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| 1 | "Vulnerability" + "Strength"This applies great to when you meet a girl you like a lot that you really want a relationship with. A lot of people (due to being hurt in the past) avoid being vulnerable and try to protect themselves from getting hurt/disapointment. This is BULLSHIT, you have to go into it with all of your heart - make yourself vulnerable and in a position where you could get very badly hurt. That's the only way you'll enter into a great relationship. In being strong, it means accepting reality if it doesn't go… | /r/seduction | 21/03/16 09:33 PM |
| 1 | [CAPS LOCK GUY] First date tomorrow, should I pick her up and drop her off? (or meet her there?)Thanks dude, was thinking a long these lines... and then I can come pick her up if she agrees to a second date and won't have to ask for the address. | /r/seduction | 15/02/16 02:58 PM |
| 3 | Seddit, I need your help. This hard 1-itis is fucking me up and nothing I do now seems to make sense. Please, guide me.Meet more girls! Approach more. Begin dating multiple girls at once. I'm relatively new to this, but it's so simple. Once you're dating multiple girls and have 'abundance' and have a few potential girlfriends, you won't feel the need to play silly games and consciously think whether or not you're texting them too much (because consciously deciding to wait 3 days not to appear needy is still reacting to them). If you date multiple girls (which is completely fine, you're just friends with them the… | /r/seduction | 17/12/15 10:46 PM |
| 1 | I'M GOING TO DO 100 APPROACHES IN A WEEK [CAPS LOCK GUY]Great idea, changed it | /r/seduction | 17/12/15 05:35 PM |
| 2 | FUCK EVERYTHING, I'M GOING TO GO APPROACH A BEAUTIFUL GIRL RIGHT NOW, I DON'T CARE THE RESPONSEI was alone | /r/seduction | 28/11/15 04:24 PM |
| 2 | Day 5 of approaching (fighting self-pity, and mental mind games)I was so nervous/anxious just a week ago and too busy looking at the ground when I walked past people that I never realized other people were doing it too. When I say 'hi' I think people just don't expect it and it catches them off guard. I said hi to a lady, and it took her 5 seconds when I had already passed her to reply back. Other guys just nod their head awkwardly, its really quite funny. | /r/seduction | 31/10/15 07:19 AM |
| 1 | Day 5 of approaching (fighting self-pity, and mental mind games)Thanks, I'm really trying to learn from negative feedback, feeling a lot better this morning. Today is a new day. | /r/seduction | 31/10/15 07:17 AM |
| 2 | Day 5 of approaching (fighting self-pity, and mental mind games)I hope so. Got home tonight and really wanted to jack off to some porn. Going to try and stick with it and hope that tomorrow is better (without wanting to contradict the notion of outcome independence). This is a huge mind fuck. | /r/seduction | 30/10/15 10:18 PM |
| 2 | Day 5 of approaching (fighting self-pity, and mental mind games)Yeah a lot of horniness, currently on nofap - don't want to debate whether or not it works. It's had some pros and cons with pick-up. On one hand, I would never had that balls to approach in the first place - it's definitely forced me to get out of my comfort zone and get started, however it's hard to remain outcome independent because I want to get laid so bad. | /r/seduction | 30/10/15 10:02 PM |
| 2 | DAY 4 OF APPROACHING (caps lock guy)Thanks man | /r/seduction | 30/10/15 07:49 AM |
| 2 | DAY 4 OF APPROACHING (caps lock guy)Do it. I expect to hear back from you. | /r/seduction | 30/10/15 07:49 AM |
| 3 | DAY 4 OF APPROACHING (caps lock guy)I know, it's a problem I've had for so many years. It's really hard to get rid of, but I'm trying. | /r/seduction | 30/10/15 07:49 AM |
| 2 | DAY 4 OF APPROACHING (caps lock guy)Thanks, I will do! | /r/seduction | 30/10/15 07:48 AM |
| 2 | Did 5 approaches todayThanks dude. Goal today is to have longer conversations and try and get numbers. Asking for numbers, not necessarily getting, is what will make today a success. | /r/seduction | 29/10/15 07:59 AM |
| 8 | Did 5 approaches todayI'm not light years a head of you, I'm 72 hours ahead of you. The thought of approaching a random girl 72 hours ago made me physically sick. It's all a mind game, realize that it's just some useless biological impulse making you feel this way and make the decision to break past it, regardless of the outcome. Once you've done the first approach, there's nothing stopping you from going out every day and doing multiple approaches. | /r/seduction | 29/10/15 07:58 AM |
| 2 | Did 5 approaches todayThanks, the problem of rationalizations still hasn't gone away, but when you're aware that that's what you're doing, it becomes a lot easier to break past it. | /r/seduction | 29/10/15 07:54 AM |
| 1 | Did 5 approaches todayThanks man! | /r/seduction | 29/10/15 07:54 AM |
| 5 | Did 5 approaches todayWent through months of constant misery over the summer, not sure whether I had genuine depression so I'm not telling you that you can just 'snap' out of it because I probably have no idea what you're going through, but there comes a point where you have to just go out and spend the day being as productive as you can - working on things you enjoy, exercising and reading a lot. Personally, I found that my mood began to improve when I tried to remove as many short term pleasures from my life as pos… | /r/seduction | 29/10/15 07:53 AM |
| 2 | Did 5 approaches todayFair question, got week off work this week, (9 days) so my goal was to devote this time to trying to conquer my approach anxiety | /r/seduction | 29/10/15 07:44 AM |
| 1 | I did it guysCongrats mate, well done | /r/seduction | 27/10/15 08:37 PM |
| 2 | FUCK EVERYTHING, I'M GOING TO GO APPROACH A BEAUTIFUL GIRL RIGHT NOW, I DON'T CARE THE RESPONSEReally spent a good five minutes telling myself "I don't care about the result, success is just doing it". Even if it had gone really bad I think I would have still felt better than if I hadn't done it. | /r/seduction | 26/10/15 09:42 PM |
| 10 | FUCK EVERYTHING, I'M GOING TO GO APPROACH A BEAUTIFUL GIRL RIGHT NOW, I DON'T CARE THE RESPONSENot sure what people here think of that tyler rsd guy, but download the audio of this video to your phone and listen to it just before you approach, huge motivation to just get it done https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vANoZUa5dJk | /r/seduction | 26/10/15 09:23 PM |
| 11 | FUCK EVERYTHING, I'M GOING TO GO APPROACH A BEAUTIFUL GIRL RIGHT NOW, I DON'T CARE THE RESPONSEThanks dude | /r/seduction | 26/10/15 08:04 PM |
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