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| 31 | Men and their repulsive homes 🤢They are probably looking for their perfect women with the 10 body 10 face and will clean their room/apartment for them just like mommy did. I don’t understand it either haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 11:10 PM |
| 35 | Did you also notice this?“Not all men” or “WHAT ABOUT”. It’s like why can’t we have a discussion about women’s issues without some man from the wood work deflecting back towards men. It’s just a strategy to convince women that their issues aren’t as important. It’s like when you talk about how many women are raped and murdered and a guy goes YEAH WELL MEN COMMIT SUICIDE MORE. Like what’s the point of that? Are they saying men are committing suicide because women won’t sleep with them? It’s sad they don’t realize that th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 11:03 PM |
| 21 | Narcissist Men = VampiresI think they know exactly what they’re doing. Exactly as you said they see it as a challenge, they want to know how much they can get away with until they break you. Then they want to see how much apologizing it takes to get you back and then repeat. I think when it’s at that level it’s more malicious than just simply being too stupid and shallow to realize they’re hurting someone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 10:58 PM |
| 3 | I was permabanned from AITA for recommending violence as a way to stand up for ourselvesI totally support this women’s right to defend herself. But I can see where your comment could’ve been construed as advocation for violence unprovoked. Also AITA mods are ass ever since they started allowing basically any post ever they’re all just full of fake stories mean to rile people up for no reason. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 10:51 PM |
| 17 | Weird vetting tip: Do not let him take you on a date to a chain restaurantI agree, some of my friends think those are “nice” places. I’m just like.... maybe it’s my privilege speaking but they’re nasty and not worth the money. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 10:42 PM |
| 15 | Weird vetting tip: Do not let him take you on a date to a chain restaurantHaha I’m glad he choose wisely :) I guess my main point was just don’t go where you wouldn’t go period. Regardless of if it’s a date or not. If you won’t take yourself there don’t let a man take you there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 08:21 PM |
| 40 | Ladies, I present you LV Potpourri - a mix of different flavors of pickme/LVM dynamic, all put together into one convenient package!This is so bad it almost feels fake. Like What a nice little fantasy creative writing lesson there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 07:22 PM |
| 23 | Found out that my sociopath ex was cheating on me. He gaslighted me and made me believe I was jealous, paranoid and crazyYes! I’m glad the trash took its self out If anyone is better off without him it’s you! Texting ex’s and past hookups and gaslighting you about having standards are all red flags. Now you know the warning signs! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 07:19 PM |
| 75 | Weird vetting tip: Do not let him take you on a date to a chain restaurantI think this depends on what chain. There are som “chain” Restaurants that are pretty upscale. obviously if we are talking Olive Garden, AppleBees etc. no question. But honestly I wouldn’t go to those places myself, so why would you go with a guy there anyways. 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 07:16 PM |
| 14 | I finally broke up with my LVM todayYay!!! I am so proud of you! Good job breaking the cycle and getting out. You’ll find a better life for you and your child and that’s the best thing a mother could do ☺️🎊🎉 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 07:03 PM |
| 77 | Are there men that don't SPIT?I don’t know where you live so maybe it’s a cultural thing...but in the US id say there are definitely men who don’t spit. Men who spit a lot are normally deemed douchey or trashy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 06:49 PM |
| 6 | On wgtow, we are considered a cult. New mods coming down hard on what can be talked about, discussions on male violence & depravity not allowed? Accuse our mods of brigading and trolling. I love FDS, it helped me immensely. This bs post had me leave wgtow.I think they’ve confused criticism and bashing. Pointing out when men take advantage of cultural misogyny is not bashing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 05:51 PM |
| 12 | On wgtow, we are considered a cult. New mods coming down hard on what can be talked about, discussions on male violence & depravity not allowed? Accuse our mods of brigading and trolling. I love FDS, it helped me immensely. This bs post had me leave wgtow.To be fair I’m not even sure we would want to be associated with a group that dubs themselves WGTOW considering the optics of their male counterpart MGTOW. Obviously they aren’t the same but rhetoric and optics matters. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 05:42 PM |
| 20 | On wgtow, we are considered a cult. New mods coming down hard on what can be talked about, discussions on male violence & depravity not allowed? Accuse our mods of brigading and trolling. I love FDS, it helped me immensely. This bs post had me leave wgtow.Apparently they don’t understand what a cult is. We don’t worship a person or thing. We don’t practice any set religion. The only way we could be considered a cult would be if we were sinister in our practices. I would like to know who we are harming? Men? They’re harmed by checks notes us not dating them? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 05:38 PM |
| 25 | On wgtow, we are considered a cult. New mods coming down hard on what can be talked about, discussions on male violence & depravity not allowed? Accuse our mods of brigading and trolling. I love FDS, it helped me immensely. This bs post had me leave wgtow.I’m confused, they don’t like us because we recognize the systematic and cultural misogyny and gender roles imposed on us? So what were just supposed to ignore them and pretend that we’ve just over come them? “Perpetuate harmful gender stereotypes”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 05:31 PM |
| 131 | Ladies, I present to you, The Scrotes of PPD: Where Male “10s” are 5ft6 and 58 years old, racial discrimination is unfair to men only, and Adriana Lima is Ugly and Masculine. Screeeeeaming at the delusion 🤣🤣Just another prime example of how delusional men are about their perceived attractiveness level. It’s how when men are like “I can never get a date I’m attractive, successful, and charming. Obviously this just means women are shallow gold diggers.” But in reality you know that man isn’t attractive and isn’t charming but instead just have shallow friendships where they tell him what they want to hear. Thus begins the positive feedback loop where he never improves himself and instead complains abo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 05:12 PM |
| 70 | It pains me to see this so often described as a "green flag" by my otherwise shrewd and level-headed sisters in arms!People think love bombing is a green flag because we grew up in a society that gave us fairy tales and rom coms. Where the whole hour and a half entertainment is a man love bombing a women until she inevitably falls in love with him despite his character flaws and abuse. I’m glad people are finally realizing happily ever after is not real like in the movies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 11:38 PM |
| 2 | Men are so gross!! This is my ex’s coworker. I didn’t even know he had my number. He said he wanted nothing but then proceeded to ask me to come over 5 min later as if I would’ve been like “omg yes I thought you’d never ask! On my way!!!!!” Entire convo last 10 min. The audacity.Oh no his words are 100% not a reflection of you. He’s just a trash lazy man who does this and then probably whines about why he’s single and lonely. 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 11:14 PM |
| 6 | Candace Owens is so cringyI’m sorry. Candace who? Stop making stupid people famous. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 11:10 PM |
| 38 | It’s a pandemic of LVM men everywhere!! Another story of an LVM man taking a woman out on a date. PandemicI love how he continued to pay and not say anything but then demonizes the woman like come on. Not only is he a LVM but he’s an asshole. If you don’t want to pay fine out your self as a LVM but don’t waste her time while complaining behind her back about it. Learn how to communicate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 11:05 PM |
| 2 | Men are so gross!! This is my ex’s coworker. I didn’t even know he had my number. He said he wanted nothing but then proceeded to ask me to come over 5 min later as if I would’ve been like “omg yes I thought you’d never ask! On my way!!!!!” Entire convo last 10 min. The audacity.Did he just try to insult you by saying your head is big (negging)? And then less than 10 messages later say the most laziest invite over I have ever seen “come through”? Not even a come over I’ll make you food, or we can watch Netflix and cuddle. Like he’s so bad and so lazy he thought he’d get you with “COME THROUGH”?! And then “alrighty another night” please tell me you told him to never message you again and to lose your number. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 11:00 PM |
| 78 | Yeah, by “missed out on so many games” you mean “be a minimally involved father by dedicating some more of my time to working and taking care of my wife and child as I should?”What is the wording on this and why is it acceptable? This guy is acting like he is God gift to the family that he CHOSE to start. Why is it that men are always applauded for doing the bare minimum? If a women said something similar they'd tell her she should be grateful for her family and that if she wanted to continue to game she shouldn't have gotten knocked up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 08:27 AM |
| 183 | LVM movie red flags! 🚩Honestly I'd be surprised if a LVM even read clock-work orange or the catcher in the rye. But that is still a really good point that I never considered before. What someone's favorite consumed media really says about them. Its like how you should not date the guy who watches Joe Rogan or Ben Shapiro, but that is more obvious than if someone's favorite shows are Breaking Bad and Rick and Morty. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 08:21 AM |
| 153 | Fragile masculinity 101I love how when a women talks about how they feel they're dismissed "only you can control how you feel" but when a man doesn't feel the way they want its of course the women's fault. Its time we start telling men the same thing, only they can control the way they feel and they should not rely on women to make them feel a certain way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 08:13 AM |
| 368 | No one ever asks men where they get their confidence.Where do you get your confidence from? Add that to the long long list of question men never get asked but women always do. I just love how media has gone from full blown sexist to only subtly sexist and they think its okay. I'm so glad women are recognizing it and calling them out! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 07:43 AM |
| 109 | Watch for their actions not their words.When I'm considering being with someone I always ask myself how do they make me feel physically? Does he make my heart skip a beat? does he give me so many butterflies in my stomach that it aches? can I think of nothing but him that it give me a headache? If the answer is yes to any of those, then he isn't worth it. Those feelings are not love, they're your nerves because you know something is wrong. The right man will make you feel solid, wanted, and eventually loved. To the point where you won… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 07:36 AM |
| 148 | Age gap relationships are dangerous for women mentally and oftentimes physically. The odds are high that this man killed his 26 year old wife who was apparently planning to divorce him.23 year age difference? What the hell, how is this so normalized. Older men only date younger women because women their own age know better than to put up with their depraved behavior. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 04:06 AM |
| 195 | Nobody’s nicer than a guy that hasn’t fucked you yetThis is why you never sleep with a guy until you have a good repertoire with him. So you can be assured he isn't just using you to get off since he is bored and horny. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 03:23 AM |
| 103 | The new reality of dating over 65: Men want to live together; women don’t"I really believe that women no longer need men, whatsoever,” D’Alfonso said. “I’m totally irrelevant.” ding ding ding!! Even a broken clock is right twice a day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 02:46 AM |
| 63 | "Ultimatum" and a Culture of Boundary-ShamingIts also only the women they shame for having boundaries. Men will post things like " my girlfriends chews weirdly and it bothers me should I break up with her? " and the comments will be saying "of course you deserve better" etc. A woman will post how her boy friend emotionally abuses her and is addicted softcore porn on Instagram and the comments will be saying that "if you love him you'll stay, there is nothing wrong with that, its normal in a relationship, you can fix him, he just needs a li… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 02:11 AM |
| 53 | Blinding Realization: "I love independent women" actually means "I am not prepare to emotionally support you in any way"He was moved my independent woman?? like it was some realization to him that women are capable human beings able to exist without a man and provide for themselves? TF? But regardless, its a pickme song. You're so right though, men just say they want an independent woman but in reality its because they want to be lazy in the relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 01:34 AM |
| 77 | Has anyone else noticed that a lot of couples just aren't happy?All of my friends that are in relationships are in broken ones, it was all downhill after the classic honeymoon period. They stay because they think its easier than going through life alone. The bar is so low, they're like well he is mostly nice and he doesn't physically abuse me so what more could a girl ask for? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 01:22 AM |
| 39 | Dumping his baggage only 5 minutes into the conversationYESSS!!! I love it, you know your worth! I honestly almost puked a little when he said "sorry this good guy isn't for you" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 01:13 AM |
| 139 | Dumping his baggage only 5 minutes into the conversationHe's on tinder and she hasn't even moved out yet. The audacity of men never ceases to amaze me. He didn't even take FIVE MINS to reflect on why his relationship ended but instead is trying to jump to the next life boat he can find. PLEASE tell me you unmatched him! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 01:07 AM |
| 71 | I'll just be single then lolRight? The problem is men thinking they have a chance with women who are out of their league that won't give them the time of day. Men don't realize that its doesn't matter if she is even "confident enough to approach him" because she never would in the first place. They always think they're in the major league, when they're batting off a T. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 12:58 AM |
| 112 | Just through the whole man outshe tells him exactly what she needs and explains how her body works and he then argues with her?? So she comes to post on the internet how to explain it better? Sweetie, its not the explanation its the man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 12:52 AM |
| 96 | Not anymore! Thank u, FDS!How did women get conned into thinking they're superior for being more nice to someone who wouldn't be nice to them? NICE FOR WHAT? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 11:32 PM |
| 41 | The amount of times I see posts like this makes my eyes roll so hard that I’ve probably fractured my optic nerve. The entitlement is realHow do you feel about girls making the first move? Please give me attention and validation. FTFY. This is either a girl trying to be "not like other girls" (pickme) or a boy mad that he is too afraid to make the first move and physical affection isn't just falling into their laps (LV). Also mods suck on r/AskReddit, they're karma whoring since that is posted every day and should've been removed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 10:06 PM |
| 86 | This is freaking scary. We are not even safe at homeshe is even on the second story and he climbed all the way up there. She said she couldn’t believe it when she found out Rodriguez-Gomez was released on bond, online reports said. We're not even protected by our own judicial system. “Originally when he first made entry he was smiling at me and he was just muttering,” she said. She said the man lives in a building nearby and she’s seen him before, but he’s never spoken to her. In the video, she repeatedly tells him to leave. She said he asked h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 09:56 PM |
| 175 | i think my eyes rolled back so far i saw my brain.This guy is probably thinking he is being sly asking to hang out with your cat but in reality he is just looking for that invite over so he can try to pressure you into sex. Boy BYE. I'm surprised he didn't turn this into a pussy joke. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 09:46 PM |
| 54 | I Hope She Leaves Him, He's Totally UnhingedEmotional abuse, and gaslighting. She's blaming this on his withdrawals but somehow already knows exactly how he'll act later. Please this is a pattern of abuse, just another case of "my man abuses me but please give me the validation I need to stay with him because I don't value my self". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 09:37 PM |
| 10 | How was your experience dating/marrying Engineers?Studies have shown that there is a trend on what professions marry each other (https://www.bloomberg.com/graphics/2016-who-marries-whom/ [based off of US Census data] ). I believe this is because certain personalities are more likely to go into a profession. Make of it what you will, but as someone who works with engineers every day they have...obsessive personalities and this will lead to neglect in a relationship. So while yeah maybe they won't cheat on you, they also might not treat you the w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 09:23 PM |
| 327 | geee i wonder whyHe's...He is so close to getting it. So I guess we can add stupid on top of short, ugly, and broke. Imagine having no redeeming qualities whatsoever and still wondering why you don't date. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 08:24 PM |
| 8 | How You End Up A Forever GF, Or A Reluctant FWB...STRAIGHT From The ANIMALS Mouth...His whole post is just one ad on why not to date him, even if he considers you good enough to be his sex slave.. sorry I mean girlfriend. 🚩🚩🚩🚩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 10:28 PM |
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