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Which is why you have to stop listening to them like how you listen to men. Watch what they do. Personality only matters when they imagine their dream man. They want that guy to be nice, funny, sweet, not a NY city homeless man.
/r/BlackPillScience26/08/25 02:28 PM
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Go to Thailand or the Philippines and find a wife. There, you won't be shamed for going for a woman in her 20s. What women say they want isn't what they are attracted to and pick. Your problem is that you listen to women like how you listen to men. Stop doing that. You live in a society where Future, Nick cannon, and Elon musk are having women line up to have their babies, and become 6th or 7th baby mothers. Elon musk doesn't even interact with the women and they opt in to get impregnated. The k…
/r/MensRights25/08/25 11:56 AM
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I accepted the request but saw no message. Can you try dming again?
/r/MensRights21/08/25 03:59 PM
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I think its both tbh. Apple and rogue employees imposing their political beliefs on what gets approved or not. Teaonher was probably approved because different app reviewers reviewed it. Though TeaOnHer has a similar coding infrastructure of the Tea App, which makes me believe they are made by the same developer. All of this could just be a monopoly on the genre, where the powers at be, whoever they are, stiff arm developers like myself from the market.
/r/MensRights21/08/25 01:37 PM
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That is correct. Though they also had terrible coding practices, and had a similar data leak that the Tea app had. I have my suspicions that they could be the same organization or a subsidiary. I was stiff armed aside to have this subpar app take the place as the “alternative for men”. My app was completed July 28th. Coffee could of been the beacon, but Apple and it’s inconsistent review process prevented it from happening.
/r/MensRights21/08/25 03:33 AM
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I didn’t ask them that but I did say “My app is doing the same thing that the Tea app is doing, What is the issue?” The guy responded with something like “I’m not sure if that is the case, but we will check to see if that app is following ToS” Which is a complete lie because what the guy said when we began the conversation was “There are a lot of these apps coming in and we are weary of approving them”. So they know the genre, but are playing dumb with the Tea app question. In my next call with …
/r/MensRights21/08/25 12:15 AM
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Thank you. I should had recorded the phone call. It was a woman testing the app, and a man speaking with me. Two people. I even told them about the existing tea app that is doing way worse things but it didn’t matter to them.
/r/MensRights21/08/25 12:05 AM
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I may plan to. It’s either all apps in the same genre are allowed or none.
/r/MensRights21/08/25 12:00 AM
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I’m not a lawyer, but how can this be taken to court? They are a company and they can be hypocritical when they want to right? It’s their business.
/r/MensRights20/08/25 11:59 PM
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you’re looking for these subreddits OP: r/itsthatbad r/mensrights r/theredpill
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/25 02:14 PM
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I think what he meant was that women seek to preserve their purity in the eyes of men by not admitting to the “body count” question, so you get around that by asking a whole other mess of questions to get the “assumed” answer. Granted, this is not the place for something like this, and I agree.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/25 02:13 PM
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I think this would for sure work. But then if the app gets reported, they will remove it from the store.
/r/MensRights04/08/25 06:35 PM
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I submitted the appeal to the apple review board. I also requested clarification. No answer yet. Perhaps they will respond tomorrow. I have no social media presence or reach. If i did make a video, I doubt anyone would even watch or care.
/r/MensRights03/08/25 09:35 PM
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I’m in the process of uploading it to google play store.
/r/MensRights03/08/25 12:39 PM
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I’m not proficient enough to do a web app in a weeks time, So I am going to upload to google play store by the end of this day so it can be for android.
/r/MensRights03/08/25 12:33 PM
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One day you'll become skilled enough to build mobile apps entirely on your own in less than a week. Just keep at it and train hard.
/r/MensRights02/08/25 03:52 PM
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Thank you man, and your advice will be put into use. Thanks for caring and giving time to look and inspect the product.
/r/MensRights02/08/25 02:36 PM
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Point taken. Though, what you see on Tiktok isn’t what is actually on the app store connect page. That’s just to get the attention of those that want a tea app variant. The app store connect images look more professional than just a “look at all the girls bro”.
/r/MensRights02/08/25 02:31 PM
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I was in review for 5+ days. It was not an automated process as I went back and forth with the app review team via replies and phone call.
/r/MensRights02/08/25 02:17 PM
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None taken, I can easily remove that part of the app and keep it 1:1 to the tea app. What sucks is that they didn’t give any reason for the rejection, It’s been a day since I asked for clarification. If it turns out that the ranking part of it could be the reason, I’d promptly remove it and re-upload.
/r/MensRights02/08/25 02:15 PM
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It is a tea app for men. https://www.tiktok.com/@renudicoffee?_t=ZT-8yXa6otQ30X&_r=1
/r/MensRights02/08/25 11:47 AM
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That sounds like a good idea. I might actually do that
/r/MensRights02/08/25 10:50 AM
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Coffee: Dating Advice. It is literally the same thing as tea app, but for men. I also added a leaderboard rank mode to rank posts though.
/r/MensRights02/08/25 03:04 AM
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i am in the process of reformatting it to include all genders. I am going to give it one more try with apple, and if it doesn’t work, I’ll just move on to finishing my mental wellness app.
/r/MensRights02/08/25 01:49 AM
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Imagine having a registry of false accusers or “High risk” persons and all you have to do to add someone to the list is their name and age. Or right before you go on a date, you search the person name to see if they are on that registry.
/r/MensRights02/08/25 01:47 AM
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For men? Doubt it. Anything excluding women is heavily frowned upon.
/r/MensRights02/08/25 01:44 AM
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I asked for clarification and they have yet to reply. I also submitted an appeal to them as well, no response. Maybe tomorrow or Monday they will respond.
/r/MensRights02/08/25 01:43 AM
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That's true. I should of had the app all inclusive, but with a Men first mentality. It could have gotten through the doors that way.
/r/MensRights02/08/25 12:27 AM
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I can, and anyone in the development team can. It's on TestFlight. Anyone here could theoretically install the app If they were added as testers.
/r/MensRights02/08/25 12:27 AM
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True, you’re right. You proved with your own words that the existence of the tea app is illegal and unethical. Perhaps if I reformat and restructure my app to include all genders may get through the doors. But again, the red/green flag thing and users posting other people, not themselves, can also be unethical.
/r/MensRights02/08/25 12:17 AM
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Yet they keep the app up and not remove it? They don’t allow a competitor with better security practices in place take the spot?
/r/MensRights02/08/25 12:02 AM
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No rejection clarification yet. But I did have a phone call. It was two apple representatives questioning me about how to use the app. A woman and some dude. The way they spoke, I already knew they had bias against it
/r/MensRights01/08/25 11:45 PM
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Yeah, Should have just focused in web first. Maybe I can turn it into a web app, but It’s gonna take a lot of time. My goal was to be in early and the few to have this kind of app out
/r/MensRights01/08/25 11:43 PM
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Nah, you need to send in atleast an MvP. Which is what I did. A whole week of 12-14 hour days grinding, to be rejected
/r/MensRights01/08/25 11:42 PM
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NY don’t care about that 😞
/r/MensRights01/08/25 10:50 PM
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I am going to try android store. This adds so much dev time. I am already drained going all in to get the apple version out.
/r/MensRights01/08/25 10:49 PM
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Theres an iOS app called Coffee: Dating Advice which is literally tea for men
/r/MensRights26/07/25 07:00 AM
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The biggest threat to a woman’s security is a younger woman. Hence why older women are more reluctant to mentor younger women.
/r/MensRights18/07/25 01:10 AM
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Indeed, you got it. 🍻
/r/MensRights02/03/25 04:22 PM
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Remember, Only being able to date a single mother speaks on your ability to attract women. Older women, especially those with children, are the easiest to date and attract due to desperation, time running out, and the available men to date them shrinking. Don’t be that guy that finally found love with 35+ year olds. You’re literally getting leftovers and women that men didn’t want to commit to.
/r/MensRights02/03/25 04:18 PM
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There are millions of childless, young women to date and fall in love with. I would stop the moment you said single mother. F all the rules and strict conditions, i wouldn’t date one regardless. No point.
/r/MensRights02/03/25 04:09 PM
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Np, i hear you. Thanks for the help.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/25 08:22 AM
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Yeah.. I understand, I shouldn't had made such a title. I did it to have people click and bring their attention to the matter. I try to talk about common topics that come up that "shame" men into limiting their sexual agency, independence and urges. Yes, I read most of the sidebar, even the Glossary of Shaming Tactics. I did also read the Rational Male and watchi his content. But no one really talks about how women combat and fight porn to limit their men. A big reason stems from their want to b…
/r/TheRedPill27/01/25 07:58 PM
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This post was to fight against the idea porn is cheating. There was no moralizing., There wasn't any help to women at all in this post. I think you didn't read it, maybe skimmed it. I suppose the only thing i really broke was listening to women and their statements. But that's apparent in the first paragraph. And in consequence, makes this post "Not red pill". But it helps in strategy and maintaining your sexual independence.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/25 06:48 PM
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I was helping other men to not be limited by a common topic brought up in relationships.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/25 06:40 PM
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Yes, but the issue is having to sign the papers at the hospital when the child is born. Me refusing before i establish paternity will raise questions from the girlfriend and family.
/r/MensRights09/12/23 04:57 PM
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To add, it's also pretty scary that there's a statistic that shows men who have a reason to get a paternity test are 30% likely to not be the father of the child. And... I have reasons to do it. This is literally a 1/3rd chance that I could not be the father. I hope its under $200. I'm in NY, so i don't know if it will be expensive or not
/r/MensRights09/12/23 03:54 PM
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Holy you nailed it on the head. This IS how I really feel, but I've been beating around the bush, giving nice diplomatic answers, and covering my true intention with honeyed words. I am just incredibly skeptical and really worried that this child may not be mine. Literally, when her family came to see the child, they immediately began doing the "Look test" saying things like "His nose looks like the father!". To me, I'm like, how the hell can you even tell!? I CAN'T TELL AT ALL RIGHT NOW. I'm go…
/r/MensRights09/12/23 03:50 PM
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Despite all of these sound arguments, I am still stumped in them feeling that they are being mistrusted and that I am accusing them of cheating and infidelity. I want to convince them that this is NOT what I am trying to do.
/r/MensRights09/12/23 03:31 PM
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I'm currently going through this problem. I'm slightly suspicious because we had a huge fight, and a little after that, we had make up sex. A little while later we found out she was pregnant. Mind you, when we fought, we didn't contact each other for almost 2+ weeks. I don't know what she was doing or where or who she was hanging out with. Asking for a paternity test is also accusing her of lying, cheating and manipulating. I need a solid way to explain this isn't the case and that I just want t…
/r/MensRights09/12/23 03:28 PM
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Thats the thing. We instill doubt in HER and her WORD. To her, it's an accusation of infidelity. It's almost always going to lead to a dispute or feelings hurt if paternity tests are asked
/r/MensRights09/12/23 03:24 PM
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Future, Drake, nick cannon and many more, what do they have in common? Multiple baby moms. Look, women will happily mate, breed and even marry a man who has thousands of bodies if his value is high enough. OPEN your eyes, look around you, look into celebrities, Women accept it when your value is high enough as a man. Future has 10 baby moms, you think by like number 8, she would say "I don't think this is a good deal for me", but no, that didn't happen. And the number will only increase. Studies…
/r/TheRedPill12/11/23 10:40 PM
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Well you usually don't marry to change your spouse, you marry and accept your spouse for their faults. But if it's really annoying, do the exact same thing, and see if he mentions it, for example. "Honey... you have food all over your lips", in which you reply "Yeah, that's how you are when you don't wipe for face after dinner" Hopefully he gets the picture. You can also withhold kissing until he cleans his face up too, it would drive the point across better. For the sneezing thing, I personally…
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/21 11:39 PM
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Literally this. If you had to survive on child support money, which pays for your rent, food, utilities etc, you shouldn't have custody. clearly the husband is more financially stable.
/r/MGTOW23/08/20 06:09 PM
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facts. Women always want their well being to be your fault. their happiness to be your fault.
/r/MGTOW23/08/20 06:08 PM
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Before it was wrong for men to prostitute women. Now they have prostituted themselves. In 20 years these onlyfans will sell actual intercourse with them and no one will ever marry or have a girlfriend again.
/r/MGTOW09/06/20 04:43 AM
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I helped others kickstart their progress in 3D modeling, game development, coding, etc. I can guide you. Tutoring however costs.
/r/MGTOW07/06/20 06:16 PM
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I tutor game development and application development. If you'd like, I can help you out
/r/MGTOW07/06/20 06:00 PM
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Yes. It wasn't easy
/r/MGTOW07/06/20 05:35 PM
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I feel if I ask in other subreddits, women will rally and convince me to stay in the relationship.
/r/MGTOW07/06/20 01:52 AM
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Mine is computer science and hers is biology
/r/MGTOW07/06/20 01:50 AM
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she never even offered to pay. Yeah, you're right. I made my decision.
/r/askTRP11/12/19 04:50 PM
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We have sex alot. Yesterday I had to refuse because i was too tired.
/r/askTRP11/12/19 04:42 PM
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This hurts because I thought I was being dominant in the beginning paying for stuff. It made me feel like a provider/leader paying for everything.
/r/askTRP11/12/19 04:29 PM
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Ugh this hurts
/r/askTRP11/12/19 04:25 PM
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I have. I never had the chance to apply any of the advice. I have the opportunity with this woman, but "Nexting" her is so difficult cause shes so beautiful. Like worrying about losing her is what's stopping me
/r/askTRP11/12/19 03:05 PM
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I dont know how to "give" someone up and "Next" them. I rarely ever date, this is my first girlfriend in a long time.
/r/askTRP11/12/19 03:03 PM
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Yeah I'm in my early 20s and she's in her 20s as well.
/r/askTRP11/12/19 03:02 PM
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Yeah it's the worrying of the relationship ending is what's stopping me.
/r/askTRP11/12/19 03:01 PM
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What is IOI? I'm new to the subreddit
/r/askTRP04/12/19 01:22 PM
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