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REMINDER 👑feast_or_famine1/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 07:24 PM
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RED FLAG 🚨feast_or_famine1/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 03:42 PM
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LEVEL UPfeast_or_famine1/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 01:06 AM
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LESSON LEARNEDfeast_or_famine1/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 09:53 PM
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DISCUSSIONfeast_or_famine1/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 05:28 AM
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FDS MEMESfeast_or_famine1/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 02:56 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYfeast_or_famine1/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 09:51 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYfeast_or_famine1/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 05:46 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYfeast_or_famine1/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 06:57 PM
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LIES MEN TELLfeast_or_famine1/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 04:29 AM
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Isn't it tragic we should emotionally prepare ourselves to be ghosted after getting fucked. After they get what they want, they usually cut and run. And you're right, there's really no measure of time that can weed out these assholes. I grossly underestimate the extent that men will go to in order to gain a woman's trust just to exploit them in such intimate ways.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 08:39 AM
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I'm not looking to be engaged by any means. I do not want marriage. I see your point in not wanting to spend 3 months or longer just to find out if there is sexual chemistry. I suppose I don't consider lack of sexual chemistry (at first) to be like an absolute deal breaker. And what I mean by that is I think when you're with someone new, both your bodies need to be learned. It's a process, imo. I suppose my goal is to find out if he's a rubbish man before finding out if he's rubbish in bed. Than…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 08:35 AM
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So, the first time we were ever supposed to meet up, he tells me that very day, he found out his grandma only had 6 months left to live. He didn't return my calls/texts even though we had made plans the day prior. His grandma was sick and she did die, but he didn't really find out that day. He used that as an excuse. He stayed up until like 6 AM drinking and was sleeping the day away. He didn't have the decency to let me know he wasn't going to show. He blew me off. And yes, insecure me still fu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 06:32 PM
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I think it's an inherent part of being a human to crave connection and intimacy with others.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 08:02 PM
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Love this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 11:32 PM
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I'm sure you are beautiful. This sounds awful, but I think men see that as more of an advantage. Like they might figure a woman that isn't conventially attractive is more willing to do things because she may be insecure. Definitely not saying that is the case with you, just stating that once again, men are pigs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 10:05 PM
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You know when women have a bunch of emotions and mood swings during their period? Want to know the hormone influencing those behaviors? Testosterone. Yeah...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 03:58 PM
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Coming soon to America.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 12:44 AM
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Well said.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 06:32 PM
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I would like to ask you a question and I hope you don't take offense. I pass no judgment on what you do. I have opinions, but you know what they say about opinions. When you come into contact with married men, do you ever feel you're violating any morals you have? I ask because it seems like a main point within FDS is to support other women, but doesn't your work go against that concept when you're getting paid by married men to do sexual things for them while their wives are ignorant to all of …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 06:18 PM
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Yep! I just recently decided to dabble in the world of OLD. It was brief. I matched with a man who on paper was seemingly great. We began talking and I told him upfront that I'm not comfortable with meeting up right away. He seemed fine with it. He kept on pushing it and asking me to meet with him. He said he was only trying to "help" and that I needed to break out of my shell. I said he wasn't respecting my boundaries and he proceeded to say he's not interested anymore because my attitude isn't…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 06:05 PM
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Dammmmmmnnn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 02:38 AM
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Silence kills them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 09:43 PM
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Oh, this brings back memories of when I was with my abusive, sociopathic ex. Silly me thought typing book length texts would resonate with him. Long story short: they know full well what they're doing. They always do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 03:10 PM
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Tinder is a cesspool.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 05:13 PM
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Marriage as a business transaction...yes, I agree it is beneficial in that context. I guess I was looking at it more generally.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 07:28 PM
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Only if you want marriage, yes. I personally do not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 03:05 PM
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I love my lady bits. I never really looked at it much and still don't, but when I've been curious about the entire view, I'm like, hmm I like what I see. No two vaginas are the same! And each one is just as beautiful as the next.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 12:00 AM
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What?! What kind of sorcery is this?! Really though, you deserve this! I'm living vicariously through you right now. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 10:27 PM
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Holy shit. I never thought about it like this. Adding this one to the archives. 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 10:13 PM
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It's really sad to have to resort to begging someone to marry you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 10:10 PM
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I would just divorce him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 12:28 AM
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Abscesses. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 12:26 AM
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I just saw a video on tiktok where a woman said she was showering with her bf and when she washed her ass, he was dumbfounded because he didn't know he had to do that. He was 24. Apparently he's not the only man to not know this?! 🤢🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 09:34 PM
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Lol. I am old. 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 03:29 PM
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That's why ones like that end up beating themselves off while ice cream drips onto their beer bellies and they use their man tears as lube, all while this is taking place in their mom's basement.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 05:17 AM
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I don't know what this means.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 04:40 AM
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I'm in this boat as well. I'm coming to terms with it. I have a vibrator for pleasure and animals for companionship. What can a man add that the 2 aforementioned can't? Nothing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 06:30 PM
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Thank you! ❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 11:46 PM
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Where'd you get that?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 10:45 PM
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I do it myself and it takes minutes. Penetration isn't necesary which we all know. I am not currently sexually active and have orgasms multiple times during the week. I know women who have sex with men regularly and have never orgasmed. I tell them to buy a freaking vibrator, hold it on your clit for like a minute and BAM. A vibrator isn't necesary, though. Your hands can work just as well. Men make it seem like it's so much effort, but it's truly not. I can satisfy myself better than a man can.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 08:24 PM
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✌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 04:46 PM
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It really is a joke. Libfem turned me off from feminsim entirely until I realized that liberal feminism isn't real feminism.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 03:14 PM
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Those are gorgeous! You're going to nail your interviews! 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 03:12 PM
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Lmao. 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 08:50 PM
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Thank you for posting this. This is comedic gold. What. A. Clown. 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 08:48 PM
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He was probably just offended because he really did think we pee out of our vaginas.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 08:47 PM
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They try to prove that they aren't misogynists, yet resort to harassment and threats. They're FUCKING LOSERS. They are so very threatened by women recognizing their own self worth and coming together with other women. We are strong on our own, but even stronger together. They hate it and it's such a treat to see their sensitive little egos get crushed to smithereens.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 03:09 PM
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Is this...is this a joke?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 01:26 AM
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Wow. Penguins do more to attract mates than men do. Am I suprised. No. No, I am not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 06:29 AM
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Oh my gosh. If I had a heart, it would be exploding right now. This is the EFFING CUTEST. 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 06:27 AM
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You go, girl. Your time is precious and it should be valued by whoever you're with. So happy you see that! ❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 06:26 AM
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😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 06:16 AM
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Ugh. Men do not deserve us!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 01:27 AM
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Thanks, lol. I feel like a 70 year old grandma trying to keep up with the times. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 11:47 PM
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Ladies, what is OLD? Lol, I don't know what it stands for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 11:36 PM
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Thanks, Queen! 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 11:13 PM
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Learning to take accountability has been the hugest factor in helping me move forward from my abusive ex. I'm not blaming myself for his behavior, nor would I ever blame any woman, but it comes to a point where you have to ask yourself and get to the root of why you'd allow such behavior in the first place. That's how we don't repeat those kinds of situations.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 10:10 PM
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Ahh, the naive young girl falling for the older man who she probably thinks has it all figured out. Nope. Those ones date down for a reason. 22 and 36 is different from say, 36 and 50. He's preying on her inexperience. This reminds me of my ex. We started to date when I was 27 and he was 34. Not as bad of a gap, but now he's 36 going on 37 and he's with a 23 year old that he knocked up within a few weeks. Guess it's easy for predators like him going after youngins whose brains aren't even fully …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 08:56 PM
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48 is the new 20! My grandma went back to school at 55. ❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 02:41 AM
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Never trust a man. It's sad that's what it's come to for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 02:38 AM
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mercybenelli: I don't know if he actually does, lol. Buuut, I don't put anything past incels such as himself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 04:46 PM
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I'm going to be 30 this year. I've heard from family and friends that their thirties, even their forties, were the best times/decade of their lives. For me, my twenties have mostly been a raging dumpster fire, so I'm inclined to agree that my thirties will be nothing but moving up. You learn a lot in your twenties. I feel like we take that knowledge and apply it to the next decade, making the ride a bit more smooth throughout the next ten years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 12:30 PM
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Eh, I guess abusing women is their ultimate fantasy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 12:25 PM
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Lolol. That one guy that fucks his mom and is an incel that messages everyone on here just messaged me saying, "you have no soul, you sea witch." I thought I'd share so we can all collectively laugh at him. 😊😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 07:21 AM
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Absolutely! This shit is prime entertainment. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 05:19 AM
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Am I the only one absolutely horrified by this? What a fucking weirdo. Too bad we don't know his real identity. I'd call the cops on him. Even if it's not technically illegal, this should still be taken seriously. Who's to say this fucker isn't sitting outside in the bushes peeping in with binoculars? I've seen one too many Dateline episodes to NOT be weary of creepy little scumbags like this who think it's okay to cross boundaries and touch what isn't his. It starts small, although I don't cons…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 05:10 AM
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Lol, aww. Poor babies. Their tears feed my soul. 🤷‍♀️😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 05:04 AM
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My pinky finger has more substance and depth than his entire being does.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 12:10 AM
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Yeah, I mostly refer to them as that as well. No duh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 10:44 PM
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Haha right. He looks like he's so different in the 2 pictures. It's like he aged 10 years between them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 10:43 PM
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I feel like it's just a game to them. They're able to gain leverage if they know you are annoyed they are taking a long time to reply. I personally think it's a power thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 09:13 PM
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Exactly. What the hell. This woman's IQ is below sea level.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 08:56 PM
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I need context, lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 02:18 AM
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Yes! This is the spirit. Good for you, love!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 11:30 PM
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Timeshare Ted. 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 08:04 PM
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Let them continue to waste their energy on something they clearly don't care about and have no concern of, yet go to the extent of checking 200+ profiles. Yikes. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 07:10 PM
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Love this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 03:30 PM
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Lol aww, he doesn't like having a taste of his own medicine. Clown.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 06:58 AM
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Luke Danes for the win.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 05:44 AM
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Lol, the Amazon boxes 😂. That's my life right there. It's like Christmas every time I get a package from there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 12:45 AM
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Weeding them out early on. 👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 11:17 PM
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Lol, I really went off the rails with my post. There was no fluidity whatsoever, so I apologize for that. And yeah, exactly. What's wrong with being ourselves? I freakin' like myself these days and I couldn't say the same even several months ago. And maybe I'm still recovering from being with my abusive ex, but are there really good men out there?! I mean, ARE THERE? Are the good ones even that good or do they just seem good because 99.9% of their kind is a joke?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 09:24 PM
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So, at this point, should women just expect all men are no good liars that will stop at nothing to get laid? Where do morals or values come into play? Why should women just expect to get fucked over? That's what this message is essentially saying to me. It's also saying to me we have to prove our worth to gain a man's fidelity. We have to prove that we are unlike all other women. At what point did these greasy, slimy losers get put in charge of nearly everything when clearly women are the superi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 08:47 PM
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That's sweet. Nice to know some men do shit like this. Wanna know how sweet my ex was to me? When I thought I had a miscarriage, he didn't ask once how I felt or how I was doing. Literally just blew it off. When I told him I thought I was pregnant, he said "I'll do whatever you want." There was no emotion, nothing. I mean he is a sociopath so it makes sense. I thankfully didn't have a miscarriage (other weird body things happened) and never got pregnant. THANK FUCKING CHRIST.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 03:08 AM
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I agree with all of this. Having said that, it was exhausting just to read. What I mean by that is that I can't believe something as simple as conversation has to be like mathematically thought out when it comes to men and engaging with them because they are literally a different breed. It just reinforces my thought that being single isn't all that bad. Not that I thought it was before, but this is just sad. Etiquette and manners should just be an inherent part of being a human. Most of us learn…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 05:45 PM
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Especially pay attention to the relationship he has with his mom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 04:38 PM
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🔥💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 03:24 AM
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Reddit is crawling with a bunch of spiteful incels who have small dicks and were raised thinking women owe their pathetic asses whatever they want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 03:52 PM
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Why are pickmes so aggressive, lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 01:36 AM
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The path to self-love has been my most recent journey and one of the most beautiful journey's I've been on lately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 02:11 AM
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I stg if I could make money by being right based on my intuitions, I'd be rich. I really think a woman's intuition is a gift.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 10:15 PM
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Sure, that's one way to interpret this statement. You raise good points. I think you can honestly apply this to men as well, though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 08:43 PM
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Yes, how often do you see very attractive women with absolute uggos. Very often.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 08:19 PM
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Ugh. Sorry you went through that. I might as well have been a human fleshlight the entire time I was with my ex. I feel sick thinking about it. At least we know better now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 08:08 PM
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That was so very sweet to read. Thank you, Queen! Those life lessons have definitely shaped who I am. ❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 06:16 PM
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I was just talking about this concept with my cousin. I was saying to him I feel like my relationship with my abusive ex has been one of the most transformative experiences of my life, but I don’t want to give credit to him for that. I've found self worth, self respect, self love, boundaries and standards after being with a monster like him. I definitely don't owe that to him, but myself, for being able to draw what I could from that horrible situation and better myself and find my strength agai…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 05:16 PM
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Not ones with ASPD. That's for certain.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 02:52 PM
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Let's all take a moment of silence for the depraved men that cheat on any woman (especially ones they impregnate) because their small peepees are lonely. They are foul, pathetic clowns.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 10:07 PM
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This is so true. I remember thinking, "it's like he's doing whatever he can to get me to leave first" when it came to my ex. That's because he was doing that. I think it's a way for them to dodge any sort of responsibility which isn't surprising.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 09:51 PM
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Lol. I consider modern day feminism to be mostly liberal feminism, or at least that's what it seems like.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 07:45 PM
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Modern day feminism is culty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 03:57 PM
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There's literally just trash on Tinder. So I guess you have nearly 7,000 piles of trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 07:07 AM
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Yeah...I really feel like there's no hope for men. I don't know if I'll ever waste my energy on their species again. They're certainly different creatures than us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 05:26 AM
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I love this. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 03:56 AM
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Oh no, baby. What is you doing. But I've been there, so I'm not judging. I just see you as worth so much more than second thoughts and "maybes". It's not easy, but he made his feelings about you very clear. Take them for what they are and live your best life without a guy that is stringing you along.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 03:49 AM
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I CAN'T with bitches like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 08:25 PM
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Girl, bury that shame. I completely get what you mean, though. I turned into someone unrecognizable when I was with my abusive ex. And the shame I felt because of that kept me trapped there longer. I would leave, come back, leave, come back, rinse and repeat. Leaving him was one of the hardest things I've had to do. Staying away was even harder. But now I'm in a place in my life that feels unreal because I'm remembering what it feels like to be happy and healthy. I'm remembering who I am again. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 05:50 AM
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We get the short end of the stick in pretty much every way. Weren't they making a male birth control? Not that it would make much of a difference because apparently it's only up to us to not become pregant. To this day, I have never used birth control (I'm 29). I won't because having a bare penis in me isn't enough for me to risk my health by using bc which has too many side effects and screws with the natural systems in my body. This is only my opinion and I know many women benefit from using b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 02:04 AM
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What a fucking tool. Male entitlement at its ugliest. Reminds me of young girls getting sent home in school for wearing tank tops so the boys don't get "distracted" by them. Maybe these creatures should be raised to be actual humans and act as such.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 12:50 AM
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I'm sorry to hear what you've been through. It seems like you've done a lot of reflection regarding the situation and you're trying to improve your life. It takes hard work, but you can do it. 2020 is a huge year of metamorphosis for me too, just in different ways. Let's get through the rest of the this year and kick 2021's ass. We got this! ❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 12:36 AM
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👏👏👏👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 12:25 AM
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This goes to show that we might as well get it done ourselves since we know we will actually get off. TMI, but I've had more orgasms from my toys than I have a man. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 12:09 AM
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Aw, someone's ego got hurt and he's suddenly no longer interested after she rejects him. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 08:03 PM
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I don't. I got caught up in my exes lifestyle and started to use cocaine and drink a lot with him. He used and sold the shit and was an addict. I haven't used since February 2019 and never will again. I maybe will drink a couple times a year and my drinking is limited to one glass of something that I sip on and never finish anyways. I've never liked alcohol and the way it tastes or how it makes me feel. As far as smoking, I've never been a smoker. I pass no judgment on those who drink, smoke, us…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 03:16 PM
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Yessss. I've met so many men that are so emotional and I'm like, but women are the overly emotional ones? Okay, have you ever seen guys react to video games and sports? 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 09:12 PM
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It's fucking disturbing seeing how men react before and after a woman rejecting them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 08:35 PM
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I'd also like to know what app if it's not a bother!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 07:24 PM
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I take things like this with a grain of salt when it comes to who "said" it because I know there's no way of really knowing. I saw this quote on my Facebook, liked the idea of it and posted it here. I don't worship anyone, lol. I was never interested enough in Frida to begin with to look up her history. I didn't think anyone would really focus on the aspect, but the conversations that it started are interesting, so I guess I'm okay with it. Thanks for your insight.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 05:40 PM
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Haha. The thing is, I'm a pretty sarcastic person myself and speak it regularly (lol), but this did not pick up as sarcasm at all. This was just Asshole 101.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 04:39 PM
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What a mf. Reading this makes my blood boil. Good thing he showed his true nature before you wasted your precious time on him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 04:37 PM
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Barf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 04:57 AM
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Me too. 👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 12:17 AM
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Lmao. Duh. I thought too much into that one. Yes, slimy doesn't even begin to describe what a sleazy scumbag he is. 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 12:08 AM
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The very first thing I ever Googled with my abusive, sociopathic ex was, "is the silent treatment normal?" I just couldn't comprehend a grown man behaving like that and resorted to Google to make sense of it. Good times. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 11:55 PM
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I remember when I was in the thick of a relationship like this, I came across a meme that said something along the lines of, "you know it's bad if you have to Google someone's behavior in order to understand them", and I was like, right I knew this wasn't normal, lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 10:44 PM
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The silent treatment is an emotionally abusive manipulation tactic. It usually doesn't get better from there. At least you'll have the knowledge to recognize this red flag in the future because adults don't act like this, children do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 08:59 PM
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In what sense?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 08:55 PM
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Trueee. Makes me think of my ex. I had a couple scares with him and thankfully I never was pregnant. He is going on 37 and knocked up a 23 year old within weeks. He's an abusive, drug addicted sociopath that never finished high school, has no GED, license/car, or ambitions to improve himself. I thank the universe or I guess my own strength for having the courage to leave because had I become pregnant with his kid, I just don't know what my life would have become. I'm one semester away from finis…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 05:32 PM
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Doubt everyone would have known it was her had her name not been in it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 02:23 PM
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Yep. Someone else doesn't have a right to decide for you if you've been hurt or not. Good on you for seeing that red flag and opting out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 11:39 PM
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Definitely.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 11:22 PM
75

Lol. I should have taken her name out of it. I was more or less focusing on the concept of the quote, not necessarily Frida herself or her troubled relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 10:53 PM
162

Yeah, I don't know the entire history of her relationship with him, but I liked this quote regardless!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 10:36 PM
23

If you say to him "do not contact me again", you can take it to the police if he contacts you from that point on since it's harassment. It already is, but if you haven't said something along those lines, please do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 06:40 PM
85

"Judgemental" = having standards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 06:33 PM
18

Oh man, you experienced this too?! I'm sorry. I guess there's multiples out there. 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 05:48 PM
147

Girl, I relate. The no value "man" I was with didn't even call me on my birthday, lololol. When I finally saw him AFTER my birthday, he was kind enough to pinch some cocaine he took from someone else and gifted me that. No, I'm not joking. I didn't know wtf I was doing and got caught up with an abusive, sociopathic, drug addict. Good on you for getting rid of him. The sooner, the better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 05:11 PM
8

Don't second guess yourself. Byeee to him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 04:56 PM
10

Thanks for the recommendation. The book sounds like it could provide a lot of great insight. Putting that one on my list.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 04:24 PM
12

Yes, yes, yes. Our intuition is our protector. Same with how our bodies physically react to someone's presence. I'd be shaky, on edge and queasy around my abusive ex. My body was reacting with warning signs. Imma listen to my sweet intuition and body from now on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 04:23 PM
5

I agree 100%. Well said.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 04:17 PM
101

This is kind of off topic, but along the same lines. I was having a conversation with my cousin and I told him I feel like all men are abusive in some way. I won't lie, I'm still reeling from being with an abusive sociopath, and I'm not trying to generalize, but damn, I really just don't trust men in general.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 06:25 AM
16

Yikes. I've had dude friends buy me pads when I've had an emergency.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 02:31 AM
5

Not surprising at all. I feel for her. He is definitely taking advantage of her situation. I hope she and her son can get to safety.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 03:16 PM
7

Omg, what. I wonder if TLC knows this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 03:16 PM
9

Terrible message indeed. I dated a man with ASPD and would not give this kind of shit advice to anyone. I wasn't truly aware of this until after the fact. There's a literal disconnect in these people's brains. They aren't wired like those without ASPD. They won't get better and they won't ever change. I don't think she's even in denial. I think she knows this, but "omg he's such a nice guy when he's not being an abusive sociopath."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 03:51 AM
60

Lmao. 😂 I hate to admit this, but I watch this. It's a train wreck I can't look away from. I don't know why, but Paul gives me creepy vibes. Like, I get this feeling that maybe he's been abusive towards her. I could be very wrong, but I see a lot of sadness and fear in the woman he's with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 03:44 AM
3

Maybe he doesn't hit you, but he's threatened to a number of times and says you're responsible for his bad moods and temper.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 02:50 AM
33

Very heartbreaking. Reminds me of stories of women (a lot in India) that have been victims of acid attacks by their exes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 12:32 AM
18

Just...run very far away from men like this. My ex proudly referred to himself as that and he was an abusive sociopath. At best, any guy that is seemingly proud to think he's an asshole really is the average asshole which most men are anyways. And at worst, he has a personality disorder. Either way, when shit goes wrong, he can say he told you so about who he is and use that as an excuse to justify his disrespectful behavior. Just my two cents.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 12:27 AM
14

😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 04:43 AM
17

He's disgusting. I shuddered watching this. It made me pissed. I'm sure she finds your entire being gross, buddy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 04:42 AM
74

My mind can't comprehend being rude to a man just because I don't find him attractive. There are plenty of men I've seen that are attractive and plenty more that aren't attractive and I don't treat one better than the other. That goes against my moral compass which many men don't seem to have. The funniest thing is that the men that are most vocal about how they think a woman should look are usually greasy, overweight, objectively unattractive losers with small penises.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 11:34 PM
47

Reading shit like this makes me want to stay single forever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 11:07 PM
2

🤢🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 04:36 AM
6

Damn. 25 is the cut off now? I'm turning 30 this year. I might as well shrivel up and die. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 04:35 AM
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