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| 10 | Red pill stuff if valid for both genders | CMV | faery_under_the_bush | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/23 04:03 PM |
| 8 | Men are wanting women they don't measure up to and women are getting tired of dealing with it which is the main cause of issues between them. | Discussion | faery_under_the_bush | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 12:20 AM |
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| 1 | Men are wanting women they don't measure up to and women are getting tired of dealing with it which is the main cause of issues between them.No I get it. I was trolling. I am who I said I am and am partnered with who I said I was with but mostly just wanted to experience an internet argument | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/23 06:02 AM |
| 1 | Men are wanting women they don't measure up to and women are getting tired of dealing with it which is the main cause of issues between them.Respect that a lot | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/23 05:58 AM |
| 1 | Men are wanting women they don't measure up to and women are getting tired of dealing with it which is the main cause of issues between them.Okay? That much muscle is ugly too? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 02:12 AM |
| 1 | Men are wanting women they don't measure up to and women are getting tired of dealing with it which is the main cause of issues between them.Lol. So people dating people they are attracted to is breaking rules? Who knew? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 02:11 AM |
| 1 | Men are wanting women they don't measure up to and women are getting tired of dealing with it which is the main cause of issues between them.I had someone try the on your knees and they were gone the same day. Current partner isn't buff at all. Skinny and nerdy.. and also confident. It's not one or the other. Y'all are too black and white about it lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 08:46 PM |
| 1 | Men are wanting women they don't measure up to and women are getting tired of dealing with it which is the main cause of issues between them.Adam Sandler ruined society | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 08:44 PM |
| 1 | Men are wanting women they don't measure up to and women are getting tired of dealing with it which is the main cause of issues between them.Typo. Ewe | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 08:01 PM |
| 2 | Men are wanting women they don't measure up to and women are getting tired of dealing with it which is the main cause of issues between them.Okay. Not my experience as an actual women but I'm sure it's yours :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 08:01 PM |
| 1 | Men are wanting women they don't measure up to and women are getting tired of dealing with it which is the main cause of issues between them.Ee | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 07:55 PM |
| 2 | Men are wanting women they don't measure up to and women are getting tired of dealing with it which is the main cause of issues between them.Controlling and selfish partners are the opposite of what I look for. I find it repulsive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 07:35 PM |
| 1 | Men are wanting women they don't measure up to and women are getting tired of dealing with it which is the main cause of issues between them.I don't care about the masses I care about the right men for me. I have the most amazing partner I could hope for right now. I also get propositioned on average 2x a week. Usually one of them at college or work so they know that I have my own goals. I have amazing friends. Hobbies. Partner. I got a second chance after being paralyzed. Nothing gives clarity for the exact life I want than when you are in a hospital bed thinking it's over, and am building it. Why would I change that to appeal to a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 07:27 PM |
| 1 | Men are wanting women they don't measure up to and women are getting tired of dealing with it which is the main cause of issues between them.Interesting because when I put in not overweight and not obese and not kids with those same ages it gave me 10.89 But if you don't filter for overweight and just obese I'm sure that works lol. So yeah. You can probably compete for the type of women you are going for. I care about my wage because after dating men who were providers I decided I wanted my own money not a man to control it for me. I'm not going to not make money and build a career doing something I love to seem appealing to a man. B… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 07:19 PM |
| 1 | Men are wanting women they don't measure up to and women are getting tired of dealing with it which is the main cause of issues between them.Why would I do that. I want to work. I want to own my company. I want to do grant writing for nonprofits. I want to control my money. Why would I do that. For a man? No. I'd rather be single | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 07:18 PM |
| 2 | Men are wanting women they don't measure up to and women are getting tired of dealing with it which is the main cause of issues between them.My assertive is if you pull something that's shit testy or controlling I walk away. I just leave. There are how many single men in the world I don't waste my time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 07:17 PM |
| 2 | Men are wanting women they don't measure up to and women are getting tired of dealing with it which is the main cause of issues between them.I mean. Most women eventually find the right person and if you look at statistics more women than men do date (older men just date younger) for me it's been fine. I also prop myself up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 07:16 PM |
| 1 | Men are wanting women they don't measure up to and women are getting tired of dealing with it which is the main cause of issues between them.If I work all day I'm not coming home to a man stressing me. Totally agree. It's why I have high standards :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 07:06 PM |
| 1 | Men are wanting women they don't measure up to and women are getting tired of dealing with it which is the main cause of issues between them.Men who go to other countries to look for someone in rougher positions aren't someone I would want to date anyways. Makes it easier for me to filter to the people I would want to date | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 07:05 PM |
| 1 | Men are wanting women they don't measure up to and women are getting tired of dealing with it which is the main cause of issues between them.Well then I'm sure you'll find that person. I for one filter by a man's ability to pull his weight in the home and emotionally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 06:55 PM |
| 1 | Men are wanting women they don't measure up to and women are getting tired of dealing with it which is the main cause of issues between them.Oh cool. Since your not doing anything you can take care of half the cooking and cleaning. Otherwise you are a stressor in my life :) funny how that works lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 06:52 PM |
| 2 | Men are wanting women they don't measure up to and women are getting tired of dealing with it which is the main cause of issues between them.I also don't have a problem because I date fine and have a phenomenal partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 06:50 PM |
| 1 | Men are wanting women they don't measure up to and women are getting tired of dealing with it which is the main cause of issues between them.The type ofen I'm into prefer it. So I don't care what you think. Because I'm not into you. I also have expensive hobbies and so unless your willing to spend 20k/year on me... I Have to make my own money. I don't like provider types. I like a guy who can cook/clean and be an equal within my home. So you are unattractive to me. Your not in my dating pool by default. That's why I don't care. Luckily I found the perfect partner for me. And with every comment like yours I appreciate him more and mor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 06:29 PM |
| 2 | Men are wanting women they don't measure up to and women are getting tired of dealing with it which is the main cause of issues between them.Okay | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 05:52 PM |
| 1 | Men are wanting women they don't measure up to and women are getting tired of dealing with it which is the main cause of issues between them.It's statistically true. Whereas your deciding based on your emotions. And lots of posts on Reddit complain about how all they match with are fat single moms so it also sounds like you may be the outlier here? But I don't decide what I believe based on the emotional opinions of redditors. https://realitycalc.com/ It's based on the US census data If I exclude mothers, married people, overweight, and obese women from age 18 - 60 with any height and income level and race - 6.68% of women fit those … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 05:39 PM |
| 3 | Men are wanting women they don't measure up to and women are getting tired of dealing with it which is the main cause of issues between them.Both your arguments are completely contradictory | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 05:33 PM |
| 1 | Men are wanting women they don't measure up to and women are getting tired of dealing with it which is the main cause of issues between them.Okay. If everyone who disagrees is a bad faith actor you do you. Your success in a relationship and dating doesn't affect me. And it doesn't change statistical facts either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 05:18 PM |
| 3 | Men are wanting women they don't measure up to and women are getting tired of dealing with it which is the main cause of issues between them.Guys who are meek are more likely to have insecurities and resentment towards women for being rejected. For a women that's a red flag for possibility of abuse later. Men who are confident and don't resent women and get us easier are usually less insecure and know they can get other women so are less likely to try to mold the few they can have. It's not never. Or always. Or black and white as you were saying. But more often chads move on if I'm not what they are looking for and the meek people wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 05:17 PM |
| 7 | Men are wanting women they don't measure up to and women are getting tired of dealing with it which is the main cause of issues between them.Billy who is a meek computer nerd nearly killed my friend. So yeah. It's ANY guy. But confident secure ones do it less. I have my skinny music nerd whoes confident and not meek and 100% less of a risk from him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 05:00 PM |
| 4 | Men are wanting women they don't measure up to and women are getting tired of dealing with it which is the main cause of issues between them.Yeah. That's about it lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 04:33 PM |
| 4 | Men are wanting women they don't measure up to and women are getting tired of dealing with it which is the main cause of issues between them.How does my post history confirm that lol. Because I looked into student visa. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 04:16 PM |
| 2 | Men are wanting women they don't measure up to and women are getting tired of dealing with it which is the main cause of issues between them.Yeah. I was going to say. The nicer I have been the more men have walked on me and not valued me. Luckily I have found someone u can be loving and kind too and they meet me there but I can see why so much advice for women is to be more standoffish/play games | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 04:15 PM |
| 7 | Men are wanting women they don't measure up to and women are getting tired of dealing with it which is the main cause of issues between them.It's interesting to me how people will say women are delusional and have it easier at the same time. It's also a bias thing. Someone disagreeing online (and this is for them also) will seem more negative when that's the only interaction you have with them. They can't imagine someone having a partner or being desirable when their only interaction is one where the person is obviously coming in with a controversial opinion. It's why names get shot. That's why I got called hitler and conceited. And … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 04:09 PM |
| 1 | Men are wanting women they don't measure up to and women are getting tired of dealing with it which is the main cause of issues between them.People can have different things. I do my work from home. I don't schedule it. I do it when I want to... I can be as picky as I was. I still found my person. So it doesn't matter | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 04:04 PM |
| 0 | Men are wanting women they don't measure up to and women are getting tired of dealing with it which is the main cause of issues between them.Probably how salty guys are about what averages are tbh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 03:38 PM |
| 1 | Men are wanting women they don't measure up to and women are getting tired of dealing with it which is the main cause of issues between them.Yeah lol. I have looked into study abroad stuff because I have some friends who I met when they visited ask me to but I haven't decided yet lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 03:37 PM |
| 1 | Men are wanting women they don't measure up to and women are getting tired of dealing with it which is the main cause of issues between them.Statistically speaking no. When it comes to skill level with hobbies and stuff I think so but depending on the hobby get told otherwise by professors jobs bosses and otherwise. So idk. I'm a person. Physically and statistically with kids above average. I get compared to other girls personality wise a lot by guys so while I just consider myself personality wise the same as other girls people often say I'm above average there. Hobby/skill wise it depends on the hobby and skill. I have a list of 10… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 03:36 PM |
| 1 | Men are wanting women they don't measure up to and women are getting tired of dealing with it which is the main cause of issues between them.I mean. I've had a single father throw a tantrum cause having a kid made it hard to date while refusing to date single moms. Baby mom this. Baby mom that. Hell no | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 03:31 PM |
| 1 | Men are wanting women they don't measure up to and women are getting tired of dealing with it which is the main cause of issues between them.No it's not. But not everyone has to agree on everything | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 03:29 PM |
| 2 | Men are wanting women they don't measure up to and women are getting tired of dealing with it which is the main cause of issues between them.Are fat men filtering out fat women though? Because I've met tons who go to me and want to date and talk negatively about my friend wanting to date them because she weighs 25 pounds more than me but they weigh double what I do. So idk. Maybe it's a them issue | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 03:22 PM |
| 3 | Men are wanting women they don't measure up to and women are getting tired of dealing with it which is the main cause of issues between them.You word this so accurately lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 03:20 PM |
| 1 | Men are wanting women they don't measure up to and women are getting tired of dealing with it which is the main cause of issues between them.And I found that too. I was aware what I was filtering down to and still have someone to share that with. Like some people get to be pickier. When I was overweight and struggled being friendly I didn't. Now I do and can find people who meet those standards. It's not rocket science | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 03:16 PM |
| 6 | Men are wanting women they don't measure up to and women are getting tired of dealing with it which is the main cause of issues between them.Yep That's where I am at. And they scream in person too. I get salty talking about it cause it's like if I had sex with everyone who screamed at me about how they deserve sex from me and I'm to picky I'd have fucked half a town lol. I'm not changing my mind on this one... This is just a wild thread. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 03:13 PM |
| 2 | Men are wanting women they don't measure up to and women are getting tired of dealing with it which is the main cause of issues between them.I had to be. I had a lot of people who liked me but assumed I wouldn't date them so I had to initiate. But I go for what I want so it didn't bother me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 03:10 PM |
| 6 | Men are wanting women they don't measure up to and women are getting tired of dealing with it which is the main cause of issues between them.I mean. Luckily for me I was a professional dancer and have a lot of hidden strength. But I know people who got face smashed in and nearly killed by "skinny billy" so yeah. Its good to be wary | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 03:09 PM |
| 4 | Men are wanting women they don't measure up to and women are getting tired of dealing with it which is the main cause of issues between them.But we still date fine with that being average so idk my dude | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 03:05 PM |
| 1 | Men are wanting women they don't measure up to and women are getting tired of dealing with it which is the main cause of issues between them.Okay lolol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 03:01 PM |
| 2 | Men are wanting women they don't measure up to and women are getting tired of dealing with it which is the main cause of issues between them.Statistically it is for most men though. Hence why most men marry within their own tax bracket | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 03:00 PM |
| 1 | Men are wanting women they don't measure up to and women are getting tired of dealing with it which is the main cause of issues between them.Okay. I don't respect the opinions of people who compare others to hitler though so lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 02:59 PM |
| 3 | Men are wanting women they don't measure up to and women are getting tired of dealing with it which is the main cause of issues between them.Why would people do better when they are doing fine with the standards that are out there. While single moms may have a bit more trouble they eventually settle down. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 02:58 PM |
| 1 | Men are wanting women they don't measure up to and women are getting tired of dealing with it which is the main cause of issues between them.Okay edgelord | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 02:56 PM |
| 2 | Men are wanting women they don't measure up to and women are getting tired of dealing with it which is the main cause of issues between them.Because statistically it is so. Obviously I spend time caring about other things. But women also don't need to | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 02:49 PM |
| 1 | Men are wanting women they don't measure up to and women are getting tired of dealing with it which is the main cause of issues between them.well. The emotional intelligence of someone who compares a random redditor to Adolf because they have high standards isn't an option Imma value tbh. And his opinion is worth a million of yours so worthless it is not :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 02:48 PM |
| 0 | Men are wanting women they don't measure up to and women are getting tired of dealing with it which is the main cause of issues between them.Oof. Funny. I wrote this. I'm child free. I also have the weight height and inch measurements of Emily Ratajkowski. But thankyou for projecting your issues onto me here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 02:46 PM |
| 1 | Men are wanting women they don't measure up to and women are getting tired of dealing with it which is the main cause of issues between them.I love how people get upset I had high standards and met them then decided I'm conceited. I got to be picky because I'm desired enough to be. That's not for no reason. If I was more average I'd have to work harder or lower my standards. But I don't. I don't need validation from some random person because an internet stranger insulted me. I know who I am. But I appreciate the sentiment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 02:44 PM |
| 1 | Men are wanting women they don't measure up to and women are getting tired of dealing with it which is the main cause of issues between them.I'll ask my partner what he thinks :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 02:34 PM |
| 0 | Men are wanting women they don't measure up to and women are getting tired of dealing with it which is the main cause of issues between them.That's what I used. I also meet my own standards so I was able to be very picky when meeting my current partner so I'm good | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 04:50 AM |
| 4 | Men are wanting women they don't measure up to and women are getting tired of dealing with it which is the main cause of issues between them.If they want to do that they can. They aren't the type of men I would want in my dating pool | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 04:46 AM |
| 1 | Men are wanting women they don't measure up to and women are getting tired of dealing with it which is the main cause of issues between them.The calculator excludes married | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 04:26 AM |
| 1 | Men are wanting women they don't measure up to and women are getting tired of dealing with it which is the main cause of issues between them.The statistics only include Non overweight (BMI) single women without kids. 6% of women meet that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 04:26 AM |
| 1 | Men are wanting women they don't measure up to and women are getting tired of dealing with it which is the main cause of issues between them.The average women doesn't tho. Is it upsetting sure.. But if you want a childless single women you are competing for the top% of women. You can either put more effort in, or lower your standards, or be okay being single. Statistically speaking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 04:24 AM |
| 5 | Men are wanting women they don't measure up to and women are getting tired of dealing with it which is the main cause of issues between them.I initiated half of the dates and relationships I've been in and plan 1/2 of dates in a relationship. I put in more time than my ex in starting his company for the first year it ran. Then half and half on that. None of my exes were muscular. I have abs. They don't. They aren't fat. Height varied. Financial situation varied. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 04:23 AM |
| 0 | Men are wanting women they don't measure up to and women are getting tired of dealing with it which is the main cause of issues between them.I can understand why you would think someone disagreeing online is unpleasant. It's not common for me to not get along with people in real life though so you do you I guess :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 04:20 AM |
| 1 | Men are wanting women they don't measure up to and women are getting tired of dealing with it which is the main cause of issues between them.Yeah. We don't care. Honestly. I'm not going to fuck and build a life with someone who isn't right for me and it's not on me to fix that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 04:11 AM |
| 1 | Men are wanting women they don't measure up to and women are getting tired of dealing with it which is the main cause of issues between them.Not true actually. My partner makes less. But I don't make more to support them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 04:10 AM |
| 2 | Men are wanting women they don't measure up to and women are getting tired of dealing with it which is the main cause of issues between them.I mean. I am above average and in a college town... It's not uncommon for people to share that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 04:08 AM |
| 1 | Men are wanting women they don't measure up to and women are getting tired of dealing with it which is the main cause of issues between them.Yeah. I guess more and more women are childfree..but yeah. It's also going to depend on expectations..I won't lower my living standards. So if I were to want kids I would need a partner to make that work. I don't think I'm the person to argue that point with because I am childfree so it's abstract. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 03:17 AM |
| 10 | Men are wanting women they don't measure up to and women are getting tired of dealing with it which is the main cause of issues between them.Exactly. It sucks. But average is average and the reality is if men are competing for a small amount of women it will be harder for them to date | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 03:14 AM |
| 1 | Men are wanting women they don't measure up to and women are getting tired of dealing with it which is the main cause of issues between them.Nope. I just think our personalities and communication styles are different enough to not be a partner for me. Great for friends. But for a relationship communication stuff is on a different level in terms of importance. And expectations. If I'm writing research reports and grant proposals constantly I want to talk to a partner with experience writing a grant proposal. No matter how good you write or can understand the shared experience of that's a big deal especially when I'm going into grant w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 03:10 AM |
| 4 | Men are wanting women they don't measure up to and women are getting tired of dealing with it which is the main cause of issues between them.I also think men need to accept hardships when competing for the non average women (skinny, childless, good personality) because they are competing for a select amount of women. Or they need to date not to their standards. Thats the reality of life rn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 03:04 AM |
| 1 | Men are wanting women they don't measure up to and women are getting tired of dealing with it which is the main cause of issues between them.I don't think you guys got what I was saying. Filtering women to most standards is 5.88 Filtering men to women's standards is 6 Reality is the average women is overweight with kids and lower waged. Average man isn't making tons of $, fit and all that. Do the standard differences suck. Sure. But 5.88 vs 6 isn't terrible.. If your average you can either struggle to date above average and compete for all the skinny childless women. Or you can date down. Those are the two options | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 03:00 AM |
| 2 | Men are wanting women they don't measure up to and women are getting tired of dealing with it which is the main cause of issues between them.I think men assume we make tons of money for them. I'm proud of making money. I like to have nice things. I like to save. I don't want to worry about if my partner can provide or have to beg someone for overpriced art supplies or running shoes every 3 months. I want to retire by 45 max so making a lot and saving is important to me. My job allows that. Reality is I need to make money to live the lifestyle I live. I'm not going to ask my partner if I can buy a $500 coat cause I like the brand. But… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 02:56 AM |
| 1 | Men are wanting women they don't measure up to and women are getting tired of dealing with it which is the main cause of issues between them.And men don't reach either tbh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 02:48 AM |
| 0 | Men are wanting women they don't measure up to and women are getting tired of dealing with it which is the main cause of issues between them.I don't think I settled in any area with my partner and he made it clear that there is nothing he really settled on with me either... Maybe it's luck. Maybe it's people wanting the perfect match to be the first person they meet with zero effort plopped in front of them. Statistically I'm not average tho. I feel average but statistically and according to friends and my current partner I'm not with personality, looks, and lifestyle. I think most people take a while to look for their match though. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 02:46 AM |
| 1 | Men are wanting women they don't measure up to and women are getting tired of dealing with it which is the main cause of issues between them.Exactly. Houses and kids cost $ and downgrading life isn't really something women are willing to do for a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 02:42 AM |
| 1 | Men are wanting women they don't measure up to and women are getting tired of dealing with it which is the main cause of issues between them.Okay | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 02:39 AM |
| 2 | Men are wanting women they don't measure up to and women are getting tired of dealing with it which is the main cause of issues between them.I wish the men's calculator even included single dads lol. Luckily I found the person for me. But jeez lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 02:37 AM |
| 1 | Men are wanting women they don't measure up to and women are getting tired of dealing with it which is the main cause of issues between them.Single dads aren't either. As someone who doesn't have kids and dated a single dad. Never again. Even if they don't have custody I won't do it. Responsibility thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 02:32 AM |
| 5 | Men are wanting women they don't measure up to and women are getting tired of dealing with it which is the main cause of issues between them.That's what I was trying to say but people got salty. Like average doesn't have bargaining power. So either deal with how difficult things are or do average | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 02:31 AM |
| 1 | Men are wanting women they don't measure up to and women are getting tired of dealing with it which is the main cause of issues between them.I am getting a bachelor's. I traveled for a few years first. And was blue collar till not too long ago | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 02:30 AM |
| 1 | Men are wanting women they don't measure up to and women are getting tired of dealing with it which is the main cause of issues between them.It's not actually. Median wages for my age and education is half that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 02:22 AM |
| 9 | Men are wanting women they don't measure up to and women are getting tired of dealing with it which is the main cause of issues between them.With men it is just as rare apparently | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 02:22 AM |
| 2 | Men are wanting women they don't measure up to and women are getting tired of dealing with it which is the main cause of issues between them.Once you take away single mother statistics I'm sure yours would change | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 02:22 AM |
| 4 | Men are wanting women they don't measure up to and women are getting tired of dealing with it which is the main cause of issues between them.Can you filter for men without kids 2 please? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 01:45 AM |
| 6 | Men are wanting women they don't measure up to and women are getting tired of dealing with it which is the main cause of issues between them.But nobody who is average is okay with average | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 01:39 AM |
| 0 | Men are wanting women they don't measure up to and women are getting tired of dealing with it which is the main cause of issues between them.If you want to use the calculator that way you are free to. My current partner is closer to 40 though. Every partner I've had has been older than 32. Oddly enough older men do pursue younger women at higher rates then younger and shoot the shot more | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 01:35 AM |
| 1 | Men are wanting women they don't measure up to and women are getting tired of dealing with it which is the main cause of issues between them.60k is actually higher than the median tbh. And comfortable for most people. I make that in college. It's not terrible. It's not tons. Enough to save. Pay for a date every week. Buy some extra wants. And rent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 01:33 AM |
| 1 | Men are wanting women they don't measure up to and women are getting tired of dealing with it which is the main cause of issues between them.Yeah. I have had people I like but am not their type. They go for the kim k insta baddie look and reality is that's not my vibe. I get it. Rejection sucks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 01:31 AM |
| 4 | Men are wanting women they don't measure up to and women are getting tired of dealing with it which is the main cause of issues between them.Sex vs dating. Men will have sex with women they aren't attracted too. When I was fat just as many men were willing have sex with me. Skinny I have more people willing to date me. Reality is sex is easier and not valued for women as it is men and I can get why that would be difficult for guys who are locked out of they aren't nice looking enough to get laid through apps hookup wise or aren't able to find a partner. I am primarily talking about long term relationships though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 01:30 AM |
| 2 | Men are wanting women they don't measure up to and women are getting tired of dealing with it which is the main cause of issues between them.I mean yeah. Men and women statistically look for different things. I've had tons of men like me for looks but not as a partner and it sucks to not feel fully accepted as a person. And I'm aware I'm a statistical abnormal person but I also financially am in the opposite bracket. My partner is not in a n industry where he will ever make enough so despite everything amazing about him he struggles dating. Luckily my expected wages definitely make up for it. But it can be rough for guys out there. I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 01:27 AM |
| 1 | Men are wanting women they don't measure up to and women are getting tired of dealing with it which is the main cause of issues between them.It does for me because I date from 25-40. I thought I clarified but if not idk. Men also didn't have a kids option to filter them so it evened it out. But I don't date men with kids because I don't have kids | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 01:24 AM |
| 1 | Men are wanting women they don't measure up to and women are getting tired of dealing with it which is the main cause of issues between them.I have been too. It took from 19-24 to find someone with continuous effort. I'm sure it's harder for men to because we are wary and women can be more defensive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 01:22 AM |
| 2 | Men are wanting women they don't measure up to and women are getting tired of dealing with it which is the main cause of issues between them.Cause I don't date someone I'm won't be able to love and lust for? Sure. Because I would never be for them what I am with my current partner you would be correct. I'm not attracted to them. Sex would be a chore. Resentment for things would be different..I'd feel like I'm dating down so I would be less likely to want to plan dates and cook for them. So they did dodge a relationship they didn't want to have because I wouldn't like them enough to be the best partner I can be. And it's not just thei… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 01:21 AM |
| -3 | Men are wanting women they don't measure up to and women are getting tired of dealing with it which is the main cause of issues between them.As someone who was 200lbs and lost most of it. And make close to 70k now while in college imma be honest making more money was definitely easier but maybe I'm bias. It's ancedotal. And personality is something I filter for. Do you want to date someone shallow enough to care about height? If so it doesn't really matter? But if your into those types of girls I can see what it would be upsetting for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 01:18 AM |
| 3 | Men are wanting women they don't measure up to and women are getting tired of dealing with it which is the main cause of issues between them.Oof. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 01:15 AM |
| 0 | Men are wanting women they don't measure up to and women are getting tired of dealing with it which is the main cause of issues between them.I mean I spend most my time in heels so I don't even really notice how tall I am but it is unfortunately an unchangeable standard. Luckily you don't want the type of girl who filters for that anyways. And yeah. I have a body shaped like a models, can spend 5 minutes on makeup and look like a 9 and I expect my partner to look a certain way also. My partner isn't buff. He's skinny. He's lanky. But I find him hot and want to find my partner sexy as hell. Who wouldn't? I don't find men who don't kee… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 01:15 AM |
| 2 | Men are wanting women they don't measure up to and women are getting tired of dealing with it which is the main cause of issues between them.I just think men and women need to work on themselves or date on their level. Dating on my level cuts me down to very few men and once I finish college even less. Luckily I'm partnered. But for some reason every man on reddit posts my stats as something every man deserves and it's exhausting being met with vitriol when I don't date someone I wouldn't be able to love or lust for. I don't want to spend the rest of my life rejecting my partners advances because I dated down. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 01:09 AM |
| 0 | Men are wanting women they don't measure up to and women are getting tired of dealing with it which is the main cause of issues between them.Okay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 01:06 AM |
| 4 | Men are wanting women they don't measure up to and women are getting tired of dealing with it which is the main cause of issues between them.Nope. I'm actually in the bracket I want to be in with a phenomenal partner. The statistic was average for women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 01:06 AM |
| -1 | Men are wanting women they don't measure up to and women are getting tired of dealing with it which is the main cause of issues between them.Honey up until a year ago I was blue collar :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 01:05 AM |
| 4 | Men are wanting women they don't measure up to and women are getting tired of dealing with it which is the main cause of issues between them.I care about men atleast matching my wage. Hence why women have to "make less" in my post then men. Because like you said they don't care. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 01:05 AM |
| 0 | Men are wanting women they don't measure up to and women are getting tired of dealing with it which is the main cause of issues between them.It doesn't really matter when the time it takes to filter it isn't worth it. I used to be blue collar. I'll make blue collar friends. But I've yet to find someone blue collar in that friend group whose personality makes me want to date them. I found my match tho so I'm not looking anymore anyways | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 01:03 AM |
| 6 | Men are wanting women they don't measure up to and women are getting tired of dealing with it which is the main cause of issues between them.If your not fat sure. But as someone who has the same inch, weight, and height as a model and meets guys who don't care about their weight constantly expect me to want to date them and refuse to date someone with a similar weight It's extremely annoying to deal with. Only 6% of men, make as much as I do, aren't overweight, are my same height or higher, and are single but my stats are constantly stated as a standard for guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 01:01 AM |
| -4 | Men are wanting women they don't measure up to and women are getting tired of dealing with it which is the main cause of issues between them.Men don't filter for the same things women do either. When I filtered for the statistically most asked for things on PPD I got 5.88% | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 12:58 AM |
| 0 | Men are wanting women they don't measure up to and women are getting tired of dealing with it which is the main cause of issues between them.I've worked in the blue collar industry. I don't like the personalities as much as other industries. My current boyfriend is a music teacher. You aren't going to get those same personalities. Nothing wrong with blue collar but I filter for certain things. It's nothing to do with intelligence and more to do with how you socialize. I grew up in a family with money. Even blue collar people say it's noticeable in how I speak/act. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 12:58 AM |
| 0 | Men are wanting women they don't measure up to and women are getting tired of dealing with it which is the main cause of issues between them.I used it correctly for how I wanted to filter. I won't date people outside that demo and reality is most women won't. It wasn't to include all men. Just like how I didn't include all women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 12:54 AM |
| 1 | Men are wanting women they don't measure up to and women are getting tired of dealing with it which is the main cause of issues between them.I mean I've met men who are on level with women they don't want to date and then try to date me. It's just insane to me. Like I lost half my body weight (thank God there is no loose skin) spent 4 years learning communication skills, building my own hobbies, increasing my wages, meeting friends and people who don't shower more than 1x a week won't date my friend who is 25 lbs heavier then me but push to date me and get mad when I say no. It's kinda annoying to deal with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 12:52 AM |
| 0 | Men are wanting women they don't measure up to and women are getting tired of dealing with it which is the main cause of issues between them.I mean I am relatively decent wage wise (I spent a year doing it but make 60k while in college i can't imagine it would be easier when not in college) I'm skinny (been told several times in my life I look like a model), I don't have kids,I have hobbies and have been told by others I'm extremely comfortable and personable to be around. I have met lots of single dads, men who don't take care of themselves, and lower waged people refuse to date people on their own category and shoot their shot with… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 12:48 AM |
| 0 | Men are wanting women they don't measure up to and women are getting tired of dealing with it which is the main cause of issues between them.The issue is that average people want above average on both ends. Mends standards (skinny, no kids, can support themselves, and stuff) is only 5.88% of people also. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 12:37 AM |
| -1 | What to do with the libido gap?Women need to start giving full custody to dads so they get to deal with this scenario themselves. Cool. You want to cheat. Here's my 300/month child support have fun being a single parent. Or just don't have kids if you can't handle the fact that life may change. But I also dislike kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/23 11:31 PM |
| 2 | Red pill stuff if valid for both gendersI haven't read that far so I do appreciate this comment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/23 06:11 PM |
| – | Red pill stuff if valid for both gendersWhich is interesting cause I hear all the time women aren't accountable ect. And it's interesting cause reading through the rational male - many of those things easily would help several female friends and could apply to previous relationships of mine also | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/23 04:19 PM |
| – | Red pill stuff if valid for both gendersI'm saying hey women - if you set boundaries control your emotions and value yourself the way redpill tells men to redpill will work | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/23 04:14 PM |
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