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1

wow. you are really giving advices based on hollywood plots
/r/seduction11/11/19 02:21 PM
3

there are different things: maybe you are missing some red flags. maybe you are too focused on those "hot" women who are used to get everything they want. i don't know. i personally don't want my girlfriend to be dependent on me. and she doesn't want that neither. maybe you need another loot schematic
/r/seduction11/11/19 09:42 AM
1

i would like to have a coffee....at your place
/r/seduction08/11/19 08:32 AM
7

watch the videos or read the book. it's not about making a conscious decision that you like porn more then real sex. it's about porn rewiring your brain. good sex is no longer as stimulating as porn if you're watching too much on a regular basis
/r/seduction02/11/19 04:24 PM
1

Can you explain what you mean by "softens my desire"?
/r/seduction02/11/19 03:46 PM
8

the thing you are doing wrong is: your are on tinder
/r/seduction23/10/19 04:27 PM
1

i have average sized hands for a man of my size. still they don't look like the typical manly hands. almost feminin. it could be that there were girls who didn't like my hands, but i also had enough girls who really gave me compliments on my gracile hands. i typically joke that i'm doing hand porn for all the people with a hand fetish
/r/seduction17/10/19 06:39 AM
1

this "spark" maybe just a sign that you reached everything you wanted out of this girl.
/r/seduction30/09/19 11:50 AM
4

don't apologize. just ask her out and enjoy the time with her. if she asks you tell her that you had some private problems to solve. and than move on
/r/seduction25/09/19 07:48 AM
0

this sounds like some pretty dumb behavior of a person you want to have a relationship with.
/r/seduction25/09/19 07:46 AM
1

1 - but i don't have time for more.
/r/seduction22/09/19 10:36 AM
1

i am glad that you realized that having a girlfriend won't fix the main problem. so work on getting to know new people who are in the same situation as you :)
/r/seduction21/09/19 12:00 PM
2

i wouldn't take this sub as a reference. you don't have to throw all your hobbies away and only do approaching the whole day. this whole thing should be fun. read models by mark manson and no more mr. nice guy. i personally am very interested in in self-growth and less in fucking 20340234 girls. that's why i don't fuck that many girls. but i'm still happy with the amount of girls i fuck. and the approaching of that girls never felt artificial or something like that.
/r/seduction21/09/19 11:57 AM
5

maybe i am missing something out because of language deficit, but it sounds like she wants more then just hanging out?
/r/seduction18/09/19 09:00 AM
14

people who lead a happy life and are not dependent on the validation of some girls. you should work on your insecurities if you ask me
/r/seduction18/09/19 07:21 AM
1

puh. i don't really know how to rescue this... but it seems like you already screwed up
/r/seduction16/09/19 12:50 PM
1

stop this chit chat bullshit. don't waste your time on a girl who doesn't want to meet in person. your time is more valuable than that :)
/r/seduction16/09/19 12:48 PM
6

Models by mark manson and No more mr. Nice guy by robert glover
/r/seduction16/09/19 12:43 PM
4

boy. read only 2 or 3. and save your time for better things
/r/seduction11/09/19 09:41 AM
1

to the top
/r/seduction11/09/19 09:33 AM
4

i think someone should go with the flow: don't invest more than she is investing: if it's all working well from both sides, don't slow down. but still. don't forget that your time/self is more worth than her. this should work
/r/seduction11/09/19 09:32 AM
8

i wouldn't care too much about what girls say.
/r/seduction27/07/19 04:01 PM
2

in my opinion. talk to her about feelings. there could be zillions of reasons why she is pushing you away. talk about it.
/r/seduction05/07/19 04:24 PM
2

don't you have some values?
/r/seduction05/07/19 04:21 PM
1

White, 30. Currently no Dating Life. :)
/r/seduction03/07/19 07:09 AM
1

i would start questioning my true intentions of approaching if i get upset by being rejected
/r/seduction03/07/19 07:08 AM
2

you are searching for a compatible person you could have fun with. if you get a rejection she's not feeling you. so you are not compatible. you should be thankful for the rejection. it saves you time which you could have wasted on a person
/r/seduction01/07/19 08:32 AM
1

i hope i can explain that as gentle as possible. french people are normally so proud of their own culture. they love their baguettes, french music and everything. it's like they don't want to speak anything else then french.
/r/seduction01/07/19 08:18 AM
5

was my first thought. but as far as i know he's saying something about being able to walk away in 30 sesonds
/r/seduction01/07/19 07:32 AM
1

there's a stereotype about brainless gym people.
/r/seduction30/06/19 04:32 PM
11

that's one of the best personalities
/r/seduction25/06/19 07:28 AM
1

don't know anything about that movement but i personally can relate to certain point. i hate people telling me to smile. no matter from whom it's coming from.
/r/seduction19/06/19 12:50 PM
6

"need to be much more proactive" if their goal is to fuck, they have to be proactive towards that goal OP is not saying that approaching is bullshit. He is saying that this obsessive way of approaching and fucking and seducing which is promoted in this sub may not lead to that happy life we we are searching for. everytime you work towards a goal you are proactive. i know a friend of a friend of mine. this guy is all about woman. his whole day is about approaching and fucking. i personally like a…
/r/seduction14/06/19 06:06 AM
2

maybe you're too fast? did you kiss? you can't touch her boobs before kissing (most of the time at least)
/r/seduction13/06/19 12:50 PM
1

it only gets good or bad through juding. if you're happy with staying inside because summer isn't your thing it's not bad why is this post even in this sub?
/r/seduction13/06/19 07:21 AM
2

Deep
/r/seduction12/06/19 07:17 AM
0

it seems like you already have your own answer. what do you need this post for?
/r/seduction12/06/19 07:15 AM
2

i personally don't like to follow some trends (some of these look like hell) but what i like are timeless perfectly fitting basics. with a few minor things which present my personal style
/r/seduction12/06/19 05:30 AM
1

I may have a different understanding of grinding? For me it's when you guys are dancing and she is pushing her ass in to your crouch. If she is grinding on you it's her first move. Now you have to react. Put your arm around her. Or your hand on your leg. Something which shows her that you want to intensify all this. Watch how she reacts. It's like ping pong
/r/seduction11/06/19 02:53 PM
1

why do you even want to talk? she starts grinding on you, so you start to dance with her. normally you guys come closer without talking. there will be one point where you can make out. one thing leads to another. if you take a break, go to another place with her where it's quiet it could lead to losing that proximity which you have to build up again.
/r/seduction11/06/19 02:36 PM
2

i am going bald. so i started to cut everyhting off. doing this every weekend. works quite well for me. it's not as complicated as cutting a real hair cut on your own
/r/seduction11/06/19 10:52 AM
2

i don't have a budget like this. electric toothbrush is more a health item. i am cutting my hair on my own. cologne as soon as it goes empty and so on. but it don't see these expensives as too high. BUT depends all on your personal financial situation
/r/seduction11/06/19 09:55 AM
1

there is no need for more info except from "don't"
/r/seduction11/06/19 09:17 AM
4

i know it's not an answer to your question BUT their color/race doesn't matter. and you mentioning it makes it look like it matters to you.
/r/seduction10/06/19 09:19 AM
1

that's good for you :)
/r/seduction09/06/19 08:13 AM
1

you don't have to go out every evening + it needs time to work on yourself. even if you don't drink. the time of beeing out eats the time you have to spend on hobbies and other stuff. NOW ROAST ME BITCH!!
/r/seduction08/06/19 09:42 AM
0

i think the same rules apply as fucking in a big town. with the difference that you will get to feel the results way faster.
/r/seduction08/06/19 09:40 AM
1

questions which can't be answered with a yes or no stuff like "describe me how your apartment/room looks like" - normally there will be a lot of stuff like paintings, hobbies which you could use in your conversation to ask more questions "which dumb things she has done in her youth" - could happen that she says "none" but the risk is worth it :) ​ i think such questions are good after finishing small talk. when you're comfortable with each other
/r/seduction05/06/19 02:20 PM
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i always have a list of some questions in my phone which normally lead to a fun conversation where we get to know each other without it beeing to awkward. if i'm stuck i go to the toilet and have a peak. the way im asking and answering seems natural to me.
/r/seduction05/06/19 01:18 PM
1

which is still a no. normally people reschedule if they are busy
/r/seduction03/06/19 10:57 AM
0

happy cake day
/r/seduction03/06/19 10:28 AM
1

i mean like. doesn't all that asking if she wants to go out after hearing a "no" decrease your value?
/r/seduction03/06/19 09:12 AM
2

expensive doesn't mean quality. just wearing expensive clothes because they are expensive are a bad thing in my eyes. like do you really need this shit for your confidence? can't you bring value into other peoples life without that expensive clothes? there will be social circles which require you to wear this stuff. but do you want to be a part of that circle if it has such requirements?
/r/seduction03/06/19 09:09 AM
1

puh. i would stop after the third no BUT i don't know how girls act in russia
/r/seduction03/06/19 08:49 AM
0

homophob
/r/seduction31/05/19 10:49 AM
445

get a lawyer (just in case)
/r/seduction31/05/19 10:47 AM
1

what's the point in banging her? it's like too much trouble for too little reward
/r/seduction29/05/19 08:10 AM
3

this sounds everything else than fun
/r/seduction28/05/19 12:24 PM
4

i would tell her that she's acting a little bit too flirty and that you find her attractive but you have principles/values and she has to leave her boyfriend if she wants some of that good stuff
/r/seduction28/05/19 09:22 AM
0

maybe it's the society you're in. but i never had the feeling that my job (income) is such a matter. sometimes they don't even know what i'm doing for work. and if they know it's not really affecting how they interact with me
/r/seduction28/05/19 09:19 AM
1

thank you. i apreciate that
/r/seduction22/05/19 03:07 PM
2

/r/WrongSub
/r/seduction22/05/19 01:49 PM
3

i don't think so. i am not gaming on social media. but when it comes to the age difference. Just don't give a fuck. she's still a little girl, who wants to be loved
/r/seduction22/05/19 11:32 AM
4

oh ok. i guess i am using the term different since mid-20s mothers are no MILFs for me.
/r/seduction22/05/19 11:11 AM
6

34 is already a milf? damn
/r/seduction22/05/19 10:47 AM
5

i would use that social proof and game other girls in the club
/r/seduction22/05/19 10:40 AM
1

it's not worth it. she should break up with him or it's not gonna happen between both of you
/r/seduction22/05/19 07:29 AM
0

not before having sex with each other..
/r/seduction22/05/19 07:24 AM
1

do the group hang out
/r/seduction21/05/19 12:51 PM
5

you know that you can still devote time, energy and emotions into a person without fucking. and that's perfectly fine. she can enrichen your life without fucking. BUT the important message in your post is: don't waste your time on things/persons which do not bring value to your life
/r/seduction21/05/19 07:31 AM
1

maybe a sign that you started the relationship because you had the feeling that you won't get anything better? and now the feeling fades? OR could be another issue where people are not able to have a long term relationship because it gets "boring" and they always need a new high
/r/seduction20/05/19 01:34 PM
1

i never said that sex is no factor in a happy relationship. i said that it's one part with many others. would you have a long term relationship if sex were perfect but everything else horrible?
/r/seduction18/05/19 04:01 PM
1

depending on what you're trying to achieve. i personally am searching for a long term relationship. good sex isn't enough for a long term relationship. it's one factor but there are other factors which are also (more) important for me
/r/seduction18/05/19 03:57 PM
1

"So you like sex while paying for it with your time, energy and money? " - no. i like sex but sex is not my intention when i speak to a girl or have dates with her. while sex is part of a whole dating process it's just a small part. i am not paying for sex with money, energy or time. i am investing time and energy to get to know the other person meaningful sex for me is when i have an emotional connection to the person i am having sex with, when there is enough trust.
/r/seduction18/05/19 11:24 AM
1

because i don't like meaningless sex that much. for me it's a process to get to know girls and to see whether they fit into my life or not
/r/seduction18/05/19 10:27 AM
1

as much as you can manage to devote. i am stressed out if i have more than 2 dates in a week. but i know guys who have dates almost every day
/r/seduction17/05/19 07:34 AM
2

depending on the girl you are talking to "man" works fine. gives a first impression that you don't take her too seriously
/r/seduction15/05/19 12:25 PM
0

stop texting. start meeting
/r/seduction15/05/19 12:08 PM
1

don't fuck the company
/r/seduction15/05/19 12:02 PM
3

there are boys who enjoy needy girls and vice versa. search for a girl who needs a needy man
/r/seduction13/05/19 09:09 AM
1

nothing then....
/r/seduction09/05/19 08:39 AM
1

sounds crazy. maybe too crazy
/r/seduction08/05/19 08:16 AM
1

i did also. we don't hang out from time to time. things were ok after that. the point is: it's not that it's going to be bad. but there is a chance that your career could suffer from having the urge to smash. a risk someone shouldn't take
/r/seduction07/05/19 03:12 PM
10

don't fuck the company
/r/seduction07/05/19 11:00 AM
2

i have to cite myself. do what feels natural to you. you don't have to bang different chicks every night. why do something that doesn't make you happy. maybe it's just that these are different women? try to find one girl you can have sex more often. something like a casual relationship?
/r/seduction06/05/19 09:15 AM
2

nope. but i would ask yourself if this gross feeling is coming from society or yourself? because basically you're just satisfying sexual needs. there is no reason to feel bad about that
/r/seduction06/05/19 09:08 AM
1

do what feels natural to you. sex drive can vary. i feel stressed if i have to deal with more then 3 women over a few weeks.
/r/seduction06/05/19 08:30 AM
1

similiar situation here. had a few months where i was going home every night with either making out, banging or just exchanging phone numbers. but when i'm sober it's like the handbrake is tightened. that's why i quit drinking and started to go out sober. still very weird, but i'm making progress.
/r/seduction06/05/19 08:28 AM
1

what i read in your post: and that maybe just me. but i personally don't like girls who are completely dependent on me. i mean the person get's completely uninteresting, when she got no life on her own
/r/seduction05/05/19 10:12 AM
2

and that's why you never fuck the company or even try to fuck the company
/r/seduction30/04/19 11:17 AM
2

depends on whether you're ejaculating sugar?
/r/seduction30/04/19 07:23 AM
2

2 thoughts: stop watching porn. i don't know whether you do. but if you do. stop it. reframe your understanding of sex. i always have problems the few first times. mostly because the intimacy isn't there yet. what really helps is just doing her oral or stuff like that. you can take it slow and still have a great experience with each other. there will be a point at which your desire for her just toggle off your thoughts. and then you just have sex like you only could imagine
/r/seduction29/04/19 07:23 PM
1

sometimes you have to jump into the water to learn swimming or get thrown into it
/r/seduction28/04/19 10:53 AM
-7

sounds like she need "brute force"
/r/seduction28/04/19 01:03 AM
3

sounds more like this guy is a bit frustrated
/r/seduction22/04/19 09:24 AM
3

let it cool off. ask her out (but without making her feel you just want to get her giving head) then escalate. when it comes to a sexual situation she will do what she wants to do.
/r/seduction16/04/19 12:15 PM
1

why does your age matter? just go out and have some fun. it doesn't matter that much whether she's 10 years younger or 10 years older. same rules apply
/r/seduction15/04/19 09:22 AM
5

heck. it's absolutely ok to ask. you don't know his intentions. you know what you want. either he's in or not. of course you should talk about the boundaries of your relationship.
/r/seduction15/04/19 08:49 AM
1

as soon as i stop watching porn/masturbate i'm hungry. less in a " i am so desperate" but more in a " i got to talk to this girl". and this hunger makes me in a non-creepy way to just get what i want. it helps being more "alpha"
/r/seduction05/04/19 07:48 AM
1

one of the things which always worked for me: - i don't care for her name. i don't ask for her name. i just talk to her - if we don't vibe with each other i leave. i got better things to do then working on a girl i don't have things in common. - body language is king: strong eye contact. body directed to her. i am not scared of having eye contact with her
/r/seduction02/04/19 12:11 PM
2

i want to live in a world based on trust and love. so i am not taking part in anything which destroys trust. there are enough girls that are single and no one is harmed through sleeping with each other
/r/seduction02/04/19 12:04 PM
1

sounds good, if you're acting based on your own values. don't try to be nice to get laid
/r/seduction27/03/19 09:38 AM
1

nevermind. i was juding from my own perspective. do your thing if you have fun doing it
/r/seduction19/03/19 11:31 AM
2

i don't even know what to say but the first thing which came to my mind was: GET A LIFE
/r/seduction19/03/19 10:59 AM
18

first of all i would drop this whole rating metric BS
/r/seduction17/03/19 04:55 PM
2

what exactly is your question?
/r/seduction12/03/19 11:13 AM
1

what about bald headed guys?
/r/seduction11/03/19 01:57 PM
2

after reading the description of yourself it sounds like your playing too hard by the books. girls can smell this shit.
/r/seduction11/03/19 01:56 PM
2

at clubbing, duh?
/r/seduction11/03/19 07:56 AM
4

oh...so she's like 3 years older than you with her 22 years and already judgy. fuck her brain out for me :)
/r/seduction07/03/19 02:49 PM
1

i guess you should talk to a therapist
/r/seduction07/03/19 02:43 PM
3

how old was she?
/r/seduction07/03/19 02:41 PM
2

"Hey {name}. are you still living in {city}? i transfered back home and would like to drink a {drink} with you :)"
/r/seduction07/03/19 11:10 AM
3

greenlight to initiate an intercation? yes! but depending on the quality of intercation you give her it could make them want you to leave pretty quick
/r/seduction06/03/19 09:05 AM
2

so you already hung out and decided to have a fwb? in that case: relax. just ask her if she wants to hang out, netflix, have a beer or whatever. she will know what's up
/r/seduction05/03/19 12:44 PM
4

during reading the first half i was waiting for a plottwist where both became best friends or /r/SuddenlyGay
/r/seduction05/03/19 10:37 AM
1

i can relate. i don't go out and do day approach or stuff like that. i don't have time for that. but when i go out with friends to have a good time it's just working. i don't need to try getting to know somebody. it just happens.
/r/seduction05/03/19 07:50 AM
11

so what's that shit got to do with seduction? edit: don't get me wrong. your post maybe good advice for being an alpha in gang-wars situations. but if you ask me: i don't know any woman who wants to be part of a war or needs a man who attracts trouble.
/r/seduction05/03/19 07:46 AM
2

i don't understand your problem. you obviously have no intention in picking up. why should you pressure yourself? i like soccer but i am not going to hit every ball which crosses my way ​
/r/seduction04/03/19 08:25 AM
1

do what you normally do. ask qeuestions, listen to their shit. react. show empathy. pretend you're one of them (lol) or you could really use that social proof to approach another girl in the bar
/r/seduction01/03/19 10:30 AM
3

you have to disconnect your self esteem from sex. i know it's hard, but you're not a better person because you have sex or because girls are interested in you. try to love yourself for who you are, and don't think about fucking when you get aquainted with a girl.
/r/seduction01/03/19 09:16 AM
1

well done. act and behave they way you're comfortable. it that's talking about her inability to joke around it's fine. you will get to know her better. :)
/r/seduction01/03/19 09:12 AM
1

yeah me neither. i had the feeling that this young girls don't know what to say because they don't even know anything about themselves or life. it's like talking to a wall or stuff. older girls have some edges and seen stuff. you can actually have a decent conversation
/r/seduction27/02/19 12:06 PM
3

i (29) wouldn't call me experienced but i had the impression that older girls are way better to approach
/r/seduction27/02/19 11:57 AM
3

i made the experience: either i win this thing in the first few minutes or not. so when i talk to her and she's absolutely not interested i won't convert her to being interested. and i'm not talking about a verbal not interested but more aber her body language, eye contact and the amount of laughs i can give her. ​
/r/seduction25/02/19 03:11 PM
4

i am not even sure whether you realize the meaning of your own words? ​ "HOW DO I SEDUCE LESBIANS?" ​
/r/seduction25/02/19 03:04 PM
1

not only with girls. every person gets tired of investing time/emotions and not getting anything in return
/r/seduction25/02/19 10:49 AM
8

sneaky. i like that :)
/r/seduction23/02/19 10:57 AM
-1

you know where she lives? go to her place oh and. how old are you?
/r/seduction22/02/19 03:45 PM
1

how old are girls in college normally? starting at 19? jesus. fuck the shit ouf their brains.
/r/seduction21/02/19 09:53 AM
4

this is really strange. it all is reasonable what happens until the point where you start to let that thing scratch your self esteem. just stop it. remember that you are making the choice. you gave them the freedom to find something emotional serious in another person. it's your action, and their reaction.
/r/seduction21/02/19 08:39 AM
1

TheRapist. hehe
/r/seduction21/02/19 08:34 AM
6

there are several things which makes tinder inferior to "real-life" dating: as an average looking man you only have a few pics. you can't really show what's your voice is, how you talk, walk. or your humour. all things which are a big part of attractiveness girls on tinder mostly use it for their own ego. ​ talk to girls in person. faster and better results. less time wasting on BS
/r/seduction19/02/19 03:49 PM
2

it's not that i want to know how girls get a man. i want to complement my understanding i get from this sub with other sources about the emotional nature of a woman.
/r/seduction19/02/19 02:11 PM
2

i know this may sound strange but do you know any subreddits i can read this whole seduction/romance stuff from a female perspective?
/r/seduction19/02/19 08:55 AM
4

depends on whether you let that beeing a shit test. a girl said this to me that i'm a really nice respectable guy. i said "thank you. i am trying to live by the values which are important to me" we ended up in bed
/r/seduction19/02/19 08:51 AM
2

as u/robbinh00d said it seems like the joke were too much. in my opinion it's good to have humour but you don't have to be funny on every second, which may seem a little too try hard.
/r/seduction19/02/19 08:47 AM
8

two completely different subs for different phases of a relationship. don't see your point without you making your statement more specific
/r/seduction18/02/19 11:51 AM
1

I had enough sex to tell that it doesn't benefit my life anymore to have meaningless sex. It benefits me when I see an interesting girl but not going out for the numbers or stuff like that. I got more important stuff to do
/r/seduction18/02/19 06:48 AM
5

thank you for this extensive explanation. i guess you're right. i fucked up with not being completely clear on an emotional level and tried to fix it with that explanation, which lead to a slightly loss of frame. lucky me it didn't ruin anything :)
/r/seduction16/02/19 02:39 PM
2

It seems like you're seeking advice in the wrong community. You sound like it's more important to you to being a good friend to her instead of smashing her. Don't try to use her vulnerability for some shady sex approach. JUST DON'T
/r/seduction16/02/19 09:51 AM
6

or she wants one of your kidneys
/r/seduction15/02/19 09:25 AM
1

don't try in two weeks. she said she's busy. fine. she's gonna reschedule, if she wants
/r/seduction14/02/19 03:32 PM
1

it's confusing what has happened and not happend. but write her that you would love to go out with her and that's it. either she want's to go out or not. in both cases forget her and live your life
/r/seduction14/02/19 03:30 PM
3

she has a relationship and doesn't react to your "game". leave her alone
/r/seduction14/02/19 03:26 PM
3

you sir have very noble motives. i can understand her for not letting you fuck her
/r/seduction14/02/19 02:49 PM
5

where exactly is the problem?
/r/seduction12/02/19 10:07 AM
1

RRR Dnt understand a Wo R d
/r/seduction12/02/19 08:27 AM
5

work on yourself and become more attractive. attractive is just to an extend not changeable. but your behavior is.
/r/seduction11/02/19 08:58 AM
3

some girls are looking at your lips because it's easier then starring straight into the eyes. AND sometimes when it's loud around you it's easier to understand the other person when you look at the lips.
/r/seduction10/02/19 09:17 PM
6

4-5 inches are like 12 cm or something like that? what do you need more for?
/r/seduction08/02/19 02:41 PM
2

i wait and find out if she makes eye contact several times. to make sure it wasn't by accident. after that smile. approach. throw something in her face, nothing sharp of course
/r/seduction07/02/19 11:52 AM
3

it's really great that you go out alone and approach so many people. but there is one thing which came to my mind when reading this: did you have fun? reading this it doesn't seem so
/r/seduction07/02/19 11:51 AM
1

that's actually a very polite way of saying: /r/deardiary
/r/seduction07/02/19 09:46 AM
8

the times were i had a good sexual tension with an older girl, was when i treated her like a "normal" girl. forget about her age. just have a good time. tease her a little. make jokes. stuff like that
/r/seduction06/02/19 10:10 AM
2

befriend girls which are in relationship. or better befriend couples ;)
/r/seduction05/02/19 08:45 AM
1

ask her out. i think you reached a point where you guys have enough attraction to each other to have dates. i guess it's obvious that she wouldn't fuck you when she's currently on work
/r/seduction04/02/19 03:21 PM
4

i only can upvote this one. just because you can fuck a person who is in relationship, doesn't mean you have to. respect other relationsships like you respect yourself and your values
/r/seduction04/02/19 03:19 PM
2

i wouldn't let her distract me by the folded arms. you guys must be standing close to each other to touch her back. is she trying to create distance after that? is her behaviour starting to be different? watch her facial expressions and the proximity she wants to have.
/r/seduction04/02/19 03:12 PM
1

i wouldn't even do this shit. no time for that
/r/seduction31/01/19 08:07 AM
2

don't fuck the company
/r/seduction31/01/19 07:59 AM
2

work on yourself.
/r/seduction30/01/19 10:43 AM
2

try to escalate. meet other women. work out
/r/seduction28/01/19 03:12 PM
1

what exactly is your goal?
/r/seduction28/01/19 02:16 PM
2

Sex is meaningless if you don't have a partner your connecting with. Love is the most important thing
/r/seduction24/01/19 09:27 AM
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pay for a prostitute
/r/seduction23/01/19 06:57 PM
2

thinking about your sweet ass. :x
/r/seduction22/01/19 02:56 PM
3

so you're one of those homophobes whose masculinity is endangered?
/r/seduction22/01/19 02:42 PM
1

your style maybe on point so gay people may hit on you. i would take it as a compliment. ​ BUT there maybe a scenario where you're emitting this feminim-gay type that they want to fuck you....
/r/seduction22/01/19 02:02 PM
4

why?
/r/seduction22/01/19 02:00 PM
1

you should watch how the chemistry is flowing. i think i you really have a good date, you could kiss her. but i also had dates where we didn't kiss. but kissed on the second date
/r/seduction22/01/19 09:25 AM
1

so what exactly is the question? shave your head and don't give a fuck
/r/seduction22/01/19 09:22 AM
1

you're right expectations are always the things that hurt us. but they are important in my eyes. if i have a plan for my life i am asking myself whether this thing/person is contributing to my plan or even setting me back. casual fuckery is setting me back (in my opinion) that's why i'm evaluating the situation. i think i will give this thing a few more weeks. by then she should know me enough to know whether she wants to be part of the plan or not.
/r/seduction21/01/19 02:50 PM
1

i have a friend which could be seen as a fwb but she's living in another city. so nothing regular
/r/seduction21/01/19 02:25 PM
1

ok. that's another motivation to have a LTR which indeed has some lack of personal maturity. ​
/r/seduction21/01/19 10:59 AM
3

let's pretend you have a one or more girls your hanging around with. then you get to know this new chick. which you like. BUT It's not a FUCK-YES RIGHT NOW because you a) don't know her long enough to make this decision and b) it's a hard decision whether you are ready to give up your already awesome single life with the other girls for this girl. what do you do?
/r/seduction21/01/19 10:56 AM
1

why do you think that having a ltr is low value? and how old are you?
/r/seduction21/01/19 10:40 AM
1

the issue is that these 2 theories contradict itself and would lead to different behaviours. both theories are heavily recommended in this sub
/r/seduction21/01/19 09:09 AM
1

i heard stories about girls being "formed" during their first relationship. don't screw that up. we have enough people on earth with trust issues and insecurities
/r/seduction11/01/19 06:06 AM
1

didn't offern alternative yet, but is still very chatty. she actually has to fly to another city for a few days. that's why she cancelled our date. guess she will talk about it after her trip. btw. it would have been our 4th date. so i guess it's all good yeah the one-itus is a motherfucker though :D
/r/seduction10/01/19 05:04 PM
0

ask if she needs something to be fixed? her car? or other stuff
/r/seduction10/01/19 09:12 AM
8

but it's a good state to get to know people which seems like one of the main aspects of this sub.
/r/seduction09/01/19 07:53 AM
3

then you're an autistic dude who will overcome his making eye contact issues
/r/seduction08/01/19 03:35 PM
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