https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dUhzBvYfoOk

Here Jordan Peterson talks about letting your kids face the real world.

oedipal mother is the mother who devours her child by overprotecting him or her so that instead of being strengthened by an encounter with the terrible world, they're weakened by too much protection, and then when they're led out into the world they cannot live.

That is precisely me.

I am 25 years old.

How can I fix myself?

most women really fall in love with their babies. even if they start growing into larger children, that can be threatening, because when the infant turns into a toddler, the infant is dead, the toddler is there now, and you can radically interfere with that process. that happens all the time. that's the classic Freudian oedipal nightmare.

This was also me. Source: https://youtu.be/BTGhZZ-QkYo?t=156