falkor9011 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
167	Eartha Kitt laughed when an interviewer asked her if she is willing to compromise for man, two minutes video that'll make you think	QUEEN SH*T	falkor9011	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/09/20 08:49 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	Did any of you queens find this sub AFTER marrying a LVM? How did you handle it? He already got his greencard, it's just a matter of time before he got his citizenship. Thru married he only need to wait 3 years.	/r/askFDS	22/10/20 07:40 PM
-2	Unpopular Opinion: Whoever asks the other person out should pay for the date, regardless of gender Agree, I am a woman and I never paid for a date because I never asked first. It's always the guys ask me for a date and I agree wholeheartedly with this view.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/20 07:35 PM
15	Indian women should NOT marry: 1.3 billion reasons India is a country that still practices caste system to this day and of course women are always second class (maybe even third, fourth, or fifth class) citizens at this point. I am from Indonesia and unfortunately, some stuff that you said here is true in Indonesia as well. That's why I move to the US.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/09/20 08:33 PM
3	Ladies in relationships with HVM: what bad habits does he have that don’t detract from him being HV? He is an impulsive buyer when it comes to technology but he also bought me a lot of gadget. I am waiting for the new Oculus now, he just decided that I need one 😛	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/09/20 02:55 AM
2	Friendzoned ... I guess... I think if you also want him as a friend it's find to have him has a friend, especially if you enjoyed spending time with you. However that is not the case, you are clearly wanting more and he does not so stop wasting your time thinking about him. I found it easy to just block people that I don't like, life is too short to deal with that kind of discomfort.	/r/askFDS	22/09/20 01:47 PM
5	How to not feel sad/hopeless when you're watching all your friends get married? How do you deal with comments from your family? I am from Indonesia and moved to the US 5 years ago. I was 27 years old and single when I moved to the US. Most of my friends got married when they are 21 - 25 years old. I know how you feel. I saw them getting married and I was jealous. I decided to focus on myself, I got my master degree, travelling all over the world, and have a decent career. I really focused on myself and I met my husband when I was 30 years old, when I don't event thinking about relationships and just focus on myself. Live…	/r/askFDS	22/09/20 01:14 PM
12	Dating in NYC vs Toronto I lived in NYC for four years and I met my husband in NYC. There are a lot of fuckboys in NYC and also a lot of successful LVM (make them look like HVM). The thing is there are more women than men in NYC and men in NYC just love to ghost, try to just have sex, and in general just awful. Use fds and caution when you are dating in NYC. I did not know FDS when I was living there so I created my own system. I only consider sex after six dates and guess what most guy in NYC expected sex on the first …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/09/20 07:34 PM
5	Why are you so obsessed with us? Aren’t you supposed to be “going your own way”? It's funny that he wrote this post when he could not even grow his beard without pill.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/09/20 02:01 AM
16	In Memoriam RIP RBG	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/09/20 12:12 AM
12	What is the FDS stance on a brunch first date? I guess I just answered based on my experience, my husband took me for a brunch in an upscale restaurant for our third dates. It was memorable, I really enjoyed the food, ambiance, and the experience.	/r/askFDS	18/09/20 11:34 PM
29	What is the FDS stance on a brunch first date? I think brunch date is fun and usually last just as long as dinner if not more. I personally think a brunch date in an upscale/good restaurant is a good choice.	/r/askFDS	18/09/20 08:59 PM
4	Man once again panicking after getting a reality check about open marriages One of my friends actually asked this to his fiancee and its backfired to him. They broke up and he regretted asking for an open relationship. Its never a good idea.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/09/20 04:46 PM
22	Eartha Kitt laughed when an interviewer asked her if she is willing to compromise for man, two minutes video that'll make you think I love how she just laughed at the question.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/09/20 09:06 PM
5	For a 37 year old scrote who claims to be having the time of his life sexually, he sure devotes a lot of time to writing about us on his blog. 🧐 (6 total screenshots) These slides are the most disgusting things I ever read in my life. Yikes.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/09/20 04:47 PM
12	That's word diarrhea if I've ever seen it Being single is better than being with an LVM like him.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/09/20 10:59 PM
26	That's word diarrhea if I've ever seen it Don't you dare comparing lizard to this man. Lizard is better.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/09/20 10:57 PM
6	Ladies with HVM: How Did You "Level Up"? I am highly educated, good looking (subjective) and I take care of myself. I had a very successful career and I know I want a family so I spent sometime developing strategy to find the right man (I was not on this sub yet). This is my rule: I only agreed to dinner date or brunch date, no coffee dates for me. If a man asked for splitting the bill, I just blocked them after the date (happened once to me) I only considered sex after 6 dates. If a man send me a dick pick, I blocked them immediately.…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/09/20 02:44 PM
2	Guy (43m) says I (37f) talk too much. Played it off like he was teasing me and I was being sensitive by getting insulted. Is this a neg or playful teasing or a flat-out insult? What does he possibly hope to gain by being so rude? Hard no for me, red flag.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/09/20 01:20 PM
12	Why are men do pedophiles 🤢. I am literally 17 Yikes	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/09/20 01:17 PM
2	Dating in a no-PDA country Yes, that's exactly what I am talking about. All of this place in Jakarta are super fancy and expensive. It's a nice experience too. In term of being exclusive, I think I might worded my comment badly. I discussed about exclusivity with my (now) husband, it's cut both way in our case.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/09/20 01:13 PM
3	Dating in a no-PDA country Ah got it, and do you think if you are in a more private setting with a guy, it'll always end ups in sex? Just asking because I don't know how strict is your country right now but in Jakarta we have a few restaurants that a bit more private where you could be physically intimate (but not having sex), is there any setting like that?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/09/20 12:21 PM
9	Dating in a no-PDA country I am from Indonesia, one of the countries in South East Asia. We have the same culture of no PDA and sex before marriage is a bit taboo. I found it easier to avoid sex all together in the country like Indonesia. Just have dates, ask for exclusivivity and when they showed commitment, invite them to your place or you could go to his place for more intimate physical connection or sex.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/09/20 11:39 AM
11	I’m out of words. They broke up	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/09/20 11:33 AM
15	I Never thought I would agree with Tomi Lahren but Politics aside she's on point here! The right wing pundits were mad because of her statement.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/09/20 07:46 PM
2	After how many dates do you allow a man (you met on online dating) to pick you up or drop you off at your house? 6 dates, most LVM would not last 6 dates or you'll dump them before 6 dates.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/09/20 07:18 PM
1	Ladies, what do you do for someone's birthday you just started dating? Agree with this suggestion	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/09/20 07:13 PM
8	Found on instagram. He is looking for a mommy🤣 Lol	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/09/20 07:09 PM
29	Found on instagram. He is looking for a mommy🤣 Plus never go on a date with a guy that start their text with ''Yo", sign of LVM.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/09/20 07:08 PM
4	This 24 year old dude who casually announced to me that he has a girlfriend in another country and pressured me into things. It’s a lot to read, sorry, but I had to share with somebody. I’m appalled. Blocked. Just say No next time. Trust your gut.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/09/20 07:01 PM
186	Found on instagram. He is looking for a mommy🤣 Hahahahaha Tex-mex maybe? Lol, this guy is an idiot.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/09/20 06:46 PM
8	Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered September 1 2020 Why your heart will be shattered? He is just a date, keep repeating that and I think you'll be okay. Plus he is LVM, just keep remember that	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/09/20 09:45 PM
13	How do you ladies feel about being told you are "intelligent" or "competent" by a male colleague or superior? I always took it as a compliment, then I realized I've NEVER heard that said man-to-man. As if it's assumed, and intelligent women are unicorns...? I got this before and I said 'I cannot say the same to you, because you are neither smart or attractive' then go about my day. I was hostile to him because he was on my back since my first day at work, he was so condescending.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/09/20 07:22 AM
2	Online Dating Red Flags 🚨 It's a good list!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/09/20 03:30 PM
3	You can’t save every pickme out there You can't help people from themselves	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/09/20 02:57 PM
2	Can we normalize dating multiple men at once? Did women really do this? Put their hope to one man after a first date? This is such an outdated views. I married 2 years ago. When I met my husband, I dated 4 different guys at the same times (having sex with non except my husband because he is patient enough to wait). My rule is no sex before six dates and it work pretty well at weeded out fuckboys.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/09/20 10:53 AM
13	Reminder that a good partner should support you through your bad times as well. How many men drop their wives as soon as it gets bad? Give him space but inform him how you feel. I'd suggest couple therapy too. My husband has the same coping mechanism, he shut down and burry problem deep and never want to talk about it. I gave him space and suggested couple therapy. We are still in therapy but he is way better now at communicating his feeling.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/09/20 10:29 AM
7	Thinking about a person you know isn't worth your time? Here are some great distractions: Go to local nursery, buy some house plants! It's so relaxing watching them thrive!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/09/20 10:23 AM
4	Notice the Way His Dog Behaves 100% Agree! I can't with people that don't want to spend time training their dog. It's so easy, you just have to give it time.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/09/20 10:21 AM
15	"Open Minded" is code for sex doll This is so true	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/09/20 05:54 PM
1	Broke up with my boyfriend of 2 months, feeling down need some support He sounds manipulative	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/09/20 11:30 PM