Reddit’s understanding. MJB is above average in looks and he’s rich, but he comes across as lame. Like if I took him to the hood, and even if he wasn’t famous, he would easily be robbed because he has this “soft” aura about him that makes him a mark to be taken advantage of. Outside of the excitement factor, many BW like “thugs” and thug adjacent men because they equal protection in the hood.
/r/AllPillDebate13/07/23 01:34 PM
0

Because black American women have maintained a strong sense of racial pride and an understanding of the torture our ancestors endured at the hands of white men. In turn we don’t thirst after white men as much as other minority women. But this is starting to change with generation Z.
/r/AllPillDebate13/07/23 01:51 AM
0

You guys live in such a bizzaro world online. As a black woman, Ive never experienced any real hardship in dating. This is why you all need to let these bullshit hand picked studies and surveys go. They do not have to reflect your reality if you don’t want it to.
/r/AllPillDebate11/07/23 10:31 PM
1

No the fuck we don’t! I promise you white men are at the bottom of my racial preferences.
/r/AllPillDebate11/07/23 04:41 PM
1

Some women get off on height. Some women don’t. My dad is 5’7 so I never really had a point of reference to develop that preference as a young girl. I would date a short man. He just has to have a decent solid build and a masculine face. I wouldn’t date a short, skinny, baby face guy because that feels kinda child like to me.
/r/AllPillDebate11/07/23 04:22 PM
0

Omg this man is over 50? That’s kinda depressing.
/r/AllPillDebate11/07/23 04:12 PM
-7

Yeah you definitely have a self defeatist attitude. It comes across as unattractive even in these messages. Why would a woman hitch her wagon to a man that has been conquered by his own struggles?
/r/AllPillDebate11/07/23 03:27 PM
1

Date fem boys or trans women then. Why are you dating women when you don’t even like being around them?
/r/AllPillDebate06/07/23 11:48 PM
1

What are we suppose to do with information OP? I don’t think the women in those TikToks care about your turn offs.
/r/AllPillDebate06/07/23 01:05 PM
0

You don’t know either! Idk why the default here is to think the worse about everything. Honestly that’s one of the big turns offs about y’all as a whole. I’m not here to say the cards aren’t stacked against many of all. But nobody likes a “woe is me” ass man. And I say this as a black woman. The cards are definitely stacked against me. But I still go out every day with my head held high and I act pleasant and engaged with those that engage with me. A possibility but see point 1. At one point in …
/r/AllPillDebate29/06/23 06:30 PM
0

Everyone settles, even men. Stop being a whiny bitch be grateful someone even decided you were worth settling with. Y’all don’t even realize that y’all mirror the delusional woman described in the OP. Basically saying “If I can’t have a woman be obsessed with me like Chad, then I don’t want it”. But you’re not Chad. You have to play the hand you were dealt.
/r/AllPillDebate29/06/23 01:52 PM
-2

Every day here, I learn that it’s less about looks that’s holding y’all back and more so weird personalities that can come across as disturbing.
/r/AllPillDebate28/06/23 02:10 PM
0

And now you see how Chad is less of a real concept and more of this shape shifting boogeyman. Allowing enough flexibility that he can always be used as a scapegoat for any issues low self esteem men may face.
/r/AllPillDebate28/06/23 01:52 AM
-6

Men are only as loyal as their options honey.
/r/AllPillDebate26/06/23 03:46 PM
3

It’s more about knowing your self worth. A true dime will be less likely to cheat because she knows she can pull top tier men. She won’t even settle for less. So once she finds what she’s looking for she’s content. Average women have a harder time really understanding if they are dating up or down. They end up cheating because they settled and now they’re unsure if they could do any better.
/r/AllPillDebate26/06/23 03:45 PM
-1

I would love to see the men here dispute this. Men will excuse all type of behavior and make a million concessions if they believe they’re dating “up” in looks.
/r/AllPillDebate26/06/23 03:42 PM
-7

It’s laughable if you think men are. Men without options are FORCED into monogamy because they have no one else in their sphere that wants to fuck them.
/r/AllPillDebate26/06/23 03:39 PM
1

Someone literally downvoted you because you don’t like white women. The men here are pathetic.
/r/AllPillDebate24/06/23 03:57 PM
-9

But that annoyance seems to be rooted in a lack of self esteem. I don’t get mad when men draw their attention to the girl with huge boobs or a big ass, while in public.
/r/AllPillDebate23/06/23 04:13 PM
0

I mean why else would a woman commit to being a virgin? Sex feels good and is relatively low risk in today’s world
/r/AllPillDebate21/06/23 12:11 PM
0

They will never exist FOR YOU because you don’t deserve it.
/r/AllPillDebate21/06/23 12:07 PM
4

What are you dodging her answer!? She said she found them annoying and weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 06:08 PM
0

Y’all are truly damaged men and most of you are beyond repair. Sad.
/r/AllPillDebate15/06/23 07:33 PM
1

Idk why you think women all these all wise and knowing beings when they’re fresh out of high school. They’re as smart as the “nice guy” that thinks all he has to do is smile bashfully at women, tell them they smell nice, and be a passive little bitch in order to get women
/r/AllPillDebate13/06/23 11:44 PM
6

It’s not really about the women for most of them. They just want a certain level of control they feel only women and Chad has.
/r/AllPillDebate13/06/23 07:01 PM
-7

You know, I assume men in your position to have jaded views towards women. And I would expect more of you to grow a deep seated anger towards humanity as a whole. But instead, during many of these rants, the OP will hold men as being morally superior. The things they accuse women of doing, they act like men are morally incapable of doing the same. For the men that feel this way, I urge you all to give dating men a try. Because it’s obvious you hold them in higher regard.
/r/AllPillDebate05/06/23 12:22 AM
-1

That average black man pic is fine 🥵
/r/AllPillDebate01/06/23 02:21 AM
-4

I find ethnic incels that use the racial variants to be more aware and in touch with reality. Because in the real world there’s top tier men of all races that do well with women. But most of those incels seem to still place white Chad on top. And not just because of his control of resources due to being the descendants of imperialists. But they genuinely believe white people as a whole look more aesthetically pleasing. Which looks like they’ve drunk the white supremacy koolaid to me.
/r/AllPillDebate30/05/23 05:32 PM
4

My personal opinion. They saw your looks in comparison to your wife and assumed you must be loaded in order to bag her. Now it’s time to flirt in case you want a mistress that you don’t mind spending money on. Not so much pre selection, moreso strategic gold digging.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 04:46 PM
0

I don’t like black men following under white male lead incel rhetoric anymore than I like black women following under white female lead feminism. Black people have their own unique issues that should be tackled with a school of thought that is actually tailored for black people.
/r/AllPillDebate30/05/23 12:58 PM
-4

This is just my observation, but many nonwhite incels that stay in online incel spaces for too long, begin to adopt white supremacy rhetoric. I think it happens because of how incels place white “Chad” on a pedestal, making it easier to digest other white supremacy ideas.
/r/AllPillDebate30/05/23 12:53 PM
-5

I’m here because I’ve been following incel and incel adjacent subs since 2018. I’ve always been interested in the incel to white supremacy pipeline. I also agree with with many men here that women need to be more blunt and upfront with these men in order to provide better clarity in where they are going wrong. And finally, to save the black incels because none of them should be here.
/r/AllPillDebate30/05/23 12:12 PM
1

Get off social media if it upsets you.
/r/AllPillDebate29/05/23 04:20 PM
-1

Maybe stop telling people that shit then. Women don’t even ask men questions like that. You can even say you don’t think your the best at sex (which is most likely true since you’re a virgin) if they do ask about your sex life, but you are willing to learn exactly what she likes. At 6’2 it’s women that’s going to be attracted to you by your height alone. This shit isn’t hard. The majority of men here just suffer from crippling self esteem issues.
/r/AllPillDebate28/05/23 03:25 PM
0

Then by your own admission you’re not an incel either. You just don’t like your options.
/r/AllPillDebate28/05/23 03:15 PM
0

Both can be true tho. Women will overlook bad personality traits if the man is sexually attractive. Women will overlook sexual attraction if he’s rich, an amazing leader, or provider. But if you KNOW you’re funny looking, barely making ends meet, and no social clout amongst your peers, why do you think having a shitty and hateful attitude would help you attract women? It’s like y’all want to stack the deck against yourself.
/r/AllPillDebate28/05/23 03:12 PM
-1

First off, stay outta black women business. And secondly, if your face and body is already ugly, what makes you think a woman is gonna deal with your ugly ass attitude as well? You might’ve had a slim chance if your were actually pleasant to be around.
/r/AllPillDebate28/05/23 03:05 PM
-1

Baby I look better than you on my worse day. The nerve of a man that struggles with women to judge anyone’s looks. I really hope you’re white because the ethnic ppl on here praising everything white is fucking embarrassing.
/r/AllPillDebate28/05/23 02:27 AM
0

There’s more genetic diversity among Africans than any other race.
/r/AllPillDebate27/05/23 03:06 PM
1

Ok so you don’t like fat or apple shaped women. What does race have to do with that?
/r/AllPillDebate26/05/23 05:17 PM
1

Now who the hell was regularly dating 5’2 men?? That’s shorter than Kevin Heart. Shorter than my mom. Legit midget status for a man. I would assume some health disorder stunted his growth
/r/AllPillDebate26/05/23 12:49 PM
1

Why did you have to add the extra signifiers? Do you get hard for apple shaped obese white women?
/r/AllPillDebate26/05/23 04:29 AM
12

If I can add another feature, a lot of women feel sexually repressed by society. They’re not allowed to lust or even feel horny because that’s considered shameful slutty behavior. Rape fantasies absolve women from those shameful feelings but still allows them to receive pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 03:02 PM
3

Bro what black man hurt you?
/r/AllPillDebate22/05/23 01:12 PM
0

Imagine wanting a woman while hating them at the same time. And this is why you will be alone forever
/r/AllPillDebate16/05/23 09:01 PM
5

And so are most men! This is why I keep saying being terminally online is the real problem. Why in God’s green earth does any man that involuntarily celibate think they are worthy of having an in shape lover??? You not getting that IG Model. You better be happy with Becky with the fupa. Because trust, you are no catch your damn self.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 01:13 AM
4

ltr goes against the 80/20 rule since the top 20% of men are not really worried with settling down
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 12:42 AM
5

I hope Op is getting paid for all this advertisement
/r/AllPillDebate14/05/23 05:26 PM
1

And that’s love. Deleted my whole post too.
/r/AllPillDebate12/05/23 01:31 AM
2

Maaann stop telling these white folks about the coli and lipstick alley. Please chill. We don’t need them invading our spaces
/r/AllPillDebate11/05/23 11:27 PM
2

OP are you a black man?
/r/AllPillDebate10/05/23 11:16 PM
1

You weren’t being unreasonable. I just wish others were more honest. Most women aren’t going to give an autistic man a chance because they don’t want to run the high risk of having to raise autistic children. But I don’t think men really think about things like that when dating. That plus women are big on “mood”. Autistic men can’t read social cues as well and can fuck up a vibe pretty easy.
/r/AllPillDebate10/05/23 11:08 PM
1

Good.
/r/AllPillDebate09/05/23 10:15 PM
-2

Y’all some real cry baby ass men in this subreddit. That shit isn’t attractive either. Nobody likes a “woe is me” type of man. If you can’t find a solution to your problem maybe you don’t deserve it being resolved.
/r/AllPillDebate08/05/23 09:18 PM
-2

End thread. This is the best overall advice. Nothing more unattractive to a woman than a clingy man that doesn’t have his own life. A woman should be wanting to merge her life with yours, but she can’t do that if you don’t have anything interesting going on for yourself to begin with.
/r/AllPillDebate08/05/23 07:39 PM
18

If everything you say is true, you probably come across as neurodivergent in conversation and that makes a woman weary in dating you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 02:21 PM
3

Emmit Till would say otherwise if he was still alive.
/r/AllPillDebate08/05/23 02:04 PM
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No woman was every happy with being with an unattractive man. Please stop coping thru rose colored historical lenses. Women are no longer forced to marry men for cultural, religious or financial reasons. So women no longer have to settle for men they consider sub par.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 01:04 PM
2

A question I have for my passport bros. If all the western women are damaged, would you not also be a damaged man by living within that same western society? If the women in a country are all fucked up, the men probably are too.
/r/AllPillDebate08/05/23 11:00 AM
1

What women are telling y’all looks don’t matter?! Like I really wanna know who these hoes are. This must be a cultural thing. I can’t relate.
/r/AllPillDebate03/05/23 02:08 AM
1

Yeah. It’s called the impact of colonialism and the transatlantic slave trade. That’s history but not some type of scientific fact.
/r/AllPillDebate02/05/23 01:45 AM
1

Black women are not the ugliest. They’re just perceived as less agreeable and more abrasive. Which is honestly what many of y’all here need because you have low self esteem and lack direction.
/r/AllPillDebate02/05/23 01:36 AM
2

The Beast was a werewolf Chad and Quasi Moto got friendzoned tho…
/r/AllPillDebate02/05/23 01:33 AM
5

Speaking as a black women who gets attention from all races, I believe that rating is rooted more in agreeableness. The first thing most non black men tell me after having the courage to flirt, is that they didn’t think I would be receptive. That I would only like black men and would be mean or rude in shutting down their advances. Now don’t get me wrong, there’s some ethnic features that are not popular in a white dominated society. But a beautiful woman is still beautiful despite race. No man …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 01:22 PM
7

Rating people below average just for being black while y’all sit here and wine about how hard it is to date is a little laughable.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 12:24 PM
2

Baby if you are in West, nobody fucking cares. You can be called a n*gger just as quickly as a west African, Caribbean, or African American.
/r/AllPillDebate30/04/23 12:29 PM
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High school dating destroyed my concept of true love and basically red pilled me as a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 07:26 PM
4

The odds would be high if you’re mentally off yourself. Damaged people attract damaged people. If you keep attracting the same kind of people take a look at yourself and ask some questions about the common themes that are putting them in your presence to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 04:38 PM
3

So even women that don’t actively practice BDSM usually still fall into a submissive or dominant role in the bedroom. Most normie women with low to middle of the road promiscuity want to be submissive in bed. And subs by nature don’t really know how to teach their partner to a dom without actually being somewhat dominant themselves. Your thoughts on programming a man is more enticing to a dominant woman. I would honestly suggest going for a woman that’s a little older than you and works in leade…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 04:33 PM
3

Are you? Because you’ve asked this same question all up and down this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 04:15 PM
9

I believe you would know how to pump your dick inside a woman enough to ejaculate and impregnate her. I do not believe you have the mechanical knowledge to create an enjoyable sexual experience and make a woman orgasm. You will need to learn from hands on experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 04:13 PM
8

You don’t have to believe me, but I would like you to take some time to ponder. You say this behavior is not uncommon for women. But also acknowledge that these women might not be all the way together mentally. Have you consider that you attract and are attracted to women like this because you have some mental deficiencies as well? This might be why this behavior seems so common to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 04:02 PM
2

How does that requirement turn into misogyny?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 03:29 PM
21

Having sex with one person outside of a committed relationship would not classify as a “phase”.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 12:55 AM
20

She worked full time and made her own money. How is she trad? Does this all boil down to just conceding to whatever the man wants? What’s your definition of a trad woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 03:11 PM
9

Rape can kill you if it’s violent enough. And what do you mean she doesn’t realize she missing out? Is this woman a virgin? Is she not having sex with other men? Do you think she cares at all that she’s missing out on sex with you? Why should she have sex with you anyways?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 02:31 PM
5

Ooh this is low value man babble. Most young women have been in some type of relationship. If he is super high value and has options, it might not work out and he might find someone else. But there is nothing more unattractive than some sub par man claiming he will never leave you, because women understand the truth that he won’t leave because he can’t do any better.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 02:54 AM
6

Women care about things that will make a lasting impact on the quality of their life and the lives of their future children. Men mainly just care about looks, which is the one trait that doesn’t advance the quality of a man’s life. That’s not virtuous that’s just dumb and lacking priorities.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 12:19 PM
0

NO they will not. Stop aggregating attractiveness based on a wack ass online dating study. Women of color that don’t covet whiteness are most definitely not picking white men as their first option.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 01:45 AM
1

Honestly, the one that made it an issue first. I’m always upfront with men if I’m not dating exclusively but I’m not telling them about who my other dates are so idk how that scenario could even happen. But on the off chance they found out through each other, the first dude to make a fuss about it I would cut off. Conversely, the first guy to push for exclusivity in light of the information would probably win as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 05:27 PM
1

It’s just dating. The best move would be to date them both so you can make a more informed decision on who to take seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 01:06 PM
1

Sounds like you should date Chad. You seem to have a lot of reverence for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 12:32 PM
1

The women that eat well aren’t going to want the ham sandwich you’re serving up anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 12:27 PM
6

Imagine letting another gender make you mad enough to throw your life away. That’s weak as hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 12:24 PM
-2

The OG incel sub wanted breeding farms and looked up to a mass shooter. Please stop
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 12:22 PM
3

False equivalency. The real comparison is a man that posts shirtless gym pics. He should be allowed to do that if his gf can post half naked pics. I guarantee as uneasy that bf feels about her posting pics of herself and getting attention from men, I bet money he would feel a whole different type of uneasy if she was liking pics of half naked men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 04:19 PM
0

That’s why y’all get rolled over in divorce court.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 12:59 PM
1

That’s his fault for marrying someone with no financial contribution. Men do this all the time because you care more attractiveness than anything. CHOOSE BETTER
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 12:37 PM
13

You do realize women have sex with men not just because they’re that damn desirable. Sometimes young women have sex for personal validation or even to be seen as “cool”. Dumb reasons that you usually grow out of. The biggest factor being low self esteem. When you learn to value yourself more, you start moving more conservatively. It’s not always about “that guy was hotter than you”. That’s your own low self esteem speaking.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 07:38 PM
25

Whole post is full of assumptions, but let’s run with it. If you stand by the stat above, you’re also probably in the same camp of “men biologically want to have sex with as many attractive women that they can” and “women are most attractive from 18-23”. So why do women seek to be monogamous with a man knowing this? Because I don’t base my entire self worth off hand picked statistics. The most unattractive feature of the men here is not their height, weight or looks. It’s the crippling defeatist…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 03:48 AM
12

I’m on 85th and cottage right now and see two slim women at the bus stop. I’m from that area and there’s slim women all around. Stop staring at the fatties
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 02:23 PM
1

And so do people with children.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 02:02 PM
2

If it was that effective why are all these men upset about being sexless?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 04:02 AM
1

Y’all really think women of other cultures don’t monkey branch?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 06:08 PM
7

Yet it’s ok for men to follow their animalistic nature of trying to have sex with as many women as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 10:24 PM
10

What was that? Fan fiction?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 02:16 PM
1

You are not the cutest girl here
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 03:30 PM
6

Men do not love unconditionally or else y’all wouldn’t care about weight gain or body count. Those are conditions you put on women thru the door.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 05:58 PM
1

Nah. Lil Wayne would still have a harem of baby mamas in Louisiana if he never became a rapper. Mainly because he has charisma (which helped him become a star in the first place) and he also hung out with other popular men in the area, giving him clout.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 10:46 PM
19

I don’t think women would criticize so much if men didn’t treat sex like a degrading act that lowers a woman’s value.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 10:02 AM
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It’s true. It’s just when men could legally beat, rape, and leave their wives financially destitute, you didn’t hear women vocalize it as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 02:25 PM
14

That man is entitled to intermittent medical leave or even disability if he’s a full time employee in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 05:24 AM
2

Money and status impacts the security of that woman and the future of her children. Especially in a capitalist society. What benefit do men get from attractive women outside of a hard dick?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 01:22 AM
5

The men here call that settling.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 01:20 AM
6

I would. But now he’s gonna have to pay me, since he’s use to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 05:14 PM
-1

I’m sorry, I look way better at 30 than I did at 25. I still looked super childlike at 25, like my high school yearbook photo.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 03:18 AM
10

Op tried to convince us this girl was for the streets, but the only takeaway I got is that OP is intimidated and feels inadequate when compared to the guy she was talking to.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 05:55 AM
8

Why would she? We don’t even know if they’re dating. And even if they are, it’s HER instagram. I don’t even post pictures of friends and family on my page.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 05:51 AM
1

So why not just go for trans women in America?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 12:10 AM
5

And that’s the problem honestly. Sexual socialism allowed ugly men to reproduce. Now we have a bunch of subpar looking men that can’t get women to like them in a sexually liberated society.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 12:59 AM
8

That’s all you hear because that’s all you consume. If you change the media you’re consuming, you might not feel the same
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 01:41 AM
1

If the dick is too little it will slip out when you ride.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 01:12 PM
1

That girl was not a 3 w/o makeup. More like a 5.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 11:23 PM
0

If he is getting the same feedback from different women consistently, then it’s something to do with his approach. It’s honestly a breakdown in how OP approaches. Some people do a great job of making strangers comfortable quickly, and some people are the exact opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 04:32 PM
8

Then why don’t you date men? Problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 12:53 PM
8

Every time I see one of your posts, I learn a little bit more about you Johnny. You should try dating professional black women. They’re already at a disadvantage with the low number of black men in cooperate settings. No, they are not all loud and abrasive. That’s moreso an indicator of class/economic standing than a racial trait alone. And blasian kids are generally really cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 08:13 PM
2

But that young girl you’re with now would not have given your old broke self the time of day either. She only wants you now because you’re accomplished. So what’s the difference between her and older women that only messed with men in their prime when they were young?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 02:24 PM
6

It’s probably the autism then.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 01:46 PM
12

I think this what men don’t understand because the difference in our anatomy. For y’all even if a woman isn’t putting much effort into the sex, most of you can still cum off the work you put in alone. But if a man has a micro penis, or he doesn’t know how to stroke me how I like it, then I’m not going to cum. And constantly taking a shot in the dark on random dick on a dating app is tedious, frustrating, and a little dangerous. The reward level isn’t high enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 06:47 PM
5

This has been my experience as well. Men feel a lot safer now.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 05:29 PM
6

I’m 31. I was in a relationship throughout my 20’s so I wasn’t actively dating but I remember getting catcalled every time I walked more than 2 blocks on an active street. Once I started working corporate, I upgraded my clothes, put more effort into my makeup and clothes. I honestly feel that I look way better than I did a decade ago. The attention I get is much more subtle now because I’m dealing with grown men in a more professional environment. But I literally can’t sit at a bar without being…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 05:26 PM
1

No there are definitely women than worship the ground their men walk on. That just hasn’t been your experience so your perception is jaded.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 05:05 PM
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Who told men all of this? Other men?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 04:41 PM
17

It’s not about proficiency. It’s about compatibility. What’s good for one girl might not be good for the next. And a lot of those 50+ women grew up in a time when the female orgasm was downplayed and not talked about. Many of these women have never climaxed in their lives. Most women today would never want to live like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 01:58 PM
4

So women aren’t cooking for their husbands? They aren’t washing their husbands clothes?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 07:24 PM
-4

If you ask me on a date, why am I wasting my money when I never took the risk to approach you or let my feelings be known?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 09:33 PM
5

Let me drop some words of wisdom on you. If a woman is constantly wanting to go back to back, that means she’s not fully climaxing. She enjoys the feeling of sex, and is probably getting close. But when you actually buss, and buss hard, you honestly just want to chill in that afterglow for a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 05:03 PM
1

When did it become guaranteed that option B was going to cheat? And it would be disturbing if a man that broke up with me never had sex again.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 05:10 PM
5

I think he really believes roller coaster rider= exciting and thrilling man. Aw man.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 02:07 PM
0

And the fact that no person was able to meet your standards, even if only briefly, is a red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 12:06 AM
1

I look at children, women, and men like employees, manager, and CEO. Each group has their own responsibilities and level of leadership. And even though the CEO is higher than the manager, a good CEO will acknowledge the importance of their manager in keeping their company running, and will council with them on any important decisions impacting the company.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 06:57 PM
4

Oh my sweet summer child. Women in 3rd world countries are simply using our grandmothers playbook - feed into a man’s ego and you’ll have him eating out the palm of your hand. The name of the game is leveling up yourself and your children from your current economic level. These women live in countries where the monthly income what what some men in the west make an hour. They will smile in your face and be nothing but pleasant to secure their meal ticket. Idk why y’all hate being beta bucks in th…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 06:52 PM
2

So you were talking all this stuff about older alphas, but it sounds like these older men just became better betas.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 02:59 PM
2

Their bank account became more attractive not their face or body.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 02:56 PM
12

Yet this logic looks at woman like a product with a shelf life and not a human that grows and learns things. I have more options of HIGHER value men at 30 than I did in my 20’d because of where I now live, work, and hangout at. Those same high value men than either didn’t look my way because they thought I was too young, or only wanted sex because they thought I was too immature for a real relationship are now circling back around to comment how on nicely I’ve grown and how well I’ve done for my…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 02:45 PM
2

A woman grabbing my ass and a man grabbing my ass is two different things. While both can be unwarranted and violating, I can hold my own and fight a woman if she really wanna take it there. But a man grabbing my ass, and potentially trying to take more of me, puts me as a woman in a very vulnerable and potentially dangerous situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 07:38 PM
2

Never forget that Bezos left his wife for a 40+ single mom. 30-40yr attractive women will ALWAYS be courted by high value men. And old to you is still young to a man 10yrs older than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 02:01 PM
1

Because your comments seem to place virginity as more important than any other characteristics. Essentially fetishizing her (lack of) sexuality. You are not walking into this trying to appreciate her as a whole person. I would say the same for a woman that demand that a man be bigger than 8inches, and would only date men under that if he had model status looks. Both of these modes of thinking make people miss out on a lot of potential partners for both casual and long term encounters.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 03:03 PM
1

You were struggling to get it together but you wonder why you had a hard time attracting women. Self improvement and dating doesn’t really go hand in hand. Focus on getting yourself in a good place then date. If you don’t like what you’re pulling, go back and focus on self improvement and then try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 02:41 PM
1

I hope no virgin has the misfortune of getting involved with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 02:00 PM
6

Men have racial preferences that a woman cannot change tho. Not to mention of feature preferences like breast size, hair texture/color/length and eye color that women cannot change without great effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 05:59 PM
1

What race are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 03:28 PM
2

I love bald heads (as long as the body isn’t crazy skinny, then you just look like a cancer patient), and prefer men 6’ or under (5’6-5’9 being my sweet spot). I would kick an athletic body out of bed, but slightly stocky dad bods are my favorite. Idk about the eye thing, and jawlines don’t matter much if you have a beard. The only thing I can agree on is being financially well off.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 03:26 PM
7

Maybe they just want to have a little bit of enjoyable sex with someone that’s actually attractive before having to settle down with a sad sack of shit to help cure the plight of male loneliness.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 04:22 AM
10

At least we now live in a world where some poor woman doesn’t have to marry and ultimately procreate with that incel to survive and function in society. Less incel dna in the gene pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 04:10 AM
3

They want sexual socialism. One woman assigned to each man to be his forever helpmate.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 03:59 AM
3

Then what’s the point of watching porn? You don’t need it to put your hand on your dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 03:35 AM
1

So what’s bringing you to climax?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 02:33 AM
2

You do realize this whole stance placing the responsibility on women to pick one guy in like a 5 year span and he better be THE ONE. If they break up then that means the woman is forever damaged??
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 02:29 AM
4

Literally everyone else in the world does this. 99.9% of people cannot honestly say they are with the hottest person they ever seen. But you don’t get into a relationship just because they’re the hottest person you’ve seen. Love is so much deeper than that. In fact, you can actually love some of the imperfections you see in your partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 02:23 AM
1

So when you watch porn and masturbate, you’re not fantasizing about fucking the girl on the screen?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 02:14 AM
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But he’s 100% right tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 04:41 AM
7

You really shouldn’t be relying on women as your only motivator for self improvement. Another undesirable trait.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 04:38 AM
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The arm folding and lack of eye contact is not too bad. But stop mumbling to yourself immediately. It’s makes women feel like you’re plotting something nefarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 02:56 AM
2

Are lesbians dating autistic women tho?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 02:53 AM
2

His argument does not take into account the rate women date tho. Going back to the 5 guy n count example. Let’s say a single woman averages a date once a week. If she sleeps with all of them on the first date, and they all pump and dump or end up not being relationship material, then she’s increased her n count by 5 this month, only to wash rinse and repeat next month. But if she holds out on sex until she builds a stronger connection, she lowers the rate in which her n count increases month ove…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 04:13 PM
4

So no woman should take your advice because you just admitted that you will say and act whatever way to get what you want. Pack it up, ladies! This whole post was a ruse.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 04:02 PM
-1

A man afraid of competition is so grossly unattractive on a fundamental level. Every time you complain about a woman’s other suitors, you subconsciously communicate that you can’t match up against them, and you’re frustrated that the woman has better options then you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 02:28 PM
1

And this attitude is why nobody wants to breed with you. You’re not hot enough to have such an ugly attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 03:34 PM
1

You must be a black incel yourself if you know about lipstick alley. Do you post on thecoli?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 03:31 PM
4

Let’s keep rolling with the “buy” analogy and treat partners as “cars”. A man might have a dream car but they don’t mind buying something more modest, hell even a beater, as long as it still gets them from point a to b. Because the end of the day, the need to drive is more important than the need to drive in style. But a lot of women have a standard of what they’re willing to drive that’s not as wavering. If they can’t afford it, they will take the bus, Uber, or even walk before they buy some ra…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 06:28 PM
4

And this is men’s problem here. Women don’t operate like this. Men will lower their standards until they find something because they act like they can’t live without a woman’s intimacy. If women are unhappy, we will leave. And if we can’t find what we’re looking for, we will just remain single.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 03:59 PM
1

These coping fantasies have got to STOP! It’s part of the reason why you’re not successful with women in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 03:47 PM
-1

Because women act as a barometer for man’s success in this world. A man than can’t find a mate signifies other deficiencies in his make up, either physical, mental, or emotional. Women are nature’s biggest test for man. Are you able to ensure your genetic legacy survives? The test is not going to give you the answers. The test doesn’t have to be “fair”. Life isn’t fair. Man creates law to try and make things “fair”. The man-made constructions of “marriage” and “female chastity” that encourages p…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 04:49 PM
7

Women with options will leave unless she doesn’t want to be a wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 10:32 PM
124

These posts are nothing but cuck fantasies at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 01:36 PM
4

Erotica spends more time on the build up to sex. What makes the two characters want each other. And they also take their time on the foreplay. It gives me that slow build up orgasm. Porn is too “wham bam thank you ma’am” for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 04:59 PM
5

Y’all gotta stop looking for pussy socialism. You can’t beg a group of women to suddenly want you. You are going to have to get in where you fit in.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 06:53 PM
7

Bullshit. I have the body count of a teenager but I’ve had more sex with my partner of 13 years than all of my friends. I’m very comfortable at it, to say the least.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 03:53 PM
1

Maca root does the same thing naturally, if you can’t get a prescription.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 01:14 AM
6

I LOVE rough sex and had to get my bf into it. He was really scared of hurting me at first. I’m black so I’m not really with the hair pulling when my shit is freshly done. And I don’t like the spitting in the mouth thing that’s seems to be becoming popular. But everything else I’m down for. The sex doesn’t even need to be “rough”. I just enjoyed being dominated.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 09:47 PM
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But that’s the type of neurotic behavior women avoid. I know y’all get mad at the term, but the above is definitely creepy behavior. It also reeks of low self esteem, which is a major turn off.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 01:39 AM
8

That’s the low self esteem talking when assume that a woman you don’t even know wouldn’t like you when you were younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 01:36 AM
5

That particular 30yr old women didn’t even KNOW you 15 years ago. How do you know she wasn’t dating a similar version off you when she was 15?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 01:33 AM
2

Shoe collecting is a hobby. So it’s not just “I like your shoes” but “ you got the OG breds? Nice! Where did you cop?” Whole different conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 12:40 AM
1

NO we would not. Looks is best indicator of health we have by simple observation. And humankind needs is to procreate with healthy people so we don’t end up with a generation of fucked up kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 07:50 PM
1

And the end of the day, most men require a level of submission from their women to truly feel valued and for the relationship to work. PC men will call it cooperation, but I have overwhelming witnessed that it’s women making concessions and submitting to their husband/bf POV that get relabeled as being cooperative by men. But it’s hard to submit and concede to a man that you don’t feel is in some way better than you. When he attempts to take a head of household position, you feel a sense of rese…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 08:08 PM
1

You also implied that women that work full time and do the majority of the household chores is “magical” when it’s the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 07:50 PM
3

You don’t even respect women and talk about us like bottles of milk you buy at the store. Mad that you can’t get the older bottles on discount. Why would a woman WANT to be your companion???
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 03:21 PM
1

The above poster did say want and not “need”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 06:30 PM
5

Things like this is how you know Reddit is white as hell. This is a cultural thing. Black women literally come into their prime in their late 20s (outside of women letting themselves go after pregnancy). I literally looked 15 at 25. Now I’m 30, finally lost the baby fat off my face, my hips and breasts filled out, and I get more attention from men younger and older than me, than any other point in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 04:08 PM
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The woman in the story clearly knew what she wanted. She wanted to flirt a little bit, but not actually go home and fuck him the same night. And that’s exactly what she did. She might have fucked him later that week, if the guy was strategic enough to just ask for her number instead of jumping the gun straight to fucking. And I need y’all to realize that these “post wall” 30-45 yr old women are still treated like young girls to 50-70yr old men. What you consider a wall is not a wall to older men…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 03:58 PM
2

Because it’s not enjoyable. It’s not enjoyable because most women are not attracted to brokenness or ugliness. So what do you want, pity sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 03:47 PM
1

This is the lynchpin in y’all fantasy. Not every woman is out here fucking bum ass men. MOST of us are not. Most of us are fucking men that are BETTER than you in one aspect or another and your mad at us about it. And if women are really out here fucking 6 figure Chad AND the lazy stoner guy, that means women have more sexual variety then y’all claim. And what does that say about you, that you can’t find any place to fit in.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 03:10 PM
3

Men can share other women, they just prefer not to as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 02:36 PM
1

Why would you want a poor father for your children?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 05:44 PM
5

No, they really shouldn’t, especially teenagers. And an unemployed man should be focusing on finding a way to make money to take care of himself. Not worrying about having sex that could lead to a mouth that he can’t feed. What the fuck is wrong with y’all, for real? Such a childish mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 05:31 PM
7

The women that had sex with you without a job were stupid and careless with their future. They probably make other poor decisions in their life as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 05:25 PM
2

Their age.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 02:47 PM
1

Whoever approaches first should pay for the first date. Why would I pay for someone who came to me first and wants some of my time to get to know me better?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 04:57 PM
1

Lowkey the best post on PPD
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 04:52 PM
10

Wtf. Lol no. Most women just find the thought of their SO with another man to be a turn off.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 04:51 AM
9

Why do you not realize that you’re beta bucks for the young girl as well? All you’re trying to do is stop her from going through a fuck all the Chads phase by getting to her first. But you’re still not a Chad. You’re literally hoping that your maturity allowed you to obtain enough resources to buy into the experience of pretending to be a Chad and deflower her.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 11:08 PM
12

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 10:29 PM
5

Wtf is up with y’all obsessions on being first? You know most women are not their bfs first choice. Some times your first choice isn’t even your best choice. They’re usually your first choice largely due to proximity not because they’re that great.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 02:26 PM
3

Don’t expect a response. They can’t think for themselves. That’s why their self esteem is so low. They only get validation through others.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 11:14 PM
1

No one else thinks he is morally obligated to respond except you. You need to recalibrate yourself. You sound crazily self absorbed.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 12:26 AM
1

Why do you place yourself as so important in other people lives that ignoring you gives them some type of ego/superiority points? The more likely reason is that you’re not a big enough priority, so it fell off their to-do list. If you want to be upset about these interactions, I feel you should frame it as frustrations around being forgettable. But it’s a bit pompous on your end to assume that it’s deliberately done.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 12:12 AM
2

I have to disagree with this one. I never really lusted for a man until my late 20’s and many of my friends are the same. We’re just turning 30, and now I finally understand the sexual frustration teenage boys feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 11:28 PM
6

Y’all do know virgin is not some type of cheat code for finding the perfect woman right? You all would find much more success if you placed more value in a woman’s cooperation.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 01:08 AM
4

This is how men end up with piss poor sex partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 01:06 AM
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So young women are suppose to forgo life experiences and pair young because a subset of men do not know how to find romantic success? Why would we do that? What do we have to gain? To me, that sounds like a smart kid refusing to take AP/honors classes because they don’t want to offend the kids stuck in regular classes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 12:55 AM
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What’s attractive online is not the same in person, and vice versa. I find men way more attractive live in action. A man’s presence is really his most attractive trait. Most men are not super photogenic and their attractiveness does not always translate through photo/video. So it’s gonna be a small amount of men that look good online compared to real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 10:59 PM
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We’re waiting because we literally don’t want to be in a committed relationship in our youth. I wouldn’t want to be tied down to Chad either. Hell, when I was 21, I was more into Stacy. Soon after women are locked down by a man romantically, we’re pushed into motherhood, and then locked down for another 18 years. Why can’t young women have fun and learn who they are before having to commit to a life partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 10:51 PM
2

Please stop. This is absolutely wrong. As a woman, I interact with people on social media completely different than in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 05:53 AM
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Get the fuck off the internet! It is not an accurate replication of IRL interactions. There’s SM messages I haven’t even opened, and probably never will. But that’s not to say that I wouldn’t have a convo with these men in real life. And if the convo goes well that could easily turn into a date. But most men will never get to that point banking on online messaging.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 06:57 PM
2

The amount of trust you want women to put in men is absolutely laughable. We did this in history already and it was fucking horrible for women. The man would create a family and then leave, forcing the woman to basically prostitute herself because she had no other skills. And these men you speak of work positions that are dependent on the state as well. So even if a woman solely depends on her husband, she is still dependent on the state, just with a middle man in the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 10:44 PM
-1

There is equality. Time is money. You want my time, and you as a man pursued me. I’m under no obligation to take time out of my day to entertain you, since I have no relationship to you as friend, family, or lover. So yes, I would expect a man to pay for all dates during courtship because my time is not free. If he wants to make things official, and I agree, I’m also agreeing that I’m invested this person. At that point I wouldn’t mind paying for dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 06:13 PM
2

Why did you answer his first question with another question?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 03:25 PM
2

That’s the ticket! Rooting for you!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 03:23 PM
5

And THIS is one of y’all’s biggest issues. Sometimes you have to fuck your way up. It’s like a car. It’s better to buy a cheap beater, fix it up a little, and drive it until you can do better. Most people drive a lot of cars they’re not crazy about before they finally get their dream car. But usually each car gets a little bit better. Dating is like going to the dealership. You have more leverage when you’re already driving something, instead of coming in empty handed and desperate. But you rath…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 01:41 PM
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Women actually enjoy being in the company of other women. I rather be at a party with mostly women than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 08:14 PM
10

Not all women wait that long. Some readjust after 1-2 heartbreaks in HS and get wifed by a better all around guy by college or shortly after. Those are the ones playing the game smartly. But you do run the risk of putting all your eggs in one basket too soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 05:09 PM
5

But that’s how many black and Latina women are built.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 09:27 PM
17

Maybe that means you’re not as hot as you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 09:24 PM
6

No we don’t. It’s just the cope you tell yourself. The honest Blackpill is that w/o women being socially and financially required to marry, they much rather have sex with men they are truly attracted to. We have large enough social circles that we can get dating and emotional intimacy from our friends and family.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 02:37 PM
1

Kias are really wack bro. I’m not gonna lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 11:22 PM
2

They will do that now but you all look down on beta buxxing
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 02:24 PM
2

But all OP asked was to rate the guys, not if they were considered sweet or if they have a good relationship with their family.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 01:16 AM
8

How the fuck do you find out the inner values of these two men just by looking at a picture? You asked them to rate and only provided their looks, so that’s all they got rated on.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 11:14 PM
2

Bruh you are down bad. Women should be the last thing you’re worried about. Go join the military or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 01:44 PM
5

I find the drive, independence, ambition, determination, and intelligence that’s needed to be a successful man very attractive. But even moreso, the small amount of good luck/timing that’s needed to be really be successful. A lot of men have some combination of the above traits, but never seem to be able to get shit off the ground. It’s almost like they’re cursed with a blocker preventing achievement. For the sake of my future family, I want a man with ambitious traits and good favor on his side…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 01:23 AM
1

Or she could have just been more drunk/high.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 01:08 AM
2

But men DO get constant validation! On your intelligence, strength, sensibility, problem solving, innovation, and the effort you put into your craft. Women literally get drilled down to our beauty in regards to the validation we get in this world. Almost all other accomplishments are diminished.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 12:50 AM
10

Birth control is not making women want to have sex with unattractive men. What type of logic are you even using right now?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 01:04 PM
6

And THIS is your problem! You want a relationship for validation of your own poor self esteem. But no woman wants to be with someone with low self esteem and reeking of desperation. On a subconscious level, it’s like you give off a signal that you’re a broken wagon that no one should hitch themselves to. Fix yourself first, and you’ll remove a large dating barrier.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 05:42 AM
2

Because you can’t obtain them! You just said you were unattractive above. Why do you think you should be with someone “decent” looking?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 01:09 AM
3

If you’re self admitted facially unattractive, then you really don’t have the social leverage to refuse to date overweight women. And men love to stand by that on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 01:06 AM
0

I refuse to believe you’re that unattractive. Send me a pic and I’ll tell you what route you need to take next, no sugar coating.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 01:00 AM
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The more friends you accumulate across hobbies, the more exposure you have towards meeting a romantic partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 12:38 AM
1

If you were truly that love and touch starved, you wouldn’t write off overweight women, women over 30, and single moms. That’s if your cutoffs align with most men on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 12:32 AM
0

Hypergamy only works when a society has something for the rest of the unselected males to do, like go to war. Otherwise they become frustrated, unproductive, and sometimes violent. School shooter vibes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 01:44 PM
5

But the sex isn’t that good tho 85% of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 10:09 PM
2

Just because you both were in university does not make her your equal. If you both were really equals, you also would have drawn the attention of more established women willing to help support you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 03:53 PM
8

Bruh the flowers thing is creepy as fuck. You sound super jaded and on edge. Ready to shoot someone that gets in your face. No deescalation on your part? I feel like you need to take a step back from trying to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 11:31 PM
1

If women don’t like sex then what’s up with all the men in this sub complaining about all the sex women are having with Chads?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 10:49 PM
5

Happy Pride Month!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 03:56 PM
1

I don’t get any DMs from people I don’t already know and my page is public. This really doesn’t happen as often as y’all think.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 11:25 PM
3

Without a doubt, you must have some type of social awkwardness around women, extremely insecure around women, or maybe deep down not really attracted to them. With all of your attributes PLUS your extended friend group, I find it hard to believe that no one has set you up with a girl they know, to at least lead to some hand holding. How have you never flirted with a woman? Literally just go to a bar, buy her a drink, and tell her she was too cute to ignore. Nothing is holding you back but yourse…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 02:04 PM
2

I was never sexually attracted to older (45-60) men when I was in my teens-20’s. But now I find myself checking them out more than men my age or younger. And for all the red pillers out there, I’m not talking about as a provider. Like I straight up find them more physically pleasing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 07:31 PM
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The men here such such little sex that I believe they forget the mechanics of conception. Stop cumming in women if you don’t want a kid!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 01:05 PM
7

This is most likely not going to end well at all for you. But good luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 03:37 AM
0

Y’all write stories like this and still wonder why you’re having such a hard time dating. Why are you dating these broke ass women?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 02:01 PM
1

Not you making a slick assumption on racial genetic superiority. I assure you, without historical institutions like imperialism, colonialism, and white supremacy, white men would NOT be at the top of any supposed list of genetic superiority.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 01:53 PM
3

If you’re dazzled by alpha males, and their vibrant natures makes you want to submit, I get it. That’s how us girls feel too.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 05:12 PM
27

Sounds like you’re not really looking for someone compatible. You want someone that’s just like you, except in better shape and with a vagina. You’re putting yourself in a very small box, like you’re unable to value in things that don’t already interest you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 05:01 PM
13

Being selective is not being entitled. You only think it’s entitlement because you treat sex like the air you breathe.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 07:28 PM
11

So basically y’all are mad at women’s n count because you cannot do the same. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 02:58 PM
9

TRP loves to say that you shouldn’t be with a woman with a high n count because it shows they have difficulty staying committed. And I would agree. Similar to how a hiring manager might feel looking at a candidate that’s worked at 10 different jobs in the past 2-3 yrs. But comments like this above highlight that’s it’s not even about that thought process. Y’all literally just want to make sure women have less sexual experience than you so they can’t call your sex game weak. More than 3 guys hurt…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 02:56 PM
9

My dad is 5’5 and dated A LOT of women before settling down with my mom. Idk about the micro penis part tho
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 01:06 AM
3

Its like you all were raised off Disney movies or something. I could form a friendship with someone like that, but never a romantic partner. Personality alone doesn’t make me wet, sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 04:31 PM
1

But those men are not helping to prolong the human race in any other way outside of their financial contributions. You strip that away, and those males might as well be culled from the herd.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 11:35 PM
1

5’5 145lbs. I love my body
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 10:46 PM
3

If this actually happened, I would happily spend my time becoming the best feminine version of myself so I can become a HVM 2nd or 3rd wife. If all I have to look forward to is giving myself to a man, I definitely wouldn’t give myself to some bottom of the barrel man
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 07:49 AM
11

I’m still trying to understand why you all think women would want to be wives at 23. Why would women want to be saddled down with kids before she can even rent a car on her own?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 07:12 PM
8

This lowkey sounds like a father/daughter relationship. I wish y’all would quit beating around the bush and say you want someone young because she’ll be more likely to be dependent on you. And you believe her dependency will make her less likely to leave you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 06:47 PM
6

If you can form successful friendships then you’re not going to make a good partner in a relationship. Why would any woman want to have an asocial man as their life companion? That’s signing up for a life of unfulfilling and negative social experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 06:01 PM
2

Speak for yourself. I’m a woman and a big solid duce can feel pleasurable. Like slowly pulling out an anal plug. And a good piss can straight up feel orgasmic if I’ve been holding it for a while. It’s like the intensity sends vibrations to my clit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 04:50 PM
6

I totally get that the idea of fucking someone’s wife is hot. But with cuck porn, you have the other man present in the action. Which gives it a closeted gay vibe to me. Because why else is the cuck there, when he doesn’t even get to fuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 07:32 PM
1

White people problems
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 09:34 AM
2

Lil uzi and young thug both dabble in the feminine image and women love them and think they’re adorable
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 02:54 PM
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