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| 1 | What differentiates the ones who are more salty and dragging everyone down because of their circumstances from the ones who are highly self-aware but accepting and keep it moving?Based | /r/AllPillDebate | 29/03/23 08:51 PM |
| 0 | What differentiates the ones who are more salty and dragging everyone down because of their circumstances from the ones who are highly self-aware but accepting and keep it moving?OHHHHH. I get what you're saying now. Yeah those planned dates don't lead anywhere. At all. Social anxiety, autism and all that shit. It's practically just text on a screen lol Living with mild autism gets you gaslit because you don't seem autistic at all but there's this life-long barrier between you and other people. Even with friendships. | /r/AllPillDebate | 29/03/23 08:48 PM |
| 1 | What differentiates the ones who are more salty and dragging everyone down because of their circumstances from the ones who are highly self-aware but accepting and keep it moving?There's other aspects to accepting it but that's a good part of it. It's okay to not be happy about a situation or not be content all the time. In fact, it's pretty normal these days lmao. By accepting I'm just saying that you understand your circumstances and keep it moving. Whining, blaming people, and trying to control the world around you rather than control yourself is counter-productive if the goal is get things in life. | /r/AllPillDebate | 29/03/23 08:47 PM |
| 1 | People on the internet say that blackpill is just theory and i should touch grassYep. Sounds crazy, right? But that's what keeps things going. | /r/AllPillDebate | 29/03/23 08:45 PM |
| 0 | What differentiates the ones who are more salty and dragging everyone down because of their circumstances from the ones who are highly self-aware but accepting and keep it moving?I don't hate anyone. Number 2 is the good one. Number 1 is the one who is more salty and dragging everyone down because of their circumstances | /r/AllPillDebate | 29/03/23 06:15 AM |
| 6 | Passport Bros: Egyptian Chick Exposes How Modern Women Are Brainwashed By Music To Be PromiscuousThis guy profits off of vulnerable men. It's all the same pattern. They shit talk women and "simp" behavior to men who want some form of validation or affirmation that it's the world that's against them. But if you look at it deeper, all their thumbnails have pictures of big asses and it's all women-focused. They build a cult following by coming off as "telling the truth" and being on the side of the men that they themselves view as victims to make a profit off of to sell memberships and courses… | /r/AllPillDebate | 28/03/23 07:21 PM |
| 2 | Is dumpster diving, or keep lowering your standards to you get a bite a good strategy to get casual sex for an average or slightly below average guy?If you gain nothing from it socially or experientially, then you're better off working two hours of extra over-time, and then paying for it in a country where it's legal when you're there with someone far better looking who won't starfish you, doesn't smell like beer, is tested, and doesn't put you at risk of being jailed (albeit unlikely). The only genuine difference besides that is the ego cope and validation of "getting it for free", despite hours spent (if not days) of clubbing and buying dr… | /r/AllPillDebate | 28/03/23 07:13 PM |
| 0 | What differentiates the ones who are more salty and dragging everyone down because of their circumstances from the ones who are highly self-aware but accepting and keep it moving?Person number 2 probably is asexual, What makes you think so? I know that anecdotal experience only goes so far but I'm "person number 2" yet have a high sex drive. I'm tall and average looking and have been asked out before and maybe get 1-2 dates a month on tinder. I'm just autistic and highly introverted and ruin it for myself. Like there's an invisible wall between me and the world. I don't hate anyone because of it. The world is harsh. You either accept and do your own thing and adapt if yo… | /r/AllPillDebate | 28/03/23 07:07 PM |
| 1 | If the 80/20 rule is true than isn't hetero sex a zero-sum game?I mean someone can think something and still do something else. This is somewhat "cope" but I mean even an ex will say you have a small dick and shit talk you after you break up if ends poorly. As long as your experience in the moment is enjoyable, they don't disrespect you to your face, and you get what you want and never see them again, then I personally don't see the issue. The deciding factor is the need for validation and the ego that comes with it. | /r/AllPillDebate | 28/03/23 06:40 PM |
| 1 | What differentiates the ones who are more salty and dragging everyone down because of their circumstances from the ones who are highly self-aware but accepting and keep it moving?I am firm in my belief that most self-proclaimed incels are failed narcissists or autistic. Ding ding ding! Personally, I think it leans more towards autistic narcissists. Or, really ugly narcissists who find it hard to live the world in their mind. And I don't mean that offensively. More of in a matter of fact type of way. Average looking narcissists can slay. Love-bombing is a thing. The rest are usually just virgins who are REALLY ugly or who have other issues preventing them from meeting peo… | /r/AllPillDebate | 28/03/23 06:29 PM |
| 0 | CMV "women don't owe you sex!" is said because they view it as an economic transaction, not because men actually believe this.How do you argue against something as dumb as "nobody owes you anything" lol You say it's dumb but you don't say why you think so. You deem it dumb because of your own value system. That sounds like a you issue. I'm pretty sure if you're in abandoned forest alone with a random stranger, you're not looking at them thinking "they owe me something for existing in their presence". That's absurd and is unlikely to lead to outcomes that will lead to building relationships with others. Also, it's not a… | /r/AllPillDebate | 28/03/23 06:23 PM |
| 0 | CMV "women don't owe you sex!" is said because they view it as an economic transaction, not because men actually believe this.You're not having a discussion. You're acting on emotion. If you disagree with me you can dismantle my points. I have a feeling you think I'm on the "blue pill" side when I'm most likely more black-pilled than most of you and situation-wise should feel even more extreme than you guys do with your sentiment. I just like breaking things down to the root and understanding why things are the way they are fundamentally and from an unbiased perspective. It's absurd to me that you think you can convinc… | /r/AllPillDebate | 28/03/23 03:15 PM |
| 1 | CMV "women don't owe you sex!" is said because they view it as an economic transaction, not because men actually believe this.No dude. I don't believe that the law is the ultimate morality. I'm saying that might is right. You can choose to break the law. No one's stopping you. But it's on you to face the consequences of that decision. Many of our beliefs, traditions, and approaches in life are based on a society that's structured and backed by a military that can enforce it. Without that "safety net", it's up to the individual and their own moral system. And even then, humans tend to get into groups and make laws for t… | /r/AllPillDebate | 28/03/23 03:11 PM |
| 0 | CMV "women don't owe you sex!" is said because they view it as an economic transaction, not because men actually believe this.Basically "life isn't fair" to the extreme. I don't see how I'm wrong in this statement. You know what else isn't fair? When you get unions involved and corporations break those laws your so fond of to prevent them. I'm not fond of the law. I'm amoral. I'm saying that the reason why laws exist is for the betterment of society and the people in power. A balance of the two. People can choose not to follow the law at their own risk. It's so disconnected from reality it's actually insane. In what wa… | /r/AllPillDebate | 28/03/23 03:08 PM |
| 0 | Examples in School Where Ugly Guys Were Treated Poorly For Little to No Reason [Not Personal Stories/ Related to Dating/Romance]I don't think this is just a matter of looks. Kids are definitely harsh with looks though. Outside of the bullying when you're a kid aspect (as I used to be fat as a kid), it's been my experience and observation that most of these issues stem from a social skill issue (ex. being non-NT) than a face issue the older you get. For example, in the case of the professor/teacher, they would literally have to be unhinged to yell at a student that knows how to toe the line socially and remained cordial a… | /r/AllPillDebate | 28/03/23 05:04 AM |
| 2 | With a Male Face Your Facial Attractiveness and How Women Treat You is Literally What Determines Every Aspect of Your Life and There's No Way to Escape Its EffectsC'est la vie | /r/AllPillDebate | 28/03/23 04:55 AM |
| -4 | CMV "women don't owe you sex!" is said because they view it as an economic transaction, not because men actually believe this.Your statement seems to assume that they owe everyone else safety, comfort, fairness etc... When I say "no one owes you anything", the implication is that I'm referring to a social environment with basic human rights still existing that are backed by laws. If you want to nitpick what I'm saying then I can go that route too though. You can choose to be unfair to others within legal lines. The concept of "fair" is subjective in many cases depending on what someone values. Me getting that promotion… | /r/AllPillDebate | 28/03/23 04:49 AM |
| 3 | what incels are depending on the pill (guy)Let's be real. You want to be around the dude in the middle picture. Why? Because they're not miserable all the time and want to do something with their life. This is assuming that they're genuinely doing it to grow and aren't a drain from seeking validation 24/7. | /r/AllPillDebate | 28/03/23 02:29 AM |
| 2 | Self improvement is a joke not even Napoleon the greatest incel in history could get a loyal wife.Let's be unbiased please. There is evidence to suggest that both of Napoleon's wives, Joséphine de Beauharnais and Marie Louise of Austria, had affairs during their marriages to him. However, it's important to keep in mind that infidelity was not uncommon among European nobility during the 18th and 19th centuries, and Napoleon himself was known to have had several mistresses during his lifetime. During Napoleon Bonaparte's time (late 18th and early 19th centuries), the average height for a man i… | /r/AllPillDebate | 28/03/23 02:25 AM |
| -1 | CMV "women don't owe you sex!" is said because they view it as an economic transaction, not because men actually believe this.No one owes you anything. All you can do is maximize your odds for any outcome. Some people are born with far better odds than others in this equation though. It is what it is. On the other hand, some unhinged and unlucky people can't accept these facts and will use any rationalization or manipulation to force an outcome that they feel that they're owed. They will drag those around them down until they feel they've been repaid. However, this feeling of "being repaid" rarely happens because it's … | /r/AllPillDebate | 28/03/23 02:17 AM |
| 1 | The one brutal truth imo that no one can run away from is that not being NT (neurotypical) will nuke everything.Even just beyond the hit to your pride for having to pay for something others get for free, and do something taboo at best, illegal at worst for it, experiencing that once only to know that the only way to keep experiencing it is that you have to keep paying, would be worse than never having experienced it at all. I disagree. I believe that it's definitely mostly an ego thing. Sure, you lack the intimacy in terms of the connection aspect but let me give you an analogy from experience. It's like … | /r/AllPillDebate | 28/03/23 02:09 AM |
| 1 | The one brutal truth imo that no one can run away from is that not being NT (neurotypical) will nuke everything.Even so, autistic and other struggling men in the past would probably still be likely to end up alone more often than regular men. And more likely to end up with single moms, drug addicts or other women with issues even if they did get a partner, and probably at a later age than a regular man. Agreed | /r/AllPillDebate | 28/03/23 01:50 AM |
| 1 | People on the internet say that blackpill is just theory and i should touch grassResearch suggests that excessive pessimism can have negative consequences for individuals and society. Pessimistic individuals tend to have lower levels of well-being, motivation, and resilience, and may be more prone to anxiety, depression, and other mental health issues. This can lead to reduced productivity, decreased social cohesion, and increased healthcare costs. In addition, excessive pessimism can also hinder progress and innovation, as it can discourage people from taking risks and purs… | /r/AllPillDebate | 26/03/23 04:02 PM |
| 2 | People on the internet say that blackpill is just theory and i should touch grassPeople should be imprisoned for disagreeing with you? This is what people mean by "touch grass". This isn't a dictatorship lmao If anything, people who view reality in a pessimistic or "realistic" light are less likely to perform and keep feeding the machine we call society. The only thing that seems to be at stake is your comfort in the idea that more people agree with you. The ones who are "blackpilled" are also more likely to be dangerous to society. It's harsh but true. I'd rather more peopl… | /r/AllPillDebate | 26/03/23 03:53 PM |
| 2 | For the average or below average guy, Is lying about your intentions with a women the most consistent way to get casual sex?Casual sex is unfulfilling for me. Don't get me wrong. It can be fun to build a few good memories to look back on and be relatively safe with it, but it reaches a point where the return on investment just isn't worth it. But to answer your question, unfortunately, yes. I knew of an average to below average looking sociopath who created a profile to signal that he's rich and successful, and he was slaying on tinder. He even convinced a girl to give him her inheritance. Was a mindfuck | /r/AllPillDebate | 26/03/23 08:39 AM |
| 3 | People on the internet say that blackpill is just theory and i should touch grassThe real question is, why do you care what random people say online? Whether something is true or not doesn't change just because others do or don't agree with it. Even the responses here are just coming from other people with their own bias. If your research and experience has lead you to that conclusion, then maybe you're onto something. Then, you just keep living life and thinking critically, and from there, whatever nuanced conclusion you come up with is your best shot at getting closest to … | /r/AllPillDebate | 26/03/23 08:35 AM |
| 3 | Do you notice most girls have cardboard personalitiesTake my upvote. The way you said that so casually too haha | /r/AllPillDebate | 26/03/23 08:32 AM |
| 3 | if you have an average face being Tall doesn't increase your Looks, it increases StatusStatus doesn't matter if you're too autistic to make use of it. I'm the bringer of NT truths. | /r/AllPillDebate | 24/03/23 10:39 PM |
| 7 | average passport broJesus christ dude. I try hard not to judge others but I'd rather be single than feel as pathetic as living as this man does. It's cool to not care what people think and live your best life but to marry and flaunt fucking yourself over while becoming a belligerent alcoholic with no social awareness is just gross. | /r/AllPillDebate | 24/03/23 10:37 PM |
| 4 | This is what a 6/10 white american boy can get in 2023? You deserve this fate if you're "too good" to date outside of your race.This is a rare case but it's still absolutely fucking brutal. 220k yearly salary and decently attractive partner for simply existing, eating, and posting on instagram and taking some pictures and videos. The only cost being lifespan. | /r/AllPillDebate | 24/03/23 10:34 PM |
| 2 | Woman constantly lie and virtue signal about liking dad bods and big boys.I mean if the guy is tall, good-looking, makes good money, helps around the house, and is open for a good meal and is a pleasure to be around because they're not calorie-counting all the time or as much of a threat to her for one-night stands, it enhances the life of their partner who happens to be a woman and creates a sense of comfort and ease. Likely, in their mind, they don't mind a chubbier guy as long as they have a good amount of those traits. I don't even have a dad bod. I value being fi… | /r/AllPillDebate | 24/03/23 10:30 PM |
| 1 | A lack of being able to experience intimacy might seem like a death sentence to some of you. But honestly, what's far worse is not being able to exist as a human being around others unless it's for an overt shared purpose.Looking back, it does kind of sound like the "African people have it worse" argument. I'm just ranting lol | /r/AllPillDebate | 23/03/23 10:18 PM |
| 1 | The creation of pills seems to come from a need to seek certaintyDon't we all | /r/AllPillDebate | 22/03/23 09:38 PM |
| 1 | Where did all the good women go?Not in the mosque haha. Khadija isn't in the men's prayer room | /r/AllPillDebate | 22/03/23 04:44 AM |
| 1 | How many years before Blackpill becomes mainstream in the west?Hard to predict. Any number seems like mostly an ass-pull. I'd say that once the technological singularity happens, all of our concerns can either become 10x worse, will be addressed, or will completely change. | /r/AllPillDebate | 22/03/23 04:42 AM |
| 1 | The black pill is the art of taking half truths and making them fit into full truths.That's the case with any pill. You take what you can get from every pill and live according to what you believe is closest to the objective truth and will serve you. Not coping with "harsh truths" to give up but also not coping with false hope that will lead to resentment or self-humiliation due to wanting to meet those expectations at all costs. | /r/AllPillDebate | 22/03/23 04:40 AM |
| 1 | Whats the next best thing if youre not an alpha physically?If it's that big of a deal, at the cost of even worse prospects, live specifically in areas without common-law marriage considered and don't marry (or find a similar solution to that with marriage, but it's harder). Then you can treat the partner like a roommate for your basic social needs to be met and bang hookers once in a while legally and safely (full service). Ideally someone asexual who's cool with you doing that shit on the side. Not an easy arrangement to set-up but no feelings get hurt… | /r/AllPillDebate | 22/03/23 04:38 AM |
| 6 | If white people don't want to go extinct, they need to hurry up and develop CRSPR or gene editing.I don't care about my own race or current stage of our species going extinct. Whatever is necessary to proactively perfect the genes of humanity into a better species or evolved version of the same species is what I personally vouch for. | /r/AllPillDebate | 21/03/23 01:33 AM |
| 1 | Being Non-Neurotypical is fucking brutalI have not spoken to him since we were very young, but his mother spoke to mine recently and she spoke about how he always tries getting dates on dating apps, but it is just impossible and that she even acknowledges how slim the chances are of her son ever finding any love. Brutal. the complete disconnect I feel from women and people all around me definitely feels like a fog of war that I can't break. I am not sure if I am delusional and just have a completely wrong idea of myself, if I just mis… | /r/AllPillDebate | 19/03/23 07:33 PM |
| 5 | Being Non-Neurotypical is fucking brutalIt's brutal in society, yes. That's the main point though. People don't give a shit about how your traits were helpful to evolution hundreds of thousands to millions of years ago. All people care about is if they can understand you or not when they get close to you for long-term friendships and relationships. And if they don't, most consider it burdensome because they have a tendency to fear or abhor the unknown. | /r/AllPillDebate | 19/03/23 07:31 PM |
| 4 | Being Non-Neurotypical is fucking brutalLmao. Been faking it my whole life. It's like comparing the interior of two different types of cars that look the same on the outside. It's not the same as faking confidence or success. You can manage by keeping the windows tinted and continuing to drive normally but as soon as someone is let into the car, that's the moment of truth. I already have a solid mask. I can get a job and all that. Improving my mask will only help me career-wise since I don't need to be close to co-workers to get a job… | /r/AllPillDebate | 19/03/23 07:28 PM |
| 3 | Q4A: The greater the attractiveness of a person, the more likely that person is evil?You can get away with more if you're attractive but that doesn't guarantee that you're evil. You're comparing someone with an innate position of power vs. someone without. Power corrupts in general. It's a human thing. | /r/AllPillDebate | 19/03/23 07:24 PM |
| 1 | Seeing how everyone is coping is fucking hilarious lmaoooI've used shit pictures and mirror selfies on tinder and got 10-20 matches off the bat. I've also had people ask to date me. I'm not the sexiest alive and I don't slay but I'm not worried about my looks getting in the way, even online. As long as your face is average-looking, you can definitely status, gym, and professional photoshoot it up and score a date every week or month. Tinder gold and boosts on the weekend. The method is there for those who are serious, even if it's more effort and less… | /r/AllPillDebate | 19/03/23 05:04 AM |
| 1 | Seeing how everyone is coping is fucking hilarious lmaoooThe study was on 6000 americans. There are 52.5 million men between 18-29 in the US. Now, let's say we do take that study as fact. It also mentions that only 25% men between the ages of 30-49 are single. And surprisingly, above the age of 65, there almost 2x as many single women than men (although that may be more related to lifespan and changed priorities). And if it was ugliness, then are 63% of men are ugly? "Average looking men are considered ugly". Keep coping. Just after the pandemic, the … | /r/AllPillDebate | 19/03/23 02:42 AM |
| 2 | Q4A: The greater the attractiveness of a person, the more likely that person is evil?Cope central | /r/AllPillDebate | 18/03/23 06:12 PM |
| 1 | My experience of being a 25M with a lot of past sexual partnersLmaooooo | /r/AllPillDebate | 18/03/23 06:12 PM |
| 1 | Do you just give up a large portion your alone/me time for your dating and social life?You said you work from home, is it on a laptop? Is so, could you take your laptop out with you and work outside of home? Yep. I could. Meetings need to be in like an office though (plus the security concerns of the wifi aspect). I guess it would at least get me in the habit of staying out. I could probably find something social to do during exercise time. Like swimming or jogging for cardio, then working out alone afterwards (or with someone if they're free). | /r/AllPillDebate | 18/03/23 06:10 PM |
| 1 | Seeing how everyone is coping is fucking hilarious lmaooo38% of married women earn more than their husbands though. Makes sense but I never would have guessed it. Honestly, if I can find someone with the same pursuit as me who makes mid-six figures (what I'm aiming for myself) or higher, then that would be ideal and "low risk" but what are the odds of that lmao. Being non-NT is also a huge disqualifier. Another aspect to consider is net worth. I'm very frugal and I'm saving at least 50% of my income a year, if not more (up to 75%) depending on the yea… | /r/AllPillDebate | 17/03/23 08:14 PM |
| 1 | Seeing how everyone is coping is fucking hilarious lmaoooO'rly now Wtf. Yeah that's brutal af. I wonder about the whole trusts situation and telling the partner to quit their job and funding their lifestyle and how much of an effect that had. Either way, when I move, I'm specifically choosing no common-law areas and areas with low financial divorce risk. There is but one solution there besides not getting married: she earns close to what you do or more. In the latter case she could be paying you alimony. LMAO. So basically never. JFL it's over Autisti… | /r/AllPillDebate | 17/03/23 06:01 PM |
| 4 | Seeing how everyone is coping is fucking hilarious lmaoooExactly. They're coping that the world is against them when they literally sabotage themselves because of their own mental issues. That was literally the trend of what I called out it in my post. Tons of people with mental issues assuming it's their looks (which could be one of the factors) when the major factor is their delusion, mental illness, or autism. | /r/AllPillDebate | 16/03/23 08:32 PM |
| 2 | Seeing how everyone is coping is fucking hilarious lmaoooIt's not grasping at straws if you're a high-income man. You can be at risk of losing half your shit. Trusts, prenups etc. Or have a partner and don't get married and live in a state without common law marriage considered. You have so many options. They just take effort. I personally am debating the effort to even pursue a partner and weighing the benefits against it considering I likely have high-functioning autism. I'm also on track for a high salary as well and I'm paranoid af. There are opti… | /r/AllPillDebate | 16/03/23 08:30 PM |
| 1 | Seeing how everyone is coping is fucking hilarious lmaoooThe only one coping is you, with your lack of accepting that these men are too ugly for women to be genuinely, physically attracted to them. The vast majority are. It depends on the individual case. Btw what do you mean by "below average men can still do well for themselves" ? Betabuxxing a post wall, ran through, non virgin women, who sees you as nothing more than a walking, talking, breathing ATM machine that she would've never given a chance when you were both young, is not some kind of an ac… | /r/AllPillDebate | 16/03/23 08:18 PM |
| 1 | Seeing how everyone is coping is fucking hilarious lmaoooIt's the major factor but being NT is the decider. | /r/AllPillDebate | 16/03/23 08:15 PM |
| 0 | Seeing how everyone is coping is fucking hilarious lmaoooThere is no alternative. But there's a difference between a cope that genuinely adds something to your life and lying to yourself about what your issues are. These are the main people I'm talking about: "It's always the same shit. Like the 100th post from some average-looking dude who's clearly autistic thinking that women and people in general hate him because he's ugly lmao. Or the 50th post from the coper woman who has everything going for her but is so deluded, entitled, and lazy that she tr… | /r/AllPillDebate | 16/03/23 05:21 PM |
| -1 | Seeing how everyone is coping is fucking hilarious lmaoooMany of them are. But even slightly below average-looking NT men can create a social life and do okay for themselves. Let's be real here. The people I'm talking about have different issues and are coping by blaming everyone else or pointing out the wrong issue when most people can tell what it is. | /r/AllPillDebate | 16/03/23 05:20 PM |
| 1 | Seeing how everyone is coping is fucking hilarious lmaoooTo cope or not to cope? That is the question | /r/AllPillDebate | 16/03/23 05:18 PM |
| 2 | I don't want a relationship anymore.Lmao. Keep the comedy coming | /r/AllPillDebate | 16/03/23 03:22 PM |
| 1 | Applying the same logic to the pay gap myth to incel logicI think he was more asserting not that they aren't capable, but that they may not be familiar enough with western norms that they're presenting themselves in ways that may hurt their chances. I agree that this is definitely possible. It doesn't explain how white men slay in asian countries though. Nor does it explain how these ethnics have similar issues in their own countries in comparison to their white counterparts, assuming all things equal. Do note that OP didn't mention specifically in the… | /r/AllPillDebate | 14/03/23 02:37 PM |
| 2 | Applying the same logic to the pay gap myth to incel logicNo. Men and women have genuine differences that can impact how they live their lives. Birth being a big one. Hormonal differences as well. This is independent of culture. What differences do ethnic men have with non-ethnic men, outside of cultural differences? | /r/AllPillDebate | 13/03/23 05:11 AM |
| 2 | Applying the same logic to the pay gap myth to incel logicNothing I suggested was an assertion. You don't need to say "this is a fact" to show your stance. Patterns in what you resort to talking about alone can be quite telling. It's like when someone's racist. You don't need to say a racial slur or spell it out to act in ways that display a racial bias. And no, I'm not calling you a racist. If you’re offended. That’s your issue, not mine. Learn to control your emotions. Where in my comment was a lack of emotional control displayed? I said without the … | /r/AllPillDebate | 13/03/23 03:45 AM |
| 2 | normies really think they are better than inkwells.What I'm saying is that the alternative isn't that pretty either. Most marriages are shit but not having someone around in the house is also shit for most people. It's a risk that only the individual can decide if it's worth or not. | /r/AllPillDebate | 12/03/23 11:37 PM |
| 1 | normies really think they are better than inkwells.That's just life. Life itself is hard. No one is happy 100% of the time. There's no such thing as a free lunch. You have to make sacrifices for certain benefits. | /r/AllPillDebate | 12/03/23 10:03 PM |
| 2 | Spanish Judge orders man to pay ex-wife over $200K for 25 years of houseworkIt's not just about the sex. I don't disagree about the sex aspect. Relationships aren't just about the sex though. That's why you see asexual or low sex drive people still getting into them. For example, staying grounded, having someone to talk to who knows you like 15 minutes a day for sanity, or even someone to take care of you when you're sick. Being sick alone is a fucking nightmare from experience. | /r/AllPillDebate | 12/03/23 10:00 PM |
| 3 | Spanish Judge orders man to pay ex-wife over $200K for 25 years of houseworkIf you decide to get married or live with your partner, that's a risk you're taking. If you don't plan for it with trusts, find a way around it, or choose not to do it, then it's honestly on the individual who didn't address that. And this isn't even considering the possible arguments for why $200k is more than reasonable for 25 years of effort. House work and raising kids is definitely a sacrifice. Let's not be ignorant about that. Either way, there's no such thing as a free lunch. You make dec… | /r/AllPillDebate | 12/03/23 09:47 PM |
| 5 | Women admit to hypergamy and advocate culling incels:Ngl this is some wild shit to say. I honestly think that both men and women like this are a net negative on society. Like weird dudes who are sexually frustrated who are ticking time-bombs and chicks who actually want the radical cutting down of the human population for selfish paranoia. It's a shame that people in this world exist to drag down the progress of humanity. I think all "pills" have SOME truth but a lot of the radical believers (both men and women) are unhinged af. It's understandabl… | /r/AllPillDebate | 12/03/23 09:34 PM |
| 2 | Why are "nice guys" always depicted as fat and ugly?This is kind of cope tbh. I skimmed through that subreddit just now and the amount of fat posts aren't THAT much. Their stereotype seems to be neckbeard and fedora. I think it's more the case that ugly guys are more likely to be frustrated and end up in these situations, if anything. More of a chicken and egg scenario. I will say that it's hard to roast an attractive guy like this because you can't really say much besides saying he's mentally ill. He will still always have that over you though. | /r/AllPillDebate | 12/03/23 09:26 PM |
| 2 | Applying the same logic to the pay gap myth to incel logicI mean the fact that the first assumption that your resorted to for explaining the statistic insinuates that ethnic men are less socially capable, less intelligent, and less interesting is fucking comedy gold lmfao. Your assumption is even worse than it being looks only because it has more racist undertones besides there just being viscerally less attraction. You're attaching a bias to the color which is even worse and has worse implications lolol And I don't even waste my energy on focusing on … | /r/AllPillDebate | 12/03/23 09:18 PM |
| 2 | normies really think they are better than inkwells.This is cope. I mean on the surface-level, everything you're saying is correct and I agree with you on it on some level. But there's other factors that having a relationship bring that should be serious considerations and you should be aware of. Sex isn't everything. Married men tend to live longer on average. As annoying as a partner can get, they can be a form of grounding and a way of maintaining sanity by having someone to speak to for like 15m a day at least. Not to mention that if your soc… | /r/AllPillDebate | 12/03/23 08:35 PM |
| 3 | SeXuAl HisToRy DoeSnT MatTer/OnLy LosErS CarEI consider myself pretty open-minded to other perspectives and not being reactionary to peoples' likes/dislikes and experiences, but when I see a potential partner knowing that they've slept around a lot, there's this disgust that's hard to describe. I don't mean having long-term partners over the years. I mean sleeping around a lot. It's not like a conscious process. Like logically, I want to think "they're free to do what they want with their body as long as they're tested and it's their life"… | /r/AllPillDebate | 12/03/23 12:23 AM |
| 1 | Do you think men over inflate how hard dating is for them? (Bonus: will looksmaxing help? Grind more mule)NT is the most brutal one. I'd argue that it's the most ignored one too despite being the worst. You can be decent-looking, tall, successful, fit etc. If you're not NT then it's over bud. And by over I mean far far more difficult. "Getting a relationship" isn't even the main hurdle. It's maintaining one. Just google "NT" and "ND" relationships. It's just as concerning for a social life too I'd argue. | /r/AllPillDebate | 11/03/23 11:38 PM |
| 2 | r/sexworkers blackpill.Strong need for validation. There's a strong case to be made there. | /r/AllPillDebate | 11/03/23 11:36 PM |
| 1 | i know it isn't discussed much here at all but what is the rationale of ''transmaxxing?''I'm curious as to why it's equal now but thanks for the stats update. It would have just lead to a funny conclusion if what the previous commenter said was true | /r/AllPillDebate | 10/03/23 08:12 PM |
| 1 | i know it isn't discussed much here at all but what is the rationale of ''transmaxxing?''LMFAO okay now that's a funny statistic... bahahaha | /r/AllPillDebate | 10/03/23 05:56 PM |
| 4 | Why transmaxxing is a much better option than gaymaxxingGiven that a whole community exists for that, he seems more misguided than anything. Honestly, if it's over then it's over. Changing your whole sexuality for a relationship or some ass is literally just digging the hole even deeper. Imagine lying about your identity just to hold a long-term relationship. That negates the whole point of the mental health benefit of a long-term relationship and intimacy. And if it's validation you want, there's unconventional ways to do it that don't involve surge… | /r/AllPillDebate | 10/03/23 05:54 PM |
| 1 | The one brutal truth imo that no one can run away from is that not being NT (neurotypical) will nuke everything.besides I'd argue that Looks help to make you pass as NT if you are on the mild part of the spectrum I pass as NT until I open my mouth in an unstructured situation beyond the basic social script on introductions. It happens every time. I'm not the most attractive person alive, but average looks and being tall have gotten me to the door and that's it. | /r/AllPillDebate | 09/03/23 05:23 PM |
| 1 | Does this prove the bluepill?But I don't know anyone who has worked hard and put their all into something and not got something out of it Something isn't always a good thing. I can recall spending years working on my social skills and social life, experimented with psychedelics to improve, and literally dedicating years of my life with serious work ethic to change. I may have gained "knowledge" out of it but the cost was a period of extreme embarrassment, humiliation, and further reinforced insecurity. My current social lif… | /r/AllPillDebate | 09/03/23 01:50 AM |
| 1 | What do you think of this "green flags" list?I was going to critically analyze this but the post is literally just a dude writing about himself as an ideal candidate to date with some generic sprinkles to seem unbiased. LMFAO. Dude thinks he's slick. | /r/AllPillDebate | 08/03/23 08:14 PM |
| 1 | "Muh no one said women don't want attractive men"I mean that's if you want to go the sociopath route lmao. I've personally known an average looking sociopath who faked their entire persona and they were dating like crazy. They even convinced someone they were dating to give up their inheritance to him. There's things you can highlight in your bio and pictures. It's still aesthetics or status related but you can highlight specific strengths in your images like being tall, nice colored eyes, good body, lots of friends and approachable etc. You c… | /r/AllPillDebate | 08/03/23 08:07 PM |
| 1 | Does this prove the bluepill?I agree with you. At the end of the day, it's just a part of life. Some people will miss out on certain opportunities and experiences regardless of what they try. There are definitely winners and losers in life. Most people can live a decent life but there will definitely be some people weeded out. Whether that's because of mental illness, extreme ugliness and lack of willpower, and very traumatizing past experiences. And I don't just mean this for dating. I mean this for living a decent life in… | /r/AllPillDebate | 08/03/23 01:45 PM |
| 1 | Does this prove the bluepill?I've seen their posts. Their community-speech is definitely eccentric and comedic, although unnecessary. The depravity is also there and the toxicity is on a whole other level. But we're on reddit. The ones you find here are more likely to be tame imo. There's also many who see the impact of other aspects like "social status" and "money". Older ones are also MUCH more likely to be open to the idea that being NT is the ultimate factor at the end of the day. Because they live in that reality every… | /r/AllPillDebate | 08/03/23 09:07 AM |
| 1 | The one brutal truth imo that no one can run away from is that not being NT (neurotypical) will nuke everything.I relate to this a lot. That's what a lot of my dates when I was younger were like. I either bombed it 1-3 dates in, or I rejected them after they've expressed interest out of fear of them seeing me without my mask. | /r/AllPillDebate | 08/03/23 08:58 AM |
| 2 | The one brutal truth imo that no one can run away from is that not being NT (neurotypical) will nuke everything.Arranged marriages, context, and social expectations can change things. It doesn't change the reality though. It simply masks it. For example, if I'm dating someone who doesn't speak the same language as me, and a lot of social faux-pax go under the radar because of the language barrier, then yes being non-NT can be "masked" for a period. Additionally, if someone has an arranged marriage, being non-NT is only considered after the fact. They usually already have kids at that point and it's hard t… | /r/AllPillDebate | 08/03/23 08:56 AM |
| 2 | Does this prove the bluepill?That may be the trend but it's a stereotype at the end of the day. I wouldn't dare approach someone with the mindset that they fit into a stereotype right off the bat. It's unfair to treat an individual as the caricature of their type. I'm sure there will be individuals who resonate with what I've written. Just like there may be those who do fit the stereotype. | /r/AllPillDebate | 08/03/23 08:51 AM |
| 2 | The one brutal truth imo that no one can run away from is that not being NT (neurotypical) will nuke everything.I've considered paying for it many times leading up to my 40th birthday. But by then, I came to the realization that if I did pay for it, I would probably come out of it in a worse state. It's pretty great and it depends on your personality. For some people, their state stays the same and they leave with a fun or enjoyable memory and it even temporarily boosts their confidence and ego. I've found that the difference is if you can get over the stigma of "needing to pay for it to lose it". The "no… | /r/AllPillDebate | 07/03/23 10:31 PM |
| 3 | The one brutal truth imo that no one can run away from is that not being NT (neurotypical) will nuke everything.I feel you. No paid experiences either? Or I'm guessing if you haven't considered it by this point then it doesn't offer what you're looking for. How has your experience been with other non-NT potential partners? Also, have you had any good runs? | /r/AllPillDebate | 07/03/23 10:13 PM |
| 6 | "Muh no one said women don't want attractive men"I feel bad for the guy. He doesn't need to go hardcore in the gym but he definitely needs to shave and lose weight. Someone with his looks also needs a full-on photoshoot to meet the cut. Those frontal face pics and mirror selfies give off bad vibes that won't cut it for someone with his "qualifications". Especially since he's 20 but looks 35. Also, at least one picture with other people in it where they don't look weirded out by him. It's better to have 3-5 solid pictures then 9 shitty ones. Th… | /r/AllPillDebate | 07/03/23 10:07 PM |
| 1 | What is healthy selfishness and when is it ok to be selfish?I skimmed through parts of it. It's a lot of text so I'm sure I missed quite a few points. If it already references that then that's great and you can ignore what I wrote. | /r/AllPillDebate | 07/03/23 10:01 PM |
| 1 | The one brutal truth imo that no one can run away from is that not being NT (neurotypical) will nuke everything.You said it was the reason for most men to fail in relationships Could you point me to where I said that? Because if I did then that's incorrect and so I'll fix it in my post. A wide percentage of men are lonely and can't find relationships Can you show me the study where this wide percentage is referenced? Based off the national health statistics in the US, over the age 25, over 60% of men have already had at least on child. Over the age of 35, it's 70% at least. And over the age of 50, it's 80… | /r/AllPillDebate | 07/03/23 10:00 PM |
| 3 | The one brutal truth imo that no one can run away from is that not being NT (neurotypical) will nuke everything.How can it be over if it never began? | /r/AllPillDebate | 07/03/23 09:51 PM |
| 1 | What is healthy selfishness and when is it ok to be selfish?"When is it ok to be selfish" implies that it's usually not okay to be selfish. If you value efficiency in getting what you want, you may think more along the lines of "when is it not okay to be selfish and what are the costs?". That would be one example | /r/AllPillDebate | 07/03/23 02:46 PM |
| 1 | What is healthy selfishness and when is it ok to be selfish?It really depends on your values and morals. The post seems to be made for people with a certain type of value system. | /r/AllPillDebate | 07/03/23 02:05 PM |
| 3 | Does this prove the bluepill?How someone looks doesn't give you all the data. There's tons of dynamics at play in any relationship which involve an exchange of both visible or less visible value to an outsider. You also need to consider someone's self-esteem, skills, wants etc. | /r/AllPillDebate | 07/03/23 02:04 PM |
| 3 | The one brutal truth imo that no one can run away from is that not being NT (neurotypical) will nuke everything.Even "pumping and dumping" takes a curated and systematic mask solely for dating. That's literally just PUA. I'm pretty sure the amount of people who engage in that has a higher population of autistic men than NT. | /r/AllPillDebate | 07/03/23 02:01 PM |
| 3 | The one brutal truth imo that no one can run away from is that not being NT (neurotypical) will nuke everything.Autism occurs in 1/68 of people. If you look at the stats for autistic men, it's not pretty. Not just for dating but also for social life and work. This also applies to high-functioning autistic men. You look normal, and seem normal because of the mask but once it slips and the social faux pas start happening, it's game over. | /r/AllPillDebate | 07/03/23 01:59 PM |
| 2 | The one brutal truth imo that no one can run away from is that not being NT (neurotypical) will nuke everything.You know some autistic people who have flourishing social and dating lives? How do you know that they're autistic and how does that look like to you? Autism groups online mainly consistent of complaints. I don't relate to most posts on there. A lot of it also is not geared towards individuals with high-functioning autism. It's usually more focused on diagnosis than treatment. If I could find someone like that then of course I'd do that. I haven't found anyone like that though. I can put on a mas… | /r/AllPillDebate | 07/03/23 01:57 PM |
| 4 | The one brutal truth imo that no one can run away from is that not being NT (neurotypical) will nuke everything.I see your point although autism doesn't mean automatically mean inconsiderate. There can autistic individuals who do empathize but just function differently. What I'm referring to is the functional difference. Narcissism is a whole other beast. And I'd argue that early on, narcissism and sociopathy actually come off as charming since the person love bombs you and masks their true personality. The difference is, sociopaths and narcissists still mingle well in group situations despite being calcu… | /r/AllPillDebate | 07/03/23 01:54 PM |
| 1 | The one brutal truth imo that no one can run away from is that not being NT (neurotypical) will nuke everything.You can have a social and dating life as an ugly NT. I can't say the same as an autistic tall handsome person. You'll get your foot in the door but you'll find it harder to maintain long lasting relationships with friends and partners. | /r/AllPillDebate | 07/03/23 01:50 PM |
| 2 | The one brutal truth imo that no one can run away from is that not being NT (neurotypical) will nuke everything.If you know of one please share. I've yet to find one who isn't a PUA grifter or course-selling scammer. | /r/AllPillDebate | 07/03/23 01:48 PM |
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