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David Deida on Women Lying

The_BitterTruth · 2014-07-24T19:26:53+00:00

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VUQukMUJSkw&feature=youtu.be&t=44m35s I particularly like the metaphor of the feminine as weather. If you...

The_BitterTruth

July 24, 2014

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Title	David Deida on Women Lying
Author	The_BitterTruth
Upvotes	3
Comments	8
Date	July 24, 2014 7:26 PM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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[–]favourthebold1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

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Sure.

Deida is talking about the essential nature of masculine and feminine energy. He says that the masculine, as he describes it, is like consciousness itself, still and unchanging. The feminine is constantly changing, shifting and re-forming.

The metaphor he uses to describe the feminine is the weather. The weather is windy one day and sunny the next. You don't try to understand the weather, you just roll with it. Likewise, women and their shifting moods shouldn't be taken at face value. When a woman says, "I hate you and I never want to see you again", she is likely not stating a fact. She is expressing a passing state, like a wind-storm.

If we look at a woman's behavior like the weather we are less likely to get lost in it. We can see it as a temporary state. Hold your frame, weather the storm and know that what she says isn't literal, concrete and objective. It's just an emotional wind-storm.

How does this fit into the Red Pill language? Think of the shit-test. The key with a shit-test is to realize that it's not to be taken at face value. This weather metaphor is a more positive version of that idea. You don't get mad at the weather when it changes. You just accept it and even value the change. Rain can be beautiful. A storm can be beautiful. A woman's emotional outburst can be beautiful. How? It can be like a barbell, testing our strength and ability to remain calm and centered.

[–]favourthebold0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

that's cool man. yeah you don't need to take a girls mood very seriously. smart girls even know that.

that's why girls need a man in the first place. her emotions are so wild and unpredictable, that's scary for her. if you just maintain the same state weather she's going crazy or not, apparently that's quite comforting and safe for her.

if she goes a bit wild and you just escalate it and go even more crazy, she is terrified of her own instability as it is, if you jump on board and make it even worse, and no one is driving the ship, no one is left in charge. no wonder women don't trust some guys who can't even maintain their own emotional stability.

girls go nuts all the time, they have no solid foundation to stand on on their own. they get embarrassed by their own behaviour sometimes. they live in a whirlwind, they just have to deal with it.

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