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Pfft, you only nibble? Real men toss the whole thing into their mouth and spit it out with three bites. Any more and you're a pussy fag who needs to read the sidebar. And lift more!!
/r/TheRedPill23/03/18 05:12 PM
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I've driven mine down to almost 1k a month and I'm living in the DFW area in a very decent neighborhood. It is entirely possible to pull off with some luck and being diligent on cutting down on all necessary expenses. Granted this is not sustainable beyond 2 years for my own personal objectives but this gives me a perfect opportunity to take some larger risks that I would not be able to if I had a lot more financial obligations to handle.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/17 11:18 PM
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Just look at the two guys who ran a coffee shop and ran a podcast about some of their red pill thoughts and sexual exploits. They got reamed good and hard by the sjw wingnuts and caved into the pressure.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/17 03:30 PM
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Yes, but boring is boring. I'm with you on this, I hate it when girls aren't putting enough in and are just follow/follow/submit/follow. Though if we're going with the idea that women take the shape of the container they're in, can't we then lead them to be a more interesting person? Do things like basic punishment/rewards to start creating desired behaviors. If she's being boring then reduce your time/interest with her. If she starts exploring and pushing herself then reward her with your inves…
/r/TheRedPill04/07/17 02:17 PM
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Give day bang a read and just work on your approach. Suck hard and fail often and you'll quickly stop giving a shit about what girls think about you. That'll help blow off some of the inexperience vibe while also making you more attractive and fun to the girl in general. Once you get more confident in yourself around girls you'll then be able to play off actual inexperience with some minor deflection or humor. Just keep failing often, don't take it personally no matter what and eventually you'll…
/r/TheRedPill04/07/17 01:53 PM
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Grow a spine and strengthen your frame. Figure out what the hell you want and do everything to make it possible with no excuses. This wishy washy behavior is what women do. You obviously wanted out of your marriage so you cheated and hoped she'd walk but she didn't. Now you're stuck here just bitching about little things when you have no control over anything. She has your balls in a vice and can wreck your life with a court order. Right now you need to get your shit together. Get a pen and pape…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/17 07:05 PM
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I've taken over finances for the last 8 months and slowly gotten things in order. Multiple debts were paid off, services were trimmed down and money has slowly become less of a problem. This all helped immensely as I have now moved out of the house and am living with a friend while the divorce plays out. I'm having to split my paycheck between both places but have everything under control and am still able to put more into savings. The divorce will be finalized by the end of the month so that fi…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/17 08:47 PM
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I really enjoyed the timing on this post. I just filed three weeks ago and some doubt has been creeping in ever since. She started doing keto immediately after I filed and has been much more pleasant to be around as well. While I recognize that these are short term tactics to keep me around and not indicative of real change, a part of me still wishes they were. I have to throttle that part of myself daily and remain focuses on my plans for moving out and in the coming weeks.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/04/17 10:46 PM
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You're right about that debt and it was a big fear of mine when I started looking into things. But the wife decided to abandon her career track and take a job as a teacher making less than $10 an hour. Leaving me in the bag to work more overtime to keep us afloat. The lawyers will have a field day with that if it ever goes to court so right now I'm not to worried.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/04/17 10:31 PM
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Mindset is my biggest overall weakness despite lots of good progress elsewhere. I'm constantly testing myself now to strengthen it as much as possible. This week ass bullshit on my part has only gotten me misery and needs to go.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/03/17 05:31 PM
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Thanks. I'll be moving out in two weeks. Definitely looking forward to being single again and letting myself grow even more.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/03/17 09:10 PM
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You might want to take some of her debt and trade that to keep some assets. We each have a car to our name, hers with no debt and mine with a small amount left. The house is rented and we have no major assets or funds worth fighting over. Her loan debt is 80k and I want absolutely nothing to do with that either. I appreciate the advice though. I've already spoken with several lawyers and gotten some good advice from them and believe I'm pretty safe from any nasty surprises.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/03/17 11:59 PM
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Last week I finally filed for divorce. I've spent the last 18 months improving myself and turning my life around. It's been a difficult struggle and at times I've often questioned my motivations but I knew this was a possible outcome once I started on this path. I'm not at dread level 9 or as far along as I need to be but I can comfortably say that the wife simply won't step up her game. As such she is the last bit of deadweight in my life so I'm choosing to separate and move on. The good: Men o…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/03/17 08:29 PM
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I haven't been posting much if any but I'm still going. The daily pushup routine has been getting easier and I'm going above 100 now each day. I'll try doing some different styles of them once I hit 150 in order to increase the difficulty. The other exercises have really been helping me focus my drive and examine the reasons for what I've been doing. I'm acting in a more disciplined fashion at work and home and find it easier to complete my objectives for the day.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/17 10:40 PM
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Yea, that reminder sucks. Doesn't make it any less true.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/17 10:46 PM
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You don’t know who you are. You aren’t living your life but merely existing nothing makes you feel. You’re just an apathetic individual waiting for the clock to strike the final seconds of your life. I hate you so much right now for hitting me with this. I've been struggling with a malaise for the last few months and keep circling back to this point. I've spent 18 months internalizing the pill and it has been very effective in reshaping my outlook on life and helping me restore my own self-respe…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/17 07:27 PM
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Hell I wouldn't mind working at VS for some easy money and the chance to dynamite that dumb ass pedestal. That seems like an incredibly smart idea on his part too.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/17 11:39 PM
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Just nod and smile then go back to doing whatever the hell you want. Let her hamster work itself out.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/01/17 10:49 PM
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Quit bitching here and trying to fix crazy. Give her five minutes to calm down and then call a buddy and go grab some drinks if she doesn't. Keep your phone off otherwise and come back once you've had a nice evening.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/01/17 12:57 AM
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Awesome, thanks a bunch.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/12/16 12:50 AM
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Got a link to that podcast? Sounds like it would be interesting to listen too.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/12/16 12:16 AM
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That's why you then go out and bang someone hotter just for the hell of it. And when she complains tell her to keep up or gtfo. Provided of course that you have enough money stashed away so that you can continue to afford living by yourself. If not, you better get your ass into gear and start saving.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/16 12:35 AM
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I'm in. Vices Imgur Diet coke Sleeping in past 7 Habits Read an hour every day. I've noticed that my reading actual books has gone down a lot and need to step that up. I get lots of good information from trp but nothing beats reading the actual source material and digesting it myself.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/16 10:35 PM
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Thanks, I'll check it out.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/16 11:59 PM
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I just finished reading a lot of these articles. http://www.sharischreiber.com/articles.html She has some great insights that might help you get over your relationship. They've been extremely eye-opening for me about my wife and are helping me learn just how badly I fucked up.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/16 11:42 PM
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Is that book worth getting? I keep seeing it mentioned every now and then but I'm not sure how worthwhile it actually is.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/16 05:43 PM
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Holy crap. I married one! This explains so freaking much.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/16 07:10 PM
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I'll take the jumbo value size if you can toss in general housekeeping and cooking as well.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/16 11:34 PM
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What the hell do you do to make $300 an hour? I'm looking at moving into a new field over the next year and would love to make that kind of money.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/16 06:38 PM
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Yes, I do always need to win and be right. I need for us both to win-win and take the most reasonable course of action, yes Thank you! I've been struggling to articulate this point for so long and it's been driving me nuts. This helps me make a lot more sense of all the stupid fights that I have with the wife and where I am unconsciously coming from.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/16 05:23 PM
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It has been nine months since I last posted and things have been extremely chaotic. My biggest success for the last few months has been growing a much bigger backbone and actually doing shit that I want to do regardless of her approval. This has lead to a lot of arguments but I've powered through them to decent success. Unfortunately this is extremely inconsistent which tends to cause more drama. Failures Diet: This was a struggle for me from the get go and only got more difficult as the year we…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/16 08:07 PM
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Eh, it's usually worth the effort. As much as we rag on the shitty women there are still some decent ones out there and they can be fun to hang out with. Aside from learning game to bang women you'll also be increasing your own confidence and skillset in general which can help out in plenty of other areas. So sure, you pick up the social skills and can now bang the hottie you have your eye on. Plus you're making stronger relationships with others around you so now you're having more fun with you…
/r/TheRedPill12/09/16 11:56 PM
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This is amazing to hear and just what I needed. I've been leaning in the direction of just be fair to her if divorce happened so this is a real eye opener. I won't forget this advice anytime soon.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/09/16 11:16 PM
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You can be "vulnerable" without really being vulnerable but it all depends on context and how you present it. For instance, I like to joke that I am terrified of the Amish. That usually throws women for a loop since everyone knows the Amish are just cooky but mostly harmless. This perks there interest so they always question it to find out why I'm scared of them. So I tease it out about some silly shit over their hats or churning butter. This never works and by now they're on the scent of someth…
/r/TheRedPill15/07/16 09:58 PM
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Man is love, woman is fear. Man is go, woman is stop. Man is boundless, woman is boundaries. Man at his core is nothingness, woman at her core is existence. This is something I'd expect to see in Way of the Superior Man. It easily summarizes the differences between the sexes and just how they view the world around them. Though I'd add an extra line to it, men seek to control the world, women seek to control others. Given their inherent weakness the only way they can truly be safe is to control a…
/r/TheRedPill07/07/16 08:45 PM
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Shit is slowly getting worse with no change on her part. I need to nut up and divorce her ass but I am having trouble pulling the trigger. Right now the only hold up is me.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/06/16 04:19 PM
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The wife actually tried to play that on me this year. I just laughed and turned up the volume on game of thrones instead.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/16 12:01 AM
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Going to echo /u/bogeyd6 as well but I also recommend reading The Surrendered Wife and following along with that.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/04/16 04:00 PM
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I'm with you buddy. Just working out the logistics and working up the balls to pull the trigger. It sucks to just do the daily grind for seemingly no reason for someone you don't even care about.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/16 10:57 PM
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Making Thors hammer sounds badass. Got any pics of the forging process?
/r/TheRedPill07/04/16 11:59 PM
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This was a struggle for me as well but you just need to tell that stupid mantra of "happy wife, happy life" to fuck off and die. Then go out and do something fun. Consistency is the key part here and it'll eventually grow to be second nature to you.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/16 10:11 PM
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Is dependency desirable or undesirable? For the most part it is not about independence or dependency though both can be a problem depending on the situation. The primary issue is in responsibility and the benefit/rewards that come from it. There are plenty of independent, don't need no man types out there that are utterly lacking in responsibility for themselves. Sure they have a degree with a good job but are entitled and bossy cunts. Then they get royally pissed when no good man wants anything…
/r/TheRedPill16/03/16 03:00 PM
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My cynical self suggests this is because many women don't want the burden of thinking for themselves You're giving them too much credit. A lot of times they don't want to be burdened with expectations. Thinking creates action. Action calls for results. Results can be measured. All of that is anathema to ones emotions because they most likely lead to bad feelz. The good feelings of success come only after struggle, hard work and self-improvement. So obviously you see this more often in women but …
/r/TheRedPill15/03/16 10:04 PM
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I've talked about it a few times, mostly in my BP days and it obviously never turned out well. I am working to help her with some other issues to pull her out of the abyss but it is slow going. I'm also not 100% sure she can do it without me dragging her along for the whole thing and that is completely unacceptable. She knows I'm willing to help and do everything I can but she has a lot to do on her end as well. I've made this point perfectly clear over the last few weeks, often with a violent o…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/02/16 05:18 PM
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I very much like my wife and enjoy her company when she's not being quarrelsome. We have a strong relationship and can have a lot of fun together. However my beta fuckups over three years only rewarded her bad behavior until that was the only thing I got from her. Add the rapid weight gain shortly after getting married and my life quickly became a living hell. I've spent the last 8 months putting myself back together, establishing boundaries and owning my shit with lots of good results. After lo…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/02/16 11:28 PM
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This is true and I enjoy seeing my quality of life improve and by extension the marriage. There is a frustration though that all my improvement is being wasted on her. I'm still working and slowly raising the dread level which is causing some interesting arguments to pop up as well.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/02/16 11:07 PM
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I really like this series you're putting together. Kino and game are such a vital part to keeping the fun going in the relationship. This reminded me of a random comment I saw that was along the lines of "I judge how healthy things are by how much my ass is slapped." This was pre-rp back in my pre-trp days and I chewed on it for a while as I started to realize just how many good things can be said with a firm slap. Of course that was all wasted since BP me was a total dicknuts and couldn't put t…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/02/16 09:27 PM
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I can't stress this enough. I just had a major fight with the wife the other night which ended with her hammering the wall repeatedly and putting a large hole in it. Thankfully I got the whole argument on file so I'm covered. Seriously people, always record your fights and arguments!
/r/TheRedPill11/02/16 10:16 PM
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You're right about that. I'm thinking of just going to the bar across the street from it and just watching to see what happens. I'm in Texas though so I doubt there will be much going on though.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/16 11:35 PM
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Heh. Might give that a try. But first I want to see if I can get GTA V through steam.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/16 09:04 PM
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Heh, I'm going to give this a shot and see if I can get a new gaming rig.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/16 08:33 PM
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Check out Gone Girl. Sure it's fake but it vividly shows just how far she can go to ruin a guys life.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/16 11:01 PM
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But then they turn into landwhales if you're not to careful. Better to just next them if the drama gets out of hand.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/16 06:15 PM
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Damn, what did she say to piss him off so much? Gotta give him props for him not giving a fuck about the whole thing either.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/16 04:05 PM
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The past few weeks have dealt a few setbacks to my plans and have made an already difficult journey even tougher. The wife continues to be quarrelsome and we're having a lot more stupid fights. She claims depression and needs me to be around more. The problem is that I am extremely busy just keeping us afloat that I can't give her the attention she needs/demands. That being said, I'm still owning a lot. Gym - Still hitting it three days a week and seeing slow but steady progress. The wife has st…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/16 09:31 PM
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I stalled out on OHP for a while until I got some .5lb and 1lb weights to add to it. Sure it's not a lot but I can always add just a tiny bit more each time to break through a plateau. Then I fucked up my shoulder and reset everything back to square one which was kind of annoying but oh well.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/16 04:06 PM
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but women disrespecting their men seems to be the trend this week. Women disrespecting their men is the default for modern society.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/16 04:01 PM
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I got the same thing a few times as well and it was funny to remind her just how hard it'd be to blow through that much money. Seriously, just zero self-awareness about anything beyond the immediate moment.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/16 04:00 PM
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Sounds like you're getting off to a decent if rough start. I'll just echo the rest of the guys and say take it slow. You spent years digging this hole for yourself and it'll take a while to get out of it. A couple of things to keep in mind beyond the basics of stfu and lift are building hobbies and investing in your own time. Me, I do habitat for humanity and woodworking. I enjoy the later as it lets me easily get away if she's being annoying. Just step out into the garage and I'm in my domain. …
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/16 12:00 AM
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Just give yourself a quick "adjust" to test out the thing and make sure it's still in the right position.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/16 04:58 PM
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I was a party girl. I drank like a fish, smoked pot, and fucked everything with a swinging dick - wasn't on the pill, didn't use condoms, and usually let the guy come inside me. I'm surprised I didn't get pregnant or get a disease. Then I sobered up a little and met my husband. Wow, that part sounds familiar. He was sweet, super shy, didn't drink, smoke, do drugs, and was a verifiable virgin. Fuck, that's me! And those sluts wonder why their husbands resent them so much after getting married.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/16 07:46 PM
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I was driving home the other day with the wife and just listened as she talked for 10 minutes without any input from me. I was rather impressed with her ability to turn "I don't like doing stuff for you mom," into a full on speech. All you can really do is roll your eyes and laugh at the stupidity of it all.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/15 09:34 PM
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Basically it means always apologizing and jumping whenever she snaps her fingers. If you don't then you're ignoring her and thus not committed to the relationship and it's obvious that she's the only one who cares. And I have the perfect example from last night . So the wife is out babysitting for some close friends of hers and I have the house to myself. I've already put in a 10 hour day since she won't get a real job so I'm happy to have the time alone. I do a few things around the house then …
/r/TheRedPill29/12/15 09:06 PM
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Out for hookers and blow. Only if I'm in a monty pyhton sketch. Meh, could you get me a burger while you're out?
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/15 09:22 PM
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You're right that it might be the wrong move if she's improving as well. My thought is to blow past it in such a way that she won't use it against him in the future. If he lays it to rest hard and gets her to laugh and move on then it becomes just another one of those silly things instead of something that'll stick around painfully.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/12/15 05:54 PM
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This seems like a perfect time for no fucks and AM. Just grin, own your shit and tease her. Find the qualities you most like about her or that she is most proud of and say you couldn't go with those girls because of X. Make it some silly quality like the way she folds clothes or something. Just have fun with it. You've done nothing wrong so why worry. It's just like flirting with the waitress in front of her. Who cares what she thinks, you're just being social and having fun. But the most import…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/12/15 05:03 PM
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Work on your OI, shred the divorce papers, and stop living in fear of a divorce. If your wife threatens it, don't respond. It's probably just a bluff and you calling it will cut her last cord of control. Don't explicitly mention the divorce when you call her bluff. By all means go get a lawyer and start making preparations, but until she actually goes down and gets the papers, signs them and delivers them, it's meaningless. I appreciate the advice but at this point I'm done. The fact that she wo…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/12/15 10:11 PM
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It's been a long month since my last post and the marriage continues its slow motion collapse. I've been busting my ass doing a lot of woodworking for the wife's shop. We make lawn art and have been selling a lot for the holidays. Work and that keeps me pretty busy. It's also something more for her to rely on me for though I get no appreciation or acknowledgement of it. This is not creating a covert contract either but more something that simply would be nice to get. Not getting it doesn't stop …
/r/MarriedRedPill03/12/15 10:15 PM
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Thanks for the clarification on this. I'll give Jeremiah a re-read as well.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/15 05:42 PM
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So how did God treat his "Bride" when she abadnoned him and was disobedient? I will forsake my house, abandon my inheritance; I will give the one I love into the hands of her enemies. 8 My inheritance has become to me like a lion in the forest. She roars at me; therefore I hate her. I'm a bit confused by all this. Can you elaborate some and show a bit more context?
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/15 03:08 PM
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I prefer to use evernote and keep the program locked down. Obviously it's not a physical copy but it's more secure for me and accessible almost anywhere.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/15 07:02 PM
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That's good to hear. I have a loveable little guy of my own and seeing people casually abuse them just makes me rage.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/15 09:02 PM
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I'm more sorry for the dog than Gary. Sometimes people just don't want to be helped.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/15 07:53 PM
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What sucks for me is that she has been diagnosed with PCOS by two different docs and that's one of the few conditions that does make it easy to gain weight and hard to lose it on a standard diet. However the simplest and most effective way to manage it is with a ketogenic diet and she refuses to stick with it for more than two weeks. And until she gets her weight down she'll be unable to get pregnant. Which sucks for me because I'm ready to have kids.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/15 07:08 PM
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I do apperciate the advice and if we were dating then I would have dumped her ass a long time ago. Being married makes the breakup a lot more difficult and painful.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/15 09:46 PM
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I'm in an odd place when it comes to all this. Overall I'm content with the relationship and haven't actually checked out. She's still someone I enjoy hanging out with and she does make my life better in some areas. The weight however is becoming an increasingly large problem that I can't ignore for much longer. So I plan to drop the "lose the weight or lose me" speech around new years and see where that goes. I'm just not in a hurry to end a reasonably good thing right before the holidays and d…
/r/TheRedPill12/11/15 08:45 PM
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Just checked it out and they have some really good deals.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/15 06:13 PM
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a relatively attractive man holding hands with a ham beast. This is me right now and it sucks. Especially having to deal with all her various insecurities when it comes to being a hambeast as well. She actually gets upset when I look at progresspics for inspiration because it gives me unrealistic expectations.... I just roll my eyes and keep doing whatever now. I can't wait to kick her lazy ass to the curb in a few months.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/15 05:53 PM
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I find that mocking the silent treatment gets me the best results especially if I haven't done anything worth getting butthurt about. I'll try chatting like everything is normal and if nothing changes then I'll just roll my eyes at her, give her a stupid grin then say "I'm going to play destiny or do woodworking unless you have something else to say." Then proceed to do whatever I want and have fun. She'll come out after an hour and watch me for a bit but I won't say anything cause I'm already e…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/15 03:56 PM
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Just curious, how much did yours cost and how long was the recovery for it?
/r/TheRedPill11/11/15 05:53 PM
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A man can not just say "Fuck it, my job is too stressful. I want to stay at home.". My wife did this back in august. It's been a fun ride ever since. I can't imagine the shitstorm that would ensue if I did the same thing.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/15 06:03 PM
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And being reasonably attractive never hurts. Hillary is just painful to look at.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/15 10:19 PM
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Sadly TRP can't fix everything in a marriage. Just because I improve on all fronts doesn't mean she'll get any better.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/11/15 01:38 PM
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That wouldn't be the worst idea I've ever had.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/11/15 01:37 PM
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Sit her down, tell her in no uncertain terms the only time you get a 2 am nudge better be for sex, she's dying, someone else is dying, or she shit the bed, in that order. She will try to talk to you in the future, until you enforce the first time so be ready. That's already the plan for tonight. Thanks for the advice though.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/10/15 10:33 PM
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This has been an ongoing issue for four years now. At this point I just don't care anymore.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/10/15 10:29 PM
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Will do. I'm not sure why I explained it to her either instead of cracking a joke. Definitely a fail on my part there which lead to a whole host of other problems.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/10/15 10:28 PM
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You'd be surprised. I have a fat wife and it sucks. I'd rather use my hand any day of the week than stick it in her. And yes, I know I need to get out and am working towards that with my own MAP.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/15 08:19 PM
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Any recommendations for getting started with this? It sounds like something I'd get a kick out of but I wouldn't know where to start beyond buying a bike.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/10/15 12:13 PM
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Yea, I understand where I messed which is why I included it. It's why I also mentioned /u/jacktenofhearts post since he had a great one on playing by her rules while slowly changing them to yours. I wanted to point out a specific example of doing that so others could see. As for her comfort I really don't care. She's such a basket case of issues from prior relationships that I'd need to walk on eggshells 24/7 to never upset her. I don't care anymore and I just do whatever and have fun. That's wh…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/10/15 12:11 PM
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Goes through your phone and wakes you up as CIA interrogation tactic...yeah you need some firmer boundaries. So not OK. I don't care about the phone thing that much since we both can do it but the waking up really does bug me. I never thought I'd have to set a boundary for something so obvious as this. As for your other point, I see what you mean but there is no covert contract. I would as always appreciate any acknowledgement of all the work I'm doing but I expect absolutely nothing from her. I…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/10/15 12:02 PM
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Just a few observations I made after dealing with a minor event. This has happened once or twice before since I started unplugging and I failed badly at them. I was finally able to mostly knock it out of the park and thought I'd share for other guys struggling to unplug.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/10/15 09:32 PM
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If she wants out, she has to be the bad guy who filed for divorce. She has to leave the house. She has to leave her children. That's complete and utter social destruction for her unless she has some social cover, such as abuse. (Which wouldn't hold up, as she left the children with you.) This applies so much to my current situation. I'm going to initiate the main event tonight and this will be front and center in how I handle her reactions. Her reaction to me doing this will be priceless. Is it …
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/15 02:54 PM
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Wow, can't believe it's been a month since I've done this so a recap for me. I am either burnt out or getting very close to it. I'm still at the 50+ hour weeks at work with an additional 10 for school and another 10/20 for woodworking. While woodworking itself is very enjoyable for me and relaxing, I'm not getting the benefit I need out of it because all my effort is put into making things for the wife to sell at craft fairs. Finances are tight and getting tighter by the week with no end in sigh…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/10/15 10:19 PM
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I dunno. If he's as big a player as he makes himself out to be could he actually just enjoy her company and doing a slow game?
/r/TheRedPill20/10/15 08:57 PM
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I've read plenty of it and have been getting decent success with implementation. I just liked your list because it just really simplifies the whole thing.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/10/15 06:13 PM
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I like how a suggested article for the story is about the lack of male feminists too. Talk about your mixed signals.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/15 02:38 PM
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That's the simplest way to think of TRP that I've ever seen.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/10/15 02:14 PM
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I'm already doing the deadlift part but I can probably add some hanging leg lifts as well. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/15 03:59 PM
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That sounds pretty reasonable. I have a body weight routine that incorporates those that I'll be starting in November.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/15 03:59 PM
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What do you think is the most effective way to get pronounced abs. I know that diet and low BF% are key factors for that but I'd like to know what you think are the best exercises are for those. Right now I'm two months into starting strength and am looking to add some more to it as well.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/15 01:39 PM
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Well that gave me something to chew on for a little bit. Aside from the kisses that I'm obligated to give her I barely show her much affection and if I stopped doing that then we'd literately just be roommates. I don't want to say I don't love her since I really do enjoy my time with her when she's not being bitchy. But without any attraction it's hard for me to feel much of anything like desire for for her. And with no desire theirs no love so all I'm left with is my commitment to the marriage.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/10/15 06:46 PM
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I've only read Wild at Heart 10 years ago and it was such an inspiring read. Of course I was an idiot then and never fully applied it to my life. I'll definitely give it another read along with those other books you mentioned as well.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/10/15 04:00 PM
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You're assuming I want sex with her. I don't and most of the time it's a pity fuck because she wants it. I'm still unfucking myself as well and I have made a lot of improvements mentally. Now I'm focusing on they physical side so I can start running an effective dread game.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/10/15 02:50 PM
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I need to start doing this as well but if I did then it'd only get said about every two weeks. Sex doesn't happen much and I honestly don't want to have sex with my wife until she starts getting in better shape. Right now it's just something I say to her every night before going to sleep and will get a response if she's haaaaaappy. Oh well, don't care. Right now the marriage is on minimal effort auto-pilot while I get my shit together more.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/10/15 02:24 PM
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Sweet, this will be fun. Yesterday was an easy gym day. Doing starting strength and did squat, bench and overhead press. I've been out of commission for three weeks so I'm go low and slow so as not to hurt myself. I also smashed my index finger so my grip strength is off. I'll be holding off on deadlift and power cleans for a little longer.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/15 10:03 PM
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I would have killed to find this in my 20s and to apply it then as well. Oh well, better to start at 31 than never start at all.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/15 10:08 PM
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Shit, now I'm actually curious where I stand.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/15 09:40 PM
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Nah, just keep her chained to the oven. She really doesn't need to leave the kitchen for anything. /s
/r/TheRedPill25/09/15 01:17 PM
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Thanks but I wasn't looking for advice, more just empathizing with how difficult it can be. I've thought about trying on the weekend but that's when I do a lot of studying and woodworking. I know it's all about trade-offs for now. Aside from time the next issue is tight finances which I hope to have resolved by the end of the year. It'll be worth all the trouble though once I get some more cisco certifications and can actually get a better paying job that'll give me a lot more free time.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/15 01:16 PM
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Go shove a hamster up your ass!
/r/TheRedPill24/09/15 10:41 PM
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It's a generally good thing to have but like everything else it's best in moderation. My personal example is that I have a lot of respect for my wife. Overall she's a decent human being when she's not being an emotional ragebeast and I thoroughly enjoy her company. I have lots of respect for her when it comes to childcare and the artistic side of things and will gladly seek her advice on those areas. The beta side takes that basic respect though, extends it way to far and then starts differing t…
/r/TheRedPill24/09/15 03:59 PM
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I hear you when it comes to having trouble finding a strong group of male friends. I'm in a different boat though since my time is extremely limited so that makes the process even more difficult. Right now I'd like to find a climbing group or join an mma gym and see if I can start making friends there. But as much as I'd like to I honestly don't know where I'd get the extra time. Plus I have a wife to deal with too so that limits my personal time even more.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/15 03:42 PM
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Yea, she's a paradox all right. Oh wait, AWALT. Seriously red the side bar and focus on rational male year one. That'll give you some of the best insight into her confusing nature. Next, define your boundaries and principles and fucking stick to them. If she's inline with them then give her your attention. If not then ignore and do something else. The key point is STICKING TO THEM. She wants and needs you to be consistent and her oak. You give her that security by being true to yourself come hel…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/09/15 08:39 PM
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Thanks for the advice, I'll be sure to try it today. As for the woodworking, I'm still getting started. Right now it's just making basic benches from others plans and anything else I find interesting. My big project right now is making a bunch of peanuts cutouts for christmas. Basically this image but 4' tall. I'll also have Snoopy's doghouse in it as well. Hopefully make a few hundred off of that.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/09/15 06:41 PM
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Bring a copy of playboy with you when you go.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/15 04:52 PM
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I'm good with words and have done a few small blogs in the past so I'll be happy to help.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/15 10:51 PM
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My last two weeks have not been ideal, starting to get burnt out and need to nip it in the bud. Health and fitness: Been sickish for the last two weeks so haven't gotten my time in the iron temple. Now back to normal but I have a possible broken finger that needs to be checked. Will do that tonight then get back to some working out on thursday. Diet has mostly been crap as well. Neither gaining or losing so there's that at least. I'll prep some healthy food for tomorrow and start being more proa…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/09/15 10:46 PM
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Smile, shrug your shoulders and give her a bag of skittles then move on. Hamster will go into overdrive after that.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/15 08:57 PM
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Bill Burr said it best here. Just do that or something similar once a month instead and your guy will happier than a tornado in a trailer park.
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/15 01:42 PM
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Too bad we can't fix one problem and swap it out for ones that are fun and we don't need to solve. Like should she wear the short skirt with or without undies.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/15 08:05 PM
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Go with either serial killer or adventuring and let the hamster go from there.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/15 06:46 PM
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You're doing it wrong. You don't force her to do something especially when it comes to childbirth. If it's that vital too you and you know a hell of a lot more about it than she does then you be a strong captain and lead her in the right direction. Also, that RP doc sounds sketchy as fuck.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/15 06:31 PM
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Just going to echo a few others here on stfu. I'm nearly three months in and that has been the most useful tool you have when getting started. Just keep your damn mouth shut about this and if she pries for more information just say "I want to be the best man possible" and leave it at that. Focus on NMMNG and WISIFG, those two will lay the foundation for you. Then read the book of pook. It is a wealth of great information on living and helps you understand just how FUN it is to be a man. Because …
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/15 06:28 PM
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don't stab me safety protocols Yea, that last bit is the most important part. Right up there with the "bring me a beer" option.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/15 12:44 PM
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Eh, I don't mind the shit tests that much now. Once you recognize them then it just becomes a game to play. Though I'll admit to being a tad more combative and oppositional than most people so verbal sparring is just lots of fun for me.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/15 01:04 PM
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All the long hours have finally caught up with me and I came down with some minor cold/flu on saturday which is just how I wanted to start the long weekend. I didn't let it slow me down much and built a really cool folding bench and picnic table. Probably shouldn't have pushed myself that hard but I'd been looking forward to doing it all week and I wasn't going to let a little bug stop me. Shit tests are down overall and the wife seems to be generally happier. We had a tense fight on friday nigh…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/15 10:53 PM
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I'm right there with you on this. It's my biggest weakness as well and I'm working on it. My blue ass mindset is very deeply entrenched when it comes to wanting to validate her emotions and blah blah so it takes a deliberate effort to pull away. It's even more difficult when she is on the period or comes to me with an actual grievance and not a bs one. All I can say is take it one day at a time and always move slowly when your wife brings up the emotional bs. Try not to get bogged down and alway…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/15 03:20 PM
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Checking in with another decent week. I think most of the good vibes are coming from the fact that time with the wife is so limited. Which is probably not a good thing but it's something I'll be keeping in mind as I prep for my 3 month FR. Work is still 55+ hours a week and I've added night classes to my schedule as well. Mon and Weds I am now out the door at 5:30 and home a little after 10. The extra time at work is used to study but now I'm worrying about burnout kicking in. This is my 5th wee…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/09/15 11:35 PM
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I thought about doing this a few years back and played around with a bunch of templates. You're right about it being easy to learn but what I always got stumped on was pitching it to the customer. Do you talk with them to find a general layout they like and then find a few templates that match it and customize from there. Or do you show them various templates from sites like themeforest or templatemonster and go from there? Just curious as I would really like to get into this for more side money…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/15 06:01 PM
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This exactly. I was on the bad end of a minor reddit witchhunt and the only thing I wanted to do for a week was to hide out and not get found. Thankfully that blew over relatively quickly but now I tend to give people the benefit of the doubt when they're the newest two minutes of hate focus.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/15 12:55 PM
2

That's what FWB status is for though right?
/r/TheRedPill04/09/15 12:46 PM
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This is just a personal anecdote but just about every home schooled person I've met has been ferociously intelligent and very social. Since home schooling is a lot more widespread there are actual home school associations where that the families are involved in and provide lots of opportunities for healthy socialization. Some of the bigger ones even have a limited athletics team as well. The two cavets being that I'm from Texas and most of them I met while going to Texas A&M so I can't really ac…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/09/15 12:20 PM
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This was fairly laid back week after the painfully rocky start. Still working 60 hours a week so that's a huge drag on my time. I just got my first big paycheck and it's not going to be enough to make up for the wife quitting. She'll need to step up her game and sell furniture or do whatever to make more money to cover the shortfall. Also, fuck the bastard that thought it was a good idea to tax overtime pay like bonus pay. Besides that, classes start next week so my limited free time will become…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/08/15 06:11 PM
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I'm with /u/enfier on this one. Divvy up the budget and give her a percentage to maintain per her income. Basically give her some skin in the game and force her to take responsibility for her actions. And if she can't stick with a real job then tell her to start her own. Hell, someone on /r/startup just did an ama on a cloth diaper delivery service she has. If she can make money off that then I'm sure your wife can find something to do. My wife did something similar at the beginning of the month…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/08/15 12:13 PM
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Eh, I'm kind of mixed on it. When I got married, yea first mistake there, I insisted on two things for the house. That I have my own office space and that I get to yay/nay any decorations to the house. 90% of the time I'll just say yes because as /u/DesertFox1986 says, she has a better taste for decorating. The other 10% of the time it's to girly or I just flat out don't like it and she'll drop it. She's also done a great job of incorporating my stuff into the overall design so you can easily te…
/r/TheRedPill26/08/15 12:22 PM
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Jeez, and I thought "work shall set you free" was a dark joke. Man that just puts an awful spin on the whole thing.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/15 12:11 PM
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Yea, I'm figuring the same thing. The only issue really holding me back from pulling the trigger is the social stigma. I come from a more traditional family and it's taking a lot of work to break free of all that conditioning.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/15 02:51 PM
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this is so bad. and it's bad because it's hollow. it erodes your integrity. her being pissed and offended isn't your fucking problem. don't let her make it yours. if, on the other hand, you're going out of your way to piss her off, then own it I'm hit or miss when it comes to this. I'm coming from a career beta lifestyle so I'm constantly going against a lifetime of ingrained behaviors. It's getting easier though with time and practice so I'm not to terribly worried about it. I'm already doing i…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/08/15 04:49 PM
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I don't think she's crying out for attention for the most part. I mainly attributed it to stress and period bs but this is excessive even for her. For the most part I'm thinking it's low level tension from my new cocky, dgaf attitude.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/15 10:14 PM
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The last two weeks have been pretty decent but the good run ended in a spectacular fashion over the weekend. The weight spiked hard two weeks ago due to a major change in my work schedule. I'm now working 12 hour days everyday and the change threw me off. I've gotten it under control and it has started to fall off again now. Work is now 6-6 and I have to be much more judicious with my time. I've let the wife know that she has to bring in money as well and I'll be keeping the heat up on this. I h…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/15 08:08 PM
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First world problems for the most part. They have no major challenges in life so they make up some great demon for them to struggle against. Its why you never saw as much of this before the 20th century. The crazies would die off fairly quickly from lack of resources and any that didn't die where usually too focused on day to day survival to be distracted by a mental health issue. I'm not saying that people weren't depressed or there was no bi-polar issues either but the necessities of living to…
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 01:30 PM
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Hence woman says "men should marry an old whale", all the other hamsters agree, and women end up believing it. Men disagreeing are wrong. It's consensus by feelz. What feelz good is right, what's right is what feelz good. I just finished a post from the red pill room about how the FSM works and it just blew my mind. I've been applying it to so many of my past encounters and I can see how it's worked now. Mostly to my determent though.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/15 02:35 PM
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How dare you ignore trans, disabled and kin types you racists shitlord! By not including them you are literally wiping them from existence!!! /s
/r/TheRedPill17/08/15 02:02 PM
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Far from it. Just a statement of fact and I deal with it as best as possible. Doesn't mean I don't wish things were a little more predictable at times.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/08/15 08:21 PM
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I wish it was that simple for me. My wifes cycle is fucking nuts and is impossible to track. She'll miss periods, have them come at different times, or go months without ovulating. It makes an already difficult situation even moreso. Though posts like this are always appreciated and helps me deal with her tests a little better every time.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/08/15 04:20 PM
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Where is shittywatercolor when you need him?
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 01:05 PM
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No harm no foul. I could have worded it better anyway. But yea, I'm just enjoying my frame and calling stuff out when it needs to be called out.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/15 06:04 PM
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No fucks were given since I was focused on fixing the car. I didn't care about swatting a shit test, just laid down that it wasn't acceptable and went back to the car. And yea, the job thing has been a touchy subject. I'm now working 60 hours to keep us afloat.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/15 06:00 PM
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It doesn't bother me in the slightest. I just wanted to make an observation about it and post something besides "wife did this, did I pass the shit test." There's more to marriedredpill than just dealing with shit tests and I wanted to point it out something I found entertaining.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/15 05:13 PM
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Oh I've been doing that and your advice has been helpful in making that happen as well. Still only two months in so changes won't happen overnight. I just wanted to make an observation on how common this stupid mindset is.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/15 04:55 PM
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How are you doing this? With what tone? The way it's written reeks of immaturity, TBH. If you're going to address it at all, why not do it in a way where she understands at an emotional level how disrespectful it is? I handled it well and in a basic no-nonsense manner that it was unacceptable. I could have teased her more about it but I was working with her Dad and trying to learn how to change the rotors so I was more focused on that. It is still up there which is kind of annoying so I'll figur…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/15 04:53 PM
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Sad to say but your wife seems to have found Jane Thundercunt instead of a Chad. She did things with the other woman that she tells me she doesn't like (foreplay) and admitted that she got wet with the other man whereas when we have sex we have to use lube I changed one thing there. You're call now.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/15 04:29 PM
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You still have a long way to go bud. I'm 6 weeks in and still feel like I'm just at the tip of the iceberg. This is not a race and not some quick battle you win with the wife. Something that helps me a lot is to keep a small journal for each day. Just make a quick note of what you and she did, the responses, any shit tests and what did or didn't happen. I use evernote on my phone and spend 10 minutes before work in the morning writing down my thoughts. Learn from my mistake and either password p…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/08/15 11:53 AM
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Well there's Kennedy but that depends on your definition of recent.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 06:24 PM
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Also there are plenty of captain saveahos out there willing to put up with a fat wife in order to get any sex. I made that mistake four years ago and have been struggling to undo it ever since.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 12:56 PM
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As a man you are basically limited to your own achievements in life, whatever you do will be the most you are. Women have it very differently, they can attach themselves like a symbiotic relationship and increase all their achievements to the level of their man. Case in point, Hillary Clinton. Seriously, what the hell has she done that makes her think she should even run for president, much less have the job.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 12:53 PM
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I'm only a few months in so first take what I have to say with a grain of salt. You seem to have deep seated issues with your masculinity and the importance of being Male. That's understandable given your upbringing and other cultural factors have not helped you much in that area either. You need to discover and embrace your purpose and hold fast to that. Now this isn't your career or any of the small shit you do around the house, this is your life long mission. And the most important thing you …
/r/MarriedRedPill06/08/15 12:19 PM
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It's on the table now, thanks OI, and has lead to some improvements in the wife already. I'm accepting how AWALT when it comes to being manipulative bitches but this one has the upbringing and mindset to be a pretty decent wife once I fully embrace the RP. I'm two months in now though it helps that I had an inkling on a lot of RP truths for the longest time but never had it explained in a coherent manner. So I've been able to breeze through the anger stage and immediately start applying the stuf…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 11:50 AM
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Heh, I was active in FPH before it got banned too so you can imagine just how bad it can be. I've made it clear a time or two that I have no attraction for her and that my desire is for her to maintain a healthy weight and active lifestyle. And while I'm not in great shape, I am in decent shape and am only 15 lbs overweight. Nothing that two months of hard work can't fix. I'm happy for her because I don't like to see her suffer and she was getting beatdown physically and emotionally on a daily b…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/15 06:42 PM
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I really appreciate the comments on this. The whole process is difficult but this constructive advice makes it a lot easier. Fuck that, let her get mad. Found your porn stash? Well if she was riding your dick like she should be, you wouldn't need it. She should be glad that you aren't going out and finding her replacement... yet. Well, I look at porn cause she's fat and I have no desire for her. Ironically enough she loves sex and wants it all the time so a lot of her anger was I was using porn …
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/15 04:43 PM
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I'm honestly not sure. After the fight I was thrown into an insanely busy weekend and haven't had much time to process it all. I've spoken with a close friend who knows about all this and he thought that the wife was more hurt by the fact that she was not involved and that I had one-sided opinions about certain interactions. I'd like to set up boundaries but it'd be difficult seeing as we had a major issue two months ago when she found my porn stash. Not sure how that would go over if I suddenly…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/15 03:25 PM
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It's been a rough week here and I've been struggling with some underlying weaknesses that aren't making things any easier. Last week involved a lot of fighting. The majority of it was centered around stupid emotional bs because she would get butthurt over innocuous statements that I'd make. And I'm still venting a little about this but Illumintables newest article about dealing with womens emotions have been very useful. I'm reading a lot of those now and will hopefully be able to apply them to …
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/15 02:18 PM
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I really like reading this and you bring up some great points when it comes to how women can and do perceive rape. I can also empathize with how a woman can feel this way because I'm in the same situation. My wife just loves sex, was raised to always be available to her husband and is also fairly open to a most of my kinks. All in all a pretty good catch for the most part. Except she's fat, lazy and out of shape and thus I have absolutely zero desire for her. I'm no chad myself and she definitel…
/r/TheRedPill04/08/15 11:59 AM
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I'm right there with you. It's nice to see things laid out so concisely as well. It'll definitely help me with my interactions with others. Hopefully I can use it to do better with messy, emotional bs as well.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/15 10:04 PM
1

The week was good overall. The wife was out of town on the weekend so I had a nice chance to just relax in silence and be extremely productive around the house. I put the finishing touches on one of my benches and made a small end table from some of the scraps. They both turned out nicely and I'm really proud of them. I've now moved onto my next project and while it's relatively simple, there is a lot to do so it will take a few months. Looking to try and start selling the benches to get a littl…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/07/15 08:16 PM
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Not sure I can agree with that. A fetish doesn't necessarily have to some subconscious thing to get women who are more accessible. For me, I have some towards latex/rubber outfits and bdsm. In the bdsm scene there are lots of disgusting hamplanets and you can tell some are in it because that's the only way you can get it. Others who are more alpha and in control of their life get the hotties. And then when it comes to latex, well it's brutally unforgiving unless you take good care of yourself. T…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 02:45 PM
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Tumblrinaction would like to have some words with you about misappropriating their kin-types you shitlord.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 02:21 PM
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No thanks, I'd rather take the shower instead.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 02:17 PM
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pity the 30-something sexually inexperienced beta male who thinks he's found a 'mentallly mature' woman he can have a mutually respectful, trusting relationship with. He has entered a lifetime of psychological warfare with a resentful woman who has the exact wrong kind of relationship history. Yea, that was me when I married her at 28. Dumbest fucking mistake I've ever made in my entire life. Now after 3.5 years of an increasingly shitty marriage I finally hit my breaking point and discovered th…
/r/TheRedPill27/07/15 02:10 PM
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I have the same problem. Usually I just roll with it and tease her before pulling her ass onto the floor. Though other times like last sunday when I accidentally elbowed her hard in the boob, I did apologize because I could tell I actually hurt her. Other than that there is no need to say anything.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/07/15 04:15 PM
1

I feel you when it comes to this as well. I grew up with four younger sisters so I'm a tad more sensitive to dealing with womens emotions than I want to be. It's hard for me to just say "fuck it" and do whatever but it's what needs to be done. Just focus on being an asshole, not a dick and keep reading WISNIFG. That's been helping me a lot in being more assertive with what is important to me.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/07/15 03:12 PM
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Tumblerinaction would be proud.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/15 02:40 PM
1

Rents due and the money just isn't in the budget. I've checked. I'm also working on getting the financial house in order too but that's going to take a few months to get fully sorted out.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/15 06:31 PM
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I don't have much more to add to what everyone else is saying. Though I would recommend taking some of the lessons from MMSL to heart and applying them to your marriage. Your wife desires a strong and confident man. Make her feel safe and secure and she'll most likely start becoming more open and willing in the sex department.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/15 05:05 PM
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Forgot to add mine last week but I'm really enjoying reading all these. I'm slowly reading through WISNIFG but it's a bit more of a slog than the others I've read. Still making my way through the rest of the sidebar and lots of rational male. Rollo does a fantastic job of breaking down everything and making it very understandable. I'm just continually impressed with everything I learn from this. I've been keeping a daily log since the 4th and have been trying to track my interactions with the wi…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/15 04:51 PM
1

This. Say no and then double extra bonus points when you pass the literal waterfall of shit tests. Might also get you laid that night. She says she wants a beta bux push over but what she needs is an upright man who WILL stand up for himself. This translates in her cave mind exactly to being able to also stand up for himself outside in the wild. This is my biggest struggle so far. She'll ask me to go with her while running errands, I say no and she guilts me with "but I want to hang out with you…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/07/15 05:13 PM
1

If anything all this has taught me is to have my phone recording all audio the entire time I'm with someone. Let her lie and all then present the evidence at a trial and get her nailed for perjury.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/15 03:13 PM
1

Just remember, you're the captain here. You can always find a way to make time. Even if it's just an hour a day.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/07/15 02:32 PM
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I'd suggest investing in a hobby that can also provide a nice stream of extra income. I'm currently getting into woodworking and it's really enjoyable. It lets me turn $30 worth of wood into a $150 bench in a few hours. There is an initial upfront cost of getting all the gear you need but it'll quickly pay for itself. Though your mileage may vary especially since you're in the UK and my understanding is houses are ridiculously small over there and you might not have enough space for that.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/07/15 01:59 PM
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I agree whole heartedly with what you're saying and really feel for the guys who are trapped in a sexless marriage. I'm sort of lucky in that my wife was raised to always be available to her husband and she does live up to that. She also has a high sex drive even after blowing past the wall. Despite these good qualities I still only get bad sex about once or twice a week and this is by my choice. The reason for this is that she is 6" shorter and about 40lbs heavier than me. So fat starfish sex. …
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/15 06:13 PM
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Seems about normal for women when they are being lead right. My wife does the same thing when I pick out a dinner for date night. She'll tell me that she's not feeling mexican or something and old me would have negotiated something else. New me just cracks a joke and goes on with the rest of the plans. She'll fall into line after a few minutes of grumbling and then usually suggest a different place like Velvet Taco instead of Fuzzy's. Now I'm just making a choice between two good places instead …
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/15 08:32 PM
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Saving this for the future when I need a little extra motivation
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/15 06:47 PM
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That made me laugh way harder than it should have.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/15 01:56 PM
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I'm working slowly and steadily on building my frame and restoring my own self-respect. I've made some decent strides so far but I still have a long way to go until I stop being an AFC. The wife for her part is starting to lay down the shit tests non-stop.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/15 08:51 PM
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Men used to be able to know that a woman's gonna be supporting their goals. Work might be tough but you come home to a cooked dinner and a clean house thus giving you the strength, comfort, release, and environment conducive to high performance and drive. Now, work's tough and this 30 year old ungrateful bitch who probably barely shows up to work, thus making only 77% of what you make, is claiming to be too tired to handle your house? You marry her and risk your assets for the privilege of being…
/r/TheRedPill08/07/15 05:05 PM
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Dude, I've only been immersing myself in this for a month and even I know you should GTFO of this. Seriously, I sometimes wish my wife would have an affair just so I can make a clean break from this shitshow of a marriage. Yes, some marriages can recover from an affair but they usually have more than two years of history to go on. Plus your attitude would only make her hate you more in the long run and cause her to seek out someone else again and again. Not that there's anything wrong with being…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/07/15 03:11 PM
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No kidding. I'm doing a reread on NMMNG and it just blows my mind how twisted my logic was on how I interacted with others. And the sad part was that I was consciously aware of so much of what I was doing but I had no idea just how fucked up that mental paradigm was.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/07/15 02:55 PM
1

Thanks for the links. I'll add them to the top of my growing read pile.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/15 08:08 PM
1

Hmm, these are some very valid points. I'll need to take a closer look at some of the scripture and see what it says.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/15 08:07 PM
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Thanks, I'll check it out.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/15 08:07 PM
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The hilariously sad part about this is that the wife is willing and eager for sex. She's also 80 lbs overweight and it's nearly instant boner death to see her naked.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/15 08:07 PM
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Thanks, that was inline with what I was thinking too.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/15 06:47 PM
1

Thanks, I've been reading some of his stuff and really like what he has to say. My eyes are starting to bleed from reading so much so fast over the last few weeks.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/15 06:47 PM
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Something I'm struggling with while unplugging and haven't really seen much is how Christianity and the church play into all of this. The wife and I both grew up in a Christian household so we obviously have the no divorce thing beat into our heads from a young age. Actively thinking about it as a possibility is difficult for me right now but is something I'm slowly starting to accept. Seeing as how I was rocking the BP for so long I'd basically abdicated my leadership role in the house and for …
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/15 05:19 PM
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I'm just getting started here too and have only read NMMNG and am finishing MMSL. They'll give you a lot to think about and really open your eyes. The biggest takeaway I'm getting is to just be patient and always be working towards self improvement. Everything else will start to fall in line after that.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/15 02:48 PM
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Got it sent. Just an fyi that the file is kind of wonky. I have to read it with the dropbox pdf viewer on my android phone. Everything else just errors out.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/06/15 07:19 PM
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I printed out a lot of these and tapped them to the door in my office. I'm just working off them and they're really helping me out for the most part. http://www.unfuckyourhabitat.com/cleaning-checklists/
/r/MarriedRedPill30/06/15 06:23 PM
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I have a copy of it. Shoot me a pm with your email and I'll forward it to you. I've been reading it on my phone for the last few days.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/06/15 06:22 PM
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I'm still new to RP and have been tearing through the reading but I still have a long way to go. For the last year I have been growing more aware of just how out of whack my marriage has been getting and just how far I've fallen and just how far I need to go to get better. Discovering the RP has helped to accelerate my progression as well as provide a road map for self improvement. And boy do I need a lot of it. In no particular order I have to work on general aimlessness minor addiction finance…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/06/15 04:55 PM
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Eh, RES does it all for me so I rarely even think about it. But you do have a decent point and some names came be reflective of bad self-image. Mine was just stupidly tongue-in-cheek cause why not.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/06/15 09:27 PM
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Hey, that's my name! I made it since I started posting on fatlogic and didn't want the wife to see it on the main account.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/06/15 09:06 PM
1

Will do. First gotten strengthen my frame and up my SMV a bit more.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/06/15 07:52 PM
1

Ah gotcha.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/06/15 07:44 PM
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I'm already minmizing it somewhat though I doubt I'll ever fully give it up. I been doing more woodworking lately as a side hobby and volunteering my time with Habitat for Humanity so that leaves a lot less time to waste on that.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/06/15 07:20 PM
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Thanks. Glad some people could learn from my mistakes here. I'm tearing through NMMNG now and should finish it today. Definitely going to give it and WISNIFG a slower, more methodical read next week while the wife is out of town. I should not be this excited for one week of solitude.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/06/15 06:49 PM
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Hoo boy, that's going to be a fun one to master. Though it makes sense given the general shape of our household and the things that I've left for her to manage.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/06/15 06:47 PM
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Just read your posts and they were entertaining and informative. You definitely have a good attitude for this. Glad to see I'm not the only newbie making an ass of themselves here too.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/06/15 04:30 PM
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You're right about me being a whiny bitch on so many of these things. I'm already tearing through NMMNG and yea, it's a painful thing to read. I know it'll be a long road for self improvement but it needs to happen or else I'll be facing a lifetime of absolute misery.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/06/15 03:51 PM
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Okay, I fucked up. I married to soon. I failed as a husband and a leader in this household. Now it's time to unfuck things. Unless you'd think it's OK if you just stopped working and collected food stamps as soon as you got married. I know for a fact she wouldn't. I use that same argument myself plenty of times. Glad to know I'm not the only one who realizes that. I'm slowly undocking myself from making her the center of my universe though that'll take some time. I'll just focus on doing it one …
/r/MarriedRedPill25/06/15 03:47 PM
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Well, gotta start somewhere even if it is Omega. I'll be watching your youtube videos this weekend too. Looking forward to what you have to say.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/06/15 03:14 PM
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I'll be focusing on getting to level 5 before I start actively working the dread game. Cheating is a very sore subject for her so any sign of me flirting with others will lead to an immediate fight. So I want to be on my A-game before even getting close to having that fight.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/06/15 03:08 PM
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Ouch. Yea that was an unpleasant but honest summary of my bitching. And you're right, I'm only two weeks in and I still have a long way to go. I'm reading NMMNG now and know this will be a long term process to make myself a better person. I'm just really glad to find this community though since I was already in the process of figuring some of this out on my own. Finding this here will make the process that much easier since I have others to point out where I'm fucking up and show me the correct …
/r/MarriedRedPill25/06/15 02:57 PM
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Thanks for sorting through everything I said and the great advice. I've already read through the majority of the linked content and just got the books last night. Definitely interested in seeing what they have to say now. Up until last year though I was doing starting strength with decent results but that kind of tapered off. So it's time to fix that and pick shit up again. I've also started woodworking as a hobby and it has been providing a nice distraction. basically you will live your life as…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/06/15 02:33 PM
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Will do.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/06/15 11:25 PM
1

Thanks for the advice on that. I was wavering on really sticking with it because the deal was made under duress. But one of the things I'm seeing is the importance of keeping ones word and how much it matters. So yea, I'm going to just go into monk mode for the duration. I really am excited about this though and can't wait to see where I am in a year.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/06/15 11:24 PM
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I meant I wasn't a beta in that I botched about not getting girls despite being a nice guy. I just had shitty social skills and was well aware of it though I couldn't do much to change. As for the PC, it's always been a bone of contention between us. No matter how much time I spend with her, she always thinks I'm gaming too much on it.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/06/15 11:22 PM
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Speaking as a guy I can honestly tell you that nothing helps me relax more than coming home to a clean house and a nice meal. I will happily bust my ass for 10+ hours a day if I feel like my work is appreciated and my wife is rocking the homefront. For the most part you really don't need to worry about it. Real guys like being the providers and feeling important in that respect. And I know that I get a steady source of strength and contentment knowing that my wife feels financially stable and se…
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/15 08:35 PM
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The quick and dirty secret to entrepreneurship is this. Go and do something. Fail spectacularly. Examine your mistakes and learn from them. Go do something again. Fail less spectacularly. Repeat as needed until you hit gold and then mine that shit for all it's worth. Source, ran a small, moderately successful pc repair business for two years.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/15 05:10 PM
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