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You saw through my lie :) Big part of me wants to lead because I want things to be my way, I want to control things and I want people do what I want in addition to your points. Why would anyone want to lead then in your opinion? I've learned from JBP that leading is creating order out of chaos and sharing it with people. If you do that, people follow you, because you offer them what they want. Stories are also forms of creating order out of chaos. People whose stories are listened by others are …
/r/askTRP18/07/17 08:52 AM
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/r/askTRP18/07/17 08:37 AM
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I hope I remember this because it can be really really helpful to me. Thank you. I want to apply that to life. I'm at the bottom in terms of living life. I didn't enter life properly. I am not truly independent. I got stuck somewhere in past in terms of development of an identity. I can financially afford to provide for a family right now but I don't even have a car. I don't plan ahead. I avoid life and living. I'm starting to grow up.
/r/askTRP18/07/17 04:50 AM
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Thank you. I noticed some part of me actually don't want exactly that. That's partly why I avoid lifting or enrolling into a martial art class. I am more callow than I thought. It explains lots of things what you say about leading as well. How did you learn these? Are you repeating ideas or do you actually have these ideas? Are you old? I want to be able to have some wisdom or use wisdom. I usually ignore wisdom. I am 25 and I'm newly paying attention.
/r/askTRP18/07/17 04:17 AM
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Okay makes sense, thanks. How can I get them out of my heart in real life? In practice? I can make hurtful subtle comments to people I like. Should I be open and direct while risking being an asshole? Then I wouldn't feel resentful and they would at least see me for who I am.
/r/askTRP18/07/17 03:33 AM
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Your primary concern is fine-tuning your attitude so that others will buy into a sham leadership. Others pick up on your disorderly attitude and deny your authority because they know it won't lead to anything good. You are not right about these. I do not actually take the lead because 1. I don't know if I am capable because I've never tried it. 2. I fear from hurting people and therefore getting rejected. People look at my eyes when there is a case where leadership is needed sometimes. I step ba…
/r/askTRP18/07/17 03:22 AM
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Statistics have been done. Zero impact on marriage commitment. Really? How can I find it? So you'll be dating a 14 yr old at 30? Give up the delusion of marrying a virgin. Even if you do - AWALT. There is no escape from this. Do you have a serious question for me?
/r/askTRP18/07/17 01:37 AM
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There are more important things in life than getting your dick wet also being an edge lord doesn't make you alpha
/r/askTRP18/07/17 01:12 AM
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what are you saying
/r/askTRP17/07/17 04:14 AM
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Okay. What do you think about having a balanced life (family, kids, maybe a traditional marriage, 40-50hr work weeks) VS doing great things (obsessing about achiving business-alike goals, working +80hr weeks, not having a good family, not having life experiences, but feeling like you are winning/fighting more)? I've been obsessive. My obsessive tendencies was my strength ($, achievements, my creations, courageous and confident in some ares) and weakness (social isolation, lack of living, virgin,…
/r/askTRP15/07/17 11:54 PM
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how? by comparing myself to others, i'm being more grateful and feeling happier
/r/askTRP15/07/17 11:21 PM
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are you sure? are you serious? what do you mean?
/r/askTRP15/07/17 11:05 PM
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you have resentment and you are categorizing me into something you can direct your resentment and anger. i didn't grow up in a place where there are homeless people and i don't come from your culture. i wrote bad parts of my character and i didn't write good parts of my character. so you and people here know me as if i am mostly bad. so you are wrong in jumping into comprehensive conclusions about me or my character. you are wrong and mistaken about me and my character. thanks for your good poin…
/r/askTRP15/07/17 10:51 PM
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Your ability know what's good for you is limited. What do you do about that? Make the best decisions you can based on the information that you have and don't obsess about shit. okay, what do you think about what this guy says here? https://youtu.be/xPxDqf-7Zbk?t=330 he is a compenent and successful clinical psychologist, professor of psychology, and he has enough integrity to tell his truth openly despite political correctness. in short, he knows how humans work pragmatically speaking. that's wh…
/r/askTRP15/07/17 10:07 PM
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and you really think you don't feel above others? i am taking what's useful from your comment but otherwise, i think you might be two faced and ignorant. here is your last comment: Nahhh, it'll be a neckbeard in a fedora with a samurai sword, waddling into the fray shouting his battle cry- "For M'Lady!" you think you are better than the neckbeard. that's why you are making fun of him. am i wrong? if i am wrong and you manage to think you are not better than any people out of 7 billion of people,…
/r/askTRP15/07/17 09:39 PM
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I follow etiquette and social expectations, know British royalty sort of social rules and grace. I apply the rules expected based on the people I'm with. Learning the rules of the various socioeconomic classes where you are is highly important, especially, if you ever want to be accepted by UC, or even UMC people. I was looking for something like that. How can I learn that? Set of social behaviours I follow for myself as a routine as a self standard for myself, and not other people and not depen…
/r/askTRP15/07/17 08:46 PM
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would you invite that homeless guy to a dinner party at your house? how do i learn humility?
/r/askTRP15/07/17 08:24 PM
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i try to think that way but i have a tendency to think i am better because of narcisism. any ideas what to do about that tendency? i find it being grateful helps do you lift 400 pounds? did you work for it for many years? don't you see the fat guys around you beneath you? what do you feel? i'm asking what you do to keep you in check
/r/askTRP15/07/17 08:22 PM
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do you lift 400 pounds? did you work for it for many years? don't you see the fat guys around you beneath you? what do you feel? i'm asking what you do to keep you in check
/r/askTRP15/07/17 08:17 PM
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By realizing that it's just a role. now that's useful advice. so i should love and accept everyone because they know something that i don't in some important areas and i can learn from them if i love and accept them? So why see someone beneath you only because his role is inferior to yours? idk exactly. do you lift 400 pounds? did you work for it for many years? don't you see the fat guys around you beneath you? what do you feel? Don't be stuck up. Your old class mates were students, and you wer…
/r/askTRP15/07/17 08:16 PM
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Stop analysing and start doing already. You are right, here.
/r/askTRP15/07/17 08:19 AM
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Well yeah you are right actually
/r/askTRP15/07/17 07:57 AM
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Really? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XcFVaWrVYfY
/r/askTRP15/07/17 07:56 AM
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I tried being nice, but got kicked in the face. How?
/r/askTRP15/07/17 07:22 AM
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What's the difference between nice and polite? I can't seem to grasp it. What do you mean by imploded? Your front gave way? I mean I blamed myself for what I lack. I created problems in myself to fix. I didn't try being asshole, which is who I am inside basically as a result of my resentment to humanity, and that's a result of my social inedeptness maybe. If I were an asshole, I'd be real and maybe more people would like me.
/r/askTRP15/07/17 07:20 AM
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Apparently I've dealt with it my whole life, just wasn't aware. Having a strong moral code to follow and really trying to be logical to myself has been massively influential in not turning me into a walking nightmare. I thought I was somewhat bad or not enough. I tried to be nice and friendly. I kinda did it too hard maybe. Overall, I have some levels of narcissim and some people didn't like me for it, or I didn't like people and they returned back my feelings. I kinda imploded. Are you similar?
/r/askTRP15/07/17 03:50 AM
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u/Auvergnat u/VasiliyZaitzev
/r/askTRP15/07/17 03:19 AM
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I figured you knew something. Do you know more about this? My answers are on a spectrum.
/r/askTRP14/07/17 10:16 PM
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Are you able to love others? Not really. Feel it without having to think about it? Not really. Do you consider yourself superior to others? Kindof Do you hate yourself? Kindof If you don't get attention from other people regularly do you start to get ansy and feel off? I don't know. I somehow get attention, at worst here.
/r/askTRP14/07/17 07:18 PM
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I think this is like not learning how to talk as a toddler. Since you didn't learn when you were supposed to learn, now you can't talk properly even if you tried hard. being strengthened by an encounter with the terrible world I am wondering if there is something I can do in addition to that.
/r/askTRP14/07/17 07:28 AM
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i can't bring myself to doing it. http://www.goodtherapy.org/learn-about-therapy/issues/isolation
/r/askTRP08/07/17 02:00 AM
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Whatever you do, you gotta start from the baby step. This also sucks. That's why I don't lift yet. I will look like a baby. find a therapist or support group that specialises in helping people like you (and me) who have been socially isolated long enough for them to forget how to behave in various kinds of social settings. How do you find such a group? If I'm socializing well, my mood can get really good really fast. It happened twice this year. It sounds weird to say it. I think I'm an extrover…
/r/askTRP08/07/17 12:48 AM
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Thank you. What do you do about the pain about realizing your situation? I noticed I want to use porn, junk food or internet to comfort me. I'm trying meditation right now. If your social skills are so poor that you donno how to carry a normal convo with anyone for more than 5 minutes, It depends on my mood and my mood can get really good really fast if I socialize with people well.
/r/askTRP08/07/17 12:13 AM
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Befriend an alpha and learn from him. Watch how he behaves in social settings. Can't find an alpha? Improve your SMV and you will eventually attract one. I'm not saying you are wrong because you are right but that sounds like saying stop being depressed to a depressed person... Social isolation is my biggest issue. It is the trigger of my all other problems. So it is my main focus right now. Isn't friendship mutual? Why in the world would he befriend a socially isolated, jobless, virgin, fat dud…
/r/askTRP07/07/17 11:32 PM
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