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God, I needed this so badly.
/r/askTRP15/11/19 11:47 PM
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What is your workout?
/r/askTRP14/11/19 04:25 AM
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What has this sub become...
/r/askTRP21/10/19 09:15 PM
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Yeah I'm definitely one of those people. I'm fucking awful at approaching and OP puts me to shame with his effort.
/r/askTRP16/10/19 10:04 PM
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Yes because a small number is still more than zero.
/r/askTRP07/10/19 05:20 PM
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Opening is by far the weakest part of my game because I neglect it so much. You're a good inspiration OP. Seriously, I need to start having more balls like you do.
/r/askTRP20/09/19 09:32 PM
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Damn this comment made me realize I'm missing so much in the middle part of my game. I've gotten in such a bad habit of expecting things to be easy and just jumping to the end.
/r/askTRP20/09/19 09:30 PM
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Well obviously for starters lifting helps immensely. I was scrawny in my 20s. Lean but tiny. Working out regularly I can say my body is significantly more attractive than it has ever been. Secondly, if you hang out around her you will hear about outcome independence. That means not relying on external factors for validation. Right now all you have is doubt and you're too scared to put anything into action. At some point you just have to convince yourself to try and see how it goes. The first tim…
/r/askTRP24/04/19 09:25 PM
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I get why some people skim through TRP and think it's misogynistic (who cares?). I just find it funny when people say it's bullshit PUA mumbo jumbo that doesn't work. Good, if it doesn't work then girls have nothing to worry about. If these trends that people here claim don't exist then I guess we're all a bunch of virgins.
/r/askTRP16/04/19 10:21 PM
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You better listen. If Vasiliy told me to approach 100 women I sure as shit would.
/r/askTRP21/02/19 11:14 PM
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I had a ONS with a friend of a friend after reading some trp stuff before I even started going to the gym regularly. She was drunk and horny and I was a very below average virgin but I didn't look or act like one. Maybe it's not exactly what you're looking for but I think if you find yourself in the right situation then it's definitely possible and the more you approach girls the more likely you are to find the right situation.
/r/askTRP27/01/19 10:41 PM
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I have a really tough time letting of my ego. What kind of mindset or attitude do you have once you've truly let go of your ego? I try to imagine how I would behave differently if my decisions weren't so driven by ego, but all I can picture is me being socially retarded and obnoxious.
/r/askTRP22/09/18 03:34 AM
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That's probably true. Like I tried to say, I've been chasing that feeling I had from the drunken ONS but I probably missed some opportunities to just get a number, have fun for the night while it lasts, and then try to set something up later.
/r/askTRP18/06/18 05:16 PM
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I disagree though. I'm not going out specifically to pick up girls. I went to the music festival to see a band I've been trying to see again for two years. I went to dinner and the bar to have a nice meal with some friends and have a fun night. I went to the house party to hang out with my a bunch of my friends. I already agreed that I don't have abundance mentality, but I'm trying to act like I do. I'm not trying to force anything, except maybe a bit with girl #2. Isn't trying to force somethin…
/r/askTRP18/06/18 05:14 PM
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I'm still new to all this too, but I feel like it definitely works. The context probably matters (eg how much kino and how public/private it is). In social groups, I will practically ignore some girls for most of the time because gaming girls isn't a priority. Seeing you be fun and playful, especially with girls who are not them, displays good social proof. At a music festival I randomly got pulled into a group of mostly girls by this one girl who was sorta giving me IOIs but she was the center …
/r/askTRP18/06/18 02:20 PM
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Holy shit, Vandaalen plays Hearthstone!
/r/askTRP14/06/18 07:46 PM
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The best advice I read here was always escalate too far instead of not enough. If you've read the sidebar and all that, then you should have an idea of the different escalation levels and as long as you don't try to skip levels then nothing too bad is going to happen, especially if a girl is already laying on you. I don't have the best example, but I used to feel the same way as you until one night out while with a friend and her friends, we were all drinking a lot and I was trying to practice s…
/r/askTRP12/06/18 07:54 PM
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It's better than nothing, but I didn't get any real aesthetic results when I did it.
/r/askTRP30/05/18 04:53 PM
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This is what I went with. It felt weird, and wrong, and out of character for me but TRP hasn't led me wrong yet.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 01:13 PM
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I feel you. I'm still a newbie but holy shit has AWALT been an epiphany. That single idea has given me so much clarity about how attraction and dating works.
/r/askTRP03/05/18 08:21 PM
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I actually never considered the middle ground. That's an interesting idea. I'm just trying to make sure that I'm properly shedding my old BP habits, because I actually do enjoy just hanging out with her (still in a group setting) and just shooting the shit and I think she feels the same way. If I did properly have/display abundance mentality would that mean that I should see how it goes with her because idgaf either way, or I should just be happy being with friends because she's just another gir…
/r/askTRP12/04/18 10:16 PM
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That's kind of how I'm leaning at the moment. It's just a bit hard because I don't know what her schedule looks like and it's hard to take the lead on asking her out without making myself look like a tryhard.
/r/askTRP12/04/18 10:08 PM
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