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favourthebold/r/TheRedPill08/07/14 01:19 AM
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haha so true. I thought I was basically living it and I went back and read it again when I was in the right state to receive it and I very wasn't living it lol. I was basically spending 100% of my time on distractions. Time to cut all that shit out and start from scratch.
/r/becomeaman24/11/15 07:10 AM
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The Way of the Superior Man by David Deida. I'm currently re-reading it for the ~20th time
/r/becomeaman23/11/15 09:18 PM
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Yeah man. My Dad wasn't always fat. But when he got a gut that's what freaked me out to get the the gym. Approaching six pack now. It's legit motivation.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/14 06:03 AM
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Yeah man. Things are as they are. Don't deal with any girls in the short term. Get in shape.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/14 05:59 AM
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Yup. Guys who don't get laid don't get it. Too wrapped up in theory to realise a girl will bang if you look good enough. What you say or what theories you believe don't really make that much difference.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 11:34 PM
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haha could be dude, she was a bit drunk, in my house and he wasn't home. Guess I didn't see her like that, that day.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 05:08 AM
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haha. yes. I don't know if I judge people or not but it just a fact. fat for almost everyone is not sexy.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 03:26 AM
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Yeah that's interesting, I found I'm attracted to asian girls, some guys make comments I can't get a white girl. self-entitled attitudes makes the average white girls not really worth it, and I'd say it is harder to get a hot white girls. But after all that I'm grateful I have double the girls to chose from, and asian girls happen to like white guys. once I thought I'd never get laid so bonus for me I guess.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 03:24 AM
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Yeah... she told me this story the day before she got deployed without him for 9 months.. she was asking me for advice on how she could restrain herself cos she really loves him. It was more like she was curious how anyone could restrain themselves, not like she was actually genuinely concerned. I thought she might have banged someone, now it seems like she probably banged a bunch of guys. My friend must know.. she's been with a heap of guys he is mates with. That's insane man.. so seems like th…
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 12:38 AM
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Haha, fantastic. Yeah they are upset that he didn't treat her well. But whatever his demeanour he still has to ask the questions and follow the process. They don't like that his line of questioning implies that she might be making it all up. But how else are you gonna do it. If it happened to a female friend of mine, and she wanted to go through with it, I'd try to let her know what's about to happen. Working in corporate land for 10 years.. you learn to just follow the process.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 12:31 AM
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This is pretty interesting man. I've got friends and a brother in the army, it's gotta be the worst time to be in now with this stuff gong on. One of my mates is dating a girl he met in the army, she told me she banged over 50 dudes who are also in. Lol. He should know better. And that's a lot of guys wtf...
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 11:45 PM
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If you can read between the lines, you can see the school is making a big deal about something the cops realise may not have any substance to it. You can't just put a guy in prison just because a woman is upset, and the cop is handling it accordingly. I think it's a good read.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 11:31 PM
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awesome man. I feel like you get hated on in here for being successful with women. good job.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 04:29 AM
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I got a lot out of that book, when I was going through the 'ashes' period he talks about. It doesn't mean that much to me now. Unless you are going through a specific phase it would probably have no meaning.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 12:58 AM
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It probably makes you a woman :)
/r/TheRedPill30/08/14 10:57 PM
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Yeah haha. Worst wing ever to blow that deal.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 06:41 AM
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Yeah... sounds like one of those situations where he was so convinced she didn't want to bang him that he is trying to spite her for rejecting him. But she actually wanted to fuck him.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 01:20 AM
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Hot girls get treated pretty well and enjoy socialising so they probably enjoy jobs in hospitality most of the time. Hot girls have some power, but not as much power as people think. They have absolute power over unattractive beta's who would do anything to bang her. They don't really want to associate with these types, and certainly don't want to feel they owe anything to a creep because he gave her a job. Many men in positions of power have banged a hot girl before, once you have you realise i…
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 01:01 AM
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It seems there's an assumption that nice is even valued. Girls get a kick out of an assertive guy or a dominant guy. It's interesting and fun. It's not as easy to hurt a girls feelings as you might think. There's so much nice out there a little assertiveness is quite refreshing. Being charming is good, being overly polite only shows you are lame and have no edge and probably no backbone. I personally feel interacting with overly nice people very tedious. And I'm expected to smile at them and be …
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 12:47 AM
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You probably could talk your way out of some pussy if you managed to get in an argument with her for sure. You would totally deserve it if you did that lol. If you give her the impression you are judgemental of girls who sleep with guys 'too soon' or otherwise show her that you might think she's a slut for sleeping with you; that's also a pretty good way to ensure you don't get any.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 12:02 AM
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All it does it show her that you get how it works and you're more like an alpha, as long as you're not bitter about it. I doubt it would be a problem if you framed yourself on the right side of the fence, as an alpha. I've laughed with girls heaps of times about the betas who message her constantly and about how they're never gonna get any. We have a little joke about how she will suck my cock whenever I tell her so and they will never get any.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 12:36 PM
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This is total bullshit. There's no way this is coming from actual experience. I bang girls on the first day all the time. I don't know what you want to call girls who do that. I don't judge girls who fuck me haha. It's usually the more experienced girls who know how to make a guy wait 3 dates. And usually one who wants you to be her bf. If she thinks you are hot there's no reason you couldn't bang her on the first date.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 07:22 AM
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What the fuck??? Have you ever been with a girl. This advice is extremely bad. The guy has to make the move first. Obviously you did the right thing by putting your hand between her legs.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 07:18 AM
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I agree sounds like she had to catch the last train. She was probably there to bang the whole time given how far she let you go. I always ask when a girl has to leave, it's up to you to make sure the fucking happens in the time frame you have available.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 07:16 AM
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Haha I thought the same thing. She's not anywhere near as cool as she thinks she is
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 07:04 AM
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Alright, so assuming you look attractive. You need to either approach girls and get their numbers or take them somewhere that day. Or you need to meet girls online. Unless you are actually approaching girls. You're not gonna get laid. That's like expecting to make sales without talking to anyone. The emphasis on 'being happy first' here is crazy. That helps your overall vibe for sure, but you can't get laid if you're not talking to lots of girls AND asking them to meet you, go with you now, or t…
/r/TheRedPill27/08/14 01:56 AM
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The models are just doing a job. Any anxiety they had about wearing weird looking clothes would be long dead through repeated exposure.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/14 01:45 AM
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Thanks man. I'm still picking up girls. I always thought I would get married. I don't really know if you can make a relationship work beyond 5 years or so. My longest is about 18 months. I'm 30 now. Certainly the contract seems bad. I'll have to find out what happens to guys who get divorced in Australia.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/14 09:20 PM
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Haha ok I haven't experienced that one yet
/r/TheRedPill26/08/14 09:30 AM
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When I'm dating a girl and she looks up to me; They want to come over and look after me if I'm sick. Bring me soup etc.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/14 05:46 AM
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In my experience, I don't have that inner yearning. I'm glad for it because I am free now. I did a lot of healing and work on myself. So whatever people have that needs to be healed, that they think their partner will somehow make them complete. I don't have anymore. So I feel like, no matter how much I love the girl, I could quite happily leave at any moment and be fine. I don't need a girl anymore. So with that kind of foundation, it's pretty easy for me to live in a way where I do things my w…
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 11:12 PM
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I'm glad I read this. Since I got blocked on facebook by a girl I 'loved' I really don't ever think like this anymore. Your girl sounds awesome. I really have no idea why people even want a relationship. If you can get laid without one, why would you want a girlfriend. I have like zero interest in a girl 'understanding me' haha. Who gives a fuck. Quite grateful for that.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 10:51 PM
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Yeah man. I found about him after he died. Too young.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 10:47 PM
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Yeah that seems true in my experience. I broke up with a girl cos she wanted kids and I didn't want to take away the opportunity for her to do that by wasting her time. Plus she she loved me so much it was a bit too much when I didn't feel it. It was pretty sad to break her heart. I think if I was banging a bunch of girls, I'd chose the girl who was loyal to me regardless of what I was doing. Like the girl above. It seems most girls are naturally loyal even if you're banging other girls. In fact…
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 12:17 AM
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I think most men who have options wouldn't chose a girl who's fucking other guys for a partner. Even if he's fucking other girls.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/14 04:31 AM
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Haha excellent. Yeah I have zero female friends and I reckon that's why too. I had a little joke with a girl the other day and I almost fell in love on the spot. How often does a girl say anything you can relate to at all. Rarely.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/14 06:12 AM
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So you're saying women can hold a frame? Yes seems so. And do you think they can be as cool as a cool guy? Or they can never be as cool.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/14 02:24 AM
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what about your own personal experience with women
/r/TheRedPill15/08/14 01:11 AM
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Yeah. looks made the biggest difference to me. Especially if I'm getting with them on the first date. I don't have time to show them any of that stuff. Especially that stuff I listed. I don't think any girl is masturbating to a guys sense of fairness. All that other stuff might be a bonus if I get in a relationship with a girl I guess.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 11:58 PM
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Cool man I guess I'll see soon enough. thanks
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 11:53 PM
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Got an example story? I see people IN phase 2, I haven't personally seen a case where they get stuck
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 11:18 PM
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haha.... that is damn cool
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 11:17 PM
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haha yessss... I found I get a LOT more mileage through my bicpes (which ain't all that compared to other guys in the gym, but girls like it) than my intellect, compassion, fairness, responsibility, spirituality and all that crap. Girls want to fuck a hot guy. Duh...
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 11:12 PM
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Well done. I think a lot of the disagreements and differences in perception are between people in the different phases. Personally I find lots of guys seem to have strict rules on what how you should respond to a woman's behaviour. With the phases in mind you can see those rules are important and useful if you're not 100% certain that women just want to be dominated and you don't need to take anything she says seriously.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 11:09 PM
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I find experienced and inexperienced girls seem to be disappointed when you imply, don't deny or flat out tell them you're banging other girls, I guess they're disappointed because you're not looking for something serious or whatever. And then they seem way more down to fuck. it's fuckin weird. It's like once they slot you into the 'player' slot in their mind all the barriers to sex come down. Maybe because they know you can get laid, they know they can't manipulate you, and they know that's wha…
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 01:14 AM
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Best description I've heard of the difference. It's pretty liberating when a girl cancels on you and you were barely even aware you'd made plans. I feel relief these days when a girl makes it clear she isn't interested in sex over text. I'm really glad I didn't have to take her out for an hour to find that out.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/14 11:37 PM
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Yeah. It sounds like you get laid a lot. Haha
/r/TheRedPill04/08/14 10:13 PM
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ohhh you are right.... now that I am aware I might have a stronger preference for those. nice
/r/TheRedPill04/08/14 12:55 AM
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realisticly 3 house moves is more like 10 years. And it's obviously more likely he started with a decent home PC. not some extremely high end servers (for their time)
/r/TheRedPill04/08/14 12:43 AM
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You can't pick up one side of the stick and not the other. She wants the niceness of the feminised man and the alpha traits of the masculine man. She also says she wants the good side of masculinity without the dark side of masculinity. It comes together. Probably unlikely you can have a highly directed man without him being controlling or whatever.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/14 11:55 PM
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haha true that. that actually sucks for a woman in a way. She needs to order him to be the one to give the orders. Doesn't work. It's pretty difficult for her to get him or help him to change. If she encouraged him to be true to himself or follow his mission.. maybe.. It's pretty obvious that he's treating her like his momma and not like a child. There's the two different modes he can operate in right
/r/TheRedPill03/08/14 11:50 PM
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Lol. 3 house moves, probably that's been at least 5 years. The parts you could get out of it would be not only useless in any modern computer, you could replace the whole thing with a working PC for about $100. When I read that I thought it was pretty lame on his part. Source: Worked in IT for 12 years
/r/TheRedPill03/08/14 11:44 PM
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Also progressive desensitisation, aka exposure therapy works: http://www.goodlookingloser.com/anxiety/program
/r/TheRedPill03/08/14 11:25 PM
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If you had a cool design that incorporated the effect of the T would also be cool.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/14 11:22 PM
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hey dude. I had this problem too. You need to fuck another girl as hot as her basically. I was dating a girl who was the hottest girl I've ever dated. She didn't want to sleep with me every time I saw her and I broke up with her (roughly). I was in love with her for like 3 years afterwards. It mostly went away but there was still that part of me that wanted her back. Eventually I pulled some smoking hot but pretty crazy chick back from the club. Once I'd fucked another girl as hot as her.. I tot…
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 05:35 AM
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yeah that would be cool. There's heaaaps of Patrice with Opie and Anthony on youtube. hours and hours and hours. I've really solidified my mindset listening to that. Quite a bit better then reading this site actually cos people on here aren't as matured as Patrice, many still on the path This one's pretty funny. check all the related vids: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qAuN8bvndcI
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 05:20 AM
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Yeah. Fashion pretty much = status. A smoking hot girl is partly high status because of her fashion too. You can't really dress like a bum and be high status in most situations, especially in a club (not counting fame ect.). Yeah lifting is part of looks for sure. I lift. I look like a man.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 01:49 AM
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I've read everything in the sidebar. I know the theory. Looks matter more than the guys who wrote that stuff realise in my experience.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 01:41 AM
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Fame is a different thing altogether. Not the same thing. And clearly no. you haven't actually tried it, you're just talking theory.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 01:39 AM
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It's not projection. I tried the 'looks don't matter' route for years. I went around telling people it didn't matter at all. I wore the clothes I really liked and didn't work out. Turns out I was dressing in clothes that went out of fashion 5 years ago. Any girl who knew anything about fashion could tell I didn't get it from a hundred metres away. Once I put my attention on looking good I started getting laid amazingly easily. I spent 10 years learning 'game' and trying to talk my way into being…
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 01:38 AM
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You actually get less respect by being a player lol. Guys think you're dressing 'gay' or you look like a douchebag. And half of them will just be haters. Getting respect from men is not even close to the same goal as getting laid.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 01:31 AM
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Have you actually tried that being dominant in the club being fat and out of style? Being in shape girls and in style I get totally opposite responses. Yes you totally could get respect from other men. That doesn't mean girls think you're sexy.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 01:26 AM
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oh on the LMR. I have girls 'stop' me like 20-50 times from attempting the first kiss to when I put my cock in her. saying 'we really can't this it's not right' as she pauses from sucking my cock for a second lol. He just doesn't know what he's doing, probably could have fucked 90% of those girls if he realised a girl who keeps stopping and acting like it's you who is 'making her do it' is part of the game. if you're that damn 'nice' you probably do need to learn a few things lol
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 01:10 AM
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maybe so. I'm pretty highly dominant. I always was. Until I looked sexy very few girls were interested. Looks matter
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 01:05 AM
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yeah pretty much right. need to pull the moves. some guys don't have that down. there's some people out there saying looks don't matter. I think it's like 80% of the game if you're trying to get laid. dominance counts for nothing if you don't hit the 'sexy guy' image. dominance coming from an unattractive guy is called creepy. and once you become sexy it doesn't take long to realise you can say anything you want and girls will just love it. in my experience.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 01:03 AM
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That's not my experience when it comes to getting laid. relationships.. maybe she gets something out of his status. doesn't mean she wants to fuck him, or even does often.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 12:52 AM
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I can't really get controlled by women, I get enough phone numbers that I literally forget if a girl replied me or not. I just go through my texts and re-open like 5-15 girls at once. I just about instantly forget about a girl after I texted her lol. Because I'm fucking 1-2 new girls every week I just do not think about girls if I'm not currently texting them.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/14 11:34 PM
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That text is pretty bad, but none of the rest of that is necessarily true. If she is texting back at all there's interest. Who knows what 1000 reasons could have kept her busy. If a girl doesn't text me back today all that means is she's not available that day. Plenty of people think not replying is nicer than saying 'no I don't want to hang out with you'. She may not want to reject you cos she's interested, but she's not available today. So she will wait till you text her the next time or just …
/r/TheRedPill31/07/14 11:19 PM
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Excellent. Well said. I must have crossed some threshold where I look like a man now. People all started commenting about me going to gym in my muscles etc. Clearly I'm in the 'sexy guy' category all of a sudden. It's seems ridiculous to me, like cheat codes. All of a sudden the things I say are interesting and married girls are hitting me up to 'hang out'. Once you hit the template or archetype of 'sexy guy' the whole world treats you differently. I don't really blame hot girls for acting how t…
/r/TheRedPill31/07/14 11:00 PM
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Dawkins follow up post is here: Are there emotional no-go areas where logic dare not show its face? https://richarddawkins.net/2014/07/are-there-emotional-no-go-areas-where-logic-dare-not-show-its-face/
/r/TheRedPill31/07/14 03:43 AM
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If you're getting that all the time it just means you're not attractive enough to sleep with. It means 'I would only sleep with a guy like you if you give me a year of your time.' It's not a shit test, and you can't talk you way or 'RedPill' your way into being sexually attractive. You're also probably presenting yourself as boyfriend material. Get some edge and get under 10% body fat.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/14 01:06 AM
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I wouldn't even worry about friend zone either man. There are girls who will fuck you and girls who wont. You should be finding out which of those girls she is, after you find out it really doesn't matter if you talk to her or not (but why would you? unless she was cool or something). If you fall in love with a girl who won't fuck you then.. you just got to cut her out of your life. It happens, just don't be an idiot and hang around girls you love who don't want to fuck you.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 02:35 AM
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yeah next time make a move early on.... it should work like this You like her You approach her You make a move she either is down or she isn't interested the 'did she give me this or that signal' doesn't need to factor into it really... you just go after it anyway. bitchy looking girls can still be down to fuck. and super friendly warm hearted girls who seem to like you may not be down to fuck. you need to make a move and find out for yourself and then there was some weird awkward shit afterward…
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 02:31 AM
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yeah knowing how the world works doesn't make you immune to grief. not that grief is even a bad thing.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 12:26 AM
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most guys take guys more seriously than girls
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 05:44 AM
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yeah, I put in some serious effort to learn to get laid. Even I can only occasionally get new girls and I can still walk away from just about anything. Once you've banged a few hot girls, you are able to put up with a lot less bs from hot girls too. they can't tool me anymore basically
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 12:17 AM
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yeah wtf this is gay as shit. how about we can fuck as many girls as we want and only get respect. we don't have to deal with periods and go insane every month. We get automatic respect, no matter how much they bullshit, men always respect each other more on first contact than they do women
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 12:13 AM
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So it worked out ok? Do you think you can still be the man in her life? Or did you still overall come second?
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 12:01 AM
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yeah agreed. probably doing a good thing
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 11:52 PM
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that's cool man. yeah you don't need to take a girls mood very seriously. smart girls even know that. that's why girls need a man in the first place. her emotions are so wild and unpredictable, that's scary for her. if you just maintain the same state weather she's going crazy or not, apparently that's quite comforting and safe for her. if she goes a bit wild and you just escalate it and go even more crazy, she is terrified of her own instability as it is, if you jump on board and make it even w…
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 11:27 PM
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Yeah I was sort of worried women think like that, then I just realised that's a horrible choice of woman lol. not hard to avoid at all. I've dated girls I would totally marry. I don't think they are so hard to find. I've had girls nickname me alpha male. maybe it's not that hard if you have your shit together.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 11:18 PM
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Yeah. I don't know if even an 'alpha' guy can make a girl be attracted to him. I don't know how he got himself into that position, but it was a pretty awesome move to just say, 'No sex? see you later'. Maybe he's just starting to figure it out
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 10:56 PM
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That's right, I think it was a way of explaining why he cut contact. He didn't stay and try and guilt her into what she owed him. He left.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 10:53 PM
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You could write out the essence of the message for us
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 10:47 PM
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Yeah I found that recently. I called this hot girl I took home from the club on about 15 different things where she was obviously lying. I'm like... how much do you bullshit everyone around you... how did you even get like this.. it was weird.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 06:42 AM
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You should hold her hand within 5 minutes of meeting her. If she won't let you she isn't down to sleep with you.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 06:22 AM
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pretty sure he's right, that's actually how it works. the alcohol is sort of a joke, rejection you don't really care after it's happened hundreds of times.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 06:13 AM
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Yeah wtf, as soon as I read that it looked like she was ready to from like the 2nd or 3rd text. She was just waiting for him to make a move.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/14 01:18 AM
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yea but you don't need to be a world class athlete to get pussy, you just gotta be better than most guys. Most guys don't even try to look good
/r/TheRedPill09/07/14 11:19 PM
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funny story. oh the love confession letters. I got blocked on facebook for my last one and discovered trp shortly after. Is it possible to prevent the one-itis or losing your power in a relationship? I was just listening to the Mel Gibson rants where he loses his shit and I'm like, I didn't express it, but I can relate to the feeling of betrayal when she withholds sex and you lose the power in the relationship. I usually break up with a girl right when I lose the power, but something about losin…
/r/TheRedPill09/07/14 04:48 AM
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This post talks about two women who believed in feminism, they didn't respect the men in their lives and cost them their relationships in the end. They end up over 40 and single and realised how badly they treated men when they were young and hot. And now they can't get the attention of the men they want. It's pretty sad really, the ego of the second woman was totally out of control, she only just faced the truth and now has to try and rebuild her life. But she'll never get back what she had. I …
/r/TheRedPill08/07/14 11:59 AM
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So.. this is about a girl who doesn't do much/anything in bed. You said you do all those things. How would you keep your man if there was no sex?
/r/TheRedPill08/07/14 05:38 AM
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That's total bullshit you can't make her want to if she doesn't already. She's either not attracted to you or has no sex drive. Either is a deal breaker. You can find girls who want to fuck you more than you even want it. Sex is VERY IMPORTANT. You can't be in a relationship with this girl.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/14 05:35 AM
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Yeah. you're fucked. have to move on.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/14 05:32 AM
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I can always tell that they're definitely interested after my dick is inside them.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/14 03:06 AM
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Where else is he going to pull 20-something year old pussy
/r/TheRedPill08/07/14 12:20 AM
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If they thought you were hot they would respond. They're not attracted to you.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/14 11:50 PM
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Yeah I think if you're depressed you can't really socialise. Otherwise if you look good and talk to lots of girls you can get laid. And if you're doing both of those things life is probably at least ok
/r/TheRedPill06/07/14 11:37 AM
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Yeah. Not for me. There's something missing if I'm not getting laid. The pleasure itself isn't that great. Half the time no one knows except me. I don't think it's validation. I stopped seeking validation, only after that did getting laid seem even more important. It would seem like you're right, there should be no difference to masturbating if you don't need validation, but that's not my experience. For me the difference between having fwb versus no options is pretty huge. If you have multiple …
/r/TheRedPill06/07/14 11:35 AM
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'bitches ain't shit' may be true, but I think you're happier if you're getting laid, especially if you're not in a relationship to get it
/r/TheRedPill05/07/14 09:27 AM
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Here's a clue What are you terrified of the most? What are you avoiding dealing with? Also read 'The War of Art' - Steven Pressfield You don't really 'choose' a mission. There's just things that you have to do.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/14 09:12 AM
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Nice one man. Lesson learned huh. I reckon women seem to lead us back to our mission with their absence or their presence. What do you think
/r/TheRedPill05/07/14 09:10 AM
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I think for a very few guys, probably very overweight or very skinny, it could be their primary mission. Still good advice. But it could be I think.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/14 09:09 AM
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Also fixing this IS my mission right now. Don't think just because you shouldn't make one woman your mission, that getting laid couldn't be your mission, it is for some of us.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/14 09:06 AM
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I have heard people say here that lifting, in particular, is a means to an end, and not the mission itself. Yeah that totally depends on the person of course. If you are fucking terrified to step into a gym it's probably your mission. haha. But of course for many many other guys it might just be a part that supports a different mission.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/14 09:04 AM
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This is probably the bit that matters The very best thing I could say is that in order to avoid a situation like that coming up, a man should actively embrace very difficult and scary situations in his life. Things he thinks he needs to do but isn’t doing and go forward with them. If you're trying to 'find' you're mission, and there's also fears you haven't faced, that's probably what it is. You 'looking for your mission' is another way to avoid it. Turn around and look it in the face. If you ju…
/r/TheRedPill05/07/14 09:02 AM
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That's kind of true but not really. Being on a mission doesn't cure approach anxiety on it's own. http://www.goodlookingloser.com/entry/approach-anxiety-program/
/r/TheRedPill05/07/14 08:57 AM
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This. so true man, the guys think a certain kind of woman will seduce them. My player mate says 'all women want to be dominated'. that's my experience too. at least in terms of the guy that's fucking her.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/14 08:40 AM
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yeah I think watching it even if you're well informed, 16yrs old or 40yrs old can't be good for you or your beliefs
/r/TheRedPill05/07/14 08:35 AM
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haha yeah. surely in that culture a woman only has any status at all because of the man she's with anyway. wouldn't that bitch have zero status once Leonidas died
/r/TheRedPill05/07/14 08:32 AM
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I totally agree. That annoyed me about that in the first one. He might ask her opinion from her perspective on some stuff in private. There's no way in front of everyone he would show that he was her bitch, by asking for her approval. He's lose respect in front of any real men in our culture. Imagine back then, and he's supposed to be their king. How many of those warriors do you think are pussy whipped? Surely none. Yeah I watched like 20 seconds of the trailer for the 2nd one. I turned it off …
/r/TheRedPill05/07/14 08:27 AM
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Yeah that's totally true. And even if she approaches you still gotta control and make it happen, even if it's so easy it's a joke, you still gotta take the lead and fuck her. It's pretty rare a women will strait up verbally offer you pussy 'Let's go somewhere and have some fun'. I think some guys think if they somehow increase their inner worth enough, women will offer them pussy. I still think you gotta go out and take it. The exception being celebrities. I gather (even very minor) celebrities …
/r/TheRedPill05/07/14 08:19 AM
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maybe you could meet a girl through your social circle. I don't know when you think women are gonna start approaching guys lol
/r/TheRedPill04/07/14 01:25 AM
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This is good advice. A girl you have oneitis for could easily be meeting up with a guy she met yesterday at his place to bang.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/14 12:26 AM
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sex is never offered to you. at the end of the day you still have to look good and talk to a lot of girls if you want to get laid
/r/TheRedPill04/07/14 12:06 AM
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totally. who would date a girl that doesn't
/r/TheRedPill03/07/14 11:58 PM
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haha true we were enjoying the story no need for that
/r/TheRedPill02/07/14 04:20 AM
1

not if she likes it haha. I've had girls come over to fuck from that
/r/TheRedPill30/06/14 11:59 PM
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The reason you feel that way is because you think there's some imbalance of power. Like 'I know I want to fuck her but I don't know if she wants to fuck me, therefore I'm in the weaker position'. You need her to validate you, and you don't want to validate her. You don't want to give her what she won't give you. Once you don't need girls to validate you, once you realise if a girl wants to fuck or you or doesn't want to fuck you makes no difference to how 'worthy' or good of a person you are. Yo…
/r/TheRedPill30/06/14 11:53 PM
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oh yeah, I thought you meant if they keep texting you but aren't sleeping with you. If I'm walking behind a girl in the street I will stare at her ass with no shame for aaagges lol. I see girls seeing me checking them out. I don't care if they are turned on or creeped our or both. It doesn't really enter my head. If you're an attractive guy people will look at you too. It doesn't give them any special powers. They can get some validation, it's not worth that much. You're better off making yourse…
/r/TheRedPill30/06/14 11:39 PM
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You just escalate with them. Ask them if they are good at blow jobs. Invite them over. Invite them over for sex. Tell them to send you pictures of their tits. Send her a picture of your dick. The flirty innuendo bs ends pretty quickly.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/14 11:23 PM
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This is awesome. Well done man. Didn't know if you could actually turn it around.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 05:12 AM
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Isn't that like saying girls wear makeup just to look pretty.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/14 07:10 PM
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Girls don't fantasise about fucking guys with really sexy personalities lol
/r/TheRedPill22/05/14 07:05 PM
1

I'm high value already. It's possible to have an edgy look. Of course tattoos can help that if you do it right.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/14 08:22 AM
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Haha... yeah still unsure what to get. It had better be something I think is awesome. Cos at some point I'll realise I don't need a tattoo to get laid, and I'll be stuck with it.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/14 05:50 AM
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I'll get a 6 pack for girls, not because I want their validation, but because I know I can fuck more girls if I do. A hot girl knows she's not actually a hot girl. Just guys think she is, and want to fuck her. A tattoo doesn't make me a badass, but if I display something hot girls think they want to fuck, why not. Edit: So a tattoo doesn't make you anything, but it sure as hell can make you appear to be something different, and when the whole world responds to you differently because you changed…
/r/TheRedPill22/05/14 05:44 AM
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So if it were me, I would have presented myself as 'a bit of a player' from the outset, and she would probably know I'd been seeing other girls the entire time I've known her. So while she was away, it would be assumed I'd be seeing other girls. And if I actually am seeing other girls, I probably won't be obsessing over her, I'll just see her when I get back and continue where things left off.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/14 04:47 AM
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Isn't it true that having tattoos is one of the things that will make you look more edgy, and more likely a girl will categorize you as 'sexy alpha' and not categorize you as 'boyfriend material I might fuck on the 10th date'. I'm considering a tattoo for this reason. Why not present the image of the person I want to be seen as.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/14 04:44 AM
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What was your mindset that allowed you to pull this off? I am currently going through the process of stopping seeking validation. I noticed yesterday about 20-40 times I had an impulse to do/say something to get validation. It's extremely liberating when you don't need validation, I had no idea that it restricted me from doing just about anything I might want to do, because someone somewhere wouldn't approve. Clearly you aren't restricted by this anymore. It looks like you're being a total assho…
/r/TheRedPill21/05/14 10:48 PM
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Hey man. I'm in nofap more than I'm on here. I say it works from personal experience. In terms if alpha and beta. I have a lot of alpha traits naturally (or learned it or however alpha traits come about) it seems. When I'm doing nofap they really come on strong. For me it would be the difference between being alpha completely naturally without even thinking about what I'm doing, vs trying to be alpha when my first instinct is being beta. I've read a lot on nofap, there's plenty of guys who you c…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/14 09:11 PM
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