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There it is again... Expecting others to do what you want, with zero accountability for your own destiny. Lmao you are reaching do far to insult me. That was actually pretty funny. I was just curious why you're so obsessed.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 03:58 PM
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You think 400lb, pimply, cross-eyed Bertha has an endless supply of D? Yes. Men are that desperate. Also what is your obsession with me. I'm bored of this thread but you keep replying to every comment I made.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 03:34 PM
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Life isn't fair, because you need personal accountability in order to achieve, receive or earn what you desire. Yes and since women don't have to do any of that to get laid but rather get it for free, there should be a price. Suck it up, buttercup.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 03:01 PM
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You're right. I created the rules. I am the cause of all problems women have suffered. I created the patriarchy . Bow before my unstoppable misogynistic power.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 04:50 AM
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Man you have stretched this argument to insane proportions. Honestly I respect your willpower. You just don't give up. Have a nice life.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 04:40 AM
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Literally incomprehensible. Do you seriously have nothing better to do?
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 04:36 AM
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Lol I was just trying to use your logic against you but I guess it went over your head. Point isbthat having the option to sex or being safe at night is a privilege whether you partale in it or not.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 04:33 AM
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Because that's just how it is. I don't make the rules. Anyways I'm bored so I'm done. Have a good night.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 04:30 AM
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There should be a price because it isn't fair that women get inifinite sex. There must be a balance. The risks are also part of the price.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 04:26 AM
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Don't do any of that either. So I'm not privileged according to you.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 04:21 AM
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I just wont.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 04:18 AM
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Fine I didn't consider consequences beyond just insults. The rest of that sucks. But I standby that it is just the price rhe pay for easy sex. Perhaps that deal isn't worth it but don't act like they got nothing out of the deal. And men who have casual sex shouldn't get slut shamed and recieve consequences because they have to put immense amount of effort to get laid. That is the price they pay.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 04:17 AM
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Nope. So I guess I'm not privileged then.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 04:11 AM
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No I don't. So its not a privilege that I'm safer at night.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 04:04 AM
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But I don't need to be safe at night since I don't go out at night. So its not a privilege by your logic.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 04:03 AM
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Well I'm depressed and would love to have sex to cope with it but I can't because I'm a man. My point is that average men will struggle immensly to get laid and if you're a depressed man you won't get anything. Yet depressed women can get more than even a top tier man.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 04:01 AM
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So its not a male privilege that I'm safer at night since I don't go out at night?
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 03:59 AM
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Let me rephrase because I think I got lost. This post was about women who complain about slutshaming. Those women DO enjoy casual sex, and they get to partake in it. So they shouldn't whine about slutshamung cus its small price to pay for all the sex they get to have.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 03:57 AM
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Women have the option to fuck whever so its a priviledbe whether they partake in it or not. Feminists say I'm privileged for being safer at night but what if I don't go out at night? I guess its not a prvilege since I'm not taking advantage of it.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 03:52 AM
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Idk and I'm not gonna bother looking. I'll just say that the other day on this sub a woman I was replying to told me she had an extremely high count. Then I looked at her post history and she talks about being horribly depressed for most of her life that she couldn't clean her house most days. I feel bad for her but damn, I'm not even that depressed and yet I could not reach a mere fraction of her body count because she's a woman and I'm a man. That's what inspired me to make this post alright.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 03:44 AM
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I'm bored but if I stop responding you'll assume you won the argument. I'm starting to think I should just give up though.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 03:40 AM
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Nope.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 03:36 AM
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Fucking a new guy every week as many women I know have done. Also how are you not bored of this conversation.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 03:36 AM
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Well guess I've just run into a bunch of sexual girls cus most girls I knew had tons of casual sex.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 03:25 AM
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Most women on this sub mention having slept with many dudes. That was my original point was thay womem here mentiom fucking tons of men while also saying "but we get slutshamed!" Also tons of women I've known talk about their active sex lives filled with hookups.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 03:20 AM
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Its clearly worth the risk to women too since tons if them go out and have tons of casual sex.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 03:16 AM
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Yes. Its worth the risk
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 03:10 AM
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Not saying its easy just easier than what men gotta do. And I'm sure I could figure it out.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 03:06 AM
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Fine its not 0 effort but its far easier than the effort men do.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 03:02 AM
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Who?
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 02:52 AM
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I don't meed to be a woman to know they enjoy casual sex cus they wouldn't do it otherwise.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 02:52 AM
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Women taught me to hate women.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 02:48 AM
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I'm not gay. I wish I was though.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 02:46 AM
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They still enjoy it. Or else they wouldn't be doing it. But they do so clearly then enjoy it. And they get it infinitely with 0 effort. Sounds like a priviledge to me.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 02:42 AM
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Women underreport how much sex they have cus of slutshaming.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 02:40 AM
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Because women still enjoy casual sex so them getting an infinite supply of it is still a priviledge. Stop grasping at straws.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 02:39 AM
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Most studies say men but its still enjoyable for women so it doesn't change my point.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 02:37 AM
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Depends on the man or woman.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 02:35 AM
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Whatever you need to tell yourself to pretend like women have no advantages in life.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 02:22 AM
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Not completely the same but its enjoyable for both.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 02:21 AM
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Except your explanation wasn't accurate to reality as bc exists. You said yourself it was hypothetical.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 02:04 AM
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Because they enjoy the food because it tastes good. Women enjoy sex because it feels good.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 02:00 AM
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Yes I'm aware. But as you said sex has evolved to be enjoyable. Just don't have kids and you'll have as much fun as you want. This is demonstrabily true given THAT TONS OF WOMEN ENJOY CASUAL SEX. No matter how many ridiculous mental gymnastics you make to deny this fact because you don't want to accept that women are priviledged in one aspect of life.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 01:56 AM
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Lmao so you think women only enjoy sex to get pregnant? Tell that to all the childfree women who love having sex.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 01:40 AM
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Except birth control does exist so your argument is meaningless. If I was a women I'd just get on bc or get my tubes tied and enjoy as much sex as I want.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 01:32 AM
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LMAO. WOMEN ENJOY SEX!!! STOP DENYING IT
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 01:08 AM
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Yes
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 01:06 AM
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Tons of women enjoy casual sex. Stop denying this
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 12:04 AM
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Oh that's too bad man. To be fair if she refused to pay her half it sounds like she didn't value you. I think you dodged a bullet tbh. It might've been better if you lose your virginity to her before getting upset with her.
/r/ExRedPill05/06/22 09:50 PM
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Yes it is. Women just pretend its not so they don't have to admit they have a priviledge.
/r/ExRedPill05/06/22 09:39 PM
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Tons of women have casual sex and enjoy it. So they have more fun than men. Also they control everything in relationships. Its on the man to please them, seduce them, pay for dates etc. Meanwhile she can just sit there and be pretty.
/r/ExRedPill05/06/22 09:33 PM
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Because life isn't fair. There should be a price for the easy dating lives they get.
/r/ExRedPill05/06/22 09:29 PM
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Most young women are. I'm not saying women have perfect lives, but I'm sick of the fact that they can never accept that they have any advantage over men.
/r/ExRedPill05/06/22 09:26 PM
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Yeah sex is an every day normal activity for women cus theydon't need to put any effort to get it. Its a prize for men since they need to put effort.
/r/ExRedPill05/06/22 09:17 PM
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Clearly not that risky given that tons of women enjoy casual sex. If they didn't, why would they care about slutshaming? They could just not have sex if it doesn't matter and they wouldn't get called a slut. But clearly they're not willing to give up sex, which is why theu get mad about slutshamimg. And no I'm not jealous of nothing. Never experencing intimacy fucks with your head. Just look at this sub to see all the men suffering, meanwhile women are enjoying a far better quality of life than …
/r/ExRedPill05/06/22 09:11 PM
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Well if I date a woman I would have to be constantly reminded that she has a better life than me. And yeah I'd much rather be a woman than a man.
/r/ExRedPill05/06/22 09:06 PM
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Completely irrelevant to what I said. Also I respect single moms since they don't rely on men.
/r/ExRedPill05/06/22 08:35 PM
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A woman here the other day literally told me she had an extremely high count.
/r/ExRedPill05/06/22 08:29 PM
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Well no because I wasn't talking about rape. I'm talking about women here who act like easy access to sex isn't a priviledge because they are seen as less for having a high count. Like stfu you can have sex whenever you want why should you care some guys will make fun of you for it. They're obviously just jealous anyways. Also, alot of women do have a lot of casual sex after getting raped to take back control over their sexuality. So they do have sex to make up for whereas a man who got raped co…
/r/ExRedPill05/06/22 08:28 PM
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Because women here judge us for being bitter over a lack of sex when those same women are getting laid whenever they want with 0 effort.
/r/ExRedPill05/06/22 08:17 PM
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Ok but men get insulted for being virgins but also no sex. Women get insulted for being sluts and get sex. Its obvious which is better.
/r/ExRedPill05/06/22 08:15 PM
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Yes those other things are terrible and I have empathy. Slut shaming isn't a big deal when in exchamge you get sex whenever you want.
/r/ExRedPill05/06/22 08:13 PM
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Meanwhile women get slutshamed shamed with nothing to make up for it. They do get something for it, infinite amount if sex. That was pretty funny though lol.
/r/ExRedPill05/06/22 08:11 PM
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Women don't have to better people to get laid.
/r/ExRedPill05/06/22 08:09 PM
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Yeah I admit I'm pretty depressed and I should focus on greater concerns. I think I use redpill discourse to externalize some of my pain. I was actually doing ok for a while cus I had a plan to go to college and improve my life. For a few months I didn't think about this stuff as much but then I made some serious mistakes and it seems like I won't go this year. So now I'm back on this sub lol. Also I looked at your post history and I recognize your posts. You seem to have similar beliefs as me l…
/r/ExRedPill05/06/22 08:07 PM
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Good talk 😂
/r/ExRedPill05/06/22 07:32 PM
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And you won't since you're a woman. Way to prove my point.
/r/ExRedPill05/06/22 07:32 PM
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Not relevant to what I said. My point is women getting to have sex whenever they want is a priviledge you deny because you personally want committment. Also angry, bitter, loser women can have sex.
/r/ExRedPill05/06/22 07:31 PM
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Women generally seek relationships, not just sex. Tons of women enjoy casual sex. Also, it's the double-standard that women can't have sex with multiple people in her life, while men are applauded for it... That double standard makes sense because its not hard for a woman to have sex. Men who can have sex with a lot of girls is an achievement that takes a lot of work. Hardly. You live in a patriarchy 8n which toxic masculinity sold you a lie, that you could have or be whatever you wanted, simply…
/r/ExRedPill05/06/22 07:30 PM
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Thats not true at all. Tons of women enjoy casual sex. You're just talking about yourself.
/r/ExRedPill05/06/22 07:24 PM
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Yeah because they get it in such excess so they take it for granted.
/r/ExRedPill05/06/22 07:13 PM
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I never said women have no problems, the lack of safety is terrible. Just specifically the slut shaming is not that big of a deal given that you get to have as much sex as you want. Its like a person born to riches whining that people shame them for it. what exactly about you, is desirable enough to warrant any person to want to spend time with you, let alone fuck you? Thats pretty rich given the fact that you as a woman don't need to have anything desirable about you to have people want to fuck…
/r/ExRedPill05/06/22 07:09 PM
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Virgin shaming is worse than slut shaming because there's no sex to make up for it. Women get to have infinite sex, why does it matter that they get shamed for it.
/r/ExRedPill05/06/22 07:06 PM
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Not everyone can afford to go to college.
/r/ExRedPill03/06/22 08:32 PM
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This is off topic but its strange how women here claim their easy access to sex isn't a priviledge when you are clearly enjoying this priviledge given your high count. I hope you realise that if you were a straight dude it would take 10x the effort to get a fraction of the sex you've had. Also it just reaffirms how much I can't relate to women. I would have to be so much higher value of a man to get a single woman interested in me whereas you can get tons of men like its nothing. No shame though…
/r/ExRedPill03/06/22 03:22 PM
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Imagine you had sex with 3 girls and you fall in love with a girl and she loves you back. She is a virgin, you had sex with three girls before her. Would you ‘easily’ replace her? Depends, if I got lucky 3 times before her but generally struggle with women then no I couldn't replace her. If I'm some chad with girls hitting me up all the time then I suppose I could. Its not the same though because as a girl she will probably have way more options than me. She also has chosen to be a virgin and sh…
/r/ExRedPill03/06/22 01:10 PM
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Why is it a dumb question?
/r/ExRedPill03/06/22 12:59 PM
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Over 10. Also I don't think high body counts male you impure. I'm just curious whats the average count for women.
/r/ExRedPill03/06/22 03:16 AM
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Maybe you would enjoy the virgin more but you are still superior to him for having more sex. Also it will be an inequal relationship since you mean more to him than him to you. You could easily replace him with another guy while you are the only woman he has.
/r/ExRedPill03/06/22 03:10 AM
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True, getting laid as a woman is as easy as breathing for them.
/r/ExRedPill03/06/22 03:05 AM
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You are an equally valid and valuable person as I am. If you are my age and you have had sex or have a car than you have more value than me because you have accomplished more than me.
/r/ExRedPill03/06/22 02:59 AM
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Deeply envious tbh. I hate everything about sex and sexuality but my dumb sex druve makes me desire. I'd be so glad to have no sex drive at all.
/r/ExRedPill03/06/22 02:49 AM
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Nice dude. Thats the dream
/r/ExRedPill03/06/22 02:48 AM
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Someone’s virginity does not dictate their worth. Ofc it does. A man being a virgin past a normal ahe indicates his lack of social skills. He failed to reach a normal milestone. I didn’t win because I had more experience and he didn’t lose. You did win because you get to have more sexual partners than him so you had more fun and more validation. You were of higher status than him.
/r/ExRedPill03/06/22 02:40 AM
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I have had a boyfriend who lost his virginity to me while I was a lot more experienced and it never was a problem. I see women saying this and I don't get it. How did you not see him as inferior to you if he was a virgin and you were expierenced.
/r/ExRedPill03/06/22 02:32 AM
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Not to society, I mean men have less value to women than women do to men. We are expendable and they can get male attention easily. I even see bi women say they put way more effort dating women then men because they know men are so easy to please. We are so attention starved that they can get us by showing a bit of attention.
/r/ExRedPill14/05/22 07:01 PM
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We don't kill babies we just abort them when they turn out to be male. Currently men have less value than women but that could be equal if there were less men. You need far less men than women to maintain a population so men are mostly expendable. One day artificial semen will be synthesized and men will be totally worthless. Perhaps then we will just abort all men so no man will have to suffer and women can just live peacefully amongst themselves.
/r/ExRedPill14/05/22 05:08 PM
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But you can get sex on demand so who are you to judge. Its like a rich person judging a poor person for stealing. You can say stealing is wrong but a rich person doesn't need to steal so they can't judge.
/r/ExRedPill14/05/22 03:22 PM
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Ok but as a woman you can't judge for using sex work because you can have sex easily whenever you want. you’d rather pay her to satisfy you in any way you choose with no obligation on your part to reciprocate physically emotionally or put effort into getting to know a woman, making her feel comfortable with you and establishing a mutual connection. You don't have to do any of this to have sex as a woman.
/r/ExRedPill14/05/22 01:32 PM
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TBH this is true of everywhere on reddit. Lol true. Also the guy that bothered me the most deleted his comments so ill let it go.
/r/ExRedPill13/05/22 08:34 PM
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Yeah I agree confidence is important. I get what you mean about people beaming with insecurities, outside of dating they can be hard to be friends with too. I was just bothered by your comment about having men chase you cus that's not something a lot of men expierence so you can't really suggest that as a way to be confident. We have to find confidence by other means. I'm sorry if I was rude. You seem pretty reasonable and respectful from you comments. I do appreciate your input.
/r/ExRedPill13/05/22 08:25 PM
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I don’t judge any individual for wanting sex or feeling bitter that their place in society prevents them from getting what they want, that’s normal and totally valid. I do judge redpill rhetoric that I believe hurts both men and women. Ok I can respect that. I'm just used to women in these spaces yelling at me that I'm not entitled to sex despite themselves being highly sexual active. I should not have assumed that position onto you. Is that a value you yourself hold or is it a value you’ve inte…
/r/ExRedPill13/05/22 07:54 PM
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I can choose to feel like crap over those things I can’t really change and cry myself to sleep every night, or I can just accept that it is what it is, appreciate myself for who I am and what I look like. Men have rejected me and other men have chased me relentlessly Ok but I and most men do not ever get chased so we don't have any positive expierences to make up for the negative. That's something you can't understand, its easier for you to be confident when you've had men chasing you. And its a…
/r/ExRedPill13/05/22 06:02 PM
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Yeah I agree with your post
/r/ExRedPill13/05/22 01:08 PM
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Fair lol
/r/ExRedPill13/05/22 01:07 PM
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I haven't assumed anything. You're just trying to justify yourself doing it dumbass. And I'm not complaining. They can do what they want. Again, answer me this. If you're so tired of redpill discourse why are you here?
/r/ExRedPill12/05/22 09:55 PM
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Then don't come to this sub. You don't have to be here if you're tired. I don't want help from someone who's going to assume shit about me. Almost nothing you said in your comment is something I've said.
/r/ExRedPill12/05/22 09:50 PM
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Why are people in this thread assuming so much shit about me. I never said their exes were assholes they seem like good dudes. They were just high tier. Do you really, really, really believe that all your friends are stupid little flowers being taking advantage of? Never said that When you think that all women are "stupid", that's how you're in that weird space where you hate/like them. Never said that "All men are bad, all women are stupid and I am the best shit on earth but no one seems to car…
/r/ExRedPill12/05/22 09:40 PM
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Do you female friends consider their bf with high body count high tier? I never met any women who consider men with high body count to be high tier. Women either do not care about body count or see it as negative. They don't care about the body count itself but high body count indicates they are high tier since they are desired by lots of men. Insecure women often date men with high body count because they don’t think they can do better. What do you mean by do better? Why are people in this thre…
/r/ExRedPill12/05/22 09:31 PM
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Well maybe dont assume shit
/r/ExRedPill12/05/22 09:26 PM
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When did I say women created this situation?
/r/ExRedPill12/05/22 06:53 PM
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What do you mean? I mean I guess so my stance now is I don't hate women but I still think the dating market is fucked for most men.
/r/ExRedPill12/05/22 06:22 PM
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You are determining value solely by body count. You state “women really do just go after the best of the best” but do you have any insight into the other qualities of these exes? I guess I don't know that much but from what I can gather they are highly charismatic, confident, ripped and generally high tier men. Also based on the guys I know the only ones who have alot of sexual expierence are high tier men. Getting alot of sex is very difficult for men. I could be wrong but it seems like you at …
/r/ExRedPill12/05/22 05:41 PM
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Yeah I'm not faulting them or any woman. I'd do the same if I was them.
/r/ExRedPill12/05/22 02:53 PM
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What did I make up? They straight up told me their exes had a lot more expierence than them.
/r/ExRedPill12/05/22 12:27 PM
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What they weren't assholes. The dudes they dated were mostly good dudes and they didn't get taken advantage of.
/r/ExRedPill12/05/22 12:22 PM
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I haven't met them but my friends mentionned to me they had high body counts. From a probabilistic point of view there's no chance there wasn't at least a single outlier "average guy" in that list Fair enough, they haven't told me about all of their exes so there could be some average guys. So far the ones I know about seem to be high tier men though.
/r/ExRedPill12/05/22 12:20 PM
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It wasn't their bfs, my friends told me. It was just came up cus one of my female friends was going out with a dude and was nervous/insecure because the dude had a lot of sexual expierence and she's had very little. Then my other female friends weighed in and mentionned they had similar expierence because their exes had much more expierence than them. I'm not mad, they free to date whoever and I'm happy for them but just damn it was brutal.
/r/ExRedPill12/05/22 12:17 PM
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Lol idk, befriending women has made me less misogynistic but more redpilled. Like on the one hand, I feel guilty for resenting women when my good female friends have been nothing but kind to me and brought joy to my life. On the other hand though, looking at the guys they've dated, damn women really do just go after the best of the best. They were all confideny chads with high body counts, whereas my female friends are insecure virgins and low counts. Feels like there's no hope for low value guy…
/r/ExRedPill12/05/22 04:12 AM
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2) Those models and Even your local cutie are most likely dumb with nothing of interest excepto of course their bodies. Do You want to hookup with someone who isn't capable of having a decent convo with You? Assuming you are an intelligent person. Yet they probably have an active social, dating and sex life because of those looks something I could never come near to having. Most women are just completely unrelateable.
/r/ExRedPill12/05/22 03:45 AM
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Would you date a girl with crippling insecurities who refused to seek help, forced you to take responsibility for her mental health, and constantly accused you of comparing her to other women? Probably not. Are you trying to say women wouldn't date me cus I'm like that? Cus I'm not. I don't force people to take responsibility for my mental health. I just meant things like I'm a virgin so I'd like to find a fellow virgin to learn together. But female virgins seem to just go for expierenced guys w…
/r/ExRedPill14/03/22 11:03 PM
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Ok I don't think its female nature or inherent to women. Its just something that happens and I don't know the exact cause but my guess is its because women tend to have more options than men. Just look at apps to see that. And even irl, men are always asking women out and also men tend to have lower standards because we are single more visual. Also single women tend to be more content so alot of them check out of the game leaving a bunch of eager men without partners. End result is women have mo…
/r/ExRedPill14/03/22 10:35 PM
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Alright man, thanks for listening to me. I'll try following your advice since you seem to have ended up in a good place. Have a good day.
/r/seduction05/10/21 09:51 AM
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I know women get depressed and anxious too but for some reason they're less understanding of men who go through that and expect them to be confident. Its funny, what you just described what women will go through is exactly what I've been through. I grew with a violent narcissistic father and a mother who enabled him. They taught me I was undeserving of love and I believe them. But because I'm a man, I can't expect the women to help me through that. I have to be a confident and secure man, meanwh…
/r/seduction05/10/21 09:37 AM
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I just basing it on what I see people say here. That's why I was asking the sub given how much work we have to do. The posts act like we have to be the best of the best. We also have to master game and consider everything we say. So it seems to me women will lose interest if we ever make a misstep and show we lack confidence. And it seems like its all on guys to make dates go well, there's no work done by girls. Perhaps this sub is overestimating how good we have to be? Maybe you got lucky? Idk
/r/seduction05/10/21 08:54 AM
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Isn't most of this sub on advice of trying to convince women to like you. Like most of the posts is about taking initiative and showing confidence and having game. But girls don't need to have game. If your version of dating is real though, I don't mind working on myself like that. I want to do that anyways. I just don't want to master 'game'. Sounds stressful and exhausting.
/r/seduction05/10/21 08:35 AM
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Yeah all that bothers me too. Good on you for not simping though.
/r/seduction05/10/21 08:07 AM
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The selectiveness isn't just about dangerous men its to weed out any man that isn't the best of the best it seems. And I just don't like that they hold us to standards that they don't hold for themselves. Yeah I know I have a lot of problems in my life and dating isn't actually something I'm focused on right now. I just go on dating discourse subs sometimes when I'm browsing reddit and alot of things I see annoy me. Covid's still bad in my area so I can't socialize yet but I want to. To be hones…
/r/seduction05/10/21 08:06 AM
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That's rough buddy. It'll be ok bro. Hugs
/r/seduction05/10/21 07:12 AM
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I guess I should focus on leveling up then.
/r/seduction05/10/21 07:11 AM
1

I don't mind working out, women have to do that too. It terms of body attraction the work is equal. I'm bitter over having to do all the work socially.
/r/seduction05/10/21 07:05 AM
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Given how much work you have to do in dating though and the fact that she is nothing for you in reciprocation, is it fun?
/r/seduction05/10/21 07:03 AM
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Ok you're right about finding purpose. It's beneficial outside of women. Still though, how do you not get annoyed on dates that you're putting so much more effort than the women you're dating but they are getting way more success.
/r/seduction05/10/21 06:04 AM
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I feel I will still be bitter though that I have to read a bunch of books and find my life purpose to enjoy dating whereas women don't have to do any of that.
/r/seduction05/10/21 05:45 AM
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So you use men you're not even interested in for attention because you're lonely. Nice, I hope you don't complain about men pumping and dumping.
/r/seduction05/10/21 04:52 AM
1

And that's why you don't get the experience of straight guys. I hate to tell you but all straight men have to do this. They may be natural at it so they don't use these terms but all guys consciously or subconsciously plan out their love life like this because we know women will lose attraction at the slightest misstep or break in confidence. Don't blame us for treating like a game, blame the straight women who made it a game. And be glad that you're a woman so you have the luxury of just being …
/r/seduction05/10/21 04:38 AM
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Bro you got used for that drink. She blocked you so she had no interest she just wanted a free drink. You basically paid the cost of that drink for that kiss. You should've bought then thrown the drink in her face and tell her buy her own drinks you golddigging slut. Glad you're making progress though.
/r/seduction05/10/21 04:33 AM
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No I'm too passive. My point is kindness isn't a bad trait. But its not the most important.
/r/ExRedPill16/09/21 10:35 PM
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I think its true to an extent but more in the sense that girls don't like men who are overly passive and agreeable. I think men have internalized the respect women advice too far where we become passive which is bad because women expect men to do most of the work in dating. Bad boys are confident and take what they want so they are the better of the 2.
/r/ExRedPill16/09/21 10:06 PM
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This
/r/ExRedPill16/09/21 10:03 PM
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I know that's what you're saying and I disagree with that. There's no way to quantify whether it mostly comes from men or women. You are using your expierence to say it mostly comes from men and I could easily use my expierence to say the reverse. When in reality neither of us should blame one gender and just say toxic masculinity is a general problem that anyone can perpetuate. I do definitely agree with you that the reasoning from men and women are different. This is another reason toxic mascu…
/r/ExRedPill15/09/21 02:56 AM
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I hear what you're saying but I find it strange that you and all of people are more willing to blame men for toxic masculinity than women. You say some women do it and most men do it. Perhaps that was the case in your expierence but overall there is no way to number whether men or women do it more. In my expierence more women have done it but I wont use that to say its mostly women. It seems like in progressive people are less comfortable with critiquing women than men and because of that most w…
/r/ExRedPill15/09/21 02:45 AM
1

The sub is trash anyways most of the people there just wanted to argue and make fun of incels. Most of them could barely understand the incel expierence anyways. It would have beem better if there more ex incels but most of them got tired and life which I get. I'm glad its private tbh.
/r/ExRedPill15/08/21 10:45 PM
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Oh I misread the title. I thought it was asking how we heard of the red pill. I've never been into red pill, I just know of it because contra talked about it on her video on incels.
/r/ExRedPill03/07/21 07:38 PM
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The red pill =/= incels. That alone shows you don't know what you're talking about. Red pillers believe in using manipulative tactics to get laid. All incels believe is that they are too ugly to get into a relationship. That's it. There are non toxic people who believe that. Sorry if I sound patronizing, but I really can't understand how you sound so reasonable and willing to engage in a deep conversation with a woman yet so defensive of a radical group that think women are only good for sex/rep…
/r/ExRedPill03/07/21 04:59 PM
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Wikipedia is also just written by people. I have made my opinion on incels by actively looking at their spaces not just blindly follow what people say about them.
/r/ExRedPill03/07/21 04:52 PM
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Yeah and none of this thread is anything objective. For most people incel = 'guy I don't like'. My impression of incels come from incel subs of people who identify as them. We just have different definitions. I'm aware most people have a different one just as most people have innacurate views of groups they're not apart of or spent time looking at. I'm sick of arguing with someone who's committed to misunderstand me so whatever. You win I guess.
/r/ExRedPill02/07/21 10:47 PM
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Heard about it on contrapoints video on incels.
/r/ExRedPill02/07/21 08:58 PM
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Sorry I just triggered by people who think MLK was the only voice of civil rights. Have you ever considered youself more sexist than racist? Have you consindered that you're intentionally misunderstanding me? Seriously, you keep responding to only one part of my comments to make me out like I'm a sexist or some uncle tom and ignoring the rest. I don't only have empathy for oppressors, I'm not some uncle tom. I have empathy for everyone including and especially marginalized people. I have plenty …
/r/ExRedPill02/07/21 08:57 PM
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The word incel just means you want sex but can't find anyone who wants to have sex with you. Its not inherently hateful, it just has hateful people in it. Its not equavilent to a white supremacist group because a WS group is inherently hateful since its definition requires the subjugation of other races. Remember, the term incel was coined by a lesbian women who was alone herself. Look, I definitely agree there's a pipeline for incels. The far end are the terrorists and before that are people on…
/r/ExRedPill02/07/21 08:29 PM
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Your fourth paragraph is literally what I'm advocating for. Many 'frustated men' are incels. So you agree with empathizing with incels.
/r/ExRedPill02/07/21 08:06 PM
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Racism is still a thing and will continue to be a thing because there's no empathy. Empathy isn't about kindness, its just means understanding why someone believes what they believe. My parents are racist towards black people (its not just white ppl who are racist) and I think that makes them shitty people. But I understand why they are like that. They only grew up around people of their own culture since they immigrated from there whereas I grew up around people of all races. I'm not morally be…
/r/ExRedPill02/07/21 08:03 PM
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I didn't tell people to be kind to hate groups though. I'm saying empathy (not the same as kindness) is what will help them far more than anger ever will. You don't have to give it to them though. As I said I don't want to give empathy to neo nazis but I know that's what they need so I want someone else to do it. If you want to fix the incel problem, calling them all evil terrorists won't fix anything. If you can't have empathy for them, that's fine, I understand that. But don't bother trying to…
/r/ExRedPill02/07/21 07:46 PM
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Yes self labelled incels can commit terrorism. Just as muslim have committed terrorism but that doesn't mean all muslim are terrorists or that we should do anything about them. I don't know what reality you live in where incel attacks happen everyday but in the real world the rarely happen. And amongst them there are mass killings that happen for all sorts of reasonings. Mass killings have more to do with the fucked up mind of the individual, not any motivations they claim to have. When I made m…
/r/ExRedPill02/07/21 07:38 PM
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There's no problem to being white. But if they admitted they fell into a bad movement because they were at a hard time in their life, I'd have empathy.
/r/ExRedPill02/07/21 07:29 PM
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Let me rephrase, they won't listen to me specifically because talking to a neo nazi will just get me mad. MLK was able to convince people because he kept calm and compassionate even in the face of hate. You need to keep a calm composure to convince someone. Similiarly it seems you have a lot of resentment towards incels so you can't help them. Also off topic but MLK wasn't the only major black activist and his methods weren't the only way. Malcolm X and the black panther party were way cooler be…
/r/ExRedPill02/07/21 07:27 PM
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First of all, its not equivalent because the KKK is not equivalent to incels. The KKK has done far more damage and the KKK is an organized group, incel is just a label. Also why are you assuming my empathy is selective? I have empathy for everyone because I know we are all products of our environment. I am not morally better for growing up in a way that allowed me to be more moral. I have empathy for racists, if I didn't I would advocate for them to be jailed or executed. But I'm not, I'm saying…
/r/ExRedPill02/07/21 04:55 PM
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An incel is anyone who labels themself as one. Its an arbitrary term. Technically all it means is involuntary celibate. Meaning someone who wants sex but can't find anyone who wants to have sex with them. The term was even coined by a lesbian women. Lol of course you think incels are terrorists if all you read is incel terrorism articles. Its no different then thinking all muslims are terrorists just by reading islamophobic articles. Those articles are meant to create shock to get clicks. Before…
/r/ExRedPill02/07/21 04:47 PM
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1) Most incels aren't as hateful as neo nazis. You're just using screenshots you've seen online to determine your opinion of them. 2) No. I think POC should just not interact with neo nazis. I am a brown guy myself and I would hate to talk to a neo nazi. I think progressive white people should be the ones trying to fix neo nazis. Similarly I think men should be the ones helping incels. You are missing the point. You don't need to treat incels with empathy and compassion. However empathy is what …
/r/ExRedPill02/07/21 03:02 PM
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So true. Its so dumb to me how people on this sub wonder why men go to the redpill. If people here just make fun of you and red pill tells you that you're a king, which do you think a man would choose?
/r/ExRedPill02/07/21 02:20 PM
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Don't be rude to them unless they are rude first. Don't assume what their positions are based on what you know of incels as not all of them believe in every aspect of the blackpill. Some don't believe in it all and just think incel is a synonym for virgin. Don't assume they are rapists or serial killers as that is a serious accusation. Don't deny their lived expierence. If they had a bad expierence with a girl, don't tell that it didn't happen or that it was just in their head. Most importantly,…
/r/ExRedPill02/07/21 02:18 PM
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This video isn't related to the redpill but I think its relevant. A common talking point on this is whether women like emotionally vunerable men. This video delves into that in a pretty nuanced way that doesn't really blame men or women. It seems like there's more of a miscomunication on what vunerability means.
/r/ExRedPill29/06/21 08:43 PM
2

You're absolutely right, connections are everything. That's the other thing I regret about my teens. I spent high school studying exclusively but didn't learn social skills and get connections. I was lucky enough to get a group of friends towards the end despite being anti-social but I didn't talk to anyone else. Now I realise how dumb I was for that. Connections help way more for careers in the long term than grades. I actually did go to college for a year and I did so badly mainly because I la…
/r/ExRedPill29/06/21 05:42 AM
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Oh yeah I forgot about conversions. I guess the cost of living must be higher where you live because $14 an hour is enough for most canadian cities except for like Toronto and Vancouver which are super expensive. It is only barely enough to live though, you don't get much in savings. Wow we actually do have a lot in common. I grew up in a very abusive home as well and because of that I've been suicidal since I was 13. I also moved out and cut contact at 19. Its been a little over half a year sin…
/r/ExRedPill28/06/21 10:51 PM
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Sorry you were also suicidal. It really does suck. If you're no longer suicidal, how did you through it? Though I know suicidality is pretty subjective so you probably can't help me but it does help to hear stories of people who moved past it. Yeah I can't believe minimum wage is so low in the US. Its funny how there's so much debate on whether they should raise it to $15 an hour when its $14 in Canada and things seem to be running fine. Too bad we couldn't get bernie sanders as president. Glad …
/r/ExRedPill28/06/21 09:16 PM
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Well I guess I wouldn't know better than you. I'm just wondering because you argue a lot with redpillers but it doesn't really go anywhere since most of these redpillers don't even want to be helped. I'm not much better tbh. I waste a lot of time reading reddit discourse on dating even though I'm not even interested in dating right now. I'm just distracting myself from thinking about my real problems since they're too depressing. I need to get off reddit completely. I already blocked it off my c…
/r/ExRedPill28/06/21 07:12 PM
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Really? What kind of things, if you don't mind telling me. Looking back on this thread, I think we might be living in different countries because I live in Canada and minimum wage is enough to live in most places. I forgot that its not the same for the US assuming you live there. The place I live, rent is pretty cheap so I could stay at my minimum wage job my whole life. I'm mainly trying to get a better job so I can move to a city cus there's nothing to do where I live. So when I say its not wr…
/r/ExRedPill28/06/21 06:53 PM
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Genuine question, what is your goal with this sub? Do you want to help redpillers or just argue with them? Why are you so obsessed with redpillers anyways?
/r/ExRedPill28/06/21 05:44 PM
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You do pretend. You agree that men are losers for living with parents in one comment and then say its wrong to judge people for lving with parents. You pretend like its a matter of ambition even though that was never mentionned. And looking down on someone for lacking ambition isn't any less elitist. I have no family to support me so I've had to give up college to work in the trades. Congratulations on getting through college without support. But just because you were able to pull it off doesn't…
/r/ExRedPill28/06/21 05:28 PM
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Not everyone has the chance to finish college. I doubt you're as class concious as you pretend to be.
/r/ExRedPill28/06/21 05:09 PM
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His comment mentioned nothing of ambition and you agreed a man like that is a loser. And again, a lack of ambition doesn't make someone less than you. Not sure what misogny, the hatred of women has to do with shaming men. Plenty of progressive feminist who hate misogny shame men for their status. From your comments on this sub you come off pretty elitist you know. I hope you realize that if you spend so much time on reddit obsessing over redpillers and blackpillers, you're probably not much bett…
/r/ExRedPill26/06/21 11:46 PM
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I was not trying to imply that only men get shamed. I'm saying that shame regarding financial status is reserved for men. Women do get shamed for other things more than men like body count for example. I'm specifically talking about financial status since that was the topic of this post. I don't care about women's expectations. I'm bothered by the shaming men recieve for being poor. I don't blame men for thinking hypergamy exists when the go to insult for men is living with parents (that and bei…
/r/ExRedPill26/06/21 11:29 PM
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I've never heard someone use 'basement dweller' as an insult towards women. If a woman is poor or depressed she gets sympathy. A guy is poor or depressed he gets shamed by both men and women. You said 'good point' to a guy who did shame men for living with their parents so I guess your an idiot too? Before you say it, no I don't expect women to date poor man out of sympathy. Just don't shame them and call them losers.
/r/ExRedPill26/06/21 08:30 PM
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While hypergamy doesn't exist, men are much more shamed for being low status. His comment is proof of this calling men who live with their parents losers when in reality the economy is fucked so thats not unordinary these days.
/r/ExRedPill26/06/21 07:47 PM
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While hypergamy doesn't exist, men are much more shamed for being low status. Your comment is proof of this calling men who live with their parents losers when in reality the economy is fucked so thats not unordinary these days.
/r/ExRedPill26/06/21 07:46 PM
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Damn this thread is making me realize I need to get jacked. Its such a boost you don't need any of this seduction bullshit.
/r/seduction12/06/21 05:13 AM
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