I made the most beta move in my existence.

SocialReject101 · 2019-04-29T21:18:47+00:00

Next time when you have a party bring some random chick preferably a date and ignore your coworker as a woman. View her as a friend. Be polite if ypu both talk but mostly concentrate on date. If you can make it happen, do it. She will soon forget your beta mishap.

getyourlifeplease · 2019-04-29T21:32:48+00:00

I most definitely would apologize to her and own what happened - whether you do that in person or in writing is up to you. When at events with coworkers, make sure you taper your alcohol intake. Remember...people talk and they will talk about YOU if you give em a reason to. So dont give em a reason! As for further events, I mean, I would lay low for a bit if I were you (if they even invite you).

f9RfsR · 2019-04-30T11:17:00+00:00

and that's why you never fuck the company or even try to fuck the company

mt_erebus · 2019-04-30T06:42:25+00:00

Since she's your coworker and you'll see her often, you should be honest with her if things are still awkward between you two. Just apologize and say that you'll work on your behaviour. This is a beta move but more importantly it's your workplace

Vainilla2019 · 2019-05-01T14:02:20+00:00

you are still alive, anything else is secondary, go home and think about it, nothing is so terrible.

RussianFakeNewsBot · 2019-05-01T21:39:56+00:00

Shit that's pretty bad. I'd be mortified.

At the end of the day you were drunk so you've got an excuse, people forget things quickly and people do give extra leeway in social interactions when people are drunk.

Just act normal at work, don't get so pissed again on a work night out. Also you need to look at why you made such a big move for this woman, it was bold but it had no subtlety and probably came out of nowhere.

Title	I made the most beta move in my existence.
Author	okabekudo
Upvotes	14
Comments	17
Date	April 29, 2019 9:10 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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