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Teasing and disqualifying are totally different. You shouldn't look at either as "a trick" because they are both important parts of being an all around quality person. Teasing is there so you don't bore yourself, or the people around you. Agreeing with everything is very boring. Teasing, playful disagreements, challenging people, playful deception, etc. are good ways to just have a dynamic conversation and make strong impressions towards the people you meet. I did see disqualification as a trick…
/r/seduction19/04/20 01:25 AM
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Valuable people are hard to find. Men or women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 12:54 AM
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Honestly though, if I got the bad end of the genetic lottery, I would consider going MGTOW based on the current dating atmosphere and just focus on making good friends, staying healthy, getting super involved in a hobby/community and getting rich. People always say just walk away from the weird FDS-esque/feminazi ones, but they are not considering the numbers associated with that. A socially active good looking guy will wait a month or two tops before he gets another shot, but a less attractive …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 03:45 PM
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Actually that's not how it works in dating. If you meet a girl and you have always paid for everything. There is a chance the she is just seeing you for the money. A decent girl will offer to pay for your drink/food as a way to communicate to you that she doesn't want you just for your money. This happens frequently. This even work for friends. If you treat your friends out, a decent friend will tell you that he's got the next round or that he will treat you out next time. It's not about the mon…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 10:33 AM
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It’s probably because you are a software engineer. Stuck behind a cubicle and all your co-workers are probably not the most social, so you have less chances to meet people. So it can one of two things. First it’s meeting issue. Do you meet enough people? If not then get yourself out there. Second, is it a personality issue? If you meet a lot of people but they don’t click, then it might be you who is the problem. It’s really not that hard to connect with someone if there is physical attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 06:55 AM
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The devil is in the details. I’ll give you two scenarios. First is the most common scenario. The guy prefers to lay on the couch. He gets laid regularly so he doesn’t care. He’s mostly plays games watches tv all day while housework piles up. His wife complains AND THEN he does the work. Second scenario is more common in productive partnerships. Guy and girl has an agreement to keep the house clean. Each of them is held accountable to do their part. Guy does his part, and girl reminds him when he…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 06:40 AM
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Only if you do it in the butt because everyone knows that doesn’t count. Christians that are low-key sluts taught us that a long time ago.
/r/seduction15/04/20 06:26 AM
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Eye contact is VERY important. This is actually a huge factor in rehabilitating people who have disorders like Asperger's or Autism because their brain does not function in a way that allows them to naturally seek eye contacts. This can also be a sign of being socially inept. Here is an example of a person with an eye contact deficit. (Child is on the ASD spectrum) Most socially awkward people are most like this type which is my eye contact aversion due to lack of social exposure seen a lot in g…
/r/seduction14/04/20 03:23 PM
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Lmao I too would like to know her answer to this.
/r/seduction14/04/20 03:08 PM
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OP: "Reddit's upvote system gets bullshit posts the most upvotes." Reddit: Gives OP's post lots of upvotes. OP: "You mother******"
/r/seduction14/04/20 03:00 PM
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I retain pretty much everything except you don't pull the trigger. You just sit back, relax and don't escalate. That's essentially how you get female friends. And this is harder than you think because a good amount of these women are naturally flirtatious. This becomes useful when you are dealing with married women at work because it helps you build business connection and you build clout. Imagine you are both alone at a VIP booth after a work party and she is drunk. She's sitting close, extreme…
/r/seduction14/04/20 02:51 PM
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Friend: Why are you dating her? Me: She's got a big dick Friend: ??????
/r/seduction14/04/20 02:17 PM
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Yup girl has legit dig bick energy.
/r/seduction14/04/20 12:55 PM
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True but you want to actively minimize the stress in the social support system with your existing regulations. You don’t want it to be the default destination of the majority of cases especially if it’s just mostly exploited by “societal leeches.” A good example would be how some women exploit the child support system by having a bunch of baby daddies. You don’t want a bunch of dudes not giving a fuck about who they get pregnant because getting a paper abortion is so easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 12:31 PM
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Hold eye contact during conversations. Don’t over do it bro. I get that you just learned that it works, but don’t go fucking crazy with it. It comes naturally. Having casual conversation with anyone you’ll end up holding eye contact 30% of the time. Then when the conversation is more intimate you will feel the inclination to hold it longer. There is a sweet spot. The reason this taught to guys starting out is because lack of eye contact honestly looks pathological as in you look like you have so…
/r/seduction14/04/20 11:55 AM
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I think paper abortion should be treated like divorce. If given away willy-nilly this can honestly destroy society because there are many guys out there who would take advantage of the system. If you were to simulate what would happen, this would cause a large number of women ending up unsupported, pregnant and unable to work. The guy on the other hand suffers no repercussion whatsoever. Yes it’s her choice but a lot of women who get accidental pregnancy are young and stupid. One young stupid gi…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 11:41 AM
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K
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 04:47 AM
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I think you misunderstood. Beautiful women have the best dating strategy to weed out low value men because of the attention they get. But they definitely do not subscribe to r/femaledatingstrategy ideals because they almost always find a high quality male eventually. A lot of these attractive women have a lot of male and female friends who support them emotionally that they don’t end up with the pessimistic sense of reality as the women on r/fds do. Again the most attractive people are the most …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 04:37 AM
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Not an incel, but I don’t find their plight something to laugh at either. Blocked.
/r/seduction14/04/20 04:20 AM
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You reek of insecurity. But yeah whatever. Goodbye.
/r/seduction14/04/20 04:18 AM
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I’m warning women your advice is going to be subjective to what “you” find attractive...not the general population. Cool I’m sure they will see this comment thread and draw their own opinion. I am what am, nothing I can do about it. Like I said, feel free to judge. I personally find you weird so yeah feeling is mutual. Goodbye.
/r/seduction14/04/20 04:16 AM
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No straight guy would ask something like that. I’m straight, but your statement implies that the opinion of gay or bi-people are less valuable. And yes this was my previous troll/porn account that I used to use for when I was bored. Judge me all you want, I won’t delete those posts.
/r/seduction14/04/20 03:57 AM
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I did mentioned better make up is better make up. More is not better. Better is better. That can range from having very little make up to a good amount of make up depending on the person. Health is too broad of a topic to tackle, all I wanted to mention was the presentability. I do agree about maintaining good health, but I did not intend this to be an exhaustive list. Are you a guy or a girl writing this? I do not agree that you need to put on makeup to attract someone, the only people know who…
/r/seduction14/04/20 03:53 AM
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Care to elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 11:33 PM
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Going back to the origins of blue/red pill, I am the bald kid who'd probably say, "there is no pill." Do not try and swallow the pill, that's impossible. ... there is no pill. Then you will see it is not the pill that is swallowed, it is only yourself. No need to define yourself in some confined definition. The moment you define yourself within the parameters of a label, you just let go of yourself. It mentally primes you to act according to your label as opposed to who you genuinely are. Maybe …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 10:52 PM
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You would think that a girl just needs to be attractive to get guys, but I think what women actually want are higher value males and not your run of the mill average joe. How to attract a quality guy/get his attention. Be presentable - Guys are very shallow during the early dating process. Learn how to put on make up properly. More does not mean better, better make up is better. Dress suggestively not slutty. Never just be slutty. i.e. be cute and sexy, classy and sexy, formal and sexy. Never ju…
/r/seduction13/04/20 10:04 PM
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FDS is a minority. They are either bottom of the barrel types who have no options or they have been emotionally abused by men that they genuinely can't help but protect themselves and have fell down the rabbit hole of bad coping mechanism. You don't want to associated with either. Attractive women are highly unlikely to be FDS since they usually get positive attention from everyone. First girl just sounded drunk af. Second girl is just not interested. Third one mostly likely has abandonment issu…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 09:13 PM
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Any guy will naturally try to go for the hottest girl he can get his hands on. Contrary to general assumptions, women take a good amount of initiative when it comes to choosing partners. It's not just the guy who makes moves. Women don't just stand there waiting to get swept off their feet especially today. They often make themselves more available to guys they like and they give them more chances. With this in mind, the dating market pretty much determines whether you are low-tier or high-tier …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 08:22 PM
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I consider myself a "High Value Male" and I think the incorrect mentality is trying to live up to someone else's standards, in this case FDS standards. In fact, I think any high value person should not live up to anyone else's standards other than themselves. This doesn't you blind yourself to outside feedback, but you will want to be very selective of who you consider someone who is worth listening to. That being said a huge part of being a HVM is genetics and social status. These are due to th…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 08:04 PM
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I think this is a false dichotomy. Both you and OP can be correct. Personally speaking, I communicate primarily through body language and action. I don't like to talk much before doing something. That being said I express my interest through words if I feel like it. People are rarely all action and rare all talk, so the notion that one or the other is better is not useful. I think it's a matter of how one expresses himself. A confident guy is not afraid to express himself THE WAY HE WANTS to exp…
/r/seduction13/04/20 07:46 PM
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Don’t over think. Focus on showing her a good time. Do things like plan flirty games like drinking games, mind games etc. Find out about thing her and have her find out about you. Putting her in a fun relaxed mood facilitates the environment to be playful and sexual. That’s being said, the fact that she’s coming over pretty much means her intentions are most likely physical so don’t stress.
/r/seduction05/04/20 05:53 PM
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I personally think confidence is overrated. That said, I’ve always been confident. Never even came close to being depressed. I always believed in myself. Looking at what contributed to my success, I don’t think it’s the confidence that the key but taking action. I’ve met so many confident people that didn’t do shit and stayed in one place. On the other hand, I’ve met people who always had emotional problems, always depressed and doubted themselves every step of the way. Seeing this struggle, I a…
/r/seduction05/04/20 05:43 PM
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This is why you don’t just talk to girls you want to date. The more girls you the more ad space you have out there. Consider it free advertisement when you have female friends. Like I keep telling everyone, build your connections. Make meaningful relationships that don’t just end in a lay. It will help you get laid, help bring you higher quality dates, help you get jobs and meet people who may change your life. That being said be very selective. Do not waste time on superficial people who are ju…
/r/seduction05/04/20 03:39 PM
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So is that a hard pass on Henry Cavill? (40+ with hairy chest) EDIT: correction 36
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 03:33 PM
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I just want to add that I appreciate this sub for having genuinely interesting posts like this. Most posts like these on other subs are always loaded and simply aim to shame other people but I feel like PPD subscribers genuinely want better understanding. This is what r/unpopularopinion could have been with better moderation and better subscriber base. PPD is definitely starting to get up there with CMV. Just my 2 cents
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 03:27 PM
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It’s not the complete it opposite. The first part of my reply just shows how arduous the process is. Women have to go through heaven and hell to look hot and “hold out,” guys have to go through heaven and hell to get the girls attention and get the women to risk it, but in the end it all evens out and I’ll show you how. Guys usually go for whatever they can find, but women will hold out for the best possible guy. In evolutionary science, this is also seen in other polygamous species in order to …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 07:58 AM
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Are you saying all attractive women are bitchy and have whipped husbands? Lol Here is your answer which is exactly what I wrote earlier. It just so happens that the power dynamic between an attractive and less attractive person is skewed. The more attractive person has more leeway to act bitchy or indifferent. Since most marriages happen when the guy feel like they caught an attractive girl, you see the bitchy wife whipped husband scenario commonly. If it was the other way around, the guy just m…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 04:30 PM
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All the time. Me growing up, I hung out with friends that were very good looking. I am not too far from the looks stand point, but these guys were essentially the school crush. Every girl talks to them and fantasizes about them, yet I always get the girl. They just stood there looking pretty while I got laid. The reason is this. If a guy is so attractive and too difficult to deal with, another guy who is still her type but better adjusted will swoop in and take that. You don’t need to be extreme…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 06:46 AM
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In college the majority of guys hanging out with girls are not fucking. The hot girls you see usually have attractive boyfriends who don’t go to the same campus. I know because I used to pick up girls on college campuses and it was easiest thing ever. This is why you usually see the really hot girls don’t associate with the rest of the class that much. They are surrounded by average guys who stalk them and bother the shit out of them. They are cool hanging out but they won’t put out just because…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 06:36 AM
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This is a common misattribution error. For example, why are many married women bitchy to their husbands? Do you think guys are attracted to bitchy women? Not really. It just so happens that the power dynamic between an attractive and less attractive person is skewed. The more attractive person has more leeway to act bitchy or indifferent. Since most marriages happen when the guy feel like they caught an attractive girl, you see the bitchy wife whipped husband scenario commonly. If it was the oth…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 06:11 AM
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You afraid to smoke weed because it's illegal? Afraid to jaywalk? Curse in Sunday School? Some laws are about minor things, just anal restrictions on civil liberties, with minimal enforcement or consequences if you're not a complete dumbass about it. Lol weed's not even illegal. The rest of that is just lame attempt at straw man. Unless you have a frame of "spineless coward to rules authority", it's not some huge risk you'd need to be desperate to take. It's a minor thing you could do if you wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 07:57 PM
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I personally find paying for sex really boring and not worth the risk nor the expense. The thrill of dating a new girl, the mind games you play, the new things you discover about yourself, and most importantly the status you gain by being able pick up high value women. To have sex with a hooker you have to drive all way to a place were it legal and then pay them and you have to do all over again just to keep getting laid? That’s a horrible exchange rate. When dating women, you need company anywa…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 03:07 PM
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Only desperate men would risk getting thrown in jail to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 02:51 PM
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There are actually a lot of biases. Mere Exposure Effect - Does she look like movie character you like or someone you know? Cultural Standards - What did your culture value? i.e. if girl was brought up in family who values military service, she will find military guys attractive, what your friends swoon over Value Similarity - You are more likely to like someone who value same things you value i.e. you like partying they like partying, you like aggressive girls they like being aggressive. More a…
/r/seduction15/03/20 04:26 AM
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Abundance mentality can only take you so far. If you meet an attractive AND high quality girl, you will know for a fact that they are scarce then that abundance mentality goes out the window. Pride means you have your principles, you believe in them and will stick to them no matter what even if you lose someone high quality. I'm not saying you should only have one mentality in fact you should have both abundance mentality and pride because they are both true and necessary to have self respect an…
/r/seduction15/03/20 04:08 AM
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Pride over pussy. Oftentimes it’s not about getting laid. Its how you get laid. Like if you are given a choice to walk away empty handed or get laid but be disrespected, you walk away. Pride also allows you to resist pulling the trigger too quickly. Men who don’t pull the trigger often do so out of fear of making a mistake. But then again men who don’t have fear pull the trigger too quickly. Men with pride wait until the girl shows enough commitment and desire to move forward that they are willi…
/r/seduction14/03/20 06:24 PM
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Celebrity reporter interactions are awful comparisons. Celebs have maximum status and reporter are just reporters. Also a lot of these interviews are rehearsed to generate maximum publicity. Reporters love it, producers love it because it gets on headlines. Also it's being filmed which has been know to create a huge bias since people are very careful to not show any negativity in fear that they will be chastised especially when faced with a celebrity. Squaring up, eye contact and vocal projectio…
/r/seduction14/03/20 01:09 AM
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I was sick last week and unfortunately wasn't well enough to approach until Thursday. I seriously debated whether or not to go because I didn't want to get anyone sick, but I felt I was just making excuses so I did it. Relevant
/r/seduction09/03/20 06:03 AM
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If I were to rate myself based on the girls I'm landing easily, I'd be an 8. Usually if you can land 7s easily that means you are above that rating. I see 8s are attracted to me, but I need to put in a good amount of work since they know they have a chance to get a 9. Studies show people often usually end up with the people who are the same attractiveness ratio as them. Discovery Channel did an interesting experiment where people had numbers on their heads. Their goal was to try to get a partner…
/r/seduction08/03/20 09:13 AM
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Cold approaching isn't a Honda with a "For Sale" sign you dingus. Dingus? Am I arguing with a 5 year old? ​ ​ Leonardo DiCaprio got where he is because he busted his ass off, got his status and money so high, he can have any girl he wants. He didn't do that by going out on a Satruday to cold approach 100 women and read books about game. You are making some really bad comparisons. He got to where he is by auditioning. He can be the best actor possible, but if he doesn't audition he won't get part…
/r/seduction07/03/20 08:08 PM
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Lmao you are stressing over the word “put her in her place?” Depending on how she answers I either put her in her place and leave or give her the benefit of the doubt. Hence the phrase “it depends.” It’s one option. You need to be ready to go that far or you are just like every other chump who is afraid to offend her or lose her. Stop this bullshit strawman argument. You fixate on this one word and you attack me on the position I never took. My point is people will step all over you if you let t…
/r/seduction07/03/20 07:30 PM
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And they love it.
/r/seduction07/03/20 10:34 AM
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Your analogy doesn’t work because Leonardo dicarpio is advertised to new women every time his movies are shown on TV. Cold approaching is like a Honda with a “For Sale” sign and being famous is like a Tesla with TV advertising. If you were to make an accurate comparison. A Honda Civic with a for sale sign and the other is an Acura with no for sale sign. Which one do you think will be bought and find results faster. Of course you should improve yourself all you want, but if you have no way to exp…
/r/seduction07/03/20 09:52 AM
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I do the same thing except i don’t go for the date right away, since I don’t even know if I like/respect them. I go through several nonverbal warnings that she is losing my interest. And i just make it clearer and clear before I make it more explicit. Her: Acts annoying Me: I keep going for a bit. Some people are rough around the edges. Her: keeps being uninteresting and low effort Me: Let me ask a bold question, am I missing something here? I’m trying to be accommodating and trying to get to kn…
/r/seduction07/03/20 09:20 AM
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It’s called selfishness. This is not a gender-specific trait.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 09:19 AM
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Please don’t do this. This is how you become some girl’s doormat.
/r/seduction05/03/20 09:04 AM
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He should try to get her to admit it again it through text. NAL, but I think there is a possibility that if he uses that info to show he was tricked that he may be able to reduce or eliminate paying child support.
/r/seduction05/03/20 09:02 AM
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Great, now your workouts are going to be crap.
/r/seduction05/03/20 08:59 AM
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in fact, evolutionary, we are so bad at it That’s a common misconception. We are in fact good at it because the survival of humans dependent on it. I did some undergrad research into cultural psychology, and one of the big factors to humans evolving big brains is to complement social intelligence. Processing social complexities require a lot of mental power. Training yourself to be less socially intelligent is like devolving. Men with high social intelligence gain status, and men with high statu…
/r/seduction05/03/20 08:55 AM
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This is absolutely not true. Women, especially attractive women, play mind games and before and during the relationship. Your mindset will get you straight whipped in a relationship and lose her interest. There no disney princess waiting for you out there. Women, whether good or bad for relationships, respect strong high-value men. But to be honest. A lot of the tips here are crap.
/r/seduction04/03/20 02:55 AM
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This is a good question and a lot of guys don't know that this is their sticking point. That's why a lot of people who approach can only do direct because it's require the least amount of skills. Here are important points Direct you can just keep asking her questions it doesn't matter you maintain it with your vibe and how attractive you are. Indirect you need to transition more naturally or it will just feel weird because it wouldn't make sense why you are continuing your conversation with her.…
/r/seduction03/03/20 06:44 AM
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Sounds like a washed up chola tbh. The 18yo seems to have good taste
/r/seduction02/03/20 07:23 AM
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So how did you know their age?
/r/seduction02/03/20 07:05 AM
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In fairness a 29 yo girl is on her way out and is probably going through some self-esteem issues. She probably has been wanted all her life by everyone regardless of age. Seeing a young 18yo guy not want her number, is like a slap in the face. It's the world telling her that she not the once young and attractive girl, she is now an old used up lady. It's not about the guy, it's about her. That's what the majority of people's actions are, don't take it too personally. Also like the other poster s…
/r/seduction02/03/20 03:47 AM
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Fax closing is for OG slayers.
/r/seduction01/03/20 02:08 PM
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I personally wouldn’t ask it since interrupt the flow for me. For the most part you have to read her body language. If she seems to like something keep doing it. One thing is for sure, in sex, if they like something it will be obvious. If it looks like it’s hurting them or they remain relatively the same for the past 5 minutes, it’s time to change position or switch to kissing/foreplay/finger etc.
/r/seduction29/02/20 01:09 AM
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The bedroom is a sanctuary for me. And it’s a sanctuary because this is where the raw realness of the experience hits both of you. Dude you are fucking naked. She is fucking naked. You can’t hide anything. Don’t bullshit and release your dominant side. I believe this is the reason every woman I have fucked kept wanting more. If you are too afraid to step forward when it’s game time, you will never really be attractive/interesting.
/r/seduction28/02/20 08:14 AM
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I would focus in the conversation. That’s just a weird thing to mention seriously tbh. Here are some my personal rules in compliments: Compliments should be authentic. Give specific compliments Don’t compliment to get something Don’t be a boot licker either Don’t fucking compliment everything
/r/seduction28/02/20 08:08 AM
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All bad.
/r/seduction28/02/20 08:04 AM
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When you can’t figure something out sitting relaxing, there is no way you can do that during an actual approach. You don’t even know if you will need it. Approach first, then think. Also if you are just trying to invite her to the movie, just freaking invite her. You don’t need a technique for that.
/r/seduction28/02/20 07:59 AM
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Short term fail. Long term success. His challenge is an approach a day.
/r/seduction28/02/20 07:57 AM
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This is true. And not a lot of guys are that savy at non verbal cues. Even among those who Are socially savy, a good amount of them are not attractive enough to really excite women. This is just how women are. Humans are serial monogamous in terms of culture, but biologically our brains are wired for polygny where one alpha male is able to bed many women. That’s why women try to go for the unattainable hunk even if there are 10 “good enough” guys going for her. The men who can’t reach the thresh…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 08:14 AM
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That's why you always send a confirmation texts the morning of the date. No answer means no date. If they send you a bullshit excuse, you either don't text them for a few weeks/months or you friend-zone them. For me if it's somewhat a valid excuse, I give them a chance, but with this one I would keep her as a connection (in case she knows people), but won't set up a date with her again there is proof that she is unreliable because my time is valuable . It's also important to stress when you meet…
/r/seduction24/02/20 07:09 AM
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Backstory: I am 18 and am a really new member of this cult , I mean sub... Seeing as to how brainwashed some of the people on here are, you may be on to something here.
/r/seduction24/02/20 06:50 AM
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First off, the dude is wearing a cap, so his hair is not an issue. Also none of that shit is by accident. Tall attractive guy with a well kept beard, well spoken, good fashion and a 500 dollar Bird scooter, cmon. You think some smelly raggedy looking guy would get the same results? I'm all for taking action, but be realistic. Always be ready to approach, but back that up by actually being and looking your best all the time. If you can take 5 seconds to make sure you look presentable then do so.
/r/seduction24/02/20 06:42 AM
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You either have very empty bars, the girls are not hot enough or you are the most attractive guy in your area. So you are telling me that if there is a attractive girl at a bar, you approach her and tell her this "gum joke" that it just gets you into her head despite everything else in the club? Your gum joke is so good that after you leave, while she is being showered by dick all around her, or some new hunk comes over who is exactly her type, or 10 dudes offers her a drink, or her friend tells…
/r/seduction23/02/20 10:10 AM
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XD
/r/seduction23/02/20 09:54 AM
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Yeah for “popular girl” groups you actually don’t want to come off as too try-hard. They’ll just look at you like who tf is this guy. Also some groups are a lot more closed off than others. You need to see if they are out by themselves and interacting with people then they are open. Otherwise for high value good looking groups, you need to know someone to get in or you need to look good with a solid 10 body language and social proof. Solid body language is where it would be weird for them to blo…
/r/seduction22/02/20 08:30 PM
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There are a lot of people out of your league. For example, try going to the middle east. Those women are so out of your league you can’t even see them. That’s in Allah’s league. What about deaf blind women. If you think you can braille the shit out then then you are way in over your head. They’ve can’t even find their league. Most importantly 16 year olds are out of your league.
/r/seduction22/02/20 07:36 PM
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I just say “sorry I didn’t get a confirmation so I scheduled over it. I just assumed you were busy.“ Suggest an alternative time and day and see if they act better. I also confirm the same day so if they cancel last minute, I don’t mess up my schedule. No reply means they are playing games or don’t care or just stupid af. The are all deal breakers for me.
/r/seduction22/02/20 08:57 AM
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A lot of young girls who just broke up, broke up because they want to let go and fuck everything that moves. She’s in that phase. Just move on for now but keep hitting her up. I have a feeling you could end up as a booty call if you play your cards right. Also don’t try to gf this chick. You seem like a cool monogamous dude. Find a nice monogamous loyal girl.
/r/seduction22/02/20 08:48 AM
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Why not just talk to them in class, join clubs, or participate in any extra curricular. Volunteer for anything on campus, you always end up meeting you new people.
/r/seduction22/02/20 08:35 AM
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The condom tip usually shifts around a lot and it desensitizes the most sensitive part which is the head. You don’t want that since you can’t feel anything eventually.
/r/seduction22/02/20 02:42 AM
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It’s actually from your dick getting rubbed too much by the condom. Try pleasure shaped by trojan that has a flared head. Make sure to put lube inside towards the head and outside the condom. It feels like you are actually fucking bare
/r/seduction22/02/20 01:28 AM
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Yeah that’s nothing revolutionary, but the fact that you need to approach thousand if that is even true makes sense since you are probably getting a ton of flakes.
/r/seduction21/02/20 05:54 AM
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If you have a mall, a shopping center, grocery, coffee shops, generals stores are doable. I’ve picked up girls in Walmart and Target at an 80k city. True, best are campuses and highly populous cities to really feel that abundance mindset, but unless you are approaching everyday and direct, you are good to go indirect without much worries. Also driving 2 hours to just chill out and approach women is a really nice and relaxing.
/r/seduction21/02/20 04:33 AM
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You can drive to a nearby city. Any place above 100k population is doable, you just gotta do indirect.
/r/seduction21/02/20 03:35 AM
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Best Inner Game books are books that actually improve your non-game related characteristics i.e. business, health, bodybuilding, music, etc. You could use your time trying to convince yourself you are great or you actually BE great. Great example would be going to the gym vs joining a body positive movement. Both make you feel better about your body but which one is rooted in reality?
/r/seduction21/02/20 03:28 AM
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Then explain, why you think so. Don’t just blurt out some random cliche answer that any lurker can come up with.
/r/seduction21/02/20 03:20 AM
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Yeah that’s a bullshit answer. Don’t talk about what you know nothing about.
/r/seduction21/02/20 03:17 AM
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Agreed. Any guys who approaches regularly will usually say the same thing. You will have to stop them anyways. Stopping allows me to run the first compliance test and filters out those who are too busy or just simply not interested.
/r/seduction21/02/20 01:38 AM
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Okay let’s entertain this idea. I know for a fact that 5 minutes doesn’t get you anything and I’m saying this as a guy who has done HUNDREDS of approaches. Most girls I’ve layed are from cold approaching. Huge majority of flakes are short interactions. You are saying you can get a girl to go out with you within 5 minutes. If that is the case then you just solved one of the biggest problems not just in cold approach but in ALL OF DATING. Why? Because attractive women meet a lot of guys. 5 minutes…
/r/seduction21/02/20 01:24 AM
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No it’s not. You don’t see the reason on this video because all his interactions are short af. Short ones don’t lead to anything. 5 minutes of talking won’t do anything. You will have to stop her at some point because you will end up at her car or her class within 3 minutes. That puts her in an uncomfortable position. Are you going to be walking inside fucking buildings? What are you going to do when there’s a fork in the road. You will have to stop her at some point to have any reasonable conve…
/r/seduction20/02/20 04:51 PM
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It’s best to not walk with girls. It’s very stalky. Like earlier I approached this blonde russian on campus coming out of a building. I approached her where she can see me, my face and my hands. Either head on or at a slight angle, but she knows she will have to stop to talk to me but she can keep going if she doesn’t want to talk. Walking with them often surprises them since you will end up coming from the back or to the side.
/r/seduction20/02/20 06:26 AM
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Had a lot of success in cold approaching. I picked girls up anywhere; malls, campuses, coffee shops, stores even Walmart. It is actually the best for long term success since you can pick girls up anywhere. Where are mainly approaching girls right now?
/r/seduction20/02/20 06:02 AM
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You always do. I see so many guys just texting girls I’m going out with. They invite them to go surfing in fancy resorts, they buy them fancy dinners and expensive gifts for the smallest attention. Then here I go I walk in and I tell her we split the tab, and that she should pay for me next time at your local pub. She keeps saying yes to me and no to the other guy. One thing is for sure. Shit sprinkled in gold is still shit. A quality guy on the other hand can have a shitty job and make no time …
/r/seduction20/02/20 04:53 AM
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It’s not really just the nerds. It’s the entire employment structure. Spend 60% of your life in an office with people you don’t really like. Some get ensnared in the idea that working harder will help them get somewhere but usually it just leads to more responsibilities and even less time. You got a better title nobody really cares about and a bit more money you can’t use because you are always working. In between the times you spend in your office chair you get a glimpse into a meaningful life …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 07:44 AM
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Remember to always depend on two methods of contraception. For example. Never just depend on the condom. Do pull out and condom. Or pull out and birth control. Come inside very sparingly like once in a blue moon deal. 90% effectivity of condoms means 10 out of 100 times women get pregnant. Just keep that in mind. That is why you double up. 90% condom plus 73% effectivity rate for pull out. That means for the 10% of the time the condom fails you have 73% chance to not get her pregnant. So essenti…
/r/seduction18/02/20 04:05 AM
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Oh yeah, brand doesn’t matter when you buy stuff in bulk. Econ 101 duh, I’m so dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 07:20 PM
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Well now I’m just sad. The emotional high from being called boo on the internet is only comparable to snorting Cheap drugstore foundation by Nyx, which I’m sure you can easily finance.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 06:20 PM
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That’s why you go to China and genetically edit your kid. You can also make him taller and have a bigger dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 06:17 PM
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The fact that you don’t consider primer and falsies as makeup tells me you put on A LOT of make up. Also you just called me Boo so I know for sure I’m talking to a hoochie mama 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 06:11 PM
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Not exactly. There are a ton of women that would sleep with anyone. If a guy can lay high value women, he is high value. There are the high value fuckbois and low value fuck bois. Low value fuck bois are the ones that go for bottom of the barrel chicks from tinder and craigslist. They tend to have less social awareness, very immature and tend to parade being a manwhore. High value fuck bois tend to not be associated with the term. Imagine celebs like Henry Cavill and Leonardo di Caprio. They can…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 08:54 AM
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Haha yeah that would be weird. But I think you’ll probably be fine when you have 10 inches of makeup between your skin and the world. I bet we can send you into Chernobyl and come back fine. A little bit of germ on your falsies won’t do anything to you. No hate though. Stay sexy. You do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 08:08 AM
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Quit your bs $45, $15, $50 nails and $150 hair extensions lasts for a few months. Next time you order a burger, we’ll make sure to charge for the entire cow. Not to mention most guys don’t want to take a wax museum mannequin to dinner. If it takes that much effort for you to be tolerable, everyone gives you permission to not date.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 04:59 AM
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First of there is no representative for all men. We are as diverse as women. Secondly, the type of guy who demands women to be a certain way is the type you don’t want to be with. Reasonable men who don’t like something just walk away. Now if you just want to be better at getting along with guys, you can’t. I’m a guy and I struggle finding cool dudes to hang out with. The best you can do is do something that makes you happy, don’t purposely try to hurt someone and if someones not your cup of tea…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 07:14 PM
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The story. Immersion camps in Montreal are only available up to 17 year olds. He could easily clear this up by answering what year this was, but he keeps dodging questions. EDIT: Lmao he deleted the whole post 🤣
/r/seduction10/02/20 08:06 PM
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Also it’s all made up.
/r/seduction10/02/20 08:03 PM
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Instead of insulting me, you can prove me wrong by answering what year this was and how underage kids can go to a club. That will definitely teach me a lesson. Edit: lmao dude keeps downvoting my comments instead of answering.
/r/seduction10/02/20 07:59 PM
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It’s all made up. Montreal French Immersion camps are available only up to 17 year olds. How would 10+ underage girls be able to get a drink at 17 years old in a club?
/r/seduction10/02/20 07:29 PM
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The reason is because the only people left on Tinder are fucked up people according to a recent January 2020 study. They found that both women and men who use Tinder most frequently often have Dark Tetrad personalities. Women has Machiavellian personality which is correlated with procrastination and seeking approval. Men were associated with narcissism and psychopathy. The reason it’s a waste of time is because women mostly are on there to boost their ego and when they do go through trouble of m…
/r/seduction10/02/20 08:26 AM
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Definitely case by case. If she took 1-2 days and she sends a 2 word reply. Yeah that’s not going anywhere. If she took 1-2 days and sends a thorough reply and makes an effort, she’s earned some respect and I’d give her the benefit of the doubt. Again I used to care about getting every single lay, nowadays I’m more about the experience and pride rather than just going for a lay. Not to mention I’m done going for the pretty girl who is super awkward with zero social skills. I want women with some…
/r/seduction09/02/20 03:04 AM
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Used to struggle with this starting out now it's just common sense. When they don't reply the way I want, I take them down a notch when it comes to priority. Whether you are a girl OR a guy even, you get more of my attention if you have shown that you value and respect my time. If a chick puts in minimal effort I won't make any. If they are already low effort with messaging, getting them to do the next steps to hook up is usually going to be a lot more effort. I'd rather wait until they are at b…
/r/seduction08/02/20 10:06 PM
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If she wants to hook up, or do a series of dates, I'm cool with either. The whole relationship thing usually never comes up until you've been seeing her a while so it's no use worrying about it.
/r/seduction08/02/20 09:55 PM
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Yes let's do that because nobody lies on the internet.
/r/seduction08/02/20 09:40 PM
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You are over thinking. What you need to learn stop thinking about step 2 when you haven’t even done step 1. Go approach.
/r/seduction08/02/20 09:43 AM
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You fucked up by answering a question seriously. Is she the IRS? If the answer is no then you can say you approached 99999 women to get to her. And then have fun. She’s reacting to your bad energy, lack of confidence and bad judgement. Fuck with her mind first. Then she’ll let you fuck her body.
/r/seduction08/02/20 09:36 AM
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Just say it before you stick it in. Any earlier and you are going to make it awkward. Its unneeded and irrelevant info until she is about to take your virginity.
/r/seduction08/02/20 09:33 AM
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Wtf are you talking about. Everyone in the US has a second language at this point that’s not an excuse.
/r/seduction08/02/20 09:17 AM
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Dorks smile with their lips. Players smile with their eyes.
/r/seduction07/02/20 10:02 PM
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So do kids nowadays all talk like this. It’s ghetto af.
/r/seduction07/02/20 10:01 PM
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College has a lot of options to approach. You can literally say anything as long as it's not weird and you have some leeway since girls often think they know you from another class. One thing you can use is ask her about her prof because you are going to be taking him next sem. If she seems receptive it's game, but if she's dismissive you have a few options. If she is in your major, the likeliness of you encountering her again is high so best to not over-exhaust it. Leave on a high note and don'…
/r/seduction07/02/20 05:21 AM
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Just schedule them on different days. Here is a tactic I use for V-day and other special occasions using pinging. IMPORTANT: Schedule everyone for V-day. Just because you schedule them does not mean you have to go. Then use the following tactics to disperse them accordingly. You use a series of pings for the date to determine who is willing to meet before or after V day. The one who are usually more emotionally reactive are the ones you meet on V-day. ​ To schedule someone before V-day - You pin…
/r/seduction07/02/20 05:12 AM
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Snapchat exchange doesn't not mean she wants to fuck the guy smh. Girls hand snap and insta out like candy so they can get their score up.
/r/seduction07/02/20 04:42 AM
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You are correct about something off about the people on this. It's like a mix of 15 year olds who just discovered they can approach girls and potentially get laid, and dorks who like reading books and never approaching. Occasionally there is someone who knows their shit. Nothing against hitting on girls with bfs. Tbh they are usually bored af and easy to number close, but almost impossible to fuck not because they don't want to, but due to logistics usually. A lot of girls depend on their guys f…
/r/seduction07/02/20 04:40 AM
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Never tried tinder because I know for a fact that anything online stinks. Why? Because you have to go through so many more hoops to get laid. In-person it’s meet, text, date 1, date 2, fuck. Online it’s soooo much longer it’s swipe, match, text in app, move to another messaging, call, date, fuck. Women also have so much more power and a lot of reason to not meet since they are getting a lot of validation already. In-person you just have to deal with rejection and it gets tid of all the disadvant…
/r/seduction06/02/20 08:11 PM
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Im in the process of creating a new one. Last one didnt work out since the girls didn’t introduce new girls to the group and they ended up fighting amongst each other. How long did you wait before you started fucking everyone?
/r/seduction28/01/20 05:05 PM
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Ah I knew it. Had to be social circle game. What kind of social circle is it just a group of friends or centered around a niche?
/r/seduction28/01/20 05:01 PM
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4 chicks in a month and you didn't approach? I'd like to hear about this. How are you doing this?
/r/seduction28/01/20 07:07 AM
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Yup. This. You have no career path, but if you just care about getting laid, just bartend. If you don't get laid you get a bigger tip. My friend basically did that in his young days and now has no career and stuck in the food business. But hey he got laid a lot.
/r/seduction28/01/20 07:05 AM
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Nice nice keep it going. Get her comfortable being close. Joke around and essentially distract her. Keep her talking and laughing. Make sure the next date is where you have to be close so you don’t have to make an excuse to get started.
/r/seduction27/01/20 06:41 PM
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I feel you, but I think for most people they are trying to get to passable level. I see what you saying, but you can’t be n authority on something from reading alone. You achieve things by materializing things out of nothing. That’s done through action. Even in academics which is all about research, reading things is not enough because experts in their field know you can easily get lost in theorizing. You need to get out there get real world data. Talk to people. Test methodologies to reduce bia…
/r/seduction27/01/20 01:29 AM
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Michael Knights Fundamentals of Female Dynamics book costs 13 bucks and the table of content looks like it’s talks the most basic shit only a boomer will find useful. I’m pretty sure reading this will actually make you worse with women.
/r/seduction27/01/20 12:26 AM
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Don’t trust opinions of friends and older women when it comes to your looks. They will never say you are ugly even if your life depended on it. Also attractive on paper “6’4 tall dark handsome” looks good on paper but it’s the small thins that matter. I know girls care more about the face than the body. Unless they find your face attractive your body type is irrelevant.
/r/seduction26/01/20 11:28 PM
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Good luck. Just remember when you approach your chance of getting laid goes from 0% to 50%. If you don’t approach it stays at zero.
/r/seduction26/01/20 11:11 PM
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Hmmm okay I checked maybe you aren’t THE AMAZING MICHAEL KNIGHT!!! I just don’t like people pretending to post when they are just here to sell a book.
/r/seduction26/01/20 11:09 PM
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Just don’t be ugly then. Problem fixed.
/r/seduction26/01/20 10:58 PM
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In all my experience there are always 2 camps in tackling problems. First are the guys who sit there and overanalyze and make very little progress. They encounter something, and what do they do? They freeze up and go back into their books. The second camps are guys who go out there and get things done. They keep pushing and think on their feet. As a result they improve dramatically. When they reach a wall that they can’t go break through. That’s when they go do their research. The whole bullshit…
/r/seduction26/01/20 10:54 PM
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There is always some schmuck selling you something promising to improve your life. Many guys are stuck in the “I need to know more” mindset. No you don’t! It’s just a gd book that will make you feel good for a week or two. After that you’ll remember one sentence in the whole thing. Two things that will make a change in you is you and the actions you take. In between those two there is not much else and buying some book is not going to change that. Most of people on this sub are on this feedback …
/r/seduction26/01/20 10:40 PM
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Nah my dude. She’s cucking you. Unless that shit makes your dick hard don’t let her do that to you.
/r/seduction26/01/20 08:06 PM
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He would never! That’s not alpha.
/r/seduction26/01/20 08:04 PM
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Fuck yeah dude. Ride the lighting..
/r/seduction26/01/20 08:00 PM
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There’s a book called Sex God Method??? Dear Lord. I think it’s more of a confidence thing. Mindset is huge, but everything else is bs. Many would like to think they can be good at sex by reading a book, but you can’t. Everybody is a sex god until they are about to cum or their hand starts cramping.
/r/seduction26/01/20 07:58 PM
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Yeah you aren’t fooling anyone Michael.
/r/seduction26/01/20 07:49 PM
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Nah just play with her more. If I were you'd I'd screenshot it and circle the word "read" and then text her the pic. She'll act like she hates, but she'll be even more attracted to you because it shows you don't give a fuck while being fun. This can also be your in-joke with her. She sounds fun though, she could be a freak in bed! Git it.
/r/seduction26/01/20 01:03 PM
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We don't want to buy your book Michael.
/r/seduction26/01/20 12:58 PM
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Normally you'd want coffee first, but some girls on tinder are dtf right off the bat. I would say talk more about her interest and see what she is passionate about. Ping a few suggestions like maybe either a movie at her place, cook at her place etc, or some place that you could escalate more.
/r/seduction26/01/20 12:55 PM
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Sure thing Tarzan.
/r/seduction26/01/20 12:49 PM
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I really want to keep this one, but i dont' want to fuck up, am i in the right lane? Are you still trying to get back with her after she cheated on you? Broooooooo. Lots of fish in the sea!
/r/seduction26/01/20 12:47 PM
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The best way to forget one problem is create another one. It's easy to get over one chick's bullshit if you approach 10 other chicks and then you start dealing with their bs. It's availability bias at work. Do other things and think of other things. Force yourself. One good thing to do is commit to a full week of heavy approaching or partying with the boys. Make sure to remove all the triggers in your room and your devices so you don't re-trigger her memories which is make her available in your …
/r/seduction26/01/20 12:44 PM
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What girls want in text and what will get you laid are totally different. Dated a chick who adored memes. When we already fucked that's all I sent her and she eats it all up. If before we fucked, I just acted like some freaking meme generator I would not have gotten laid. What got me laid was escalation. First time I got her number. I said cool meeting her and did some funny bs that we talked about when we first met. Then after that bs I I asked her to meet. So we got on a date and the escalatio…
/r/seduction26/01/20 12:37 PM
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I'm just gonna address the pussy eating/massaging part. Every guy talks about how good they are at pleasing women. I have a female friend who shows me all the text and dm from guys telling her how good they are in bed and it's typical. You want to be different don't brag just do it right when the time comes. If you talk about you sex skills, just be low key about it don't go in fucking detail unless she actually asks for it, you'll fucking embarrass yourself. The actual pussy eating. Every woman…
/r/seduction26/01/20 12:30 PM
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What works for me is assuming mutual respect and good intentions. Assuming attraction mean you engage guys differently. Being engaging to everyone who respect you and tries to engage is key in my experience.
/r/seduction26/01/20 03:56 AM
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Make sure everyone is having fun and getting involved in the convo. Call people out for any bad behavior. Don’t be afraid to temporarily ditch and move on to other groups and then re-engage if convo gets stale. Stick to those simple bullet points. Everything else just wing it. Thinking too much can get you in the thinking mode instead of talking. Don’t forget daygame hit up campuses, coffee shops, and malls. This helps you improve quickly since you can do it all day. Good Luck.
/r/seduction26/01/20 02:02 AM
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Cute means you are attractive to them. Don’t overthink this nor ask about it, that’s silly af and insecure to even ask. Just look at it as an opening and proceed as usual.
/r/seduction26/01/20 01:06 AM
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Pushing too hard and you are making the interaction awkward instead of enjoyable. She already knows what you want when you invite her over. Wait a few weeks to a month and re-engage fresh. Don’t push too hard again and bring it up next time. Apologize and tell her you didn’t mean to make her feel uncomfortable. That way you apologized is insincere and manipulative because you are only saying that so she comes over.
/r/seduction26/01/20 01:04 AM
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Don’t think just approach. Most guys on this sub don’t do this you are one of the few to actually take a bold leap so good job.
/r/seduction26/01/20 01:00 AM
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Yeah this is a weird way of thinking. You aren’t together, so you are entitled to feel this way at all. Not saying you weird, it just means you need to actively manage your feelings for girls when you are in the dating process. I don’t think you can stay friends with her. Better to move on try again with another girl. Best of luck.
/r/seduction26/01/20 12:59 AM
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Humor is a great thing develop not just for dating. It makes typical conversations much more entertaining. Being an attractive guy with good humor is 10+ so work on both your physical and personality you will see them combined is greater than the sum of all parts.
/r/seduction25/01/20 05:26 PM
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You went through all the detail for the set up and botched the ending with a “one thing led to another.” Either this is fake or you need to meditate more.
/r/seduction25/01/20 11:59 AM
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Yes because if getting a typical girl is the best thing has ever happened to you. You don’t have much going on. Unless you end up dating a celebrity or some public figure, girls don’t change your life that much. Now having a successful career, a large social circle, having a good family lineage, and a hobby/talent you are known for is something that can easily overshadow just having a girlfriend.
/r/seduction25/01/20 11:50 AM
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In groups, you just need to enunciate correctly. Say words to be heard. If you are not deliberate about what you say people will not listen to you. Another important thing is to not be too nice. If people are being little shits call them out in a respectful way. Don’t be afraid to confront people when you are being disrespected. Learn to lead the conversation, but be aware of the social dynamics. If you are new to the group trying to hijack the conversation is what an Aspergers kid with no socia…
/r/seduction25/01/20 11:42 AM
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Carry the energy and escalate. That’s the bread and butter. This is no rocket science. During the date your goal is have her open up and get physically close.
/r/seduction25/01/20 11:29 AM
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Do you still regularly approach cold sets and if you do, where?
/r/seduction25/01/20 11:22 AM
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They are covering their ass due to lawsuits. I’m sure they could lose millions if they are proven promoting sexual harassment towards women. It’s the post me too era. Get with the program. A guy with any kind of success outside of their mom’s basement is already hyper aware of this. Telling the truth so people can leech of their content for free is not worth going to jail and losing all your money.
/r/seduction25/01/20 11:20 AM
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Men can date much younger in the dating market regardless of age if they are successful. Why settle for worse if you can get better.
/r/seduction25/01/20 11:13 AM
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That’s because they are actually not that high value anymore. You get dates but you don’t get laid, these are more like business meetings than dates because they try to negotiate. An attractive woman who wants a little bitch who pays for all her shit and takes care of her kids is not an attractive mate. These women usually are controlling af and are willing to dated uglier guys as long as they can keep their lavish lifestyle and keep their egos intact. If I was to settle down with an older woman…
/r/seduction25/01/20 11:11 AM
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Its because of several things: *Women like confidence. Jerks tend to be confident. *Women like emotional thrills. Jerks tend to do a lot of push pull where they offend you and then they becomes super nice to get you back. This cycle is harmful but can be addictive. *Women like men with swag. Jerks are used to negative attention so they learn to get their swag on in order to shield self-esteem and love themselves. *Jerks tend to be attractive since they learn from a young age that people put up w…
/r/seduction25/01/20 05:28 AM
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My personal rate is 10 approaches (Not including warm up sets) get 2-3 respond back. Maybe one becomes a date within the first week of talking (other take longer). For every 3 dates I might get 1 something (sex, first base, kiss, handie or bj) I consider this a good month for daygame. It also depends on how high you are shooting. Once tried going mainly for 8s and up and took me a few months to actually get a lay just because it’s hard to find women that attractive. The results are dependent on …
/r/seduction24/01/20 10:37 PM
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Used to have older puas who knew how it works. Now no ones wants to be associated with pua. Older ones got older and had kids. Real good ones don’t stick around to chat. Ones that stuck around usually are pretty bad at it. The younger newer ones make one approach and they think they are experts. Basically people used to actually approach, now its just a bunch of keyboard warriors who do more reading than approaching. Guys who approach a girls once in a bluemoon and think thats means they are pra…
/r/seduction24/01/20 10:30 PM
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What helped me is I look at it like a card game. She can bluff all she wants but does she like you enough to go on each subsequence escalation points i.e. give you her number, set a date, go on the date, let you get close, be alone and vulnerable, kiss, mess around and sex.
/r/seduction24/01/20 09:01 AM
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Bro girls change their minds on a whim. Until your dick is all the way in, shit could change any minute. I’ve had married friend do that exact same thing without looking to bone. Flirting is not escalation, it’s just a sign that she could be willing to escalate. If she refuses to let you escalate then it’s game over. Move on, and go to the next.
/r/seduction24/01/20 07:02 AM
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If you met 8-9 times already you’d have no idea why she didn’t like you. It could be because you look like her uncle or something for all we know. At this point you are just a fish out of water. No matter how you flail, it’s done. You are desperate because you have no back up, so do something about it. Approach women and forget her. Sometimes just the act of moving on gives you a second chance.
/r/seduction24/01/20 05:28 AM
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It does and it has. I really really am not convinced. Did I say really?
/r/seduction23/01/20 11:46 PM
3

That’s a very small amount of data and it’s biased towards women who like dating celebrities. Not to mention all these guys are known for bedding many women so any woman who commits to being their gf knows how fragile the commitment is. I think you are trying to differentiate women you get from approaching vs women you meet through social circle game. No contest social circle game gets you higher quality women, because they have been vetted to some degree (by having a social circle). I’ve dated …
/r/seduction23/01/20 11:27 PM
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It’s because most of them are not aware of the new movement happening in women right now. Even with his cringe video https://youtu.be/W6xSB73TuTY People are shitting on him, but he actually isn’t too had. He stayed in frame, but that shit would have worked back in 2015. The game has changed. Shit tests have changed and he failed them in that vid because you can’t just plow through sets anymore. Especially younger women in college. Displays of masculinity have evolved and men today need to learn …
/r/seduction23/01/20 09:31 PM
1

All this theoretical bullshit does fuckall when jist one lady complains to management about being bothered. I’ve done this for years and never got banned because I know the reality of it. Go look up pick up artists getting banned from venues and getting treated like a criminal because they think frame will get past legal issues.
/r/seduction23/01/20 09:16 PM
1

I have never been banned, but I know how city guys pick up girls and it won’t fly in a small town. I know everyone is gungho about this shit and think you just gotta “man up”, but I’ve done daygame for years and you need to be smart about this or you end up like all the other “pick up artists” who get banned from venues. Just do a quick google search and you’ll see it happens.
/r/seduction23/01/20 09:12 PM
2

60k is too small. You’ll end up running into the same people and you might get banned.
/r/seduction23/01/20 08:03 AM
2

It’s not a myth, but there are two implications. First is that it’s HER who keep you in the zone. And that this zone CAN’T be changed. First implication is wrong. It’s both you and her that keep you in the friend zone. People are dependent on friends which keeps them from taking risks. Escalation is risk and so nothing happens. Second is also wrong. You can be friend-zoned and then get out of it. Women are social animals, most of their partners come from people in their network aka “friends.” Ju…
/r/seduction23/01/20 07:57 AM
-1

You ARE boring. Someone calls you boring and you retreat into fetal position? That’s what a boring guy will do. If someone calls you boring. Tell them they are a dick and ask them why think so. It’s great and exciting when people say raw shit. You could learn a thing or two from her.
/r/seduction23/01/20 07:37 AM
1

They THINK there is a lot of money in it, but that is not the case. This why a lot of them quit eventual.
/r/seduction21/01/20 11:32 PM
1

Yeah be careful there being lots of pre-date hype. I would slow things down and just schedule a date. Also don’t expect to get any of things she promised. Just meet up and go with what feels right during the moment. Not to mentioned don’t settle either. I have experience with “hype” women and they tend to have some weird baggage they mention last minute i.e. used to be a stripper, has 3 kids, mentally unstable, dead fish, no social skills etc.
/r/seduction21/01/20 06:33 AM
1

Flirting through text is bad form because they sit on it and it can then seem creepy. Just use text to set up dates. Flirting is best done in person. If you mean you need to build attraction online you do that through social media not through text.
/r/seduction20/01/20 09:07 AM
1

Keep in mind filming makes someone look more attractive. It’s a very common tactic used by youtubers to get kiss closes on camera.
/r/seduction20/01/20 09:00 AM
16

Wrong sub
/r/seduction20/01/20 08:57 AM
14

Thought the same thing. People today are too easily scared off by cringe. Also, If you mention anything related to technical jargon, they freak out because they think they will automatically be labeled a weird PUA if they put any kind of deliberate analysis to their interactions. If you are so easily put off by that you will have trouble getting results done in anything thats requires a lot of trial and error i.e. getting rejected to find a good job, finding valuable friends, getting promoted, a…
/r/seduction20/01/20 08:51 AM
3

Really depends on the person. I do a lot of disqualification because I helps me gauge their interest. Also for me not disqualifying and not breaking rapport feels needy. I also state in a very playful/teasing way. It really depends on the person. It’s important to realize that sprinkling disqualification into conversation regardless of whether it feels natural is a mistake. Imagine someone playful like Russell Brand could pull it off, but straight arrow dude like Keanu Reeves would just come off…
/r/seduction20/01/20 08:42 AM
2

Best to pick a passion you are genuinely interested in and connect with women who are also passionate about it. I used to have a profile on photography since I actually am good at photography and I ended up dating Instagram models since I actually built clout as a good photographer and got featured on other profiles. TLDR: Build a real profile and show your real talent and women will follow.
/r/seduction19/01/20 04:01 PM
1

Like I mentioned above, strangers know your intent (Intent-primed) because there is no other reason for you to ask for their number. If you meet a girl through a friend and just exchange numbers, your intent is not as clear. (Intent-ambiguous) You also don’t want to jump to conclusions so it’s better to slow down the pace. I just made them up bro, Chill. Sometimes people combined words to make new meanings. It’s a thing.
/r/seduction19/01/20 03:42 PM
3

You won’t know how to flirt if you don’t understand subtextual communication. Subtle body language, tonality and timing can communicate different meanings. One thing that really helped me is a theater/acting class. Female classmates also often tend to be more open to new experiences, though can be crazy-ish.
/r/seduction19/01/20 03:34 PM
1

There are two types of numbers. First intent-primed. The girl knows she gave you her number because you want to go out with her. These are the types of numbers you usually get when you approach a girl for the exclusive intention of dating dating i.e. nightclub, daygame, etc. You can also be more bold since nothing is at risk. Second is intent-ambiguous. The girl doesn’t know exactly what your intent is, so you can’t just go right out and ask her out since that would be weird. These numbers typic…
/r/seduction19/01/20 03:27 PM
1

Okay here’s the deal. This happened to me several times and I made several mistakes that cost me some lays. Make sure to always say yes for anything she wants to do the next few days. If she want it to happen, she will make it happen, but without feeling like she made it happen. What this means is she will want it to happen naturally. Her toilet is clogged and you need to be her plumber, do it. Her cat is dying, be there. She’s hungry and wants to eat, feed her. Women have a denial complex when …
/r/seduction17/01/20 01:44 PM
1

How do you know you are 8.5?
/r/seduction17/01/20 01:36 PM
3

Be careful with that. It can affect your career path. I did that at my other job and I ended up earning a reputation as a player which seems great but is something you don’t want to be known for especially if you eventually want to be promoted to a position with responsibility.
/r/seduction17/01/20 01:34 PM
5

This is the reason I stay in shape and try to look good in general. The feeling of walking into a room and all the women checking you out is amazing. That being said a lot of eye contact does happen on accident. Women are hyper aware creatures and always afraid of being molested, raped or taken advantages of. It’s important to realize that attention does not equal interest.
/r/seduction17/01/20 01:29 PM
2

Yeah something like that! Like this example could clarify. HIGH VALUE - Insecure approach She’s hot. I need to show how high value I am to prove I am high value. Let me interact with people “for value.” I need to show how cool I am. HIGH QUALITY - Secure approach She’s hot. I’ll engage in high quality conversations and be a high quality human being. I actively evaluate if THEY are high value because I like valuable people. That it just scratching the surface since this perspective for me is tied…
/r/seduction17/01/20 01:13 PM
3

Yeah though I see most of the attempts posted online by “gurus” are often cringeir than the actually awkward moment. I personally don’t overthink it or overprepare. I like to wing awkward moments and sometimes make them worse for my personal entertainment.
/r/seduction17/01/20 12:58 PM
1

Keep going, the shit smell helps assert dominance.
/r/seduction17/01/20 12:54 PM
1

Fuck yeah keep doing those sets and you eventually get “a pump” one way or another.
/r/seduction17/01/20 12:53 PM
121

One thing I realized in all my approaches through the years is no matter what you tell yourself you will shit your pants the first few approaches so just get them out the way as soon as possible with low commitment warm up sets.
/r/seduction16/01/20 09:53 AM
2

This 100%. I went through “High Value” mindset and it just doesn’t work. It just leads one to overcompensate in order to demonstrate the high value image you have built in your mind. The constructive approach in my experience is not “high value,” but to be “high quality.” Seems like the same thing but to me it made a whole lot of difference.
/r/seduction16/01/20 09:21 AM
1

Amen.
/r/seduction16/01/20 09:14 AM
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Great job. That being said, most of the work was done by your connections. I’m willing to bet they always talked you up to her because they liked you. Your job was just to not fuck it up. For example there is no way you’ll be able to make this happen if you cold approached her. Since the rapport and attraction that connections provide won’t be there. That’s why the more I mature, the more I spend my efforts nurturing good friends who know hot friends. They do most of the work for you.
/r/seduction07/01/20 11:05 PM
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Just realize that she was never yours in the first place. It’s never a sure fire thing until ypur dick is in her vagina... all the way. I’ve had dates that changed their mind mid pump. Until then there is always a chance things don’t work. Just accept that and have fun.
/r/seduction07/01/20 10:57 PM
1

The important thing is not what you are doing, but who made you do it. In this situation it's the girl who made him hold the drink, so it wasn't his choice. This isn't that complicated. But to use your own analogy. Opening the door yourself would have been him offering to hold it for her. But what happened was she gave it to him. So in the situation you are describing it's someone telling you to hold the door for them.
/r/seduction14/08/19 05:38 AM
1

Are you scared of typing "Fucking" on reddit? Don't worry your mom's not looking ;)
/r/seduction14/08/19 05:34 AM
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It’s not a tip. Its a mindset. Why are you afraid to put the drink down? Why did you want to hold the drink? You are missing the point! You don’t hold someone drink because you value yourself over whoever they think they are. You did the correct action, but still held the wrong mindset. You are supposed to put down the drink because you don’t give a fuck who she is noone turns you into their butler. What did you do? You put down the drunk because you are afraid to lose the girl just like you alw…
/r/seduction05/07/19 09:18 AM
6

Sorry to let everyone know, but at clubs girls always have friends who “take them away.” If they like you, they say “it’s okay,” or they introduce them to you. If they don’t they “let their friend take them away.” It’s a less awkward way of getting out of weird conversations. Women have wing women too and they are supposed to cover each other’s asses. If a woman wants to talk to you, she will stay.
/r/seduction05/07/19 09:08 AM
1

If go into a venue. I keep approaching NOT stare at people, by the end lf the day my goal is to have 10 numbers. Among those 10 I’d have 1-2 dates later on that week. Assuming I dont next her or put her on a long hold, I get something after 2-4 dates hj, bj, makeout, fuck. If I like a chick I’d take 1-3 month breather to just fuck the shit out of her until I break it off and go for another round. People often think they can sense if women like them, but I have a lot of instances where I would ha…
/r/seduction15/12/18 07:32 PM
1

You are probably doing cold approach wrong. Ive picked up women in malls, coffee shops, the street and at walmart of all places. You don’t need eye contact. Saying something to a girl is so insignificant you should not even put much thought into it. It should be automatic to talk to women the thats when you find out if its “warm.” By the time it took to see if she will look your way, you could have already said soemthing quick and be 90% more certain because you use more reliable body language b…
/r/seduction15/12/18 07:43 AM
9

Never go for lower grade girls. Whenever you go for someone you are not attracted to, you have just sold yourself out.
/r/seduction15/12/18 07:36 AM
1

Just don't make it boring. Assurances are boring. Knowing you will be having sex is boring. Relationships are boring. Hot chicks are spoiled and traumatized at the same time from all the dudes giving them love then fucking them over. The only thing they have left is the chase. Don't take that away from her. Enjoy the chase, don't stress.
/r/seduction05/12/18 09:16 AM
2

Then don’t stress about it. You already had sex with her. Just chill, stop stressing and start enjoying. The most excting sex sessions I’ve had are the ones that “just happens.” When you get so much it gets really boring if you know when you are going to get it. She is just keeping things exciting for her. Can’t blame her for that. I can almost guarantee she will happen to sleep with you again.
/r/seduction04/12/18 07:07 AM
2

Don’t sweat it. Everything looks good. Whenever a girls opens up its a good sign and showing a screenshot of her schedule is a very good sign imo. Would you ever show your schedule to a person you don’t care about? Just keep the fun vibe and schedule a new date.
/r/seduction04/12/18 06:12 AM
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Its comes from hard work. Confidence comes from assurance of success. Most people are confident because they know they will succeed. In order to get confidence you will need to have some degree of success. One thing I do is I put myself at an advantage. You go to a place rich with single women. Then you practice your material. I know some people are against this but you need some structure. Don’t memorize but remember a converstion structure that you see works and keep refining it. This will als…
/r/seduction04/12/18 06:00 AM
1

Don’t do the same thing and expect similar results. Is she a party girl then ask her to party. Is she a baker then ask something related to what she is i to. Also I dont want a relationship and I don’t to date are TOTALLY DIFFERENT. You can’t mix the two. Did she not want to see you again or did she not want a relationship? One of those mean she is still dtf the other means you should wait a few months and ask reinitiate.
/r/seduction04/12/18 05:47 AM
1

A relationship is a lot harder than jumping from on girl to another. Having had relationships made better at approaching because I know the ugly side of hot girls. I don’t give in to their bs as much. You learn from this relationship and it will make you stronger. Just don’t be a faggot and lose self respect just so you can stay with her.
/r/seduction22/11/18 07:32 AM
13

“Your chance of fucking a girl goes from 0 to 50% the moment you approach.”
/r/seduction22/11/18 07:25 AM
1

Lmao you dont bring shit up that is not relevant. Even if they like you, they will look at you like a wacko if you bring up baggage so early on
/r/seduction22/11/18 04:32 AM
1

You seems like a low energy guy. Your personality may not match the club scene. Club scene is all about vibing. You don’t think you talk shit, you escalate then you move and go somewhere else if shit don’t work out. If you run out of women to approach go to another club these things are usually walking distance apart.
/r/seduction22/11/18 04:30 AM
3

Horrible advice. Ugly chicks are worse things to approach lots of baggage and lack a lot of social skills. More attractive women are literally the best. Even if they reject you, you have a fun time assuming you pass the creep screening.
/r/seduction22/11/18 04:29 AM
1

That means you text too much. Texting is just to set up a meeting. You dont build anything meaningful through text because no mattwr what you build through email or text it’s all goes out the window once you meet.
/r/seduction22/11/18 04:26 AM
7

Watch happy feet. A bit off topic but you’ll enjoy it and youll relate.
/r/seduction21/11/18 10:22 AM
0

No shit im not okay, someone hurt me remember? You can’t even keep track of your own stupid joke wtf.
/r/seduction21/11/18 10:18 AM
1

Are you getting numbers and dates? If no then you are not taking enough risk. If yes then go for hotter girls.
/r/seduction21/11/18 08:15 AM
1

Yeah just say some compliment. You reward the behavior in order to encourage it.
/r/seduction21/11/18 08:13 AM
1

Wait so you can bring a girl home and hook up but you cant get a girlfriend?
/r/seduction21/11/18 08:09 AM
1

The coffee shop meeting means nothing. The purpose of this is so that you can invite her to a more intimate or more exciting event/location. You are overthinking this. Just escalate. If she doesn’t let you then shes not ready. Next her then go back and try again after a while.
/r/seduction21/11/18 08:03 AM
1

This is the worst advice, but just vibe with them, but be aware of the best practices when trying to rent a room. This is not a seduction question. People here will say “yeah just be natural.” No the moment you say “I have shit credit,” “I have been evicted before,” you are out of the running. There is a great deal of socializing but this is partly a technical endeavour and you should approach it as such. Good luck.
/r/seduction21/11/18 07:59 AM
1

I would totally rent a room to this guy.
/r/seduction21/11/18 07:55 AM
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Wait you haven’t tho. I’m waiting for you to hurt me daddy. C’mon daddy hurt me with your old jokes. Oh yes more stupid jokes from 2016 yes oh yes.
/r/seduction21/11/18 07:49 AM
2

Yes I mispelled a word. I guess that means the previous point is ignored and you have won the argument. Congrats. Unfortunately you still think attractive women somehow get approached by 100 men a day lmao 😂 Who the fuck told you that 😂😂😂😂😂
/r/seduction21/11/18 07:44 AM
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A lot of people hurt me. I can see you are attempting to hurt me using a recycle overused joke that is for certain. You should google more things and go past the first search results page so you can come up with something more unique as a comeback.
/r/seduction21/11/18 07:41 AM
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Oh god you really are clueless. When someone mentions who hurt you, its a reference to someone’s reaction to a painful memory. People with PTSD demonstrate violent reaction to triggers. Thats is the reason someone becomes sad or angry. Entitlement has absolutely no commorbidity with emotional distress aka “someone hurting you.” If anything people who have been hurt are less likely to be entitled. In short, you are dumb. Or do I need to explain the meaning of that to you as well?
/r/seduction21/11/18 07:29 AM
5

So let me get this straight, an attractive girl will play hard to get because a guy she finds attractive has to “earn it.” Lolol you guys are fucking idiots. There is no archetypal attractive girl who for some reason decides to not entertain they guy she finds attractive. Not to mention most attractive women are too busy working or doing shit to be standing around getting approached 100 times a day. If she finds you attractive she will make time and make an effort. Attractive women are literally…
/r/seduction21/11/18 07:24 AM
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Wait since when did being entitled get associated with PTSD. If you will try to diss at least use the correct comeback.
/r/seduction21/11/18 07:10 AM
1

Had a bad break up but always had a new girl within 2 weeks or so. Just realize that emotional pain can easily be removed if you mentally distract yourself with other women and avoid triggers.
/r/seduction21/11/18 05:29 AM
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Lmao you don’t need to earn anything. That’s some inferiority mentallity. We are all equal, you don’t need to earn someone’s time. They either have time or they don’t. Only assholes try to make other peole “earn their presence.”
/r/seduction21/11/18 05:26 AM
1

Lmao that is stupid af confirmation bias. I bet she thinks you didnt get aling due to your signs not because she didnt do it on purpose. She sounds annoying.
/r/seduction20/11/18 07:15 AM
1

You sound 12
/r/seduction20/11/18 07:08 AM
5

Lmao then you go and approach girls and realize it wasnt the eyes. you just were fugly.
/r/seduction20/11/18 07:05 AM
5

Well thats part of it. Never put pressure on a girl, or any stranger actually, to commit to something. They will realize you are some random fuck they met and go be like go fuck yourself and flake. Thats why for dates its better to have an excuse as to why you have to meet without making a big deal out of it. Hang out instead of date, watch a movie instead of make out, netflix and chill instead of fuck. Its all code words to communicate intent without making a big deal out of it. Also its no fun…
/r/seduction20/11/18 07:03 AM
1

No matter what you don’t plan anything. Fucks with your delivery.
/r/seduction20/11/18 04:43 AM
1

The majority if you need to see if you actually didnt get older and uglier.
/r/seduction20/11/18 04:42 AM
3

Yeah. I appreciate Tyler’s articulation of his points, but he just looks less like a douche and more like a fagget tbh. I honestly would prefer to not get laid if I have to act like an over the top ostrich like him. .
/r/seduction20/11/18 04:31 AM
2

So she basically gave the dog a handie right in front of you. Shes a freak go for it!
/r/seduction16/11/18 08:17 AM
3

I encountered this phenomena a while back. Its due to lack of energy and authenticity. You are comfortable, they are comfortable, the conversation momentum has been tweaked to the point that saying no is awkward so they just give you their number. The big problem is, you have no emotional commitment so neither do they. They feel no excitement. The number close happens due to your technical “pick up skill.” However, you lack the next tier of skill to be able to trigger an emotional state in you t…
/r/seduction16/11/18 08:14 AM
2

Happens once in a while. For me maybe 1 in 50 are awkward because some women are actually awkward af and its pointless to try and get them out of their shell since they are boring lays anyways. Also if you didnt get much sleep or whatever it can affect your energy. Dont overthink, just approach and enjoy.
/r/seduction16/11/18 08:07 AM
9

Definitely jumping the gun. Meeting does not mean anything. Its just meeting. Don’t stress yourself out.
/r/seduction16/11/18 08:05 AM
5

This. Dressing well means: 1. Clothes that fit well. 2. You know how to match colors with skin and other patterns 3. You are aware of what is stupid shit to wear. I.e. dressing in a suit and tie when you work as a janitor is silly af.
/r/seduction16/11/18 08:02 AM
2

Here are my, Do, Don’t Why tips: Do be methodical. Don’t be some slave to some book or self proclaimed pick up guru. Why: You need to learn. Some dude, some friend or just you can facilitate that. Don’t get lost in people’s bullshit. Its just a step. Do be yourself. Don’t be self-centered. Why: You need to stay congruent with yourself while being open enough to step outside your comfort zone. Do be talk to as many girls as possible. Don’t do online. Why: Building true social and interpersonal sk…
/r/seduction16/11/18 07:54 AM
3

Yeah this is a dude posing as a chick.
/r/seduction15/11/18 05:08 AM
10

Whatever you do don’t ask a list of unrelated questions. That shit is sad. I was on a receiving on of that just a while back. Went on a date and the girl asked a bunch of random questions like a retard. Vibe first then be genuinely curious about her entire being while still being socially aware. The question will flow naturally. Being socially aware will help you know when you need to pull back.
/r/seduction15/11/18 05:07 AM
1

Yeah just dont make it awkward as fuck. There has to seem like a legitimate reason for you to invite her. She already knows it, but you can never make it obvious that you are about to fuck.
/r/seduction15/11/18 05:03 AM
1

Absolutely nothing
/r/seduction15/11/18 05:02 AM
1

If she lets you escalate. Thats the only thing. It doesn’t matter shit you do as long as she lets you get inside. Talk (inside her social bubble) vibe (inside her emotional bubble) Touch (inside her comfort bubble) move (inside her security bubble) Isolate (deeper into comfort and security bubble) physical and intimacy getting inside further, aka gettng very close physically until she lets you be inside literally
/r/seduction15/11/18 05:01 AM
1

You are doing it wrong. Fake socializing is wrong because you are not taking risks. When I talk with people I say risky shit to entertain myself. Socially retarded people can’t do this because they go full retard. Having a fun social life is being able to ride in the line between what is socially acceptable or not. I personally like to be very sociable and normal then ask/something that noone would dare to ask someone. I tailor it in a way that you cant determine if its inappropriate or not then…
/r/seduction15/11/18 04:51 AM
1

Your reply to me and your post fact dont match. First you say so dont feel desired now you say you are getting so many dates that you are being picky. How many dates did you get the last 4 weeks and where do you live?
/r/seduction15/11/18 04:42 AM
1

Tinder and online dating is bullshit. 100 men from all go for 1 girl regardless of how ugly she is. 1000 men go for the really attractive ones. The likeliness of a girl gong through the trouble of getting to know you is slim. Its a waste of time. In person, you get in front of the girl you know right away if its worth pursuing. You can get a date in a week. Online you wait days for a reply. Then you wait months to get a date. Then you see if chemistry works. A lot more moving parts and longer cy…
/r/seduction14/11/18 07:17 AM
5

People are all the same women or men. Never overcommit or put someone on a pedestal because you show weakness by being overly attached. Only people with nothing else going for them overly commit to a person and that is not just according to some seduction tactic. Its life. Never put all your eggs in one basket. Never depend on one person always leverage to where you can survive emotionally, financially, psychologically and socially without her. Psychological independence means you dont put all y…
/r/seduction14/11/18 07:08 AM
0

Word
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 10:16 AM
1

Red pill is pretty toxic tbh. Blue is stupid as fuck. Who the fuck says you have to take a pill. Be a man. Do what you want. When you make a mistake own it. That means if you do something “blue pill” but your “red pill” buddies don’t approve of it then tell them to go fuck themselves and find real friends. Don’t be manipulated by women, men or ideologies. Blue and red pill are all ideologies used to manipulate people into pushing their belief system unto others so they want you to live life acco…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 10:12 AM
-3

6? Why not find a 7 or an 8 theres more of those than 6s in observation. 6s usually have borderline personality disorder because they often get fucked and dumped so they develop an abandonment complex.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/18 09:50 AM
2

Can definitely testify that sluts have better sexual performance.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/18 04:14 AM
1

Hah nice!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/18 05:31 PM
1

Pull the stats out of your ass. Wheres the source
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/18 03:42 PM
1

Thats true for any social media platform, but trying to completely discredit a subreddits growth by giving some bullshit explanation is annoying. The average social media fake accounts are 3 percent and duplicates are around 6 percent. 12,000 fake subs is just small amount of this growth of 100,000+ subscribers.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/18 11:07 AM
1

I can at least tell by your over analysis that you all are not those males that “inspire lust.”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/18 09:25 AM
1

So literally everyone who is on TRP created their own new profile just because? That the r/quityourbullshit of the day. The sub is growing, its pretty obvious. The timeline of the growth determines how just how much momentum it has.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/18 09:20 AM
2

Lmao guys acting like they wont fuck a girl whose ready and waiting.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/18 07:41 AM
1

I don’t think you get my reply. I suggest you reread it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 08:02 AM
1

True. Waiting to have sex is a good way to weed out men who want a quick release. But there are also other ways to hack their mindset. In a way its almost the quintessential love potion. Psychologically, people are less inclined to let go of things they have bled, cried and worked hard for. I date a lot of women and I know Im more likely to get a date when women invest a lot of effort in a conversation. I know we will most likely have sex when she invests a lot of physical contact. To influence …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 04:50 AM
1

Do you have a source on this. If this is true, it needs more coverage since there is all this talk about the gender pay gap.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 04:20 AM
1

That means you did good, but this is just the first step. Getting women is not the be all end all. Get a good job, build a reputation, create a lifestyle, build your empire etc. There is a lot more you can do.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 07:53 PM
6

Bitches attract assholes. Asshole attract bitches. You sound like a bitch so only assholes will be able to tolerate your personality type.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 07:13 AM
3

Maybe they like you because you have the entire package. Honestly your replies sound very succinct and articulate. You sound very self-aware. You had to develop that to survive as a fat person. Now not only do you have that skill, you are also attractive so you are soaring like an eagle. You literally had training weights on and now you just shed them so are actually more attractive than the typical fit chad who has zero personality. I think may not be giving yourself enough credit. Stop overthi…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 07:07 AM
1

Exciting men will always get the girl regardless of morals/inhibition. It just so happens that a lot of men with low inhibitions tend to do exciting things since they lack control. A well rounded guy knows when its worth to take a risk or when not to. “Beta” and low inhibition males are the same thing but at opposites of the spectrum. The good ones are the betas that learn to take risks or low inhibitions men who learn self control. We all have our advantages and disadvantages, its up to you to …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 06:56 AM
86

Why number them if they all restart at 1?
/r/seduction24/03/18 06:41 AM
1

You read the title and the conclusion. The actual data is a different story.
/r/seduction23/03/18 08:54 PM
1

I don’t think you even read the “study.”
/r/seduction23/03/18 02:44 PM
1

That study is based only online pictures and messages. A place where men are disadvantaged because there are more male user than female users. Women are treated like queens online. Women are visual-emotional codependent - seeing you in person is different from seeing you in a photo. The study actually supports the “cut off” where the most attractive men get the most reply backs from women from low to high attractiveness. Looks is not just the face. Its your entire body and the form of your body.…
/r/seduction23/03/18 08:33 AM
1

The majority of men are attractive to females. You see what I did there? I just stated some shit without any source nor supporting argument.
/r/seduction23/03/18 07:24 AM
11

Dont overthink it. Kissing is emotional and abstract. Just go with the flow. If it doesn’t work out, it could be any of the million reason, just move on, but keep improving on yourself.
/r/seduction22/03/18 11:37 PM
1

Height is like money. After a certain cutoff its not a big deal, but if you dont meet the cut off its a big deal. Girls dont care about height as long as it does not make them look bad. Being with a guy way smaller than them makes them look bad and feel bad. People are vain. Most guys dont like fat chicks, most girls don’t like small dudes. Obviously there are outliers, but you are disadvantaged since the majority will find you unattractive.
/r/seduction22/03/18 11:34 PM
1

Lmao don’t beat yourself up too much
/r/seduction22/03/18 11:18 PM
1

Looks like you at least know “/s.” Poor guy born and raised reddit style.
/r/seduction22/03/18 11:00 PM
0

Wtf even your jokes are from fucking 2005. Holy fuck just how out of touch are you.
/r/seduction22/03/18 08:10 PM
1

I fuck girls because of looks? That sentence doesn’t even fucking make sense, holy fuck I’m willing to bet the only way you get girls is by going to 3rd world countries and flashing your money.
/r/seduction22/03/18 08:01 PM
0

Oh I dont have an ugly face. Ivd fucked chicks that make people wonder how I got them, but I know if I didnt work out, if I didnt dress correctly and If I wasnt 6’2 I wouldnt have scored them. Looks is a major aspect because people are vain. Thats the reality of life. You are either better looking than you think or you are fucking uglier chicks than you think. Its most likely the latter.
/r/seduction22/03/18 07:54 PM
0

Lmao whatever live in your dream world where “looks dont matter” and your ugly face can get anyone you want because people are just that powerless against “good game.”
/r/seduction22/03/18 07:27 PM
0

I don’t give a fuck what you do to your body. Im saying looks will always matter because we are all visual creatures, your game just makes it less so. But it will always be the biggest factor. It’s like saying “money will never make you happy” even though all factors point to it being a big factor. Its just the same shit poor people tell themselves to cope with being poor. And wtf does “directly implying” even mean.
/r/seduction22/03/18 07:16 PM
0

Lmao you are delusional. Looks will always matter. Keep living in the dream world or start working on your body grooming and fashion, and actually get somewhere.
/r/seduction22/03/18 05:21 PM
3

Over analysis. Just talk to her, see what she’s excited about then go there. If you are excited about a place, communicate that to her then go there.
/r/seduction22/03/18 04:44 AM
1

Looks do matter. Only people trying to sell you something say it doesn’t.
/r/seduction22/03/18 04:42 AM
-1

Bunch of bs. Many men try really hard to “appreciate them,” when what you should be doing is just treating them the same. Wtf is a “hot woman,” in their head there is no such thing. You don’t appreciate a “hot girl,” shes just a girl. She doesn’t deserve appreciation for being “hot.” There are a lot of hot girls out there and its nothing different. Just talk to them. If you are creepy af then you’ll get the whole “hot girls are hard to talk to,” but hot girls are all in all better to talk to tha…
/r/seduction22/03/18 04:39 AM
36

This looks like a sales script lmao with the date as the product, driving as the value added service and sex as his commission. I never thought id see someone with this style.
/r/seduction21/03/18 05:41 AM
1

True, 4 in LA is pretty good, add about 2 and you got the real number of 6 which is still kinda okay.
/r/seduction15/03/18 11:44 PM
1

You forgot the “havent fucked the entire neighborhood” part. I’ve been to UCLA there are so many “about to be big” people there.
/r/seduction15/03/18 03:04 PM
1

Its important to realize what im saying and what you are saying. You are saying game gives you 3 points extra. Im saying game helps you regardless of how hot the girl is. Because in the end game can only get you whoever is in front of you whether they are 6 or 10 or whatever. Its status that is the true equalizer because no matter how tight your game is or what your attractiveness number is, if you are not high status this girl will not go for you. Im willing to bet those “top quality chicks” ar…
/r/seduction15/03/18 08:16 AM
1

Already hopped on somebody elses dick and great girl dont go together.
/r/seduction15/03/18 07:35 AM
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A women? If you are picking up girls in the US, you’ll first need to fix your grammar.
/r/seduction15/03/18 07:31 AM
1

The whole “game gives you extra 3 points” is bullshit. It just gives you a better chance at connecting with whoever you are talking to no matter how attractive they are. Its the raw social status that matters not the looks. Any guy with good game can get a 10 that fucking grew up in a cattle ranch. You can have tight ass game and you cant pick up an 7 who hangs out with upperclass millionaires if you work at apple bees and has zero credentials. This only exists in disney movies. This is exactly …
/r/seduction15/03/18 07:29 AM
13

Did you just say “mah dude?” Thats so 2010.
/r/seduction15/03/18 05:13 AM
1

Sorry to say but its all in your head. I get that it can be confusing, but how this works is almost like a court room. You have circumstantial evidence to direct your investigation such as they way they look at you, the frequency by which they talk to you etc. A girl can do all these things without being interested in you. Some women are just very social. You see them as openings. Thats all they are, openings. You can never say a girl is interested in you until they either kiss you or do somethi…
/r/seduction15/03/18 05:11 AM
5

Yeah you need to stop assuming things and just take things for what they are. I can feel them cringing from here. No your co-worker never wanted you. Thats how some women are, they just like to have fun and talk to people. Just because they took the time to say hi to you for a few seconds does not mean they want your dick. You have a lot of anxiety and bad thought process you need to fix to make any progress.
/r/seduction14/03/18 03:02 PM
1

Thats fucking beta game. If she isn’t fun just excuse yourself and move. Staying there and looking at your phone when you actually want to talk is just silly. Mystery opened the door to this shit, but a lot of his methods are cringey af. He is like a robot trying to fit in with humans.
/r/seduction14/03/18 02:51 PM
3

Hahaha you have a way with words. Good luck!
/r/seduction14/03/18 06:48 AM
2

You should go into business. All the skill that you accumulated in pick up will you a master closer in business. Its unfortunate that the go-to for a lot of people who mature in pick up is to be a dating coach which is a highly saturated market. Margins are good but its a highly stigmatized industry. Its not very marketable on your resume either. If you go into business, you can “pick up” one client and you just solidified potentially 1,000 to 10,000 residual monthly income. Its much like pick a…
/r/seduction14/03/18 04:43 AM
3

In order to get a really high number, you will need to just go for the number. Its becomes tedious. I never counted the number since its pointless without context. Only young virgin kids are impressed by it and anyone can just make it up. Why did you keep doing it? At some point you’ll realize you should probably be putting this much effort into building a business instead of adding notches to your belt.
/r/seduction14/03/18 03:14 AM
3

The number depends on how long you’ve been doing this and where you meet the girls. The guys who say they’ve fucked 800 are lying out of their teeth. Heres my question to you since you are talking about “being qualified” to give advice. How long did it take you to reach this 100. Where did you meet the majority of these women. Most Ive done is a new girl every 2 weeks. But then there would always be overlaps which makes it stressful. Whenever I see guys claim a big number I ask the details becau…
/r/seduction14/03/18 02:47 AM
0

Definitely dont have this bias and cant afford to do this on reddit or youll consistently be siding with losers and social outcasts.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/18 03:14 PM
8

A man like that would not even think of associating with pua
/r/seduction08/03/18 08:11 AM
1

I know right, shes probably 8.3. Those 0.2 points need to be accounted for.
/r/seduction07/03/18 09:30 AM
16

Lmao so you approach a stranger and right asay you ask them out for dinner. Please tell me this is a joke.
/r/seduction07/03/18 09:24 AM
1

Girls ghost you when you are low on their priority list. They are busy and they respond first to most important/most urgent situations aka people she value. She values you enough to keep you around from time to time. I would say don’t stress about it as long as you get something from her. I have a girl who does this to me, but I don’t mind since she gives me value by inviting me to exclusive parties and introduces me to important connections. Pick up has other uses as well, not just getting laid…
/r/seduction07/03/18 09:15 AM
1

Whatever women say mean nothing. Its just their defense mechanism. If she keeps seeing you and keep letting you be alone with her she’s giving an opening to fuck. Actions speak louder than words whether you “respect” her or not. All this respect talk are both of you just bullshitting. You both know none of it matters once you walk out the door, shes going to suck whatever cock she wants and you will fuck whoever you want. Whether you see her again or not is not assured either. She seems to be ke…
/r/seduction07/03/18 09:09 AM
1

Dude even your post bored me. Just get yourself excited. If you are not excited, they wouldn’t be either. When you say things and it gives you goose bumps you are doing it right.
/r/seduction02/03/18 05:46 AM
0

So how do you fuck women tell them you don’t want a relationship and still want something to do with you.
/r/seduction10/02/18 10:47 PM
10

Don’t do online and don’t approach ugly/fat chicks. These ugly chicks in their twenties are already used up and jaded because everyone just wants to fuck and dump them. They have the most annoying egos. Stick with 8s and up. They love life and are a pleasure to talk to no matter what. They associate social interaction with positive experience because people love them so meeting new people is a treat to them. Ugos are naturally hateful since all they feel when with other people is bitterness as t…
/r/TheRedPill10/02/18 06:25 PM
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Yeah but you cant be a player your whole life. Fucked women all through my early twenties. They all fucking hate me. Now Im trying have a bit more control and make friends instead of fuck buddies. I have to say the friend-zone is fucking annoying.
/r/seduction10/02/18 06:06 PM
1

You should look at studies by ncbi where they treated people with anger and depression issues. They treated depression and not anger. The anger went away. You can’t treat anger. Thats like trying to move the wind with your mind or some shit. You can treat the underlying issues causing anger. Anger is not a disease most of all. Unnatural levels of anger is the cause for concern which is usually due to underlying self esteem issues like depression. The reason for that is when you feel hopeless you…
/r/seduction09/02/18 09:32 PM
1

Ah good tip. You know your shit.
/r/seduction09/02/18 02:32 PM
1

Well then you should tell all psychology departments to rewrite all fucking DSM 15 and psychology books. This shit is basic.
/r/seduction09/02/18 02:30 PM
2

I know what you mean, but dont go for the hug monster approach. I see so many fuckers doing that shit and its actually launching themselves into a friendzone pit. Hugs dont mean shit anymore because literally everyone does that shit. Now they are all stuck in the friendzone or takes 9 months to get laid. Might as well be her baby mamma if you take that long for a lay.
/r/seduction09/02/18 03:09 AM
2

Dont just touch just to touch her or youll seem like a needy fucker asking for hugs all the time. Never ask for hugs unless the situation really calls for it, only newbies do that shit.
/r/seduction09/02/18 02:45 AM
1

Anger is usually due to depression issues. You are depressed because you haven’t kissed a girl. To solve this insecurity issue, you either tell yourself its okay to not have kissed a girl like most of the pussies here or you can keep on going until you eventually kiss a girl. No pain, no gain. You get shit done and get out. Look at it as a challenge to yourself and when you succeed you will come out a better man instead of some SJW manufactured incel.
/r/seduction09/02/18 02:36 AM
0

Holy fuck, you sound even more of a virgin than the other guy.
/r/seduction09/02/18 02:06 AM
0

LMAO. Now it all makes sense.
/r/seduction09/02/18 01:59 AM
0

Oh I don’t care what you think of me. Because I already know what I can do. I care about what you think of yourself. Because I think you think you are good at this shit. And I’ll be able to tell just by talking to you. So how do you turn on girl, mate? You can always ignore the question and do what you’ve been doing.
/r/seduction09/02/18 01:45 AM
-1

Are you going to call me a Normie next?
/r/seduction09/02/18 01:32 AM
0

People believe what they can relate to. And looking at the Reddit collective no shit you think I’m a liar. I bet you shit yourself at the thought of talking to a random hot girl. Basic shit like that you can’t even do.
/r/seduction09/02/18 01:31 AM
1

5-7 days is too much because you could be using that time to better yourself instead of blindly chasing girls. Are you following up with the numbers you get? After 2-3 days you should have about 20-30 numbers to work with and juggle around for a few days until one or two of those turn into dates. Also be careful looking like a creep just hitting up girls like crazy. If you are not staying in for at least 15 minutes, you need to work on you conversation skills.
/r/seduction08/02/18 03:07 PM
-2

Its hard to believe when the only thing you interact with are memes and your right hand. Have you ever talked to a girl that is not blood related to you?
/r/seduction08/02/18 02:54 PM
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Touch her. Thats the only way. Only virgins think they can talk their way into a girls pants. Knowing how to touch the right way is what gets women going. If you get good enough, you’ll be able to see when her clit tingles from the experience. Example would be this girl was having trouble pushing in something into a compactor. I went beside her, pushed it in in one fell swoop. When she felt my power, i saw her surprise and blush. Used it as an excuse to ask her if shes okay and that she looks li…
/r/seduction08/02/18 08:11 AM
6

Best response. Dont try too hard. Let your natural confidence and common sense do the work.
/r/seduction08/02/18 08:00 AM
0

Holy fuck you just went full retard
/r/TheRedPill22/01/18 04:18 PM
0

These statements mean nothing in terms of what really happened. They are merely meant to distract and/or shape public opinion while keeping your investors and sponsors from pulling sponsorship money from your projects.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/18 04:17 PM
1

Talk like a normal person, you are trying too hard.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/18 04:09 PM
1

No. Its very specific like you wrote this after your just had an argument with your girlfriend or something.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/18 04:09 PM
3

Lmao you think he's a wimp for apologizing publicly? Some things go beyond ego. That's a fucking PR move so he doesn't lose his job. You want him to send out a public rant and have every single feminazi out for his head? Sometimes the best move is to not be dumb af and saying "I did nothing wrong" right when this shit is at its peak is the dumbest fucking move you can make as a public figure. Some of you are too high on this red pill shit you lose your common sense.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/18 09:43 AM
1

This is oddly specific. Who hurt you?
/r/TheRedPill22/01/18 09:38 AM
1

So they tell you, you are attractive? Did you ask for their number? Did you try to get them on a date? That's what I mean by doing something. If you do in fact have women telling you you are attractive. Then it's already served on a silver platter for you.
/r/seduction22/01/18 09:18 AM
2

How do you even know someone is physically attracted to you? Everyone looks at everyone in college, everyone is curious but that won't get you laid alone. You have to stop theorizing and actually doing something.
/r/seduction20/01/18 09:03 AM
1

Lmao are you going to try to explain yourself so she has sex with you. When it comes to sex, what women say means NOTHING. I assure you it means NOTHING. She can she wants to have sex with you, but if the mood changes, that shit ain't happening.
/r/seduction20/01/18 09:01 AM
6

In fairness this is the easiest she could have made it for you. Glancing at you, sitting close to you and then directly looking at you. This is by no means a cold approach. It was an invitation. Good job, but seriously notice the difference. Most women would never open you unless it's in an exclusive venue and interaction is expected.
/r/seduction20/01/18 08:58 AM
1

Because it gets boring. You are too available and she's too available. That shit is boring af. Either you pull the trigger and ask her, or you play hard to get and not reply for a while.
/r/seduction15/03/17 05:12 AM
1

Its cute when girls do the whole possessiveness when they see a guy they like but its weird when a guy does it
/r/seduction13/10/16 07:28 AM
1

Oh god they look painfully awkward.
/r/seduction13/10/16 07:24 AM
2

You probably texted again before she could reply to the first one.
/r/seduction13/10/16 07:19 AM
1

Well the tendecy of what a girl does is to gain weight when she get more comfortable around you. Id prefer a curvy girl, but in my experience they go beyond curvy when they get comfortable. When Im with a thin chick, they gain weight they just become curvy not fat.
/r/seduction24/07/16 09:00 AM
1

Your game is boring. Way too predictable. Women dont like it when they know exactly what you are going to do and exactly what you are thinking. Im pretty sure she knew you are planning on kissing her because your body langage started tensing up. A kiss needs to be spontaneous, when you feel it, go for it or you totally miss the genuine effect. You have to take risks.
/r/seduction22/07/16 11:02 AM
2

Yeah ive dealt with that. Its annoying, but its mostly posturing and them trying to look manly to over-compensate for their insecurity against you. I personally just laugh it off since it would be realy trashy to just in a fight over a girl.
/r/seduction22/07/16 10:56 AM
2

Im personally inclinded to be attracted to thick girls with big boobs. But I always end up with slim girls because they are prettier and overall more fun to bring around and parade around your friends. Thicks girls are very atteactive in a prinal sense but they dont appeal to my pride of having the hottest girl in the room since fit girls will always look better.
/r/seduction22/07/16 10:48 AM
1

Because pretty much the fake pros took over and everyone started going with bullshit model of some guy who thinks allyou need to do ishe honest. Seduction tactics out the window and this pretty much opened itself to gurus who dont really know the actual logistics of picking up a girl so they just talk about a bunch of cliche shit that for some reason gets upvoted. I used to go here a lot and give advise but I pretty much got tired of seeing this informecial bs getting so much priase and pussies …
/r/seduction22/07/16 10:40 AM
2

STEP 1 - Don't think about it so muchyou have to make a seddit post about it to feel better.
/r/seduction17/07/16 11:30 PM
3

Lol this sub and obsession with beta and alpha. Just do what the fuck you want according to your principles. Dont let a woman or stupid TRP fuckheads tell you how to live your life.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/16 10:47 PM
1

All this talk of leagues is pointless. Its an ambiguous subject i dont feel like discussing in detail. My point is a girl who is hot is not as out of your reach as you think.
/r/seduction04/07/16 09:40 PM
1

A hot girl doesnt make her out of your league. If she's hot but poor and retarded, that pretty much puts her status down despite being hot.
/r/seduction04/07/16 09:21 PM
3

Nice you used a fancy word for something that means basically he same thing. Can you be my partner in thesaurus bee?
/r/seduction04/07/16 08:13 PM
3

Last time I checked beta males stare at women and don't talk to them because they are afriad of rejection while the alpha males talk to them and fuck them. All the while the beta male thinks she likes him becuase she looked downwards... You are an idiot. I wish there was a better way to communicate just how dissillusioned you are since Im sure your lack of emotional intelligence and self awareness prevents you from seeing how idiotic you are.
/r/seduction04/07/16 02:04 PM
1

I used to be really shy when I was a teen and now its very easy and I find it very enjoyable to pick up girls. How did I get here? Certainly not asking for strangers help, i got here by getting out there, approaching and learning from mistakes. 99% of dating advice is shit.
/r/seduction04/07/16 01:43 PM
2

So you stare ar them until they get creeped out and go away. They could literally be looking at anything and you would think they are looking at you. Stop doing it, its creepy. Youll realize this the hard way.
/r/seduction04/07/16 01:38 PM
2

Dinner is a horrible first date. Reserve it for when you are already screwing her.
/r/seduction04/07/16 01:34 PM
0

Sorry but leagues do exist. I see guys try so hard to get girls that I take for granted. At the same time, I try hard to get girls that guys above my league take for granted. Leagues exist, its based on status, looks, culture and genetics. for example if you are gangbanger you may score a pretty stripper that would be considered a 9 in looks but you would have no chance getting an ivy leage graduate 8 who has her entire life set has class, manner, loyalty and emotionally intelligent. The strippe…
/r/seduction04/07/16 01:31 PM
3

Geez no need to sound like a whipped fagget lmao. Haha jk enjoy bro
/r/seduction02/07/16 10:53 AM
2

Actually had a girl like this she would flake one time reschedule them flake. We would reschedule again and then she might actually go. Went on a few dates with her,l and dates went well but her flaking was just disrespectful. It shows shes still very immature. Girls like this end up like headaches. If you really want her, go for it. If shes just okay id pass, its not worth the effort and time wasted.
/r/seduction02/07/16 10:51 AM
2

How about actually be her friend? Trust me its really hard to find a girl who actually want to be just friends. In my experience at least. The moment i mention I want to be a girl friend only they seem to lose interest. Its because it actually really hard to get a genuine female friend. This is a good thing. You get to hang out with a female friend and you can date other girls still and then you can all go out together and youll like the fucking man with 2 girls.
/r/seduction02/07/16 10:47 AM
7

Im more confused with the phrase "we should hang out without her ex ocassionally." Did she mean you two should hang out without him or the two of them hang out without you?
/r/seduction02/07/16 10:43 AM
3

Hell naa is for the nasty one. Holy mother of ;$8382 are for dem fine ass bitches.
/r/seduction01/07/16 03:41 AM
24

What most guys think is a 10 is actually am 8 most times. Epsecially if you are new to this. Anyone relative attractive is immediately a "10." I only give 3 ratings. The "id fuck her," "Hell naaaa," and "holy mother$(9&:?:." Its a less complicated rating system.
/r/seduction30/06/16 07:42 PM
1

Walk away? The moment a girl shows attitude I know I don't want to be involved with them whatsoever, coming up with a comeback is pointless because they have already disqualified themselves.
/r/seduction30/06/16 09:24 AM
1

Well you can do systematic desensitization therapy style where you gradually increase your exposure to approaching women until you completely are comfortable with it, but that would be such a pussy way to do it.
/r/seduction30/06/16 09:22 AM
1

There is no correlation with girlfriend type or not being a girlfriend type based on how you meet. Its based on where you meet them. If you approach women at a bar or not you will still get the same type of women. Im not mad you just obviously have no idea what you are talking about.
/r/seduction28/06/16 05:38 AM
1

So the best you can brag about is a hot girl waving at you? Ask those who approach women and see what they brag about. You will see the huge difference in results.
/r/seduction27/06/16 08:15 PM
44

"Having fun" without approaching will not get you anywhere. Having fun while approaching is the key. Its pretty damn stupid to go to a club and not approach any girls, as a straight male and you dont have a girl already with you.
/r/seduction27/06/16 08:12 AM
5

These seem more like personal i lnsecurities rather than unpleasant truths. Whenever I go out with newbies they claim to know "who will be interested and who wont," based on how they look. They assume what women want. You wont know what they want until you try. You are so afraid of rejection you are giving yourself reasons to not do it. Here are unpleasant truths. Looks matter. You social status matters. Emotional high makes a girl forget about the above two. If you can get them really excited, …
/r/seduction20/06/16 07:52 AM
9

Pretty much waited on girls to do all the work. Worked for a while and cruised on looks, but I wanted more. So i got off my high horse and put myself in situatuons where I get rejected instead of believing im the shit by hiding behind the praises of mediocre women.
/r/seduction20/06/16 07:46 AM
1

You are already failing the "think less" part.
/r/seduction20/06/16 07:42 AM
1

Talk more, think less.
/r/seduction19/06/16 09:22 AM
1

Quick joke or remark. Or make a face/smile "Oh god its so crowded in here." "Wow im lost." "Is something on my face." Whatever comes to mind. The more you think about it, the more awkward it becomes.
/r/seduction18/06/16 11:15 AM
1

A socially awkward guy wont get laid anywhere tbh. Thats a communication problem thats needs to he resolved in and of itself.
/r/seduction18/06/16 10:16 AM
3

Lol is this a joke? You can't fall in the friendzone if you are fucking her. Friendzone is when you do a lot of shit for a girl and don't get laid. Being a friend with benefit is a good thing, you can go and start approaching other girls as well. Don't try to get in a relationship, it just happens.
/r/seduction17/06/16 10:41 AM
1

College is filled with women. Thats an advantages right there. College is super easy way to meet chicks no joke.
/r/seduction17/06/16 09:48 AM
7

Shhhh. The majority of people who write shit on this sub have no idea how to actually pick up women. Its just a bunch of dudes with blogs trying to get someone to sign up to their shitty bootcamp or buy their book.
/r/seduction17/06/16 09:47 AM
0

I doubt that. There are tones of pussified men out there nowadays. It just means there will be more privates as canon fodder while the actual good ones rank up.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/16 09:44 AM
1

Joining groups, events, signing up to websites etc.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/16 08:36 PM
0

Lol you are taking facebook way too seriously. You cant use anything nowadays without a facebook account. Just dont use it when you dont want to. Dont be so fucking melodramatic.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/16 10:00 AM
1

Just make your own group of friends. You can obviously pick up jew girls. Just fork a new one where you get to decide what happens.
/r/seduction06/05/16 05:38 PM
1

Easiest way is be part of a company that travels a lot. I work in business and we go out to major cities for business trips and it has a lot of downtime which you can use to pick up chicks.
/r/seduction06/05/16 05:35 PM
1

If he goes through hoops for you. i.e. It doesn't matter what it is. If he bends his rules to accomodate your needs he will commit. The interesting psychology behind commitment is the person who gives more will more likely give more in the future. This is borderline manipulative and its how I keep my girls in line, but basically the more they sacrifice to be with you, they more they will commit and the deeper your bond will be. Just be sure to not play with them because it will be very painful f…
/r/seduction06/05/16 12:46 AM
1

All disadvantages have advantages. Women pretty much begin with a better draw because at 21 their sexual value is sky high. But the difference is as they get old, that value goes down while for men that value just keeps going up assuming you start racking up accomplishments.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/16 10:48 AM
2

This pretty much.
/r/seduction01/05/16 10:45 AM
1

exactly what women find unattractive and forces them to friendzone me. If a girl friendzones you, its because she is not attracted to you. Period. A girl will make time, do anything she can if she is interested. You sound like a you don't have a lot of experience with women. If anything, alpha men have more freedom than before in today's society. It's just so happens that lower value men get way less action than before because the game has changed and the players are not even better at getting w…
/r/seduction01/05/16 09:00 AM
0

I don't write shit to brighten your day. Obviously you want someone to tell you some bullshit about everything will be fine if you just try hard enough. Try accepting the truth without acting like a spoiled brat when you don't like what you hear. Some shit you can't get no matter how hard you try. There are just men born to be great and some are meant to stand in their shadows. Think about that next time you fuck the whale you call a high value woman.
/r/seduction25/04/16 06:07 AM
2

You want to think it just takes confidence because that is actually the easy way. It takes you being an actual high value guy AND confidence. that means looks, how you talk, how you carry yourself, your lifestyle and everything about you.
/r/seduction24/04/16 09:27 PM
2

That the lawful parameter of a marriage. The true purpose of a marriage is spiritual unity. I have yet to see a girl to make me want it, but Im open to the idea of a real marriage if it ever comes to that point. Not everything in life is certain, most good things come with risks you just have to be aware of what you are doing before taking the risk. Not to mention there is prenup and if a girl is not willing to sign a prenup to prove to me she is not after my money then she is not worth marrying…
/r/TheRedPill20/04/16 09:14 AM
10

Same here. Maybe when I'm 40, but definitely not anytime soon. I value marriage too highly to just get married for the sake of it. A girl has to prove to me she is cool before I see her several times. She has to earn my respect to be in a relationship. She has to give me a reason as to why I should not keep looking around and be a little comfortable. I don't even know what will make me marry a girl. It has to be some epic out of this world shit.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/16 07:40 AM
2

The thing about certain hot girls is they have a ton of baggage that only an ugly guy will stay with them.
/r/seduction14/04/16 08:03 AM
74

Guys want to fuck a girl but they dont want to fuck a whale even though it will still give them a boner and bust a nut. A hot girl makes them feel proud. Girls want to get fucked by a guy but they dont want to involved with some loser. A hot/cool/successful guy makes them feel proud to be pounded by that cock. Not all men are like that just as how not all women are like that since people have varying degrees of sexuality and self awareness.
/r/seduction12/04/16 11:04 PM
5

What if you are not in 10th grade?
/r/seduction12/04/16 10:24 PM
1

Why is knowing the difference between two subjects have to be "negative" or "positive"? Its knowledge Then you should realize there is not positive negative. Its all gray areas. You should look up splitting defense mechanism and you will understand.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/16 05:35 PM
1

So you want my tone to be "less angry" and treat you like a little princess? Are you fucking kidding me. Also realize that projecting is when someone defends an argument based on what they refuse to believe. I already know women are pretty damn stupid, but the posts on this subreddit as just so dissillusioned my logic cant accept it because its obviously an over-negative view of women with a lot of opinions based on the emotional state of the poster not based on actual sceintific observation. I …
/r/TheRedPill10/04/16 05:33 PM
1

Push for new limits - great suggestions, picking up in a different area is on my list. Different country seems like an amazing idea... Pick up a new hobby - i have too many hobbies already. Im an addict to learning new things and i end up being all over the place so i try to avoid picking up new hobbies so i can master my older ones. Teach others - they ended up hitting on my dates which pissed me off. Work with a team - maybe i should look for a lair. Combine it with a new hobby - great suggest…
/r/seduction10/04/16 11:04 AM
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I'd consider this but this post and all the comments here all use a strawman argument. You all assume all women are the same. Some women put more emphasis on money, some more emphasis on comfort, some more emphasis on whatever it is. Each girl prefers to be "loved" differently just as us guys prefer to have our dicks stroked a certain way. You can be poor, but still possess value from your pure sense of will. That is what makes you a man, the desire to push on and to overcome. What makes a woman…
/r/TheRedPill09/04/16 10:46 PM
1

Lol approach invitation? This subreddit is going backwards dear lord. How did this shit get upvoted.
/r/seduction08/04/16 11:39 AM
1

Usually advice from women is pretty shit. This girl actually knows what shes talking about. This is pretty much how i am and thats why women feel comfortable doing wild shit with me. Its good to be the adult who lets everyone have fun but knows when shit is getting out of hand. Meaning you are not afraid to slap soneone on the wrist if you think they are being idiots.
/r/seduction04/04/16 06:27 PM
1

Im amazed by the amount of horrible advice that gets upvoted by a lot of people...
/r/seduction04/04/16 06:20 PM
1

Lol you talk like a beta. Betas friend are great. Do you really think alphas hang out with each other? Alphas are surrounded by followers (relative betas). The nerdier they are the more you can manipulate them. I have a bunch of nerdy friends and they would do anything for me just to be 10 feet from one the girls I go out with.
/r/seduction02/04/16 09:27 AM
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You have to get laid. Thats why you approach women regularly. Never hit up your exes, thats just...shameful.
/r/seduction29/03/16 08:54 PM
2

whoops skipped some of the paragraphs. Yeah she seems like a young inexperienced introverted pretty girl. There is more males in her life for sure but im guessing she kept it on the DL because girls like her tend to attract major players who fuck and dump.
/r/seduction29/03/16 12:12 PM
1

Yes it can be bad because you can get something from an overly promiscuous girl. I personally prefer normal chicks to sex machines, dated one and she freaked me the fuck out.
/r/seduction29/03/16 12:06 PM
30

You want to park somewhere like me and my friend do? Is shes a nympho? That gives me the impressions she has a ton of sexual partners.
/r/seduction28/03/16 07:44 AM
1

Lol the infamous dick pic logic. "Weve been talkinga lot. Could use a dick pic..."
/r/seduction28/03/16 07:41 AM
1

Well if you want to be a pussy then keep doing things because you are afraid of something else. It's the same reason you got into this mess, because you are afraid. People are seriously telling you to hang out even though you don't want to? Are you serious? Might as well cut your balls off. Don't hang out with her if you don't feel like it, do so if you actually do. She doesn't need a reason, you are your own person you do not answer to her and it's not your responsibility to keep her entertaine…
/r/seduction28/03/16 02:23 AM
4

Lol depends on the club atmosphere. There are ones that if you dont fit the bill dress-wise and stature-wise you wont land anything but grenades.
/r/seduction26/03/16 09:29 PM
2

I wont follow up. Shes doing the whole, "chase me more" thing. Youd need some sign that shes at least not an idiot before you continue. So far not saying yes or no is a pretty dick move. Id move on. If she has any respect to you, she will reply with an excuse. If she doesnt respect you, she will not reply. Take that as you may.
/r/seduction26/03/16 03:04 PM
1

Just use a concealer
/r/seduction26/03/16 03:00 PM
1

Yeah why not. But her looking at you doesnt mean anything. Girls look at everyone.
/r/seduction26/03/16 02:59 PM
1

Bar seems like a great idea. Second date is anything that can help you isolate her and get her comfortable alone with you. Make sure the bar is close to a place where you guys can chill alone together.
/r/seduction26/03/16 02:58 PM
1

Just the first one. Maybe add a joke about something that will remind her enotionally of what you guys were talking about before you left.
/r/seduction26/03/16 02:57 PM
2

How do you know she wont flake?
/r/seduction26/03/16 02:53 PM
1

Models is overrated, yet so many people on this sub swear by it. Seriously? Be honest ALL THE TIME? That's fucking stupid. It's because there are tons of frustrated PUAs here who got sick of "manipulative game" so instead of finding a balance of honesty and some manipulation, they just go towards putting the pussy on the pedestal all over again. You're instincts are correct. You are a smart man. I suggest you just do trial and error on your own and realize what works for you.
/r/seduction26/03/16 09:20 AM
1

There is a lot of competition in the US and women have a lot of choices here. Women in other countries dont have as many options so they take what they can get. Its all the same. Its a personal trait. Any person who changes because they get some sort of power is not worth having. Try it. Give a girl you are seeing some sort of power over you. Does she stayas sweet as she is or does she morph into a bitch?
/r/seduction25/03/16 07:48 PM
12

Dont worry about it just let it go it will sort itself out in the morning.
/r/seduction25/03/16 07:44 PM
1

Had to go through hundreds of women in order to get one good prospect. The ones i got were okay but it was still not worth it considering the amount of work. Instagram also has dm limits that make it harder to scale up. Overall just not a type of thing youd want to do regularly.
/r/seduction25/03/16 09:33 AM
2

Shes fucking him. Trust me. Been in the same situation. Trust me walk away and be a man. You will never regret it. You will become a better person as a result.
/r/seduction25/03/16 07:40 AM
1

You need to make an impression or those numbers wont convert. The longer the interaction the better. The more venue changes the better
/r/seduction25/03/16 07:38 AM
2

So she fucked a guy and you are still trying to be with her? Do you have scissors? Take that and cut your balls off then throw it off a bridge. Have. An ounce. Of. Self. Respect.
/r/seduction25/03/16 07:36 AM
1

Ive met girls through instagram. Its a waste of time. Trust me.
/r/seduction25/03/16 07:33 AM
5

Lol talk about dense xD. She asked you to netflix and chill dude thats pretty much sex.
/r/seduction25/03/16 07:32 AM
1

You are probably a socially awkward goodlooking guy who finally came out of his shell. Tinder is very vain and that fact that you are doing well means you are abover average when it comes to looks.
/r/seduction25/03/16 07:29 AM
9

Well Ive been in one of these exclusive events like these and the fact that you know the organizers is a high value booster. I remember working for an exclusive art show and I had to do some of the visuals for the show. Just them seeing you doing cool shit with the people who launched the show makes girls wet. I was being opened by 9s and 10s were extremely friendly. They would talk and flirt with you all night but once its over, its all gone. You have to take advantage of it by going to a bar r…
/r/seduction25/03/16 07:22 AM
2

The only thing applicable here is the time frame. In pick up thats called false time constraint. When it comes to attraction you dont "pitch" with words, you sell yourself subconsciously through looks, fashion body language and how you talk. Basically your overall vibe. If you start trying to prove yourself to a girl you will fail miserably.
/r/seduction25/03/16 07:09 AM
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Not to be a downer but your social status had already been set by the people who get you into the venue. Energy helped, but im pretty sure its the fact that you had connections that helped you during the interaction. I wouldnt even go for the number. Usually things like these have afterparties and you should try to go with you to tue afterparty. Its gives off an exclusivity vibe.
/r/seduction25/03/16 07:00 AM
1

From my experience going for a kiss is outdated. Ive fucked girls that ive never kissed and kissed girls right before fucking. Its unneeded stress and wouldbt even worry about it unless the stars align to the point that not kissing would be stupid.
/r/seduction24/03/16 10:23 AM
1

Twitter is pretty bad for dating. A lot of tue attractive women on there are bots. And most dont pay attention to DM. You wuld literally be scarping tue internet to find one girl who cold be interested.
/r/seduction23/03/16 12:50 PM
1

Nofap is the stupidest shit out there. It literally makes your sexual muscle atrophy so when you have sex you want have any control over your dick and will probably cum in 10 seconds. Edging is what you should be doing. Trains the muscles and has the same sexual build up as not fapping to the power of 10000.
/r/seduction23/03/16 12:47 PM
9

Petite could mean shes short. Big butt and triples ds arent so bad. Im dating a fit chick with an angelic face but i saw a chick like that pass by and i thought to myself i wouldnt mind a taste of that jiggly stuff.
/r/seduction23/03/16 12:44 PM
1

By the time it took you to think about tue reasons she could be flaking, you could have already approached several girls. You cant "convert" girls. You cant make someone do what they dont want to do. They either like you or they dont based on who you are as a person. 2 #closes is a very small sample. On a given day i get 10 numbers to get one solid date. 2 if its a good day. 3 if im in the zone for some reason.
/r/seduction23/03/16 02:56 AM
0

If you dont want to go dont go, if you want to go, go. Nuf said.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/16 09:43 AM
1

This is great. So many problems on this sub can he fixed simply by "approachinng more." When I feel down, i approach and i feel better and less self conscious because it puts you in a flow state of acting and not thinking. This is also very true for when you start getting needy. If you feel like you want a girl too much, approach another girl and see it become more manageable. The hard part though is getting you life and career in order to support this lifestyle. If i could just approach girls a…
/r/seduction22/03/16 08:54 AM
2

Holy shit that kiss was fucking smooth.
/r/seduction22/03/16 08:48 AM
1

Well it really depends, based on what youve told me, i dont think its a big deal. Id he more worried of how thinking about it too muc could potentially ruin the flow your conversation. What you say usually dont matter, its how you say it.
/r/seduction22/03/16 08:44 AM
0

well thats why this isn't r/relationships it's about seduction for however shortlived it may be. For the most part, a Long Distance Relationship is pretty shitty if you don't plan on meeting up enough times to fullfill the basic human need to be close to someone.
/r/seduction21/03/16 06:55 AM
2

Yeah chances are they will forget too after a few months. I've approached girls that I've already approach and neither of us remember why we didn't hang out the first time so start texting again. As long as you don't act like a creep and don't get too needy, you won't have much trouble.
/r/seduction21/03/16 06:52 AM
4

Lol you definitely don't talk about past relationships if you have anything bad to say about it, it just leave a bad taste in the mouth and distracts you both from what is important - having fun and nothing caring about anything else. If you talk bad about your ex, she will think that you will judge her if she does something and keep her from opening up and doing dirty shit with you.
/r/seduction21/03/16 06:50 AM
1

Too nice and too needy and too easy.
/r/seduction21/03/16 04:19 AM
2

Don't over commit. Continue meeting other girls and let it grow by itself and let it take it's own path. Don't be a needy pussy.
/r/seduction21/03/16 04:16 AM
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Meet him? Long Distance is boring af.
/r/seduction21/03/16 04:15 AM
1

You are not escalating enough and not risking enough. Now matter how good of a conversationalist you are if you don't do anything exciting it ultimately becomes a boring interaction. Take risks.
/r/seduction21/03/16 04:14 AM
1

Just text her and let her know who you are. If she is interested she will respond.
/r/seduction21/03/16 04:13 AM
3

Be positive and find a positive way to convey negative situations.
/r/seduction21/03/16 04:10 AM
2

Really doesn't matter. If they find out, they will care for about 10 minutes and then move on. Just keep approaching who you like and don't do anything stupid or illegal.
/r/seduction21/03/16 04:07 AM
3

I know that's why I gave him advice on how to end up in the friend zone. If you friend zone a girl straight up, they will no zone you because they feel rejected.
/r/seduction20/03/16 09:19 PM
1

I find it Ironic that you wrote an essay about not reading.
/r/seduction20/03/16 07:54 AM
8

Never let them know that you want to be friends. Just let them know that you want to invite them to a bunch of events with other friends. Just be ambiguous about it but don't make them uncomfortable and don't physically escalate. You will eventually end up in the friend zone.
/r/seduction20/03/16 07:54 AM
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Its exactly the same. Stay when you want, and leave when you want. Just because there is a group doesn't mean you have to stay there. The silliest thing I've seen people do in parties is they stay in a group just to stay in a group. They are just standing there boring themselves to death. In parties and groups situation I like to move in and out of groups, stick to the fun ones and ditch the boring ones not out of "trying to look like I belong" but just out of the genuine desire to have fun.
/r/seduction18/03/16 08:05 AM
7

Something you try to put off until she likes you better. Such as whether you a have a job or not, you have a third nipple, that type of shit just because its irrelevant when you are still getting to know each other and trying to just have fun.
/r/seduction16/03/16 09:27 PM
1

Nice a gif reply. Very reddit.
/r/seduction16/03/16 09:35 AM
1

not to sound arrogant but i dont need help pick upwise. I can approach a girl under any circumstance and easily get the number. I can get a number, go for an instadate or whatever, i dont even think about approaching a girl its just automatic. I need help in terms of what I asked above. I hate how i asked help for something else and you offer to help in something i dont need any help with. You are the one assuming i dont know anything just because most of the people who post here are teenage vir…
/r/seduction15/03/16 07:06 PM
0

So when you get a girls no number you just go immediately to hey lets meet here at this date. You dont even do all the logistical text like who you are and how she met you? Most hot girls get texts from many random guys, if you dont remind her who you are she will have no idea who you are. This is just logistics and practical stuff. You remind her of who sues talking to and you remind her why she likes you subtextually. This has nothing to do with low value mumbo jumbo. Any guy who regularly pic…
/r/seduction15/03/16 10:10 AM
0

Why do i need to know who im talking to? How do you know what to say then? In order to set up a date you need to remind her of the interaction that happened to callback the good feelings she had while i was picking her up. Im amazed that the lead moderator does not know this.
/r/seduction15/03/16 08:54 AM
4

The sexiest thing you can say to a girl is No. It makes them wet like nothig else. All your screaming is just you.
/r/seduction14/03/16 06:38 PM
1

Well it depends. Is it because youve always dated very hot girls or you are used to the idea of being with very hot girls. If its the latter, you will probably have to test the water a little bit and maybe date some fatties along the way.
/r/seduction14/03/16 12:51 AM
6

Well for me just be a happy and healthy person. It doesnt matter if you are richer cooler or better than them if its only short lived. Make smart decision and make bold moves to get what you want. Your life will then be complete once you see that being cool is not as cool as you think it is because you will always find someone cooler than you. So at some point you will have to be happy with where you are at.
/r/seduction14/03/16 12:42 AM
0

You are an omega male.
/r/seduction13/03/16 05:51 AM
1

This motherfucker is efficient. I do the same thing. When I go shopping I make an effort to pick up at least one chick. Try to pick up a girl wherever you go. Not at the gym though, or any place that you considered your happy place/man cave.
/r/seduction13/03/16 05:20 AM
5

Courageousness is what makes you a better person. I dont give a fuck if its unattractive or not. If you believe in something you better stand up for it. But then again dont be a dumbass. Theres a fine line between actual courageousness and just blindly believing in something without seeking for the truth.
/r/seduction12/03/16 09:31 PM
1

Lol that usually means you are good looking. Your friend is just REALLY goodlooking. I bet youre an 8 and hes a 10.
/r/seduction12/03/16 02:28 AM
6

Well to be honest, according to your first post you don't seem to have much trouble sleeping with women so you are probably a good looking mofo.
/r/seduction11/03/16 08:50 AM
2

Lol yeah. I'd probably want to spar him and regret it.
/r/seduction10/03/16 11:10 PM
1

This is somewhat true. What most guys tend to do is they basically think they've got it in the bag once she gives him her number. The point is to make a lasting impression on the girl, to make a connection, to have her go through some of your hoops otherwise it's better to eject than to go for a pointless number that will probably flake. Despite this, it's still good to go for a number or a social media account so you get something out of the situation and make potential profitable connections i…
/r/seduction10/03/16 06:33 AM
0

Well that and you are probably justifying your situation so you can rip on guys who actually do get girls because they give it their all. So you label them as "trying too hard or being too consumed." That way you can feel good about your laissez-faire approach.
/r/seduction10/03/16 06:29 AM
1

Let me see, they both fight for your attention? Hmmm let me guess that's bad right?
/r/seduction10/03/16 06:25 AM
1

wow im amazed at yourr lack knowledge in this for someone who claims to be a master at this. sex happens behind closed doors and girls rarely talk about their sex life with new friends.
/r/seduction10/03/16 01:23 AM
2

Lol exactly. He meets a "PICK UP COACH" to get better at picking up girls, gets upset that the guy tries to pick up girls. Sees he suck at it and draws the conclusion that he is consumed by game.
/r/seduction09/03/16 11:35 PM
0

And this article isn't about me getting better at game it's just to show how game can affect your life if taken too seriously. So you want people to not take self improvement too seriously and become mediocre at everything in fear of looking like a fool. Good luck.
/r/seduction09/03/16 11:32 PM
1

Only if you are a creep. If you game areas and people end up disliking you, then you are probably giving off a creepy vibe. You start with one girl, then you start introducing them to each other and before long you have your own entourage on campus.
/r/seduction09/03/16 11:27 PM
1

Lol did you think i only care about numbers. Of course I get laid. Pick up and how you get laid are two entirely separate things. Pick up just your method of acquiring women. Actually getting laid comes from actually having an attractive lifestyle, attractive personality and attractive look. Lol also 1 girl on campus every 5 weeks. You sound like you know absolutely nothing about pick up and trying to sell some bullshit product to make a quick buck.
/r/seduction09/03/16 07:33 PM
1

Daygame is the easiest shit out there. I just go up to girls on campus and go "hey whats up." They look at you funny for a few seconds and then don't really care after if you do your shit correctly. Super markets, shopping malls I go indirect but its just as easy. You go in, you go out, noone really cares what you do because everyone is too busy thinking about themselves. It's like you are literally window shopping. Once in a while I see guys with really bad body language try to approach girls a…
/r/seduction09/03/16 09:36 AM
1

Dude you take reddit too seriously...
/r/seduction09/03/16 09:28 AM
1

Dude hikes are the shit. Just ask her interesting things. "What was your scariest hiking experience" then gradually escalate it to "What's the wildest thing you've done while hiking?" Then at the end of the day you are both tired. That's a shit ton of opening for you.
/r/seduction09/03/16 09:27 AM
5

Start soft and feel the shape of her lips. You also need a rhythm of action. Do the kissing motion in synchrony with her motion or it just won't feel right. Let it naturally get intense until you are both tonguing the shit out of each other.
/r/seduction09/03/16 09:23 AM
1

Yeah its mental ED. I've had that during the first few times I've gotten laid with a random chick. You just need to make that switch from "hey this could be happening I better make something happen," to "Hey this is totally happening, I'm just going to shut the fuck up and enjoy it." Focus more on what you like about her. I like looking at the girl's lips making out with her and then looking at her again admiring how pretty she is, getting really into admiring her. You just get into the mood of …
/r/seduction09/03/16 09:19 AM
4

If you have no career, and no achievement maybe that's what you should focus on first before girls because that's actually quite important. You probably should see a psychologist to talk about how your mentality evolved into your current state. Seems like how you are is deep rooted into how your cognitive schema and you basically need to reprogram how you think before you can make any actual progress into becoming a better person.
/r/seduction09/03/16 09:12 AM
3

No girls on campus? You gotta be kidding me. You went to a campus and to Target and he ended up just talking to a receptionist? That's bull. But more importantly, this guy offered you help so you both can improve and approach, and you end up talking shit about him. Says more about you than him to be frank. At least he has drive to improve.
/r/seduction09/03/16 09:08 AM
2

I would drop her if I were you. So far only had one REALLY REALLY bad flaker. She would keep rescheduling and flaking like wtf. I just stopped responding to her text. A few months later she has bf, I feel bad for him he will probably end up bald. I would rather have a girl not put out than to be a flake. Getting laid once that would most likely be shitty sex is not worth all that bullshit.
/r/seduction08/03/16 10:07 PM
3

I just did one outside a few hours ago and I'm currently texting with her and scheduling a date. Preferably its better to approach in the daytime, but if its night time and you are feeling your mojo, go for it.
/r/seduction08/03/16 08:14 AM
2

These people are in the game 1 month max and settle down with a six they think is a 10
/r/seduction06/03/16 09:53 PM
1

im more of a "you seem fun, give me a reason not to walk away and look elsewhere because there 1 billion more girls like you." Let me see you last with that mindset. Youll eventually find you will gradually become an ass kisser then ill find you in r/mgtow
/r/seduction06/03/16 09:51 PM
1

That wouldn't work for me. I'm not a charity box.
/r/seduction06/03/16 08:58 AM
-3

Lol give her a good experience? That such bs and super cheesy. You approach girls because you want to. Obviously if she's being a bitch you wouldn't want to anymore. Simple as that.
/r/seduction06/03/16 01:37 AM
0

Theres literally thousands of students in a college. Girls hook up with random guys in college all the time. Noone even pays attention to campus politics except a few students. The majority of the women are just minding their own business mostly worrying about their own classes and homework. Sitting around doing nothing on campus in between classes. You dont need any social proof. The only social proof you need is a backpack and being inside the campus. Ive literally picked up chicks on campuses…
/r/seduction04/03/16 03:30 PM
1

Lol you dont need any social proof in college. Ive seen many guy go in group approaching girls getting zero success while i swoop in alone and scrape the campus of girls numbers with zero social proof.
/r/seduction04/03/16 10:30 AM
1

Women respond to how you look Mostly about your attire or if you look u healthy aka bad posture, bad body language, etc.
/r/seduction04/03/16 10:28 AM
1

Might as well go gambling. Online dating is stupid. The only online leads I go for are warm ones aka when the girl initiates, otherwise you will be spending hours of your time and lots of effort going for pointless leads.
/r/seduction02/03/16 10:23 AM
2

Not for me. Once I get a girl, I start seeing her flaws and I start looking for another girl who doesn't have those flaws. The good thing about this is I naturally go for hotter and hotter girls.
/r/seduction01/03/16 06:50 PM
1

Aaaaand deleted cuz faggot
/r/seduction29/02/16 11:03 PM
1

Horrible idea. You'll just delay until you are too fucking big to pick up any girls. Then you'll be like "Should I cut before I start approaching girls."
/r/seduction28/02/16 12:16 PM
1

Depends on the club. Some clubs are not friendly to newbies.
/r/seduction28/02/16 06:45 AM
0

If you don't feel the desire to text a girl, then you need to pick up hotter girls.
/r/seduction22/02/16 10:55 AM
1

Just be completely honest and don't give shits about it. Most of these women are drunk af, it doesn't matter what you say in response. Ive had a girl show her pussy and pee beside my car then started grabbing me. It would have been stupid to try and "game" her. Just realize you are dealing with someone stupid and move on. The worst thing you can do to a stupid person is try to reason with them.
/r/seduction22/02/16 10:53 AM
1

Doing shit to keep girls interested in you is the worst frame ever. Do shit to you interested in you. That means you don't keep doing boring shit just because you are afraid of losing something.
/r/seduction22/02/16 07:54 AM
1

Well these are girls ive already hooked and fucked. I just bring them to parties.
/r/seduction22/02/16 06:11 AM
1

Holy shit it is grammatically correct! I sounds so wrong though xD
/r/seduction22/02/16 06:07 AM
6

Dont listen to the other guy. Neediness is being a clingy fuckboi who is too afraid to lose a girl so he does stupid shit. Its like being the typical redditor whos afraid to say anything remotely out of non-pc in fear of being downvoted. Then they regurgitate same cliche shit to get upvotes.
/r/seduction21/02/16 05:14 AM
1

Its "learned" not learnt. Also business and game are a match made in heaven since you need to network and make connections and the best connections are attractive women.
/r/seduction20/02/16 08:50 AM
2

Yeah if the place is clique, its an uphill battle.
/r/seduction20/02/16 08:48 AM
1

Makes sense but your frame is wrong. You are acting out of fear. If she goes let her go.
/r/seduction20/02/16 08:47 AM
0

lol i dont gve a fuck about game when im hanging out with friends. I bring girls to parties to hang out and have fun. Having friends that act like horn dogs and dont respect your shit is a drag.
/r/seduction20/02/16 08:44 AM
5

Lol this is like the awkward intro to every teen movie before the hero comes out of his shell and becomes batman or some shit. Yeah dude you are probabaly attractive. So just get over it and get laid already. Youll see its nothing to be stressed about.
/r/seduction19/02/16 06:21 PM
9

You did fine. Dont overthink it. The worst thing you can do is start tensing up before going for a make out. Its supposed to be a spontenaeous reaction to your attraction to her. Just being naturally close to her face will let you get into the mood.
/r/seduction19/02/16 06:18 PM
-6

it was a rant. I know cant expect guys to "not hit on" attractive girls when they feel like there is an opening for them. Its just desperate and douchey as fuck when Im being nice to them and they take advantage of it by trying to steal my girls.
/r/seduction19/02/16 06:12 PM
-1

Hmmm interesting. I actually get too many white girls and not enough latina girls. I need some caliente in my life.
/r/seduction19/02/16 09:09 AM
1

I would suggest you make it 5. Make your 6th day a rest day just doing whatever and your seventh day a warm up day and trying to study what you did right or wrong during the approach days. Approaching mindlessly without learning anything is how most guys end up going years without any actual progress.
/r/seduction13/02/16 05:27 AM
1

Whatever feels natural...Don't go down this stupid route of dissecting everything you have to say. You'll end up sounding stupid.
/r/seduction13/02/16 05:25 AM
1

Check dress code. Bring cash for cover fee and drinks. Dont stand around looking around. Talk to people immediately asking random question just to get things started. Then junp from one conversation to a another.
/r/seduction12/02/16 11:57 AM
1

Girls never say a guy is hot unless they are drunk af.
/r/seduction12/02/16 11:48 AM
2

Fix your facial expression and be less tense. You would actually be pretty darn good looking if you fixed your body language and dont act like a creeper. You have a creepy-ass facial expression like nude photographers lurking r/photography
/r/seduction06/02/16 11:28 AM
1

Lol you sound like me... traveling and hooking up,except I don't use tinder. ugghhh.
/r/seduction05/02/16 04:17 AM
1

Cool deal i actually have a family event that i actually have to attend on the 15 so i gess incan say its a family trip for the weekend. not so sure id want to give them something i personally feel like thats a jump.
/r/seduction04/02/16 11:38 AM
1

I would suggest you be careful "initiating kino." Kino should be spontaneous and natural otherwise she will realize you want to just touch her and gives off a very needy vibe. You'll know you messed up when she starts pulling away from you instead of wanting more physical contact.
/r/seduction03/02/16 09:17 AM
1

Risks.
/r/seduction01/02/16 11:30 AM
1

They don't care if you are in it for the sex or not. If they like you, they will move mountains for you.
/r/seduction01/02/16 11:29 AM
2

You met 3 times and you made no move. You are boring the fuck out of her. Take a risk. She doesn't want you as a friend and you don't want her as a friend. Go for it or lose her. That's it.
/r/seduction01/02/16 11:28 AM
11

Agreed and no affiliate link in the end which is a change.
/r/seduction01/02/16 11:25 AM
1

Ive trained martial arts and i have a lot of experience. I have sparred guy bigger and heavier than me etc. Im not bragging, my point is that if I get in a fight I lm pretty sure Im going to have an advantage. That being said, I think you handle it correctly at first but you should have showed a gentle nudge saying that you dont appreciate him throwing the cup at your girlfriend. You show some restraint but you show that you are willing to beat his ass to the ground as well, but in a respectful …
/r/seduction31/01/16 08:58 PM
1

Defense mechanism. You reject them before they can reject you. Escalation puts your ego at risk and you don't want to do that or you'll get off your high being the guy every girl chases after.
/r/seduction30/01/16 08:41 PM
19

Lol not even a friend. I totally agree. Shes not only horrible at being a date, she's a crappy friend. There is no reason so stay.
/r/seduction30/01/16 08:39 PM
2

Did you specify who you are and where you met? Girls get a ton of texts frok random people. Just texting "hey" as a first text will get you ignored.
/r/seduction29/01/16 09:17 AM
1

I dont see the problem in this situation. As long as it doesnt stress you out or stop you from gaming other chicks its a win win situation imoz
/r/seduction29/01/16 09:15 AM
2

Anything that would get her into your room or you into her room. Thats assuming you have good vibes otherwise she will know whats up and already have a wall before you even get to her house. Ive fucked girls i havent even kissed. Its all about logistics and physical escalation after a certain point.
/r/seduction29/01/16 09:13 AM
0

Is this the time of year when most gay guys become most active. I literally the same experience a few days ago at a nightclub.
/r/seduction29/01/16 09:09 AM
1

I dont care about it much, but from my recent experience for example. Had sex with a girl who only had been with two guys her whole life and havent had any sex the past 2 years, i basically have to devirginate her again which is a huge drag and shes not very good at rhythm, hj and bj. In comparison to this other girl im seeing that is already ready really good and very sensual, the whole ordeal of being with an "innocent girl" is mostly meaningless because we are all here to have a good time. Ex…
/r/seduction26/01/16 06:42 PM
1

You are too considerate. Thats my problem too, but i honestly dont mind the partnership for a month or so i just date 2 to 3 girls at a time. You would have to take on the guilt of breaking their heart, this is the cost of being a player without being a total douchebag.
/r/seduction25/01/16 06:53 PM
2

It's because you can't just create e guideline on eye contact. You look enough just to make a connection. If you look at her in a forced way its just creepy as fuck. The best guidelines is to make sure to "make the effort ti make eye contact" because having too much eye contact is usually better than having no eye contact whatsoever.
/r/seduction25/01/16 10:23 AM
3

Delete, archive, or whatever it takes to move on. Online dating is bs to begin with.
/r/seduction25/01/16 10:21 AM
1

Thats just typical social calibration similar to how you use FTCs and Disqualifiers to reduce social pressure.
/r/seduction25/01/16 10:20 AM
1

Are you in NorCal?
/r/seduction25/01/16 08:13 AM
1

Well yes that what most guys who arent billionaires, actors and extremely goodlooking will have to do. My point is you will have to chase at some point. But you need to have the skill and experience to realize when she is hooked and make her chase you. Not chasing a girl under any circumstance is just wishful thinking.
/r/seduction15/01/16 06:28 PM
2

So 99% of guys are fucked then.
/r/seduction15/01/16 04:58 PM
4

Do you even know what that means. How do you plan on getting girls without any form of chasing? This is such a cliche phrase people just use it to justify inaction.
/r/seduction15/01/16 04:47 PM
10

Lol great in theory.
/r/seduction15/01/16 09:50 AM
1

Lol same XD
/r/seduction13/01/16 11:06 AM
9

snorting cock and choking on coke...
/r/seduction12/01/16 09:56 PM
65

has big tits
/r/seduction12/01/16 09:54 PM
-1

You are not used to chasing, this will be a long and painful process. To chase you need to, not chase. Chase only enough to make a girl want to chase you.
/r/seduction11/01/16 11:47 AM
107

Easier said than done. Its all fun and games until shit starts to hurt. Its part of human psychology to become invested into a person you like and pursue. If all you think of is having fun you will eventually find yourself investing way too much into a girl. Then out of nowhere it aint fun anymore. Its painful. Im not saying you shouldnt have fun. Im saying you are oversimplifying a very complicated process of calibration that many guys take years to truly understand.
/r/seduction11/01/16 11:45 AM
1

Ah! I got the magic for you. There is this thing called letting them chase you. If you do all the chasing, the girl will naturally reject you eventually. The fact that you can get to that point before she rejects you means you got potential. Most guys only get to the talking, but you get them to make out. You need to step back and let them chase you. When you feel like you hit the hook point, chill the fuck out, be commanding and let them chase you.
/r/seduction11/01/16 09:53 AM
1

Yeah def not gonna go over 16% cuz that's just starting to enter into the pudge look hah.
/r/seduction11/01/16 09:50 AM
1

Yeah im getting too invested in her even posting a thread specifically for this situation. But hey why not.
/r/seduction10/01/16 10:37 AM
1

Yeah she just texted me. I'll reply tomorrow. Weird. I've been way to anxious lately...
/r/seduction10/01/16 08:43 AM
0

I did. in fact I picked up hotter more fit girls during that time period, but I think its because my game was tighter. I got a lot of comments saying, "you should gain weight" and "you look tired." At first I thought they were just saying that, but I noticed how people talked to me change in a negative way. But then your experience made me think maybe I was just too unhealthy during my cut which made me look gaunt. I'll definitely try again after this bulk since I'll probably have more lean mass…
/r/seduction10/01/16 07:26 AM
0

Me when I cut my face looks really gaunt. This cut went sub 10% body fat which is the lowest I've gone. I'm probably around 13% right now. Thanks for sharing bro.
/r/seduction10/01/16 07:09 AM
0

That meme is so old I contracted Alzheimer just watching that vid.
/r/seduction10/01/16 06:20 AM
2

Yeah but I pretty much called her a "peasant." And now she thinks I'm a snobby rich kid.
/r/seduction10/01/16 06:16 AM
0

I already said that. But now she wants me to chase even more because I offended her. This girl would usually be the one to initiate texts before this incident and now she waits for me to initiate the text.
/r/seduction10/01/16 06:15 AM
-1

Okay, that is your opinion.
/r/seduction10/01/16 06:13 AM
1

I don't get what's hard to understand here.
/r/seduction10/01/16 06:04 AM
1

Wait so you make out all of these girls and they end up friendzoning you?
/r/seduction10/01/16 04:20 AM
-1

Best way to respond is some clever witty comeback wothout being overly pervy. I.e. "I suddenly have a craving for melons."
/r/seduction10/01/16 04:05 AM
-3

Wow shameful shameful actions. Just describe it to us... In detail.
/r/seduction10/01/16 04:03 AM
1

I'm amazed by the downvote I got from this. 4.5 million in a city as wide as New York would be nothing. 4.5 million in a small area is what makes it less likely to approach the same girl. Otherwise you'd have to travel hours everyday to take advantage of the large population.
/r/seduction09/01/16 10:47 PM
-9

4.5 millions isnt that big. Its not the population size its the population density.
/r/seduction09/01/16 03:50 AM
1

For me its more than qualification. Its helps me have fun. For a few months Ive been having horrible success, then I realize I've been adapting the stupid mentality of "wanting the girl to stay and talk." It's like a I lost myself. The reason I'm doing this is so that I can have options and walk away. Dictating the pace, being unpredictable and not being afraid to say what I want and aim to entertain myself instead of the other way around. I talk with the intention of walking away if something d…
/r/seduction08/01/16 08:03 AM
1

You are going to be a beast IF you do keep going, but just like most cases. Them horny fuckers always end up settling down with some girl with mind-fuck game.
/r/seduction08/01/16 05:01 AM
1

Not true. I've me so many boring fucking women that just wasted my time. If she bores the shit out of you, stop talking/stop texting and watch walk away or try to gain back your attention. Life is too short for boring people.
/r/seduction08/01/16 04:58 AM
3

You need to be more "dancy" when at night. By dancy I mean you need to have your own swag and you should be focused on having fun not having conversations. It's all about the flow of the emotion not the conversation when doing night game.
/r/seduction08/01/16 04:56 AM
2

This amazing. Bookmarked. There is that element of "playing a game" that strips a huge part of people's inhibitions for some reason.
/r/seduction03/01/16 04:32 AM
4

If you haven't been rejected you must be pretty smooth. I usually get some blow outs when I do warm ups. When I get in the zone it lasts for a few days of getting numbers non-stop then I get burned out and take a break from texting several girls and dating. Getting the date requires that you keep them intrigued after you get the number. If you make it too easy for them obviously they won't be intrigued anymore. You have to hold something back and tease them.
/r/seduction22/12/15 10:47 AM
1

Well it's more of a throw it out there and make sure it doesn't fuck you up too much, but I doubt it will fly as easily as he is making it sound.
/r/seduction22/12/15 10:39 AM
50

Seem good in theory never works out in reality since girls always feel like they are your special someone.
/r/seduction21/12/15 09:37 AM
1

For the purpose of selling your trainings.
/r/seduction21/12/15 09:31 AM
0

Hard to take someone seriously when they give you an affiliate link in the end.
/r/seduction20/12/15 04:12 PM
2

Lol
/r/seduction16/12/15 07:57 AM
6

Yea why not. A no go is picking up customers. It was pretty lenient where I worked when I was working retails and I still had to hide it when I was picking up shoppers.
/r/seduction14/12/15 12:08 PM
1

If a girl wants to just be friends with you should be happy. I tried picking up girls for the sole purpose of being friends while i was somewhat "loyal to a girl." Guess what its a lot harder than you think. Those who say they want to friends usually are just bored of you so you dont actually become friends, you just sort of know each other. Those who like you will be offended if they find out you just want to be friends and start being difficult. Those with boyfriends usually cant hagout be aus…
/r/seduction13/12/15 01:07 PM
5

Here are the pictures a beach a freaking guy and some girls back "We fucked, here's a picture of the wall." WTF is with all these article link postings lately. This subreddit has gone downhill fast.
/r/seduction09/12/15 12:57 PM
-1

Knew there was going to be a link in the end.
/r/seduction08/12/15 10:08 AM
1

This made me lol so hard.
/r/seduction20/11/15 11:26 AM
1

"reverberate your entire body" That made me lol. I've done some voice work and you can't reverberate your entire body. There is the chest cavity, the throat region and your nasal cavity. You can vary the vibration between those areas, but you can never reverberate your "entire" body. Like I've told many people here, just record yourself and work on being understandable and projecting emotion and your desired vibe through your voice in a natural way.
/r/seduction19/11/15 08:44 AM
1

Tourists are actually the easiest as oppose to locals.
/r/seduction19/11/15 08:35 AM
1

How do you talk to women then?
/r/seduction14/11/15 09:47 PM
0

Talk about them allday everyday. Never talk about yourself for more than a little bit and if you do, never be serious. There. I gave you the secret to talking to women.
/r/seduction14/11/15 08:33 AM
1

We all have "deformities" to some degreee i.e. A deviation from the ideal trait. Best way to deal with it is to try and minimize the deformity. An example would be if you have no teeth than just wear dentures, but at some point you would need to come clean about your flaws or it will just be stressful for you. This is the reason why most women just show up for a date without make up out of nowhere. Its them trying to see of youd accept them without all the fluff, but the best way to handle it is…
/r/seduction09/11/15 07:56 PM
1

seems like a guy movie to begin with. She would probabaly be bored, i would interact with her once in a while to make sure its not too boring. Ive had several movie dates where the girl literally fell aslpee because i was actually watching. Major tip is to opt for non-movie dates in the future. It leaves not a lot of room to talk and those tickets cost a lot if you go out a lot.
/r/seduction09/11/15 07:43 PM
1

Yet to see an infield video of Mark Manson. So many pick up philosophers on seddit who like reading shit. They'd approach one girl then act like they're gurus. Of course you'd want to think it's as simple as being honest. PUA has demonized deception and now people are all the rage about honesty. Dating is a mixture of both honesty and deception. Reading won't do you any good, no number of books will do you any good if you don't go out and do anything. The only thing you need to know is the word …
/r/seduction09/11/15 11:45 AM
1

True about intent. It's just suspicious when someone is talking to you and you don't know why. Also instadates are overrated. "Building comfort" is overrated. No amount of talking will make her like you. Huge wastes of time unless you can bring her to your place right away. It's the vibe and intrigue you put out. In sales you need to analyze the conversion ratio of all your interactions necessary for the final step. Whether you instadate or not, you will still require her actually taking the eff…
/r/seduction09/11/15 11:30 AM
0

How long do your interactions go for? Seems like you are primarily talking about club game.
/r/seduction08/11/15 09:18 AM
3

Most people are emotional. Most women have the tendency to decide based on emotion, which is normal women. Imo the logical ones are the one that tend to be gold diggers since they realize they can just use sex to get anything from guys.
/r/seduction08/11/15 09:08 AM
3

As long as you don't depend too much on some list some guy made up somewhere, you'll be good. If you are noob it's good to touch all the basics, but when you become more advanced that's when you start to develop your own style and preference.
/r/seduction07/11/15 10:09 AM
12

Well since its your bday Ill give you one of the most important pick up tip. Approaching a girl should comes as naturally and as desperate to you as breathing. When you breathe do you prepare 10 hours just to take one breath? No you just breathe. Equally if you haven't approached a girl, it should feel like someone is holding you underwater preventing you from doing what you so desperately need. To breathe. Live, Breathe, Pick up girls.
/r/seduction03/11/15 09:34 AM
1

Or literally anything that shows who you are a person whether it be a musician or whatever. Its almost like a fashion statement, but it tells you're story. Dogs, musical instruments, a kid, etc. anything that helps tell your story.
/r/seduction03/11/15 09:30 AM
3

I personally prefer going out with the intention of picking up women. I give myself a quota and I meet it i.e. get 10 numbers to play with and then you can go home. I would then get a few dates from those numbers. Most guys get mind fucked by this type but it's highly effective in getting more results. However, now that my time is limited due to career reasons, I'm finding myself simply picking up girls as I go throughout the day simply because of time. If I had more time, I would just be travel…
/r/seduction03/11/15 08:07 AM
1

Anywhere outside a nightclub.
/r/seduction31/10/15 09:43 PM
2

What did pandas have to do with this.
/r/seduction31/10/15 09:04 PM
1

Wow whatever dude you're so fucking annoying. Just go eat your damn Halloween candies and stfu about happiness. Bye.
/r/seduction31/10/15 08:58 PM
1

Seddit bros?
/r/seduction31/10/15 10:05 AM
3

Could be anything. Just wait three days then reinitiate text with a call humor. Your mistake is being too needy and being too nice. Interaction would be boring af for the girl if she knows everything already. Most hot girls will lose interest the moment she feels she got you at the palm of her hand.
/r/seduction31/10/15 09:56 AM
1

So you met one girl months ago and you think whatever will work for her will work for every girl. That is why I said most recent pick up and this is the most recent you can come up with. You want to give relationship advice go ahead. Pick up advice? Definitely not. The whole never lie thing is pretty stupid to begin with. Unless you actually have proof you have pick up experience I'm done with this bullshit.
/r/seduction31/10/15 08:44 AM
1

Was out just yesterday. Don't overthink and just approach and compliment then go into convo. If failed move on to the next. Look for hotspots. Downtown events usually have street events where people congregate which gives you the most chances to pick up girls. I would bring a skateboard or a bike if I were you so you can move from one spot to the next quickly. Make sure to tell your buddies to try and go for instadates with groups i.e. invite the girls group to hang out with your group. That wou…
/r/seduction31/10/15 07:43 AM
1

Not every approach. Just one. A detailed account of your most recent pick up. Where was it, how did you approach, what did she look like etc. That should be easy enough for a seasoned pick up guru as you claim.
/r/seduction31/10/15 07:32 AM
1

90% of human communication is non-verbal. No shit. You want to tell some other cliche pick up material you read? whats with all these stupid question that would only matter to a prepubescent child with an identity crisis. How about you answer ONE QUESTION. Have you actually picked up a girl you didnt know before and fucked her?
/r/seduction31/10/15 03:20 AM
2

Well yeah most text conversations die off. It's either terminated by you or the girl. Preferably by you, but it doesn't really matter. In time you'll sense when it's best to re-initiate with a better convo thread.
/r/seduction30/10/15 08:24 AM
2

If you approach correctly with good body language someone right in front of you won't even realize you are doing an "approach." Most people think I already know the girls I'm talking to.
/r/seduction30/10/15 06:38 AM
1

Sorry to tell you bro but college is actually easy mode. I personally prefer it though, but once you start getting older you would need to look elsewhere since it would be creepy to be the old dude picking up young college chicks.
/r/seduction30/10/15 06:14 AM
2

If i do, ill be slobering all over that shit like a porn star in a gloryhole scene.
/r/seduction29/10/15 09:20 PM
1

Again you are being way too ideological and logical about this. Again shows you havent actually had much experience with approaching women. 99%of girls will never be "hey you like me i like you too lets fuck" thats just in your head. Women have a lot of fears, slut sheilds, societal norms to navigate through before they even go and consciously admit they like a guy let alone verbalize it.
/r/seduction29/10/15 09:18 PM
3

Here have a snickers
/r/seduction29/10/15 05:54 PM
1

Well your friends a savage. Since ur hanging out with him ur prolly not too far off. I have a friend who is similar but he has a different look so different types of girls are into him i have my own look so other types of people are more into me. Similar to how companies market themselves its best to pick your own niche of people. The fact that you are not going out and meeting more into you is your problem. You are basically looking towards people who are i lnto his type and wondering why they …
/r/seduction29/10/15 05:52 PM
1

Not every hot girl deserves the real you, this is putting the pussy on the pedestal on a whole nother level. Have you actually picked up a girl?
/r/seduction29/10/15 05:01 PM
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You talk to who you want to talk. If they are bitchy move on the next. Simple as that. Don't think, don't obsess just act. This is law if you are out on the field. Also its best to approach girls when the sun is still up in an open area.
/r/seduction29/10/15 11:40 AM
1

Lol its funny you mentioned that my friends here are like "Hey dude if you find a black chick, give him to such and such if you find mexican chicks, refer them to me, if you find asian chicks refer them to such and such." Over here and my buddies pipeline girls lol.
/r/seduction29/10/15 11:04 AM
1

You don't manipulate people, you are not BOUND to tell them the truth, they are just some person you met. Why do you need to give them so much credit just for existing. She is damn hot. That's it. She hasn't proven herself worthy of my honesty so I'm going to lie to her if I feel like it. I'll give you a few reason why you should lie to other people 1. You don't want to give them too much information - Do you really want them to know everything about you? 2. You tell them you have to be somewher…
/r/seduction29/10/15 11:02 AM
1

Of course you'll be yourself but you don't act like a stupid catholic boy who for some reason is bound to being honest and respectful of some person you just met. Very boring pick up strategy. You pick girls up to have fun. You talk to them you play with them. All these recent white knightish puas are making this seem like some sort of a pilgrimage. Lying is a tool. Some of you may be so disillusioned that you can't tell the difference between lying to people and lying to yourself.
/r/seduction28/10/15 06:28 AM
0

Lol canned jokes xD
/r/seduction28/10/15 06:02 AM
1

Well intelligent women you'd need to be able to talk on their wavelength. Though from my experience anyone who tries to "look smart" is usually just a smartass.
/r/seduction28/10/15 05:58 AM
1

Give all your aunts a 4x4 photo of you and tell them to show it to the girl they met at Walmart or something.
/r/seduction28/10/15 05:53 AM
1

Lol also noticed that the confident aloof main character is the one who never gets any girls when in reality it's the opposite.
/r/seduction28/10/15 05:50 AM
1

White girls are dime a dozen. I'm starting to get bored of them to be honest. Them hot asian girls are all the rage right now but they are very hard to find without a whole army of white dudes with yellow fever behind them at all times.
/r/seduction28/10/15 05:47 AM
3

"The Fat PUA" Catchy.
/r/seduction27/10/15 11:19 PM
7

Great idea for a halloween costume ;)
/r/seduction27/10/15 11:18 PM
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whenever someone starts getting overly idealistic I pretty much call bullshit. It's like communism, looks good on paper, doesn't work in real life scenarios.
/r/seduction27/10/15 11:15 PM
1

LOLOL
/r/seduction25/10/15 07:51 AM
2

Anywhere outside of a frat party.
/r/seduction25/10/15 07:51 AM
1

Want another go?
/r/seduction25/10/15 07:50 AM
2

I thing I know from experience is never to ask women for dating advice.
/r/seduction25/10/15 07:48 AM
10

Nice job bro that was some next level push pull. Most guys would start pushing to hard the moment their dick is out. I've also encountered girls like these. All I did was approach and she did all the work, asking me to her apartment and all. Some women are just like that. Either you are exactly their type, they are super horny or something else. Either way it's a lucky draw. Props for using a condom.
/r/seduction21/10/15 09:37 AM
2

Just make sure it's high energy. I person just use "Hey <her name>! Whats up how you been!" Anything too long is too much effort, jokes are good but obviously just a way to get her to respond. Not my personal style, it's like you are begging her to respond.
/r/seduction21/10/15 09:31 AM
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Its good if you fucked them. Its bad if you didn't.
/r/seduction21/10/15 09:27 AM
1

Average girls get approached the most because guys feel like they are reachable. The most attractive girls get "weirded out" by guys the most i.e. some guy just staring at her, catcalling, weird questions etc. . If you actually approach them normally and just talk to them, they are very friendly.
/r/seduction18/10/15 09:28 PM
2

So many guys go here saying they are "okay" that they think they pass. Well what girl do you think would want to be with an "okay" guy? An ugly ass girl thats what. Aim high, use your strengths. Men are not judged based on how pretty they are, but based on who they are and how embody who they are. Fashion and look and personality all rolled into one. You can be a good looking dweeb and you won't get laid. On the other hand a rough looking guy with a look, personality and fashion that is very cap…
/r/seduction18/10/15 09:14 AM
3

So you had a bad night. Welcome to the jungle kid. So you learned something. You're choices are 1. Do nothing, don't observe your mistakes and don't learn from them. OR Deal with it. Learn from your mistakes and constantly improve yourself. It's up to you.
/r/seduction18/10/15 09:10 AM
2

Lol how do you know you're getting laid.
/r/seduction18/10/15 09:04 AM
5

Different dudes, different style. I personally don't set up dates on first meeting. It feel like its needy. I don't even have a "number close routine." I just ask for their number when I want to and they give it. True about not ejecting after the number. Make it as a non-issue as you can. It's just a way to connect with her in the future. Obviously the connection is pointless if she won't reciprocate. Whether you set up a date or not that won't make a difference.
/r/seduction18/10/15 03:40 AM
0

From my experience the better looking the girl is, the better her reaction. It's only when you come across too strong that they have an averse reaction. Whenever I approach an ugly girl I regret it because they are insecure, difficult and play hardest to get because they know they are nothing.
/r/seduction18/10/15 03:36 AM
9

Be yourself. Don't force things. Again don't use logic to turn women on. Use emotional momentum and touch.
/r/seduction18/10/15 03:34 AM
1

Your face isnt the issue. Its your moobs. Girls usually arent too attracted to pudgylooking dudes. Just shoot for a 12% body fat and youll look like a celebrity in no time.
/r/seduction14/10/15 09:29 PM
1

a city of 3 million u might have been counting an entire collections of cities.. Theres only 2 cities with that much foot traffic that i know of. Not counting china tho.
/r/seduction14/10/15 09:27 PM
1

You dont "approach" girls in parties you interact with them.
/r/seduction14/10/15 02:46 AM
1

Oh fukin missed a golden opportunity. How do u like blue balls? Dude netflix and chill netflix and chill she wanted something to happen.
/r/seduction14/10/15 02:44 AM
2

Yeah dude i can tell u got game just from the way you talk. You just have to get used to playing with your condition in mind. There are some pioneers that specifically deal with having a disability and they actually use it to their advantage i.e. They have fun with it. There is this guy called cupid shmupid who is small but uses it as a way to make women laugh. The reason women dont like disabilities, short guys or whatever is because its a very uncomfortable thought to be with someone like that…
/r/seduction14/10/15 02:42 AM
1

Lol so u either live in London or NYC u lucky bastard.
/r/seduction14/10/15 02:29 AM
10

Hmmm... yeah that's a tough situation. But just like in any situation, with every disadvantage there is an advantage. Also you bartering with prostitutes is the funniest thing ever xD. I personally think your situation is one where you could use online dating to your advantage. I'm usually against it, but in your situation it's the best strategy since first impression is your disadvantage and mobility is your problem so you can't just walk around and approach girls. Create a profile using your b…
/r/seduction13/10/15 11:08 AM
1

You can't help someone who doesn't want to be helped and the best way to tell someone needs help if they actively ask for one.
/r/seduction13/10/15 10:53 AM
2

If they're anything like a German kid I've witnessed.. [gets 4ft/1.2m in front, puts his hand in their face] "Stop. Stop. STOP!" lol those overdramatic approaches. Would you elaborate. I don't understand. If I get into an interaction (aka not 'blown out'), she's grateful for the compliment. If you frequently approach at a mall or at a campus. Consistently doing direct approaches in the same area will eventually result in everyone knowing who you are. The workers, guards, and girls will develop a…
/r/seduction13/10/15 10:51 AM
1

If you turn your brain off, it's super fun. Almost like skyrim but you can get laid.
/r/seduction13/10/15 10:44 AM
2

Yeah it's certainly simpler and more fun. Though I know some friends who got banned from malls for going direct all the time, so its better to tone the wording down a little bit to something like "You look cool." I'm been doing this for a while and you'd want to use something you can keep doing for years. You'd have to throw in some cold approaches so you don't become too notorious as a player.
/r/seduction12/10/15 11:31 PM
0

Just eat junk food all day. that shit is calorie dense.
/r/seduction12/10/15 08:49 AM
1

Say something that related to what you talked about when you first met i.e. if you had a joke about some guy or some memorable event during your interactions make sure to reference it somehow. I once picked up this girl and told her she looked like a cop and that became a humorous in-joke between us so when I texted her I made a call-back to that humor so she remembers you and remembers how you made her feel. 2-3 days is about the time when people start to forget. the third one is usually a hail…
/r/seduction12/10/15 07:27 AM
2

If you cant do cold approach your body language is off. Cold or direct doesnt matter. You will have to qualify her eventually. Colld approach just has certain strategic advantages in terms of screening. In my experience cold approach result in more dates because it more encouraging for the girl. You talk to her and you qualify her for her good qualities as oppose to qualifying her right away and then just gradually dying down since you started with a high point. Direct is certainly more fun and …
/r/seduction11/10/15 11:08 PM
1

Me personally if i dont like her too much and shes being difficult i just ditch. If i really like her i go through the standard first no response wait 2-3 days text again still no response then wait a week. If still nothing its fruitless. In this case shes leaving if you really like her i would call her as a hail marry pass. Make sure you are all warmed up conversation wise and have your gameplan laid out with a hook that you personally think she will like.
/r/seduction11/10/15 11:02 PM
2

Its a waste of time and resources.
/r/seduction11/10/15 10:55 PM
3

You wastde your years being fat dont waste your remaining time worrying Instead of doing.
/r/seduction11/10/15 10:53 PM
1

True. I wing guys and even I know that you shouldn't try to get every damn girl that lands on your lap if you just had one a while ago. You have to actively try to set your friends up by talking them up and talking yourself down.
/r/seduction11/10/15 11:09 AM
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For those who are already used to it this good opportunity to do some pinging, to test just how adventurous a girl is. If she flinches at certain jokes, you can judge just how attracted or game she is to do some wild things. If she doesn't play along, that's a sign you will need to do a bit more push pull to get her to invest emotionally which you can use to get her to open up more.
/r/seduction11/10/15 06:13 AM
2

Don't look for one. Look for experience and look for a purpose. Look for a passion in life. That will be your most important relationship. Then get a girl that can tag a long once in a while, or girls.
/r/seduction11/10/15 06:09 AM
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Lol Neil Strauss was never good at the game it was all marketing he and Mystery made up. Even Mystery wasn't even that good, he was just deranged and didn't have much else to do, the women he got were borderline fuckable.
/r/seduction11/10/15 06:07 AM
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My go to is tell them I can read their palm and I just tell them a bunch of bullshit like "you have a fucking twin and you killed him when you were still in your mothers vagina." You get to touch their palm and get to bullshit with them win win.
/r/seduction11/10/15 06:04 AM
3

This. And look at it as if a girl is boring af you are ditching her sorry ass for another more exciting girl. Obviously if she lets you escalate she deserves your undivided attention, but talking to other people is still standard otherwise you will come off as needy if you never break rapport and talk to other people.
/r/seduction10/10/15 10:56 AM
2

I was actually thinking it maybe near ovulation period for the majority of women so they are hornier. Its usually towards the middle of a month and i keep forgetting about it.
/r/seduction10/10/15 10:47 AM
4

Not being paid enough to go through 1000 pages of text xD
/r/seduction10/10/15 03:23 AM
1

Weird. I too got an unexpected text from two girls out of nowhere hmmmm...... Something about today... Wait its friday. Friday the 10th hmmmmmm
/r/seduction10/10/15 02:22 AM
3

If shes still talking to u im willing to bet its not that bad.
/r/seduction10/10/15 01:38 AM
1

Some weird ass women out there. Then again its usually easy to spot who the whackos are
/r/seduction09/10/15 11:31 AM
3

Its always the mysterious 25% that carries 90% of the calories.
/r/seduction09/10/15 11:25 AM
5

I have exes constantly tempting me to "have a no strings attached sex." Well guess fucking what it ALWAYS has freaking military grade strings attached to it. Once you are in bed she will start talking about her feelings and then boom you are in a damn relationship again and reel you back in. Women are so good at this.
/r/seduction09/10/15 11:16 AM
1

Well if it's that upfront you trigger their subconscious defense mechanism. People want to think they are good people, but we are all equally selfish. No matter what you do, you will never be good enough for anyone. If you don't meet enough girls you will be seen as a loser. If you meet just enough, you are just average, if you meet too much, you are a player and a user. People will think whatever makes them feel good, if who you are alienates how something makes them feel, they will try to find…
/r/seduction09/10/15 09:35 AM
1

"how could I ever love someone else if I can't even love myself." Maybe you need to reflect on your life before dealing with any of this.
/r/seduction09/10/15 05:04 AM
1

Bleaching your teeth or shaving are actual physical changes to your person. Faking 2 extra inches of height with inserts is a deception. An insert is bad but a shoe heel is okay? They both boost up your height. Should not wear suits either because those make your shoulder appear broader. The dating game is all about giving the best possible reflection of you during the first impression. I've worn 2 inch inserts (I'm 6 feet) and told girls about it and they don't care because all they care about …
/r/seduction09/10/15 04:33 AM
0

Lol cant believe people took offense from that. Chillax dudes azns are the best <3
/r/seduction09/10/15 01:02 AM
1

Women will act interested by everything in person ones you have established rapport. You will really know if they are interested ones you contact them and they reply back.
/r/seduction08/10/15 08:29 PM
1

What area is that in NorCal? I want me some scandinavians too :p
/r/seduction08/10/15 08:26 PM
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This is now the most asian sedduction thread out there.
/r/seduction08/10/15 08:24 PM
2

From my experience ive had the same problem and the best time to shut up is when they start talking about themselves. You have to listen when someone talks.
/r/seduction08/10/15 08:21 PM
2

so this is a really complicated way of saying 1. Be confident in your own talents. 2. She is not better than you just becuase shes hot.
/r/seduction08/10/15 08:18 PM
1

Most people dont really care about you (whether they admit it or not) unless they get something out of it. Thats the simple truth about people. That is the reason why the best way to strike up conversations with strangers is by talking about them.
/r/seduction08/10/15 08:07 PM
2

Approach girls. That will fix it. Applies to when a girlis being difficult and you cant get her off your head, just approach new girls.
/r/seduction08/10/15 07:57 PM
1

You are being way too idealistic with this, and way too emotional in handling it. If putting 2 inches padding is deceptive then so is shaving your beard, bleaching your teeth and even taking a bath. He is too short and he should acknowledge that and know that. People can tell you are comfortable in your own flaws (especially the obvious ones) if you are able to jokeabout it. Since when should you stop doing something just because it can potentially give you shit test? Thats fucking beta. Shit te…
/r/seduction08/10/15 07:52 PM
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I personally think height is more like a cutoff. Girls don't like dating guys shorter than them. I would suggest getting a padding that would add 2 inches at least. MORE IMPORTANTLY make sure to not be insecure about it. Acknowledge it right away, make jokes about your height and women will love you for it. You have one advantage tho... you can get fucking swolle so easily. Lose body fat and get fucking swolle with muscle. I've seen so many tiny swolle manlets with hot chicks.
/r/seduction07/10/15 11:50 PM
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Ah ive dated some girls from Germany. Are you in East or West? Also its better to find a buddy instead of a mentor, youll prolly find some wannabe pua who will ask for your money to teach you things your mom could have told you.
/r/seduction07/10/15 11:21 AM
2

Very good observation skills rather than getting depressed and getting too into your own head you studied the people around you logically.
/r/seduction07/10/15 11:09 AM
1

If it aint broke dont fix it. I would definitely start approaching more girls though since it sounds like ur mostly doing social circle game.
/r/seduction07/10/15 11:03 AM
1

It doesn't matter if you friendzone her in your mind. It actually helps. I think your sticking point is escalating. At some point you will need to risk your "friendship" to go into deeper more sexual relationship.
/r/seduction07/10/15 07:17 AM
1

Yep had to pop your approach cherry at some point. I don't even remember my first approach.
/r/seduction07/10/15 07:15 AM
0

Friendly is when you are just nice and you are too available. Flirty is when there is mystery and you don't give her all the eggs in the basket, hence flirting. Friendly people give, flirty people tease. Nothing bad about friendly either as long as you are genuinely friendly.
/r/seduction07/10/15 06:21 AM
3

You sound insecure. You are assuming whoever is getting girls in bars is "stupid and non-educated." I've seen ugly fat dudes get laid in clubs like crazy because they know to ride with the flow. You may be way too stiff and easily gets offended. Girls can smell insecurity from a mile away.
/r/seduction07/10/15 06:18 AM
2

Lol didn't know Chico had a night scene
/r/seduction07/10/15 06:14 AM
0

If she shows it before your opener is done, your body language is off.
/r/seduction06/10/15 11:59 PM
3

Class as in school. Lol that would be a super asshole move to say that tho xD
/r/seduction06/10/15 11:57 PM
1

You got a solid framework, but mine is a bit different. I like spontenaity so i dont schedule dates. I talk to her for that day and asks her to go out that same day. They usually say to meet the next day. Any more delay and it increases her flaking, so i just say maybe next time instead of making things convoluted. Though ive made a few exceptions to be honest if she sounds like she is serious about it. I persobally get into deep text conversations with her which is usually good to last a few da…
/r/seduction06/10/15 06:11 AM
1

sorry bro this is not a good convo. Its too serious. Like she said "i dont want to earn your trust, i just want to talk." Your intro is really good but the rest is not interesting you should have cut that off and started geting into more interesting conversation threads about her. Also dont do online game... Its a waste of time.
/r/seduction06/10/15 05:56 AM
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I once approached a girl on a bench and told her shes pretty. She immediately went "i actually have class" and got up and left. That was so ballsy of her that its just hilarious. I just sat there and cant help but giggle at how bad that was. I prefer to react to them in curiousity. Id honestly prefer that to a boring 5 minute conversation where doesnt reject me but bores me to death. Entertain yourself!
/r/seduction06/10/15 05:48 AM
1

Lol "im thinking of you" sounds like what a teenage teeny bopper will send to her underage bf.
/r/seduction05/10/15 10:17 PM
1

Lol they better be good looking. I often get turned off when I find out I'm dating a girl that dated some ugly fucking dudes. I feel like its demeaning to me since I could possibly be ugly since she chose me.
/r/seduction05/10/15 10:15 PM
3

I think you may be reading their intentions wrong. Most guys like to meet other guys too. Its probably their attempt to find something in commo
/r/seduction05/10/15 06:38 AM
2

Looks do matter but confidence trumps all. You can see it in their eyes, you can see it in their walk, and you can see it in their lifestyle. They do great things and they know it. You can't fake it. You actually have to do great things. This is why actually being a master at something can help your game. I am extremely good at many things not just getting girls and that is where the majority of my confidence comes from. Looks don't matter to women as much as looks matter to guys. They care more…
/r/seduction04/10/15 10:08 PM
10

Very disappointed many guys are suggesting escorts... Just deal with it. Only you care that you are a virgin. No one else really does since they are probably too worried about their own "sexual coolness" or whatever. Just fuck a girl you like and don't. Only losers will actually make a big deal out of you being a virgin.
/r/seduction04/10/15 09:53 PM
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Just make it a reaction to approach these types of girls. I used to be really thirsty for blondes. Now blondes are all I get since Im so comfortable approaching them. Now I need to start getting some asians into my repertoire.
/r/seduction04/10/15 09:48 PM
1

Its about environment or classes at this point. You need to learn from your mistakes and not expect some guy to give the answers to you. Most of the things you'll have to learn are minute calibrations exclusive to your situation and personality. For me the best improvement came from thinking logically and knowing what works for me, but turning to the community for motivation and good laughs.
/r/seduction04/10/15 09:43 PM
2

Lol that past is simply a collection of your experiences. You were young and developing and thus the memories you had back then feels like they are more important, but they are just as irrelevant as they are now. You get what you work for simple as that. Everything else is fluff.
/r/seduction04/10/15 09:38 PM
4

Same never been slapped... in normal situations excluding kinky sex. It must be the OPs culture or something.
/r/seduction04/10/15 09:36 PM
8

Again its statistics. In todays day and age, for a person to be normal weight, he usually is gong through some stressful situation or dangerous work. That doesn't mean being normal weight is worse for you. Over depending on statistics can be dangerous.
/r/seduction04/10/15 09:34 PM
2

To each his own.
/r/seduction04/10/15 09:32 PM
1

Smiling naturally is good. Fake smiling is horrible so just smile naturally and frown naturally.
/r/seduction04/10/15 09:20 AM
2

Coming from a guy who did some voice work before, every guy out there will hate his voice. The things you should pay attention to when speaking is the clarity of your voice, pronunciations, adding colors to your tonality (not being monotonous) and proper pacing so that people you talk to can understand what you are saying and can feel what you are communicating. How high or low your voice is not a problem unless your voice is freakishly high that you sound like a girl.
/r/seduction04/10/15 08:57 AM
1

It could either be that you werent her type or that she didn't like your personality. It could be both. Unfortunately you couldn't gather enough data since you scared the fuck out of your date by smothering her xD. Post a picture of you and an audio of you telling a story and I can save you months of painful self-reflection as to whats wrong with you.
/r/seduction04/10/15 08:53 AM
1

I can only imagine how much you'd write when you do get laid. Hehe jk. GJ ;D
/r/seduction04/10/15 08:46 AM
9

Not my personal style, but to each his own. If you stress at every approach, you will never approach too many girls. It's best to realize that approaching is totally normal not some overly romantic gesture. Grammas do it, young kids do it, dogs do it, its perfectly normal for you to do it.
/r/seduction03/10/15 08:29 AM
1

Depends on the place. I was at this event and I just asked "Howd you hear about the event?" Started several convos with groups of girls with that one. Bounced to a bar with stuff to look at. I had a date, but when I got bored and she was talking to someone else I took it as an opportunity to go look at the displays and used those as an opportunity to talk to the girl right next to me. Went outside and a girl actually initiated by asking me to take her picture with her friends. We then moved to a…
/r/seduction03/10/15 08:10 AM
1

You are thinking too much right now. Happens to the best of us. Perhaps you need a break from pick up and just do a weekend of being lazy, fat and did I mention lazy. Don't go over 2 days though or it will become a habbit. Just take a quick break. No phones or anything related to girls and just chill.
/r/seduction03/10/15 06:26 AM
1

Wow that is one insecure guy. I used to have friend like that when I was starting college. He couldn't get any girls so he would try his best to demean me when I talk to girls.
/r/seduction03/10/15 06:24 AM
1

Attraction doesnt matter, youre just talking to a girl. Just realize that and dont over complicate. You are just standing there talking to this chick in public which is perfectly normal. If she doesnt like it she can walk away.
/r/seduction03/10/15 04:17 AM
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Ugh escort might as well give on life.
/r/seduction03/10/15 04:08 AM
2

Lol never ever? How many approaches have you done? Girls will respond negatively to you no matter what you say if they are in a bad mood. That "waste of time" you call flirting is the part that women enjoy the most.
/r/seduction03/10/15 04:05 AM
1

this
/r/seduction02/10/15 05:18 AM
1

If you are beginner just talk with anyone and keep talking until you get a sore throat.
/r/seduction02/10/15 04:03 AM
3

Lol face so ugly only mother would love hahaha how can you say that with a straight face xD. Dude if i was ugly id be using that as my joke material. Get your fashion up and running. Its a HUGE deal trust me. Make sure your clothes look clean and well fitting. No dirt on them whatsoever, take a fashion course of anything to get the look that fits you the best and makes you feel good. Pick a look basically so that you are not just the "ugly guy." You become the hispter guy, tattooed guy, the ripp…
/r/seduction02/10/15 03:47 AM
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Holy fuck we have an alpha here
/r/seduction02/10/15 03:37 AM
3

Aalways be doing something and never be too available is the first step. The rest youll have to realize from trial and error. Right now your playing off of your social status in school but once your out of high school meeting strangers youll realize how showing enough interest without being too interested is an artform. Aka the art of flirting.
/r/seduction02/10/15 03:28 AM
1

Just say its okay and dont reply for a week then reinitiate. Worse thing u can do is act like a bitch.
/r/seduction02/10/15 03:20 AM
1

Girls want what they cant have. If you show interest too much theyll be bored and lose interest. Show too little they wont bother.
/r/seduction02/10/15 03:18 AM
2

Well each person has a question in their head. I personally ask "is she good looking enough to be a model?" If its a yes i approach. I used to ask "is she good looking enough?" And i ended up with fatties and bottom of the barrel. Establish a high standard or youll end up settling for the ugly ones. Always go for the hottest girl in the place.
/r/seduction02/10/15 03:12 AM
1

Lol should we start agruing passive aggressively then?
/r/seduction02/10/15 03:08 AM
1

It means she wants to know if you will he interesting before commiting to an actual date either that same day or another day. This is default. Most meetups meet for a quick date then escalate if things go well. No need to worry.
/r/seduction02/10/15 03:05 AM
1

Are those all first dates?
/r/seduction01/10/15 11:51 PM
24

Dude the fact that shes butthurt means she actually likes you. You shouldnt keep grudges.
/r/seduction01/10/15 11:43 PM
2

Whats she like? Ethnicity? How tall?
/r/seduction01/10/15 11:40 PM
10

nicely done. What did you reply to the butthurt girl?
/r/seduction01/10/15 11:37 PM
2

Wasssup lololol
/r/seduction01/10/15 11:28 PM
4

Yep. Girls flake no way around it. Its like debt and taxes.
/r/seduction01/10/15 11:19 PM
1

Lol I'm just curious. And seriously you could at least make it believable when you lie lol. That one girl every night was just fucking stupid lololol thats like saying boobs feel like a bag of sand XDXDXDXDXD You are not too bad though some of your replies on seddit are somewhat helpful, but still one girl every night lol that was funny XDXDXD Goodluck hopefully you stop this bullshit one day.
/r/seduction01/10/15 09:10 PM
0

What event is this? Lots of foreign girls sounds like a treat :P
/r/seduction01/10/15 09:00 PM
1

You suck as faking btw. You don't have to play the "i'm finding this so funny frame" by typing a variation of "Hahaha" before every reply. Only desperate virgin kids with zero experience believe you.
/r/seduction01/10/15 08:52 PM
1

Nihilism is the belief that all values are baseless and that nothing can be known or communicated. It is often associated with extreme pessimism and a radical skepticism that condemns existence. A true nihilist would believe in nothing, have no loyalties, and no purpose other than, perhaps, an impulse to destroy. An impulse to destroy. They are pretty damn badass. Extreme pessimism sounds annoying though.
/r/seduction01/10/15 08:48 PM
1

Enjoy your imaginary dates brah
/r/seduction01/10/15 08:47 PM
1

Avoiding the questions huh. Classic liar. That settles it then. You don't know shit about how to actually get girls yet you frequent seddit to make yourself feel like a player basing all your experience on that one successful date you've had 10 years ago.
/r/seduction01/10/15 08:35 PM
1

Oh what can be more interesting than this! Sure you don't care, that's why you write these long essays and continually type longer essays responding to seddit visitors throughout the entire day. If you are as in demand and social as you claim to be you wouldn't have time for any of that. You contradict yourself, make big claims and the math doesn't add up. So your answer to my question is that you meet these girls randomly on the street?
/r/seduction01/10/15 08:10 PM
1

I personally find this interesting. Ill ask again where do you meet these women that you say you've been with "every night of the week." Unless of course you want to avoid answering because you know you are faking and you are afraid ur answer will reveal that.
/r/seduction01/10/15 07:53 PM
1

I live in California. Hot white girls are dime a dozen. It's the rare girl type that often becomes a commodity in an area. You probably live in a place where white people are scarce which makes you think attractive white girls are hard to get.
/r/seduction01/10/15 07:31 PM
-1

Lol every night huh? Hahaha xD LOLOL you are trying too hard brah. You sound like a wannabee pua who thinks everything people do is some pua bullshit. And how did you meet these women? Oh I can tell. It small subtle things. You know a player when you see one, you don't appear to be one, yet you are online acting like one.
/r/seduction01/10/15 07:29 PM
2

Trust me hand-shaking is insignificant in pick up. You are better off listening to what she is saying and finding genuine interesting/excitement over the subject at hand than worrying about petty things like a hand shake.
/r/seduction01/10/15 07:03 PM
-1

How many dates have you had this week? Your mom doesn't count.
/r/seduction01/10/15 07:00 PM
38

You just don't. And it depends on the situation. If they ask you to pay for their drinks without offering that's just fucking stupid you should have more respect for yourself than be her little fuckboi (not literally)
/r/seduction01/10/15 06:49 PM
-1

Yeah but then I saw another study that say productivity is good in bad weather. I'm overthinking this like a bitch. I'll just go out and deal with it. I don't want to end up talking about how much I love rain or caring about the feelings of total strangers like the pretentious losers down there.
/r/seduction01/10/15 06:45 PM
1

Lol so you approach a girl and you start talking about how you love rain. Well that's fucking creepy. Is this the type of advice seddit users offer lol wow.
/r/seduction01/10/15 06:42 PM
-1

Pua is for little kids. Lol you sound like you have no idea how to pick up women.
/r/seduction01/10/15 06:39 PM
1

Each area/country has their own high status female type. Around here attractive all American white girls are very easy to pick up. The hot asian girls are the ones that are difficult in my area because they get worshiped by a bunch of white dudes with yellow fever so their egos go sky high.
/r/seduction01/10/15 07:56 AM
0

This comment kind of comes off as sarcasm .
/r/seduction01/10/15 07:33 AM
7

If she is your ex, why are you even still involved with her. She's just using you as an emotional net until she monkey swings to another guy. You broke up with her for a reason, now get yourself a hotter girl.
/r/MGTOW26/02/15 02:43 AM
-18

So if a girl doesn't try to look good, its a good reason for her husband to cheat on her. If she tries to look good, she's planning on cheating on him. Get your insecure ass checked.
/r/MGTOW26/02/15 02:36 AM
1

First is sprinting and improving my time to sub 7s for 60m Second is increasing my maximum deadlift and breaking 300lbs Third is being profecient at a programming language Fourth is mastering filming techniques and post production Fifth one is on hold was sleeping with as many girls as possible since the time i takes to do prevents me from doing any of the above so im sticking to 1 girl for now. The annoying thing is no matter how hard i try time and will is the limitting factor. I can imagine a…
/r/MGTOW08/02/15 09:26 PM
1

Currently I'm trying to juggle trying to master 4 skills at once.
/r/MGTOW06/02/15 09:50 AM
-6

Marriage is a good thing. Having the intelligence to marry a good woman is your responsibility.
/r/MGTOW06/02/15 09:48 AM
-1

You have a dick and you are thankful for that? The fact that you either react passive agressively or hostile to the thought of interacting with women means, you have justified your fear of them as "going your own way." The fact that you see interacting with others as "trying to prove something" means you have probably let you have no idea how to talk to Sally without shitting yourself. You sound like the male version of a feminazi.
/r/MGTOW04/02/15 09:09 PM
-1

It shouldn't be about interacting with women, its about retaining your masculinity and pride while interacting with them instead of kissing their ass like 99% of the men out there. Instead of fixing your problems you are running away from it.
/r/MGTOW03/02/15 08:54 AM
-1

So MGTOW is about going gay or something? What with all these guys claiming to withdraw from interacting with women entirely.
/r/MGTOW03/02/15 08:43 AM
16

She's fat and thinks she's a 10. Like most fat white women. That's the reason. I've picked up some chubby chicks with huge tits just for the heck of it for a quick lay and I like big tits. A lot of them tend to give you more trouble than its worth, so I just stay away from them from now on.
/r/MGTOW03/02/15 08:37 AM
0

If you think fucking your gf is a waste of time then you need to get a new gf, or at least get a fling somewhere. Male sexual urge is huge part of masculinity, it's dominance in a different form.
/r/MGTOW03/02/15 08:31 AM
2

All these problems would be solved if you all know how to stick to your words. Many of these same guys against feminism find themselves kissing the ass the moment a relatively attractive girl shows them some interest. Of course of these guys never get any and simply inflates the ego of the girl. She keeps going until she finds a guy that is willing to be pussified and gets married within a few months of dating all the while thinking she is fucking awesome. I personally find the most annoying eff…
/r/MGTOW03/02/15 08:29 AM
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