Made this thread: https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/3qavq7/fuck_everything_im_going_to_go_approach_a/
I was tired of being too scared to approach, after days of lame shit like asking girls for the time etc.
Went out today and approached twice more, one was similiar to yesterday except that she was across the street from me so I ran straight over and approached with a similiar opener to yesterday. She smiled and said thanks, asked her what her name was, introduced myself 'nice to meet you etc' all that bullshit, kept it short and then left. So added a little bit extra on from yesterday.
Other girl I approached opened more casually, didn't call her gorgeous lol (cringe). Got into a short conversation with her for 1 to 2 minutes, she was really attractive, and it just went good, wasn't awkward or cringey at all. Regret not asking for her number, but I'll have the confidence to do that eventually.
To any guy who is in the same position that I was yesterday, just fucking do it, stop rationalizing, stop judging yourself. Without wanting to regurgitate an RSD phrase book, be outcome independent and remove ego. Success is not determined by the outcome, success is determined by whether or not you did it. The fear of approach is completely biological, if you want to improve yourself and live the life you want, don't think... just go for it.
The first approach that I did (yesterday) was the hardest, the second and third (today) felt magnitudes easier.
I'm still a complete noobie, so I don't want to come across as feeling like I know what the fuck I'm talking about when giving advice, I'm just giving you my experience and telling you what worked for me.
Download some RSD motivation videos off youtube to your phone, listen to them while walking the streets to get pumped up, take out your headphones and go approach the first girl you find attractive.
tl;dr STOP OVER THINKING JUST DO IT
Also thanks for all the support and kind comments yesterday, really gave me more motivation today.
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