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| 38 | Finally made THE approach!you could have made it a date right then and there. I kinda disagree with that. You didn't need to rush to get her number because you know where to find her, it's not just some random encounter. You made an impression on her, and you didn't jump on her tits in the first 10 minutes. To a lot of women that means something. It makes you come off as chill and not desperate and gives her time to think about it and allow you to charm her a little bit. It also is a way for you to figure out if you actu… | /r/seduction | 01/02/20 03:04 AM |
| 1 | I’ve 95% of the people I’ve slept with I wasn’t attracted to.There's even an old word for it. Ever gone hoggin on the weekend? | /r/seduction | 15/01/20 08:58 PM |
| 2 | How to #close Store Clerks without them flaking?She literally can't act like it bothers her. It's her job to talk to customers and be nice to them. | /r/seduction | 14/01/20 04:39 AM |
| 4 | How to #close Store Clerks without them flaking?Don't hit on store clerks or people working. They are a captive audience and have to talk to you cause of their job. Its kinda creepy. | /r/seduction | 14/01/20 01:59 AM |
| 3 | Seduction Is a slow gameLeg day is best day. | /r/seduction | 23/08/19 09:14 PM |
| 16 | You are better looking than you thinkThen why don't I get any matches on Tinder??? | /r/seduction | 23/08/19 07:43 PM |
| 15 | Seduction Is a slow gameDon't forget to lift. And maybe shower once in a damn while. | /r/seduction | 23/08/19 07:12 PM |
| 3 | I get really angry and sad when I see hot womenYou need some help friend. Ive been there and I know what you are talking about. I had to get through it with a lot of help. Talk to a therapist. Talk to your close male friends. Trust me. This is an infinite loop that you wont break until you actively work on it. First thing is just to recognize it, which you obviously do since you posted here. But ask yourself WHY do you feel this way? You probably have a valid reason. Women often treat men like garbage if they find them not attractive. Or may… | /r/seduction | 28/04/19 07:15 PM |
| 2 | STD testing - what type of clinic setting do you prefer?It doesnt have to be spa-like. Creating a welcoming space is nice so it doesnt feel like walking into some cold, sterile doctors office. But a happy medium is good. A wide range of treatment or coaching options is also great. People have a wide range of needs so the more you can offer, the more people will be passing through your doors. Branding is important. Present yourselves in a way that downplays negative associations or shame about why people are coming to you in the first place. | /r/seduction | 28/04/19 07:00 PM |
| 2 | The Five Stages of InterestIdk if its anything new. Most of this is core material that would have been just as relevant in the 40’s as today. | /r/seduction | 28/04/19 06:55 PM |
| 1 | Did a Girl at the Gym Show Me Interest or am I looking too much into this?That sounds like you should find your balls, get her number and ask her on a date. Pronto. Worst that can happen is she tells you about her boyfriend and you go back to lifting and wait for the next opportunity with someone else. | /r/seduction | 28/04/19 06:36 PM |
| 2 | What does it mean when a girl calls you an asshole but still acts interested? {FR?} {K close}20-17, that's only 3 years. Why didn't you go for it? | /r/seduction | 06/05/11 12:03 AM |
| 6 | [FR] OKCupid F-Close: Logistics, logistics, logisticsOf COURSE you're a handsome black man. Scrawny ass honkeys like me can't hardly compete :P | /r/seduction | 24/03/11 09:23 PM |
| 2 | The truth comes outfucking has me in a fit right now for sure | /r/seduction | 23/03/11 08:07 AM |
| 3 | [FR] Sold out for two drinks, disaster on the dance floorI would have been like "sorry I don't take drinks from strangers (cheesy grin)" | /r/seduction | 06/03/11 10:25 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Seddit noob here, More like a failure report, but multiple lessons learnedI'm right at about 6 feet, ~120 pounds. | /r/seduction | 06/03/11 10:09 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Seddit noob here, More like a failure report, but multiple lessons learnedI went out with the intention of just having a good time for once. I wasn't really trying to get laid, but I was trying to see if I could have some kind of positive result with women. | /r/seduction | 06/03/11 10:06 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Seddit noob here, More like a failure report, but multiple lessons learnedThanks man. FYI, I didn't say "fuck" when she asked me for that drink. I just asked what she wanted and kinda gave her a hard time about her decision, then took a really long time to bring it back to her because I talked to around four people on the way. | /r/seduction | 06/03/11 10:06 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Seddit noob here, More like a failure report, but multiple lessons learnedI'm DEFINITELY going to use this one | /r/seduction | 06/03/11 10:04 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Blown out in a kayakI think you're a little blinded by your own success. Most of us can barely ever get to the point of almost f-ing somebody. She contacted you. I can't tell you the last time a girl did that with me. 9 times out of 10 I can't even get a return on my calls or texts at all. You had already won, the cat was in the bag, the only failure was due to other circumstances that had nothing to do with your performance. That doesn't sound like a blow out to me. Being blown out is having that cute Thai girl no… | /r/seduction | 06/03/11 03:39 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Blown out in a kayakNice. I can just feel my face getting red and that awful nervous twinge just picturing the situation. A few years ago there was this girl who would flirt with me, hug me when I saw her around town, talk about sexual things, etc. I never thought much of it because I was as stupidly oblivious to IOI's as I was hopelessly lost in terms of knowing how to get a girl. Anyway, one particular night, I'm at the local bar, feeling good. She comes up to me and gives me a hug, so I give her a good squeeze a… | /r/seduction | 06/03/11 02:00 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Blown out in a kayakYeah, but you had it in the bag except for that. The whole age thing is just her stupidity, nothing to do with you. | /r/seduction | 06/03/11 01:39 AM |
| 1 | Simple steps to take to get out of the friendzone.It's all a part of that thing about life not being fair | /r/seduction | 06/03/11 01:31 AM |
| 1 | [FR?] Text game transcript: HB9 from okc to first meeting, being stood up shit test to gold.Now I know why I didn't get a second date with this one girl from OKC. Same deal, she was late, then pulled a surprise "I'm bringing a friend", then did the whole "we're coming" 30 minutes late shit. And I put up with it. I K-closed the date, but then never heard from the bitch again. | /r/seduction | 05/03/11 02:17 AM |
| 1 | Common Pitfalls: Oneitis & Poor Inner GameExcellent explanation. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 04/03/11 11:23 PM |
| 2 | AFC CHALLENGE MARCH 2011!!! (w/February Results!)I hereby vow an oath to be honest about my results... or may thor smite me with his mighty hammer. | /r/seduction | 04/03/11 10:50 PM |
| 2 | Greeting Girls with a Kiss on the CheekI used to kiss girls on the hand. A lot of them were flattered by it, but one time a girl saw me do it to her friend and she was like "don't you dare do that to me" It kinda threw me off and I haven't really done it since. | /r/seduction | 04/03/11 10:40 PM |
| 1 | Common Pitfalls: Oneitis & Poor Inner GameSorry, but I'm just curious how instilling this mindset doesn't end up making you become what women see as "being full of yourself" ? How can you balance this with a humble attitude. Or how can you have a humble attitude and still see your own value and worth? | /r/seduction | 04/03/11 10:36 PM |
| 1 | My path to living an awesome high value lifehurry up with that blog :) | /r/seduction | 04/03/11 10:32 PM |
| 12 | My path to living an awesome high value lifeI'm working my way up from the opposite end, pale and skinny, extremely depressed and negative. Thanks for the encouragement. | /r/seduction | 03/03/11 02:56 AM |
| 1 | "No."relevant | /r/seduction | 02/03/11 11:53 PM |
| 2 | [1st FR] #closed HB7 at bar, and then F-closed an hour or so later.I hate how all these successful reports are written by attractive, socially well-connected individuals. What if you're in a new town and have few friends? What if you're only mildly attractive? You're fucked. | /r/seduction | 12/02/11 04:46 AM |
| 1 | How To Overcome Approach Anxiety (an essay)I know the feeling. It could have been me if I was drunk and sad enough. | /r/seduction | 09/02/11 01:14 AM |
| 2 | Today I walked up to random attractive girls and said "Hi, you're hot. Let's go out."You're right about "limiting beliefs" I was always a small, skinny kid, and a seriously late bloomer. I mean, seriously, I'm 30 and I look like I just barely got past 21. I'm actually not that bad looking, except for being way too skinny. I'm still stuck in the old mindset that I grew up with, being way smaller than everyone else my age. I subconsciously assume that women aren't attracted to me. I know, I know.. I need to get the fuck over it. | /r/seduction | 20/01/11 02:35 AM |
| 4 | Today I walked up to random attractive girls and said "Hi, you're hot. Let's go out."I'm sure it's devastating if you're reasonably attractive. If you're skinny and weird looking like me, well, good fucking luck. | /r/seduction | 20/01/11 02:17 AM |
| 37 | Today I walked up to random attractive girls and said "Hi, you're hot. Let's go out."Getting phone numbers is easy. Getting them to want to fucking call you back is the hard part. Girls have told me they'll give out their numbers to be nice when face to face, but then ditch the guy from a distance by not ever answering his txts or calls. | /r/seduction | 19/01/11 03:22 AM |
| 1 | Guys of seddit, have you ever had your heart broken?Thanks. I appreciate it. | /r/seduction | 15/01/11 03:47 AM |
| 3 | Made a connection, she has a boyfriend. What do I do?Back away, make yourself scarce. If you stick around too much, you will get zoned. If she is feeling it at all, she might start to miss/follow you. Otherwise I think you're just cruizin for a bruizin, as they say. | /r/seduction | 12/01/11 11:52 PM |
| 1 | ask: Status update that gets a lot of female attentionThe only thing that worries me about FB is I'm in a new city where I've only gotten to know a few people. I feel like if I ditch FB I'll feel truly alone... or maybe that's what I need... hmmm. | /r/seduction | 11/01/11 01:25 AM |
| 16 | This is how to do facebook sex chatI imagine this going as follows: me: how about a different subject, imagine we are alone in my apartment, the lights are dim and there is jazz music in the background... *girl is now offline | /r/seduction | 11/01/11 01:00 AM |
| 1 | ask: Status update that gets a lot of female attentionI think you have to have the attention of chicks already for them to bite on something like that. If no girls are watching your status updates, its sort of like fishing in a dead lake. /forever alone. | /r/seduction | 11/01/11 12:57 AM |
| 3 | ask: Status update that gets a lot of female attentionI think of this every day | /r/seduction | 11/01/11 12:55 AM |
| 6 | Be Bill Murray on the last day of 'Groundhog Day'Or maybe he found out that doing good and looking out for people 100% of the time was the only thing that kept him alive on the inside. | /r/seduction | 09/01/11 11:19 PM |
| 1 | Guys of seddit, have you ever had your heart broken?You left out LU .. but that one is conditional I guess | /r/seduction | 09/01/11 12:43 AM |
| 1 | Guys of seddit, have you ever had your heart broken?^ what he said. I'm still bogged down with AA | /r/seduction | 08/01/11 09:42 AM |
| 4 | Guys of seddit, have you ever had your heart broken?I dunno, I'm still pretty frustrated. | /r/seduction | 08/01/11 01:44 AM |
| 2 | Guys of seddit, have you ever had your heart broken?nope, Austin. | /r/seduction | 08/01/11 01:12 AM |
| 2 | FR: He thought I was cute!I wish I could use rage faces here | /r/seduction | 08/01/11 12:38 AM |
| 31 | Guys of seddit, have you ever had your heart broken?I had a crushing one in my early 20's. I fell hard for this little dirty-blonde southern girl back home. I mean, from the moment I saw her I was smitten, HARD. Problem was, I was a total pussy, and a complete fucking dork on top of that. I let it drag on for 2 years before I fatally found out just how friend zoned I had become. I ended up telling her how I felt, and she told me it made her sick to her stomach. Fucking Knife In My Chest. I was so broken I went to music school and got a whole 'not… | /r/seduction | 08/01/11 12:31 AM |
| 10 | She enters your room/house/apartment. What does seddit do next?fail faster. learn more. don't be a pussy. this is my new mantra | /r/seduction | 08/01/11 12:12 AM |
| 1 | Guide to Austin pickup sceneyes. wing girls. win! | /r/seduction | 08/01/11 12:09 AM |
| 1 | Guide to Austin pickup sceneWe still got to do that! Sorry I was sick last time. I caught a nasty fever. I'm still talking all nasaly and coughing up stuff... but I'll be ready to get back in the game around sunday if you want to do something. | /r/seduction | 07/01/11 11:38 PM |
| 1 | [Mini FR] Change up your scene - get blown out!I just made 30, but I look 22. I'm just looking for places where it's relatively easy to talk to women (not too loud, enough options, etc). I'm mostly looking for potential dates. I'm not really out for one night stands, but probably wouldn't turn down an opportunity. | /r/seduction | 07/01/11 06:26 PM |
| 2 | Alcohol and SargingHow's that workin out for ya? | /r/seduction | 07/01/11 06:24 PM |
| 2 | Drunk girl currently asleep in my bed. WTF.hahaha... nice. | /r/seduction | 07/01/11 08:55 AM |
| 1 | [Mini FR] Change up your scene - get blown out!Hey I'm in Austin but I'm new around here. What are some good spots? | /r/seduction | 07/01/11 02:45 AM |
| 3 | Drunk girl currently asleep in my bed. WTF.Right, but she got into YOUR bed. Is this a girl you've already been acquainted with? Seen IOI's from? Or just a stranger you admire from a distance? If you know her, she had to be at least somewhat conscious of whos bed she's getting into. I've been fucking black out drunk before but I never get so fucked up that I don't have at least some idea of where I'm stumbling. I guess if she doesn't know you it's possible she just picked a random door and fell in. In that case, yeah I wouldn't mess with… | /r/seduction | 07/01/11 02:33 AM |
| 3 | Drunk girl currently asleep in my bed. WTF.I don't know if she would have gotten into your bed if she didn't intend for you to join her. Unless she's just stupid. | /r/seduction | 07/01/11 02:20 AM |
| 1 | A lesson on fucking up attraction via text.You need to read the Ultimate Guide to Texting. It's a PDF download it. | /r/seduction | 05/01/11 07:12 AM |
| 1 | You're doing it wrong, OKCupid sedditors. This is how to hustle!Seems like a lot of work to me | /r/seduction | 05/01/11 07:01 AM |
| 2 | For those who don't quite get it: weaknesses and insecurities are the emotional equivalent of genitalia.Learned this one the hard way already. | /r/seduction | 05/01/11 06:58 AM |
| 1 | Sounds gay, but really, this is a fantastic mindset to adopt.I think part of the reason women love gay men is because of their sensitivity and openness, their comfort in who they are. I've heard a girl say her ideal man would be a gay man who loves to have sex with women. ... of course I don't want to be or act gay, but I get what she meant. | /r/seduction | 02/01/11 11:36 PM |
| 3 | The new seddit locator. Find sedditors in your area and get sarging!You have to log in with the Seddit account. I was logging in with mine and felt like I was going crazy for a few minutes before I realized it. | /r/seduction | 20/12/10 08:56 PM |
| 3 | The new seddit locator. Find sedditors in your area and get sarging!I had the same problem. You have to log in with u/n "Seddit" pw "innergame" to see the option | /r/seduction | 20/12/10 08:55 PM |
| 1 | AFCs: Think about an aspect of your game that needs work. If you haven't gotten blown out by using TOO MUCH of it, you're being a pussy.Of course it hurts. The trick is not MINDING that it hurts. ... a little quote from T.E. Lawrence there | /r/seduction | 20/12/10 07:15 PM |
| 1 | How would you hit on a girl that everyone else is hitting on?AN EXPERIMENT IS IN ORDER HERE! | /r/seduction | 20/12/10 06:57 PM |
| 1 | Angry at myself for chickening outI wait for cues before trying to initiate conversation. Look for eye contact, a sort of unspoken (or spoken) "hello". If I get nothing, I assume she isn't open to being approached. | /r/seduction | 18/12/10 01:34 AM |
| 2 | Sedditor LocatorSouth Austin. Let's team up. | /r/seduction | 17/12/10 11:47 PM |
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