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FDS isn't a cult where I must follow 100% of what the mods and disciples believe. My post mentioned that I block (and even report) the LVM whenever I find any red flags. I am applying the FDS values that resonate with me based on my circumstances.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 11:00 PM
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Steak can totally be halal! I always look for the halal certificate or confirm that the meat was sourced from a halal butcher and this man did no verification. My social media experience has been surprisingly satisfying since i made it private and removed people who aren't actually my friends. I also removed the LIKES counter and turned off notifications.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 10:37 PM
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Sounds like he was saving money to spend on a woman who isn't part of the culture 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 10:34 PM
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I'm actually super guilty of sending late texts, and prefer a phone call over lunch or dinner or while gardening. I can give them my undivided attention while completing something else on autopilot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 05:40 PM
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Sounds like someone who doesn't have healthy relationships with women, or men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 05:30 PM
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Men who tell women how to manage their bodies can fuck off. Hope she sees the seriousness of what he is asking. She should be talking to her friends so they can ALL shame him and his bloody dick kink.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 05:29 PM
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Really depends on their job and hobbies, too. I've spent 6hrs straight on sewing. Stopped cause i was parched and ready for a washroom break. I've also spent entire meetings on my phone because the meeting could have been an email. In reality, we should be looking for a CHANGE in their texting habits. Do they suddenly always take 6hrs+ to respond even if you responded right away? Are they posting all over social media while screening you? Taking a long time is subjective and genuine emergencies …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 05:20 PM
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Not even water?? That is a no brainer unless he was hoping you're going to end up drinking out of his cup? Like what is that? And he didn't tip while you guys dined in? What in the actual fuck is that shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 05:15 PM
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Glad you got 2 years experience of taking portrait photos 😈
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 12:19 AM
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I gifted my ex a $300 coffee machine and i regret not taking it during the breakup. He never gifted me anything of value. Hope the machine breaks down 😏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 09:29 PM
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Life is sometimes more bizarre than fiction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 09:17 PM
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WHAT DID I JUST READ 😭😭😭😭 GLAD YOU'RE OKAY AND READY TO HANDLE A GUN
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 09:10 PM
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She should have bailed when he tried to tell her how to get there. Block and delete. Let him feed his snacks to the bugs on the trail. Also... hiking plus picnic for a first date sounds unsafe. Rather just have a picnic in an openly accessible place
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 07:40 PM
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Moment of silence for his 3 kids, who don't have a good biological father. Clearly their moms had some sense to remove the kids from this man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 08:20 PM
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I've been guilty of saying yes because of "potential". I'm still working on this buy I say no a lot more than I used to. I refuse to give people my time just because they asked, and I refuse to entertain men just because they gave me attention. Thanks for sharing this, queen!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 08:19 PM
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So when exactly does he plan on being a father to his child? For the photos and videos he will share on social media? Or for tax benefits?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 08:13 PM
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Yeah my culture has at least 3 days of events. It's the worst because of how much commitment guests must make, how many various vendors you have to worry about, and ALL THAT CASH.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 07:25 PM
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I've owned this $50(😭) bra from lululemon that is my cardio bra. My breasts feel bolted on! I own a color of colors, and it helped me get into jogging and cardio because i wouldn't feel conscious or get back pain.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 03:47 PM
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Congrats queen! I had lasik two years ago and it changed my life 🔥🔥 unsolicited pro tip😏 after 6/9months, if you put a hot towel on your eyes every few days, it opens up the oil glands and keeps your eyes greased up and moist💦👀. I also had silicone plugs inserted to keep my eyes moist. Enjoy that perfect vision!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 03:44 PM
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I'd prefer a simple gold band BUT I'd also want to be gifted 3months salary in the form of shares certificate as stocks and gold are more like to retain value compared to a diamond. For the proposal, I love being in nature and would wantbmy partner to plan the proposal at the top of a gorgeous outdoor location. Maybe beside a waterfall in Iceland or under the stars in the middle of nowhere or in front of the Taj Mahal. I'd be OK with a public proposal as long as the public isn't involved (flash …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 03:40 PM
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I had a good run with maskne (mask acne) BUT there js always a solution. Material of the mask- my satin mask is very breathable compared to my cotton mask. Feels like the cold side of the pillow. How often you wash the mask: definitely recommend using dish soap cause it gets all the oils out! My lipsticks are also going to waste but I've gotten great use out of my mascara!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 05:50 AM
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Yesssss we love to see it !!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 08:28 PM
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Thanks for sharing your story with us. Congrats on your new doghter, i hope you're both able to enjoy these early stages together ❤ My NVMX always pushed me to get my license and my mutual fund license, but aside from that, he was trash hahahaa. Glad you are getting it done for yourself!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 08:40 PM
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Good call on that. My HVM bff always calls/texts me 30mins snd 60mins after I've left so he knows everything is going well. Guys who never check in on us are the ones who minimize our lived experiences. Every single one of my girlfriends always checks in on me when I'm headed home and i do the same for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 02:19 PM
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Glad you're waking up to the internalized self-hatred. Your life will continue to improve because you will actually treat yourself better. As for the husband, i have no idea.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 10:15 PM
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INTERNAL SCREAMING INTENSIFIES
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 10:09 PM
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Men who know their worth and are HVM will not see it as a test because they won't have to study or review. They just have what it takes. Scrotes will complain about tests because they know they won't pass and they couldn't be bothered to study
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 10:07 PM
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Laniege lip mask! I always do a quick brush on my lips and tongue w my toothbrush and then finishmy routine w the lip mask. The laniege mask keeps your lips soft like a pillow. Their lip balm sucks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 07:53 PM
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A size queen is usually a bottom who wants bigger and bigger dicks 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 07:52 PM
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Hahaha i love it when they tell on themselves. Imagine trying to minimize their bullshit by saying "I'm not even beating you"... makes me wonder which of his friends beats women. Block and delete!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 07:28 PM
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He made the pregnancy about himself so early on... i bet he will be a facebook dad. Use the child as a prop for the pix but never even know the feeding or sleeping schedule. He will BaBySiT his own child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 07:24 PM
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Queen, don't even get me started on the faux gays. Recently found one of my "size queen" gay friend on tinder and his bio described the type of woman he wanted. He must be bisexual or pansexual but he always identified as gay to me and our mutual friends. Can't trust ANY OF THEM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 07:22 PM
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You can detect a HVM at work better than on OLD. See how he takes feedback from his peers vs his boss vs women. See who he talks over. Same with men in a class setting. Who thinks their grades are more important than getting their dick wet? Work and school relationships are also built on trust and respect compared to meeting men in any other setting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 07:19 PM
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What in the actual fuck... i hope she has a support system and escapes his clutches
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 07:11 PM
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I use my cleanser and toner and then floss/brush/mouthwash and then moisturize/eye cream/lip mask. Been doing this routine for about a year now pretty happy about the results. Also, I make minimal facial expressions on dates because no scrote is worth wrinkles on my forehead or around my eyes. Love to laugh and cry with my girlfriends and family but those wrinkles are worth it. I act like I have a botox'd forehead around others. Also, good luck on your classes, queen 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 07:08 PM
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Scrotes who make a move but then agree to stay friends will always be ready to make their move again. If he was your friend, he never would have made a move on you in the first place and would actually treat you like a person. Also... traveling that far to see ONE friend who isn't your good friend or best friend is a red flag for me. I only see my "guy friends" in group settings and never one on one because we aren't friends like that. And my male best friend has never made a move on me, and nev…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 05:17 PM
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But he has a tattoo of his own name on his chest 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 06:31 AM
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Nope. He didn't know how to use his mouth or tongue. I was unhappy and shallow. Idk what my end goal was with him but i left him years ago and my life improved drastically
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 02:32 PM
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Like he couldn't even urinate😅 i haven't talked to him since high school, idk how much of his dick has survived his shitty hygiene or if he actually learned to clean
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 01:50 AM
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Love to see it! Thank you for leading by example
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 11:24 PM
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When they call us CRAZY! It almost always means we've caught them in a web of lies and deceit that they spun. In my case, I'm actually crazy 🤪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 05:01 PM
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I was going to say the exact same thing. He probably swooped her up at her 19th birthday and is using her youth and naivety because women his age know he aint shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 03:24 PM
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Sometimes, the mom and the romantic partner will butt heads because the woman could never do what the mom does for the manlet. If i wanted to be in a throuple, I'd rather keep it incest free, thank you very much 🙄.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 03:22 PM
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When the woman gets compliments/attention. They start negging so fast
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 03:32 AM
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I love this "mom test"!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 07:45 PM
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Good ol scrote projecting his short comings onto a queen. He can't even fix a printer the first time despite it being his job... instead of focusing on you, he should focus on his work/productivity
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 07:05 PM
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Classic example of if he wanted to, he would. Also red flag alert, I'm pretty sure that woman he got engaged to was a BABY compared to him. Typical NVM bullshit. Can't have a healthy relationship with women anywhere near their age but can marry the first spring chicken 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 03:51 PM
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Fantastic tactic! Me and my girlfriends are very very generous with our compliments to women. Let's face it, we are collectively gorgeous 😍. Some of my guy friends (childhood friends, family friends, friends from work or school) also know how to appropriately compliment women. They will compliment her shoe game, her sports team attire, or her confidence ("i love how she is vibing"). Most men 🙄 will compliment in relation to whether they want to stick their dick in women. They will comment on the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 03:43 PM
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I've been having a lot of downs this week and reading stories from you queens has been motivating me. Feeling grateful to have this community and to have discovered it sooner, rather than later.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 03:29 PM
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Yuck. He is tryna get your number so he can lurk your other accounts. Idk what you look like OP but you bet your ass you can do better than this scrote
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 12:23 AM
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YESSSSS! I've seen these scrotes in their 20s who have beer bellies and atrocious hygiene. My brother is sooooo lucky. He would always use my face products and we'd do biweekly masks (me, my mom, my bro), he would use my shea butter and he even bought the same toothbrush as me (Philips sonicare.. its a game changer). He looks great and my mom always paid for my products that he used
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 02:12 AM
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I was talking to one of my fellow muslim girlfriends about the expectations of marriage and she said it was Sunnah to get married. I immediately said that divorce is also permissible yet a woman is practically shunned by society for exercising her rights within the religion while a man could get married the next day and no one bats an eye. Until divorce is normalized, why marry in the first place? We're both south asian and DONT even let me start on the misogyny and violence against south asian …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 01:43 AM
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He was buying a house for himself in his city, she was on facetime when he checked out a few houses. He bought the one she liked the most without once asking her to contribute anything towards the purchase. (I do think its a red flag for her to start living with him without a ring... But based on their culture, living together and involving the family means they are both seriously committed to each other. Again, not married but not his maid or his cook or his mommy)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 01:36 AM
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He posted a story about a hike with another?!?! Red flag for you AND her. She probably thinks they are getting serious since he is showing her off and she probably screenshot and sent it to all of her girlfriends... meanwhile he knows you can see him post other women on his story and he is clearly breadcrumbing you by not asking you for another date and also not saying he isn't interested.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 12:49 AM
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Most men are fugly. They don't use sunscreen or night cream and they don't exfoliate or moisturize. Scotes hit the wall by their 30s. With my FDS lens, all my exes are fugly and I'd rather get shot than give them another chance
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 12:38 AM
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One of my girlfriends (sam?) met a guy (bob?) In our city via OLD. They went out as a group (sam and bob and bobs friends) and he had his luggage with him because he was flying back to his city that night. Sam got to see Bob and his friends and their dynamic and she ended up staying friends with Bobs local friends. They did group gaming sessions and bob would send Sam dinner for their virtual dinner dates. He sent her new headphones because her mic was being glitchy during one of their games. He…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 12:26 AM
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The image you attached has happened to me. Way too many times. And these guys definitely have other plans which are more important and they only reach out because their priority flopped on them. Also... imagine proposing to meet on Wednesday and then waiting well into the evening to connect. So disrespectful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 09:47 PM
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Imagine getting a taste of your own medicine, even if a miniscule dose. Men really hate us
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 09:41 PM
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Men in grey sweats are sluts, especially at the gym 😏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 04:22 AM
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I've been heckling men for some time now, especially at those construction work sites... if groups of guys are standing around and staring, I'll shout at them to smile so they'd look less tired. I was with one of my girlfriends and some guys heckled us to smile so I asked them to show me their dick. They were all confused and embarrassed. (These incidents all happened in broad daylight in very busy parts of my city and I felt safe to act this way)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 04:16 AM
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I know what you mean! When my NVM ex would look at his phone and put it down right away, it would make me anxious. I fought myself really hard to not snoop through his phone even though I always had that gut feeling. Congrats on leaving him behind. Once the anxiety fades, your skin will clear up, your hair loss will stop, and you can sleep at night. Good are ahead for you, my queen!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 12:57 AM
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Tell me about it. I have six custom made diamond earrings that I wear on my left ear. Men ask me how much I spent on them, I say something vague and then they say that's really cheap. If its cheap, buy me a 7th one 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 06:10 PM
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Broke boys hate seeing women get treated like queens by men who can afford to date. The culture of discouraging this generosity (like making simp a derogatory word) speaks volumes about the majority of men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 05:22 PM
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The only breadcrumbs we want is from our bread, not men! 👏🏽👏🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 05:23 AM
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Hahaha he weighed 220
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 11:56 PM
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OMG Linkedin 😅!!! Thank you for the sweet words ❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 11:54 PM
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I'm so sorry to hear that he was bringing you down and even preventing you from having those experiences for your family. I hope you are doing better!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 10:37 PM
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Also... i lost 220lbs this year 😉 I'm already on my way to a glow up!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 08:40 PM
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I haven't met enough GOOD men in my life to wish them well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 07:13 PM
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I actually get put off by men giving women advice... even if it's something I agree with. Tbh i just hate hearing men speak at this point in my life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 06:11 AM
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Thats enough pickme content for today 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 07:22 PM
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Gurl change those batteries! Im surprised they saw "average" women as living beings but not surprised about the latter. They don't care about us
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 06:49 AM
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I'm so scared for her. This type of behavior on escalates. There was a high ranking military man in canada who was do this and he escalated to assault and more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 03:31 PM
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Is that why they are his friends and not his FWB 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 05:05 AM
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In my pick-me days, I remember this NVM keeping the same empty shower gel bottle for a FULL MONTH. He never replaced it even though i made a comment that first time. Wtf is he washing his body with? Oh, right. He isnt. 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 01:09 AM
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A lot of what is presented to outsiders is very highly coordinated and orchestrated. I don't think PP has any HVM qualities based on having a long marriage with QE. And yup, that entire family is LV AF.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 06:04 PM
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Imagine being insecure enough to call a stranger a slut to their face. Pick-me doing the most (but not leveling up)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 06:00 PM
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If your partner is improving and working on themself, then that's great. I'm actually on the fence about them improving after you initiate it since they aren't being insightful enough to be proactive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 11:15 PM
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I'm applying FDS and blocking you. Gotta vet the strangers on the internet, too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 05:37 AM
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His entire family is geographically separated by an ocean. All he has here is the community he built for himself. His roommate was his first call and i was his second. His roommate dropped books off for him every week. We met early on in life and at an environment where we didn't need attraction to initiate our friendship. A lot of men that I've met outside of work/school only want one thing and it's disgusting. This HVM and i had mutual NVM friends that we both cut off. We both vet our friends.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 04:36 AM
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He is single but currently working on being his best self (especially physically)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 10:37 PM
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My brother is also a HVM. On the rare occasions that he exhibits LV/NV traits, I always set him straight and it doesn't happen again. It's not our responsibility to set men straight but I've been OK doing that with my brother as he is also a reflection of me and my mom. Please note that FDS is right. 20% of men are on level with 80% of women. We will encounter lots of sub-par men. Stay strong and dont settle
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 01:20 PM
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Where did these walk dates get popularized...? Those movies where the guy and the girl walk and walk and trauma bond?? No thank you.. also, he was considering leading her on since this was his first date in a while? Miss me with that bullshit. VET and BLOCK and DELETE.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 05:51 AM
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I don't think this was the point of your post but your bf is clearly a LVM. My current BF won't even start PIV until I've already cum once. Don't sell yourself short with this frugal man. Everyone should have the chance to cum and if your bf would lilely say that you are trying to stir something, maybe your need to stir up a breakup. Block and delete the man who doesn't make you cum first (no pressure though)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 05:47 AM
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Breastfeeding is gory? Even his friends and family are being dismissive of his approach to this. Imagine being this disinterested in the pregnancy of your wife when she will birth YOUR child. If she was apply FDS, she would have left him by the 5th year of dating and no marriage
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 08:40 PM
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I recently blocked every guy that I've ever matched with from OLD on IG, FB, twitter, whatsapp and regular calls/texts and I no longer get messages from guys offering their penis to me. The only coming I've done with guys like that is to my senses.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 06:16 AM
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Growing up poor vs staying poor are different things. My family never took vacations when i was a child yet I can now travel very comfortably multiple times a year. I'm able to send birthday presents to friends across the country without second thought. I live within my means and spend money on what makes me happy. If this guy is staying poor, you can't change him and you don't need someone constantly talking about price tags. Once he finds out how much manicures cost and how many you get in a y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 05:19 AM
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