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I didn't realize how much of a drain this was in the past until I got into my current relationship. It's so freeing to not have to ask for the bare minimum. He's constantly paying attention to my likes and dislikes and then finding ways to make my life easier in both regards. For example, I love having my snacks and energy drinks for my overnight shifts ready to go before work, and I hate doing laundry - so I wake up for work and my scrubs are all freshly washed, and everything I want for work i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/22 09:42 AM
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Will Smith blowing off the handle like that only caused more attention to Jada and the joke. If his real intent was to "defend her" or whatever, he did it in the worst way possible. Hell, a lot of people (myself included) didn't even realize she had alopecia until this went viral. Congrats, now everyone on the internet is cracking jokes about the two of them. Someone who was actually respectful of your feelings would have addressed Chris Rock after the show, and let him know that you did not app…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 06:31 AM
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Also, proposing after 4 years.. whoof. He hasn't been interested in marrying her this whole time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/22 12:26 PM
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"We're really good at communicating" DOES NOT ADD UP WITH "he laughed at me and made fun of me". The girl who wrote this needs to read what she wrote again, slowly. Does that sound like good communication to you? If you told your friend something personal and they laughed and mocked you, you wouldn't call that person a friend any longer, and especially not one with "good communication".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 12:16 PM
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He's not loud or obnoxious, he has decent hygiene, and treats you like a person (listening, being patient, responding to aspects of the relationship that aren't working).. to me this sounds like the bare minimum, like you could be describing a co-worker or anyone else you're generally civil with. If you want FWB over a relationship, you do you, but I think the bar needs to be much, much higher.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 08:09 PM
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One time, I mentioned in passing to my boyfriend that I hate being on the inside lane of roundabouts due to a car crash I was in when I was younger. Didn't make a big deal of it, didn't bring it up again. Every time I'm in the car with him, he moves to the outside lane and hasn't ever said anything about it. It's really that easy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 06:07 AM
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The accuracy here is unreal, especially in regards to liberal feminism. Just ask men outright what they think feminism is, normally they'll tell on themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 08:19 PM
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Agreed. I won't interact with anyone who calls others "autistic", or if they use the R word or any other ableist language. Not only is it immature, offensive, and gross, but you're seriously lacking in vocabulary so badly that you felt like you couldn't use any other word? I went on one date with a guy who knew I had a disabled younger sister, and dropped the R word twice anyways. Noped the fuck right outta there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 07:47 PM
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Its absolutely wild that this guy is so stupid that he gets a text saying "put on your mask", and doesn't immediately think, oh shit, my wife is watching and mask up before texting her back. What was he thinking, that she knew he wasn't wearing it via telekinesis?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 01:12 AM
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So on a similar note, even a $1000 ring comes out to about 6 cents/day, if you were married 40 years. You're really going to spend that little on something that is going to have daily wear for (hopefully) the rest of your life? Also, what if your kids or grandkids want the ring as an heirloom? You think a cheap ring that's already been through a lifetime of wear is gonna continue to hold up? Nah
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 07:17 AM
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This is the sweetest thing ever. Congratulations!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 07:13 AM
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BTK had two dogs that he was very fond of, and would frequently take them on walks and hikes in some really lovely areas. Per his daughter, he spoiled them rotten, and sobbed at the vet when one of them needed to be put down. So.. y'know. Not a good indicator.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 02:48 PM
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Ugh, no thanks. You never want a partner who you need to remind to help - or worse, watch you clean and not jump in. I have weekly family dinners with my boyfriend's family, and after helping cook the meal (while I enjoy a glass of wine), he always waits until I'm done eating, and then clears my plate and starts cleaning the kitchen with no prompting. I've never asked him to do that, either. Usually he's got the kitchen cleaned and all the leftovers put away before we can break out dessert. If h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 11:12 AM
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Unfortunate that the wedding celebration didn't turn into a "I said no and just dodged a huge bullet" celebration.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 09:59 PM
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I wish the crowd wouldn't have laughed so they just stood up on the stage and had the realization of how dumb this is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 09:52 PM
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Seriously. How insecure and idiotic do you need to be to think this is even remotely a funny or clever idea? He values those three seconds of laughter from the crowd more than he values his wife. Imagine showing your kids the video from your wedding, and instead of lovely wedding vows, it's "See sweetie, this is where daddy turned a lifelong promise into a giggle for his frat boys! Yes, he hasn't talked to them for 10 years now, but their seal of approval made everything so romantic and charming…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 09:49 PM
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Super weird how a lot of the comments on the main post are like, "You don't know him or their relationship! He's probably just a funny guy who jokes around, and this is totally normal for him!" Like, yeah dude, that's the point. If his idea of peak comedy is to turn what was supposed to be he and his wife's most important moment of their life into a laugh to impress his bros and extended family, he's not a good person. Edit, because some people are saying "she's laughing too!": she's laughing fo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 05:45 PM
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Sounds like an attempt to have someone jump in and tell her she needs to leave. He clearly doesn't plan to change, and why should he? She's shown him that she'll stick around even after he's cheated on her and has a porn addiction that he isn't actually trying to fix (rolling my eyes at the 'church therapy group'.) Her common sense is screaming at her to go, but she doesn't have the nerve yet, and needs a push from some outside help.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 03:48 PM
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You're going to feel so much relief when you don't have to deal with him anymore. I promise, things will not get better with him. He clearly doesn't have any intention to change, and if he cared about your feelings, he would never said what he did. He's hoping to wear you down so he can continue his shitty behavior. You deserve someone who cares about you as a person and values your feelings. You can do so, so much better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 11:49 PM
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I saw the original post on Twitter. It's insane that guys are pissed that a woman said "No, I can't do this, let's not waste our time" and ended things because some dude tried to trauma dump on her. What, you think that after he said he had trauma from a previous relationship and had done nothing to try and recover/fix himself she was supposed to jump into action and say, "No, let me fix you!" Gross, gross, gross, nope.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 05:50 PM
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If a dude can't clean himself, eat, and hold a job why on earth would I be wasting any time there? Even when I was a teenager I knew better than to babysit for free.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 10:57 PM
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Yeah, because if he can't put in the most minimal effort, that means I need to be the one to push him into marriage ASAP!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 08:16 PM
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Also, imagine feeling so unsecure about a group of women talking about how to make their lives better that you take the time out of your day to make a subreddit, make an icon, etc... If us asking for a partner who treats us well and has good hygiene threatens you that much, that says a whole lot more about you than it does about us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 05:45 PM
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I genuinely believe people who call this the "reverse incel sub" have never bothered to visit for more than 10 seconds. What a weird and uniformed take.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 05:42 PM
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Women: make a group regarding safety in dating, reasonable expectations of a partner, how to better yourself and not have your happiness depend on a relationship, encourages furthering your work, schooling, etc... Men, who are angered by this: make a group about how to use women and throw them aside, says "but this is what they're doing too!!!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 05:34 PM
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Def not friends, just know each other in passing. Thank goodness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 01:53 AM
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👆 Yep! The bar is on the floor now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 09:49 PM
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I couldn't watch the whole video. The secondhand embarrassment was too much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 08:37 PM
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Clearly the memories of that concert were going to last longer than her need of an expensive ring. But maybe I'm being optimistic that she breaks out of the engagement.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 07:09 PM
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Exactly, and this is why my first marriage ended. For MONTHS I tried good ol' "communication" (read: I kept asking and begging and nothing changed in return). For MONTHS. I finally hit the point where I was apologizing for being too needy, when in reality I was begging for scraps of affection. Never, ever again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 07:12 PM
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This just made it worse, thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 11:01 PM
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For being a group who likes to preach about "facts and logic", they sure don't like to hear the truth sometimes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 12:25 AM
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Did anyone else see the comment from a man saying he'd "maybe" marry her if she did this? Even in a hypothetical situation, 5 grand isn't enough of an incentive (on top of everything else) to marry the poor girl. How insulting and degrading. Stop doing shit like this for men that aren't committing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 06:05 AM
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I got divorced earlier this year. Now I've finished my degree, passed my boards, got a new place, and I'll be starting a new job. Feels way better than how I felt before.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 02:09 PM
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I needed this today, thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/19 02:29 PM
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Holy shit. Getting an IUD was hands-down the most painful thing I've ever experienced in my life. If some dude thinks I'd do that just so he can bust a nut, he's not a clown, he's the entire circus.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/19 02:26 PM
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Before I learned to speak up for myself, I had an ex who did exactly that. I learned that if he was doing something I didn't like, I just had to say "don't stop" or "keep going" and he'd promptly switch to doing something else. I have no clue why guys do that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/19 02:18 PM
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The kinky stuff they show in commercial porn is SO dramatized. It's never going to be like that in real life. Save your time and their expectations and buck up for an honest heart-to-heart about kink preferences. There's already enough misinformation about kinky stuff out there, don't feed boys more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/19 01:45 PM
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