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| 9 | ‘merica B-day stats; plates falling? And Trouble is… [FR]Good post. The author “gets it” and acts properly (always be gaming, spinning plates, abundance mentality, maintaining control over the frame, etc.). That’s why it’s curious he claims there are two things he doesn’t understand when it’s quite simple. It’s just so odd. I don’t understand it: how do women not realize that there’s a HUGE divide regarding age and attractiveness depending on one’s sex? It’s not equal. Men are much more attractive–including looks-wise–when we’re older. Women… not so m… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/19 11:39 PM |
| 4 | Self Love & it’s ImportanceYour trying to put straw man opinions in my mouth won’t make your point any shinier. What I’m telling you is that if you have a shit self-esteem because girls won’t fuck you, I can guarantee you right now that having a clean room is not going to fix it. Your claim is that if you have a good self-esteem, people will come to you and you’ll get what you want. My claim is that it’s the other way around. Self-esteem is a lagging indicator of getting what you want in life. And the reason it’s serious … | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/19 09:43 PM |
| 11 | Self Love & it’s ImportanceOP you may be too young to understand it yet but you’re falling for the most destructive of all blue-pill lies. You say We’ve got the wrong idea of love. We’ve been taught that you MUST search for love from somebody else. I’ve never seen such a thing being taught. Everybody naturally desires validation and appreciation and love because it’s in our DNA to desire it. We’re a social species. Being ostracised by the group meant certain death to our ancestors, and lack of mating partner meant death t… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/19 07:10 AM |
| 2 | The Foundations of Natural GameDude look at you DEERing instantly... | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/19 04:34 AM |
| 1 | DiscretionI didn’t mean to start a gossipy conversation with you about whether girl X has feelings for you based on analysing the meaning behind anecdotes Y and Z. This is how girls and low-value men behave and you should drop that ASAP for your own good as it makes you feel and behave like a girl or low-value guy. I only told you you should have fun teasing/flirting a bit as you got a golden opportunity to do so, just as you should do with every girl when there is such opportunity. It doesn’t matter who … | /r/TheRedPill | 11/07/19 10:40 PM |
| 3 | DiscretionIt means she’s soaking her panties over so much preselection and mystery and dying for you to continue stoking the fire in her imagination/crotch. Try “well little miss curious, wouldn’t you like to know!” with a smirk next time. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/07/19 05:59 AM |
| 3 | Stumbled upon theRedPill purely by accident, enamored by its vast resources, unable to solve my final problemLol. Don’t be dude I envy you, you’ve got great natural material if you believe in it and can talk about it. Learn about star signs, kokology and palm reading too and you’re set for all dates in your life. | /r/askTRP | 10/07/19 05:54 AM |
| 8 | Stumbled upon theRedPill purely by accident, enamored by its vast resources, unable to solve my final problemYou don’t have to learn to banter, you only have to make her talk. The only point of convo is comfort-building. Ask questions, get an interest in her and her background, make an effort to understand what and how she thinks and what makes her feel. If you really are a sociopath and have no care in the world about what’s in other people’s heads, make it a game. For example, challenge yourself to find the questions to see how fast and accurately you can identify what’s her Myers-Briggs type (whethe… | /r/askTRP | 09/07/19 10:05 PM |
| 25 | DiscretionYou don’t get it. The point brought up is that you are being discreet and known for being discreet, not whether or not you’re known to fuck. Being known as a guy who knows how to stay discreet about his sexual conquests is great. Being known as a stud is great. Being known as a stud even though you never talk about your sexual conquests is the perfect combo. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/07/19 09:52 PM |
| 12 | Gallery of dating profiles showing women's Alpha Fucks/Beta Bucks strategy.I don’t see it happening. PUA and TRP doesn’t spread as much as you think. It’s because you are in it that it feels this way. But out there feminism is now mainstream and educating boys and teens at unprecedented scale. Betas, white knights and incels are not going anywhere anytime soon. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/07/19 02:13 AM |
| 10 | Why oneitis happens and breakups hurtGood to see in the comments the proper answer to the title questions. You’re right. Both infatuation with a current or possible sexual partner and hurt feelings over the loss of that sexual partner are mental modules built in human brains by eons of evolution time to tell the bearer “You have very little chances of passing on your genes and you’re screwing it up! Do something dumbass!” “Focusing your happiness” on something else won’t cut it. The only solution is to get other girls. This is the … | /r/TheRedPill | 08/07/19 03:45 AM |
| 1 | How much does lifting improve SMV?It’s simply fundamental. If you were to picture TRP teaching as layers of wisdom piled onto each other, you would find SMV and its components (including aesthetics) somewhere in the middle. But at the very bottom, at the very core is this: your entire worth to women is predicated on your embodiment of masculinity, and physical strength is the prime cue. You read people here saying how it also affects your self-esteem, your confidence, how men behave with you, etc. All these, and women’s attracti… | /r/askTRP | 07/07/19 10:24 PM |
| 2 | "The Believers" vs. The EmpiricistsUnderrated comment. I mean that’s classic redpill wisdom but I had failed to see the similarity between that gendered facts-vs-feels thinking which your remind and the quoted post by Whisper on truth-vs-morals debate. Thanks for connecting those dots. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/07/19 03:12 AM |
| 18 | TheReason We All Ended Up HereYou don’t seem to understand the criticism you’re receiving so I’ll take a turn at trying to explain it to you. You seem to entertain a worldview where a man can be judged on a spectrum from “flawed” to “perfect”, and that women’s sexual nature is to prefer men tending towards “perfect”, and therefore a man’s sexual success is an indicator of his position on the “perfection” spectrum. How then do you explain that ex-convicts, “assholes”, “jerks”, and other people with psychopath tendencies are s… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/19 05:16 AM |
| 2 | Lifting is not nearly enough: RUN!I know it may be strange to a TRP newbie but this sub used to be about sexual strategy, aka understanding women and capitalising on this information to fuck them. And the core principle is that it’s about being masculine, against the typical mainstream advice such as doing choreplay as you ironically suggest. It may surprise you to know that I have many more interests in life but just fucking women, and that I go discuss those topics on more appropriate subs than one that is I consider is about … | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/19 02:40 AM |
| 1 | Daughter Came Out as a ManIf you’d know the most basic elements of human nature, you’d know that the peer environment in which kids grow up matter more to their development than the parental environment. That’s how kids of non-smokers but hanging with smoking peer groups end up smoking. That’s why despite all your efforts to teach your kids about jazz, they end up listening to Justin Bieber. But because of that there’s one thing you’re right about. If you see your kids hanging with the wrong crowd you must do all in your… | /r/askTRP | 02/07/19 08:32 AM |
| 12 | Nothing Like Being in the NewsPart and parcel of modern politics nowadays: get the public to associate your opponent with already-condemned groups. Case study: AOC bringing up “concentration camps”. What a despicable world. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/07/19 03:41 AM |
| 3 | LTR with ex-CC riderThe problem OP is that despite her now-perfect behaviour, you won’t be able to get passed that little voice in your head that’s telling you “I just KNOW she’s making an effort now, but when I’ll be locked into commitment with a ring and kids without the possibility to run away, she will revert to her old self”. You’d be wise listening to that voice. Your gut knows what’s up | /r/askTRP | 01/07/19 07:29 AM |
| 3 | Daughter Came Out as a Manhttps://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rapid_onset_gender_dysphoria_controversy?wprov=sfti1 | /r/askTRP | 01/07/19 07:17 AM |
| 7 | Daughter Came Out as a ManRead up on “rapid onset gender dysphoria”. It’s “controversial” (read, it grates against mainstream, bluepill-type delusion) because the theory is that it’s not due to them “finding who they really are” as trans activists want you to believe, but actually them being influenced by their crazy peers group into becoming crazy too (think of any basic teenage craze, but at a pathological level). And yes if you’re wondering that’s (obviously) affecting girls mostly. You may be able to find other paren… | /r/askTRP | 01/07/19 06:48 AM |
| 34 | Whats the best thing to call a plate when people ask, "is this your girlfriend?"You don’t have to be cocky-funny with your social circle but sure it’s funny. Other one is “she wishes”. Best thing you can say is “It’s complicated”. To them it means “it’s not your business” but in a polite way, and to her it keeps her on her toes while at the same time showing her that you know how to stay discrete about your relationships | /r/askTRP | 28/06/19 09:11 AM |
| 15 | Paternity, Promiscuity & "Poly"You guys are dense. Show me any extract of Rollo’s blog or video where he says something along the lines of “I endorse cuckoldry” or “I think cuckoldry is ok/good/justified”. I’ll be waiting. You know they’re none. You know very well he professionally associated with a range of people with not fully overlapping ideas, as a necessary evil to get work done. You’re smart enough to understand that when he finally realised that the overlap was not sufficient to sustain his mission, and that he could … | /r/TheRedPill | 28/06/19 06:22 AM |
| 20 | Paternity, Promiscuity & "Poly"Did you even read the post you linked? He brought up Jack Murphy’s tweet specifically to point out that Jack disagrees with him, and then went on to use said disagreeing tweet to bolster his (Rollo’s) opinion. He started with “Jack knows I love him but...” which is the most obvious way to tell someone you are friend with that you disagree with him in a polite manner. Bro you know I love you but you’re being a bit of a dick on purpose here. I’ve got many friends who are married and that doesn’t p… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/06/19 05:56 AM |
| 9 | Lifting is not nearly enough: RUN!Here we go, another example of a guy who does activity X and, sure enough, activity X is somehow alpha. You don’t get it kid. TRP tells people to lift because we’ve figured that women want to fuck masculinity and that physical strength is pure concentrated masculinity cue. Run if you want. Or do yoga. Or crochet. Or play the bagpipe if that’s your thing. But don’t go thinking that your hobbie is somehow an activity that deserves special status in TRP theory. If it’s not something that feels typi… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/06/19 01:46 AM |
| 4 | Why shouldn't you date a former slut if you yourself were a player?You don’t hold to the same standard people with completely different capabilities. You would judge a professional car mechanic and your 12-years-old sister with different standards of quality of servicing your car. It’s incredibly hard for a random guy to sleep with many women because women are picky. So being a stud is a sign you’re quality mating material and in high demand. A woman would have good reasons to want to lock you down, with the caveat that you’re a risk of deserting her. It’s incr… | /r/askTRP | 27/06/19 08:56 PM |
| 17 | Dalrock: Melinda Gates, miserly billionaire. "Complementarians are convinced that the solution to feminist discontentment is for husbands to do more. If they work harder, do more housework, etc. wives will be content."Women are never happy. You could be the ultimate alpha - tall, strong, handsome, famous, desired by all women everywhere. And the lucky woman who married you will still complain you’re not doing enough. You could be the ultimate beta - insanely rich, generous, more than willing to give it all to her and her kids, dying of unconditional love for her. And the lucky woman who married you will still complain you’re not doing enough. It is in woman’s nature to never be fulfilled by her partner. She m… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/06/19 04:30 AM |
| 178 | Modern Women "I’ve Had Sex With Well Over 100 Men, but That Does Not Define me as a Slut"This woman’s issue, as with all women like her, is a complete inability to put themselves in men’s shoes for even a minute and consider their perspectives and desires. That’s because of an inherent solipsism, reinforced in childhood by being treated like a princess, then in teenage-years by excessive amounts of male attention, add in later years by gobbling up the feminist narrative that women can have it all and deserve it all. All their life, they’ve been experiencing the idea that other peopl… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/06/19 12:20 AM |
| 27 | The decline of masculinity is inevitableCompletely agree of course. And that’s why neo-traditional-conservatives efforts are futile. There’s no going back. There’s nothing left to do but to enjoy the decline. But that might be too bitter a pill for many to swallow. The good news is that there will still be pussy to be fucked and money to be made for the reality-abiding, unapologetically masculine man. Simply because hypergamy and the law of the market remain unaffected by the ever-increasing comfort and the resulting runaway-feminisat… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/06/19 06:22 AM |
| 37 | I've been keeping texting to purely logistics, she doesn't seem to like it.I endorse this comment. I’ve never been a fan of “texting only for logistics”. I find it much more efficient to blow hot and cold, aka sometimes text only for logistics, and sometimes do give her more attention. Make her feel your sweet sweet attention and love it, and then make her addicted to it by being completely random about when you’re giving it. In any case, never give it when she overtly request it. | /r/askTRP | 23/06/19 10:13 PM |
| 13 | Delete, Block, ContinueYep. Unknowingly, OP is giving everyone here a great lesson. TRP goes at length about keeping composure, staying unreactive, amused mastery, etc. A lot of big words but here it is in flesh: the exact behaviour that you want to avoid - never get butthurt, and if you do, hide it the best you can. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/06/19 02:00 AM |
| 6 | Yes, Video Games Are Terrible For Your Personal DevelopmentWell my friend, if you’ve fulfilled your girls and money needs to the point you’re content about your life, then it’s all up to you and there’s no right answer. Some people would focus that free time on learning game and picking up more girls. Some people would continue figuring avenues to make more money, working towards financial independence or top 1% wealth. Some people would focus on learning new skills for fun, learn to fight, or build, or repair. Or philosophy. Or travel the world and lea… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/06/19 10:53 PM |
| 2 | the red pill creates assholes out of men.The problem lies not in the emotion itself but in the control of its expression. No emotion is wrong, but if you let it overcome you to the point it guides your actions, then you’ll have to suffer the consequences of it, and since those actions were not taken with your best interest in consideration, these might be very bad for you. OP’s case is not clear enough, but he probably knows whether letting that rightful anger dictates his action was a good idea or not. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/06/19 05:30 AM |
| 4 | The real role of a fatherOk you still consider the essence of masculinity as more or less fixed biologically then (on non-evolutional time scales). For example, physical violence is a defining trait of masculinity because of its relevance in the competition for ressources and the social hierarchy in our ancestral environment. It’s only its expression that is dependent on the technology available (use of muskets in the west vs blades in the east). | /r/TheRedPill | 18/06/19 05:08 AM |
| 50 | Yes, Video Games Are Terrible For Your Personal DevelopmentIf I sat in my room playing guitar 6 hours a day I’d say that’s bad as well. It’s socially isolating, no real-world accomplishment accept for my own pleasure, etc. If you play 6 hours a day, at some point you should be good enough to play in a band, play gigs or at weddings or at least at parties, and reap the social/sexual/financial benefits of your investment. If you never capitalise on that investment of your time and energy, then it was probably a misallocation of your time yes. Hey I know a… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/06/19 04:27 AM |
| 4 | The real role of a fatherAre you saying that masculinity is socially constructed? If so, would you say that in 2019, masculinity is dadbod, pussy hat, and getting pegged by an empowered female? After all, that’s the new modern masculinity society is pushing for right? | /r/TheRedPill | 18/06/19 04:07 AM |
| 9 | Dalrock - The ugly feminist view of pregnancy: “Gestational work” | "These women are so gripped by miserliness they have made it a priority not to show love to their own children."In our feminist future, feminist scientists will find a way to get men (or more likely machines) to do the “gestational work” so that feminist women can finally be free of that patriarchal burden that negatively affects their feminist careers. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/06/19 12:39 AM |
| 15 | Two points on loneliness, family, and evolutionary biology : "Suicide rates for [..] older guys have been going up for a long time[...] Younger guys can learn game and get laid (the way is hard but it can be done), while older guys without families don’t have that source of meaning."It’s two separate mental modules. On one side you’ve got this deep, constant lust for sex, seeking youth, beauty and variety. This is an urge that is fundamental and you can’t ignore it. If you don’t get laid, your brain answers with lowering your self-esteem. It’s an alarm signal to put your attention on this issue ASAP. Good luck trying to focus on anything else but pussy when you don’t get it. On the other side you’ve got this deep longing for purpose, meaning, success. That is also an urge, … | /r/TheRedPill | 17/06/19 10:06 PM |
| 7 | Do you think the dating preferences of teens show what each gender is truly attracted to?It doesn’t occur to you that maybe the reason that media serve popular pop stars to teenage girls so eager to take it... is because teenage girls are de facto wired to be attracted to popular men? Do you also think that people love sweet food only because they are saturated with media advertising for sweet food? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/19 11:28 PM |
| 26 | Do you think the dating preferences of teens show what each gender is truly attracted to?It baffles me that so many people in 2019 still believe that (1) humans are born a blank slate (despite the massive body of scientific evidence to the contrary accumulated from various fields) so that (2) the only explanation to the massive number of observable patterns originates in culture (despite the massive body of evidence that those patterns tend to hold across cultures). Apparently, across all cultures, all times, all continents, men are viscerally sexually attracted to youth and beauty.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/19 11:24 PM |
| 54 | Two most powerful business/life tipsThis is the lesson I learned unfortunately a bit late in my career after getting a new job and getting to know my direct supervisor: an extremely top 1% performer in the field. He was barely older than me but miles ahead career-wise. We quickly became very good friends and I realise shortly after everyone feels the same with him. He learns a colleague’s name and never forgets it. He learns and remembers the name of their wife and kids. He starts all interactions with bright smiles, warm greeting… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/06/19 01:54 AM |
| 49 | 15 Most Upvoted Comments - TheRedPill & askTRPLol. For better content, go to your favorite ECs and then sort their comments by most upvoted. You'd stumble on such gem as: This right here is probably the most pro-woman piece of writing on the internet. A lot of idiots claim that The Red Pill objectifies women. Tricks them. Manipulates them. Hates them. But this guy here really, really understands this woman. He sees her humanity. Her real humanity -- not the rah-rah, you-go-girl, YOLO, proud to be a slut, sex-positive, strong, liberated femi… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/19 11:11 AM |
| 8 | Next my wife? Easier said then done.To add. OP the reason why she felt like blowing another dude is the same reason she gives attention to her orbiters and not you, which is the same reason she doesn’t notice your improvements, which is: she is 100% sure you will stick around. Perhaps it’s your love for your kids perhaps it’s your love for her and her pussy, or perhaps it’s your laziness or your fear of having to restart from zero. Whatever it is, it’s clear you won’t leave and she knows it. There isn’t a clearest sign of a guy’s … | /r/askTRP | 13/06/19 05:32 AM |
| 22 | With women all over the world seeking there right to have an abortion or keep the child shouldn’t men also have the right to choose if there going to be a father or devote any resources to said child?Every personal and societal issue has built-in trade-offs. Any opinion/solution about any issue has good and bad consequences. But if a particular solution has only good benefits for you (while the bad consequences are for others) then it’s a no brainer which one you’re going to advocate for. Now the trick is to advocate for it in a way that ignore/downplay the bad consequences for the party you’re not. If you’re a fertile woman, abortion is “mostly good” (up for debate since these women are par… | /r/askTRP | 13/06/19 12:08 AM |
| 14 | The Rollo PillThe convention was not meant to teach you anything. It was an opportunity for people to see and talk to their idols in person. It’s like people shedding a few hundred dollars to go see some famous artist live - they already know the music, now they just want to experience the feeling of being dazzled by the show. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/06/19 07:54 PM |
| 6 | The Rollo PillCareful. You’re talking too much Rian. Of all people you’re the one who would know that. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/06/19 07:47 PM |
| 1 | About to kick my LTR to the curb, she wanted a break, confesses to kissing another guy during it. Would love any advice.You still don’t make sense. I described two different, incompatible behaviours. Which one do you claim both sexes “do equally”? | /r/askTRP | 10/06/19 02:21 AM |
| 11 | AJ from 21con releases an uncorroborated hitpiece on Rollo over the weekendI wasn’t influenced by these guys, but by their writing. Anyone who let themselves be influenced by the messenger instead of the message doesn’t deserve enlightenment. It’s a message as old as time: When the sage points at the moon, the fool looks at the finger. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/06/19 01:43 AM |
| 2 | About to kick my LTR to the curb, she wanted a break, confesses to kissing another guy during it. Would love any advice.I thought my point was clear enough but I’ll dumb it down: guys break a relationship to become free to find new different sexual partners but women do it because they’ve already found (and sometimes, banged) the replacement. Better? | /r/askTRP | 10/06/19 01:39 AM |
| 9 | Letting mothers raise the boys is worse then letting them play with knives.His earliest material (years 1 and 2) was much shorter and to the point. Much easier to understand. Now it’s long, convoluted, repetitive, and chock-full of jargon. But it’s a common issue in specialised writers, which Steven Pinker dubbed the Curse of Knowledge. It takes a lot of honest self-criticism for a writer to recognise this issue and then make the effort to deal with it, but unfortunately Rollo seems allergic to it. With the recent happenings, hopefully Rollo will refocus on his writing… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/06/19 01:23 AM |
| 75 | About to kick my LTR to the curb, she wanted a break, confesses to kissing another guy during it. Would love any advice.More accurately, when a guy says he "wants a break", he means "I want to fuck other girls". When a girl says she "wants a break", she means "there's this guy whom I find very attractive and consider a serious step-up compared to you, and I may even have fucked him already but if I haven't yet then I most definitely will do it as soon as we can agree we're on a break so that technically I will not be cheating, because I want you, myself, and everyone else to believe I am a good girl". | /r/askTRP | 09/06/19 03:44 AM |
| 63 | AJ from 21con releases an uncorroborated hitpiece on Rollo over the weekendAll this shit is what happens when you stray from the path and get into politics, business, ideologies. The red pill is nothing but the cumulative wisdom of men exchanging notes about intersexual dynamics, and by extension your personal plan based on that wisdom, and your steadfast execution of that plan in order to achieve your desires in terms of women. Everything else is just wind. A lot of people seem to have forgotten that’s all there is to it. Don’t make that mistake. Don’t get involved. D… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/06/19 02:31 AM |
| 13 | How to stop falling in love so quickly?!I firmly believe that oneitis (aka, infatuation) is a very natural behaviour in men, mediated by one's impression of one's value (aka, self-esteem). In other words, low-value men may be more prone to infatuation than high-value men, but it remains a very normal, natural, widespread feeling, selected over eons to ensure paternal investment in our species. If I'm right, trying to get rid of outbreaks of oneitis completely could be a lost cause for most people. It's like trying to get rid complet… | /r/askTRP | 09/06/19 12:40 AM |
| 4 | Girlfriend called me on skype to break up after 4 years together. Says she still loves me as a best friend but not attracted to me anymore.This. And when she comes back from her “holidays with the girls” in tears because she had “a fight with her bestie” and want to patch things up with OP, hopefully by that time OP had strong enough a dosage of red pills to read between the lines and NOT take her back. | /r/askTRP | 08/06/19 08:13 PM |
| 15 | UPDATE: Went on a date with the girl that asked me outYou did good IMO. You don’t have to be perfect, it’s ok not to time your kino perfectly or to be a bit nervous. The great majority of girls don’t want to fuck on the first date because they don’t want to give you the impression that they’re a slut. Many still do if they fall on a guy who is a master tingle generator. It’s ok if you’re not, as long as you’re clearly going somewhere and she shows intention to see you again, you’ll fuck at the second date. Only eject if it’s not happened by the thi… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/19 10:38 PM |
| 9 | Don't ever doubt yourself brothers. This stuff really works.The takeaway definitely is the One move of male expression of power, but it takes no balls nor iron will if you’ve fully integrated your value as a male. If you know your value to women, know you don’t need her only that she makes a pretty complement to your life, know that you can get other girls if this one doesn’t add to your life... then the takeaway becomes the most natural thing in the world to do at the moment when it’s needed. Exactly like OP described and performed it. He said it was “v… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/06/19 03:32 AM |
| 1 | Need a workout routineAs a beginner, start with “Starting Strength”, or “Stronglifts 5x5”, or the “5/3/1 for Beginners” on the fitness subreddit. They are all a simple barbell program focused on compound lifts, which is what you want as a beginner (simplicity, and building overall strength). My vote goes to Starting Strength. Important warning: the linear progressive overload (aka adding X pounds to the bar every workout) means it’ll get heavy soon enough, and if your technique/form is not perfect, you will get injur… | /r/askTRP | 06/06/19 03:05 AM |
| 31 | Charlie BrownIt doesn’t matter. Consider it training. Then, the next time you’ll find yourself stumbling on a HB9 and more time to game (house party, bar, etc.) that’s when the training will pay off. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/06/19 08:55 PM |
| 8 | Neymar accused of rape goes out and show his texts with the girl (Translated text)It’s the same argument as an average guy complaining that ultra rich people don’t have to work to make a living. There’s two kind of this average guy. The one that’ll sit on their ass complaining about how it’s unfair and demanding the rich are taxed so that the government can handle him benefits, and the one that’ll learn how to hustle, sell, invest, and make it to the point where he doesn’t have to work either. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/06/19 08:37 PM |
| 11 | Bored of sex in LTRI’ve written at lengths about this. Dont use “alpha” and “beta” as labels for what you think is “good” or “bad”. Alpha is whatever generates the tingles in women and beta is whatever makes them feel secure and provided for. No more no less. 99% of your behaviour and actions are neither alpha nor beta, like cheating for example. | /r/askTRP | 30/05/19 09:51 AM |
| 9 | Is there even a limit of assholhery with hot women?He didn’t ask you your opinion about the morality of asshole game and machiavellianism, he asked about the reasons for their effectiveness in seduction. You have yet to understand the crucial expression that “sexual strategy is ammoral”. Sexual strategies were devised by evolution long before the system of society resulted in a moral sense (“good” and “bad” is what is beneficial/detrimental for society). When we’re talking sexual strategy, to understand it, you must disconnect that part of your … | /r/askTRP | 28/05/19 01:11 AM |
| 3 | "Dying alone" isn't a big deal. Realizing this is the key to abundance even if you aren't getting laid.Hey mate. Sorry late answer, got busy and forgot. I don't think having a passion is a problem. Lack of self-control probably is though. TRP is only here to teach you the reality about intersexual dynamics. It's here to tell you that it's OK to want to fuck girls, that doing so will participate in your mental health just as drinking water, eating food, and having a sense of purpose. TRP tells you that to fuck girls, you need to be masculine, decisive, dominant, cocky-funny, have some social life.… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/05/19 11:26 AM |
| 24 | Impending Mass Exodus from RooshV ForumsRoosh did exactly like Cypher in “the Matrix”. After the initial thrill of knowing the reality about the world / intersexual dynamics and benefiting from that wisdom came the feeling of emptiness, the abyss. Unable to find psychological solace in this, he chose to get plugged back in the matrix, to enjoy the delusion, albeit in another form. Instead of believing women are angels, he’ll force himself to believe there is, against all evidence to the contrary, some superior moral order that can get… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/05/19 10:23 AM |
| 14 | I failed! LTR asks for permission to "have a coffee" with a fuckbuddy she used to date before. I didn't react well, how can I save this?First things first, it’s important you realise you didn’t fuck it up in your reaction to this. You fucked it up a while ago. Girls are naturally driven to maintain backup plans. It’s hypergamous anxiety speaking. They need to feel safe. The only thing that would prevent them from fulfilling this urge is a clear feeling that you’re the best she can get AND a clear understanding that you could drop her instantly for example if she were to start playing those kinda of games with you. So the fact th… | /r/askTRP | 27/05/19 03:20 AM |
| 20 | On being a "high value guy" vs. actually having gameThis would not be a topic to discuss if people on this sub and elsewhere would finally understand that having Game is part and parcel of having high value! When Mystery was talking about “Demonstrate High Value” during seduction, he didn’t mean to talk about your great life or your fat bank account, but to dominate the convo, to attract the attention of the set, to show off your confidence, aka “high value” = “great game”. Then came all the newbies who were so afraid of rejection that they thoug… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/19 06:12 AM |
| 24 | Every girl has a boyfriend...Whether or not they have a boyfriend, all girls have a roster of guys ready to take the job. Whether or not they have a boyfriend, all girls in an environment where they get hit on all the time will say they have one, to get some peace. Whether or not they have a boyfriend, this info isn’t relevant for your early game: you chat, demonstrate high value, neg a bit.. The BF thing only becomes relevant when you escalate physically. By then you’ll know if she actually has a BF or if she cares about h… | /r/askTRP | 23/05/19 09:49 PM |
| 3 | Got called a psycho last nightI hope you agreed and amplified when she said that and you answered something like “thank you, good to see my great qualities being recognised”. For your information, psychopathy is one of the three dark triad traits (along with narcissism and machiavellianism) that is a profile in men that was proven to be extremely attractive to women. So it’s not surprising to be if you’re very successful with girls. Just don’t get phased by the fact that it’s a bad thing to be according to society (it really… | /r/askTRP | 23/05/19 09:37 PM |
| 30 | Just broke up with ltr of 5months, what did I do wrong?What you did wrong was to assume that women are monogamous. You assumed that women are perfectly logical machines that will display the desired behaviour as long as you press the right buttons and turn the right knobs in the right sequence. That’s not how it works. Women can get bored of the perfect relationship. They’re always on the look out for a better man. They have two sides to their strategy so while you may fulfill one, she also needs the other. In summary, you can never be sure that you… | /r/askTRP | 23/05/19 09:18 PM |
| 40 | TRP from a happily married guy's perspectiveGood on you OP but the girl you married 30 years ago didn’t have tinder and Instagram when she was a hottie. By the time the modern world provided her with the tools and justifications to unleash her hypergamy, she was way past her prime with two kids in tow and a long experience of being a good wife and mother. Young guys who want to get married have to deal with women who indulged in their sexual freedom, loved the taste of it, and don’t see why they have to give it all up just for marriage. I… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/05/19 07:46 PM |
| 18 | Your Personal Abyss, and How to EscapeNah I agree overall. My point is only that it’s good to keep your head on your shoulders and your feet on the ground when doing philosophy. It’s very easy to fall for that epiphany feeling that you have somehow “solved” life by thinking about abstract concepts, only to feel ever worse later when you realise that you still feel like shit or still cling to your bad habits despite your grand logical thoughts. I’ve done a lot of thinking when I was younger, none of which really made a dent in my fee… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/05/19 01:24 AM |
| 2 | Introduction: My last resortYou don’t change a woman’s lifetime impression of her husband being an unattractive beta in a few short months of lifting and taking the household leadership. But as you realised already, dread is a much more effective booster, though a risky one. You need to work jointly on rising your objective SMV (lift, dominate, confidence, etc) but also at the same time increase dread (flirt with other women, consider leaving her, become a bit more mysterious with your schedule outside the house, etc.). | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/05/19 11:15 PM |
| 7 | Your Personal Abyss, and How to Escapesaid the philosopher who decided not to incorporate the concept of “gravity” into his internal reality before jumping off the cliff. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/05/19 10:27 PM |
| 8 | Who are the historical role models that you look up to and try to emulate? And why?Teddy Roosevelt is the epitome of masculinity | /r/askTRP | 21/05/19 11:32 AM |
| 3 | Someone senior here please expand on this ?Expanding on B: a man aware of his value and attractiveness to women won’t be easily manipulated by any given woman. Remember a woman will want her man to stick with her when she gets old, to get that man to provide as much as possible for her and her offspring. The only way a woman can ensure that is by keeping her hand firmly on the sex tap. If the guy is aware he is high value and can get sex from someone else, her only method of control doesn’t work anymore. And here’s the core of the issue:… | /r/askTRP | 21/05/19 02:28 AM |
| 10 | Postmodern MasculinityIf I can trust my observations of SJWs behaviour online, the tactic of trying to discredit an entire group or event based on a couple anecdotes of what one or two speakers have done in the past is a recipe for spectacular backfiring. The last link for example is not the author’s opinion but a quote from a reader. This is cherry-picking and a bad one at that, and when people realise they’re being (badly) manipulated into an opinion, they’ll stop trusting you and your message. There is enough to d… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/05/19 08:55 PM |
| 4 | "Dying alone" isn't a big deal. Realizing this is the key to abundance even if you aren't getting laid.Sure. As long as you forget the EC tag and remember I'm just a guy with an opinion. It's OK to think I'm in the wrong. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/05/19 10:40 AM |
| 3 | I’m the Runt of my group and I hate itThere are few things that inspires more contempt than a man bitching about a situation when he already knows what's the problem and how to fix it... Appart perhaps a man who has good genetics and money bitching about a situation when he already knows what's the problem and how to fix it. Read this: https://www.forums.red/p/TheRedPill/3509/don_t_talk_to_me_like_a_bitch | /r/askTRP | 20/05/19 06:57 AM |
| 6 | "Dying alone" isn't a big deal. Realizing this is the key to abundance even if you aren't getting laid.There is little evidence about your two assertions (that there is always a silver lining, and that death is all the way on the negative side) but you're free to follow the philosophy you want. About death putting everything in perspective, well that might be deep for a 14 years old but that'll be a lesson that everyone experienced a some point early enough in life with the death of a loved one. If you're interested in the philosophical analysis on the meaning of death to live a good life, get in… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/05/19 06:30 AM |
| 30 | "Dying alone" isn't a big deal. Realizing this is the key to abundance even if you aren't getting laid.Fear is also a normal feature of the human brain, but it does erode over time when you repeatedly succeed in whatever is the endeavour you fear. So pain is inevitable, and fear of pain is normal at first. Courage is defined as taking action despite fearing. And there is where everyone has room to act. Feel that fear, and then say fuck it and go for what you want anyway. That is courage. And the only way to grow. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/05/19 08:03 AM |
| 17 | Here, a 14yo girl explained it to youThanks for providing this great illustration of confirmation bias at play. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/05/19 07:16 AM |
| 6 | All female power is illusory because men freely gave it to them.I still disagree. We are social animals. Women's power over men is more ancient than you think it is. There has been queens and empresses in cultures past, and in all cases these were women who reached heights of power through incredible skills in charming and manipulating men. Going through the Epic of Gilgamesh summary, the earliest recorded work written by men, to make my point, and I don't have to go long to find it: tablet 2: the sun-god send a prostitute to seduce the primitive man Enkidu,… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/05/19 07:14 AM |
| 1 | All female power is illusory because men freely gave it to them.Fair point. Dear readers, consider my comment an introduction to lesson 102 on female power then. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/05/19 07:01 AM |
| 3 | All female power is illusory because men freely gave it to them....but power nonetheless. Napoleon Bonaparte was just a man of small stature with good military strategy ideas. The power he yielded was that of his army, which he had under his commandment only thanks to his charisma and his advanced political abilities. But put him in a jail and where was his power? Cleopatra commanded an entire nation too, and its armies, but more importantly the power of the armies of the Roman emperors she had as entranced lovers. She did it only thanks to her incredible ch… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/05/19 06:59 AM |
| 3 | The Sixteen Commandments Of PoonI read them all. IM was a decent TRP poster. There have been a few. I preferred /u/Archwinger and /u/HumanSockPuppet. But Roissy's Game posts were better than IM, and those 16 commandments were the pinnacle of his writing. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/05/19 06:55 AM |
| 201 | "Dying alone" isn't a big deal. Realizing this is the key to abundance even if you aren't getting laid.You can rationalise all you want, you will always feel shit when you're being rejected. This is how a functional human brain works. It's like feeling pain if you touch fire. It's a built-in, non-optional feature of the human existence, designed eons ago to ensure your ancestor avoids getting himself in a situation where he could end an outcast, which would have signed the death sentence for himself and the genes he was carrying. It's absolutely normal for you to desire to get laid (especially at… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/05/19 06:46 AM |
| 41 | The Why of FeminismThanks for yet another insightful post Whisper. The usual progressive philosophy that culture or social movements exist as entities somehow independent of the individuals acting through it is complete bollocks, leading to incredibly stupid assertions such as “the PatriarchyTM hurts everyone, including men”. Culture and social movements arise as a by-product of individuals acting in their own interest as you asserted in that post. The social movement known as "Feminism" repeatedly arises from a l… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/05/19 11:20 PM |
| 15 | All female power is illusory because men freely gave it to them.I disagree with you and OP somehow. If power is “the ability to change the world to suit your preferences”, then women have it in spades since men are part of the world. Where men need to exert physical effort to change their environment, women can do it through manipulating other agents in that environment. This is very powerful in my book. TRP talks about women’s “soft power”. We talk about “PowerTalk” and we know who are the naturally skilled at it. Your argument joins OP in declaring women b… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/05/19 11:10 PM |
| 3 | When topic of a past relationships rise up, all girls mention to me three different guys - the long relationship guy, the nutjob-but-crazy-sex -guy, and mysterious guy they go to when they are not in the relationship. I want to talk about the last one.I read through all comments without finding the right answer about what makes “mysterious” guy someone a girl obsesses over so I’ll reveal the secret to you. It’s: Sexual Options OP you hint at it yourself. Mysterious guy “didn’t want a relationship right now”. Girls return to him when they’re single, implying that Mysterious guy is somehow always “available”. Why is that? That’s because he has pussy on tap (or looks like he does) and isn’t locked down. Girls are usually the ones being chased. I… | /r/askTRP | 17/05/19 06:41 AM |
| 248 | Here, a 14yo girl explained it to youAin’t it funny that when 15-years-old Greta Thunberg becomes famous for her climate change activism, and 11-years-old Desmond “the amazing” becomes famous for his trans activism, people celebrate uncritically their precocious “free-thinking”, yet the first thing that’ll come to their mind when they come across a 14-years-old far-right activist is how that poor kid got so badly indoctrinated? I’m less concerned about how kids get their political opinions than the danger of people’s confirmation b… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/05/19 03:02 AM |
| 7 | How do I make the best out of a social media following?If I were you, I’d just continue doing normal day/night game but when going for number, go for IG instead saying that’s the only way you communicate nowadays. Let her figure out you have a big following. Don’t say a word about it. If she asked you about it, downplay it like it’s no big deal. Let her use her fertile imagination as to how a guy could get such a following AND not even considering it a big deal. That’ll make her think about you 24/7 until she gets the chance to have a date with you. | /r/askTRP | 14/05/19 03:00 AM |
| 4 | Chateau Heartiste Has Been Shuttered in What Appears to be WordPress' Opening Salvo as They Join the Greater Tech Censorship War.Larger tech companies are no so fucking large and rich that they can control and direct any discussion and trend toward any direction they want. They don't give a fuck what measly stuff they lose on that. So you think that the execs of a large tech company, whose bonuses and jobs continuation are in the hand of a board of shareholders, take decisions according to what they "want" including when what they want may potentially harm the company share price? I maintain that the only reason large tec… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/05/19 06:01 AM |
| 5 | Alyssa Milano Calls For Sex Strike To Oppose Abortion Law... and the solution to that is to reaffirm that women are just machines in which men have to put female-approved behaviour coins to get sex? You’re so drunk on the sweet sweet feeling of outrage that “OMG the handmaid’s tale is about to become real!” that you can’t even take the time to notice how stupidly counter-productive to your own movement that call to action is. Don’t have to believe me, look are mainstream news about it: half of feminists are tweeting to the other half that it’s a stupi… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/05/19 04:33 AM |
| 5 | Alyssa Milano Calls For Sex Strike To Oppose Abortion LawPoliticians put in place a law you don't agree with? - "I'm going to punish my boyfriend. No sex for you! Hey girlfriends, we should all do this." That’s the funniest part really. Ultimately, the only women who may go on a “sex strike” are wives of betas that are already voting liberal and already not getting much action in bed. They are the women who already come up with excuses to not have sex with their partners to not have to admit they’re just not attracted to them. For the women who are pa… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/05/19 10:43 PM |
| 3 | Alyssa Milano Calls For Sex Strike To Oppose Abortion LawTrue that. At the end of the day, feminism is a female movement and thus built on chick logic and tactics. They won’t seek or have the capacity to intimidate, build or destroy. Rather, the tools will be seeking consensus, shaming, back-stabbing, using sex as the main bargain chip, and especially manipulating men into doing their bidding. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/05/19 10:36 PM |
| 7 | Alyssa Milano Calls For Sex Strike To Oppose Abortion LawThanks for enlightening me, you’re actually totally right. One state’s abortion law totally means men “reduce” women to “baby makers” and want to roll back the clock on women’s empowerement, and the best way to fight this is totally for women everywhere to reaffirm they reduce themselves to baby makers and sex workers. Totally logic, and sure to work! | /r/TheRedPill | 12/05/19 07:37 PM |
| 10 | The Sixteen Commandments Of PoonDepends if you value your “dignity” more than everything else you get from her. I wouldn’t let go of amazing love and sex just because I didn’t follow some rules I found on the Internet. But if the sex and love dry up, replaced by drama and headaches, as a consequence of breaking those guidelines for too long, then you know it really is time to jump. If you can keep to rule 16, then you can break all the rest, confident that you’ll know to jump in time to avoid the train wreck. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/05/19 12:20 AM |
| 2 | 25M/22F I found out the girl I'm meeting soon is in a seemingly loving and public relationship. What is going on here?Best case scenario, she’s unhappy with her current partner, finds you a better prospect and so is preparing to swing branch to you. Girls don’t like risks so she’ll only leave her current boyfriend for good when she’s already with you and assured you’ll stay with her. You will know that’s the case it you have sex with her. Worst case scenario, she loves her current partner but could need some more attention, or cash, or social status, and she’ll be milking you for them. You’ll know that if sex i… | /r/askTRP | 11/05/19 11:00 PM |
| 102 | Alyssa Milano Calls For Sex Strike To Oppose Abortion LawThanks Alyssa Milano to remind everybody that, even in 2019 when feminism is mainstream and women have achieved (more than) equality, regulating access to sex is still women’s main agency. She could have called for women to write to their representatives, to organize violent demonstrations, to stop paying their taxes, for doctors and nurses to go on strike.. any action that can be reasonably taken by the people at large, of either sex. But nope, let’s use the tactic that housewives in the 1920s … | /r/TheRedPill | 11/05/19 10:46 PM |
| 249 | The Sixteen Commandments Of PoonIn 5 years of very active exploration of red pill blogs and books, I still haven’t found more insightful material than this. I need to commit to memory. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/05/19 06:39 AM |
| 2 | First ApproachListen to this guy. He’s got it. You’re physically and mentally exhausted because you went in too strong. If you never went to the gym and started doing 100kg squats on your first day, you’d destroy yourself too. “Approaching” does not mean “picking up a girl”, it just means “approaching”. It only means start a convo with someone. You don’t have to give her a compliment, you don’t have to ask for her number, you don’t have to ask to see her again. You see a girl within speaking distance and you … | /r/askTRP | 11/05/19 03:58 AM |
| 37 | Chateau Heartiste Has Been Shuttered in What Appears to be WordPress' Opening Salvo as They Join the Greater Tech Censorship War.The guys behind CH should be smart enough to see that’s not a corporate conspiracy as much as dirty politics. Wordpress, facebooks and others are businesses. They live and die on their bottom line. And subpoenae, boycotts, and accusations of supporting Evil are all bad for business so it’s only normal they want to make sure they and their shareholders can all continue to make $$$ whatever the shifting politics of the time. Now that they’ve seen that the biggest of them all, Facebook, could erase… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/05/19 01:10 AM |
| 29 | Field report from a kid.There’s no such thing as “plating” one girl. The whole concept of “spinning plates”, as the metaphor implies, is building and maintaining several options concurrently. If you stop at one, or stop maintaining at least two at all times, then you’re not spinning plates at all - you’re just seeing a girl. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/05/19 05:48 AM |
| 12 | Hypergamy at its finestJust yet other confirmations of TRP truth, this time the Wall (“I’m not getting anywhere near the male attention I used to have when I was young and without kids”) and solipsism (“why am I not getting an equal amount of attention compared to the best NBA athlete of the past decade?”) | /r/askTRP | 09/05/19 08:34 PM |
| 2 | Why Cant I Keep Anyone?Alpha fucks; beta bucks. Women have a dual sexual strategy. On one side they seek a man for the sexual excitement, the arousal. Instinctively, they crave the seed filled with the genes that arouse women. On the other side, they seek a man for his providing capability and the wilingness to do it. Instinctively, they crave the security that a man will be at their side when they’re at their most fragile (pregnant, then with young child). The two strategies are mostly mutually exclusive. The man who… | /r/askTRP | 09/05/19 05:48 AM |
| 2 | I have Beta'd myself for the absolute last timeBetas are men who willingly fulfill, for a woman, the role of provider (ideally in exchange for sex, aka transactional). It is the wilful providing of support, money or attention, that makes one a beta. So to not be beta is extremely easy: just stop doing it. Stop trying to get sex/love/companionship by willfully providing to them. Being alpha though, is the difficult part. It is a hard and long work to become a Man that is so masculine, so high-value, that you arise genuine sexual arousal in on… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/05/19 12:32 AM |
| 8 | The Economist: No sex please, we’re millennials: "The portion of Americans aged 18 to 29 who claim to have had no sex for 12 months has more than doubled in a decade—to 23% last year."I'm afraid you let your prejudices blur your reading of his comment. There's no "blame" of one sex or the other in it. Just a summary of how new technology and relaxing social norms have resulted in a deregulated sexual market place in which men need to compete more harshly than ever to reach the top and reap the benefits of the new state of affairs | /r/TheRedPill | 08/05/19 07:50 AM |
| 4 | The Extra Chromosome 21 ConventionFair enough on his talking style being a matter of taste. I really like his writing but finds his talking closer to rambling on and on. To me he absolutely needs the writing medium to collect and organize his thoughts. On the second point, we’re not talking about the same thing. I don’t deny his claim to have had a rock star past. I don’t deny his ability to implement his own teaching. I don’t deny he got laid, nor have a loving wife. I’m only talking about his current masculine appearance/style… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/05/19 03:29 AM |
| 25 | Is this what frame is?No that’s not. It’s more general than that. Frame is the “agreed perspective in the interaction”. It doesn’t have to come from you. It doesn’t have to come from anyone. It just is a framework that necessarily arises from human interaction. Two women can meet and start talking and a frame emerges from the conversation, without any BDE around. Frame is not something you “have”, “keep”, “hold” or “lose”. It’s something you “are aware of” or “control”. Having BDE/mojo/charm is something you exude. S… | /r/askTRP | 06/05/19 04:06 AM |
| 11 | The Extra Chromosome 21 ConventionRollo’s blog and books are foundational. And his involvement with Anthony is only the result of his desire to reach and teach men in need of the red pill. I fully believe his stated drive being meeting men at the previous conventions expressing their gratitude to him directly. All of this is very noble on his part. But then there also is the reality that he is a poor performer on video and on Twitter. I just can’t stand his talking about a 30sec concept during a 30min monologue. He’s not the mos… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/05/19 11:52 PM |
| 2 | Why do marriages fail although women SMV declines?Alpha fucks; Beta bucks. Women marry a dependable but unattractive beta when in their epiphany phase, and after years of marriage and that beta side of hypergamy well fulfilled (stability, kids, dependable partner), women start re-prioritising the need for alpha tingles. Rollo called that the "alpha re-interest" phase and is explained in detail in his second book, the whole of which is a much more thorough model of intersexual dynamics than just reading that SMV graph, which is nothing but a com… | /r/askTRP | 02/05/19 06:56 AM |
| 4 | Need advice on LTR’s behaviorSoft nexting is not meant to "correct her behavior". It's meant to stop the LTR in a way that allows you to still fuck her occasionally. This is probably what you should do. You don't need to care too much that a plate is a psycho if you can keep her at arm's length, but to let into your home and in your life someone so inclined to take very bad decisions simply for the rush of adrenaline is just asking for the train to wreck your life and your dreams. Best mode of action moving forward: break u… | /r/askTRP | 30/04/19 07:56 AM |
| 1 | What are some "safe" combat sport suggestions?Head trauma is definitely a concern in boxing, but if you're actually fighting in the ring. You can train for years going no further than light to moderate sparring that will teach you to face your fear while keeping you safe. BJJ is probably safer but because of this I don't think it provides the same rush of fear-based adrenaline as facing someone with an intent to throw their fists at your face. | /r/askTRP | 30/04/19 07:46 AM |
| 10 | Just ignore her for a whileHoly shit, since when TRP has adopted (and massively upvotes) the deep-blue-pill shaming social convention consisting of calling out male seduction under the infamous umbrella expression “playing games”?? Go back to the mgtow subreddit with your thinly-veiled anti-Game rethoric. Over there you won’t be wasting your time reading posts on how to get girls and keep them horny since that’s a topic you have obviously no interest in. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/04/19 04:58 AM |
| 2 | Just ignore her for a whileYou know we call seduction skills “Game” right? | /r/TheRedPill | 16/04/19 04:41 AM |
| 5 | Delayed red-pill rage? helpThey respond well to hyper-masculine, big, tall, intimidating brutes. They response poorly to anything feminine, short, skinny, non-intimidating. They don't like nice, and respond much better to treating them like they are nothing/dirt/trash. Then do your best to become "hyper-masculine, big, tall, intimidating". There are two kind of men on earth. The adaptable ones and the others. Those that rise above the change in conditions, and those that are too set in their way to adjust. Humanity has be… | /r/askTRP | 15/04/19 08:40 PM |
| 8 | How did you kill your betaIf you define “beta” as “any temptation for a suboptimal activity on my path to perfection”, I’m afraid to tell you you’ll never kill “it”. Temptations, idleness, sloth, and the other sins are constant human companions. You never kill them once and for all, you fight them every day forever. Sometimes you win sometimes you lose. Over time you get stronger so that you win more often. But the fight never stops. It’s like progressive overload in lifting: it’s not meant to ever become easy. You’re ov… | /r/askTRP | 15/04/19 05:31 AM |
| 9 | Fucked my ex-crushed, I feel God is pranking meI am very confused about this. All the night she asked me if I'm fucking someone else and I say: sometimes I do. Then she asks me if she knows the girl. And I say: yes. Then it started to get crazy. She didn't stop questioning me about the girl. She's trying to manufacture preselection here - creating her own fap material. As a horny guy trying to pick up a girl, you would imagine her naked, imagine how you're going to fuck her. That's because what excites a man is the physical. Girls get excite… | /r/askTRP | 14/04/19 08:58 PM |
| 6 | FR - a Beta Orbiter swallows a red pillIf this was the red pill, then every man on earth would be on this sub. There is nothing more common than betas getting rejected in one way or another. This taught him nothing. He will rationalise it as her “not being the right One” and go back to getting a beta orbiter to another girl. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/04/19 07:21 PM |
| 29 | How Talulah manipulated Elon Musk (example of how some women will manipulate socially clueless men)"To take the red pill" means "to become aware of the truth that was deliberately hidden to you". Doesn't apply at all to the situation here. She isn't "red pill", she didn't "redpill him", and he has not "been redpilled" because none of them have somehow "become aware of a hidden truth". What you want to say is what OP said in the most appropriate way: He was (still is) clueless, and she was (probably still is) manipulative. Such massive misuse of the most basic concepts will hinder your underst… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/04/19 07:18 AM |
| 76 | The Thing You Really WantGood post but it needs a caveat for spergs who are going to use this post as a justification to avoid approaching women that don't show desire from the get go... Yes, men have a core want for female desire. Yes it’s natural, and no you shouldn’t settle for less. Keeping chasing a girl who doesn’t desire you, or trying to maintain a relationship with a girl who doesn’t desire you will make you miserable.. BUT it’s important to remember that, while a man knows in 0.3 seconds upon seeing a girl whe… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/04/19 08:55 PM |
| 18 | Day game works--get out there and approachAnd even if all those girls flake, you still get the benefit of the experience. That is, the day you find yourself at a house party and notice a pretty girl (aka, a “natural” environment), then you’re 1000% better prepared to pick her up thanks to your previous efforts in the field having desensitised you to rejection, helped you calibrated your delivery, and overall taught you Game that works vs Game that doesn’t. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/04/19 03:51 AM |
| 22 | Day game works--get out there and approachThere are better ressources than TRP on how to run day game, and better teachers than beginners like OP. In my opinion, if you’re so interested, the best thing you can do is go back to the same resources that OP used and conveniently linked to. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/04/19 03:47 AM |
| 1 | 30% of men aren’t having sex: Wat Do?Interesting, thanks for bringing that up. However it’s only dropped 3 points from 66%. Is that significant? Also that’s not limited to the male and under-30 categories, so it’d be useful to refine that stat. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/04/19 09:26 AM |
| 5 | Do 'happily married' women still think about their AF partners?Yes to the first question and likely no to the second. The very definition of AF is “the one she’s sexually attracted to”. And the very reason for the existence of the BB strategy is that AF is so sexually attractive that he’s sexually attractive to a lot of other women so that makes him a poor choice for commitment. A BB on the other hand will be more committed if he’s not too successful with women. He’s more likely to be and stay in love with her, he’s more likely to let her push boundaries a … | /r/askTRP | 07/04/19 12:27 AM |
| 1 | Should I cuck this guy?There's a thing that gets tabooed in this community: the understanding that the ultimate alpha state is one of morality. Don't take part consciously in something that will hurt another person if you don't need to. Lol what? | /r/askTRP | 06/04/19 10:04 PM |
| 13 | Gender Pay Gap for DummiesHere's an example of the UK-required reports, for Ryan Air in 2018: https://gender-pay-gap.service.gov.uk/Employer/rrAcOspy/2018 Notoriously a "bad performer" with a "wage gap" of 62% (gasp!). Let's check at those gender proportions per pay quarters: Proportion of men in the upper middle quarter: 81%. In the top quarter: 99.6%! A 10-years old would understand what's going on here: The reason Ryan Air has such a large “wage gap” is because very well paid jobs in Ryan Air are mostly all men and th… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/04/19 09:04 PM |
| 13 | Update on girl, turns out she changed her mind and wants me... not sure how to handle.You’re thinking this in terms of hunting for a LTR when you’re not even fucking her yet. It’s the wrong approach to it. A girl only deserves your even considering her for the position of sexually-exclusive girlfriend after (1) you’ve fucked her for a while (to verify you’re sexually compatible), (2) she makes non-sexual efforts as an attempt to gain your exclusivity (for you to verify she considers your long-term investment highly valuable), and (3) she has zero or negligible red flags (for you … | /r/askTRP | 06/04/19 08:25 AM |
| 21 | 30% of men aren’t having sex: Wat Do?I didn’t say mean to say it’s likely to happen, I said meant to say your average beta may think it may happen and that fear would only make approaching even more difficult. Same with women fearing being raped. It’s not more likely to happen than ever before, but you can be sure women are more likely to have that risk on their mind these days given how often it’s on mainstream and social media, and how much it’s misrepresented (the infamous “1 in 4” myth) | /r/TheRedPill | 05/04/19 04:25 AM |
| 65 | 30% of men aren’t having sex: Wat Do?I’m afraid you need to review your analysis Rian. Unemployment rate shot up to a max in 2010 after the crisis and then strongly and steadily decreased to now reach an almost all-time low. These incels do have jobs so lack of job/money is not why they’re incels. You could instead claim that’s because hypergamy is increasingly unleashed though female empowerment, removal of shaming female sexuality, and easy online hook ups so that women don’t need to blow betas to get a living: they can all bang … | /r/TheRedPill | 05/04/19 03:36 AM |
| 13 | Sexual Selection and Existential FearWhether the quarterback got a SMV hit or boost is completely besides the point. The point is that it’s yet another propaganda nail in the coffin of men’s freedom of control over their own sexual preferences. One small propaganda nail after another, and in a few decades, you’ll risk jail for refusing a marriage proposition from a fat woman, a trans or a gay man, because doing so may be considered a hate crime by then. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/04/19 11:17 PM |
| 2 | That study that said men under 30 aren’t having sex what’s your take?I think Milo was dead on in his insight that an increasing number of young men want nothing to do with women mostly thanks to feminists, that this recent study confirms his insight from back then, and that it’s surprising that nobody has brought it up yet. More importantly, if Milo was right, then it’s only going to get worse. | /r/askTRP | 02/04/19 04:18 AM |
| 2 | That study that said men under 30 aren’t having sex what’s your take?That my take on OP’s post is the thesis of Milo’s 3-parts article. Are you asking that I summarise it for you? | /r/askTRP | 02/04/19 03:38 AM |
| 5 | The #1 problem most men don’t even realize they have is that they treat and talk to women as if they cognitively function the same as a man.Men have been wanting to get some pussy since before we could be classified as homo sapiens. Before tinder, there was porn, and before porn there was prostitution. Arguably, God was invented to control the masses of horny men (why do you think Islam covers up their women?). So it's nothing new and yes it's the one "emotion" that rules us. But besides this, we're not the gender who is "in touch with their feelings", who wants to rule by consensus so nobody gets offended, who hurt others by making… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/03/19 07:54 PM |
| 7 | The #1 problem most men don’t even realize they have is that they treat and talk to women as if they cognitively function the same as a man.His examples are not the best illustration of the idea that men think more logically and women more emotionally. But although this observation is not universal, that’s still true enough on average to lead some people to write this skit and for you and everybody else to understand and laugh because you can relate to it so much. Because yeah, women do get upset at our “trying to fix this” which is the consequence of one thinking rationally rather than emotionally. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/03/19 06:50 PM |
| 9 | The #1 problem most men don’t even realize they have is that they treat and talk to women as if they cognitively function the same as a man.That’s the hardest for me, to stop trying to fix it, and just stay there and listen instead. But hey that’s what they want. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/03/19 06:43 PM |
| 3 | LTR of 4yrs who had a dozen green flags left me for a guy at her work and I am unsure of how to feel.Oh I can definitely understands the shock at first. But if after it passes, you find yourself at peace because you know why and how it would happen, then it means you’ve got it. Congrats on your renews freedom man, new pussies await you. | /r/askTRP | 31/03/19 12:53 AM |
| 2 | That study that said men under 30 aren’t having sex what’s your take?It’s the sexodus. | /r/askTRP | 30/03/19 10:17 PM |
| 5 | What else do I need for an alpha male mindset?You need to lift heavy until you get the confidence of your own great strength. You need to fight until you get the confidence of your capability to take conflict head on. You need to fuck until you get the confidence of your high sexual value. You need to get shit done until you get the confidence of being an achiever. You don’t need it all but these paths through action will sure beat any masturbatory “practice” you may do. | /r/askTRP | 30/03/19 10:13 PM |
| 100 | LTR of 4yrs who had a dozen green flags left me for a guy at her work and I am unsure of how to feel.You can’t explain it? TRP is basically explaining this 24/7. So once again: men and women are different, their sexual strategies are different. Women are wired to feel desire for the highest SMV guy in the room, no matter your history with her, no matter what you did for her, no matter how she was feeling yesterday. You know it in theory but you haven’t integrated it, or you forgot it. What happened is that this relationship bliss made you lower your guard and revert to the lazy blue pill thinki… | /r/askTRP | 30/03/19 11:46 AM |
| 7 | The Red Pill is about having control over your own life.You’re totally right of course. The red pill, like its older brother PUA, is (was?) a community of guys who don’t know anything about women getting together to learn about how to get women. And the core conclusion, as in the words of Pook was “more masculinity”. Now masculinity is a lot of things but an obvious one is physical strength, hence “lift”. So the number one step you give to guys who are completely clueless is to lift and read the sidebar to see what else they can do to develop their m… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/03/19 11:25 PM |
| 7 | I used to drug women and rob them years ago. Society's Hatred Test.It’s different though. Women care for an alpha but constantly test his alpha status, and men avoid challenging an alpha because of the risks involved. High value men may get passes because their power is so great that they would be bad consequences to anyone challenging them, or because they can pay for that service. There may be men being praised by higher power as a form of propaganda to the rest of the population. You can imagine a warrior being so evidently useful that he is being cared for … | /r/TheRedPill | 28/03/19 10:15 PM |
| 10 | Glassdoor Average Base Pay for Webcam Models: $47,499/yearThat's a very interesting side-gig idea right here.. I mean is that really a scam? After all it's not like you don't deliver on your promise - you provide the exact same service as a woman would. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/03/19 07:55 PM |
| 24 | I used to drug women and rob them years ago. Society's Hatred Test.I would agree to some extent here. No matter how pervasive feminist ideology gets, it will never erase the natural dynamics between men and women. The baby-making machines are to be protected at all costs, while the dick-carrying machines are extremely disposable. So the same crime will always feel more repulsive when the victim is a woman compared to a man, just like a same crime feels more repulsive the younger the victim. Desiring the end of that double-standard is just being upset at reality… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/03/19 07:51 PM |
| 7 | So she finally cheated [LTR]As usual, watch what she does not what she says. Girls can be professional liars so don’t give any weight to her apologies or tears, but if you feel like giving her a chance, just accept them for now and watch her actions afterwards to see if she does regret and repent. If she genuinely does not want to lose you, she will change her behaviour right away. She will actually be looking to prove it to you. But if she doesn’t really care if you break up with her or if she doesn’t believe that you wou… | /r/askTRP | 28/03/19 08:29 AM |
| 44 | NASA is unable to launch the all women spacewalk due to many technical constraints, and the only thing that matters to society is that women were barred.Whatever might be the mission, the only thing really important to women, feminists and their male pedestal worshippers these days are themselves and their egos, and inclusion. I'm not sure if what they care for is "inclusion" as much as the feeling of victimhood. Every feminist issue basically boils down to their being oppressed by men. The "wage gap" is not an issue of different choice by different genders, it's male oppression. The "pink tax" is not a matter of different demographics ready to … | /r/TheRedPill | 28/03/19 07:39 AM |
| 133 | So she finally cheated [LTR]Doesn’t seem to me that he knows what went wrong. In fact he explicitly says he doesn’t know what went wrong since he says: I never thought this could happen. [...] This isn't even hypergamous. Shane is below me in SMV. Idk what she saw in him. What went wrong is that OP’s girl showed she didn’t respect him at all by doubling down on her bad behaviour after he made it clear it was not ok with him, and that instead of dropping her as anyone with abundance mentality would have done, he decided to … | /r/askTRP | 27/03/19 09:17 PM |
| 4 | Fashion guide for new red pillers (Part 1)The problem with that sort of guide is that they're made by people who have been doing up their wardrobe for so long that they don't remember what it feels like to start from zero. And so you end up with guides that start by choosing a watch... My tips would go like this: Get in shape is most important yes... but upgrade your wardrobe right now anyway. If you're fat, lose it. If you're skinny, get fit. If you're fit, keep going. Body shape is way more important than what you wear. Super fit guys… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/19 07:36 PM |
| 9 | Stoic Meditations And The Internalization Of A Masculine FrameNot really. Originally, frame was borrowed from NLP and brought into Game by PUA. Probably by Ross Jeffries. Frame roughly meant the "context of an interaction" and you were meant to "(1) be aware of it and (2) control it but (3) resist giving the impression you are". So if you're talking with a girl and she makes a comment about how you're a great guy for always being there for your friends, you'd need to (1) be aware this innocuous comment could be interpreted as either you being a doormat in … | /r/TheRedPill | 24/03/19 07:44 PM |
| 3 | Why do you think the red pill emphasizes going to the gym more than getting your finances in check?Yeah curious, it’s almost as if TRP was about sexual strategy, not financial strategy.. | /r/askTRP | 23/03/19 08:25 PM |
| 3 | How do I make the first move without being creepy when a girl invites me to her home?OP this is all you need to know about “how to make a move”. The solution is “you don’t make a move. You make lots of moves, starting from the most innocent one then bolder and bolder all the way to sex”. | /r/askTRP | 22/03/19 08:50 AM |
| 13 | Girlfriend is not happy with our one sided open relationshipI also think that’s the best solution here. Worse than the silly concept of LDR, the big issue for OP would be that accepting a LDR now after so much time being clear it was a hard boundary for him will be a loss of frame and thus loss of control over the relationship. If he were to go for this, he might really notice she looks at him differently than before. She might test more boundaries now that she knows they’re actually softer than she thought. The alternative, keeping course until December… | /r/askTRP | 22/03/19 06:00 AM |
| 3 | The Existential Fear – MenBrilliant piece Rollo. By exploring a bit more than usual the male sexual strategy, and seeing how this strategy compares with, and interacts with the female one you’ve written about at length, you summarise in one post the very fundamentals of sexual realism. Red pill 101 post right there. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/03/19 05:19 AM |
| 4 | The Existential Fear – MenExcept that a woman’s existential fear is about pairing up with someone and doubting that it’s the best you can pair with. As a high SMV man adopting a r-strategy, you should not care much about pairing up, but instead care about increasing the diversity/quality of your partners, as in “I wish I could add a HB8 to my roster of spinning plates”. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/03/19 05:16 AM |
| 1 | Case in point: generating those tingles is an indirect effect of taking care of businessYou guys really are dense not to understand that my criticism was not at him “cleaning the house” but at him “believing that his wife was genuinely filled with desire due to him cleaning the house”. Of course I clean my house, of course I share the house duties with my partner, but I don’t go believing in that uber blue pill delusion that “sharing the load” makes me sexy in her eyes. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/03/19 01:20 AM |
| 1 | aside from the main trp sub and the sidebar what are some other sources of good rp material?Oh ok you should have said that before. In that case I recommend the rational male books, Green’s the 48 laws of power, Deida’s the way of the superior man, and Donovan’s the way of men. | /r/askTRP | 20/03/19 05:23 AM |
| 2 | aside from the main trp sub and the sidebar what are some other sources of good rp material?You and everyone else should absolutely start by reading the rational male books. Even before the sidebar, a good portion of which is actually links to the rational male blogs. Then it’s kinda up to you but I reckon Green’s the 48 laws of power, Deida’s the way of the superior man, Donovan’s the way of men, and Roosh’s bang and day bang should be mandatory. There are blogs and twitter accounts and YouTube channels but like this sub, they are bottomless and so end up sucking up your time with no … | /r/askTRP | 20/03/19 01:50 AM |
| 4 | Get Out of Your Head!Boring conversation is boring. Interesting conversation is interesting. The only difference between the "charming extrovert with great people skills" and the "annoying nerd" are people skills. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/03/19 07:56 PM |
| 104 | How not caring got me a one night stand with a hb8Two adults met by chance and decided they were attracted to each other. End of story. And that’s the power of good game: when it’s so smooth that even men don’t see it (or refuse to see it for what it is). You missed the indirect opener, the outcome independence, the actual negging (re-read the parts about him being “dismissive”, or “teasing” them), the push/pull, the frame control, the kino escalation, the bouncing, the leading the group, the passing of shit tests, the isolation... This field r… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/03/19 03:19 AM |
| 2 | Apology to UCD students as 'consent app' proposal sparks uproar. "It's clear that the developer of the app's primary concern is not the safety of women nor is it to ensure that all sexual encounters are consensual."I’ll let you google it. It’s happened in a couple places | /r/TheRedPill | 19/03/19 12:07 AM |
| 1 | Case in point: generating those tingles is an indirect effect of taking care of businessYou’re not arguing in good faith. The comment was obviously not about how he cleans the house because he likes his house clean. We obviously all do. His comment was specifically saying how he got his eyes open by his wife becoming more sexual with him after he did house chores without being told to, and relate this experience to the original post that said how someone’s wife became more sexual after him being violently assertive over some other man. It’s seriously the sort of comment I would exp… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/03/19 12:05 AM |
| 62 | Apology to UCD students as 'consent app' proposal sparks uproar. "It's clear that the developer of the app's primary concern is not the safety of women nor is it to ensure that all sexual encounters are consensual."Nice. This sort of news, like feminists shutting down sex robot brothels for example, give the lie to the feminist narrative and reveal the concealed power grab. These are the potential splinters in the minds of men stumbling on it: “Wait a minute. Why would there be an outcry over something designed to protect women from rape, as is sorely needed?” | /r/TheRedPill | 18/03/19 10:02 PM |
| 1 | Case in point: generating those tingles is an indirect effect of taking care of businessAnd you have nothing as a retort but that? Come on tell me where I am wrong with redpill theory! I’m subbed to MRP. It’s usually brilliant quality. I haven’t come in a while and when I do come back, I see an awesome post, with a glaring red pill theory mistake in comments that is largely upvoted, so I point it out as I do on TRP (admittedly rudely), and get downvoted instead of generating a discussion of where I am wrong. I know you guys are better than that. I’ll just assume this was a one-off … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/03/19 05:56 PM |
| 3 | Does Red pill knowledge feel like a cheatcode to you?Not a cheat code, more like the user manual that you didn’t know existed. It’s like you’ve had a lawnmower that run terribly all your life, sputters and stall, and you don’t know why because you’re operating it “the right way”, and then one day you find the user manual and you realise you had it wrong the whole time, and now that you operate it correctly it runs smooth as it should. | /r/askTRP | 16/03/19 06:02 AM |
| 0 | Case in point: generating those tingles is an indirect effect of taking care of businessOP’s post was pretty clear: women get the hots for a man who is assertive over other men. How on earth someone could read this and think that his situation where he cleaned the house “without being told to” is a similar illustration of a same principle? Anyone who is honest with himself here: what is the most likely redpill explanation for /u/BobbyPeru’s wife’s sudden sexual desire in that scenario? Is doing things around the house without being told to a display of alpha fucks traits or beta bu… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/03/19 10:27 PM |
| 17 | The Male Epiphany PhaseMale sexual strategy is really underdiscussed on the manosphere compared to female one, so it’s a welcomed article. What he describes is most definitely a thing. Explains how all PUAs end up dropping, or that all TRP ECs end up disappearing. Roosh is currently experiencing this effect in quite an extreme manner - listening to his podcasts feel like tuning in to tradcon radio. I wish Karl would have discussed the cause a bit more though. The trigger is definitely some form of disillusionment with… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/03/19 11:26 PM |
| 0 | Case in point: generating those tingles is an indirect effect of taking care of businessGive her my congratulations for successfully conditioning you to do things around the house without having to be told. I bet you got your eyes really open about doing more house cleaning! Pavlov would be proud. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/03/19 07:19 PM |
| 13 | Salty LemonadeStart lifting and never stop. Join a boxing gym or other fighting. Get summer jobs in sales. Cold approach everywhere. Find hobbies/activities you enjoy and get into it until you're really good at them... except video games. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/03/19 08:16 AM |
| 14 | Salty LemonadeTRP knowledge is only supported by two things: the commonality of our experiences, and the results of our work. You read again and again on TRP how your experience with women isn’t special, how it seems actually so common. You read how people have applied TRP advice to great benefit, you do it to, and you observe the same benefit. Evo psych provides a scientific framework that gives sense to TRP but TRP doesn’t rely on it. If tomorrow I apply a novel TRP idea that makes every hot girl in a 10m r… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/03/19 03:34 AM |
| 16 | You Can’t Get Top Tier Women if You’re Not Working on Becoming a Superior ManAh I see that the new issue of the bi-weekly IGNORE BITCHES TRP IS ABOUT SELF-IMPROVEMENT!!1! has just arrived. Let me get a cup of coffee and I’ll be right back | /r/TheRedPill | 14/03/19 01:51 AM |
| 4 | Showing less interest is the KEY to crushing it with womenWhat I described is basically the original PUA material of the Mystery Method. It really is worth the read, autistically dissecting what to do and when, but most importantly why it works based on analysing women's behaviour. You can really see why it paved the way for the Red Pill. Now it's old stuff and really is for nerds so I wouldn't advise actually following that method. Rather, for a more mature (read TRP-aware) approach to game, read Roosh's books and the Chateau Heartiste blog: https://w… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/19 07:26 PM |
| 4 | Showing less interest is the KEY to crushing it with womenIn the old PUA stuff, interest is a dynamic thing. The amount you receive and the amount you show keeps changing. If you show too much interest for too long, she'll lose attraction. If you show not enough for too long, she won't be entertained and get bored. Mystery Method, although autistic as fuck, really clearly showed why it's a "game". You show no interest in her at first, and instead DHV until you get some interest from her, then you reward her with a bit of interest of yours. And from the… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/19 07:16 PM |
| 7 | Showing less interest is the KEY to crushing it with womenI agree and this is exactly why I love Neil Strauss's book "The Game" and I think its literary quality is underrated. He quite clearly wrote it with that angle: to show that a bunch of complete nerds decided to get together to dissect and analyse seduction just as they would have done for a computers or Dungeons & Dragons... and got laid beyond anyone's wildest dream... but they're still complete nerds inside. The opening with Mystery getting completely wrecked, dramatic, and suicidal after his … | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/19 07:07 PM |
| 8 | Leo’s shags : SMV for men vs women with age and fameI don't think Leo has this on his mind. I would guess he's not sexually exclusive anyway, so it's probably not boredom either. I would venture that he lets go of his main girl before she starts getting the idea of having kids. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/19 06:51 PM |
| 7 | Leo’s shags : SMV for men vs women with age and fameHe did get roasted when this was originally posted to the dataisbeautiful sub. Scroll down to the comments discussing how and why it's "creepy", it's quite entertaining. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/19 06:43 PM |
| 27 | Showing less interest is the KEY to crushing it with womenCommonalities? Agreements? For fuck's sake man that is really bad advice you've learned. The only thing that makes a woman attracted to you is that you are high value, and particularly higher value than her. You demonstrate your high value (DHV) by being interesting, funny, cocky, mysterious, sociable, etc., and you demonstrate you're higher value than her (Neg) with teases, backhanded compliments, asshole flirting, etc. The later pullbacks are just more demonstrations that you're higher value t… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/19 09:52 AM |
| 207 | Showing less interest is the KEY to crushing it with womeni.e show "intent" / interest off the bat (like in many RSD videos), give compliments here and there, kissing at the club, pushing through rejections etc. I found that over time I actually wasn't get any results despite going out consistently for years. For the longest time I thought it was normal and my game just needed "work", when in reality the problem was that I gave women too much certainty and my interest actually turned them off. I really must have jumped off the PUA train before the wrec… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/19 09:44 AM |
| 3 | Is there nothing we can do?There’s nothing you can do to prevent the decline apart from acting at your insignificantly small level, which would come at great personal risk, and for a 0% chance of being successful. It’s like you’re a small employee of Lehman Brothers in 2007 who understood the scale of the crisis ahead. If you’re invested in the company as it is and can’t picture your place in a different job, you would try desperately to inform your hierarchy and they will laugh at you at first and then may fire you if yo… | /r/askTRP | 13/03/19 01:48 AM |
| 4 | Why is being taken care of and provided for not seen as a privilege?Your pointing out the logic flaws in feminism theory is exactly the same as you pointing out the logic flaws in your wife’s arguing that, against all proofs to the contrary, you “haven’t done anything for her lately”. Feminism is female nagging at the societal level. It’s not based on logic but on emotions. It’s not meant to be fixed, it’s not meant to be debated, and it’s especially not meant to be rationally analysed. All things that unfortunately men are naturally prone to do when facing a pr… | /r/askTRP | 11/03/19 01:57 AM |
| 26 | Do women seriously just travel for dick? I've noticed whenever I'm backpacking, the women I'm around act more horny...What he told you so eloquently is that women do not travel for sex as you hypothesised from your observation and still seem to imply with your answer, but that travel creates the conditions for them to fully express their sexuality. Surely there are a lot of girls whose desire to travel also include the possibility for sexual encounters, but that doesn't mean they all do. Most girls probably don't even have it on their mind when they plan their travel. They go for the views, the culture, the adv… | /r/askTRP | 10/03/19 10:32 AM |
| 36 | Thirty Years with the RedpillVery interesting to have the perspective of someone who was born outside the matrix and was never plugged in. Can you let me know your age, whether you’re currently in a sexually exclusive relationship or not, whether you plan to get in one to sire sons in the context of a marriage or if you have an alternative plan? How did your dad do it? How did he have a son and raised it while pursuing pussy variety at the same time? | /r/TheRedPill | 10/03/19 04:43 AM |
| 26 | Former camwhore confirms TRPBy providing a service in return for money, cam-whoring qualifies as work. Remember prostitution is the “oldest job in the world”. The really interesting discussion that nobody is having is why that job used to be the most shameful thing in the world, and why it’s not anymore. It was utterly shamed because it is the ultimate expression of cuckoldry. Men are warry of promiscuous women because of our deep fear of raising a kid that’s not ours. Through all cultures this made things like faithfulnes… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/03/19 09:30 PM |
| 10 | Post mortem of a LTR with high-value woman, 10 lessons learned.Lesson 0: Do NOT stupidly agree to sexual exclusivity with a girl you’ve just met, fucked once, and at a moment when you’re often away for travels. How retarded is that? | /r/TheRedPill | 09/03/19 11:16 AM |
| 6 | If Not Men, Then What? - "the biggest con in human history was convincing women that working, commuting, and paying taxes was fun."I agree. Sure, the "top 1%" benefits from women getting massively into the workforce, but the argument of "them" somehow "manipulating" women into work seems to me very far fetched compared to the simple idea that society became comfortable and safe enough for women to get into education and then the workforce on their own volition, just so they can have more freedom, especially if encouraged by many mothers, aunties and grandmas telling her they wished they had had the possibility to leave thei… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/03/19 12:02 AM |
| 7 | Is it just me or does the friendzone not actually exist?You are overthinking a semantics question. What you described in your own words is the extremely common situation that is most commonly called “being in the friendzone”. Debating whether the terms “friend” or “zone” are appropriate is at best a complete waste of time, and at worst a smokescreen to turn people’s attention away from the very real problem that is that too many guys still stick themselves in that emotionally and socially damaging form of intersexual dynamics (whatever the fuck you w… | /r/askTRP | 07/03/19 09:39 PM |
| 3 | All this shit just feels pointlessYou may be ready for a LTR. You may be able to find one who adds to your life (can cook, clean, decorate, is good at it, loves it, and wants to be a “first mate” to the ship you command) so that it frees up your time and mind from the mundane so you can pour it in your missions. And then at the 2-years mark you can update to a younger model if you feel like it (or start navigating in the dangerously waters towards mariage if having kids is part of your mission). | /r/TheRedPill | 06/03/19 10:21 PM |
| 3 | Mindblown: My girlfriend just confirmed TRP to me.Essentially she tries to betafiy you, not because she wants a beta but because she wants the comfort and security of a beta. But that is exactly what a beta is! A man who dependably provides comfort and security. So they do want a beta. The problem is that they also want AF but that AF and BB are incompatible. They are attracted to high-value, exciting men and when they have it, the AF side of their strategy being fulfilled, they keep pressing to fulfill the BB side. When that happens, either yo… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/03/19 09:33 PM |
| 1 | How to beat depression?You're not depressed, you're aimless. Join the army. Alternatively, join a BJJ, MMA, boxing, or Muay Thai gym. | /r/askTRP | 06/03/19 06:35 AM |
| 23 | Discussion: Do you want children? What is the best way to have children?Excellent point. I had been thinking that the modern world is unleashing hypergamy in its natural state, but this is a very valid perspective that humans’ natural social environment actually puts a natural leash into hypergamy. In a way it’s then similar to the crisis of obesity: humans crave for fat and sugar but in a natural environment that has little of it, it’s ok. The fact that this modern world unnaturally provides cheap fat and sugar in large amounts doesn’t imply that obesity is the nat… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/03/19 02:58 AM |
| 14 | Google Moves to Address Wage Equity, and Finds It’s Underpaying Many Men (NY Times)Reminds me of attending a presentation by a feminist scientist once. The problem was that in the context of grading submitted research proposals for potential funding, it had been observed that proposals led by men were better graded. It was decided to anonymise the research proposals submitted to the panel to get rid of the awful discrimination. Unfortunately, the results did not change... Men-led proposals were still judged better on average. The scientist was absolutely puzzled at this and wa… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/03/19 08:07 AM |
| 125 | My LTR has a fuckload of beta orbiters.You're an idiot if you really believe that she doesn't know what's up. You have failed to establish a proper frame on the onset of your relationship. If you have read and remember The Guide, you know you would ideally get into a LTR only after a time spinning plates and only with a girl who has proven her dedication to you consistently to upgrade from plate, to friend with benefit, to significant other. Such dedication for you is an expression of her respect for you, which would includes NOT act… | /r/askTRP | 05/03/19 07:02 AM |
| 43 | OP's Virgin Princess of 4 years Gives Virginity to Chad Thundercock in 3 DaysOP's woe is the direct consequence of agreeing to a LTR without getting sex. His looks don't matter, he proved to her then and there that he was dependable and easy to manipulate, aka the perfect beta provider. But of course the beta provider isn't sexually attractive, and you can't get a girl to ignore the sweet desire for alpha fuck, especially when she's at her SMV peak, aka when she does get noticed by every man out there, including the top alpha. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/03/19 05:46 AM |
| 16 | Women are from Venus. Episode 1: Crying at WorkThat kind of observation is the “splinter in the mind”. The red pill is when you’re told that this puzzling behaviour makes perfect sense from an evolutionary psychology perspective: when facing a threatening strange man, the ancestral man would have no choice but to “fight or flight”, while the ancestral woman have a third (and better) option: to cry in order to soften the male’s anger, which works through appealing to his natural and unconscious protective instinct. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/03/19 06:06 AM |
| 22 | Women are from Venus. Episode 1: Crying at WorkOP didn’t mean it as an unconscious process. As OP says even women themselves can be puzzled at their own reaction. It’s part of their “fight or flight” response. It exists because it unconsciously appeals to men’s unconscious need for protecting women | /r/TheRedPill | 04/03/19 05:44 AM |
| 5 | I tried faking high value, at the end I hit it hard. I just realized itThink of it like the gym. You won't get fit on the day you step in the gym for the first time. You put in the work in the gym and your physical value builds over time. If you haven't been approaching girls, talking to them, physically escalated, banged them, you're just like someone who never stepped in a gym. You can't expect that it'll be natural the first time. You're building value, not faking it. You've just been neglecting some crucial muscles to train. | /r/askTRP | 03/03/19 08:52 AM |
| 104 | International Feminists Go Nuts About 12 Step Guide to Being A Beautiful WomanThe real fun is when you remember that women in droves buy magazines that give them more or less the same tips. Diets, workouts, fashion tips, sex advices, etc, form the core of the content of all popular women’s magazines. But let a guy say it too without sugarcoating it and all hell breaks loose. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/03/19 04:11 AM |
| 11 | Female Corruption EventsNo fault is on the list of CH's four sirens. Not sure why he didn't refer to those in that post. https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2016/03/17/the-four-sirens-of-the-sexual-apocalypse/ | /r/TheRedPill | 01/03/19 09:42 PM |
| 92 | Beachbloke's notes on what girls want from alphasI’ve often commented on TRP about the importance of this factor, which I usually term “local status”, which GLO mention as “situational alpha”, which Jordan Peterson hints at when he talks about “social hierarchy”, etc. Going to a yoga class might not help you get laid, but being the yoga instructor very well may. Going to a party might not help you get laid, but being the host very well may. Playing the guitar might not help you get laid, but being the lead singer in a band performing at a venu… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/02/19 10:21 PM |
| 3 | FR: First Date After TRPI figured, this is going amazingly well, TRP might just be magic. As you mature in your TRP understanding, you'll realise that there's no magic, that TRP really is just basic social acumen, that what's strange is that there's so many guys out there that lack a skill that is both so evident and essential, that the craziest is that there was a time you lacked it too, as if you had failed to notice the sun in the sky since you were born. Because really, looking at OP's post from a TRP-aware perspec… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/02/19 09:23 PM |
| 1 | Is Misogyny Ever Justified?“Misogyny” and “justified” are two of these magic words whose definition shifts constantly to the whims of its users. Do you mean “Can one be absolved of any criticism in his overt and public hate of all women?” or do you mean “Can someone have reasons to point out something about women that women rather be not pointed out?” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/19 04:10 AM |
| 48 | Exposing How Women Manipulate MenAs women grow up, they gradually learn about your protective instinct for them. The most "successful" women (economically, socially, and politically) are the ones who develop ways of exploiting the male instinct to their advantage. This has always been women’s power. “Soft” power. You can still read it in classic novels or see it in older movies. In the old James Bond movies, some Bond girls or the female villains achieve great ends through charming and manipulating men. These were entertainment… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/02/19 10:15 PM |
| 10 | A woman's personality matters just as much as her looks. Strong/alpha personality women get the better men.Dude you are projecting hard. Guys take 0.5 seconds to decide if they'd fuck that girl they see in the distance. I can't remember a single instance in my life where a girl I have quickly judged I wouldn't fuck later won me over with her personality, but I can remember plenty of times where a girl I have quickly judged is hot demonstrated really bad personality.. and yet I'd still fuck her if I could. I know it's mad. I've been smitten by girls so incredibly shy they wouldn't look anyone in t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/19 08:03 PM |
| 14 | Lessons from high school: the female instinct is present since birth, not acquired.I got my first kiss age 12, at summer camp. Fate had helped my inexperienced ass by organising logistics for me and putting my oneitis at the time in my group and spreading the rumour that I fancied her. I was on cloud nine... for about 24 hours. The next day she had left the group to join the one with Chad junior in it. Chad junior was much more tall and mature than everyone else, at least 13 or 14 years old and getting the onset of puberty, and he could whistle with his fingers! I went looking… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/19 02:46 AM |
| 2 | I finally dropped a girl that I liked and it feels so fucking good.Sure | /r/askTRP | 22/02/19 12:16 AM |
| -1 | I finally dropped a girl that I liked and it feels so fucking good.This. A better answer to her “we’ll meet another day” would have been “Sure” and then let it at that. | /r/askTRP | 21/02/19 09:29 PM |
| 9 | I finally dropped a girl that I liked and it feels so fucking good.I would swear that women live on water, food and men’s attention. It really is like something they need to stay alive. They learn early how to get it and some girls turn it into an art form. They farm men’s attention through applying detailed bait, catch and release strategies such as the one OP fell for: a push-pull to pump up OP’s oneitis. This way, they line up beta orbiters who patiently wait for their turn to get off the bench and go to bat. This way they increase their facebook likes and i… | /r/askTRP | 21/02/19 09:24 PM |
| 8 | I finally dropped a girl that I liked and it feels so fucking good.Another thing I factor in before hard-nexting is the degree of effort/waste involved. Aka, if what I’ve invested is just a few minutes texting and I have other stuff to do when a date is canceled last minute (such as seeing another girl), I don’t mind letting the disrespect roll off my back this time. If I’ve invested emotionally and because of this I’ve cancelled things I really wanted to do for a date that is now off, then it’s a major waste of resources for me, which I won’t risk seeing happe… | /r/askTRP | 21/02/19 09:15 PM |
| 3 | Woman: The Most Responsible Teenager In The House | The child refers to his parents' things as “ours” while those he purchased are “his.” Even my own parents, my father worked his whole life to pay bills, when the kids were gone, my mom took up working - money she earned was “her money.”Damn that article is good. It was the biggest eye opener in my life the first time I read it, and every time I read it again as I grow in my red pill understanding its status in my mind as fundamental keeps growing. I fully believe that one would almost only need to read this and implement its lessons and be done with his learning about intersexual dynamics. It literally IS the red pill. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/02/19 01:43 AM |
| 5 | CMV: Most disagreements with TRP philosophy stem from thinking about it in a void“Worse” is a moral judgement and morals are defined through culture. And right now the society as a whole is definitely more horrified by the idea of a man seeing women as sexual objects (misogyny!) than by a woman seeing men as beasts of burden (is there even a word for it?) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/19 05:04 AM |
| 8 | CMV: Most disagreements with TRP philosophy stem from thinking about it in a voidThis. A common TRP idiom is “Men see women as sex objects. Women see men as success objects” and it’s proven with every man losing attraction for an ageing wife and a woman losing attraction for a laid-off husband. But while both are sad realities of the sexual market place, only one of them is publicly decried as immoral while the other is only decried in anonymous locker rooms for fear of public reprisal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/19 04:57 AM |
| 5 | There’s the Thousand Cock Stare, and then there’s the One Cock In A Thousand Stare.It’s Game inflation. 10 years ago you could just wear a fuzzy hat. I don’t want to imagine what we’ll have to do to get laid in 10 years from now. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/02/19 04:27 AM |
| 3 | Do women prefer to be viewed as human beings or loved for a character assumed to be naturally prone to no accountablity?You’re deliberately misrepresenting a concept used by the people you oppose to justify your opposition. AWALT is obviously not used in the absolutist fashion you claim it to be. We know some women are attracted to women. We know some women are attracted to nothing. And yet here we are, still using that expression about the sexual strategy that “ALL women..”? This should clue you that we don’t use that expression in the obtuse absolutist way you think we do, especially after you understand the id… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/19 10:46 PM |
| 3 | Do women prefer to be viewed as human beings or loved for a character assumed to be naturally prone to no accountablity?It’s an expression that’s so truthful and common that I thought it’d be sufficiently self explanatory and need no further detail. I don’t believe you don’t understand such a basic argument and I don’t have time for long drawn-out discussions on the Internet with people who argue in bad faith. I’m only here to share the redpill view for people interested in how « the other » thinks, not to defend it, and especially not for people who won’t accept any of it anyway. But just in case I am mistaken a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/19 09:56 PM |
| 2 | Do women prefer to be viewed as human beings or loved for a character assumed to be naturally prone to no accountablity?The exception proves the rule. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/19 07:09 PM |
| 4 | Do women prefer to be viewed as human beings or loved for a character assumed to be naturally prone to no accountablity?These are two extreme positions neither of which accurately represents reality. Cats and dogs are both mammals yet different species. You can expect them to display a behaviour that is in some parts identical (the animal, mammalian one) and some parts different (the species-specific one). Same reasoning applied to individual humans: you can expect women to display a behaviour that is in some parts identical to all women (the animal, mammalian, female one) and some parts different (dependent on c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/19 05:52 AM |
| 1 | My first ever post-TRP conversation with a girl, am I doing it right?You did good in my book. You showed cockiness, strong intent and fun banter. But her not even considering making time to meet you is a giant neon sign saying “I am not interested”. So you did well pulling out too. Any more texting work on your part from now on will just make it worse. But then of course since you are fluent in womanese, you know you need to add “... right now” at the end of that giant neon sign. So yeah leave it and you never know she might hit you up again.. especially if she s… | /r/askTRP | 19/02/19 03:00 AM |
| 1 | TRP Debate - Debrief ThreadThe plan was for a one-day event, from its inception, through internal discussion, to its announcement on TRP. In order to make it understood to PPD, /u/redpillschool told you it would run in the style of your “purge week”. He obviously never meant to say it would last a week. Perhaps RPS could have made it clearer to avoid a misunderstanding... just as you could have cleared up the misunderstanding for yourself when you showed up and read both the title and post content specifying the duration … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/19 01:05 AM |
| 23 | Cues of upper body strength account for most of the variance in men’s bodily attractivenessI think that it’s not the “over built” physique which they dislike but the stereotypical lifestyle associated with it and what it means about him: they picture a guy whose only activity besides work is the gym, whose only discussion topic is calories, whose pantry is mostly filled with tubs of dodgy named powders. Worse, they picture a man who has centered his life around how good he looks, for the sole purpose of getting women, and compensate for some deep insecurity. I think they may unconscio… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/02/19 10:29 PM |
| 7 | THE SEA OF CIVILITY - OFFICIAL NO-BAN FREE-FOR-ALL MODS-ASLEEP AMA-TRP DAYMy personal interpretation of AWALT would be something with more nuance. All women posses certain biological impulses like finding the best mate (hypergamy) in order to mother healthy children. Men aren't any different, men like young good looking and fertile women. Everyone is born with these impulses [...] And with this, you understand AWALT better than many newbies on asktrp who haven’t yet bothered to read the sidebar and other recommended red pill material. Yes, AMALT too. Where you get it … | /r/TheRedPill | 14/02/19 04:09 AM |
| 8 | Girl I orbited drove 300 miles one way to sleep with me. TRP lessons work, let everyone on the outside call them whatever they like. This advice works.You’re right, women’s epiphany phase always help but would have she contacted him without his hard work in the gym and career? And would she be throwing all that sex at him in the vain hope of getting him to commit? OP will know soon if the girl sees him as a high beta provider or as alpha stock - she’ll either stop seeing him or not after she sees her efforts to get him to commit don’t bear fruits. If it’s the former, she’ll move on to try to ensnare another provider and OP now redpill aware wi… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/02/19 03:24 AM |
| 90 | Girl I orbited drove 300 miles one way to sleep with me. TRP lessons work, let everyone on the outside call them whatever they like. This advice works.Props also to the guy who gave him red pill advice at the right moment without calling it red pill. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/02/19 03:13 AM |
| 5 | THE LIONS DEN - OFFICIAL NO-BAN FREE-FOR-ALL MODS-ASLEEP AMA-TRP DAYI apply three filters to my TRP reading: Does this match the majority of my own observations? Does this match the majority of other men’s experience? Is this consistent from a basic evolutionary perspective? Everything on TRP is often colored (some would say “tainted”) with bitterness or anger, but anything that passes my filters deserve my full attention. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/02/19 02:56 AM |
| 32 | 35 year old female liberal video maker/ blogger gets hit in the face by “the wall”. Proceeds to rationalize and hamster the shit out of if. Bonus- comment section is pure goldThe video is socially ill propaganda. The comments are down-to-earth reality. This is how all mainstream media content vs. the comments sections operates now. Which is why media is moving away from comments section. Good comment. I’ve noticed this too. On every site, every platform, the comment section provides the reality check thanks to anonymity. I’ve yet to find an article or a tweet pushing the current year narrative that is not given common sense reality slap in the comments. Everywhere, c… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/02/19 11:48 PM |
| 27 | Joining an INCEL Group is Fucking Retarded. There is no Black Pill.As if incel groups were a collection of men who miss their four limbs, or half their face, or have Down syndrome. Perhaps some incels have some truly terrible condition.. but the majority of them are just regular dudes who are upset that women don’t go for regular dudes. Those incels whose face you see on the news because they murdered people are not ugly beyond repair. They just look like regular dudes. Have you read the link in OPs post? M3 had over a decade of involuntary celibacy, had suicid… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/02/19 09:08 PM |
| 22 | Approach. Because it's getting sad out there.Even pre-#metoo I was never going direct. My value is in my experience and hobbies, not my looks. By going direct, I'm forcing a girl to take a decision about me based on how I look and how I approached her, the value of which pales in comparison to what she'll discover about me if we talk for a little while. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/02/19 11:26 AM |
| 14 | Approach. Because it's getting sad out there.I should have said “you show your interest after she showed hers”. It means you wait till you have signs of her interest in you (she’s invested in the convo; she asks you questions about you or your past; really just about anything that’s the contrary of her trying to cut the conversation short) before you give any sign of your interest in her (compliments; ask her for her #). | /r/TheRedPill | 09/02/19 09:33 AM |
| 202 | Approach. Because it's getting sad out there.Approach anxiety has always made day game something only a small % of guys do. Smartphones and #metoo fear have reduced this even further. You say it's "getting sad out there", I'm saying it's "getting easier and easier out there" given how girls crave some real-world attention that no men give them nowadays outside of bars and clubs. My day gaming has become excessively simple: Open on a prop, or break the ice with a comment on our common environment. Make small talk peppering the convo with va… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/02/19 06:00 AM |
| 19 | Lamborghini's, Whores and Soap. Supreme Alpha Convention!We seem to have entered the "RSD phase" of the red pill, where the non-for-profit, grassroot, wisdom-building community evolves into a set of small businesses competing for limited attention by overplaying their hands. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/02/19 06:39 AM |
| 11 | What's your thoughts on Roosh V?Roosh is one of the “three Rs of the manosphere” along with Rollo (The Rational Male) and Roissy (Chateau Heartiste). Aka he’s a patriarch of the red pill, one of the three architects who created the red pill from its PUA origins. All of this means that his older writing should be mandatory reading (starting with books “bang” and “day bang”, and the best articles published on his blog - I consider his manifesto on neomasculinity a perfect red pill text) and that one should pay very close attenti… | /r/askTRP | 06/02/19 10:43 PM |
| 7 | The Sixteen Commandments Of PoonLol. Dude, this is a foundational article of the manosphere. It predates this sub by many years. It even predates the first use of the expression "the red pill" to talk about intersexual dynamics. Most of what you find on the sidebar are just explaining or re-discovering stuff that Roissy wrote on that blog many years ago. The cover image is from the recent incident with the Covington kids. Google it. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/02/19 10:46 AM |
| 6 | Rollo - State of the Manosphere 2018I’m for anything that can help men. So I’m for 21 con just as I was for roosh’s informal meetups. I’m only pointing the irony of Rollo making an intelligent argument against meetups only to organise/support his own meetup a year later. His intelligent argument back then still applies to 21 con but he seems to have conveniently forgotten it. I love his work but man I struggle with his attitude sometimes. I know organising seminars cost a lot and you’re free to charge whatever you want for it, whe… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/02/19 12:35 AM |
| 31 | FWB overheard me discussing RP-esque conceptsThe lesson should be clear. What you say has very little importance in comparison to your attitude. If your attitude says “I have plenty of attention from many pretty girls so I don’t really need you”, then you can say just about anything and she’ll rationalise it as being attractive. Remember those tinder experiments where guys made fake profiles using photos of a hot dude with either a swastika tattoo or a bio indicating they were a child molester, and those fake profiles had much success anyw… | /r/askTRP | 01/02/19 05:03 AM |
| 17 | Rollo - State of the Manosphere 2018When Roosh tried to organize a meetup two years ago, Rollo criticised the idea with an argument I found very fair: men don’t bond over a chatty meet up like women do, instead we gather around a common activity and bond there. I think it’s brilliant. Meet with the boys in your garage to fix the motorbikes and talk red pill there. Meet at the bar for a drink with your teammates after the rugby game and talk red pill there. Meet for a poker game and tell the boys to bring cigars, whiskey, and their… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/02/19 12:50 AM |
| 6 | I Was Fooled By The Promise Of The Internet - If you dare to publicly share the truth on the internet, they will ban you. RooshVfacecrime | /r/TheRedPill | 25/01/19 12:56 AM |
| 31 | Caught LTR of 7 years cheating, should I let the other guy know she's been playing us both?Adding to this: the guy probably knew she was still with OP, and even if he didn’t know he probably won’t react to learning the truth as OP imagines in his revenge fantasy. A dutiful beta with ONEitis will rationalise the news, aka “he’s lying he’s just jealous”, “she’s an angel she would not do that”, “it was over in her heart but couldn’t bring herself to end it”, “our love is just stronger than what he had”, etc. | /r/askTRP | 23/01/19 06:40 AM |
| 1 | So love is fake?What awesome classic posts. It will be a sad day the day you leave the sub. Have you thought of compiling your best posts into a book? | /r/askTRP | 22/01/19 05:19 AM |
| 17 | A reminder.I get you dude. I went to a party the other day, I chatted with a few girls and then went home, alone. Which means I “got cucked” by all girls I talked to who got laid later that night or since that party. Can’t believe those 27 girls tricked me into providing my hard-earned ressources just to go fuck someone else.. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/19 08:48 PM |
| 4 | Get off the video games and potYou don’t really have to drop gaming, it’s that at some point in your development into an adult male you don’t really feel the need to entertain the boy within. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/01/19 09:55 AM |
| 4 | Watching reruns of sitcoms is almost unbearable after taking TRP. Has anyone else noticed this?Tv shows. And movies. And music. Basically any form of entertainment and media that are not directed solely at men, since the 60s. Remember securing beta providing is part of women’s sexual strategy, so all entertainment that partly caters to women includes a portrayal of the dependable beta provider. The mistake of western men since then is to have fooled themselves into adopting that portrayal as the “correct” approach to getting women. | /r/askTRP | 17/01/19 08:22 AM |
| 27 | Gender WarThe APA guidelines release and the Gillette video made me look a bit into the message that's being communicated, and check the reaction of people in support to it on twitter. One thing caught my attention is the plural use of the word "masculinity". They say "Masculinities". Not quite sure if there are just two or several, but "toxic" definitely is one, and obviously the bad one to be eliminated. This message allows the feminists and their enablers to hide their agenda: see, they're not against … | /r/TheRedPill | 17/01/19 07:06 AM |
| 4 | LTR Tables Turning. Need to grab holdUp the dread. She's acting like she doesn't believe for a second that you could break up with her at any point for another girl who respects you more than her. Would you? | /r/askTRP | 14/01/19 06:31 PM |
| 5 | I turned her down.Did you factor in the time and effort it takes to get back on tinder, swiping, get another match, texting back and forth, and setting up a time? Isn’t it more a waste of time than answering to that one “ok but drinks on you next time” and wait for an answer to figure if she did have cold feet and is really wasting your time or if she was actually tired from work and anxious of possibly making a bad first impression? | /r/askTRP | 14/01/19 03:55 AM |
| 3 | Did I just miss a threesome?No need. Shit testing is not a disrespectful behaviour on her part that requires to be answered with punishment. It’s her natural way to check if you’re the real deal or faking it. Just get back to your usual behaviour. Only issue with failing a shit test is that more may come your way. For next time though: if you find yourself isolated with two girls, just do exactly as you would with one but double the dosage. Be extra fun, extra engaging, and extra careful at controlling the frame. | /r/askTRP | 14/01/19 01:07 AM |
| 16 | Did I just miss a threesome?Did you actually think of getting a threesome then, or did you just think of it afterwards when she asked? If you had never banged the bestie before, you can’t expect her to suddenly jump in bed with you, just as you wouldn’t assume that from any other girl. You would need to game her and escalate with her. You totally messed up the text convo. That was a massive, obvious shit test. You should have answered by teasing her on them wanting a three way with you. Maybe they were up for it, maybe not… | /r/askTRP | 13/01/19 10:14 PM |
| 26 | LTR going to slute city in 5 weeks. Don't trust it. Leaving her. Help with logistics plz?If you’ve concluded she’s not good LTR material then her trip doesn’t matter. The only thing important now is the logistics of the break up. Do you think it’ll be easier to break up before she goes or when she returns? Seems to me like 5 weeks is plenty of time for her to move out and find another place, so better doing it ASAP. Remember you don’t need to tell her the truth about why, just say you’re not feeling it anymore, or invent something that you think will minimise chances of drama. Good … | /r/askTRP | 12/01/19 10:18 PM |
| 1 | The Most Neglected MuscleI see it’s gone. Saw this too late. Thanks | /r/TheRedPill | 11/01/19 05:07 AM |
| 3 | The Most Neglected MuscleThe discussion topic is moving quite widely here but fair enough comments about liberalism. Not sure how more traditionalist systems “fulfill” sexual strategy any better though. Isn’t adultery punished in Islam too? Is traditional (non-liberal) Christianity any better from the point of view of any individual’s strategy? The way I see it, fulfilling one’s sexual strategy is a deeply selfish quest. Even pairing up with a woman is two individuals compromising their respective strategies, hence the … | /r/TheRedPill | 11/01/19 03:05 AM |
| 2 | The Most Neglected MuscleThat list helped me, and many many other unplugged guys getting laid. Good argument but bad example. The argument that TRP is about more than getting laid is right though. Under the banner of “discussing sexual strategy” it is valid to post about the influence of the feminine sexual strategy on modern western culture for example. But there’s way too many posts on this sub saying something along the lines of “you should do X because I personally think it’s masculine” and they deserved to be remov… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/01/19 02:53 AM |
| 2 | The Most Neglected MuscleWe should read but we must pay more attention to become street smart. This is the painful epiphany I have been recently experiencing, which motivates my comment. I’ve discovered, too late to my liking and after significant investment, that the ROI of book smarts is dramatically lower than street smarts. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/01/19 02:42 AM |
| 1 | The Most Neglected MuscleDamn so this sub uses discussion about sexual strategy to advocate for radical political indoctrination now? Will I get 72 virgins if I die a martyr for the cause too? | /r/TheRedPill | 11/01/19 01:03 AM |
| 0 | The Most Neglected MuscleI admit reading books made you a good sophist. Behind your clever words and ad hominems, I see no answer to the specific point I was raising. Let's try again: action is the answer, reading is not. You're going to argue it or psychoanalyse my values again? | /r/TheRedPill | 11/01/19 12:15 AM |
| 1 | The Most Neglected MuscleA man can't lead unless he has a vision a man can't have a vision without a theoretical basis. Who's going to give him the foundation of his vision GloboHomo society? No! He has to build that vision through books. Typical unsubstantiated philosophical comment. There are leaders without vision and vision without "theoretical basis" and people developing a "theoretical basis" without having necessarily read a book. Besides, what does this have to do with sexual strategy? The root of the problem is… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/01/19 12:10 AM |
| 4 | The Most Neglected MuscleI own and have read plenty of books. My library is chock full of them. Mostly non fiction. Science, philosophy, religion. My only works of fictions are classics. I love to read. Always did. I’ve felt superior to other guys so many times in the past because I’ve read Camus and Nietzsche and they had not. I pride myself on having read the Bible and the Koran despite being an atheist. What I love the most in reading is that transfer of knowledge and wisdom across time. Here I am reading the mind of… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/01/19 11:15 PM |
| 0 | The Most Neglected MuscleThis is a typical example of post from the crowd who mistake TRP for the “self-improvement” sub. Not related to human sexual strategy or its influence on human society. Not related to improving one’s sexual success. Just some bland exhortation to “self-improve for the sake of self-improvement”. First they’ll encourage you to read because they decree that reading is somehow masculine, next they’ll encourage you to become a basement-dweller asocial nerd, because you need to self-improve your gamin… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/01/19 10:00 PM |
| 2 | Sexuality phenomenaSidenote: I’m 20, I realised I was gay at about 13 and believed I was so until I was 19. More likely an effect of hormonal changes with puberty then. | /r/askTRP | 10/01/19 12:35 AM |
| 9 | "She's not yours, it's just your turn": a defeatist cuck mantra for losersI had not noticed that this specific sentence was misunderstood but I do recognise this pattern on many of TRP's other mantras and totally deplore it. "AWALT" is too often used as a basic insult. "Spinning plates" has lost its original meaning, which was infinitely more useful than its current one. "Frame" was completely denatured. "Alpha/Beta" was never agreed upon. I fully blame the choice of the reddit platform for this because it allows newbies exposure that they do not deserve yet, resultin… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/01/19 07:36 PM |
| 8 | "She's not yours, it's just your turn": a defeatist cuck mantra for losersIn short, AWALT simply means "there are no unicorns" and used as a reminder to people who think they found a "different one" and think they can lower their guard. It's not meant to say they all do a specific thing, which is blatantly wrong. Even in your example, you'll find a lot of women who would not necessarily fuck you over "given half the chance". Don't you find it strange how, given a divorce rate of 50%, guys still get married without getting a prenup? That's because guys are easily under… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/01/19 07:25 PM |
| 402 | "She's not yours, it's just your turn": a defeatist cuck mantra for losersAs a proponent of that statement, and a defender of TRP orthodoxy, I'll bite. So if you think "She's not yours; it's just your turn" is bullshit, it means that you believe "She's yours"? Oh but no! That clashes with your argument that no woman can be yours! Does this mean I have misread your argument? Exactly. So did you. "She's not yours; it's just your turn" is not meant to be understood as "I believe I am going to lose her". Just like "AWALT" is not meant to be understood as "All women are ch… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/01/19 08:07 AM |
| 5 | LTR admits to openly flirting with guys to “finesse free drinks” They love to claim their behavior as innocent. Should I next?Are you new? This is super basic female shaming tactic. Do something that goes against her agenda, and get called insecure/immature/small-dick. Intersexual wars tactic 101. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/19 07:11 PM |
| 3 | Advice for 24 year old virgin who maxxed out his SMV to get laid?The problem you share with OP is that you need Game. You fell victims of the crowd that sells you self-improvement as a way to avoid having to talk to girls. So you religiously “self-improve” “for myself and not for girls”, totally expecting that blow jobs will just fall on your lap once you have a six pack. And after months of lifting you realise that your “maxed-out” SMV means nothing if you’re not social. You and OP simply need to kick your butt into social action: join a group of guys going … | /r/askTRP | 07/01/19 02:53 AM |
| 2 | Its lonely after taking the pill., Am I doing something wrong?It has nothing to do with you taking the red pill. People will let their presence know when they can benefit in some way from you. When you were married you had a social circle, now you have none, or a smaller one, for now. That’s all. That social circle felt good for you following the script and were perhaps grateful for you doing it. But who gets to benefot when you win a race? None. Win the lottery though, and you’ll see how quick the social circle finds you. | /r/askTRP | 03/01/19 04:07 AM |
| 34 | Why "I am the prize" mentality is bullshit and what you need to do insteadGood to see the top comment is setting the record straight. It’s annoying to see posts popping up here and there arguing against some super basic TRP theory, born from years of cumulated field experience and discussions on the manosphere, just because some newbie with probably no actual game experience thinks his idea sounds good on paper by drawing a comparison with cars. Once again: Game is NOT just the packaging or the advertisement of a valuable product. Humans are social animals. Women look… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/01/19 12:41 AM |
| 1 | Do you guys get tired of fucking random girls?There are more sides to the coin than ONS and a 6-month exclusive relationship. | /r/askTRP | 01/01/19 08:07 PM |
| 5 | With healthy habits and lifestyle, how much can you transform your body in a span of 6 months?Wrong mindset. You’re in it for life. | /r/askTRP | 31/12/18 09:27 AM |
| 20 | Why TRP advocates for non-monogamous premarital sex.Right. Like my sexual drive has anything to do with a political statement. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/18 09:19 AM |
| 50 | I'm so paranoid of cheating now.There will always be a higher value guy than you, whether you’re dating a 9 or a 5 or anything in between. You can never be sure your girl won’t branch swing. Actually, it’s something you should always expect. Yes you should vet for commitment, and only give it after she’s proved herself over a long while, and yes you should keep your SMV high at all times. But ontop of it, you should also be aware that female nature is such that she could drop your high value ass all of a sudden for no logical … | /r/askTRP | 30/12/18 09:16 PM |
| 13 | There's absolutely no reason to be afraid of cold approachThink of it this way: you’re at a cafe with friends when you look on the side and make eye contact with a landwhale who’s obviously staring at you. Do you hold eye contact? Of course not! You’d be to afraid she’d take this as a sign of interest and come talk to you. And that’s why holding an eye contact is the strongest sign of interest you can get from a girl. Because if she wasn’t interested you can be sure that wouldnt happen. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/18 09:10 PM |
| 1 | Is this true? How’s THIS for a red-pill theory?Yeah. The mere act of deciding that you're stuck with something puts you into a continuous mode of post-hoc justification. You can literally brainwash yourself into being satisfied with what you've got. Yep this is an amazing quirk of the human mind. Check out Dan Gilbert’s TED talk for more info https://www.ted.com/talks/dan_gilbert_asks_why_are_we_happy/up-next?language=en | /r/askTRP | 30/12/18 01:51 AM |
| 28 | Game creates the perception of a high value male. Becoming red pilled makes you one.No, game is part of the value of a high-value male. It’s not some fake cosmetic layer, it’s not just the “marketing” of a product. OP is closer to the truth when he says it’s the “imitation” of a high value male. The reality is that the attitude of good game is exactly (part of) the value that women seek. Game skills are exactly the same skills that leaders of men have and that’s why they are sought after by women. That aloof confident attitude you display to her is not male make-up, or a sales … | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/18 10:42 PM |
| 14 | Why are women so ungrateful?If you don’t know the rational male, I urge you to read it ASAP. Either the “best of year 1/2/3” on the blog or his books. It might literally save your life down the road, especially since by getting a kid you’ve now given so much power to a woman over your life. | /r/askTRP | 28/12/18 10:33 PM |
| 103 | Why are women so ungrateful?https://therationalmale.com/2015/09/02/solipsism-i/ You need to get used to it. It’s not that she’s ungrateful. It’s that she lacks the capacity to put herself in your shoes and understand your sacrifices. That’s why she’ll divorce you in a few years when she can’t understand why you’re never home for her and to help her with the kid, because you’re always working. | /r/askTRP | 28/12/18 07:57 PM |
| 15 | AWALT just an easy way out?“AWALT” is the most misused term on TRP. It was originally meant as the go-to-answer to any guy claiming that he has found one girl who is so sweet and innocent-looking that she would never cheat, or branch swing, or operate according to AF;BB. AWALT does not mean “all women are the same”, it means “no, that girl whom you think is a different one, is not that different to all other women”. If a forum on intersexual dynamics run by women was discussing how men’s sexual strategy is “unlimited acce… | /r/askTRP | 28/12/18 11:13 AM |
| 3 | LTR asked if I use her for sex.That’s it. Work primarily on the feels, not the logic. Keep it short. If you think it’s a comfort test, say it with a caring smile and add a strong hug. If you think that’s a shit test, say it with a grin and add a light ass smack. If she rejects that reframe and insists on you becoming an emotional beta, just revoke your attention and go for a constitutional. | /r/askTRP | 26/12/18 06:24 PM |
| 9 | LTR asked if I use her for sex.You’re being subtly manipulated by indulging in that emotional drama. Typically as a man, you’re listening to the content of her complaint, try to rationally analyse it, in order to deliver some optimal answer. In doing so, you’re blinding yourself to the subtext, to what’s really happening. She’s bringing up some drama bullshit about her current feelings, ensnaring yourself in the frame she’s setting. Don’t over analyse it. Don’t overdo your answer. Maintain a confident and caring attitude. No … | /r/askTRP | 26/12/18 12:05 PM |
| 4 | Story of a cuck that was posted and why we need TRPWelcome. This story is only an illustration of how catastrophic for your life the mainstream “blue pill” approach to relationships can be. A man in a deeply abusive relationship not even aware of it. With the awareness of the truth about how men/women relationships work (what we call the red pill, because it truly is eye opening), a man would never come to that point. He’d healthily manage his relationship into something much more respectful from the very beginning. Proper red pill advice for th… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/12/18 03:49 AM |
| 1 | Got lunch with a girl and it seemed it went fairly well. Invited her again via text and she never responded. What's the best way to handle that if I see her again in person?When you wonder how to react to this or that ask yourself how would you react if you had another 10 girls you’re fucking at the moment. Answer in your case: you’d stop caring about why this one ghosted you. You wouldn’t have the time to spare thinking about how to tell her she’s been rude and you wouldn’t even have the desire to “show her”. Her loss. You may even be grateful that she didn’t waste your time if she wasn’t interested. So next time you see her, you can act as if nothing happened. | /r/askTRP | 23/12/18 09:31 PM |
| 26 | The Diminished Respect for Fatherhood and "The Simpsons"It’d be interesting to figure out when the shift in Homer’s character occurred. And why it did. Did they realise that episodes were funnier with a retarded version of the character? Did they just ride on the slowly spreading meme of the retarded patriarch or did they actually create it? | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/18 01:48 AM |
| 1 | What do you guys do in your spare time?https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/8iksjw/a_somewhat_comprehensive_list_of_hobbies_and/dysv88a/ | /r/askTRP | 22/12/18 10:12 PM |
| 1 | I’ve never been into religion really and I don’t believe in most of that type of stuff.. but I do find it really interesting that it can turn someone’s life around I kinda view it as one big manipulation on your own self.Another of Dawkins' points. You really should read that book. | /r/askTRP | 22/12/18 11:37 AM |
| 36 | A woman's prime directive is emotional conquestI am very very keen on red pill theory, and must say I am surprised to see in 2018 a piece of fairly original theory material that seems to hold water. Unfortunately it comes at the wrong time of the year so bookmarking it to come back to it later to give it my full attention. Would be very good to have Rollo's opinion on this. I hope the mods sticky it so that it stays up as long as possible to generate the most discussion possible. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/18 11:35 AM |
| 5 | What would the world be like if male and female sex drive were equal?It’s not that they’re unequal in magnitude, but in nature. In terms of sex, men are mainly interested in variety while women are mainly interested in value. Since you want variety, you’ll likely to feel lust every time you see a different (bangable) woman. Since women want value, they’ll likely to only feel lust when they’ve been able to assess who’s the highest value male in her current environment. So on the surface and on average, it's quite normal they'll want it less often (there's not alwa… | /r/askTRP | 21/12/18 03:23 AM |
| -2 | I’ve never been into religion really and I don’t believe in most of that type of stuff.. but I do find it really interesting that it can turn someone’s life around I kinda view it as one big manipulation on your own self.You’re on the right track. Check dawkins’ “the god delusion” for a more developed understanding of your idea, along with other arguments as to why religion is so common in humans, and why we’re so intent at deluding ourselves with the most ridiculous beliefs. | /r/askTRP | 21/12/18 03:13 AM |
| 7 | Why do so many people on here not understand trp?Like all subs, the more popular TRP gets, the more newbs it attracts and the more the core message gets diluted. TRP comes from game, but because of its “mysogynistic” stance, TRP attracted over time an increasing number of people who came specifically for it, including PUA haters, and they slowly but surely become the majority and end up controlling the narrative since reddit is fundamentally democratic. That’s how you end up with a sub about sexual strategy full of discussions about how the ot… | /r/askTRP | 21/12/18 03:07 AM |
| 9 | Manly subredditsReddit mods are all blue pill now, look at what happened on ‘personal finance’, it’s a personal financial planning sub and you’re not allowed to talk about divorce rape. Yeah I remember that one it was funny. Guys there are all the rational type with their money. They understand investment. They understand risk. They understand forward thinking. And so they face that massive cognitive dissonance when they start talking marriage as they know it’s a very very bad investment to marry a woman whom y… | /r/askTRP | 21/12/18 03:00 AM |
| 5 | Finance: regular dude edition.I think the answer is a painfully obvious one of moderation. You enjoy your youth AND you save for your old age. This should be enough common sense to everyone. But the tale illustrates what happens when you go to an extreme or another. If you go full Scrooge Mc Duck like OP, your life won't be too much fun that's sure, but at least you cover your ass for every issue life will throw at you. If you decide to go the way of the grasshopper though, it'll be all fun and dance until shit hits the fan.… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/12/18 11:37 PM |
| 3 | Finance: regular dude edition.And I agree. The comment I was responding to did not say "don't go overboard". It said But in terms of "redpill attitude", I think just doing what makes you happy and gives you personal fulfilment, whether it be studying, or spending more money than you can afford on cool cars, is the best thing to do. "Do what makes you happy" is the moto of western youth. It's what get people into heavy debts to get a useless degree. It's what get people addicted to loans. As usual, the answer is one of temper… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/12/18 11:07 PM |
| 6 | Finance: regular dude edition... said the grasshopper to the ant. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/12/18 05:00 AM |
| 22 | Finance: regular dude edition.Enjoy that attitude. By the time you’re 35 without a cent in savings, you’ll start slapping yourself for your shortsightedness. By the time you get your first health issue or redundancy before you hit 50, you’ll be straight up banging your head into a wall. More likely you’ll wise up by 25 and start saving and budgeting then. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/12/18 04:58 AM |
| 9 | Ex-plate found a BB and got married within 4 months.You’ve clearly never lived a day in the brain of a woman hitting the wall and freaking out at her decreased capability to attract guys and secure a good provider. I’ve met women getting married or a “oopsie baby” in much less time than that. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/12/18 05:40 AM |
| 1 | Theres mermaids now 🧜♂️🧜♀️Quick FR: I misread a situation this afternoon. Sent pushan birthday cat (he’s adorable look at him) to a comfort test. I do not recommend that. Or try it yourself and see. Your willingness to try different stuff for fun despite risks, and your nonchalance at negative results are, in themselves, the ultimate ZFG attitude. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/12/18 03:16 AM |
| 3 | What was your first real world experience that really made you swallow the pill?To me, and I suspect a lot of people discovering the red pill later in life, it’s more the other way around: I got a whole bunch of life experiences that I struggled to make sense of (Why did this girl leave me? Why did that girl got attracted to me? Why did that girl did that?) and that you’d usually brush off as “I don’t understand women”, and then one day you stumble on the redpill and get reading and this is like someone’s just switched on the light: everything I ever experienced with women … | /r/askTRP | 18/12/18 10:32 PM |
| 10 | What was your first real world experience that really made you swallow the pill?They’ll regret branch swinging if it doesn’t pan out to be a better branch. If the new guy leaves them for example, or if he ends up in finance trouble while your finances get better, it the new guy becomes a slob while you become super fit, etc | /r/askTRP | 18/12/18 10:25 PM |
| 3 | Theres mermaids now 🧜♂️🧜♀️I understand your struggles. I’m naturally oversharing too. Keep at practicing cutting short your communication to leave more to her imagination, and refocus your tendencies as a writer for this sub, a blog, a book.. And the feedback you mention, yes it’s normal. Doesn’t mean it’s bad though. Remember watch what they do, not what they say. But if you observe that it actually makes them disengage, then counter that effect by asking them questions. Get them talking. They’ll actually be more eager … | /r/TheRedPill | 18/12/18 10:08 PM |
| 5 | Theres mermaids now 🧜♂️🧜♀️You have to understand that with Game it's not what is delivered that is important but how/when/why it is delivered since the whole point is to control what it implies about you. For example, if you buy a girl a drink, depending on the context and how/why/when you do it, it can be interpreted as you pathetically begging her for the permission to purchase her attention, or you confidently yet casually leading the interaction. This is the basic idea behind “frame” and it is iron rule #1 for a reas… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/12/18 07:43 PM |
| 2 | [Field Report] First date on TRP. Shit tests, having a good time, escalation and rejection. This is my story.Breaking rapport, IOD, push, neg.. are all different flavours of the same concept: hinting at your disinterest in her so as to trigger her curiosity, hint at your superior value demonstrate that NGAF attitude that is so attractive and uncommon in her usual interactions with guys. You can't run an entire game on this obviously - keep doing what you did - but it's important to pepper some push here and there, calibrating the amount you pepper to the situation, aka particularly at the beginning to … | /r/TheRedPill | 18/12/18 06:23 AM |
| 16 | [Field Report] First date on TRP. Shit tests, having a good time, escalation and rejection. This is my story.I’m seeing textbook pull but no push. You didn’t leave her any room to chase you. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/18 05:56 AM |
| 20 | Have any of you been called a "red-piller" as an insult here on Reddit by trolls who go through your post history?You should have a separate account for TRP and pay attention to not share any private details. When feminists have consolidated state power, “misogynists” will become public enemy number 1 and will be hunted down like “witches” and “communists” in their time. You’ll wish you had followed my advice then. | /r/askTRP | 13/12/18 10:35 PM |
| 8 | What went wrong?Your view is exactly where OP went wrong. “The red pill” is not “be alpha to win. Betas are losers”. TRP is the reality of intersexual dynamics, a fundamental pillar of which is “women have a dual sexual strategy: they want alpha for sex and beta for provision, and they change which side of the strategy they prioritise over time”. Newbies dont read enough rational male to understand that women also want the dependable beta provider, and that at some stages in their period cycle or life, they do … | /r/askTRP | 13/12/18 12:02 AM |
| 5 | The Wife Slapped Live on Twitch Controversy and Virtue Signalingand then we have left wing male feminists running the country into the ground and making every damn thing we do illegal - because authority boot licking. Oh you mean like they're making slapping kids illegal? Come on man. Snap awake now. For millenia, kids have been disciplined and they did not grow up into male feminists making every damn thing illegal. Raging leftists are not forged in conservative households. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/18 08:44 AM |
| 28 | The Wife Slapped Live on Twitch Controversy and Virtue SignalingIt's quite impressive to see the imprint of the feminine imperative indoctrination in men nowadays. Look at you thinking that hitting someone is "weakness". That children have to be "reasoned with". That being physically violent is "beta temper". That it's a "loss of frame". From time immemorial, humans have followed the natural law: might makes right. The physically stronger imposes his will through threat of physical violence. The physically weaker imposes his will through seduction, manipulat… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/18 08:37 AM |
| 10 | anyone wanna talk?Right on. It is my firm belief that lack of purpose is the main reason behind general anxiety/depression disorders in the West. Until recently, your path as a man was clearly laid out and inescapable: You must make money so that you children don’t starve to death. You must defend your country/tribe/family or your wife and children must be slaughtered. You must abide by moral religious standards or you will burn in hell for eternity. The human brain evolved to function within these or similar gro… | /r/askTRP | 10/12/18 09:34 PM |
| 1 | CMV: I don't understand how anyone can take relationship advice from /r/TheRedPill seriouslyIt's actually very simple to understand: the advice works. Granted, some does look bad. But it works overall. You really have to picture guys who have been unable to get a relationship their whole life, or a satisfying one, or to maintain a good one, or finding themselves in a failing one, who start looking for information online, stumble on red pill's "alternative" advice, and decide to give it a shot... and hey presto they get the relationships they want, and then they post their gratitude onl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/18 07:49 PM |
| 9 | What to do if girl suggests meeting up with her and kid? My gut said bad idea cause you can't like.. escalate and shit ya know?Don’t date single mothers. Of course you’ll ignore this, and you’ll pay the consequences https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=M-o304ftoGM | /r/askTRP | 08/12/18 06:12 AM |
| 6 | What to do if girl suggests meeting up with her and kid? My gut said bad idea cause you can't like.. escalate and shit ya know?He means we as a society have normalised the idea of women’s raising kids alone, despite the fact that it is a very bad idea. Single mothers should be shunned/shamed as they were back in the day instead of glamorised, in an attempt to keep women from getting kids with men they should not be having kids with. | /r/askTRP | 08/12/18 06:06 AM |
| 39 | Scored a date with girl on dating app relatively quickly. Asked for number and she’s says “maybe I’ll earn it later”You have to understand that when this girl opens tinder, she gets 50 new matches within 5 minutes. 40 new “hey there” messages within 15 minutes. She selects 5 or 6 to have a convo, and within 30 minutes have her 3 dates for this week lined up. Then she closes her app, and check the news where they talk about how all men are violent rapists intent on subjugating women. Can’t fault her for not wanting to give away too much details until she’s figured that 1, you’re attractive, and 2, you’re not g… | /r/askTRP | 06/12/18 04:48 AM |
| 11 | Should You reveal moments of melancholy and misery to her ever?You can tell her you are facing a tough challenge now. And tell her how you are going to beat it. Let her see your confidence in the face of adversity. Which is incidentally the best mindset you can have to actually overcome a setback. Double whammy - you fix the issue faster AND you get to keep the girl. It’s almost as if women’s attraction triggers reflect a natural selection for successful men.. | /r/askTRP | 04/12/18 01:42 AM |
| 12 | At what point should you mate guard?This is common question. And the common answer is that if you are in a LTR with a girl who behaves in a way that looks like it could need mate guarding, it means you’re already lost. It’s like your running a race and everyone else has already crossed the finish line and you ask yourself “at what point should I accelerate”. The answer is it doesn’t matter as you’ve already lost, even though you’re technically still racing. A girl should only be in a LTR with you if she’s proved she’s deserved it.… | /r/askTRP | 01/12/18 10:25 AM |
| 8 | Thank You RedPillNone of the shitshow would have happened if you had not solely focused on the “self-improvement” part of the redpill, but also spent some time on the “how women work” part of it. If you go back again to pure self-improvement, you will fail again. Read (or re-read but this time slowly) humansockpuppet’s “guide to managing your bitches”. You must start with dating non-exclusively. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/18 08:10 AM |
| 30 | Can you guys fucking answer this? Because I fucking can't.This is key IMO. Define goals so clearly that meeting them or failing to are evident. Like “go to gym Monday, Wednesday and Thursday and follow program X”, or “don’t smoke a single cigarette this week”, or “approach and open one complete stranger a day”. This way it’s much more difficult for your weasel brain to rationalise away your own commitments: you do it or you don’t, no grey area. But that doesn’t work by itself. A few other things are needed for this to work: first you gotta keep them re… | /r/askTRP | 28/11/18 10:12 PM |
| 3 | Saying you have a girlfriend during an approachNext time say “my girl” instead of “my girlfriend”. Then when she inquires “what about your girlfriend” you say “I never said I had a girlfriend”. Then when she asks for clarification about the “girl” you say “it’s complicated”. That’s assuming you’re spinning plates - not a girlfriend. If you have no girlfriend, don’t lie saying you have one. And if you do have one, be prepared to subtly imply that you guys are “open”. | /r/askTRP | 27/11/18 05:09 AM |
| 38 | The Monetization of the ManosphereIt’s quite ironic to see the Manosphere’s Master of Machiavelianism complaining about the perceived lack of morals in the tactics of some people. If a personal profit can be made, there will be people going after it, even if it comes at the detriment of the community (here, low-value washing). This is how humans roll, and redpill-aware people, who have learned to identify and acknowledge the dark side of human nature, should really know that by now. This is exactly what happened to the pick-up c… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/11/18 03:27 AM |
| 11 | How To Prepare Our Sons for the MatriarchyPlease don’t adopt leftist rethoric. There’s not “hate” here, simply a propaganda tool. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/11/18 03:11 AM |
| 3 | What should you do if your female boss asks (in a professional or indirect way) if you have a girlfriend/wife, but you don’t have either? I’ve had female bosses who literally say they think guys with girlfriends/wives are better employees/managers.You’re welcome. Ah rational wiki.. the good old bastion of leftist thinking adopting the cloak of Wikipedia to hide its bias. I recommend to you, dear hater, the “we hunted the mammoth” blog. You’ll find there a lot more instances of biased reports on evil manosphere thought-leaders that you may not know about yet. For everyone else, check for yourself actual material in context. First, the timeless 16 commandments of poon, IMO the single most practical essay on Game ever written: https://hearti… | /r/askTRP | 26/11/18 10:16 PM |
| 2 | What should you do if your female boss asks (in a professional or indirect way) if you have a girlfriend/wife, but you don’t have either? I’ve had female bosses who literally say they think guys with girlfriends/wives are better employees/managers.Someone knows his Roissy well. | /r/askTRP | 26/11/18 07:33 PM |
| 19 | What should you do if your female boss asks (in a professional or indirect way) if you have a girlfriend/wife, but you don’t have either? I’ve had female bosses who literally say they think guys with girlfriends/wives are better employees/managers.Do you understand his point? You're such a great employee, single and working your ass off, that you're very likely to defect to the competition or start your own business in the next three years. Nothing holds you back. While married men are more often chained to their job: he has a mortgage to pay, a college fund to build for his kids, and can't move away (because her wife's mother live here or the kids love their school, or wifey won't leave her friends), he is way more likely to stay put at … | /r/askTRP | 26/11/18 07:28 PM |
| 7 | Thots are getting audited for tax evasionIt’s a very interesting and funny new front open in the gender war. Several comments come to mind: absolutely loving the guy in the video taking notice of the fact that this is, for the first time ever, a way for men to make money with sex off the internet. Just as pimps make money off prostitutes, these guys are basically e-pimping. if the financial incentive was not there, I doubt this would become a thing. Too few incels angry enough to put in the necessary work and take on the risks (doxxing… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/11/18 01:37 AM |
| 6 | Man fuck this :/ need some tough love.Her loss?? Yeah right. Poor girl is going to lose an ex that drunk messages her only to be a bitch to her. You’d want to burn those bridges too if you were in her position. Accept your responsibilities like a man. No self respecting man drunk messages an ex. Emotional teenagers do. The silver lining you should be focusing on here is that the complete collapse of your frame means she has totally lost attraction for you - meaning you’re totally free to move on now since she wouldn’t fuck you even … | /r/askTRP | 24/11/18 05:46 AM |
| 13 | The Myth of Sexual PeakOh ok you mean peaks not of “sexual desirability to others”, aka SMV, but of “sexual desire for others”. Alright alright | /r/TheRedPill | 24/11/18 03:32 AM |
| 61 | The Myth of Sexual PeakA common myth is that men hit their sexual peak at the age of 18 while women hit theirs at 30-35. Despite literally no scientific support for this theory, this meme has become “common knowledge” in our society. Wait what? Is that what people believed in 2009? Nah seriously... I have never ever heard of such lopsided "common knowledge". | /r/TheRedPill | 24/11/18 02:09 AM |
| 24 | The Hypergamy IllusionHypergamy is not social conditioning. If I, or any other man, had grown up in an environment where the sex ratio is skewed to your advantage, I would build a harem and not seek only the top woman. That's because men's innate sexual strategy is polygamy. Women's innate sexual strategy is to seek the one best man they can get. That's how hypergamy is understood on TRP. That's why they branch swing when they can. That's why the war brides dynamics. The environment you describe, that of a massive sk… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/11/18 06:52 PM |
| 3 | How do I deal with pussy worshippers friends ?I felt like punching his nose so hard that it goes in and grows out of the back of his head. Seriously? Your reaction to a deluded beta loser parroting the Narrative to you is the urge to attack him? Then you still have some work to do. These guys don't know what they're talking about. They are like children arguing why they should have candy for dinner tonight. Your reaction should be just a smirk, because these guys' certainty in their delusion should just amuse you. Maybe keep those guys arou… | /r/askTRP | 18/11/18 01:38 AM |
| 3 | 2 weeks after dumping Onenitis...Mentally strugglingSince you say "new memories", I am not sure you get what Im trying to say. If you take a vacation now to create "new memories" but then come back to the apartment you shared with her, having your breakfast that you shared with her, sleeping in the bed you shared with her and putting on the clothes she bought for you before going to work in the car you remember seeing her on the passenger seat all the time, you can imagine your new vacation memories aren't going to do much to forget her. What I'v… | /r/askTRP | 16/11/18 10:23 PM |
| 22 | 2 weeks after dumping Onenitis...Mentally strugglingEverybody will tell you "you just need time", but the reality is that it's not "time" that makes you move on, it's all the new experiences and new memories that form new patterns in your brain, from which she is absent. It correlates with time, but not perfectly. You can speed up the process by actively engaging in brand new experiences to form brand new memories to overwrite those brain patterns in which your memories of her dwell. That's why fucking other girls help. But also: get a new job, m… | /r/askTRP | 16/11/18 08:39 PM |
| 9 | Is the TRP standard for a woman worth LTRing unrealistic?Because TRP is about self improving, so that in consequence we can have sex with women we desire. We don't desire 1s or 2s, but 9s or 10s, right? Well you just made that up. It's pretty well known in the manosphere that if you want a girl for a long term relationship, you're better off going for a 6 or 7, simply because she still needs to be lower SMV than you for her to be in love with you (that, and models have too much attention from thirsty dudes). | /r/askTRP | 14/11/18 06:47 AM |
| 1 | the meaning behind "Broken goods"Your morals are so strong that you could not even resist shaming the act of cheating in a post about a completely unrelated topic. You're going to have a tough time ingesting TRP material with that attitude. Anyway, about the actual contents of your post. Basically useless. Your wrapped it up in that beautiful shiny expression of yours, fooling some along the way, but that doesn't make the content any better. Your main point is "why rape breaks girls". In summary, you think it's because of the c… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/18 09:02 AM |
| 35 | CNN: What if women went on a sex strike before the midterms?I'm at the point where I am laughing at this sort of opinion piece. The kind of wife who would seriously consider "going on sex strike" as a form of political protest are women who are already not enjoying fucking their husbands and already finding many excuses to avoid doing duty/service sex. And they would be very dumb to trade their usual believable rational ("I have low libido" or "I have this condition that makes sex painful to me") for one as stupid as "I won't fuck you because Trump". No … | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/18 06:47 AM |
| 45 | The Obsessive ClimbIt's not a bug, it's a feature. Men are designed to compete to climb up the local hierarchy. And nothing makes you climb with more fervor than never feeling satisfied with where you stand right now, yet always feeling jealousy of those above you. It's not different than your thirst for water, your lust for multiple sexual partners, your disgust of thieves and cheaters, or your fear of height. All you have to do is acknowledge this is your Nature as a male human being, and from there decide what … | /r/TheRedPill | 02/11/18 08:16 AM |
| 8 | Why do so many redditors outside this sub believe that the friend zone doesn't exist?From a redpill perspective: because denying power is a great form of power. Women deny there is such thing as a "friendzone" so they can keep guys in the friendzone (or "encourage them to keep themselves in the friendzone" if such is your perspective of this obviously real feature of sexual dynamics). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/18 06:53 AM |
| 10 | Guys I need help asapThat was bad. You basically told her "I want to see you so bad that I'm ready to go wherever you want to go". Don't ever do that again. Girls wants to be led by a strong man without feeling forced. You simply tell her where you want to go while leaving her enough wiggle room to not feel unsafe. "I'm thinking going to X or Y. Both cool places" or "Let's go to X, best cocktails in town. And plenty of other places in the same street if we change our mind." Here you should have simply answered her t… | /r/askTRP | 28/10/18 01:48 AM |
| 11 | Guys I need help asap100% approach-to-number-close ratio lol.. Don't sweat the texting too much. Remember to be your own mental point of origin. You have to establish your frame and get her into it. In other words: What are you in town for? What are your plans for tonight? Are you staying over somewhere or driving back? Does this mean you plan to drink or stay sober? If you have zero plan and are only acting in whatever way is necessary to bang that girl, what's going to happen? You're going to text her too much. Yo… | /r/askTRP | 27/10/18 10:01 PM |
| 2 | Research into hypergamy doesn’t replicate. Original researcher declares his own theory is probably not true and that the studies based on his theory are now garbage."Mate-switching hypothesis is that it happens after they have first concluded their current partner is trash" is absolutely not what Buss's paper says. Read your own sources. The hypothesis suggests that women in a relationship are constantly monitoring their mate's status, monitoring the SMP for alternatives, monitoring alternative mates' interest, and cultivating backup options in case their mate's values decrease below that of an alternative. Aka, exactly the intersexual dynamics we talk on T… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/18 08:38 PM |
| 3 | Women Are Like Children, With ExamplesYes, if you believe that number, and if you believe that beta men childly cry, create drama, demand attention, get bored, or flake. Well I don't. Beta doesn't mean a man who acts like a woman. Beta means a man who is a willing provider to women, most likely a low-value one. Hell I most definitely was a low-value willing provider all my life. Doesn't mean I was behaving like a child or a woman. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/10/18 08:23 PM |
| 3 | Research into hypergamy doesn’t replicate. Original researcher declares his own theory is probably not true and that the studies based on his theory are now garbage.Funny that you would bring up the latest theory of the main scholar studying intersexual dynamics from an evopsych perspective. This guy is basically the main source of the scientific material that backs up TRP theory, and that article you just cited we used so many times to give credence to the concept of Hypergamy. And you'd use this to debunk TRP theory? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/18 06:35 AM |
| 22 | Women Are Like Children, With ExamplesIf you don’t see the gold in OPs post then I’m afraid you’re on the wrong sub. OPs post is but a condensed and clear retelling of the most important post in the sidebar: “Women, the most responsible teenager in the house”. If upon reading this post and OP’s, your reaction is a gut feeling of “how mysoginistic!” rather than “it does match my experience and it does make sense, I should try that”, then you will sadly never experience for yourself the benefits of the greatest paradigm shift that TRP… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/10/18 04:59 AM |
| 50 | Women Are Like Children, With ExamplesNone of OP’s examples of flakey, drama-filled, feels-based behaviour that are so common in children/teenagers apply to men in a general manner. Realizing that a LOT of women’s behaviour are child-like and are best tackled in the same way is a massive light-bulb moment for men. Don’t take that away from men by arguing that “bro, men do it too!”. Only the most despicable beta losers that never grew up from their boyhood perhaps act as much child-like as your average woman. Show me an average man, … | /r/TheRedPill | 26/10/18 04:39 AM |
| 8 | shit testing regarding other plates on social mediaAs with any shit test, anything that shows you DGAF. But I would use that opportunity to remind her you're not exclusive, for example: "I didn't think you'd want to join us, but ok we'll do a threeway date next time." | /r/askTRP | 25/10/18 08:02 PM |
| 3 | Bored of My Girlfriend AlreadyYour mind is already set on breaking it off and you'd be right. For a young man with a SMV on the rise, a relationship would just be preventing you from developing abundance mentality, learning about women, and developing that SMV with preselection. Problem #3 is a buffer. You'll get a better "practice" with other girls. Problem #2 is the standard issue with being the party breaking up, but don't worry you won't lose sleep over it and she'll move on fast. Lots of orbiters ready to console her. S… | /r/askTRP | 24/10/18 09:34 AM |
| 3 | Why not just live the nightlife lifestyle? Someone explain to me where my logic is fucking up on this.And why not? Some people lived and died in NightWorld. I'd rather suggest to OP that he gives it a shot on the side so he can see for himself the upsides and downsides of that lifestyle and decide for himself if that's his path or not. | /r/askTRP | 23/10/18 07:31 PM |
| 2 | I know i fucked up but please helpIm guessing it was the over-investing from my end that fucked up my chances? Yes, but this over-investing in her is just the symptom of the deeper problem that you need to address: your "I need to have a girlfriend" mindset. As long as you'll have that mindset, you WILL over-invest in the next girl that comes along, and fuck it up with her too. What you need is to learn to become your own mental point of origin, to strive to fulfill your real needs and make yourself happy. See how /u/itiswr1tten… | /r/askTRP | 23/10/18 07:23 PM |
| 1 | Female privileageIs that the same culture in which, I have heard, a guy can't get a wife if he doesn't have a well-paying job and his own apartment? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/18 10:00 AM |
| 2 | Female privileageI did not grow up with any messaging about the superiority of women, He said "From the moment a woman is born, she is treated better than a man." Do you disagree with this statement? nor did my sisters get any free shit for "batting an eyelash." if they threw tantrums they got their asses beat. Maybe you and your sisters did, but you can't deny kids throw tantrums because it's quite an efficient tactic on average to get stuff you want. women who get free shit don't do so because of any innate pr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/18 09:58 AM |
| 11 | Chinese gf's list of requirementsHeyyy the prodigious son is back! Today is a good day | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/18 06:17 AM |
| 26 | When she is interested YOU'LL KNOW.Other relevant TRP 101 item: “watch what she does, not what she says”. In other words, ignore most of that “womanly language” and focus on her behaviour to determine her level of interest: is she actively trying to meet you or not? | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/18 02:18 AM |
| 2 | The reason why most women and blue pill men hate TRPI certainly believe, like you, that an informed anger at TRP (that is, from one who read some of the sub/sidebar, and not from the hearsay) is due to the “dehumanising” view of women, and not as OP suggests due to its “exposing” a concealed strategy. 2018 human beings have been raised to believe humans are special, perhaps based on the animal mold, but fortunately able to rise above the worst of animal instincts. Thus only “defective” humans are violent, or immoral. Here are the good people, and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/18 09:06 PM |
| 12 | After a year of #MeToo, American opinion has shifted against victimsI recently apologized to some feminist friend about a drunken encounter back in college where I was too forward and handsy (but did not assault or coerce her, got the hint and walked away, and nothing sexual happened). I admitted fault to a gray thing they want men to own up about, owned it, and apologized. You'd think this would make her happy. No, she just got more bitchy, lectured me, insulted me, and started demanding more. Do you see the parallel between your story and the very common occur… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/18 03:59 AM |
| 3 | My boyfriend lost his virginity to a sex worker, then lied about itQ4All: Is judging a man's sexual past in this way shaming his sexuality? Is judging a woman's sexual past slut shaming? You really have to go back to the purpose behind the human behaviors that are judging and shaming. When a man discovers that his female partner had a promiscuous past, he receives a whole lot of new information that jeopardizes his sexual investment. Are the kids I am raising having my genes ? Will the future kids I will raise have my genes? This triggers a really primal fear. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/18 07:44 PM |
| 1 | How to isolate a girl from a group settingIt's more than hypothetical, it's actually quite common. Typically, jealous girl friends feeling the anxiety of intrasexual competition. There's some info on dealing with cockblockers on seduction forum. Only thing I've tried that works: having a wingman to distract the rest of the group. | /r/askTRP | 16/10/18 08:14 AM |
| 38 | (Field Report) First cold approach, just fucking do it!The first approach requires immense courage. A bit like stepping in the gym for the first time. So good on you. But just like stepping in the gym the first time won’t make you fit, that first approach won’t do you any good if you don’t follow up on it. You gotta use that momentum to approach more, often, make it a regular activity, and push yourself, always. Only this will grow your “approach muscles” to the point where you can start getting some benefit from it. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/18 11:02 PM |
| 7 | How to isolate a girl from a group settingYou don’t need an “excuse”, you need to have attraction from the girl and to have befriended the group. Then you can tell her “hey let’s go over there to get a drink / talk a bit / have a little break from the crowd” and to them “if you don’t mind I’m borrowing her for a little chat. Will bring her right back in 10 minutes”. Or just about anything else really.. as long as you have her attraction and their respect. | /r/askTRP | 15/10/18 03:42 AM |
| 3 | I want a second girlfriendLook up the blackdragon blog archives for MLTRs and OLTRs... And keep us in touch how it works | /r/askTRP | 14/10/18 07:10 PM |
| 0 | Friendly Neighborhood Lawyer here: Perspective on the Past, the Quarantine, and the Future.Look I have better things to do in life than trying to bring up arguments to convince a random guy on the internet that his perception of a contradiction in the rules of a subreddit is due to different perspectives on semantics. You're welcome to go write an official letter of complaint to the mods. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/10/18 08:15 AM |
| 2 | Friendly Neighborhood Lawyer here: Perspective on the Past, the Quarantine, and the Future.Policing: "The rules are X. Infraction to the rules result in Y" Tone policing: "You should not say things in such way X, but rather in way Y. Get the difference? That's why TRP can have a set of rules (policing) that includes "No concern trolling" (tone policing) without being self-contradictory. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/10/18 06:11 AM |
| 2 | How wpuld you feel if your girlfriend hung out with her guy friends alone?I didn't tell her that why it makes no sense to me why she would want to spend time with other men, why am I not enough? https://therationalmale.com/2016/03/14/plan-b/ | /r/askTRP | 13/10/18 10:38 PM |
| 1 | How wpuld you feel if your girlfriend hung out with her guy friends alone?Reading your post and your answers it's quite clear you are new here. You have a terrible case of not understanding intersexual dynamics at all, if you think that "communicating" your fears to your girl will result in anything else but her losing respect for you and jeopardizing your relationship further. The ultimate problem with your cluelessness is that your issues with that girl are but a spec of the issues you're going to face your entire life. It's like you're a city boy who just got dropp… | /r/askTRP | 13/10/18 10:37 PM |
| 21 | Bad case of OneitisGuys, my wound is not healing. I hurt myself in April and applied the "no-touching-it" rule and that was that. In June I began scratching it. In August, I stuck my finger into it. Last week I stuck some knives into it (dumb I know). I don't understand why it's not healing, please help! | /r/askTRP | 13/10/18 09:58 PM |
| 1 | BJJ or Boxing?Try them and decide for yourself. Most gyms will offer the first class for free. Also try Muay thai while you're at it. | /r/askTRP | 13/10/18 06:34 AM |
| 3 | "TEXT ME"She did see what he looked like - he was sitting in front of her, facing her, and she noticed him looking at her, before leaving the train and the note behind him. Assuming the story is true of course. The “issue” in that story is that the note said “you should smile”. Women rage over that male comment, and they do so because women, being hyper aware of how they are judged, read it as a negative judgement “you are/look grumpy and that’s not sexually attractive”. This is not a matter of SMV it’s … | /r/TheRedPill | 12/10/18 12:19 AM |
| 25 | Girl eye raping meDude. Stop being autistic. She’s trying super hard to make you understand she wants your dick and waiting on you to make a move. Now you just decide whether you want to fuck her or not. If you do, then you make a move. If you don’t, then ignore her from then onwards and she’ll get the message. | /r/askTRP | 11/10/18 10:46 PM |
| 2 | "I heard you're a man whore" shit test, anyone overcome this reputation with a hesitant girl?If you only picked up on the word "smart", it's that you didn't understand my comment, so I'll flesh it out a bit. Make her feel small and petite, yes. Make her feel like you think she's a slut, hell-fucking-no! Negging is a cornerstone of Game. I know. By all means tease her by making her feel that you judge her to be weak, or messy, or obnoxious, or not-that-attractive, or fragile. But there is one type of tease you absolutely want to avoid and that's suggesting she's sexually adventurous. You… | /r/askTRP | 10/10/18 05:44 AM |
| 3 | "I heard you're a man whore" shit test, anyone overcome this reputation with a hesitant girl?Yeah agree and amplify in your situation. Not only that is often the best answer to a shit test, but here it’s also sexual in nature so that it’ll help you. Don’t deny it, you may slip into DEERing. Just make fun of it. As others say, this is not negative. As much as she’d prefer to be special to you, she cannot resist feeling the pull of massive preselection. If you’re a “man-whore”, it implies there’s something about you that draws a LOT of women to you, even if they may know about you being a… | /r/askTRP | 09/10/18 06:36 PM |
| 14 | "I heard you're a man whore" shit test, anyone overcome this reputation with a hesitant girl?Hinting that a woman might be a slut right to her face is not a smart move. | /r/askTRP | 09/10/18 06:30 PM |
| 1 | Romeo of Rimini, aged 63, dies while having sex with a 23 y.o. Romanian touristYep. That'll teach me to wander on reddit when I'm too tired to see basic sarcasm. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/18 07:50 PM |
| 10 | Romeo of Rimini, aged 63, dies while having sex with a 23 y.o. Romanian touristOne. You claim that "too much sex" is what killed him. You have zero evidence. Two. Even if you had such evidence, this guys is ONE anecdote, not sufficient data to draw conclusions. Three. What are you to decide which number is "too much"? To tell people to settle somehow. Should I send you a personal message to let you know that "it's probably safe to say" (aka, having no fucking evidence, just pulling this out of my ass) that an average male cannot make.. I don't know let's say 1 million doll… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/18 10:27 AM |
| 0 | How am I not attracting any female attention when I believe I’m doing the best I ever have?There is a huge amount of material out there. Some as links in posts on the sidebar. But I'd say everyone should have at least read the original once: the Mystery Method. Some practical tips in it might be overused, or dated in the metoo era, but the principles are solid basics. | /r/askTRP | 07/10/18 09:27 AM |
| 50 | How am I not attracting any female attention when I believe I’m doing the best I ever have?I find it amazing yet frustrating, that TRP was built on Game and now 2018 TRP members have completely forgotten about it. OP you have no Game. You need to read on it and apply. | /r/askTRP | 06/10/18 08:30 PM |
| 1 | Working with All Womendamn that is fine Power skills you have here. Machiavelli wuold be proud | /r/askTRP | 06/10/18 11:22 AM |
| 13 | Working with All WomenRead about how women work together: http://theredpillroom.blogspot.com/2012/05/female-social-matrix-introduction.html?m=1 In summary, you can’t advance your position. They are not concerned about rewarding on merit (think about the feelings of those won’t don’t get rewarded!) but seek to maintain consensus while subtly undermining the mother hen. All-women-groups are not environment where you can stand out - they will resent you and cut you off. Best you can do is not generate drama by not being… | /r/askTRP | 05/10/18 07:37 PM |
| 7 | Offensive to the female imperative"Sorry I'm busy that day". "I'm supposed to meet someone in 5min, I really got to go, see you later, was nice talking to you". "I'd love to do this but my current girl is the jealous type and I don't want to create drama". etc. | /r/askTRP | 05/10/18 08:04 AM |
| 3 | Raising redpillsRead the Rationale Male's 3rd book "positive Masculinity" | /r/askTRP | 04/10/18 07:16 PM |
| 12 | GF out of town for work and not texting.Whether I should or shouldn't doesn't matter to me. Too bad because that's the key of your problem right here. But you just refuse to contemplate it. The only solution to your problem is exactly this: you should not be in a LTR. Right now you should be single and learning to date non-exclusively. Maybe she cheats, maybe she doesn't. But whether she does or not, you're experiencing that massive anxiety and insecurity, because you're not ready for a LTR. You put too much importance on it. Too much… | /r/askTRP | 04/10/18 08:00 AM |
| 29 | Beta male orbits thot for 9 years while she rides the cock carousel, then she hits the wall and he buys her a house. Don't be this guy.Don't test them, you're only going to confuse them further. Sure his tone is acidic, but that doesn't make his analysis less true. This is an extremely typical case of "saving the best", of "beta in waiting". Assuming the story is true. The candidness of her own admission ("I always knew he liked me but I was busy chasing assholes" and "Other friends kept telling me to give it a chance") is an illustration of modern open hypergamy. It's only falling short of declaring the truth: she kept him as … | /r/TheRedPill | 03/10/18 07:52 PM |
| 71 | Letting women misbehaveI am reporting this post immediately for lack of misogyny. As the sidebar says, this community is dedicated to highly offensive content. Please stay on topic. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/10/18 07:20 PM |
| 3 | Why I am cynical towards the readership in TRP, and I don't think I'm alonehttp://www.returnofkings.com/195790/return-of-kings-is-going-on-hiatus | /r/TheRedPill | 02/10/18 09:29 PM |
| 23 | Always Assume The Worst. Protect Yourself From Getting ‘Metooed’.metoo can happen to anybody, and if you are a visible member of your community, it's very likely to happen. This is the crux right here. Everything is leading to this moment when accusation of sexual assault has become the perfect weapon for feminism to take over. step 1: Do not leave any space a male one only. All communities must include women step 2: Shift the culture from the masculine one recognizing merit, to the feminine one enforcing consensus and "safe space for all" step 3: Shift the v… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/10/18 07:23 PM |
| 6 | High School Nerd Kisses One-itis - 24 years later!Good old beta in waiting | /r/TheRedPill | 02/10/18 08:39 AM |
| 5 | In case you hadn't noticed....I laughed reading the article. I just really wonder what goes through the head of all those male feminists seeing women destroying their reputation, their career, their life, after they've spent so much time empowering them. Do they feel betrayed? Do they feel stupid? Do they feel like they deserved it? But how could you be so dumb as to not be able to predict it would happen? It's like a zoo-keeper stepping in the wolves' enclosure to teach them how zoo-keepers are the enemy and have a particul… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/10/18 08:34 AM |
| 12 | The Reddit Administration RecantsThe admins know this. That's why this sub has survived so far. Problem is more the fact that having a platform where "hate speech" is supported is not good for bringing in advertisers. So they gotta find a way to shut it down, while still promoting impartiality... Not easy. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/10/18 07:19 AM |
| 14 | Why are women so obsessed with taking hoodies, shirts, jumpers etc off their spouseThis is so common I actually make use of that feature.. to get rid of the jumpers I don't want to wear anymore lol. My best guess is that these are the clothes that smell of you, that the sense of smell is strongly connected to memory and emotion, and that women are addicted to their feelings. | /r/askTRP | 01/10/18 07:44 PM |
| 20 | The MachineAMALT | /r/TheRedPill | 01/10/18 11:51 AM |
| 10 | Brett Kavanaugh's Tears: Women Can't Understand Male EmotionWhat’s really surprising is that #metoo has been going on for a while now. The feminist mainstream and social media have been inundating everyone with women “coming out” after their alledged abusers.. and BK’s accusers have been watching it all unfold and said absolutely nothing about the evil man that ruined their lives 40y ago... until oh right when he got nominated for office at a super important position.. This will apply to all future accusations of men running for office. “Why didn’t you s… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/09/18 10:13 PM |
| 4 | Brett Kavanaugh's Tears: Women Can't Understand Male EmotionHe is their enemy. They would have lashed out at him for NOT displaying emotion just as well. Shaming is a fantastically flexible tool and there are hundreds of different social conventions available to shame from whatever perspective you want. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/09/18 10:05 PM |
| 23 | Brett Kavanaugh's Tears: Women Can't Understand Male EmotionWell spotted. As Rollo says, women viscerally react with disgust at “manspreading” because they unconsciously interpret it as a sexual display from a man that her hypergamous impulse as categorised as a “beta”, thus kicking the hamster into drive. And so it works with anything labelled “toxic masculinity”. Hypergamy dictates that every move from a man deemed alpha is fine (seen recently that video of that bodybuilder beating his woman to a pulp and her not pressing charges because she doesn’t wa… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/09/18 10:01 PM |
| 8 | F*** YOU REDDIT.You can be angry but you should keep your composure and act instead of whining. How difficult a concept is this to understand? Was your first reaction after the anger to register on trp.red? To contact the mods to ask how you could help? Did you create a twitter account to follow Rollo and Rich Cooper and contribute to the Manosphere there? That's the problem with places like this sub. All talk and no action. The concept of "holding frame" is supposed to be a REAL advice. A REAL call to action r… | /r/askTRP | 30/09/18 08:07 PM |
| 24 | F*** YOU REDDIT.It’s not fair, it’s unjust, and I’m upset. WHAT THE FUCK!?! You have learned fucking nothing! Go back to the back of the class and at the beginning of the sidebar, you whiner! Same goes to all of you who upvoted this post or sharing your hurt fee-fees. You come here to learn to be a man, you read and understand the message, and on the first bloody test of your frame, you just crumble on the spot!? Here's an actionable tip for you all - Just like you're supposed to "spin plates" to avoid the powe… | /r/askTRP | 29/09/18 09:58 PM |
| 18 | 300,000 Subscribers. The Reddit Administration Tacitly Endorses Male Abuse and Denies its VictimsBy what definition of mysogyny? | /r/TheRedPill | 29/09/18 08:14 PM |
| 5 | ThanksI'm not here to hold your hand all the way. Pro tip for the rest of your life as a Man: if you don't know how to do something, ask yourself first "how could I figure this out by myself (so that I get to the solution faster, without bothering people off their precious time, and in the end give the impression to my fellow men that I am an self-reliant, resourceful and effective individual)?" Trust me, this will be the main quality sought after by future employers or business partners. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/09/18 11:11 AM |
| 2 | ThanksThey're safe as long as the archiving website is on (or keeps them). You're better off archiving their contents right on your computer if you want to be safest. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/09/18 10:30 AM |
| 2 | ThanksThere is so much more and so much better quality redpill material than the sidebar shows. Good on you to be on the lookout. Check my answer to top poster above | /r/TheRedPill | 29/09/18 10:07 AM |
| 7 | Thankshttps://archive.is/swmYz https://archive.is/EPH38 https://archive.is/DqZPO | /r/TheRedPill | 29/09/18 09:59 AM |
| 13 | I was living proof that all this about woman was bullshit-until I got dumpedThe type of "genuine affection" a man can develop for a woman is exactly the same kind of "genuine affection" a woman can develop for a dependent: a child, a pet. But women don't see men as their dependent. For women, a man is a provider, a rock, a safe harbour, something to look up to. Do you feel "genuine affection" for your father? For your boss? For your country? No you don't. You'll feel "respect" instead. Admiration perhaps. But in all case, it is conditional to their performance. Same goe… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/09/18 12:08 PM |
| 55 | Friendly Neighborhood Lawyer here: Perspective on the Past, the Quarantine, and the Future.I used to think like you after a couple years on TRP. Then I understood why the mods never acted to tone down the anger. The very idea to "tone down" a message to suit the palate of the more easily offended is exactly how the feminine takes hold in a male space. From there it's all downwards. Male spaces like the locker room, the old pub, or the fishing boat don't have a tone police. There's an all-powerful authority (mods) establishing laws to abide (rules) and organizing a hierarchy based on m… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/09/18 11:59 AM |
| 14 | Quarantine What Does It Mean?Oh don’t worry we’re still all out there in the world. Lifting, loving life, making love to them poor women we apparently hate so much, and discussing our experiences on how to love them some more. And we’ll still help you the day your delusions are shattered and your eyes finally open to the reality of humans’ intersexual dynamics. We’ll be telling you “it’s ok, we were clueless and full of hubris once too” and we’ll share with you how to function in this world with your eyes open. Till then bu… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/09/18 03:34 AM |
| 9 | Quarantine What Does It Mean?Even when the gym owner has announced the locker room is finally to be closed because of the bad PR he’s getting from all the women outside worrying about what is being said in it and spreading lies about it, and guys round up there for a last time to give thanks to each other for having saved one another’s life thanks to those discussions, there still has to be one girl who felt she needed to come at the window to taunt them one last time and repeat the lies directly at them so that she can fee… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/09/18 03:13 AM |
| 34 | Why is the red pill sub unavailable ?That first sentence is so incredibly infantilizing. Gotta protect people's feelings you know? Man we wouldn't want someone to come across an opinion they don't share and get PTSD from reading a sentence on the internet! The two last ones I just can't believe are from the real world and not a quote from some dystopian novel or a history book on Mao's China. Quarantining a community may have a positive effect on the behavior of its subscribers. This is insane... And a stark reminder that "reeducat… | /r/askTRP | 27/09/18 09:13 PM |
| 30 | This community is quarantined: It is dedicated to shocking or highly offensive content. For information on positive masculinity, please see the resources available at Stony Brook University's Center for the Study of Men and MasculinitiesTime for everyone to read their physical copy of The Rational Male instead of relying on the subreddit. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/09/18 08:01 PM |
| 2 | Why You’re Still Getting Shitty ResultsAll of them. Even Gaming and Chess have women. But you're better off targeting something a bit more active or creative. Any sport, any outdoor activity, any creative endeavour. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/09/18 07:59 PM |
| 272 | Why is the red pill sub unavailable ?You can still access it from a computer. You will get a message: This community is quarantined: It is dedicated to shocking or highly offensive content. For information on positive masculinity, please see the resources available at Stony Brook University's Center for the Study of Men and Masculinities redpillschool put up a top post saying: It finally happened. We've been quarantined. It's a matter of time before we're entirely removed. The mods will discuss our next move and report back. In the… | /r/askTRP | 27/09/18 07:50 PM |
| 9 | Why You’re Still Getting Shitty ResultsWhat you need is Game and Status. There is much much more to Game than just approaching girls. You need the ZFG attitude, the abundance mentality, the skills to pass shit tests, the being a mystery, the push/pull, the engaging convos, the teasing, etc etc. You need to keep learning and keep practicing it. Then you need local Status. It's not enough "having hobbies", you need to be seriously good at something. Something that you're so good at that you're in the top 5% of the crowd doing said hobb… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/09/18 08:38 AM |
| 44 | Exited the friendzone after 15 years. This is how.If you've been in the needy weak wussy position before with a girl, she will likely see you like this forever. For all she knows, that new alpha attitude and big muscles of yours are just a front you're putting to cover up your intense betaness. Never be surprised the people who knew you before don't accept the new you. It's not your RP mentality that got you the girl. It's not your nebulous "taking action". It was purely preselection. Preselection is by very far the most potent factor in attrac… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/09/18 08:24 AM |
| 1 | how to end my internet addiction the redpill wayCheck the “self control” app on mac | /r/askTRP | 24/09/18 01:09 AM |
| 4 | Women and Sex: Its Not Intimacy, its PowerThis quote was posted by a gay man with a strong bias for displaying his witticism. Doesn't make it true. If you want to take a quote seriously, bring me back one from a politically unbiased scholar who did a career researching men's sexuality from a biological, hormonal, neurological perspective instead. There is no strawman here. This "sex is about power" thing is 100% cannon feminism theory. Ask any feminist. And my comment doesn't come from a place of frustration - only of intellectual curio… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/09/18 01:52 AM |
| 10 | Women and Sex: Its Not Intimacy, its PowerOf course this quote is in the comments. It’s untrue though. Sex is about sex. At least for guys. Feminists loooooove to say that “rape is about power” because they’ve never lived a second as a man and cannot comprehend our sexual urge, especially one frustrated for too long. I always thought that this bizarre idea of “sex is about power” claimed by feminists must be some sort of projection - that this is how women feel about sex. And OP made a sensible explanation here. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/18 10:34 AM |
| 53 | The best defense against oneitis is to learn how to love women. Appropriately.Great post. The very fact that he invests too much too quickly is often what drives women away from him. An inappropriate level of investment that a woman has not earned is creepy. After all, the fact that she was kind to him is not special to her, only to him. Many men are kind to her. She is kind to many men. So in her mind, he is over-investing in her for no reason at all. Even simpler: the fact that he's investing in her too much and too early is a crystal-clear symptom of his lack of succes… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/09/18 06:56 AM |
| 2 | How to get abundance: stop focusing on womenI made some mistakes and I accept that. Last time I saw Maslow’s pyramid of needs I remember seeing food>sex but I might be wrong. Maslow pulled his pyramid out of his own ass. Don't take all pop-psychology too literally. Of course we can go longer without sex than without food and water. But as the research I sent you a link about, sex takes precedence. Again no need to take it too literally - where it comes from is that in Nature, opportunities for sex are few, so that we Males are designed to… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/09/18 08:36 PM |
| 1 | I Fucking Did ItI don't get how travels, hobbies are indicators of high value. I talk about this stuff to girls all the time but it's just what normal people do. I thought high value is more to do with status in life like being a bouncer bartender etc. You're actually right. What's high value is not universal. From experience, I find different girls value different things - more precisely, they value what they already value. Aka, if you meet a girl who loves to travel, she will be hot for the fact that you have… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/09/18 08:07 PM |
| 3 | How to get abundance: stop focusing on womenSo once my innate need for sex is met, I imagine I'll stop feeling that persisting underlying sense of anxiety. And I believe this anxiety is simply my hind animal mind telling me I should be getting some pussy. Thoughts? Anxiety can come from a range of things, but if you are sexually unsuccessful, I'm ready to bet it comes from here yes. Yes you may want to get that hitch scratched so you can give your brain a break. Some people here may even recommend you go see a hooker to get your thirst qu… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/09/18 07:57 PM |
| 3 | How to get abundance: stop focusing on womenMy reading of evo psych and TRP, and reflecting upon my own life as well as those I see around me have all brought me to the inescapable conclusion that men's brains are designed for sex, and that lack of sex will impact negatively on your well-being. Think of it. We need water to survive. Go without water for a while and what does your body does? You get thirsty. It's your body's way of telling you "dude. There's emergency here." It's an alarm going off. There is no reason why evolution wouldn'… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/09/18 12:18 PM |
| 8 | How to get abundance: stop focusing on womenI completely agree with your points. The main topic about my post is trying to live a period without women. I’m not saying to go full MGTOW until you die, that’s obviously pure bullshit. I see what you are trying to say: yes, game matters a lot. And you’ll learn game only by going out and practicing. All agree so far. But what’s really important to a man is to be financially independent and healthy in the first place. Really? Then why are all men so hell bent on getting laid? Why is porn such an… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/09/18 12:03 PM |
| 5 | How to get abundance: stop focusing on womenWhat you're pointing at are the two main flaws in OP's post. First, men are not monks. Your entire brain is built with one purpose: fuck women. Denying our nature can only lead to neurosis. Once you get laid, your brain let you off the leash a little bit. Trying to "not give a fuck about women" is complete fool's errand. Particularly for guys in their 20's when hormones are raging. Second, what is that "success" that makes girls fall in your lap without you even having to try? Game and Status ar… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/09/18 11:30 AM |
| 15 | How to get abundance: stop focusing on womenTRP also says that women are attracted to dark triad traits, or that asshole game is effective. How does that fit with what TRP is trying to say? What OP is saying is a common idea among newbies ridden with approach anxiety and little sexual success: that you can use a select set of TRP ideas to justify why you should not approach women and not feel bad about not getting laid. It goes like this "TRP says women are attracted to success therefore I don't need game or lifting at all, I just need su… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/09/18 11:24 AM |
| 6 | How to get abundance: stop focusing on womenOh yeah it's like this? Oh do you know this exactly? Have you followed through this process and it worked? | /r/TheRedPill | 10/09/18 07:48 AM |
| 20 | How to get abundance: stop focusing on womenIt's funny because three days ago, I answered a post on asktrp from a guy who said he had adopted the "TRP idea" of "focusing on the mission" and "build it and they will come" and two years later he was on a great track with his mission, but still sexless and fucking miserable so now he was coming back to asktrp to ask why it didn't work. The sentiment in OP's post looks awesome on paper but the reality is that as a man, you need to get laid to feel worthy. I know it sucks, but this is the firmw… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/09/18 07:08 AM |
| 2 | I Fucking Did Itit never ends up going anywhere because there's no context to hang out for future purposes That's if you keep the interaction at the low-investment level you started it at. My comment was about the approaching part - it's important to keep it super casual not to pass off as a "creep", to test whether she's open to a chat with a stranger, to test if she doesn't find your appearance repulsive. And sure you keep talking about very casual things in line with your opener to stay consistent, for a goo… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/09/18 07:00 AM |
| 5 | Made a bet that i would fuck and the girl found outSimply perfect. Roissy would be proud. | /r/askTRP | 08/09/18 08:46 AM |
| 51 | I don’t wanna be a sucker and spend so much time and money on a girl who doesn’t sleep with with me, but then I don’t want a hoe. What’s the happy medium?If a girl is holding out on sex with you, it's because she's not physically aroused by you. Maybe just maybe you can find a girl who has so high morals, and so good an education, that she will manage to hold out for 2, 3 or 4 dates. But that should be painfully obvious in her attitude that she's dying to fuck you and that "having to hold out like God told me to" is killing her inside. If she looks like she has no interest in fucking you anytime soon, then her "good girl attitude" is a front she'… | /r/askTRP | 08/09/18 08:43 AM |
| 2 | Don't get the whole "focus on your purpose" principleYou only took of TRP what you felt comfortable with, leaving aside the difficult stuff. “Build it and they will come” is absolutely NOT a TRP principle. It’s only espoused by newbies who are hamstering hard how to avoid rejection - Rollo calls it a buffer, look it up. What you should be doing is lifting, and approaching. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/09/18 12:56 AM |
| 12 | Life Lessons learned from being unemployed for the past monthYou should have taken the job offer despite the low salary. When you’re unemployed you have no power, you need a job desperately. Employers know that and that’s why the offer is low. What you need to do is take the first job you can, even if it doesn’t pay much, and as soon as you’re in, you look for another job. Now you’re not desperate anymore and you can command a better offer. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/09/18 01:44 AM |
| 9 | Holding frame: 18 months down the lineStarting with the right frame from the beginning will be key. I fucked up a lot with how I entered my current LTR. While I’m getting frame back now, there are still some things that will never be forgotten or unseen from either end of the relationship. Yep this is exactly it. You can't do better than entering a LTR from the right frame - the girl only knows the "right" version of you. If you were beta when you got in yours (or became one during the LTR), then that's what she wants and needs from… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/09/18 07:28 AM |
| 18 | Holding frame: 18 months down the lineI know blue pill delusion and myths stick but if you truly believed what you read in the Rational Male, you would know that at 35 you are right now at your peak SMV potential. Never been married? No kids? Good income? Your own car/place? You're a HB10 to the opposite sex. Right fucking now you are turning more heads than ever before in your past. Right now you have the widest range of pussy available that you ever had at any time in your life (and probably ever will in the future). You can get o… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/09/18 01:36 AM |
| 5 | Rollo Tomassi is hosted by Stefan Molyneux - a broader perspective on hypergamyI agree that pair-bonding may very well act against that biological imperative. But I don't think her "feelings for her current partner" exist independently from hypergamy. Women's feelings are fleeting. If a woman meets a man whom she deems is a better prospect than her current partner, or more commonly, if she feels that her current partner's SMV has fallen, then her "feelings" for her current partner change. In other words, her "feelings" adjust to hypergamy. In such conditions, a woman refus… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/08/18 03:44 PM |
| 2 | Buddy took my date homeExtreme example of abundance mindset. I think that's the message OP was going for here. I can't wait for the next idiot with a cuckold fetish to explain to us how having guys coming to his place to fuck his wife on his bed is a demonstration of his abundance mentality. Rather than gloating about his abundance mindset and his roster of plates, OP should reconsider his shitty game (what part of "isolate" did he not understand?), his choice of friends, and this troubling seed of a cuckold fetish th… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/08/18 02:59 PM |
| 31 | Rollo Tomassi is hosted by Stefan Molyneux - a broader perspective on hypergamyYou don't understand hypergamy as TRP defines it. Women do not "try" to swing to the next better option, they desire so. Hypergamy is women's biological imperative. Compare with the counterpart in men, the male biological imperative: polygamy. Men are horny as fuck. They desire to fuck more girls than they currently fuck. All married men feel the pull to fuck other girls than their regular, but not all men end up doing it, because of the risks and costs associated. This doesn't prevent the desir… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/08/18 02:50 PM |
| 7 | I Fucking Did ItHe got nothing in return, except a small dose of the vital experience of getting over approach anxiety in order to fulfill his sexual strategy. What I am offering is a perspective that can help getting over approach anxiety. I admit it sounds lefty ("make the world a happy place for all, yay"), but if that can help getting rid of AA, then why not? The end justifies the means. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/08/18 01:12 PM |
| 14 | I Fucking Did ItI understand where approach anxiety comes from, but it seriously doesn't make any sense. You see that girl sitting there by herself? She wants guys. Just as much as guys think of girls, girls spend an inordinate amount of time wanting guys. She wants guys to come talk to her. Just like you she's hopeful for some sex, for some love, from a guy. She loves attention, specifically, men's attention. Girls are like vampires, except they feed on men's time, men's attention, and men's efforts to survive… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/08/18 10:32 AM |
| 9 | A Sense of OwnershipThe endowment effect would be a consequence of our need to ascertain paternity. This is an awesome thesis, Rollo. But your view of evolution is slightly incorrect, and the correct version happens to support your thesis even more. You write (emphasis mine): If you’re ever read Dawkin’s book, The Selfish Gene, you kind of get a clearer picture of it. Selfish, self-concerned, organisms tend to survive better than overly altruistic or egalitarian ones. As the book title suggests, it's not that organ… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/08/18 10:03 AM |
| 20 | #BookShelfChallengeMy own bookshelf is much larger than the list below, but I wrote a post a while ago listing my shortlist, in the right order, for the newly unplugged. Here's a copy-paste. The couple of very best "mainstream-friendly" books on the importance of masculinity, to start gently and arouse curiosity: 1- "No More Mr. Nice Guy", by Robert Glover 2- "The Way of The Superior Man", by David Deida Which should hopefully be enough to pave the way for the upcoming shock of unplugging that comes when you swall… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/08/18 09:48 PM |
| 5 | I enjoy going to Prostitutes...the real market price for sex This creates an interesting baseline. Add up the time you spend on tinder, gaming, texting, dating. Divide by the number of lays you get from it. This is your average time spent to get one lay. Now think that this amount of time is worth about 40 euros (~$45), at least in Belgium, without considering your expenses. How happy are you with that number? How does this compare to your rate at work? | /r/askTRP | 20/08/18 01:37 PM |
| 13 | For Online Daters, Women Peak at 18 While Men Peak at 50, Study Finds.Women's SMV don't "peak". It starts at the very top from the moment they are sexually available, and stays there until 23, and then declines for the rest of their life. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/08/18 07:18 PM |
| 25 | For Online Daters, Women Peak at 18 While Men Peak at 50, Study Finds.The Rational Male blog. This is TRP 101. Personal advice - stop reading this subreddit until you've gone through at least the best of year 1 (the graph is somewhere in it). | /r/TheRedPill | 18/08/18 07:14 PM |
| 11 | Rollo has listed traits that determine attraction. What are the traits that determine arousal according to him?Rollo uses attraction for the Beta bucks side, and arousal for the Alpha fucks side. It's good that he does so, because on this sub and elsewhere on the manosphere, including Rollo's blog itself, "beta" is now equated with "loser" instead of "successful provider" as it was meant to be. Anyway, to answer you, arousal is therefore everything "alpha" we talk about. Looks and height first, but also behaviors that reflect the "alpha mindset": Not giving a fuck, abundance mentality, boldness and risk-… | /r/askTRP | 14/08/18 05:15 PM |
| 5 | FR: Daygame Session #3: I Have A Boyfriend too!One of the sticking points that I'm having is that women aren't invested. If I pause and try to let them carry the conversation they use that opportunity and leave. If I talk too much and talk about myself, they aren't invested in as well as they didn't make the conscious effort to do so and they forget about me. Have you read Roosh's Day Bang? He discusses this issue. When you hit on a girl in the street, even if you go indirect, you give her a ego boost that she really enjoys riding. That may … | /r/TheRedPill | 13/08/18 09:58 AM |
| 58 | My girlfriend spends too much time with this guyYour LTR is doomed. Not because of that guy, but because that girl's behavior reveals she takes you for granted. So yeah, be worried. Does she fuck him? Does she line him up as the next branch to swing to? Is she just getting a beta on orbit for validation? Is she developing her options to soothe her ego? Doesn't matter really. What should worry you is that this girl feels that she has you on a leash. | /r/askTRP | 09/08/18 11:25 AM |
| 2 | "TRP focuses too much on women"You don't get it. I go to the "personalfinance" subreddit to learn about, and discuss, finances. I go to the "fitness" subreddit to learn about, and discuss, lifting. I come to the "theredpill" subreddit to learn about, and discuss, the reality of intersexual dynamics, aka sexual strategies. Anybody who wants more than sexual strategy from this subreddit is someone for whom this sub is a "boy's club" whose membership fee is the politically-incorrect criticism of women. They are people who desire… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/08/18 05:50 AM |
| 3 | [Career/Masters Advice Needed]I'm not in your field, but from my experience: ask the very people who will be hiring you. Pick a couple of your dream firms, ask for a meeting with HR or top management to get advice on education, ask them the kind of profile THEY typically hire, or they can't get enough of. Oh and congrats on having a firm vision of your future, and one in line with reality, not fantasy. Forget the naysayers who are rationalizing like crazy their lack of options in life because of their lack of money. | /r/askTRP | 06/08/18 05:58 AM |
| 12 | "TRP focuses too much on women"What I came to say. The very short description of the sub defines its scope. OP's metaphor should really be "on the weightlifting sub, they talk about weightlifting", and I do hope they ban those newbies that show up on the sub complaining that they "talk too much about weightlifting". Should be crystal clear no? The problem is that massive influx of MGTOWs and incels we got who found that TRP is a cozy place to talk about their interest in self-improvement and dissing women, but are disappointe… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/18 05:50 AM |
| 4 | The begging months are confusing...It takes time. You're doing great, keep at it. No need to go out all the time, but do practice game (talk to strangers, approach girls) when you're in a social setting. Keeping lifting is mandatory. It doesn't take that much time if you're doing 5x5. No excuse to stop at all. MMA yes. Start that. | /r/askTRP | 04/08/18 09:59 PM |
| 3 | Have you fucks just ruined every romantic film ever made for me?This is a very interesting comment. Rom coms are advertised for women, but it's quite clear it is also sold as fantasy for betas. They feed those fantasies that the ONE is real and you can have her, that women can love unconditionally, that you just have to be yourself. As a newly unplugged man, it's difficult for you to watch them because they feed you your own pre-existing blue pill delusions. Rom coms are works of fiction. They are enjoyable this way. Just like sci fi movies. If you feel like… | /r/askTRP | 04/08/18 09:52 PM |
| 2 | What's your most unpopular opinion?It's not an unpopular opinion at all. Actually it's quite popular, judging from all those posts on my facebook feed. What it is, though, is that it's an idiotic opinion. All living things exert efforts to survive. All (most) humans ever have exerted efforts to live. Especially as a man, with the "burden of performance" on your shoulders, it's basically your birth duty to spend most of your life exerting efforts to sustain your life. Now, not liking that fact of life, fair enough. Lucky there are… | /r/askTRP | 04/08/18 07:07 AM |
| 35 | Favorite plate broke down crying after sexIt requires a gigantic amount of rationalization to be able to tell your lover after fucking that you are stressed because you miss your long-distance "boyfriend". That hamster is a world-class athlete. | /r/askTRP | 04/08/18 06:27 AM |
| 4 | Favorite plate broke down crying after sexLong-distance relationship is not a relationship so technically, she has no boyfriend. It's just that the poor guy doesn't know. | /r/askTRP | 04/08/18 06:23 AM |
| 18 | Favorite plate broke down crying after sexYou handled it flawlessly He was the safe harbor that withstood her emotional storm. You can't handle that any better. | /r/askTRP | 04/08/18 06:21 AM |
| 5 | I fuck models on a regular basis... Here's how I do it...This isn't casting couch. [...] I'm not creepy like Harvey Weinstein. Lol. "We are not a pyramid scheme!" said Herbalife | /r/TheRedPill | 03/08/18 04:40 AM |
| 7 | She wants to feel smallGreat post neatly summarizing what I consider is TRP's most important, most relevant, most directly-applicable-wisdom about sexual dynamics. Women are aroused by men they feel are superior to them in matters they value. Even pre-redpill, 100% of the girls I got with, whom I could feel were really into me, were so because I was vastly superior to them in a way they valued, usually education (for uneducated girls who were convinced they were not smart and deploring it) or life experience (for girl… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/08/18 08:51 AM |
| 5 | She wants to feel smallYou forgot the end part. You can be superior in other ways she value a lot. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/08/18 08:44 AM |
| 7 | Co-Worker/buddy sold his car and motorcycle to buy a more expensive car for his wifeIt would be easier if modern culture was not so hell-bent at producing guys with such defective mindset. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/08/18 08:13 AM |
| 34 | 3 Desirable Qualities Of Masculinity, According To My Female TherapistWhat he's saying is don't listen to women because women talk with the purpose of achieving their agenda, which is usually not yours. This is seriously good advice to follow. Even when what they say seems to confirm your prejudices. Especially when what they say seem to confirm your prejudices. See it's not that what she said is wrong. It's that she didn't say it because it's true, but because her agenda dictates that you believe that this is true. It's a mere coincidence that, for that specific … | /r/TheRedPill | 02/08/18 08:06 AM |
| 14 | Blue Pill TraumaSometimes I do worry Rollo get's a little too tin-foil-hat "the sky is falling" when he talks about the female imperative and how its systematically destroying society and men everywhere. I do too sometimes. And then within 5 minutes of thinking this, I see an article on the news, or a post on facebook, or a chat between friends, that just confirm Rollo's analysis that society is hell bent to fulfilling the female biological imperative, and men suffering because of it. I'm all for a lot of TRP t… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/08/18 07:51 AM |
| 15 | Blue Pill TraumaI know that somewhere deep in my email history, there are emails just like this. I cringe just at the idea to look for them. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/08/18 07:34 AM |
| 32 | Jordan Peterson, Fallacies, and the Tragic State of this SubAlways love a good heated debate. He's right. Pick-up artists are inherently psychopathic. And the fact that the creator of this sub is upset about this is absolutely inane, and really goes to show where it's headed. JBP here makes a perhaps-true claim, and then uses the moral underpinning of it to shame the target of that claim. I like JBP but this is a tactic taken straight out of the playbook of the people he dislikes so much. In reality, pick-up artistry may be psychopathic indeed, but then … | /r/TheRedPill | 31/07/18 11:36 AM |
| 1 | Jordan Peterson can’t handle the truth.Interesting. You'd have links for a few of these? | /r/TheRedPill | 30/07/18 08:47 PM |
| 1 | Jordan Peterson can’t handle the truth.How much does he talk about the dark side of women? | /r/TheRedPill | 30/07/18 09:33 AM |
| 29 | Jordan Peterson can’t handle the truth.I think JBP definitely gets human beings mostly, but his morals prevent him from considering the darker aspects of us, and thus understands human beings less than TRP. For example, he gets hypergamy in its standard definition (women trying to date across and up the hierarchy) but he fails to appreciate the darker aspect that is AF;BB. Women are attracted to men higher on the dominance hierarchy yes, but they are sexually aroused by a whole set of hyper-masculine cues including what you'd conside… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/07/18 10:41 PM |
| 1 | I can't seem to create a spark of interest...More masculinity. More mystery (tingle their imagination). More preselection. That should do. | /r/askTRP | 27/07/18 12:05 PM |
| 9 | What Men Want: “Debt-Free Virgins Without Tattoos”The problem is not so much that men have preferences.. more than men have preferences which run contrary to what a woman is. Aka, a tatooed, debt-ridden, carousel-rider woman will most definitely feel an emotional reaction to hearing the possibility that men prefer what she is not and can never be again. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/07/18 12:00 PM |
| 2 | human beings are pattern recognition machines: an analysis of some red pill concepts from a scientist.You are mixing up a number of concepts together. I believe that these recognised patterns have one goal in mind: to tell the human body what is best for the propagation of genes. Essentially, and as you stated yourself, the entire "objective" of every part of your body (brain, nervous system, muscles, organs, etc.) is to behave in a way that promotes survival, as wide a reproduction as possible, and survival of offspring (and kin). Or rather, every minute detail of a living thing has been select… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/18 10:17 AM |
| 3 | How to get better at talking to & approaching girls in the post-#metoo era?Incels are blowing the situation completely out of proportion.. Complete drama queens. Another symptom of the feminization of our society IMO. Talking to a woman is not a life-threatening endeavor. You're at a cafe, you notice a girl next table over, you quickly assess that you'd bang her, you scan the situation for props that you can use for an opener (she's reading a book? she has a laptop? she's eating something? she has interesting earrings or a funky clothing item?), you go to her and say "… | /r/askTRP | 24/07/18 05:01 AM |
| 1 | Starting A New Life in 35 Days. Help Me.I must commend you on having focused on your mission and working hard for yourself, but as men we need the sexual release. It's fundamental to our mental health. You first need to accept that. The other thing that you need to be aware of is the tendency of men to avoid facing with their fear of approach by adopting behaviors and self-beliefs that justify their lack of approach. It's what Rollo called buffers. Thinking women are not worth it, thinking that you first need to be buff, or you must h… | /r/askTRP | 23/07/18 11:58 PM |
| 3 | Starting A New Life in 35 Days. Help Me.You simply need to get laid. You are frustrated like crazy because you're a virgin, we get it. It's the male condition to tie our self-worth to our sexual success. Stop the monk mode. Approach girls. Find buddies and go to bars. Download tinder. | /r/askTRP | 23/07/18 09:38 AM |
| 4 | Is picking a girl up (not literally) at the gym in line with “Don’t sht where you eat”?The issue with dating at work is that if shit hit the fan, as it often does with women, you might lose your job, your income, your network, your employability... None of this kind of trouble at the gym. If trouble arise, you just go to another gym. So while you go to the gym to focus on your lifting not picking up girls, it's peally not a problem if a girl starts flirting with you, or if you feel like approaching and the girl appears receptive. | /r/askTRP | 23/07/18 09:33 AM |
| 1 | Girlfriend got mad at me and we broke up for no reason, as I know..She most definitely cheated on you or simply found a better prospect than you but can't summon the courage to break up with you as this would make her have to burden the responsibility for the relationship failure. So she'll keep you hanging in that painful "mixed-message" limbo until you do it yourself. Trust your gut and start understanding that the medium is the message. Kid, you are young so I will impart on you the most important piece of wisdom you have ever come across. Ready? Here it com… | /r/askTRP | 23/07/18 04:31 AM |
| 1 | Make her day.Google it for fuck's sake. If you can't do the most basic effort to look for information yourself, life is going to be very hard for you. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/07/18 05:39 AM |
| 16 | You Don't Need a Wife, Just a Blowjob.aka tradcons using the beta horses to rebuild and thrive, thus repeating the cycle of masters who do not have your interest at heart. The king is dead, long live the king! | /r/TheRedPill | 19/07/18 06:00 AM |
| 6 | Do not even try reconnecting with your oneitisYou did not "fail" because you talked to your oneitis. You "failed" by being so damn mad at yourself for doing it. You know TRP. You implement it. It's OK to stumble once in a while like missing one day at the gym. But reacting to your one-time-miss by being upset is a clear sign that you're still a long way from having the strong frame that you're trying to develop. Recognize this and let that be another one-time-miss. Stop giving a fuck | /r/TheRedPill | 18/07/18 07:39 PM |
| 22 | Clueless BetaStrikes Kill AttractionYet women always follow the hivemind in times of peace, and the strongest men (whatever their side) in times of conflict. You can hardly call that wanting a challenge isn't it? That's because women don't really want a challenge, they only want the commitment of a high-value man, which unfortunately comes up as a challenge since the natural sexual strategy of high-value men is to avoid commitment. So you got it the other way around. Women have to work harder for the things they place a high value… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/07/18 10:14 AM |
| 2 | MGTOWS Are Incels In Disguise: Don't Fall For ItThe reason many don't bother with women and relationships in general is because of what gynocentrism is doing to the west This is the typical reason given by MGTOW and I don't buy it. The need for "women and relationships in general" is a basic need of the male condition, the idea of being able to "not bother with it" would be pretty impressive if it were true. Even stranger is that the best reason you found is politics?? It's like stumbling on a guy saying he "don't bother" with water because o… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/18 11:06 AM |
| 3 | Struggling with building habits? Try this.Host, while your method seems to correspond to what we know about hormones, gamization and applied psychology your approach has a drawback - one mistake, one missed session will most likely kill your motivation and "burn" a non-zero quantity of sweet precious testosterone. (speaking from painful personal experience) I personally overcome this issue by avoiding uninterrupted streaks. For example, my meditation practice is 6 days a week, and never 7. If I mess up one day, it's ok because the chall… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/18 04:25 AM |
| 9 | If you could work remotely and live anywhere in the world, where would you live and why?Choose a place where cost of life is very low to minimize expenses, save like crazy, invest, retire early. | /r/askTRP | 12/07/18 04:14 AM |
| 1 | Dyed hair & crazy?so they employ this stunt as if to say “I didn’t want to be fucked by Chad anyway!” So you mean they do it to signal something, aka get attention? | /r/askTRP | 12/07/18 04:09 AM |
| 11 | LTR throws a tantrumThis is exactly what Rollo means when he insists that "It is vital to the health of any LTR that a man establish his frame as the basis of their living together before any formal commitment is recognized". You can get a girl who worships you, but only if you've established that frame right from the very start. That's why "next" is such a common answer to any LTR drama here. The idea being that if you are already in a LTR and are experiencing some form of drama, it's because you started in the wr… | /r/askTRP | 12/07/18 04:04 AM |
| 233 | How getting cancer, having my dreams crushed and being paralysed for 4 months made me a into man.I'm sorry but where's the misogyny? I was told there would be misogyny, but all I can find here is a buffet of badass. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/07/18 03:50 AM |
| 1 | It scares me to potentially watch my partner grow old!You could wife up and get "concubines" on the side. It'll take a lot of work to find (or rather, make) one that will be happy with such deal but it's possible. Check out OLTR on the black dragon blog. Of course this does not insure you against divorce rape later on. Of course, it would be much simpler to work on yourself to realize marriage is a BAD deal overall for men, and that your desire for it is just the result of constant blue pill conditioning. It would be much less work, and save yourse… | /r/askTRP | 11/07/18 12:09 AM |
| 7 | Having loser friends, Giving up on being social for now?You must start at least one "niche" group activity or hobby to hang with guys around a common interest. It is vitally important for you not to isolate yourself. If possible, choose something at the intersection of what you (would) enjoy, what you are (or would get) good at, what is attractive to women (or at least sounds cool, aka not video games), what is fairly masculine, what has side benefits for your mind, body or skillset. Start rock-climbing and join a group doing outdoor trips, join a ro… | /r/askTRP | 11/07/18 12:04 AM |
| 2 | She is not who you think she is, 6 month LTR field reportYou haven't fully unplugged yet. You understand the principles and applies the details well, but you haven't got the fundations right, because you still cling to your prior blue pill hopes without even realizing it. Your wanting a LTR instead of spinning plates, your offering commitment to obtain commitment, your high standards of non-slutiness from a woman... These are all left-overs from your blue pill hopes. You know and understand TRP well but these hopes must be burned to the ground and new… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/07/18 12:09 AM |
| 9 | In only 1 sentence, what is the most painful truth you've learned from trp?There is no such thing as relationship equity. You could give a woman your time, attention, efforts, love, support, money, future, for years and years on end, yet the day Hypergamy will feel an opportunity to upgrade, all of your past provisioning will be worth nothing in the decision process, except only as the evidence of your potential for future provisioning. | /r/askTRP | 08/07/18 10:40 PM |
| 3 | Field Report: Fucking my former oneitis and what it made me realizeWhat is frowned upon is taking works of fiction as evidence of human behavior. You're totally free to say "If you want an example of good game to emulate that follow sound pick-up principles, check out Ryan Gosling in Crazy Stupid Love" but if you'd be an idiot to say "Ryan Gosling's game in Crazy Stupid Love works because he got all those hot girls in the movie". | /r/TheRedPill | 08/07/18 10:31 PM |
| 2 | Don’t listen to their words, watch their actions.You can always expect a little more effort from someone with a lower SMV and thus less options. Though women always have more options. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/07/18 10:23 PM |
| 66 | Regarding the endless Debate between PUA and TRP: Just pick one and do it.Enough fake news about PUA! It is just so sad to read on TRP in 2018 things like "Finally PUA is centered around gimmicks, farces, and canned-line tactics..." when pick-up gurus back in the early 2000's were already mocking newbies wanting "pick-up lines" and would be trying hard to convince them it's about your SMV and attitude and frame, and that you should become a man with a passion, etc. Read a bit of "Double your dating", the work of David DeAngelo, one of the very first PUAs. It' basicall… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/07/18 11:59 PM |
| 2 | Jordan Peterson just went full Red Pill on Joe Rogan Podcast (Talks about alfa fucks/beta bucks, sexual marketplace on college, incels, and other Red Pill theories)You're the laziest troll I have yet encountered. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/07/18 05:09 AM |
| 17 | Women should no longer be sent to prison unless they have committed a serious crime says Justice SecretaryIt is simply astonishing to witness the collusion between the white knight government and the feminine media to form a narrative aiming at convincing the people that women are to be absolved of all responsibilities. Pro-tip to all my Brit brothers. If you get arrested, declare you identify as a woman. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/07/18 05:06 AM |
| 2 | Jordan Peterson just went full Red Pill on Joe Rogan Podcast (Talks about alfa fucks/beta bucks, sexual marketplace on college, incels, and other Red Pill theories)You don't know how to converse on the internet. You gotta say I'm wrong AND explain me why you think so. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/07/18 01:29 AM |
| 4 | Jordan Peterson just went full Red Pill on Joe Rogan Podcast (Talks about alfa fucks/beta bucks, sexual marketplace on college, incels, and other Red Pill theories)Not that different. If the American people were to magically go back to patriarchal values, shaming the unmarried mother, then they will elect representatives who will set the morals in stone in the form of law, starting with getting rid of no-fault divorce. But first, morals of a people don't roll back (zeitgeist) and even if it were to happen (say a country becoming predominantly muslim, as European countries will soon do), it will still be slowly undermined by a feminine imperative trying to … | /r/TheRedPill | 04/07/18 01:33 AM |
| 21 | Jordan Peterson just went full Red Pill on Joe Rogan Podcast (Talks about alfa fucks/beta bucks, sexual marketplace on college, incels, and other Red Pill theories)Monogamy will never be enforced again (unless Islam in its current form takes over before it's feminized as well), so no need to even think about whether it's a solution or not. The sexual marketplace is now fully deregulated - act accordingly. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/18 09:56 PM |
| 6 | This HB4 keeps asking me about my girlfriend... is this normal? Is she hitting on me?People are overthinking it here. Girls love gossip. They have this strong urge to KNOW about the social dynamics of their environment. | /r/askTRP | 03/07/18 07:22 AM |
| 5 | The Sixteen Commandments Of PoonThe EC tag doesn't imply you can't question what I say, only that you should pay attention to my comments because I've been deemed to understand TRP theory well. In other words, if you disagree with me, just ask yourself why would I say what I say. My girls enthusiastically get down on me without my having to ask them, several times during a session, and without my having to eat them out first. I do it occasionally, if I feel like it on the moment. It's not a problem for them. What they want is … | /r/TheRedPill | 02/07/18 10:34 AM |
| 3 | I don’t have any guy friends that are on my level. Where can I meet new bros that smash girls.Boxing, BJJ, Muay Thai. Try them all, choose one, get membership, make friends there. | /r/askTRP | 02/07/18 10:20 AM |
| 0 | The Sixteen Commandments Of PoonI'm not debating the importance of being a skilled lover, I'm only trying to uproot from your mind the nefarious blue-pill habit of listening to what women say they want and taking this as evidence of what they actually want. Next time, I want to read from you: As soon as I tried these tricks on my girl, she started sending me more nudes / she's been wanting to catch up more often / she's been giving me more unexpected BJs... About eating pussy itself, I am in two minds about it. On one side, I … | /r/TheRedPill | 02/07/18 02:33 AM |
| 25 | The Sixteen Commandments Of PoonAs soon as I tried these tricks on my plate she told me, that if other girls knew how good I am I would be drowning in pussy, lol. She could tell you the same about your cute dad bod, how great you defer to women, and how well you treat her with poems and expensive dinners. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/07/18 10:10 PM |
| 38 | My experiment running "asshole game"In before the moralizing. Read this: Chateau Heartiste - A-hole Game: Day 1 This week I will discuss Asshole Game. There is no sugarcoating it; being an asshole works on women, all women, most of the time. Any man who has lived a day in his life and isn’t self-deluded by equalist ideology or chick flic romanticism knows this is true, even those PUA “love gurus” who unctuously sermonize that what women really want are “strong confident men” minus the asshole part. Save your holier-than-thou moral… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/06/18 09:04 AM |
| 3 | Finally blocked my oneitisYou "finally" blocked her, but you're going to get back to orbit by rationalizing it as "blocking her means I was caring too much, but now I don't give a fuck so I'm going to be in touch again". Ghosting then orbiting then ghosting then orbiting.. the true mark of the power a woman has on a man. Try understand this now to save you years of headache: this is not about blocking someone or being "just friends", it's about removing a person from living rent-free in your mind. It's about getting to t… | /r/askTRP | 28/06/18 09:02 PM |
| 10 | Going out with a Prostitute.Gentlemen, this is the future of male/female relationships in the West. The complete normalization of prostitution and its acceptance by a blindsided male population. We've witnessed the normalization of women pairing up with a beta and cuckolding him by fucking alphas on the side ("polyamory"). Now this is the opposite strategy you'll be seeing more and more: banging one alpha, while fucking betas for a direct exchange of resources on the side. | /r/askTRP | 28/06/18 08:53 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with Ex- GF badmouthing meEither ignore and let people figure that she is bitter. Or else, if this is really affecting your social standing, go to the offensive by applying laws 5 and 15 | /r/askTRP | 28/06/18 08:42 PM |
| 2 | Is MeToo turning into NotYou at small companies?To continue the thought experiment. Measuring depth by the loss of potential years to live, say 60 years, the one-in-a-million deadly m&m's, the loss expectancy per m&m's eaten is 60/1,000,000 or roughly comes down to 30 mins per m&m's. Does this mean that every m&m's reduce your life expectancy by 30 mins. Of course not. Although it's really easy to wrongly interpret this way such silly statistical measure made only for the purpose of insurance. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/06/18 09:47 AM |
| 11 | Boxing as a hobbyJust try them all and choose your favorite. You won't be sparring soon so just get there first and practice first. Decide later about sparring. | /r/askTRP | 28/06/18 06:49 AM |
| 1 | Saw TRP beat my game style first hand. Ya'll were right, and I hate it. How to calibrate?To recalibrate, search the archives of the heartiste blog for "asshole game", or "jerkboy game". Look particularly for mentions of "skittles man". To not lose hope and hating the world, not sure.. | /r/askTRP | 26/06/18 09:25 AM |
| 26 | If marriage has such a poor risk cost analysis for men, what alternatives exist for those of us who want to raise kids in a two parent household?The standard answer is: move to a country that has not been infected by feminism yet. Hopefully you might have the time to adjust to the new culture and religion, find a girl, get married, and get a kid, although feminism will probably be there by the time he's a teen. | /r/askTRP | 26/06/18 09:21 AM |
| 106 | She Said, "We're Not Going To Have Sex," Three Times. You Won't Believe What Happened Next.Women have always given "fake no's". As in she says "no", but she doesn't really mean "no". She actually means a combination of "I'm not sure yet, keep trying to convince me" or "not quite in the mood yet" or "I don't want you to think that this is what I am thinking about". This is standard courtship practice as it allows her to: filter the attractive confident men that she wants to fuck from the masses of unconfident men, AND it soothes her anxiety of the terrible thought that the elected guy,… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/06/18 12:37 AM |
| 55 | NYT: Single at 38? Have That BabyThis is probably optimistic. Early studies suggest that the children of single mothers by choice are just as well-adjusted as children of two-parent households. And yet having kids alone is hard, and expensive, and still too marginal a choice to be considered by a vast majority of women. Modern women really seem to consider kids not as the product of a healthy family unit, but as some sort of expensive female accessories. So a loving father is totally unnecessary, but some sponsor might be if he… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/06/18 08:07 PM |
| 20 | NYT: Single at 38? Have That BabyYet here we are. You want to ignore reality and have the best of both worlds but you can't. Either women spend their youth partying and sport dating only to find their biological clock is real and nothing last forever or they use their time wisely. Women certainly can ride the CC in their youth and then have a family with a dutiful beta. That's actually what most women do. It's just that the transition needs to happen right during the epiphany phase in the late 20s when they still have some sexu… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/06/18 07:53 PM |
| 6 | Make fitness fun, easy, and effortlessSo... are you lifting yet? Or that post is how you hamster not doing it? | /r/TheRedPill | 25/06/18 07:32 AM |
| 3 | A Story From a Feminist (and my surprisingly positive thoughts on the sub)Under most basic assumptions (population exactly 50% male 50% female, and only heterosexual sex), your conclusion of equal averages is correct. This is basic maths. People who don't get it are simply bad at maths, not somehow blind to the existence of sexless men, although... Their ego-investment in a certain worldview ("women are more chaste than men") will certainly contribute to their incapability to see the inconsistency in this basic maths problem. There is nothing in your post that would b… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/06/18 02:52 AM |
| 3 | I was just placed on a list of rapists at my university that is circulating twitter. How should I take action?Also consider reading Vox Day's treatise on surviving attack from SJWs. Though your case is a bit different, it'll give you some insight in the kind of push back you could expect from defending your honour in the current modern context of witch hunt against men. https://www.amazon.com/SJWs-Always-Lie-Taking-Thought/dp/9527065682 | /r/askTRP | 24/06/18 08:42 PM |
| 1 | The "Other" GuyYou're right of course, but this guy's behavior is consistent when you think about it. The reason why he cannot see that his wife disrespects him and is fucking around is because, as a man dutifully plugged into the matrix, he naturally puts his woman on a pedestal. She can do no wrong. Women don't ever lie, or cheat. At least not this one, because she's the ONE. In these conditions, if another guy gets too close to her, it must be HIS fault. The other guy MUST BE responsible for anything going … | /r/TheRedPill | 24/06/18 02:14 AM |
| 1 | Make her day.I am always astonished to see how people can misinterpret someone else's opinion that badly. Especially after I was so thoroughly detailed in my argument so there should be no room for misunderstanding. It was incredibly obvious from my post that my argument is that "complimenting a girl hurts your chances of picking her up". It was crystal clear I did NOT have some absolute opinion that one "can't compliment a person to make you and someone else feel good". A school boy would have understood my… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/06/18 02:03 AM |
| 1 | Make her day.google "16 commandments of poon" | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/18 11:19 PM |
| 4 | "Why are you on tinder?" How do you respond?I'm my opinion you should not be putting any more resources, time being the most important, into these tinder women. It is better spent elsewhere This is crucial. And saying something like "I just want to chill and makeout. If more comes from it then great, but I don't have any expectations. Is that weird?" is definitely showing that you're putting too much time into writing messages to a random woman on tinder. Whatever you say on tinder, keep it brief. Adhere to the golden ratio | /r/askTRP | 22/06/18 10:17 PM |
| 8 | Being asked your Net WorthYou should actually write down and print a piece of paper with your net worth and cash flow and bring a copy to dates. And then when they ask, you say you have it here on this paper but before giving it to them, you need to know their N count, their skills in bed, and an expert assessment at how good they are as a cook, a homemaker, and a mother. In a less overt way, when she asks you, you can smirk and say "It's pretty good. Please tell me why you'd be more worth of dating me than another girl.… | /r/askTRP | 22/06/18 07:23 AM |
| 4 | Make her day.Yep you got my message, and I like your approach. Approaching a girl is already an indicator of your interest. So if you go with an indirect opener, it sends mixed messages that will start arousing her imagination. Going more direct but not with too much interest ("Hey I noticed you over there and thought I'd come say hi and see if you're up for a chat") kills the mixed message, but I understand the point of introducing boldly some sexual tension from the start. I guess both are worth trying out… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/06/18 11:32 AM |
| 16 | Make her day.I just can't wrap my mind around how to go about doing this without sounding... well, autistic as fuck. "Hey, how about that weather?" Perfect if you make eye contact (IOI). "Excuse me, do you know where is the nearest post office?" "Excuse me, is that a good laptop? I'm looking to upgrade mine so I'm fishing for information" "Excuse my curiosity, but could you tell me what song you're listening to right now? I want to create a random playlist from random strangers for an art project." I guess I… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/06/18 08:32 AM |
| 16 | Make her day.I anticipated that answer at the end of my second bullet point: You might answer "Yeah but I'm only doing it to girls I'm not interested in", but then I'd reply "why are you not talking to a girl you're interested in instead?" and "why are you learning techniques that will hurt your chances when you use them on girls you actually want to bang?" Guys who are to scared to approach the right girls with the right playbook should not use the crutches that give them bad habits. Seriously, complimentin… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/06/18 08:14 AM |
| 127 | Make her day.Bad idea overall. The 10th commandment of Poon is "Ignore her beauty". It goes onto specifically saying: Never compliment a girl on her looks, especially not a girl you aren’t fucking. Sure it does have the few benefits of keeping your approach skills sharp, and making you feel good inside thanks to the double whammy of feeling like you're such an approach warrior AND feeling like you're doing good to the world. But let's list the negatives: Worst of all: Giving free ego boosts to women is the p… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/06/18 11:18 PM |
| 0 | Managing Financial Risks and The Importance of "Fuck You Money"Surely you mean in one stock. Because investing in real estate needs much more than 2% | /r/TheRedPill | 19/06/18 12:02 PM |
| 2 | Some Important Shit. That Clearly Is Being Missed.See my answer too. Congrats. You're one who will "make it". | /r/TheRedPill | 19/06/18 10:58 AM |
| 5 | Some Important Shit. That Clearly Is Being Missed.You would be right if that was what OP said, but it wasn't. He didn't say it would be his worth that he would base on his N count, but the worth of his posting to TRP. And he is right to do so. For the sake of this sub's future and yours, do NOT post unless you are sexually successful | /r/TheRedPill | 19/06/18 10:54 AM |
| 36 | Big FishAnother fantastic piece, thanks. Also loving the links to earlier, fundamental, posts. I always end up reading those new posts with five more tabs open to older posts to re-read. I'm just astonished to see the mainstream answer to male suicide. Its only cause is depression. Its only cure is "more communication". The only thing done about it is sharing a phone number to a helpline, as if a man on the precipice of self-destruction wants to pour his heart out to a complete stranger on the phone. I … | /r/TheRedPill | 19/06/18 10:34 AM |
| 1 | Low libido, low drive in general.. low T?Look I'm not going to hold your hand every step of the way. Ask him before setting up the appointment, or ask him where to direct you to get the actual number | /r/askTRP | 19/06/18 10:15 AM |
| 27 | Is it AWALT or is it just your social circle?Welcome to TRP. Where gold nuggets are covered in shit. With experience, you learn to discard the shit and keep the gold. AWALT is one of those many TRP concepts that need some reading and reflection to fully understand and appreciate, and eventually capitalize on. Because such effort takes time, it will always be mis-conceptualized by people new to TRP. As with the other fundamental but complex concepts that are misunderstood at first, this misconceptualization takes the form of an oversimplifi… | /r/askTRP | 19/06/18 12:11 AM |
| 1 | Low libido, low drive in general.. low T?Yeah go again and ask for the actual number | /r/askTRP | 18/06/18 11:55 PM |
| 1 | Stop Being a Beta In a Relationship : Easy yet Effective SuggestionsSo this one gets better behaved as soon as she understands you could be walking away. Then what? She gets back to creating drama? What's going to happen the day you are married and with two kids and you can't get away anymore? That's right. Drama 24/7 until she cleans your assets out in divorce. Frankly you should just walk away from such drama-prone relationship. There are lots of girls out there, and even if they are all creating as much drama as the one currently on your hands, you can probab… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/06/18 10:49 AM |
| 21 | The universal way forward, you get the relationship you deserve.Mark Manson is pandering to female opinion. His subtitle to Models "attract women through honesty", or his insistence at being "congruent" are the typical female advices of "just be confident" and "just be yourself" by other names. In short, it calls for the men who are already attractive to women to just keep doing what they already do, while calling for unattractive men to not change a thing to what they do so that they don't "trick" women into sleeping with betas. His message makes perfect se… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/06/18 09:45 AM |
| 1 | Theory: Why do parents raise their children to be Blue pill?Women need men for two purposes: alpha seeds or beta bucks. Newsflash: she does not want your seed. So you fit by default in the category of being raised as a good little beta for her, or another woman. Your mom selected your dad as a beta provider. He may or may not be the source of your genetic material, but if he's here by her side under the same roof, it means he was most definitely chosen for his safe beta providing qualities. So he'll likely teach you his ways. In that context, the anomaly… | /r/askTRP | 17/06/18 09:04 AM |
| 15 | ex girlfriend tried to contact meLol. Reduce your T replacement doses mate. | /r/askTRP | 17/06/18 08:59 AM |
| 5 | ex girlfriend tried to contact meIn order to tell which is the best answer or way forward, always remember this: "The resource she wants from me is my attention so that my best form of punishing her is to not give her any attention at all". I can totally understand your blood is boiling from so bold an attempt at blaming you for something she did. I can imagine you're dying to get back at her in the wittiest, or meanest way you can. But the most efficient way you can answer this is by not giving her a second of your attention. … | /r/askTRP | 17/06/18 08:56 AM |
| 3 | ex girlfriend tried to contact meIt's ironic and disgusting that the cunt references your 7 years in castigating you for not calling her back. So, it's OK to walk away from you and go fuck some other bloke, after 7 years, but, it's NOT OK for you to not return a call! You must be Evil Incarnate! Classic female manipulation. She's 100% responsible for finishing the relationship, but she'll somehow manage to make it that OP is 100% the party to blame in the story. Then, she says "...even if you want us to break up..." Sounds to m… | /r/askTRP | 17/06/18 08:50 AM |
| 28 | I Know Why The Patriarch Doesn’t SmileYou grossly misread OP's message. He's talking about "the patriarch", aka the Man who directs and protects his family. There is no mention of "alpha", no mention of "dating women", no mention of "beta loser", no mention of "working out" in this post. You read a post on TRP and automatically assumed that the topic was TRP's favorite topic of "how to be a top man and bang women". It was not. OP's topic was about the burden that a man necessary shoulders when he has a wife, kids and family and has … | /r/TheRedPill | 17/06/18 05:28 AM |
| 3 | TRP changed my life and I credit all my success to it. Here's my story of life as a poster child of a blue pill.Gosh that was painful to read. You're skinny and admit to being physically weak to the extreme, and you read TRP religiously, yet you haven't started lifting? Your ability to spot IOIs is close to absolute zero. Your approach to seducing a girl who is 100% into you is to text her 24/7. You have approach anxiety and you are afraid to escalate. You are quick to open up to girls about your "feelings", and to become their best friend and confidant - And you're completely oblivious to the reality tha… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/18 03:32 AM |
| 6 | The Nature of the GameSays who? An Alpha male is somebody at (or near) the top of the hierarchy, that's the literal definition of the term. Said dependable father could have a lot of money, power and have achieved incredible reproductive success. Is he still not "alpha"? See that's exactly the kind of terminology debate we wouldn't have if instead of using "alpha", I would use "exciting lover" when you would use "the man at the top of the hierarchy". In addition, as Rollo would say, you make the mistake of seeing "al… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/06/18 08:56 PM |
| 14 | The First Commandment. Go LIFT.No, the first commandment is "Lift". Tell "Live for yourself" to a newbie and he'll gladly hamster that his current life of playing video games, smoke weed, not socialize and be overweight is exactly how he "lives for himself". "Lift" is unambiguous. It's a constant splinter in the foot of the recently unplugged who thinks he's got TRP right after reading a couple books, approaching some women and starting meditating, but reads on the sub again and again how he's supposed to lift and his self-im… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/06/18 08:35 PM |
| 29 | Women cannot handle rejection at allYear right. Wait till she finds someone she judges to have higher SMV than you, and you will witness the ultimate level of "moving on". | /r/TheRedPill | 12/06/18 09:10 AM |
| 5 | When a girl isn't interestedThe bad thing is that I still want to get the pedestaled girl. That’s neediness obviously. Don’t say me “next” her because... It never cease surprising me that we men can really be staring at the evidence right in front of us, realizing fully well that it is the evidence, and yet your ego is so strong we will still refuse to acknowledge that it is the evidence. You tell it yourself for fucks' sake! Your neediness is what turns her off. You must stop "needing" her. Don’t say me “next” her because… | /r/askTRP | 12/06/18 06:56 AM |
| 1 | The Nature of the GameRead any romance novel for women and you'll know. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/06/18 06:47 AM |
| 20 | The Nature of the GameThe problem lies in those stupid labels that the Manopshere adopted. The labels themselves are so abstract (a greek letter?), and emotionally charged ("alpha" is obviously superior to "beta", so you can be sure that humans are going to hamster into being the good one of the two). Saying that women have a dual sexual strategy in that they seek the lover for sex and the provider for security, but that one cannot be exactly both, is useful. Saying that women in a lover, seek the best lover they can… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/06/18 06:40 AM |
| 23 | When a girl isn't interestedMaybe start treating those you're interested in exactly as you do those who you are not interested in. | /r/askTRP | 11/06/18 08:57 PM |
| 19 | Can’t find and understand push/pullGood summary. Push/pull is a value handpump. You generate value with your disinterest/aloofness (push) and you give that value to her with your interest/attention (pull). Like a handpump, just pushing doesn't work, nor just pulling, nor pulling before pushing, nor doing long periods of pushing then long period of pulling. It only works if you push, then pull, then push, then pull, then push... A successful interaction with a woman follows that principle from start to finish. It's in the earliest… | /r/askTRP | 11/06/18 08:49 PM |
| 1 | Given TRP why would any guy fake a vulnerability?https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2009/01/29/vulnerability-game/ | /r/askTRP | 11/06/18 07:51 AM |
| 27 | TL;DR Like upper body strength, women lack interpersonal dominance. Accepting this and being aware of the behaviors it leads to (gossip, passive-aggression, illogical behavior, etc.) might preserve your mental health.If women are not selected for interpersonal dominance as men are, this would lead to many alternative behaviors that I think females show including passive aggression and gossip. Then should we not observe that weak men also show passive aggression and gossip? And strong/tall women to show less aggression and gossip? Passive aggressiveness and gossip in all women is more satisfactorily explained by the fact that these are the features evolved in that sex for intersexual competition. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/06/18 08:31 PM |
| 23 | Go Out and Test It.You'll never understand global warming if you rely on other people reading and understanding that for you. IOW, it's not going to be your informed opinion, it's going to be Bereitbar's opinion or Foxnew's opinion. That is not TRP, that is being a follower. How did you manage to arrive to this conclusion about OP's opinion from a post whose title is "Go out and test it"? He specifically said NOT to be a blind follower of people's utterances. He specifically advised people to pursue the truth: The… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/06/18 11:30 AM |
| 4 | Go Out and Test It."Cult" or "gospel" are the kind of morally loaded, controversial words that people typically use to denigrate other people's alternative ideas without having to tackle the logic of their arguments. Don't use them. There is nothing inherently wrong with sets of rules, or beliefs. They are often the result of a painstaking process of synthesizing a large and complex set of ideas into fundamental principles. You are very much invited to analyze the entire set of ideas that gave rise to the "rules" … | /r/TheRedPill | 10/06/18 11:07 AM |
| 10 | LTR - stopped being a super beta and wife started acting extreme/crazyActively start "training" her. As in: If she does something pleasant, reward with your attention. If she does anything unpleasant, punish by taking away your attention. Over a looooong time, this should influence her behavior in the right direction. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/18 10:25 AM |
| 4 | Men and the Sciences: RedPill Minds == Red Pill FutureI'm not discarding philosophy or wisdom. I'm discarding the silly suggestion that men should go to university study social sciences. I read a lot. I am addicted to wisdom. By all means read Nietzche, Marcus Aurelius et al. Then go on to read Deida and Jack Donovan for more redpill philosophy. And Rational Male and Roosh and others. But suggesting guys to abandon STEM studies for social sciences? Seriously? | /r/TheRedPill | 09/06/18 10:21 AM |
| 16 | Men and the Sciences: RedPill Minds == Red Pill FutureDid you seriously suggest to redpill-aware men to study social sciences? "Social sciences" as in the field where 100% of students are SJW feminists, 100% of teachers are revolutionary neo-marxists, taught in universities 100% controlled by the feminine imperative, where you will need to take on a student loan that has 100% chances to cripple your financial future, just so that you can get a degree that is 100% useless? Did you just finish your post by quoting the famous feminist anthropologist w… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/06/18 06:01 AM |
| 1 | How do I escalate from here?"How would I behave if I had another 100 girls wanting to sleep with me?" You would put that one aside until she has more time. All that time and efforts you would be putting into maintaining the attraction of a girl you can't catch up with, would be better invested into those girls that have time for you at the moment. It's a mistake for men to think you need to actively work to maintain a girl's attraction. Your efforts are very much noticed and unconsciously interpreted as "if this guy had ot… | /r/askTRP | 08/06/18 11:00 PM |
| 19 | Been two months at the gym and i start to see the changeYour mindset, your sense of self-worth, are molded in your childhood and teenage years. It takes a lot of time and positive reinforcement to deconstruct this. Keep at it. | /r/askTRP | 08/06/18 10:48 PM |
| 1 | "You are fine, you are a cute boy, but I am looking for a man."Recently I decided, that I just ask her about her perspective, so that maybe I will know what mistakes I made, so I can improve. You know, like a constructive feedback. This is a very very bad frame. It just confirms you into the position of the dejected. Sure enough it doesn't matter for that specific relationship, but it negatively affects your estimation of your own worth. Instead, the correct frame to practice when you are rejected is to tell yourself "How can someone be so blind not to see … | /r/askTRP | 08/06/18 10:45 PM |
| 2 | What if we flipped the script here?Wait, so I deconstructed your point in much much more detail than was necessary and that's the only thing you note?? OK I'll play the game. The important word here is not "progressive" but bias. Maybe I should have written "ideological bias" because that's the important thing here. There is nothing more poisonous to the grand goal of science than a scientist letting his personal ideological opinion guiding his inquiry into the nature of reality. If you read any work of science and it's not painf… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/18 10:21 PM |
| 2 | Need Some AdviceGirls are masterful manipulators. You can either trust your elders or understand it yourself with experience. Don't get in a sexually exclusive relationship with a girl until you're at least 30. Have sex with her, spend time with her, be friend if you want. But do NOT do exclusive relationships. Have sex with other girls, spend time with other girls, be friend with other girls. Right now and for the next 13 years, you must focus on improving yourself. And you can't do that optimally if you have … | /r/askTRP | 08/06/18 01:25 PM |
| 1 | Is it possible to reform a LTR?Is it possible to turn it around? Yes Is it better to start with someone new? Yes. You can turn it around but why bother when for a tenth of the effort you can have another, nicer, hotter, drama-free girl, with whom you can build just as strong, if not stronger, an emotional connection? Don't let scarcity mentality delude you into thinking this one is "special". | /r/askTRP | 08/06/18 01:14 PM |
| 4 | Feeling AloneYou need male friends. Connect with guys who have a common interest w you | /r/askTRP | 08/06/18 01:10 PM |
| 3 | Woman (26F) looking for advice on situation and in generalrequests for advice go on asktrp | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/18 01:06 PM |
| 41 | Sluts and the City: A Carousel Rider's RegretsBest redpill article coming off the MSM in a while. Heartiste just did an equally hilarious takedown of it. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/18 05:26 AM |
| 1 | Blindsided by BillyComing after the battle's over on this post but my 2 cents: About the girl. If she was just a FB and you don't have ONEitis (since you're having other girls, I'm sure that's the case) then no worries. Standard procedure: ghost until she comes around. Now when she comes around, standard procedure is that you FB her again but since your co-worker is now involved, this is risky. I would ghost her for good. About the guy. You are 100% justified in considering this a dick move. It's absolutely normal… | /r/askTRP | 08/06/18 12:11 AM |
| 9 | Cynical Implementation12 women in a 12 hr period I'm just curious to know the logistics behind such achievement. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/18 11:05 PM |
| 39 | Cynical ImplementationI once bedded a Swedish model by telling her I was the Heir to an Oil fortune. I'm pretty sure that counts as rape nowadays. I think the argument goes like "Well I did consent to sex, but only because I thought I would benefit financially in return. I wouldn't have had sex otherwise. Therefore I am retroactively retracting my consent, so rape." I wonder how far we can take that modern "retroactive retraction of consent" line of thought. If a woman marries a student in medicine, and the guy has a… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/18 10:59 PM |
| 3 | What if we flipped the script here?Thanks for your contribution. I'm always looking at testing my beliefs. From the abstract (emphasis mine): When watching videos that induced anger, amusement, and pleasure, men showed larger decreases in HR, whereas women reported higher levels of arousal. There was no gender difference in HR when the participants watched videos that induced horror and disgust, but women reported lower valence, higher arousal, and stronger avoidance motivation than did men. Finally, no gender difference was obse… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/18 10:40 PM |
| 14 | The Wall Is RealThat's because after a lifetime of commanding attention from men, being put on a pedestal for nothing but simply existing, getting away with anything bad she might do, having hordes of men offering her the moon right now in the hope she might give them attention, a woman notices all of this appears to vanish very quickly as the hordes of men turn their attention and gifts to other (younger) girls than her... Imagine that you've been an idolized rock-star with adoring groupies for as long as you … | /r/askTRP | 07/06/18 02:31 AM |
| 35 | Present an opportunity and Hypergamy will capitalize.As Rollo says, "Unplugging chumps from the Matrix is a lot like triage – save the ones you can, read last rites to the dying". RIP Ronnie. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/18 01:16 AM |
| 60 | Lessons learned after 90 day ban from TRPThe only important question is: have you started lifting yet? | /r/TheRedPill | 06/06/18 07:40 AM |
| 1 | Advice on mastering social skillsYou need first and foremost to learn to actually listen to them, and draw the conversation out of them. Ask open-ended questions, about their interests, their feelings. People will talk about what they want to talk. Identify what they really seem to want to be talking about, and ask about that. Be warm and engaged to show you do care about what they say. Add a very quick comment about your own experience of what they're talking about. You'll know when you got them in the right spot when they del… | /r/askTRP | 06/06/18 04:41 AM |
| 6 | IncelsZero chance of this ever happening. Even if that magically happened, women are now educated, get well paid jobs, and so don't need to force themselves giving sex to beta breadwinners any longer. Even if that also magically changed, women will sue betas for rape for forcing them into giving them sex. What you want is a return to a pre-feminism, pre-mass-information, pre-sexual-liberation society. It is not going to happen, ever. If that's your strategy, you better move to a third-world country, c… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/06/18 04:24 AM |
| 7 | Are women turned on by ROMANCE?Alright let's analyze this, redpill-style. Here we have a guy who is: in a happy LTR whose entire approach to seducing his partner was sending her dick picks and tell her how hard he was going to fuck her who admits that his LTR was doing great and was having lots of sex and her sex drive was already high who for some reason despite this LTR going so well decided suddenly to try a range of other things, which resulted in spiking her sexual interest even further and the guy of course concludes th… | /r/askTRP | 05/06/18 09:09 PM |
| 18 | IncelsAnd this is exactly the issue of men being contaminated by that feminized victimhood culture that Rollo talks about in the very first paragraph of that post. Men are supposed to be the sex that surmounts odds against them. We get our very social worth from that ability to identify the problem and fix it or find a workaround. Blaming something outside of us and doing nothing about it but waiting to be rescued is what women do (and young boys), but since the culture has now been feminized, that's … | /r/TheRedPill | 05/06/18 07:46 PM |
| 6 | Wrong pantiesNot one ever did | /r/askTRP | 05/06/18 07:21 PM |
| 72 | Wrong pantiesLOL. I'm definitely taking note of OP's awesome involuntary trick and that awesome come-back for my personal use. | /r/askTRP | 05/06/18 10:50 AM |
| 33 | Wrong pantiesThere are a couple of bobby pins on my bedside table, left there by a girl a long while ago. I keep them there permanently. Absolutely vital accessories, subtly but quite clearly communicating preselection, abundance, and my complete disinterest in commitment. | /r/askTRP | 05/06/18 10:47 AM |
| 14 | I thought I believed in TRP truths, but this still bent my mind"Emotional" in the Sex God Method is certainly not "beta bucks". It's not about "expressing your emotions like a little bitch" as much as "giving her emotions and vibing with it", which is classic game theory. As to being both alpha and beta? It's up for debate. My own opinion on that matter tends to evolve. Right now I'd say you certainly can in some measure. The idea being that women's sexual strategy is deeply-embedded, instinctive process, answering on cues. Seeing a strong man firmly and co… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/06/18 09:13 AM |
| 50 | I thought I believed in TRP truths, but this still bent my mindHumans are evolved to have a sixth sense for when we are being lied to by someone we know well. Female cognitive dissonance evolved to defeat the human brain’s lie detecting ability. That's exactly how I see it. This innate capability of women for duplicity, manipulation, and rationalization (which every man in history has noticed, except modern manginas) is a feature evolved specifically to deceive and self-deceive with the latent purpose of facilitating the fulfilling of a dual sexual strategy… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/06/18 05:14 AM |
| 16 | I thought I believed in TRP truths, but this still bent my mindThen how do you explain her difficulties at leaving Billy? Her incessant complaining about Chad not committing? Her telling OP if only he were "more like Billy"? Women do need beta bucks. You can make a case that's only self-deception, but they still feel that need for security and dependability. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/06/18 05:07 AM |
| 296 | I thought I believed in TRP truths, but this still bent my mindWomen have a blind spot. They don't even know their own nature. The mindfuck for guys recently unplugged is the fact that she actually mean what she says: She actually "loves" Billy. She actually loves the fact that he's so dependable. She actually wishes that Chad or OP were "more like Billy". She actually hates that Chad has other plans. She actually wants to cut things off with Chad for good. She actually wants to be done with bad boys and she actually is looking for a "nice guy that treats h… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/06/18 01:41 AM |
| 10 | Gift from another guyCan't fucking believe this post has 5 people answering OP to "just go", and only one appropriate answer (/u/GrandmasterHurricane), which got downvoted. What's next? Are you also going to advise to pay for her uber ride so she can go meet Chad? Can't fucking believe it takes an EC to develop a full explanation of why you should of course NOT fucking drive a girl to go pick up a gift she told you she received from another man. | /r/askTRP | 03/06/18 10:19 PM |
| 81 | What are your thoughts on Jordan Peterson?To offer a different viewpoint than /u/gaylubeoil, /u/whisper and many other ECs: I really like JBP overall. As many here noticed, I find his understanding of human nature, how it drives society, and what to do with it is mostly in line with TRP theory. He talks of dominance hierarchy, intersexual competition, female hypergamy, disposability of men, having to pick yourself up by your bootstraps and increase your SMV because nobody will do it for you, etc. That's all 100% TRP compatible and that'… | /r/askTRP | 01/06/18 08:28 AM |
| 22 | Don't Get Fucked By Black JesusI feel generous today so I'll let you and other new readers in on the joke instead of laughing at the answers as usual: GLO is TRP's philosopher-troll. What he does in every post is that he bakes a incredibly delicious multi-layered cake full of sweet and tasty ingredients, and then he sugar-coats it in a thin layer of dog shit. The point is to enjoy watching from the outside how people react to the cake that is offered to them. There are those who realize how good that cake is in the inside but… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/06/18 05:00 AM |
| 15 | Women Want Desirability, not ExclusivityInteresting. Are you speaking from experience? | /r/TheRedPill | 01/06/18 04:23 AM |
| 117 | Women Want Desirability, not ExclusivityAwesome field report. You played it perfectly. She thought she had you under control and offered you a spot on her bench of orbiters... and you calmly said no, covertly but firmly made your expectations understood as well as hinted on your having options, and not caring one bit for her being upset, showing that she won't be able to manipulate you. This is perfect Abundance Mentality and Outcome Independence and being your own Mental Point of Origin. Anybody on the path here, take notes. This is … | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/18 11:11 PM |
| 1 | Do you see any way to simultaneously be able to live a committed Christian life and get married, but avoiding a situation where you become the classic pussywhipped husband?Damn. So many layers of putting TRP in the context of family.. Bookmarked to come read this again and think about it. Thanks. | /r/askTRP | 31/05/18 07:54 AM |
| 155 | How do you treat women like children?That's a pretty good summary. Also: Don't try to convince her with a logical argument. Don't get angry at her for acting childish Don't be surprised if she easily gets distracted. Use that to your advantage. Don't make her in charge of your finances, or anything that requires serious adult thinking and decision-making. Just get her to have fun. Make her giggle. Tease her. Tickle her. Play with her. Tell her hey let's go on a magical adventure! Overact like you're really impressed by her achievem… | /r/askTRP | 31/05/18 07:23 AM |
| 6 | I don't get itMaybe you did nothing wrong. Girls are pretty inconsistent. Yesterday she felt like fucking you. Today she doesn't. Maybe she just got on her period and not feeling like it. Maybe her ex contacted her again. Maybe she got buyer's remorse. Maybe when she's much hornier when she's drunk a few. Whatever it is, if she's distant, become distant. Apply golden ratio in communication. | /r/askTRP | 31/05/18 07:21 AM |
| 50 | It was all a lie.That's because that's the behavior of a sex-satiated, not-needy, high-potential man. Girls not only assess high SMV (is he hot? Is he pre-selected? Is he super confident? Is he a successful risk-taker?), but they also assess low SMV to screen them out (is he needy? is he overly-emotional? is he letting me and other people push his boundaries?). Just by not displaying low-SMV behavior, you're already a massive step about 50% of males in their day-to-day assessment. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/18 07:05 AM |
| 9 | Your Devotion is WorthlessIt's not a matter of different definitions. It's a matter of understanding TRP theory. Yes women are looking for the highest value man they can find. Not Mister Right but Mister Perfect, who is both the most sexually desirable man to her and other women around BUT ALSO entirely committed to her and her alone, ready and willing to pour his resources onto her and her kids only. Except that this perfection does not exist (or extremely rare, and in any case not at a rate of one for each woman out th… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/18 02:58 AM |
| 18 | Nevermind - THIS Was The Easiest Lay EverGot dumped by a plate over the weekend so as I left I was just like "alright, fuck it, what does anything matter anyway". I know, I am aware of my extreme oneitis I had for this girl. Interjection: oneitis is a fickle fucker because it's 3 days later now and I don't give a flying fuck about her anymore. I guess getting laid has that effect. Was that "plate" your only girl? "Plate spinning" means currently having or building several sexual options. It's not normal to have ONEitis for one of your … | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/18 08:46 PM |
| 39 | Nevermind - THIS Was The Easiest Lay EverThey're downvoting the useless comment with the girly emoji. Cringe AF. Don't do that in your texting game boys. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/18 08:41 PM |
| 3 | Do You Even Lift?Glad to hear you have found a cure to your mental health issues. And yes I am sure that meditation is a particularly useful tool for specifically the kind of men who come to this sub. And I'm willing to admit that probably just as important an activity to do as starting lifting for the messed up guys who come here. My opinion is from a much more general perspective. Physical strength remains the cornerstone of Masculinity, which is the cornerstone of sexual attraction on the human sexual marketp… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/18 08:37 PM |
| 13 | Your Devotion is WorthlessYou are confused. You are thinking of alpha as "high value man" and beta as "low value man". This is a common misunderstanding. Alpha is the "sexually desirable man", and beta is the "reliable provider". That's why we say women have a dual sexual strategy. They need both. They need quality DNA and they need quality resources. Of course ideally they'd get it from the same man, but not only sexually desirable men have little interest in being an exclusive partner to ONE woman ESPECIALLY after she … | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/18 08:24 PM |
| 3 | Do You Even Lift?See my other reply to the other guy: I disagree. Humans have been functioning without any problem for millions of years without needing to sit down in silence for long periods of time. Millions of humans still function correctly nowadays without meditating. In contrast, physical strength has been the prime definer of manhood since time immemorial. Through all cultures, and all times, and actually extends to many/most other animal species. Does meditation bring awesome mental health benefits? No … | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/18 10:57 AM |
| 4 | Do You Even Lift?I disagree. Humans have been functioning without any problem for millions of years without needing to sit down in silence for long periods of time. Millions of humans still function correctly nowadays without meditating. In contrast, physical strength has been the prime definer of manhood since time immemorial. Through all cultures, and all times, and actually extends to many/most other animal species. Does meditation bring awesome mental health benefits? No doubt about it. Does meditation defin… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/18 10:50 AM |
| 13 | Do You Even Lift?Way to hijack the post's message to talk about another topic.. Look I do meditate and do enjoy the benefits, but don't you even compare it to the importance of lifting. Being physically strong is the very essence of masculinity. It's the deepest foundation. It's the main regulator of the male hormone. Your physical health, your mental health, your sex life, your social status, your game... All rely on a solid foundation of physical strength. Physical strength is your system's firmware. Meditatio… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/18 01:17 AM |
| 162 | Your Devotion is WorthlessIt seems obvious like this, but the reason most men are still unaware of it is that women, culture and media keep telling men that women do want their devotion, and to express their feelings, and to treat them awesomely. But that's not a lie! Women do want beta men to be devoted, to express their feelings, and to treat them awesomely. She most definitely wants to obtain a beta's devotion (so he'll stick around to provide when she's old and with child). She most definitely desires a beta to expre… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/18 01:09 AM |
| 2 | BulliedGood on you. Lack of time won't get any better though. And lifting is so fundamental. If you really are too busy or too poor for the gym, you can still find 10 minutes in morning or evening to do a few bodyweight exercises at home. Do some sets of a variation of squat, push-up, pull-up, and a core exercise. http://www.startbodyweight.com/2014/01/basic-routine-infographic-poster.html | /r/askTRP | 30/05/18 12:46 AM |
| 1 | BulliedNo need to try. It will come if you implement the list that you made. "asshole" is the usual judgement that people without power give to people who have power. If you get physically bigger, know how to fight and don't hesitate to retaliate in self-defense, know how to trash talk back at them and become widely connected with the "in" crowd, then you will naturally tend to earn the title of "asshole" from weaker people. Seriously, so much of our judging others badly come from a place of insecurity… | /r/askTRP | 29/05/18 06:38 PM |
| 4 | The 21 Convention 2018The original post on Rational Male has them all linked to their website: https://therationalmale.com/2018/05/27/the-21-convention-2018/ | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/05/18 06:23 PM |
| 10 | You don't try to make her your girlfriend, because twenty year olds are twenty *forever*This guy gets it. This looks like taken straight out of blackdragon ♂ | /r/TheRedPill | 29/05/18 09:09 AM |
| 8 | BulliedClassic revenge fantasy. Reality check: cool dudes and bullies in high school often find financial, sexual, and status success later in life simply by using the exact same behavior. I had this revenge fantasy too and doubled-down on focusing on my studies to feel better about myself. It worked great until I was out of the school system, being a simple employee with massive student loans to repay, while the "bad guys" had cool jobs, hot wives and real-estate portfolios to show for. Teenage years … | /r/askTRP | 29/05/18 02:24 AM |
| 5 | Almost felt bad for ghosting her(1st time ghosting, long post)OP, go there http://www.blackdragonblog.com/podcasts/ and listen to podcast #2 "She's Replaceable". Then, go to the Rational Male blog and read all posts in the best of year 1. The answers to all your questions are there. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/05/18 08:57 PM |
| 20 | Deleted Instagram; Banged Instagram ModelYou're confusing status with wealth. Status as in "having a commonly-agreed and verifiable higher value in the current social context" is a verified pussy moistener. Fame is the extreme version of status. Famous actors, pop stars and national athletes get all the pussy they want, even if their bodyguard is taller and more ripped than them. But you don't even have to go that extreme. Go to a live music venue where some local band is playing and see girls eyeing the lead singer. Go to a house part… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/05/18 08:53 PM |
| 57 | Deleted Instagram; Banged Instagram ModelHot women care more about status/social proof than looks You're right, it's a different kind of fucking, a high status guy vs. a ripped sexy guy. Dude, how can you make those perfect videos and still be so off the mark in terms of theory? AF;BB. Women have the dual need for alphas AND for betas. She needs the sexually attractive guy, and the dependable provider. Many things factor in a man's SMV. Looks, Game, Status. It's contextual. Girl A at time T and in context C can get the alpha tingles fr… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/05/18 08:42 PM |
| 3 | In your opinion, is it worth it to go out to bars alone?Classic mystery method for opening sets. It's good to see ancient PUA wisdom still being transmitted on this sub. | /r/askTRP | 26/05/18 01:14 AM |
| 15 | [META] [RANT] Tired With This Place. What Real Manhood is about.But if the place is filled in a large majority with fat people on the beginning of their weight-loss journey discussing the basics of weight loss and encouraging each other, what's the point to stay for those who've lost a bunch of weight? That's why we slowly lose ECs so it's a relevant rant. Every day I come to this sub and I see at the top the most upvoted posts of the day including: A post by a newbie who discovered TRP 1 month ago and talk about his anger. A post by a newbie about a woman i… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/18 04:25 AM |
| 13 | Do you have a son? Don't ever send him to public school. Confessions of a conversvative history teacher.Infant care, pre-school, school, college, and the whole of western culture and media is now feminized to the core. You won't save your son by avoiding public school, but by getting involved in his raising. Passively by letting him see and emulate your masculine behavior, and actively by working to deprogram him every single evening. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/18 02:36 AM |
| 1 | I've been an active user of braincels and mgtow for half a year and I want to get out of thisNot only. As a human male, your mind has been specifically evolved/designed for a few things: Partner with other men to compete against groups of other men. Individually compete within your in-group, for social status - rise up in your social hierarchy. Solve problems. Achieve things. Create some things, or destroy some things. Acquire resources (food, water, social influence). etc. Think of the most basic activities of the ancestral man, and go and do something that fulfills this need somehow. … | /r/askTRP | 24/05/18 08:51 PM |
| 1 | New affirmative consent law in Sweden. Should I go monkmode until I move out?Even the most game-aware man in Sweden is not safe from the possibility of a woman using such law to destroy his life in order to safeguard her reputation. What just needs to happen is for OP to charm and bang a girl who (unbeknownst to OP) has a boyfriend and said boyfriend finding the truth one day.. In Sweden from July 1st onwards, being a man having sex will mean living with the sword of Damocles suspended over your head. | /r/askTRP | 24/05/18 08:36 PM |
| 3 | New affirmative consent law in Sweden. Should I go monkmode until I move out?Make them sign a consent form No, seriously. Get a girl in bed, made her crazy horny before penetration, ask her "How bad do you want my dick babe?", keep asking until you get a "enthusiastic verbal consent", then pull a voice recorder, press the record button, and ask her "do you mind repeating what you said?". Of course that'll ruin the mood and you might very well lose a good 50% of them at that stage, but hey that's the cost of being safe. | /r/askTRP | 24/05/18 08:29 PM |
| 18 | Early Bird Tickets Now on Sale to The 21 Convention 2018 - Full Speaking Lineup and Info RevealedBecause there's too many people here who don't look for red pill material outside of this sub. Time to educate yourself: Anthony Dream Johnson Rollo Tomassi (The Rational Male) Socrates Ivan Throne (Dark Triad Man) Hunter Drew (The Family Alpha) Jack Murphy Richard Cooper (Entrepreneurs in Cars) Alan Roger Currie (MODE ONE) Ed Latimore (Heavyweight boxer) Donovan Sharpe (The Sharpe Reality) Shawn Smith Psy.D (clinical psychologist & author) Jack Donovan (The Way of Men) Caleb Jones (Black Dragon… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/05/18 11:21 AM |
| 7 | Early Bird Tickets Now on Sale to The 21 Convention 2018 - Full Speaking Lineup and Info RevealedThe mods of the "theredpill" sub don't own a copyright on the "red pill" concept. The organizer of the convention (OP) was always part of the manosphere, more on the PUA side, and got "redpilled" by reading the rational male blog, which is red pill 101 really. OP and Rollo then got a line up of manosphere speakers that are most definitely "red pill" although only 2 or 3 of them post on this sub. This just illustrates a problem of many guys on this sub. There is so much more red pill material tha… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/05/18 11:07 AM |
| 11 | What happened to your old Oneitis?Funny you're getting downvoted. People don't like hearing stinging truths. The appropriate answer to OP's question is "No fucking idea. Haven't seen her or thought of her in years". Good to see many comments of this type in the answers, among the revenge fantasies. | /r/askTRP | 24/05/18 10:09 AM |
| 3 | I've been an active user of braincels and mgtow for half a year and I want to get out of thisYour body and mind have been shaped over million of years to function in a certain way. You're literally a biological machine with set functions. You're going mad because in this modern world you're doing anything but what you're supposed to do. You don't use your body how it's meant to be used, you don't use your dick the way it's meant to be used, you don't put food in your body that you're supposed to put there, you don't feed your mind with what you're supposed to feed it. You gotta go back … | /r/askTRP | 24/05/18 10:06 AM |
| 4 | How do I come to terms with the fact that AWALT applies to my mother and sister?Nonetheles I still feel love for my mother and sister, but they don't reciprocate love the way I need The problem is not them. It's you. It's your expectation. "Women are incapable of loving men in a way that a man idealizes is possible, in a way he thinks she should be capable of". Women's love is not the same thing as your love. You can love your mother and sister, but you can't expect the same type of love from them. They're not built for it. They love you too, but in a different way. And cer… | /r/askTRP | 23/05/18 09:37 AM |
| 6 | How to develop a personality that people like to be around?Dude. That is the most accurate description of the most salient points of my former boss who is the most charismatic, most well-connected, most successful guy I have ever met, and whom I have been trying to emulate ever since. The attitude that makes you feel like he's your most trusted pal and you'd do anything to help. Will copy this. Two points I would add (and that my former boss has): Being ultra competent at what you do. Men derive a lot of respect for someone if they're really good at wha… | /r/askTRP | 23/05/18 09:06 AM |
| 2 | help needed (38 year old in a 10 year relationship)personal questions go on asktrp. Reported for not reading the rules before posting. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/05/18 09:02 AM |
| 9 | I cheated, can you please help?TRP is not a person. It's the truth about intersexual dynamics. It's amoral in the same sense as the 3 laws of thermodynamics are amoral. | /r/askTRP | 19/05/18 10:25 AM |
| 5 | I just had sex and received a blowjob for the first time at 28 years old and i realise..Solid comparison. As an animal, we're designed to try to reproduce. As a male mammal, we're designed to crave sex. Sex was designed to be enjoyable to reinforce our behavior to pursue it. None of this implies that sex would objectively be something amazing, out of this world. OP experiences the unbalance between our intense craving and the reality of a mundane experience of life. As a man dying of thirst might blow out of proportion the experience of drinking water, simply because his entire bei… | /r/askTRP | 19/05/18 10:24 AM |
| 3 | From Incel to Informed: Internalizing the PillThe red pill is the radical, misogynist notion that maybe women are human beings with specific sexual needs and agendas and a specific behavior to fulfill them, instead of the fair and pure princesses that men want to believe and women need them to believe. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/05/18 04:32 PM |
| 94 | Dread, while a powerful tool in a red pilled man's arsenal, doesn't work until you have her hooked in.There is no "dread" on a first date. "Dread" is when you're in a relationship with a girl and hinting that you may be checking out of the relationship. It's a tactic to rekindle a partner's waning attraction. https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2008/03/27/dread/ Now, you do want to hint to a new girl that you're in demand. But you hint at it, not talk about it. You gently press her "he's been preselected" button, not hammer it senselessly. If she asks you overt questions, you cocky-funny your way ou… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/05/18 04:22 PM |
| 63 | The Basis of Female AttractionGood time to link one of my fav posts: Women don't want to feel good, they want to feel. By dr_warlock | /r/TheRedPill | 16/05/18 04:52 AM |
| 24 | Man tries to win his wife's love by giving her Teslas and expensive vacations. She returns the favor by - you guessed it - having an orgy with randos when he's gone.Humans have an innate understanding of the sexual marketplace, and both sexes know they need to show "value" as a potential mate. But many people of both sexes have no idea of what the other sex truly values. This is why we have women going for prestigious degrees or careers in the partial hope that this makes them more valuable, and we have blue-pill betas showering girls with gifts and attention and sacrifices in the hope that this makes them more valuable. When Mystery and others came up with… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/05/18 12:41 AM |
| 56 | A Somewhat Comprehensive List of Hobbies and ActivitiesThis is nowhere near "comprehensive". But more importantly you're completely missing a framework. Without one, you could just as well tell people that crochet and rope-skipping are absolutely valuable hobbies. The necessary framework is masculinity. Here was my answer to the same asktrp question: The way I see things now is that as a man, in order of importance, you need: 1. to be proficient at Game (TRP theory + applying by approaching, spinning plates, etc.). Any activity that might help you h… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/05/18 09:13 AM |
| 2 | Blue pill man loses wife to red pill 16 yo."alpha 16 yo", not "red pill 16 yo" | /r/TheRedPill | 10/05/18 11:32 PM |
| 16 | Went on a date today. Realised that my date for tomorrow might be her sister.Attaboy! You only need a frame of steel. This situation does NOT bother you. at. all. If the second girl asks "you know I am girlA's sister right?", you calmly answer "I thought you might". If she asks "and how can you be ok seeing me now?", you answer "I see no problem". If she tries to shame you, you just smirk and swat those shit tests. Pursue both without talking to one about the other. The situation may very well play at your advantage. They could very likely get competitive. Let it happen … | /r/askTRP | 10/05/18 10:19 PM |
| 3 | "Failing at Trying to Have an Affair" with Ashley MadisonOh I don't disagree at all about this. LTR/kids is a very valid desire and goal in life, and good on you having figured it out and good luck in that pursuit. My comment was only directed at your feeling of guilt/shame at the idea of being a single man fucking a woman who is "taken". This feeling might come in part from your wanting to respect that other guy who has the same goal has you, sure. Maybe some fear of retaliation too. But a large part of it comes from the social indoctrination you hav… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/05/18 10:02 PM |
| 11 | Game topic: Cold ReadingGame 101. If you didn't know about this, that's because you haven't read anything about Game. Very likely because you've be listening too much to people here who don't know anything about it either, but are 100% certain that "PUA are stupid/fake/losers". Find the Mystery Method. Give it a read. Make your OWN judgement about it. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/05/18 09:56 PM |
| 45 | Game topic: Cold ReadingIt's actually super powerful if you guess wrong, because they'll be dying to know what is it about them that gave you the impression that she was X, given that she is so insecure/proud/self-conscious about being Y. This really is a win-win tactic. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/05/18 09:45 PM |
| 11 | "Failing at Trying to Have an Affair" with Ashley MadisonIn that one short example you have a great illustration of the female mind. Step 1: Have an emotional response to which you give more importance that the facts behind that response. Here: anger at his potential loss of providing capability. Step 2: Rationalize that emotional response in a way that remove personal responsibility. Here: I am angry not because I worry for my financial future, but because he hid something from me. Step 3: Use rationalizations to allow selfish behavior without taking… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/05/18 07:47 PM |
| 31 | "Failing at Trying to Have an Affair" with Ashley MadisonIt's not your honor you want to protect, it's your ego-investment in the concept of the morality of exclusive monogamy; a concept that was invented by modern human society and drilled into your head by feminine influence because it serves the women and your society overlords so well. "Honor" is your way to rationalize that ego-investment. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/05/18 07:34 PM |
| 1 | Female researcher gets Red-pilled while studying why 25% of men are now childless in Norway -- and it's steadily rising and mostly involuntaryNot if you talk about alpha or beat traits/behavior.. See the post "elucidating alpha and beta" on the sub's front page. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/05/18 02:08 PM |
| 1 | Female researcher gets Red-pilled while studying why 25% of men are now childless in Norway -- and it's steadily rising and mostly involuntaryDepends what you mean by success. Women want an alpha for sex, and want a beta for attention and support. So alphas get the lion's share of the sex. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/05/18 02:07 PM |
| 17 | Need advice on how to escalateOh yeah I always forgot. America.. How well, OP will adjust in a non-alcohol setting. | /r/askTRP | 10/05/18 12:30 AM |
| 4 | Elucidating Alpha and BetaThis is so exactly what I think and so exactly how I express myself that it feels like you pulled this out right off my head. Almost scary. Mods, that is extremely well-thought, extremely cold-headed analysis, demonstrating you're very far in the acceptance stage. Give this man a point on me. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/05/18 12:29 AM |
| 20 | Need advice on how to escalate"Escalate" specifically is about "physical escalation": the process of getting increasingly physically intimate with her. This needs a context to happen, which is being out with her - just the two of you. Invite her for drinks. Organize two venues: one low energy to build comfort for 30 minutes, one higher energy to physically escalate. Both close to each other, and close to your place. Kiss her on cheeks / hug when you meet her there. Then pull back by just talking. Build comfort at first venue… | /r/askTRP | 09/05/18 11:42 PM |
| 3 | A quick AWALT reminder.I just wish the TRP sidebar was starting by the sentence "Rule #1: reading the rational male books (or best of years 1-5), at least the first one (or best of year 1) is absolutely mandatory." Rollo's work is not some "TRP recommended book", it's the very foundational theoretical framework of everything we do. All we do is merely discussing his work. You wouldn't go to a uni class without reading the text book. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/05/18 08:37 PM |
| 158 | Lifting aside, what activities/hobbies do you do to raise your SMVThe way I see things now is that as a man, in order of importance, you need: 1. to be proficient at Game (TRP theory + applying by approaching, spinning plates, etc.). Any activity that might help you here is great: work/training/side-gig in sales (train all game skills), theater/improv (trains body language + rambling), group activities (trains leadership + team dynamics), debate/politics (trains frame), travel (trains skills at meeting new people), dancing (trains kino + confidence + body lang… | /r/askTRP | 09/05/18 07:13 PM |
| 5 | Elucidating Alpha and Beta"Average Frustrated Chump (AFC)" (from PUA, like most of TRP terminology) was used to define guys who have not been unplugged, still believe that you get girls through beta game, and not going anywhere with it. Found a lot through Rollo's work and probably a term we should strive to use instead of "beta". For a total loser who doesn't register on women's radar at all, "omega" is often used. Or better, don't use any word. Keep alpha and beta in the context of women's dual sexual strategy. Any guy… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/05/18 06:46 PM |
| 1 | Female researcher gets Red-pilled while studying why 25% of men are now childless in Norway -- and it's steadily rising and mostly involuntaryI see your point. Every man can have kids so I don't think it's a trait either way. But being a father means you've been preselected by at least one woman (alpha? /u/redpillbanana 's argument), but assuming you didn't leave her it also means you've been selected as a providing, kids-raising husband (beta? my argument). | /r/TheRedPill | 09/05/18 06:27 PM |
| 1 | Female researcher gets Red-pilled while studying why 25% of men are now childless in Norway -- and it's steadily rising and mostly involuntaryWomen want an alpha for something, and want a beta for something else. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/05/18 04:11 PM |
| 6 | Female researcher gets Red-pilled while studying why 25% of men are now childless in Norway -- and it's steadily rising and mostly involuntaryRollo's post "schedules of mating", or the post currently on TRP's front page "elucidating alpha and beta" are a good start. AF;BB is TRP 101, but you need to spend time outside of this sub and on the rest of the manosphere to learn it now | /r/TheRedPill | 09/05/18 04:10 PM |
| 15 | Female researcher gets Red-pilled while studying why 25% of men are now childless in Norway -- and it's steadily rising and mostly involuntaryOn the contrary, I'd say what's attractive about men being fathers is primarily that they have demonstrated they are prime beta material. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/05/18 06:35 AM |
| 12 | Female researcher gets Red-pilled while studying why 25% of men are now childless in Norway -- and it's steadily rising and mostly involuntaryYou haven't fully understood TRP theory until you've understood the fact that (and why) women are looking to partner up with beta providers, instead of alpha stallions. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/05/18 06:33 AM |
| 6 | Emotional DifferencesWith red-pill awareness, the "please do express your feelings (so I can see if you're a real man or just a little bitch pretending)" trick becomes a gold Game opportunity. Just answer: "OK I'll be perfectly honest with you darling. 100% honesty... I am actually doing very fine. I really feel absolutely OK about this. It's almost scary how I absolutely don't mind about this." | /r/TheRedPill | 08/05/18 06:20 PM |
| 4 | Emotional DifferencesThe answer doesn't matter as much as your mindset. You can stay silent, or only smirk, or hug her, or come up with a witty reply, or very seriously say "you're absolutely right honey". As long as you have the proper mindset, where you know it's a shit test and you'll ignore her opinion/advice and proceed with what YOU want to do, and what is best for YOU, you'll be fine. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/05/18 05:33 PM |
| 0 | Reminder: Never discuss your feelingsSee my response to the other guy. I think there's no difference. Just two words for basically the same concept of "feeling what the other feel / caring for the other's feelings / mirror neurons whatever". | /r/TheRedPill | 07/05/18 05:12 PM |
| 1 | Reminder: Never discuss your feelingsI purposefully mixed up the words to trigger people around and been really enjoying seeing the results, but you take the gold medal so I'll add another layer just for you: I think there is no meaningful difference between those two words. Like love/infatuation, people will write novels explaining the difference between empathy/sympathy when there's actually none in substance. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/05/18 05:10 PM |
| 7 | LTR went out last night, still isn't back. Instant hard next?Dude, I'm sure it must be hard, but try your best to chill. In a state of rage, nothing good can happen. You may fight and she'll call the cops on you. In any case, she'll see you as less than a man for being overwhelmed by your emotions. Here's what you should be doing: put yourself back at your own mental point of origin. Ask yourself "what is the best course of action to take that will benefit ME?". Stop caring about her and about your relationship. Trying to make her feel bad is having her a… | /r/askTRP | 07/05/18 08:10 AM |
| 14 | How can I find the power to break up with 1 year LTREasy. Make a habit to sit down, close your eyes, and spend 5 minutes every day to visualize your future with her. A sexless marriage with a nagging wife. For the next 30 years of your life, or more realistically until she cheats on you with a more exciting dude, and then take half your shit in the divorce, as well as the kids whom she ~teaches~ indoctrinates to hate their dad. Then spend another 5 minutes to visualize a future without her, but with the results of combined redpill wisdom and hard… | /r/askTRP | 07/05/18 08:05 AM |
| 12 | A quick AWALT reminder.https://therationalmale.com/2012/12/19/the-epiphany-phase/ It’s during this stage that women will make radical shifts in their prioritization of what prerequisite traits qualify as ‘attractive’ in a man and attempt to turn over a new leaf by changing up their behaviors to align with this new persona they create for themselves. Since the physicality, sexual prowess and Alpha dominance that made up her former arousal cues in a Man aren’t as forthcoming from men as when she was in her sexual prime,… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/05/18 07:59 AM |
| 2 | Tracking Plates' Period App?Same issue here. One app per girl is the only workaround I got so far. | /r/askTRP | 07/05/18 03:40 AM |
| 264 | Reminder: Never discuss your feelingsThey have no sympathy. Totally disagree. Women have way more empathy than men. That's actually a feature of agreeableness (which they have in spades, on average) and a reason why they're the first to vote progressive to help the less fortunate and open their arms to refugees. The real problem is that women are utterly turned off by a weak man. They will feel the need to help you, they will ask you to rest your weary head on their shoulder, they will be deeply moved by your despair and sincerely … | /r/TheRedPill | 07/05/18 02:46 AM |
| 151 | "Older men getting with 20 year olds is a TRP revenge fantasy..." Oops! Maybe not!From Rollo's "The Myth of the Lonely Old Man" Don’t buy this lie. The man who is comfortable with himself and confident in his true independence is the one that women will want to be associated with and to share in it. How you handle being alone and what you do with the opportunities that freedom allows is the real measure of a man. If you’re single and 50 you STILL have options if you’re only brave enough to explore them. I know divorced men in their 50s who’re dating mid 30s women right now an… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/05/18 02:39 AM |
| 4 | Things to focus on as a bald 20 year oldIt always amazes me when people come on asktrp asking "guys, I have this massive problem, what should I do?" and people answer "you should do X" and OP proceeds to answer "Oh yeah cool, well I am doing Y". You have a specific problem and asking for tips. You've been specifically answered. Now either you say "ok I get your point I'll do it", or you say "I would rather not do that because I don't believe your answer is right. Would you mind developing your argument to see if I can be convinced". I… | /r/askTRP | 06/05/18 05:55 AM |
| 1 | Friend (24F) worries about “losing out” to younger girls in crop topsTell her that yes she can worry about this very real issue... when she is 29/30. | /r/askTRP | 04/05/18 08:44 AM |
| 1 | Push Pull and Escalate AdviceLook for the Mystery Method. Push/pull and kino escalation are classic PUA playbook, decribed in abundance in many methods. | /r/askTRP | 04/05/18 08:41 AM |
| 1 | For those who have around TRP a decade or more, how did the recession in 2008 effect female mindsets?http://www.macrotrends.net/2511/unemployment-rate-men-women By an awesome coincidence, I was actually looking at some macro-economic charts three days ago and came across that one without knowing about that strong gender disparity on the latest recession. I was not aware of it. If you look closely, you'll see that men's unemployment shoot up more than women's at every recession. But the effect in 2008 was much stronger than ever before. | /r/askTRP | 04/05/18 08:36 AM |
| 6 | Girl flakes for the third time, should I even respond to her text?Yep good call. A girl who wants to fuck you would not let 2 months pass without fucking you. This probably means she has a better guy to fuck at the moment, and most certainly means you're not a priority to her. Too much hassle. Too much energy wasted that could be spent looking into spinning other plates. | /r/askTRP | 04/05/18 08:33 AM |
| 3 | Ex-LTR Pissed That I Left Dinner 'Abruptly' - Help Me UnderstandI think you played it pretty well and analyze it pretty well. She obviously didn't have that raw attraction and so wanted you do do more. More chasing? Giving more resources away? Giving more attention? I think the fact that you have been together in the past and she successfully betaized you is at play here: she may want to reel you in again, and she can't put out for a beta with LTR potential as she would a fresh hot alpha. In any case, you made it clear that you wanted sex as part of the deal… | /r/askTRP | 02/05/18 08:20 PM |
| 3 | Newbie needs hasty advice for tonight, want to keep an ex as a fwb for the summer.You're doing great. So much so that you don't even have a specific question to ask. Girls are going to ask for more. That's what's they do. You give what you want and you deflect for the rest. And if at some point she's creating too much drama about your not performing to her standards, you just next and find another one. Oh and be protected. Sounds like another one who could want to trap you with an oops pregnancy. | /r/askTRP | 02/05/18 08:12 PM |
| 28 | How to deal with the "busy all week" shit test?This. And to get them more attracted, you need to spend time in person with them. And since they won't accept to see you in person, you basically have no other choice but nexting. | /r/askTRP | 01/05/18 10:54 AM |
| 6 | Only 1 plate currently. Starting to get feelings. Abandon ship?She is not a "plate". Plate-spinning is a metaphor specifically meant for the idea of pursuing several sexual options. It is meant specifically to maintain an abundance mentality, and not get attached to any one girl. Here you have an exclusive relationship with a girl. Whether or not this exclusivity comes because you want it, or have been unable to get other girls doesn't matter. You are in an exclusive relationship with a girl, and it's normal to develop feelings over time for a girl you're s… | /r/askTRP | 01/05/18 10:52 AM |
| 4 | Strengthen Your Will By Imposing Your WillIt's funny because you ask this question as a comment in a post that was exactly meant to answer that question. It's an interesting thesis that GLO put there, positing that you can't take even the simplest recommendations we provide (lift, read sidebar, approach, learn game, etc.) because you lack even the most basic level of Will to do anything at all. If he is right, there is absolutely nothing we can tell you that you will listen and implement, so not sure if there's a point for us to bother … | /r/TheRedPill | 01/05/18 10:41 AM |
| 1 | The Emotional ProcessGreat article. Looking forward the last one, and hoping it'll also deal with humans' tendency to rationalize our actions a posteriori. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/05/18 06:54 AM |
| 82 | The official "an incel murdered somebody" thread for onlookers, bystanders & media suit types (ignore this and publish a story saying we are just like them for that sweet adrev)Be surprised when lonely, purposeless human beings, who are being derided for their failures, with no actionable solutions lash out after taking away their support groups. And yet the solution is so incredibly simple: Dear incels, just pretend to be "confused about your gender identity". And then watch the entire society's attitude shifting: Support groups, supportive media segments, "friends", and prospective romantic partners will start pouring in. See, the only real issue is that despite your… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/04/18 06:02 AM |
| 8 | How to hold frame (my complete guide)As Roosh or Rollo would say, there are no naturals. Just people who learned younger and faster somehow. Some people learn that stuff from observing others at a young age and got it fast. Others need to read a 55-pages long extensive treatise on the topic to even start beginning considering learning it. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/04/18 08:45 AM |
| 17 | NPR episode over the Radio today calling out theredpill.It's been a long time since casual journalists have abandoned professionalism. You can't expect a modern journalist to do even the most basic research and information cross-check. Takes too long. Even if they were still acting professional, journalists still need to spin a story according to a narrative that sells papers. It has always been the case, from the biggest national papers to the tiniest local ones, and it's even more important now that they don't make much money anymore due to the int… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/04/18 06:19 AM |
| 1 | TRP is not about preventing you from making mistakes. It’s about telling you what to expectI don't see how desiring "more positive experience" is negative. If anything, this is the fuel that helps you get shit done. Also, the "acceptance of a negative experience" is only positive if you learn from it so that you don't have to repeat the negative experience in the future. This quote sounds like someone trying to force-fit a witty quote to make people believe it's more profound than it actually is since it was force-fitted. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pz9C3Oc7Mj4 | /r/TheRedPill | 25/04/18 01:43 AM |
| 3 | A couple questions about the girl I lost my virginity toWhatever you do doesn't matter at this point. There is nothing that screams "ONEitis" more than a man who flip-flops between bang-town, the friend-zone, and radio-silence. This girl will see you as a needy beta she has under her thumb for the rest of her life, whatever you do now. Go to that meet. Say whatever you want to say, and then finally make the effort of going banging other girls so that you get that one out of your mind. | /r/askTRP | 24/04/18 09:16 PM |
| 51 | How oneitis is bornONEitis is the combined product of low-SMV male monogamy sexual strategy, scarcity mentality, and a societal reinforcement informed by the feminine imperative. low-SMV male monogamy sexual strategy. There's a few competing models to explain human's sexual strategies. We talk a lot about women's AF;BB but not much about men's. I am of the opinion that men have two sexual strategies: fuck lots of women, committing to non (CAD), and focus on one woman and help in parenting, and mate-guarding (DAD).… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/04/18 10:17 PM |
| 1 | Feel like I am wasting my life away working too hard. 20 year old and relatively successful.You need a mission/vision/purpose. You can try Jordan Peterson's "future" self-authoring program for that. | /r/askTRP | 21/04/18 08:26 AM |
| 5 | How to build a social circle from nothing?Male group dynamics is that we create a bond (friendship) over doing the same activity. Often as a team. You could bring disparate people into a circle by building a sense of identity around an activity. But it'd be easier for you to join a group that already have that identity through that activity. Just join the activity. Next step is to take the lead of the group by being the best at said activity. | /r/askTRP | 21/04/18 08:19 AM |
| 3 | Someone please beat some sense into me.You need a mission/vision/purpose. You can try Jordan Peterson's "future" self-authoring program for that. | /r/askTRP | 21/04/18 08:09 AM |
| 13 | I’m asking your advice. Please!!!You're being completely manipulated and she has lost all respect and love for you for having let yourself being manipulated by her. What she says doesn't matter. It's what she does that reveals what's in her heart. And from your description, she is completely repulsed by you. She's only telling you sweet things to get you to stick around (so she can enjoy your neediness as an ego boost and your attention and help), which is male manipulation 101. Oh and by the way, you're not "dating" her. You'r… | /r/askTRP | 19/04/18 07:34 AM |
| 2 | Push up instead of bench pressor the recommended routine of the bodyweightfitness subreddit | /r/askTRP | 19/04/18 07:25 AM |
| 27 | Why do chicks love dudes in bands even though a lot of them are pretty whiny, sensitive, and are usually weirdos that write poetry?The important SMV booster in the case of musicians is local status. Girl is out in a bar with her friends and out there is a group of guys, standing on quite literally a pedestal, demonstrating their mastery of a skill that results in everyone in here having fun. At that specific moment, these guys are at the very top of the local hierarchy by a very large margin. Hypergamy loves this. Take the same guy not in a band, and hypergamy couldn't care less. Take the same guy in a band, but whom a girl… | /r/askTRP | 18/04/18 09:02 AM |
| 10 | Interested to see what people think here...Do you think you hang around people that are particularly predictable? Yes. Humans are predictable. My conservative 30yo male friend is predictably behaving like a human male. My liberal 37yo male friend is predictably behaving like a human male. My 18yo plate was predictably behaving like a human female. My current 26yo girl from a different country and with postgraduate education is predictably behaving like a human female. My 35yo female friend from a completely different cultural background … | /r/TheRedPill | 18/04/18 08:08 AM |
| 14 | Interested to see what people think here...Trolls are going to troll, even under the guise of polite debate. So your post will very likely be deleted soon. But hopefully I can jump in and tell you before it is. The short answer is no. I do not wonder if I am experiencing major confirmation bias. All humans do to some extent, but that cannot account for the fact that before TRP I was completely puzzled by the behavior of women, whereas now I don't at all. Everything that happens, I understand why it happens. I can even predict with good a… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/04/18 07:42 AM |
| 22 | Train MMAWhat OP is trying to say is that it's not the fighting ability that's important but the pure frame that it brings to you. It makes you fearless, it makes you feeling like you're better than everyone, it makes you keep your cool in even the most tense situations. Nobody - men or women - has to know that you can fight, but they will all take notice of your body language that exudes your supremely confident mindset. Some men can get that perfect mindset from being built. Some men can get it from be… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/04/18 07:02 AM |
| 18 | Don’t be a Beta Male: Stop it with the Soy Boy Shit.Talking too much on a date is a symptom of anxiety. It's ok, guys need to get over it. Talking about being a feminist in hope that it will convince a girl to fuck you is a symptom of a successful brainwashing by a society bent on the feminine imperative. Much more difficult to get over, without stumbling on TRP, the rational male or another suitable positive masculinity influence. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/04/18 06:37 AM |
| 25 | An alpha female loved it when I made her feel feminine and desired. Her ultra beta BF even totally lost frame in front of me. Why does she stay with him?Some say you can. Some say you can't. I'm of the side who say you can't because of a fundamental contradiction: the most attractive trait of a beta for a woman is his dependability. A women has the need to feel secure in the knowledge that when she's with child, older and less attractive, he will still stick by her. But alphas are by definition non-dependable. They're attractive in large parts because they're attractive to other women, because they don't commit, because they're wild and free and… | /r/askTRP | 17/04/18 10:28 AM |
| 3 | So I had a talk last night with my sister and female childhood friends about female sexual promiscuity and I really have to ask...Alphaest. The best combo of appropriate looks, good game, and highest local status at a given time for a given woman. | /r/askTRP | 17/04/18 10:24 AM |
| 4 | I feel very, very angry?The anger lessens with time. While you have it, use it as motivation fuel for your self-change. Social standing will happen when you become excellent at something or several things. When you have value to others. Then they'll come to you to leech your sweet sweet SMV in hope that associating with you will rub off on them. So basically: keep going. It takes time. You'll get there. | /r/askTRP | 17/04/18 10:21 AM |
| 3 | How do you have motivation without clear purpose?Until you can figure your own personal mission, your default mission should be "More Masculinity". Are you at your peak physical strength yet? Can you fight? Can you hunt? Can you build furniture? Can you fix an engine? Anything else that you feel is typically Masculine that you should pursue? Anything that you already do that is masculine and you could focus on and achieve top 5% excellence at it? Men need direction. We need a higher purpose. A finish line to look towards. What it is, whether i… | /r/askTRP | 17/04/18 10:14 AM |
| 32 | An alpha female loved it when I made her feel feminine and desired. Her ultra beta BF even totally lost frame in front of me. Why does she stay with him?TRP 101 is that women have a dual sexual strategy: alpha fucks and beta bucks. She sexually desire the hot, sexy and dominant alpha lover, but at the same time she needs the reliable, dependable and safe beta provider. You generate the tingles in a way that her provider cannot, but he provides the safety and comfort that you hot masculine stranger may not be able to. | /r/askTRP | 17/04/18 10:08 AM |
| 44 | [FR] She'll Cheat if the Time is Right, and You're NotHypergamy is only concerned about who's the top man in the environment right now. If OP had met the girl at a swimming competition where BF was competing, she would have not even noticed OP. If OP had met the girl at that entrepreneurship convention where OP was on his A game, but with the BF there out of his natural environment, she would have gotten the same tingles for OP but probably not acted on it since BF was there to mate guard. If OP had met the girl at that convention, but there was a … | /r/TheRedPill | 17/04/18 05:01 AM |
| 3 | Dominancehow she wanted a man that "encompasses dominance" but views her as an equal she can kneel to (contradictory in my opinion) They are all like that. Instinctively they want to be submissive to a great man, but culturally they've been conditioned to become "strong independent women who need no man". They feel like if they yield in to their desires, they will be seen poorly by the sisterhood, and that would be a terrible blow to their status. So they have to live permanently in that state of contrad… | /r/askTRP | 15/04/18 08:44 PM |
| 4 | PUA skills will not compensate for lifting. My experience over the past first year....I did downvote it. And then I commented on it to explain my opinion on why others should downvote it too. And if you don't understand why, re-read my last sentence again. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/04/18 08:49 AM |
| 14 | So I had a talk last night with my sister and female childhood friends about female sexual promiscuity and I really have to ask...No need to over-analyze the sexual marketplace. Guys are horny. They all want sex. If you're a young woman getting propositioned for sex by 20 guys a week, you'll say yes to the hottest of the 20. Done. | /r/askTRP | 15/04/18 08:42 AM |
| 117 | PUA skills will not compensate for lifting. My experience over the past first year....I am getting tired of people trying to rank what's most important in raising your SMV. Every man should lift AND learn Game AND make money AND increase their social status. You don't have to compare them. You don't have to rank what's the most important. You do them all, that's all. Posts like yours do a great disservice to newbies by giving them excuses to not work on one aspect of themselves that they're not so keen to work on. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/04/18 08:28 AM |
| 6 | FR: Buddy Gets Accused of Rape, White Knights Come to Damsel’s RescueThere still is the important lesson (again) that women will willingly throw you under the bus if their sexual reputation is on the line, which should remind everyone to stay extremely discreet with their sexual exploits. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/04/18 11:06 PM |
| 12 | 47/M two-year transformation storyI think you forget which sub you're on. This is not a competition with rules to abide or else you get disqualified. This is not a place where we shame people for life choices that go against mainstream opinion. We talk reality here. Reality is that drugs have pros and cons, with the cons being bad consequences on health. Seems to me like OP considered both sides carefully before taking a decision. You're welcome to do exactly the same without having to judge people for taking the opposite decisi… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/04/18 10:55 PM |
| 5 | I cant day game or cold approach and it’s killing me.You're not special. Almost all guys have approach anxiety. Don't rationalize why you have it. This is not due to your life story. Solution is the same as for everyone. Approach. Get rejected. Approach again. Get rejected again. Slowly build tolerance to rejection until you don't care about it. You can use some crutches like drinking to loosen up a bit, use Mystery's 3 second rule, get a job in sales, make a habit to talk to everyone... but best thing you can do is make some time every week to go… | /r/askTRP | 12/04/18 09:36 PM |
| 2 | I don't understand why people hate the red pillWe do have a lot of downright "misogynistic" comments. Aka, as per definition "dislike of, contempt for, or ingrained prejudice against women". A large part coming from young people who have suffered from being rejected, exploited or hurt in a way or another by women. It's easy to find examples here and there of these sort of offending content, which our detractors latch onto. It's not all of TRP, but the criticism extends to the whole of TRP for allowing this to go on. The worst of it is shot d… | /r/askTRP | 12/04/18 09:30 PM |
| 5 | Mystery ManWhat an outstanding post. The nature of reddit makes such gold nuggets getting lost in time. It's good to dig them up on a regular basis. Thank you. The relevant Rational Male post about this is "Imagination", which by coincidence I was actually reading this morning (in the book. Just started my Nth re-reading) . Your post extends perfectly on this absolute basic TRP concept.. on which I still regularly trip up. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/04/18 10:55 PM |
| 24 | THE ATTRACTION TRINITY: Looks, Money and Status – A Complete GuideThis is a moral judgment. Your moral judgement about what is good/worthy/valuable. There are plenty of men who think a worthy life is one where you live for yourself, more simply, closer to nature. They may find those you describe as pathetic addicts to materialism. There are others who think a worthy life is one where you embrace selfless spirituality. They may find both types described above as pathetic selfish people. Good for you if you've defined for yourself your ultimate goal. Pursue it r… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/04/18 10:02 AM |
| 14 | THE ATTRACTION TRINITY: Looks, Money and Status – A Complete GuideBeing financially dependent on others isn't the most masculine trait out there.. That being said, if you had been hot, at the top of the local dominance hierarchy, and with A+ game to swat those shit tests, your lack of cash wouldn't have mattered. Just think of how cashless cons and ex-cons can get all the pussy they want, just because they exude pure masculinity. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/04/18 08:48 AM |
| 159 | THE ATTRACTION TRINITY: Looks, Money and Status – A Complete GuideMoney is a double-edge sword. If you use it in such way to make you look cooler and higher status, then it'll act on the Alpha side of women's dual sexual strategy and get them wet. But in the meantime, it'll activate women's beta-radar. Plenty of wealthy guys here have reported that they have to hide how much money they make when they game women or else they try to make them wait for sex, because they're perceived as great beta provider material. Sure do pursue money, but always remember what g… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/04/18 07:42 AM |
| 4 | askTRP Megathread April 04Free ticket to a game? Come on, son. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/04/18 08:10 AM |
| 15 | The Art of FemininityFor anyone who enjoyed that post, read David Deida's "the way of the superior man". | /r/TheRedPill | 06/04/18 07:23 AM |
| 5 | finding out it was a whole easier for chadhttps://therationalmale.com/2013/12/03/saving-the-best/ | /r/askTRP | 05/04/18 07:58 PM |
| 18 | On the Myth of a Western Rape Culture."We live in a rape culture" is the societal equivalent to "you don't love me anymore" in a relationship It's an accusation, absolutely untrue but you can kinda see how this could be come up. It's grave enough to make the accused feel the need to defend himself (themselves), and unfortunately by doing so giving the impression that the accusation could have a little bit of truth in it. The entire purpose is of course to shame the man (men) to invite him to do/give more to the woman (women). It's t… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/04/18 07:21 PM |
| 1 | Girl still follows her psycho ex-boyfriendIt's problematic if you are already in an exclusive LTR with her. You should get with girls first as "plates" (non-exclusive fuck-buddies). Then, if they want to get you exclusively, they should earn it through a continuous display of good behavior on her part. In the process they should become aware that your the continuation of this exclusivity they enjoy from you is dependent upon her continuing that good behavior. This way you get a LTR where that sort of disrespect in completely absent. And… | /r/askTRP | 05/04/18 10:38 AM |
| 13 | Ltr spending a lot of time with her new bossThe two facts that (1) she may be working hard with her boss to advance her career and (2) she may be attracted to her boss (or even sleeping with him), are not necessarily incompatible. What's sure is that from the situation you describe, her hypergamy may very well be activated. The fact that you don't find him attractive doesn't mean that she doesn't. Especially since the guy is her hierarchical superior. The main target of all hypergamy, as all nurses-doctor or secretary-CEO couples ever can… | /r/askTRP | 05/04/18 08:57 AM |
| 11 | Girl still follows her psycho ex-boyfriendWatch what she does, not what she says. She said he's a psycho? Maybe he isn't. She said she hates him? Maybe she doesn't. She said they had pretty bad experiences together? Maybe they didn't. She said she's "afraid he might do something bad to her if she stops following him" as an excuse for following him? That's the most pathetic fake excuse in the world, and you'd be an idiot to believe it. Remove everything she says and watch what she actually does: she's following an ex on social media. You… | /r/askTRP | 05/04/18 08:51 AM |
| 5 | I'm a obese, shy male. Need some help.Don't worry about this right now. Don't chase too many tails at the same time. Focus 100% on losing the weight first. Open google, type in "nutritionist", find the closest to you, call that number, book an appointment for ASAP. You'll get professional advice and a number of options. Worry about all the rest (lifting, quitting porn, game, etc.) much much later. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/18 08:15 PM |
| 2 | Tropic CascadeErgo being powerless makes men angry. It's a vicious cycle until you can break it. humans can break these cycles. Other creatures of nature cannot, at least not by decision. It's a choice to remain powerless. It's a choice to act out in anger. You obviously have never been depressed. As JS said, depression arises from the feeling of powerlessness. This is when you feel that you have no control whatsoever on what's happening to you. You can almost say it is the exact contrary of having the choice… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/04/18 08:22 PM |
| 8 | Life at 50I am Rollo Tomassi now. Don’t worry, I’m not legally changing my name. At first it was a clever online handle for me, and my real name is so white-bread generic it almost serves as a form of anonymity. Now it is me, and I’m okay with that. It's funny to imagine you have another, real name. I can't imagine you as M. Steve Smith or a Thomas Anderson. Happy to hear you'll be focusing more and more on helping men in this decaying society. I recently heard of a friend of a friend trying to commit sui… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/04/18 06:54 AM |
| 1 | Brief Thoughts on the Overthinking and Overcomplication of the Alpha/Beta Heuristic.I do not mean that women do not matter, but if you wanna be responsible for yourself you should put yourself above her, just as if she wishes to be responsible she should herself before you, only this way, i think, a LTR is viable in the sense that both communicate, both want each other, but each person wants themselves more becouse its the individual that is alive, not the relationship The original post was deleted. I agree with your thoughts. That's what Rollo called "enlightened self-interest… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/04/18 06:24 AM |
| 1 | Brief Thoughts on the Overthinking and Overcomplication of the Alpha/Beta Heuristic.Looks like your post was deleted but would be happy to continue this conversation if you're keen. I think you're very right to only consider theories that fit your personal experience, and so to reject AF;BB if it contradicts your experience. I personally accept it entirely because (1) it does fit so well with my experience, and (2) makes complete sense from an evo psych perspective. I am extremely interested in your thoughts about this. So first thing is to clarify your position. Do you think A… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/04/18 06:18 AM |
| 1 | Brief Thoughts on the Overthinking and Overcomplication of the Alpha/Beta Heuristic.I do not adhere to the MGTOW philosophy. In my life, there are women I love, women I work with, women I want to fuck, women I am friend with, women I am related with. Understanding their psychology thanks to TRP has significantly improved my quality of life with all these women. Ensuring you are your own "mental point of origin" or operating from a perspective of "enlightened self-interest" does NOT mean not caring about others. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/04/18 08:13 PM |
| 1 | Brief Thoughts on the Overthinking and Overcomplication of the Alpha/Beta Heuristic.Perfect answer. A major problem also lies in the fact that the red pill community has never agreed on terminology and that these two terms ended up describing so many different things. "Beta" in particular is used indiscriminately to talk about a low SMV man, or a good provider, or an Average Frustrated Chump, etc. Can't really fault entirely the casual visitor for being confused. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/04/18 07:41 PM |
| 2 | Brief Thoughts on the Overthinking and Overcomplication of the Alpha/Beta Heuristic.Unfortunately by doing so you end up missing the major interest of those terms: the fact that alpha and beta describe the two sides of women's sexual strategy. The fact that any woman needs both the lover and the provider, at different degrees through her period cycle and through her life. Because this single fact alone goes a long way to explain women's behavior and answers one of the eternal question "what do women want?" with an answer that is simple, accurate and useful, it is at the very co… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/04/18 07:22 PM |
| 2 | Still Wanna Get Married?How long have you been together? How old is she? How financially independent is she? | /r/TheRedPill | 30/03/18 10:06 PM |
| 6 | Still Wanna Get Married?Not married here, but interestingly, it also took me 3 years post-unplugging to finally get to the point where I felt like I don't need LTR/marriage at all. Wonder if that would be a typical time to remove a deeply-ingrained belief. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/03/18 08:56 AM |
| 44 | Still Wanna Get Married?Dumbing down concepts to make them understandable by a wider public is automatically denaturing the concepts. Saying that the original concept is complicated doesn't mean it's unnecessarily complicated. It only means that you are incapable or unwilling to do the intellectual effort to understand something and thus demand something simpler, despite the risks of misconstruing the original concept. Women's sexual strategy as defined in TRP as "hypergamy" and explained as the dual "Alpha fucks, Beta… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/03/18 02:21 AM |
| 167 | Still Wanna Get Married?This is a typical bluepill comment, ala "just be confident". Let's try it redpill-style: Girls have an innate anxiety about long-term providing given that their SMV is going down rapidly past their 20s. Even if they don't believe this because they bought into the "sexy-at-all-age" blue-pill lie, they still have this evolution-built little voice in the back of their mind that say, louder and louder with age, "Lock in the commitment of the highest SMV man you can, ASAP!". This is inherent to their… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/03/18 12:14 AM |
| 8 | Stop talking about your weaknessesBack when I was still plugged in, I was most definitely a sharer of personal information about weakness. I'd eagerly share about being dumped by a girl, or not being strong enough to do X or Y, or about the time I was depressed... Now unplugged, I cringe at re-reading some of the emails and messages I have sent in the past. How could I be so blind not to guess that it was anti-attractive to a woman? I remember having one glimpse of enlightenment back then. I remember at some point thinking "ever… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/03/18 08:41 AM |
| 8 | I don't get nervous with strangers, but I get nervous as fuck with girls that are into meWhy do you come on asktrp if you don't listen to answers given to you? An EC has taken some of his time to offer you an answer, which was then upvoted to the top. And you replied to his comment by ignoring completely what he wrote and riffing off your own theories. Are you here to genuinely get a solution to your problems, or are you just here to make small talk? Because we have other things to do. Just on the off chance that you're here to actually get a solution, I would encourage you to re-re… | /r/askTRP | 28/03/18 07:22 PM |
| 19 | My least favorite way to utilize red pill knowledge.As he said, individually they're fine. The problem is that together they will elect Hillary, vote to to maintain the status quo with divorce rape laws, organize to doxx you and press your employer to get you fired, etc. How are YOU going to control that? | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/18 07:21 PM |
| 14 | How to get turned down by a 2/10Except that you need to approach and ramble long and well enough to create enough of a connection for her to start getting engaged in the convo. http://www.returnofkings.com/82450/how-to-have-conversations-with-women-that-get-results As the guy did very well at the beginning: Some guy came up to them and started making conversation. He wasn't particularly attractive or charming, but hell - he's talking to a bunch of land whales. He was doing great - they were laughing, the younger one was droppi… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/18 06:38 AM |
| 9 | Respect is earned, not given.You're just re-iterating what you wrote in your post, not answering /u/JamesSkepp 's rebuttal. I think JS is right. You talk about "respect" as some form of nebulous concept that has nothing to do with hierarchy of power, while it is easily explained in terms of human dynamics: it is what someone in a hierarchy naturally pays to someone who is higher in the hierarchy, out of either fear (of physical or social retribution) or admiration. In your example, you argue that it's not because his belt i… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/03/18 01:28 AM |
| 25 | ‘All Men are Trash’A man who gave away his life to save a woman. The ultimate white-knight. The hero of the feminine imperative. This is the "right kind of" man, along with his fellow comrades: The man who marries the girl he accidentally got pregnant after a one-night-stand, but she doesn't want to get an abortion. The man with a perfect physique who is dating a fat girl The CEO who takes a pay cut to give away more cash to women in his company to fight off the wage gap. The millionaire or prince who falls in lov… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/03/18 10:03 PM |
| 6 | I'm one of those "lonely guys" at clubs, how can I end this cycle?So, there's no way I can stick to 3 drinks, but This attitude is the root source of all your problems. Your self-limiting beliefs will ensure you stay the same person forever. "There's no way I can ever be ripped..", "There's no way I can ever get a threesome", "There's no way a HB9 can find me attractive..." | /r/askTRP | 24/03/18 09:14 PM |
| 8 | She wants to live together60 years ago, women were not dating someone for over a year and still not living together. This woman has a biological imperative to follow, and it includes getting a male to commit his time and money and attention towards her exclusively. If OP is not cooperating (because he's following his own strategy), then she has no other choice but finding another more willing provider. You can't fault her for going after what she wants. | /r/askTRP | 24/03/18 02:27 AM |
| 10 | Oneitis for a coworkerSee other girls. | /r/askTRP | 24/03/18 02:23 AM |
| 2 | Turned down group “date” for first time meetingI may have gone along with the idea. Standard TRP answer is that it's a bad idea to meet a girl other than one-on-one. However, I would argue that this comes from a time pre-tinder and pre-#metoo era. Back then, going on a date with a girl meant you already met her, and gamed her well enough to get her number, so if she wanted to bring along friends at your next meet, it would be a bad sign that she's using you for a ride. But for a girl nowadays, having to meet a random guy she never saw in per… | /r/askTRP | 24/03/18 01:53 AM |
| 18 | Always have a full pipeline.Seventh Commandment of Poon | /r/TheRedPill | 24/03/18 12:31 AM |
| 1 | On the Basics of PowerTalkIt's actually in the sidebar, even though it's not simple to find. The sidebar has a post on powertalk. Check out the first comment in that post, which has the links that were meant in the post. Those links refer to an older post, which has these links to the ribbonfarm website. So when you're done with the Gervais principle series, check those posts and the comments in them. And then maybe read more of the sidebar, there might be other golden nuggets like this that you may have missed the first… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/03/18 11:01 PM |
| 1 | On the Basics of PowerTalkYes we can debate and disagree to our heart's content. But that does not mean that we're both right. I can debate and disagree with a flat-earther, that won't make his argument any more valid. I only called out your comment because your assertion was just false, that's all. Whether or not you like the expression "Power Talk", the fact is that it is absolutely not meant as an equal expression for the word "Euphemism", which only implies the manipulation of language for political correctness. "Man… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/03/18 10:53 PM |
| 3 | I white-knighted and paid the price... Never be the white knight.As with everything red pill, I discovered on the Manosphere that simple and logic framework that explains a host of female phenomena that I had personally experienced but never understood. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/03/18 06:40 AM |
| 6 | I white-knighted and paid the price... Never be the white knight.You don't have to get involved. Just engage your buddy on a complete different topic. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/03/18 06:36 AM |
| 17 | On the Basics of PowerTalkThat's not the same. Power talk is power talk. It is the use of language to achieve a benefit for yourself (power). It includes lying, white lies, sub-communication, misdirection, deliberate confusion, seduction, etc. It's not merely a replacement of a offensive word by a less offensive one (e.g. "retard" -> "developmentally disabled"). See the link in the sidebar "powertalk and other Language Categories" and the links within the post and comments. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/03/18 05:12 AM |
| 381 | I white-knighted and paid the price... Never be the white knight.Let's be clear here. White-knighting is "defending a woman usually from men in the more or less conscious hope that you'll get rewarded with sex". What you did here is not as much white-knighting as stupidly getting involved in the complex politics of the female social matrix. In summary, what you have there is a social circle of three females composed of a mother hen and two followers. Within this group, mother hen is constantly working on covertly maintaining her authority, while the two other… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/03/18 07:17 PM |
| 4 | Dangers of the Blue PillBut now there's lots of campaigning and consumer pushing of 'arming women' and, with Rollos outlook, who knows if one day a chick will get away with murder because "omg he harassed me!" https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Jacqueline_Sauvage_case Jacqueline Sauvage of Montargis, France, killed her husband Norbert Marot by shooting him in the back three times with a hunting rifle on the 10th of September 2012. A criminal case was then filed against Mrs. Sauvage, that resulted in her being condemned … | /r/TheRedPill | 21/03/18 07:58 AM |
| 9 | Married man disparages marriageI share your belief. There are so many things conspiring to keep men plugged in the matrix: modern society hiding from you the ruthless nature of women's sexual strategy from the youngest age, a natural male desire to find in women (or at least in ONE) the unconditional love and support that makes life bearable, a natural propensity to be efficiently manipulated by women, etc. Most men are not ready to be unplugged from the matrix. They depend on it psychologically. Remember we are born in it an… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/03/18 06:48 AM |
| 31 | Married man disparages marriageHave you read OP's post? I gave this talk to my own son when he was but 14, but I think he wanted the relationship he saw at home. By the time he was 16 he was in a committed relationship with a cute little 16 year old classmate. They married at 22. While all of us wish we had found TRP earlier in life, if possible through a red pill father, the reality is that the pull of betadom is extremely strong. Even with a father sharing his red pill wisdom, you may have every well ended just as beta. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/03/18 07:15 PM |
| 1 | Old LiesAnd yet they stay with bad boys, even go back to them despite everything. Women don't want "submissive alpha", they don't want submissive anything. They want alpha, and they want beta, with the issue being that you can't have both in a same man. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/03/18 06:24 PM |
| 5 | Old LiesI understand you thought well, but bringing up Models is not putting some order in the conversation, quite the contrary. You say: I see two types of "vulnerability" being spoken about here No there was not. There was clearly ONE type of vulnerability being spoken about: In the original tweet "vulnerability" is clearly used in the sense of feminine-type fragility. Rollo discusses it, clearly using it in the sense of feminine-type fragility. All comments in this thread discuss it in the sense of f… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/03/18 12:36 AM |
| 3 | Old LiesI know, I put the definition in my post and agreed to this being proper English. My criticism was not about the validity of its use linguistically, but the intent behind it (sales via pandering to women), and the risk to red-pill aware men in following with this use. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/03/18 12:03 AM |
| 13 | Old LiesDamn how many times will I have to shoot down Models on that sub and see it resurrecting? vulnerable ˈvʌln(ə)rəb(ə)l/ adjective: exposed to the possibility of being attacked or harmed, either physically or emotionally. example: "we were in a vulnerable position" synonyms: in danger, in peril, in jeopardy, at risk, endangered, unsafe, unprotected, ill-protected, unguarded If you say this word "vulnerable" to anyone, people will understand "weakness". Nobody except those who have read Models would… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/18 08:51 PM |
| 23 | Old LiesMost women would say they like to see you vulnerable because they "want" men to be vulnerable so they're easier to exploit. But vulnerability is weakness, which is anti-Masculine and therefore repulsive. But that doesn't register in their "want". Actually, they don't mind beta men being vulnerable, since they're already unattractive. The more vulnerable the better actually, because the easier they are to exploit. Too bad that also makes them extra-repulsive to the point of trying hard to stop ha… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/18 07:02 AM |
| 10 | How do you answer shit tests like "have you had a girlfriend before" or "am I your first" without seeming insecure?Imagine a 10 years old asking his dad "dad, what causes wind?", and he answers "trees sneezing". Do you think he would answer that because he's insecure about his lack of knowledge of what causes wind? Do you think he would worry maybe his kid is going to find out his deep insecurity about his lack of meteorological knowledge? Of course not, he's just having fun! It's fun to play amused mastery with kids and girls. Just do it again and again and again. It never stops being fun. | /r/askTRP | 15/03/18 08:57 AM |
| 4 | A not-so-short story and thank you note to TRP.Yep tell him. I am biased of course but I really think this would be more important than a fourth book. The cancerous feminization of men happens in the entire western world, a large chunk of which does not speak English fluently enough to read a book in that language, particularly the youngest. I'm sure you could crowdsource via this sub to help. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/03/18 07:30 PM |
| 3 | A not-so-short story and thank you note to TRP.I've been thinking for a while reaching out to Rollo to help on creating a French version, of his first book at least... I have little cousins that must have this book in their hands by the time they're 16 and they likely won't be good enough in English at that age. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/03/18 07:21 PM |
| 12 | A not-so-short story and thank you note to TRP.Well done bud. That's putting the good work in. Not many French guys lift in proportion to the population. You'll stand out fast. Also, read the Rational Male books. And don't read Models but "Bang" and "Day Bang" by Roosh V instead. La tres grande majorité des oeuvres RP ne sont qu'en anglais. Mais ca ne devrai pas te poser un probleme, ton anglais est parfait. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/03/18 07:04 PM |
| 30 | 5 Reasons to Have Female FriendsYou're still listening to what women say? Give me 50 and go back to the top of the sidebar. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/03/18 09:25 AM |
| 3 | Hypergamy in action or am I overreacting?You don't get to control a woman by calling her out. You can't "correct" her behavior. If the hypergamous behavior of "your" girl upsets you, then you should simply leave her. Especially since removing your attention is the only way you can hope of her changing behavior. | /r/askTRP | 13/03/18 07:08 PM |
| 14 | Hypergamy in action or am I overreacting?Why not both? This is perhaps a very good demonstration of hypergamy, and yes you may very well be over-reacting at the fact that "your girl is - surprise! - hypergamous. Her behaviour is the typical hypergamy of women. Your emotional reaction is the typical mate-guarding of men. What should you do? Nothing. Stop giving a fuck. Tomorrow, maybe she'll be in your bed, maybe she'll have swung branch to a louder man. Who cares? You'll get another one. | /r/askTRP | 13/03/18 10:43 AM |
| 5 | Recognizing shit tests from comfort testsAlso you can recover from failing comfort tests but not shit tests. So in doubt, consider it a shit test and amusedmastery your way out of it. | /r/askTRP | 12/03/18 11:21 AM |
| 7 | "Ohhh Ohhh he's too nice!!!" Text from a 40-something single momThis is the phase Rollo coined as "redevelopment". https://therationalmale.com/2014/04/13/preventative-medicine-part-iv/ In married women, this is the phase where they consider divorce in order to reconnect with her wild years. Eat, Pray, Love style. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/03/18 08:32 AM |
| 6 | If attraction is evolutionary, why PUA systems can be "outdated"Awkward silences are bad early in the interaction (what PUAs specialize in) because girls need to feel like there is a natural chemistry between you. They're less of a problem later on when attraction has been already created, then it shows you're confident with silences and don't need to fill them with small chat. The only thing that is "outdated" in PUA is the canned lines that girls have already heard... that and the technology that has evolved. You wouldn't ask for an email address like Davi… | /r/askTRP | 11/03/18 05:11 AM |
| 7 | 19yo beta male feminist eyeing the red pill. I've got a story and some questions.See my post history for "Unplugging. The reading list" and "Must-read redpill content". Apart from that, do spend time on the rest of the Manosphere. therationalmale in priority, but also Dalrock (especially if you still have faith). Returnofkings and chateauheartiste are also decent but often get too political. In all cases, privilege the older stuff. 2009-2012. Chateauheartiste in those years was insanely good. Besides that, while I am answering you: We tolerate the actual hate on women on TRP… | /r/askTRP | 10/03/18 12:56 AM |
| 4 | Thoughts on the reasons women wear revealing clothing and how to use it on your favorDressing provocatively, slut-shaming, insecurity, addiction to attention, and many of the other traits that are specific to women are the symptoms of their intrasexual competition. From an evolutionary standpoint, the weaker sex had to evolve contingencies to ensure their safety and long-term security. One of them is the gift of manipulating men. Another one is the deep-seated need to be selected as a mate by a high-quality man who is highly ranked in the social hierarchy. Basically just like yo… | /r/askTRP | 10/03/18 12:34 AM |
| 7 | TRP Works at all ages.As he said, old habits die hard and you might find yourself rushing into something again and rationalize it somehow. Just make sure you follow humansockpuppet's guide to the letter. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/03/18 09:06 PM |
| 5 | Found this gem about frame controlYep, that is, much more than just "keeping your composure" as it's too often understood. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/03/18 07:19 PM |
| 24 | Found this gem about frame controlThanks OP. That is hands-down the most concise, accurate, and clear explanation for what "frame" really is. I think a lot of the confusion comes from two different ways to see it. If "frame" is one person's "interpretation of reality", then two people interacting have two different frames. Since people interacting tend to influence each other more or less consciously, at some point one of those frames "wins" and the "loser" adopts the winner's frame. The other way to understand it is that people… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/03/18 10:05 AM |
| 3 | Found this gem about frame controlYou kidding? Have you read the Game? It is widely acknowledged that the first PUA of modern times was Ross Jeffries, that he influenced considerably all following PUAs, and that his brand of Game was almost entierely based on NLP. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/03/18 09:29 AM |
| 6 | Found this gem about frame controlAgree. Best explanation I've seen. And yes it's important to read the old stuff. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/03/18 09:27 AM |
| 6 | Found this gem about frame controlFrame = being grounded No. How could you understand that from OP's crystal clear post defining frame? As he said, "frame is your interpretation of reality". If your interpretation of reality is "This girl is too hot for me", then that is a frame, that is your frame (on the moment), and that is a bad one. And that's absolutely not "being grounded". Frame can be anything. What's important is what you create the appropriate frame for your benefit and make it compelling enough that people adopt it t… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/03/18 09:26 AM |
| 2 | Getting Over HerNature has endowed each animal with the tools needed for their survival. Evolution is a beautiful cold efficient machine. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/03/18 08:23 AM |
| 2 | PSA - what is a plate ?I still believe in TRP being a toolbox and people being able to do whatever they want with it. Being married is "redpill on hard mode", and perhaps there are players out there who like to play it on hard mode. Whether they play on easy or hard mode, the 7th commandment still applies: VII. Always keep two in the kitty Never allow yourself to be a “kept man”. A man with options is a man without need. It builds confidence and encourages boldness with women if there is another woman, a safety net, t… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/03/18 08:19 AM |
| 1 | PSA - what is a plate ?TRP thought - particularly terminology - evolves with time as elders drop from the spotlight and new people rise to fill up the gap. Everybody's understanding of TRP is colored by when they picked it up. I lament but ultimately accept the evolution. You picked up calling girls "plates" because that's what people here did when you discovered TRP. I don't like it because it makes us drift further away from the original concept, but I accept this is the way things are. In any case of course this co… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/03/18 08:13 AM |
| 21 | Families and ChildrenYou sound like every man ever in the history of humanity, including those millions who got divorced. Every man thinks he's "doing it right".. until the day she "fell out of love". Every man thinks he's "found a good one".. until the day she flipped completely due to post-partum, meeting a millionaire, becoming BFF with a hardcore feminist, you losing your job, or getting a major illness. What makes you think you are different? I have a friend who just got a kid and is getting pressured by his wi… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/03/18 07:52 AM |
| 19 | PSA - what is a plate ?Personally I fucking hate "plate" as a term. The spinning plates analogy is a great one, it's a lot how it feels when you're juggling multiple women, being careful not to let any go too long without attention. But naming women after crockery is going too far, even for my shitlord ways. I stick with "Friend With Benefits", FWB for short. Same. Even worse for me, I just hate that the "spinning plates" analogy has become synonymous of "fucking multiple girls", while Rollo's original analogy was act… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/03/18 05:53 AM |
| 1 | Getting Over HerDid you read the article I linked? | /r/TheRedPill | 02/03/18 05:31 AM |
| 7 | Getting Over HerGirls get alpha-widowed only if they can't find more alpha. But because dick is abundant in this world, it'll be difficult for any man to be the highest alpha a girl will ever meet. She may not be able to forget "him"... but the moment she finally find "better" than "him", she will forget. And fast. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/03/18 05:31 AM |
| 3 | How does the "strong and silent type" pick up women, and what differentiates one from being a quiet alpha vs a shy beta?Being "friendly" (to her or other people) doesn't factor in a girl's assessment of how good a "alpha lover" you might be, and therefore her arousal to you. It does factor in how good a "beta provider" you could be though. There's a reason for the common tropes "nice guys finish last", "girls prefer jerks/assholes", or "treat em mean, keep em keen" although it's not "being an asshole" that is attractive in itself but the confidence, take-no-shit-from-nobody, dark-triad traits that goes with it. Y… | /r/askTRP | 02/03/18 05:29 AM |
| 11 | How does the "strong and silent type" pick up women, and what differentiates one from being a quiet alpha vs a shy beta?basically the word "strong". To attract a girl you need higher SMV than hers. You achieve this by having a high SMV and lowering hers, or more accurately, making it the commonly agreed perspective (frame) that she is lower SMV than you. When a man actively seduces a woman, it communicates that she may be higher SMV than him. Because if she was lower, he would not bother talking to her. That's why PUAs always neg their target. To compensate for the impression she gets that if you're trying to sed… | /r/askTRP | 01/03/18 08:39 AM |
| 56 | Getting Over HerWomen have a far easier time moving on; their energy is feminine and receptive. If they see a guy they even remotely like, even if they don’t feel like talking to him, they’ll accept his advances and quickly forget about you. See also the War Brides dynamic. Namely, it would make sense from an evolutionary perspective, that women would have been endowed with a capability to switch their affection to a different man on the spot. And it also follows my experience (and that of every man on earth). … | /r/TheRedPill | 01/03/18 08:27 AM |
| 1 | There's a lot of negativity about the culture war that feminism has been winning, but it IS coming around to bite them:You really think that you can look through 70 years of feminism and explain if by this extremely specific case? Did the suffragettes protest because they resented that some men have abandoned some women? Or is it more likely that they saw men having something they don't, so they got indignant about it (without pausing a second to think that the contract men signed was getting the right of vote in exchange for the duty of being used as cannon fodder when the state would need it). Women get indign… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/02/18 08:00 PM |
| 17 | Don't Get Cucked By ConservativesThen just wait for GLO's troll post about how libertarian are the worst. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/02/18 07:43 PM |
| 1 | Don't Get Cucked By ConservativesDude, that purplepilldebate post is gold! You need to post it here. It's hardly trolling, in fact. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/02/18 07:42 PM |
| 1 | "Don't sleep with any other girls while I'm gone" - Shit test?I think comfort test. But your answer was great. Hinting it's easy for you. Aloof. Not try-hard. When she comes back and if she brings it up, answer in similar amused mastery tone. And then bang her hard. Is she saying that because she subconsciously desires to sleep with other guys while she's home? Maybe. Maybe not. Whatever the case, she's a girl so she's hypergamous. And feelz before realz. So it could happen. Just trust your gut when she comes back. | /r/askTRP | 22/02/18 09:43 AM |
| 2 | Stand Your Ground - What Frame Means to MeSee my second answer to him. All he said is great, standard TRP stuff. It's just not what "frame" is about. I'm not calling for regurgitating the sidebar, I'm calling for not coming here explaining what's your personal opinion of a nebulous concept is, if by your own admission you haven't even bothered reading the agreed canon texts on the topic. Would you go to a doctor who would say "look, I've never opened a book on medicine, but here's what I think you got"? | /r/TheRedPill | 22/02/18 08:30 AM |
| 5 | Stand Your Ground - What Frame Means to MeOh sorry there was a misunderstanding. No, you're free to think and believe what you want. I don't really care. What I care about is you sharing your misguided personal opinions to a crowd of people who don't know TRP well enough yet to make the difference between the shared wisdom and the misguided personal opinion of someone who has not even bothered reading the sidebar. See whenever people like you share their opinion without knowing the fuck what they are talking about, you're spreading your… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/02/18 08:22 AM |
| 24 | Stand Your Ground - What Frame Means to MeNow my definition of frame might be different then the next bloke because I hate being given instructions and I refuse to be told to read the sidebar which I understand is somewhat irrational of me but I digress. ... It's funny, an endorsed contributor once wrote that frame was more important than looks, status or money in regards to attracting females. My head fucking exploded and I dismissed it as ridiculous. Although I still don't completely agree with that sentiment, I have concluded that fr… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/02/18 07:06 PM |
| 5 | I'm in very good shape but a girl I'm seeing said she "likes dad bods". Still, she can't keep her hands off me. Is this just a case of hamstering or is she trying to tell me something?The purpose of a beta provider in women's sexual strategy is much more than just material wealth. First and foremost: attention. But also: emotional support, parental investment, feeling of security (commitment), etc. And it's not that she wants you to be her beta provider, it's just what naturally comes to her mind. Womens' dual sexual strategy is the source of their contradictory desires. They'll say they want a nice guy but they go for the jerk. They'll say they want a man who is strong but s… | /r/askTRP | 21/02/18 09:46 AM |
| 21 | I'm in very good shape but a girl I'm seeing said she "likes dad bods". Still, she can't keep her hands off me. Is this just a case of hamstering or is she trying to tell me something?She's telling the truth. She "kind of like" dad bods. But what she's not saying is that she gets wet when she daydreams about your abs. She seriously, really does "kind of like" dad bods, but what she's not telling you (and she might not know herself) is that when you'll have one, she'll be daydreaming about the abs of her new gym instructor. Remember girls sexual strategy is dual. They want a faithful provider and they desire a strong lover. Both are unconscious but the first tend to hit her co… | /r/askTRP | 21/02/18 06:40 AM |
| 35 | Girlfriend asks me "do you miss me" every day. How do I reply to this? Kind of annoying/ demandingClassic. Keep agreeing & amplifying then. What you need to know is not the answer to such or such specific question, but the mad method behind it. These questions are just classic attempts at female manipulation. She's trying to pull you into her frame. To be there to rescue her from her anxiety. To get to talk about those feelings of her. And if you don't comply, no sex for you tonight mister! It's like a kid in the back of the car asking you "are we there yet?" every 5 mins during a trip. He d… | /r/askTRP | 20/02/18 08:04 PM |
| 12 | Ghosted by successful Tinder date - Why?Could be that she has a boyfriend who finally discovered about you. Could be that she found better than you. Could be that her best friend announced her engagement and she's freaking out still being on tinder. You have no idea what's happening in her life. What's a problem though is this need of yours to know. This is something you need to get rid of. Outcome Independence means you don't care either way. This need to know will create problems in the future with girls, as when you'll be in a LTR … | /r/askTRP | 20/02/18 07:54 PM |
| 83 | Focussing on Pussy isnt Beta BehaviorThis common idea on TRP used to puzzle me until I understood how it came about: TRP tells the truths of Game it inherited from PUA: that you don't get women by pursing them, or putting them on a pedestal. That to get pussy, you need to be high value (higher value than her), that you need to be/act uninterested/aloof/indifferent, that you need to get them to chase you. The message above is repeated/deformed/misunderstood on TRP being an echo-chamber overrun by newbies. The message gets strip down… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/02/18 10:12 AM |
| 13 | Being controlling doesn't workinfluencing without controlling Great way to express it. Best example of this in action is the redpill-famous story of "the long hard road, out of hell". | /r/TheRedPill | 20/02/18 05:39 AM |
| 14 | Good HumansIt definitely has occurred to me that there is a stark contrast between mainstream media opinion (blame and shame men on every occasion imaginable) and overall opinion around me. Mainstream media has been dying for some time now and grasping at anything possible to remain alive, and feminine outrage definitely seems to be the last cow to milk for them. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/02/18 05:16 AM |
| 27 | Plate sends long textMachiavellian gold. | /r/askTRP | 20/02/18 05:13 AM |
| 25 | Good HumansHey Rollo. Thanks for the post (will read immediately). Just a comment before I do so to say I really like and support your increasing presence in videos, podcasts and interviews. Please keep it up! But please do upgrade your audio gear. The quality of the sound on your interview with Pat Campbell was dreadful, as are most of your interviews so far unfortunately. If you keep doing more and more of them, it's going to start impact your credibility to new listeners. Maybe ask Richard Cooper for ti… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/02/18 04:46 AM |
| 35 | There's a lot of negativity about the culture war that feminism has been winning, but it IS coming around to bite them:Roissy said that "the goal of feminism is to remove all constraints on female sexuality while maximally restricting male sexuality" but I am increasingly thinking that feminism has no inherent goal because feminism is nothing but the cultural cumulative effect of women's expression of their feelings, which is inherently irrational, illogical, and changing with the time of the month and their stage of life. So for example, the contradiction funnily expressed by Bill Maher (so strange to hear that… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/02/18 04:36 AM |
| 1 | The fact that this sub has 250,000 subscribers is telling something about Western societyI was not talking about having kids personally, I'm talking on a cultural/societal level | /r/TheRedPill | 19/02/18 07:28 PM |
| 4 | The fact that this sub has 250,000 subscribers is telling something about Western societyThe decline is that of western society. Our feminist-infested culture now does not produce enough children to perpetuate itself, and it's unlikely we can ever turn it around before other, more patriarchal and more reproducing cultures, take over. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/02/18 09:00 AM |
| 55 | Married womanOn side of this sub will tell you no. If a girl has a high value man at home, she would be avoiding doing anything jeopardizing her couple. Hell, she wouldn't be at a bar drinking by herself to start with. The other side of this sub will tell you yes. In girls' world, it's feelz before realz. Even if she had leo di caprio at home, at the moment when she's in the bar, he's not there, and it just takes a really skilled pua like OP making her feel through the roof and she'll just ride the feel wave… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/02/18 08:47 AM |
| 3 | Hypergamy - why it's unique to women."Lift and keep frame" seems to be callous advice Why? but those are really your only two defenses against wandering eyes Yeah? What happened to dread? To Game? To amused mastery? To increasing your SMV? To be less invested in the relationship than her? To "punish swiftly but reward intermittently"? To "feelz before realz"? 99.9999% of the attraction a woman feels comes from physical prowess (height and muscles) and abundance mentality, which is often referred to around these parts as "IDGAF atti… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/02/18 10:52 PM |
| 17 | Hypergamy - why it's unique to women.Hypergamy (as defined in the manosphere) is not only the economical desire to get the best you can get for your buck. It's also the fact that women will rationalize their branch swinging due to solipsism. It's also the fact that they only want ONE man - the best one - while if men were given the same opportunity, we'd build immense harems (Think King Saolomon, Gengis Khan). Finally, Rollo tend to even consider AF;BB (the fact that women want to fuck an attractive man, but get a provider to commi… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/02/18 09:03 PM |
| 11 | On Status: What it is and how to improve itPerfect. The post on Status I have always wanted to write but always put off. Mods please do point this gentleman on me. he gets it. ♂ In my opinion, this is huge. All things being equal (Looks and Game), your perceived rank in the local dominance hierarchy will contribute enormously towards your success or failure in seduction. And although I don't like to enter debates on which is most important of the three, I really do think - based on personal experience and observation - that highest local… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/02/18 10:35 PM |
| 7 | What happens during dread game from a woman's perspectiveAhh the tired old "Game only works on women with low self-esteem!" | /r/TheRedPill | 16/02/18 06:05 AM |
| 52 | The Hard Path to becoming a Man - How to get through Approach AnxietyIf you're just starting, it's common to start with "monk mode". Aka, leave the social aside for the moment. Get your own life back on track and your SMV back up on the rise as you said. Then after a few months and all of this is on auto-pilot, increase the Game part of your SMV. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/02/18 05:45 AM |
| 11 | She doesn't want to be happyThe manosphere is Newbs of this sub are so caught up on the concepts of alpha and beta but I feel like everyone is missing the bigger picture here. fixed that for you. See dr_warlock's "Women don't want to feel good, they want to feel", still ontop of my list of bookmarks of this sub. But still, good reminder, very well put, and probably not talked often enough as it deserves. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/02/18 06:50 PM |
| 6 | Escalating with “good girl” typeNo change. AWALT. As you say, good physical escalation already includes constant calibration: 1. Make a move just slightly more intimate than the previous one. 2. Check her reaction. 3. Deescalate or continue escalation depending on reaction. | /r/askTRP | 15/02/18 06:50 AM |
| 5 | How to respond when she sends pics of herself clearly looking for validation with no text?"Selfies are boring. Send nudes and I'll respond" | /r/askTRP | 15/02/18 06:46 AM |
| 28 | Ways to Develop an Abundance Mentality Without WomenYou've slept with 50+ women in two years and you still don't have the "feeling that there are plenty of women out there that I can have sex with"? Jesus, how many women do you need? Seriously now. You don't have to sleep with women to develop abundance mentality, you only need to experience the certainty of being able to sleep with them. Aka, keep gaming girls and ghost them once they're hooked. Or get so ripped that you catch girls looking at you with lust. etc | /r/askTRP | 15/02/18 06:42 AM |
| 10 | No PrescriptionsFinally a good post detailing the good and the bad of the Jordan Peterson message. In summary, a lot of good lessons for the lost boys to find their way back to being a man.. but no really good information whatsoever on how to deal effectively with women, for which there is the red pill. About the "no prescription" message, I am not so sure. I know it's always been your motto Rollo, but "lift", "don't get married", "pass shit tests", "up the alpha", "learn game" look pretty close to prescription… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/02/18 11:01 AM |
| 11 | The #MeToo movement is a beta trap - no more threads about itIn a general manner, all of the things that the current cultural marxist left comes up with, and ESPECIALLY those that light up the social media (gender pronouns, Trudeau's "peoplekind", any trendy hasthags about how western women are so oppressed) should be met with a grin, a shrug, or at most an eye-roll, and then forgotten about so you can focus your mind on more important matters. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/02/18 05:51 AM |
| 1 | Is my girlfriend crazy?Fair criticism. Here I would have interpreted originally as a comfort test, more than a shit test. She felt bad because she was not receiving enough attention from him. But his insistence at NOT stepping into her frame (she was asking him to say the words, and he just wouldn't write them) made her more mad than sad and she threw a tantrum. The entire thing definitely smelled of PMS: there was going to be something she was going to be mad about, and she would have been mad at OP whatever he had s… | /r/askTRP | 12/02/18 05:44 AM |
| 10 | Is my girlfriend crazy?Your girl is acting like a girl, there's nothing wrong about her. You my friend, however, are NOT on a good path. You are applying typical male logic, trying to make sense of women's behavior, wanting to interpret it, needing a logical explanation X for behavior Y. Women act on their feelings. There's no necessary logic to it. There's no necessary rational behind it. You're making yourself miserable trying desperately to interpret a real meaning behind an abstract piece of art. What you need to … | /r/askTRP | 11/02/18 01:58 AM |
| 151 | Be prepared to walk away from anybody.Be wary of the "lone wolf" ideal. Alpha/beta by definition imply a hierarchy. The defining trait of hypergamy is that women want to fuck the man at the top of the dominance hierarchy. Power is a matter of hierarchy. Your value/worth as a man for other humans is entirely relying on the benefits you have on their life. The badass lone wolf lifestyle sounds cool and can be used to pull chicks if played well, but is not necessarily the best way to maximize your power in life. The part about "not nee… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/02/18 12:50 AM |
| 28 | Taking care of your body is easy, you keep away from shitty foods and smash some deadlifts. How about your mind though? Here is a list of 8 things that you can start doing if you want to get smarter. It's about time you started taking care of your brain.I have done all of these all of my life (except podcasts, they didn't exist back then... and reading biographies, I always preferred reading classics and non-fiction), and what I got wasn't "a more comprehensive understanding of reality", neither "the resources you will need to achieve your goals and live a happier life", or "potential power". What I got was hubris ("I am so smart!"), grand but useless qualifications and general knowledge (you don't make girls wet, or gain popularity, or power, … | /r/TheRedPill | 07/02/18 08:07 PM |
| 7 | The best books for learning gameNegging is fully part of seduction. Call it "teasing" if you're dumb enough to believe mainstream media which calls it "insulting women". The Game is a fun novel introducing it all, but the actual manual is the Mystery Method. No review is complete without mentioning Bang and Day Bang by Roosh, which is probably the most redpill material on the topic out there when a lot of other material, particularly Mark Manson's Models, is bending the knee to the mainstream, or infused with blue pill beliefs… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/01/18 05:50 AM |
| 1 | How to keep a girl attracted while ignoring her?Like anything else you can learn: little by little, through repeated practice. Your "monk mode" and fear of being too analytical are just buffers against your fear of rejection. If you want to sleep with a girl, you'll have to talk to her and lead the interaction all the way to sex. If you want to talk to a girl, you'll have to go where girls are and approach them. So if you want the outcome, you must go and do what you got to do, whether you fear getting stuck in your head or not. | /r/askTRP | 31/12/17 01:30 PM |
| 3 | How to keep a girl attracted while ignoring her?First of all, understand the dual engines of attraction: (1) display of high value (DHV) and (2) neg hits. The first is hinting at your high value (not bragging about your accomplishments, but for example act as a socially savvy, naturally dominant man. That is proper DHV). The second is hinting at her not-so-high value compared to yours. Gentle teasing, ignoring her, make her qualify herself before giving her IOIs, or push-pull are forms of neg hits. You need both. Online, "ignore her" by follo… | /r/askTRP | 31/12/17 04:14 AM |
| 2 | Am I on the right path to not being a hopeless loser?Discovering TRP at 15 years old you lucky bastard... All the self-improvement you did so far is great, but there is no improvement of your social skills in it. To learn people skills, get into acting/theatre/improv/debate. When there's need to present group projects in class, volunteer for it. In general manner, participate in class. Practice your leadership by taking the lead on group projects. Get jobs in sales during school holidays. And of course force yourself approaching, like everyone els… | /r/askTRP | 28/12/17 08:02 PM |
| 33 | If you are constantly approaching as much women as you can, then you might be doing something wrongYou do not understand what approaching is really about. You seem to think it means taking time off your day to walk to 100 girls and ask them if they're DTF, and get rejected 99 times (or 90 times if you're hot). It's not what it's about. Approaching is nothing but seeing a girl you'd like to fuck while you're out in public, deciding it's worth 15 minutes of your time to see if she would be interested in you, walking to her and starting a neutral conversation. With experience, you should be able… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/12/17 10:58 PM |
| 23 | If you are constantly approaching as much women as you can, then you might be doing something wrongI can't believe you got pointed twice on this sub. Whether you want to call it "PUA" or "Game", the red pill is founded on the result of men sharing online their experience in seducing women. Those guys are the ones who coined "Frame", "shit tests" or "Prize mentality". 90% of what TRP advocates originates on some pick up forum. Roosh was a PUA. Roissy was a PUA. Pook was a PUA. Rollo helped men on seduction forums. TRP is merely evolved PUA. Apart from the use of canned lines, we kept everythin… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/12/17 10:42 PM |
| 422 | Here's how to fuck one girl/week from swipe apps in 2018 with little time investmentA lot of people disliking tinder here, and not enough gratefuleness at OP for his incredibly detailed guide to optimizing tinder use. Thanks for that and the links, mate. This is all very interesting and will put it to good use. Please ignore the haters and do keep contributing. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/12/17 05:24 AM |
| 9 | Frank Underwood is a cuck?TV is fiction. TV can show you a lightweight woman beat up dozens of trained male soldiers. TV can show you a guy who is alpha then beta then alpha then beta. TV can show you a beta guy getting laid like crazy, and a top-model alpha guy getting only rejections. | /r/askTRP | 26/12/17 09:28 AM |
| 9 | Where have you met your new friends after college?Get a life outside of work and gym. I meet new people constantly through the sports or arts I practice, the live music scene, then friends of friends, etc. | /r/askTRP | 26/12/17 09:21 AM |
| 2 | What are TRP's thoughts on "Models" by Mark Manson?If you need other material, check my submitted posts for "Unplugging. The reading list." and "Must-read red pill content" | /r/askTRP | 26/12/17 04:59 AM |
| 3 | What are TRP's thoughts on "Models" by Mark Manson?The reality is that it's recommended outside of TRP. That is the main mainstream resource on pickup. Then when people discover TRP they bring their recommendation of that book with them and then it spreads from newbie to newbie like a virus, because they still lack a solid understanding and appreciation of red pill theories. Manson was a PUA, so proto-red-pill, aware that seduction is manipulation, and that women have some psychological quirks to exploit (chick crack, etc) but all of this is unp… | /r/askTRP | 26/12/17 04:49 AM |
| 3 | Why you must believe AWALTWhen you buy a car, you purchase an insurance. Does this mean that you are a pessimistic person who believe bad things ALWAYS happen to them? That you WILL crash it? Do people tell you you are just too negative and that such belief will turn into a "self-fulfilling prophecy" and that you will crash it because obviously you're thinking about crashing and therefore you're going to drive in such way as to crash your car purposefully? Of course not. You buying an insurance only means that you know i… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/12/17 02:18 AM |
| 3 | The Red Pill was right all alongYou're going to lose your muscles one day. Why bother lifting? You're going to have to get back to work. Why bother taking holidays? Your dog is going to die one day. Why bother getting one? I have the mindset I discussed in this post, yet I still spin plates and considering LTRs. Why? Because I love sex and I love the company of women. The fact that I do not expect them to stay faithful absolutely does not prevent me from loving sex with them and enjoying their company. What's wrong is your exp… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/12/17 02:16 AM |
| 3 | Why you must believe AWALTGood on you. Simply keep enjoying the blowjobs and keep not trusting her 100%. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/12/17 02:12 AM |
| 1 | Why you must believe AWALTWhat a pessimistic approach on life. This is exactly what people say of stoicism or buddhism. People who just see the surface of the message, instead of according it enough time to understand its meaning and the influence of it on a human's psyche. You read the surface message of buddhism, tell yourself "what a pessimistic and death-obsessed philosophy" and then see the dalai lama with his air of constant happiness and ultimate joy and you can't reconcile this with your opinion of his philosophy… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/12/17 02:11 AM |
| 1 | Why you must believe AWALTWhen you buy a car, you purchase an insurance. Does this mean that you WILL crash it? No. It means you know it's a possibility and that the consequences if it happens are bad. So instead of trying to figure out whether you might crash or not, instead you take an insurance and drive away in peace knowing you've got your ass covered. This is the exact same thing. Not adopting this mindset is like buying a car and refusing to buy an insurance because you KNOW that you won't crash it. For some reaso… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/12/17 02:04 AM |
| 3 | What are TRP's thoughts on "Models" by Mark Manson?I totally agree with you and I keep saying it in comments again and again, recommending roosh's Bang and Day Bang instead. But the fact that you don't know I've been saying it, nor anyone else in these comments, while on the contrary people here keep recommending it should teach you one thing about this sub: it's full of newbies repeating newbies stuff, completely drowning the signal now. I'm just really considering leaving this sub at this point. Read books and the manosphere blogs instead. If … | /r/askTRP | 26/12/17 01:49 AM |
| 11 | Why is it okay that Rollo Tomassi doesnt lift?Yeah nah. Rollo is the origin of red pill. If there's anything he doesn't subscribe to, you can be pretty sure that thing ain't "red pill". And guess what? He lifts: https://therationalmale.com/2011/09/22/musings-at-the-gym/ | /r/askTRP | 26/12/17 01:44 AM |
| 10 | Why is it okay that Rollo Tomassi doesnt lift?He does https://therationalmale.com/2011/09/22/musings-at-the-gym/ But even if he wasn't, this sort of petty accusations are just so childish. The red pill wisdom is that women desire strong men, and muscles is the best mark of physical strength. Aka, we tell newbies if you want girls, start with lifting. Rollo is married, has a kid who's now an adult, had a gig and a side-gig, wrote three books, helps millions of men with his contributions, and you would like to tell HIM that he's not following… | /r/askTRP | 26/12/17 01:38 AM |
| 1 | Why you must believe AWALTWorks with both sexes, and it comes down to the fact that humans tend to be attracted to persons that have higher value on the sexual market place. Thus if you are disinterested in someone, or show interest to other people than this someone, this subconsciously communicates that you see that someone as not high value enough for them, aka that you consider yourself higher value than this someone. This is the reason behind the usual dynamic "you pursue me, I flee. I pursue you, you flee". | /r/TheRedPill | 25/12/17 11:43 PM |
| 102 | The Red Pill was right all alongThe important lesson behind "AWALT" is the same as in the zen story about the glass being already broken. One day some people came to the master and asked ‘How can you be happy in a world of such impermanence? The master held up a glass and said ’Someone gave me this glass, and I really like this glass. It holds my water admirably and it glistens in the sunlight. I touch it and it rings! One day the wind may blow it off the shelf, or my elbow may knock it from the table. And I say, ‘Of course.’ … | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/17 11:42 PM |
| 1 | Have some fucking standards and self respectDo you do direct or indirect approaches? Do you follow any method? | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/17 08:15 PM |
| 5 | Can someone explain/TLDR all these coloured pills?The red pill is a term appropriated by the manosphere to describe "the truth about intersexual dynamics". Aka what women really want, and really are. Term adopted for the sub discussing this topic. By opposition to the concept, the manosphere used the term "the blue pill" to describe the state of NOT knowing the truth about intersexual dynamics. Aka, regular people, especially those who believe what women say, or what feminism says it is about. A sub to make fun of the red pill sub adopted this … | /r/askTRP | 22/12/17 12:57 PM |
| 6 | 2 Months of Mental HellIt'll help you get over it. Physical exercise, regular schedule, and a sense of direction towards achieving something in the future are three things that help beating depression. Even if you don't feel like it, just get back to it. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/12/17 10:54 PM |
| 8 | 2 Months of Mental HellGood on you. Being fit and being willing and able to fight are the two engines that shape your body and mindset into the masculinity that attract women's lust and men's respect. Get back to it. Discipline is acting despite the lack of desire, just as courage is acting despite fear. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/12/17 10:08 PM |
| 10 | Field Report: Hypergamy In Action, a story of two mid 30s HB9s.My opinion is that male sexual strategy is dual, like women, with two concurrent mental "modules" operating at all times: A. We desire maximum sexual variety, to spread your seed far and wide. B. We desire a strong bond with unconditional love from a special one, with whom raising your kids. I think that although we have both modules operating at the same time, if you are sexually successful, A tends to take precedence. While in the face of lack of success, B takes precedence. Evidence: Great ru… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/12/17 10:03 PM |
| 10 | 2 Months of Mental HellMany of us here have been there. It gets better. Much much better, if you follow these three steps: Read the sidebar and/or these suggested books If you are not lifting yet, get to the gym, talk to a personal trainer, establish a muscle-building program with him, and follow it religiously. Trust us, it'll make sense later as you learn more and you'll wish you had started lifting earlier. Post your questions on the asktrp sub. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/12/17 09:54 PM |
| 4 | The Difference Between Ego and Framehttp://www.girlschase.com/content/get-rock-solid-frame-control-women-you-guaranteed http://www.girlschase.com/content/frame-control-examples-out-frame-anyone | /r/TheRedPill | 21/12/17 04:27 AM |
| 1 | "You look like Ed Sheeran"Expected comments are a great way to prepare material that segue into something else to DHV. For example, if you play music yourself, this is a no brainer: "Yeah I get that a lot. I'm actually thinking using our likeness to promote my band when I'm searching for venues." then the discussion gets to move into a topic that puts you under a good light. Even if what you're doing is completely irrelevant, you get to prepare the transition "Yeah I get that a lot. Last week while I was climbing with my… | /r/askTRP | 21/12/17 03:01 AM |
| 5 | Why do people say PUA techniques no longer work?The only thing that "doesn't work anymore" is the canned material that has been used so much before that there are chances that the girl already heard it before. But even if the did and tell you so, just maintain your composure and bounce off it. All the rest are field-tested principles that work just as well as they did back when they were written up. | /r/askTRP | 21/12/17 02:45 AM |
| 86 | #GiveYourMoneyToWomen is a shit testMen get so much from us, they drain us for our knowledge, our support, our validation, our attention, no! If you want this, hand over your fucking money. Give me your cash, right now, if you want all of this. In what world do those women live? "Support" I can understand, but where on earth do they find men who want their "knowledge", "validation" or "attention". But hey if you want to make it a transaction, you know what? I am in. Tell me your price and where to sign. But you'd better deliver if… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/12/17 02:38 AM |
| 27 | The Difference Between Ego and FrameWhat we call "the frame" is "the agreed understanding, or context, of a human interaction". It is an aspect of an interaction, not an aspect of a person. "The frame" is not something you have or not, or something that you can lose. "The frame" is something outside of you and her, which you can set, impose, accept, relinquish, or more importantly reframe, all of which fall into the concept of frame control. When you meet a girl, it's not "your" frame vs "hers", it is the frame of your interaction… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/12/17 02:18 AM |
| 8 | The Difference Between Ego and FrameThis is not frame. What you're describing is a mix of composure and Prize mentality. This is frame: https://therationalmale.com/2011/10/12/frame/ | /r/TheRedPill | 21/12/17 02:00 AM |
| 20 | A bit of advice on giving adviceaka, for the sake of this sub's future and yours, do NOT post unless you are sexually successful | /r/TheRedPill | 20/12/17 08:50 AM |
| 7 | Beta in an LTR, helpCan you help me or would you say it's a lost cause? It depends if you can understand this: your mindset is the origin of your problems. The words you chose to describe your situation shows that you currently need that relationship. Your partner can feel that you need her more than she needs you, and as a consequence, as a woman, she feels more valuable than you, resents you for having made her stuck with a lower-value male, and - of course - extracts what she wants from that relationship while r… | /r/askTRP | 20/12/17 08:47 AM |
| 11 | "You Will Never, EVER, Be In This Moment Again"Another vacuous pseudo-philosophical quote that capture the imagination of easily-impressed simple minds.. Added to my list of chick-crack arsenal, thanks. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/12/17 04:21 AM |
| 3 | December 15 - Weekly Improvement & Progress ThreadGo the rational male blog and read best of year 1. Then best of year 2. It'll get you the concepts faster and more accurately than this sub's daily feed. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/12/17 03:00 AM |
| 8 | It's not an accident, women are very deliberate when they are using you.Women are fed attention, but since this is of no value to men, I draw an equivalent valuable commodity to men when switching sexes in the thought experiment. I thought that was obvious enough not to have to specify. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/12/17 01:44 AM |
| 218 | It's not an accident, women are very deliberate when they are using you.The problem is that women have armies of orbiters doing shit for them from the moment their body start looking more like a woman and less like a child, about 14 onwards. How long do you think it would take you to feel entitled if, starting at 14 years old, you had people out of the blue giving you money several times a day, every day of the year? What you relate here is the mental gymnastics women have to do to reconcile their faint sense of morals with a strong entitlement due to years of condi… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/12/17 11:16 AM |
| 3 | You will Lose - But you're not a loserglad to give back to the community | /r/TheRedPill | 19/12/17 11:00 AM |
| 8 | You will Lose - But you're not a loserI really wish newbies would stop recommending Models. The fact that people outside of this sub recommends Models should hint you at the fact that it's probably not red pill. Read Roosh's Bang instead. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/12/17 05:46 AM |
| 3 | I will never be Chad. And that's ok.I'm not a fan of Mark Manson almost uniquely because of his concept of "vulnerability". What he meant by this was simply "to take risks". For instance, you must approach despite the anxiety, facing the very real possibility of soul-crushing rejection. In his words, you are "vulnerable" and must act despite your vulnerability. He later went on defining vulnerability as "setting boundaries" (I'm still not sure how he managed that). So he insists "vulernability" is not weakness. But why this word? … | /r/TheRedPill | 19/12/17 05:39 AM |
| 8 | I will never be Chad. And that's ok.Unless you have some mental impairment that prevents you from cultivating a alpha mindset, you're good to proceed with TRP advice. "Chad" was an archetype we started using here to talk about THAT guy who's genetically gifted, to whom girls are naturally attracted. It was invented as a reminder that AWALT: yes your unicorn could leave you if the right guy comes along at the right time. "Chad" was never meant as a goal. TRP was founded on the understanding of intersexual dynamics, aka Game. Sure "… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/12/17 07:51 PM |
| 7 | You will Lose - But you're not a loserI like it a lot. It's all on point with TRP theory IMO | /r/TheRedPill | 18/12/17 07:31 PM |
| 3 | This is the most Horrific Dead Bedrooms story, I read it a month ago, amazed it hasn't been posted here.Medium: what she does, aka not fucking him. Message: "I am not attracted to you" | /r/TheRedPill | 18/12/17 07:28 PM |
| 4 | This is the most Horrific Dead Bedrooms story, I read it a month ago, amazed it hasn't been posted here.Had a girl confessing to cheating on me because the guilt was too much for her. So that's possible. Especially the way it is being described, with crying profusely before admitting in order to soften up her victim, and rationalizing the reasons after admitting to absolve herself of responsibility. That said, it still reads as a creative writing exercise, and doesn't explain how she would feel the need to let go of that guilt now after decades of successfully bottling it up. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/17 08:24 PM |
| 15 | This is the most Horrific Dead Bedrooms story, I read it a month ago, amazed it hasn't been posted here.She says she was "lost" and that looking back it was all a " mistake" and that she now realizes she killed our sex life, not me. She tells me that the reason she went back to Bob, after me pressing her, was because I was "Too good" for her, and that she never thought I actually loved her. I asked her what part of me taking on her kids, her, and her responsibilities made it seem like I didn't love her. Shes says "I don't know." One of the most important TRP teaching is that the medium is the mess… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/17 08:20 PM |
| 13 | On the “Venmo Me” Phenomenon Taking Over TinderYep that's actually what I do when I match those on tinder. "Send me $5 and see what happens" "Hey had not noticed in your status that you were a prostitute. I got a blowjob for $20 from one cuter than you the other day. So say $10?" If they're going to make the SMP a direct cash-for-service exchange, then treat it as such. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/11/17 07:02 PM |
| 14 | Consequences of Modern Feminism for WomenMarriage and monogamy was established to reduce the males to obedient drones by ensuring a steady supply of sex and the insurance of genetic legacy to each male (or, with an evolutionary perspective, those societies that establish marriage and monogamy thrived more than others because its population was obedient and hard-working). The lack of sex and insurance of genetic legacy make for unstable societies. This is not in the interest of a society and those in its power. You don't have to see the… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/11/17 09:45 AM |
| 28 | Consequences of Modern Feminism for WomenThe normalization of prostitution. Every girl will accept money for sex, and men will be expected to turn a blind eye on this and wife them up anyway. I fully expect a future in which "polyamory" extends to prostitution. Aka, your wife will be fucking others for money as a side-gig (maybe even as a full-time gig) and you will be shamed into compliance because "it's her right to do as she pleases with her body, and you're insecure for having a problem with it AND a monster for not being supportiv… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/11/17 06:39 AM |
| 43 | On the “Venmo Me” Phenomenon Taking Over TinderI have seen the rise of this phenomenon too, but I think you are over-analyzing it. Who does not want free money? What we're witnessing is simply the normalization of prostitution. There are so many betas out there who can't get any attention (let alone sex) and thus are so thirsty they're ready to offer money to get it. But that's always existed. What's new is that thanks to tinder, girls can actually do it with all discretion. Sexcams have paved the way to it with young girls-next-door being a… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/11/17 06:34 AM |
| 5 | Have some fucking standards and self respectIf you get stares from any woman from times to times then congrats, you're in the top 10% looks-wise. If you get stares from hot women from times to times, make it top 5%. If so, you don't need to learn much game to get laid, for sure. But why being so against it? Game is not using "witty pick-up lines" or being a dancing monkey. It's knowing how to control the frame of a conversation, knowing how to alternate hot and cold to make them wet, knowing how to tease them to make them giggle and have … | /r/TheRedPill | 27/11/17 06:11 AM |
| 9 | Day game, worth it?Most likely case scenario: you slowly develop your cold approach and ramble skills and slowly kills approach anxiety. Do it. | /r/askTRP | 26/11/17 10:55 AM |
| 7 | Day game, worth it?You haven't read a single book on game, haven't you? | /r/askTRP | 26/11/17 10:54 AM |
| 18 | Polyamorous Plate Travels Comes Back Commited To Another Guy"I'm on a path to nuclear levels of red-pill". Dude. You have oneitis for a girl who is slutting out in the open after having made you wait for sex... and you still call her your girlfriend. You are nowhere near the first step of red-pill. A fat virgin incel who just read his first article of the Rational Male is further than you on the path. | /r/askTRP | 26/11/17 10:51 AM |
| 6 | The Creep - Part 3supply and demand. When all girls are prostitutes, the price will drop. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/11/17 10:45 AM |
| 32 | The Creep - Part 3Way before that ever happens, what you will see is the normalization of prostitution. The redefinition is already happening as we speak: "sugaring", "arrangement", etc. More and more girls on tinder are already offering their services as prostitutes seeking arrangements. We will reach a point where men who express their unwillingness to marry a woman who traded sex for money will be shamed just as men are currently shamed for their unwillingness to marry a woman because of her sexual past. It wi… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/11/17 03:41 AM |
| 13 | Have some fucking standards and self respectYou are perfectly right. Commandment 5. Adhere to the golden ratio. The theory is that to generate attraction, you need to show that you have higher value than her. And having a lower interest level than her is one way to show this but it's usually not enough. When face-to-face you can ignore/neg her but also DHV to her and her friends. But by text? Girls have so many options at all times that if she shows low interest in her texting and you only answer with low interest in your texting, you're … | /r/TheRedPill | 25/11/17 10:45 PM |
| 2 | Have some fucking standards and self respectSure but to get to a (decently looking) girl to that stage, you would have had to play some incredible Game for a good while. That or having sky-high status or looks to start with. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/11/17 10:12 PM |
| 14 | Have some fucking standards and self respectI work 40 hours a week to make a living when there are people out there who don't have to do shit because they were born wealthy. I can be jealous and upset but if I demand they work, they'll just laugh at my face, and if I stop working to be like them, it won't make me wealthy anyway. The work is yours to do until you achieve a really high value and drop significantly your standards. And even then, you're still supposed to be the one to approach. Such is the game. Such is reality. Love it, hate… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/11/17 10:08 PM |
| 3 | Recommendations?You don't have to "ask her to help you with your diet". She does not put that food in your mouth with her own hand, you do. So you just stop eating as much. Who cares if she throws a fit? What she gonna do? She can't threaten you with less sex. Hit the gym. Make it regular. Accept right now that things won't change all of a sudden. Take it as you did marathons. Patient and steady. Read the sidebar and recommended readings. If you've been a long time lurker, then you should know the rule that say… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/11/17 10:53 AM |
| 1 | How to respond if a grown ass woman (at workplace) asks why I don’t have a GF?This is my standard answer. | /r/askTRP | 25/11/17 10:28 AM |
| 2 | I started off well, then I got AMOGEDBest way is to open sets by yourself, then maybe have a wing coming to occupy the friends while you start isolating the target. Your wing should be able to tell who's your target: the one you're actively ignoring. If one of your friends go for your target whether or not he knew she was your target, you are authorized to run AMOG-destroyer tactics. It's just part of the fun. | /r/askTRP | 25/11/17 10:24 AM |
| 6 | I just pulled an all-nighter devouring the side bar. Here from /r/deadbedrooms. I think my gf does nothing but shit test me.What you're going to need to do first is: hit the gym, read a lot of redpill material, develop an alpha mindset with abundance mentality. All of this takes time, and you'll have more time when you're single than when you're with someone. The only thing that you can learn while with your current girl that you wouldn't while single is how to deal with utter disrespect. But that is very low on the list of priorities, far far below the shortlist I discussed above. What you will learn with the red pi… | /r/askTRP | 25/11/17 09:50 AM |
| 427 | Have some fucking standards and self respectThe problem with that mindset is that it can quickly turn into a buffer, that is, that you rationalize your fear of approaching a girl as a decision not to act because of her lack of obvious interest. "That babe is hot, but she does not stare at me. She's not interested and I'm not going to do any work for a girl who's not ecstatic at my presence in her life, so I won't go talk to her." And then you get into a completely counter-productive mindset where you just sit on your ass at the bar, waiti… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/11/17 08:09 AM |
| 29 | RP male on 'Good Morning Britain with Piers Morgan' - Why men are turning to Eastern Europe.Piers is a first class asshole. No frame, can’t control his temper, is unable to listen to another persons opinion. Piers is not there to listen to another person's opinion. He's there to enforce a narrative. The network invited the Big Bad Misogynistic Wolf on stage to generate the outrage of its public, and here he is staying calm and not saying anything controversial, so the TV hosts have to push him out of his frame, get him to say what they need him to say. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/11/17 07:50 AM |
| 10 | The challenge of a successful LTR.You are right. The classic conundrum "I'll look controlling and insecure if I state boundaries, but if I don't tell her my boundaries, she will cross them and I'll have to leave her" is solved by the following: Be a man of high value she wants to keep, and make it clear, though not overtly, from the very early stages of the relationship that you expect and demand respect or you'll immediately walk away. A girl will always test your boundaries, and lightly at the beginning of your relationship. T… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/11/17 04:14 AM |
| 2 | New to TRP - eyes openedNeil Strauss' book "The Game" is awesome. Read it three times. I think its literary value is terribly undervalued because guys take it as a guide for pick up, and girls take it as a book for asshole guys who want to manipulate women into bed. While both are true, these judgements are overlooking the quality of the writing and story-telling. And the theme is really captivating. It is the tale of how some nerds decided to approach picking up girls as they'd approach mastering chess or D&D... and a… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/11/17 04:02 AM |
| 131 | [FR] Female coworkers around the water coolerWhy would any self respecting man want to start dating a woman under such deceptive conditions before even physically meeting? I stop myself there as I know I'm about to go full red pill. Mate. Hate to break it to you like this but women are deceptive. Make-up is deception. Shit tests are deception. Crying is deception. The red pill is the realization of the dark side of women and how to deal with it. It's ok for you to be proud of your good morals but if you're waiting to find a woman who does … | /r/TheRedPill | 23/11/17 06:51 PM |
| 29 | I don't know how to live for myself or by myself. I have nothing to live for.too much thinking, not enough doing. pick up a sport, a creative endeavour, a martial art, or an outdoor activity. Lose yourself in it, find purpose in it, and your brain won't have time for existential crisis anymore. don't know what to do? try different ones until one sticks. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/11/17 09:12 AM |
| 2 | 6 months after getting out of a LTR and receive this text. Having some trouble deciding what to do. Any advice?you can't go wrong with a birthday cat emoji | /r/askTRP | 23/11/17 08:25 AM |
| 6 | Hashtag Me Too- The Final Nail in the Coffin of the Modern RelationshipYou overachiever you. You should climb Everest and send /u/Spongthrowaway a selfie from the top | /r/TheRedPill | 22/11/17 09:08 AM |
| 12 | Imagine learning and practicing the 48 laws consistently since age ~5 and almost nothing else. You now have a vague idea of what a woman is.OP did not say "mysterious", he said "innate Machiavellian", which is defined as "cunning, scheming, and unscrupulous". It's quite obvious to every man with red pill awareness - and to a lot of men without, and to all women themselves - across all cultures that OP is right. Achieving their ends through deceit (lying, crying), scheming (social shaming) and all of it without scruples (branch swinging) is characteristic of their behavior on average and compared to men. The reason they haven't "assu… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/11/17 09:03 AM |
| 1 | My Grandma's Response to My Alpha Grandfather's Decline: a DIFFERENT StoryYep. Except it's less about your luck to find that one, and more about your luck at each moment of your relationship. You can have a girl who supported you 100% in a difficult moment because reasons, and then leave you at a later difficult moment because other reasons. It's not saying that it's all about luck and there's nothing you can do about it. You'd be advised to vet hard, be super high-SMV, use game and dread in the relationship like a pro, etc. and it'll very likely help. But the reality… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/11/17 07:47 PM |
| 8 | My Grandma's Response to My Alpha Grandfather's Decline: a DIFFERENT StoryYes you're gonna have selfish bitches leave you at the drop of a hat. But those women are not for you. I understand that AWALT works very well but if you vet a girl extremely well and find out shes not a selfish whore then you won't have to worry about AWALT in terms of illness, hard times etc. As long as you never give up, a good women will stand by you during tough times. This is as NAWALT a comment as it gets on this sub. Of course the chances that your woman will drop you in times of need ar… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/11/17 06:49 PM |
| 43 | Study: Women prefer muscular, dominant, wealthy menthe answer is so simple it hardly needs explaining. Evo psych is shunned hard in progressive circles. I've even met a girl finishing a PhD on birds biology tweets some stabs at evo psych. Let me write that again: a woman whose job is to know inside out how the biology and behavior of birds was shaped by evolution through natural selection would not consider for one second that same phenomenon to explain why human males of all ages are naturally sexually attracted to young and beautiful females. … | /r/TheRedPill | 20/11/17 07:39 PM |
| 6 | Field Report: Ex gf came over today to pick up belongingsI don't know about your other views, but this one isn't valuable at all. Women are repulsed by weakness in men. Coming here advising that this is "not true of all women", and you "just need to find the one" is similar to you going on the science subreddit to advise people the earth is flat. You're entitled to your opinion, but you can't come to this sub and share an opinion that goes against its basic tenets and hope that your view will be seen as valuable. I suggest either accepting that your o… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/11/17 10:50 AM |
| 3 | Field Report: Ex gf came over today to pick up belongingsIf anyone here doesn't automatically understand this as one of the Iron Rules of Tomassi, you've got some reading to do. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/11/17 10:43 AM |
| 162 | Couples video reveals RP truthsYep. Since men have the capability to get the upper hand by sheer strength, women got the capability to get the upper hand by manipulating men. The girl in the video doesn't have great skills though. She should have been starting crying way before the end of the video because of "how awful he makes her feel". She didn't and so I doubt the veracity of this video. That or else, the video stopped before the crying. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/11/17 10:39 AM |
| 5 | Women and Refugees: a CompilationSadly any conversation about immigration can't be had without being called racist. Such are the politically correct times we live in. I'd say this is the point that turned me, a lifelong progressive, into the conservative camp. Maybe it's the European media insistence on migrants being "Syrian families fleeing the war" when their own footage shows almost uniquely young men from obvious sub-Saharan origin. Maybe it's the Australian media insisting on the necessity to shut down illegal immigrants … | /r/TheRedPill | 20/11/17 08:41 AM |
| 2 | Establish frame by giving less fucksI did not say you "disagreed completely", I said you were "blind to it". Look at you. 4 comments later and you're still obsessed with OP's quote and still not discussing the several paragraphs that follow it and that are completely apolitical. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/11/17 06:57 PM |
| 30 | The Harvey Weinstein Situation, and how it relates to TRPI disagree. You're not safe simply because you're a hot guy and she just banged you because she got the tingles. How many alphas have been accused because a woman cheated on her bf and he discovered and she needed a way to keep the bucks rolling and her status intact? Or a girl who got pumped and dumped by a tall, strong and handsome upcoming athlete? Now if you're not hot and you're getting sex by trading resources for it like Weinstein or the average beta marrying a post-wall woman and stuck w… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/11/17 09:15 AM |
| 6 | Establish frame by giving less fucksDude. OP used a quote by a guy he likes to make a point. Are you going to be completely blind about the point that was made and react against this anecdote instead, just because you happen do dislike that guy? Especially when the point that is being made is about the power of "giving less fucks"? | /r/TheRedPill | 15/11/17 08:17 AM |
| 53 | The Book of JophilThe gold of old! Awesome. I need to browse sosuave. Third one: Had I lashed out at her, she would have found her crappy behaviour justified, because she'd think: Look how he's treating me now! Many women are blind to their own behaviour it seems. It's a sort of Recursive Principle: they will find a justification for their earlier behaviour in the rebuke you give them about it afterwards. Because their ego's get hurt by your reprimand. And many women cannot see past their ego's. It's an emotional… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/11/17 07:37 PM |
| 7 | She needs commitment but she wants hard dickRock stars have the frame of mind that makes them sexy, otherwise harvey weinstein, who is a 6 foot "powerful influential" guy, essentially a rock star of the movie world, is a fucking creep, where the rockstar may be skinny fat and flabby but has the FOM of an alpha You can't reduce the appeal of a rock star to its "frame of mind". There's the fact that he's idolized by people, desired by other girls, the lifestyle (party, drugs, FUN!), the massive network, the danger/badboy vibe, the capabilit… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/11/17 05:24 AM |
| 6 | She needs commitment but she wants hard dickTwo questions: Who brought up (or was the most insistent on) opening your relationship? What makes that partner of yours a "beta"? | /r/TheRedPill | 12/11/17 03:29 AM |
| 25 | She needs commitment but she wants hard dickAsk any ugly rock star about their groupies who just want to be fucked by them and not necessarily turn them into a husband. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/11/17 03:25 AM |
| 12 | She needs commitment but she wants hard dickI'm glad to hear your girl is great and your relationship is doing well, but what's important to always keep in mind is that she is a woman and thus has hypergamy built in her brain that consists in optimally seeking AF and BB (at different stages of life, or her ovulatory cycle, etc.), and NOT in a feeling of an obligation towards you. Your describing your girl as "although not a unicorn I see her as the exception as she is unlike any other woman I know" is a firm indication that you still have… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/11/17 03:07 AM |
| 29 | She needs commitment but she wants hard dickThe problem in your theory is that women's dual strategy is something all women have, while your ideal masculine strategy is to have two different types of women, and that's a contradiction. In other words, the "loyal woman of character, integrity, and who would be an otherwise outstanding wife for him and exceptional mother to his children" also wants to fuck the hot stud. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/11/17 11:44 PM |
| 2 | Louis C.K. Wields Power "Irresponsibly"Women are playing the game: using sex to get resources. Louis C.K. was using his resources (power) to get the sex that he wanted. I am not saying that I would follow this strategy, but I think the public shaming of men playing the game has to stop. Women are not innocent. Just as a man can say no when a woman manipulates him with the promise of sex, a woman can say no when a man in power propositions her for sex. It's the game. It's not fair. But why would the shaming be outside of the game? The… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/11/17 12:41 AM |
| 9 | The Creep – Part 1Rollo, this is a very fine piece you wrote here. Something's different about it. Not sure if it's in the writing, the method (asking around), the fairly original topic, or in-depth analysis but it stands out. Looking forward the next parts. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/11/17 06:44 AM |
| 4 | What to do when your girl wants to hang out with another guy 1-on-1? ==> Demote to plate or dump immediately.I have a quite a few female friends. There are the singles who I don't find attractive enough to bother pursuing. There are those in couple with my best buddies. There are those in couple whom I don't necessarily pursue, but whose partner should know better than letting them around single guys like that. Among my friends are also single males, males in couple, couples, couples with kids, older people, work colleagues, and I just make friendly chat with just about everyone. That boring and dull w… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/11/17 06:41 AM |
| 1 | The rise and fall of a HB10There is not much to explain. As with most women, she was attracted to the hot bad boy. Now whether she got pregnant accidentally or not, who fucking cares? Women don't settle for the beta provider until their looks fade, and if that one was a HB10 as you say, the Wall for them is much much later. The real question you should be asking yourself is what you should be doing to treat that ONEitis of yours that makes you still pin for her years later to the point of wanting to write a novel on this … | /r/askTRP | 09/11/17 07:55 PM |
| 35 | Meet Jacq......the StripperFrankly I don't see what's wrong with it. She's actually right on the money in all your quotes. None of the blue pill lies of "women are wonderful" or "men and women are equal". No feminist lies like "beauty at all sizes", "patriarchy", or "rape culture". Instead, she shows a true understanding of men and women being different, of men's nature of objectifying women being a universal and unchangeable truth, of how to exploit the nature of (male) humans for your own benefit. That's what you get fo… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/11/17 11:23 AM |
| 20 | What to do when your girl wants to hang out with another guy 1-on-1? ==> Demote to plate or dump immediately./u/KawaiiHero here's your answer. You "communicate" this to your woman in two steps: Being so high value she should be worried to lose you. Showing her, through your actions, and with coherence, that you do not tolerate disrespect, and that your normal answer to disrespect is your calm but immediate removal of your involvement in the situation. If a girl, at any point, disrespects you, it means you have already lost her. Because it means she believed that either: You won't act on disrespect, or … | /r/TheRedPill | 09/11/17 11:05 AM |
| 149 | What to do when your girl wants to hang out with another guy 1-on-1? ==> Demote to plate or dump immediately.Girls do this for a number of reasons: You're a beta and she needs some alpha dick, or The guy is higher than you on the SMP and hypergamy pushes her to upgrade, or She needs to build up her roster of options, or As with every girl, she thrives on beta attention So this doesn't necessarily mean she wants that dick now. But that's not innocent either. That's just hypergamy speaking. The real problem is that in all cases but the last one, this is bad for your LTR. Actually the last one is not so g… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/11/17 07:54 PM |
| 8 | LTR asks to "play bitch"Totally understand what you mean. And in a blue world, I would do exactly what you say and let her have her fantasy (if I'm ok with it). The only issue, as I said, is that for a girl to stay with you in a LTR she needs to love you, and to love you she needs to respect you, and to respect you she needs you to always be the dominant. But hey I guess you can indulge her once in a blue moon. Maybe letting her know that for her birthday, in your great magnanimity, you're going to let her take control… | /r/askTRP | 08/11/17 06:20 AM |
| 2 | what is wrong with women sleeping around during their 20's.answer A. LTR as in monogamous partnership with exclusive sexual access. But I understand my answer might ruffle some feathers. See my other answer for an explanation as to why to me why you can't be alpha in a LTR | /r/askTRP | 08/11/17 06:15 AM |
| 2 | what is wrong with women sleeping around during their 20's.it depends on the definitions of alpha/beta. In my definition, if you provide in significant amount, you're beta. And there's no more providing that marrying a girl, giving her your exclusive time, attention, sex, always being the one she relies on when she's upset, and access to your finances. Beta isn't bad in my definition. it's just a different strategy than being the exciting jerk/asshole/pool-boy/adventurer/millionaire of that ONE night... | /r/askTRP | 08/11/17 06:12 AM |
| 117 | LTR asks to "play bitch"You never ever let her do it. It's a kink I found common in women. Sure they all have the fantasy to be dominated by a strong and high value man. But they also harbor that fantasy to dominate. I believe a lot of the feminism ideals stem from that fantasy. Having a fantasy is ok. The issue here is that if you let her dominate, she'll lose respect for you. So keep this is a firm no. She might get upset, but this beats her losing respect for you. | /r/askTRP | 07/11/17 08:01 PM |
| 2 | LTR is out of town and wants to explore her bisexuality.Whatever you do with this girl, see other women meanwhile. After all, she is. This. OP forgot to not listen to what she says. "Is it alright to fuck other women until I get into town?" absolutely does not mean "Hey I had this crazy idea, what about if I could fuck other women?". It more likely means "I already fucked another woman/man, or have that man/woman I really want to fuck and have the real opportunity to do it right now. Let me try to soften up the provider to the idea." | /r/askTRP | 07/11/17 07:56 PM |
| 6 | LTR wants to understand/know me betterMy question is whether this innocent sounding request is really just another (un)conscious betatizing manipulation? Yes. She's looking for the chink in your armor. Now it's not necessarily a bad thing. Girls need you to have this one or couple minor flaws that give them hope to eventually be able to exploit you. See https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2009/01/29/vulnerability-game/ So far, I've done OK with being vague and stoic with conversations about me, but I wonder if she'll ever get fed up wit… | /r/askTRP | 07/11/17 07:50 PM |
| 1 | what is wrong with women sleeping around during their 20's.Nothing inherently wrong. Just that girls with high N count make terrible long-term prospects. So if you're beta or care for society, it's a bummer. If you're alpha, you don't care because you won't go LTR anyway. http://www.medicaldaily.com/sex-marriage-premarital-sex-divorce-rate-sex-partners-first-comes-loves-then-390269 | /r/askTRP | 07/11/17 07:41 PM |
| 2 | Does TRP make you guys truly happy?Humans are comparison creatures. You're sad now because you compare your situation now to that before, register the loss, and react appropriately. Come back to this post of yours in one year and see how much the sadness has faded. Come back in five years and you won't feel it at all. You just need to move on, make other friends. I've moved around a lot. Lost many friends. And wherever I go, I just end up making another set of friends. As /u/LordThunderbolt said we are social animals. You're not … | /r/askTRP | 06/11/17 06:16 AM |
| 2 | Plate has came to its end. Looking for key lessons to learn.Nice lesson. Let's apply to your case then: keep spinning more plates. | /r/askTRP | 05/11/17 10:41 AM |
| 2 | From Cocktails to Same Day Lay - 10 Steps to the perfect date.Your hate for PUA comes directly from the blue pill hating on men acting to effect their sexual strategy. You came on this sub with a pre-existing blue opinion and are too blind to see it. You know how I know? I was the same, until I educated myself and read the Mystery Method. Expecting to see some "lame weirdos following a script", I discovered instead the origin of TRP. PUA was proto-redpill. Redpill was invented by PUAs. But you won't understand it until you put your (blue) prejudice aside l… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/11/17 10:36 AM |
| 5 | Plate has came to its end. Looking for key lessons to learn.What are you trying to find lessons to learn? When you run out of vegetables in your fridge, you feel a need to learn a lesson, or you guy buy some more? | /r/askTRP | 05/11/17 03:19 AM |
| 2 | Are girls really lesbian, bisexual, or whatever the fuck they want to call themselves?https://therationalmale.com/2011/09/01/sexual-fluidity/ The advent of embracing sexual fluidity in women is an attempt by feminized culture to put a bandaid on a lingering problem. As western feminized culture progresses onward from the late 60s, more and more women are awakening to the disillusionment that the choice they made to participate as an ‘equal’ in a masculine world required sacrifices of her femininity. | /r/askTRP | 05/11/17 03:14 AM |
| 5 | RIAN STONE - Full Video Interview on The 21 Reportlooking sharp u/Rian_Stone | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/17 09:13 PM |
| 8 | From Cocktails to Same Day Lay - 10 Steps to the perfect date.Like I said, 90% of the posts I see here are trash Then may I suggest kindly you get the fuck out of here, to a sub where you appreciate the majority of the posts? I suggest the "selfimprovement" or "mgtow" subreddits | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/17 09:09 PM |
| 4 | From Cocktails to Same Day Lay - 10 Steps to the perfect date.what about you be a human and you keep judging people as weirdo androids", and you let other guys do whatever they think is in their best interest in order to get laid? | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/17 09:06 PM |
| 63 | From Cocktails to Same Day Lay - 10 Steps to the perfect date.I am astonished at all the comments calling out the OP. 95% of what he says is textbook Game material. Push/pull, bounce, negs, kino, cocky funny... It all works like clockwork. Having it in the form of a cookbook is exactly the kind of FR of old. TRP was based on those principles of Game that PUA put to writing. And now what's the pickup material we have in the comments section? "just don't be ugly or autistic and you'll do fine" "if you want to know the real secret....focus on your career and … | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/17 11:11 AM |
| 5 | From Cocktails to Same Day Lay - 10 Steps to the perfect date.just don't be ugly or autistic and you'll do fine. Are you saying "just be yourself"? | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/17 11:01 AM |
| 6 | "Your" woman likely has strange cock in her.Except that he did not say "all married women cheat", he said: If you are married, your wife probably has cheated, might still be cheating and definitley knows who her backup man is. So this has the nuance you mentioned, just not enough for you. As for a woman keeping options, that's such a given I wonder why we find this strange. If you have a car, and your job depends on you having a car, and you're being offered free cars daily, you may not necessarily change car every day, but you'd be an id… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/17 05:13 AM |
| 1 | Unplugging. The reading list.The PUA community was a number of people trying stuff out, stealing and adapting each other's idea, eventually crystallizing around different "styles". You'll find the Mystery Method, D'Angelo "Double Your Dating", the Juggler method, RSD, Roosh's Bang, Mark Manson's Models, London Day Game etc. etc. But trying to collect them all like pokemon is the best way to end up not doing anything. The best thing you can do is pick one and force yourself applying. Try convince yourself that this is not de… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/17 04:56 AM |
| 2 | I am your Competition [Gold Repost]This is the only thing that pisses me off here. Why the fuck are these guys polluting my sub? There are thousands of subs out here to cater for all needs. They could discuss self-improvement on the selfimprovement sub, meditation on the meditation sub, lifting on the fitness sub, they even have a mgtow sub to discuss all these in the context of living without girls. But no they HAVE to come on the "sexual strategy" sub to tell people how sex/pickup/game is overrated. I don't even care whether th… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/17 11:28 AM |
| 2 | Why doesn't my GF's sexual strategy seem to fit RP teachings?Are you tall? fit? rich? intelligent? do you visibly attract women? Did she see you with other girls? DO you look like her favorite actor? Or does she know other girls interested in you? Any of these or combination of these could be the reason for her seeing you as alpha, and you just don't see it yourself. Otherwise. Is she nearing the wall (>27)? Did she have a strong traditional upbringing with a good dad? Did she get pumped and dumped too many times? Is she very insecure? Any of thee could i… | /r/askTRP | 03/11/17 09:45 AM |
| 2 | Why do women push for more and more commitment only to be disatisfied when it actually happens?That women push for more stuff should be a no-brainer to you. Now why would they be unhappy when they get it? On the moment? It showed that she could push you around to get what she wants. Aka, you may be less strong thah she imagined. Or worse, it could indicate that you need her so you comply, which would imply you're lower value than her. On the long-term? Similar as the second point above: the more committed you are, the more needy it is, the less value you seem to have. Ontop of that, women… | /r/askTRP | 03/11/17 09:37 AM |
| 1 | I am your Competition [Gold Repost]It's the usual proximate/ultimate cause debate. Of course monks don't make a vow of celibacy for sex, but of course their mind/aspirations/behavior is that of human males, which evolved this way for sex. Going back to the debate at hand: self-improve for whatever you want to, but don't go around claiming that "sex is a bad reason for one to self-improve" given that this is the ultimate cause of that behaviour. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/17 09:18 AM |
| 7 | The Red Pill Is NOT a CultIf I could find a cult somewhere: whose teaching completely matches with my experience and my observations, in such way that such knowledge makes me happier / more at peace, than what I was before, especially since it improves my sex life, my relationships with men and women alike, as well as improving my stature in life, bringing me money... FUCKING SIGN ME UP! Oh wait, it's ok TRP does that already. And I don't even have to suck the leader's cock! (Peace be Upon Rollo) | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/17 08:56 AM |
| 2 | I am your Competition [Gold Repost]The purpose of breathing is to bring oxygen to your cells, to be used as fuel to help you do the stuff that are necessary to ensure your growth and survival until such time that you can replicate your genes. Likewise, competition is the natural drive men have to push them towards the top of dominance hierarchy were you can find the sex that allows you to pass on your genes. Goals keep us focused (I often say "direction gives us meaning") because achieving your goals is important to build the val… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/17 08:35 AM |
| 3 | Optimism or Realism?The workplace is not that dichotomy "awesome passion or shit job" you think it is. Your "passion" may not only fail to bring you an income but also prove boring over time, or having some side aspects that ruin it. Your "shit job" might turn out to have interesting problems that your mind is wired to tackle, whether it is dealing with problems, or trying to convince people. I'd say rather than trying to figure if you have a passion for "banking", or "sales", consider instead what seems to get you… | /r/askTRP | 02/11/17 08:07 PM |
| 33 | I am your Competition [Gold Repost]Oh for fuck's sake! Men compete to reach to the top of the dominance hierarchy because women fuck men at the top. This is our biological imperative. Whether you do it consciously, or unconsciously (a behavior just built in your brain by evolution). The only reason why males of any species do any form of competition, it's for sexual access to females. I understand men may find this is not the most lofty goal. I understand this feels very much like "putting the pussy on a pedestal", which is known… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/11/17 07:39 PM |
| 2 | Unplugging. The reading list.I found Bang & Day Bang better written, more useful, and more red pill. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/11/17 08:04 AM |
| 6 | Unplugging. The reading list.Thanks. Economics is where I am now turning. Richest Man in Babylon was an eye-opener. Any other suggestion (TRP-flavored, that is, not sugarcoating human nature)? | /r/TheRedPill | 01/11/17 07:32 PM |
| 12 | Unplugging. The reading list.To everyone their own method. I did read Meditations first... Years ago, way before TRP. And maybe it did give me some grounding to ease the unplugging. But back then, it did nothing to open my eyes to the reality of the world. I was a delusional blue pill beat before reading it, and I was a delusional blue pill beta after reading it. I'd even say Meditations is dangerous without unplugging because stoicism would tend to make you happy with your situation in that fake world that is the Matrix. F… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/11/17 07:30 PM |
| 2 | Unplugging. The reading list.MM is foundational and would place high on a list of books about Game, but in the exercise I set here (shortest list, in order, for unplugging) Bang made more sense as it's more general. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/11/17 07:27 PM |
| 17 | Don’t get married and make sure you get that DNA test: "The State of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity"I don't see it as a taboo. The rationale is more "if you test your kids, it means you don't fully trust your wife. How can you not be fully trusting your own wife?" It's an encroach on the Soulmate narrative. People are so invested in the idea of marriage as an "act of Love" that they shut down any rationality about the dark nature of humans, statistics and the real world. It's like prenups. How can one be even thinking about the possibility of divorce when you marry someone? Of course those pes… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/11/17 07:21 PM |
| 62 | Don’t get married and make sure you get that DNA test: "The State of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity"Crazy to think how marriage went from a contract where the man gets "guaranteed sex + homemaking + sexual exclusivity + assurance of paternity" in exchange for the woman getting "guaranteed financial and emotional support", to a contract where sex is not guaranteed, homemaking is to be shared equally, sexual exclusivity is not assured and sometimes downright annulled through an "open relationship", and paternity is not guaranteed, while the woman's financial support is so guaranteed that even in… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/11/17 07:13 PM |
| 17 | Don’t get married and make sure you get that DNA test: "The State of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity"Feminists have been castigating marriage for decades. They’re going to get a world where guys don’t want to subsidize chicks. Which isn’t going to make a lot of women happy. Guys are waking up. Fat chance. Guys will subsidize chicks through their taxes anyway. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/11/17 07:05 PM |
| 2 | Red Pill BetasAnd as for GLO, I believe people should promote their business by offering a superior product, not by shitting on their competition Wait? Is TFA selling T-shirts too? | /r/TheRedPill | 01/11/17 06:51 PM |
| 2 | Pick the smarter one instead of the hot one next time.Because "attraction is not a choice". If both are attractive to you, your dick will choose the one the most attractive to you. If intellect factors in your attraction, then your dick might end up choosing that one. But it's foolish to think your brain will step in and choose the one you're less attracted to on account that she's smarter. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/11/17 06:59 AM |
| 2 | Pick the smarter one instead of the hot one next time.I got what you said. You didn't get what I said. So let me explain my position further, mister intellectual: Attraction is not a choice. That's what I meant. You don't get to rationally decide who makes your dick hard. Even if the reasonably-hot gets your dick just as hard as the definitely-hot, you're most likely to end up trying to go, completely unreasonably, for the hottest one. Your own experience, in that exact same post you wrote, follows this principle. Now if intellect in a girl is part… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/11/17 06:52 AM |
| 1 | I strayed from TRP doctrine and got ghosted because AWALTWhich gets to show they didn't eve bother reading the best of Rational Male Year One, which includes this must-read article: https://therationalmale.com/2011/09/22/dream-girls-and-children-with-dynamite/ | /r/TheRedPill | 01/11/17 06:34 AM |
| 16 | Blue Pilled Society's dual mating strategy: Shame men into committing, and into not committing, at the same time.This quite simply demonstrates how "shaming" is part and parcel of female games. Women shame men they desire for not committing: "jerks". Women shame men they don't desire for wanting them "Niceguys", "losers". Women shame women who give up sex too easily and drive the price of pussy down "sluts". Sure enough, men are also quick to judge badly the men and women whose actions don't fit with their sexual strategies: the one who branch-swings is a "slut". The one who doesn't put out is "frigid". Th… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/11/17 06:31 AM |
| 3 | I strayed from TRP doctrine and got ghosted because AWALTThe main takeaway is that you caught ONEitis so fucking hard that you unconsciously dropped all TRP knowledge in order to fulfill your blue-pill dream you wanted so bad to be true. Making a post about her is the cherry on the cake. Now delete this post, get back in the gym, get back to spinning plates, and make a habit of reading through the 16 commandments of Poon every morning to prevent yourself from yielding to your blue pill delusions again. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/10/17 07:38 PM |
| 3 | Pick the smarter one instead of the hot one next time.I don't know which of your two propositions is the most laughable: the advice to men to pass on the hot girl to go for the less-hot one? or the idea that you can wet a girl's panties by talking smart to her? Do you know why "who identifies himself as an intellectual man" who "like talking about deeper stuff" and yet you "always chose the hottest one regardless of their intellectuality"? That's because you're a MAN and as such you are sexually aroused by high-value femininity, aka youth and beaut… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/10/17 07:28 PM |
| 33 | FR: "I didn't want to feel like I missed out" - A story on why AWALT is true.Only if by "convinced herself" you meant "rationalized to herself". She cheated on you because she felt sexually aroused by that guy on that moment, and rationalized some pseudo-reason to justify yielding to her feelings of sexual urgency. Sure that rationalization was retarded, but that is a rationalization nonetheless. then was shocked when I reacted negatively This is the interesting part. Rationalizations are so powerful she did end up fully believing you'd think it is ok. It's crazy to thin… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/10/17 10:57 PM |
| 147 | Today I asked a woman to stop looking at me and was accused of sexual harassmentNobody takes sexual rejection well, but women absolutely hate it. This is because evolutionary their entire value to the species is their value as a sexual mate. Where men's SMV is due in part to what they do, which can be used to compensate for a lack of sexual attractiveness, women cannot afford to be seen as sexually unattractive. Their entire status depends on it. That's why everything women do is about affirming their sexual attractiveness to men. And that is why they absolutely hate sexual… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/09/17 11:49 PM |
| 79 | "Why so many women cheat on their husbands"This this is the other side of the coin for the rapid downfall of marriage in the west. Men don't get married because it's the sure way to be seen as a provider and lose her respect, lose your assets in the impending divorce, lose access to your kids, and having to pay your ex-wife to raise them to hate you. Women don't have to get married because they have 100 times more attention and validation from thirsty betas while single, make enough money to support themselves anyway, can shack up with a… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/09/17 08:46 PM |
| 1 | Understanding "Alpha Fucks; Beta Bucks"This is why I advise people continuously here to not spend the majority of their time on the daily feed, but in the 100% certified good content. Side bar. Manosphere blogs. Recommended books. Check my post history for the one with my recommended readings / bookmarks. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/17 09:16 PM |
| 2 | Understanding "Alpha Fucks; Beta Bucks"I don't get how you could understand that from my message. This would be true if women's decision into who is alpha is completely random and not conditioned at all by any measure of performance of men. Which is not the case. If anything, I'm saying you need to figure out how to become the alpha in any context, and work on yourself to change yourself into that. There are things you need to change because they are the features of the alpha in all conditions: fit, clean, confident, social. And ther… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/17 09:14 PM |
| 12 | Losing all hope. 21 year old beta male.Dude it's more important than that. TRP boils down to telling the bitter truth to men that they must put in the work on themselves to become more valuable than the average, because people are drawn to other people's power. You probably posted this after that awesome field report on the sub from the guy who's showing the results after 3 years of TRP practice. The only difference between you and this guy is that he understood the core message of this sub which you didn't: "Once you know what you g… | /r/askTRP | 20/09/17 09:09 PM |
| 5 | How to deal with hypergamy in the context of a serious LTR? A discussion on strategies for dealing with infidelityIt's all good, but as you say it's social engineering. It goes against our (their) nature. If you've been educated traditionally, and live in a "decent" society, and are a married 45yo to a loving 45yo wife... and during a business trip you meet a 22yo hottie who wants to sleep with you, and nobody will ever know about it, what will you do? Maybe you will remain an upstanding man and manage to resist the pull of lust. But you'll still feel it and have to resist it. Or maybe you'll give in and wo… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/09/17 01:05 PM |
| 6 | How to deal with hypergamy in the context of a serious LTR? A discussion on strategies for dealing with infidelityI'm pretty sure my grandma's 70yo partner didn't have to read Roosh's "Bang" and practice his approach a lot to "pick up" my grandma. They were friends at the club. It happened. Again, I totally get you, your take was totally my take. And the most bitter part of the pill for me to digest. And in many ways, it's still my take. I'm currently spinning plates but I don't intend to do it forever. Just too much effort to maintain (though it's less than actively going out and going for ONS). I'd just r… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/09/17 12:58 PM |
| 8 | How to deal with hypergamy in the context of a serious LTR? A discussion on strategies for dealing with infidelitySure you can try to find one with a fantastic traditional education, in a country where society pressures her to keep her family intact. But hypergamy is woman's nature: they're wired to seek the best party for themselves, make the jump if they can get away with it, and rationalize their reasons later. Animals are deeply selfish. Humans are animals. Look at wild animals' behavior. Look at kids crying that their brother won't share his ice cream with them. Look at teenagers trying to get away wit… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/09/17 12:43 PM |
| 13 | How to deal with hypergamy in the context of a serious LTR? A discussion on strategies for dealing with infidelityI'm getting close to 40 and you'd be surprised the number of girls in their early 20s I can get who really value that high level of maturity. As for girls in their 30s, it feels as easy as picking fruits at the supermarket given their level of desperation. At 50, you'll find plenty of women in their 40s recently divorced. At 60, 70, 80, you'll find plenty of older women needing some companionship. After becoming a widow, my grandma (at the time 70yo) shacked up with a 70yo man from the bridge cl… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/09/17 12:30 PM |
| 2 | Understanding "Alpha Fucks; Beta Bucks"I actually agree. Those terms were good placeholders at the start, but they're responsible for some serious misunderstanding now. Even Rollo use "beta" sometimes for "reliable provider" and sometimes for "frustrated clueless chump", which are not the same concepts. alpha = "sexually attractive right now" | /r/TheRedPill | 18/09/17 12:19 PM |
| 2 | Understanding "Alpha Fucks; Beta Bucks"I actually partly agree with you. And "Be alpha" is simpler, but less accurate. For example, it won't help you passing comfort tests, dealing with ASD, dealing with a woman with PMS, or dealing with a woman in her epiphany phase. It's like Newton's vs Einstein's theories of gravity. Newton's model is simple enough to be understandable by schoolboys and sufficiently accurate in most purposes, but if you can understand and implement Einstein's and need that accuracy in some of your applications, w… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/09/17 12:16 PM |
| 1 | Understanding "Alpha Fucks; Beta Bucks"This is one of women's classic behavior that a solid understanding of AF;BB can help you understand or predict, and that a simple "be more alpha" unfortunately doesn't cover. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/09/17 11:59 AM |
| 1 | Sugar-bowlI post answers not much in the hope to convince the poster, but rather the silent readers on the fence. I'm sure your post was not wasted time for a few hundreds readers who got it, increased their redpill understanding a bit more, but didn't comment. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/09/17 11:58 AM |
| 8 | How to deal with hypergamy in the context of a serious LTR? A discussion on strategies for dealing with infidelityIf you are looking for a market where girls don't have the potential to not cheat on you, I'm afraid you're on the wrong sub. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/09/17 11:56 AM |
| 33 | How to deal with hypergamy in the context of a serious LTR? A discussion on strategies for dealing with infidelityThe answer is very simple but you're too ego-invested in a belief that prevents you from even considering that answer in the first place. The issue is in your belief in the Myth of Lifelong LoveTM that was drilled into your brain from a very young age. It is my stern belief that long-term happiness, for most people, is not possible without eventually finding a meaningful connection with another person. Sure. But why does such connection need to last till "death do us part"? When you buy the car … | /r/TheRedPill | 18/09/17 11:48 AM |
| 2 | Understanding "Alpha Fucks; Beta Bucks"Bang on. I made a short post about it some time ago https://archive.is/67vEi But it's easy to see that's the most bitter part of that bloody red pill. It's incredibly difficult to deconstruct that massive ego investment. So I don't expect people who don't have yet a solid grasp of basic red pill concepts to be able to get over that massive next-level hurdle. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/09/17 06:53 AM |
| 1 | Sugar-bowlYou made good points in the post but your comments just show you as a fake it til you make it schmuck. Let me clear it up for you. Act 1: OP writes a post where the main point is about how men nowadays are clueless about human relationship dynamics. He uses the sentence "Somebody's not getting his dick sucked tonight", I thought. to summarize the consequences of that cluelessness. Act 2: Comes a commenter who fails to see the point of the post, aka demonstrating the same cluelessness about human… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/09/17 06:40 AM |
| 25 | Sugar-bowlI'll be nicer than OP and give you an informed answer. The red pill is not about simply banging girls or how to have a nice life without banging girls, it's about everything that revolves around men/women dynamics given the sexual market place. OP did not make that post to tell people to not get bored when they go shopping with their missus. He didn't make that post to tell people that he could pick her up. He made that post to illustrate one main tenet of red pill theory that male/female natura… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/09/17 06:33 AM |
| 268 | Feminist is aiming to create a man-free music festival next year...Thanks for the news. It's awesome. It raises so many questions. Will trans-women be forbidden and thus not considered female? Will trans-men be forbidden and thus not considered victims? What about men from "oppressed minorities"? Will blacks protest and depict it as a form of white female privilege? How to rationalize the fact that people who will set it up and operate light and sounds will be men? Can you feel smug and safe in your non-male allowed event when you can see around you that it all… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/09/17 06:26 AM |
| 5 | I left my LTR of a year last night. Caught her cheating from may 2017.Dude, how can you have now been on TRP for 2 years and be that clueless? 25 and dating a 38 years old? "I want a relationship bro.."? These stink of neediness and scarcity mentality. If you've been around on TRP long enough, you should know what a post-wall woman wants out of men. You should know you only get in a LTR after you've been spinning plates, and only do so reluctantly. Sounds like you were a child with dynamite, that you were a desperate AFC, used redpill tools to find the first girl … | /r/askTRP | 09/09/17 09:13 AM |
| 50 | A Theory On "Vibe"The problem is that a lot of other people on this sub need to make the difference between (1) the red pill, and (2) the red pill subreddit. "The red pill" is a body of knowledge on male-female relationship dynamics. It is found in tradition, old literature, manosphere blogs, books, some specific twitter feeds, and in part on this subreddit. You do whatever you want to do with that knowledge, but if what you want out of it is more sex, then you are advised to lift, become good at something, learn… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/09/17 12:49 AM |
| 2 | Science says: Women most attracted to arrogance, confrontative behavior, and musculature for short term relationshipsAnd a link to a archived version of the post: http://archive.is/DqZPO | /r/TheRedPill | 27/07/17 11:01 AM |
| 2 | Science says: Women most attracted to arrogance, confrontative behavior, and musculature for short term relationshipsIt was a post of his own: http://archive.is/DqZPO | /r/TheRedPill | 27/07/17 11:00 AM |
| 3 | I can't rationalize the morally shit parts of TRP. CMV on this.Shit like plating Do you mean seeing several girls at the same time and not lying about it? What's wrong with it. If you're being truthful about it, as TRP advocates, then it's up to her to accept it or not. If she doesn't, then you send her out on her way, politely and respectfully. , negging As most newbies, you don't understand what negging is. It's not insulting and it's not belittling. It's teasing. It's making fun of her accent or her short stature as you would your little sister. It's bas… | /r/askTRP | 27/07/17 08:35 AM |
| 3 | Feminism Seeks to Reverse Traditional Sexual StrategiesI do not believe in a female drive for variety. Why girls have such high notch count? Because sex is easy to get for a girl and because of the nature of Hypergamy. Remember girls desire whoever is the alpha in her social context right now. Well during Cindy's trip to Italy; on Monday visiting Rome, the alpha is Fabio the tour guide; on Tuesday in Turin, the alpha is Alessandro the cute busker; on Wednesday in Florence, the alpha is Mike the American at the backpackers whom all girls are eyeing, … | /r/TheRedPill | 27/07/17 07:47 AM |
| 3 | Feminism Seeks to Reverse Traditional Sexual StrategiesThe end game of radical feminism is to flip the traditional gender roles, including sexual strategy. No it's not. The end goal of feminism is maximum resources and control and abdication of responsibility for women and the enslavement of men. Thanks for setting the record straight. As if feminists were doing anything else but trying to enforce the feminine (biological) imperative on society. I was worried when I saw that post with that title being close to 100 upvotes. This seems to be the patte… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/07/17 07:35 AM |
| 1 | How women from minority communities in India desert their men. Post by an Indian living in Indiahttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UxpVwBzFAkw | /r/TheRedPill | 27/07/17 06:36 AM |
| 80 | The Rational Male, Positive Masculinity/u/redpillschool. This is a major event, are we not going to pin this post? | /r/TheRedPill | 27/07/17 12:21 AM |
| 2 | Walked out off 6year long relationship.Gee, the sarcasm was not obvious enough? OK let me try straight then: Anyone with multiple partners and smart do protect themselves. That applies to men & women, straight & gays. Your hate for "redpillers" make you looking for ways to shame us, without even realizing your arguments drip with intolerance. But we don't care. You and your double-standard morals amuse us. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/17 08:36 PM |
| 125 | How women from minority communities in India desert their men. Post by an Indian living in IndiaI like to read other-cultural confirmations that the truth of intersexual dynamics as revealed and discussed by the red pill is indeed written in the stone that is our biology. So much for the leftist "blank slate" obsession. Thanks for sharing. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/07/17 09:12 AM |
| 5 | Understanding and Embracing Dread Game - Bacchus' Comprehensive Guide to DREADTRP mods have archived everything. But the archive.is links are archives done by users here when they want to link a Reddit post on TRP to work around TRP preventing linking to Reddit posts (did you get that?) Archive.is is such that if the post was already archived, it'll just give you the old archive rather than archiving it again. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/07/17 04:21 AM |
| 13 | Understanding and Embracing Dread Game - Bacchus' Comprehensive Guide to DREADCue /u/dr_warlock 's "Women don't want to feel good, they want to feel" post. To me one of the best, and certainly the most underrated post of all time here. Still can't believe it only made 130 points.. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/17 11:22 PM |
| 8 | Neediness, not giving a fuck, and abundance mentalityGood anecdote. This is what follows from chicks digging Power. Once she has chosen to pair with a man, every remote possibility that he might not be optimally powerful triggers anxiety. This is what Rollo describes at lengths about Hypergamy being essentially a permanent doubt: "Maybe he is not the best I can get?? Maybe I chose wrong!!" And that's where the shit tests start. They are the expression of the hypergamous doubt: she needs to poke you psychologically to check how powerful you are at … | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/17 10:25 PM |
| 11 | What is the relationship between a woman getting validation through social media, and having sex?No it means validation is to women what sex is to men. Men want sex all the time, from everyone, and require it for their mental health. Women want validation all the time, from everyone, and require it for their mental health. So no it does not mean that validation = sex and your three questions are off-topic. | /r/askTRP | 25/07/17 08:29 PM |
| 1 | What do you guys think about this book? Few people recommended it to me and the reviews are quite good.It's recommended on the red pill... an on other subreddit that are not red pill. So it's good tips, but not red pill ones. For a red pill equivalent, use Roosh's Bang and Day Bang. | /r/askTRP | 25/07/17 08:24 PM |
| 27 | Are You A Wimp And What To Do About ItRoissy would bitch slap you and everyone who upvoted you https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2009/01/12/a-hole-game-day-1/ https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2012/11/27/being-the-right-kind-of-asshole/ https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2014/10/03/science-proves-asshole-game-works/ | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/17 08:10 PM |
| 46 | Neediness, not giving a fuck, and abundance mentalityWhat makes a man attractive can be hard to pin down, but we can be definitive about what makes a man unattractive: neediness. What makes a man attractive, in the most general sense, is Power. Looks -> genetic Power. Muscles -> physical Power. Game -> interaction Power. Status -> social Power. Women are attracted to the "Man at the top (of the local dominance hierarchy she cares about)", aka the man with most Power over other men. We find it "hard to pin down what makes a man attractive" because … | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/17 03:32 AM |
| 32 | My accidental use of Dread Game on my exIt is what triggered my Red Pill euphoria. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/17 03:21 AM |
| 1 | Why 35 is peak age for men according to TRP?Yes. And that is the only issue with Rollo's chart. It only shows one average man's objective SMV evolution through his life, all things being equal. And then individual experience may differ, especially since men's SMV is contextual. The same applies to women's SMV curve: some hit the wall later than the curve indicate, some never become 10s because they're fat, etc. | /r/askTRP | 24/07/17 09:58 AM |
| 40 | Socialist Feminist author cedes that one of the core analyses of Redpillers is correct & needs addressingJust another social hipster trying to stay at the edge of mainstream thought. Feminism is not cool anymore. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/07/17 08:42 AM |
| 1 | Young Red Piller and I Need help with certain situationyep. Do that and repost on asktrp. And as you wait for the answers, read the rules on the sidebar | /r/TheRedPill | 24/07/17 03:06 AM |
| 7 | Should I be friends with my ex-gf?People reading this and people who already commented: Do not answer personal questions on the main sub. Report these posts to mods immediately when you see them. It's not about being mean to OP, it's about helping keeping the value of the main sub for you and for others. The main sub is for posts discussing our topics (theory, field reports, etc.). Personal advice questions are most often from people who don't know shit about TRP. They bring zero value and dilute the message. They contribute to … | /r/TheRedPill | 24/07/17 02:52 AM |
| 2 | Young Red Piller and I Need help with certain situationPeople reading this and people who already commented: Do not answer personal questions on the main sub. Report these posts to mods immediately when you see them. It's not about being mean to OP, it's about helping keeping the value of the main sub for you and for others. The main sub is for posts discussing our topics (theory, field reports, etc.). Personal advice questions are most often from people who don't know shit about TRP. They bring zero value and dilute the message. They contribute to … | /r/TheRedPill | 24/07/17 02:52 AM |
| 11 | Breathing right and "meditation".The post flair "Building Power" is for posts about building power of the red pill community (offline meeting, groups, getting out in the open, mentoring, influencing elected leaders, etc.), not for personal self-improvement. Please change the flair of your post to "MGTOW", which really is the one that should be used for the discussions on general male self-improvement, particularly those that are not relevant to sexual strategy (except finance and fitness, which have their own flairs). | /r/TheRedPill | 24/07/17 12:17 AM |
| 6 | What the heck I am doing wrongPeople reading this and people who already commented: Do not answer personal questions on the main sub. Report these posts to mods immediately when you see them. It's not about being mean to OP, it's about helping keeping the value of the main sub for you and for others. The main sub is for posts discussing our topics (theory, field reports, etc.). Personal advice questions are most often from people who don't know shit about TRP. They bring zero value and dilute the message. They contribute to … | /r/TheRedPill | 24/07/17 12:14 AM |
| 1 | Why 35 is peak age for men according to TRP?Although your main point is valid, your introduction to it is wrong. It's not "additionally". Quite the contrary, men at 35 don't have higher SMV because "Additionally, relative to most other men in the same age bracket, staying in good shape raises your SMV dramatically." SMV peaking at 35 is not a question of "relative to most other men". It's a general statement. Your argument should rather be: The only decrease in men's SMV in their late 30s compared to their 20s is their looks. Ageing men o… | /r/askTRP | 23/07/17 11:27 PM |
| 3 | I am a broken person, how to fix myself?You are in the right place. It's just that you should read our rules (sidebar) before posting, just like any other subreddit. Read the sidebar first, find the advices relevant to your situation in there, then implement them, then ask questions on asktrp when you face roadblocks in your implementation. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/07/17 11:15 PM |
| 3 | I am a broken person, how to fix myself?People reading this and people who already commented: Do not answer personal questions on the main sub. Report these posts to mods immediately when you see them. It's not about being mean to OP, it's about helping keeping the value of the main sub for you and for others. The main sub is for posts discussing our topics (theory, field reports, etc.). Personal advice questions are most often from people who don't know shit about TRP. They bring zero value and dilute the message. They contribute to … | /r/TheRedPill | 23/07/17 11:11 PM |
| 3 | A redpill perspective is needed.personal questions go on asktrp | /r/TheRedPill | 23/07/17 11:01 PM |
| 5 | Does this mean I'm doing it right?Nope. It means you are sharing TRP opinions and using TRP specific vocabulary. You're probably being too vocal against feminism and female nature. | /r/askTRP | 22/07/17 02:13 AM |
| 1 | The Red pill is training wheels for betasThis is awesome. Had no idea Ian Ironwood wrote a book. Do you know what is he up to now? | /r/TheRedPill | 21/07/17 11:29 PM |
| 2 | Walked out off 6year long relationship.Ugh. Slut shaming is so patriarchal! It's 2017 baby, and we are now sex-positive. Stop being such a bigot! | /r/askTRP | 21/07/17 10:51 PM |
| 5 | The Red pill is training wheels for betasPeople here would benefit from a post tracing the lineage of TRP back to its earliest roots. You seem to be the one for the task, old timer. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/07/17 12:21 PM |
| 4 | The Red pill is training wheels for betasI re-read "the Game" recently. It's surreal to see how much of the concepts are already in there. The standard Game stuff (Frame, Push-Pull, IOI, escalate) of course, but also a lot of other stuff I assumed did not come from PUA: alpha/beta, shit-tests, masculinity, all girls being like that, etc. Really the only thing that was missing back in the PUA days was that they seemed to think the Game stopped when you entered a LTR. Those guys were still clinging hard to their blue pill ideals of being… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/07/17 12:19 PM |
| 30 | Is there an agreed upon SMV formula?Women are attracted to "the Man at the top", with this depending on context and on the girl. Don't bother trying to estimate SMVs, just strive to increase all aspects of yourself that would bring you "at the top". | /r/TheRedPill | 21/07/17 09:24 AM |
| 16 | Don't be afraid to tell a girl straight up that you like her or find her attractive. They love that shit if it's coming from a place of confidence and non neediness.The closer to a scientific study that has been done is basically what PUAs did. For 4 months straight, going out 4 nights a week, for 4 hours each time, doing 4 approaches an hour, testing an insane amount of different material every night, then analyzing the results on the same night, and keeping and refining what worked, rejecting what didn't. The people who were discussing seduction tactics on PUA forums were on the field very often. The people who are discussing seduction tactics on redpill … | /r/TheRedPill | 21/07/17 09:18 AM |
| 1 | What about being an asshole makes you attractive to women?Good on you being a natural. Search the "Chateau heartiste" blog for "asshole game" and you'll find your answer. | /r/askTRP | 21/07/17 02:37 AM |
| 38 | Don't be afraid to tell a girl straight up that you like her or find her attractive. They love that shit if it's coming from a place of confidence and non neediness.I'm actually seriously asking. What you suggests goes against my experience. When I have been completely honest and overt with women about my sexual attraction to them, I have mostly gotten rejections or flakes. And I have got many girls without at any point tellling them I found them hot. Ergo, my experience is that your advice is irrelevant at best, and counter-productive at worst. I'm always willing to change my approach to seduction but I need to be convinced before I do so. I trust you got … | /r/TheRedPill | 21/07/17 01:34 AM |
| 20 | Is she's too hot to end it...? I made a mistake, I must go back to her! (Theory)I can understand guys wanting a LTR. I cannot understand guys wanting a LTR with a single mum who is cheating on her current partner. Seriously, with all the girls out there dying to get a LTR with a high value man, how would a guy even consider for a second choosing one that is such that you're 100% sure she will end up cheating on you, and until then you'll have to support the child of another man? | /r/TheRedPill | 20/07/17 11:54 PM |
| 244 | Don't be afraid to tell a girl straight up that you like her or find her attractive. They love that shit if it's coming from a place of confidence and non neediness.I took a girl out on a date yesterday. My first "real date" since I was 16. (I'm 24.) Are you saying that your thesis rests on only one data point? | /r/TheRedPill | 20/07/17 10:32 PM |
| 3 | Walked out off 6year long relationship.Damn. Are you implying promiscuous women are ridden with diseases because they're not practicing safe sex themselves? That's a bit too mysoginistic an opinion for this sub | /r/askTRP | 19/07/17 10:46 PM |
| 11 | Listen to the message BEHIND the messageThis. OP, girls are acutely aware of the subtext. Especially the one they give off. She probably said that on purpose to hint you about her intentions because you weren't clear enough about your intentions to her. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/07/17 10:01 PM |
| 11 | The Eunuchs of The Red PillShall I suggest you join one or several of these subs: masculinity manprovement becomeaman Where you can discuss masculinity and self improvement with fellow men, without having to sit through the pesky focus on sexual strategy that makes up theredpill. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/07/17 09:32 PM |
| 9 | The Eunuchs of The Red PillShall I suggest you join one or several of these subs: masculinity manprovement becomeaman Where you can discuss masculinity and how to achieve male greatness with fellow men, without having to sit through the pesky focus on sexual strategy that makes up theredpill. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/07/17 09:27 PM |
| 3 | The Eunuchs of The Red PillThat's basically the excuse in the current year. Except that apparently they are still being "oppressed". Which conveniently explains why they're still making up only 5% of world leaders, top CEOs, economic nobel prizes, top entrepreneurs, etc. The reality is that those very top leadership position need an extreme level of intelligence, dedication and specific skills, which not everyone has, including 99.9% of the male population. The funny thing in all that, is that the day our modern feminist … | /r/TheRedPill | 19/07/17 08:59 PM |
| 1 | What are the best day game resources?Roosh's "Day Bang" will get you from day approach to getting phone #, "Bang" will get you the rest of the way. | /r/askTRP | 19/07/17 10:44 AM |
| 17 | Walked out off 6year long relationship.And sunken cost fallacy, and power of habit, and fear of the unknown, and beta delusion. Don't be too hard on yourself. It's hard to walk away after years of not even considering walking away. The important is that you did, and that you're lucky enough to have found TRP so young. | /r/askTRP | 19/07/17 02:20 AM |
| 22 | Walked out off 6year long relationship.plates on TRP is now understood as "at least two girls you are fucking but not committing to" (which used to be called soft harem). If you don't fuck them yet, call them prospects. | /r/askTRP | 19/07/17 02:18 AM |
| 15 | Girl posts her date results on the seduction subreddit. Prime example of Briffault's Law and beta bucks.Dude has not a fucking clue how to deal with LMR. Is that not basic knowledge on seddit? | /r/TheRedPill | 18/07/17 11:31 PM |
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