So many times, when it doesn't work out, or men distance themselves from us, we think about what we did wrong or somehow we weren't good enough. Not pretty enough, not sexy enough, not cool enough, not caring enough, not feminine enough, too needy, too demanding, too naggy, too slutty, too obnoxious.

The thing is though, he just didn't or doesn't like you, or like you enough. The reason although probably not tangible, doesn't matter. It doesn't matter why he doesn't like you, because trust me, even if you try to mould yourself to be his ideal, he probably still wont like you if he never felt that way in the beginning. Don't try to change in the hopes of him becoming more invested. If a man doesn't like you, he will always find a problem with you and try to justify it. So no matter how 'perfect' you become, he will always find a way to criticise you. This is a based on his initial feeling for you, and when a man does like a woman? He ignores her flaws and his own 'morals'

Also remember thar the dynamic of a relationship never or rarely changes. Do you really want to be stuck in a perpetual cycle of you pleasing and changing for him? Set the dynamic in the beginning and let him know what type of woman you truly are.