falousco Archive

Upvotes	Title	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
38	Something I think could help a lot of people with approach anxiety.	falousco	/r/seduction	14/07/12 10:41 PM
4	What to do during the day time in my long Summer?	falousco	/r/seduction	10/07/12 02:07 PM
1	Any ideas on using birthdays to get back in contact with someone? (Or just get in contact, if you weren't friends before)	falousco	/r/seduction	15/04/12 11:50 PM
0	Do you want to get out more or just do more things?	falousco	/r/seduction	26/04/12 12:19 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	The best thing I've ever done to progress myself from AFC->PUA, I seriously suggest you guys consider trying it yourselves. It's nowhere near being drunk, you are in total control of your actions still, your body is just flooded with confidence. I actually find it easier to detect social cues whilst on MDMA. The effects on your social skills are nothing compared to alcohol or coke. Alcohol makes you more confident but it makes you sloppy, you tend to slur and forget what you just said a lot, it dampens your brain overall. Coke makes people confident, but they tend to just be chatty and not lovable/friendly. They yap …	/r/seduction	26/11/12 11:40 PM
2	The best thing I've ever done to progress myself from AFC->PUA, I seriously suggest you guys consider trying it yourselves. To clarify, the title makes it sounds like I took MDMA and now have no AA. No, once the drug wears off you don't feel like a god any more.. but what it does provide is an insight into your potential and how accepting people are of you in reality. It definitely improved my AA a certain amount, but I'm by no means 'cured'.	/r/seduction	26/11/12 02:24 PM
4	7 Day Challenge: Ditch the Headphones Introvert has become the new OCD!	/r/seduction	26/11/12 01:39 PM
3	Start taking cold showers, especially if you have AA Because guys who were previously AFCs and had AA but no longer are/do quickly forget how difficult it is to start.	/r/seduction	26/11/12 12:22 AM
1	How do I dance well in clubs/bars/parties/etc.? If you're talking about the whole 'don't buy any girl a drink ever' idea that gets pushed way too much in Seddit, then I simply disagree with it. One drink is nothing, you can even make a reason for it like, "if I buy you this drink then you do" etc. Just because you buy a girl a drink, she isn't going to shit herself and never speak to you again.	/r/seduction	07/09/12 11:18 PM
4	How do I dance well in clubs/bars/parties/etc.? Put on some music in your own home by yourself and dance around. Do this over time until you find dancing fun and then when you go out just dance for fun. Girls like guys who are having fun, not doing some strict dance routine, through this you will get their attention. Best move for me after this is to get close, offer a hi-5 in the least cheesy way and as they connect open your fingers and interlock them with hers or grasp her hand. From here raise her hand above her head and give her a simple…	/r/seduction	07/09/12 10:25 PM
1	I was in bed with a girl, making out, about to have sex for the first time, and I fucking jizzed in my pants. Seddit, please help me. Fuck. (NSFW?) This is what happens as subreddits gain popularity, for some the loyal members fight off the bullshit, but in some the subreddit is submerged in this shit. We must fight with downvotes!	/r/seduction	20/08/12 11:57 PM
3	Decided to get over AA. This is how it went In all honesty, sometimes the relationship a girl is in can be on the rocks for various reasons, such as her boyfriend being a dick. Turning up and straight up asking her, and ignoring her if she says about having a boyfriend is like throwing a life jacket to her if she needs out of a shitty relationship. I once went on a date with a girl after making a joke out of the fact she was seeing someone and that we were going to have fun on a date regardless. At the 'date', she admitted her boyfriend a…	/r/seduction	17/08/12 03:11 AM
18	17-year-old accused of rape, gets sentenced to prison, does hard time, girl gets $1.5m damages, guy secretly records girl saying she made it all up but wants to keep the money, guy gets out and gets NFL audition. [x-post r/JusticePorn] She was probably brought up poor and thanks to the education system never taught essential life lessons like handling money, especially large amounts. The second you get money when you're poor, you just go all out since it's something you've never experienced before.	/r/MensRights	12/08/12 06:09 PM
106	17-year-old accused of rape, gets sentenced to prison, does hard time, girl gets $1.5m damages, guy secretly records girl saying she made it all up but wants to keep the money, guy gets out and gets NFL audition. [x-post r/JusticePorn] This shit really gets under my skin, she ruined a man's life, got caught and was given a free $1.5m with no consequences, oh, and since she blew the $1.5m over the first couple of years she is back on food stamps now. Great to know our taxes go to soulless bitches like this, she was so worthless she had to wreck a potentially great man's life to survive. Fucking scum.	/r/MensRights	12/08/12 04:20 PM
3	How come I get arrested all the time when I follow advice I got here? Babby's first troll	/r/seduction	11/08/12 01:24 PM
2	Grinding with a girl, now what? Don't worry, we all have them when we make these over-developed excuses in our head for why we didn't do something with a girl.	/r/seduction	30/07/12 01:17 AM
1	Inner game issues? Get your ass in here. Could it not be schizophrenia? Hallucinations, hearing voices, mood swings? Just a thought.	/r/seduction	29/07/12 10:10 PM
2	Inner game issues? Get your ass in here. We have a winner!	/r/seduction	29/07/12 10:09 PM
1	Something I think could help a lot of people with approach anxiety. Yep, this is exactly for people like you. Got a reward yet you've thought of?	/r/seduction	15/07/12 11:28 AM
4	FR "only one" after-work drink Haha no, it's a thumbs up from MSN when you would type (Y) for a thumbs up and (N) for a thumbs down. If a girl starts hitting out with letters and numbers in brackets then Google for MSN emotes, few girls I know do it but it doesn't hurt to know. Main ones for Seddit would be.. (6) - Devil sort of emote, normally used in a horny/sexy/cheeky way (L) - Love heart, self-explanatory. (Y) - Thumbs up (N) - Thumbs down These are really the only ones I have seen people use outside of MSN, hope it help…	/r/seduction	15/07/12 12:14 AM
3	Something I think could help a lot of people with approach anxiety. Make sure to set up a reward if you succeed for a set time period, I think that will help motivate you in the first week or two and after that you will be motivated enough to just roll with it and realise the true reward which is loss of fear of rejection.	/r/seduction	15/07/12 12:08 AM
5	Something I think could help a lot of people with approach anxiety. The thing is, it's not that I don't give a shit as such. The fact is, I reward rejections (not forced) in a way that I see a rejection as a success, and if I don't get rejected then that's a success too. So, if I want.. say.. a game I've looked at for a while, then I must get rejected without sabotaging game on purpose, so I actually look forward to getting rejected in a way, and if I don't then I may just have another new game to play with anyway!	/r/seduction	15/07/12 12:03 AM
7	Something I think could help a lot of people with approach anxiety. Me too! Hitting up the gym on Monday and plan on telling the first hot girl I see that she's hot, simply. I know it's not massively complex but it doesn't need to be! If I get rejected, it is experience and due to the game, a win. If I complete next week successfully I plan on rewarding myself with something	/r/seduction	14/07/12 11:58 PM
2	RSD: Wake Up For Hardcase Newbies: What To Do If You're Depressed, Overly Passive, And Socially Weird Subscribe to Tyler's channel on Youtube, he consistently uploads gold.	/r/seduction	14/07/12 11:43 PM
1	Something I think could help a lot of people with approach anxiety. Also note that the first 'attempt' at rejection (remembering you can't intentionally sabotage to win) will be the most difficult. Once you get rejected once you'll wonder what the fuss was about and although it won't be entirely easy from then on, as you get rejected more and more you won't give a shit. So get out and get over that first rejection alongside your first win, you'll feel great after!	/r/seduction	14/07/12 10:43 PM
1	What to do during the day time in my long Summer? Sometimes this much free time feels like a curse, believe me. You think you'd want it, but yeah... As for 'going out', this is what I find most difficult, I just can't think of things I want to do or things that would benefit me. I have gym equipment in my house I use and aside from that, I mean I don't even know any classes that would interest me, museums aren't really my thing, and the weather here is too pathetic to go out to parks or whatever.	/r/seduction	10/07/12 02:46 PM
1	Sex: How do you get good at it? Not talking about death grip, that is when you can't come since a girl isn't tight enough as you fap with a death grip. Frequent masturbation can cause ED for a variety of reasons, check out this video, most young guys totally lose their ED problem after 4-6 weeks of not fapping, check out the video I provided and have a look at success stories on /r/nofap, pretty much every report on /r/nofap results in their sex life improving as they get hard incredibly easy and stay hard during foreplay etc.	/r/seduction	06/07/12 12:29 PM
3	Sex: How do you get good at it? Try r/nofap and your erectile dysfunction problems will disappear.	/r/seduction	06/07/12 12:14 PM
1	putting girls in YOUR friendzone. I guess some guys (normally young and immature) feel like it's a secret club 'NO GIRLS ALLOWED' since it's full of secrets that they will use. In reality, pick up is just a way for guys to learn how naturals do things and to work it into their own behaviour. So, in reality, even girls that browse here can still be swayed with game, only certain aspects or popular lines may trigger a reaction. I just think you learning pick up is kind of bad, not for me but for you. If you're out you should be en…	/r/seduction	05/07/12 11:11 PM
3	putting girls in YOUR friendzone. Although the point in pickup is girls are naturally attracted to it, if a guy does it well you will be attracted to him. It's like reading up what is funny so you know when to laugh. They are social cues embedded in you, you do not need to learn them. On that note, does anyone actually still neg? Mystery method is pretty obsolete and Neil Strauss' The Game is more of a fictional story than actually instructional or whatever.	/r/seduction	05/07/12 10:40 PM
3	putting girls in YOUR friendzone. What do you mean by 'men's true intentions?', out of interest?	/r/seduction	05/07/12 10:22 PM
6	putting girls in YOUR friendzone. I don't know why you think I was being a a smartass, I made a fair point and didn't insult you. Girls know they have sway over guys and a lot of them totally abuse it and manipulate guys. Girls friendzone all the time, so why is it suddenly manipulative when a guy does it? Although I am interested in why you browse r/seduction, care to explain at all?	/r/seduction	05/07/12 09:17 PM
12	putting girls in YOUR friendzone. Girls can be just as manipulative, r/seduction really is flooded with white knights these days..	/r/seduction	05/07/12 08:21 PM
2	Tips for in Bed (she wants to sleep with you, she is there for a reason) ohstopityou.jpg	/r/seduction	03/07/12 09:58 AM
2	Tips for in Bed (she wants to sleep with you, she is there for a reason) If you want something dominant and sexy, remembering the fact I have only slept with 4 women so I'm not Casanova but all of them have loved hair pulling, here's how you do it; Reach deep into the hair, trying to grab as close to the head as possible, near the roots Don't grab her hair at the ends furthest from her head or it will be painful As for force / technique, communicate with the girl (another very important point). Some girls like you pretty much sinking 2 hands into their hair and forci…	/r/seduction	02/07/12 09:40 PM
19	I just wanted to thank the guy who posted the handshake trick. It worked well for me Sidebar is your friend, it has all you need. If you have more refined needs, search is your friend.	/r/seduction	02/07/12 09:14 PM
2	For the Virgins - Interviews Post-Sex Understand that men and women have different ways they are attracted to the opposite sex hard-wired. Men want a woman who is beautiful and healthy, woman want a man who can care for her child, looks do matter, I won't lie, but if you are a 5/10 or 6/10 average you can hit 8/10 or 9/10 if you lock down your game and other aspects women find attractive. Guys getting hung up on looks is pitiful, they mean next to nothing!	/r/seduction	30/06/12 05:13 AM
3	How badly does a monotone voice affect your game? Why not just talk to yourself as you go about your daily business, practising pausing, tonality and whatever else. Tone is something you need to learn.	/r/seduction	25/06/12 02:32 AM
3	Can an average guy who learns game here have a chance with a supermodel? Quick question, do you desire getting with a supermodel for validation and status that comes with that? I started out wanting the hottest girls, and while yes in a club you might just want the hottest but believe me, overtime I changed my views on what I wanted. I started, simply wanting to get laid and get hot girls for validation from others (so people might see me with a model and be like 'damn, he must be awesome' etc). For me now, I just want to meet an awesome girl, and I've been with 2 mo…	/r/seduction	23/06/12 11:19 PM
4	[FR] 2 F-Closes this weekend Thanks for including some of your kino exercises, I've been trying to work kino in to my game recently and it's been great. 4 K-closes over the past 3 nights, have to take tonight off though since I'm dying from a 3 day hangover but I had great fun over the weekend. Will be sure to use some of your exercises to boost kino, thanks for taking the time to include detail man, great FR!	/r/seduction	18/06/12 01:12 PM
2	So I tried this sober thing... and it sucks I can't stand drunks either unless I am. Nothing unusual about it, most people I know feel the same when you have someone stumbling around and falling over you every five minutes, finding shit funny that isn't at all.	/r/seduction	16/06/12 01:16 PM
1	Honest question: how do you deal with the lack of sleep? There isn't a magic pill you can take to help this. The only thing that can help is if you have something later and a couple hours spare before it, go for a power nap. Look them up online to know how to do it properly, if you do it right you should be energetic for a couple hours after waking.	/r/seduction	15/06/12 05:06 PM
1	I can only smile well when I'm drunk, and when I see the pictures, I forget how to smile the way I did because I was blackout drunk. Yep, normally you can tell if a person is faking a smile instantly because they don't have 'smiling eyes', aka slightly more closed, creases/wrinkles at the side. However, even if I'm out having fun, if I have to stop and hold a smile for 5 seconds it used to look fake. Also, how wide your smile is shows how genuine it is, you can see the difference easily in the 2 pictures you took. Just stand in front of a mirror and work out what muscles give you a genuine smile. It's rare that I actually hav…	/r/seduction	15/06/12 10:53 AM
6	[FR] Even when you're just talking to someone, someone else may well be listening. Me too, also now requesting cursor dance party .gif	/r/seduction	15/06/12 12:42 AM
1	PSA for the Mr. Nice Guy out there It can be fun with girls you are just friends with, but for those you are after, I would follow my previous advice.	/r/seduction	14/06/12 10:58 AM
1	PSA for the Mr. Nice Guy out there I don't agree with the OP's idea about replying artificially late. However, with that said, from experience and reading about it on Seddit, idle chit chat about random topics is a sure way to get friendzoned quick. You can talk with girls you are only friends with and respond quickly, discussing random things that aren't important, but when going after a girl try to only use communication that isn't in-person to sort a date out to communicate in-person. You can have a different opinion or view, …	/r/seduction	14/06/12 02:17 AM
5	How's it Going? I noticed this too as my eye contact improved, people do anything to avoid it. I always cringe when I see someone make brief eye contact then look down and to the side, pretending they notice something. Pretty pathetic. Normally older people tend to hold eye contact and I give them a smile and a quick greeting.	/r/seduction	11/06/12 05:47 PM
7	Stop Well, it's 2:46am, so I think that's a decent enough excuse to not go out for me...	/r/seduction	11/06/12 01:46 AM
1	The elements of Seduction; Attraction, Comfort, Sexual Interest - A brief overlook Just out of interest, do you know if you can help me... I hate reading books in .pdf form on my PC and I tried putting Magic Bullets on my Kindle like I have done with other .pdfs and I use that to read them but the formatting wasn't great for it. Any ideas on what I could do? Or if anyone reading this could help, thanks.	/r/seduction	10/06/12 01:33 PM
14	The elements of Seduction; Attraction, Comfort, Sexual Interest - A brief overlook Good read, there's a couple grammar errors and spelling mistakes around though and since I imagine you spent a good amount of time on this you may want to go back and fix. Also, don't cut yourself short in fear of writing too much, the more detail the better for me.	/r/seduction	09/06/12 08:43 PM
2	47-year-old male virgin looking for pointers (no comments from whiners who have given up please) Yeah, exact same laws in the UK and me being 20, I think anything over 16 is fine. Then again, I don't restrict myself in trying to attract girls I like, if I see a pretty girl I don't give a fuck if she is 17. I'll go and talk to her because I like her. She's a couple years younger? If she's really immature then it's a problem but I know 16 year olds who are more mature than people in their early 20's.	/r/seduction	09/06/12 01:11 PM
1	Starting Small Is Better Than Not Starting At All Oh God, the smile I get using what David said must be creepy for girls, I just get so sexual-minded.	/r/seduction	06/06/12 12:00 AM
6	Putting arms around girls. No, I mean air-brushed, not blushed. I mean your arm looks like the smoothest fucking thing on the planet, like a baby's bottom. You must moisturise the shit out of that haha.	/r/seduction	01/06/12 03:06 AM
5	i think i'm not good enough yet to try seduction From the sidebar links: "Is Your Life in Order? Pickup and seduction is not a cure for depression, loneliness, low self esteem, or poor health, and these can hurt your game in dramatic ways. If you have problems in any of these areas, you should begin working on them as part of your process of learning game. If you're good on these counts, skip on down to Beginning Concepts. Work on your depression. Many sedditors have recommended Feeling Good by David D. Burns. There's also a reddit for that. G…	/r/seduction	01/06/12 02:54 AM
2	Putting arms around girls. Your arm looks airbrushed haha, random observation.	/r/seduction	01/06/12 02:46 AM
0	[Mini FR] Short and Sweet: how Facebook game should be Yeah, round of applause for OP.	/r/seduction	31/05/12 01:55 PM
11	I'll be your nemesis. Nah, we need a guy with an asshole 'bro' voice, I can't get mad at Liam or Morgan.	/r/seduction	30/05/12 01:15 PM
7	I'll be your nemesis. Holy shit, he just got served.	/r/seduction	30/05/12 11:39 AM
1	Look fly at all times. Yeah, I feel a lot of guys in general could use fashion help. My social circle are all well-dressed and I didn't think many guys dressed badly until I became more observant. So many horrible graphic tees, shirts with writing all over them and nasty, badly-fitted jeans. My rule is that every month I buy one thing that I see on r/malefashionadvice, my wardrobe has been improving nicely without damaging my bank account.	/r/seduction	29/05/12 10:38 AM
69	For 2 years I've written about seduction and self-improvement. Now I'm giving it all away for free to Seddit this week. Thank you so much Tony, it's really great to see someone who just wants people to improve regardless of what they receive in return, it's a rare trait in people. I'll be reading this over the next few days and will no doubt use it as references in posts and as a suggestion for reading for pick-up. Great job. More or less 130 pages of pure, refined knowledge on pickup and bettering your relationships, I really hope you get the recognition you deserve for this.	/r/seduction	28/05/12 10:54 PM
3	Good looking guy, never had a girlfriend! Yeah, looks aren't everything, but since OP based his post on it he sort of has to deliver. I know a couple guys who thought they were way better looking than what was actually the case.	/r/seduction	27/05/12 11:22 PM
4	The Mystery Kiss Close actually works Did you give her the spicy sausage?	/r/seduction	26/05/12 11:32 PM
1	Vinegar In Your Face I have terrible skin, truly terrible. First off, may I ask what kind of vinegar you use? As far as I know there are many different types you can get. Also, yes UV rays clear up skin somewhat by drying out your skin, but this causes problems too. Most of the time when people think their skin is cleared up by sun, other factors are in effect. First off, your skin dries out which can cause a couple blemishes to go, but whilst this happens you damage your face by causing wrinkles with dryness. Anoth…	/r/seduction	26/05/12 01:55 AM
2	Is it good or bad to compliment girls? Yeah, this. I would also consider reading the chapter on complimenting in the book 'How to win friends and influence people', that will set you straight.	/r/seduction	26/05/12 01:25 AM
1	[FR] late-night street opener, in detail. ALMOST number closed, cockblocked I say you should have #-closed before parting ways by beckoning the hot one to the side and isolating her before asking. May have helped, unlucky though man everything else was nice.	/r/seduction	25/05/12 09:59 AM
2	so what's wrong, exactly, with HB's1-5? Why do you need a gallery of examples? 1 is the worst looking people you will ever see in your life, you may not even come across them in your life. Same with 10's, they are the cream of the crop, the best, don't forget that. Too many guys see an attractive girl and immediately say '10', but really 10 is the best you can ever get which I would argue is supermodel and movie actress level. 5 is average, think you look a little above average? You're a 6. Think you're pretty good looking but not tha…	/r/seduction	23/05/12 10:59 PM
15	How Seddit changed my life, and landed me my perfect 10. I'd agree that a drunken kiss isn't terribly bad, especially if she leans in for it. However, never let it go further than that, only losing some inhibition is still reason to not take advantage as her judgement will be messed up.	/r/seduction	22/05/12 12:46 PM
1	What are some fun, cheap ways to meet new people during the summer away from college while you are under 21? Try going to the gym, you can meet there. If you can't find a job within the first quarter of your holiday then get volunteering work, some really hot women do this. My last volunteering job consisted of pageant girls who did it to keep a good public image for their 'Miss X' competitions, was glorious.	/r/seduction	19/05/12 12:23 PM
2	girl sleeping at my house don't know what to do ahhh Agreed, brotato.	/r/seduction	19/05/12 12:13 PM
3	Got a slap in the face Yeah, I had to re-read the post twice because I wasn't sure if I had really read that he tapped someone on the head. The fuck.	/r/seduction	17/05/12 03:55 AM
1	Such a thing as "too confident"? I definitely found that as my confidence grew, people who weren't confident became more and more jealous of me.	/r/seduction	17/05/12 03:28 AM
7	Trouble when making eye contact, low confidence Eye contact has always been natural for me but I find when in deep conversation I sometimes prefer to be looking away and just totally focusing on, and taking in whatever the other person has to say. Some advice I found good for eye contact even though I have always done it is to give yourself a challenge to look every single person, and yes, I mean everyone (obviously just people who are in your front-ish view. Look into their eyes enough so that you can notice their eye colour, this normally t…	/r/seduction	02/05/12 11:59 PM
1	In A Lull? Do Something Daily Outside Of Your Comfort Zone Yes, your last sentence is true but in reality people rarely have to decide on an action in a situation like that. For things that are dangerous-ish, I like this picture which sums up my thoughts.	/r/seduction	02/05/12 11:11 AM
2	In A Lull? Do Something Daily Outside Of Your Comfort Zone Check this video out man, very interesting and kind of hits you.	/r/seduction	26/04/12 12:22 PM
2	In A Lull? Do Something Daily Outside Of Your Comfort Zone Hey man, this sounds like a great plan, now I just need to find friends to do something social with lol. I hope you don't mind but I'm going to stick these points in a self.post as I think they are a great idea to get out and about more.	/r/seduction	26/04/12 12:12 PM
3	Thank You Seddit! I almost feel like a different human being... Don't worry man, it's really not bad. You know when people used to turn their hand sideways and move their thumb up and down against their palm/index finger to make their hand 'talk'? Like this, found an image, but you may want to stretch your thumb up a bit more to make it 'loose' or more fitting on your lips. You can practice this way and translate it to kissing on the lips, as it's pretty much the same. After escalating, most girls will show they are ready to kiss by: glancing at your lips, l…	/r/seduction	22/04/12 01:01 AM
1	Any Brits out there finding they have to tweak advice given by Americans to suit the cultural differences? I'm used to business style because of my job too, but just out of interest how do you think it makes you more alpha?	/r/seduction	15/04/12 02:32 AM
1	Any Brits out there finding they have to tweak advice given by Americans to suit the cultural differences? Sorry I didn't specify, but I don't mean not having a firm grip, I mean just not a totally formal business-like handshake like this but more something like this (without the angle etc, I'm still talking waist level) but that kind of 'loose', informal handshake. When someone does it to me, it shows me they're sociable and a bit loose and friendly. I honestly can't put it into words, it's just when I'm at a party and I meet someone who does a business-like handshake, it just feels very detached an…	/r/seduction	15/04/12 12:53 AM
1	Tempted to go out and game tonight, but I will be on my own... Whenever I've done it which is only like twice, girls seem to think you must be confident to go out alone and not give a fuck like that, which is always a good thing.	/r/seduction	14/04/12 10:16 PM
0	Any Brits out there finding they have to tweak advice given by Americans to suit the cultural differences? Do a loose handshake and it will be fine, nothing wrong with that. Just don't start working kino on some random guy or he'll end up knocking your head off your shoulders.	/r/seduction	14/04/12 10:05 PM
2	Any Brits out there finding they have to tweak advice given by Americans to suit the cultural differences? Only with close friends.	/r/seduction	14/04/12 10:05 PM
11	Girl invited me to "watch a movie" in her place. Have any tips? Watching a movie is pretty much a code for having sex. Bring some condoms and drink.	/r/seduction	11/03/12 01:20 PM